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FLPhil70
10-09-2009, 09:44 AM
If you've worked in an office, you've probably heard the term "office spouse". This is the person at the office you really click with, share, joke, etc... but one that is usually nonsexual. For those veterans here, have you seen those types of relationships develop on this site? Where you might not meet in person, but you have a connection with one particular individual, and that develops into more of a one-to-one thing that is separate from the group dynamic on this site?

I'm not asking for names or specifics, I'm just curious of those types of relationships have developed here.
jmsmith12345
10-09-2009, 09:46 AM
I have one spouse, 7 girlfriends, a really demented posse, and much stronger wrists than a few years ago
scoobertina
10-09-2009, 09:48 AM
well, there was this one guy... but... and then there was this other guy... naww...


I don't.. I have a few friends..
NurseDude66
10-09-2009, 10:03 AM
I can see those types of friendships being very possible, though I have not been here long enough for that to happen
GeekMaster
10-09-2009, 10:07 AM
If you've worked in an office, you've probably heard the term "office spouse". This is the person at the office you really click with, share, joke, etc... but one that is usually nonsexual. For those veterans here, have you seen those types of relationships develop on this site? Where you might not meet in person, but you have a connection with one particular individual, and that develops into more of a one-to-one thing that is separate from the group dynamic on this site?

I'm not asking for names or specifics, I'm just curious of those types of relationships have developed here.

YES :ok><
Brak_45
10-09-2009, 10:08 AM
Not a moment...but am open for offers: will listen and evaluate on nagging...
redcat
10-09-2009, 10:11 AM
Not a moment...but am open for offers: will listen and evaluate on nagging...


Awwww, no nagging is allowed? Where's the fun in that, then? :lmao
redcat
10-09-2009, 10:12 AM
Sssshhhh....I think I may be polygamous. :D
Brak_45
10-09-2009, 10:16 AM
I didn't say nagging was bad......just use it to hear tone and timbre of voice..:thr
Dragon_lady
10-09-2009, 10:17 AM
I got a few really close friends and I wouldn't to change one thing
FLPhil70
10-09-2009, 10:23 AM
At least with chat nagging you can easily skip those lines. :)
FLPhil70
10-09-2009, 10:23 AM
(sorry, this was an accidental double post)
Tempest
10-09-2009, 10:49 AM
I have a few friends that I talk to in chat about non-site stuff and site stuff. One in particular that is becoming a great friend, he & I don't post that much around each other on the site at all. And my best friend on here, Ricki, and I are almost never on here at the same time anymore, so all we do is talk outside of here. Can I make her my site-spouse? Please? Then she can do my laundry and cook dinner??
Barkiss
10-09-2009, 11:07 AM
I think I need me one of them. I have issues and they need to be shared! ;)
Jelly
10-09-2009, 11:11 AM
I keep trying ... he is like the typical hubby and ignores me every day :(
Barkiss
10-09-2009, 11:17 AM
I keep trying ... he is like the typical hubby and ignores me every day :(

The bastard....need me to give him an infraction to get his attention?
redcat
10-09-2009, 11:17 AM
I didn't say nagging was bad......just use it to hear tone and timbre of voice..:thr



Ahh, see..some things are lost with chat...now I think I understand.
Jelly
10-09-2009, 11:19 AM
The bastard....need me to give him an infraction to get his attention?

:sc wonder if that will work .. I've tried about everything else!
daisyduck
10-09-2009, 11:20 AM
ummm let me check nope, its tough enough keeping up with the RL spouse who needs another to bitch at or nag.
Barkiss
10-09-2009, 11:21 AM
:sc wonder if that will work .. I've tried about everything else!

awwww...how could he resist?
NurseDude66
10-09-2009, 11:23 AM
or, if you had it REALLY good, you might say, "SURE, it's be great to have ANOTHER someone who cares about my day, my life, my goals, my future... who spends his day dreaming of ways to please me"

ummm let me check nope, its tough enough keeping up with the RL spouse who needs another to bitch at or nag.
GeekMaster
10-09-2009, 11:23 AM
ummm let me check nope, its tough enough keeping up with the RL spouse who needs another to bitch at or nag.

