Questions about pics, avatars, PMs & stuff from newbies!

[boxtree]

:wa: What's the etiquette here about sending pms to another member? Some fantastic women on here; be nice to talk but don't want to break site conventions. On the other hand always ready to have my own conventions smashed to smithereens

[Penny]

Just be a gentleman ;)

[Wet Beaver]

penny sumed it up well.....

[Aubree]

:wa: What's the etiquette here about sending pms to another member? Some fantastic women on here; be nice to talk but don't want to break site conventions. On the other hand always ready to have my own conventions smashed to smithereens

The fact that you asked before acting impressed me. Thank you and Welcome.

[Jy]

Yes, Box, by asking the question in the first place definitely got my attention, and I'm sure the attention of lots of lovely ladies here!!

I've recieved some delightful PMs from some the men on here, and some not-so-welcome.
One of them read: "I've been reading your posts and want to get to know you better." and I replied to him.
Another read: "Hey sexy, wanna suck my dick?" and I deleted it without replying.
Judging from your posts, I bet one of your PMs would be welcomed by the women here!

[sweet]

I agree. It's great that you even cared to ask how to properly message someone first. That shows to me at least that you care about not offending the ladies on this site. Kudos to you! :55

[Sandy]

i agree with the rest of the ladies, your a sweetheart for asking, very immipressive.

[dallyfoster]

Sounds like you have impressed the ladies quite a bit, a true gentleman you must really be, I agree with the ladies, it was good of you to ask and just dont go horning it up right away, messaging something nasty

[spare_change]

suck up!

[Trev]

:55:55

[sweet]

Now I know why the women don't reply back to me.

Who are you kidding Trev :D

[flamengo130]

Very Good, Box. PM's are good for getting to know people. It's nice to know you did the best thing and asked advice. This is a great site, with some of the best people we've met. Enjoy!

[yaser]

:wa: What's the etiquette here about sending pms to another member? Some fantastic women on here; be nice to talk but don't want to break site conventions. On the other hand always ready to have my own conventions smashed to smithereensBoxtree, what you say and what you intent must be the same...Here it is the opposite...Choose which one do you want.

[boxtree]

Just be a gentleman ;)

that reminds me of a definition of a gentleman as 'someone who can play the tuba but chooses not to.' Does that mean i have to stop playing my instrument on here?:cry:

[tiger50]

that reminds me of a definition of a gentleman as 'someone who can play the tuba but chooses not to.' Does that mean i have to stop playing my instrument on here?:cry:

nah mate play away.... :D :whee:

[Norfolkdave]

Heh heh heh play dangerously, foot loose and fancy free, go for the jugular!!!!!!

[yaser]

that reminds me of a definition of a gentleman as 'someone who can play the tuba but chooses not to.' Does that mean i have to stop playing my instrument on here?:cry:Go on not to choose till someone chooses you...I am suer some ladies will choose to send you pm.ı have gor pms on the death of my wife for condolences...Waititng for Pms other than that..as you do...

[yaser]

that reminds me of a definition of a gentleman as 'someone who can play the tuba but chooses not to.' Does that mean i have to stop playing my instrument on here?:cry:Boxtree,choose a lady and send her a PM but flirt with her first in a kind style.

[Shiane]

:wa: What's the etiquette here about sending pms to another member? Some fantastic women on here; be nice to talk but don't want to break site conventions. On the other hand always ready to have my own conventions smashed to smithereens

Just think of the women here as your sister, mother, or friend and treat them as you would want any man to treat them, with the respect they deserve. :55

[Trev]

Just think of the women here as your sister, mother, or friend and treat them as you would want any man to treat them, with the respect they deserve. :55


The problem is that my sister, mother or friend is not as hot as these avaitors.:D

[Shiane]

The problem is that my sister, mother or friend is not as hot as these avaitors.:D


Laffs! I should hope you don't find your sister or mom hot!

[tiger50]

Laffs! I should hope you don't find your sister or mom hot!

they do in tasmania....:D :whee: :lmao

[Sunfiresix]

Ya sure that ain't a pix of a Tasmanian Devil Trev has there???

[yaser]

Just think of the women here as your sister, mother, or friend and treat them as you would want any man to treat them, with the respect they deserve. :55Shaine,I totally agree with you.This is foundation of ethical behavior.Don't do anything to others which you don't want to be done to yourself.

