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Norfolkdave
07-03-2005, 05:53 PM
How do you rate cybersex:thankyou:

illmakeurtoeswiggle
07-03-2005, 09:47 PM
Well...no taste, smell, or feel (unless you count yourself feeling yourself;) )


I would say that it pretty much sucks!:( (you don't get that either!:cry: )

I've only chatted with a few of women on another site and my typing skills are so slow (especially with one hand:rofl1: ) that it really didn't work out too good.

Maybe it would be different if I could type faster...never did the webcam thing either. Did meet some nice ladies though!:D

Wet Beaver
07-03-2005, 11:20 PM
Well...no taste, smell, or feel (unless you count yourself feeling yourself;) )


I would say that it pretty much sucks!:( (you don't get that either!:cry: )

I've only chatted with a few of women on another site and my typing skills are so slow (especially with one hand:rofl1: ) that it really didn't work out too good.

Maybe it would be different if I could type faster...never did the webcam thing either. Did meet some nice ladies though!:D


Is it the slow typing skills or a sticky keyboard? :rofl1: Cyber doesn't to much for me either, I think it is so inpersonal

illmakeurtoeswiggle
07-03-2005, 11:45 PM
Is it the slow typing skills or a sticky keyboard? :rofl1: Cyber doesn't to much for me either, I think it is so inpersonal

Ah, er, I wasn't gonna mention that!;)

Zpanther
07-04-2005, 07:38 AM
It's okay if it's with someone I've actually met in real life.... or someone I'm pretty confident is who they say they are. I don't go to chat rooms or repond to girls that want to me to watch them on their webcam. Too many just tryin' to make some money or to snag a 'sugar daddy.'

Cindy
07-04-2005, 11:41 PM
I like this I have time to type and think of what to say.

Norfolkdave
07-05-2005, 05:42 AM
Hey cindy wanna flirt with me then , I dont bite unless you want me too?

Norfolkdave
07-05-2005, 06:34 AM
I love cybersex as its all Im getting at the moment although the real thing is heaven, I dont mind as long as the women are not after my money if they are the camera is turned off straight away.

electoqute
07-05-2005, 03:27 PM
i've tried it a few times but most women i've come across are just trying to get money. caming is fun with sound though.

Eomer
07-05-2005, 09:03 PM
It can be good or bad, just like the real thing. depends on the person and the circumstances.

bushybill83
07-06-2005, 02:21 PM
too impersonal....never tried it with someone i knew well..that might be different

Eomer
07-06-2005, 02:30 PM
It is, very erotic :lf

Zpanther
07-06-2005, 03:20 PM
It is, very erotic :lf

good analogy E. (Scarred.... scared - probably both) :lf

hotfunpen
07-06-2005, 03:27 PM
Hmmm I think if you can type fairly well and your are devilish and creative it can be amazing. Its all in the chemistry and thats been my biggest surprise. Its all in your mind and thats always where the best sex starts. Tantric sex is sort of the same. If it works for you its "oh my GOODDD!" otherwise its kinda silly.

Have fun people. why else are we here?

HFP

aceofspades1114
07-06-2005, 03:43 PM
It is ok, it is all a mental game. Really it's getting off on what thoughts are coming from other people.

It doesn't beat the real thing though. Smell, Taste, and those type of things can never match up with mental ideas

Eomer
07-06-2005, 04:15 PM
Yes but the mental is not always expressed in real, depending on your partner.

If both parties are imaginative, expressive, well versed and articulate cyber can be really stimulating.

And Thank You Zp

nlightenedrogue
07-07-2005, 02:04 AM
I've tried most types of sex I've ever heard of that I could actually do, but I'm still a cyber virgin.

quax999
07-07-2005, 10:45 AM
It's safe sex!

Eomer
07-07-2005, 10:48 AM
I am game !

Penny
07-07-2005, 02:09 PM
Welcome Hotfunpen thanks for posting :kk

I have done it with people I know It seems like the computer brings it out in people :)

Heaterman
07-07-2005, 04:17 PM
I used to like to watch Penny play on webcam with other people. She was pretty good at it to the nasty girl she is :D

degrizjames
07-07-2005, 07:34 PM
used to like to watch penny? you dont watch any more?

illmakeurtoeswiggle
07-10-2005, 08:28 AM
Well...no taste, smell, or feel (unless you count yourself feeling yourself;) )


I would say that it pretty much sucks!:( (you don't get that either!:cry: )

I've only chatted with a few of women on another site and my typing skills are so slow (especially with one hand:rofl1: ) that it really didn't work out too good.

Maybe it would be different if I could type faster...never did the webcam thing either. Did meet some nice ladies though!:D

I'm gonna have to change this up a bit!
It depends on who is on the other end!:D :kk

Zpanther
07-10-2005, 01:18 PM
Sounds like you had a recent experience to change your mind Wiggles.... heh heh

illmakeurtoeswiggle
07-10-2005, 09:48 PM
Yeah ZP, you're right!I must say that she knew exactly what she was doing too! Hard to find a woman like her...I was lucky for once!:D

Norfolkdave
07-28-2005, 09:56 AM
If you had an online lover could you keep it discreet or would you want to tell friends:D

KIRA187
07-28-2005, 11:05 AM
keep it a secret.

nlightenedrogue
07-28-2005, 02:12 PM
I never kiss (even cyber kiss) and tell.

Norfolkdave
07-29-2005, 04:26 AM
I have a friend and shes nice very nice thats all Im going to say.

Annie
07-29-2005, 09:46 AM
Well Dave, I think I sent you an e-mail regarding this? I told a little bit about mine, but not to a "friend" (well I told Dave too) I told my husband. Now he kinda leaves me alone at the puter a bit more...

The reason I told him was because we used the experience I had to enhance our sex life. We compare it to playing video games (gives new meaning the words "Game Boy"?). I only consider cyber sex or porn cheating if it takes away from the relationship my husband and I have. This "affair" has only made our relation better and all three of us know the deal.

Penny
07-29-2005, 02:08 PM
A few years ago my husband would tell me to play on Video Chat. He would watch me as I played with other people on the webcam. Sometimes he would be at work and I would tell him that I was having cyber sex with another man and when he got home it was a fun time in the bedroom :) A few times I even talked to the guy on the phone while we watched eachother on the PC it was a real turn for everyone. I havent done it in a long time. I think it could become a problem so we stopped

juli55
07-30-2005, 05:20 AM
Been there done that got caught... it was fun while it lasted. I wouldnt call it a love affair, just cyber sex.

illmakeurtoeswiggle
07-30-2005, 08:46 AM
So far Soooooo good!

ooooops, not a secret now huh?;)

dallyfoster
07-30-2005, 11:05 AM
So far Soooooo good!

ooooops, not a secret now huh?;)

Sorry, it aint a secret any longer bud... the /whole/ of the internet knows now! Yep!:whee:

KIRA187
08-01-2005, 09:09 AM
Been there done that got caught... it was fun while it lasted. I wouldnt call it a love affair, just cyber sex.

You have been to the well once, care to try it again? ;)

Norfolkdave
08-01-2005, 09:15 AM
Cuda Im always at the Well!

Zpanther
08-01-2005, 02:27 PM
Wouldn't tell anybody if they didn't want me to, except for Lady P... always tell her and I think it does enhance our sex life, although it doesn't need much help right now.

Big O
08-01-2005, 04:01 PM
I would not tell anyone. What goes on in the computer stays in the computer........

Onehttmama
08-01-2005, 05:08 PM
I would not tell anyone. What goes on in the computer stays in the computer........

