How do you rate Cybersex

[scoobertina]

i have...and it can be lots of fun and at other times..very frustrating...

Dan, please explain, why frustrating? Weren't you properly taken care of?

[RedHotPisces]

:wa: hello ldy...welcome :wa:



Hi I'm new here and I to:dd like flirting, it's harmless. I agree We are all here to fulfill some kind of void in our lives. Good healthy adult conversation, as some would say 'Cyber flirting' is a safe way of venting frustrations without crossing the line. It's only harmful when we lose ourselves in a relationship that is not real and would probably never happen. At what cost are you really willing to do that? :55

[surfnchat]

If you can't get your one-handed typing speed up to 35 words per minutes, cyber sex can be pretty frustrating! The first trick is not worrying about the shift key... :D

[fire11614]

If you can't get your one-handed typing speed up to 35 words per minutes, cyber sex can be pretty frustrating! The first trick is not worrying about the shift key... :D

it helps if one is double jointed

[OICurready4me]

Major, I know you aren't talking about me.... Oh wait, that wasn't you was it... :D. I meant that I may lose myself while cyber relating, but I wouldn't dream of losing the reality..... Again, wait, maybe I have already lost reality.... Hmmm.. I better go have another drink... Rum and Coke anyone? ;)


If your serving it, I'll have one...got any Captain Morgan?

[confusedman]

Dan, please explain, why frustrating? Weren't you properly taken care of?

I know that can't be the case...when you're with the right person ;)

[dan1961]

Dan, please explain, why frustrating? Weren't you properly taken care of?

All cyber...never meeting..because of a long distance..u bond with someone..and u can't do a whole lot about it so be careful..sometimes u talk everyday..then she goes silent for a few days with no explanation..that is frustrating..

[scoobertina]

All cyber...never meeting..because of a long distance..u bond with someone..and u can't do a whole lot about it so be careful..sometimes u talk everyday..then she goes silent for a few days with no explanation..that is frustrating..

sometimes someone or something is around and she can't talk... I know I won't be able to talk everyday when my hubby comes home.. he works from home then and it would be impossible...

[dan1961]

sometimes someone or something is around and she can't talk... I know I won't be able to talk everyday when my hubby comes home.. he works from home then and it would be impossible...

well...frustrating when u like someon a bunch but they live far away...either chatting with them or talking on the phone....etc..mother nature can be cruel...:cry:

[snowflake]

If you can't get your one-handed typing speed up to 35 words per minutes, cyber sex can be pretty frustrating! The first trick is not worrying about the shift key... :D

I wondered what the "trick" was, will have to avoid that shift key...:D

[dan1961]

I wondered what the "trick" was, will have to avoid that shift key...:D

there r other tricks too..:lf

[scoobertina]

well...frustrating when u like someon a bunch but they live far away...either chatting with them or talking on the phone....etc..mother nature can be cruel...:cry:

yes, it can be cruel... but what does mother nature have to do with your special someone being far away...:D and is this a flirt or significant other?

[cherokeered]

cyber relationships are hard...and do require a commitment to make them work...and flexibility

they are real and use all the same emotions that other relationships do....but sometimes they are harder due to the distance that is often involved....

Either way...cyber relationships or friendships begin with trust....and just like any other relationship, they can be broken by lies....the pain and disappointment are no different....

Like everywhere...there are good and bad people...there are honest people and there are liars....you take a chance whether online or offline with either...people are what they are and really, if you lie on here....you will lie off of here also.....

Just my opinion....

[scoobertina]

cyber relationships are hard...and do require a commitment to make them work...and flexibility

they are real and use all the same emotions that other relationships do....but sometimes they are harder due to the distance that is often involved....

Either way...cyber relationships or friendships begin with trust....and just like any other relationship, they can be broken by lies....the pain and disappointment are no different....

Like everywhere...there are good and bad people...there are honest people and there are liars....you take a chance whether online or offline with either...people are what they are and really, if you lie on here....you will lie off of here also.....

Just my opinion....

Very good points.. I concur...

[dan1961]

yes, it can be cruel... but what does mother nature have to do with your special someone being far away...:D and is this a flirt or significant other?

someone i really care about.

[scoobertina]

someone i really care about.

Why don't you take a trip then? go see this someone special...

[dan1961]

Why don't you take a trip then? go see this someone special...

welll...that may happen sooner or later..it has been discussed..

[dan1961]

she is 5 hours from the closet airport however...just my luck

[scoobertina]

she is 5 hours from the closet airport however...just my luck

as you said one day... just take it one day at a time... in the meantime here is a hug to help :hug:

[dan1961]

thanks for the hug tina...that is the most i have gotten in quite a while..

[scoobertina]

thanks for the hug tina...that is the most i have gotten in quite a while..

awww that is sad... sorry to hear it hun:(

[dan1961]

awww that is sad... sorry to hear it hun:(

such is life..but..its not so bad...i consider myself very fortunate on most other aspects of life..so..u win some and lose some...

[scoobertina]

such is life..but..its not so bad...i consider myself very fortunate on most other aspects of life..so..u win some and lose some...

but I believe that you win... even when you lose... you have learned from losing, you have grown from it.... Sorry, I am always being told that not everything comes up roses... I know it, I just try to look for the good in all

[dan1961]

but I believe that you win... even when you lose... you have learned from losing, you have grown from it.... Sorry, I am always being told that not everything comes up roses... I know it, I just try to look for the good in all

i agree with that completely..u have to learn from what is not successful and turn it into a positive...u r quite wise....tina..

[scoobertina]

i agree with that completely..u have to learn from what is not successful and turn it into a positive...u r quite wise....tina..

I wouldn't say wise, but you did soo..... hehe... my head is going to get too big for me...:D

[dan1961]

I wouldn't say wise, but you did soo..... hehe... my head is going to get too big for me...:D

well...you definitely have a clue..i can tell that for sure...and now..if part of me..just had a reason to get big..life would be goood again...lol

[scoobertina]

well...you definitely have a clue..i can tell that for sure...and now..if part of me..just had a reason to get big..life would be goood again...lol

so sorry.... I logged out a while ago... you still around?

