View Full Version : Tell us one thing that your lover doesn't know.
scoobertina
04-15-2007, 07:17 PM
My turn: there are two things that my husband doesn't know. 1. that he does not satisfy me and 2. I want to see him with another woman.
Butterfly_13
04-15-2007, 07:18 PM
My lover or my husband???
Outta
04-15-2007, 07:23 PM
My lover or my husband???
Well does your husband know your lover??
Butterfly_13
04-15-2007, 07:25 PM
LOL!!! I hope not...although, they might like eachother...oh, that's right; I need to find a LOVER first...any takers???
Well does your husband know your lover??
SA007
04-15-2007, 07:49 PM
My wife doesn’t know I am on this site and she is sitting across from me on the coach. :lmao
My wife doesn’t know I am on this site and she is sitting across from me on the coach. :lmao
Welcome neighbor :wa: She might surprise you and like it here.
UltimateNaneki
04-15-2007, 07:53 PM
My wife doesn’t know I am on this site and she is sitting across from me on the coach. :lmao
That is a good one....but my husband has no idea that I have cyber sex in the livingroom while he is in 10feet away on his own computer!!:lmao
thickitalian
04-15-2007, 08:26 PM
My wife doesn’t know I am on this site and she is sitting across from me on the coach. :lmao
I wouldn't do that to my wife (post in the same room as her)..I respect her even if our marriage isn't the best...but to each his own...welcome SA...
MagicalMerlin
04-15-2007, 08:34 PM
That me and my best friend are going to sex the hell out of Merlin here very shortly! We're going to tie him up as so he doesn't pull a disappearing act on us!:55 :D
Nina
MagicalMerlin
04-15-2007, 08:50 PM
My turn: there are two things that my husband doesn't know. 1. that he does not satisfy me and 2. I want to see him with another woman.
Tina, how about two other women? My friend and I are bi. Have you ever thought what it would be like to be with another woman? Or two women? Or two women and another guy besides your hubby?:sc Sorry for cumming on so strong. I'm feeling my oats and my best friend and I are about to fullfil your fantasy with my magic man! :55 :lf :dd
Nina
majorfun
04-15-2007, 09:01 PM
That I am absolutely crazy about her and I miss her very much when we are apart!!!!!!!!!!
.... that he will hear my voice when he logs on! ;)
SirFox
04-16-2007, 06:12 AM
.... that he will hear my voice when he logs on! ;)
Still haven't heard your voice, Sweet JENNY... :D
tallasian74
04-16-2007, 01:49 PM
My turn: there are two things that my husband doesn't know. 1. that he does not satisfy me and 2. I want to see him with another woman.
Wow, Scoob, you are on a roll in my head today! I, too, wish that my wife would actually cheat on me and get some more experience in her. Of course, I wish my wife would also want #2 for me as well!
tallasian74
04-16-2007, 02:07 PM
Here's a lame one to admit: Sometimes when she thinks I am on the computer doing wholesome things, I am making little compilation DVD's of my favorite porn. She absolutely despises it even when my eyes glance at an image - real or photographic - of another woman.
jeromemoreau
04-17-2007, 10:24 AM
... that I visit forums like here quite often... oups.
Cotties
04-20-2007, 01:54 AM
That I'm going out tonight with four women who work for Singapore Airways. Apparently they want to get drunk.......and have a good time....wooo hoooo...I'm their man
jeromemoreau
04-20-2007, 03:43 AM
Actually she doesn't know that there's a lot she doesn't know on me and my friends... That is my secret garden and I hope she has hers...
That I'm going out tonight with four women who work for Singapore Airways. Apparently they want to get drunk.......and have a good time....wooo hoooo...I'm their man
i was going to say the Lie threads over there ...
but I'm going to be nice and say have a blast ...:wa:
living to Flirt
04-22-2007, 02:06 PM
That I have pics of my friends wife in comprimising positions
Momma
04-22-2007, 02:15 PM
Yikes !!...better not leave those lying around...lol ;)
Welcome to the site hun....hope your having fun so far....:kk
puddlesoflove
04-22-2007, 02:39 PM
Hmmmm certain sexual actions that I would like to perform...
majorfun
04-22-2007, 02:41 PM
Please do tell
Hmmmm certain sexual actions that I would like to perform...
puddlesoflove
04-22-2007, 02:46 PM
lick my cum out of her pussy and kiss her with it
confusedman
04-22-2007, 03:05 PM
That I am torn with conflict inside, yet it doesn't involve her...
yaser
04-22-2007, 03:19 PM
That I am torn with conflict inside, yet it doesn't involve her...
Torn between your wife and sweet heart?Or between tow sweet hearts?
confusedman
04-22-2007, 03:20 PM
Torn between your wife and sweet heart?Or between tow sweet hearts?
Torn about my relationship with my sweetheart...and that I am not a healthy relationship for her at this time...
TheSexspurt
04-24-2007, 03:49 PM
That even though she is the perfect woman and wonderful lover... I am a naughty naughty man with desires I seek and fulfill elsewhere from time to time...
Santafe0384
04-26-2007, 07:58 PM
I'd like to see my wife "accidentally" expose herself to a stranger....more often!
scoobertina
04-27-2007, 01:44 AM
That even though she is the perfect woman and wonderful lover... I am a naughty naughty man with desires I seek and fulfill elsewhere from time to time...
yes you are a naughty naughty man.... :nu come over here for a spanking..
:D
annonymousgirl
04-27-2007, 08:52 PM
My lover doesn't know that I've had way[I] more experience than he could imagine.
annonymousgirl
04-27-2007, 08:53 PM
He also doesn't know how much I pleasure myself when he isn't around. I'm always embarrassed to own up to that one.
majorfun
04-27-2007, 08:53 PM
That I am a lesbian
dlbbld63
04-27-2007, 11:34 PM
Back to the original question...I masturbate more than she knows, and I text flirt w/ alot of women I work with.
likesbuttons
04-28-2007, 01:22 AM
She doesn't know about this site, and she'd die if she knew I was here.......And how often I think about women from this site and.......ah, enough for now....lol
MysteryLaidee
04-28-2007, 01:37 AM
He doesn't know a lot which is why I'm here. Oh yeah, he doesn't know about this either, lol. Too much to list here. Not for lack of trying mind you...blah, blah, you know the story.
i have few secrets from my hubby.
now my lover is a different matter. there are many things he doesn't know, such as why i insist on condoms (it's the fact that he's not the only one).
