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prettyinpink100
09-11-2009, 11:02 AM
I'm new to this and wanted to just say hi and see if anyone had great advice on bringing in some major spice into my marriage. I just want to change it up a bit. Anyone have any hot and fun suggestions? :D

Tempest
09-11-2009, 11:04 AM
Hi! And welcome. Love your name! Um, I'm adding spice outside the marriage at the moment, but I'm sure there's people on here that can help you with that. Have fun and looking forward to getting to know you.

jmsmith12345
09-11-2009, 11:06 AM
I'm new to this and wanted to just say hi and see if anyone had great advice on bringing in some major spice into my marriage. I just want to change it up a bit. Anyone have any hot and fun suggestions? :D

Well, I know this guy in the DC area who is pretty dynamic and quite creative. You should look him up the next time you are in town. :ok

needsomething
09-11-2009, 11:09 AM
Hello and welcome! I'm sure you'll get many great suggestions!

prettyinpink100
09-11-2009, 11:24 AM
Thanks! Look forward to getting to know you guys better and hope for some gReAt advise. :D **wink,wink**

prettyinpink100
09-11-2009, 11:32 AM
Is there an IM on here?

Tempest
09-11-2009, 11:34 AM
Is there an IM on here?

There is a chat room that you can use now, regardless of how many posts you have. You will get access to Private Messaging once you've got 500 posts. There's a forum that has all the membership things on it, look here: http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=18

learman3
09-11-2009, 11:37 AM
You want to try spicing things up don't use ground chipotle pepper on either of your parts....it really stings and doesn't really feel that good.

prettyinpink100
09-11-2009, 11:39 AM
You want to try spicing things up don't use ground chipotle pepper on either of your parts....it really stings and doesn't really feel that good.

Great to know. Thanks. :0

learman3
09-11-2009, 11:42 AM
Anytime...always willing to pass on vital info.

FlowerGirl228
09-11-2009, 11:43 AM
Welcome . I hope you find what you are looking for ?

glamourgirl
09-11-2009, 11:49 AM
Hey PIP

love the name!

Welcome
enjoy your time here..its a bit addicting....
post your ass off here in the threads and
flirt like hell in the chatroom!

TBoyBob
09-11-2009, 12:02 PM
Welcome PIP. Hmmmm.....well tell us a bit about the "usual" sex life and maybe we can see where you're starting from!

neil48
09-11-2009, 01:54 PM
I'm new to this and wanted to just say hi and see if anyone had great advice on bringing in some major spice into my marriage. I just want to change it up a bit. Anyone have any hot and fun suggestions? :D
Hello and welcome here Prettyinpink, ok, C,mere and sit on my lap and tell me whats happening with you.........:ok

FeIsTy FaV
09-11-2009, 02:43 PM
Welcome aboard :)

redcat
09-11-2009, 03:35 PM
Hello and welcome here Prettyinpink, ok, C,mere and sit on my lap and tell me whats happening with you.........:ok


LMAO..and I bet you play Santa at the Playboy mansion, right?

redcat
09-11-2009, 03:36 PM
Welcome to the site, PIP....hope you have a great time here.

prettyinpink100
09-11-2009, 03:43 PM
Well, we had a good sex life, so I thought. We would have sex 1 to 6 days a week, average being 3 to 4 times week. We've been married 10 years and were dating off and on for 5 years before we got married. We've been stepping up our sex life, (most likely me - since in hindsight he most likely tried slowly) doing just doing things outside "my" element, so to speak. I had this toy I bought 5 years ago and never touched it until 2 weeks ago. I got messed up night after that and it's just gotten very crazy. I never thought I would touch myself and do things I've been doing, more so like it. Weird, huh! I watched I think my first porn and I never thought I would think it would ever turn me on. I just literally want to have sex all the time with him. I've done more these past 2 weeks then I think one should ever do in a life time. lol and I know we are still on the soft side. lol What do you think so far?

jmsmith12345
09-11-2009, 03:56 PM
Well, we had a good sex life, so I thought. We would have sex 1 to 6 days a week, average being 3 to 4 times week. We've been married 10 years and were dating off and on for 5 years before we got married. We've been stepping up our sex life, (most likely me - since in hindsight he most likely tried slowly) doing just doing things outside "my" element, so to speak. I had this toy I bought 5 years ago and never touched it until 2 weeks ago. I got messed up night after that and it's just gotten very crazy. I never thought I would touch myself and do things I've been doing, more so like it. Weird, huh! I watched I think my first porn and I never thought I would think it would ever turn me on. I just literally want to have sex all the time with him. I've done more these past 2 weeks then I think one should ever do in a life time. lol and I know we are still on the soft side. lol What do you think so far?

