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KissThis
05-28-2006, 09:19 PM
Is the excitement in the chase more than in the capture? And this goes for men and women alike. Do you find you usually want something or someone until you get it/them then its not as exciting anymore after you get it/them? Is someone who 'plays hard to get'..more of a challenge then someone who is no challenge at all?

Sandy
05-28-2006, 10:00 PM
my hubby says it was the chase, i wouldn't give him the time of day, to begin with. :D

cherokeered
05-28-2006, 10:09 PM
Its the chase..both ways...but if you are gonna have someone chase you...you better be backing it up with something....nothing worse than catching the prize and finding its only hype....


Cherokee....:D

Cotties
05-28-2006, 10:12 PM
I wasn't expecting you to box me in and catch me so fast.....:( Its the chase..both ways...but if you are gonna have someone chase you...you better be backing it up with something....nothing worse than catching the prize and finding its only hype....


Cherokee....:D

Traxster
05-28-2006, 10:13 PM
If someone is worth the chase than catching them would be only the beginning....:D

tiger50
05-28-2006, 10:20 PM
I wasn't expecting you to box me in and catch me so fast.....:(

lol cotties is easy....... gday mate....:wa:

Cotties
05-28-2006, 10:29 PM
Hey Tiger..do you like being chased or not being aware of it when it finally happens....how r ya matey?lol cotties is easy....... gday mate....:wa:

flamengo130
05-28-2006, 10:50 PM
love the chase. caught a few threw most of em back, but the latest one is a keeper. we both still enjoy the chase. but the only ones we're keeping is each other......but we love the chase/no keep....that's a barbless hook!!!

tiger50
05-28-2006, 11:07 PM
Hey Tiger..do you like being chased or not being aware of it when it finally happens....how r ya matey?

am good mate... lol... dont think i've ever been chaste...umm chased... :lmao

KissThis
05-28-2006, 11:29 PM
am good mate... lol... dont think i've ever been chaste...umm chased... :lmao

now tiger .. thats not true... see WB chasin ya all the time with a razor and a torch and a whip.:lmao

likesbuttons
05-29-2006, 02:41 AM
if the chase builds anticipation and that feeling that the catch is even more intense, then yes the chase is on........who doesn't like the chase..?

Misty
05-29-2006, 02:47 AM
if the chase builds anticipation and that feeling that the catch is even more intense, then yes the chase is on........who doesn't like the chase..?

oooooooooooooooooooo I LOVE the chase ....i like the POUNCE even better :D

don't you?

KissThis
05-29-2006, 02:49 AM
if the chase builds anticipation and that feeling that the catch is even more intense, then yes the chase is on........who doesn't like the chase..?

I dunno.. i just thought now a days men liked their women to be forward. to say what they wanted , liked, and so on. and the same with women. I guess im about the only one then who dont really care about the chase. Now the outright flirting and teasing, yeah those are turn ons...but actually im more excited now a days by the catch rather than the chase part of it.

likesbuttons
05-29-2006, 02:50 AM
kiss, ok all good points you make. But, isn't the flirting and teasing are kinda like chasing aren't they?.....

KissThis
05-29-2006, 02:53 AM
kiss, ok all good points you make. But, isn't the flirting and teasing are kinda like chasing aren't they?.....

kinda i guess... but the flirt and teasing should go on even after the catch.. :D

likesbuttons
05-29-2006, 02:59 AM
very true....

spare_change
05-29-2006, 03:00 AM
I dunno.. i just thought now a days men liked their women to be forward. to say what they wanted , liked, and so on. and the same with women. I guess im about the only one then who dont really care about the chase. Now the outright flirting and teasing, yeah those are turn ons...but actually im more excited now a days by the catch rather than the chase part of it.


Bingo! The chase is for teenagers!

Misty
05-29-2006, 03:03 AM
The POUNCE I say, its all in the POUNCE
right Tiger? :)

KissThis
05-29-2006, 03:05 AM
Bingo! The chase is for teenagers!

ty sweetie...thought i was the only one that really didnt care for the chase anymore. i perfer downright bluntness and open ness. The teasing and flirting are just an added bonus that makes it fun but not necessary.

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 09:48 AM
I love it when a womans hard to get, for when you do get up close and connect the heat is awesome and you know its going to be one hell of an adventure thereafter.

MAMA ANGEL
05-29-2006, 10:37 AM
I THINK YOU JUST LIKE GAMES:dd I love it when a womans hard to get, for when you do get up close and connect the heat is awesome and you know its going to be one hell of an adventure thereafter.

