New Members Are Now being Moderated

[Penny]

Because of all the spam we have been getting new members will have to be approved now for a while, If u know someone that is signing up let us know so we can get them done faster


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An added note! (so it doesn't get lost in the thread)

Because of spammers and imposters going into the chatroom, unmoderated new registrations are being stopped from entering the chatroom! (well trying to stop all)
Some newbies' accounts, for some reason even after being moderated, are stuck without me knowing, so if anyone is in contact with anyone who for some reason has an account which is stuck and is unable to enter the chatroom again, please ask them to contact me (Lena) at..
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com
This is the reason why those newbies who have been able to go into the chatroom before now thinks they have been banned from there!
I am sorry in advance if I sometimes accidently let a spammer through, but sometimes it isn't clear that they are, and have to take a chance!
Thank you all for your patience and help!
Lena

[1sxymama]

thank you Penny

[Lena]

If you do have a friend joining could you email their username over to
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com
Thank you.

[Heart]

thanks penny!

[Kissie]

WOW...that seems like alot of work for you guys...but thank you!!!!

[angelis]

Great idea Penny!! Thank You!!

[WandaRing]

Thanks penny and mods, I know it's a lot more work for all of you but at least we'll limit the spam!

[fever]

I can only imagine how much more work that will be, but THANK YOU!!!!

[Krystal]

Thanks you guys....keep up the great work!

[Lena]

WOW...that seems like alot of work for you guys...but thank you!!!!
Will be ok! :))):
Hopefully I get to see them all first, before they get to spread onto the forums!
Better then having to chase them all over the place!
Just hope no one slips by!! :nu

[Sensual Woman]

That is a great idea...I know it is a lot of work, but THANK YOU!

[stellabelle]

You Mod's totally rock!

[PABrewpubGuy]

Thank you Penny! You go above and beyond every time, you are awesome!

[Kissie]

Will be ok! :))):
Hopefully I get to see them all first, before they get to spread onto the forums!
Better then having to chase them all over the place!
Just hope no one slips by!! :nu


Well if they get by you I have the bat.....:nu they wont get by us both!!!!!!
But seriously....thank you for all that you all do to keep this place a fun place to be!!!!!

[dixiechiknga]

Thanks Lena it seems to be working quite well!

[Shawn_N_Sandiego]

Because of all the spam we have been getting new members will have to be approved now for a while, If u know someone that is signing up let us know so we can get them done faster

That guy selling the penis enlarger is my friend... especially if that thing works... 3 easy payments of $59.99 and she will be calling me Big Daddy!

[jmsmith12345]

That guy selling the penis enlarger is my friend... especially if that thing works... 3 easy payments of $59.99 and she will be calling me Big Daddy!

Shawn, it was 3 easy payments of $599.99. I only accept money orders via certified mail.

[tiger50]

Will be ok! :))):
Hopefully I get to see them all first, before they get to spread onto the forums!
Better then having to chase them all over the place!
Just hope no one slips by!! :nu
thanks guys.. we needed to change something... seemed all i was doin on site was killin spam... and yeh things are better now... and hey if the odd one slips through its ok.. we can deal with it.. i remeber one time, both me an cotties on site, the spam was croppin up faster than both of us cud deal with it... we did in the end..

[Dragon_lady]

Thank you... it will be work, but Tiger seemed to have a lot of work deleting their posts too!

[tiger50]

Thank you... it will be work, but Tiger seemed to have a lot of work deleting their posts too!

thanks dragon... lol i happen to be on site during US prime time... and yeh copped it a bit... there were times i didnt wanna come on site and deal with it. but hey we do what we gotta do....

[MrHyde]

Thanks for sacrificing your time to make this a spam free environment.

[Lena]

Well if they get by you I have the bat.....:nu they wont get by us both!!!!!!
But seriously....thank you for all that you all do to keep this place a fun place to be!!!!!
Just watch that window there, it doesn't close properly!