I think you should buy my book...the one with the illustrations and free DVD tucked neatly into the back cover. When you get to chapter 4, PM me for an explanation and schematics.

learman3
09-11-2009, 04:01 PM
I think I wish my wife has what ever you have that is kicking your sex life into high gear. She took the slow down pill...oops I mean the stop pill.

Enjoy it while it lasts. Enjoy him as long as he lasts...lol...I think it is good you can enjoy both and hopefully you can include him in both. I for one would love it. I know I wouldn't be able to keep up, but would enjoy being there with my partner as she pleased herself. I would enjoy that almost as much. Love having my partner pleased...no matter how it's done.

sdclubber
09-11-2009, 04:05 PM
Hi Pretty and welcome! I could use some ideas too, so thanks for starting this thread!

tn0949
09-11-2009, 04:06 PM
hi pretty, welcome to the site.

Curiousoneonly
09-11-2009, 04:11 PM
Hello and welcome. Have fun. :)

neil48
09-11-2009, 04:18 PM
LMAO..and I bet you play Santa at the Playboy mansion, right?
Yes red, I can be Santa,.... pssst...dont tell her but I saw she likes toys so I have this in mind for christmas.......

prettyinpink100
09-11-2009, 04:23 PM
Yup, I just let him watch last night. He was much happy! We had sex like twice with in like 4 hours, what's up with that!?

StripPoker
09-11-2009, 04:42 PM
Welcome PIP! I think you are going to fit right in here

prettyinpink100
09-11-2009, 04:46 PM
Welcome PIP! I think you are going to fit right in here

Thanks! I hope so! :)

sophia1
09-11-2009, 04:49 PM
welcome hope you enjoy

redcat
09-11-2009, 05:22 PM
Hi again PIP.....enjoy it. Enjoy the hell out of it...every moment you get. Nothing can be too wild, or too crazy, as long as you both agree to it. Ok...I may have to start a thread for the ladies who are envious of PIP.

Nevermind..forgot we have one. It's called the masturbation thread. :lmao

dixiechiknga
09-11-2009, 08:46 PM
Welcome Pink enjoy the site!

bryan3636
09-11-2009, 09:42 PM
Welcome to the site PIP...I believe it's called a sexual awakening!!! Luckily you and hubby seem to be in synch with this whereas most on the site have awakened to find their S/O asleep at the switch. Ain't it fun???!!!!!

prettyinpink100
09-11-2009, 10:56 PM
Welcome to the site PIP...I believe it's called a sexual awakening!!! Luckily you and hubby seem to be in synch with this whereas most on the site have awakened to find their S/O asleep at the switch. Ain't it fun???!!!!!

That is funny! Whatever it is a terribly crazy feeling. It's like your body tingles all day. Again Weird, I know. Excited to get to knowing all of you. One more question: Do you think it will get old for him?

Tempest
09-11-2009, 10:59 PM
That is funny! Whatever it is a terribly crazy feeling. It's like your body tingles all day. Again Weird, I know. Excited to get to knowing all of you. One more question: Do you think it will get old for him?

This happened to me about 7 months ago and is still going strong. I hope it doesn't get old for him. Just be patient and remember that just because you're in Hyper-drive, he may not be. I hope you two can get on the same page...

fourisit
09-12-2009, 02:10 AM
Girl you hit your sexual peak..its great fun huh...He has been waiting for this..nothing you do will be outside the box for him..embrace it and go with it..there are so many fun things to try..dont be embarrassed you have known him half your life..trust me not to many men will turn down a sexually reved up women who wants to try new things..Read some of the threads in here you will def. get some great ideas. We girls love to share our secrets...Welcome Sweetie

prettyinpink100
09-12-2009, 06:14 AM
This happened to me about 7 months ago and is still going strong. I hope it doesn't get old for him. Just be patient and remember that just because you're in Hyper-drive, he may not be. I hope you two can get on the same page...