[NCSouthernHospitality]

Shaine,I totally agree with you.This is foundation of ethical behavior.Don't do anything to others which you don't want to be done to yourself.

Problem is, that's exactly what they ARE doing when they send the wrong message. And they'd love to get a similar reply, I'm sure.

I personally wouldn't PM someone until I knew them well enough from the threads first. I received a few for fun when I hit Premium membership and had a few private chats that way ... but other than that I'd rather get to know someone enough to have a conversation with them, get to know them on the inside, see what they like/don't like, etc. Then by that time you've developed friendships/relationships and you already know each other. That being said, feel free to PM me anytime ladies! Especially you hot ones out there (you all know who you are). :D

[Rainmaker]

Problem is, that's exactly what they ARE doing when they send the wrong message. And they'd love to get a similar reply, I'm sure.

I personally wouldn't PM someone until I knew them well enough from the threads first. I received a few for fun when I hit Premium membership and had a few private chats that way ... but other than that I'd rather get to know someone enough to have a conversation with them, get to know them on the inside, see what they like/don't like, etc. Then by that time you've developed friendships/relationships and you already know each other. That being said, feel free to PM me anytime ladies! Especially you hot ones out there (you all know who you are). :D

:lmao well i pmed u to say congrats!!!

didnt take the first time so i had to do it again....when i pm.. its mainly me personaly checking on ppl and seeing how they r or if something came to mind i wanted to say to them and couldnt find a thread to put it.....i dont mind anyone pming me.....but i will go ahead and say it,, i have said before....I Hate Cyber....soo sorry:D .. so if im not hot i cant pm u NC????:cry: and i thought neighbors counted:na .......btw dont take me serious:wa:

[NCSouthernHospitality]

:lmao well i pmed u to say congrats!!!

didnt take the first time so i had to do it again....when i pm.. its mainly me personaly checking on ppl and seeing how they r or if something came to mind i wanted to say to them and couldnt find a thread to put it.....i dont mind anyone pming me.....but i will go ahead and say it,, i have said before....I Hate Cyber....soo sorry:D .. so if im not hot i cant pm u NC????:cry: and i thought neighbors counted:na .......btw dont take me serious:wa:


You can PM me anytime Rain! Actually I don't mind people sending me PMs -- unless I get one like Jazzy said earlier:

"Another read: "Hey sexy, wanna suck my d##k?" and I deleted it without replying."

I'd delete that w/out replying too. hehe

Still, when it comes to me sending PMs I'm going to wait until I get to know someone first. Just my preference. So see there ... since you got me started with the PMs Rain I already know you better. lol

[Rainmaker]

You can PM me anytime Rain! Actually I don't mind people sending me PMs -- unless I get one like Jazzy said earlier:

"Another read: "Hey sexy, wanna suck my d##k?" and I deleted it without replying."

I'd delete that w/out replying too. hehe

Still, when it comes to me sending PMs I'm going to wait until I get to know someone first. Just my preference. So see there ... since you got me started with the PMs Rain I already know you better. lol


i dont blame u.. if i got a pm asking to suck my cock id delete it too:na


but seriously.. i know exactly what u mean .. no worries .. i wont ever send u a pm like that:D

[NCSouthernHospitality]

i dont blame u.. if i got a pm asking to suck my cock id delete it too:na


but seriously.. i know exactly what u mean .. no worries .. i wont ever send u a pm like that:D

Well if you did, I probably WOULD reply! :D

[Rainmaker]

Well if you did, I probably WOULD reply! :D

typical man!!!
the story now changes:D :na

[NCSouthernHospitality]

typical man!!!
the story now changes:D :na

Nah, that was just a disclaimer ... :55

[Rainmaker]

Nah, that was just a disclaimer ... :55


ahhhhh.. i seeee

[Wet Beaver]

i dont blame u.. if i got a pm asking to suck my cock id delete it too:na


but seriously.. i know exactly what u mean .. no worries .. i wont ever send u a pm like that:D

looking around for my jack hammer.......oppppssssss i ment dildo......

[flamengo130]

pm's haven't been any problem for us (but who would want to pm a couple?) we have received a few, and have responded to all. haven't had any that were off the wall. all have been in good tastel

[Rainmaker]

pm's haven't been any problem for us (but who would want to pm a couple?) we have received a few, and have responded to all. haven't had any that were off the wall. all have been in good tastel

oooo i dont mind chatting to a couple as well.. ill pm u right now..:wa:

[Norfolkdave]

Rainmaker you can PM me anytime Hun and we will as always have a conservative conversation.

