Tempted by the fruit of another...

[fever]

Have you ever been tempted?
How do you manage it?
Does it create conflict in your marriage?
Have you indulged that temptation?
Would you do it again?

Discuss...

[scoobertina]

Have you ever been tempted? yes
How do you manage it? I did something about it.. I met him.. I enjoyed him to the fullest extent...
Does it create conflict in your marriage? my ex didn't and doesn't know to this day about it..
Have you indulged that temptation? yes
Would you do it again? yes

I was not happy in my marriage.. I am not sure what I would do if I was really in love with someone.. I think though that we take life too seriously sometimes.. if we are curious about someone or something we need to take chances and explore it.. but I am really not sure how I would feel if I was "in love" with my husband.. I would think that he would be all that I need.. hell, he was for many years and I wasn't in love... guess it is just me..

anyhow.. I was interested in someone.. I did go the distance to meet him and to sleep with him.. and it was worth it to me.. and I would do it again..

[bryan3636]

Have you ever been tempted? YES
How do you manage it? Cold showers and masturbation usually work.
Does it create conflict in your marriage? No because I haven't acted on it.
Have you indulged that temptation? Telephonically
Would you do it again? Yes if the connection is there

[glamourgirl]

Have you ever been tempted? YES!
How do you manage it? we are great friends will it go farther...maybe
Does it create conflict in your marriage? no
Have you indulged that temptation? irl? not yet
Would you do it again? ...

[NeilC]

Have you ever been tempted? yes
How do you manage it? didnt manage it , went through with it
Does it create conflict in your marriage? no she didnt know
Have you indulged that temptation?yes..
Would you do it again? yes

[Brink]

Have you ever been tempted?...Yep, currently yearning for my secret crush!
How do you manage it?...Try to remain grounded, find some good distractions, take things day by day.
Does it create conflict in your marriage?...No, it doesn’t cause conflict, but it creates a few discussion points because she knows.
Have you indulged that temptation?...Well, we wouldn’t meet, but there are other ways to indulge.
Would you do it again?...Nah, can't see being this attracted again.

[~freshly~]

Have you ever been tempted? Yup...just once.

How do you manage it? With honesty, communication & as much contact as possible.

Does it create conflict in your marriage? He doesn't know but yes, I am in constant turmoil with myself.

Have you indulged that temptation? Yes...and I can only describe it as magical.:)

Would you do it again?...and again, and again, and again....only with HIM though!

[countrygent07]

Have you ever been tempted?
How do you manage it?
Does it create conflict in your marriage?
Have you indulged that temptation?
Would you do it again?

Discuss...
Tempted? Yes

I managed it by avoiding situations where temptations could be acted upon. Until the last couple of years, that is.

The more recent conflict led to temptation, not the other way around.

Yes

I won't allow myself to get in such a position again.

[ladynw8ing]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? Met him for a weekend away.
Does it create conflict in your marriage? I had recently separated...no conflict there
Have you indulged that temptation? Just that weekend.
Would you do it again? If the circumstances presented them self...yes

It was just a weekend..and it wasn't all about sex...he wined and dined me, took me sight seeing...gave me a special gift, to always remember him by...but the nights were....magical and passionate!

[Curiousoneonly]

Have you ever been tempted? Um...I would be lying if I were to say no. After all I am human and I am far from being perfect.

How do you manage it? Try to distance myself from it. I did meet one person...just once. It was more of a let's meet to put a face with the name. We continue to chat.

Does it create conflict in your marriage? It does not create conflict as it was a simple meeting. Nothing more, nothing less. We are friends, altho it could be tempting. I don't want to deal with the repercussions, friendship is all the further it will go.

Have you indulged that temptation? Nope

Would you do it again? Heck, I have yet to do anything but meet. :crs

[Sensual Woman]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? The best I can
Does it create conflict in your marriage? No, he doesn't know
Have you indulged that temptation? Yes
Would you do it again? Yes, with someone who truly cares about me. I am starved for tenderness, affection, and passion in my marriage.

[victor61]

There are some temptations that take more courage to submit to than to resist.

