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Norfolkdave
11-09-2006, 03:49 AM
you and Dave I guess....you both are on the wild side:D

"Wild me" ! Yep The badlands of Norfolk call now and again, and in the mist you can just make out a figure shrouded wearing a pink tu tu:lmao :lmao sas fot Tiger where is he!:D

Cotties
11-09-2006, 04:00 AM
I still think he's in his tennis skirt prancing around the house"Wild me" ! Yep The badlands of Norfolk call now and again, and in the mist you can just make out a figure shrouded wearing a pink tu tu:lmao :lmao sas fot Tiger where is he!:D

Norfolkdave
11-09-2006, 04:06 AM
I still think he's in his tennis skirt prancing around the house

"Who me" I dont like Tennis and a skirt, hell man dont go with hairylegs does it,and an overated truncheon:lmao :lmao

tiger50
11-09-2006, 04:10 AM
wankers am deeply hurt.. i just cant take thes insults..these stabs at me good characterizationshuns..... :nu :nu

PlayfulMale69
11-09-2006, 04:13 AM
wankers am deeply hurt.. i just cant take thes insults..these stabs at me good characterizationshuns..... :nu :nu

hehe, interesting spelling there tiger.

Norfolkdave
11-09-2006, 04:17 AM
wankers am deeply hurt.. i just cant take thes insults..these stabs at me good characterizationshuns..... :nu :nu

You a Puller or a squeezer LOL:lmao :lmao

tiger50
11-09-2006, 04:20 AM
You a Puller or a squeezer LOL:lmao :lmao

pull squeeze rotate.. pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..ahhhhhhhhhhhh omg... immm uhhhhhhh ..... cold.... :lmao :lmao

Cotties
11-09-2006, 04:21 AM
no its Tiger I'm talking about...hey Dave..I think Tigers turning...I can't get him to bite back no matter how many times I insult him"Who me" I dont like Tennis and a skirt, hell man dont go with hairylegs does it,and an overated truncheon:lmao :lmao

tiger50
11-09-2006, 04:21 AM
hehe, interesting spelling there tiger.

heyy its tha bluddie queenz ingleesh mate...... :D

Norfolkdave
11-09-2006, 04:22 AM
pull squeeze rotate.. pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..pull squeeze rotate..ahhhhhhhhhhhh omg... immm uhhhhhhh ..... cold.... :lmao :lmao

Ahh then it sums it up, " You are a wanker too":lmao :lmao :lmao

Norfolkdave
11-09-2006, 04:24 AM
no its Tiger I'm talking about...hey Dave..I think Tigers turning...I can't get him to bite back no matter how many times I insult him

Turning! He turned years ago and Australia never forgave him:lmao :lmao

tiger50
11-09-2006, 04:31 AM
Turning! He turned years ago and Australia never forgave him:lmao :lmao
watch it wanker.... the ashes start in 2 weeks be afraid.. very afraid...... :D

Norfolkdave
11-09-2006, 04:34 AM
watch it wanker.... the ashes start in 2 weeks be afraid.. very afraid...... :D


Lol Afraid hell man we,re going to retain them, " England England England Come on you whites ENgland:lmao :lmao :lmao

tiger50
11-09-2006, 04:46 AM
Lol Afraid hell man we,re going to retain them, " England England England Come on you whites ENgland:lmao :lmao :lmao

crock o shit..the ashes are ours..wanker.... :lmao :lmao :lmao

Norfolkdave
11-09-2006, 04:48 AM
crock o shit..the ashes are ours..wanker.... :lmao :lmao :lmao

The only ashes your going to see is what you get from your barbi:lmao :lmao :lmao

altoids69
11-11-2006, 07:46 PM
It's great if you know the person. It's a one-way show with the webcam. While he works, he watches me play. He loves a good show!! The feedback is incredible!!! Gets him so hot that he's usually begging to give me the real thing. And a couple of days later, he usually does!

GeekMaster
11-11-2006, 08:36 PM
Welcome altoids69!! Always glad to have new members!!!


Just one thing...

Please put your birth year in your profile so we can see your age. It's a site policy requirement.:rules:

Interesting birthdate...

Mine is the same as yours...

Hope you stay, post a lot, and make yourself at home!!!:kk

hoss
11-11-2006, 09:55 PM
i rate cybersex fantastic....i have enjoyed it alot of times...watching a woman touch her body and knowing shes doing it for me is a huge turn on..the only problem is ...i want to reach out and touch...i keep smacking my head on the screen......

Jy
11-11-2006, 10:34 PM
I find it so incredibly intense, that often I'm surprised to find there's a screen between us when we're finished! It's wonderful. It's erotic. I had no idea how satisfying it can be.

Upstanding
11-12-2006, 03:49 AM
I don't seek it out, it lacks flavor. I have done it, but I really prefer to do it with someone I know, and if I have my real preference, it would be sans the cyber.

XMONKEYLOVINSX
11-12-2006, 03:53 AM
I Am Not The Biggest Fan Of It But It Can Be Fun To Just Mess Around. It Personally Doesnt Do Much For Me. I Like Up Close And Personal!!

yaser
11-12-2006, 04:03 AM
I Am Not The Biggest Fan Of It But It Can Be Fun To Just Mess Around. It Personally Doesnt Do Much For Me. I Like Up Close And Personal!!
Closer the better but one day we may try hun,can we? ;)

tiger50
11-12-2006, 04:43 AM
I find it so incredibly intense, that often I'm surprised to find there's a screen between us when we're finished! It's wonderful. It's erotic. I had no idea how satisfying it can be.

yeh know what u mean babe.... did it years ago... left me cold... but to do it with someone you have intense feelings for... well it just works then.... :D :whee:

nicenkinkyguy
11-18-2006, 02:15 AM
Not very high..I need the touch of skin to really get aroused...looking at beatiful women that are naked in a strip club does more for me than the PC...

PlayfulMale69
11-18-2006, 03:03 AM
I find it so incredibly intense, that often I'm surprised to find there's a screen between us when we're finished! It's wonderful. It's erotic. I had no idea how satisfying it can be.

Hey Jazzy,

I agree. When there is an emotional connection and there is good romance and buildup it can be awesome. I would say that cyberse with someone that just wants to bang you and be done is not at all satisfying. After all we need to engage the mind and dream of being together.