[TheSexspurt]

Having had many cyber relationships and some that led to RL connections I have to say this. Cyber relationships can be very real and powerful and full of emotion. However, it really is nothing compared to a RL relationship.

Plus I have to add that I've had a very strong connection with a couple of people at the cyber level and then met them in RL... and there was no connection, attraction or anything at all. It just fizzled out and was quite disappointing...

All I can heed as a warning is, don't expect a cyber relationship to 100% roll into a real one no matter how powerful it feels. Not that it can't turn into something incredible... you'll just need to explore it further in real life to really find out.

[pointofnoreturn]

such is life..but..its not so bad...i consider myself very fortunate on most other aspects of life..so..u win some and lose some...Dan dan dan.....Not to worry. We are all here together...Soem of us closer than others..........:kk

[pointofnoreturn]

Cyber sex good...Yahoo messenger more instant..Phone sex great....The real deal ....Priceless.......................

[pointofnoreturn]

Unless you can reach me from where you are??????Just fun....

[confusedman]

Cyber sex good...Yahoo messenger more instant..Phone sex great....The real deal ....Priceless.......................

Couldn't have said it better myself, Point.

Although it can be fun seeing if you can make it very hard for your partner to type correctly ;)

[fire11614]

Cyber sex good...Yahoo messenger more instant..Phone sex great....The real deal ....Priceless.......................

Truer words were never spoken

[fire11614]

good clean ( and dirty ) fun

[TheSexspurt]

good clean ( and dirty ) fun

good clean ( and dirty) "CHEATING" fun. Half the fun of it is that its cheating!

[TheSexspurt]

Although it can now way ever be compared to fantastic sex... it can be amazingly pleasurable. A huge part of sexual satisfaction for me is satisfying my partner... and if I'm able to do that Cyberly... then how fun... besides... if you've ever been in a relationship with bad sex, you know all too well that what you get with someone online can be better than the real thing.

Bad sex is just bad... and good sex... well damn... its just mother hoppin' good!

[Dre]

extreme fun, and exciting to have control over such a long distance, but if you ask my wife she would say its cheating!LOL

[Dre]

Cybersex is great if you have the right person, I know I have found it better than what I get at home sometimes!

[SaugusSlipknot]

All I can say, is I agree whole heartedly.Cybersex is great if you have the right person, I know I have found it better than what I get at home sometimes!

[dan1961]

so sorry.... I logged out a while ago... you still around?

uh..well..2 days later..i am now...

[dan1961]

Dan dan dan.....Not to worry. We are all here together...Soem of us closer than others..........:kk

ok..no worries...i need u point..:sex

[MCat]

I think many relationships formed online would not work in real life. Online you don't get the everyday stuff - the family, the jobs, the hangups, the kids - your's, mine & ours. And hey....I like the laundry not folded and laying on the couch :D

[cherokeered]

I have known people who met their spouses online...one girl from work met a man from England online...divorced her husband...went to england...now is married with a kid.....she visited recently and is quite happy...


relationships whether online or in person are always challenged by the everyday things....but you never know until you try...and sometimes a risk is worth taking....

[confusedman]

There is an additional factor in online that just simply cannot be replicated in person. Online we share not only what we might say, but also what we are thinking. It seems that no matter how effective we think we are at communicating, there are still thoughts we hold back when with someone else physically. Online, this barrier can be broken - sometime very rapidly.

[MCat]

There is an additional factor in online that just simply cannot be replicated in person. Online we share not only what we might say, but also what we are thinking. It seems that no matter how effective we think we are at communicating, there are still thoughts we hold back when with someone else physically. Online, this barrier can be broken - sometime very rapidly.

Yes, I agree.....I do tend to say what I'm thinking online where in real life I tend to hold back and think before I talk. God....online I just ramble and say whatever I want :D Someone tell me to shut up :na

[w9kw]

heck just fun stuff

[scoobertina]

There is an additional factor in online that just simply cannot be replicated in person. Online we share not only what we might say, but also what we are thinking. It seems that no matter how effective we think we are at communicating, there are still thoughts we hold back when with someone else physically. Online, this barrier can be broken - sometime very rapidly.

But is this always a good thing? I don't think it is... You learn about a person too fast sometimes.....

[jeromemoreau]

Yes, I agree.....I do tend to say what I'm thinking online where in real life I tend to hold back and think before I talk. God....online I just ramble and say whatever I want :D Someone tell me to shut up :na
Ain't it close to the same feeling when talking to someone who is not in your direct surrounding or territory (like a doc ou when away on holliday) ?
Online, as in those above situations, we do not fear to appear weak or to show our emotions... But to me, this is exacty the same in the other way... people can fake their identity/personnality easier online than in physical..
On one forum you can be The Red Ridding Hood and on another forum The Big Bad Wolf... Fascinating

[MCat]

Ain't it close to the same feeling when talking to someone who is not in your direct surrounding or territory (like a doc ou when away on holliday) ?
Online, as in those above situations, we do not fear to appear weak or to show our emotions... But to me, this is exacty the same in the other way... people can fake their identity/personnality easier online than in physical..
On one forum you can be The Red Ridding Hood and on another forum The Big Bad Wolf... Fascinating

I find it easier to be myself online...its in real life that I have to stifle my true feelings about most things because of others expectations of me. Finally I'm getting more comfortable in my own skin and I think I'm evolving...its helped me to be here, here I don't have to hide.

[p.J]

I have been known to rate it very high, but those times are only when the person I am having 'cybersex' with is as imaginative as I, unfortunately there are not many who are! :rolleyes:

[confusedman]

I have been known to rate it very high, but those times are only when the person I am having 'cybersex' with is as imaginative as I, unfortunately there are not many who are! :rolleyes:

hmmmm, you just need to find some more creative types then...;)

[p.J]

hmmmm, you just need to find some more creative types then...;)

I'll keep you in mind.... :kk

[confusedman]

I'll keep you in mind.... :kk

why thank you...I enjoy being put to the test....