Santafe0384
04-28-2007, 08:11 PM
She's downstairs exercising while I'm upstairs talking to you guys!
scoobertina
04-28-2007, 08:16 PM
That I am a lesbian
:kk you are a lesbian? Hmmmm... that makes things more interesting... :D
scoobertina
04-28-2007, 08:42 PM
I don't have a lover... if I did he would know just about anything.... Now my husband - he is a different story... He doesn't know I frequent here.... He doesn't know about that spot on the neck.... He does't know how to please me.... Hmmmm need I say more?
thickitalian
04-28-2007, 11:13 PM
She's downstairs exercising while I'm upstairs talking to you guys!
I personally think you two should switch places...speaking from a men's point of view...:D
UltimateNaneki
04-28-2007, 11:16 PM
I have a dildo!
I don't have a lover... if I did he would know just about anything.... Now my husband - he is a different story... He doesn't know I frequent here.... He doesn't know about that spot on the neck.... He does't know how to please me.... Hmmmm need I say more?
Tell him about the spot on your neck...tell him how to please you :55
FlirtyWife
04-29-2007, 10:16 PM
He doesn't know about the kinky things I want to do and that I may go elsewhere to get those desires fulfilled.
dlbbld63
04-30-2007, 12:12 AM
Flirtywife -- how long have you harbored fantasies about "kink," and what have you been thinking about?
MysteryLaidee
04-30-2007, 12:19 AM
I don't have a lover... if I did he would know just about anything.... Now my husband - he is a different story... He doesn't know I frequent here.... He doesn't know about that spot on the neck.... He does't know how to please me.... Hmmmm need I say more?
Well said ... I know exactly where you are coming from!!!
dlbbld63
04-30-2007, 12:24 AM
Did he ever know that spot, or did you just recently come to the conclusion that his NOT knowing was no longer acceptable?
living to Flirt
04-30-2007, 12:50 AM
Well said ... I know exactly where you are coming from!!!
I'd be willing to work on that spot for you:wa:
living to Flirt
04-30-2007, 12:51 AM
My lover doesn't know that I've had way[I] more experience than he could imagine.
Not that its a bad thing to look and find new stuff, one can get board without the varity
musicmer
04-30-2007, 01:33 AM
I am in lust witha redhead that is a pisces
angelis
04-30-2007, 01:37 AM
He doesn't know I have these special friends
RedHotPisces
04-30-2007, 01:38 AM
that i masturbated in the bath tub this morning thinking about him
Cotties
04-30-2007, 01:39 AM
I have you visioned holding a couple of vibrators now:di He doesn't know I have these special friends
PlayfulMale69
04-30-2007, 01:40 AM
I don't have a lover... if I did he would know just about anything.... Now my husband - he is a different story... He doesn't know I frequent here.... He doesn't know about that spot on the neck.... He does't know how to please me.... Hmmmm need I say more?
Hey Tina, I think I have the same situation in reverse.
angelis
04-30-2007, 01:42 AM
I have you visioned holding a couple of vibrators now:di
absoltely right!! unlike men they always deliver!!
PlayfulMale69
04-30-2007, 01:44 AM
absoltely right!! unlike men they always deliver!!
Ouch, that hurts. Possibly true, but hurts. You do know that our tongues never get soft don't you? :kk
Cotties
04-30-2007, 01:45 AM
and are probably more inclined to listen to what you have to say after sex;) absoltely right!! unlike men they always deliver!!
Cotties
04-30-2007, 01:46 AM
damn don't encourage them......I'm sick of getting neck crampsOuch, that hurts. Possibly true, but hurts. You do know that our tongues never get soft don't you? :kk
angelis
04-30-2007, 01:47 AM
Ouch, that hurts. Possibly true, but hurts. You do know that our tongues never get soft don't you? :kk
Sorry that was a broad stroke statement!! Now mention tongues,that does it for me!! Don't need to change the batteries either!!;)
PlayfulMale69
04-30-2007, 01:52 AM
damn don't encourage them......I'm sick of getting neck cramps
not to mention tongue cramps, right? LOL
musicmer
04-30-2007, 01:53 AM
That I really want to watch her and another woman together.
PlayfulMale69
04-30-2007, 01:53 AM
Sorry that was a broad stroke statement!! Now mention tongues,that does it for me!! Don't need to change the batteries either!!;)
OH yes, the tongue is such a versatile orgam, used for eating, licking, teasing, kissing, caressing, and oh yes eating :kk
RedHotPisces
04-30-2007, 01:54 AM
just watch :sc
That I really want to watch her and another woman together.
angelis
04-30-2007, 01:55 AM
OH yes, the tongue is such a versatile orgam, used for eating, licking, teasing, kissing, caressing, and oh yes eating :kk
yum!!:lf
PlayfulMale69
04-30-2007, 01:55 AM
just watch :sc
We always say we will only watch and hope we get invited at soem point! :kk
musicmer
04-30-2007, 02:04 AM
Just watch maybe the first time ...... cant make any promises after that.
Cotties
04-30-2007, 02:10 AM
The maid really turns me on
angelis
04-30-2007, 02:12 AM
The maid really turns me on
I scretly enjoy serving(or being served by!!) Cotties!
PlayfulMale69
04-30-2007, 02:19 AM
my lover has no idea I am in here flirting with some very sexy ladies
scoobertina
04-30-2007, 06:39 AM
Hey Tina, I think I have the same situation in reverse.
hhhmmmmm... you know almost everything about me? Unlike my hubby? :kk
OR your lover doesn't know anything but your wife knows how to please you totally?