Somehow your words have great relevance...
Jelly
10-09-2009, 11:24 AM
awwww...how could he resist?

:sg
happygirl101
10-09-2009, 12:23 PM
I have friends here that I talk to every day and one great friend in particular...site spouse...yes...not a crush though
RB3350
10-09-2009, 12:40 PM
I am working on that happy! No site spouse for me yet.
Brak_45
10-09-2009, 12:43 PM
See what i said about Nagging!!:ok
theGardener
10-17-2009, 11:48 PM
Interesting question. I think in time my answer will be evident.
NurseDude66
10-17-2009, 11:49 PM
no. F no
Tom Terrific
10-18-2009, 05:00 AM
Not even close, being new at this game, but the idea appeals to me.
Curiousoneonly
10-18-2009, 10:28 AM
no. F no


what he said
fixitman
10-18-2009, 10:55 AM
naw not a chance.
redcat
10-18-2009, 11:50 AM
Nope.
leggy4
10-18-2009, 11:53 AM
No!
katydid2
10-18-2009, 11:54 AM
Don't want another one...besides everyone who approaches me is interested in one thing...disappearing.
disturbiagirl
10-18-2009, 02:19 PM
I am very close to a couple of people....so I guess in those terms, then perhaps I do
scoobertina
10-18-2009, 02:44 PM
I don't need one.. I have some terrific friends..
Jelly
10-18-2009, 03:49 PM
That's a negative
Lass
10-19-2009, 03:45 PM
I already have one spouse too many......I only have so many nerves.
leggy4
10-19-2009, 03:53 PM
I can hardly sleep now keeping up with one relationship:) Having two??? wheew
Barkiss
10-19-2009, 03:56 PM
A man can only endure one "honey-do" list.


Fuck buddies on the other hand...or both hands...or both hands, a mouth...well you get the picture.
leggy4
10-19-2009, 03:59 PM
A man can only endure one "honey-do" list.


Fuck buddies on the other hand...or both hands...or both hands, a mouth...well you get the picture.

I can see that halo has a crack in it!!!
Barkiss
10-19-2009, 04:01 PM
I can see that halo has a crack in it!!!

Bah...there was honesty in that post which kept my shiney, clean image intact.
leggy4
10-19-2009, 04:05 PM
Bah...there was honesty in that post which kept my shiney, clean image intact.

Wheeww, we all like to hang on the the honest ones:D
Han Solo
10-19-2009, 06:00 PM
"website spouse"?? as in ......ignore someone and post in different threads all evening like we're watching TV in separate rooms and really only notice them when the light goes out so I know they went to sleep or left the website??? :sc

Then sure, I got loads of website spouses then...:sg
Down to Zero
10-19-2009, 06:13 PM
Just what I want, to get nagged during my time away from her ... nope ill pass ..
Midwest girl
10-19-2009, 06:15 PM
"website spouse"?? as in ......ignore someone and post in different threads all evening like we're watching TV in separate rooms and really only notice them when the light goes out so I know they went to sleep or left the website??? :sc

Then sure, I got loads of website spouses then...:sg

I was thinking the exact same thing...yep there are men here that I dont go near, attempt to ignore, let down their offers of sex with grace and they still feel jilted and the moment they go to bed, I fuck around with someone way more fun....and then totally deny it the next morning....
Han Solo
10-19-2009, 06:57 PM
I was thinking the exact same thing...yep there are men here that I dont go near, attempt to ignore, let down their offers of sex with grace and they still feel jilted and the moment they go to bed, I fuck around with someone way more fun....and then totally deny it the next morning....
:confused:.........OK, not quite what I was goin for......but I spoze your answer works in that "one flew over the Coo Coo's next/Saw IV" kinda way :sc
RB3350
10-19-2009, 07:12 PM
Did not know you could have one of those. Hmmmm very interesting!
Midwest girl
10-19-2009, 09:12 PM
:confused:.........OK, not quite what I was goin for......but I spoze your answer works in that "one flew over the Coo Coo's next/Saw IV" kinda way :sc