[Big O]

It's tough when you type like a slug.....

[TheSexspurt]

I have been known to rate it very high, but those times are only when the person I am having 'cybersex' with is as imaginative as I, unfortunately there are not many who are! :rolleyes:

It requires an eloquence and an ability to communciate clearly using the typed word as well as an incredible imagination. I think it also takes an open and adventurous heart to accept it as an exciting way to seek sexual pleasure and share the experience with another person as open.

[p.J]

It requires an eloquence and an ability to communciate clearly using the typed word as well as an incredible imagination. I think it also takes an open and adventurous heart to accept it as an exciting way to seek sexual pleasure and share the experience with another person as open.

Absolutely correct sir... :)

[TheSexspurt]

I find it easier to be myself online...its in real life that I have to stifle my true feelings about most things because of others expectations of me. Finally I'm getting more comfortable in my own skin and I think I'm evolving...its helped me to be here, here I don't have to hide.

I use to be this way MCat. There were many reasons why in real life I couldn't be my true self and it took me a long time to break free of that. I found a haven here online. I still struggle sometimes but am in a much happier place now being true to myself now in real life as well as online.

Don't be afraid to venture out and express your true being... It is liberating and you're a beautiful person who deserves to do so.

[thickitalian]

Jman...I hear what you are saying and a lot of it is true, however, if you have posted and emailed and Im'd for a while...you get to know the signs of a phony. It's not black and white because they are very very good at what they preach but there will come a time when they say something that is out of context with their previous thought process...hard to explain but the stop sign goes off for me immediately. Unfortunately it's mostly the men who are someone they are not...from my experiences. Don't mis-read me man...this is a good site and outlet and I have not detected anything except one time and that person no longer writes. All the people here that I have befriended I feel are very down to earth...and we are only guilty of fantasizing...but that's what it's all about! :55

Ain't it close to the same feeling when talking to someone who is not in your direct surrounding or territory (like a doc ou when away on holliday) ?
Online, as in those above situations, we do not fear to appear weak or to show our emotions... But to me, this is exacty the same in the other way... people can fake their identity/personnality easier online than in physical..
On one forum you can be The Red Ridding Hood and on another forum The Big Bad Wolf... Fascinating

[TheSexspurt]

Absolutely correct sir... :)

Just imagine me erect mam... :)

[pointofnoreturn]

I agree mr Thick...Most everyone here that I have talked to seems to be extremely honest and sincere. If they just wanted to play I don't think they would stay on this site for as long as some of the peeps here..

[MCat]

After all this time here its turned into more than play for me .... the people here are the closest friends I have.

[Outta]

When I joined, I was emphatic that falling in love here or having a serious relationship was simply impossible. Only a fool would believe this to be real.

I was wrong.

[MCat]

When I joined, I was emphatic that falling in love here or having a serious relationship was simply impossible. Only a fool would believe this to be real. I was wrong.



I'm sure its happened for many......

[MIGHTY]

After all this time here its turned into more than play for me .... the people here are the closest friends I have.

Here, here MCat.......you took the words right out of my mouth......:)

[MCat]

Here, here MCat.......you took the words right out of my mouth......:)

I think a lot of us share the same feelings Mighty....I'm in good company.

[thickitalian]

I think a lot of us share the same feelings Mighty....I'm in good company.



Don't forget we all have a common theme, in fact many common themes....it's no wonder we have special feelings for one another. Many of us, or most of us here, do not have as much in common with our spouses anymore for one reason for another. Maybe this place can even help to change that...who knows? I know my wife is sort of prudish when it comes to sex...she can be hot but is also not adventurous or spontaneous. That was the start of the complacency, then others issues came into play...we all have a story to share with our close friends here or publicly if we want to...we have more in common than many of us realize....and we are sincere with one another except for the occasional newbie that thinks this is a porn room...and rushes in like John Dillinger...lol!

I'm telling you, we all need a reunion some time in the future...imagine?

[Traxster]

I'm all for them!!!!

[thickitalian]

It would be an absolute riot...and we would need a few rooms labled appropriately...

[majorfun]

Would you happen to know anyone that has that ability?



I have been known to rate it very high, but those times are only when the person I am having 'cybersex' with is as imaginative as I, unfortunately there are not many who are! :rolleyes:

[bobbydean]

hello tonight all

[majorfun]

I don't know what my stance on cyber relationships is just yet.. I have been pondering this question for quite some time... Cyber relationships are difficult because you begin to fell a connection with someone but the lack of physical touch and the need to be with that person can be totally disheartening... The void that is created when that person is not available becomes hard to bear... Cyber relationship can place unneccessary pressure on you that was not there prior to beginning a relationship that could ultimately become futile...

[dan1961]

I don't know what my stance on cyber relationships is just yet.. I have been pondering this question for quite some time... Cyber relationships are difficult because you begin to fell a connection with someone but the lack of physical touch and the need to be with that person can be totally disheartening... The void that is created when that person is not available becomes hard to bear... Cyber relationship can place unneccessary pressure on you that was not there prior to beginning a relationship that could ultimately become futile...

very true.....

[Milk]

I don't know what my stance on cyber relationships is just yet.. I have been pondering this question for quite some time... Cyber relationships are difficult because you begin to fell a connection with someone but the lack of physical touch and the need to be with that person can be totally disheartening... The void that is created when that person is not available becomes hard to bear... Cyber relationship can place unneccessary pressure on you that was not there prior to beginning a relationship that could ultimately become futile...


i completely agree. several us have been there.
one thing is that you can get very attached to the person and feel their hurt, but you aren't even able to give them an actual hug.
the emotional and sexual longing can be unbearble.

[MCat]

I don't know what my stance on cyber relationships is just yet.. I have been pondering this question for quite some time... Cyber relationships are difficult because you begin to fell a connection with someone but the lack of physical touch and the need to be with that person can be totally disheartening... The void that is created when that person is not available becomes hard to bear... Cyber relationship can place unneccessary pressure on you that was not there prior to beginning a relationship that could ultimately become futile...