[neil48]

I like fruit and I eat a lot of it........yum!

[Curiousoneonly]

I like fruit and I eat a lot of it........yum!

So, Neil, which is your favorite fruit? Pehaps passion fruit? :sc

[fondew2004]

Have you ever been tempted? Absolutely - every day
How do you manage it? Bite my tongue...concentrate on work...go for a long walk...get out of their physical presence
Does it create conflict in your marriage? It DID; it can't do that anymore
Have you indulged that temptation? Yes
Would you do it again? In a heartbeat...unless I were with a certain lady...then there would be no need. I would have everything I've wanted, everything I've looked for

Discuss...

So.....there it is!!

[neil48]

So, Neil, which is your favorite fruit? Pehaps passion fruit? :sc
Yes Curiousoneonly, that is a favorite for me.

[Curiousoneonly]

Yes Curiousoneonly, that is a favorite for me.


Aren't you suppose to be on vacation?

[Ravis]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? I give in
Does it create conflict in your marriage? No - hubby does not know - it's difficult and a long story
Have you indulged that temptation? Yes
Would you do it again? Yes - I am!

[Rex]

The title of this thread is making that song by Squeeze run through my head
thanks a lot

how about a heavy metal title next time

[OnceAKing]

There are some temptations that take more courage to submit to than to resist.

Sounds like you might have met my ex wife...Run fugger Run!!!

[fever]

The title of this thread is making that song by Squeeze run through my head
thanks a lot

how about a heavy metal title next time


Why I earth would I want a heavy metal title running through MY head???

[Tempest]

i have been tempted, but nevee acted on it. i am at a point, though, that if things dont change soon, i would seriously consider it. what stops me now, is that i dont know if i could hide it.

[jenn315ifer]

I have been tempted, and I have acted on it. I would definately do it again with the right person. Don't know how I handle it, I just do.

[Rex]

Why I earth would I want a heavy metal title running through MY head???

OK , if not metal
How about Sinatra, or doo-wop

[leggy4]

been tempted, but always looking to see if the fruit is ripe or rotten:LOL

[Rex]

ripe here, even at my age

[leggy4]

I sometimes am tempted but would never actually peel the fruit.....

[Rex]

you can peel in your mind
I can help you expand your mental powers

[leggy4]

There's far too much in there already... Let me clean the closet out.......

[Rex]

I'm tempted (keeping with thread)
to offer a dumpster for you to throw out the old junk.

[leggy4]

I am tempted to let you clean out the junk too!!!!! when can we start cleaning?????we nyers gotta stick together

[Rex]

I am tempted to let you clean out the junk too!!!!! when can we start cleaning?????we nyers gotta stick together

Stick w/ me and all will be good.
Wanna start cleaning out those fools in albany?

[fever]

OK , if not metal
How about Sinatra, or doo-wop

THAT I can do...next time!

[Singeon]

Tempted many times...only let temptation have its way once...or with one, anyway.
It never felt like temptation with her, and my concience remains clear about it...
Because it felt right and still does.

[Hotliz]

yes i have been tempted and have acted on it. i know i will be tempted again and will act on in at that time also. i don't think there will be conflicts or regrets...

[Rolex24]

Yes I have been tempted and jumped on it....with a little regret

[fever]

So what is the regret about? How does that impact you, your relationship with the other person, and/or your marriage?

[Xanadu7]

I get tempted every time I see fever's avatar! :wub

[surfnchat]

Have you ever been tempted? - Yes
How do you manage it? - Distance helps, but I keep the conversations honest -- Just have to keep it in the virtual world
Does it create conflict in your marriage? - No, only I know
Have you indulged that temptation? - Telephone, cyber, and a meeting in real life
Would you do it again? - Yes, but I haven't really stopped

[mrdiscreet]

Have you ever tempted? Yes, I seem to run in cycles of openness to being tempted; feeling very tempted these days
How do you manage it? Tease, and generally run like a rabbit if it could become real
Does it create conflict in your marriage? No, never been real, but even being here would be a conflict if wife was aware; it does create conflict in my mind ...
Have you indulged that temptation? see rascally wabbit (ooooh, I hate that wascally wabbit!) response above
Would you do it again? When does a tease become more than a tease :sc

Discuss...

