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wan2b
08-09-2009, 03:06 PM
How should one say about love. Love has many facets above all it exists. Can one give love away?

Added 8.15.09

These are my thoughts and yes they are composed (corrected for spelling, etc).

I’m answering this as short as I can. When one loves there is no one but himself that experiences that inner love. The one loved can experience the affect of a lover by the lovers expression of respect, devotion, kindness, self-sacrifice, honesty, trust, care, support, romance, help, and the list goes on and on. The example of loving and not having love returned is the extreme.
One can love lust and sex as well as a person. I have all.

wan2b
08-09-2009, 03:37 PM
Love is good for the brain. Make friends, be social, it is good for you. Sex?

blu
08-09-2009, 04:46 PM
you can give someone your love, but if they dont give their love back to you, it wont matter. if i understand the question correctly

Penny
08-14-2009, 01:12 PM
Dont confuse love with lust.

justadude
08-14-2009, 01:18 PM
I saw on the news where you can buy love on craiglist for something like $200 an hour.

MunkyBrain
08-14-2009, 01:29 PM
How should one say about love. Love has many facets above all it exists. Can one give love away?

I am so wanting to merge this thread with the soiled panty thread...I see real potential to create a Reese's Peanut Butter Cup of WTF...

Charmed
08-14-2009, 03:39 PM
I am so wanting to merge this thread with the soiled panty thread...I see real potential to create a Reese's Peanut Butter Cup of WTF...

SnOrT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey! You got your love on my panties

No, you got your panties on my love

:lmao

PA Loverboy
08-14-2009, 06:21 PM
The best definition of love that I ever heard is that is when you care for someone as much as you care for yourself. That sort of narrows it down, doesn't it?

MunkyBrain
08-15-2009, 04:07 AM
The best definition of love that I ever heard is that is when you care for someone as much as you care for yourself. That sort of narrows it down, doesn't it?

So you're saying I should proudly tell the ladies I masturbate 6 times a day? :D

glamourgirl
08-15-2009, 04:17 AM
So you're saying I should proudly tell the ladies I masturbate 6 times a day? :D

WoW that is a sexy thought! :ok

MunkyBrain
08-15-2009, 04:21 AM
WoW that is a sexy thought! :ok

Damn..That PA knows his shit! ;)

wan2b
08-15-2009, 09:45 AM
you can give someone your love, but if they dont give their love back to you, it wont matter. if i understand the question correctly

Right on. Pls see original thread add on.

wan2b
08-15-2009, 09:46 AM
WoW that is a sexy thought! :ok

Pls original post for add on.

wan2b
08-15-2009, 09:52 AM
The best definition of love that I ever heard is that is when you care for someone as much as you care for yourself. That sort of narrows it down, doesn't it?


Right on, pls original post for add on.

wan2b
08-15-2009, 09:53 AM
Dont confuse love with lust.

I agree. Pls see original for add on.

wan2b
08-15-2009, 09:55 AM
Dont confuse love with lust.

I won't. Pls see original post for add on.

wan2b
08-15-2009, 09:56 AM
you can give someone your love, but if they dont give their love back to you, it wont matter. if i understand the question correctly

You do understand. Pls see original post for add on.

glamourgirl
08-15-2009, 07:23 PM
Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules.
The most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet.
That would mean that security is out of the question.
The words "make" and "stay" become inappropriate.
(My love for you has no strings attached. I love you for free and you are free to go at any time)
:sng

wan2b
08-15-2009, 07:31 PM
Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules.
The most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet.
That would mean that security is out of the question.
The words "make" and "stay" become inappropriate.
(My love for you has no strings attached. I love you for free and you are free to go at any time)
:sng

What can I say, perhaps can I pull your string. Believe in love, it's real.

glamourgirl
08-15-2009, 07:43 PM
What can I say, perhaps can I pull your string. Believe in love, it's real.

I do...but heres the thing...
When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years (or even a few months) of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter

happygirl101
08-15-2009, 08:00 PM
Seriously i am following Munky's masturbation confession better than this Wan2b. HUH????

What.... I don't get it!! Sorry!!

So Love Is Good!!?? Right...HUH?????????????

PS:
Munkey need help with the masturbation...I wud be Happy to help!!!

OGP
08-15-2009, 10:43 PM
Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules.
The most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet.
That would mean that security is out of the question.
The words "make" and "stay" become inappropriate.
(My love for you has no strings attached. I love you for free and you are free to go at any time)
:sng


Reminds me of that old saying. If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you it is yours. If it doesn't, grab a gun, hunt it down and kill it! :sry

glamourgirl
08-15-2009, 10:49 PM
Reminds me of that old saying. If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you it is yours. If it doesn't, grab a gun, hunt it down and kill it! :sry

:yks OMG your a nut!