I know you are being serious Major.....this week my answer to this problem was to buy a new toy and name it after my one of my online friends :D I think they resemble each other quite a bit....of course I don't really know...just a hunch.

[tiger50]

I know you are being serious Major.....this week my answer to this problem was to buy a new toy and name it after my one of my online friends :D I think they resemble each other quite a bit....of course I don't really know...just a hunch.


aww fark...... :lmao :lmao :lmao

[MCat]

aww fark...... :lmao :lmao :lmao

Ya like that one Tiger......just imagine :D

[tiger50]

Ya like that one Tiger......just imagine :D

the mind just boggles.. a big dildo with someones head on it.... :whee:

[p.J]

Would you happen to know anyone that has that ability?

Indeed I do! Want me to whisper his name? ;)

[massage mike]

Absolutely correct sir... :):lf hello gorgeous butt:whee: :)

[p.J]

:lf hello gorgeous butt:whee: :)

Why hello Mike, how the devil are you?

[FitMidwestGuy39]

No substitute, but better than the alternative - if the alternative is virtually nothing

Creativity is everything!

[scoobertina]

No substitute, but better than the alternative - if the alternative is virtually nothing

Creativity is everything!

Hope you are getting well taken care of then.... we wouldn't want you to be stuck with nothing:kk

[pointofnoreturn]

yummy

[jman]

not nearly as good as the real thing.

[Outta]

With the right person (and I know the right person) it's fun, erotic, and down-right naughty. It gets you all built up so that when you get the real thing, you have something to trigger your imagination. And that's the key to really good sex.:knuddel:

[cherokeered]

Cyber sex????....know nothing about it............:(

[tiger50]

Cyber sex????....know nothing about it............:(

:lmao :lmao me either...

[Suz]

With the right person (and I know the right person) it's fun, erotic, and down-right naughty. It gets you all built up so that when you get the real thing, you have something to trigger your imagination. And that's the key to really good sex.:knuddel:

I love it when you tell me you are talking about Ethan in your posts and want me to read about your gayness...cause you know I love the whole man on man thing....You go Outta...that is soooo hot....gay it up baby....g a y i t u p ! ;)

[cherokeered]

I love it when you tell me you are talking about Ethan in your posts and want me to read about your gayness...cause you know I love the whole man on man thing....You go Outta...that is soooo hot....gay it up baby....g a y i t u p ! ;)


:lmao :lmao

[Outta]

I love it when you tell me you are talking about Ethan in your posts and want me to read about your gayness...cause you know I love the whole man on man thing....You go Outta...that is soooo hot....gay it up baby....g a y i t u p ! ;)


OMFG. You win this round, Suz. I give.:tantrum:

[Suz]

OMFG. You win this round, Suz. I give.:tantrum:

As Ethan once said...."It's good to King" It's good to be the queen baby...;)

[Outta]

As Ethan once said...."It's good to King" It's good to be the queen baby...;)

Then I surrender to thy highness. How might I service your majesty? Shall I prepare the royal bubble bath? Or dost thou require a massagus clitorus? Shall I removeth my sword? Or thrust with my giant lance? Dost my queen require mine staff? Or willest thou taketh my head? For I am not prepareth with mine proper armor? Without such protection, I should be a loose cannon ... or guilty of allowing an army of armed soldiers to swim through thy moat and threaten thine innocence.

[Suz]

Then I surrender to thy highness. How might I service your majesty? Shall I prepare the royal bubble bath? Or dost thou require a massagus clitorus? Shall I removeth my sword? Or thrust with my giant lance? Dost my queen require mine staff? Or willest thou taketh my head? For I am not prepareth with mine proper armor? Without such protection, I should be a loose cannon ... or guilty of allowing an army of armed soldiers to swim through thy moat and threaten thine innocence.


Well you're in luck tonight...not ovulating...so let the army in..lol...you are such a crazy ass...I love it...oh and yes, draw me a bubble bath, you know I do require that.

[hank69]

When I joined, I was emphatic that falling in love here or having a serious relationship was simply impossible. Only a fool would believe this to be real.

I was wrong.


I'm sure it has or going too for some.

[MIGHTY]

It requires an eloquence and an ability to communciate clearly using the typed word as well as an incredible imagination. I think it also takes an open and adventurous heart to accept it as an exciting way to seek sexual pleasure and share the experience with another person as open.

Ok, I am good with typing.......have juggled my share on Yahoo.....and most here know I have a very vivid imagination. But, there is somethin void about cybering to me. If I can tell a good "story" and help someone out then great! But, for me it does not do too much unless I am already at the breaking point........:sg

[hank69]

Ok, I am good with typing.......have juggled my share on Yahoo.....and most here know I have a very vivid imagination. But, there is somethin void about cybering to me. If I can tell a good "story" and help someone out then great! But, for me it does not do too much unless I am already at the breaking point........:sg



Yes I'll go along with than also.....

[MCat]

I'm sure it has or going too.

It is possible to have a good friendship with someone without it going too far.

Since you are putting this out here instead of talking privately with me,
I'm gonna go along....

You wanted me to be a more sensual person....I am...I learned how for you.
In the process I have made quite a few good friends and a few close ones.
I have strong feelings for these friends....FRIENDS!

We have too much to lose for me to let friendships turn into anything else. We have been together 32 years, have 4 great kids between us and the grandbabies are coming.....I would be absolutely nuts to do anything to ruin our lives and I don't want to.

[GeekMaster]

It is possible to have a good friendship with someone without it going too far...I would be absolutely nuts to do anything to ruin our lives and I don't want to.

That is what makes you such a wonderful friend, and such a hot desireable lady.
:knuddel:

[Milk]

I rate it using a system like movie ratings (1 to 5 stars) but it's based on the number of squirting orgasms the rendevous produces.

