What are you afraid of?

[megan363]

The unknown...

[cherokeered]

not making the right decision or being good enough........my biggest fear is failure......

[TheTurtle]

not making the right decision or being good enough........my biggest fear is failure......

I'm with you there, Cher. I have always been afraid of failure -- and often see it when others don't... :eek:

[boomer3]

I'm scared of getting caught in here while at work LOL

[cookies & Cream]

I'm scared of getting caught in here while at work LOL
Don't worry sweetie - I will vouch for you!! :)

[inmy4x]

Failling, not being able to do what I need to do.

[Cotties]

Not caring.

[peaches]

I lost someone special today

[Postman]

Oh no..........I have known that experiance all too well.I lost someone special today

[hoss]

I lost someone special today

I'm sorry to hear that ......:kk

[peaches]

Oh no..........I have known that experiance all too well.
I will know tomorrow for sure....thanks

[pointofnoreturn]

nothing

[peaches]

I'm sorry to hear that ......:kk
Thanks Hoss...but fear is your worse enemy...so I take a deep breath and sit and wait for tomorrow

[scoobertina]

I am afraid of not being loved... ever!

[yaser]

I am afraid of not being loved... ever!

Tina, let us speak in specific.Are you afraid of not being loved by someone special?Or all?But this is the fact that you want to be loved by your special.

[yaser]

I lost someone special today
Sorry pEAches but I want to know more about it.

[yaser]

nothing
I love courage in a woman besides her sexiness and horniness. :lf

[scoobertina]

Tina, let us speak in specific.Are you afraid of not being loved by someone special?Or all?But this is the fact that you want to be loved by your special.


Which special? Yaser dont' mind me, what I was saying was I was afraid that when I was ready to be loved that nobody would want to love me....

[yaser]

Which special? Yaser dont' mind me, what I was saying was I was afraid that when I was ready to be loved that nobody would want to love me....
Hun move before and act proactively....You are a lovable lady at any time. :lfIs there any such event that happened recently?

[peaches]

Sorry pEAches but I want to know more about it.
i hoping not, but afraid all the same..we will see tomorrow when I get on here..........

[UltimateNaneki]

I'm afraid of being forgotten...

[scoobertina]

Hun move before and act proactively....You are a lovable lady at any time. :lfIs there any such event that happened recently?

Sorry sweetie I thought you heard that I was getting a divorce...

[yaser]

Sorry sweetie I thought you heard that I was getting a divorce...
I know it honey.How do you feel now?Sad? :kk

[Postman]

The end of the world, World hunger, Gas prices, Unemployment, World peace...............And meeting the babe of my dreams and not having the gutts to say hi.

[learman3]

What I am trully afraid of is what other people think of me and my actions. I also hate rejection and failing (this goes back to what people think of me). This has made me hesitant to try new things, speak my peace or even tell someone how I feel. I hold everything in and do not let anyone see the true me.

[TheTurtle]

I'm afraid of being stuck in this dead end job for the rest of my life...

[roadie4us]

Loosing the ones closest to me.......my wife, kids, grandkids.

[peaches]

of never seeing him

[yaser]

of never seeing him
Please open your eyes Peaches.I am just behind you.. :lf

[peaches]

Please open your eyes Peaches.I am just behind you.. :lf
I slowly turn around..and fall into your arms

[yaser]

I slowly turn around..and fall into your arms
That is waht I want...Peaches..

[peaches]

That is waht I want...Peaches..
I think everyone wants that...

We hug tightly and kiss deeply

[yaser]

I think everyone wants that...

We hug tightly and kiss deeply
And be a whole of the two int :sex egral parts....

[peaches]

And be a whole of the two int :sex egral parts....
and cum together as one

[yaser]

and cum together as one
Mix the waters in your sweet pool..

