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FLPhil70
10-06-2009, 03:50 PM
Do your spouses know that you're a member of this site and that you interact with people here? Do they know the nature of your correspondence?
leggy4
10-06-2009, 04:05 PM
YEA!!! part of the reason I am not here often and have taken my stats off my profile... the next step will be changing my name!!!!!!!!!!!! so watch out people spouse alert!!!! but some of you have spouses who know... trust me mine isnot understanding.....
neil48
10-06-2009, 04:15 PM
Confused here, why would this site be a problem with the spouse ?........it's just a auto racing site.....right ?
leggy4
10-06-2009, 04:16 PM
NEIL you certainly have your alibi!!!!!!!! "WHAT married and Flirting isn't for racing fans???????? OMG
MuchachitaSpice
10-06-2009, 04:21 PM
Are we even allowed to say spouse on here... I thought SO meant Son of a _____.

Now on a serious note... there are many who are lucky enough to have spouses who don't see this to be harmful to their relationship at all... but then there are others that would flip, throw tantrums, and completely pretend to be hurt (lol)...
FLPhil70
10-07-2009, 09:38 AM
So is it taboo to ask about anything spouse-related on this site? Go easy on a newbie!
MuchachitaSpice
10-07-2009, 10:06 AM
So is it taboo to ask about anything spouse-related on this site? Go easy on a newbie!

Go thru the different threads, you will see that the topics here vary from the most silly of the silly to some that will make you consider and rethink all you think you know... Take time to read the rules and policies (that is a plus)...

There are wonderful people here that sooner or later you will be calling friends... we all have something in common, we are seeking a lil fun out of life (at least I think so).

And by the way Welcome to the site and a lil warning -- "It is addictive" ;)
FeIsTy FaV
10-07-2009, 08:38 PM
Do your spouses know that you're a member of this site and that you interact with people here? Do they know the nature of your correspondence?

Did you know there is already a thread like this?
cyclops
10-07-2009, 08:42 PM
Did you know there is already a thread like this?

Is there?

What's it about?
happygirl101
10-07-2009, 08:45 PM
My hubs knows! I am no idiot this way he cant use it against me...

Now the content ...no way either! I am no idiot...remember
FLPhil70
10-07-2009, 10:26 PM
Did you know there is already a thread like this?

Obviously not.
HlpMeEscpe
10-07-2009, 10:30 PM
What site???? ;)
ksue7274
10-07-2009, 10:43 PM
lol you could say he does
Jada101
10-07-2009, 10:57 PM
ummm...no
redcat
10-07-2009, 11:01 PM
He knows I'm here.
UltimateNaneki
10-07-2009, 11:27 PM
My then hubby didn't care much about what I did here, there was always a re-run to watch.
My current b/f knows I come here, he is not too keen about me talking to married people but its all talk. I just feel very lonely at times and my friends are here.

Its not like I will go out and meet you all, remember...I live in Canada...yep up there where it snows most of the year. :lmao
livin42day
10-08-2009, 02:55 AM
yes, my husband does know...he is very supportive
Carbine
10-13-2009, 07:09 AM
My wife knows, she might be here too. That is one thing we are keeping quite about at this time. We're both poking around[pun intended], but it's not a secret that we are looking around, in real life too. We are still into each other, but bored a little and both of us are feeling an urge to explore others, so we are on the same page. No danger, if something happens that takes us in another direction relationship wise,that's life. It's very exciting!!
Tom Terrific
10-18-2009, 05:03 AM
No, nor would she understand.
Dragon_lady
10-23-2009, 10:36 AM
I haven't told him, which doesn't mean he doesn't know.

He knows I chat, but doesn't really know who with (and if he does, he's even more a whimp than I ever imgined).