I totally agree! Me, him and the computer!:D


But my daughter questioned the name on the e-mail Saturday. :sg OOPS! She snuck up behind me at my friends house.

dallyfoster
08-01-2005, 07:55 PM
Haha, oh well, you shouldnt have to explain yourself, mama

Onehttmama
08-01-2005, 08:01 PM
Haha, oh well, you shouldnt have to explain yourself, mama


well it was the reference art in the e-mail name that made her question it? But I work at a Framing and ART shop so I just said it was an artist friend which was totally true. She's like me and kept questioning. LOL

dallyfoster
08-01-2005, 08:02 PM
Haha, oh well... no worries then, right?

Onehttmama
08-01-2005, 08:15 PM
Absolutely right!

Wet Beaver
08-01-2005, 09:54 PM
Wouldn't tell anybody if they didn't want me to, except for Lady P... always tell her and I think it does enhance our sex life, although it doesn't need much help right now.

If your hubby,or wife is fine with it, that is one thing, but if you have to hide it ..it is boardering on cheatting.

Onehttmama
08-01-2005, 10:09 PM
what if you are not hiding it, but not telling either? He asks what I am doing , I just say chatting with friends. Basically right under his nose, he is sooo oblivious!!

Wet Beaver
08-01-2005, 10:14 PM
that would go under, "ask me no questions,and i'll tell you no lies". I just think if you have to hide it may not be cheatting under the normal sense of the word.. but it is very close to it..Or shows a want to cheat.. Maybe i have it confused..(or old fashion)but i like the trust that i have with my hubby, and i don't want to betray it..

Onehttmama
08-01-2005, 10:29 PM
that would go under, "ask me no questions,and i'll tell you no lies". I just think if you have to hide it may not be cheatting under the normal sense of the word.. but it is very close to it..Or shows a want to cheat.. Maybe i have it confused..(or old fashion)but i like the trust that i have with my hubby, and i don't want to betray it..


Well first off he is an attorney. And we just cant seem to talk he always ends up arguing. I have tried, but he says its all me (not soo , the kids have even told me that!) So I just dont talk accept when asked a question. ANd he is sorta getting like alheizmers, asking me the same question 3 times in 2 days, and swearing I didnt answer him.:( He knows I have my 21 year olds, that he calls my Boy Friends. Its just very strange anymore. I am not sure how long past the kids outta college I can stay in this marriage. And I will have my MAsters degree by then!!

Wet Beaver
08-01-2005, 10:39 PM
sorry mama, i didn't mean to judge.. it was just my opinion, I don't know you, or your reasons. I know everyone has reason for doing what they do, My own sister is cheating on her hubby. I can't blame her, the man is a drunk and a lazy bum. so lets leave it at that.

Onehttmama
08-01-2005, 10:42 PM
I didnt take offense! I may have sounded short because I just dont feel well. I really should get off of here. I just am living one day at a time!

Wet Beaver
08-01-2005, 10:48 PM
I hope you get well soon.. drink loads of tea, and stay way from, the strawberry wine...........lol

Onehttmama
08-01-2005, 10:52 PM
I hope you get well soon.. drink loads of tea, and stay way from, the strawberry wine...........lol


THANKS Beav!

I dont drink tea, hot or cold! Strawberry wine sounds good but too sweet for me. My friend and I downed a bottle Sat night /sun morning while playing pool! I shoulda looked closer at the label, The guy at the liquor store suggested it !

Wet Beaver
08-01-2005, 10:55 PM
well if you drink strawberry wine.... don't get near ZP... he likes his women drunk on cheap wine............LOL


































j/k zp

Zpanther
08-01-2005, 11:06 PM
well if you drink strawberry wine.... don't get near ZP... he likes his women drunk on cheap wine............LOL

j/k zp

Now tell the truth Beav. You loved it... (well, you might not remember, but that's what you said last night) ;)

Wet Beaver
08-01-2005, 11:07 PM
Now tell the truth Beav. You loved it... (well, you might not remember, but that's what you said last night) ;)


ohhhhhh you told,, does that mean i can tell everyone how tiny you are??:D

Zpanther
08-02-2005, 01:08 AM
Women! A guy with a sore shoulder sacrifices sleep in a nice comfortable bed next to his naked sleeping wife to stay up with a lonely ... uh, drunk..... woman to give her some comfort and support....... and that's what ya get... :sg

SDhot61
08-02-2005, 02:13 AM
Get well Onehit

GeekMaster
08-02-2005, 08:59 AM
[QUOTE=Onehttmama]I totally agree! Me, him and the computer!:D


Hey Onehttmama, how do I become "him"?

Onehttmama
08-02-2005, 09:09 AM
[QUOTE=Onehttmama]I totally agree! Me, him and the computer!:D


Hey Onehttmama, how do I become "him"?



Thats very difficult! I just sorta connected with him in the first 2 emails he sent. I was very wierd. The connections have become much stronger and stranger. An old High school buddy also looked me up recently and we still have a very strong connection. I am just taking life one day a time and enjoying the ride for now! One never knows what the future holds for us!;)

Keep looking, YOU never know when you may make THAT connection. I was not looking or ever intended on it, but things happen, usually for a reason!

ctcowboy13
08-02-2005, 10:33 AM
If I may add a little to this. We are all here because we like the charge we get when we are noticed by someone else, be it on here or on the street. When it comes to an online flirt you no longer have to be that that you in reality. You can have all the courage and style that you might not face to face. The problems start as I have found when you start to make things become real and in real time. I think I am more secure in myself than I have ever been because I have dabbled in the e-void and found sex, love, and at times real fullfillment. I have also found a lot of hurt, lonely and scared people that just want someone to hold on to. Everyone must be very careful when theyplay.

KIRA187
08-02-2005, 12:22 PM
If I may add a little to this. We are all here because we like the charge we get when we are noticed by someone else, be it on here or on the street. When it comes to an online flirt you no longer have to be that that you in reality. You can have all the courage and style that you might not face to face. The problems start as I have found when you start to make things become real and in real time. I think I am more secure in myself than I have ever been because I have dabbled in the e-void and found sex, love, and at times real fullfillment. I have also found a lot of hurt, lonely and scared people that just want someone to hold on to. Everyone must be very careful when theyplay.


I think ctcowboy sums it up pretty well.

ctcowboy13
08-02-2005, 12:48 PM
Thanks Cuda for letting me have a say. Thanks to you all.

Penny
08-02-2005, 01:15 PM
Good post cowboy :)

ctcowboy13
08-02-2005, 01:45 PM
Thanks Penny, I am not always so somber I guess I am just about like everyone else. I enjoy what I see so far, thanks for letting me in.

KIRA187
08-02-2005, 03:16 PM
but let us not stop flirting.... get those brain cells flowing and let the blood flow to our extremeties and start to tingle and FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT!!!!!:knuddel: :wk :blowjob: :hp: :kk

Norfolkdave
08-02-2005, 05:28 PM
Well done cowboy yep you have summed this up very well and very truthfully

Wet Beaver
08-02-2005, 07:28 PM
Women! A guy with a sore shoulder sacrifices sleep in a nice comfortable bed next to his naked sleeping wife to stay up with a lonely ... uh, drunk..... woman to give her some comfort and support....... and that's what ya get... :sg


ohh poooo, you old poop, i even told you to go to bed.and take care of your shoulder...The only reason i left, was because my DSL went out AGAIN!!! dang phone company

illmakeurtoeswiggle
08-02-2005, 09:09 PM
[QUOTE=GeekMaster]



Thats very difficult! I just sorta connected with him in the first 2 emails he sent. I was very wierd. The connections have become much stronger and stranger. An old High school buddy also looked me up recently and we still have a very strong connection. I am just taking life one day a time and enjoying the ride for now! One never knows what the future holds for us!;)

Keep looking, YOU never know when you may make THAT connection. I was not looking or ever intended on it, but things happen, usually for a reason!

