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CSpringsFlyer
08-11-2005, 10:32 AM
I'm hoping to start a new thread for movies. What have you seen lately? would you recommend it? Or not?.... Give a review.

CSpringsFlyer
08-11-2005, 10:38 AM
I'll start off. Last night we rented "Million Dollar Baby" Definitely one of the most powerful films I can recall in a long time. I can see why it garnered as many academy awards as it did.

This is a very dark movie about a female boxer and her trainer. Both with huge family problems that move forward through the boxing ranks. If you are expecting a female version of 'Rocky', look elsewhere. This is a movie that is both tough and thought provoking. I don't want to give anything away, but this is the kind of movie that you will need to have a tissue box around for.

Penny
08-11-2005, 03:26 PM
I saw that and really hated the ending. I would rather watch a movie that makes me feel good at the end or keep me excited the whole way through If I want to be depressed I can just clean the house :(

murtonian
08-11-2005, 07:14 PM
Way out west


By Laurel & Hardy

An absolute classic to watch
Highly recommended if you aint seen it

:D

Wet Beaver
08-11-2005, 07:16 PM
Way out west


By Laurel & Hardy

An absolute classic to watch
Highly recommended if you aint seen it

:D

notting more modern?? :sp:

bgpoole
08-13-2005, 11:33 PM
Last movie I went out to see was Crash, really like it, good performances, was really suprised to see Tony Danza in it.


Probably a couple of my favorites the last few years were the Bourne Identity, and Bourne Supremacy. I'm not usually a big action movie fan, but I thought these were both well made movies.

Don't get me started on older movies, I could go on forever about them.

MCat
08-14-2005, 12:06 AM
We just watched "What's Love Got to do with it" on HBO. Hadn't watched it before, makes me like Tina Turner even more.

Annie
08-14-2005, 12:09 AM
I haven't been out to see a movie in years...I've been having a craving lately for something good... I think I'll rent the movie Chocolate.

Wet Beaver
08-14-2005, 12:10 AM
just watched "son of th Mask" it was the dumbest movie i seen in years...

Seeker
08-14-2005, 02:25 AM
"National Treasure" we just picked up on a whim at the video store. Glad to be impulsive this time! I thought it was an excellent action / adventure flick! I'm not a Nicholas Cage fan, but he was great in it, Ithought!


Another one we just got, "The Incredibles" . Cartoons generally don't do much for me, but this one was hilarious! Highly recomended!

Norfolkdave
08-14-2005, 07:34 AM
The last time we went to the pictures was about 1979 when i saw Bonnie & Clyde, having now got home cinema surround system with my TV I normally buy DVDs and watch them the last one was "Mel Gibson We were soldiers" rating out of 10 max 5 very heavy on swearing and no sound affects.

nlightenedrogue
08-15-2005, 10:45 AM
Just watched 'Napolean Dynamite' again this weekend with my kids. This one's not for everyone, but I thought it was "frickin' unbelieveable"!

Penny
08-15-2005, 04:44 PM
I saw Hide N Seek this weekend with Robert Dinero it was good but nothing great. Also watched Something about Mary again that is a riot. The best part is when he whacks off in the bath room and cant find it and she thinks it is hair gell :D

Big O
08-15-2005, 05:37 PM
No, the best part is when he gets arrested at the rest area! lmao!!

Penny
08-15-2005, 05:49 PM
Actually the best part is when he gets his nuts caught in the zipper :lmao

Polo38
08-15-2005, 06:04 PM
Actually the best part is when he gets his nuts caught in the zipper :lmao
Every guy in the theater suddenly clutched themselves when that happen...but you have to love the hair gel scene.....if you liked that movie go see the wedding crashers, very funny….then again I thought dodgeball, old school and tommy boy has just damn funny movies. But my favorite movie is still “a river runs through it”

Penny
08-15-2005, 11:24 PM
I liked that too Very sad ending and I love Brad Pitt

Polo38
08-15-2005, 11:33 PM
the best line from that movie that i keep in mine..

"you can love someone completely with out completely understanding them"

Wet Beaver
08-15-2005, 11:34 PM
"National Treasure" we just picked up on a whim at the video store. Glad to be impulsive this time! I thought it was an excellent action / adventure flick! I'm not a Nicholas Cage fan, but he was great in it, Ithought!


Another one we just got, "The Incredibles" . Cartoons generally don't do much for me, but this one was hilarious! Highly recomended!

i like both of them.. really good movies... better than Finding nimrod.. or son of the mask 2

CSpringsFlyer
08-16-2005, 02:42 AM
I haven't laughed so hard in a theater in many years. Admittedly, I went in with low expectations, but ended up busting a gut. I thought I was gonna need medical attention.

The funniest part was when Vince Vaughn was tied to a bed then was violated first by his nympho date - and then by her brother.

CSpringsFlyer
08-16-2005, 02:47 AM
Week before last, I was on a business trip to the east coast. I rented the entire Matrix trilogy and watched it on the airplane. Very cool - very thought provoking. one word of caution, don't get #2 without #3 as well. The ending of #2 literally just stopped with the words "To Be Concluded" across the screen.

KIRA187
08-16-2005, 10:31 AM
last movie I saw.......I think it was the Rookie. Does a Red Shoes Diaries movie count?

Penny
08-17-2005, 03:14 PM
whats a good one to rent now? Anything any good

nlightenedrogue
08-17-2005, 04:39 PM
whats a good one to rent now? Anything any good
Hotel Rwanda was good.

Penny
08-17-2005, 11:12 PM
I just watched Lethal Weapon again

Polo38
08-18-2005, 10:47 AM
I thought the original was the best, there are not many great sequels, (there have been some) but most don’t stand up to the original.



Here are a couple current ones that my wife and I liked



Hitch

Sahara

Upside of anger (she loves Kevin Costner)

Hotel Rwanda (very strong, be ready to cry, not as a man or woman but as a human being)

The Aviator

Big Fish

Cold Mountain

The Notebook

CSpringsFlyer
08-25-2005, 03:23 AM
I'm getting ready to head to the east coast again - anyone have a good suggestion for an airplane movie?

That'd be a movie that runs for 2 hours or less, and who's plot is not so complicated that being interrupted by the stewardess or other passengers won't require I go back 15 minutes to catch the nuances I missed.

On the plus side, I scored two tickets to see Jimmy Buffett in Philadelphia on Saturday night so I'll be travelling with Hawaiin shirts and Margarita fixens in my bag.

MCat
08-26-2005, 11:02 PM
On the plus side, I scored two tickets to see Jimmy Buffett in Philadelphia on Saturday night so I'll be travelling with Hawaiin shirts and Margarita fixens in my bag.


Jealous, very very Jealous.....:cry:

rickt67
08-27-2005, 09:48 PM
Movies I like...

Hitch

Blade
Blade 2
Blade Trinity

Chronicles of Riddick
XXX

Annie
08-28-2005, 01:37 PM
Just watched School of Rock... loved it...

"It's a long way to the top if you want to rock and roll..."

Polo38
09-19-2005, 12:06 PM
Ok... so we didn't pan out to well with the last book we read.. so perhaps we are more movie buffs..tell me some lines from your favorite movie or movies?



My favorite book and movie as it turns out..

Now nearly all those I loved and did not understand when I was young are dead, but I still reach out to them.
Of course, now I am too old to be much of a fisherman, and now of course I usually fish the big waters alone, although some friends think I shouldn't. Like many fly fishermen in western Montana where the summer days are almost Arctic in length, I often do not start fishing until the cool of the evening. Then in the Arctic half-light of the canyon, all existence fades to a being with my soul and memories and the sounds of the Big Blackfoot River and a four-count rhythm and the hope that a fish will rise.




