How Do I Get My Husband To Notice Me?

[MAMA ANGEL]

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS HE HAS BEEN IN AND OUT OF LEGAL TROUBLE BUT ALL I WANT HIM TO DO IS SHOW ME THAT HE LOVES ME STILL ANY IDEAS ON HOW TO DO THIS WITHOUT PUSHING HIM AWAY MORE?:knuddel:

[Thighmaster]

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS HE HAS BEEN IN AND OUT OF LEGAL TROUBLE BUT ALL I WANT HIM TO DO IS SHOW ME THAT HE LOVES ME STILL ANY IDEAS ON HOW TO DO THIS WITHOUT PUSHING HIM AWAY MORE?:knuddel:

Hello Mama and welcome

As someone who has gone through problems like this in the past, the best advice I can offer is to back off... no matter how hard it is. You can't make someone notice you, unfortunately. But if you are trying to 'carry' the relationship then he is going to keep allowing you to until he sees a reason to change.

[DrippingIndiscretion]

I agree with your advice, Thigh. My ex was more than happy to let me carry the sole burden of maintaining our relationship and it got to be too much. I felt used, neglected and taken for granted. I ended up leaving him after I realized that he was never going to change. Why would he when I allowed him to treat me like a doormat? Hold your head up, sweetness, and let him come to his senses on his own. Don't beat yourself up by thinking it's something you've done wrong. I wish you the very best.

[cherokeered]

Honey..


He will notice you when you stop noticing him...

Cherokee...;)

[Penny]

Aint that the truth ;)



Honey..


He will notice you when you stop noticing him...

Cherokee...;)

[kissiemybuttie]

Honey..


He will notice you when you stop noticing him...

Cherokee...;)



So well said....


Good luck Angel!!!!!

[Wet Beaver]

Honey..


He will notice you when you stop noticing him...

Cherokee...;)

and if that don't work....use a frying pan.......

[MAMA ANGEL]

Tha t maybe the only thing that will work :wa: Thannks!!!and if that don't work....use a frying pan.......

[MAMA ANGEL]

Thank you all for the advice. I will take it all into consideration.!!!:wa:

[Scorpion7]

Try a really short skirt with no panties, or a see through blouse with no bra. Let YOUR needs really surface, but don't ignor him, now is not the time for coy games. If he has law trouble, there's a lot on his mind, give him something else to set his mind to. Blow him in the middle of the night and don't say a word. Don't worry, he will ask you about it.
Listen, as a man I can tell you this; most of the time we really don't like to work that hard in order to get laid. I'm not saying its right, fare, it's just the truth. If your in a dry spell, capping the well doesn't sound like a cure.

[MAMA ANGEL]

Thanks for the input. dont know if it will work but i shall try!!

[SirFox]

MAMA ANGEL,
You may be trying too hard. There are many women in a relationship, marriage or not, who try for all the good and the bad reasons in the world to be loved by their mate.

It is the biggest mistake made by many ladies because it turns the man off. What do we tend to say? Oh, she's being emotional again....or she wants me top perform. Whatever we say, these ladies turn us OFF.

In order to get him to notice you...you have to play hide and seek. You stop noticing him. CHEROKEE is correct.

When it becomes apparent that you don't care (You sure do, but you don't show it...) he will come to you.

[MAMA ANGEL]

Good advice. I thoought that would happen when we were seperated though. I beleive he loves me he just cant show it anymore.

[Scorpion7]

Ok, I give up, play games. Just let him know the rules.

[Scorpion7]

Oh.... And in the spirt of this site, if it doesn't work, come to me mama angel, I'll notice you. I'll notice you real goooood. ;)

[MAMA ANGEL]

Thanks there are no rules here except his!!

[KissThis]

Try a really short skirt with no panties, or a see through blouse with no bra. Let YOUR needs really surface, but don't ignor him, now is not the time for coy games. If he has law trouble, there's a lot on his mind, give him something else to set his mind to. Blow him in the middle of the night and don't say a word. Don't worry, he will ask you about it.
Listen, as a man I can tell you this; most of the time we really don't like to work that hard in order to get laid. I'm not saying its right, fare, it's just the truth. If your in a dry spell, capping the well doesn't sound like a cure.

I agree with Scorpion on this one. And i think too many people let the sex get dull in their relationships..

[Sandy]

try relaxing a little bit, when he sees you are he will to, and things will pick back up.