OICurready4me
11-19-2006, 01:19 AM
It's all about fantasy anyway and what's wrong with that? We all have our little fantasies and dream of pursuing them. Cyber is a way of acting them out with a stranger. I have good times and bad but overall I think it can be fun if both parties are really into having a good time about it.

tiger50
11-19-2006, 01:33 AM
It's all about fantasy anyway and what's wrong with that? We all have our little fantasies and dream of pursuing them. Cyber is a way of acting them out with a stranger. I have good times and bad but overall I think it can be fun if both parties are really into having a good time about it.

gday mate... havent met... so welcome.... :55
like a lot of things... whatever rocks ya boat..... its all good.... :D

PlayfulMale69
11-19-2006, 01:44 AM
It's all about fantasy anyway and what's wrong with that? We all have our little fantasies and dream of pursuing them. Cyber is a way of acting them out with a stranger. I have good times and bad but overall I think it can be fun if both parties are really into having a good time about it.

Glad to meet you ready! I agree, both have to be into it or it is pretty lame.

Hope you enjoy this site.

PlayfulMale69
11-19-2006, 01:45 AM
gday mate... havent met... so welcome.... :55
like a lot of things... whatever rocks ya boat..... its all good.... :D

gday Tiger! How has Sunday gone already? Just starting for us here.

tiger50
11-19-2006, 02:56 AM
gday Tiger! How has Sunday gone already? Just starting for us here.

gday mate... yeh was a good day... spent it with a beautiful woman..... :D

Zifnab
11-19-2006, 03:14 AM
gday mate... yeh was a good day... spent it with a beautiful woman..... :Dlol wait til I tell her you said that...you thought you were in the shites before....:lmao

Norfolkdave
11-19-2006, 04:44 AM
Hey Tiger you cybering!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

tiger50
11-19-2006, 04:45 AM
Hey Tiger you cybering!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hell no.. wud i do such a thing??????:sc

Norfolkdave
11-19-2006, 04:46 AM
hell no.. wud i do such a thing??????:sc

Yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyeeeeeeeeessssssssssssss:lmao

tiger50
11-19-2006, 04:47 AM
lol wait til I tell her you said that...you thought you were in the shites before....:lmao

:lmao :lmao :lmao wrong woman wanker...... :D

mboxer
11-19-2006, 03:33 PM
If it is with right person, cyber can be enjoyable. Plus, it puts you in the mood when wifey comes home.:knuddel:

flamengo130
11-19-2006, 07:45 PM
Don't find anything wrong with cybersex, and it's just an expansion to fantasy.

Cotties
11-19-2006, 08:21 PM
if Lena Lena or Mcat lets me try it.....I'll let you know the outcum

Lena
11-19-2006, 08:30 PM
if Lena Lena or Mcat lets me try it.....I'll let you know the outcum
hmmmmmm do you know what to do??:whee:

Cotties
11-19-2006, 08:32 PM
well I expect an instruction manual to come with the web cam:sc ..


if not then we'll have to experiment:55
hmmmmmm do you know what to do though??:whee:

flamengo130
11-19-2006, 08:33 PM
hmmmmmm do you know what to do??:whee:

Good question! Guess nobody knows what to do, until it gets going! I know I didn't, and still don't. Glad we've got a cam!

Lena
11-19-2006, 08:35 PM
well I expect an instruction manual to come with the web cam:sc ..


if not then we'll have to experiment:55
The manual better have Pictures, otherwise be wasting time reading the little words!!:D

Lena
11-19-2006, 08:35 PM
Good question! Guess nobody knows what to do, until it gets going! I know I didn't, and still don't. Glad we've got a cam!
You both use the cam to do it?

Cotties
11-19-2006, 08:42 PM
he said we've....I thought you were a cyber virgin Lena.....


I know I've saved myself for you:(
Good question! Guess nobody knows what to do, until it gets going! I know I didn't, and still don't. Glad we've got a cam!damn that flamengo is a slut

Lena
11-19-2006, 08:45 PM
he said we've....I thought you were a cyber virgin Lena.....


I know I've saved myself for you:(
damn that flamengo is a slut
Hey Mr. Cotties!!!
Flamengo is a couple!!! They must both be doing that!!!!!!
Silly man!!!:whee:

Leyna
11-20-2006, 02:43 AM
How do you rate cybersex:thankyou:

I love cybersex! I'd never mess around on my husband IRL, but online, anything goes!

Cotties
11-20-2006, 02:51 AM
How can one person be a couple...........and how do I know who's hitting on me...damn it....I called the male half of that person a slut....sorry feminine sideHey Mr. Cotties!!!
Flamengo is a couple!!! They must both be doing that!!!!!!
Silly man!!!:whee:

Norfolkdave
11-20-2006, 03:56 AM
if Lena Lena or Mcat lets me try it.....I'll let you know the outcum

Yeah we wouldnt see ya for a year LOl Lol Lol Lol :lmao :lmao

42CTMarriedguy
11-21-2006, 09:39 PM
With the right partner, it's good. It's a mind thing.

clueless32m
11-22-2006, 01:17 AM
Does nothing for me........

Cotties
11-22-2006, 01:47 AM
well there goes any chance you had of some action with the ladies:D Does nothing for me........

Norfolkdave
11-22-2006, 04:10 AM
I love cybersex! I'd never mess around on my husband IRL, but online, anything goes!

Anything! contact me :lmao

cherokeered
11-22-2006, 09:05 PM
Does nothing for me........


Apparently you had a bad partner.....



Cherokee....:D

stanrusher
11-22-2006, 09:27 PM
Always enjoy a good cyber sex session.

I havent done as much as I used to even though I wish I was. lol

I used to cyber just about every night. I was to the point where I was just sitting there in the living room masterbating with a cyber partner while the roommate was asleep on the couch.

cherokeered
11-22-2006, 09:29 PM
:lmao :lmao :lmao wrong woman wanker...... :D


Harem problems? :nu


Cherokee..huh? :lmao

Sandman
11-22-2006, 09:39 PM
Never had the pleasure! I need a 'spirit guide' to break this cyber cherry!

cherokeered
11-23-2006, 09:04 PM
Cybersex...is fun and fulfilling with the right person....



Cherokee....;)

hoss
11-23-2006, 09:35 PM
Cybersex...is fun and fulfilling with the right person....



Cherokee....;)

thank u sweetie...i had a wondeful time too.....i didn't know your voice could reach that octave ......:kk

cherokeered
11-23-2006, 11:20 PM
thank u sweetie...i had a wondeful time too.....i didn't know your voice could reach that octave ......:kk


Lol...see, I can still surprise ya...:kk


Cherokee....:D

spare_change
11-23-2006, 11:24 PM
How do you rate cybersex:thankyou:

Incredible....

Fantastic ....

Amazing ...

Stupendous ...

Mind-blowing ...

... with the right person.

yaser
11-24-2006, 12:48 AM
Incredible....

Fantastic ....

Amazing ...