He probably doesn't know the content of it for sure.
glamrockfan
10-23-2009, 10:39 AM
thats a hell no
dcguy
10-23-2009, 10:59 AM
Nope...my wife doesn't know but probably suspects I chat with people somewhere.
CJSinIL
10-23-2009, 11:32 AM
No way...mine has no idea i'm here. Otherwise I would be talking in a much higher voice.
needsomething
10-23-2009, 11:42 AM
No, he doesn't know. If he did I'd no longer have my computer I'm afraid!!
Jaded
10-23-2009, 04:53 PM
He absolutely doesnt know and wouldnt understand at all!!
3pmac
10-24-2009, 04:14 AM
Mine knows I chat with people but doesnt know the extent-God no.

He knows I have met people IRL from chatting online--have made lifelong friends.

He has seen this board come up on my laptop and has questioned it but nothing past that.
Xanadu7
10-24-2009, 04:37 AM
Mine knows I chat with people but doesnt know the extent-God no.

He knows I have met people IRL from chatting online--have made lifelong friends.

He has seen this board come up on my laptop and has questioned it but nothing past that.

Did he take that picture of you in your avatar 3p? You sure put a spell on us ;)
redcat
10-24-2009, 09:52 PM
Do your spouses know that you're a member of this site and that you interact with people here? Do they know the nature of your correspondence?


Uhhhh, I only have one spouse, but yes, he knows I'm here.
CrazyMountainLady
10-25-2009, 01:55 PM
My spouse knows I'm here. And I know where he goes to chat and with whom he does most of his chatting. If there isn't trust what good is there in having a marriage. We know each other flirt and there is no harm in that. We know how far we can go and would not "cheat" on each other. I have sat beside him while he has been in his chat room and I know what is said and what goes on and he has sat here beside me. Flirting adds a bit of spice to life.
ksue7274
10-26-2009, 12:00 AM
yes, no need for me to hide anymore
FizProf
10-26-2009, 12:18 AM
She knew when I took Deb out for dinner
ByteMe(f)
10-26-2009, 10:18 PM
My husband knows I come here. He's not particularly crazy about it. If he knew that I had chatted with any one particular person, he'd have a freakin' cow.
november
10-26-2009, 10:30 PM
no, he would be extremely upset if he knew. he thinks i'm on twitter!
missisnippy
10-26-2009, 10:39 PM
brand new here... but my spouse has no idea! If he was that cool... I wouldn't be bored!!
pointofnoreturn
10-26-2009, 10:55 PM
Hubby knows I talk to people on my site. Never asked me the name. He knows I have friends all over the world now. He knows he has to deal with it.
FitMidwestGuy39
10-26-2009, 11:00 PM
Nope
highvoltage1951
10-27-2009, 12:32 AM
No
Lookin4Fun1021
10-27-2009, 01:31 AM
Yeah, she knows of the site. But doesn't know the frequency/extent of what I am doing or why I am here. Besides, pretty sure she has her own secrets.....
chilligb
10-27-2009, 06:36 PM
No he doesn't and wouldn't understand if he did. My lover is a member here and suggested it to me. I enjoy the games and the posts, not here to hook up.
daisyduck
10-27-2009, 06:47 PM
he knows i chat but not to whom or the extent of conversations.
Sweetdreams069
10-27-2009, 06:49 PM
No she wouldn't understand
DrakeinColumbus
10-28-2009, 02:39 PM
No she doesn't know, part of the reason this place lets you be more of yourself than you are in real life.. no preconceptions.. If she did know, she wouldn't understand at all.
boxergirl0131
10-28-2009, 04:37 PM
Are you kidding me!....that would be a no.
Shawn_N_Sandiego
10-28-2009, 04:49 PM
3 of my wives know, the other 4 do not.
Lass
10-29-2009, 11:44 AM
he knows nothing.....well, he may know something....but what, I don't know.
surfnchat
10-30-2009, 09:55 PM
he knows nothing.....well, he may know something....but what, I don't know.