Eventually, all things merge into one, and a river runs through it. The river was cut by the world's great flood and runs over rocks from the basement of time. On some of the rocks are timeless raindrops. Under the rocks are the words, and some of the words are theirs.
I am haunted by waters.

Annie
09-19-2005, 12:08 PM
"Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn!" Rhett to Scarlet in Gone With The Wind

Wet Beaver
09-19-2005, 12:09 PM
"Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn!" Rhett to Scarlet in Gone With The Wind


lol annie, i was thinking the same thing.....:lmao

spare_change
09-19-2005, 12:15 PM
I have my favorite quote in a movie clip -- is it possible to attach here?

spare_change
09-19-2005, 12:18 PM
I have my favorite quote in a movie clip -- is it possible to attach here?

Disregard. I figured out how to attach, but file exceeds limit by 110KB.

Penny, is it possible to increase limit to allow short movie clips to be included as attachments?

Ehnonymous
09-19-2005, 12:29 PM
Actually, there are a few:

"I want to be alone" Greta Garbo (the greatest) in The Grand Hotel (1932)

"Think of your secretary," Harvey Korman to Mel Brooks as he is trying to replace a pen into its desk holder in Blazing Saddles (1974)

"Just put your lips together and blow..." Lauren Bacall to Humphrey Bogart in To Have and Have Not (1944)

"Is it true what they say about you people? It's TRUE! It's TRUE!" Madeline Kahn to Cleavon Little in Blazing Saddles (1974)

"Is that a gun in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?" Mae West to Cary Grant in She Done Him Wrong (1933)

Annie
09-19-2005, 12:32 PM
"Nice knockers" Young Frankenstein

KIRA187
09-19-2005, 12:50 PM
Just saw the movie last night...


Pearl Harbor - "Thinking of you is what saved me and brought me back alive."

Penny
09-19-2005, 03:14 PM
I think you can put them in the photo gallery how big is the file?



Disregard. I figured out how to attach, but file exceeds limit by 110KB.

Penny, is it possible to increase limit to allow short movie clips to be included as attachments?

Wet Beaver
09-19-2005, 03:51 PM
When I'm good, I'm very, very good. When I'm bad, I'm better.

Mae West

Wet Beaver
09-19-2005, 04:04 PM
Good sex is like good Bridge... If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand

mae west

Barkiss
09-19-2005, 04:21 PM
"I'm your Huckleberry" - Tombstone

Barkiss
09-19-2005, 04:21 PM
"Greed, for lack of a better term, is good..." - Wall Street

Penny
09-19-2005, 10:07 PM
I uped the limit :)



Disregard. I figured out how to attach, but file exceeds limit by 110KB.

Penny, is it possible to increase limit to allow short movie clips to be included as attachments?

Penny
09-19-2005, 10:08 PM
Cuda I bumped you to Gold Member :kk



Just saw the movie last night...


Pearl Harbor - "Thinking of you is what saved me and brought me back alive."

spare_change
09-19-2005, 11:19 PM
I uped the limit :)


Sorry, Penny --- it still said I was over the limit by the same amount.

I loaded it in the Premium Photo Gallery. Your decision what you want to do with it --- I think after you review it, you will agree it is worthy of widespread review.

Thanks,

Spare

Annie
09-20-2005, 04:05 AM
"I'll have what she's having." When Harry Met Sally

Norfolkdave
09-20-2005, 05:56 AM
Good sex is like good Bridge... If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand

mae west

And she didnt take prozac...LOL:lmao

illmakeurtoeswiggle
09-24-2005, 08:48 AM
"Say hello to my little friend"

"You're killing me, Small's"

Sandy
09-24-2005, 11:11 AM
Do youfeellucky punk clint eastwood

Annie
09-25-2005, 04:14 PM
"What if there is no tomorrow? There wasn't one today!" Bill Murray in Groundhog Day

Seeker
09-26-2005, 01:06 AM
"I'm your Huckleberry" - Tombstoneditto!:D

Seeker
09-26-2005, 01:10 AM
"That was totally wicked!!!", little kid on tricycle to the ' Incredible' family;'The Incredibles'.

Polo38
09-26-2005, 10:31 AM
"What if there is no tomorrow? There wasn't one today!" Bill Murray in Groundhog Day

One of his funniest movies

spare_change
09-30-2005, 05:54 PM
My favorite movie line ---- it's a movie clip located here:

http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/photopost/showphoto.php/photo/383

Bandit256
10-04-2005, 02:12 AM
I'll be back!!

Ofcourse that is when I get back my wife is asleep!!:D

Wet Beaver
10-04-2005, 06:39 PM
Honey, you better cut down on thoses horomones..


Fried green tomatos

Polo38
10-04-2005, 07:14 PM
John Winger:
I've got to dry-out or I'll be dead before I'm 30. The army is my only chance. Russell Ziskey:
You could join a monastery. John Winger:
Did you ever see a monk get wildly-fu**ed by some teenage girls? Russell Ziskey:
Never. John Winger:
So much for the monastery.



Stripes

Bandit256
10-04-2005, 09:22 PM
Show me your beaver, uh I mean the money! Jerry Maguire

Eros
10-15-2005, 08:36 AM
Not too good at rememebering great lines but heres two I do rememeber

I'll be back

and Whooa Keanu reaves in most of his films :lmao

wet36ddd
10-15-2005, 11:23 AM
"don't cry shopgirl," You've Got Mail

Eros
10-15-2005, 11:49 AM
'you won't like me when I'm angry'

he's on this site somewher eisn't he?

sex_kitten_4u
12-17-2005, 03:39 AM
i just watched king kong ( the new one ) was great

clitlicker111
12-17-2005, 04:46 AM
:whee: Forrest Gump

MCat
12-18-2005, 10:17 AM
Taking Lives

sex_kitten_4u
12-18-2005, 10:18 AM
dreamer

Norfolkdave
12-18-2005, 01:12 PM
I think that would be my calling card if a good woman come on to me!( pennys Lethal Weapon) The last film I watched was a freebie in our national newspaper The Sun the DVD was " Scrooge"

sex_kitten_4u
12-18-2005, 01:22 PM
just watched doom

skybird
12-18-2005, 02:07 PM
I'm waiting for Spielberg's "Munchen" to come out.

sex_kitten_4u
01-07-2006, 07:39 AM
come up and see me sometime

Norfolkdave
01-07-2006, 10:41 AM
come up and see me sometime

Ok when!, Im booked this week, lot of screwing to do ( woodwork.:D

sex_kitten_4u
01-07-2006, 11:20 AM
Ok when!, Im booked this week, lot of screwing to do ( woodwork.:D
dang it dave just the woodwork kind :lmao

Annie
01-07-2006, 11:33 AM
From "As Good As It Gets", Jack Nicholson says to Hellen Hunt during a dinner date "You make me want to be a better man."

Norfolkdave
01-07-2006, 11:44 AM
dang it dave just the woodwork kind :lmao

and put the tools away:D clean up and get ready for another ride:D

sweetgapeach
01-07-2006, 11:44 AM
"Get busy livin' or get busy dyin'.


" Shawshank Redemption "

Annie
01-07-2006, 12:03 PM
"Get busy livin' or get busy dyin'.


" Shawshank Redemption "

What a great movie that was... and a great line! Hmmm I should watch that movie again!

sweetgapeach
01-07-2006, 12:29 PM
What a great movie that was... and a great line! Hmmm I should watch that movie again!


A movie you never get tired of watching !

Feelgoode
01-07-2006, 12:48 PM
:lmao "Oh, this is the worst-looking hat I ever saw. What, when you buy a hat like this I bet you get a free bowl of soup, huh? Oh, it looks good on you though."

