Age and sex?

[AL_wrigtd]

Whe I was younger I thought the female body was SOOO beautiful, the curves, the sofness, the taste, now at 41 I find I was right all these years. It just seems the Sex has gotten SOOOOOOOO much better. Sometimes after being married so long I sure do miss the kiss of another women with the intensity of a new couple or seeing the body of the person for the first time. Does anyone else feel like that?

[KissThis]

Welcome to the site Al.. and im sure alot of us feel like that. i know i do. so nice to meet you.

[cherokeered]

Welcome Al....hope you enjoy the site....

Cherokee....:wa:

To answer the question...yes...

[Norfolkdave]

Welcome Al, Even at my tender age the curves of a female are as volptourous as ever, wonders of science they are, and when they are hot, they are flames of desire.

[DrippingIndiscretion]

Whe I was younger I thought the female body was SOOO beautiful, the curves, the sofness, the taste, now at 41 I find I was right all these years. It just seems the Sex has gotten SOOOOOOOO much better. Sometimes after being married so long I sure do miss the kiss of another women with the intensity of a new couple or seeing the body of the person for the first time. Does anyone else feel like that?

I would like to experience the excitement one feels when a relationship is fresh and new all over again, but with my husband. We love each other very much, but a decade and two kids later, some of that excitement is gone, only to be replaced by responsibilities and obligations.

[Penny]

Welcome Al :kk

[Sandy]

hey al. welcome to the site, and yes sex does get better as we all get older. :D

[MAMA ANGEL]

I hope so because at 25 it sucks!!!

[dartgirl]

I would have to say that the up side to sex when you are older is not having to worry about getting pregnant anymore.

[Krazi0469]

Welcome AL!!! hope u enjoy the site!!! alot of great ppl on here.. u'll love it:wa:

[a_wickedman]

Welcome Al from an Aussie 77 year old!:55

I'm only a relatively new member myself, BUT I have to tell you that SEX gets better and better with age.

As a teenager I did not even know any girls, let alone speak to them or date them, until I was 19, and then my first girl was a church girl who gave me the flick (she died 2 years ago). That broke my heart and I did not get ovewr it for a year or two. Then I had a brief relationship with another church girl, from a very wealthy family. We never clicked, and that was largely my fault; no car, no telephone.

Then for some 'unknown' reason I finally started masturbating at age 25. Perhaps a psychologist might be able to probe to find out the reasons why I had never previously masturbated, and why I suddenly commenced.

I was sexually 'unaware'. Girls did not show off their boobs like they do today; they dressed more 'modestly', so that I was almost totally unaware of their 'shape' and their 'boobs'.

So, when I married at almost 28 years of age, I finally saw a naked female for the very first time, and had my first fuck.

In my case, my sexual 'awakening' came after marriage, and progressively the delights of females became increasingly 'obvious'

Today I look out on all the world, and in my mind, all women are my harem! I love and appreciate them all, from the top of their heads to the tips of their toes, I just adore their beauty, their curves, and their personalities, the last and most endearing feminine quality!:knuddel: :wa:

[gogs]

Welcome Al from an Aussie 77 year old!

[gogs]

Welcome Al from an Aussie 77 year old!

[Norfolkdave]

Hello gogs, welcome to the site

[musicmer]

Welcome Al I do also miss that and the chase to that point. Then on the other hand, if you are with someone you have been with for a long time, they know how to make your toes crack with in acouple mins.

[AL_wrigtd]

I think you have said what myself and many other people feel everyday. Me and my wife love each other very much, but we also have a child that requires alot of our time, which we love. But I try to get my wife to explore other areas of sex, which we have like full body massage, but I can't figure out why she is so against me using a vibrator with her. She purchased one along time ago, at a party and let me use it one time with her. She said it made her weak in the knees, thats a good thing, right? I don't understand!