[Scorpion7]

Come on now Mama Angel, now your just being a Defeatist. His rules, your rules, rules of engagement, it's not about rules. Darling Angel, If you keep taking advice too litteral your going to waste it.
I can hear your frustration, I really can, it's packed into the invisible spaces of your replies. I wouldn't be surprise to find out that your about to explode with uncontrollable lust at the slightest touch. Take my advice, deal with the immediate physical need of your sex before it turns into emotional betrayal.

[Scorpion7]

And once again just say the word and were off to Paris for champagne baths, chocolate desires, and NO rules! ;)

[MAMA ANGEL]

Ok but what if its not just sex. We hardly talk or see each other.. He is on house arrest do I have to get whatever he needs without apperiation. It s just not how I pictured marraige. Thanks for the advice again!!

[Scorpion7]

I never met anyone who pictured marriage before they were married and got it right, it, like so many other things, have to be experienced, have to be survived.
Darling, there's more here than I can speak to. All I can say is that he has obviously he failed you in some way, I guess your serving his punishment as well, and of course that isn't fare. But a lot of things arnt and wont be fare. You just have to choose where to draw the line.

[Scorpion7]

Darling I have to go, but if you need to talk, I'll listen.

[MAMA ANGEL]

I have survived it for two years I can survive it for more unless something else happens (like him goin to jail). Dont know how to have a marriage in jail. Thanks for listening!!

[SirFox]

And once again just say the word and were off to Paris for champagne baths, chocolate desires, and NO rules! ;)

Excuse ME, SCORPION-7: Contrary to what you might believe, there are RULES in this country especially in the art of love, flirting and even in something that is hated, work.

You want a Champagne bath? First find the bath, and we will see about the champagne at 75 bucks a bottle. Chocolate desires, please see Switzerland for those as they do not exist in this country.

RULES are made to be broken.... :D

[Cotties]

Hi scorpian...good to meet you

You seem like a nice guy scorpian but I can't stop laughing....at a guess you have a few issues being covered up with sex or trying to cover up with sex..

Moma ....wether I like it or not beavers advise is probably the simplest and best...

Let him now how you feel....... and if he won't listen ..make him
Come on now Mama Angel, now your just being a Defeatist. His rules, your rules, rules of engagement, it's not about rules. Darling Angel, If you keep taking advice too litteral your going to waste it.
I can hear your frustration, I really can, it's packed into the invisible spaces of your replies. I wouldn't be surprise to find out that your about to explode with uncontrollable lust at the slightest touch. Take my advice, deal with the immediate physical need of your sex before it turns into emotional betrayal.

[yaser]

Tha t maybe the only thing that will work :wa: Thannks!!!The earlier the better,Angel..I have waited for my happiness for 31 years...Please don't wait...If you are not happy,get hell of of it...How many lives will you live?

[Misty]

Angel:wa:

I know it sounds cold but my advice is DUMP him. I mean it ....we hang on to illusions of love.....past and passionate. When truly there is only one version of love and thats caring about each other and belive me it does not happen in phases. One cares when one is down and out and when one's flying high. so if you are feeling it and he aint....its time to move on
:kk

[tiger50]

I have survived it for two years I can survive it for more unless something else happens (like him goin to jail). Dont know how to have a marriage in jail. Thanks for listening!!

shitt hope it never comes to that babe... :kk

[Scorpion7]

Fine Fox, A whirl wind tour of Europe it is, hell why stop there? Lets ravish the world of all it has to offer!

[Scorpion7]

And to you Mama Angel, I'm very sure you have herd all the advice a lovely young girl could possible hear. I wish you better days, and that offer of going to Paris still stands, except Foxy will be going as weill :)

[SirFox]

And to you Mama Angel, I'm very sure you have herd all the advice a lovely young girl could possible hear. I wish you better days, and that offer of going to Paris still stands, except Foxy will be going as weill :)

SCOPION7: I will become a gentleman and leave you with Mama Angel. I think that you can aimably take care of each without my "butting in"? :55

[Scorpion7]

Pish-Posh Fox, You got something to say, say it, were all here to share and help, listen and enjoy. And I don’t care if it’s a $100 a bottle, just as long as it gets me into a bath with you :D

[SirFox]

Pish-Posh Fox, You got something to say, say it, were all here to share and help, listen and enjoy. And I don’t care if it’s a $100 a bottle, just as long as it gets me into a bath with you :D

Would I be mistaken in understanding your words?
I believe that you are barking up the wrong tree...with your bath wish.

