What are you afraid of?

[Norfolkdave]

In our daily lives what do we fear the most:wa:

[Penny]

Not being liked :(

[Big O]

Right now I'm fearing the Chicago White Sox!!!!!

[Barkiss]

spiders and heights...everything else I can handle

[illmakeurtoeswiggle]

Not being liked :(

Awe...you Penny? I couldn't imagine ANYONE not liking YOU!:kk

As for me...burning to death!:eek:
And since I'm probably going to hell when I die...I might get to experience it!!!!

[Annie]

Right now I'm fearing the Chicago White Sox!!!!!

What... one lil loss and you start go get nervous? That's not like you! Hell I sat for 2 days with a shoe in my mouth and now you show fear! I think at this point the chances are pretty equal, so chin up!






... but the White Sox are still gonna win!

[Big O]

I just wanted to get a response out of that mouth with a high heel in it!!!!
Go Sox!! (Red Sox)
BigO

[shopowner]

erectile disfunction...lol...hey that's really serious huh?

[MCat]

Not being liked :(

Aww Penny....we like you.....:knuddel:

[MCat]

As for me...burning to death!:eek:
And since I'm probably going to hell when I die...I might get to experience it!!!!

And Mr Wiggle...you are not going to Hell...I'll pick you up on my way to the Wild Blue Yonder :kk

[MCat]

I am afraid of having a stroke and being totally disabled and dependent on others to take care of me.

[rickt67]

Bees and rejection from my wife. Normal nowadays

[Bandit256]

I have no fear at all, aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh WHAT the heel was that? Oh it was only my shadow.

[Onehttmama]

Awe...you Penny? I couldn't imagine ANYONE not liking YOU!:kk

As for me...burning to death!:eek:
And since I'm probably going to hell when I die...I might get to experience it!!!!


YOU are really being tough on yourself today WIGGLES! How can a guy as sweet as you be going to hell???
:kk :lf :knuddel:

[SirFox]

Besides erictile dsyfunction or disfunction..how do you spell "dis function".. you know when "it" refuses to work" ?????....dictionary please..... actually seriously....several things:
1. Having to give sex up before Age 120;
2. Being dependent upon people on the way to dying;
3. Fear of the way I will die and not of death itself;
4. Seeing gas masks on people all around me.

[Norfolkdave]

I have no fear at all, aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh WHAT the heel was that? Oh it was only my shadow.

LOL brilliant and jovial:lmao

[Norfolkdave]

Me Im frigtened of spiders and dying but thanks to you being honest

[illmakeurtoeswiggle]

YOU are really being tough on yourself today WIGGLES! How can a guy as sweet as you be going to hell???
:kk :lf :knuddel:

If you only knew...:satan: ;)

[illmakeurtoeswiggle]

And Mr Wiggle...you are not going to Hell...I'll pick you up on my way to the Wild Blue Yonder :kk

Well...you're taking one helluva a chance there Marycat!
If I'm with you the devil might take us both!:eek: ...what am I thinking, with those BIG brown eyes of your's you could even charm the devil!:D ..I'd be safe with you!!!!!:)

[Norfolkdave]

Well...you're taking one helluva a chance there Marycat!
If I'm with you the devil might take us both!:eek: ...what am I thinking, with those BIG brown eyes of your's you could even charm the devil!:D ..I'd be safe with you!!!!!:)

Howd you know shes got big brown eyes! Id feel safe with mary anyday LOL:lmao

[Sandy]

i'm afrad of dying before i see any grandkids

[shopowner]

Besides erictile dsyfunction or disfunction..how do you spell "dis function".. you know when "it" refuses to work" ?????....dictionary please..... actually seriously....several things:
1. Having to give sex up before Age 120;
2. Being dependent upon people on the way to dying;
3. Fear of the way I will die and not of death itself;
4. Seeing gas masks on people all around me.

Dang...thats' too real...heck if I'd thought of all that sh__ __ I'd be scared too.

[spare_change]

1) Being alone
2) My life NOT changing
3) Never being happy

[Cotties]

Well today I'm afraid of being crashed into on the way home with no wallet on my body to identify me. Being taken to a hospital that doesn't know who I am, not get any treatmant as I have no health cover, me being unconsious for months and knowbody in the world knowing where I am..not even me..

[Cotties]

Also Americans ...

sorry guys... love ya T.V shows.. and your chicks..

oops

[shopowner]

Also Americans ...

sorry guys... love ya T.V shows.. and your chicks..

oops

I love our chicks too !!!!

[Annie]

the unknown.

[yaser]

fear of not finding anyone to flirt or being rejected by someone as a flirt

[spare_change]

the unknown.

Aww, Annie -- The unknown is where the true adventure lies. It is only by going there that you can truly appreciate where you have been.

Come - take my hand - we will go together.

[Norfolkdave]

My other fear is losing my sight

[hank69]

In our daily lives what do we fear the most:wa:

Being alone in life :(

[Norfolkdave]

Being alone in life :(

That is to be isnt it. Being serious Im frigtened of that, older and lonely. Lets try to live our lives fully and be happy as we can thats all I can really say

[Cotties]

1.I fear upsetting Dave
2.Getting on the wrong side of Spare change
3.And wet beaver not letting me lick her latex knee high boots

ooh ooh can I have 4 please?

4. not getting enough attention from my silly comments:wa:

[Norfolkdave]

1.I fear upsetting Dave
2.Getting on the wrong side of Spare change
3.And wet beaver not letting me lick her latex knee high boots

ooh ooh can I have 4 please?