[hank69]

That is what makes you such a wonderful friend, and such a hot desireable lady.
:knuddel:



YA aint she Cool.......and getting good at .......:blowjob:

[Dmy]

I love it when you tell me you are talking about Ethan in your posts and want me to read about your gayness...cause you know I love the whole man on man thing....You go Outta...that is soooo hot....gay it up baby....g a y i t u p ! ;)

:lmao That is a good one , Way to go Suz! :55

[pointofnoreturn]

Ok...Who is gay here...Ethan and outta????Come on guys stick to us girls. WE can make you cum over to our side....:hp:

[MysteryLaidee]

Just like real life sex, I've had good and bad. It depends on a lot of factors from both individuals which would also apply in the real world: selflessness, creativity, "listening" so to speak, etc. A cyber sex partner that is sincere in pleasing the other partner can be very satisfying. Then again, so can a vibrator.

[majorfun]

Cyber and a vib..Good combination



Just like real life sex, I've had good and bad. It depends on a lot of factors from both individuals which would also apply in the real world: selflessness, creativity, "listening" so to speak, etc. A cyber sex partner that is sincere in pleasing the other partner can be very satisfying. Then again, so can a vibrator.

[pointofnoreturn]

Cyber and a vib..Good combinationthat works for me.

[living to Flirt]

It would really matter on who it was, have I seen what the person looked like and would I want to do her if given a chance. Otherwise, it just words that are typed.

[scoobertina]

cyber is great... use the imagination let it all go. be yourself... man I love it... pics don't distract me at all.... I could care less what a guy (or girl) looks like... how do they treat me.. Of course I am not saying that a physically attractive guy or girl wouldn't turn me on, just that I can be turned on by anyone...

[living to Flirt]

cyber is great... use the imagination let it all go. be yourself... man I love it... pics don't distract me at all.... I could care less what a guy (or girl) looks like... how do they treat me.. Of course I am not saying that a physically attractive guy or girl wouldn't turn me on, just that I can be turned on by anyone...

Maybe its my career that makes me wonder.... to many things I have seen to know not to beleive everything I read. lol

[cherokeered]

Maybe its my career that makes me wonder.... to many things I have seen to know not to beleive everything I read. lol


Read?????


Ya mean ya don't use a headset....to be live and personal?

[scoobertina]

Maybe its my career that makes me wonder.... to many things I have seen to know not to beleive everything I read. lol
Again, just use the imagination... I don't care what the other person is or isn't lying about.... as long as it isn't real... ;)

[scoobertina]

actually, it is real... at least to me.. hopefully a couple of friends from here too.

[living to Flirt]

See to me, when I am on a headset or cam... its not the same as texting. I love to text and say what I would love to do... but if its a voice telling me then its a turn on

[scoobertina]

See to me, when I am on a headset or cam... its not the same as texting. I love to text and say what I would love to do... but if its a voice telling me then its a turn on

I quite agree, although new to the voice thing... it is a whole new experience.. taking me all night to get used to talking to someone... see, I can be shy :kk

[cherokeered]

See to me, when I am on a headset or cam... its not the same as texting. I love to text and say what I would love to do... but if its a voice telling me then its a turn on


Isn't that the point????...to be turned on????

so you aren't looking to get turned on????

[living to Flirt]

Isn't that the point????...to be turned on????

so you aren't looking to get turned on????


I am more of a tease.... I love to turn my women on... to me its all about them. If they are really into it, and enjoying it, then I would get turned on. But they would be having to be into it, not just going thru the actions

[dlbbld63]

As a writer, it's a fun challenge...to paint a word picture that makes your cyber partner wet. Can be fun to know you're getting someone off w/ just words

[living to Flirt]

I quite agree, although new to the voice thing... it is a whole new experience.. taking me all night to get used to talking to someone... see, I can be shy :kk


I knew it was in you Scoob.

[pointofnoreturn]

It would really matter on who it was, have I seen what the person looked like and would I want to do her if given a chance. Otherwise, it just words that are typed.It really can be a lot more than words. Some people have a gift for cybering or texting......We should meet..:wa:

[joe43]

interesting picture above

[joe43]

i never get that big

[pointofnoreturn]

i never get that bigthat big a what????:D

[SexyCowgirl]

I'm a very tactile person, and while my imagination can do a lot for me, cyber just doesn't make me fel the same. I don't even enjoy masturbating as much as having a person there, just the touch of another is way better.

But, hey, take your fun where you can get it, right?

[howie69]

think its great. let yourself go without any bounds. do not care about the physical appearance of the lady, just as long as we enjoy ourselves and hopefully others are also enjoying.

[speed_raycer]

Just keeps getting more exciting! Something about the written word in a sexy chat that causes other senses to respond SO strongly. Incredible.:whee:

[MysteryLaidee]

It allows someone who may have inhibitions to let go in an environment where they feel comfortable where they may not in a real life situation...

[living to Flirt]

It allows someone who may have inhibitions to let go in an environment where they feel comfortable where they may not in a real life situation...

Very true.. I am sure many would not say alot of what they are willing to write... specially to someone who they have just met... at least sober

[Michael77]

Real is much better..:lf

[howie69]

It is great. some people can not or will not expose themself to their partner but here they might feel safe in opening up.

[MysteryLaidee]

Very true.. I am sure many would not say alot of what they are willing to write... specially to someone who they have just met... at least sober:D

[Dmy]

When Im not getting it at home.......It rates pretty dang good! :D

[veronica]

When Im not getting it at home.......It rates pretty dang good! :D


I agree, but I'd rather have the real thing................

[Dmy]

I agree, but I'd rather have the real thing................

Oh...there is nothing like the real thing! I agree! :D :knuddel:

[veronica]

Oh...there is nothing like the real thing! I agree! :D :knuddel:

I am trying to remember what it feels like..........LOL

[living to Flirt]

I am trying to remember what it feels like..........LOL


Sure you could find someone to help you out here.

[scoobertina]

mmm with the right person it is phenomenal..... ;)

[Dmy]

mmm with the right person it is phenomenal..... ;)

I use to think it wasnt all that great, but I agree.......with the right person...its better than staying all pent up and hornier than I already am! :D

[cherokeered]

Cybersex can be very fulfilling.....but like any sex, it all depends on who is involved....


