Mutual Masturbation?

[my2847]

How many of you, to avoid actually cheating, (yes I know to some it still would be but thats another thread), would share in some mutual masturbation to release some of your sexual frustrations?

[jmsmith12345]

are you looking to check out my cam again?

[my2847]

I ask because I have never had the pleasure of actually watching a woman climax or really masturbate in front of me, other than watching a flick or internet. Although I have searched for someone to do it with, to no avail, no one... Not sure why, I mean, I am 5'6" 130lbs, cut, fit, and most woman call me handsome, and I am the good nice guy, but even online, I have release some of my inhibition and still no luck.

[Tempest]

I haven't graduated to the cam yet. But it sounds fun. And the pleasure and orgasms are sooo much better when shared. I love to know he's cumming too. The phone is my favorite so far, but you don't have that in your poll...

[fourisit]

If its not in person..phone sex is my favorite to..I dont have a cam but I have watched others..its fun but I love to close my eyes and focus on his pleasure and love being talked dirty to so phone sex is definitely my favorite

[scoobertina]

cam is great... add the phone and it is great... or being there in person is even better...

[lastnite1999]

Phone sex is great, much better is holding the vibrator for someone...very erotic. Only one better is to feel a female go slow crasy on the back seat of your motorcycle while your under way. Shiver!

[Danso]

I ask because I have never had the pleasure of actually watching a woman climax or really masturbate in front of me, other than watching a flick or internet.

Wow, I feel really sorry for you. Having a woman say "You just watch" is very pleasurable. Plus, if you pay attention to what she does, you can tweak your technique to improve things for her. It's not that much of a stretch, either. Next time you're using a toy on her, wait till she's really getting into it and ask her to play for a bit.

You should be willing to play for her if she's like it as well.

[Cotties]

Does it have to be mutual?

[Danso]

Does it have to be mutual?

Well, sequential is OK too.

[NurseDude66]

Masturbation to avoid cheating? I think that is splitting hairs. I do think mutual masturbation, alone or in person, as just another fun way to express yourself with your partner.

[my2847]

Masturbation to avoid cheating? I think that is splitting hairs. I do think mutual masturbation, alone or in person, as just another fun way to express yourself with your partner.

Like I said, definately differences of opinion when it comes to that entire subject. Like for me I think in person, it would be inappropriate but cam to cam no... Not sure why I separate the two... Just do, but I can understand how u feel that way. Unfortunately, all the masturbation in my house happens involving me and my right hand... Thats it!!:sry

[gdg]

I think it is arousing for the parties involved to know they arouse each other and can act on it.

Whatever is comfortable for both parties should be discussed and explored.

[Shawn]

About as close as I have ever got was with the mirror ... holy hell I am one hot bitch

[dixiechiknga]

I would share yes I would..LOL:lf

[BlueEyedMale40]

I would and have done all of the above.

[pointofnoreturn]

LOve to watch, love to listen, love to share......

[pointofnoreturn]

LOve to watch, love to listen, love to share......

[glamourgirl]

i choose all the above...:wy baby lets play

[cyclops]

It's all good bring it on :ok

Phone needs to be added to the list too :lf

[gdg]

I agree, phone is much better then email.

[cyclops]

I agree, phone is much better then email.

Yeah but before the internet didn't you find using the postal system rather frustrating and drawn out?

[NaughtyAngel]

depends on the person who ur talking to
only if it feels right to share that info i would

[gdg]

Yeah but before the internet didn't you find using the postal system rather frustrating and drawn out?

Yes, but licking those stamps was a turn on! :ok

[AlwaysLearning]

i choose all the above...:wy baby lets play


do what? exactly what does "all" encompass?

[NYCSean]

Start at the top of the list. Work our way down. Repeat. Like shampoo.

[Iwantutowantme]

I have watch a couple of girl friends 'do' themselves... and it is awesome!! I learned how to use 'their' techniques and put it to use on a special g friend of mine :)

[Rex]

It's all good when I can lend a helping hand to my partner.
Whether she is reading me, seeing me , or hearing me.
She knows I'm touching her in every way she desires.
And I desire her to me.

[glamourgirl]

do what? exactly what does "all" encompass?

hmmmm I want to try everything once....what I like I will add to the list to do again!

you define "all"

[hotandbothered(m)]

I would if the right girl came along. My wife would never do something like that.

[titlicker]

a good way to learn what makes the other tick

[katydid2]

Phone first...something about hearing someone say your name

[Vic-M]

I never had sex with anyone else but my wife....But rubbed ourselves to each other with my girlfriend back in college. I guess you can call it mutual masterbating...

[PublicO]

Have not done it but would love to in person.

[november]

I think it's fun! I like to watch him touch himself, and I know he likes to watch me, so why not do it together?

[The Duke]

Phone sex is great, much better is holding the vibrator for someone...very erotic. Only one better is to feel a female go slow crasy on the back seat of your motorcycle while your under way. Shiver!

I find the only way they go crazy on the back of my bike is thumping on my back to get me to slow down.
A 'reach around' on the bike is nice :ok

[Musing64]

Phone sex can be AMAZING. Hearing her breathing, knowing she is touching...saying and being told all the RIGHT things...WHEW!

[scoobertina]

mmmmm hmmmmmm..... all of the above.. and I love it when I find someone special enough to turn my cam on for... watching and hearing him as we both get caught up in the action... laying back and sharing a special, very intimate moment with him.. watching his release...

[my2847]

mmmmm hmmmmmm..... all of the above.. and I love it when I find someone special enough to turn my cam on for... watching and hearing him as we both get caught up in the action... laying back and sharing a special, very intimate moment with him.. watching his release...
Just hearing you say that just revved up my engine... great, now I got a problem....:spm

[disturbiagirl]

Phone is my favorite....I don't cam...what was the question again? I find myself suddenly distracted.....

[FLPhil70]

I've shared emails/chats before but never pics, video or web cam. I'd have to REALLY have a strong comfort level with someone before doing any of those three. I'd be too concerned those images would show up somewhere else online.

[Dylan312]

Would say yes ..if u connect with someone..feel & share the chemistry and desire.
very erotic & personal sharing with another..

[Penny]

I did the webcam thing alot years ago and it was exciting but alas like everything else that is fun just cant find the time anymore.

[PublicO]

mmmmm hmmmmmm..... all of the above.. and I love it when I find someone special enough to turn my cam on for... watching and hearing him as we both get caught up in the action... laying back and sharing a special, very intimate moment with him.. watching his release...

Great!!! Now how am I going to work after that? All the blood has left the brain.

[MSU]

Phone is my favorite....I don't cam...what was the question again? I find myself suddenly distracted.....


The question was "what's your number?" Hee hee..... :)