Sucks to have half a guilty conscience ... so much easier to be resolved in your mind one way or the other ...

[blu]

I was tempted
I didnt act
No repercussions, though at this point, id not care
If it presents itself with my feelings involved, yes I think I would

[3pmac]

Have you ever been tempted? I am tempted right now beyond belief
How do you manage it? We talk almost daily
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Spouse doesnt know
Have you indulged that temptation? Just online
Would you do it again?.....

[irishjock]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes a couple of times
How do you manage it? That's part of the reason I come here... believe it or not this is safe, well at least safer... the lower chance of a physical incounter.
Does it create conflict in your marriage? The other way around... Conflict in the marriage helps create the temptation....
Have you indulged that temptation? Not physically... walked away once and still try to put it out of my mind. Another time came very, very close and am not sure how I didn't.... in bed together and nothing happen...
Would you do it again? Trying not to do it a 1st time....

[Sensual Woman]

Maybe if I got the love, support, passion, and affection in my marriage I wouldn't be tempted...the early years of our marriage was like that...but I am starved for it....but I don't want to be someone's roll in the hay...I want it to be special for both of us.

[Eagleton]

Maybe if I got the love, support, passion, and affection in my marriage I wouldn't be tempted...the early years of our marriage was like that...but I am starved for it....but I don't want to be someone's roll in the hay...I want it to be special for both of us.


You are special...and very tempting!

[dave42]

Maybe if I got the love, support, passion, and affection in my marriage I wouldn't be tempted...the early years of our marriage was like that...but I am starved for it....but I don't want to be someone's roll in the hay...I want it to be special for both of us.
I know exactly what you mean. My marriage is pretty dead at this point. We live well together, But there is no passion for me anymore. I am really craving affection and a sense of being in love. I had an affair with this woman two years ago and I still think about her. It was short, (only a couple of months). I got to know her pretty well though. She had so much passion and desire. Things were pretty good, But I can't say for sure if she would have been the right one for me even though I cared deeply for her. Maybe I am starving too? Beautiful women are a dime a dozen, But I am really searching for the real thing this time. I have my life together and want to be with someone who has the same mindset as me.

[Cinciguy1]

Have you ever been tempted? yes
How do you manage it? I did something about it.. I met him.. I enjoyed him to the fullest extent...
Does it create conflict in your marriage? my ex didn't and doesn't know to this day about it..
Have you indulged that temptation? yes
Would you do it again? yes

I was not happy in my marriage.. I am not sure what I would do if I was really in love with someone.. I think though that we take life too seriously sometimes.. if we are curious about someone or something we need to take chances and explore it.. but I am really not sure how I would feel if I was "in love" with my husband.. I would think that he would be all that I need.. hell, he was for many years and I wasn't in love... guess it is just me..

anyhow.. I was interested in someone.. I did go the distance to meet him and to sleep with him.. and it was worth it to me.. and I would do it again..

Scoober, I love your attitude. Where you from?

[Cinciguy1]

Maybe if I got the love, support, passion, and affection in my marriage I wouldn't be tempted...the early years of our marriage was like that...but I am starved for it....but I don't want to be someone's roll in the hay...I want it to be special for both of us.

Sensual. Very well put. Where are you from?

[Cinciguy1]

yes i have been tempted and have acted on it. i know i will be tempted again and will act on in at that time also. i don't think there will be conflicts or regrets...

Hotlist,
I love your attitude. WHere are you from?

[timd1223]

lol...you go cincy!

[mrdiscreet]

Cinci,
Love your determination, how far will you travel? :D

[jmsmith12345]

Have you ever been tempted? every day of my life
How do you manage it? I give in whenever the opportunity presents itself
Does it create conflict in your marriage? not if she doesn't find out
Have you indulged that temptation? with lots of lube
Would you do it again? see lube comment

Discuss...