[peaches]

Mix the waters in your sweet pool..
as we share the sweet waters

[cmt21lem]

i fear the cubs will blow it again

[peaches]

never finding happiness again

[p.a]

Never having intimacy with a woman again

[MIGHTY]

...of not being able to make it on my own......of what tricks he has up his sleeve.....of why he's been hoarding his money while I pay all of the bills......of love.....of life.......of the future.

[onceamarine]

Mighty it sounds like you could use a Marine to protect you.

[MIGHTY]

Mighty it sounds like you could use a Marine to protect you.

:55

[boomer3]

of not being able to straighten things out to where my family is happy and living comfortable.

[inmy4x]

Being a statistic.

[TheTurtle]

...of not being able to make it on my own......of what tricks he has up his sleeve.....of why he's been hoarding his money while I pay all of the bills......of love.....of life.......of the future.

You know that you can make it! You are Mighty! And You have loads of support! :55 :kk

It sounds like he is getting ready for the break; pay your bills, and leave his to him (cell phone, etc.). For joint accounts, I would call the companies and make arrangements. For credit cards, it is pretty easy. For mortgage, not so easy. Still, it can be done. :sc

[yaser]

never finding happiness again
Can you cope if so?You have tackled though..

[guy384]

being alone with no friends and no sex. horrible

[cheerymissy_34]

never getting to see him again

[MIGHTY]

......sadly enough, myself at times.....and not knowing what to believe.

[Lacey]

That he will forget me........

[fishon]

That he will forget me........



Never, ever

[majorfun]

Falling in love with something that is not real.....

[Sweetdreams069]

Financially not being able to keep up with everything.

[scoobertina]

I am afraid that starting tomorrow I won't be around here much anymore... and I will miss it...

I am also afraid that I am going to lose this bet today.... but I won't say it until the game is over buddy.... remember that.. I don't care what you threaten me with.....

[Sensual Woman]

Everything - but especially of not being loved

[MCat]

I am afraid that starting tomorrow I won't be around here much anymore... and I will miss it...

I am also afraid that I am going to lose this bet today.... but I won't say it until the game is over buddy.... remember that.. I don't care what you threaten me with.....

Wishing you good luck with whatever it is you are doing Scoob...

[Postman]

sometimes very simply............Life

[p.J]

Repeats...

[majorfun]

hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Repeats...

[OICurready4me]

that someone is going to tell her things that are untrue and screw up what we have, all because they likely have an ulterior motive

[Amaretto]

that he isn't the kind of man i thought he was

[Sweetdreams069]

that he isn't the kind of man i thought he was

then he probably isn't...follow your instincts :)

[OICurready4me]

losing her over something ridiculous

[RedVixen]

losing her over something ridiculous

If your love is strong enough and your friendship is solid, you will never lose her.

[OICurready4me]

If your love is strong enough and your friendship is solid, you will never lose her.


I feel it is but there is a force that currently looks like it is starting to pull

[cherokeered]

Sometimes.....life

[RedVixen]

I feel it is but there is a force that currently looks like it is starting to pull

Don't let that 'force' in. Push back hun :)

[Sensual Woman]

If your love is strong enough and your friendship is solid, you will never lose her.

That is what I am hoping for with him

[OICurready4me]

Don't let that 'force' in. Push back hun :)

Sorry to say, it is not within my control....

[RedVixen]

That is what I am hoping for with him

I hope that you get it :knuddel:

[Sensual Woman]

I hope that you get it :knuddel:

Thank you hun. I pray for it.

[RedVixen]

Sorry to say, it is not within my control....

You can only change what you 'choose' to. If you want it bad enough, fight for it.

[cherokeered]

Sorry to say, it is not within my control....


No it isn't...and she will have to decide for herself....unfortunately you will have to accept whatever it is she decides...sigh

Sorry about this hun...hope it works out...:kk

[majorfun]

That she will push me away because she is scared of exploring new grounds

[OICurready4me]

You can only change what you 'choose' to. If you want it bad enough, fight for it.