[sexytxblonde]

Hi yall! Wow - everyone on this site looks like a magazine model! :lf There's so much eye-candy here! How do you post your own pic like that? My profile doesn't give me that option.

Also, what are the little green "rep" dots? Did I get mine by making a certain # of posts? :sc

Is it ok to put pics in the gallery that are kinda racey? (mine aren't XXX, just kinda R) ;)

[Barkiss]

Hi yall! Wow - everyone on this site looks like a magazine model! :lf There's so much eye-candy here! How do you post your own pic like that? My profile doesn't give me that option.

Also, what are the little green "rep" dots? Did I get mine by making a certain # of posts? :sc

Is it ok to put pics in the gallery that are kinda racey? (mine aren't XXX, just kinda R) ;)

Too many questions!!! ;)

First...believe it or not...not all these ladies look like the pictures they are putting up...but don't tell anyone. However, I do kinda resemble Scooby. You will be able to add your own picture after you reach 500 posts.

The "rep" points are earned with x posts, or when someone likes your post and gives it "rep" points.

And yes...you can add "R" rated pictures. They are all viewed and approved through Penny prior to posting and she might decide to put them in some of the more distinquished areas, rather than where everyone can see them.

I hope that helps...:)

[Seeker]

Hiya Blondie! Welcome to the site!! Alot of things here open up as you post. The mor eyou post the more things open up for you! PM 's open up at 500 posts. Custom avitars at about 500 (I think) Look through the site rules and that should help with that! The rep points, are automaticaly added as you make certain numbers of posts. They can also be added by any member regarding any given post you made! I can see your post # and rep # going through the roof! have fun and enjoy!!!Hi yall! Wow - everyone on this site looks like a magazine model! :lf There's so much eye-candy here! How do you post your own pic like that? My profile doesn't give me that option.

Also, what are the little green "rep" dots? Did I get mine by making a certain # of posts? :sc

Is it ok to put pics in the gallery that are kinda racey? (mine aren't XXX, just kinda R) ;)

[sexytxblonde]

:kk Thank yall for your help! Guess I need to get busy post'n ;)

[tiger50]

:kk Thank yall for your help! Guess I need to get busy post'n ;)

hi gal, havent sorta met you yet, but welcome to the site... :kk

[Seeker]

Yep! get ta postin' but mostly, HAVE FUN!!!!! BTW We would all love to see you photos! :kk Thank yall for your help! Guess I need to get busy post'n ;)

[Norfolkdave]

ODIN says have fun and Welcome to the site, well soon gatcha to 500 points wont we guys, heh heh heh scoobie keep ya hands off...LOL:lmao

[saalim143]

hi sexy

[saalim143]

:dd

[Cotties]

who you calling sexy?


Hi back at ya? but I'm a guy:sc
hi sexy

[Cotties]

saalim you are too young...ya have to be 18 atleast ...and this isn't the way to pick up chicks...'Hi sexy'...right now there are three guys on-line who might reply to your posts...But get outa here until you turn 18.......hi sexy

[sexytxblonde]

saalim you are too young...ya have to be 18 atleast ...and this isn't the way to pick up chicks...'Hi sexy'...right now there are three guys on-line who might reply to your posts...But get outa here until you turn 18.......
I'm flattered, but EEEEEKK! 17? :sc LOL I'll bet there's no ring on this finger

Thanks babe cuz I didn't know what to say :kk

[Norfolkdave]

Oh by the way lovely pictures sexy, really stunning mmmmm, made old ODINs horns shimmer:lmao

[Penny]

I promoted you to goddess and approved your pics. I put half of them in the Gold club. That will give the guys something to strive for getting 500 post :D



Hi yall! Wow - everyone on this site looks like a magazine model! :lf There's so much eye-candy here! How do you post your own pic like that? My profile doesn't give me that option.

Also, what are the little green "rep" dots? Did I get mine by making a certain # of posts? :sc

Is it ok to put pics in the gallery that are kinda racey? (mine aren't XXX, just kinda R) ;)

[Frenchie]

can I be a goddess?....lol

Just kidding! I'll make 500 posts before I turn into a goddess!

I dont know how I would look in a skirt!

Maybe that should be my first pictures!