I can;t discuss, too much temptation to allow me to focus...wait...a chicken...did you see it????

[fever]

Cinci,
Love your determination, how far will you travel? :D

Do I sense temptation?

[Charmed]

Have you ever been tempted?
How do you manage it?
Does it create conflict in your marriage?
Have you indulged that temptation?
Would you do it again?

Discuss...

Soon..... very soon.....

[Yankee]

Soon..... very soon.....


Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm . . .

[Charmed]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm . . .

What?

[Yankee]

What?

I dunno . . .

"soon"

sounded nice . . . hmmmmmmmmmmm

[mrdiscreet]

Do I sense temptation?

Just asking on behalf of the ladies!

[bryan3636]

there seems to be this proverbial line in the sand

[mrdiscreet]

there seems to be this proverbial line in the sand

Shifting sands, quicksand or leading to the beach? I'm feeling very beachy of late ...

[Tempest]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes, by one person in the RW that I have a history with, and then the men on here
How do you manage it? I masturbate a lot and spend every waking moment on here
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Not yet, but he's starting to wonder why I'm up early and to bed late...
Have you indulged that temptation? Somewhat, nothing physical yet, but I am leaning that way
Would you do it again? As to what I have done so far, god I hope so!

I'm at the point where the line is either going to be crossed or I'm going back to my old life. And I don't think I could go back...

[scoobertina]

I am constantly tempted..
I like that someone likes me so much they enjoy leaving me messages..
I may possibly find someone who I trust enough to meet... right now, there isn't one.. there was.. but that is gone..

[Under the radar]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes and still get temped every time I get on here.
How do you manage it? Very carefully. Had an affair with a lady for 3-4 years. We both knew it was sexual only and finally just stopped. We are still good friends.
Does it create conflict in your marriage? No. Her hubby or my wife never found out. Sex is so much better without the everyday problems of bills, housework, kids, laundy, whatever causes stress on your relationship.
Have you indulged that temptation? Yep
Would you do it again? I sure am hoping so.

[glamourgirl]

speaking of fruit...kind of hungry..... where is that banana you keep tempting us with there UTR
hehe

[Under the radar]

speaking of fruit...kind of hungry..... where is that banana you keep tempting us with there UTR
hehe

Glam you turn around and show us the front view of that little black dress and you might get a taste my banana. ha ha ha ha ha

[glamourgirl]

Glam you turn around and show us the front view of that little black dress and you might get a taste my banana. ha ha ha ha ha

good answer....
quick wit...you make me smile handsome

[cherri]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? With the telephone, texting, email, and meeting him somewhere.
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Yes and No.
Have you indulged that temptation? Yes.
Would you do it again? Yes.

My husband opened the gate up to temptation. By saying some things no man should ever say. One of them was that I was no longer a priority. Which, at the time, made sense. Considering all that was leading up to that point. I was hurt and crushed. Deep down I knew I loved him more than he ever loved me. He stopped talking to me, so I didn't know what he wanted or expected of me. I was at a loss on what to do. I knew I couldn't make him love me. I realized that I had a marriage of convenience, and that he was content with that. So I accepted it, and just hoped things would get better. It didn't, and I got even lonelier. The only other option I had was to look elsewhere for the things I needed. Eventually, I met a man. It was degrading and humilating to try to explain what went wrong, and why I wasn't loved. Then here was this man who looked forward to seeing me everyday, and just calling me to see how I was. He was temptation by far. Perfect face, perfect body, and gorgeous eyes. I spent some time getting to know him, and the more I knew about him, the more I realized that if the circumstances was right, I would be with him. His kisses and caresses were just as tempting. I was more seduced by what he was offering, which was everything my husband wouldn't or couldn't give. Then there was also the knowledge, that he wanted me beyond a shadow of doubt, as much as I wanted him. Oh! and I wanted him, it was like wanting the chocolate sundae without the calories. Unfortunately, the bad came with the good. It caused conflict in my marriage. My husband wanted the wife he once had, but yet, said nothing. He tolerates it. Mostly because he is afraid I will scream divorce and take everything from him. In that decision, I think I've lost all respect for him as a man. This is not how I wanted things. This isn't how I saw my life. This is the only choice I had. Yes, I've indulged in that temptation. Would I do it again? Yes, I have, but the ironic thing is, I only want one person. I don't want many, or one once in a while. I want one...all the time.