Hope he never does. Cuz' I'm personally having the time of my iife. Who ever knew I would/could give a bj. :D lol

prettyinpink100
09-12-2009, 06:16 AM
Girl you hit your sexual peak..its great fun huh...He has been waiting for this..nothing you do will be outside the box for him..embrace it and go with it..there are so many fun things to try..dont be embarrassed you have known him half your life..trust me not to many men will turn down a sexually reved up women who wants to try new things..Read some of the threads in here you will def. get some great ideas. We girls love to share our secrets...Welcome Sweetie
Thanks! I appreciate it. And yes, I am having the time of my life right now. :) Hope to chat with you more.

tn0949
09-12-2009, 06:42 AM
hey pink, damm i need you to chat with my wife and get her going again! Or u so horny ya need to share??? lol you have a good day, ok! tim

curiousity
09-12-2009, 07:17 AM
Welcome aboard.... I am sure you will find some great suggestions on this site and meet some great people along the way.

happygirl101
09-12-2009, 08:47 AM
Welcome and great name!!! I am psyched for your awakening too...LUcky GirL!!!! I had many good years... yes they were good... really good....oh damn .......so good... i can remember.... I have to go cry in a corner now...


Have a ball...I do!!

prettyinpink100
09-12-2009, 04:33 PM
hey pink, damm i need you to chat with my wife and get her going again! Or u so horny ya need to share??? lol you have a good day, ok! tim

lol - I wish she could jump on board. It is a completely amazing feeling. Love to share, but I'm working myself up to that point. *wink, wink.

OGP
09-12-2009, 04:51 PM
Welcome aboard! Here you will find everyone from the shy and timid to the absolute Freak! you will find all the suggestions you could ever ask for!

NaughtyAngel
09-12-2009, 05:26 PM
hey PIP welcome and enjoy, u will have fun here

fourisit
09-14-2009, 06:17 PM
lol - I wish she could jump on board. It is a completely amazing feeling. Love to share, but I'm working myself up to that point. *wink, wink. Sharing is good..:lf

Dragon_lady
09-14-2009, 08:38 PM
Welcome and enjoy PIP... now you bring back some teenage memories ;)

prettyinpink100
09-14-2009, 08:40 PM
Sharing is good..:lf

I would agree. But I'm working on that. Which is why I came to a board. Maybe I will get there. :)

prettyinpink100
09-14-2009, 08:41 PM
Welcome and enjoy PIP... now you bring back some teenage memories ;)
Awww! Awesome! Don't you just miss being a teenager and being able to do anything and whenever? lol If you have done more than I have, I do expect some suggestions. *hint, hint*

titlicker
09-17-2009, 12:40 PM
Be open minded with your partner. Give him what he is looking for and he should give you what you desire. Maybe start a fantasy list, things you fantasize about, abd share them with your partner. Maybe this will give you what you want. It helped me.

sexycoco
09-17-2009, 04:04 PM
wecome pink

3pmac
09-18-2009, 08:46 AM
Welcome to the site PIP.

This happened to me about year and half ago. Almost to the day I turned 40. Its hasnt got old yet.. Dont think about when it might end, just enjoy it now. Sexual peak is an amazing ride.

The Duke
09-18-2009, 09:17 AM
Welcome Pretty, from a fellow Newbie. Hope the site hots things up for you.

NurseDude66
09-19-2009, 05:14 AM
This is a great time to be you. Don't be afraid of toys. To increase your man's ability to keep up, you should suggest walking together, or more... the fitter you can encourage him to be, the faster he will recover for you. Cutting down his sugar and caffeine will help a lot. If you and he can meet your needs versus sharing, you save a lot of headaches down the road, despite what some of the horny hopefuls contacting you might be saying!

oscarlaveester
09-19-2009, 05:41 AM
howdy pretty in pink.welcome.

leighm
09-19-2009, 08:39 PM
Welcome Pip, have you watched porn WITH your hubby?? After being married for almost 30yrs you learn that men and women's sexual desires ebb and flow (and unfortunately not always at the same time) - makes life frustrating for both parties. My yearnings (although very strong when we first married) died off after I had the kids. Took till my youngest was 10 before I even felt like having sex. Then his libido dropped off for a time. But now after 29yrs things are almost back to the way they were in the beginning. Just make sure you talk to each other about it so you each know how the other feels. It's life, you just have to deal with it, talk to each other and encourage. Good Luck!

Travelling_Guy
11-06-2009, 10:04 AM
well now I know your story ... lol