Al Czervik to Judge Smails - Caddyshack

This crowd has gone deadly silent, a Cinderella story outta nowhere. Former greenskeeper and now about to become the masters champion. He's on his final hole. He's about 455 yards away, he's gonna hit about a 2 iron I think. IT'S IN THE HOLE.

Carl Spackler - Caddyshack

surfnchat
01-07-2006, 04:38 PM
"Unnecessary violence in the apprehension of the Blues Brothers has been approved." -- Chicago Police Dispacher in The Blues Brothers

"It's just a flesh wound." -- Black Knight in Monty Python & The Holy Grail

"Have you ever been in a Turkish prison?" Captan Ovuer in Airplane!

"Badges?! We don't need no stinkin' badges!" Mexican bandits in Blazing Saddles

These are four of my favorite movies of all time. :lmao

aceofspades1114
01-08-2006, 02:23 PM
"This is a business, not UNICEF"

The classic comedy movie of all time, Joe Dirt

Zpanther
01-08-2006, 04:20 PM
Honey, you better cut down on thoses horomones..


Fried green tomatos

Is that's what's on your right ...... uh..... breast in that new avatar?



Nice pair though. They look a lot like..... in fact I think they are.............yours.

Jy
01-09-2006, 11:11 PM
"...the stars that once confused me seem now to light a path that is clear; I have been travelling all these days where I met what came and left behind my sorrows and am travelling still..."

-Restoration

Jy
01-09-2006, 11:12 PM
"I'm not bad; I'm just drawn that way" -Jessica Rabbit in Roger Rabbit

sir1279
01-09-2006, 11:17 PM
I don't mind the one with my name on it, its the one marked to whom it may concern that scares me....Wake Island

Leatherman
01-30-2006, 02:37 AM
It was an accident, right? You tripped, you slipped on the floor and accidently stuck your dick in my wife.

Bruce Willis - Whole Nine Yards

Marika
02-02-2006, 02:49 PM
"Do you mind if I smoke while you eat"? Dolly Starr in DEEP THROAT.

Shiane
02-03-2006, 02:32 PM
"Fill your hand you sonafabitch!" Rooster Cogburn in True Grit (John Wayne)

"We're burnin' daylight." Wil Andersen in The Cowboys (John Wayne)

"Who's the fella that owns this shithole?" Will Munny in Unforgiven (Clint Eastwood)

"Cut the cards for a poke?" Gus McCrae in Lonesome Dove (Robert Duvall)

sweet
02-04-2006, 02:30 PM
National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation:

"Merry Christmas...Shitter was full"

"Hey! If any of you are looking for any last-minute gift ideas for me, I have one. I'd like Frank Shirley, my boss, right here tonight. I want him brought from his happy holiday slumber over there on Melody Lane with all the other rich people and I want him brought right here, with a big ribbon on his head, and I want to look him straight in the eye and I want to tell him what a cheap, lying, no-good, rotten, four-flushing, low-life, snake-licking, dirt-eating, inbred, overstuffed, ignorant, blood-sucking, dog-kissing, brainless, dickless, hopeless, heartless, fat-ass, bug-eyed, stiff-legged, spotty-lipped, worm-headed sack of monkey shit he is! Hallelujah! Holy Shit! Where’s the Tylenol?"

Norfolkdave
02-13-2006, 05:29 AM
What movies make you weep!:wa:

sex_kitten_4u
02-13-2006, 05:34 AM
rocky and rocky 2 + 3

Norfolkdave
02-13-2006, 05:38 AM
I watched "The Green Mile last night with Tom Hanks, brilliant film, and what got me was that perfectly trained little mouse, I know you guys will laugh but that got the old tears flowing, Im not as tough as I make out sometimes, and we all have a soft spot for something.

tiger50
02-13-2006, 05:46 AM
none, am an aussie.... tuff as nails.... no cryin over bluddie movies for me...:D

Norfolkdave
02-13-2006, 05:49 AM
none, am an aussie.... tuff as nails.... no cryin over bluddie movies for me...:D

mmmmm I find that indeed very hard............nothing, not even a tiny morsel of memories of bits and pieces, doesnt have to be a film, something must trigger the waterworks!!!!:D

tiger50
02-13-2006, 05:51 AM
mmmmm I find that indeed very hard............nothing, not even a tiny morsel of memories of bits and pieces, doesnt have to be a film, something must trigger the waterworks!!!!:D

pssst.. shhhhh dave, ave an image ta protect ere.... :D

sex_kitten_4u
02-13-2006, 05:55 AM
none, am an aussie.... tuff as nails.... no cryin over bluddie movies for me...:D

thank god i did not have a pint of tiger then would ahve choked as you say you are as touff as nails:D

Norfolkdave
02-13-2006, 05:58 AM
Tiger tough!!!!!!! heh heh heh a big old softee really I bet ...lOl

rebelxug
02-13-2006, 07:38 AM
Never really come across a movie that has made me weep yet. I guess I am just too evil for that. :whee:

tiger50
02-13-2006, 07:44 AM
Tiger tough!!!!!!! heh heh heh a big old softee really I bet ...lOl

Ghost nearly got me, but i resisted... :D

Norfolkdave
02-13-2006, 07:46 AM
Ghost nearly got me, but i resisted... :D

See told you, your an old softee, somewhere theres a soft old heart under that aussie flesh:D

tiger50
02-13-2006, 07:46 AM
thank god i did not have a pint of tiger then would ahve choked as you say you are as touff as nails:D

yep, often ave nails an milk cereal, shaved screws fa arfters... :lmao

Shiane
02-14-2006, 04:31 AM
3 movies come to mind. The Notebook, Message In A Bottle, and Million Dollar Baby!

Cotties
02-14-2006, 04:59 AM
Titanic bored me to tears. You're a big girl Tiger. I expect from everyone else.
Maybe not that Kiwi and Wet Beaver..

Oh Oh ..I cried when I saw Stumpbroke Mountain. That's a beautiful story about real cowboys and the love 2 men can have when women aren't around.

Seriously. Very happy movies make me feel weird but no tears as yet.

Zifnab
02-14-2006, 10:04 AM
I cried when I saw Ol' Yeller as a kid. It shook me so bad I can't watch it anymore.

Sandy
02-14-2006, 10:30 AM
ole yellar got me to. so did the movie mask with cher, it still does.

Barkiss
02-14-2006, 10:37 AM
Yeah...Ol' Yellar got me too...so did Brian's Song

Sandy
02-14-2006, 10:44 AM
yeah thats another good one.

kissiemybuttie
02-14-2006, 10:54 AM
Do you ever feel unloved??? Unwanted??? Not needed???

Zifnab
02-14-2006, 10:56 AM
I also cried at Ghost. Cried because I had to pay money to see it with some girl that I didn't like, just because my boss said I needed to take his neice to see the movie. And he wondered why I quit.

Norfolkdave
02-14-2006, 10:56 AM
Im always unloved, Unwanted, Not needed....LOL:lmao

Zifnab
02-14-2006, 11:02 AM
Yes. Everyone feels it at some time during life... or they should. It is a matter of how deeply and how often.
Growing up I felt alone most of the time. No one wanted to talk to me or even sit near me during lunch. I always blamed myself for my mother leaving us when I was 2 as well.
It has left some rather deep scars, but you suck it in and move on. Laughing helps me quite a bit, and making others laugh even more.

Eventually I learned that as long as I love myself I will NEVER be unloved, and I will have the love of the only person whose opinion REALLY matters, ME.