What a lucky guy!:D

Penny
08-04-2005, 03:58 PM
WB is killing me with these smiles :nu :D

mrhappy1
08-04-2005, 04:14 PM
What's t hat saying, loose lips sink ships. Why kiss and tell and ruin a good thing. So I guess discression is a better part of valor.

I've found cyber sex just gets you hornier and more frustrated for the real thing. I've been private cammed a number of times, don't know why, and it's hard (no pun intended) to keep a straight face sitting behind your computer saying oh baby, yesss.

biganbad
08-04-2005, 05:45 PM
I love online sex or cyber sex its very fun and i dont know if its cheating or not but it is fun.

Annie
08-04-2005, 07:19 PM
My problem was having it with someone in Iraq. It's usually not hard for me to keep emotions out of certian kinds of relationships. But then things happen and if the average on line person drops out of site it's no big deal...life goes on. But in my case if he drops out of sight it's a slightly different story. I know it just might not be because he got bored...I just got over a few rough days there...

Onehttmama
08-07-2005, 10:25 PM
If I may add a little to this. We are all here because we like the charge we get when we are noticed by someone else, be it on here or on the street. When it comes to an online flirt you no longer have to be that that you in reality. You can have all the courage and style that you might not face to face. The problems start as I have found when you start to make things become real and in real time. I think I am more secure in myself than I have ever been because I have dabbled in the e-void and found sex, love, and at times real fullfillment. I have also found a lot of hurt, lonely and scared people that just want someone to hold on to. Everyone must be very careful when theyplay.


Hey Cowboy! I just got back from the convention! Had a great time, got flirted with ALOT! flirted back too:D . BUt I have my 2 protectors just incase! Ones like 6'2" from FL, tanned body all muscle! Divorced and soo sweet! IF IN I was headed that way I could so go in his direction;) and he let it be known with several open invites:) because unfortunately My husband was being VERY unsportsmanlike, especially towards me in the game I was running! He was ready to kick his butt!

Despite All that I had a really good time!

Cowboy that was nicely stated and YES as with any situation one must be careful. The emotional involvement can last far longer and scar deeper than just a cyber one. I hope I am making sense. I am soo sleep deprived:wa: Hi again to all!:knuddel:

CSpringsFlyer
08-10-2005, 12:30 AM
This is one of those classic debates. Some people say it isn't adultry, others say it is.... What's your opinion?

CSpringsFlyer
08-10-2005, 12:32 AM
I'll go ahead and weigh in first - no I don't think it's adultry, but it certainly isn't an appropriate thing to do

avitron69
08-10-2005, 04:12 AM
Some say the mind is just as bad as the body. Some say worst. Physical sex can be just sex, but the mind leads to the heart and is considered more adulterious (PS: I cannot spell woth shiet)

juli55
08-10-2005, 05:23 AM
No I dont consider it adultry, but my husband thinks it is.

Polo38
08-10-2005, 08:36 AM
There are some who say that masturbating, while thinking of someone other then your spouse is wrong, back in the 70's when Jimmy Carter said he had Lust in his heart, some felt he was committing adultery, others would have you believe that men going to a strip club where only suggestive looks are exchanged is committing adultery. I guess what I’m trying to inadequately say is that within any topic, especially as it relates to sex, that there are three camps, those for, those against and those in the middle leaning one way or another. The question may be simply put; Is Cybering enhancing your marriage or destroying it? Is it allowing you to become more aware of who you really are or want to be? And in doing so are you jeopardizing what you have ?

Annie
08-10-2005, 09:09 AM
The question may be simply put; Is Cybering enhancing your marriage or destroying it? Is it allowing you to become more aware of who you really are or want to be? And in doing so are you jeopardizing what you have ?

I couldn't have put it better myself! In my case it was out in the open as soon as it happened and it made our marriage better. Had my husband and I been in this situation 5 years ago it could have gone the other way.

nlightenedrogue
08-10-2005, 09:36 AM
Thought is the mother of action, motivation is the father. What we hold in our minds and why we hold it there, determines who we are and what we do. If I have to hide something from my wife, I'm not being completely faithful. It's what I think about, what I do and why I do a thing that makes it right or wrong. In my case, I guess it would be wrong, because it would involve someone else, I would hide it from my wife and my motive would be sexual gratification. Just my $.02.

anthony
08-10-2005, 10:22 AM
adultery? does it matter what I think? Three points ... (maybe more ...LOL)
1. I think it has more to do with what my spouse thinks.
2. If we took vows, then it's a covenant, not to be messed with (try telling her father what you're doing ... or your father)
3. What does the divorce court call it (lol)

Most of us know what we're doing ... period. We can play games here, but the bottom line, WE KNOW WHAT WE KNOW. Over the years our culture has told us "if it feels good, do it ... you're not hurting anyone". Or the consenting adults rule. Someone will always know ... you and the other person! (and God, if you will allow yourself to listen to what is written on your heart - and I'm not talking about the hypocrisy brand of religion either, but the deep gut feeling you get when you cut someone off on the freeway ... LOL)

I ramble too much ....

Zpanther
08-10-2005, 12:03 PM
...... as I've said before, trust is a key element in any relationship. It's fragile and, like a broken glass, a lot harder to put back together than it was to break it.

Penny
08-10-2005, 03:12 PM
If your partner has no idea what your doing and you are having an orgasm because of it I would think there are problems :(

nlightenedrogue
08-10-2005, 04:39 PM
What about fantasizing?? It turns me on to know that my wife is fantasizing when we're having sex, even though I'm sure its not about me.

MCat
08-11-2005, 07:56 PM
Is Cybering enhancing your marriage or destroying it? Is it allowing you to become more aware of who you really are or want to be? And in doing so are you jeopardizing what you have ?

At first I think my hubby felt threatened by my online activities. Now that he's involved it's a different story. He knows I am not going to leave him for some cyber guy. It has enhanced our marriage, has helped me be wayyyy more open to try new things and its easier to talk about sex. I love it...I love all of you...I love my hubby...I almost love myself....I'm gettin there. Like I told a friend today...If I was Catholic I would have to say in confession
" Bless me father for I am going to sin"

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:36 PM
kinda different for men and women

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:37 PM
Women are all about the intregue

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:37 PM
Men are all about the physical

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:38 PM
Men are about quantity

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:39 PM
Women about quality

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:39 PM
i

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:40 PM
might want to

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:41 PM
do something

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:41 PM
but better

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:42 PM
to figure out where my heart is first

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:42 PM
then to jump in the pot of boing water

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:43 PM
The rub is

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:44 PM
is that you are spiritually disconnecting your self from your loved one

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:45 PM
so in that sence you are committing adultery

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:45 PM
your connecting to another in a sexual way

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:46 PM
interesting question

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:46 PM
hope the debate rages on

Aegis
08-11-2005, 08:47 PM
What the hell does stalking pictures mean?

Penny
08-11-2005, 10:58 PM
Welcome Aegis :) Please try to keep your post together so it don't fill up my email box ;)

Polo38
08-11-2005, 11:20 PM
good question not sure

Polo38
08-11-2005, 11:27 PM
Let me commence with the fact i love you gif..the gif that keeps on giving...