[Scorpion7]

Just being playfully darling, don't mean to make you nervous.

[SirFox]

Just being playfully darling, don't mean to make you nervous.

FRIEND: I think you got the wrong gender.
Darling is a word I like to hear from a lady, not a guy.

[Wet Beaver]

FRIEND: I think you got the wrong gender.
Darling is a word I like to hear from a lady, not a guy.

fox i think it is time for you to change your avatar......:lmao

[SirFox]

fox i think it is time for you to change your avatar......:lmao

You've got a point there Beautiful California Lady.... :D

[Scorpion7]

OK, now that's just funny!

[Scorpion7]

ehem.....how bout them bear?

[Wet Beaver]

ehem.....how bout them bear?

what bear??

[Annie]

Greet him at the door wearing nothing but half a roll of Saran Wrap and a pair of red spiked heels. I guarantee you, he will notice you!

[MAMA ANGEL]

He may notice me then!!But still not very interested in me afterwards.:wa: Greet him at the door wearing nothing but half a roll of Saran Wrap and a pair of red spiked heels. I guarantee you, he will notice you!

[ksfirefighter]

He may notice me then!!But still not very interested in me afterwards.:wa:

if that doesnt get his attention and whip him into a frenzy. Go to the store grab the largest aluminum bat and give him a couple wacks with it.:nu Should knock whatever is loose back where it should be!!! If that doesnt work hmmm let me think on that for a little while:sc

[MAMA ANGEL]

Thanks for the tip.I may try it !!!

[allstate]

hello!

[kissiemybuttie]

hello!






Hello...and welcome!!!

[allstate]

Are you all over him all the time?

[MAMA ANGEL]

What do you mean?:wa: Are you all over him all the time?

[allstate]

Do you pay attention to him all the time or give him affection all the time?

[Sandy]

hi allstate welcome to the site, can you post your birth year on your profile please. its mandatory here. so we can make sure no kids are on site. thank you.

[Scorpion7]

Mama Angel!

I was hoping things would change for the better, but from what I can read it doesn't seem so.

Sooooo...Time for drastic measures. Dress really sexy and go to MY room. ;)

And do that every day until he does notice. Don't worry about me, I'm willing to make the sacrafice. Ya it will be draining, but I'll manage...Some how...

No...No..., No need to thank me, I'm a giver. lol

[matt1426]

Mama Angel!

I was hoping things would change for the better, but from what I can read it doesn't seem so.

Sooooo...Time for drastic measures. Dress really sexy and go to MY room. ;)

And do that every day until he does notice. Don't worry about me, I'm willing to make the sacrafice. Ya it will be draining, but I'll manage...Some how...

No...No..., No need to thank me, I'm a giver. lol

way to take one for the team scorpion

[spare_change]

Angel -- I think the comments are interesting. Most of the men are saying "give it to him, be all over him, make him wish he had more" -- the women are saying, "leave the bastard, cut him off, ignore him". Sounds like we are lining up for the civil war.

I have a different thought -- this guy is a selfish, self centered asshole. I am going to let you in on one of the great secrets of life -- guys don't change. They are who they are -- they promise to change, they mean to change, but they don't. It's not going to be any different 3 years, 5 years, 10 years, or 20 years from now. He is who he is -- and is that someone you want to spend the rest of your life with?

Personally, I recommend you kick the shit out of him, tell him that he is damned lucky to have you, and if he doesn't straighten up, he can hit the road. But, other than making you feel better -- it won't do any good. He will still be just exactly who he is today.

Why would you tolerate this guy? You deserve better -- just demand it. You are a functioning human being who deserves to be treated accordingly. Why would you let some asshole define your life?? Dripping is right --- lose the loser.

But, hey, what do I know? I think I'll have another piece of pie.

[Sandy]

very nicely said spare.