[Under the radar]

good answer....
quick wit...you make me smile handsome

Indulge me please!! I'll give you the fruit of another. Banana is a fruit.

[Shawn]

Have you ever been tempted? Who hasn't?
How do you manage it? Depends... usually its very flattering, I may just push to see how far I could get
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Used to...now not so much she has just accepted its part of the "job"
Have you indulged that temptation? Late night + drinks + no one is lookin.. promise= yeah
Would you do it again? I would say normally no.. but a man can only hold back this much sexiness for so long

[tadpole]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? With the telephone, texting, email, and meeting him somewhere.
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Yes and No.
Have you indulged that temptation? Yes.
Would you do it again? Yes.

My husband opened the gate up to temptation. By saying some things no man should ever say. One of them was that I was no longer a priority. Which, at the time, made sense. Considering all that was leading up to that point. I was hurt and crushed. Deep down I knew I loved him more than he ever loved me. He stopped talking to me, so I didn't know what he wanted or expected of me. I was at a loss on what to do. I knew I couldn't make him love me. I realized that I had a marriage of convenience, and that he was content with that. So I accepted it, and just hoped things would get better. It didn't, and I got even lonelier. The only other option I had was to look elsewhere for the things I needed. Eventually, I met a man. It was degrading and humilating to try to explain what went wrong, and why I wasn't loved. Then here was this man who looked forward to seeing me everyday, and just calling me to see how I was. He was temptation by far. Perfect face, perfect body, and gorgeous eyes. I spent some time getting to know him, and the more I knew about him, the more I realized that if the circumstances was right, I would be with him. His kisses and caresses were just as tempting. I was more seduced by what he was offering, which was everything my husband wouldn't or couldn't give. Then there was also the knowledge, that he wanted me beyond a shadow of doubt, as much as I wanted him. Oh! and I wanted him, it was like wanting the chocolate sundae without the calories. Unfortunately, the bad came with the good. It caused conflict in my marriage. My husband wanted the wife he once had, but yet, said nothing. He tolerates it. Mostly because he is afraid I will scream divorce and take everything from him. In that decision, I think I've lost all respect for him as a man. This is not how I wanted things. This isn't how I saw my life. This is the only choice I had. Yes, I've indulged in that temptation. Would I do it again? Yes, I have, but the ironic thing is, I only want one person. I don't want many, or one once in a while. I want one...all the time.


You just word for word explained what my marriage was. And I love your last line....It is ironic...but I feel the same way. I know exactly what you mean!!!!!!!!

[tag2420]

Origanally posted this in the wrong area, but I am empted alot, havent met the right one yet

[dixiechiknga]

I am beyond tempted.....hmmmm I like all jinds of fruits :ok

[Rolex24]

Fruit can be VERY sweet alright

[dixiechiknga]

I am beyond tempted.....hmmmm I like all kinds of fruits :ok

[Rolex24]

mmmm....I would love to feel your `fruits`

[PunkyBob]

Tempted?? When am I not?

[SAPPHIRE]

Have you ever been tempted?..... Yes
How do you manage it?..... I met him and enjoyed every inch of him for 2 months & never had one regret
Does it create conflict in your marriage?.... Husband never knew
Have you indulged that temptation?.... Absolutely
Would you do it again?..... If I connect with the person on all levels ..... Absolutely

[mntnbk69]

I've been tempted twice and have acted twice (twice meaning with two different people) The first was in 2002 and it was a quick affair that didn't bother me too much. The second has been going on for the last couple of months. I really fell for the girl, but I think it's over now????
And does it cause conflict in my marriage? Hell Yes!!! I'm very distant from my wife lately. I quit telling her I love her and I am always finding reasons for us not to be together.
I don't know if I just don't love my wife anymore or if I feel so guilty I'm just trying to make her not like me. So yeah, it's created lots of conflict and confusion.