Anyone can cyber....if ur typing, then not much different than writing a dirty letter.....if ur on the phone or headset or cam...then not much different than being there except for the physical touch

Cybersex is just that.....sex with someone not in the same room as you....it's really no different than any other kind of sex....

You are talking to a stranger....you are getting heated up....you are perhaps masturbating with that persons voice in you ear or their face in front of you...you cum now or later...doesn't matter

The thing about cybering is a lot of people dismiss it as harmless...but if it bothers ur spouse or significant other...or if it would if they knew....then it isn't harmless any longer...and to me, cybering is no different than a one night stand with a stranger or a fuck buddy.....


Just my opinion.....

[living to Flirt]

Cybersex can be very fulfilling.....but like any sex, it all depends on who is involved....


Anyone can cyber....if ur typing, then not much different than writing a dirty letter.....if ur on the phone or headset or cam...then not much different than being there except for the physical touch

Cybersex is just that.....sex with someone not in the same room as you....it's really no different than any other kind of sex....

You are talking to a stranger....you are getting heated up....you are perhaps masturbating with that persons voice in you ear or their face in front of you...you cum now or later...doesn't matter

The thing about cybering is a lot of people dismiss it as harmless...but if it bothers ur spouse or significant other...or if it would if they knew....then it isn't harmless any longer...and to me, cybering is no different than a one night stand with a stranger or a fuck buddy.....


Just my opinion.....


Think you nailed it!

[p.J]

Excellent cherokeered as always... with cybersex however, we can create a totally fictitious identity! Often we don't have the faintest idea who the other persons real name or where they live. Thus, establishing an incredible fantasy relationship with people we have never even seen or spoken to. The speed of typing to one another along with the safety of being in different locations allows us to go beyond the boundaries of propriety very easily! Cyber sex encounters can be strongly addictive. Some people end up spending most of their free time on Internet chat! The worrying thing is however, is how many partners have been ignored while their partners are online with someone in a different place!:sc

[MysteryLaidee]

Excellent cherokeered as always... with cybersex however, we can create a totally fictitious identity! Often we don't have the faintest idea who the other persons real name or where they live. Thus, establishing an incredible fantasy relationship with people we have never even seen or spoken to. The speed of typing to one another along with the safety of being in different locations allows us to go beyond the boundaries of propriety very easily! Cyber sex encounters can be strongly addictive. Some people end up spending most of their free time on Internet chat! The worrying thing is however, is how many partners have been ignored while their partners are online with someone in a different place!:sc

Both excellent points!!! I want to add to the mix, many of the partners are ignoring the the one's that are here. I'm not saying that justifies it or makes it "right", just another side is all. As one of the perpetually ignored, I speak from experience. So, I found something else to do with my time after all of my efforts toward him were thwarted. Ironically, he turned it around and said I was always on the computer. So I took a break and guess what....back where we were to begin with, so tired of it again, I searched and then I found this site. Maybe if he knew what I was really doing he would make more of effort. It is addictive, I do enjoy it, and it feels a need.

[veronica]

last night's was an A+!!!

[living to Flirt]

last night's was an A+!!!

Damn I missed something last night?

[veronica]

Damn I missed something last night?


don't worry....there is always tonight..........

[dan1961]

what is cybersex???

[veronica]

what is cybersex???


Too bad you don't know.....you are missing out.....

[tiger50]

Too bad you don't know.....you are missing out.....

bugga, i must be too..... wonder if there's a cybersex for dummies book????:sc

[veronica]

bugga, i must be too..... wonder if there's a cybersex for dummies book????:sc


don't believe you for a second....:D

[tiger50]

don't believe you for a second....:D

half a second?????:sc (i'm innamacent i tell ya)

[veronica]

half a second?????:sc (i'm innamacent i tell ya)


On second thought, I think I just dreamt that I had it.....so I guess I don't know what it is either....

[dan1961]

Too bad you don't know.....you are missing out.....

i will have to try it out sometime...

[veronica]

i will have to try it out sometime...


me too, thought I had it, but it was just a fantasy...............:D

[living to Flirt]

don't worry....there is always tonight..........

Oh I worry... I hate missing anything that is good.... and if its here... its got to be good!

[angelis]

depends who you are doing it with!!

[freestyle99]

depends who you are doing it with!!

I had a wonderful first time...my rating so far is E for excellent...

[veronica]

second only to the real thing.....

[veronica]

I had a wonderful first time...my rating so far is E for excellent...

Congrats, Freestyle! :D

[joe43]

point, i have no idea what I was saying there...oops

[freestyle99]

Congrats, Freestyle! :D

If I smoked I would have looked for the nearest cigarette, it was that good...but you're right, the real thing is tops...

[angelis]

If I smoked I would have looked for the nearest cigarette, it was that good...but you're right, the real thing is tops...

well that's pretty good then freestyle!!;)

[freestyle99]

well that's pretty good then freestyle!!;)

it sure was angel...

[veronica]

If I smoked I would have looked for the nearest cigarette, it was that good...but you're right, the real thing is tops...


LOL....true, but when that's not available, cyber is a pretty good substitute....hope your future experiences are equally enjoyable....

[veronica]

freestyle.....where are you from??

[freestyle99]

freestyle.....where are you from??

western NY...

[freestyle99]

freestyle.....where are you from??

You a NoVa girl, MD?

[veronica]

You a NoVa girl, MD?


..:wa:

[scoobertina]

Cyber can be good. I think phone sex is much much better.. Again, it does depend on who you are doing it with... I haven't had to complain about any of my men here yet... whether they like me or not I don't know but if they avoid me then I know there is a problem. :D

[veronica]

agreed, tina...the phone makes it more personal....also no complaints about the guys here.....no complaints at all.....:kk :kk :kk

[freestyle99]

MD..:wa:

go Terps?!

[confusedman]

I've limited my cyber experience to some very special people...I don't share myself well in person...I would not do so online either.