God I hope it is the first one..... I am thinking you know all about me by now... but I am willing to find out more (much more) about you hon....:knuddel:
scoobertina
04-30-2007, 06:40 AM
my lover has no idea I am in here flirting with some very sexy ladies
damn.... I wish I had stayed up later last night.... :kk
confusedman
04-30-2007, 07:34 AM
that SOMEONE was very special to me yesterday...has me sailing this morning...and it wasn't her!
thickitalian
04-30-2007, 08:16 AM
If they knew...they would not be my lovers anymore.
SexyCowgirl
04-30-2007, 01:17 PM
I find women attractive sometimes, and I get more outa watching a good porn then my husband suspects:)
:sc gosh, well he knows rather a lot actually... ah! he doesn't know I have a motor bike... :D
pointofnoreturn
04-30-2007, 05:52 PM
my other lover???
How many women and times I've made love to in my mind!...wow.......its staggering! :whee:
pointofnoreturn
05-03-2007, 05:00 PM
that I crave sex all the time.........WAit...did yousay lover or spouse???
SexyCowgirl
05-03-2007, 07:24 PM
that I crave sex all the time.........WAit...did yousay lover or spouse???
And my husband thought I was the only girl who craved sex all the time..........:D
howie69
05-03-2007, 07:26 PM
That her best friend and I have had sex many times.
MysteryLaidee
05-03-2007, 07:29 PM
Well, my husband doesn't know that I'm rarely satisfied after we have sex...I don't have a lover...
SexyCowgirl
05-03-2007, 07:29 PM
That her best friend and I have had sex many times.
OOOWEEEEE! Thats a doozy!
My spouse has no idea that I would love to fuck his best friend, and his best friends cousin:D
cherokeered
05-03-2007, 07:34 PM
Can't tell ya.....it's a secret.....:D
howie69
05-03-2007, 07:35 PM
Can't tell ya.....it's a secret.....:D
Now what good is a secret if it is not shared with friends?
SexyCowgirl
05-03-2007, 07:38 PM
Can't tell ya.....it's a secret.....:D
Oh, now I'm really curious! I love your avitar too, by the way!
living to Flirt
05-03-2007, 11:32 PM
Well, my husband doesn't know that I'm rarely satisfied after we have sex...I don't have a lover...
Be interested in helping... the fantasy ocean front property would be a great setting
MysteryLaidee
05-04-2007, 12:49 AM
Be interested in helping... the fantasy ocean front property would be a great setting
Hmmmm...do tell
swanston253
05-04-2007, 12:54 AM
that I crave sex all the time.........WAit...did yousay lover or spouse???
thats my kind of idea i thought there wasnt many of us out there
specialy the ones who want somthing with strong efection
swanston253
05-04-2007, 12:58 AM
Can't tell ya.....it's a secret.....:D
year and the more ya do it the better ya get at it as you open up a little more each time
swanston253
05-04-2007, 01:00 AM
My lover apparently does not know that BOTH parties need to be satisfied........:spbx: you got that right and i bet ya partners not here
MIGHTY
05-04-2007, 01:02 AM
you got that right and i bet ya partners not here
Oh he's here....just clueless is all.:sg
Welcome to the site Swanson......hope you have lots of fun and flirting......:wa:
swanston253
05-04-2007, 01:03 AM
my other lover??? with a picture like that i would love it there too:kk
swanston253
05-04-2007, 05:35 AM
It's time to let out one of your secrets.. tell us one secret about yourself.
love is presecous but you need to get what you give if you dont and your comited you become lonely and look a lot elsewhere weather its there or not who knows
confusedman
05-07-2007, 01:19 AM
That someone absolutely amazing has restored my faith in myself, and that I care for her very deeply because of it...
MIGHTY
05-07-2007, 12:53 PM
...that my heart no longer is his to mend......:(
loli_se53
05-07-2007, 01:37 PM
That I am logged on to this site as much as possible!
That I have a crush on him. oops, i let that slip out last night when i was with him. nevermind
musicmer
05-07-2007, 03:54 PM
that i know something that she doesnt know I know
sweet
05-07-2007, 04:03 PM
that i know something that she doesnt know I know
I wanna know what you know that she doesn't know :D
haha where do I start...???? Seriously... reading your guys "secrets" I feel like the devil!!!! My god you are all so innocent! Is this site really for me? haha
MysteryLaidee
05-07-2007, 04:17 PM
That I was up all night..."showing" the fantasyland property....
that i know something that she doesnt know I know
i think she knows what u know she doesnt think u know ...u know ?
musicmer
05-09-2007, 12:04 AM
So now I know that she know what I know that I thought she did know.... oh know.i think she knows what u know she doesnt think u know ...u know ?
midnightmoods
05-09-2007, 09:00 AM
me too...I masturbate a lot because my wife doesn't want lovemaking anymore...I think we did it six weeks ago
SexyCowgirl
05-09-2007, 10:55 AM
My lover doesn't know I am getting really frustrated waiting for him to take some initiative and have some friggin sex!
He also doesn't know that when we go camping this weekend, if I don't get laid, I'm just going to jump on in the middle of the night! lol
ArizonaDevil
05-09-2007, 10:57 AM
My lover doesn't know I am getting really frustrated waiting for him to take some initiative and have some friggin sex!
He also doesn't know that when we go camping this weekend, if I don't get laid, I'm just going to jump on in the middle of the night! lol
Now that's what I call a camping trip!!!
MIGHTY
05-09-2007, 11:13 AM
He really doesn't know how he affects me sometimes......how his actions can cause soo many mixed emotions......
That the majority of the time I am working my butt off... not dilly dallying... (though I'd really really like too! :D )
That I am fantasizing about dilly dallying Jenny hard woking butt....
peaches
05-09-2007, 07:31 PM
How much i want him to kiss me...