[a_wickedman]

I think you have said what myself and many other people feel everyday. Me and my wife love each other very much, but we also have a child that requires alot of our time, which we love. But I try to get my wife to explore other areas of sex, which we have like full body massage, but I can't figure out why she is so against me using a vibrator with her. She purchased one along time ago, at a party and let me use it one time with her. She said it made her weak in the knees, thats a good thing, right? I don't understand!

What is Sex? What is the Psychology of Sex? Why are some of us more sexually adventurous than others? If you are heterosexual, as most of us are, sex is about a man and a woman having sexual intercourse with each other, of penetrating and being penetrated, of fucking each other. But such a definition is an over simplification of a sexual relationship between a man and a woman.

Surely there must be more to sex than the basic mechanics of fucking, of penetrating and being penetrated. Is that all? If you are a man, have you ever been confronted with the attitude of a female partner like 'hurry up and get it over with so we can get to sleep?' Or if the male of the species has the same attitude towards a more highly sexed female partner.

Foreplay or lack of foreplay? In my mind foreplay is everything. Sex without foreplay is totally boring, and must be one of the principal reasons why partners lose interest in sex with each other.

Foreplay is in itself an act of love because it is an intelligent being considering the other partner, how they may woo and please the other person. Surely passion is aroused by steps we take to arouse passion, such as Al has suggested, giving your partner a full body massage. But there are an absolute host of foreplay techniques that we can use to arouse our sexual passion for each other and thus make the final act of penetration all the more exciting.

Stripping naked could be undertaken seductively, followed by erotic dancing together and apart, massage and masturbation together, finger fucking, 69 oral sex, shooting cum over the body, licking and sucking cum, watching others massturbating or having sex, and learning new techniques from others, exploring all the position possiblities, and the locatioins, public and private for having sex.

Everyone has sex, well, almost everyone, so why not take the trouble to think how it can be more enjoyable for each other?:dd :sex :blowjob: :di

[Penny]

It probably is something in her mind telling her its dirty :(



I think you have said what myself and many other people feel everyday. Me and my wife love each other very much, but we also have a child that requires alot of our time, which we love. But I try to get my wife to explore other areas of sex, which we have like full body massage, but I can't figure out why she is so against me using a vibrator with her. She purchased one along time ago, at a party and let me use it one time with her. She said it made her weak in the knees, thats a good thing, right? I don't understand!

[MCat]

I would have to say that the up side to sex when you are older is not having to worry about getting pregnant anymore.

Thank you Jesus !!!

[Norfolkdave]

Sixty this year and definatekly not passed it, although it passed me...Shit

[AL_wrigtd]

Thank you for your reply, basically I want to understand more from a womens stand point about this. The way I see it, if it feels good do it, and as far as feeling "dirty" I don't know. From a womens perspective please rate the following 1 ~ 5, 1 being normal or not so nasty, and 5 being dirty, or nasty.
1- doggy style
2- her on top facing away from me
3- during massage me using a vibrator on her
4- her lower portion proped on pillow and me holding her legs up ( of course after she has had an orgasm)
I have explained how I don't think it nasty, but maybe it in her head, like you said. Any help would be great.

[MCat]

Thank you for your reply, basically I want to understand more from a womens stand point about this. The way I see it, if it feels good do it, and as far as feeling "dirty" I don't know. From a womens perspective please rate the following 1 ~ 5, 1 being normal or not so nasty, and 5 being dirty, or nasty.
1- doggy style (1****)
2- her on top facing away from me (can't rate this one, doesn't work for us but would be a 1**** I'm sure)
3- during massage me using a vibrator on her (1****)
4- her lower portion proped on pillow and me holding her legs up ( of course after she has had an orgasm) (1****) sounds nice

I have explained how I don't think it nasty, but maybe it in her head, like you said. Any help would be great.

Now I need to know, since I gave these 1's...does that make me a nasty girl :sc These are not freaky or nasty at all to me.

[Sandy]

i'm not sure mcat, cause i rated them all ones to. :D

[inquisitive]

all the time.