Stupendous ...

Mind-blowing ...

... with the right person.
True..

tiger50
11-24-2006, 01:44 AM
Cybersex...is fun and fulfilling with the right person....



Cherokee....;)

hell yeh.... do u know any rite persons????? :sc

Cotties
11-24-2006, 02:38 AM
On the old....how long can I keep it hard scale

Norfolkdave
11-24-2006, 05:35 AM
On the old....how long can I keep it hard scale

Ok how long can you , lol lol lol lol :lmao :lmao

Jy
11-24-2006, 03:40 PM
Funny, I was going to say the same thing...Incredible....

Fantastic ....

Amazing ...

Stupendous ...

Mind-blowing ...

... with the right person.

cherokeered
11-24-2006, 04:11 PM
hell yeh.... do u know any rite persons????? :sc


I might.....lol


Cherokee....:whee:

altoids69
11-24-2006, 04:16 PM
Incredible....

Fantastic ....

Amazing ...

Stupendous ...

Mind-blowing ...

... with the right person.

I completely agree!!:lf

yaser
11-24-2006, 04:46 PM
I completely agree!!:lf
Experience talks?

altoids69
11-24-2006, 05:17 PM
Experience talks?

Absolutely!!!

spare_change
11-24-2006, 08:20 PM
Funny, I was going to say the same thing...


Funny how that works, huh?

Jy
11-24-2006, 10:37 PM
Not so funny if you don't get your sweet ass here soon!Funny how that works, huh?

ashy92
11-25-2006, 10:02 PM
i give it a 10 ... a 10
lol

BuckiDave
11-25-2006, 10:08 PM
Not quite a ten but with an active imagination it can be fun but usually leaves me wanting more

Orca08
11-28-2006, 10:11 AM
cybersex is a real turn on. but i have found that since i discovered playing on the phone, cybering isn't as fulfilling.

SirFox
11-28-2006, 10:16 AM
CYBERING leaves nothing to the imagination...leaves a lot to be desired....in my way of thinking...and one isn't even able to touch!

hightidenc
11-28-2006, 02:18 PM
I would say 8 out of 10. Can be good but can be unfulfilling.

MCat
11-28-2006, 02:22 PM
Fun...exciting...naughty

joshcamp69
11-28-2006, 05:34 PM
Can be full filling and a great release.

steamy
11-28-2006, 05:36 PM
I believe it is what you make of it...............and the possibilities are endless.........

kjguy43
11-28-2006, 05:38 PM
Lots of fun with a webcam!

jman
11-28-2006, 10:26 PM
It can be exciting if the chemistry is there.

Cotties
11-28-2006, 10:39 PM
I rate it better than nothing

Jy
11-28-2006, 10:41 PM
Cybering isn't my first choice, and I couldn't do it with anyone else but my honey, but it's far more intimate and erotic than I ever thought possible.

Cotties
11-28-2006, 10:43 PM
No I'll be all serious for a moment.

If you have ever seen a women remove her clothes. Sit down and spread her legs either side of the monitor, place the web cam on the keyboard so it peers down.

All I can say is turn up those speakers real loud because when she cums.....you know you had good cyber

it can be just friggin fantastic

hoss
11-28-2006, 10:44 PM
No I'll be all serious for a moment.

If you have ever seen a women remove her clothes. Sit down and spread her legs either side of the monitor, place the web cam on the keyboard so it peers down.

All I can say is turn up those speakers real loud because when she cums.....you know you had good cyber

it can be just friggin fantastic

Momma can get her legs on either side of the monitor...WOW....shes been practicing alot .....

Jy
11-28-2006, 10:47 PM
Wait a second...have you been peeking over Spare's shoulder?!No I'll be all serious for a moment.

If you have ever seen a women remove her clothes. Sit down and spread her legs either side of the monitor, place the web cam on the keyboard so it peers down.

All I can say is turn up those speakers real loud because when she cums.....you know you had good cyber

it can be just friggin fantastic

Cotties
11-28-2006, 10:54 PM
when I see Spare with the web cam on I stand well back...leaning over his shoulder I might get an unwanted surprise:( Wait a second...have you been peeking over Spare's shoulder?!

spare_change
11-28-2006, 11:49 PM
when I see Spare with the web cam on I stand well back...leaning over his shoulder I might get an unwanted surprise:(

you, the keyboard, the ceiling, the wall, the car next door, the dog down the street.

hoss
11-28-2006, 11:57 PM
you, the keyboard, the ceiling, the wall, the car next door, the dog down the street.

one word and one word only ....

EWWWWWWWWWWWW

Jy
11-28-2006, 11:59 PM
You're kidding, right? one word and one word only ....

EWWWWWWWWWWWW

hoss
11-29-2006, 12:29 AM
You're kidding, right?

Honey ...u know i love u...but bodily fluids from Spare is not on my to do list ....sorry...I'm sure its very lovely ....but ..i'll pass....

Jy
11-29-2006, 12:36 AM
Okay, I see your point. Perhaps that wouldn't have the same effect on you as it does on me.;) Honey ...u know i love u...but bodily fluids from Spare is not on my to do list ....sorry...I'm sure its very lovely ....but ..i'll pass....

longnhard32
11-30-2006, 11:39 AM
i like it but will never replace to real thing. like touch and feel and most of all forplay got to have foreplay:rules:

steamy
11-30-2006, 11:41 AM
No I'll be all serious for a moment.

If you have ever seen a women remove her clothes. Sit down and spread her legs either side of the monitor, place the web cam on the keyboard so it peers down.

All I can say is turn up those speakers real loud because when she cums.....you know you had good cyber

it can be just friggin fantasticDo you mind if I read this post about 1500 times:D

Norfolkdave
11-30-2006, 11:46 AM
Keep me dick to myself nowdays its bloody safer......lol lol lol

gvikfan
12-17-2006, 01:49 PM
I have had a few online affairs.I have to admit,with the right woman,it can be very very erotic.Is this cheating?I say it is a way to get satisfaction without cheating.

cherokeered
12-17-2006, 02:39 PM
I have had a few online affairs.I have to admit,with the right woman,it can be very very erotic.Is this cheating?I say it is a way to get satisfaction without cheating.

If you keep it from ur spouse...and share things with this person that you dont with your spouse...then yes, it is cheating

Emotional or sexual...it is still cheating if the other person doesn't know...cause obviously you know they wouldn't approve...and that there is something there to be hiding...

Not judging...I'm not any different...

Annie
12-17-2006, 03:01 PM
I was looking through the archives and found this thread....

http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/forums/showthread.php?t=300

OICurready4me
12-18-2006, 01:36 AM
I have had a few online affairs.I have to admit,with the right woman,it can be very very erotic.Is this cheating?I say it is a way to get satisfaction without cheating.