We i am catholic, so either i will either spend eternity in the third level of Dante’s inferno or if St Augustine is correct then free will is a gift given to man…so MaryCat let the sinners roll.

PS i'm with you about this loving oneself thing...i hope to get there some day, right now i'm on freiendly terms with myself

MCat
08-12-2005, 07:16 AM
so MaryCat let the sinners roll.
PS i'm with you about this loving oneself thing...i hope to get there some day, right now i'm on friendly terms with myself

I've learned to be very friendly with myself :kk

illmakeurtoeswiggle
08-12-2005, 08:44 AM
I've learned to be very friendly with myself :kk

Marycat I love the new avatar...ya know, you can do that with YOUR actual picture!;) :lf

MCat
08-12-2005, 11:05 PM
Marycat I love the new avatar...ya know, you can do that with YOUR actual picture!;) :lf

The bathtub photo is as close as I will get to bouncing the naked boobies :boobs:

aceofspades1114
08-14-2005, 03:53 AM
I dont think it is because cyber isn't really real if that make sense.

KIRA187
08-15-2005, 12:54 PM
if both spouses agree to an open marriage than cyber is not adultery. But major flirting is ok. So ladies let the flirting begin.

KIRA187
08-15-2005, 01:12 PM
I think it is a good release... lol

Wyvern75
08-15-2005, 01:44 PM
Cybersex is something between people who have a good idea what each other want. It can be between strangers, but I think it works best when you know the other person pretty well. Afterall, everybody has their turn ons and turn offs. Some people might be excited about being tied up and their partner approaches with a cucumber, but what if the person tied up is allergic to cucumbers and prefers a summer squash? What if you describe the rope as hemp and they deeply wanted sisle? The next problem in real life you can see the wide eyes looking for an escape route, the dropped jaw and open mouth and so on when you make a terrible faux paux. And worse, you can generally never recover from your mistake.

But on the plus side, cybersex can be used as foreplay when people are separated. A lot of back in the pre-computer days would write letters to our sweeties and would often describe what we were going to do to them or what we wanted when we met up again.

In some cases, women (and men) need time to think about something that might be novel. I don't know a lot of women who from a talk would immediately think that showing up at the airport in just a raincoat, stockings and heels to meet their sweetie would be a good and doable idea. Something like that generally requires some thought on that woman's part, and if she does it, generally the person suggesting it is almost shocked. This never happened to me, but I remember picking up the baggage of a guy who was coming back from TDY with me when his wife met him like that (she came in her own car, but insisted that my wife come with her for support). And the 3d Cavalry OWC had a good laugh about it some weeks later when she told what she did. But it all started from either a letter or a comment that was casually mentioned.

I also think that the advantage of cybersex is you can explore a bit more without being immediately embarassed, providing you have a partner in it that gives honest feedback.

If romance novels work for women, why not cybersex where you are writing specifically for her enjoyment.

Please excuse if this rambled, I am violating my rules about posting under the influence of pain meds.

nlightenedrogue
08-15-2005, 01:57 PM
I may be the only man on the internet who has never tried cybersex. In fact, I'm not sure I know exactly what it is. When you engage in cybersex, is it like role playing? Do you generally mastubate? I know this all sounds naive, but these are serious questions. Somehow, the idea of pretending to have sex by typing just doesn't seem all that appealing to me, but I'm not one to put down something I've never tried. For those of you who have tried it and like it, what do you like about it? What makes a good cyber lover? For those who've tried it and don't like it, why not? I get the feeling I'm a little too old to "get" it... :(

Penny
08-15-2005, 04:15 PM
with a webcam its mutual masterbation watching and being watched. Just chatting is much the same as a letter.

ross57412
08-15-2005, 05:38 PM
lol tried ifriends once that experance was more then enough for me i think ill wait for the real thing ok but over here ill be waiting a longggggg time lol but when i get home and go down to ga look out states

avitron69
08-15-2005, 07:34 PM
Good way to concect when you are out of town.

Zpanther
08-17-2005, 11:07 AM
Wyvern75

In some cases, women (and men) need time to think about something that might be novel. I don't know a lot of women who from a talk would immediately think that showing up at the airport in just a raincoat, stockings and heels to meet their sweetie would be a good and doable idea. Something like that generally requires some thought on that woman's part, and if she does it, generally the person suggesting it is almost shocked. This never happened to me, but I remember picking up the baggage of a guy who was coming back from TDY with me when his wife met him like that (she came in her own car, but insisted that my wife come with her for support). And the 3d Cavalry OWC had a good laugh about it some weeks later when she told what she did. But it all started from either a letter or a comment that was casually mentioned.

This made me think of the time Lady P did meet me at the airport just wearing a coat. I had playfully suggested she should do that when we were talking on the phone, but completely forgot about our conversation. Still didn't figure it out when she met me with the coat on, until she smiled and descretely flashed me...... Couldn't wait to get home that day! :lf

crazyjoe
08-17-2005, 11:57 AM
With the right person it can be awsome. I just kind of stumbled onto someone and we have had some of the most erotic chats. I think it allows you to be more open and not afraid to say what you feel or want. It is all in your mind, but a mind can be a powerful thing.

islands19
08-17-2005, 12:35 PM
i HAVE TRYED IT AND i ACTUALLY ENJOYED IT , IT DOES HELP IF THE LADY HAS A EROTIC MIND ALOT MORE SATIFYING

crazyjoe
08-17-2005, 01:55 PM
that is for sure.

Wyvern75
08-18-2005, 12:01 PM
Wyvern75

This made me think of the time Lady P did meet me at the airport just wearing a coat. I had playfully suggested she should do that when we were talking on the phone, but completely forgot about our conversation. Still didn't figure it out when she met me with the coat on, until she smiled and descretely flashed me...... Couldn't wait to get home that day! :lf

Why wait? Airport parking lots are generally dark and there is always a nice park or something on the way home (in most cases). (It seemed that the people I worked for that made me travel were always embarassed for me to be seen travelling in daylight, you always got the first flight out in the morning and the last flight in that night, with the obligatory 2-4 hour layover in Atlanta, DFW or Chicago). Nothing like a little "high school action" in the front or back seat with your sweetie. But I imagine it was a lot of fun when you got home, it is nice when women take the lead in a sexual encounter and they seem to get to the orgasm level much quicker when they do.

I guess it is just me, but I like to read maps and am constantly on the lookout for parks, out of the way areas and so on that might be a good place to pull into for a bit of cuddling and kissing. I try to separate these by night and afternoon spots, mornings in regular life are generally too busy for a tryst in the park. Besides if you have the kids out of the house (school has started here), why look for a park.

KIRA187
08-18-2005, 03:02 PM
Why wait? Airport parking lots are generally dark and there is always a nice park or something on the way home (in most cases). (It seemed that the people I worked for that made me travel were always embarassed for me to be seen travelling in daylight, you always got the first flight out in the morning and the last flight in that night, with the obligatory 2-4 hour layover in Atlanta, DFW or Chicago). Nothing like a little "high school action" in the front or back seat with your sweetie. But I imagine it was a lot of fun when you got home, it is nice when women take the lead in a sexual encounter and they seem to get to the orgasm level much quicker when they do.

I guess it is just me, but I like to read maps and am constantly on the lookout for parks, out of the way areas and so on that might be a good place to pull into for a bit of cuddling and kissing. I try to separate these by night and afternoon spots, mornings in regular life are generally too busy for a tryst in the park. Besides if you have the kids out of the house (school has started here), why look for a park.