4. not getting enough attention from my silly comments:wa:

Neednt fear me my frirend, LOL good answer:lmao

[aceofspades1114]

The thing I fear the most is getting hit. I'm a paramedic and half of these drivers on the road dont stop or they are racing me up when I got my lights going off. Which really could not do to much damage to me cause the ambulance is like a tank but still.

[SirFox]

I have often wondered if I was obliged to chose...what it is that I would chose....to be blind, be deaf, both, or other if one could be chosen?

Otherwise my fear...is not to be able to appreciate good food, good wine, men and women, flirt and listen to music and do much touching....

[mysticexplorer]

Ignorance, Jealosey, Closemindedness, and Bigot,s.

[Sandy]

i fear never seeing my kids grow up. or losing my kids before i die

[mometal77]

I would have to say rabie shots from the easter bunny.. life happens without knowing or foresight nothing we can do about it.. some have just the worst luck.. its like the saying it comes in groves or all at once.. instead of the shovel i would want the whole wheel barrow load instead of bits and pieces..
bobby

[sex_kitten_4u]

1 fear of being alone
2 anything happening to my kids
3 heights
4 anything happening to my present b/f ( he is such a wonderful man )

[sweetgapeach]

That my life will not change for the better .
That something or someone will do something bad to my Kids!!
That I will grow old too quick!!

[SirFox]

We have so many fears. Often I wonder how conditionned we are by our experiences with our parents and relations to fear what we do fear....

Why are we fearful of BEING ALONE?
Because we know someone who was alone and it was terrible, or we always heard that it was terrible to be alone?

Why are we afraid of the UNKOWN?
Because we have never known the unknown and what we don't know makes us afraid....????

Love to figure these things out....

[yaser]

1 fear of being alone
2 anything happening to my kids
3 heights
4 anything happening to my present b/f ( he is such a wonderful man )
Tropicannauk, I have two common fear with you:
Fear of heights,
and fear of being alone
and there are many more

[yaser]

We have so many fears. Often I wonder how conditionned we are by our experiences with our parents and relations to fear what we do fear....

Why are we fearful of BEING ALONE?
Because we know someone who was alone and it was terrible, or we always heard that it was terrible to be alone?

Why are we afraid of the UNKOWN?
Because we have never known the unknown and what we don't know makes us afraid....????

Love to figure these things out....
Ffox, you are a man of great value....

[SirFox]

Ffox, you are a man of great value....

Thank you kind Sir.. but I wonder what that brought that on....

[Sandy]

1. me child dying before i do

2. losing my husband at an early age
3. my child being kidnapped

[kissiemybuttie]

I fear I am going insane....grrrrr I knew I did not want to move again....what crap you build in a 10 year period....and most of it is SHIT!!!! going in the trash!!!!! What ever made me think I was ever going to fit into them pants again????? My mind it is going....or is it already gone???????

[Gentleman]

To be unloved.

[sweetgapeach]

1. me child dying before i do

2. losing my husband at an early age
3. my child being kidnapped



I am so afraid someone will take my Child too, it Really messes with me . And its sad our kids cant go out and play without the worry of a pervert on the Corner !!

[Jy]

My biggest fear?
-dying before my son is grown
-my son dying or being seriously injured
-not having a truly intimate, passionate experience again in my life

[Sunfiresix]

Sometimes just life itself.

[ksfirefighter]

my biggest fear would be not seing my kids grow up and my wife grow old. Had a close one with a driver who wasnt paying attention and slid right by me at a wreck. Made me remember just how lucky I am and how important that kiss and hug everyday really is!

[Seeker]

My own mortality
Losing a loved one before their time
Loneliness
Not having the $$$ to survive retirement

[Penny]

ditto :(





My own mortality
Losing a loved one before their time
Loneliness
Not having the $$$ to survive retirement

[Seeker]

Indeed, KS! my biggest fear would be not seing my kids grow up and my wife grow old. Had a close one with a driver who wasnt paying attention and slid right by me at a wreck. Made me remember just how lucky I am and how important that kiss and hug everyday really is!

[yaser]

My biggest fear?
-dying before my son is grown
-my son dying or being seriously injured
-not having a truly intimate, passionate experience again in my lifeJAzzy,you may be right in your fears in the first two but you have more than enough ability to be intimate with others...sincere,open minded...No need to worry..

[yaser]

I fear I am going insane....grrrrr I knew I did not want to move again....what crap you build in a 10 year period....and most of it is SHIT!!!! going in the trash!!!!! What ever made me think I was ever going to fit into them pants again????? My mind it is going....or is it already gone???????Kissie I know that worry very well...That shows that you are under an intensive stress...I believe the stress makes will be less and less later...but what makes us stressful is the way we view the events...try to change your views..

[yaser]

To be unloved.Gentleman, gentlemen are loved naturally....why do you worry..?You are are real gentleman...

[yaser]

Thank you kind Sir.. but I wonder what that brought that on....The historical survey of the posts you have sent...

[SirFox]

The historical survey of the posts you have sent...

Thank you, Sir.
I will be going to Istanbul in the Spring. Anyway we can meet somwhere?

[yaser]

Thank you, Sir.
I will be going to Istanbul in the Spring. Anyway we can meet somwhere?Possible,FFox..You are always welcome...

[Annie]

Getting sick in Tulsa.