Believe me, I plan on it, this boy can put up a fight

[RedVixen]

Believe me, I plan on it, this boy can put up a fight

Good :55

[MIGHTY]

...the fact that a few are trying to help but will have me completely confused by the time I need to make crucial life decisions.......

[RedVixen]

...the fact that a few are trying to help but will have me completely confused by the time I need to make crucial life decisions.......

Hang in there....one step at a time.

[MCat]

...the fact that a few are trying to help but will have me completely confused by the time I need to make crucial life decisions.......

Mighty.....you should only consider you and the most important people in your life....your son and you know who. Forget everyone elses opinion...

Your mind will be a roller coaster soon....:whee:

[My_Secrets_Kept]

that he would/could ever have second thoughts...

[Andytyme]

That after all this time, I can still allow her to affect my feelings like this....I thought I was beyond that....shit.

[Sensual Woman]

That after all this time, I can still allow her to affect my feelings like this....I thought I was beyond that....shit.

Hun, it will be alright :hug: You will get past this

[Lacey]

Not being able to see him...........




I miss ya .......

[pointofnoreturn]

nothing

[p.J]

My husband not buying new underpants!

[whosdaflirt]

I am afraid that I could wake up one morning and find that it was all a wonderful dream only...

[TheTurtle]

of blurting out the wrong thing and hurting someone.

[Fat Bass]

Spiders... I mean they move like the wind! yikes....

[cherokeered]

...the fact that a few are trying to help but will have me completely confused by the time I need to make crucial life decisions.......


hun...crucial life decisions are urs to make.....people can give advice and opinions...but u have to make the decisions and live with the consequences....whatever they may be

[cherokeered]

my mean streak.........

[TheTurtle]

my mean streak.........

You? A mean streak? Perish the thought! :)

[MIGHTY]

Hang in there....one step at a time.

Thanks hun.....I have to remember to take each day as one.....

[MIGHTY]

Mighty.....you should only consider you and the most important people in your life....your son and you know who. Forget everyone elses opinion...

Your mind will be a roller coaster soon....:whee:

My mind tends to get away from me from time to time.....but you know who has this tendency to calm my fears once more......

[MIGHTY]

hun...crucial life decisions are urs to make.....people can give advice and opinions...but u have to make the decisions and live with the consequences....whatever they may be

Although I am hesitant of such drastic change......there is one wild card in my life that will make or break the future I desire.

[cherokeered]

Although I am hesitant of such drastic change......there is one wild card in my life that will make or break the future I desire.

No one likes change...but sometimes we need it to survive and grow...kinda like transplanting a flower into a bigger and better pot to allow the roots to flourish...now how sappy is that....lol

but stagnant isn't good and neither is self-sacrifice...it hurts everyone...believe me, I know....it's not easy...and may take time...but all things worth doing take time and planning....

[MIGHTY]

I'm afraid that he will continue to beat himself up for making the only decision he could........

[MIGHTY]

No one likes change...but sometimes we need it to survive and grow...kinda like transplanting a flower into a bigger and better pot to allow the roots to flourish...now how sappy is that....lol

but stagnant isn't good and neither is self-sacrifice...it hurts everyone...believe me, I know....it's not easy...and may take time...but all things worth doing take time and planning....

......that this is one of the most discouraging days we have had.....

[Sensual Woman]

That he will decide I am not worth loving and being with

[cherokeered]

......that this is one of the most discouraging days we have had.....


Hun...unfortunately it wont be the last...wish I could say it's easy, but like any relationship it takes work...and commitment.....
Communication and understanding is important and most of all, patience....there will be ups & downs....doubts, hurt, fears, tears, laughs and anger...and sometimes you will just need space.....
Tiger and I know too well what goes on in a long distance relationship...it's no different from a close-up one...except a bit harder emotionally.....but I wouldn't change it...cause together, we are dynamite....:)

[MIGHTY]

Hun...unfortunately it wont be the last...wish I could say it's easy, but like any relationship it takes work...and commitment.....
Communication and understanding is important and most of all, patience....there will be ups & downs....doubts, hurt, fears, tears, laughs and anger...and sometimes you will just need space.....
Tiger and I know too well what goes on in a long distance relationship...it's no different from a close-up one...except a bit harder emotionally.....but I wouldn't change it...cause together, we are dynamite....:)

Discouraging due to the circumstances, not one another. He always sais that we are a team....and a damn good one if you ask me. He needs me right now and I can't be there....it's soo hard....and I have needed him as well....badly. This must be the absolute hardest part....