Sorry, I chose the not so subtle route.... or maybe its just the twisted dynamics of my RL and my lack of subtleties here as well.....
VTScott
10-19-2009, 10:06 PM
Nope
FizProf
10-19-2009, 10:53 PM
Maybe I should web-propose to her...
Would you web-marry me Deb?
RB3350
10-19-2009, 10:55 PM
Nope but would mind one.
FizProf
10-19-2009, 11:05 PM
Nope but would mind one.

Is that the American usage of "mind" (meaning to be annoyed by....etc.) or the British usage (meaning would take care of...)
?
redcat
10-22-2009, 11:43 AM
If you've worked in an office, you've probably heard the term "office spouse". This is the person at the office you really click with, share, joke, etc... but one that is usually nonsexual. For those veterans here, have you seen those types of relationships develop on this site? Where you might not meet in person, but you have a connection with one particular individual, and that develops into more of a one-to-one thing that is separate from the group dynamic on this site?

I'm not asking for names or specifics, I'm just curious of those types of relationships have developed here.

Reading this again...yes, I guess I do..I call it friendship.
neil48
10-22-2009, 01:15 PM
Saying no, just don't like the sound of web site spouse.
leggy4
10-22-2009, 01:19 PM
Saying no, just don't like the sound of web site spouse.

You don't want them saying:

Clean up your profile page Neil!!!
Neil, Neil Neil!!!!LOL
redcat
10-22-2009, 02:16 PM
Saying no, just don't like the sound of web site spouse.


Is it the "spouse" word? LOL I had to re-read the original question. But seeing "connect, laugh, joke, non-sexual"....so, what's for dinner? :lmao
Shawn_N_Sandiego
10-22-2009, 02:47 PM
If I did .. I probably would not be having sex with her either.
jmsmith12345
10-22-2009, 02:49 PM
If I did .. I probably would not be having sex with her either.

Don't you live in a same-sex marriage state? Now if North Carolina would get on board, you and Barkiss would be set.
Shawn_N_Sandiego
10-22-2009, 02:50 PM
Don't you live in a same-sex marriage state? Now if North Carolina would get on board, you and Barkiss would be set.

Don't you have someone to Yankee?
Barkiss
10-22-2009, 02:53 PM
Don't you live in a same-sex marriage state? Now if North Carolina would get on board, you and Barkiss would be set.

So true....but thankfully they don't....so no I don't have a "website spouse", but I do have a website Biatch...right Shawn?
jmsmith12345
10-22-2009, 02:54 PM
So true....but thankfully they don't....so no I don't have a "website spouse", but I do have a website Biatch...right Shawn?

Just one? You are slipping in your old age.
jmsmith12345
10-22-2009, 02:55 PM
Don't you have someone to Yankee?

I am just trying to show support for your loving relationship with Barkiss...but his last post now lets me know that you squat to pee, so I guess that is like marriage...at least from his perspective. :ok
Barkiss
10-22-2009, 02:55 PM
Just one? You are slipping in your old age.

Shawn's all a man could ask for
Shawn_N_Sandiego
10-22-2009, 02:58 PM
So true....but thankfully they don't....so no I don't have a "website spouse", but I do have a website Biatch...right Shawn?


Just one?? ... silly me .. I was under the impression we all are your biatches
Barkiss
10-22-2009, 02:59 PM
Just one?? ... silly me .. I was under the impression we all are your biatches

Ok...that is true. But...I'm trying to be humble
Shawn_N_Sandiego
10-22-2009, 03:00 PM
Ok...that is true. But...I'm trying to be humble

Who the hell are you and what have you done with my Barkiss?
Barkiss
10-22-2009, 03:05 PM
Who the hell are you and what have you done with my Barkiss?