[Jy]

Yikes! I think I'll add that to my list as well Annie...

[Norfolkdave]

Well now Im coming up for 60, man thats frightening
Dying from a heart attack or stroke
Losing my wife

[Trev]

Losing either of my kids.

[Gman992]

Fear of being alone and unloved.

[sex_kitten_4u]

I fear I am going insane....grrrrr I knew I did not want to move again....what crap you build in a 10 year period....and most of it is SHIT!!!! going in the trash!!!!! What ever made me think I was ever going to fit into them pants again????? My mind it is going....or is it already gone???????


kissie hun i thought you had whent insane years ago lol see your mind has gone :lmao :na

[Zpanther]

Hope I don't live too long. Don't want to end up in a rest home, not knowing my own family and depending on someone else to feed and clean me.

[Zifnab]

I am constantly afraid I am going to wake up and some one will expose my life as fake.

[Sunfiresix]

I am constantly afraid I am going to wake up and some one will expose my life as fake.

Didn't you read the paper this morning, how terrible, you lived all these but yet you didn't.:whee::lmao:lmao

[Zifnab]

Didn't you read the paper this morning, how terrible, you lived all these but yet you didn't.:whee::lmao:lmao
I knew IT. I feel like theTrumanh show man!

[Sunfiresix]

My greatest fear, being left all alone in life.

[Zifnab]

My greatest fear, being left all alone in life.
Oh sure, bring a rational fear into my dysfuctional phobias.

[Sunfiresix]

I would much rather have a few of the dysfunctional fears then one of the real ones, I do fear WB finding me in these trees.

[Zifnab]

I would much rather have a few of the dysfunctional fears then one of the real ones, I do fear WB finding me in these trees.
Kind of an easy target for sure.
I wish you luck geting unstuck!

[G...G]

Losing one of my children. I have recently lost my son's girlfriend and she lived with us pretty much and that was as close as I EVER want to come to losing a child. She was as close to me as my children and I still have hard times with it and I have a FEAR of it happening again.

[tiger50]

I would much rather have a few of the dysfunctional fears then one of the real ones, I do fear WB finding me in these trees.

dont worry mate i'll send tha roo ta ptotect ya... :D

[Norfolkdave]

Now the thing I fear the most and dont laugh, is chris going in hospital, and me coming home alone in the car, I hate being alone, I fear that more than anything as we have never been apart. Silly perhaps as seen by some, but this Im not looking forward to at all.

[tiger50]

Now the thing I fear the most and dont laugh, is chris going in hospital, and me coming home alone in the car, I hate being alone, I fear that more than anything as we have never been apart. Silly perhaps as seen by some, but this Im not looking forward to at all.

hey mate u mite be physically alone, but never spiritually... come here we are all ur family.... :wa:

[Norfolkdave]

hey mate u mite be physically alone, but never spiritually... come here we are all ur family.... :wa:

But this day will be so empty, I will have the lights on and the TV Im being daft I know, and I know chris will be ok, but the thought of opening the front door alone and shutting it for 8 hours will be the most horrendous thing I will ever do. I know Bonnie is here and she,ll protect me, but its not the same as cuddling the one you love and then waking up to her next morning, but thats me soft old dave really, and yes I admitt frightened of the dark, always have been, a big old wimp really.............................:wa:

[tiger50]

But this day will be so empty, I will have the lights on and the TV Im being daft I know, and I know chris will be ok, but the thought of opening the front door alone and shutting it for 8 hours will be the most horrendous thing I will ever do. I know Bonnie is here and she,ll protect me, but its not the same as cuddling the one you love and then waking up to her next morning, but thats me soft old dave really, and yes I admitt frightened of the dark, always have been, a big old wimp really.............................:wa:

chin up mate, lets see some british bulldog spirit...... :D

[Norfolkdave]

chin up mate, lets see some british bulldog spirit...... :D

I,ll be ok its just that I cant visalise chris lying in that hospital thats all, its only 25 miles away but in Norfolk thats a long distance when you dont feel to good yourself, I,ll be ok soon and back to my ways. Take no notice Im being silly.:wa:

[tiger50]

I,ll be ok its just that I cant visalise chris lying in that hospital thats all, its only 25 miles away but in Norfolk thats a long distance when you dont feel to good yourself, I,ll be ok soon and back to my ways. Take no notice Im being silly.:wa:

yeh mate you'll be ok else i come an kik ur arse.... :55

[Jy]

count me in too Tiger.
Dave, you can do this. You're stronger than you think. And you have all of us here to help you. We're always here, night and day, whatever you need. You're never alone honey. *hug*

[Norfolkdave]

count me in too Tiger.
Dave, you can do this. You're stronger than you think. And you have all of us here to help you. We're always here, night and day, whatever you need. You're never alone honey. *hug*

Just being silly really, I do have I know lots of friends on here and I do so appreciate this, if I could personally come and say hi to each and everyone of you I would, but sadly I cant, Ican though contact you all by the computer and that is equally so important to me, thankyou so so much you are all angels.:knuddel:

[Norfolkdave]

yeh mate you'll be ok else i come an kik ur arse.... :55

Left or right footed:D pointed toes shoes or flat foot

[yaser]

Now the thing I fear the most and dont laugh, is chris going in hospital, and me coming home alone in the car, I hate being alone, I fear that more than anything as we have never been apart. Silly perhaps as seen by some, but this Im not looking forward to at all.You are truely right when you feel the way feel...My friend.I share your pains and fear...Dear Dave, we cannot choose any event that happens to us but as Epictetus said we can choose our responses to it.