[cherokeered]

Discouraging due to the circumstances, not one another. He always sais that we are a team....and a damn good one if you ask me. He needs me right now and I can't be there....it's soo hard....and I have needed him as well....badly. This must be the absolute hardest part....


It is...very hard....when you cant hold them or hug them...when you know they need you or you need them.....I know...sigh
It hurts like hell......

[GentleBen]

What am I afraid of... good question. I suppose right now I'm afraid of meeting someone special on-line, developing a close cyber relationship, and then having that person just stop communicating all of a sudden. That's happened to me once before and it's very tough emotionally. It's taken quite awhile to just be willing to take the chance and get to someone like that again.

Ben

[YLS]

Something happening to me wherein I would be unable to care for and raise my beautiful kids.

[p.a]

I'm afraid that life in this country is going to get very bad and a lot of good people will be hurt by this. I pray to God that I'm wrong.

[YLS]

I'm afraid that life in this country is going to get very bad and a lot of good people will be hurt by this. I pray to God that I'm wrong.

How so?

[p.a]

How so?

I fear the economy will get worst. Many more people will lose there jobs. And this will be a bad winter for most.

[OICurready4me]

I am afraid that I could wake up one morning and find that it was all a wonderful dream only...


I worry about that all the time....after all, dreams do have angels in them, right?

[OICurready4me]

.... my inner struggles with guilt....our future, if the wild card plays that card and screws things up for the love of my life and myself.....losing my sanity....getting sick over this...

[MIGHTY]

.... my inner struggles with guilt....our future, if the wild card plays that card and screws things up for the love of my life and myself.....losing my sanity....getting sick over this...

Remember what kind of person you are.........the cards are still being shuffled and have not been dealt yet........you're going to be just fine......relax and breathe.....it's gonna be ok.......:kk

[hoss]

Seeing Cotties naked ...GOD THAT SCARES ME ~~~~

[scoobertina]

I am not afraid anymore.... I have great friends....

[cookies & Cream]

I am not afraid anymore.... I have great friends....
Makes all the difference in the world to do the things that we don't think that we have the strength to do - but if you have good friends... you have the strength to do just about anything...

Good for you Scoob - you deserve it...

[OICurready4me]

Remember what kind of person you are.........the cards are still being shuffled and have not been dealt yet........you're going to be just fine......relax and breathe.....it's gonna be ok.......:kk


I know it will, after all, you are my guardian angel....the best anyone could ever have to watch over them.....YOU make it fine...YOU have the ability to relax me...and YOU make be incredibly happy.

[pointofnoreturn]

nothing..

[yaser]

Point will reject me again.

[mrclark76]

of war

[MIGHTY]

...that I will be idle in this fantasy and it will never come to light.

[Sensual Woman]

That he will disappear from my life and say he never cared for me

[peaches]

surgery

[cheerymissy_34]

that my life will be like this FOREVER

[Sensual Woman]

surgery

You know we all wish you well and will pray for you

[PlayfulMale69]

that she just says she wants me and on the inside just puts up with me and says those things for my benefit.

[northernvam]

that my life will be like this FOREVER

Nothing lasts forever. Sometimes, we are just impatient for life to move faster than we are ready for. I think it is true that things in our lives generally change when we are truly ready for a change.

[Bear]

I'm afraid of empty nest syndrome.