Annie
02-14-2006, 11:12 AM
Hell Yes! Hmmm might even be why I'm here!

oh2be50
02-14-2006, 11:25 AM
it comes then it goes

oh2be50
02-14-2006, 11:29 AM
movies can make me cry but what really sets me off is seeing my hot neighbor go inside folowed by her grining husband.

sex_kitten_4u
02-14-2006, 12:15 PM
Do you ever feel unloved??? Unwanted??? Not needed???


yup i do :(

Sandy
02-14-2006, 12:17 PM
yes i do, i guess its cause i do so much, and sometimes it feels like i'm invisible. i don't get thanks very often, and there are times i feel lonely, but then there are times i feel very needed to so it kinda works itself out i guess.

Trev
02-14-2006, 12:35 PM
Do you ever feel unloved??? Unwanted??? Not needed???

everytime I'm around my wife at home.

Penny
02-14-2006, 01:09 PM
I think we all do sometimes.

kissiemybuttie
02-14-2006, 01:11 PM
well it is nice to know i am not alone...i so want to go back home...guess the newness has warn off....cant find a job..feel like shit...and o0o0o0o0o0o0o do i want a drink....

Penny
02-14-2006, 01:15 PM
We can keep you company :)

Sexylady06
02-14-2006, 02:04 PM
That is how I feel right now and have felt like this for awhile now. Unloved and unwanted by my husband since I found out that he has cheated on me.



Do you ever feel unloved??? Unwanted??? Not needed???

sweetgapeach
02-14-2006, 02:44 PM
Do you ever feel unloved??? Unwanted??? Not needed???


Yes , Yes and Yes !!!!!!

G...G
02-14-2006, 03:25 PM
Yes, I do alot of the time!! But then I stop and think......... I think we all have days when we just don't feel loved at all. Happy Valentine's DAY!!!

Barkiss
02-14-2006, 03:28 PM
By knowing the feeling of being unloved, unwanted or not needed; it makes those times when you feel loved, wanted and needed all the more worthwhile...How else would you know what you are missing?

G...G
02-14-2006, 03:30 PM
Barkiss, you always know what to say to cheer someone up!! I love reading your post!!

Barkiss
02-14-2006, 03:31 PM
Barkiss, you always know what to say to cheer someone up!! I love reading your post!!

Why thank you! You just made my day!!!

G...G
02-14-2006, 03:32 PM
Why you are very welcome sweety!!

italian_princess0420
02-14-2006, 03:46 PM
Do you ever feel unloved??? Unwanted??? Not needed???

kinda...i dont know maybe its just me. today is v-day...and what do i get...nothin. last night i told my bf he can go hang w/the guys...he told he he would be home at 2 am...he calls saying he dont know when hes comming home, might be 3...well he calls again saying he dont know when hes comming home...they are going to a frineds house and might be back at 4 am...he was gone last night for 6 1/2 hours. when he got home i felt sooo mad that i didnt wanna do anythin in the morning...well now its morning, i feel unwanted, right now hes reading a book, and im stuck to entertain myself:( ...soo i went in to fix my hair, and i almost started to cry:cry:

Trev
02-14-2006, 04:05 PM
By knowing the feeling of being unloved, unwanted or not needed; it makes those times when you feel loved, wanted and needed all the more worthwhile...How else would you know what you are missing?

Did you copy that off another site barkiss?:lmao

Barkiss
02-14-2006, 04:07 PM
Did you copy that off another site barkiss?:lmao

Always jealous...

Norfolkdave
02-14-2006, 05:07 PM
By knowing the feeling of being unloved, unwanted or not needed; it makes those times when you feel loved, wanted and needed all the more worthwhile...How else would you know what you are missing?

All you have done is taken the Uns off....cheat:lmao

kissiemybuttie
02-14-2006, 06:33 PM
We can keep you company :)


In all honesty.....sometimes i feel like i am not wanted here either....guess it is the home sick blues kicking in!!!!

MCat
02-14-2006, 06:51 PM
Do you ever feel unloved??? Unwanted??? Not needed???

Yes :cry:

MCat
02-14-2006, 06:53 PM
In all honesty.....sometimes i feel like i am not wanted here either....guess it is the home sick blues kicking in!!!!

You're gonna make me cry...:cry: :knuddel:

sweet
02-14-2006, 07:23 PM
Yes. That's the way I had been feeling for awhile now. But, I think we all do at some point in our lives. Hopefully there is a light at this long, dark, narrow tunnel I'm going through. :cry:

tiger50
02-14-2006, 07:29 PM
kinda...i dont know maybe its just me. today is v-day...and what do i get...nothin. last night i told my bf he can go hang w/the guys...he told he he would be home at 2 am...he calls saying he dont know when hes comming home, might be 3...well he calls again saying he dont know when hes comming home...they are going to a frineds house and might be back at 4 am...he was gone last night for 6 1/2 hours. when he got home i felt sooo mad that i didnt wanna do anythin in the morning...well now its morning, i feel unwanted, right now hes reading a book, and im stuck to entertain myself:( ...soo i went in to fix my hair, and i almost started to cry:cry:

Unbelievable, cant understand some guys at all. even a rough nut like me gives a nice card and flowers.. :sc

Penny
02-14-2006, 07:29 PM
Thats what a place like this is good for. You can be whoever or whatever you want for a few minutes a day and leave the down in the dumps feelings behind.

sweet
02-14-2006, 07:38 PM
Thats what a place like this is good for. You can be whoever or whatever you want for a few minutes a day and leave the down in the dumps feelings behind.

Yes! That's why I enjoy it here so much. I get to have a little vacation from my troubles for awhile and just have fun. :)

Sunfiresix
02-14-2006, 07:49 PM
kinda...i dont know maybe its just me. today is v-day...and what do i get...nothin. last night i told my bf he can go hang w/the guys...he told he he would be home at 2 am...he calls saying he dont know when hes comming home, might be 3...well he calls again saying he dont know when hes comming home...they are going to a frineds house and might be back at 4 am...he was gone last night for 6 1/2 hours. when he got home i felt sooo mad that i didnt wanna do anythin in the morning...well now its morning, i feel unwanted, right now hes reading a book, and im stuck to entertain myself:( ...soo i went in to fix my hair, and i almost started to cry:cry:

Take heart all your boyfriends here wish you well, your guy will come through one of these days, your too sweet to ignore.:wa::kk

tiger50
02-14-2006, 07:58 PM
By knowing the feeling of being unloved, unwanted or not needed; it makes those times when you feel loved, wanted and needed all the more worthwhile...How else would you know what you are missing?

good call Barks... like sometimes u need to b sick, so you appreciate how good it is to feel well... :D

G...G
02-14-2006, 08:20 PM
In all honesty.....sometimes i feel like i am not wanted here either....guess it is the home sick blues kicking in!!!!

aww Don't feel that way!! I enjoy reading your post!! You are loved and needed by us online friends!!

Jy
02-14-2006, 08:27 PM
We all feel like that at one time or another, especially this time of year when we've had our fill of winter and need some more sunshine.

But most of the time we get feeling like this when we measure our accomplishments by other's approval. Get in the habit of giving yourself a pat on the back rather than waiting for someone else to do it. I guarantee you'll get them more often, and won't feel as disappointed.

Zifnab
02-14-2006, 08:31 PM
Again with the good advice. You are wonderful! And I'll give you the pat on the back for this one!

kissiemybuttie
02-14-2006, 08:32 PM
You're gonna make me cry...:cry: :knuddel:



dont cry...that is not what i want....

G...G
02-14-2006, 08:33 PM
Great advice Jazzy. I need to start doing that myself!!

Jy
02-14-2006, 08:33 PM
Thanks Zif! And I'll give you a pat on the ass, just because I feel like it!!Again with the good advice. You are wonderful! And I'll give you the pat on the back for this one!

Zifnab
02-14-2006, 08:35 PM
And I hope you like the feel of it too!:dl

sweetgapeach
02-14-2006, 08:47 PM
By knowing the feeling of being unloved, unwanted or not needed; it makes those times when you feel loved, wanted and needed all the more worthwhile...How else would you know what you are missing?