As for phone, never had the pleasure of knowing...yet another experience not yet fulfilled...

[freestyle99]

I've limited my cyber experience to some very special people...I don't share myself well in person...I would not do so online either.

As for phone, never had the pleasure of knowing...yet another experience not yet fulfilled...

ditto on the phone thing...

[confusedman]

ditto on the phone thing...

damn...I thought I had the exclusive title of "40 year old phone virgin"! :D

[freestyle99]

damn...I thought I had the exclusive title of "40 year old phone virgin"! :D

nope, right with you pal...sort of talked kinky on the phone with this girl I dated after college but couldn't classify it as phone sex...Steve Carell's got NOTHING on us!!!

[confusedman]

nope, right with you pal...sort of talked kinky on the phone with this girl I dated after college but couldn't classify it as phone sex...Steve Carell's got NOTHING on us!!!

lol! I don't care who you are that's funny right there! :D

[confusedman]

damn...I thought I had the exclusive title of "40 year old phone virgin"! :D

Maybe we need a new "phone virgin" thread...work out all those frustrations! :D

[dan1961]

someday..i hope to try cyber sex..

[veronica]

someday..i hope to try cyber sex..


well, if you need some guidance, let me know.....;) :lf

[swanston253]

How do you rate cybersex:thankyou:
dont know new to this looking around for nice girl to try it with any sugestions

[swanston253]

well, if you need some guidance, let me know.....;) :lfveronica care to teach a newy

[swanston253]

I like this I have time to type and think of what to say.gives you time to imagine some great stuff hey

[swanston253]

Hmmm I think if you can type fairly well and your are devilish and creative it can be amazing. Its all in the chemistry and thats been my biggest surprise. Its all in your mind and thats always where the best sex starts. Tantric sex is sort of the same. If it works for you its "oh my GOODDD!" otherwise its kinda silly.

Have fun people. why else are we here?

HFP exactly and amazing there are hundreds of people out there that think like me

[swanston253]

second only to the real thing.....than you must be good at it ill have to get to know some friends in here

[swanston253]

Ok...Who is gay here...Ethan and outta????Come on guys stick to us girls. WE can make you cum over to our side....:hp:im right there with ya sweet hart

[veronica]

than you must be good at it ill have to get to know some friends in here


Welcome swanston! I am sure you will meet some great people here.....;)

[veronica]

go Terps?!


Hi freestyle......don't forget the Redskins.....:wa:

[veronica]

western NY...



Binghamton area??

[freestyle99]

Binghamton area??

more north and west, Bills fan:(

[freestyle99]

Binghamton area??

but I travel to Binghamton fairly often...

[loli_se53]

Same thing over here with the phone. I never thought these words would ever come out of my mouth again but.......I'm a virgin!

[yaser]

Same thing over here with the phone. I never thought these words would ever come out of my mouth again but.......I'm a virgin!
Do you want to stay that way or want a change? :lf

[spare_change]

Same thing over here with the phone. I never thought these words would ever come out of my mouth again but.......I'm a virgin!


It just so happens that I have a Virgin Removal Kit that can take care of that problem for you -- Made by Rontel, you can have it for only 3 monthly payments of $16.95!!!

[hank69]

It just so happens that I have a Virgin Removal Kit that can take care of that problem for you -- Made by Rontel, you can have it for only 3 monthly payments of $16.95!!!


Will that be 90 days same cash?

[dan1961]

Hi freestyle......don't forget the Redskins.....:wa:

Redskins SUCK...:blowjob:

[veronica]

but I travel to Binghamton fairly often...


we pass through there on our way to the Adirondacks.....

[freestyle99]

we pass through there on our way to the Adirondacks.....

I've spent some time in the 'dacks...

[veronica]

I've spent some time in Old Forge, Limekiln Lake...know it?


heard of it...

[veronica]

Redskins SUCK...:blowjob:



OMG.....you are in big trouble mister.......:nu

[freestyle99]

heard of it...

Tom's

[Big O]

Redskins SUCK...:blowjob:

maybe, but during baseball season Yankees SUCK!

[veronica]

Slickers?


what is Slickers?

[freestyle99]

raincoat?

[veronica]

bar/pub/restaurant in OF, NY



cool....will have to check it out....ty

[matosapa]

Provides more mental stimulation than physical. Its fun and safe....

[oc_guy_32]

Its a big turn on for me... i love it!

[cyclops]

When both cyber partners let their imagination go wild and their inhibitions go, Cybersex can be a fantastic experience and a huge turn on.


It is always best when both partners contribute equally instead of one doing all the hard work and the other typing "mmmmmm" & "arhhhhh" every now and again.

I love to cyber via IM, when it gets to a stage when both of you are really at boiling point, a phone call at that moment is always so explosive. :blowjob:

[cmt21lem]

jury is still out

[Papa Chubby]

When I had my cyber affair, it was GREAT. To watch and type back and forth. It was a private show between us, and it was better then I was having at home.

Now that I have real sex life again, cyber sex is a very poor second.

[partydude]

it can be fun

[Constance]

I really am not into cyber sex. It is funny when you can kid around with someone that doesn not take teasing serious. It really does nothing for me. I don't like it either when guys approach you with it either. I have better things to talk about.

[irwin9956]

Not as good as the real thing, much rather have phone sex but it is a great way to fantasize.

[mer]

still dont get the point but hey....have it!!

[92115guy]

I think it would be more erotic to talk about sex than have cybersex. But, I am a naturally curious person and a bit of a voyeur so I suppose talking about it fits those needs more than cyber.

james

[cheerymissy_34]

i dont see what the big deal is all about

[YourAssMyHand]

Well, If I can't cyber then I get none at all. So, I guess cyber is keeping me sane. Just barely.

[ksue7274]

Depends on who it's with.

[Shawn]

Well.. yeah... its there i guess... not really a huge selling point for me

[nugnugwinkwink]

whatever floats your boat

[SirFox]

whatever floats your boat

That is some expression. What the heck does it mean? Something like "whatever you like?" Always learning......