[Lena]

thanks guys.. we needed to change something... seemed all i was doin on site was killin spam... and yeh things are better now... and hey if the odd one slips through its ok.. we can deal with it.. i remeber one time, both me an cotties on site, the spam was croppin up faster than both of us cud deal with it... we did in the end..
Yes, they went on and on 24 hours every day!!!
There are afew registrations from before which spammed after we started this!
I will do my best to go through them properly and not let too many slip by!
Bear with me, thanks!

[Kissie]

Yes, they went on and on 24 hours every day!!!
There are afew registrations from before which spammed after we started this!
I will do my best to go through them properly and not let too many slip by!
Bear with me, thanks!



We will always bear with you..my dear....

[Shawn_N_Sandiego]

Yes, they went on and on 24 hours every day!!!
There are afew registrations from before which spammed after we started this!
I will do my best to go through them properly and not let too many slip by!
Bear with me, thanks!

Lean you rock, in the mod sense I mean.. the other I would only imagine:ok

[Lena]

Lean you rock, in the mod sense I mean.. the other I would only imagine:ok
And I just know your imagination works just fine!!

Thank you!

[crow_worc]

thank you Penny. A newbie here myself. Glad I got in under the wire.

[OnceAKing]

If you do have a friend joining could you email their username over to
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com
Thank you.

If I just had a friend, I'd sure 'nuff do it Lena...by the way...Howdy from Texas!

[cyclops]

http://www.geekzone.co.nz/images/blog/moderating.jpg

Thank you to all the mods :ok

[Sensual Woman]

http://www.geekzone.co.nz/images/blog/moderating.jpg

Thank you to all the mods :ok

Now Cyclops, how'd you manage to get a picture of Tiger? :D

[dewger]

how do u get access to certin pages and members pics

[Lena]

how do u get access to certin pages and members pics
When you have 150 posts you will have more access and will be able to see some of the pics!
http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6352

[Lena]

If I just had a friend, I'd sure 'nuff do it Lena...by the way...Howdy from Texas!
Thanks!
Hello to you in Texas!!

[TIGUY]

Be glad to help with the ones who slip by cutie......

Will be ok! :))):
Hopefully I get to see them all first, before they get to spread onto the forums!
Better then having to chase them all over the place!
Just hope no one slips by!! :nu

[Lena]

Be glad to help with the ones who slip by cutie......
Thanks!
Watch them squeeze through!!

[kay1965]

Thanks to you Penny and all the mods for taking the time to do this !!!!!!!!!!!!!

[JonJon62]

Thank you all !! What exactly do you consider SPAM ?
Posting too much too quickly and overwhelming the threads?
I've worried that I may have done that in the past, but have always tried to post things that were at least intelligent and on topic ...

Feel free to use the bat on me if needed ... ;)

[OnceAKing]

Thank you all !! What exactly do you consider SPAM ?
Posting too much too quickly and overwhelming the threads?
I've worried that I may have done that in the past, but have always tried to post things that were at least intelligent and on topic ...

Feel free to use the bat on me if needed ... ;)

I'm sure you'll get a more definitive answer but you and you're posts are not even close to being spam so stop worrying about that and post away.

[Lena]

Thank you all !! What exactly do you consider SPAM ?
Posting too much too quickly and overwhelming the threads?
I've worried that I may have done that in the past, but have always tried to post things that were at least intelligent and on topic ...

Feel free to use the bat on me if needed ... ;)
Nah, unless you have been selling something or trying to get money, somehow, from our members!!
(So what have you been selling?? Huh??)

But not sure if you will think the bat is real punishment!!

[JonJon62]

Nah, unless you have been selling something or trying to get money, somehow, from our members!!
(So what have you been selling?? Huh??)

But not sure if you will think the bat is real punishment!!

Well been trying to sell myself ... tried lowering the price many times ... but no takers yet ... :( Maybe I need to upgrade the model??

And the bat ... depends on who's yielding said instrument ... ;)

[Lena]

Well been trying to sell myself ... tried lowering the price many times ... but no takers yet ... :( Maybe I need to upgrade the model??