[OICurready4me]

...that I will be idle in this fantasy and it will never come to light.

you know I will do whatever i can to make it come true...after all, we share this fantasy, don't we?

[cherokeered]

That things won't go the way I want them to..............

[OICurready4me]

That things won't go the way I want them to..............


Hang in there, Cher....the power of positive thinking is an incredible tool!

[Mustang65]

My fear is probably been posted and like most parents - the only true fear is that I outlive my children :(

[Sk]

That my parents will outlive me and my daughter will never really know who her daddy is.

[Guymisseswife]

i am afraid of the day my wife leaves. i dont wanna face it. on a side not i am sorry i have been very absent from the boards. i am just dealing with making things at home as easy as possible. i am doin gok. better than a few months ago since i have accepted my fate. i dont like my fate but there is no choice but to deal with it and make it work for the best. i still read the boards i jsut dont post much. i try and let my wife do the posting so there is no sides to choose. anyways, im alive and i miss you all. i will post sporadically until i get my shit straight

[simplygrace]

that Ill run out of batteries!!:di

[Sk]

that Ill run out of batteries!!:di

You need to get some rechargable ones so that I don't have to live with such fear.

[One Song Hero]

I am afraid my overall impact on her life might wind up being substantially (albeit unintentionally) negative.




.

[iminpa924]

hurting the people I care about

[Lacey]

I'm afraid right now of my teenage daughter going down the wrong path if she continues to choose wrong friends.

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Right now I'm afraid for my father, praying the tests are going to show that this was a scare and nothing more. I hate feeling left out of the loop on what's going on and not being there for him!

[longing for passion]

....not being the man she needs/wants me to be.

[OpBob]

Right now I'm afraid for my father, praying the tests are going to show that this was a scare and nothing more. I hate feeling left out of the loop on what's going on and not being there for him!

MSK...I will be praying for your father, too!!!

[My_Secrets_Kept]

MSK...I will be praying for your father, too!!!

Thank you hon!

[yaser]

I'm afraid right now of my teenage daughter going down the wrong path if she continues to choose wrong friends.
I believe she is as intelligent as you are Lacey..

[MIGHTY]

Running myself right into the ground at work this holiday season.....

[irishjock]

That my doc will tell me I have to give up running now or give up walking later...

[scoobertina]

my biggest fear is being alone

[Sensual Woman]

i am afraid of the day my wife leaves. i dont wanna face it. on a side not i am sorry i have been very absent from the boards. i am just dealing with making things at home as easy as possible. i am doin gok. better than a few months ago since i have accepted my fate. i dont like my fate but there is no choice but to deal with it and make it work for the best. i still read the boards i jsut dont post much. i try and let my wife do the posting so there is no sides to choose. anyways, im alive and i miss you all. i will post sporadically until i get my shit straight

I am sorry you are going through such a rough time, hun. I will keep you in my prayers. We are all here to support you, and understand if you are unable to post. Let us know how you are doing.:hug:

[Sensual Woman]

I am afraid I am losing my mind - and I am afraid of losing him

[Jplay75]

My Wife
Drowning
Not Being A Good Person

[Vicious305]

I'm afraid of losing my parents and brothers, I'd risk my life for them without thinking twice.

[Sneaky]

I'm afraid of losing my parents and brothers, I'd risk my life for them without thinking twice.

Hello? Sister?

WHAT ever.....

[Jplay75]

I Lost My Father When I Was Young So I Can Understand And Will Keep Him In My Prayers.

[Vicious305]

Hello? Sister?

WHAT ever.....

Ohhhhh so sorry, not use to having a sister yet. yes you too. and actually i'm the type of person that would risk my life for anyone of my friends

[Sneaky]

Ohhhhh so sorry, not use to having a sister yet. yes you too. and actually i'm the type of person that would risk my life for anyone of my friends

OK then. Lucky to have a brother like that. :)

[cheerymissy_34]

This may sound silly but im deathly afraid of BIRDS....i hate hate hate them...as long as they stay far away from me im good but let one get close to me and ohhhh

[My_Secrets_Kept]

hurting everyone close to me by the decisions that I am making and need to continue to make for myself!