Man you have too much information here. You must have too much time on your hands.

Wyvern75
08-18-2005, 04:27 PM
Man you have too much information here. You must have too much time on your hands.

Better than to look at areas looking for an ambush or a place to ambush someone from, at least I am doing something more constructive now.

There is always more time than there are sexual opportunities.

KIRA187
08-18-2005, 04:53 PM
Better than to look at areas looking for an ambush or a place to ambush someone from, at least I am doing something more constructive now.

There is always more time than there are sexual opportunities.

I think I touched a nerve. Sorry dude. Didn't mean to offend.

Big O
08-18-2005, 05:02 PM
Cuda, that was a good move. I wouldn't want to walk out my door looking for an ambush!! lol

KIRA187
08-18-2005, 05:04 PM
thanks.

want2
08-18-2005, 05:56 PM
Cybering is great, no strings fun. And you can't catch anything! ;)

KIRA187
08-18-2005, 09:32 PM
Cybering is great, no strings fun. And you can't catch anything! ;)


Good Answer! Hey Want2, What do u say we work on our cybering techniques?;)

Norfolkdave
08-19-2005, 07:12 AM
I may be the only man on the internet who has never tried cybersex. In fact, I'm not sure I know exactly what it is. When you engage in cybersex, is it like role playing? Do you generally mastubate? I know this all sounds naive, but these are serious questions. Somehow, the idea of pretending to have sex by typing just doesn't seem all that appealing to me, but I'm not one to put down something I've never tried. For those of you who have tried it and like it, what do you like about it? What makes a good cyber lover? For those who've tried it and don't like it, why not? I get the feeling I'm a little too old to "get" it... :(

Im 58 and have cyberfun with a lovely lady we both feel its relief but although cheating its not hurting the partner if he or she doesnt know and if he or she as in my case havent had it for 6 years, then its relief and happiness rolled into one.;)

surfnchat
08-23-2005, 10:25 PM
I think it's great and the ladies I have cybered with have said they have enjoyed it. I don't know how true it is, but most say they had great orgasms just with what I write. That turns me on... knowing I made a woman cum with just my words.

Any ladies wanna try a session, block off a couple of hours and give me a jingle. :wa:

Plus, it's safe and fun! Best entertainment value on the net! ;)

hank69
08-25-2005, 12:28 AM
my opinion is if you fantasize about other people/person and not your spouse all the time. That's not good.

If you cyberchat and that's the only way to get off, E-mail, private chat, with the same person and show erotic pics. So he/she could fantasize about them, that's adultery to me.

You want someone else for a change well that's life. we are not the keepers of are husband/wife

Yes most of us have done it chat ed and flirted that's whats fun, but can also go to far.

but if its to enhance your sex life with your partner and you are thinking about each other that's ok for me but maybe not for you. And if your partner does not know and finds out, Well that's going to bad deal for all.


Hey I spelled pretty good this time. That's the longest thing I've wrote since School

surfnchat
08-25-2005, 12:49 AM
Good question. I think it's adultery because the cyber sex can be as real as the real thing. Your mind doesn't know the difference when it's goooood. In fact, the sex can be more intense than the real thing because your mind can make it that way.

But, I think cybering is a healthy sexual release that provides pleasure you can't get in real life or as frequently. As long as it doesn't become a crutch to escape reality. It should enhance what you have.

So there are degrees to adultery. Cybering can be good. Physical encounters while married can be bad. Lots of gray area.

surfnchat
08-25-2005, 12:50 AM
Welcome Aegis :) Please try to keep your post together so it don't fill up my email box ;)

Looks like someone made it to Premium in one day... :lmao

MCat
08-25-2005, 11:06 PM
but if its to enhance your sex life with your partner and you are thinking about each other that's ok for me but maybe not for you. And if your partner does not know and finds out, Well that's going to bad deal for all.


So Hank are you still ok with this then? Or am I chatting and online a little too much:confused:

Norfolkdave
08-26-2005, 06:48 AM
The bathtub photo is as close as I will get to bouncing the naked boobies :boobs:

Ahhhh and i thought you would be brave, you have nice eyes, a warm smile and Im sure beautiful!!!!!!!;)

hank69
08-26-2005, 09:04 AM
So Hank are you still ok with this then? Or am I chatting and online a little too much:confused:


o k doe k....just my opinion

Norfolkdave
08-26-2005, 12:20 PM
kinda different for men and women

Penny has asked you why cant you put all your answers in one post as you are clogging up her mailbox

Norfolkdave
08-26-2005, 12:21 PM
Welcome Aegis :) Please try to keep your post together so it don't fill up my email box ;)

This person aint listening is he, I have said the same as you wether hell take notice remains the 100$ dollar question:wa:

islands19
08-26-2005, 12:38 PM
it comes down to how the other one feels about it, hey try doing it with her next to you and enjoying it pretty awesome

juli55
08-26-2005, 12:49 PM
My husband know's now..and I'm still alive.

Onehttmama
08-26-2005, 04:27 PM
My husband know's now..and I'm still alive.


SO did you come out and tell him or did he find the site on you rcomputer (checking up on you ?) or walk in when you were online chatting and posting?

I have toyed with the idea of telling mine. Still not sure how he would feel if he read some of my posts:D

Nevermind, its not a good idea for me to consider telling him, well telling him maybe, showing him the site , totally different.:(

Norfolkdave
08-26-2005, 05:19 PM
it comes down to how the other one feels about it, hey try doing it with her next to you and enjoying it pretty awesome

I enjoy it and its harmless or am I wrong

rickt67
08-26-2005, 06:02 PM
Just my .02 cents worth.

We are all adults quite capable of knowing what is going on. If someone considers it adultery or cheating on their spouses then maybe they shouldnt be here. I dont consider it cheating because it is not a pjysical thing.

I come here because I enjoy the site and such.


Like I said,,,just my 2 cents worth.

MCat
08-26-2005, 10:38 PM
If someone considers it adultery or cheating on their spouses then maybe they shouldnt be here. I dont consider it cheating because it is not a physical thing.


These are my thoughts and feelings as well. I don't plan on meeting anyone in person, don't plan on having sex with any of you in real life...and when I am making love with my husband, I am making love with my husband. All this bantering back and forth with all of you just makes for more fun in the bedroom, at the desk, under the desk or where ever we choose to do it.

I LOVE MARRIED AND FLIRTING............ http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/11/11_14_15.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm117YYUS)

Polo38
08-26-2005, 11:04 PM
Touché Mary...we are all grown ups, at least most of us are...

We forget sometimes that the animosity of the internet allows us the luxury of dispensing our thoughts often times without truly opening our minds to possibilities that nothing is really black and white. Whether this is cheating or not is not really the point, the days of witch hunts for adulteress individuals are over, and good riddance, should we all be branded with the letter A and be subjected to the Stockades for the rest of our lives. There are some who believe that, they would like to see us outcast of their Great society…that ultimately exist only in their minds.

The glory of Free Will is our individual passage into self awareness, self examination, via our minds and hearts…there is where our truth lies, regardless of feeble minds of others. This site is an experience in friendship and love and if this is not their cup of tea, then I invite them to go fuck themselves.

MCat
08-26-2005, 11:18 PM
You have such a way with words...they just flow so beautifully...and then you get to the fuck yourself part and you're back my level...Cool guy Xenote.

I think I might have been a harlot in a past life :na


Touché Mary...we are all grown ups, at least most of us are...

