View Full Version : When You Have Sex Are The Lights On Or Off?
Penny
02-03-2006, 03:22 PM
I got the idea for this from a post Shiane made.
Zpanther
02-03-2006, 03:23 PM
We usually like 'em on.......... but occasionally it's fun to grope in the dark too.
Rainmaker
02-03-2006, 03:30 PM
most of the time we use candles-my house is full of them
Traxster
02-03-2006, 03:45 PM
Oh doesn't matter to me.......Lights on or off its all good!!! :lf
tiger50
02-03-2006, 04:12 PM
most of the time we use candles-my house is full of them
do u use the candles for light or eh mmm playful decorations???:whee:
Rainmaker
02-03-2006, 04:13 PM
do u use the candles for light or eh mmm playful decorations???:whee:
i use them for light-plus we love to play with them yes-lol--hot wax can be nice
tiger50
02-03-2006, 04:23 PM
i use them for light-plus we love to play with them yes-lol--hot wax can be nice
mmm yesss the hot wax... :D
Sunfiresix
02-03-2006, 05:10 PM
We use to use candles, for light only, that stuff was a no-no for her, it was live bait only.
sex_kitten_4u
02-03-2006, 05:46 PM
it depends on the mood , sometimes by candel light sometiems with the light off sometimes during the day,
my house if full of candels as well rain
sweetgapeach
02-03-2006, 06:02 PM
I have candles all over my house too. I like dim light , during sex. Want to see whats going on . lol
thepackage
02-03-2006, 06:07 PM
sex? with a candle? what?...LMAO
Sinjin Kane
02-03-2006, 08:02 PM
Lights on thats what I like.
Lights off thats what she likes.
So we found a happy medium,
We have a ceiling fan over the bed full of blacklights (6 of them) and then we have two Stained glass umbrella statue lamps on both sides of the bed that also have blacklights in them.
We also have a queen size feather bed and its really soft, the lights make the whole bed glow with the pure white comforter and all the pillows make it Heaven.
A couple glasses of honey wine and some pillow talk, for music we put on Sade' the whole thing is really alot of fun 'after sex' we lay there and eat cheese cubes and usually small baggette's with pesto spread or provolone prosciutto wraps, served on this big wood cutting board and laugh and eat,drink. "We share time." Its a feeling of being complete and lost in one another. The laughs we share make sex that much better. :kk
Sunfiresix
02-03-2006, 08:06 PM
Actually, for the last few years, lights off I don't like to see my hand work so hard.
Traxster
02-03-2006, 08:34 PM
As long as the candles aren't used during sex............OUCH.............:whee:
I know what you mean, Sunfire. I like the lights off too, so I can pretend there's someone with me. If there were actually someone, I"d want the lights on so I wouldn't have to pinch myself to prove I"m actually having sex!
Actually, for the last few years, lights off I don't like to see my hand work so hard.
Sunfiresix
02-03-2006, 08:39 PM
You got that right, we did always have low lighting or candles, I do remember, it was fun.
Traxster
02-03-2006, 08:41 PM
Thats WAY too funny...................I'll pinch yea......lol....:D
woody9340
02-03-2006, 08:59 PM
We have a lava lamp on
Well, that's the thing, Traxster, it's NOT funny! Not one damn bit! It's torture! So get your sweet ass here and PINCH me! hee hee hee!!
Thats WAY too funny...................I'll pinch yea......lol....:D
Happy
02-03-2006, 09:12 PM
Both! Depends on the mood.
Penny
02-03-2006, 09:13 PM
Hello Happy
Happy
02-03-2006, 09:14 PM
Hello Penny
Shiane
02-04-2006, 12:18 PM
That poll was difficult. Sometimes we light candles. Sometimes just sunlight. Frequently the tv is on lol music and mood lighting plus it helps drown out the noise. Rarely in the dark, unless we're in the RV.
surfnchat
02-04-2006, 12:40 PM
I typically like the lights on... but indirect lighting. I like to see her facial expressions of pleasure. That really turns me on.
But the recent spike in electricity prices, I might go more with the lights off. :D
Norfolkdave
02-04-2006, 01:05 PM
Heh heh heh, lights what are those!!!!! it would make no difference, lights on or off, we havent had it for years, so Im not going to waste lights searching for it..LOL
surfnchat
02-04-2006, 01:24 PM
Heh heh heh, lights what are those!!!!! it would make no difference, lights on or off, we havent had it for years, so Im not going to waste lights searching for it..LOL
LOL. Good one Dave!
Maybe one of the poll options should be A Miner's Hat. :D
Norfolkdave
02-04-2006, 01:27 PM
LOL. Good one Dave!
Maybe one of the poll options should be A Miner's Hat. :D
A miners hat uses batteries! have to have a budgie, if it talks, the pussy grabs it, I found the pussy, meow meow:D purr purr
mmm yesss the hot wax... :D
I have a very nice candle that burns wax like lotion....ya let it burn for awhile and then blow it out, Hank massages me with the very warm wax, it is sooooo very nice. Ahhhhhh
A couple glasses of honey wine and some pillow talk, for music we put on Sade' the whole thing is really alot of fun 'after sex' we lay there and eat cheese cubes and usually small baggette's with pesto spread or provolone prosciutto wraps, served on this big wood cutting board and laugh and eat,drink. "We share time." Its a feeling of being complete and lost in one another. The laughs we share make sex that much better. :kk
I love nice descriptions of food....it is a very important part of the ambience...