Tedebear2007
05-09-2007, 07:38 PM
She does not know how much I miss some of the girls that where at my other work. Not just because there cute but they kept me feeling alive.
How much i want him to kiss me...
You just ruined it Peaches. You told me. Now you have to think of another thing your lover doesn't know.
RedHotPisces
05-09-2007, 07:43 PM
:wa: hello tedebear...welcome :wa:
She does not know how much I miss some of the girls that where at my other work. Not just because there cute but they kept me feeling alive.
Sorry tedebear. Welcome!!!!!
cherokeered
05-09-2007, 07:48 PM
She does not know how much I miss some of the girls that where at my other work. Not just because there cute but they kept me feeling alive.
Welcome to the site hun......:wa:
snowflake
05-09-2007, 07:50 PM
Tell us one thing that your lover doesn't know.
ME!!!
After 12 years I still don't think he really knows who I am..... :whee:
Tedebear2007
05-09-2007, 07:52 PM
I can tell I'll have fun and laughs here....
majorfun
05-09-2007, 11:22 PM
That I have been working twelve hour days and that I miss her dearly..
That the majority of the time I am working my butt off... not dilly dallying... (though I'd really really like too! :D )
living to Flirt
05-09-2007, 11:46 PM
Tell us one thing that your lover doesn't know.
ME!!!
After 12 years I still don't think he really knows who I am..... :whee:
I am listening.... tell me everything!
surfdude
05-10-2007, 10:12 PM
that I'm even more interested in sex than she thinks - and she thinks that's what I think about most of the time.
TravelingMan
05-14-2007, 01:44 AM
that my close female friend and I exchange naughty emails just to have an edge in life. We'll never act on them but if they were found, there'd be hell to pay on my end and hers.
thickitalian
05-14-2007, 05:07 AM
that my close female friend and I exchange naughty emails just to have an edge in life. We'll never act on them but if they were found, there'd be hell to pay on my end and hers.
A recurring theme in this day and age...in your minds you are probably correct but the excitement is not knowing what either one would do should there ever come an opportunity to meet or one poses the question. Yeah...we all say and do the right things but then we seem to get deeper as times goes by....so having hell to pay sorta fits because if the roles were reversed we would know it fits...even if we have our reasons for doing it.
No criticism meant man TM ...just took an opportunity with an interesting subject to air my thoughts...
Keep doing what you are doing as long as it makes you happier rather than complacent...
Thick.....
MIGHTY
05-16-2007, 12:47 PM
....that I dream about another.......
GeekMaster
05-16-2007, 12:48 PM
....that I dream about another.......
:cry:
SirFox
05-16-2007, 12:58 PM
MIGHTY dreams about another?
:cry: :cry: :cry:
MIGHTY
05-16-2007, 01:00 PM
Awe.............:kk:kk:kk:kk:kk:kk:kk:kk:kk:kk
Tell us one thing that your lover doesn't know........That I met someone from this site yesterday, that is sweet and thoughtful and made me smile for an hour! Gave me a feeling I havn't had in a long time!!!
(I feel like a little school girl on the first day of school)
MIGHTY
05-20-2007, 11:43 AM
He doesn't know that, by his actions, that he is not teaching me some great lesson about how good he is, or how much I am going to regret him leaving. He doesn't know that, by his actions, he is literally tearing me up inside. For him to do what he did, and then say what he said is beyond cruel. I am now a trainwreck at his mercy. The problem is, I think he knows this which is why he tortures me so with his mind games and crushing me at his whim.........my heart has been torn into shreds and he knows. He knows he is the one that has caused this and he is full of pride......he knows that it is only he who can send me into such emotional termoil.......and he does this at his leisure....for whatever reason.
paris
05-20-2007, 11:47 AM
Mighty! Who's treated you this way? Someone from here???
He doesn't know that, by his actions, that he is not teaching me some great lesson about how good he is, or how much I am going to regret him leaving. He doesn't know that, by his actions, he is literally tearing me up inside. For him to do what he did, and then say what he said is beyond cruel. I am now a trainwreck at his mercy. The problem is, I think he knows this which is why he tortures me so with his mind games and crushing me at his whim.........my heart has been torn into shreds and he knows. He knows he is the one that has caused this and he is full of pride......he knows that it is only he who can send me into such emotional termoil.......and he does this at his leisure....for whatever reason.
MIGHTY
05-20-2007, 11:48 AM
Mighty! Who's treated you this way? Someone from here???
No....my husband......
paris
05-20-2007, 11:51 AM
I'm so sorry, Mighty! You have a ton of friends and support here!! Stay strong. You're a really great person and deserve only happiness!:) No....my husband......
MIGHTY
05-20-2007, 11:52 AM
I'm so sorry, Mighty! You have a ton of friends and support here!! Stay strong. You're a really great person and deserve only happiness!:)
Thank you hun......
OICurready4me
05-20-2007, 12:08 PM
....that I dream about another.......
and so do I....and WOW are those dreams magnificient! (I just wish I could remember them, damn da damn damn damn)
OICurready4me
05-20-2007, 12:10 PM
He doesn't know that, by his actions, that he is not teaching me some great lesson about how good he is, or how much I am going to regret him leaving. He doesn't know that, by his actions, he is literally tearing me up inside. For him to do what he did, and then say what he said is beyond cruel. I am now a trainwreck at his mercy. The problem is, I think he knows this which is why he tortures me so with his mind games and crushing me at his whim.........my heart has been torn into shreds and he knows. He knows he is the one that has caused this and he is full of pride......he knows that it is only he who can send me into such emotional termoil.......and he does this at his leisure....for whatever reason.
That is why I am her for you 24/7 365 baby. I can be everything and anything you need me to be so I can get you through this... I want to be your rock, your king!!! Love you, baby!!
yaser
05-20-2007, 12:30 PM
He doesn't know that, by his actions, that he is not teaching me some great lesson about how good he is, or how much I am going to regret him leaving. He doesn't know that, by his actions, he is literally tearing me up inside. For him to do what he did, and then say what he said is beyond cruel. I am now a trainwreck at his mercy. The problem is, I think he knows this which is why he tortures me so with his mind games and crushing me at his whim.........my heart has been torn into shreds and he knows. He knows he is the one that has caused this and he is full of pride......he knows that it is only he who can send me into such emotional termoil.......and he does this at his leisure....for whatever reason.