I don't feel it is cheating at all, unless you actually meet the person and you have sex. Chatting, e-mailing, posting, are words spoken/written between consenting adults that share thoughts and dreams with someone else. Do you not tell friends or family about many of the same things that you desire or need? I think I do. I'm an open person who wears his heart on his sleeve so it is not hidden what I want. We all have things that we have as our secrets and just because a spouse doesn't know these secrets, why is it regarded as such a bad thing? Just my opinion.

hoss
12-18-2006, 02:32 AM
I don't feel it is cheating at all, unless you actually meet the person and you have sex. Chatting, e-mailing, posting, are words spoken/written between consenting adults that share thoughts and dreams with someone else. Do you not tell friends or family about many of the same things that you desire or need? I think I do. I'm an open person who wears his heart on his sleeve so it is not hidden what I want. We all have things that we have as our secrets and just because a spouse doesn't know these secrets, why is it regarded as such a bad thing? Just my opinion.

the difference between telling your family and a online love is the emotional connection and the impact that can have on your spouse...

I also wear my heart on my sleeve and i have now been involved in two very serious online affairs,both of which momma knows about...

the first one i kept hidden from her until she found out...she was very hurt because i kept it hidden from her ,once she knew she accepted it and even grew to love the woman i was online with...

Some people don't understand how u can fall in love online ...but let me tell u ..it can happen ...its happened to me twice now ....the emotional and passion involved ,the love and the want,need,craving to be with that person is very real...

an affair doesn't have to be physical....the emotional aspect can be much more hurtful to the person not involved...

Cotties
12-18-2006, 03:24 AM
cheating but also fun

tiger50
12-18-2006, 04:13 AM
well , when i started on this site, it just looked like some fun... there was no intention to "hook up" with anyone.... just enjoyed the banter, so i dont think it was cheating....

then something happened, met someone here... and yeh, its now cheating now... :D

gvikfan
12-20-2006, 05:58 AM
I guess you are right cherokee.It is cheating.However,I think it is a good release,without acttually going out and physically having an affair.besides,its fun!!!:whee:

Frenchie
12-20-2006, 10:38 AM
I hate to be that guy but I think it's good to have another person to talk to about anything of the opposite sex. I dont know call me weird but I think if you have to live, work, play, go out, shop, have kids, be a parent, pay bills etc etc with the same person it takes a big toll and makes being intimate really hard with all those strings attached. Let's face it but it's not easy for everyone, sure some have it good, the money and all no or low stress but for most there's allot of tension present with your everyday partner

I find if I get some of my stuff off my sholders with someone else who can give me a different perspective or even take my mind of things for a little while it helps. Call it cheating sure, I call it therapy! lol

I'm with all of you that sharing more then you have to online is cheating but I dont think it's as bad as an actuall physical relationship.

cherokeered
12-20-2006, 07:49 PM
well , when i started on this site, it just looked like some fun... there was no intention to "hook up" with anyone.... just enjoyed the banter, so i dont think it was cheating....

then something happened, met someone here... and yeh, its now cheating now... :D


:kk :kk

Spooky13
12-20-2006, 07:57 PM
IS chatting online, is watching porn cheating, is staring at some one and wanting them cheating. My opinion, are mind cheats all the time.

waterboy30m
12-20-2006, 08:33 PM
I dont know and am not sure about the whole cheating online thing... I just know that there are different stokes for different folks.. and its not that easy where you can just generlize the whole thing... It all depends on what situations people are in... People do different thing for different reasons.. and we are all different...
:-)

Cotties
12-20-2006, 09:34 PM
if your wife says its cheating and you have to pay the consequences...than its hard to deny what it is

gvikfan
12-21-2006, 06:37 AM
In reading the thread responses,I would have to agree,cybering is cheating.I believe it is not as bad as a phsycal affair tho.I was in a dull sexual relationship before I ever cybered.I must say,if anything our sexlife did improve after I cybered.

hoss
12-21-2006, 01:27 PM
In reading the thread responses,I would have to agree,cybering is cheating.I believe it is not as bad as a phsycal affair tho.I was in a dull sexual relationship before I ever cybered.I must say,if anything our sexlife did improve after I cybered.


welcome to the site...

if everytime i looked at a woman,watched porn or cybered with someone is cheating ,then everyone on earth is a cheater...we've all looked at someone and thought what it would be like to be with them......

OICurready4me
12-21-2006, 02:20 PM
welcome to the site...

if everytime i looked at a woman,watched porn or cybered with someone is cheating ,then everyone on earth is a cheater...we've all looked at someone and thought what it would be like to be with them......


I agree. To me, unless you are actually screwing the other person, it's not cheating.
:spbx: All this other stuff is fluff, plain and simple. Talk among friends, yes it gets racy at times and things get said but until the meatwhistle has a happy tune played in or on it, it aint cheating. I just can't see how cybering, flirting or looking at someone else can be regarded as cheating. Sorry for those that think that way. I know everyone has there own definition of it but before the internet became a staple in our lives, no one would have thought that flirting with the cashier at the local milk and bread store or checking out a woman (or man, for all you ladies) while your walking through a mall would be regarded as cheating. Why? Because it isn't and neither is the same thing we do on line with one another. If relationships build from the friendships that form here and it gets taken to another level where people meet and get together, that is a different story but on the simplest of levels, it's not cheating. Sorry. :spbx:

steve_edwards
12-27-2006, 09:06 PM
It's just a bit of fun and natural too.

gussy422
12-27-2006, 11:13 PM
No I dont consider it adultry, but my husband thinks it is.
What's the difference between cybering and having your hubby watching porn flicks without you? There's no physical contact. Frankly, the spouse usually reeps thebenefit once you sign off.:blowjob:

gussy422
12-27-2006, 11:15 PM
Bravo....
Well, you're in the right position anyway.

hoss
12-27-2006, 11:21 PM
What's the difference between cybering and having your hubby watching porn flicks without you? There's no physical contact. Frankly, the spouse usually reeps thebenefit once you sign off.:blowjob:

well now ..thats true....in our house Momma always reaps the rewards of my umm....internet perusing.........

cherokeered
12-27-2006, 11:32 PM
What's the difference between cybering and having your hubby watching porn flicks without you? There's no physical contact. Frankly, the spouse usually reeps the benefit once you sign off.:blowjob:

Well there is the wording...and that is the difference....if the spouse doesnt...and the rewards are kept to oneself then what?