We forget sometimes that the animosity of the internet allows us the luxury of dispensing our thoughts often times without truly opening our minds to possibilities that nothing is really black and white. Whether this is cheating or not is not really the point, the days of witch hunts for adulteress individuals are over, and good riddance, should we all be branded with the letter A and be subjected to the Stockades for the rest of our lives. There are some who believe that, they would like to see us outcast of their Great society…that ultimately exist only in their minds.

The glory of Free Will is our individual passage into self awareness, self examination, via our minds and hearts…there is where our truth lies, regardless of feeble minds of others. This site is an experience in friendship and love and if this is not their cup of tea, then I invite them to go fuck themselves.

MCat
08-26-2005, 11:20 PM
I enjoy it and its harmless or am I wrong

Only doing me good.....:hp: or me doing good....:blowjob: or probably both.

GeekMaster
08-27-2005, 11:08 AM
These are my thoughts and feelings as well. I don't plan on meeting anyone in person, don't plan on having sex with any of you in real life...and when I am making love with my husband, I am making love with my husband. All this bantering back and forth with all of you just makes for more fun in the bedroom, at the desk, under the desk or where ever we choose to do it.

I LOVE MARRIED AND FLIRTING............ http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/11/11_14_15.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm117YYUS)


marycat, those are my sentiments exactly. I have no intention of causing any trouble between spouses. Just want to have some sexy flirting fun with some wonderful people.:blowjob: :sex4:

MCat
08-27-2005, 11:26 AM
marycat, those are my sentiments exactly. I have no intention of causing any trouble between spouses. Just want to have some sexy flirting fun with some wonderful people.:blowjob: :sex4:

Guess I'm having a little too much fun....Hank is kind of jealous lately. No reason to be, Its not like anyone can jump through the screen and grab me.

Norfolkdave
08-27-2005, 12:11 PM
These are my thoughts and feelings as well. I don't plan on meeting anyone in person, don't plan on having sex with any of you in real life...and when I am making love with my husband, I am making love with my husband. All this bantering back and forth with all of you just makes for more fun in the bedroom, at the desk, under the desk or where ever we choose to do it.

I LOVE MARRIED AND FLIRTING............ http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/11/11_14_15.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm117YYUS)

Here here babe i agree I love flirting :wa:

Onehttmama
08-27-2005, 12:24 PM
Guess I'm having a little too much fun....Hank is kind of jealous lately. No reason to be, Its not like anyone can jump through the screen and grab me.

Has he been waiting for attention while you finish posting? My daughter was after me last night. I was just trying to relax for a few minutes:(

Hey Hank! SHe is right there at home with you and you are not left wondering WHERE she is? Just sneak up behind her while shes sitting at the computer and start massaging her neck and shoulders. She will stop and be yours in a matter of minutes! I know I would be :D

MCat
08-27-2005, 12:34 PM
Has he been waiting for attention while you finish posting? My daughter was after me last night. I was just trying to relax for a few minutes:(

Hey Hank! SHe is right there at home with you and you are not left wondering WHERE she is? Just sneak up behind her while shes sitting at the computer and start massaging her neck and shoulders. She will stop and be yours in a matter of minutes! I know I would be :D


Hank is frequently between my legs while I am at the computer.... http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/1/1_4_99.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm117YYUS)

dbleze
08-27-2005, 12:39 PM
Hank is frequently between my legs while I am at the computer.... http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/1/1_4_99.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm117YYUS)

Good for both of you, I'm so jealous:lf

Seeker
08-28-2005, 12:06 AM
I think cybersex can be as fullfiling as the real thing. Or, as dull as watching the evening news. It all depends on your partner, how well you know them, and how relaxed you are around him/her. Camming is great too! I love watching a lovely woman playing with herself to O! :wk

lay_guy
08-28-2005, 05:13 AM
mmmm yes i think watching penny would bring the cybersex out in me

Norfolkdave
08-28-2005, 11:06 AM
Only doing me good.....:hp: or me doing good....:blowjob: or probably both.

both if the truth is known;)

hank69
08-28-2005, 09:30 PM
So Hank are you still ok with this then? Or am I chatting and online a little too much:confused:


Again :) I'm all for it:hug:

Polo38
08-29-2005, 12:27 PM
Thanks Mary….i enjoy your words as well..

ksfirefighter
10-07-2005, 04:39 PM
Got a question and dont want to sound totally without a clue. But I have tried to get on chat rooms and maybe try out cyber but to no avail. Whats the catch to getting the right person to play? Guess Im not forward enough cause the only ones that I get private messages from are either bots on yahoo or some guy that wants to know if i am into guys!!! No luck yet so I quit trying but any pointers??? (maybe a bad choice of words there)

Wet Beaver
10-07-2005, 04:40 PM
Got a question and dont want to sound totally without a clue. But I have tried to get on chat rooms and maybe try out cyber but to no avail. Whats the catch to getting the right person to play? Guess Im not forward enough cause the only ones that I get private messages from are either bots on yahoo or some guy that wants to know if i am into guys!!! No luck yet so I quit trying but any pointers??? (maybe a bad choice of words there)

chats rooms here are hit or miss. just have to keep trying....:wa:

Norfolkdave
10-07-2005, 04:44 PM
Hank is frequently between my legs while I am at the computer.... http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/1/1_4_99.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm117YYUS)

And does he come up smiling
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_3_22.gif:lmao

ksfirefighter
10-07-2005, 04:47 PM
And does he come up smiling
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_3_22.gif:lmao

Now that would be sweeeeeet!!!!!!!!!

MCat
10-08-2005, 06:49 AM
And does he come up smiling
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_3_22.gif:lmao

Cums up smiling everytime....its been a while though....haven't had time to play properly. :cry:

Norfolkdave
10-08-2005, 11:42 AM
Cums up smiling everytime....its been a while though....haven't had time to play properly. :cry:

Im cuming up smiling but still havent played:wk :cry:

Barkiss
10-08-2005, 11:57 AM
Got a question and dont want to sound totally without a clue. But I have tried to get on chat rooms and maybe try out cyber but to no avail. Whats the catch to getting the right person to play? Guess Im not forward enough cause the only ones that I get private messages from are either bots on yahoo or some guy that wants to know if i am into guys!!! No luck yet so I quit trying but any pointers??? (maybe a bad choice of words there)

I hope your luck changes....;)

ksfirefighter
10-08-2005, 03:47 PM
well finally had the chance to play online last night endeed it is stimulating to the body but the stimulation to the brain and the challenge of visuallizing was extremely intense. Havent ever thought of what it does mentally!:whee:

So luck is changing and mind wont stop working!

ksfirefighter
10-08-2005, 04:07 PM
These are my thoughts and feelings as well. I don't plan on meeting anyone in person, don't plan on having sex with any of you in real life...and when I am making love with my husband, I am making love with my husband. All this bantering back and forth with all of you just makes for more fun in the bedroom, at the desk, under the desk or where ever we choose to do it.