You think so?Is he the one to be blamed?Or you are to be blamed?If you don't give permission to him to make suffer,you will never suffer...Mighty..Try to to decide whether he is right...
MIGHTY
05-20-2007, 12:35 PM
You think so?Is he the one to be blamed?Or you are to be blamed?If you don't give permission to him to make suffer,you will never suffer...Mighty..Try to to decide whether he is right...
you do not understand......will not, and cannot.
you do not understand......will not, and cannot.
O MIGHTY, I cannot imagine what you are going through, except that you are obviously at a very low ebb... have you family members that can support you?someone on-hand, someone near you to give you a hug ? Life is too short to stay stuck in a miserable marriage for years especially if you are the only one who wants your relationship to be different, but then you know that... if there are really serious issues to be discussed and you can’t share these to us because of some important personal reason/s, is there someone you can share them with? God bless you MIGHTY, you do have a tremendous amount of support on here, me included! :kk
yaser
05-20-2007, 01:58 PM
you do not understand......will not, and cannot.
I believe i am broken....
Honey there is causal relation between these two statements you wrote.
Momma
05-20-2007, 02:04 PM
Oh sweet Mighty...:kk
I know this is easy for me to say, but....YOU are the one with the power here..you have to remember this....whatever it is that has happen between you and your husband....he "thinks" he has power over you, because he can put you in such a state...if you show him that he can't do that anymore...I'm sure that would shock the hell out of him, and in doing so....he may just realise what he's doing....THEN you can kick his ass to the curb...NOBODY should be treated this way...chin up sweetie....you have so many friends here looking out for you and are willing to help out in any way...Luv ya hun...:kk
He doesn't know that, by his actions, that he is not teaching me some great lesson about how good he is, or how much I am going to regret him leaving. He doesn't know that, by his actions, he is literally tearing me up inside. For him to do what he did, and then say what he said is beyond cruel. I am now a trainwreck at his mercy. The problem is, I think he knows this which is why he tortures me so with his mind games and crushing me at his whim.........my heart has been torn into shreds and he knows. He knows he is the one that has caused this and he is full of pride......he knows that it is only he who can send me into such emotional termoil.......and he does this at his leisure....for whatever reason.
IMaLady
05-20-2007, 03:02 PM
He doesn't know that, by his actions, that he is not teaching me some great lesson about how good he is, or how much I am going to regret him leaving. He doesn't know that, by his actions, he is literally tearing me up inside. For him to do what he did, and then say what he said is beyond cruel. I am now a trainwreck at his mercy. The problem is, I think he knows this which is why he tortures me so with his mind games and crushing me at his whim.........my heart has been torn into shreds and he knows. He knows he is the one that has caused this and he is full of pride......he knows that it is only he who can send me into such emotional termoil.......and he does this at his leisure....for whatever reason.
I dont know you yet but it seems that a lot here do and care about you very much. I hope that will give you some comfort. I hope life gets better for you very soon.
OICurready4me
05-20-2007, 09:09 PM
You think so?Is he the one to be blamed?Or you are to be blamed?If you don't give permission to him to make suffer,you will never suffer...Mighty..Try to to decide whether he is right...
Honestly, my friend Yaser, you have absolutely no idea what you are talking about with regards to the matter, sir. Please refrain from passing judgement on Mighty when you do not know, in the least bit, what her situation is. You could not be more wrong and that is all I can say. Thanks for showing concern.
MIGHTY
05-20-2007, 09:14 PM
Honestly, my friend Yaser, you have absolutely no idea what you are talking about with regards to the matter, sir. Please refrain from passing judgement on Mighty when you do not know, in the least bit, what her situation is. You could not be more wrong and that is all I can say. Thanks for showing concern.
Hun, he is not passing judgement. He has always been one to cause me to reflect on the issue at hand and dig deep for the answers.........he poses the q's because they have to be asked.:kk
likesbuttons
05-20-2007, 10:36 PM
Mighty, sorry hon.....use that Mighty to keep you going.....
musicmer
05-20-2007, 11:34 PM
She knows everything.........
scoobertina
05-21-2007, 12:16 AM
hmmm... I think that I am pretty open with my lover.. He should know everything
PlayfulMale69
05-21-2007, 02:32 AM
hmmm... I think that I am pretty open with my lover.. He should know everything
Does he even know about us? :D :kk
living to Flirt
05-21-2007, 02:36 AM
We haven't met yet!!!!
angelis
05-21-2007, 03:03 AM
We haven't met yet!!!!
Well I hope you meet soon living!!
living to Flirt
05-21-2007, 03:07 AM
Well I hope you meet soon living!!
Well I will work on it!
ErkLover
05-21-2007, 10:52 PM
how much i truly love her ^^
confusedman
05-23-2007, 11:22 AM
hmmm... I think that I am pretty open with my lover.. He should know everything
...and I know mine knows so much about me...:kk
unctarheel_32
05-23-2007, 06:11 PM
girl on girl is so kool that my girlfriend likes it that is a serious turn on 4 me
Outta
05-25-2007, 06:07 PM
My lover doesn't know how much she really needs to trust me; that what i say is the truth, and there is no reason to ever build a wall around herself because, even if I hurt her, I will always comfort her and hold her and make her know that she is the only one for me.
majorfun
05-25-2007, 10:58 PM
That I think about her all day at work and wish that I had internet access so I could cyber with her all day
Missy38
05-27-2007, 01:41 PM
There is one thing I like alot when it comes to sex but, he will shocked when he hears what it!!!!! It's A__LS_X!!
surfdude
05-27-2007, 01:51 PM
There is one thing I like alot when it comes to sex but, he will shocked when he hears what it!!!!! It's A__LS_X!!