I'm not saying casual cybering or porn is cheating...it isnt really...but there is a line...when the other person on the other side ofthe screen becomes more important than ur spouse...and spending time with them is a priority...and your feelings for ur spouse dwindle until they disappear...then yes, it is cheating
If what you do does not benefit the marital union...then what is the point if not to cheat?

Outta
12-27-2006, 11:48 PM
Well said

FlirtyWife
12-28-2006, 01:45 AM
I'll go ahead and weigh in first - no I don't think it's adultry, but it certainly isn't an appropriate thing to do

I agree. Doesn't mean I don't do it. Lol. If I was getting what I needed at home then maybe I'd feel bad about it.

FlirtyWife
12-28-2006, 02:02 AM
I like it from time to time. I'm mostly happy when I can make another person cum for me through cybersex moreso the physical pleasure I receive.

ryu_kenshi
12-28-2006, 02:34 AM
it helps the hand exercises...lol

ryu_kenshi
12-28-2006, 02:38 AM
I agree. Doesn't mean I don't do it. Lol. If I was getting what I needed at home then maybe I'd feel bad about it.

i concur with FW if the needs were being met then there would be no need to..

hoss
12-28-2006, 02:49 AM
i concur with FW if the needs were being met then there would be no need to..

i hate to burst that bubble...but i get what i need at home and more..and both my wife and i cyber.....niether thinks its cheating ,and i am in love with someone on line as is she ,she knows and it doesnt bother her ...i know it and it doesnt bother me ....

i will say it again..the only time its cheating is when u hide it and lie about it to your partner...

Traxster
12-28-2006, 03:00 AM
i hate to burst that bubble...but i get what i need at home and more..and both my wife and i cyber.....niether thinks its cheating ,and i am in love with someone on line as is she ,she knows and it doesnt bother her ...i know it and it doesnt bother me ....

i will say it again..the only time its cheating is when u hide it and lie about it to your partner...

Well put my friend!!!!:55

hoss
12-28-2006, 03:02 AM
Well put my friend!!!!:55

damn....i told u not to tell anyone we were in love !!!....i love u Traxie-poo

OICurready4me
12-28-2006, 03:21 AM
What's the difference between cybering and having your hubby watching porn flicks without you? There's no physical contact. Frankly, the spouse usually reeps thebenefit once you sign off.:blowjob:


I agree. Until there is physical contact, I see how it can be considered cheating. As far as the hiding it from the spouse thing, I don't see it either. My wife knows but doesn't care, it's not her cup of tea, whatsoever. I feel that it has actually enhanced my communication skills in general. I can tell her what I want a whole lot easier, it doesn't mean I get it, it's just that my ability to beg for sex has been taken to a whole new level.

clueless32m
12-28-2006, 04:06 AM
Fun, if that sort of thing does it for ya!

OICurready4me
12-28-2006, 04:24 AM
I rate it better than nothing


if your sex life is zero then even cyber rated as a 1 would be an improvement but I enjoy sharing the excitement with another person. I think it can really improve your imagination.

OICurready4me
12-28-2006, 04:29 AM
I find it so incredibly intense, that often I'm surprised to find there's a screen between us when we're finished! It's wonderful. It's erotic. I had no idea how satisfying it can be.


the next time you want to be satisfied, Dr OIC can give you a prescription. All you have to do is ask.

MCat
12-28-2006, 06:46 AM
It's just fun....Hubby and I both benefit from the chatting, posting, and reading. I feel a little affection towards a few people I have met online ;)

pointofnoreturn
12-28-2006, 03:46 PM
My doctor said she would give me a script to have sex at least once a month. Where do I get it filled?

sweetgapeach
12-28-2006, 04:16 PM
A 10 ? What ya think Baby ?

Barkiss
12-28-2006, 04:19 PM
A 10 ? What ya think Baby ?

On a scale of 5!! You've already ruined 3 processors and about 512MB of memory!!

sweetgapeach
12-28-2006, 04:23 PM
On a scale of 5!! You've already ruined 3 processors and about 512MB of memory!!


lol

bstear
12-28-2006, 04:44 PM
I find cybersex to be good depending on the other person.. can get very hot.. but I enjoy cam2cam much better ;-)

SirFox
12-29-2006, 01:01 PM
Definitely agree with you. And the cam spoils it sometimes...

wonderer67
01-01-2007, 08:15 AM
Cybering isn't my first choice, and I couldn't do it with anyone else but my honey, but it's far more intimate and erotic than I ever thought possible.
ok, don't laugh too loudly. i've never tried it.
there, i admitted it.
Be nicer i think than just seeing pictures. 'Intimate and erotic' sounds ever so nice.
The free interaction... a _willing_ exchange of affection, and sharing ... mmmmm. tantalising.

But i'd _really_ want to be sure i was with a women... so i guess this would need a webcam. Unless there are other guarantees?

tiger50
01-01-2007, 08:27 AM
ok, don't laugh too loudly. i've never tried it.
there, i admitted it.
Be nicer i think than just seeing pictures. 'Intimate and erotic' sounds ever so nice.
The free interaction... a _willing_ exchange of affection, and sharing ... mmmmm. tantalising.

But i'd _really_ want to be sure i was with a women... so i guess this would need a webcam. Unless there are other guarantees?

lol... well i was sure, didnt need a cam..... :D

OICurready4me
01-01-2007, 09:35 AM
My doctor said she would give me a script to have sex at least once a month. Where do I get it filled?


Dr OIC at your service here. My prescription is for 3 to 4 times a week and it must be taken orally.

OICurready4me
01-01-2007, 09:36 AM
I have to worry when I have cyber because my dick keeps getting stuck in the CD tray!

lady
01-01-2007, 11:45 AM
I have to worry when I have cyber because my dick keeps getting stuck in the CD tray!

:lmao

MIGHTY
01-01-2007, 12:20 PM
I have to worry when I have cyber because my dick keeps getting stuck in the CD tray!

Maybe I should ease up on you a bit then...:D

MightymeatyMatey
01-01-2007, 12:31 PM
Dont know never had it, havent the time.

p.J
01-04-2007, 12:20 PM
Well are you?

Researchers have found that for a growing amount of people, one in eight (that all?) excessive internet usage is becoming a serious problem.

This has included relationship difficulties because of the Internet or simpler things like not doing much else but being online.

They're saying it can stem from more obvious activities like social online use, to less obvious things like simply checking email constantly or keeping track of stocks and finances (yea riiiiiiight)

Do you find the Internet taking up a lot of your time, interfering with, limiting, or ending your personal relationships?

Are you a cyber-addict?

spare_change
01-04-2007, 12:57 PM
I am DEFINITELY an Internet addict. I can do nothing without my info fix! It helps me do my job, it entertains me, and it fulfills "other" needs, as well. (Hi, baby!)