PA Loverboy
08-16-2009, 05:31 AM
So you're saying I should proudly tell the ladies I masturbate 6 times a day? :D

Judging by the responses you've gotten, sounds like a pretty good idea!!!:55

glamourgirl
08-28-2009, 08:54 PM
The richest love...is that which lasts through time apart with the hope to someday be together

wan2b
08-28-2009, 09:32 PM
The richest love...is that which lasts through time apart with the hope to someday be together

For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Gibran

Xanadu7
08-28-2009, 10:09 PM
Greater love has no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends

FlowerGirl228
08-29-2009, 11:50 AM
Love stinks

redcat
08-29-2009, 11:59 AM
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Gibran


From The Prophet? An allegory, I believe.

If taken literally..this love is going to wind up hurting you, yes?

redcat
08-29-2009, 12:09 PM
How should one say about love. Love has many facets above all it exists. Can one give love away?

Added 8.15.09

These are my thoughts and yes they are composed (corrected for spelling, etc).

I’m answering this as short as I can. When one loves there is no one but himself that experiences that inner love. The one loved can experience the affect of a lover by the lovers expression of respect, devotion, kindness, self-sacrifice, honesty, trust, care, support, romance, help, and the list goes on and on. The example of loving and not having love returned is the extreme.
One can love lust and sex as well as a person. I have all.


Can one give love away? If you give it away, you no longer have it. You can share love.

I like this second part, wan...only we know the love we feel. It's hard to quantify and in many cases fully express the feelings. We can only hope that through our words and actions we can convey the feelings we have for another. And if that love is returned...*sigh*.

OGP
08-29-2009, 01:25 PM
Lets not forget that love also has many different facets. There is the love you feel for family, your parents, brothers and sisters. The love for your children. The love you may feel for a pet. Not least of all the love for a friend can also be very strong... just lacking that one little spark that turns it sensual.

I do think others can in some way experience the love have for them. It is a feeling you get... deep inside.... that can only come from being loved by another.

Charmed
08-29-2009, 01:45 PM
His:
Love is.........
patient and kind
Love is knowing and learning
Love is what I feel
When I see your smile, watch your tears, hear your voice.
Love is not planned
it overwhelms, overtakes and overides.


Mine:
Love Isn't..........

Hurtful or Mean
petty or greedy
impatient or untrusting
cruel or revengeful
hostile or disgust
dishonest or deceiving

glamourgirl
08-30-2009, 12:03 AM
You have captured my heart.
You have touched my soul.
I always let you in.
I will love all of you.
I do love all of you.
And I want all of you.
And when I can have you.
I am not letting go.
Don't ever doubt this.
You always have been.
You always will be enough for me
Trust me on that....always.

wan2b
08-30-2009, 08:14 AM
From The Prophet? An allegory, I believe.

If taken literally..this love is going to wind up hurting you, yes?
Yes from the Prophet. Can you love and hurt at the same time? Yes every second of your life.

wan2b
08-30-2009, 08:27 AM
Can one give love away? If you give it away, you no longer have it. You can share love.

I like this second part, wan...only we know the love we feel. It's hard to quantify and in many cases fully express the feelings. We can only hope that through our words and actions we can convey the feelings we have for another. And if that love is returned...*sigh*.

Well said. There are different styles of love. My wife and I have different loves. Mine is there all the time, I cherish her. She is not demonstrative. She love me all, and every way but she never clings in private or public. Aside from that she displays a love as equal as mine in every aspect of life.

glamourgirl
09-01-2009, 07:46 PM
I read this somewhere at sometime and i like it....

A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy.

OGP
09-01-2009, 07:58 PM
Love STINKS The J. Geils Band

LOL

AlwaysLearning
09-01-2009, 10:59 PM
Suddenly, I am sleepy.............go figure

glamourgirl
09-01-2009, 11:26 PM
Come here baby....:)

Sneaky
10-23-2009, 08:09 PM
What's Love Got to Do with it?

katydid2
10-23-2009, 09:22 PM
Secret Lovers

wan2b
10-23-2009, 09:31 PM
Love doesn't make the world go around, love is what drives it.

Fillz
10-23-2009, 11:50 PM
" Understanding: We really have to understand the person we want to love. If our love is only a will to possess, it is not love. If we only think of ourselves, know only your needs and ignore the needs of the other person, we cannot love."

wan2b
10-29-2009, 05:30 PM
There are two sorts of affection - the love of a woman you respect, and the love for the woman you love. Many women get both.
:sc :sng

glamourgirl
10-31-2009, 08:55 PM
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the one who wants to show you off to the world, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty in yoga pants without makeup on, as you are in a ball gown on New Years Eve. The one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, ya thats her.... that one is mine.

Someone smarter than I said this, I am just not sure who....but its what I want... :inlve

Fillz
10-31-2009, 08:59 PM
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the one who wants to show you off to the world, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty in yoga pants without makeup on, as you are in a ball gown on New Years Eve. The one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, ya thats her.... that one is mine.

Someone smarter than I said this, I am just not sure who....but its what I want... :inlve

You just gave me goosebumps.... Beautiful...