Hank would have all the lights on so he can see everything....I like the lights very low or just candles burning.
rebelxug
02-07-2006, 05:57 AM
I know what you mean, Sunfire. I like the lights off too, so I can pretend there's someone with me. If there were actually someone, I"d want the lights on so I wouldn't have to pinch myself to prove I"m actually having sex!
Sad thing is I am going to have to agree with you Jazzy on this one 100%.
Zpanther
02-07-2006, 09:33 AM
I 'spose I should have mentioned candles as well. Lady P has candles all over the damn house as well as numerous lamps with low watt bulbs and decorative shades and also frequently has incense burning. We always turn the tv off when it's time for sex... too distracting.
Cotties
02-07-2006, 10:32 AM
Lights on, lights off, curtains open or closed, t.v. on or off. If one of us wants some action we don't ask, we take.
Sorry to hear you're one of us, Rebel.
Have you heard about our club?
Sad thing is I am going to have to agree with you Jazzy on this one 100%.
Sad thing is I am going to have to agree with you Jazzy on this one 100%.
You didn't just agree with jazzy did you? Now she will get on that box and tell the world that she was right all alone. :lmao
AH, Trev. I know I'm not right all the time. In fact, I'm just making it up as I go long most days. I just like stirring things up and seeing what other's have to say. That's what makes it all so interesting.
Norfolkdave
02-07-2006, 01:47 PM
AH, Trev. I know I'm not right all the time. In fact, I'm just making it up as I go long most days. I just like stirring things up and seeing what other's have to say. That's what makes it all so interesting.
So Irish made your soapbox, whose going to make you a wooden spoon, we here in Norfolk do a good Reed, very strong and woven right would last for years:D
Oh Dave, I think I've stirred up enough around here without adding a wooden spoon to the mix, don't you?
But thanks for the offer, big guy.;)
pastryman
02-07-2006, 05:42 PM
Jazzy I've got a few ideas for that sppon have him send it down..lolOh Dave, I think I've stirred up enough around here without adding a wooden spoon to the mix, don't you?
But thanks for the offer, big guy.;)
Now I've got something stirring!
Dave! Send the damn spoon pronto! I've got pastries to bake!!
Hold on Bunboy! I'm on my way!!
Norfolkdave
02-08-2006, 06:11 AM
Oh Dave, I think I've stirred up enough around here without adding a wooden spoon to the mix, don't you?
But thanks for the offer, big guy.;)
Your a good cook and cooks have to have the right untensils:D
tiger50
02-08-2006, 07:34 AM
lol hey Jazzy.. u ave a utensil????? OMG....lol....
Such sweet words! Thanks Dave! You're absolutely right. I need that damn spoon! Bring it on!Your a good cook and cooks have to have the right untensils:D
Not attached to me sweetie. Only in my bag of tricks. But I can strap on one for you...lol hey Jazzy.. u ave a utensil????? OMG....lol....
pastryman
02-08-2006, 08:43 AM
Jazzy the kitchen is cleaned and awaiting your arrival....dont tempt me I might even just come to you:kk Now I've got something stirring!
Dave! Send the damn spoon pronto! I've got pastries to bake!!
Hold on Bunboy! I'm on my way!!
How sturdy are the legs on that baking table honey?
pastryman
02-08-2006, 08:49 AM
very no worries there made of solid marble
Aah, figured you'd have top notch equipment, in and out of the bakery honey. Marble should be sturdy enough for what I'm going to do to you!
tiger50
02-09-2006, 02:43 AM
Not attached to me sweetie. Only in my bag of tricks. But I can strap on one for you...
Ouch.... shittttt the roo has already started runnin..... :lmao
husavik
02-15-2006, 09:13 AM
Lights on, lights off, candles, every which way we can, we love variety.
Norfolkdave
02-15-2006, 10:04 AM
Now I've got something stirring!
Dave! Send the damn spoon pronto! I've got pastries to bake!!
Hold on Bunboy! I'm on my way!!
How Big Jazzy:wa:
Sandy
02-15-2006, 10:09 AM
we do it with all, it should say all of the above, lol:D
italian_princess0420
02-15-2006, 04:15 PM
Lights on thats what I like.
Lights off thats what she likes.
So we found a happy medium,
We have a ceiling fan over the bed full of blacklights (6 of them) and then we have two Stained glass umbrella statue lamps on both sides of the bed that also have blacklights in them.
We also have a queen size feather bed and its really soft, the lights make the whole bed glow with the pure white comforter and all the pillows make it Heaven.
A couple glasses of honey wine and some pillow talk, for music we put on Sade' the whole thing is really alot of fun 'after sex' we lay there and eat cheese cubes and usually small baggette's with pesto spread or provolone prosciutto wraps, served on this big wood cutting board and laugh and eat,drink. "We share time." Its a feeling of being complete and lost in one another. The laughs we share make sex that much better. :kk
hummm thats not a bad idea...but what is pillow talk?, my bf loves wine...we tried 2 diff kinds, i never liked em that much" he does", but i want somethin that i like too, how good is the honey one? like does it go down easy?
Zifnab
02-15-2006, 04:32 PM
It doesn't matter.... My hand can't tell the difference!
hotstuff
02-18-2006, 08:58 PM
If I were having sex with Shiane I would definitely have the lights on!!! Her body is so gorgeous I would want to see every bit of it as I devour her. That said, I typically have some light somewhere.
SirFox
02-21-2006, 07:58 AM
Honey wine? Strawberry wine? What is the basic ingredient? Grapes or honey with wine or strawberries with added vodka?