[RedVixen]

I'm petrified of spiders, mice, and bats.

[lilolekimba67(f)]

I am of afraid of being alone

[OICurready4me]

not a whole helluva lot. But losing my little princess is #1 at the moment.

[Sensual Woman]

Never being loved again, and never feeling safe again

[cheerymissy_34]

that after tuesday i might actually get what ive been wishing for forever and now not so sure i really want it

[1hotmommy]

I'm afraid that I won't be the best mother and wife that I could be, and that one day I'll wake up and everything I love will be gone.

[up4fun]

I'm afraid that i will look back on life with regrets....

[PunkyBob]

That I'll wake up one day and it will be far too late...

[Postman]

Yes and no one should ever.......And I mean EVER have to do that. So people I'm telling you if you feel in your heart you should try something........Do it now or forever hold your peace. Yes trouble may insue but the peace of mind of being able to say...Yea I tried that and I'm glad I did will also stay in your heart forever.I'm afraid that i will look back on life with regrets....

[scoobertina]

I am afraid of not living my life.... of working too hard to achieve something and not enjoying what I have to offer to others... or to enjoy what others have to offer me

[p.a]

Well up to a few days ago I was affraid of nothing. Now I have a little fear of being misunderstood. Well maybe not a fear but definitely an annoyance.

[MIGHTY]

I'm afraid of the glitches, surprises, and set backs that the "wild card" may have in store in the coming months.......

[Lee B. Doe]

I am afraid of waking up to a complete stranger after decades of marriage.

[Sensual Woman]

I am afraid of waking up to a complete stranger after decades of marriage.

I wake up to that every morning

[RedVixen]

That if I left my family, they wouldn't know how to do things around here without me :(

[OICurready4me]

I'm afraid of the glitches, surprises, and set backs that the "wild card" may have in store in the coming months.......


I'm afraid of the same thing....every day is a roll of the dice

[scoobertina]

I am afraid of going into a depression like I have been heading towards for the last few weeks... I thought I had overcome that in my life... and I am afraid that I might be working myself too hard... but I won't let it stop me from achieving my goal... once I have my goal, then maybe I can quit one of those damn jobs..

[MCat]

Today I'm afraid that if I don't do it now, I'll miss something....

[duanehofner]

Originally Posted by Lee B. Doe
I am afraid of waking up to a complete stranger after decades of marriage.



I wake up to that every morning

:wa:

Stranger than me? lol

[duanehofner]

I'm afraid she'll walk up behind me and see SW's HOT avatar on the screen. That would be a real pain in the neck and many other places around my head and shoulders and face. hehehe

[MIGHTY]

I'm afraid he has something bad in store for me in the next few months. I'm afraid that he sometimes just doesn't get it. I'm afraid of having to have "the talk" with my son soon. I'm afraid that he'll continue to hoard all of our funds and that I won't be able to have a nice Christmas.....

[Sensual Woman]

I'm afraid mine will kep spending us into even more debt

[roadie4us]

I afraid my computer will crash and burn before I can start sending PM's.

[My_Secrets_Kept]

pushing everyone away

[hank69]

alienation

[MIGHTY]

...the holidays this year.....and the fact that he may make it to where there is nothing to celebrate......

[Outta]

mighty beating the crap out of me

[Sneaky]

I'm afraid Decembers gonna be a tough month at work. A busy month all the way around. Gonna enjoy this last week of November before it hits....

[MIGHTY]

mighty beating the crap out of me

:nu....oh, but honey, I make it hurt goooood......:D

[angelis]

never having the chance

[Outta]

all women

[Postman]

Never having time to do all I want to do.

[My_Secrets_Kept]

all women

as well "you" should be ;)

[Outta]

as well "you" should be ;)
and ur making me shake in my boots. LOL

[My_Secrets_Kept]

and ur making me shake in my boots. LOL


you're up to something in your boots :bs , but you ain't shakin' in them!