And the bat ... depends on who's yielding said instrument ... ;)
Was that you I just moderated??
YieldingGuyNeeds??
Sorry, thought you were a spammer, so deleted you!!

Here, have some nice brownies and don't work too much!!
Not good for the brains!!

[FizProf]

It's a sad sad world when even M&F gets penetrated by spam...
Thanks for your efforts for keeping this place spam-free

[JonJon62]

Was that you I just moderated??
YieldingGuyNeeds??
Sorry, thought you were a spammer, so deleted you!!

Here, have some nice brownies and don't work too much!!
Not good for the brains!!

I've been deleted??? AHHHHHHH ..... ;) Nope wasn't me!! I'm not a yieldingGuy ... well have needs ... but .... well ...

Really we do thank you for all that you do!! And even bake too!! :wy

I'm gonna have to figure out how to help out some ... need some good Cisco equipment ?? Get it for you at employee discount ... ;)

[Lena]

I've been deleted??? AHHHHHHH ..... ;) Nope wasn't me!! I'm not a yieldingGuy ... well have needs ... but .... well ...

Really we do thank you for all that you do!! And even bake too!! :wy

I'm gonna have to figure out how to help out some ... need some good Cisco equipment ?? Get it for you at employee discount ... ;)
Well, going to have to lock the doors on you now!! You bad spammer!!

But really, thank you for being understanding and supportive!

[Lena]

It's a sad sad world when even M&F gets penetrated by spam...
Thanks for your efforts for keeping this place spam-free
Yes it is!
Not just a handful, but a few football stadiums!!

[pagirl]

That is a great idea! I know everyone has already said it but it can't be said enough, you guys/gals ROCK!!! You are all Awesome and I am grateful to be a part of your community!!!

[LuckyJest]

...in Lena's Punishment Room? Is this service available?

[Lena]

...in Lena's Punishment Room? Is this service available?
Well we will see how you fill that form up!
Hi there Jest!! Nice to see you!!

[LuckyJest]

...in Lena's Punishment Room? Is this service available?

[Lena]

Yes but getting full in there!!

[Atrebla Rose]

WHOO HOOOO Lady Lena queen of the whip and chains

Hi everyone,,,its a hump day,,,,enjoy!

[Lena]

WHOO HOOOO Lady Lena queen of the whip and chains

Hi everyone,,,its a hump day,,,,enjoy!
Hello there AtreblaRose!!
shhhh..... don't shout that too loud!!

[learman3]

I am glad to hear there was a solution to the spamming.

Sorry it makes more work for the mods, but I am sure handling all of the spam was no easy task either.

You are all to be commended for your hard work. I for one thank you very much.

[LuckyJest]

Hello there AtreblaRose!!
shhhh..... don't shout that too loud!!
WHOOHOO!!!

[jmsmith12345]

I am sure glad I got in here before they started moderating. I may have been escorted out through the kitchen, if you know what I mean.

[MCat]

I am sure glad I got in here before they started moderating. I may have been escorted out through the kitchen, if you know what I mean.


Woo Hoo.....you could have tasted all the treats on your way through. :lf

[OnceAKing]

I wish ya'll would lighten up a bit...I'm needing to make some cash for airfare, Christmas and it's about time to pay child support again...can't an honest spammer get a break any more?

[Lena]

You are so loud Jest!!
WHOOHOO!!![/
There! That's better!!:D

I wish ya'll would lighten up a bit...I'm needing to make some cash for airfare, Christmas and it's about time to pay child support again...can't an honest spammer get a break any more?
Honest?? hmmm.... let me think about that one!!:sc

[jmsmith12345]

Woo Hoo.....you could have tasted all the treats on your way through. :lf

Do I detect a hint of sexual innuendo in that statement? :D

[MCat]

Do I detect a hint of sexual innuendo in that statement? :D

Not from me....No sir....I was talking about the cookies of course.