I'd like to buy a vowel..
Give me an E
There is one thing I like alot when it comes to sex but, he will shocked when he hears what it!!!!! It's A__LS_X!!
.... Let him hear it, you maybe shocked to hear him say o yes please... ;)
scoobertina
05-27-2007, 02:02 PM
hmmmm he doesn't know just how bad I really am today.... or how bad I want to be...
confusedman
05-27-2007, 04:25 PM
hmmmm he doesn't know just how bad I really am today.... or how bad I want to be...
I think he might have....:kk
UltimateNaneki
05-27-2007, 05:20 PM
I'm a very caring and loving person that has needs and they need to be fulfilled!
scoobertina
05-27-2007, 05:21 PM
I'm a very caring and loving person that has needs and they need to be fulfilled!
Me too hon... and I hope all your needs are fulfilled..
unctarheel_32
05-27-2007, 05:50 PM
well baby if thats what u like thats what ill give u,with pleasure.u will cum like u have never came b 4:sex There is one thing I like alot when it comes to sex but, he will shocked when he hears what it!!!!! It's A__LS_X!!
confusedman
05-28-2007, 04:27 PM
How badly I want to take care of her every need...
she doesn't know i enjoy talking with all of u more than talking to her....
Missy38
05-28-2007, 08:40 PM
Who are you talking about, Wil??:sc she doesn't know i enjoy talking with all of u more than talking to her....
peaches
05-31-2007, 12:48 AM
how lonelu i really am, and have been for years
Who are you talking about, Wil??:sc
the woman i married....
scoobertina
05-31-2007, 01:18 AM
he doesn't know what he is in for....
yaser
05-31-2007, 01:20 AM
how lonelu i really am, and have been for years
Where was your mind?
yaser
05-31-2007, 01:21 AM
he doesn't know what he is in for....
Remind him..
scoobertina
05-31-2007, 01:22 AM
Remind him..
I think I might keep it a surprise for him.. He will enjoy that.
yaser
05-31-2007, 01:25 AM
I think I might keep it a surprise for him.. He will enjoy that.
You are a creative lady..You find a way..Put your pussy on his mouth..
peaches
05-31-2007, 06:35 AM
Where was your mind?
on that rock in your avatar.....spacing out and just thinking.,
baby face
05-31-2007, 07:30 AM
I cheated on him in college....we weren't married though but I no he would still be very pissed so I would rather him still no know....what happened in the past is over nothing I can do about it now....
scoobertina
08-13-2007, 11:32 PM
He doesn't know how much I would love to be closer to him... for those little moments in time that he can escape for a romp.....
AffableOne
08-13-2007, 11:36 PM
That she is fantabulous in her own right......and that I am just a mirror.
I don't think he realizes how very much I love him....
Andytyme
08-14-2007, 12:12 AM
That they are not my lover......yet
That I wish I had more time to get away to see them
whosdaflirt
08-14-2007, 07:50 AM
I don't she knows just how deep my love for her goes...
baby face
08-14-2007, 07:54 AM
That I think about a couple men on this site when we are having sex which makes me go so much faster!
unctarheel_32
08-14-2007, 08:11 AM
am I one baby please tell me?
scoobertina
08-14-2007, 08:51 AM
That I think about a couple men on this site when we are having sex which makes me go so much faster!
only a couple of them? hmmmmm....
Guymisseswife
08-14-2007, 09:24 AM
She does not know i am on this site.
onceamarine
08-14-2007, 10:13 AM
how much I fantasize about Baby Face, Scoobertina, and RedVixen.
MIGHTY
08-17-2007, 10:14 AM
...that I resent him more every day. Of course, he is not my lover anymore, so I don't even know if this applies........
boomer3
08-17-2007, 11:33 AM
she does not know that I have been chatting with another woman regularly. or talking on the phone either.
OICurready4me
08-17-2007, 01:03 PM
That in a few short weeks I will be meeting my special someone and not "in training" as I have told her.
SirFox
08-17-2007, 01:06 PM
That in a few short weeks I will be meeting my special someone and not "in training" as I have told her.
OIC.. I hear wedding bells... I do hope you are training for the encounter of the second kind, OIC?
Phlirt
08-17-2007, 01:27 PM
He knows everything at this point. Plan on it staying that way.
Guymisseswife
08-17-2007, 01:27 PM
He knows everything at this point. Plan on it staying that way.
:kk thank you :)
That I throw some of his underpants away!
Jezabella
08-17-2007, 01:35 PM
That I get lonely when he's away -- even if I don't act like I do...
yaser
08-17-2007, 02:19 PM
That I get lonely when he's away -- even if I don't act like I do...
eza, if you were my wife I would like you to be what you seem or seem as what you are...
yaser
08-17-2007, 02:19 PM
That I throw some of his underpants away!
Why,Jenny?
Guymisseswife
08-17-2007, 02:30 PM
that i have never been in the situation of someone else leaving me, i have always been the one to end things. that i am confused
scoobertina
08-17-2007, 02:31 PM
He doesn't know that I left my panties in his stuff... and umm... yeah...
Why,Jenny?
You don't want to know!! really...
scoobertina
08-17-2007, 02:55 PM
He doesn't know that my last post was a lie... :D
yaser
08-17-2007, 03:02 PM
You don't want to know!! really...
Nope...
yaser
08-17-2007, 03:03 PM
She doesn't know what I write here...or to whom?
Jezabella
08-17-2007, 03:18 PM
eza, if you were my wife I would like you to be what you seem or seem as what you are...
Ah, if only all men liked the vulnerable side of women like you seem to, Yas...
But many men scare easily, so I find a tough exterior works best and then I deal with my feelings on my own.
yaser
08-17-2007, 03:33 PM
Ah, if only all men liked the vulnerable side of women like you seem to, Yas...
But many men scare easily, so I find a tough exterior works best and then I deal with my feelings on my own.