[sexytxblonde]

Oh by the way lovely pictures sexy, really stunning mmmmm, made old ODINs horns shimmer:lmao

Thanks babe! :kk :kk Hmmm, shimmering horns? :sc I haven't heard that one before LOL (Now I'm curious as to who ODIN is )

[sweetgapeach]

Lol

[sexytxblonde]

can I be a goddess?....lol
Just kidding! I'll make 500 posts before I turn into a goddess!
I dont know how I would look in a skirt!
Maybe that should be my first pictures!

:lmao :lmao Thou doest not wish to try on the silky white toga with sparkling gold chain belt? Thou would rather injure thy fingers?

"Maybe that should be my first pictures!" Now I want to see that ;)

You have to agree: Penny is a very smart woman.

[Frenchie]

Oh she definatly sounds like it!

does that count for sucking up?

[sexytxblonde]

Nah, I think you have to feed her some grapes, then get down on your knees and kiss her ankles....

[Frenchie]

lol

I'm getting my knee pads ready! :)

[Penny]

U will need em :D

[Frenchie]

Maybe a back rub... foot massage?

[Cotties]

WOW! I wasn't expecting that when I looked at your photos. I'm sitting at my desk with a very uncomfortable erection. Those photos are just perfect. Or should i say you have a perfect butt. So so sexy photos that you have posted. The hair, the curve in the back and that ass have only bettered this site. Please post some more...:lf


BTW..I'll be thinking about you later when I have some privacy...
:kk Thank yall for your help! Guess I need to get busy post'n ;)

[sexytxblonde]

WOW! I wasn't expecting that when I looked at your photos. I'm sitting at my desk with a very uncomfortable erection. Those photos are just perfect. Or should i say you have a perfect butt. So so sexy photos that you have posted. The hair, the curve in the back and that ass have only bettered this site. Please post some more...:lf
BTW..I'll be thinking about you later when I have some privacy...

LOL! :sp:

Glad you had a chance to peek at them :kk I'll be seeing you later :D

[Bigman]

Nice pictures !! Sexy !!

I have seen you on a different Web site?
I am sure I have ....

[sexytxblonde]

Thanks Bigman!

[surfnchat]

Awesome pictures!!! Thank you very much for posting them!

[sexytxblonde]

Thanks babe! I'll post more when I get a chance :)

[surfnchat]

:55 MMMMMM... can't wait!

[Norfolkdave]

yeah sexy very good photos gave me a stirring mmm

[yaser]

Thanks babe! I'll post more when I get a chance :)Those pictures trigger me so I will find myself in danger of remarrying which I don't want..

[Frenchie]

AHHHH

cant wait to get enough post to go check it out!

when i can go I'll drop some of mine in there!

[Penny]

You can add yours anytime If you do maybe you will get bumped up a little too :)



AHHHH

cant wait to get enough post to go check it out!

when i can go I'll drop some of mine in there!

[surfnchat]

You can add yours anytime If you do maybe you will get bumped up a little too :)

And getting "bumped" by Penny is the best thing that ever happened to me! ;)

[Frenchie]

You can add yours anytime If you do maybe you will get bumped up a little too :)

I'm working on it!

I want to make sure i get one with my good side on it! lol :)

[spare_change]

I'm working on it!

I want to make sure i get one with my good side on it! lol :)


Look on the back.

[Frenchie]

lol no kidding!

I got one I'll shoot up there. just trying to find some more but i guess one is better then nothing!

[Wet Beaver]

lol no kidding!

I got one I'll shoot up there. just trying to find some more but i guess one is better then nothing!

i just hope it isn't hairly......

[Frenchie]

No hair here baby!

I trim shave and all

even at places where the sun dont shine! I figure if I ask my wife to do it, she doesn't want to be stuck in the jungle either!

Edit: there i stuck one in there but Penny need's to aprove it first!

[Norfolkdave]

No hair here baby!

I trim shave and all

even at places where the sun dont shine! I figure if I ask my wife to do it, she doesn't want to be stuck in the jungle either!

Edit: there i stuck one in there but Penny need's to aprove it first!

Hope your covered or no approval LOl:D

[Frenchie]

oh yeah!

dont have any of those body parts!

...yet

[Wet Beaver]

oh yeah!

dont have any of those body parts!

...yet


are you haveing a hormonal problem??