I wonder what that tastes like. Is it an aphrodisiac?
Honey wine? Strawberry wine? What is the basic ingredient? Grapes or honey with wine or strawberries with added vodka?
I wonder what that tastes like. Is it an aphrodisiac?
None of it!! Sounds awful!!!
Wouldn't do anything for me!!
Norfolkdave
02-21-2006, 01:55 PM
None of it!! Sounds awful!!!
Wouldn't do anything for me!!
What does do it for you!!!:D
What does do it for you!!!:D
If i told you, then there wouldn't be a mystery!!:)
Barkiss
02-21-2006, 02:00 PM
If i told you, then there wouldn't be a mystery!!:)
Chicken!
blanjas3
02-21-2006, 02:00 PM
lights are mostly off..although i like to watch..with the light on....
Norfolkdave
02-21-2006, 02:02 PM
If i told you, then there wouldn't be a mystery!!:)
Well some sort of idea otherwise will we have another clucker on the list.:D
Zifnab
02-21-2006, 02:06 PM
If i told you, then there wouldn't be a mystery!!:)
Relaxing in front of a fire, sipping a cup of herbal tea, with someone rubbing your feet as you enjoy some quiet quality conversation?
Chicken!
You could be right Barkiss!!!:)
something between me and..............
Relaxing in front of a fire, sipping a cup of herbal tea, with someone rubbing your feet as you enjoy some quiet quality conversation?
Now that sounds more like it!!!
Herbal tea being optional!!
Wet Beaver
02-21-2006, 02:14 PM
Honey wine? Strawberry wine? What is the basic ingredient? Grapes or honey with wine or strawberries with added vodka?
I wonder what that tastes like. Is it an aphrodisiac?
no grapes in mead(honey wine)
this one sounds good
Name of Recipe: Vanilla Mead
Recipe Ingredients: 4.5kg Dark Honey, 300ml Vanilla essence water to 25 litres, yeast nutirent, all purpose wine yeast
Recipe Process: Mix honey in very hot water to steralise. Make up to 25L with water and Vanilla. When temp is 30 deg C, add yeast and ferment to dryness. Add clearing agent and bottle. Let sit for at least 12 month for a good taste, better after 2 years. Mead Maker: Shane Brown -
found this on the net.....
Wet Beaver
02-21-2006, 02:17 PM
strawberry wine.......hey i can make my own......lol.....again no grapes or vodka
again off the net...
3 lbs. fresh strawberries
2-1/2 lbs. granulated sugar
2 tsp. citric acid
water to make 1 gallon
wine yeast & nutrient
Place all ingredients except yeast in crock. Crush fruit with hands and cover with 5 pints boiling water. Stir with wooden paddle to dissolve sugar and simultaneously mash the strawberries. When cooled to 85 degrees F., add yeast. Cover and stir daily. Strain on 7th day, transfer to secondary fermentation vessel, top up to one gallon, fit fermentation trap, and set aside. Rack after 30 days and again after additional 30 days. Bottle when clear. Allow to age at least 6 months. Will improve to one year.
[QUOTE=wet beaver]strawberry wine.......hey i can make my own......lol.....again no grapes or vodka
again off the net...
QUOTE]
I'll just devour the strawberries while fresh and succulent!!!
If that is ok!!!:)
Wet Beaver
02-21-2006, 02:22 PM
[QUOTE=wet beaver]strawberry wine.......hey i can make my own......lol.....again no grapes or vodka
again off the net...
QUOTE]
I'll just devour the strawberries while fresh and succulent!!!
If that is ok!!!:)
sure it is ok...but sometimes i have to have my wine......:drink:
Zifnab
02-21-2006, 02:22 PM
Now that sounds more like it!!!
Herbal tea being optional!!
perhaps some soft string music in the background as well?
SirFox
02-21-2006, 02:25 PM
You could be right Barkiss!!!:)
something between me and..............
LENA...I always believe whole hearedtly that one should finish one's sentence. In this case would you mind finishing your sentence..."something betweem you and.......who? :sc
Barkiss
02-21-2006, 02:26 PM
LENA...I always believe whole hearedtly that one should finish one's sentence. In this case would you mind finishing your sentence..."something betweem you and.......who? :sc
I have to agree...
SirFox
02-21-2006, 02:27 PM
strawberry wine.......hey i can make my own......lol.....again no grapes or vodka
again off the net...
3 lbs. fresh strawberries
2-1/2 lbs. granulated sugar
2 tsp. citric acid
water to make 1 gallon
wine yeast & nutrient
Place all ingredients except yeast in crock. Crush fruit with hands and cover with 5 pints boiling water. Stir with wooden paddle to dissolve sugar and simultaneously mash the strawberries. When cooled to 85 degrees F., add yeast. Cover and stir daily. Strain on 7th day, transfer to secondary fermentation vessel, top up to one gallon, fit fermentation trap, and set aside. Rack after 30 days and again after additional 30 days. Bottle when clear. Allow to age at least 6 months. Will improve to one year.
You have a process that does not include grapes there WB. You use citric acid (lemons). How can you call this wine? :wa:
Wet Beaver
02-21-2006, 02:30 PM
You have a process that does not include grapes there WB. You use citric acid (lemons). How can you call this wine? :wa:
all of the recipies on the page didn't use grapes...this is the easiest one......and it was the writer of the site that calls it wine....
SirFox
02-21-2006, 02:31 PM
all of the recipies on the page didn't use grapes...this is the easiest one......and it was the writer of the site that calls it wine....