[Norfolkdave]

You are truely right when you feel the way feel...My friend.I share your pains and fear...Dear Dave, we cannot choose any event that happens to us but as Epictetus said we can choose our responses to it.

Yes my friend you are so right, Im being silly its just we have never been apart and me at 60 frightened of the loneliness that we will shall. I know that when chris comes home I will have to do it all, i wont be able to so we will have to get home help, thats service available here in the uk. Bit I will do my best. The bit Im finding so hard and this is truthfall is the time she has her premed in the morning to when she is wheeled down to the operating room and out of my reach for an hour or so, that is killing me its the bit Im dreading, and I havent friends to come with me no one, it is this bit that will destroy me. I am having trouble getting to grips with this. After the operation I hope she comes round, to lose her would destroy me. Then when I come home after visiting hours have finished is equally going to be so lonely, both mc and sandy have told me how to cope as to has Jazzy, but I will still be alone and although chris will be in a good place, I will frett, but when she comes home i will feel so good I will do as much for her as I can, bit its the early stages on Monday 13th March that Im going to find so hard to cope.

[yaser]

Yes my friend you are so right, Im being silly its just we have never been apart and me at 60 frightened of the loneliness that we will shall. I know that when chris comes home I will have to do it all, i wont be able to so we will have to get home help, thats service available here in the uk. Bit I will do my best. The bit Im finding so hard and this is truthfall is the time she has her premed in the morning to when she is wheeled down to the operating room and out of my reach for an hour or so, that is killing me its the bit Im dreading, and I havent friends to come with me no one, it is this bit that will destroy me. I am having trouble getting to grips with this. After the operation I hope she comes round, to lose her would destroy me. Then when I come home after visiting hours have finished is equally going to be so lonely, both mc and sandy have told me how to cope as to has Jazzy, but I will still be alone and although chris will be in a good place, I will frett, but when she comes home i will feel so good I will do as much for her as I can, bit its the early stages on Monday 13th March that Im going to find so hard to cope.
Dave,When Epistetus said you can choose your resposes to an event,he meant that choose responses that will soften your pain and be realistic.I had all sorts of fear 2 years ago...You may feel bad befor the opreation but after the operation you will better for the reality is friendlier than imagination... You will see that you are coping the difficulties but wait and give yourself a chance.Be optimistic.and rely upon the md's..Good luck my Friend....

[spare_change]

Dave,When Epistetus said you can choose your resposes to an event,he meant that choose responses that will soften your pain and be realistic.I had all sorts of fear 2 years ago...You may feel bad befor the opreation but after the operation you will better for the reality is friendlier than imagination... You will see that you are coping the difficulties but wait and give yourself a chance.Be optimistic.and rely upon the md's..Good luck my Friend....


Yasar is right, Dave. You can't control what you can't control. The waiting is always harder than the doing. Your mind paints a thousand scenarios, none of them good. The reality is always less than what you imagine. Deal in the here and now -- you haven't got time to worry about what if this, and what if that. You only have time to deal with what is now. God bless -

[Rainmaker]

That my kids will grow up without their parents -the way i did-or anything dealing with my kids-i want to protect them always.
other than that i can take what is dealt to me in life

[Norfolkdave]

Yasar is right, Dave. You can't control what you can't control. The waiting is always harder than the doing. Your mind paints a thousand scenarios, none of them good. The reality is always less than what you imagine. Deal in the here and now -- you haven't got time to worry about what if this, and what if that. You only have time to deal with what is now. God bless -

Yes I understand where this is coming from, last night OI had a better sleep and this morning I can get my head around it a bit more. By the time the 13th March gets here everything should I hope be able to be easier for us to accept particularly me. Like you say to me I have got to be strong yes I know, but I was a bit down yesterday as chris has never been ill in her life and I admitt how brave she is wanting to go into hospital for this operation, and here I am in my eyes a wimp of a husband, unable to control his feelings and being honest being bloody selfish............Sleep is a wonderful thing and today i feel a bit better and time will help me see this even more.

[MCat]

I,ll be ok its just that I cant visalise chris lying in that hospital thats all, its only 25 miles away but in Norfolk thats a long distance when you dont feel to good yourself, I,ll be ok soon and back to my ways. Take no notice Im being silly.:wa:

Hey Dave...visualize her having a good rest in a warm bed, having lots of people wait on her hand and foot and she can probably have tea whenever she wants.

Buy her a new nightgown, a bottle of her favorite lotion and a red rose - which by the way means I Love You.

Hug her for us and give yourself a feel too. ;)

[MCat]

Hope I don't live too long. Don't want to end up in a rest home, not knowing my own family and depending on someone else to feed and clean me.

I hear they're opening a Married and Flirting Rest Home in the Crazy Mountains, might not be too bad.

[Norfolkdave]

Hey Dave...visualize her having a good rest in a warm bed, having lots of people wait on her hand and foot and she can probably have tea whenever she wants.

Buy her a new nightgown, a bottle of her favorite lotion and a red rose - which by the way means I Love You.