[rustynailsvacaville]

well said spare change... men dont change, my wife married me knowing i was cheating on my girlfriend to be with her and was warned by my family and my friends that i never been faithful, so we venture on. but anyway.... my advise is find a guy friend and let him aware your talking to him, getting closer to him, maybe even go out with him and say hes just a friend but dress up and look hot, and see if he get jealous.... men love a chase.. and if it doesnt work then you got your self a new man and you cant lose.....and the confindence of flirting with a new man will make you more attractive to us guys than you can ever imagine

[Scorpion7]

Men change, period.
I say that not as a challenge, but as a fact. Men who don't change are the exception to the rule, not the rule.
Listen, a man may like football all his life, from the time he's born to the day he dies, but that's not proof that men don't change, hell it's not even anecdotal. Take for instance the gentalmen in question, Mama Angel's husban; Let say he doesn't change and keeps on doing what he's been doing and Mama Angel leaves. And for the sake of argument lets he doest it again with next girl. That's still not proof. The truth is we all change, maybe not in the small things like sports, food preference, loves, sex, but just the fact that we get older and we begin to look at things differently means we change, even men.

Angel Mama, the question is not "will he change", he will. The question is, "is he going to change for you or is he going to save that change for the next girl?" You have a right to know the answer to that question. You just have to be brave enough to ask it.

[Norfolkdave]

Put a shot gun up his arse and say " you got anything for me hun"

[MCat]

I think most women think they are going to change a man for the better, make him pick up his clothes, eat healthy, go to church etc....

They aren't going to change anymore than we are. If we don't like who they are, how they live, how they act then we shouldn't be with them and vice versa.

People need to really think before they jump into a relationship/marriage. Do I really wanna look at that face every morning and wash his clothes for the rest of my life?

Mama Angel....you are still young, get out before you waste too many years on this loser. My sister was married for 19 years to an asshole like that, breaking the law, not working, treating her badly... Two kids later and deep in debt, she finally came to her senses and divorced the jerk.

You have the right to be happy and have a loving, responsible partner. Don't waste your young life.

[SirFox]

I think most women.... You have the right to be happy and have a loving, responsible partner. Don't waste your young life.

I particularly like the last part MC!

"You have the right to be happy and have a loving, responsible partner. Don't waste your young life." (quoting MC, otherwise called MaryCat for the 7000 intimates)

[MCat]

I particularly like the last part MC!

"You have the right to be happy and have a loving, responsible partner. Don't waste your young life." (quoting MC, otherwise called MaryCat for the 7000 intimates)

Well, thank you very much Mr. Fox...

The years fly by so fast, I keep wondering where they went. I have been very fortunate to have a loving responsible partner for the last 30 years. The only part I regret is not having gone to college and living on my own for a bit before marriage.

And what are the 7000 intimates you mention?

[SirFox]

Well, thank you very much Mr. Fox...

The years fly by so fast, I keep wondering where they went. I have been very fortunate to have a loving responsible partner for the last 30 years. The only part I regret is not having gone to college and living on my own for a bit before marriage.

And what are the 7000 intimates you mention?

The Married And Flirting Forum! :D

[Sandy]

you know mcat is right, we're getting to that point where our kids are fixing to be gone, our oldest already is, our youngest is about there, marriage is something both partners have towork at. your young angel, get out. you can make it. everybody deserves somebody to love honor and respect them, if you don't have that, you don't have a marriage.

[NativeBride]

Honey..



He will notice you when you stop noticing him...

Cherokee...;)

I agree 100% with what cherokeered said

[SirFox]

You had better be 100% in agreement with Cherokee here! ! ! ! !


NATIVEBRIDE: Welcome to the Site! This site is something very special that grows on you. I hope that you have not been forced by NATIVE BREED to join us. In any case do post and enjoy. :D

[NativeBride]

You had better be 100% in agreement with Cherokee here! ! ! ! !


NATIVEBRIDE: Welcome to the Site! This site is something very special that grows on you. I hope that you have not been forced by NATIVE BREED to join us. In any case do post and enjoy. :D

:kk Thank you Fox for welcoming me. And no, Breed will never force me to do anything, even the things he knows I outta do. He respects peoples choices. And so far I love coming here. Thank you again.

[Norfolkdave]

Hello Nativebride welcome to the site.

[DukesLady66]

It is a known fact that by the time a person hits 30 they are set in their ways. Also another thing my daddy who was a minister taught me...he said "Angie when choosing a husband, pay attention to how he treats his mother. The way he treats her will be the way he'll treat his wife and vice versa" I have found out in my growing yrs that the statement he made is true. If your husband never really showed attention to his mom or respect, he's not going to do it for you.