[Outta]

you're up to something in your boots :bs , but you ain't shakin' in them!
did i say "boots"? I meant rubbers.

[cheerymissy_34]

what i will find out on Monday

[Sneaky]

what i will find out on Monday
:hug: I hope it goes ok

[cheerymissy_34]

:hug: I hope it goes ok

:kk Thank U

[OICurready4me]

:nu....oh, but honey, I make it hurt goooood......:D


Yes, you do....nothing like getting your ass kicked by Mighty to make you happy to be alive!

[cherokeered]

The unknown factors

[SkiBum980]

Not being a good father to my daughter....

[MCat]

Sometimes I'm afraid of not being good enough.....
at love, sex, marriage, motherhood, work...the whole thing...

[OICurready4me]

... having this stupid mistake I made at work haunt me over and over as I go for promotions

[FRMale]

Sometimes I'm afraid of not being good enough.....
at love, sex, marriage, motherhood, work...the whole thing...

Really? What is good enough? Is this something e put on ourselves, or does it come from outside factors like Our significant others, TV, Magazines, or all of the above?

[FRMale]

I'm afraid of permanent darkness and being alone

[cherokeered]

change

[One Song Hero]

never having the chance
angelis :kk, I do so believe in you and your chances

[fly]

Tomorrow

[MIGHTY]

Sometimes........I'm afraid of life, love, and the pursuit of happiness......because it may all fade one day......

[Bear]

being alone

[scoobertina]

being alone

me too... and I am afraid he will contact me and suck me back in again...

[OICurready4me]

Sometimes........I'm afraid of life, love, and the pursuit of happiness......because it may all fade one day......

Nah....it's all gonna get better, baby....

[noodlegurl]

I am afraid of being a Failure................

[Torin]

BEES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am terrified of the little %&^&^%!

[MIGHTY]

Sometimes, I'm afraid of myself......

[TheTurtle]

I am afraid of being a Failure................

I am SO with you on that one, noodlegurl; especially after I have failed a couple of times...

[MIGHTY]

I am SO with you on that one, noodlegurl; especially after I have failed a couple of times...

But, with failure brings strength and perseverence.......

[TheTurtle]

But, with failure brings strength and perseverence.......

And loss of confidence, security, and sense of self worth... :(

BTW: You have NO reason to be afraid of yourself, woman. Just thought I'd tell you that -- since it's true. :55

[Sensual Woman]

Of never truly being loved

[TheTurtle]

Of never truly being loved

You are truly loved -- whether you feel like it or not. There are your children, your parents, God, and your friends here on M&C... :) My hope for you is that you feel truly loved.

[Sensual Woman]

You are truly loved -- whether you feel like it or not. There are your children, your parents, God, and your friends here on M&C... :) My hope for you is that you feel truly loved.

My children - yes
God - I don't deserve it
My parents are dead and my father never loved me anyway
My friends here...I don't know about that. I am careful never to mistake cyber for reality. I wonder if they would even miss me if I were gone....

[roadie4us]

I am afraid of being a Failure................


Im with you noodlegurl......fear of failure makes it easy to not even try at all.

[TheTurtle]

My children - yes
God - I don't deserve it
My parents are dead and my father never loved me anyway
My friends here...I don't know about that. I am careful never to mistake cyber for reality. I wonder if they would even miss me if I were gone....