Hug her for us and give yourself a feel too. ;)

I will be taking her out Tuesday to buy her a new nightdress and lotion, and I have brought a dozen red roses to be delivered this afternoon at 5pm, as I think she is ever so brave. I had time to sleep on it and to get my head round things, I will be alright now i know i have you all here behind me with loving words and thoughts and that means so much to me it is helping me so much thankyou.:knuddel:

[Norfolkdave]

I hear they're opening a Married and Flirting Rest Home in the Crazy Mountains, might not be too bad.

to the home Im coming ...LOl to antaganize my friends:D

[SirFox]

I hear they're opening a Married and Flirting Rest Home in the Crazy Mountains, might not be too bad.

MCAT: That makes me think that some of us were thinking in doing a rendez-vous, meeting up somewhere.....

There are a lot of castles in Scotland....where David can be hosting us. And I could offer my servcies as well in a nice castle here (some built by the English in the 1200s and now rebuilt by them as well...in 2006)....

That is called returning to one's roots.

Any comments?

[littleknightvision86]

I fear spiders and death. I am terrified of dying, but I am more terrified of dying from a spider bite!!

[Sandy]

being alone

[G...G]

I fear spiders and death. I am terrified of dying, but I am more terrified of dying from a spider bite!!

EWWWWWW I hate spiders too!!!

[Trev]

being alone

you hear little voices when your alone?:D

[Sandy]

no of being left all alone.

[cuddles]

me i fear of the unknown being along and never getting to experiening what life has to offer for being to scared of meeting new people afraid of getting hurt:(

[Dre]

Now I don't think you have to worry of being alone, your too sweet, and about being to afraid to meet new people you are here so I think you have taken steps! I know I enjoy your company! You are fun to be around!:55 :55 :55 :55 :55 :55 :55



me i fear of the unknown being along and never getting to experiening what life has to offer for being to scared of meeting new people afraid of getting hurt:(

[cuddles]

drake i understand what your saying but your there somewhere and im here i can type but i have trouble meeting people in person

[Sandy]

we all do girlfriend, but you know what i found that works ? just say hi how are u doing ?:wa:

[cuddles]

sandy i do try but i start to panic

[Dre]

I understand where you are coming from too, I have had trouble meeting people to go do stuff with but I have gained a lot of confidence being here on this website and talking to other women to the point I am not afraid to approach or talk to other women now, I guess what I am saying I am here for you and would love to help build your confidence in yourself its amazing what a friend can do for someone even if it is only typing back and forth to each other.



drake i understand what your saying but your there somewhere and im here i can type but i have trouble meeting people in person

[Dre]

:55 Boy, I know if I had another women come up to me and give me that line I think I would melt, you would be amazed at how something so simple like how are you doing gets a guy interested!



we all do girlfriend, but you know what i found that works ? just say hi how are u doing ?:wa:

[cuddles]

thank you drake cause im gonna need all the help i can get because im tired of being alone

[Dre]

I am there for you babe! Email me anytime I would love to chat with you ! Anything I can do to help!:55



thank you drake cause im gonna need all the help i can get because im tired of being alone

[sweet]

its amazing what a friend can do for someone even if it is only typing back and forth to each other.

This is very true. It is truly amazing how much you can help someone even though you can't be physically there. I'm a witness to that.

[woody9340]

drowning or burning to death---the two worst ways to go. Although i also agree with MCat too.

[Sandy]

hey girl we're all here for you, just hollar, we'll come running. :wa:

[Dre]

When I joined this site I was at my wits end with my wife and really needed a friend, I just happen to run into Firefly and kind of latched onto her, she got my self esteem back and I have started to live life for me and I have been so much happier! Now I have gotten to know a lot of other women on this site and have found I love to flirt with beautiful women who love to be flirted with! You better watch out sweetone214 I may just start flirting with you if you dont mind?:sc



This is very true. It is truly amazing how much you can help someone even though you can't be physically there. I'm a witness to that.

[sweet]

When I joined this site I was at my wits end with my wife and really needed a friend, I just happen to run into Firefly and kind of latched onto her, she got my self esteem back and I have started to live life for me and I have been so much happier! Now I have gotten to know a lot of other women on this site and have found I love to flirt with beautiful women who love to be flirted with! You better watch out sweetone214 I may just start flirting with you if you dont mind?:sc

I wouldn't mind at all hun. It's always nice to have someone to talk with. :)

[Sunfiresix]

I guess I fear having heart problems, although they took care of all that with the quad bypass surgery almost three years ago, still scares me.

[Sandy]

your doing good sun, remember that ok.

[G...G]

Aww, you take care of yourself!! My dad had a quadrouple(sp) bipass last year and he is doing better now than I can ever remember!!! Take care of yourself!!

[Dre]

Good I would love to have another beautiful woman to talk to !! You can never have too many friends you know!:55



I wouldn't mind at all hun. It's always nice to have someone to talk with. :)

[G...G]

Good I would love to have another beautiful woman to talk to !! You can never have too many friends you know!:55

umm another hottie!!

[Dre]

Thanks sweetie! You arent too bad yourself! I love being able to flirt with you its an honor!!!:55 :55 :55 :55



umm another hottie!!

[Sunfiresix]

Thanks guys--I am actuallt lots better than ever, and all you make me even better--Thanks

[G...G]

Thanks sweetie! You arent too bad yourself! I love being able to flirt with you its an honor!!!:55 :55 :55 :55

AWW you got me all warm and fuzzy again!!:knuddel:

[Dre]

Boy, I must be doing something right if I can get such a sexy women like yourself all warm and fuzzy!!