[rascal2121]

Tempted? Yep, quite often. People say "Oh I would never do that". Well in my opinion you can't really say that until you have stared temptation down and then walked away. It's a lot easier said than done.

[redcat]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? Chat, text, phone, etc.
Does it create conflict in your marriage? No
Have you indulged that temptation? Not yet.
Would you do it again? ...

Discuss...


I haven't indulged in the temptation yet, but am certainly hoping to...and more than once if I can. ;)

[Rolex24]

hmmmm

[jasper669]

Have you ever been tempted? YES! So many beautiful women...
How do you manage it? COOOOLD showers
Does it create conflict in your marriage? No
Have you indulged that temptation? No, fighting urge...
Would you do it again?...

[Forster2]

Have i ever been tempted? Yes
How did you manage it? Will power mostly

But once i did succumb to temptation
Was it worth it? Yes
would i do it again ; the right lady , the right circumstances ; yes

But thats a tough combination so mostly its no

[fever]

I haven't indulged in the temptation yet, but am certainly hoping to...and more than once if I can. ;)

Oh, red....I'm here and ready when you are! :sng

[Fwd40s]

There is too much to tell on this topic so just wait for the book.....or movie :)

[daisyduck]

i am tempted every time i see another piece of fruit. i loves me fruits!!

[coug511]

Have been tempted, have no acted on that, but it sure doesn't mean I wouldn't.

[txguy78]

Since I've been married...only once...didn't act on it and not sure I would have had the intestinal fortitude to do so either.

Before I got married I had a long term girlfriend for several years after I finished boot camp and I did act on a temptation while I was with her. I probably would have done it again too because our relationship was on its way down the proverbial crapper, but the other party involved wasn't interested.

[november]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? agonized over it for a month
Does it create conflict in your marriage? He will never know
Have you indulged that temptation? Yes, still am
Would you do it again? Yes, if it was the right person

Have never done or considered this before. Reasons are many. I forgot I could feel the things I do. Kind of hard to keep it in perspective and not get emotionally involved. We agreed if this happened, it would end instantly. We hook up once a week or so, and I have never felt more sensual, sexy and alive.
I feel guilt every day. But, boy did I need this. I hope it lasts a while, because it is difficult to meet someone interested in this kind of thing.

[southerngirl33]

Tempted -yes
Acted on it -no
I am only 33 and he expects me to act like I am a grandmother
Still young and want to feel alive.

[oscarlaveester]

Howdy Southern Girl.be Yourself Here.

[OGP]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes, once
How do you manage it? I couldn't go through with it, not at that point in my life.
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Yes it did
Have you indulged that temptation? Not then.
Would you do it again? As many said, the right person and the right time. I am at a different place in my life now than I was then. I now believe I would indulge, but not for a one time or casual thing.

[curiousnate98]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? Rationalize that it wouldn't be good for both of us.
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Yes, until I spoke about her to my wife and reaffirmed my commitment to her
Have you indulged that temptation? No
Would you do it again? N/A



It is very easy to tempted by someone else. Especially when they are attractive, fun to be around, and care about you. It is important to put that relationship in its proper perspective. Easier said than done.

[kebell]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes, once, for the first time in nearly ten years, and just this month.

How do you manage it? I haven't managed anything yet, I don't know what's going to happen when I see her again. Part of the management strategy is to come on here and chat! On the basis that talking helps, and if I have to be tempted by someone it might be better to limit it to the internet!

Does it create conflict in your marriage? It would do - it was my wife who pointed out that she was interested in me! So she'd certainly notice if I was up to something.

Have you indulged that temptation? No, but I don't know what I'll do when the chance arises

Would you do it again? I just don't know

[househub]

i am tempted way too often i guess i have a one trac mind

[wan2b]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes, many times
How do you manage it? By backing off
Does it create conflict in your marriage? No
Have you indulged that temptation? Dinner and conversation
Would you do it again? To the extent as I did in the past

Discuss...
See above my answer
There is something good in meeting women, it brings reality to the forefront.