So it's usage that calls it wine. Thank you. Can't wait to fly to California and see Seattle and Puget Sound again....
LENA...I always believe whole hearedtly that one should finish one's sentence. In this case would you mind finishing your sentence..."something betweem you and.......who? :sc
Ohhh nooo!!!!! Not finishing this sentence today!!!:)
I have to agree...
Well you can agree as much as you like!!!!;)
Wet Beaver
02-21-2006, 02:33 PM
here you go fox...all sorts of wine made with out grapes.....
http://winemaking.jackkeller.net/plants.asp
this type is good also....
perhaps some soft string music in the background as well?
yes that is sounding good!!
Wet Beaver
02-21-2006, 02:35 PM
Seattle and Puget Sound In California?? you do know that is Washington State right...
here you go fox...all sorts of wine made with out grapes.....
http://winemaking.jackkeller.net/plants.asp
this type is good also....
WB he does not need encouraging!
SirFox
02-21-2006, 02:41 PM
Seattle and Puget Sound In California?? you do know that is Washington State right...
Yes thank you....Probably arrive in San Diego, go to LA, up to San Francisco, Mendocino and up through Oregon to Seattle. I will have to see the meeting schedules before making some travel decisons. Would love to stay in a cabin near Mount Shasta for a week if I can fit that in.
strawberry wine.......hey i can make my own.
I made my own grape wine once....it was so yucky sweet that we mixed it with asti spumante to drink it.
Sandy
02-22-2006, 08:35 AM
did it work ? i can't seem to get the taste of wine.
Doesn't sound very nice MCat!!!
quax999
03-08-2006, 10:53 AM
It doesn't matter, light's on or off, candle light, but the tv is always on.
G...G
03-08-2006, 01:39 PM
Either way works for me!!!
upstr84u
03-13-2006, 01:59 PM
depends if i am dreaming of someone i then have to close my eyes and wish they were there
Zifnab
03-13-2006, 02:01 PM
Either way works for me!!!is hard to turn off the sunshine.... oh wait! you were alone! thats why you had sunburn!!!:lmao
G...G
03-13-2006, 02:14 PM
is hard to turn off the sunshine.... oh wait! you were alone! thats why you had sunburn!!!:lmao
:D You should have been there, damn it!!:na
Zifnab
03-13-2006, 02:28 PM
:D You should have been there, damn it!!:nawell you didn't invite me!
lovemakenman
03-17-2006, 10:00 PM
AH it dont matter Rosy plamn dont care much, she gets a rub down to shes happy.
remman308
03-23-2006, 11:30 PM
:knuddel: i prefer the lights on, love to see all the sexy sights.
spjimbo
03-24-2006, 02:22 PM
I like them on but she likes them off so we turn the lights off but the tv on....
Zifnab
03-24-2006, 03:14 PM
I like it in the afternoon with the sun shining through the window warming everything it touches, making the sexperience even more wonderful....yes I love the nooners!!!
spare_change
03-24-2006, 03:14 PM
I like them on but she likes them off so we turn the lights off but the tv on....
.... that gives her something to do?
Penny
03-24-2006, 03:15 PM
afternoon sex is best :)
I like it in the afternoon with the sun shining through the window warming everything it touches, making the sexperience even more wonderful....yes I love the nooners!!!
spjimbo
03-24-2006, 03:37 PM
.... that gives her something to do?
Damn that hurts...........:nu
sex_kitten_4u
03-29-2006, 03:34 PM
candelight is my fave
CJSinIL
03-29-2006, 05:56 PM
I love having it with the lights on. I like to watch the action baby.
Rainmaker
03-29-2006, 06:09 PM
use to like those lava lamps as well
lovemakenman
03-29-2006, 07:07 PM
either it does not bother me
have to say candlelight,one or alot, all depends
bichik
04-06-2006, 10:20 AM
The lights need to be on. Most guys can't see what they are trying to do in the dark.
SirFox
04-06-2006, 10:41 AM
The lights need to be on. Most guys can't see what they are trying to do in the dark.
Hello and Welcome to the Site, Mr. Hollywood!
You mean you feel nothing between your legs during the night? :D
Norfolkdave
04-06-2006, 01:03 PM
The lights need to be on. Most guys can't see what they are trying to do in the dark.
I eat carrots I glow in the dark I shag in the light, Heh heh Heh :lmao
SirFox
04-06-2006, 02:02 PM
I eat carrots I glow in the dark I shag in the light, Heh heh Heh :lmao
Dave: You look in good spirits all things considered. Everything is going well for you?
light off but with dim candle light :sex
Looking in chicago
04-06-2006, 08:04 PM
We have floor to cieling windows on the lakefront so we do lights off but with the windows there is always just enough to make out what is happening.
Tony678
04-06-2006, 08:54 PM
it is always best to have them on i love to see the garden and paradise so lovely and warm and when she explodes i love it more when her warm nectar comes out and drips into the passage way and i can lick her like a sunday or an icecream cone for then i can reach up and play with her mountains and those adoring peaks and i want to see her as she explodes her reaction sends me soaring to heights and makes me glad that i intriqued her so much..
light off but with dim candle light :sex
I'm impressed! Great minds think alike!
Knightstriker48
04-07-2006, 01:32 AM
It depends on the mood:sex
SirFox
04-07-2006, 06:08 AM
I love to get into a melee. I just can't understand how TWO people would want to have sex in the dark! My poor mind just does not get it.