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 10:39 AM
I THINK YOU JUST LIKE GAMES:dd

Dont we all! adventure! and hot fun:D

MAMA ANGEL
05-29-2006, 10:40 AM
I AGREE WITH THAT!!NOT HAD HOT FUN IN A WHILE!!1;) Dont we all! adventure! and hot fun:D

GeekMaster
05-29-2006, 10:40 AM
I THINK YOU JUST LIKE GAMES:dd

Yes, particularly, two person, naked Twister!!!

MAMA ANGEL
05-29-2006, 10:42 AM
NEVER PLAYED THAT BEFORE IS IT FUN? I LIKE KISSIN GAMES!!!Yes, particularly, two person, naked Twister!!!

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 10:51 AM
I AGREE WITH THAT!!NOT HAD HOT FUN IN A WHILE!!1;)

I know the feeling, I havent had hot fun for a very long time and I love hot hot fun believe me.:wa:

MAMA ANGEL
05-29-2006, 10:52 AM
I CAN SEE THAT!!!:lf :wa: I know the feeling, I havent had hot fun for a very long time and I love hot hot fun believe me.:wa:

GeekMaster
05-29-2006, 11:03 AM
NEVER PLAYED THAT BEFORE IS IT FUN? I LIKE KISSIN GAMES!!!

Ahhh youth!! You need to do a little research on Twister. It is a game that originated in the 60's. Then imagine doing it naked.;)

MAMA ANGEL
05-29-2006, 11:06 AM
could be fun. ever played strip poker?:dd Ahhh youth!! You need to do a little research on Twister. It is a game that originated in the 60's. Then imagine doing it naked.;)

Traxster
05-29-2006, 11:49 AM
Ever played strip solitaire??? It wasn't too much fun!!!!:whee:

Seeker
05-29-2006, 11:52 AM
Ouch!!! I'd sound like a bowl full of 'rice crispies' !! LOLAhhh youth!! You need to do a little research on Twister. It is a game that originated in the 60's. Then imagine doing it naked.;)

Seeker
05-29-2006, 11:53 AM
That IS fun!! Even when you lose, you win!!! :sex could be fun. ever played strip poker?:dd

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 11:54 AM
Ouch!!! I'd sound like a bowl full of 'rice crispies' !! LOL

Want a tube of WD40, theres hope out here you know!:wa:

KissThis
05-29-2006, 12:10 PM
I love it when a womans hard to get, for when you do get up close and connect the heat is awesome and you know its going to be one hell of an adventure thereafter.

well guess that leaves me out..:lmao

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 12:14 PM
well guess that leaves me out..:lmao

Why! you dont have to chase me Im here!:lmao

KissThis
05-29-2006, 12:20 PM
Why! you dont have to chase me Im here!:lmao

remember..you made me a viking woman... so my duty is to 'be their' ALWAYS ready to rejuvinate... so whats this about the chase?? lol

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 12:40 PM
remember..you made me a viking woman... so my duty is to 'be their' ALWAYS ready to rejuvinate... so whats this about the chase?? lol

Heh heh heh you can rejuvinate me while I chase when Im in my pilging mode, but in the raping mood You,ll have to be tied to me!:lmao

KissThis
05-29-2006, 12:45 PM
Heh heh heh you can rejuvinate me while I chase when Im in my pilging mode, but in the raping mood You,ll have to be tied to me!:lmao

this sounds like it could be a whole lot of fun. If im tied to you... that means your tied to me as well... :lmao Ok you can chase me while im lying still... :D

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 12:53 PM
this sounds like it could be a whole lot of fun. If im tied to you... that means your tied to me as well... :lmao Ok you can chase me while im lying still... :D

Hump hump hump, loosen the bond girl its cutting into me arse:lmao

KissThis
05-29-2006, 12:55 PM
Hump hump hump, loosen the bond girl its cutting into me arse:lmao

to engrosed in the humping... you'll have to loosen the bond yourself...:na

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 12:58 PM
to engrosed in the humping... you'll have to loosen the bond yourself...:na

Damm me sword is tight in the excalibar, Ahhhhh thats better, now I can stand up, not such a good idea to be that close.:wa:

KissThis
05-29-2006, 01:02 PM
Damm me sword is tight in the excalibar, Ahhhhh thats better, now I can stand up, not such a good idea to be that close.:wa:

sure it is.. your suppose to lay the sword aside until the rejuvinating is done.