Thanks for showing that what I do everyday is important to some.

happygirl101
10-31-2009, 09:05 PM
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the one who wants to show you off to the world, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty in yoga pants without makeup on, as you are in a ball gown on New Years Eve. The one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, ya thats her.... that one is mine.

Someone smarter than I said this, I am just not sure who....but its what I want... :inlve

Baby Girl me Too...I am crying is that normal? I guess i have no idea what this is...but i am not so hopeless i don't recognize it when I see it!!!

I am afraid it never will happen though...I am not that kind of woman!

You are that kind of woman so you will get it ... maybe already do? Hmmm

Curiousoneonly
10-31-2009, 09:10 PM
Frankly, I think love is a word that is uttered too easily and freely. :crs

glamourgirl
10-31-2009, 09:12 PM
Baby Girl me Too...I am crying is that normal? I guess i have no idea what this is...but i am not so hopeless i don't recognize it when I see it!!!

I am afraid it never will happen though...I am not that kind of woman!

You are that kind of woman so you will get it ... maybe already do? Hmmm

It will happen for both of us...the hard part is to remember that.

(Yes! He is that kind of man...and this is what makes him so attractive to me...Always, his heart).

Curiousoneonly
10-31-2009, 09:15 PM
Happy and GG, I am sure one day you will find exactly what you are looking
for. I am most certain it will happen.

happygirl101
10-31-2009, 09:16 PM
It will happen for both of us...the hard part is to remember that.

(Yes! He is that kind of man...and this is what makes him so attractive to me...Always, his heart).

Fudge girl i know!!!

Okay whateva and no way for me. I think I swear too much. Its not like I scratch anything or spew fluids from my body indiscriminately!! Jeesh

I am all lady. but it seems like i am destined to be alone!!! In my heart any way!!

Curiousoneonly
10-31-2009, 09:19 PM
Fudge girl i know!!!

Okay whateva and no way for me. I think I swear too much. Its not like I scratch anything or spew fluids from my body indiscriminately!! Jeesh

I am all lady. but it seems like i am destined to be alone!!! In my heart any way!!


You are not destined to be alone. Good grief. You are worth so much more than you know. You just need to believe.

fixitman
10-31-2009, 09:21 PM
Make a wish baby and in time we'll make it come true
make a list baby of the things I'll do for you
aint no risk now let my love rain down on you
wash away your cares so that we may start anew.

glamourgirl
10-31-2009, 09:22 PM
Fudge girl i know!!!

Okay whateva and no way for me. I think I swear too much. Its not like I scratch anything or spew fluids from my body indiscriminately!! Jeesh

I am all lady. but it seems like i am destined to be alone!!! In my heart any way!!

get off the drugs girl!!!!!

:wy you are beautiful, funny, and can go toe to toe with the big boys....

sooo dont even play!

it just takes a strong man to love a strong woman!
no whimps allowed!

katydid2
10-31-2009, 09:23 PM
Fixit....you are such a romantic!

So, what is this thread about? Love? What the hell is that?

fixitman
10-31-2009, 09:27 PM
what you tell us about everyday...

P.s. coffie monday morning?

jmsmith12345
10-31-2009, 10:17 PM
Love is a myth. Just go for the best pussy around.

wan2b
10-31-2009, 10:23 PM
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the one who wants to show you off to the world, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty in yoga pants without makeup on, as you are in a ball gown on New Years Eve. The one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, ya thats her.... that one is mine.

Someone smarter than I said this, I am just not sure who....but its what I want... :inlve

Happy, Glam, you deserve a love. He may be there right in front. Just remember, I said this before and probably will later, "Don't let perfection be your enemy".
:sng :sng

An aside and I hate myself for saying this, the quoted list does not mention his looks or hardware.:ok

katydid2
10-31-2009, 10:24 PM
what you tell us about everyday...

P.s. coffie monday morning?

I know...I figure I've been talking too much about love...guess I'm bummed it's the weekend.

Coffee monday morning. Absolutely

goodguy2008
11-01-2009, 02:07 PM
love is hot, love is sexy, love can make you crazy, love can make you hurt, love can make you dream again, love can make the sex so much more, love can be everything you want it to be, but to receive someone elses love is a gift.

Brak_45
11-01-2009, 02:11 PM
Love is patient, and will wait knowing the wait is worth the pain and suffering...as she is

Sneaky
11-01-2009, 02:13 PM
Love changes you. It's unique in each circumstance. It's why we live and why we do everything else we do. You shouldn't ever regret feelling it & you shouldn't fear it.

katydid2
11-01-2009, 02:40 PM
love is hot, love is sexy, love can make you crazy, love can make you hurt, love can make you dream again, love can make the sex so much more, love can be everything you want it to be, but to receive someone elses love is a gift.

Mmmmm.....sounds wonderful! It is a gift!

FizProf
11-01-2009, 08:12 PM
Going back to one of the original questions of this thread...
can you give love away...
I suppose since one can let it slip though one's fingers, it must be something one can give away...