[jmsmith12345]

Not from me....No sir....I was talking about the cookies of course.

Hmmmmmmmmm...cookies...no sexual innuendo there either. Out of respect to OAK, I will refrain from all Oreo Double Stuff references...oops, sorry OAK.

[superman37]

WHOO HOOOO Lady Lena queen of the whip and chains

Hi everyone,,,its a hump day,,,,enjoy!

I seem to have missed out on this wonderful day, hopefully next year I will be informed.

[Goliad02]

I've been on many chats, but this one keeps showing up with my e-mail notices coming under "spam" from this site. I haven't been approved for days as far as any privileges, but also understand I need to make 150 posts to get that.
My question is, why such a long wait, and why is this coming to me as "spam"?? It's no big deal as I can get into the chat at least. but wonder why your site is seen as spam?

[Lena]

I've been on many chats, but this one keeps showing up with my e-mail notices coming under "spam" from this site. I haven't been approved for days as far as any privileges, but also understand I need to make 150 posts to get that.
My question is, why such a long wait, and why is this coming to me as "spam"?? It's no big deal as I can get into the chat at least. but wonder why your site is seen as spam?
You have been approved otherwise you wouldn't be able to post this!
It is probably because you haven't marked us as safe or put the address the email comes with in your contacts or move it out of spam into the inbox!
Think anyone of those will take it off the list!

[Goliad02]

Thank you for the info, lena.

[Xanadu7]

Because of all the spam we have been getting new members will have to be approved now for a while, If u know someone that is signing up let us know so we can get them done faster

Penny, where'd you get that HOT avatar?

Isn't she a model????

[sudsy552000]

Because of all the spam we have been getting new members will have to be approved now for a while, If u know someone that is signing up let us know so we can get them done faster
Penny,
Will the newbie be moderated above or below the waist and will a skilled physician be on hand for this moderated process. :yks

[lukka]

Found that out, but happy to be here!!!

[Lena]

Found that out, but happy to be here!!!
Sorry if it took you a little while to get in here, nice to see you!

[Sunfiresix]

I want Lena to moderate me....please ..please

[Lena]

I want Lena to moderate me....please ..please
Make your way to the Blue room!

[dixiechiknga]

Lots of newbies that chat in the lounge are leaving their age off their profile....scary!!

[OU812]

can i pick my Moderator?

[fever]

Lots of newbies that chat in the lounge are leaving their age off their profile....scary!!

I was in with a few who don't have profiles at all. Is that something that gets delayed while they are being approved??? If not, how does it happen?

Thanks!

[Lena]

Lots of newbies that chat in the lounge are leaving their age off their profile....scary!!
Let me know which ones!

[Lena]

I was in with a few who don't have profiles at all. Is that something that gets delayed while they are being approved??? If not, how does it happen?

Thanks!
Could be!
But they are all up to date right now!
Can you remember which ones they were?

[redcat]

Could be!
But they are all up to date right now!
Can you remember which ones they were?


Lena, seems every newbie that goes into the chat room...if you click on their profile you get a message that says you do't have permission to access, etc.

[Lena]

Lena, seems every newbie that goes into the chat room...if you click on their profile you get a message that says you do't have permission to access, etc.
I'll try and remember to keep a look out on newbies in there!
The ones in there seems to be ok right now!
But if you catch any just let me know.
Thank you!

[Xanadu7]

who you callin a newbie?

[Lena]

who you callin a newbie?
Think we can safely say after nearly a year, not you!!

[dashslow]

this site's "membership activation" email went stray to my junk mail, so I did look for it for 4 days. This is post number one, but probably the 20th thread i've read. I was wondering why this place requires so much "homework," so it is ironic that this tread is where i get my answer. I was beginning to think that paranoia was rampant here when i was lock out of everything but the room. I sure hope it is worth the work.