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 01:06 PM
sure it is.. your suppose to lay the sword aside until the rejuvinating is done.

Heh heh heh I have undone the sword, but I must keep my helmet on:lmao

KissThis
05-29-2006, 01:13 PM
Heh heh heh I have undone the sword, but I must keep my helmet on:lmao

ok the helmet can stay for a while any way... only one question.. how do you do oral with a helmet on? :lmao :na

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 01:21 PM
ok the helmet can stay for a while any way... only one question.. how do you do oral with a helmet on? :lmao :na


Heh heh heh lets say its in the knack and the helmet is pushed back:knuddel: :lf

KissThis
05-29-2006, 01:23 PM
Heh heh heh lets say its in the knack and the helmet is pushed back:knuddel: :lf

what happens if i get carried away and pull the helmet completly off????:whee:

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 01:26 PM
what happens if i get carried away and pull the helmet completly off????:whee:

Heh heh heh, the strap will break and it will pull away very easy:lmao

KissThis
05-29-2006, 01:29 PM
Heh heh heh, the strap will break and it will pull away very easy:lmao

but what happens to a viking when his sword is laied aside and his helmet removed dont that make him very vaunrable?

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 01:40 PM
but what happens to a viking when his sword is laied aside and his helmet removed dont that make him very vaunrable?

Ahh but the sword is within gripping distance, and I can I can always get another helmet............Im very agile.:lmao

KissThis
05-29-2006, 01:44 PM
Ahh but the sword is within gripping distance, and I can I can always get another helmet............Im very agile.:lmao

ok ..very well then ..you will have to buy stock in helmets..:D

Norfolkdave
05-29-2006, 01:45 PM
ok ..very well then ..you will have to buy stock in helmets..:D

We always carry a pair!:lmao

majorfun
06-06-2007, 09:44 AM
It is the combination of the two...I like the chase but I also like knowing that the person that I am chasing is interested and that I will get the benefit of interaction from the chase. If I do not get the right amount of feedback...I will throw in the towel...

AffableOne
06-06-2007, 09:48 AM
Is the excitement in the chase more than in the capture? And this goes for men and women alike. Do you find you usually want something or someone until you get it/them then its not as exciting anymore after you get it/them? Is someone who 'plays hard to get'..more of a challenge then someone who is no challenge at all?

each phase of a relationship has it's own special qualities.....but I am too old for any 'games'

be who you are.........it is much sexier

scoobertina
06-06-2007, 09:50 AM
I like to be chased, but I am not much into a long chase, I would much rather be caught...

PunkyBob
06-06-2007, 09:50 AM
I love the chase *almost* as much as the reward. It's foreplay...extended

pointofnoreturn
06-06-2007, 11:42 AM
I wouldlove to be chased caught, and then??????????????????????

Sabrina
06-06-2007, 11:47 AM
not for me....the uncertainty is too hard

Crawfish
06-06-2007, 12:51 PM
I find that I love the chase, but when I get close to the payoff I lose interest. Maybe it's because I'm married. I've never pulled the trigger on an affair because of this. Maybe it's my gaudian angel or something.

MiamiMan68
06-06-2007, 01:01 PM
I love the chase...the subtle courtship if you will...the inviting smile presented without exposing the full intentions...the look that says "umm, maybe or maybe not"...its definitely and more lasting than just the physical pleasures that follow

Sabrina
06-06-2007, 01:02 PM
the chase is fun.....but the getting what you want is far better

Parkergrey
06-06-2007, 01:52 PM
the chase is fun.....but the getting what you want is far better

chase me all you like, I might be getting winded already....

PunkyBob
06-06-2007, 02:32 PM
I wouldlove to be chased caught, and then??????????????????????


Have ????????? a-plenty :knuddel:

p.J
06-06-2007, 04:00 PM
Bloody right it is... I love to be chased, not because of some shallow attention seeking reason but the fact "don't men enjoy it?" Isn't it a challenge? and men are naturally competitive aren't they? It adds an element of excitement and mystery, and for me shows they are truly interested...