Jeza, of course conditions detemine how you act..But I love transparent woman... like a glass..I must see her inside when I look at..
Jezabella
08-17-2007, 03:42 PM
Jeza, of course conditions detemine how you act..But I love transparent woman... like a glass..I must see her inside when I look at..
If I find I can trust a person, I'll let then in...there's no need to hide then. It's all about trust...and I don't mean the trust where I have to no everything someone is doing or thinking -- just the kind of trust that lets me know it's okay to show how I'm feeling...
Jezabella
08-17-2007, 03:42 PM
sorry for the typos in that one
yaser
08-17-2007, 03:45 PM
If I find I can trust a person, I'll let then in...there's no need to hide then. It's all about trust...and I don't mean the trust where I have to no everything someone is doing or thinking -- just the kind of trust that lets me know it's okay to show how I'm feeling...
Do you believe that there are many people to trust around only a few?
Jezabella
08-17-2007, 03:49 PM
Do you believe that there are many people to trust around only a few?
Once when I was walking to lunch with some of my colleagues, we were talking about trust -- whether some of us were trusting people or not, etc.
One of my male colleagues said, "I think *Jeza* will trust you until you give her a reason not to..."
And my female colleague said, "No, you're wrong -- *Jeza* won't trust you until you give her a reason to."
My female colleague was right on the mark :lf
yaser
08-17-2007, 03:52 PM
Once when I was walking to lunch with some of my colleagues, we were talking about trust -- whether some of us were trusting people or not, etc.
One of my male colleagues said, "I think *Jeza* will trust you until you give her a reason not to..."
And my female colleague said, "No, you're wrong -- *Jeza* won't trust you until you give her a reason to."
My female colleague was right on the mark :lf
I understand you hun..What is the value of trusting for you?Can you describe me a man you can trust?
Jezabella
08-17-2007, 03:57 PM
I understand you hun..What is the value of trusting for you?Can you describe me a man you can trust?
A man who is willing to be vulnerable and let me be as well...
A man whom I can talk to -- REALLY talk to -- about my deepest darkest fears, my hopes and dreams, my ugly thoughts, ALL that is me....
A man who, when asked to tell the truth, does so...
A man who is loyal -- and I don't mean the 'I will never cheat on her' loyalty -- but the kind of loyal where you know he's got your back at all times and he would never sell you out...
A man who challenges me to be a better me -- even if it's hard for me to hear and he knows it won't be easy to tell me what he's thinking...
There's a start.
yaser
08-17-2007, 04:01 PM
A man who is willing to be vulnerable and let me be as well...
A man whom I can talk to -- REALLY talk to -- about my deepest darkest fears, my hopes and dreams, my ugly thoughts, ALL that is me....
A man who, when asked to tell the truth, does so...
A man who is loyal -- and I don't mean the 'I will never cheat on her' loyalty -- but the kind of loyal where you know he's got your back at all times and he would never sell you out...
A man who challenges me to be a better me -- even if it's hard for me to hear and he knows it won't be easy to tell me what he's thinking...
There's a start.
Do you try to discover if a man has really has got these qualities..?Are you so patient?Am I trustable?How do you decide?
Jezabella
08-17-2007, 04:06 PM
Do you try to discover if a man has really has got these qualities..?Are you so patient?Am I trustable?How do you decide?
I'm EXTREMELY patient -- sometimes to a fault. I give people lots of opportunities to show me who they are. The other day some of us wrote back and forth about what I call the 'clean slate policy' -- giving people another chance (sometimes multiple chances) even when they mess up. Some people thought it was a *nice* idea but not so that you can be chewed up, spit out, and used over and over. That has happened to me, I'll admit. I don't always want to see the bad side in people -- I do want to believe there's a good side that will come out (even when it's hard to see at first). So yes, I'm very very patient.
If you show me yours, I'll show you mine...and the more give and take, the more trust that comes...
yaser
08-17-2007, 04:12 PM
I'm EXTREMELY patient -- sometimes to a fault. I give people lots of opportunities to show me who they are. The other day some of us wrote back and forth about what I call the 'clean slate policy' -- giving people another chance (sometimes multiple chances) even when they mess up. Some people thought it was a *nice* idea but not so that you can be chewed up, spit out, and used over and over. That has happened to me, I'll admit. I don't always want to see the bad side in people -- I do want to believe there's a good side that will come out (even when it's hard to see at first). So yes, I'm very very patient.
If you show me yours, I'll show you mine...and the more give and take, the more trust that comes...
Jeza,every lady is not a good partner to a man as every man is not a good partner to every lady..There must be a right match in between..But all must be assertive..Asssertiveness needs some courage and risk taking ability..I believe you have assertiveness potential..You seem trustful..
SirFox
08-17-2007, 05:04 PM
Once when I was walking to lunch with some of my colleagues, we were talking about trust -- whether some of us were trusting people or not, etc.
One of my male colleagues said, "I think *Jeza* will trust you until you give her a reason not to..."
And my female colleague said, "No, you're wrong -- *Jeza* won't trust you until you give her a reason to."
My female colleague was right on the mark :lf
JEZA: You don't think it is a matter of perception?
pointofnoreturn
08-17-2007, 05:07 PM
I want in his bed now....
SirFox
08-17-2007, 05:12 PM
I want in his bed now....
I am so glad that you have found someone, POINT.
Jezabella
08-17-2007, 05:14 PM
JEZA: You don't think it is a matter of perception?
I imagine it is to a certain extent...but there are some folks who are just plain trusting, you know? And they get surprised when they get jacked over. Then there are those who are skeptical for the most part, until someone proves themselves. So, I don't know how much those kinds of personalities are really perception. But maybe I misunderstood...
SirFox
08-17-2007, 05:20 PM
I imagine it is to a certain extent...but there are some folks who are just plain trusting, you know? And they get surprised when they get jacked over. Then there are those who are skeptical for the most part, until someone proves themselves. So, I don't know how much those kinds of personalities are really perception. But maybe I misunderstood...