[Steve30]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? Closing it out of my mind (until I discovered the cover of online flirting)
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Only to the extent that I choose to tell my wife
Have you indulged that temptation? With Flirting and Sharing some fun and love
Would you do it again? Sigh, .. I think so

[Fwd40s]

I am never tempted by the fruit of another.......but definately tempted by her face, chest, legs, ass and attitude. I'm not into fruit much.

[curiousity]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes, currently longing for my secret crush
How do you manage it? take deep breaths
Does it create conflict in your marriage? no but I think it does for him
Have you indulged that temptation? no but would love to
Would you do it again? .........

[blu]

i was, i wont be again

[Tiglet]

Have you ever been tempted? YUP, hasnt' everyone?How do you manage it? Flirted
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Nope
Have you indulged that temptation? I have now
Would you do it again? With the same person...yup

Discuss...I have to admit that I will soon be single again so I'm not feeling bad about what I've done. In my life I have been curious and horny for some men but have never, ever gone beyond flirting. No marriage should or probably could, well yes it could, but it shoudn't, withstand giving into temptation....it aint' worth it!

[november]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? Lie a lot, smoke til I can't feel the guilt
Does it create conflict in your marriage? It's starting to. Getting home from work several hours late several times a week is starting to look suspicious
Have you indulged that temptation? Yes, the sex is great
Would you do it again? .........No, I would not. This is very casual will end soon. First time I've done it, and I won't do it again. Not worth the hurt it would cause if it is found out.

[PA Loverboy]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes

How do you manage it? I acted on it. Actually encouraged it a couple times, to be truthful.

Does it create conflict in your marriage? No, because I plan to keep it a secret.

Have you indulged that temptation? Yes, mostly brief flings but also a couple affairs with women in the same situation as me.

Would you do it again? Yes. Not in a hurry but I'm sure it's inevitable.

[sexycoco]

Have you ever been tempted? yes

How do you manage it? gave in

Does it create conflict in your marriage? no

Have you indulged that temptation? yes

Would you do it again? yes

[OneNiteStand]

Have you ever been tempted?
How do you manage it?
Does it create conflict in your marriage?
Have you indulged that temptation?
Would you do it again?

Discuss...

yes.
i act on it.
no,she doesnt know.
yes.
yes.

[dreamangel]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes

How do you manage it? A lot of communication

Does it create conflict in your marriage? No

Have you indulged that temptation? Yes

Would you do it again? Yes, and I do, and only with him

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[sdclubber]

Have you ever been tempted? yes
How do you manage it? played along...
Does it create conflict in your marriage? she didn't know
Have you indulged that temptation? yes
Would you do it again? yes

[disturbiagirl]

Have you ever been tempted? yes
How do you manage it? I stopped fighting it
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Not yet
Have you indulged that temptation? Many many times
Would you do it again? Oh Hell yeah!!!

[yaser]

Have you ever been tempted? yes
How do you manage it? I stopped fighting it
Does it create conflict in your marriage? Not yet
Have you indulged that temptation? Many many times
Would you do it again? Oh Hell yeah!!!
Hmmmmmmmm..

[Fwd40s]

I'm far more tempted by desserts than by fruits

[lastnite1999]

Have you ever been tempted? Yes
How do you manage it? no one knows to my knowlege, it was just one nite, she moved then.
Does it create conflict in your marriage? No - wife does not know -
Have you indulged that temptation? Yes
Would you do it again? Yes

[pointofnoreturn]

[quote=fever;1561513]Have you ever been tempted?YEs
How do you manage it? Think a lot . Talk a lot...
Does it create conflict in your marriage?no, he has no idea..
Have you indulged that temptation?Yes
Would you do it again?Totally yes

[tonyporter20]

Have you ever been tempted?Yes
How do you manage it? Masturbation
Does it create conflict in your marriage? It did when she found out about affair
Have you indulged that temptation?Yes
Would you do it again? Maybe but probably prefer to keep things more under control; like just using the internet or Cyber