AWW you got me all warm and fuzzy again!!:knuddel:

[G...G]

I fear some sexy man from Indiana coming to Georgia and stealing me away from my hubby

[Newenglandman]

I have to agree with Georgia, the loss of a child... Parents are not supposed to outlive their kids...... *sigh*

[Zifnab]

I watched The Replacements again, and have to agree with the one they discuss, quicksand. GReat explanation, and a prety darn good movie too!

[Dre]

Now, you shouldnt be afraid of that, the only thing to be afraid of a guy from Indiana is if he came and took you and took you back to Indiana during the winter. But it would give him a chance to cuddle with you since it would be freezing outside?:knuddel:



I fear some sexy man from Indiana coming to Georgia and stealing me away from my hubby

[Zifnab]

:lmao:lmao It's the same show on every channel!!!I saw this on twilight zone!!!:na

[G...G]

I have to agree with Georgia, the loss of a child... Parents are not supposed to outlive their kids...... *sigh*

That is one thing I honestly don't want to live through... I lost a baby that was like a daughter to me in October in a car wreck and it was pure HELL.... thats as close as losing a child I ever want to come too.

[KissThis]

tell us your fears.

mine..

im afraid of careing for someone and them not feeling the same as i do
or...rejection i guess you could call it.

[Thighmaster]

Fear of being alone...

Not alone for a few hours or days mind you... I can handle that

Alone in life.

[Barkiss]

Spiders - I'm scream like a little girl when one gets on me.

[Barkiss]

oh yeah...and heights....deathly afraid of heights...

[dartgirl]

Mice!!!!!!

[cherokeered]

failure...hurting/or disappointing someone...I will obsess over it forever...

[Annie]

I am afraid of failing at being a good parent.

[KissThis]

snakes

[remman308]

snakes

me too.............hate em!!!!!!!!!!

[Wet Beaver]

men who drink to much.....

[Thighmaster]

Hornets and Wasps... Hate em. I try to convince myself though that my fear is irrational since I'm not actually allergic to them...

[Wet Beaver]

men who drink to much.....

of course some dykes can do also.....burrrrrrr

[Sandy]

my child dying before me.

[Dmy]

Im afraid of seeing my kids get into this world when they graduate...tougher then when we where there by far I think!:sc

[tess]

failure...hurting/or disappointing someone...I will obsess over it forever...
I can relate, as a matter of fact, I am a borderline "people pleaser".

[tess]

What am I afraid of? I am deathly afraid of spiders and snakes! Hey, wasn't there an old song that went kinda like that? "I don't like spiders and snakes, but that ain't what it takes to love me".......

[Cotties]

I'm afraid of young women

[cherokeered]

making mistakes and living with too many regrets....

[GeekMaster]

Living with too FEW regrets!!!

[tiger50]

Living with too FEW regrets!!!

gday geek.... good call..... :D

[Zpanther]

Beavers!

:satan:

[kissiemybuttie]

I am scared of rejection!!!!

[yaser]

I am scared of rejection!!!!Who can reject you?

[kissiemybuttie]

Who can reject you?



Many Dear many!!!!

[yaser]

Being blamed...feeling guilty..giving harm to the loved ones..

[kissiemybuttie]

Being blamed...feeling guilty..giving harm to the loved ones..



Oh Yasar...you seem so gentle...I cant see you harming anyone!!!! :kk

[yaser]

Many Dear many!!!!Or you believe that you are rejected..

[KissThis]

having feelings for someone but never being able to have a life together.

[Norfolkdave]

Death, Im really frigtened of dying and looking ahead in my life I suppose with luch I have 15 years, jesus yes Im frigtened of growing old and dying of a heart attack when I see so many of you in your 30s and 40s, and I think what I was doing then, yes I,ll be perfectly honest Im scared.

[KissThis]

Death, Im really frigtened of dying and looking ahead in my life I suppose with luch I have 15 years, jesus yes Im frigtened of growing old and dying of a heart attack when I see so many of you in your 30s and 40s, and I think what I was doing then, yes I,ll be perfectly honest Im scared.

i think most of us are scared of death, or anything that is of the unknown. I think my my sister in laws recent death.. and actually she has nothing to fear anymore. Its life that we have to fear hon... not death. Some religions celebrate death as going to a better place , and sadly to say i think they have the right idea. I know i would not want to have immortality and watch everyone i love go before me and then still be here.

[Barkiss]

Death, Im really frigtened of dying and looking ahead in my life I suppose with luch I have 15 years, jesus yes Im frigtened of growing old and dying of a heart attack when I see so many of you in your 30s and 40s, and I think what I was doing then, yes I,ll be perfectly honest Im scared.

Ah hell Dave...you got a good 30 years ahead of you!

[Norfolkdave]

Ah hell Dave...you got a good 30 years ahead of you!