Perfect !!:kk

sweetgapeach
02-14-2006, 09:30 PM
I remember seeing The Champ when I was about 11 , I cried so hard , it broke my heart. The Color Purple , the same , and I can never watch Lassie , when I was a kid I would go to school tore out the frame from watching that show .

Sandy
02-14-2006, 09:38 PM
i started my spring cleaning early this year and came across some stuff my baby made me in kindergarden, and i started to cry, hes not my baby anymore.

Sandy
02-14-2006, 09:44 PM
aww kissie it will get better i promise, like i said earlier i feel like that, but this site helps alot. i guess him reading my post helped to, there are times though when hes all over me, so i guess i can't complain to much.

tiger50
02-14-2006, 09:54 PM
[QUOTE=Cotties]Titanic bored me to tears. You're a big girl Tiger. I expect from everyone else.
Maybe not that Kiwi and Wet Beaver..
QUOTE]

Kiss my arse cotties.... :lmao :lmao

sweetgapeach
02-14-2006, 11:18 PM
i started my spring cleaning early this year and came across some stuff my baby made me in kindergarden, and i started to cry, hes not my baby anymore.

I have done that a couple weeks back , found my oldest Son's first Bowling score cards , he was 4 , and I remember it was the best day, He use to call me Mommy then , now I am Mom ,I miss those day's with him.

sex_kitten_4u
02-15-2006, 05:29 AM
do you ever wake up some days and are just tearfull and you feel like the most unloved person in the world by the one you love

kissiemybuttie
02-15-2006, 11:22 AM
do you ever wake up some days and are just tearfull and you feel like the most unloved person in the world by the one you love





YEP sure do!!!!!

Sandy
02-15-2006, 11:24 AM
i think we've all felt that way, at one time or another.

Rainmaker
02-15-2006, 11:49 AM
im not inlove with my husband anymore...i love him because he is the father of my children. i Know for a fact he feels the same way i do. we have grown apart... we beleive our kids come first so we r sticking it out......if it wasnt for my kids i think i wouldnt be able to go on sometimes

Annie
02-15-2006, 12:11 PM
im not inlove with my husband anymore...i love him because he is the father of my children. i Know for a fact he feels the same way i do. we have grown apart... we beleive our kids come first so we r sticking it out......if it wasnt for my kids i think i wouldnt be able to go on sometimes

You know Rain, I think I'm in the same situation you are. The thing that bothers me is that children learn by our example. What they learn from us carries them through their entire lives. This makes me wonder just what my son is learning about marriage from us. I wonder if I am teaching my son how to have the perfectly unhealthy marriage that I have. I often wonder if it just might be, that our son would be better off with mom and dad apart. At least if we were apart there would be the possibility of my husband and I finding someone else, someone for each of us that we could set a much better example with. I've always wanted so much more for my son than I have now.

Rainmaker
02-15-2006, 12:24 PM
You know Rain, I think I'm in the same situation you are. The thing that bothers me is that children learn by our example. What they learn from us carries them through their entire lives. This makes me wonder just what my son is learning about marriage from us. I wonder if I am teaching my son how to have the perfectly unhealthy marriage that I have. I often wonder if it just might be, that our son would be better off with mom and dad apart. At least if we were apart there would be the possibility of my husband and I finding someone else, someone for each of us that we could set a much better example with. I've always wanted so much more for my son than I have now.


i totally agree---but for several reason i am unable to leave my husband...i am unable to work outside of the house anymore. i worry about the impact it is having on my kids all the time. i have to say my hub and i r great actors around them.. we still kiss and show affection and stuff. we do care about each other. we just lost something.. i still think it has to do with me losing respect and trust for him when he cheated yrs back.. just because he was virgin when we met and he wanted to test the waters ...was not an excuse for me.. thanks for responding annie-at least i know im not alone in this:kk

Zifnab
02-15-2006, 12:33 PM
i totally agree---but for several reason i am unable to leave my husband...i am unable to work outside of the house anymore. i worry about the impact it is having on my kids all the time. i have to say my hub and i r great actors around them.. we still kiss and show affection and stuff. we do care about each other. we just lost something.. i still think it has to do with me losing respect and trust for him when he cheated yrs back.. just because he was virgin when we met and he wanted to test the waters ...was not an excuse for me.. thanks for responding annie-at least i know im not alone in this:kk

Don't you think that just being able to be civil to each other is one of the most impportant lessons that children learn fromtheir parents? I know that my mother and father STILL can't discuss anything without a mediator in the room, and it has been 40+ years! My ex and I don't get along as well as we used to, and thats fine, but we are ALWAYS civil to and ABOUT each other. My son has learned that. I didn't have both parents at home, and see how well I turned out???(a definite case to be made for staying together!)
If the ones they need to love them are where they can get that love whenever they need it, all will be fine, whether in the same house or just the same town.
Remember that kids are more resilliant than we as parents think. And even if they aren't, society, tv and movies will mess them up more than parents ever could!
Smile cause they are watching! and THEY still love you!

mbrown811
02-15-2006, 12:34 PM
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Annie
02-15-2006, 01:08 PM
i totally agree---but for several reason i am unable to leave my husband...i am unable to work outside of the house anymore. i worry about the impact it is having on my kids all the time. i have to say my hub and i r great actors around them.. we still kiss and show affection and stuff. we do care about each other. we just lost something.. i still think it has to do with me losing respect and trust for him when he cheated yrs back.. just because he was virgin when we met and he wanted to test the waters ...was not an excuse for me.. thanks for responding annie-at least i know im not alone in this:kk

Oh Rain I hear you on this one too because I haven't been able to work in over 5 years due to health issues. Right now I've been working my butt off to try resolve it, but it's been a slow process and way too many bad doctors. I just keep thinking that it's never going to be the wonderful marriage we had in the begining and all we can really hope for is to make it a little bit better, one step at a time. In the past couple of months I see that he's been trying, so I have hope that we can get back at least a little bit of what we once had.

One thing you should know by now, as long as you sign on here you are never alone in anything!:)

Rainmaker
02-15-2006, 01:13 PM
to comment on brown and zifs posts-----my hub and i seperated once for about 3 mths-it broke our kids heart-it was like the world they knew had crumbled... i agree and understand what u say. i hope when my kids grow up, they experince love the way it should be.as long as they r my best friends and i know they r happy then my life living here is worth it-ty guys for the response

Rainmaker
02-15-2006, 01:15 PM
Oh Rain I hear you on this one too because I haven't been able to work in over 5 years due to health issues. Right now I've been working my butt off to try resolve it, but it's been a slow process and way too many bad doctors. I just keep thinking that it's never going to be the wonderful marriage we had in the begining and all we can really hope for is to make it a little bit better, one step at a time. In the past couple of months I see that he's been trying, so I have hope that we can get back at least a little bit of what we once had.

One thing you should know by now, as long as you sign on here you are never alone in anything!:)


well annie if u ever want to vent or just run your mouth abouit life in general-u r welcome to pm me anytime-ty so much for the kind words:kk

sweet
02-15-2006, 02:40 PM
Rain & Annie,
I'm also in the same boat you two are. My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and I just don't feel that I'm in love with him anymore. I have been crying every night, wondering how our marriage got to be this way. We used to be so much in love. I have thought of leaving recently. But, I'm going to school so I don't have a full time job. I'm scared that I wouldn't be able to provide for me and my two girls on my own. Also, I would hate for my kids to come from a broken home. But, I wonder if it's really fair to them to have two parents who really don't love each other. We also do a pretty good job at acting normal around our kids, but each day it gets harder to do. I hope that somehow the love will come back, or that I will be strong enough to walk away and make it on my own.