Norfolkdave
04-07-2006, 06:44 AM
Dave: You look in good spirits all things considered. Everything is going well for you?
Yes Im in good spirits I have to be really, if chris saw me on a downer then it would make her sad. I love trying to get people to laugh, your a long time dead, so lets all enjoy the party spirit.:D
tiger50
04-07-2006, 06:54 AM
Yes Im in good spirits I have to be really, if chris saw me on a downer then it would make her sad. I love trying to get people to laugh, your a long time dead, so lets all enjoy the party spirit.:D
yay.. way cool, barman a fosters all round... umm cept me , i dont drink that shit.... :D
Norfolkdave
04-07-2006, 07:00 AM
yay.. way cool, barman a fosters all round... umm cept me , i dont drink that shit.... :D
I dont serve it ( its maidens water) here we serve real ale:D
tiger50
04-07-2006, 07:03 AM
I dont serve it ( its maidens water) here we serve real ale:D
awww noooooooo not more hot pis... OMG... :lmao
SirFox
04-07-2006, 07:07 AM
A quick beer at this tiem would be good. Spending some time in the hay would be nice as well... Man it seems like ages....and it was only Sunday!
Suzy_Q
04-26-2006, 04:37 AM
the lights are always off..don't need them if you know where everything is.
cherokeered
04-26-2006, 04:46 AM
LOL
Well, I prefer them off which means most guys will want them on...just to show me who is in charge....
:)
Cotties
04-26-2006, 04:50 AM
clever girl;) LOL
Well, I prefer them off which means most guys will want them on...just to show me who is in charge....
:)
cherokeered
04-26-2006, 05:03 AM
Now your learning.....
:kk
Annie
04-26-2006, 09:16 AM
Hell I forget.... now where's that "Reluctant Celibates" threads?
Willy S
04-26-2006, 10:40 AM
Hell I forget.... now where's that "Reluctant Celibates" threads?
I can't remember either!
Annie
04-26-2006, 11:06 AM
I can't remember either!
Well c'mon over here Willy and we can forget together, hun! :kk
SirFox
04-26-2006, 11:09 AM
LOL Well, I prefer them off which means most guys will want them on...just to show me who is in charge....:)
Suzy_Q the lights are always off..don't need them if you know where everything is.
I don't understand how you can make love with the lights off, with the televison on. It seems that I would like to see my lady at all times, see her mouth, her smile or her grimace.....and that the television would be a complete distraction. Seems that is a caveman approach to making love......
It's always good to follow one's bent. It's my opinion and I share it.
Willy S
04-26-2006, 12:19 PM
Well c'mon over here Willy and we can forget together, hun! :kk
Sounds nice - between the two of us we might be able to re-fresh our memories!
Annie
04-26-2006, 12:23 PM
Sounds nice - between the two of us we might be able to re-fresh our memories!
Oh honey... I was hoping we could refresh a bit more than that!
Willy S
04-26-2006, 12:24 PM
Oh honey... I was hoping we could refresh a bit more than that!
I think I'm feeling refreshed already!
almost40soccermom
04-26-2006, 08:32 PM
Men always want the lights on, that is a good sign, lol
spare_change
04-26-2006, 11:41 PM
Men always want the lights on, that is a good sign, lol
Only cuz we keep getting lost --- we know that damn thing is around there somewhere!
cherokeered
04-27-2006, 12:33 AM
Spare me.....hehehe
:wa:
PlayfulMale69
05-10-2006, 05:32 AM
Candles are fun in many ways.
Groping in the dark is fun.
Seeing her respond to me, the hunger in her eyes make me like some light of darkness.
It all starts with the look and builds from there.
SirFox
05-10-2006, 08:40 AM
Candles are fun in many ways.
Groping in the dark is fun.
Seeing her respond to me, the hunger in her eyes make me like some light of darkness.
It all starts with the look and builds from there.
LOOKS like... excuse me, SOUNDS like a nice beginning to a hot encounter of the third kind, eh? Oh, do I love the hunger in those eyes.....
clueless32m
11-15-2006, 05:17 PM
If I have my druthers, ON!
altoids69
11-15-2006, 05:19 PM
More times than not, off. I like them on though!!!
Norfolkdave
11-15-2006, 05:29 PM
More times than not, off. I like them on though!!!
Hell its nice to have them on, but turned down seductively to match the passion, and its nice to see the female form in its glory espicially when theirs a master at work lol lol lol lol:lmao
altoids69
11-15-2006, 05:49 PM
Hell its nice to have them on, but turned down seductively to match the passion, and its nice to see the female form in its glory espicially when theirs a master at work lol lol lol lol:lmao
You paint a nice picture, Dave!!!
Norfolkdave
11-15-2006, 05:55 PM
You paint a nice picture, Dave!!!
Well I try and its all me too, but Im the gentleman of the site so I got to behave myself lol:lmao
nicenkinkyguy
11-15-2006, 06:02 PM
I like all the options above. But I find that most the time it is with the TV on for just the right amount of light to make it erotic for the both of us. I like to see what I am touching. It makes it that much more exciting for me.
altoids69
11-15-2006, 06:05 PM
Well I try and its all me too, but Im the gentleman of the site so I got to behave myself lol:lmao
Making note that you are the resident gentleman!!!
steamy
11-15-2006, 06:11 PM
More times than not, off. I like them on though!!!I guess there is a place for both (mood and all) but lights on provides the ability to enjoy the visual beauty and increase the pleasure as each person visually tramits signals of increased passion......................
altoids69
11-15-2006, 06:12 PM
I guess there is a place for both (mood and all) but lights on provides the ability to enjoy the visual beauty and increase the pleasure as each person visually tramits signals of increased passion......................