Wife doesn't know I fantasize when playing fantasy football. ;)
Missygirl
10-31-2009, 10:02 AM
Yes, and for some reason I think he likes it!
Hotshotfireguy
10-31-2009, 11:06 AM
Nope, she wouldn't be able to understand why I am on here. Then again, she doesn't understand alot of the things I do.
sebastien
11-05-2009, 09:13 AM
none of her business , especially as we are separated.
Onesexyman
11-05-2009, 09:16 AM
Nope, she wouldn't understand
learman3
11-05-2009, 09:20 AM
Since my wife is computerphobic, I probably do not have much to worry about. However if she ever did find out she would not be understanding.
Shawn_N_Sandiego
11-05-2009, 10:48 AM
She knows .... seen me on last night and asked to see the "Masturbation at work" thread .... that was interesting and I do not think she will be asking to look at many more forums after that!!
gr8doods
11-11-2009, 10:31 AM
does not know..will not if I can help it...she would not be "understanding"
PublicO
11-11-2009, 12:40 PM
Absolutely not. She would think this is some sort of cheating.
Gubby
11-11-2009, 04:33 PM
Nope she does not know. Keep it that way
meenasmusings
11-11-2009, 05:53 PM
Nope, not sure how he would react. I was a flirt before we got married and as I have gotten older I have gotten bolder. LOL
HlpMeEscpe
11-11-2009, 05:56 PM
Nope...and if she were to find out I hope that somebody here is an attorney or knows a good one. She has reminded of this many many times.
glamrockfan
11-11-2009, 06:01 PM
if she was to find out, i'd be given the divorce papers immediately shortly followed by having my nuts chopped off or it might work vice versa i'm not sure
Binturong
11-11-2009, 06:03 PM
She probably knows I'm up to something, but not exactly what it is....chances are I'll get caught.
Midwest girl
11-11-2009, 06:17 PM
I only have one spouse and yep he knows....some of the shit here in the threads is too funny not to show him....

he doesnt see my profile, however....
pip2210
11-12-2009, 12:47 PM
Err nope!
Curiousoneonly
11-12-2009, 05:43 PM
Um..like no way. As if. :crs

He would not be a happy camper.
MuchachitaSpice
11-12-2009, 05:47 PM
Does he found an e-mail I wrote and packed his things and moved out (well he is back now but living in the basement) answer that question?
Binturong
11-12-2009, 06:01 PM
Does he found an e-mail I wrote and packed his things and moved out (well he is back now but living in the basement) answer that question?
Can't you give him rent money?
Curiousoneonly
11-12-2009, 06:03 PM
Does he found an e-mail I wrote and packed his things and moved out (well he is back now but living in the basement) answer that question?


:sry


:hug:
NaughtyAngel
11-12-2009, 06:09 PM
well if he knew i would not be sitting here and i would not have a pc eiter for if he does find out hell smash this thing against the wall

so shhhhhhhhh dont tell
richcityred2
11-13-2009, 09:41 PM
Doesn't know...won't find out if I have my way about it!
glamrockfan
11-15-2009, 11:20 AM
i thought i forgot to close out of the site on my computer the other day and thought i was so busted when she asked for my password to log on. phew... i did remember to
3pmac
11-15-2009, 02:19 PM
Yes, he saw it up the other night. He just saw the headline and figured it out.
katydid2
11-15-2009, 02:28 PM
Yes, he saw it up the other night. He just saw the headline and figured it out.

Oh, another thing in common.

My husband found out a month ago. Haven't heard a peep since then about the site.

I know he knows about M. and that it is intense. Again nothing. Just some looks now and then. Looks like "If you have time for talking on the phone and going on computer, why aren't you cooking my dinner"

All he cares about is his big ass screen tv and his comfy lifestyle. Not having to work, getting to work out for hours a day and watching television. Nothing left for me I guess. That's a pretty busy schedule.

So, he knows. Just like I thought, not a BFD.
Rex
11-15-2009, 03:02 PM
I leave a browsing trail of business sites, innocuous searches, Dallas Cowboys site and other ones she knows about.
She also knows I'm odd.