Sandy
02-15-2006, 02:42 PM
i'm not telling you guys to split, but remember one thing kids are very very smart.

Rainmaker
02-15-2006, 02:50 PM
Rain & Annie,
I'm also in the same boat you two are. My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and I just don't feel that I'm in love with him anymore. I have been crying every night, wondering how our marriage got to be this way. We used to be so much in love. I have thought of leaving recently. But, I'm going to school so I don't have a full time job. I'm scared that I wouldn't be able to provide for me and my two girls on my own. Also, I would hate for my kids to come from a broken home. But, I wonder if it's really fair to them to have two parents who really don't love each other. We also do a pretty good job at acting normal around our kids, but each day it gets harder to do. I hope that somehow the love will come back, or that I will be strong enough to walk away and make it on my own.

i feel for u huni-know what u r going through--dont cry though--i use to cry and get upset and such till my son was playing with the camcorder-we set down to watch what all he had taped......i didnt like the way i saw myself-i was upset at the world for what my husband had done...that night i talked to my husband--im open with him about all of my feelings-thats the night before we seperated. i do not know all the right answers-i take it day by day now -as i told annie-if u ever need to vent -pm me

Wet Beaver
02-15-2006, 03:08 PM
i'm not telling you guys to split, but remember one thing kids are very very smart.

it is real hard keeping things from the kids...they pick up the vibs or something.....

Sandy
02-15-2006, 03:09 PM
yes they di, they pick up just about everything.

Jy
02-15-2006, 03:56 PM
Wow! I haven't read this thread for quiet a while, and am just catching up here. So many excellent points made. (I love this site)

My parents stayed together, and there wasn't a day that went by that I didn't pray they wouldn't. It was awful; even when they weren't fighting, the tension in the house was unbearable. I ended up moving out when I was 16, but wish I could have stuck it out so I wouldn't have ended up having to support myself.
Now, I'm in a similar situation with my husband. I've come to the sad realization that I don't love him anymore. He has so many emotional issues that make him a real picnic to live with. But he is a wonderful father. If it weren't for our son, I would have left years ago. I try to put on a brave face for my little boy, but I often wonder how much he picks up. Probably everything. I did when I was his age.
Tough decisions to make.
I guess I don't have any advice to give. Just wanted to share my story. Thanks for listening. *hug*

Rainmaker
02-15-2006, 04:01 PM
Wow! I haven't read this thread for quiet a while, and am just catching up here. So many excellent points made. (I love this site)

My parents stayed together, and there wasn't a day that went by that I didn't pray they wouldn't. It was awful; even when they weren't fighting, the tension in the house was unbearable. I ended up moving out when I was 16, but wish I could have stuck it out so I wouldn't have ended up having to support myself.
Now, I'm in a similar situation with my husband. I've come to the sad realization that I don't love him anymore. He has so many emotional issues that make him a real picnic to live with. But he is a wonderful father. If it weren't for our son, I would have left years ago. I try to put on a brave face for my little boy, but I often wonder how much he picks up. Probably everything. I did when I was his age.
Tough decisions to make.
I guess I don't have any advice to give. Just wanted to share my story. Thanks for listening. *hug*


*HUGS* huni!! see thats the thing-my hub is an excellent father as well! we have family night each weekedn -we all sit down and do stuff together-my husband is my friend and always will be-maybe when i say inlove i mean passion and such im not sure how to explain it. but we r missing something. not only r my kids mykids they r my friends-i spend time with them and try to pick up on how they r feeling-i just hope i am not making the wrong decisions .i guess u live and learn

sweet
02-15-2006, 04:11 PM
Wow! I haven't read this thread for quiet a while, and am just catching up here. So many excellent points made. (I love this site)

My parents stayed together, and there wasn't a day that went by that I didn't pray they wouldn't. It was awful; even when they weren't fighting, the tension in the house was unbearable. I ended up moving out when I was 16, but wish I could have stuck it out so I wouldn't have ended up having to support myself.
Now, I'm in a similar situation with my husband. I've come to the sad realization that I don't love him anymore. He has so many emotional issues that make him a real picnic to live with. But he is a wonderful father. If it weren't for our son, I would have left years ago. I try to put on a brave face for my little boy, but I often wonder how much he picks up. Probably everything. I did when I was his age.
Tough decisions to make.
I guess I don't have any advice to give. Just wanted to share my story. Thanks for listening. *hug*

Big hugs to you hun! My husband is also a terrific father, so that makes it hard to leave him. I love him as a friend & he's a great guy, but like Rain said, we just don't have that passion like we used to.
We're all here for you girl! If you need to vent, cry, or just talk to someone, you can always PM me. Take care hun :kk

italian_princess0420
02-15-2006, 04:23 PM
humm i found out why my bf didnt get me anythin for v-day. well he has a part time job, but dont make money every other week, well the money we have now is mine, but i kinda like to think of it as ours...ya know, whats your is mine and whats mine is ours. well anyways, he said he would have felt bad buying me somethin w/my own money. so today, we are goin out to eat.

Rainmaker
02-15-2006, 04:26 PM
humm i found out why my bf didnt get me anythin for v-day. well he has a part time job, but dont make money every other week, well the money we have now is mine, but i kinda like to think of it as ours...ya know, whats your is mine and whats mine is ours. well anyways, he said he would have felt bad buying me somethin w/my own money. so today, we are goin out to eat.


hope u have a great time huni!! :)

Eric69
02-15-2006, 04:33 PM
Hope you had a good time Princess. I know you deserve the best. Kisses to you

mbrown811
02-15-2006, 04:36 PM
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Sunfiresix
02-15-2006, 07:40 PM
It is a very tough decision for a woman to make, my daughter called one night crying, she too was having marital problems, I told her, in her case she had to leave him, I told her she was capable of anything as long as she put her mind to it. She left and has continued school and has an excellent job, bought her own house and now has met a great guy. But she had to be determined and keep saing I am capable. If you decide to go I am sure you have it in you to succeed. Good Luck in any decision.

Annie
02-15-2006, 08:06 PM
It is a very tough decision for a woman to make, my daughter called one night crying, she too was having marital problems, I told her, in her case she had to leave him, I told her she was capable of anything as long as she put her mind to it. She left and has continued school and has an excellent job, bought her own house and now has met a great guy. But she had to be determined and keep saing I am capable. If you decide to go I am sure you have it in you to succeed. Good Luck in any decision.

Your daughter is very lucky to have you cheering her on!

Sunfiresix
02-15-2006, 08:22 PM
Annie, your friends and family are all there to cheer us on--we just have to do what is best. We all have all these wonderfull people here to help us too. We are like family. By the way--women are stronger than they sometimes feel they are.

Annie
02-15-2006, 10:31 PM
Annie, your friends and family are all there to cheer us on--we just have to do what is best. We all have all these wonderfull people here to help us too. We are like family. By the way--women are stronger than they sometimes feel they are.

I have been blessed with some of the most wonderful people in my life, I could never ask for better people to be around. But I know that there is something about a father/daughter relationship that can't be duplicated. My father left when I was 11 and I haven't seen him since I was 14. I've always been able to have someone by me to cheer me on, but I know it would have meant more if it came from my dad.


... and Jazzy, now she's quite a cheerleader to have on your side too! What an unexpected blessing she has been!

Sunfiresix
02-15-2006, 11:13 PM
We are here for each other, yes, my daughters call me when they need comfort and advice, that is also a good feeling for a Dad. I know it was rough not to have one around I am sorry. Remember all us old guys, we are Dads and we can give advice, when we aren't flirting. Take care you will do great.