Missy38
06-06-2007, 04:24 PM
i think its the chase and after the chase is over its even more fun!!

mrh50
06-06-2007, 04:34 PM
don't know about that either

pointofnoreturn
06-06-2007, 05:20 PM
Have ????????? a-plenty :knuddel:Bob you a chasin me???:kk

mrh50
06-06-2007, 05:24 PM
no i am



Bob you a chasin me???:kk

pointofnoreturn
06-06-2007, 05:32 PM
no i amAlrighty then. How about we flip for it and see who gets to have who??I just did a back flip. mrh?Show me what you got.:lf

whosdaflirt
06-06-2007, 06:58 PM
The chase is certainly exciting, but in order for there to be continued passion, I think you need to keep chasing even after you have caught her.

flamengo130
06-06-2007, 07:48 PM
It's the journey...not the destination. makes me remember something from past days..if you love something..set it free..if it comes back..it's meant to be..if not....go ahead and fill in the ending the way you like it (heard several variations)

PunkyBob
06-06-2007, 10:01 PM
Bob you a chasin me???:kk

You know I am, Point. :wa: :kk Despite what mrh claims!

(See that? I go to dinner and start losing ground!)

baby face
06-06-2007, 10:22 PM
I love to be chased......its so much more fun to keep things exciting......but don't worry the chase won't last to long cause I love to be caught and then things really get exciting from there........cum catch me and u will c!

MIGHTY
06-06-2007, 10:33 PM
I don't create the chase just to make them chase. The chase is created because I do not give myself away. If you want me you must prove yourself. Prove you want me, prove you respect me, prove it is worth while for me to allow myself to be caught. Once I am caught however, the chase continues because the work continues. But it will be soooo worth it. They say patience is a virtue right?:sc

Gray451
06-06-2007, 10:33 PM
Being chased...what a concept

unctarheel_32
06-06-2007, 10:37 PM
i like chasing women it is so much fun and the reward is awesome

OICurready4me
06-06-2007, 10:39 PM
I don't create the chase just to make them chase. The chase is created because I do not give myself away. If you want me you must prove yourself. Prove you want me, prove you respect me, prove it is worth while for me to allow myself to be caught. Once I am caught however, the chase continues because the work continues. But it will be soooo worth it. They say patience is a virtue right?:sc




It is a good thing I am a patient man...it has been worth every second and will only get better, I know it.

peaches
06-07-2007, 07:27 AM
It's the journey...not the destination. makes me remember something from past days..if you love something..set it free..if it comes back..it's meant to be..if not....go ahead and fill in the ending the way you like it (heard several variations)
And how is the journey....? But have you also heard, don't let something good get away....because life is to short....if you want something go after it......and what did you set free?

Huzyerdaddi
12-15-2007, 04:16 PM
I find that I love the chase, but when I get close to the payoff I lose interest. Maybe it's because I'm married. I've never pulled the trigger on an affair because of this. Maybe it's my gaudian angel or something.

I've heard of this happening with others. :sc

Sylar
12-15-2007, 04:21 PM
It's definately the chase. I mean that on a genetic level, for men, anyway. We are bred to hunt, gather, and procreate. It's in our genes. I think that's one reason why men are stereotypically known for straying before women (although I question that notion...women are just better at it). There is a psychic restlessness in us all that drives us to seek more than is our station. We can't help it.

Luckily, sometimes you do find someone who holds you completely content...and if you do desire to "expand your horizons"..they want to go on the trip with you.

needtoknow
12-15-2007, 04:51 PM
For sure it's the chase... builds excitement... longing and anticipation... :sex

tanya
12-15-2007, 05:14 PM
The chase is definitly fun. Keeps things interesting!!

Sylar
12-15-2007, 11:21 PM
The chase is definitly fun. Keeps things interesting!!

Tag, Tanya...You're it! The Chase is on... :kiss:

chasezee
12-16-2007, 01:55 AM
yah its the chase, chase is awsome, thrilling

mithidraes
12-16-2007, 01:57 AM
For men i think it is the being able to get the woman, not the having . definitely the chase

Butterfly_13
12-16-2007, 02:08 AM
...ahhh ha, the CHASE... are you slow enough to be caught...and then if you are caught, are your BRAVE enough to surrender??? That is truely the question... R U??? ( Can you still see the butterflies???...)

Boredmarriedlover
12-16-2007, 08:24 AM
This isn't a hunting game. It's about human beings and feelings and people not getting hurt. Don't be too eager to chase, or be chased, just get to know people slowly and try to imitate real life situations emotionally as best you can. That's my take.

tanya
12-16-2007, 06:20 PM
Tag, Tanya...You're it! The Chase is on... :kiss:

I think I got you!!! :lmao So tag your it now!!:lmao :kk

Huzyerdaddi
12-16-2007, 06:27 PM
I admit it. I like the chase. But sometimes it turns into a marathon.