I LOVE MARRIED AND FLIRTING............ http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/11/11_14_15.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm117YYUS)

Very well said Marycat. I think it is totally a mind thing. If you cyber with someone that has a good imagination and can make it almost seem real I can see how that could multiply your fun in the bedroom or wherever. I mean honestly the thing that makes sex so fun is the whole cereberal tantilizing that goes on I mean passion starts in your mind. Think about sex all day and work it out in your mind the intesity level meter goes way up!

jennrocks
10-08-2005, 11:43 PM
cyber is not adultrey unless you define it as such. there are moral absolutes, such as murder, theft, etc.

and their is such a thing as adultrey, cheating, fornication. if you are a christian, that is a big deal.

but whether you are a Christian or not, adultrey is defined by the two people involved. since my husband wants me to enjoy sex in all possible ways, i do no consider that adultrey or cheating. without his permission, and vice versa, it would be.

ksfirefighter
10-09-2005, 10:11 AM
cyber is not adultrey unless you define it as such. there are moral absolutes, such as murder, theft, etc.

and their is such a thing as adultrey, cheating, fornication. if you are a christian, that is a big deal.

but whether you are a Christian or not, adultrey is defined by the two people involved. since my husband wants me to enjoy sex in all possible ways, i do no consider that adultrey or cheating. without his permission, and vice versa, it would be.

very well put Jenn!

juli55
10-09-2005, 11:41 AM
SO did you come out and tell him or did he find the site on you rcomputer (checking up on you ?) or walk in when you were online chatting and posting?

I have toyed with the idea of telling mine. Still not sure how he would feel if he read some of my posts:D

Nevermind, its not a good idea for me to consider telling him, well telling him maybe, showing him the site , totally different.:( he found the site on the computer (SPYING ON ME)... :mad: he's ok with the idea of me posting here ..at least he can keep a eye on me;)

Eros
10-09-2005, 01:00 PM
Hi

just read all your emails some deep stuff going on here people

makes me think

I enjoy flirting with you all an some of your partners seem ok with all this mine I'm not so sure? Maybe she would be ok about things but she has very high pricipoles and morals. If I don't come back to the chat room, not that cyber happens here, then its because there is crisis of conscience have to go now

cya later well maybe?

Norfolkdave
10-09-2005, 01:47 PM
Nah cybering in my books is hot and juicy fun espicially with the right lady but will one email me to see I wonder

MCat
10-09-2005, 04:14 PM
adultrey is defined by the two people involved. since my husband wants me to enjoy sex in all possible ways, i do no consider that adultrey or cheating. without his permission, and vice versa, it would be.

Bravo....

SirFox
10-09-2005, 05:04 PM
Isn't cheating defined by two members of a couple first?

Polo38
10-09-2005, 06:16 PM
Either you are fine with this type of communication or not. Is this any different then flirting with a co-worker, or someone you happen to be seated next to at a bar. Whether this is considered an adulterous act in your mind, is up to you, if your cool with it, then the world is your oyster, if otherwise you find that even this type recreation attacks your moral character then leave. Your not forced to stay, none of us are locked here against our will. We choose to come here to share and learn from one another, all of us come from different walks of life, from different areas of the world, we are descriptive and non-descriptive, we are every man and every woman, but all of us are here because we enjoy talking and writing about every aspect of sex. Thank God there are places like M&F, we have an opportunity to express our hopes and desires for a better and healthier sexual life. We have the opportunity to discover that we have similar likes, dislikes and problems. Some of the spouses are aware of this site and other’s are not, some are cool with it, some are not, some of us are cheating spouses and others have never crossed the line and will not, but here is the most important thing…none of us are here to judge one another, there are no labels, no accusation, we value each others words and experiences.

Am I missing something?

Eros
10-09-2005, 06:28 PM
thanks xenote

Eros
10-09-2005, 06:28 PM
hey marycat another amazing pic where do you find them

in your family album?

shygirl
10-10-2005, 02:41 AM
I guess I'm not real sure about this one. Don't have enough experience I guess.

MCat
10-10-2005, 06:43 AM
hey marycat another amazing pic where do you find them

in your family album?

WHy yes...my family album is just full of these photos :D

http://www.art-album.com/index.php

Norfolkdave
10-10-2005, 06:54 AM
WHy yes...my family album is just full of these photos :D

http://www.art-album.com/index.php

Lovely photos too:lmao

Eros
10-10-2005, 07:51 AM
Marycat your family album is something special keep them coming another great photo

firefly
10-10-2005, 02:48 PM
I guess it really boils down to if your spouse doesn't know and you know that they would freak out then it is a form of cheating. Most times cybering is harmless and oh so very fun, but occasionally it turns into more as the people involved become closer on more levels. I have seen it become an obsession with some.

Seeker
10-10-2005, 03:12 PM
Hmmmm! Would you like some help?!:dl I guess I'm not real sure about this one. Don't have enough experience I guess.

Eros
10-10-2005, 05:21 PM
thank Firfly

wha tdo I do now?

firefly
10-11-2005, 10:15 AM
Hi

just read all your emails some deep stuff going on here people

makes me think

I enjoy flirting with you all an some of your partners seem ok with all this mine I'm not so sure? Maybe she would be ok about things but she has very high pricipoles and morals. If I don't come back to the chat room, not that cyber happens here, then its because there is crisis of conscience have to go now

cya later well maybe?

I think the best thing to do would be to talk to her about it. If you are unsure about how she will react then give her the benefit of the doubt and be honest with her. Bring her here and let her talk to everyone. She may really like it too, you never know.

If you are sure that she won't approve, then you have to decide for yourself what you want to do. I still say it's not cheating unless you are actively hiding it from your spouse because you feel guilty. *shrugs*

I hope you stick around here and continue to post. But you have to make peace with yourself on the subject.

Eros
10-11-2005, 10:42 AM
Firefly


thank you for your words of wisdom they certainly make sense and thanks for the encouragement to stay around

I will think about what u said

eros :wa:

gradof68
10-25-2005, 05:28 PM
Oh my I hope not.

spare_change
10-25-2005, 06:09 PM
I think the best thing to do would be to talk to her about it. If you are unsure about how she will react then give her the benefit of the doubt and be honest with her. Bring her here and let her talk to everyone. She may really like it too, you never know.

If you are sure that she won't approve, then you have to decide for yourself what you want to do. I still say it's not cheating unless you are actively hiding it from your spouse because you feel guilty. *shrugs*

I hope you stick around here and continue to post. But you have to make peace with yourself on the subject.


Pretty good advice she has given you, Eros --- you should listen.

As for bringing her to this site, I think there is only one question that should be answered ----- does she have big boobs? If so, I think the guys here will be happy to help you show her around. After all, fair is fair --------

Norfolkdave
10-26-2005, 04:25 AM
Oh my I hope not.

Oh I see from reading this post you have! and did you enjoy!:D

MCat
10-26-2005, 06:08 AM
Pretty good advice she has given you, Eros --- you should listen.

As for bringing her to this site, I think there is only one question that should be answered ----- does she have big boobs? If so, I think the guys here will be happy to help you show her around. After all, fair is fair --------

What a guy Spare....offering your service...:lmao

gradof68
10-26-2005, 08:58 AM
Oh I see from reading this post you have! and did you enjoy!:D

:whee: I'll never tell.

Norfolkdave
10-26-2005, 09:00 AM
:whee: I'll never tell.

From saying ike that it must have been good heh heh heh:lmao

gradof68
10-26-2005, 09:06 AM
From saying ike that it must have been good heh heh heh:lmao

:thankyou:

Norfolkdave
10-26-2005, 09:13 AM
:thankyou:

I take my hat of to you http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_1_12.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm117YYUS):lmao

Sandy
10-26-2005, 10:48 AM
hey guys my husband was the one who found this site and showed to me. now i'm on here every chance i can get and you know what he doesn't mind because i don't hide anything from him. penny i'm still working on getting him to post but most of the time he's just sitting beside me. tell your partner don't hide things from them and tell to try the site out for themselves they might enjoy:wa: themselves i know i do.