Your children -- I am glad.
God -- none of us ever will deserve it, but He loves us anyways. That's what is so great.
Your parent's -- I'm sorry about your father. My parents are dead too, but I know I was loved. The Xmas season will be hard as I remember my father's death New Years day, 2005...
Your friends here -- Well, I would miss you if you were gone. I have PM'd a number of folks I have grown to care about when they haven't posted in a while. I cherish the advice you have given, and have thought about you a number of times outside of this site. And considering the relationships that have formed between some of the participants, I think that on the whole we are an open, caring community who loves easily and well. Perhaps too easily sometimes... but I would rather that and be hurt than not to love at all. THAT is a very lonely way to live. I have tried it; it sucks big time. That sense of caring (to me) is one of the draws of this place -- besides the fun! :)

[roadie4us]

My children - yes
God - I don't deserve it
My parents are dead and my father never loved me anyway
My friends here...I don't know about that. I am careful never to mistake cyber for reality. I wonder if they would even miss me if I were gone....

You most certainly would be missed.....much more than you realize. I dont know you that well, but I do know people, and often we fail or have inabilities to say "i love you" or that "I care". This is no reason for you to think your not cared for or that you would not be missed. Besides, just having children who love you is a blessing some people dont have.

[Sensual Woman]

Your children -- I am glad.
God -- none of us ever will deserve it, but He loves us anyways. That's what is so great.
Your parent's -- I'm sorry about your father. My parents are dead too, but I know I was loved. The Xmas season will be hard as I remember my father's death New Years day, 2005...
Your friends here -- Well, I would miss you if you were gone. I have PM'd a number of folks I have grown to care about when they haven't posted in a while. I cherish the advice you have given, and have thought about you a number of times outside of this site. And considering the relationships that have formed between some of the participants, I think that on the whole we are an open, caring community who loves easily and well. Perhaps too easily sometimes... but I would rather that and be hurt than not to love at all. THAT is a very lonely way to live. I have tried it; it sucks big time. That sense of caring (to me) is one of the draws of this place -- besides the fun! :)

You are truly wonderful:kk

[TheTurtle]

You are truly wonderful:kk

Awww shucks :o :kk

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Hurting those closest to me & pushing them away because of my own desires, fears and uncertainties.


Allowing myself too close, allowing my emotions to show through, opening myself up too much.

[1hotmommy]

Driving my family away because of my bad temper and my attitude. Being a bad mother and seeing my son get hurt.

[Low Rider]

SPIDERS........................

[Big O]

clowns......

[Low Rider]

Ditto on the clowns...hate those freaky people.

[yaser]

Heights

[nwmo4fun]

Getting caught on here....

[nwmo4fun]

snakes, spiders, cockroaches

[cyclops]

pragmaticjenny :whee:

[1hotmommy]

Myself

[SEXAHOLIC]

Myself


are you that scary....:lmao

I do hope not.

[1hotmommy]

lol you never know, do ya

[SEXAHOLIC]

lol you never know, do ya

your making me nervous...:lmao

[1hotmommy]

Be afraid, be very afraid

[SEXAHOLIC]

Be afraid, be very afraid

thats done it...:cry:

[motown9300]

big rats and mice....

[motown9300]

chili cheese fries scare me too.

[My_Secrets_Kept]

That I hurt a very dear friend

[SEXAHOLIC]

wierd women

[Boredmarriedlover]

being cold towards people

[angelis]

being disliked

[SEXAHOLIC]

I'm afraid of " Angelis "


Only joking :kk

[cyclops]

being disliked

Well I like you :kk

Even if you are Scottish :D

That was a joke BTW

[p.J]

pragmaticjenny :whee:

Liar liar your bums on fire.... YOU WISH!

[cyclops]

Liar liar your bums on fire.... YOU WISH!

Calm Down Calm Down!!!

[angelis]

I'm afraid of " Angelis "


Only joking :kk

you had better be!!!;)

[angelis]

Well I like you :kk

Even if you are Scottish :D

That was a joke BTW

well thanks cyclops, I like you too,even if you're NOT Scottish!!!:kk

[SEXAHOLIC]

you had better be!!!;)

heres where I grovel at your feet.....just dont tell anyone...:lmao :kk

[p.J]

Calm Down Calm Down!!!


:lmao fook orffffffffffff!

[cyclops]

:lmao fook orffffffffffff!

How rude :(