Jy
02-16-2006, 12:02 AM
Thanks Annie! I'm always in your corner honey!:kk I have been blessed with some of the most wonderful people in my life, I could never ask for better people to be around. But I know that there is something about a father/daughter relationship that can't be duplicated. My father left when I was 11 and I haven't seen him since I was 14. I've always been able to have someone by me to cheer me on, but I know it would have meant more if it came from my dad.


... and Jazzy, now she's quite a cheerleader to have on your side too! What an unexpected blessing she has been!

Seeker
02-16-2006, 08:14 AM
I have come to believe that, love is an act of will. Not so much of a feeling, anymore. I choose to love her. As I vowed so many years ago.

In spite of the troubles, I choose to love. Each moment, each day, each month, I choose! I choose to love for the sake of the kids, for her, and for myself.

Jy
02-16-2006, 08:19 AM
You are right in so many ways, Seeker, but sometimes there are extenuating circumstances that drain the love right out of a marriage. I consider myself a loyal and devoted person, but 10 years of constant rejection, criticism, temper tantrums and unreliability takes its toll on one's love for another.
I'm not playing martyr either, just telling it straight. I know I have my shortcomings too, but I've always been commited to my husband. What do you do when your love is stomped into the ground?

tiger50
02-16-2006, 08:24 AM
mm no comment here, have been bounced before over my thoughts on this sort of stuff....

Jy
02-16-2006, 08:26 AM
Go ahead Tiger. We're all entitled to our opinion here honey. And if anyone gives you any grief, they'll have me to contend with.

Sandy
02-16-2006, 08:28 AM
jazzy your a beautiful woman and a great mother, you might agree with me, but i believe you deserve so much more. i hope i didn't overstep but it breaks my heart listening to you honey, because your so good. and maybe one day you'll get it. :kk

Jy
02-16-2006, 08:39 AM
Wow! Thanks Sandy! You are so sweet, you brought a tear to my eye! I made a commitment to him, and have never broken my vows, but it's hard when I'm dealing with emotional issues from before we even met. How much is one supposed to take of a spouse's emotional baggage? It's life draining.

It's friends like you that keep me going honey. And it's couples like you and Mark who inspire me. Thank you. :kk

jazzy your a beautiful woman and a great mother, you might agree with me, but i believe you deserve so much more. i hope i didn't overstep but it breaks my heart listening to you honey, because your so good. and maybe one day you'll get it. :kk

Sandy
02-16-2006, 08:42 AM
awww your welcome sweetheart, i don't how long you should deal with the luggage, but it seems to me you already have, you have to draw a line honey for yourself and your little boy, kids are so smart and they sense things. i just hope and pray that one day yoyu'll find happinees, you deserve it. :kk

Jy
02-16-2006, 08:44 AM
Thanks sis.:kk You have no idea how much happiness I've found just talking to all my friends here. This site is an oasis of warmth and friendship.

Sandy
02-16-2006, 08:46 AM
yes i do know, mark is great don't get me wrong, but there are times he gets so wraspped up in his games, i don't excist, this site has been a life-saver for me to honey.

Zifnab
02-16-2006, 09:34 AM
I have come to believe that, love is an act of will. Not so much of a feeling, anymore. I choose to love her. As I vowed so many years ago.

In spite of the troubles, I choose to love. Each moment, each day, each month, I choose! I choose to love for the sake of the kids, for her, and for myself.

AMEN! Beautifully said! In spite of troubles, and often because of them. Trials and tribulations are the tests of life, for without them there would be no rewards, just sameness. That is not to say that love remains the same.... The ancient Greek used five main words to describe love in its various levles and types. Remeber that we are all meant to "love" each other...even the ones we don't like.
Where did that pulpit come from???? ooopps!

Rainmaker
02-16-2006, 09:37 AM
You are right in so many ways, Seeker, but sometimes there are extenuating circumstances that drain the love right out of a marriage. I consider myself a loyal and devoted person, but 10 years of constant rejection, criticism, temper tantrums and unreliability takes its toll on one's love for another.
I'm not playing martyr either, just telling it straight. I know I have my shortcomings too, but I've always been commited to my husband. What do you do when your love is stomped into the ground?


right there with ya girlie!!

tiger50
02-16-2006, 09:39 AM
AMEN! Beautifully said! In spite of troubles, and often because of them. Trials and tribulations are the tests of life, for without them there would be no rewards, just sameness. That is not to say that love remains the same.... The ancient Greek used five main words to describe love in its various levles and types. Remeber that we are all meant to "love" each other...even the ones we don't like.
Where did that pulpit come from???? ooopps!

hey mate. think you an i shud get together for a beer.. do a bit of roo shootin, shag a coupla sheilas... :D

Zifnab
02-16-2006, 09:42 AM
Whats pouring from the tap today?
what kind of pc you building any? Need a hand?
Kind of what I do for a living an all...
But if I actually get down under I'll be sure to take you up on the offer.... and maybe even have some vegemite again!

Seeker
02-17-2006, 09:03 AM
You are right in so many ways, Seeker, but sometimes there are extenuating circumstances that drain the love right out of a marriage. I consider myself a loyal and devoted person, but 10 years of constant rejection, criticism, temper tantrums and unreliability takes its toll on one's love for another.
I'm not playing martyr either, just telling it straight. I know I have my shortcomings too, but I've always been commited to my husband. What do you do when your love is stomped into the ground?Those things do indeed take their toll on the emotions as well as the body! Men aren't the only ones who can dish those out (i. e.: I'm on the recieving end of them too). But, that's the reason I come here. To get some relief, a good chuckle, and some honest friendship! All the guys and gals here are great!

I have some pretty broad shoulders, you are welcome to come cry on them, vent, or whatever you need at the time. I can sympathize, empithize, and usually just listen.

Seeker
02-17-2006, 09:10 AM
AMEN! Beautifully said! In spite of troubles, and often because of them. Trials and tribulations are the tests of life, for without them there would be no rewards, just sameness. That is not to say that love remains the same.... The ancient Greek used five main words to describe love in its various levles and types. Remeber that we are all meant to "love" each other...even the ones we don't like.
Where did that pulpit come from???? ooopps!LOL
I can only remember two of them: Eros, agape, ...... what were the others?

tiger50
02-17-2006, 09:13 AM
LOL
I can only remember two of them: Eros, agape, ...... what were the others?

ehhh think wanker was the other one.... :lmao

MCat
02-19-2006, 05:33 PM
I have come to believe that, love is an act of will. Not so much of a feeling, anymore. I choose to love her. As I vowed so many years ago.

In spite of the troubles, I choose to love. Each moment, each day, each month, I choose! I choose to love for the sake of the kids, for her, and for myself.

I agree....it is a choice.

sweetgapeach
02-19-2006, 05:37 PM
Originally Posted by Seeker
I have come to believe that, love is an act of will. Not so much of a feeling, anymore. I choose to love her. As I vowed so many years ago.

In spite of the troubles, I choose to love. Each moment, each day, each month, I choose! I choose to love for the sake of the kids, for her, and for myself.



That is sooo True !!

Zifnab
02-19-2006, 05:46 PM
ehhh think wanker was the other one.... :lmao

You are so NOT close!:whee:

Sunfiresix
02-19-2006, 07:56 PM
Originally Posted by Seeker
I have come to believe that, love is an act of will. Not so much of a feeling, anymore. I choose to love her. As I vowed so many years ago.

In spite of the troubles, I choose to love. Each moment, each day, each month, I choose! I choose to love for the sake of the kids, for her, and for myself.



That is sooo True !!

I hope you don't mind butI may use that on a card for my wife. I relly like that.:)

Sandy
02-19-2006, 07:57 PM
you know what, so do i :wa:









I hope you don't mind butI may use that on a card for my wife. I relly like that.:)

Sunfiresix
02-19-2006, 08:00 PM
It is just a perfect summation of the feeling.