My 14 yr old son has been raised to be independent but also is a mama's boy. I have to watch him with girls due to he respects them and they take advantage. He had a g/f for 8 months which is rare for a 14 yr old and he treated her like a queen. Even her parents said so. She broke up with him and now regrets it. Whoever he gets for a wife I know he will cherish her. The girls can beat on him and he won't hurt them. They don't understand why, but he tells them he won't hurt them. So bought him boots with pads on the shins lol

I guess my point is if he was a kid running around and never really being home to respect or give his mom attention, he's not going to with you. Move on sweetie and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are and fulfill the needs you have. There is someone out there. Good Luck!

[G...G]

That is the truth!!!!!!!!!!! I SWEAR!!!!!!!!



Honey..


He will notice you when you stop noticing him...

Cherokee...;)

[likesbuttons]

ah, the secret to it all........lol....

[G...G]

I wanted mine to notice me alot more throughout the years and all it took was for ME to stop noticing him!!!! ;)



ah, the secret to it all........lol....

[sweetgapeach]

A 4 barrel shot gun has always worked for me , but if you want to try the ignoring part it works too , just a little slower

[G...G]

Hell I tried the sawed off shot gun once too and it worked pretty damn good!!
Just didn't last long :D


A 4 barrel shot gun has always worked for me , but if you want to try the ignoring part it works too , just a little slower

[sweetgapeach]

Hell I tried the sawed off shot gun once too and it worked pretty damn good!!
Just didn't last long :D



Yeah , just make sure they cant run , thats all :D

[Norfolkdave]

A 4 barrel shot gun has always worked for me , but if you want to try the ignoring part it works too , just a little slower

Hey your not only pretty but dangerous.:lmao

[inquisitive]

can't be of much help, best of luck to you though

[Dir]

Honey..


He will notice you when you stop noticing him...

Cherokee...;):55:55:55

[Sunfiresix]

I do not understand men that aren't attantive of the person they love and are married to, what a waste of their life.

[Dir]

I do not understand men that aren't attantive of the person they love and are married to, what a waste of their life.Yes i may say afraid of being happy real happy do not pretend be ;)

[Jelly]

Tell him your leaving......
THEN he will want to pay attention to you!
Blah

[Jelly]

for a minute

[MIGHTY]

Tie some bbq around your neck and place a six pack of Bud between your legs......if he's the typical man, he'll pay attention real quick like......:D

[pagirl]

When you figure out how to get out of the rut, let me know so I can do the same :(

[stucknmarriage74(f)]

When u figure it out let mwe know...Ive been married 10 years and he hasnt noticed me for the past4-5 years soooooooooooo, anyhow good luck to ya

[pagirl]

When u figure it out let mwe know...Ive been married 10 years and he hasnt noticed me for the past4-5 years soooooooooooo, anyhow good luck to ya

been married for 14 years myself and it still hasn't improved :(

[onceamarine]

This may sound really bad, but the best way to get him to pay attention to you is to be someone else. At least that would work for me with my wife. Hell I spend all year looking forward to Holloween, just so it will seem like I am having sex with someone else.

[OICurready4me]

Tie some bbq around your neck and place a six pack of Bud between your legs......if he's the typical man, he'll pay attention real quick like......:D


I'm not a Bud fan....if you want ME to look at YOU...you'll need a six pack of Sam Adams....;)

[drem]

just remember that no two people are totally alike , thats what brought you together

[chuck909909]

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS HE HAS BEEN IN AND OUT OF LEGAL TROUBLE BUT ALL I WANT HIM TO DO IS SHOW ME THAT HE LOVES ME STILL ANY IDEAS ON HOW TO DO THIS WITHOUT PUSHING HIM AWAY MORE?:knuddel:I say stop helping him out of trouble . that will change his thinking

[Torin]

My advice would be to stop trying. Get out of the house, get a hobby, make new friends, get a makeover... and enjoy your life. Be there when he needs you, but don't devote your life to "saving him"... The only person who can save him is him.

When you devote all your time and energy into saving someone else, you are enabling them... and the behavior continues.

Maybe if you focus more on yourself, and making YOU happy... he will be inspired to be responsible for his own actions.

Just a thought. :hug:

[Asperror]

MAMA ANGEL

There is a big difference between love and sex. I hate to say this but most men don't realize what the difference is between the two. Your probably screaming to be loved and its falling on deaf ears. Go on a trip with some of your girlfriends. Your realationship is convient for him.....

Don't live in a world where you need to be validated as a woman through a man's eyes.