I've had one of those days and now I'm trying to find myself. You know, I need to be true to me, because no one is true to anyone when they are not themselves on Thursdays.

Oops...sorry for the "quotes"' and I corrected the spelling, but I think you get the point.
redcat
10-22-2009, 03:25 PM
Who the hell are you and what have you done with my Barkiss?


Telling word....
Shawn_N_Sandiego
10-22-2009, 03:28 PM
Telling word....

You're mine too... don't be jealous
jmsmith12345
10-22-2009, 03:30 PM
I feel sorry for the guy who has to clean the floors in this place when we all go to sleep.
redcat
10-22-2009, 03:34 PM
You're mine too... don't be jealous


Hahaha...a dog and a cat?
redcat
10-22-2009, 03:34 PM
I feel sorry for the guy who has to clean the floors in this place when we all go to sleep.


What makes you think it's a guy? :sc
leggy4
10-22-2009, 03:36 PM
yea... maybe red loans someone her broom !!!! Although it might be under a spellLOL
jmsmith12345
10-22-2009, 03:37 PM
What makes you think it's a guy? :sc

the beard, but then again she could have been doing cartwheels at the time...:ok
Barkiss
10-22-2009, 03:39 PM
What makes you think it's a guy? :sc

No kidding!! What guy in his right mind would clean???? That's a woman's job.
Brak_45
10-22-2009, 03:42 PM
No kidding!! What guy in his right mind would clean???? That's a woman's job.

Any woman would know better than to clean that up...:sry
Barkiss
10-22-2009, 03:42 PM
Any woman would know better than to clean that up...:sry

You obviously don't have my skillz ;)
jmsmith12345
10-22-2009, 03:43 PM
No kidding!! What guy in his right mind would clean???? That's a woman's job.

Any woman would know better than to clean that up...:sry

Which route to not getting laid is faster?
Barkiss
10-22-2009, 03:45 PM
Which route to not getting laid is faster?


My method generates "Oh Barkiss...you are so silly." A little light tapping starts, then the makeout session.

His method only acknowledges that women should clean, but not that shit.
daisyduck
10-22-2009, 03:45 PM
i have like ten so i need to go and collect my pay!
jmsmith12345
10-22-2009, 03:46 PM
My method generates "Oh Barkiss...you are so silly." A little light tapping starts, then the makeout session.

His method only acknowledges that women should clean, but not that shit.

So coming in second is acceptable to you then?
Barkiss
10-22-2009, 03:48 PM
So coming in second is acceptable to you then?

Puh-leeze....I'm second to no one. If you haven't learned that by now, ask me.
redcat
10-22-2009, 03:49 PM
My method generates "Oh Barkiss...you are so silly." A little light tapping starts, then the makeout session.

His method only acknowledges that women should clean, but not that shit.


"Oh Barkiss...you are so silly!"
(But I"m still not cleaning up after you guys!)
jmsmith12345
10-22-2009, 03:50 PM
Puh-leeze....I'm second to no one. If you haven't learned that by now, ask me.

Penny for your thoughts then. :ok
redcat
10-22-2009, 03:50 PM
And JM....the carwheel remark is disturbing...ewww.
Barkiss
10-22-2009, 03:52 PM
"Oh Barkiss...you are so silly!"
(But I"m still not cleaning up after you guys!)

I'm never concerned with cleanliness when a makeout session is an option.



Wait...that didn't come out right.
Brak_45
10-22-2009, 04:02 PM
"Oh Barkiss...you are so silly!"
(But I"m still not cleaning up after you guys!)

I try'd so hard to be all good and sensative and open...for this?
Willy S
10-22-2009, 04:55 PM
one spouse is plenty for me
Willy S
10-22-2009, 04:55 PM
more than enough
Lass
10-22-2009, 04:56 PM
one spouse is plenty for me


I agree.
redcat
10-22-2009, 05:18 PM
I'm never concerned with cleanliness when a makeout session is an option.