Man I like to think that, but in reality my dear friend not to be ....75 in england, longer and your on a bonis and despite my bantering on here, frankly Im shit scared, this I really am frightened. I dont envy the living or will you, Id llike to see the 22nd century, and see how we fought global terrorism, how the world grew, to see my friends children have children of theur own, but it wont happen and I feel sad, I cant explain how I feel except yes Barkiss, I may be older than you, perhjaps wiser, I dont know, but man I am I admitt so scared:wa:

[Barkiss]

Man I like to think that, but in reality my dear friend not to be ....75 in england, longer and your on a bonis and despite my bantering on here, frankly Im shit scared, this I really am frightened. I dont envy the living or will you, Id llike to see the 22nd century, and see how we fought global terrorism, how the world grew, to see my friends children have children of theur own, but it wont happen and I feel sad, I cant explain how I feel except yes Barkiss, I may be older than you, perhjaps wiser, I dont know, but man I am I admitt so scared:wa:

Dave, I don't want to get philosophical on you or god forbid - no pun intended-...religious (although I could ramble there), but you and Chris have been through some challenging times recently. I would love to see you relish your new found time together and enjoy whatever time you have left. You are an amazingly caring man, and something in me says the world still has a lot it needs from you. Chin up!!! :)

[Norfolkdave]

Dave, I don't want to get philosophical on you or god forbid - no pun intended-...religious (although I could ramble there), but you and Chris have been through some challenging times recently. I would love to see you relish your new found time together and enjoy whatever time you have left. You are an amazingly caring man, and something in me says the world still has a lot it needs from you. Chin up!!! :)

Hey you have my bottom lip trembling, thankyou for your kind caring words,, for once you got me stumped in words, you are a true caring friend, and heres me saying chin up to you to in anither thread. THANKYOU MY FRIEND THANKYOU:wa:

[KissThis]

Storms..
was in a tornado once and dont care to experience it or anything like it ever again.

[cherokeered]

Missing out on something good because I was too afraid to say yes......

[Wet Beaver]

Storms..
was in a tornado once and dont care to experience it or anything like it ever again.

what would be worst, a tornado or a earthquake?? at least with a tornado...you have some idea when and if it is comeing....

[tiger50]

Missing out on something good because I was too afraid to say yes......

cherokee afraid???

me??, well , of makin bad decisions, cos i used the heart an not the head...

[gnikeht]

Been there...

Missing out on something good because I was too afraid to say yes......

[gnikeht]

I'm afraid of myself....;-)

[Wet Beaver]

I'm afraid of myself....;-)

then stay away from the mirrors

[KissThis]

what would be worst, a tornado or a earthquake?? at least with a tornado...you have some idea when and if it is comeing....

well if i had to choose i would choose the tornado... but dislike storms in general... any of um...i used to love and watch it storm but the tornado thing cured me a that.

[kissiemybuttie]

it will take the Red Sox another 86 years to win another world series!!!!!

[Cotties]

I'm afraid of people who believe in aliens

[bonzzz4292]

Dave, I don't want to get philosophical on you or god forbid - no pun intended-...religious (although I could ramble there), but you and Chris have been through some challenging times recently. I would love to see you relish your new found time together and enjoy whatever time you have left. You are an amazingly caring man, and something in me says the world still has a lot it needs from you. Chin up!!! :)

i agree with you barkiss. Dave and Chris do have a lot to give he restof us youngsters...lol i am glad that i have gotten to know Dave. he is a good person.

[Annie]

Storms..
was in a tornado once and dont care to experience it or anything like it ever again.

Wow, me too! Oak Lawn, IL on April 21, 1967. It took out about half our downtown area, and the local high school. We watched it roar down our ally... quite a site actually!

[Annie]

I'm afraid of people who believe in aliens

What the matter sweetie... are you afraid they might hurt you? Just don't tell them what planet you're from and everything will be fine!

[KissThis]

of never being totally happy

[yaser]

having feelings for someone but never being able to have a life together.I hope you don't have that kind of someone now..

[KissThis]

I hope you don't have that kind of someone now..

its a great possibility...:(

[G...G]

I'm afraid of spiders

[sweetgapeach]

people

[yaser]

I have a sever social phobia...

[G...G]

My dad having surgery on the 13th terrifies me!!!!

[Traxster]

losing friends I care about!!!

[G...G]

I'm not going anywhere!!!! LOL:kk



losing friends I care about!!!

[Norfolkdave]

I'm afraid of spiders

Do you know someone bet me £50 to put my hand in spiders, Im not overly struck on them myself but my pocket wanted to hold on to my money so in i went, bloody hell girl that I think was one of the most frightening things I have ever done, fear is a terrible hurdle to get over.:wa:

[cherokeered]

failure

[sweetgapeach]

Losing the people I love !

[G...G]

Me too!! :(



Losing the people I love !

[jmc3367]

me too




failure

[jmc3367]

your never going to lose the one's that truly love you




Me too!! :(

[sweetgapeach]

And to be completely honest , I am afraid that at night when I go to bed a hand will come out and grab my ankle , so I run and jump into my bed

[G...G]

It could possibly happen!!

You never know!!!


your never going to lose the one's that truly love you

[jmc3367]

you could be right....you have to love them back for them to stay




It could possibly happen!!

You never know!!!

[G...G]

What if you love them too much and run them off?



you could be right....you have to love them back for them to stay

[robandready]

The scariest thing to me is alzheimers...the idea of not being able to recognize the ones I love...

[jmc3367]

then they didn't love you to begin with. reminds me of the poem IF you love something set it free




What if you love them too much and run them off?

[G...G]

And if it returns it was yours.. or something like that?



then they didn't love you to begin with. reminds me of the poem IF you love something set it free

[jmc3367]

something like that




And if it returns it was yours.. or something like that?

[G...G]

Do you think thats true?



something like that

[cherokeered]

I hear ya hun...my mother in law died from that...my sister in law lost both her parents to it...so sad...such a terrible disease...



The scariest thing to me is alzheimers...the idea of not being able to recognize the ones I love...