[Jelly]

My advice would be to stop trying. Get out of the house, get a hobby, make new friends, get a makeover... and enjoy your life. Be there when he needs you, but don't devote your life to "saving him"... The only person who can save him is him.

When you devote all your time and energy into saving someone else, you are enabling them... and the behavior continues.

Maybe if you focus more on yourself, and making YOU happy... he will be inspired to be responsible for his own actions.

Just a thought. :hug:


Soooooooo wise!!!
in this process right now....not making a difference with him
but it is with me!!!

[Torin]

Soooooooo wise!!!
in this process right now....not making a difference with him
but it is with me!!!

And thats all that matters hon... in the long run, your happiness is more important than the happiness of those who use you. :hug:

[Sneaky]

And thats all that matters hon... in the long run, your happiness is more important than the happiness of those who use you. :hug:

Jelly's Brandi[/b]]Soooooooo wise!!!
in this process right now....not making a difference with him
but it is with me!!!



Yup. You can't control another person, but you can control yourself and do what you need to in order to live a happy life. The groovy chicks here are so smart!

[ksue7274]

I have to say pay more attn to yourself. I think most men like confidence not a puppy dog.

[Nicodemus2430]

I have to say pay more attn to yourself. I think most men like confidence not a puppy dog.


I wish my wife was confident, but she isn't.....but she doesn't try to be either, and me telling her to be doesn't help either.

[Thumpintwin]

I have to say pay more attn to yourself. I think most men like confidence not a puppy dog.

:smdance:

woooohooooo!!!!! So on target!:kk

I was atracted to my wife because she carried an air of self confidence and determination about her. I didn't realize until a couple of years into the marriage it was an act, and she rolled into this passive agressive person that just couldn't push herself to anything. I made some major mistakes in trying to help her and ended up hurting myself in the long run. You can't change people, and never change yourself unless it's into a person you want to become.

[Lacey]

Have you ever grabbed his crotch and asked if he could hear you now?


It works!!!

[Nicodemus2430]

Have you ever grabbed his crotch and asked if he could hear you now?


It works!!!

HAHAHAHA....that's awesome....I bet it would work

[ebony prince]

Have you ever grabbed his crotch and asked if he could hear you now?


It works!!!

that would work for me!!!

[Thumpintwin]

Have you ever grabbed his crotch and asked if he could hear you now?


It works!!!


LMAO......?When you have them by the balls their hearts and minds will follow"?

[Big O]

Have you ever grabbed his crotch and asked if he could hear you now?


It works!!!

I'm a terrible listener.......;)

[Lacey]

I'm a terrible listener.......;)





So this wouldn't work?:)

[Big O]

So this wouldn't work?:)

that's not what I'm saying................

[Lacey]

that's not what I'm saying................





:lmao thought sooooooo

[WhiteCloud]

run away from him for a time :)
He ll follow..

[Constance]

Have you ever grabbed his crotch and asked if he could hear you now?


It works!!!

Yea, I think I will try this one.

[Domus]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SoETmhi73EM&feature=related

[countrygent07]

Make yourself presentable, walk with confidence, like yourself. Other than that, thighmaster is right, there's not much you can do. However, other men will start to notice you. See if that doesn't turn ol' hubby's head!

[Bandit]

Hang a pork chop around your neck :lmao

[Domus]

lol...and beer bottle...:)

[SirFox]

Make yourself presentable, walk with confidence, like yourself. Other than that, thighmaster is right, there's not much you can do. However, other men will start to notice you. See if that doesn't turn ol' hubby's head!

If your husband like to eat, make him his favorite meal. They say that a way to a man's heart is through his stomach... but one word of caution...don't stuff him too much...he may not be able to move for the conclusive act...:sc

[SOUTHGAHEAT]

mmmmm let him catch us making wild hot passionate climb the walls sex bet that's get his attention and if not well you'd have my attention. wink

I dunno darlin some people you just cant reach his problem definately not yours. Actually he's lucky you care so much IMO.

[Penny]

Lately I dress like a slut and wear lots of perfume. Its been working :)

[YourAssMyHand]

I wish I had an answer for that myself. I do know that trying the same thing over and over and expecting different results was Einstein's definition of insanity. So don't try that. Sorry, I've nothing more to offer.

[sassy~pants]

I have tried to dress skimpy, like a blizzard is coming...... that dont work...... Ignoring him didnt work....... Lavishing him with love did not work..... I give up