[cherri]

Cyber sex is good if its with the right person, and they know what buttons to push, and have intellect and english vocab. to produce a physical response. But, I have to admit, it can be frustrating when you really want the person to be within touching distance, and they just aren't. Even the best, active imagination can leave you wanting more.

[SirFox]

Cyber sex is good if its with the right person, and they know what buttons to push, and have intellect and english vocab. to produce a physical response. But, I have to admit, it can be frustrating when you really want the person to be within touching distance, and they just aren't. Even the best, active imagination can leave you wanting more.

Imagination is one thing. The elaboration of words, the usage of images, instead of simple grunts are a must to have a good cybersex session. Unfortunately, not too many people can produce images on the phone to make that desire, the want and more a reality.

[nugnugwinkwink]

It tends to be to hard to type and cyber at the same time

[midnightcallerman]

Although it has been quite some time since I cybered, I really do still enjoy the thought of it. Having the right partner to do it with is a must for me. To me a partner has to convey believability in what they are saying online. If I think they are just going through the motions then I am not as interested. I have to be able to get that feeling that they are as turned as I am. I have done cyber with women who it was their first time to women that have been doing it for sometime. If the interest is there it will come through in how they respond to what you saying.

[yaser]

I really am not into cyber sex. It is funny when you can kid around with someone that doesn not take teasing serious. It really does nothing for me. I don't like it either when guys approach you with it either. I have better things to talk about.

For instance politics or philosophy?Or history?Or erotic stories?

[MarkmyWords]

I think it would be more erotic to talk about sex than have cybersex. But, I am a naturally curious person and a bit of a voyeur so I suppose talking about it fits those needs more than cyber.

james

I agree. Maybe it's just semantics on what cybersex means. I much rather talk to a woman in great detail about our past experiences, fantasies, turn-ons, etc. Anyone game?

Not so much simulating having sex. I'm willing to try, but it hasn't done much fr me in the past.

[FizProf]

I was only recently cyber-deflowered...

[anesdoc74]

Cyber sex is good if its with the right person, and they know what buttons to push, and have intellect and english vocab. to produce a physical response. But, I have to admit, it can be frustrating when you really want the person to be within touching distance, and they just aren't. Even the best, active imagination can leave you wanting more.

Sometimes that may be the point though right?

[dixiechiknga]

Pfffttttt just call me!!!!!!! Hell with the typing

[midnightcallerman]

Pfffttttt just call me!!!!!!! Hell with the typing

that might have to be arranged :)

[SirFox]

that might have to be arranged :)

MIDNIGHTCALLER: We want a full report on these illicit activities, and in 40 copies....okay?

[redcat]

Cyber can be good if you connect with the person and you're both able to convey the feeling that you can actually picture it....though it does become difficult to type. I prefer phone a lot of the time, though....it's so nice to put a voice to the words, the sharing of the scenario and feelings is more intense.

[john30]

phone is a lot better than cybering when you can hear the other person it is such a turn on

[Luna]

I do not come here for cyber sex, but I after a few conversations and chats with people who do, I sort of get it.

If you do not want to leave your spouse or have an affair.. and flirting alone is not enough, or using your imagination to give you what is missing.... then it's a way to connect. I can understand that. I guess I used to judge but now I don't.

We are all different and we visit this site for different reasons!!

:)

[Sparklineyez]

It doesn't do much for me. I would rather the real thing, I guess everyone would tho lol I would so much rather have a deep conversation with someone. I would rather talk about sex rather then cyber , if that makes sense.

[MRsarcastic]

can't vote,,,no option for never got lucky enough:nopity

[MrHyde]

Cyber really doesn't do it for me either. I prefer the phone....and obviously physical connection to words on a screen. I agree that just chatting about sex is more exciting than actually typing that "I'm sticking my ________in you hot ____!

[john30]

not as good as phone sex

[Charmed]

I like flirting but, I would rather someone call me.

[john30]

i hear ya

[cyclops]

I like flirting but, I would rather someone call me.

Ringing your bell would be a pleasure :lf

[YourAssMyHand]

I like flirting but, I would rather someone call me.

It would be my pleasure to hear your sexy voice.

[Charmed]

It would be my pleasure to hear your sexy voice.

And what makes you think i have a sexy voice?

[NotTooGirly]

I agree that cyber can be a nice, safe, racy thrill, but I also prefer talking about sex with someone I'm interested in over a round of one-handed typing (and for the record I am a pretty decent one-handed typist!). Phone sex would probably be a step up from that, I guess, but even still I am happily (if frustratedly) holding out another few weeks for the real thing.

[92115guy]

I am happily (if frustratedly) holding out another few weeks for the real thing.

You definitely cannot beat the real thing.


james

[Charmed]

Ringing your bell would be a pleasure :lf

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[bstear]

I agree that cyber can be a nice, safe, racy thrill, but I also prefer talking about sex with someone I'm interested in over a round of one-handed typing (and for the record I am a pretty decent one-handed typist!). Phone sex would probably be a step up from that, I guess, but even still I am happily (if frustratedly) holding out another few weeks for the real thing.

I agree phone is a step up but nothing actual penetration and the touch of her skin against mine.. her fingers running down my chest... oh yeah!! thats it...

[tallguy32]

no good for me. I'd rather sit across the table from a real person and have a conversation than waste my energy on it

[mer]

i really don't understand the concept...i type with both hands...makes it kinda hard!! :sc ...gimme a phone or better yet a knock on my front door :ok and i'm a happy girl!!!

[Nomad(m)]

i really don't understand the concept...i type with both hands...makes it kinda hard!! :sc ...gimme a phone or better yet a knock on my front door :ok and i'm a happy girl!!!

:dt

[fourisit]

If I cant feel his touch I at least need his voice..

[jmsmith12345]

for cyber sex, I generally go with the Elo rating system

[pensive]

Never had phone sex... I probably would like that better than cyber....
The cyber requires a lot of imagination... well that is not a stretch consider thinking about sex is more often than not the norm in my house....

So I like it... but it can never replace the real thing as many have said.