[Lena]

this site's "membership activation" email went stray to my junk mail, so I did look for it for 4 days. This is post number one, but probably the 20th thread i've read. I was wondering why this place requires so much "homework," so it is ironic that this tread is where i get my answer. I was beginning to think that paranoia was rampant here when i was lock out of everything but the room. I sure hope it is worth the work.
Welcome Dashslow!!
I hope you will find it was worth all your effort!
Now you have found your way in, hope this is your first of many posts we get to read!!
Enjoy your stay with us!

[dashslow]

Welcome Dashslow!!
I hope you will find it was worth all your effort!
Now you have found your way in, hope this is your first of many posts we get to read!!
Enjoy your stay with us!

Wow, that was fast

[Lena]

Wow, that was fast
Hope you are smiling now!

[jmsmith12345]

Wow, that was fast

You aren't supposed to say that about the webmistress...you say, thanks, that was the best quickie I ever had.

[dashslow]

yes, thank you m'lady. I'm off to another tread

[Lena]

You aren't supposed to say that about the webmistress...you say, thanks, that was the best quickie I ever had.
ooohhh there is a man with the know how of words!! :gs

[jmsmith12345]

ooohhh there is a man with the know how of words!! :gs

I am but a humble servant with a gift for oral things.

[magscribe]

The moderation process seemed to go well and swiftly. No complaints from here. With the lovely advent of forum spam, you almost have to moderate signups now...not to mention how the way things are here, you need to slow down the process to keep out people who might be trouble.

Besides me, that is. Kudos for a well-run site.

[Lena]

I am but a humble servant with a gift for oral things.
And I just know you are very good with this gift!!
(I won't ask you for a list, right now!)

[jmsmith12345]

And I just know you are very good with this gift!!
(I won't ask you for a list, right now!)

a list of what??? references? I don't kiss and tell...usually.

[Lena]

The moderation process seemed to go well and swiftly. No complaints from here. With the lovely advent of forum spam, you almost have to moderate signups now...not to mention how the way things are here, you need to slow down the process to keep out people who might be trouble.

Besides me, that is. Kudos for a well-run site.
Well you are a most welcome addition to our little place!
Thank you!

[Lena]

a list of what??? references? I don't kiss and tell...usually.
Usually? That must mean you do sometimes!! Does it? hmm..?

[fever]

Could be!
But they are all up to date right now!
Can you remember which ones they were?

I don't remember, but I'll pay closer attention next time! Was inundated that particular night. But I do know that when I clicked to see their profile i got nuttin'. We'll see what happens....thanks, as always!

[Lena]

I don't remember, but I'll pay closer attention next time! Was inundated that particular night. But I do know that when I clicked to see their profile i got nuttin'. We'll see what happens....thanks, as always!
Thank you for helping out!

[Kissie]

I know that moderating the newbies must be alot of work...but you knwo...I think it is working all around the site!!!
Thanks for all your hard work everyone!!!!

[Lena]

Because of spammers and imposters going into the chatroom, unmoderated new registrations are being stopped from entering the chatroom! (well trying to stop all)
Some newbies' accounts, for some reason even after being moderated, are stuck without me knowing, so if anyone is in contact with anyone who for some reason has an account which is stuck and is unable to enter the chatroom again, please ask them to contact me at..
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com
This is the reason why those newbies who have been able to go into the chatroom before now thinks they have been banned from there!
I am sorry in advance if I sometimes accidently let a spammer through, but sometimes it isn't clear that they are, and have to take a chance!
Thank you all for your patience and help!

[desertbear7]

thank you so much penny it makes this site so much better than others.

[fredflintstone]

oh, yeah. i can post now. thanks lena. time to look around the site!

[Divot]

Thanks for letting me in.

[mkbtpz]

Please check what is going on with MissLady. She signed up the other day and she did not receive confirmation email. and she got message that she was banned. She is my friend, please see what you can do ..Thanks!!!

mkbtpz

[Lena]

Please check what is going on with MissLady. She signed up the other day and she did not receive confirmation email. and she got message that she was banned. She is my friend, please see what you can do ..Thanks!!!

mkbtpz
She hadn't activated the account with the email which was sent to her.
But I have adjusted her account so now she will be able to come in here.