[jmc3367]

kind of a scary thought huh




Do you think thats true?

[cherokeered]

aww hun...ya can never lose a true friend....




losing friends I care about!!!

[G...G]

Depends on how you look at it, I guess



kind of a scary thought huh

[Annie]

Finding another piranah in the river...

[sweetgapeach]

The scariest thing to me is alzheimers...the idea of not being able to recognize the ones I love...


My Grandma had that , thats a awful , awful thing to go through

[Cotties]

I'm scared of myself...with good reason

[G...G]

I don't blame you there buddie!! :D



I'm scared of myself...with good reason

[Annie]

I'm scared of myself...with good reason

Oh sweetie, I'm with ya on that one! I know what it's like to be your own worst enemy!

[yaser]

Oh sweetie, I'm with ya on that one! I know what it's like to be your own worst enemy!The real problem is are you the enemy of that very nice girl?Try to look at her with my eyes too..Feelings will change...

[yaser]

I'm scared of myself...with good reasonMay I know the good reason,Cotties?

[yaser]

Finding another piranah in the river...Got rid of the first one?

[Cotties]

I get myself into trouble more often then not..May I know the good reason,Cotties?

[yaser]

I get myself into trouble more often then not..Don't obey the orders come from your groin...You wil be less problematic..

[Traxster]

Waking up one morning...and finding out what i thought was real wasn't!!!!

[Misty]

At the risk of sounding idiotic amidst all this deep talk

I am shit scared of RATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[yaser]

At the risk of sounding idiotic amidst all this deep talk

I am shit scared of RATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!We only see the indications of your intelligence and intiuition..Don't worry..

[Cotties]

what do you think of mickey mouse?At the risk of sounding idiotic amidst all this deep talk

I am shit scared of RATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Misty]

what do you think of mickey mouse?

hehehehe plz don't crucify me but he is still an over sized, over dressed rodent !!!!

[Trev]

Not knowing the truth.

[Norfolkdave]

Im afraid of dying..shit scared I am

[hoss]

momma and that frying pan shes got...

oh........also spiders

[Sandy]

well if you were good, you wouldn't have to be afraid of that frying pan. :D :na














momma and that frying pan shes got...

oh........also spiders

[hoss]

well if you were good, you wouldn't have to be afraid of that frying pan. :D :na

ya then what fun would i be...and since ya like sticking your tongue out,how about i put something on it :lmao :lmao

[Sandy]

mark beat you to it. :lmao :na













ya then what fun would i be...and since ya like sticking your tongue out,how about i put something on it :lmao :lmao

[hoss]

mark beat you to it. :lmao :na

dang dang dang...well theres always later huh

[Sandy]

not tonite, he says its booked up. :lmao :na












dang dang dang...well theres always later huh

[hoss]

not tonite, he says its booked up. :lmao :na

o k...well u know me , always ready...just let me know when a spot opens up..

[kissiemybuttie]

the hangover in the morning!!!!!!!!

[Norfolkdave]

momma and that frying pan shes got...

oh........also spiders

Spider man too, LOL:lmao

[G...G]

I'm afraid of not being able to get what I want out of life...

SCARES the hell out of me!!

[pixiegirl]

My children getting hurt one day and my kisses not helping.


Anything else pales in comparison.

[hoss]

My children getting hurt one day and my kisses not helping.


Anything else pales in comparison.

never happen babe...your love will always help them...just by being there helps..

[pixiegirl]

:kk


never happen babe...your love will always help them...just by being there helps..

[jmc3367]

being alone is something that scares me.

[sweet]

Missing out on some of the best oppertunities life has to offer for me.

[jmc3367]

actually I should say being lonely scares me not being alone



being alone is something that scares me.

[Sandy]

hon you can be in a room full of people and be lonely.

[G...G]

What's the difference in being lonely and being alone? Either way you feel alone!! Right?

actually I should say being lonely scares me not being alone

[jmc3367]

I think they are very different. being lonely is a state of mind. being alone just means there is no one around. I am alone all the time but never felt lonely until recently. there is a difference at least to me



What's the difference in being lonely and being alone? Either way you feel alone!! Right?

[sweet]

I think they are very different. being lonely is a state of mind. being alone just means there is no one around. I am alone all the time but never felt lonely until recently. there is a difference at least to me

I totally understand what you're trying to say :)

[upstr84u]

I am afraid i won't get my hat back off of sweet

[G...G]

That makes sense!! I have to agree with you!! :knuddel:



I think they are very different. being lonely is a state of mind. being alone just means there is no one around. I am alone all the time but never felt lonely until recently. there is a difference at least to me

[Barkiss]

I think they are very different. being lonely is a state of mind. being alone just means there is no one around. I am alone all the time but never felt lonely until recently. there is a difference at least to me

Man...I can so relate. I don't mind being alone, matter of fact, I prefer it a lot of the times; however, I hate feeling so lonely.

[G...G]

I'm afraid of losing something very special to me!!!

[yaser]

I'm afraid of losing something very special to me!!!You are right you lost one before.. and you will be afraid of it will be repeated..

[G...G]

You're right yasar!!!! Maybe with time I will feel better about myself and others!!



You are right you lost one before.. and you will be afraid of it will be repeated..

[yaser]

You're right yasar!!!! Maybe with time I will feel better about myself and others!!Yes,darling time is a nice drug for deep wounds..But if you need to talk you know where I am..Very close to you..