And here goes Steamy with his beautiful imagery...........geez I'm a sucker for that!!
steamy
11-15-2006, 06:14 PM
And here goes Steamy with his beautiful imagery...........geez I'm a sucker for that!!Saying in words what we all feel and need to allow to be said is an honor for me to facilitate..............
Kissie
11-15-2006, 06:19 PM
the lights are on I defintly want to see all the action!!!!!!
steamy
11-15-2006, 06:29 PM
the lights are on I defintly want to see all the action!!!!!!Brilliant minds think alike..................:)
MIGHTY
11-16-2006, 06:34 AM
I like the lights off..but the candles fully aglow. Gives just the right amount of siluete to the room and our bodies. Besides..he likes being able to see what I'm doing to him as I perform.;)
steamy
12-21-2006, 09:11 PM
DAMN...........lights on if I can. What a sight seeing a lady on top having a good time.
rainbowhigh
12-21-2006, 09:14 PM
We like to use candle light. If we don't want to take the time to light a bunch of candles, our bathroom that is off our bedroom has a dimmer switch. We can turn it down and it gives much the same effect. Not quite as romantic, but has the same effect, lightwise.
Cotties
12-21-2006, 09:26 PM
When You Have Sex Are The Lights On Or Off?
if thats a reference to me using my brain...well its definetly off
hmn223
12-22-2006, 12:14 AM
lights on...need to see all the beauty of the female body.
Traxster
12-22-2006, 12:45 AM
Does a strobe light count????????
OICurready4me
12-22-2006, 01:42 AM
I like it with the lights on but my wife wants them off. That's when I strap on my miners helmet and head for the cave. I take my pick axe, look for her pot of gold and try and do some heavy mining. I usually find that gold nugget near the entrance to her cave and thats when I dive right in. At the appropriate time, I use the pick axe to finish what I need to do.
pointofnoreturn
12-22-2006, 03:37 PM
When it happens, it is usually daylight.
speed_raycer
12-22-2006, 10:54 PM
hmmm it depends on the mood. candles to warm her up and get her ready. But when we're horny, the clothes fly off and we're doing it... not thinking much about lights! But my favorite is under the light of the moon and stars.... nothing beats outdoor sex!:sex
likesbuttons
12-23-2006, 01:50 AM
the night the lights went out in Georgia....lol...thats the first thing i thought of when i read this thread.....
but really, you know its good when the lights go out .....right.....hehe
FlirtyWife
12-23-2006, 09:38 PM
Sometimes on, sometimes off. Most of the time on though.
Sandy
12-23-2006, 09:40 PM
either or doesn't matter, i like candle light to
Either or it just depends
UltimateNaneki
12-25-2006, 09:46 AM
the TV is off during the sex. BUt don't worry, that TV gone right back on, it would be terrible to miss a commercial or two!
steve_edwards
12-27-2006, 04:31 PM
Both, it really doesn't bother me. However, in the car it's off. Wouldn't want to flat the battery.
pointofnoreturn
12-27-2006, 04:40 PM
What if they are just blinkin???
ethans_so_bad
12-27-2006, 04:45 PM
On, unless theyre off.
steve_edwards
12-27-2006, 04:53 PM
Blinking's ok. I like the clicking noise.
pointofnoreturn
12-27-2006, 05:02 PM
I like the breathing noise.
steve_edwards
12-27-2006, 05:08 PM
You mean the heavy panting?
pointofnoreturn
12-27-2006, 05:09 PM
I can feel your warm breath on my neck. Move your way down a little for me.
steve_edwards
12-27-2006, 05:22 PM
Maybe just a little, to start with!
I love, love candlelight. It lets you still see the person, but sure puts me in a hot mood...I think it casts sexy shadows on their skin or something.
ethans_so_bad
12-27-2006, 05:56 PM
I like to have sex while swinging from the light
pointofnoreturn
12-27-2006, 05:59 PM
your mouth is warm on my tits.
steve_edwards
12-27-2006, 06:01 PM
I can't help it, I have to give your nipple a little bite
Barkiss
12-27-2006, 06:03 PM
Feel free to use our chat rooms...the conversation will flow much faster and you'll probably get a lot more out of it. You can also create private rooms, where you can be "alone"....if you know what I mean. ;)
pointofnoreturn
12-27-2006, 06:08 PM
I have gone there a few times, and no one follows. Guess it is up to me to move.
OICurready4me
12-27-2006, 06:08 PM
[QUOTE=Suz1973]I love, love candlelight. It lets you still see the person, but sure puts me in a hot mood...I think it casts sexy shadows on their skin or something.[/QUOTE
Besides the shadows that are cast, it's nice to pour hot wax on your nipples, I think you would like that.
steve_edwards
12-27-2006, 06:10 PM
Same here, I went but it was a little lonely... :-(
spare_change
12-27-2006, 06:10 PM
The lights are on. I have to be able to see the keyboard.
ryu_kenshi
12-27-2006, 06:15 PM
lights are usually dimmed...
CJSinIL
12-27-2006, 06:16 PM
Have to have the light on. So much more fun when you can see everything.
SirFox
12-29-2006, 03:02 PM
I personally like the idea of dimmed lighting..so you can see what you are doing and you can see how she reacts..if you don't hear her grown.
dartgirl
12-29-2006, 03:07 PM
If I'm having sex with my husband it doesn't matter if the lights are on or off, cuz I close my eyes and pretend I'm somewhere else. Work, doing my taxes, making the grocery list or figuring out what to make for dinner.