[Han Solo]

There's a few old members I'd like Moderated....can I provide you with a list of names along with topics I will not allow them to post?? :ok

[Lena]

Are you putting you in the list too?

[Eagleton]

Moderation is good in most things!

[Han Solo]

Are you putting you in the list too?
Of course not! Why would I???? :la

[Lena]

Of course not! Why would I???? :la
hmmm.....oooh think your halo is slipping off there!!

[Han Solo]

hmmm.....oooh think your halo is slipping off there!!
Hey....I just made a simple request.....let's not turn this around on me :confused: Tell ya what...I'll keep an eye out for them and correct them myself when I catch them thinking wrong or making incorrect posts...............

in other words...I'll just keep performing my usual behavioral service here :)

[FeIsTy FaV]

Hey....I just made a simple request.....let's not turn this around on me :confused: Tell ya what...I'll keep an eye out for them and correct them myself when I catch them thinking wrong or making incorrect posts...............

in other words...I'll just keep performing my usual behavioral service here :)

OMG STOP SUCKING UP!

[Han Solo]

OMG STOP SUCKING UP!

Well if you would read carefully I was actually busting on myself there ;)

[FeIsTy FaV]

if it quacks........

Well if you would read carefully I was actually busting on myself there ;)

[curiousnate98]

Because of all the spam we have been getting new members will have to be approved now for a while, If u know someone that is signing up let us know so we can get them done faster


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An added note! (so it doesn't get lost in the thread)

Because of spammers and imposters going into the chatroom, unmoderated new registrations are being stopped from entering the chatroom! (well trying to stop all)
Some newbies' accounts, for some reason even after being moderated, are stuck without me knowing, so if anyone is in contact with anyone who for some reason has an account which is stuck and is unable to enter the chatroom again, please ask them to contact me at..
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com
This is the reason why those newbies who have been able to go into the chatroom before now thinks they have been banned from there!
I am sorry in advance if I sometimes accidently let a spammer through, but sometimes it isn't clear that they are, and have to take a chance!
Thank you all for your patience and help!
Lena


Thank you.

[MuchachitaSpice]

my friend signed up as dancinspicylatina yesterday and is not able to come into anything... could you please help... thanks...

[Brak_45]

Thanks Penny

[Lena]

my friend signed up as dancinspicylatina yesterday and is not able to come into anything... could you please help... thanks...
Her account has been adjusted, she will be able to come in properly now.

[TheLifeGuard(m)]

Thanks for the spam moderation :) I just signed up but things seem to be ok to me!

[Musing64]

Great idea!

[DURANGOOD]

THANKS PENNY KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK, YOU ARE A TRUE LEADER BY KEEPING IT SAFE FOR EVERYONE:ok

[JackofTrades103]

Lena, thanks for helping me out with my login problem. I guess I shouldn't have been gone so long. I'm looking forward to hanging around and making new friends. Again thanks for the help.

[Lena]

Lena, thanks for helping me out with my login problem. I guess I shouldn't have been gone so long. I'm looking forward to hanging around and making new friends. Again thanks for the help.
Good to see that you have made your way back in here!
Hope to see you in here ......often!

[hazeleyes5]

Lena....i need your help too.......help me lena...get me out of the river....please?

[bostonbizbiz]

my god this is soooooooooooo "1982"

Live Free or SPAM !!!

only kidding good job !!!!!

[Lena]

Lena....i need your help too.......help me lena...get me out of the river....please?
hmmm......stop thinking "sexy river"! And start thinking cold freezing winter!!

[hazeleyes5]

its not cold here....so how do i think freezing?....

[Lena]

You will when you get a big bucket of ice or you will just be pulled out of there!

[hazeleyes5]

are you pulling?...or holding the ice to dump on me?

[Lena]

Might be both!

[hazeleyes5]

thought so...just for that no kiss for you...