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Zpanther
03-04-2006, 02:22 PM
Do you think the time you spend on this site has an affect on your marriage or relationship?
Positive? Negative? ... or neutral
I'd have to say it's pretty much neutral for me..... leaning toward the positive.
Sandy
03-04-2006, 02:52 PM
well z its good for us. its helped us out really, we've made quite a few friends. and its helped us out as a couple also.
G...G
03-04-2006, 03:34 PM
It has definately helped mine out!! Learned lots of new stuff.
Penny
03-04-2006, 05:14 PM
I hope it helps :)
Sandy
03-06-2006, 11:19 PM
yes penny it has, thank you :kk
I hope it helps :)
cuddles
03-06-2006, 11:22 PM
well it sure helps me alot it lets me know im not alone here and i like talking to everyone here and it helps me to feel better thank you so much penny:kk
Sandy
03-06-2006, 11:23 PM
its nice to know, you have somebody to listen to you,
Newenglandman
03-10-2006, 06:39 PM
Has done nothing for mine, not that I expected it to..... But it is a fun place to visit!
Wyvern75
03-10-2006, 07:04 PM
In most cases this site helps. You learn new things, or get new perspectives. It also allows you to vent a bit, especially if your SO doesn't visit here.
There is also more here than just sex. So it is a bit of a community of friends or like minded individuals. Now if we all gathered somewhere like Penny's kitchen and drank coffee and ate cinnamon rolls and perhaps did a little touchy feely, then things might get out of hand.
Sunfiresix
03-10-2006, 07:07 PM
For me it is a good thing, I have developed friends and have be perked up quite often by them. It is a good thing.
The site has been good for us....however, it has made me cut it close getting to work on time in the morning. I just have to check the messages before I start my day :D
Sunfiresix
03-10-2006, 08:20 PM
I wish I could read them in the AM too--but I get up so early I don't leave time to do this, I would be late for work constantly.
Sandy
03-10-2006, 08:28 PM
lol thats me to mc, marks always complaining. :D
The site has been good for us....however, it has made me cut it close getting to work on time in the morning. I just have to check the messages before I start my day :D
Newenglandman
03-10-2006, 08:50 PM
Amazing how this site attracts you back.... Time to stop and smell the roses so to say.... making us late for work!!!!
Sexylady06
03-10-2006, 11:27 PM
My husband mentioned something about me chatting the other night but .... at least I am not cheating on him. At this point, I don't care what he thinks... It's good to have people to talk to. Anyway, that is all he has said so... no it hasn't affected our marriage.
Do you think the time you spend on this site has an affect on your marriage or relationship?
Positive? Negative? ... or neutral
I'd have to say it's pretty much neutral for me..... leaning toward the positive.
woody9340
03-11-2006, 12:26 AM
Wife doesn't care how long I chat or not chat.
husavik
03-11-2006, 08:32 AM
Overall i would have to say it has helped.
This site has definitely had an affect on my marriage and to be honest my overall life as well. Before I found this place I was unmotivated and bored with life in general and since I have been on here I have straightened my life out, realized that you can only make yourself happy and that a person just needs to take care of themselves sometimes. I have met some incredible people here (most of which are women) but that is the one the one area I needed to fill the void where my wife doent want to fill. I enjoy being on this site and it has changed my life for the better.
G...G
03-11-2006, 05:26 PM
I agree with you chdrake!!!! It has changed mine too.
Waltert
03-11-2006, 05:29 PM
Any place you can make good friends is good for you and then is good for other relationships.
You have to love yourself before you can love others, and good friends help you feel good about yourself.
Sandy
03-11-2006, 05:30 PM
thats very true waltert.
Sunfiresix
03-11-2006, 05:34 PM
I know that being here has helped me, good friends boost your moral and also all kidding aside there is some rather well informed people here that give you new and different(and sometimes really different) insights to things. All around it is good I think.
Sandy
03-11-2006, 05:36 PM
i agree with you sun, its all good and fun.
Wet Beaver
03-11-2006, 05:36 PM
I know that being here has helped me, good friends boost your moral and also all kidding aside there is some rather well informed people here that give you new and different(and sometimes really different) insights to things. All around it is good I think.
what did tiger tell ya now??:na
Sunfiresix
03-11-2006, 05:43 PM
Anything and everything Tiger says ya gotta take with a grain of salt and two shots of tequilla..... ;)
Wet Beaver
03-11-2006, 05:45 PM
Anything and everything Tiger says ya gotta take with a grain of salt and two shots of tequilla..... ;)
so you haven't done a roo yet??:D
Sunfiresix
03-11-2006, 05:49 PM
Haven't had enough to drink to go that far my Dear...