Sorry, I was not at all clear, JEZA...
The trust issue---Does it not depend more on each individual man and woman rather than the generalisation of female versus male senses?
pointofnoreturn
08-17-2007, 05:22 PM
I am so glad that you have found someone, POINT. Some one???No no no someones...plural. no need to be tied to one???
pointofnoreturn
08-17-2007, 05:24 PM
If hubby and I do not get together soon, iw ill be looking for a lot of different flavors..
pointofnoreturn
08-17-2007, 05:25 PM
and yes I am a horny rampant woman, but I can be tamed.....maybe
onceamarine
08-17-2007, 05:33 PM
and yes I am a horny rampant woman, but I can be tamed.....maybe
wow, I'm a little afraid right now. Just a little, but I won't tell my wife that either.
onceamarine
08-17-2007, 05:34 PM
oh it says "lover", well, so many secrets, its hard to pick just one.
pointofnoreturn
08-17-2007, 05:37 PM
oh it says "lover", well, so many secrets, its hard to pick just one.You got that right cutie...Have we met???:wa: :dd If not we will soon. I need to get going.Damn spouses always popping up....:D
Jezabella
08-17-2007, 05:37 PM
Sorry, I was not at all clear, JEZA...
The trust issue---Does it not depend more on each individual man and woman rather than the generalisation of female versus male senses?
oh, absolutely, Fox! I don't really see any male or female generalizations when it comes to trust. It depends so much on one's upbringing, what kind of hardships (or lack thereof) the person has been through. It's VERY individual, I think.
And if I've counted right, thanks for being my 150th, Fox.
onceamarine
08-17-2007, 05:43 PM
You got that right cutie...Have we met???:wa: :dd If not we will soon. I need to get going.Damn spouses always popping up....:D
I'm not sure we have met on a formal basis, perhaps in passing on some random thread. I would say that I have been admiring for a little while though.
Micwar
08-17-2007, 08:20 PM
Once when I was walking to lunch with some of my colleagues, we were talking about trust -- whether some of us were trusting people or not, etc.
One of my male colleagues said, "I think *Jeza* will trust you until you give her a reason not to..."
And my female colleague said, "No, you're wrong -- *Jeza* won't trust you until you give her a reason to."
My female colleague was right on the mark :lf
I trust everybody I meet, I trust them till they prove me wrong, for once the trust is broken you can never be sure again. But then just because I trust you doesn't mean I'll give you the keys to my house, when I first meet ya.
Hello Jeza nice to meet ya
bryan3636
08-21-2007, 10:14 AM
Are you kidding? If I mentioned it then she'd know!
pointofnoreturn
08-21-2007, 09:07 PM
that he is going to be...
Micwar
08-21-2007, 09:16 PM
I had a penis reduction
My_Secrets_Kept
08-21-2007, 09:17 PM
that I am here on M&FC
scoobertina
08-21-2007, 09:18 PM
that she really does mean business...
Micwar
08-21-2007, 09:19 PM
that I am here on M&FC
Ahhh a naughty girl, whom needs a spanking for being naughty...
Andytyme
08-21-2007, 09:26 PM
That I have come too close these last two weeks to having an affair..
scoobertina
08-21-2007, 09:27 PM
That I have come too close these last two weeks to having an affair..
Man, I didn't know we were that close... ;)
Andytyme
08-21-2007, 09:30 PM
Man, I didn't know we were that close... ;)
My lover also doesn't know that I have had many affairs with Scoob in my dreams...
scoobertina
08-21-2007, 09:32 PM
My lover also doesn't know that I have had many affairs with Scoob in my dreams...
My lover doesn't know I have the hots for Andy...
Andytyme
08-21-2007, 09:39 PM
My lover doesn't know I have the hots for Andy...
And Scoob does not know that she just made me post on the "Last time...." thread...
scoobertina
08-21-2007, 09:48 PM
And Scoob does not know that she just made me post on the "Last time...." thread...
and Andy doesn't know that he has a lot of catching up to do..
whosdaflirt
08-21-2007, 10:08 PM
Just what exactly it is I have in mind...
Andytyme
08-26-2007, 03:39 AM
and Andy doesn't know that he has a lot of catching up to do..
I think I am caught up..
AffableOne
08-26-2007, 09:02 AM
Things I want my lover to know ...
I don't have a habit if snoring
I don't "help" with housework, I "share" housework...since it is our house
I don't have a tendency to yell
I don't expect you to serve me
I don't chew food with my mouth open
I don't 'tune-out' your concerns
I don't enjoy entertainment or hobbies more than I enjoy you
TheTurtle
08-26-2007, 02:25 PM
I had a penis reduction
:lmao No, seriously?
First time I ever heard of a guy getting that...:sc :eek:
Pink4You
08-26-2007, 02:28 PM
That I am on this site looking for someone to flirt with. Maybe someone close to me.
cherokeered
08-26-2007, 02:35 PM
that I possibly know more about him than perhaps he knows.....
scoobertina
08-26-2007, 02:48 PM
He doesn't know that I think about him all the time.. except when I talk to someone who can take my mind off of him..
Andytyme
08-26-2007, 03:54 PM
I don't have a lover right now, I have a spouse.. So, hmmm. don't think I am qualified to post..
My_Secrets_Kept
08-26-2007, 04:05 PM
I don't have a lover right now, I have a spouse.. So, hmmm. don't think I am qualified to post..
Andy, even though you two aren't together right now, she's still your wife and therefor your lover... so ummm why aren't you qualified to post here?
:kk
Andytyme
08-26-2007, 04:25 PM
Andy, even though you two aren't together right now, she's still your wife and therefor your lover... so ummm why aren't you qualified to post here?
:kk
Secrets, she may be my wife, but it has been a LONG time since she was my lover. Almost 5 months and I don't see where that is going to change any time soon..
But, I could think of you as my lover.. then I would say "my lover dosnt know that she is my lover"..:kk
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