Outta
01-04-2007, 01:00 PM
Internet sex is highly intoxicating and addictive. Everyone here should be warey of that. I notice that most veterans of this site stay out of the chat room and stay on the posts. Probably wise.

twoblues
01-04-2007, 01:04 PM
No problem here. Probably because I'm "connected" all day at work. When I get home, I really don't surf the web or chat, etc...Too busy getting dinner into my belly or watching the hockey game, etc...

If you find the internet is interfering with your relationship, then you will probably come across your SO on this site sooner or later complaining about neglect :p

yaser
01-04-2007, 03:32 PM
Yes, Jenny..Do you know how to stop?If you tell me, I can pay for you my one month salary..but you must tell how can we meet?I think I am not cyber addict I ma friends addict.

yaser
01-04-2007, 03:37 PM
I am DEFINITELY an Internet addict. I can do nothing without my info fix! It helps me do my job, it entertains me, and it fulfills "other" needs, as well. (Hi, baby!)
You are right, my dear friend..You found Jazzy here..If I can find one, I will stop coming here.I will take my love and go to the mountains for honeymoon.

p.J
01-04-2007, 03:46 PM
This site is pretty addictive!! it has to stop! soon, well soonish, sometime soon , o bum! whenever!

Annie
01-04-2007, 03:55 PM
I can't help myself! It's the people here. I can't count the times in a day when I sign on here. It's on and off all day, everyday. At least it isn't the tv!

yaser
01-04-2007, 04:20 PM
This site is pretty addictive!! it has to stop! soon, well soonish, sometime soon , o bum! whenever!
Better ask:'Can I leave suc sweet people?' I will not leave you..

p.J
01-04-2007, 04:24 PM
Better ask:'Can I leave suc sweet people?' I will not leave you..

:kk I like you yaser!

yaser
01-04-2007, 04:28 PM
:kk I like you yaser!
That I can accept..Likewise.. :knuddel:

yaser
01-04-2007, 04:36 PM
Isn't MAF social ? Don't we have conflicts, quarrels,loves, hates, fears, worries,frustrations,expectations,and I can count many facts I encounter within a real gathering.The only difference here is virtual.. We are real but there is an instrumnet of communication in between..which is very useful.How can I find a lady or a gentleman here inTurkey who live in USA or UK or France or Austuralia?
And if we are hungry for something , it must be satisfied.Here we are for it.When we are satified , we will go.Or go on satisfying our needs.

pointofnoreturn
01-04-2007, 04:51 PM
Better ask:'Can I leave suc sweet people?' I will not leave you..I have a hard time not thinking about the site all of the day, but I love it when I cum home and can talk to you all. Serious fix for me who gets hardly any attention here at home. Thank you...:wa:

spare_change
01-04-2007, 04:53 PM
I have a hard time not thinking about the site all of the day, but I love it when I cum home and can talk to you all. Serious fix for me who gets hardly any attention here at home. Thank you...:wa:

So, I guess you don't mind when I just stand here and stare down your blouse, huh?

lady
01-04-2007, 04:53 PM
I have a hard time not thinking about the site all of the day, but I love it when I cum home and can talk to you all. Serious fix for me who gets hardly any attention here at home. Thank you...:wa:

I totally concur.

pointofnoreturn
01-04-2007, 04:58 PM
So, I guess you don't mind when I just stand here and stare down your blouse, huh?You can stare all you like ...that is what they are there for.:dd

bstear
01-04-2007, 06:35 PM
I enjoy knowing that my attention is desired and wanted..

XMONKEYLOVINSX
01-04-2007, 06:55 PM
im not addicted it doesnt do much for me

cherokeered
01-04-2007, 07:45 PM
Cyber....what's that?



Cherokee....lol

speed_raycer
01-04-2007, 07:52 PM
Not an addict, but this place could sure get you hooked!:55

tiger50
01-04-2007, 08:20 PM
Cyber....what's that?



Cherokee....lol

heyyyy lets try it out....:D :whee:

speed_raycer
01-04-2007, 08:22 PM
wanna lesson? lolCyber....what's that?



Cherokee....lol

hoss
01-04-2007, 10:19 PM
im not sure if i am addicted....

although momma calls me a cyber slut ......

MCat
01-04-2007, 10:42 PM
I think I would say yes.....When I'm home from work I am in and out of here often. When I'm at work people do and say things that remind me of you all, or I wish I could tell you something I just thought of or experienced. Hubby and I talk about you all frequently...we have to be careful what we say in front of whom.

I definately love the internet and all it has to offer....well almost all ;)

Could see myself getting a little too wrapped up in somethings:sc

RedHotPisces
01-04-2007, 10:49 PM
yes i am addicted

Jy
01-04-2007, 10:58 PM
Hi sweetie...I'll see you later! Much more of you!!I am DEFINITELY an Internet addict. I can do nothing without my info fix! It helps me do my job, it entertains me, and it fulfills "other" needs, as well. (Hi, baby!)

Luvs2watch
01-04-2007, 11:30 PM
Whoops, misunderstood the question... thot it was asking am I a cybersex addict, not just a heavy internet user (in both senses of the word). I use to cybersex a lot but lately real life has been outperforming the internet variety so thats dropped off alot. As for just being an internet user, I regret my wife & I both are very heavy users... spend most of our free time online. Getting to a point that if I cant find something worthwhile then I just start hitting the stumble button until bedtime.

OICurready4me
01-05-2007, 01:55 AM
I plan my usage for the time when I am alone or when I am watching TV with my wife and surfing at the same time (on my laptop). If we are just hanging out casually, I'll be online but if it's a case of wathing a movie together or planning to do something together, that comes first and foremost, without a second thought and I don't miss it. I'm on alot now because I'm out of work due to back surgery but once I get back to work, I won't be on that much, although, this place will be #1 on my list. This place can be addicting though and it is because of the tremendous group of people that are a part of this community. We all have a common bond that you can't imitate on any other website out there, as far as I know. As alot of you probably did, I fell on this site by accident. Just did a search and this was a link, checked it out and tada, I'm hooked but not addicted!

gvikfan
01-05-2007, 02:46 AM
I wish I could get more time online.I can never get the puter

bbop
01-05-2007, 01:53 PM
I'm addicted to the friendship we all share on this site. The chatting, the flirting, the arguing, the bantering. Oh hell, what am I saying? I love this place!

hoss
01-05-2007, 05:09 PM
I'm addicted to the friendship we all share on this site. The chatting, the flirting, the arguing, the bantering. Oh hell, what am I saying? I love this place!

we love you back ..............:wa:

surfnchat
01-05-2007, 09:52 PM
I can't get enough of the internet! Having this site really helps my fix! I love the e-mail exchanges with my friends too. I just wish I had more time to play. :(

I will also say I was a cybersex addict for many years, but I haven't had cybersex in about 2 years. I just haven't had any opportunity... Any ladies want to shake off my rust? :D

dave42
01-05-2007, 10:53 PM
How do you rate cybersex:thankyou:Well you got to get to have it in order to rate it. I started out with some one and it was heating up, and then the whole thing just turned. and now we talk about everything else in our lives except that. We really connect but now I am confused. What's up with that?!!