Wet Beaver
03-11-2006, 05:55 PM
Haven't had enough to drink to go that far my Dear...
smart...i hear they kick real hard.....:na
I am glad to have such a beautiful woman agree with me! And its so much fun to come here and express myself and be able to tell beautiful women like georgiacountrygirl my feelings it helps stimulate the mind and body!:55
I agree with you chdrake!!!! It has changed mine too.
letterman01
02-26-2007, 04:36 PM
Why not, as long as you do it together and not hide it.
CuriousGeorge
02-26-2007, 04:47 PM
Both good and bad, as anything can be, depending on how you use it. This site is a wonderful place to develop friendships. If a couple is open and honest about what goes on here, it can really have a positive affect on their relationship. When it has a bad affect, it isn't the site that is to blame, but the secrets and lies that are told.
Reminds me of that saying - "Guns don't kill people, people do." Might be a stretch to apply it here. But you can't blame the site for trouble in your marriage.
Both good and bad, as anything can be, depending on how you use it. This site is a wonderful place to develop friendships. If a couple is open and honest about what goes on here, it can really have a positive affect on their relationship. When it has a bad affect, it isn't the site that is to blame, but the secrets and lies that are told.
Reminds me of that saying - "Guns don't kill people, people do." Might be a stretch to apply it here. But you can't blame the site for trouble in your marriage.
Excellent post CuriousGeorge.
I enjoy this site immensely, the escapism while I sit and relax at night, normally with the TV on! I admire the candid and honest posts and often find myself agreeing with them. So yes it has given me a rare and important insight into relationships, and actually as a result I have come to realise that life isn't always greener on the other side but its nice to dip your toes in now and again... :)
Excellent post CuriousGeorge.
I enjoy this site immensely, the escapism while I sit and relax at night, normally with the TV on! I admire the candid and honest posts and often find myself agreeing with them. So yes it has given me a rare and important insight into relationships, and actually as a result I have come to realise that life isn't always greener on the other side but its nice to dip your toes in now and again... :)
Careful...that's 'ow yer lost yer two toenails !! :D
Annie
02-26-2007, 05:34 PM
Both good and bad, as anything can be, depending on how you use it. This site is a wonderful place to develop friendships. If a couple is open and honest about what goes on here, it can really have a positive affect on their relationship. When it has a bad affect, it isn't the site that is to blame, but the secrets and lies that are told.
Reminds me of that saying - "Guns don't kill people, people do." Might be a stretch to apply it here. But you can't blame the site for trouble in your marriage.Excellent point!
Careful...that's 'ow yer lost yer two toenails !! :D
mmmm! are you following me Rhumba?? :sc
mmmm! are you following me Rhumba?? :sc
God you are such a dreamer!!! lol lol NO!! :D
pointofnoreturn
02-26-2007, 08:18 PM
this site has helped me a lot. Gives me something to look forward to after work. Used to just watch tv and veg. Now I veg at the computer, and I think I have made some good friends here.
Newenglandman
02-26-2007, 08:32 PM
It is a great place, I get to come in from time to time, depending on work and I have found this to be a pretty comfortable, friendly site.
cherokeered
02-26-2007, 08:34 PM
I suppose like anything it depends............
Cotties
02-26-2007, 08:57 PM
like on which relationship;) I suppose like anything it depends............
cherokeered
02-26-2007, 09:08 PM
like on which relationship;)
Yeh.........;)
pointofnoreturn
02-26-2007, 09:37 PM
Has done nothing for mine, not that I expected it to..... But it is a fun place to visit!It is very addictive also....:wa:
Pebbles
02-27-2007, 06:34 AM
I can see the addictive side of this website. I am enjoying it. I am learning I can be as naughty as I want. Love that!!!
peaches
03-02-2007, 12:19 AM
NO!!!...but It's great for my sanity.....rock on good people
Flirtalicious
03-03-2007, 11:45 PM
Not sure if its good or bad for my relationship, but it's very good for my soul..... ;)
Newenglandman
03-03-2007, 11:45 PM
Not sure if its good or bad for my relationship, but it's very good for my soul..... ;)
It is good, isn't it??
MIGHTY
03-04-2007, 11:09 AM
It is definitely good for my husband. Being on the site and knowing that someone can relate to the insanity has saved him a good ass chewing many a times.....so I am sure he is grateful....although he may not even realize it.....
OICurready4me
03-04-2007, 11:16 AM
It is definitely good for my husband. Being on the site and knowing that someone can relate to the insanity has saved him a good ass chewing many a times.....so I am sure he is grateful....although he may not even realize it.....
I love it!
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