SirFox
12-29-2006, 03:21 PM
If I'm having sex with my husband it doesn't matter if the lights are on or off, cuz I close my eyes and pretend I'm somewhere else. Work, doing my taxes, making the grocery list or figuring out what to make for dinner.
Now if it were me would you still close your eyes DART? ;)
dartgirl
12-29-2006, 03:25 PM
Now if it were me would you still close your eyes DART? ;)
I don't know, that would depend on if you were doing something that made me not care think about all the stuff I could be doing. Would you?
massage mike
12-29-2006, 03:28 PM
on
SirFox
12-29-2006, 03:32 PM
I don't know, that would depend on if you were doing something that made me not care think about all the stuff I could be doing. Would you?
Try me. You might like it. :D
dartgirl
12-29-2006, 03:51 PM
[QUOTE=fox]Try me. You might like it. :D[/QUOTE
Oh, you tease you.:kk
SirFox
12-29-2006, 04:02 PM
[QUOTE=fox]Try me. You might like it. :D[/QUOTE
Oh, you tease you.:kk
Don't say you don't like it.
And I will tell you that I love to ..well...flirt...with you.
ethans_so_bad
12-31-2006, 11:53 AM
When I have sex I'm usually wearing a string of Christmas lights
spare_change
12-31-2006, 02:47 PM
When I have sex I'm usually wearing a string of Christmas lights
a VERY short string of the little lights.
ethans_so_bad
12-31-2006, 02:56 PM
Wow that was a good one. That's what I get for letting my lighting technician out, he tells all my secrets
UltimateNaneki
12-31-2006, 02:58 PM
Wow that was a good one. That's what I get for letting my lighting technician out, he tells all my secrets
I thought u prefered to feel your way! :dd
ethans_so_bad
12-31-2006, 03:01 PM
i prefer to feel your way
massage mike
12-31-2006, 03:01 PM
I thought u prefered to feel your way! :ddI like the look on a woman's face when she orgasms:whee:
ethans_so_bad
12-31-2006, 03:03 PM
yeah and you should see it under the christmas lights lol
Usually the tv is on. It's pretty quick.
yaser
01-01-2007, 01:16 PM
On becasue I want to see my lover's eyes when coming..but she closes..
ethans_so_bad
01-01-2007, 05:08 PM
I like to have sex with the lights off because sometimes the bulbs burn my ass when i get really excited and pull out too far
altoids69
01-01-2007, 05:26 PM
I like to have sex with the lights off because sometimes the bulbs burn my ass when i get really excited and pull out too far
That's wrong on so many levels!!! :D
ethans_so_bad
01-01-2007, 05:32 PM
That's wrong on so many levels!!! :D
yeah, and it gets worse the deeper you go
JustOneLife
01-01-2007, 05:33 PM
I'm usually reading her face so much (she's a quiet one) that ambient light helps. Candles, dimmed lights or even a muted TV in a pinch, will do nicely.
ethans_so_bad
01-01-2007, 05:34 PM
I'm usually reading her face so much (she's a quiet one) that ambient light helps. Candles, dimmed lights or even a muted TV in a pinch, will do nicely.
you pinch the TV when youre doing it? wow, weird.
altoids69
01-01-2007, 05:37 PM
yeah, and it gets worse the deeper you go
I can't imagine it getting worse the deeper you go........:lf
ethans_so_bad
01-01-2007, 05:39 PM
I can't imagine it getting worse the deeper you go........:lf
oh you have no idea................. or maybe you do
altoids69
01-01-2007, 05:46 PM
oh you have no idea................. or maybe you do
Isn't that the beauty of imagination???:D
ethans_so_bad
01-01-2007, 05:49 PM
Isn't that the beauty of imagination???:D
you know i love it when you use your imagination............
altoids69
01-01-2007, 05:52 PM
you know i love it when you use your imagination............
You have no idea..............:D
ethans_so_bad
01-01-2007, 05:53 PM
You have no idea..............:D
finding out is the best part.....................see you later...........xox
altoids69
01-01-2007, 05:57 PM
finding out is the best part.....................see you later...........xox
why yes it is!!!! :kk
ethans_so_bad
01-03-2007, 06:22 PM
Hey hunny remember when we did it with the lights...oh nevermind.........
xox
why yes it is!!!! :kk
We like one light on in the bedroom...
SirFox
01-04-2007, 08:35 AM
We like one light on in the bedroom...
You want the light or does he? Would you be able to handle two romantic lights????? :sc
You want the light or does he? Would you be able to handle two romantic lights????? :sc
We both want the light on....him cause he likes to see where he's going and me cause I like to see what's cumin at me :D
I like candles better than lamps, a room full of candles would be sooo very nice.
SirFox
01-04-2007, 08:44 AM
We both want the light on....him cause he likes to see where he's going and me cause I like to see what's cumin at me :D
I like candles better than lamps, a room full of candles would be sooo very nice.
I could handle that as well. Do you think we have something in common, My Cat?
ethans_so_bad
01-04-2007, 01:52 PM
I have sex with a set of Police lights running in the room. It makes me dizzy
Outta
01-04-2007, 02:13 PM
I have sex with a set of Police lights running in the room. It makes me dizzy
must be funny when u fall off the bed
SirFox
01-04-2007, 02:14 PM
I have sex with a set of Police lights running in the room. It makes me dizzy
I do hope that you have the American police sirens going on as well or the UK ones...as the French ones are anemic..