Polo38
10-26-2005, 10:51 AM
Not every one is as understanding and appreciative as you, I wish that was not the case…honestly I do.

mometal77
10-29-2005, 02:57 AM
I wouldnt think it is cheating only if you meet. I have meet two women that said they where single and really where married .. i was pissed.. i hate un honest people..

Eros
10-29-2005, 07:31 AM
spare change i see you are at home here
and hello to all my friends marycat another amazing pic
34dd are they big enough?

talk soon all

tiger50
12-18-2005, 02:38 AM
It's safe sex!

no mate u ave to use cyber condoms :lmao :lmao

skybird
12-18-2005, 03:59 AM
There is nothing wrong with cyber sex. And it is NOT cheating on your partner. It's all in your mind and it actually depends on the female partner if she is a hot person and imaginative or not. Men are always ready for it.

yaser
12-18-2005, 04:10 AM
Not bad at
all...

spare_change
12-18-2005, 04:40 AM
I hear it's great -- will have to try it some day!

skybird
12-18-2005, 04:41 AM
It's a kind of.....safe sex. :)

sex_kitten_4u
12-18-2005, 05:14 AM
the safests sex is none at all lol

spare_change
12-18-2005, 05:19 AM
the safests sex is none at all lol

But then, if it was none at all, it couldn't be sex, right? So, how could it be the safest sex, if it isn't sex at all???




I think i have a headache!!!

sex_kitten_4u
12-18-2005, 06:33 AM
If you had an online lover could you keep it discreet or would you want to tell friends:D

KEEP IT DISCREET:)

Norfolkdave
12-18-2005, 06:42 AM
If I was lucky Id certainly keep it very discreet.

bonzzz4292
12-18-2005, 04:33 PM
I think i have a headache!!!


believe me i would have a headache too after trying to find a person on one of the other sites to even chat let alone to try cyber with..lol:lmao

Krazi0469
12-18-2005, 06:14 PM
i give it an 0.... doesn't do anything for me... except make me laugh muh head off:lmao :lmao

spare_change
12-18-2005, 10:50 PM
How sad.

surfnchat
12-18-2005, 10:57 PM
From my experience, you tend to get out of it what you put in. Worth the effort...

Sandy
12-18-2005, 11:06 PM
i can't rate what i've never done so

surfnchat
12-18-2005, 11:13 PM
i can't rate what i've never done so

Looking for a first time? ;)

Norfolkdave
12-19-2005, 05:25 AM
And so am I, keep hearing about it, all talk by he sound and no action

yaser
12-19-2005, 06:48 AM
I am an auditary man...I am ifluenced by phone sex because I must hear the voice ot my partner...and if she is close to me and touches me with her bady I love it..Only written and mouse not satisfactory for me...I must do something...

smokingun
12-19-2005, 10:58 AM
KEEP IT DISCREET:)

Very discreet!

Norfolkdave
12-19-2005, 11:06 AM
Very discreet!

Things can slip out at the most annoying times LOL:lmao

Norfolkdave
12-19-2005, 11:07 AM
KEEP IT DISCREET:)

or ultimately discreet:lmao

spare_change
12-19-2005, 11:12 AM
Things can slip out at the most annoying times LOL:lmao


Not online -- it's ALWAYS long enough in the virtual world.

DMan
12-19-2005, 11:17 AM
Definitely keep it discreet!!!

Norfolkdave
12-19-2005, 11:36 AM
Not online -- it's ALWAYS long enough in the virtual world.

oops said the wrong thing there, trust you to pick it up...LOL:lmao

DMan
12-19-2005, 02:17 PM
It is more fun than I thought it would be!

skybird
12-19-2005, 02:21 PM
i give it an 0.... doesn't do anything for me... except make me laugh muh head off:lmao :lmao

It can be funny, yes. :lf :rofl1:

Eroticmail4u
12-19-2005, 03:16 PM
Hi Everyone, I'm new here.
Anyway, sometimes Cybersex is my only source of release. Sometimes sharing an intense erotic fantasy is more arousing than the real thing.

spare_change
12-19-2005, 03:41 PM
Welcome, Erotic --- hope you enjoy your stay here. Come on in and get comfortable.

DMan
12-19-2005, 03:42 PM
Welcome Erotic, Great place..........good people here!

Barkiss
12-19-2005, 03:57 PM
Hi Everyone, I'm new here.
Anyway, sometimes Cybersex is my only source of release. Sometimes sharing an intense erotic fantasy is more arousing than the real thing.

Welcome!

Eroticmail4u
12-19-2005, 04:14 PM
Thanks for welcoming me. I appreciate it.

sex_kitten_4u
12-19-2005, 04:46 PM
welcome erotic:3welcome:

Eroticmail4u
12-19-2005, 04:49 PM
Wow, now I really feel welcome!

surfnchat
12-19-2005, 08:37 PM
Welcome to the group! There's plenty of sexy women here. :lf

sex_kitten_4u
12-19-2005, 08:39 PM
Welcome to the group! There's plenty of sexy women here. :lf

oh you smooth talker you :kk

surfnchat
12-19-2005, 08:45 PM
oh you smooth talker you :kk

They say I'm a silver-tounged devil... :satan:

sex_kitten_4u
12-19-2005, 08:47 PM
They say I'm a silver-tounged devil... :satan:
really might have to find out sometime

surfnchat
12-19-2005, 08:49 PM
really might have to find out sometime

No time like the present ;) :kk

Jy
12-19-2005, 09:50 PM
I'd happily volunteer to show you the ropes...




I hear it's great -- will have to try it some day!

sweetgapeach
12-19-2005, 09:53 PM
Never Done it !

Trev
12-19-2005, 09:54 PM
Never Done it !

Lets try together:D

sweetgapeach
12-19-2005, 09:55 PM
Lets try together:D


Stop your making me Blush !!

Trev
12-19-2005, 10:29 PM
Stop your making me Blush !!

That's what I like in a women, one who show that she can have fun too;)

sweetgapeach
12-19-2005, 11:12 PM
That's what I like in a women, one who show that she can have fun too;)


And I like a man that can make me Blush !!

Trev
12-19-2005, 11:14 PM
And I like a man that can make me Blush !!

:knuddel:

Norfolkdave
12-20-2005, 05:35 AM
MMMM lets say its interesting.

Norfolkdave
12-20-2005, 05:36 AM
And I like a man that can make me Blush !!

In private or on here!:lmao

tiger50
12-20-2005, 06:09 AM
I'd happily volunteer to show you the ropes...

Eh these rope thingy's, u into bondage???? :D

Norfolkdave
12-20-2005, 06:12 AM
Eh these rope thingy's, u into bondage???? :D

WB is :wa:

nyadad
12-20-2005, 06:49 AM
Hi everyone:wa: I've never actually cybered,but I have exchanged erotic e-mails with a few women. It was fun imagining things that would probably never happen at home.I'm very slow at typing though,so I don't know if I ever will.

KIRA187
12-20-2005, 08:11 AM
Hi everyone I've never actually cybered,but I have exchanged erotic e-mails with a few women. It was fun imagining things that would probably never happen at home.I'm very slow at typing though,so I don't know if I ever will.

Have no fear... there is a dog with a big S on his chest that would love to help and teach you how.

tiger50
12-20-2005, 08:52 PM
WB is :wa:

kk hope she is a sub , so i get to tie here up :lf

gone toofar
12-21-2005, 05:57 PM
how many of you are having cybersex