Zifnab
02-19-2006, 08:44 PM
LOL
I can only remember two of them: Eros, agape, ...... what were the others?

For all those who may be wondering they are:
Agape- pure, ideal love
Eros- passionate love. sensual desire
Philia- close friendship (eg: Philidelphia= City of Brotherly Love)
Storge- natural affection, as a parent to a child
Xenia- Hospitality to guests

Just thought you'd like to know...

Sandy
02-19-2006, 09:00 PM
thanks for the heads up. lol:D

Zifnab
02-19-2006, 09:02 PM
Always please to help enlighten the masses

sweetgapeach
03-04-2006, 01:28 PM
I was watching Terms of Endearment , I have seen it a 100 times , and I still cry through the whole thing , it just tears at my heart

Sandy
03-04-2006, 01:52 PM
oh honey i do that to. i also do it to the movie madk, with cher in it. every single time.

sweetgapeach
03-04-2006, 01:53 PM
oh honey i do that to. i also do it to the movie madk, with cher in it. every single time.


Yeah Mask gets to me too !!

quax999
03-06-2006, 10:14 AM
I can't remember the name of the movie, but it stared Cristain(sp) Slater where he worked in a dinner, I believe Tea Leoni worked as a waistress, he claimed to have a baboon hearts. Very sad ending.

Zifnab
03-06-2006, 10:24 AM
I get a lump in my throat and tingles down the spine everytime I hear the President's speach from the back of that truck in independence day!

Cotties
04-04-2006, 05:19 AM
O.K.......movies..I love em and I hate em


List 3 movies that you will never forget
1.
2.
3.

and anything else you want to express...

Cotties
04-04-2006, 05:22 AM
1. The Warriors........huge impact on my little violent childhood
2. The magnificent 7.........I always wanted to be a cowboy
3. The Wanderers.........a great soundtrack and a great movie...

Sandy
04-04-2006, 09:18 AM
1, the lord of the rings

2. mask with cher.
3. the walking tall series.

Shiane
04-04-2006, 09:26 AM
1. Message In A Bottle

2. True Grit

3. G.I. Jane

Zifnab
04-04-2006, 09:31 AM
Old Yeller

Remember the Titans

Animal House

Norfolkdave
04-04-2006, 09:44 AM
Titanic
Born Free
Airplane

G...G
04-04-2006, 09:45 AM
Dirty Dancing
Pure Country
Pretty Woman

Annie
04-04-2006, 10:01 AM
1.) Casablanca
2.) Pay It Forward
3.a) On Golden Pond
3.b) Fried Green Tomatoes

Barkiss
04-04-2006, 10:16 AM
1.) Godfather
2.) Godfather 2
3.) Godfather 3

sweetgapeach
04-04-2006, 10:23 AM
1.)Shawshank Redemption

2.) Terms of Endearment

3.)The Hitcher

sweet
04-04-2006, 10:28 AM
1. Tommy Boy (kind of corny I know but it's my favorite!)

2. Forrest Gump
3. Al the Star Wars movies

sweetgapeach
04-04-2006, 10:36 AM
1.)Shawshank Redemption

2.) Terms of Endearment

3.)The Hitcher


I am going to add another one , I swear this movie makes me laugh ,everytime

Dumb and Dumber

sweet
04-04-2006, 10:38 AM
I am going to add another one , I swear this movie makes me laugh ,everytime

Dumb and Dumber

OMG YES! It's so stupid but cracks me up every time! I love that! :lmao

sweetgapeach
04-04-2006, 10:49 AM
OMG YES! It's so stupid but cracks me up every time! I love that! :lmao


I know !!! I have to leave the room , I get laughing so hard !!:lmao :lmao

G...G
04-04-2006, 10:58 AM
I love the Titanic and Meet Joe Black too....... Brad Pitt is TOO fine

Dre
04-04-2006, 11:51 AM
napolian Dynamite


Predator

Rocky ( always feel like going out and kicking someone ass after watching it!)

Sandy
04-04-2006, 11:52 AM
i forgot about born free, thats one of my all time favs to.

Zifnab
04-04-2006, 12:09 PM
Inherit The Wind

Saving Private Ryan

Blade Runner

sweetgapeach
04-04-2006, 12:10 PM
Inherit The Wind

Saving Private Ryan

Blade Runner


Saving Private Ryan was a good one !!

So was Platoon

Zifnab
04-04-2006, 12:22 PM
Saving Private Ryan was a good one !!

So was PlatoonLOL was going in next 3!

Platoon

Appocolypse Now

Tears of the Sun

Zifnab
04-04-2006, 01:06 PM
Casablanca

Crimson Tide

Flowers in the Attic

Penny
04-04-2006, 01:08 PM
1. Jaws
2. Godfather
3. Goodfellas

Annie
04-04-2006, 01:10 PM
Rock and Roll High School
The Wedding Singer
Fifty First Dates

Ahhh mindless entertainment!

Zifnab
04-04-2006, 01:11 PM
Boondock Saints


Resevoir Dogs


Zulu Dawn

Sandy
04-04-2006, 01:14 PM
1. dirty harry

2. the fast and the furious
3. ghost

Zifnab
04-04-2006, 01:15 PM
Escanaba in da moonlight

Super Sucker

The Replacements

Cotties
04-04-2006, 11:09 PM
The funniest movie I've seen in the past few years was..

........ Me, Myself and Irene.........
I am going to add another one , I swear this movie makes me laugh ,everytime

Dumb and Dumber

G...G
04-04-2006, 11:10 PM
I liked that one too



The funniest movie I've seen in the past few years was..

........ Me, Myself and Irene.........

Annie
04-04-2006, 11:29 PM
1.)Shawshank Redemption

2.) Terms of Endearment

3.)The Hitcher

Wow I forgot about Shawshank Redemption! That wasn't a good movie... that was a great movie! I must have seen it at least half a dozen times!

Cotties
04-05-2006, 12:13 AM
and aren't you young at heart!;) Rock and Roll High School
The Wedding Singer
Fifty First Dates

Ahhh mindless entertainment!

tess
04-05-2006, 01:36 AM
Steel Magnolias
Beaches
Fried Green Tomatoes
I guess I am a sap!!!!

Cotties
04-05-2006, 01:45 AM
you're a big girly girl....no worries.........so is TigerSteel Magnolias
Beaches
Fried Green Tomatoes
I guess I am a sap!!!!

sex_kitten_4u
04-05-2006, 07:26 AM
Flesh Gordon
rocky ( all of them )
the green mile

Annie
04-05-2006, 07:30 AM
Flesh Gordon
rocky ( all of them )
the green mile

Oh my God! I hadn't thought about Flesh Gordon in years! Hilarious movie!

sex_kitten_4u
04-05-2006, 07:35 AM
Oh my God! I hadn't thought about Flesh Gordon in years! Hilarious movie!


i thought it was great :D

tiger50
04-05-2006, 07:38 AM
you're a big girly girl....no worries.........so is Tiger

WTF.. gunna get ya fa that cotties... :nu :nu

spjimbo
04-05-2006, 08:43 AM
Star Wars(original) is still my favorite but recently Bourne Identity was great.

I think I will now have to try Flesh Gordon after hearing the reviews..

sex_kitten_4u
04-05-2006, 08:46 AM
Star Wars(original) is still my favorite but recently Bourne Identity was great.

I think I will now have to try Flesh Gordon after hearing the reviews..


is a very old film hun i dont know wher you would get it i watched it when i was in my teens i would love to see it again :D

spjimbo
04-05-2006, 08:54 AM
is a very old film hun i dont know wher you would get it i watched it when i was in my teens i would love to see it again :D

Do you know who was in it????