Those sirens sound like the changing of the guard just had laryngitis! :D The American police sirens really scare the shit out of you!
ethans_so_bad
01-04-2007, 02:15 PM
Your wife thought it was. Boy that was sophmoric...........
must be funny when u fall off the bed
steamy
01-04-2007, 02:15 PM
Dude you are funny..................(laughing) What does it do for the lady? Sounds like a red district bust to me:D I have sex with a set of Police lights running in the room. It makes me dizzy
Candles ... some for light some for erm! :rolleyes:
ethans_so_bad
01-04-2007, 02:18 PM
Most of the girls I date are used to seeing them. They just ditch their crack pipes into the closet and run away when they walk in the bedroom.
Dude you are funny..................(laughing) What does it do for the lady? Sounds like a red district bust to me:D
steamy
01-04-2007, 02:22 PM
Now that was funny as shit too...............(laughing)Most of the girls I date are used to seeing them. They just ditch their crack pipes into the closet and run away when they walk in the bedroom.
steamy
01-04-2007, 02:24 PM
Candles are always appropriate.................unless they catch the curtains on fire..................anyone see the movie "You, Me, and DUpue"? I think it is "Dupue".............funny as shit candle sceen:D
Candles ... some for light some for erm! :rolleyes:
Outta
01-04-2007, 02:30 PM
Dude you are funny..................(laughing) What does it do for the lady? Sounds like a red district bust to me:D
steamy, if that's the only way the lad can find love, let's leave him alone. His pay at Pizza Hut should cover only about 1 throw a week, anyway.
ethans_so_bad
01-04-2007, 02:33 PM
OH NO! I do much better than that with those "tips" you keep giving me every week when you come in.steamy, if that's the only way the lad can find love, let's leave him alone. His pay at Pizza Hut should cover only about 1 throw a week, anyway.
gvikfan
01-05-2007, 04:15 AM
I especially prefer the lights on during oral sex.i love watching her go down.(just wish it happened more often)
steamy
01-05-2007, 07:33 AM
Hay! Better than lights on..................in the middle of a field on a sunny day................now who would like to bring the sunscreen:D
OICurready4me
01-05-2007, 08:02 AM
I like to wear one of those miners helmet lights that way I can see where I'm going when I'm in deep. You need to know where your going and when your looking for something to eat, it is best to highlight it!
Outta
01-05-2007, 09:04 AM
OH NO! I do much better than that with those "tips" you keep giving me every week when you come in.
You past me in posts, Ethan. Youth is grand.
UltimateNaneki
01-05-2007, 09:22 AM
I'm on but the lights are very off!
joshcamp69
01-05-2007, 11:10 AM
Depends on location, can't turn the sun off.
kiwimongo
01-06-2007, 12:11 AM
l want lights on but he dosent want lights on
dave42
01-06-2007, 12:26 AM
Lights on or dim. I love to see and admire my partner. It makes for better sexy fun.
Zifnab
01-06-2007, 12:30 AM
she is nice and turns the lights on so I can see her better.... but I leave the lights out, cause I can't see into her room with my lights on....
dave42
01-07-2007, 12:14 AM
I like lots of candles and a nice jazz station on the radio.
kiwimongo
01-07-2007, 12:29 AM
l like candle lights too and slow music bot l dont like dark l wanna see his body
LinkTGF
01-07-2007, 07:10 AM
you should have multiple options - lights are always on and the TV, candles, microwave and hair dryer are all going at once ;)
SirFox
01-07-2007, 07:21 AM
you should have multiple options - lights are always on and the TV, candles, microwave and hair dryer are all going at once ;)
That means your electrical consumption is higher when you are having multiple options in the sex field, eh?
LinkTGF
01-07-2007, 08:27 AM
That means your electrical consumption is higher when you are having multiple options in the sex field, eh?
well that and I think a hair dryer in the microwave is some sort of alien aphrodisiac ;)
kiwimongo
01-07-2007, 08:35 AM
well that and I think a hair dryer in the microwave is some sort of alien aphrodisiac ;)
l dont understant your post why hair dryer in the microwave
yaser
01-07-2007, 08:36 AM
I'm on but the lights are very off!
Your light is enough..I think..
Outta
01-07-2007, 09:48 AM
On, but the lights in the car aren't very bright.
On, but the lights in the car aren't very bright.
I told you to move the switch over one more notch to make it brighter....but you wouldn't listen. ;)
Outta
01-07-2007, 10:16 AM
I told you to move the switch over one more notch to make it brighter....but you wouldn't listen. ;)
your GD tits were in the way
Waltert
01-07-2007, 10:17 AM
On, but the lights in the car aren't very bright.
Well we could get you a spot light that plugs into the car!
Well we could get you a spot light that plugs into the car!
Now you know I love a spot light....don't tease:lf
Waltert
01-07-2007, 10:25 AM
Now you know I love a spot light....don't tease:lf
Well if I am holding it; it will be on YOU! :dd
your GD tits were in the way
Don't try and blame this one on me...I'm not the one that insisted we fuck in the car
Well if I am holding it; it will be on YOU! :dd
It better be:)
Outta
01-07-2007, 10:28 AM
Don't try and blame this one on me...I'm not the one that insisted we fuck in the car
Sorry that you couldn't wait until we found a hotel with a vibrating bed.
Waltert
01-07-2007, 10:31 AM
It better be:)
well I will keep moving it around to make sure I light up all of your lovely body!
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