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:04 PM
I usually try to rate it from five to ten.... is better that way!:D

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:06 PM
ok...if y'all want to know the truth...zif...gets a 3 barkiss...a 4....kissie a 10....

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:07 PM
ok...if y'all want to know the truth...zif...gets a 3 barkiss...a 4....kissie a 10....I get a 3??? wow! and I was sleeping! I still get a score!! woo hoo!!

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:08 PM
I get a 3??? wow! and I was sleeping! I still get a score!! woo hoo!!

oooopppsss....i forgot...spare was on the other end....he like them sleeping......

Barkiss
01-05-2007, 11:10 PM
ok...if y'all want to know the truth...zif...gets a 3 barkiss...a 4....kissie a 10....

A 4???? And I don't even remember it...

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:11 PM
A 4???? And I don't even remember it...either we are pretty good while sleeping or she has low expectations....

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:11 PM
A 4???? And I don't even remember it...

you wre getting coffee...and the a peach stepped in.....

Barkiss
01-05-2007, 11:12 PM
you wre getting coffee...and the a peach stepped in.....

If Peach was there....then I know it was higher than a 4....she raises me 10 fold...and I do mean raise me. ;)

Barkiss
01-05-2007, 11:12 PM
either we are pretty good while sleeping or she has low expectations....

I'm willing to be on the low expectations. ;)

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:13 PM
either we are pretty good while sleeping or she has low expectations....

hey are ya picking on barkiss??........................








*looking around for a cage for zif*...........

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:14 PM
If Peach was there....then I know it was higher than a 4....she raises me 10 fold...and I do mean raise me. ;)



nooooooo....peach gets a 10....you get a 4 for hiding in the "break room"

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:15 PM
hey are ya picking on barkiss??........................








*looking around for a cage for zif*...........yeah I am... so what? he still rated higher than me, so if he wants to get upset he can.... you just roll over and go back to sleep....

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:16 PM
yeah I am... so what? he still rated higher than me, so if he wants to get upset he can.... you just roll over and go back to sleep....


braved man, with spare lurking around.........

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:17 PM
<yawn>

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:18 PM
<yawn>


Zif?? are ya bored??

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:20 PM
Zif?? are ya bored??usually yes...

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:21 PM
usually yes...

you want a good laugh??

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:25 PM
you want a good laugh??what? you gonna show your ass now too?:lmao

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:28 PM
I can't type well enough one handed to get addicted to it!

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:30 PM
nahhhhh...i thought you should just get a hard on...stand in front of a mirror..and make it wiggle up and down...and tell your self...how sexy you are.....

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:31 PM
nahhhhh...i thought you should just get a hard on...stand in front of a mirror..and make it wiggle up and down...and tell your self...how sexy you are.....it wiggles???? damn! I never knew that!


course I can't find it without the magnifying glass....

hoss
01-05-2007, 11:31 PM
I can't type well enough one handed to get addicted to it!


hey man...smoke some bc bud and soon youll have all the hands u need ...

right now i got .....woooooooo the colors ...................

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:32 PM
it wiggles???? damn! I never knew that!


course I can't find it without the magnifying glass....


dang..they gave ya one of thoses in the "home"

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:32 PM
hey man...smoke some bc bud and soon youll have all the hands u need ...

right now i got .....woooooooo the colors ...................sorry, I quit smoking over a year ago.... everything... besides do you really think I need that???

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:33 PM
dang..they gave ya one of thoses in the "home"is that personal experience speaking there WB???

hoss
01-05-2007, 11:35 PM
sorry, I quit smoking over a year ago.... everything... besides do you really think I need that???

no ,..,...what i think u need right now is a hug...maybe a ear...u know i was only kidding my friend ...:wa:

Zifnab
01-05-2007, 11:36 PM
no ,..,...what i think u need right now is a hug...maybe a ear...u know i was only kidding my friend ...:wa:yes I do, but if I was to alter the already messed up state my head is in...... who knows what might happen to the entire earth- time continum....

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:39 PM
any one who loves cyber...all you have to do


is call just this one number...he even pays for doing it




now the number is a secert..... but if i do it in code..... you might be ....alll boollllll



here it is



1-212-




help

majorfun
01-05-2007, 11:44 PM
any one who loves cyber...all you have to do


is call just this one number...he even pays for doing it




now the number is a secert..... but if i do it in code..... you might be ....alll boollllll



here it is



1-212-




help I like konowing that there are other people out there that enjoy the same things that I enjoy...

Wet Beaver
01-05-2007, 11:47 PM
I like konowing that there are other people out there that enjoy the same things that I enjoy...

and your fun would be??

majorfun
01-05-2007, 11:51 PM
I like to please... Whatever you like I would be willing to trying... I enjoy pleasing

Jy
01-06-2007, 01:18 AM
That's news to me...oooopppsss....i forgot...spare was on the other end....he like them sleeping......

UltimateNaneki
01-06-2007, 03:46 PM
open you imaginationand cyber-sex is exciting

yaser
01-06-2007, 03:50 PM
open you imaginationand cyber-sex is exciting
I need an evidence for proof..show me please.

UltimateNaneki
01-06-2007, 04:03 PM
I need an evidence for proof..show me please.

i would prefer to show you, one on one. Not in a forum !

pointofnoreturn
01-08-2007, 01:54 PM
Need more...

Karl0417
01-08-2007, 01:55 PM
So far its a 1, but when I hit 150 post, it will step up I am sure.

pointofnoreturn
01-08-2007, 02:08 PM
Keep posting . It is not hard. Or is it???

yaser
01-08-2007, 02:12 PM
i would prefer to show you, one on one. Not in a forum !
Are you thinking what I am thinking?

pointofnoreturn
01-08-2007, 02:19 PM
What are you thinking????

spare_change
01-08-2007, 02:25 PM
'Bout now, he doesn't have enough blood left in his head to be thinking anything!

p.J
01-08-2007, 02:30 PM
... its surreal!

yaser
01-08-2007, 02:57 PM
What are you thinking????
what you are thinking...

pointofnoreturn
01-08-2007, 02:59 PM
WE should stop thinking and have some more fun....