Wait...that didn't come out right.


Ya think??
Barkiss
10-22-2009, 05:19 PM
Ya think??

No..not truly...but thought it read wrong. ;)
scoobertina
10-22-2009, 05:25 PM
I am married to my laptop.... this is my life...
Ally
10-22-2009, 07:14 PM
I have a couple really good friends online that I know will be there for me and support me.....as I would be there for them.....but that's about it!
Brink
11-01-2009, 09:23 AM
Yes, there is a long suffering Mrs Brink, with ladders in her tights, rollers in her hair, put on the Earth just to look after me! She’s out the back digging a very deep hole as we speak!
jimmy-love-fl
11-01-2009, 09:25 AM
If my website spouse was like my real spouse, then she wouldn't get me at all, so I'm not sure that applies?? But I do have a friend here that always seems to get me, and because of distance, there is no sex :(
happygirl101
11-01-2009, 09:29 AM
Hmmm not sure is this a thing I want!!!
redcat
11-01-2009, 11:26 AM
If you've worked in an office, you've probably heard the term "office spouse". This is the person at the office you really click with, share, joke, etc... but one that is usually nonsexual. For those veterans here, have you seen those types of relationships develop on this site? Where you might not meet in person, but you have a connection with one particular individual, and that develops into more of a one-to-one thing that is separate from the group dynamic on this site?

I'm not asking for names or specifics, I'm just curious of those types of relationships have developed here.

Yes, I have a few, actually. We keep in touch by phone, text, or email..generally on what amounts to a daily basis. Over the past year+, we've been there for each other through happy times and sad. Sometimes it's just a "Hi, hope you have a good day"...sometimes more, the things that go way below a surface relationship.

Though I met them here, none are greatly involved with the site anymore, but I'll always be thankful for two things, especially...that this site afforded me the opportunity to meet them and that my husband is aware of and understanding about the friendships.

They'll probably never see this but my life is richer for having true friends such as these guys...I love you.
scoobertina
11-01-2009, 11:29 AM
I can't say that I do.... but my bf does... haha
househub
11-01-2009, 10:02 PM
i am trying to think why anyone would want 2 spouses , instead of one, i kinda thought this site was for people going in the other direction
RB3350
11-01-2009, 10:03 PM
Nope still looking.
stellabelle
11-01-2009, 10:41 PM
Sheesh, I hope not!
Deb_Boondoggle_4
11-02-2009, 12:23 AM
I accept your proposal to be your web-married wife, Fiz! :)
MSU
11-02-2009, 12:24 AM
Nope.....once had an office spouse, but I'm over that now. :) :)
bryan3636
11-02-2009, 01:42 AM
do you have to go steady first???
Onesexyman
11-02-2009, 03:11 AM
To much drama in web spouse, here for fun
siv7
11-02-2009, 04:12 AM
I heart my website spouse!! hehe
laineycali
11-02-2009, 04:13 AM
no i think im too big of a smart ass for most the possiblities..
sebastien
11-08-2009, 11:50 AM
I have someone a different place . we were very sexual at first but now its more of a deep friendship. even though we havent known each other long. we have very long chats about everything and nothing.
Inapinch
11-08-2009, 12:29 PM
Heaven forbid. That's all I need. Maybe I could get "website" root canal while I'm at it.

Boys just wanna have fun.
happygirl101
11-08-2009, 12:46 PM
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaha :lmao :lmao

Why would would anyone want two...

Now a hot lover with a great voice and who wants me ...I have one of those and a husband
redcat
11-08-2009, 01:09 PM
Nope, no website spouse, lover, etc....
katydid2
11-08-2009, 02:38 PM
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaha :lmao :lmao

Why would would anyone want two...

Now a hot lover with a great voice and who wants me ...I have one of those and a husband

Well, I'm still blaming it on Fiz for the idea.

I'm web engaged. Planning our web marriage. So far we've got to where we're going on our honeymoon.

Go ahead and laugh. I don't care. I'm in love