Karl0417
01-08-2007, 03:00 PM
I think you should PM and get down to dates and times.

yaser
01-08-2007, 03:00 PM
WE should stop thinking and have some more fun....
Lead me..or follow me..

pointofnoreturn
01-08-2007, 03:06 PM
I am infront of you right now....

Karl0417
01-08-2007, 03:07 PM
And I am watching in case he drops the ball, Im picking up the fumble

pointofnoreturn
01-08-2007, 03:42 PM
fummmmmmble...

Orca08
01-08-2007, 04:13 PM
most of my being a cyber slut comes from being horny all the time. I just love to enjoy getting a woman off from cybering or by my voice. you can't beat listening to a woman playing and moaning for you and then to hear her cum Mmmmmmmmmm

Karl0417
01-08-2007, 04:31 PM
Can honestly say I am a cybersex virgin but here to change all that.

p.J
01-08-2007, 04:34 PM
Can honestly say I am a cybersex virgin but here to change all that.


... is makes notes

pointofnoreturn
01-08-2007, 04:54 PM
must be addicted. Been on here for 5 hours today. I gotta go play wife. Seeya

steamy
01-08-2007, 09:50 PM
How do you rate sex?............it is as good as the effort you put into it.............

northernvam
01-09-2007, 12:04 AM
Point -- but the real question is ... do you have withdrawl symptoms if you don't get your daily internet fix? Only 5 hours? Hmm .. I wouldn't consider you an addict unless you're spending over 12 hours a day.

Karl0417
01-09-2007, 12:20 AM
5 hours of fantasy and no reality would be the problem, how much teasing can one take.


I know my friend would not mind the 5 hours on here if she received 5 hours of oral pleasure in return.

LinkTGF
01-09-2007, 02:40 AM
How do you rate sex?............it is as good as the effort you put into it.............
that's the truth with anything - I think the real question is if you get off better on playing into a fantasy or doing the real thing

LinkTGF
01-09-2007, 02:41 AM
personally I enjoy cybersex alot but that's just me

edit: oops double post :(

LinkTGF
01-09-2007, 08:26 AM
sometimes it can be a problem...

Outta
01-09-2007, 08:31 AM
it's definitely intoxicating

Karl0417
01-09-2007, 08:32 AM
140 posts in a couple of days, not addicted but horny.

LinkTGF
01-09-2007, 09:37 AM
140 posts in a couple of days, not addicted but horny.
here here :)

Outta
01-09-2007, 10:02 AM
Whoops, misunderstood the question... thot it was asking am I a cybersex addict, not just a heavy internet user (in both senses of the word). I use to cybersex a lot but lately real life has been outperforming the internet variety so thats dropped off alot. As for just being an internet user, I regret my wife & I both are very heavy users... spend most of our free time online. Getting to a point that if I cant find something worthwhile then I just start hitting the stumble button until bedtime.
That's a brilliant avatar. Really gets the imagination going.

LinkTGF
01-09-2007, 10:05 AM
Whoops, misunderstood the question... thot it was asking am I a cybersex addict, not just a heavy internet user (in both senses of the word). I use to cybersex a lot but lately real life has been outperforming the internet variety so thats dropped off alot. As for just being an internet user, I regret my wife & I both are very heavy users... spend most of our free time online. Getting to a point that if I cant find something worthwhile then I just start hitting the stumble button until bedtime.
that is a nice avatar :)

joshcamp69
01-09-2007, 10:50 AM
I can get addicted to certain ladies, for sure.

UltimateNaneki
01-09-2007, 02:28 PM
Josh, I can get addicted to certain gentlemen!:dd



I can get addicted to certain ladies, for sure.

dave42
01-10-2007, 11:35 PM
I would be safe to say at this point it's pretty harmless. I thought the internet would be an easy place to find some one to actually meet and hookup with since it reaches so many more people. But after several months It's not going to happen. I am at a loss at this point to understand the inner workings of the feminine mind. What is the attraction? Money? Looks? charm and wit?

PlayfulMale69
01-11-2007, 03:19 AM
I would say yes, it is cheating. The emotional connection to the other person that can happen is pretty strong or can be. Even if it is just a quickie it is still cheating and quite fun.

I have been cybering more or less for 25 years. Of course that was back when the internet was not graphical and slow. *grin* The

I have been in a few long term relationships. They have been very good. Like Hoss stated above, they can be strong emotional connections. That is the draw for me, I love that connection and the feeling of being wanted. If I was getting that at home, I would not be seeking it out elsewhere. The online experience can bring that to me while not running away from my family and real life.

So yes, I do think it is cheating if you are asking. I don't think it is necessarily harmful if you don't let it hurt your relationships. That can be tricky since if you are not telling your spouse about the cyber, it can hurt them. I am on the other end of things, where I get pushed away all the time and there is hurt there. So there are many things to consider.

Sorry to be so long winded, just some humble thoughts from a lonely hubby.

MCat
01-11-2007, 06:20 AM
Sorry to be so long winded, just some humble thoughts from a lonely hubby.

Sending you a cyber hug :knuddel: ;)

paris
01-11-2007, 06:43 AM
I agree. To me, unless you are actually screwing the other person, it's not cheating.
:spbx: All this other stuff is fluff, plain and simple. Talk among friends, yes it gets racy at times and things get said but until the meatwhistle has a happy tune played in or on it, it aint cheating. I just can't see how cybering, flirting or looking at someone else can be regarded as cheating. Sorry for those that think that way. I know everyone has there own definition of it but before the internet became a staple in our lives, no one would have thought that flirting with the cashier at the local milk and bread store or checking out a woman (or man, for all you ladies) while your walking through a mall would be regarded as cheating. Why? Because it isn't and neither is the same thing we do on line with one another. If relationships build from the friendships that form here and it gets taken to another level where people meet and get together, that is a different story but on the simplest of levels, it's not cheating. Sorry. :spbx:
I couldn't agree more...

massage mike
01-11-2007, 07:48 AM
something we all need but just aalot of fun

OICurready4me
01-11-2007, 08:23 AM
I couldn't agree more...


A woman after my own heart..:kk

p.J
01-11-2007, 09:08 AM
mmmm! my question would be does 'online sex' encourage adultery?

massage mike
01-11-2007, 09:10 AM
mmmm! my question would be does 'online sex' encourage adultery?i would say yes if you fall for the person

p.J
01-11-2007, 09:31 AM
i would say yes if you fall for the person

agree, though for me it isn't about falling for someone, I get an itch that needs to be scratched!