[Frenchie]

no silly pictures of the body parts! lol

I might have to take a couple and send them your way! ;)

[Norfolkdave]

no silly pictures of the body parts! lol

I might have to take a couple and send them your way! ;)

whose way not mine..lOl ODIN...........ODIN................ODIN:lmao

[Wet Beaver]

no silly pictures of the body parts! lol

I might have to take a couple and send them your way! ;)



my mail doesn't recieve spam......

[Frenchie]

outch!

you got me on that one!

[zobman]

Oh my, now I am wondering what you look like? I will have to make so many more post to reach the 500 mark!!! Everyone looks so perfect, now I am not sure I can post my picture. I must really be a nerd!

[showtime]

thought I was told you needed 150 posts to view profiles? not 500????

[Penny]

it is 150

[zobman]

Getting closer all the time!!!!!!!!!

[zobman]

Don't mind me... just posting to make my 150!!!

[Penny]

Thats cheating :nu

[Inspector72]

Hi everyone and Sexy Blonde! So what is the topic of dicussion here? Sexy Blonde, from your comment about everyone looking like poster models, is that good or bad? Just trying to judge where I stand, like you.

[Inspector72]

Hey Penny, what is the "Rep Power"?

[spare_change]

Hey Penny, what is the "Rep Power"?

Rep Power measures two things:

1) Your contribution to the site -- every time you post, your rep power figure goes up.

2) Recognition of the quality of your posts -- if somebody likes one of your posts, they can click on the scales (I know -- it looks like a bush!!) at the bottom and award you more rep points. Conversely, if they don't like it, they can award you negative points (don't worry about that -- only us neo-conservative, gun toting, war mongering, Bush loving rednecks get those!!!).

Good luck and welcome aboard !! Hope you enjoy the ride!

[Inspector72]

Thanks for the info Spare Change!!!

[Amaretto]

Hi! I've only been here a few days, but I can tell it'll be fun to stick around. I have two questions tonight:

1. How can I tell if a person is a man or a woman? (and before I get any smart-ass answers, I mean when I am reading posts here!! Not when I meet a person in real life!! LOL!)
I see the online name, where they're from, age, etc, but nothing identifying if the poster is M or F.

2. Penny, can you activate me to premium? I read somewhere that newbies don't necessarily have to make 150 posts---we just have to ask.

Thanks!!!!!!!!
amaretto

[scoobertina]

Just watch them post a couple of times. That's how I figured it out.

[scoobertina]

Oh... I forgot. Welcome!

[Milk]

i wish it did say male or female like it says the age in years. most i learn from how they answer things. avatars can be misleading on gender too.

[confusedman]

Hi! I've only been here a few days, but I can tell it'll be fun to stick around. I have two questions tonight:

1. How can I tell if a person is a man or a woman? (and before I get any smart-ass answers, I mean when I am reading posts here!! Not when I meet a person in real life!! LOL!)
I see the online name, where they're from, age, etc, but nothing identifying if the poster is M or F.

2. Penny, can you activate me to premium? I read somewhere that newbies don't necessarily have to make 150 posts---we just have to ask.

Thanks!!!!!!!!
amaretto

I'm sure there are many ways to figure out gender as there are people on the site. But one simple way is to click the name of the poster (the underlined version on the left) and then click on View Public Profile. you'll find the info you're looking for there...just need to scroll a bit.

Forum Leaders - this is an interesting point. I do think it woul dhelp if there was any way to include gender in the info shown on the left under the posters name. I'm assuming when the site was designed there were ligitimate reasons why this was not a good idea, but we're just not aware of them.

and Amaretto - have some patience....it really doesn't take much to get to 150 posts and will help the rest of us get to know you better. You can leverage alot of the game type threads like last letter, 5 to 1/1 to 5, and my personal favorite...LAST!!! to get the posts you need pretty quickly.

[Milk]

the A to Z or ABC games are a super quick way to get there.

[Lena]

Hi! I've only been here a few days, but I can tell it'll be fun to stick around. I have two questions tonight:

1. How can I tell if a person is a man or a woman? (and before I get any smart-ass answers, I mean when I am reading posts here!! Not when I meet a person in real life!! LOL!)
I see the online name, where they're from, age, etc, but nothing identifying if the poster is M or F.

2. Penny, can you activate me to premium? I read somewhere that newbies don't necessarily have to make 150 posts---we just have to ask.

Thanks!!!!!!!!
amaretto

Hello and welcome Amaretto!
If you are really in doubt just ask which gender they are!
And of course once you reach 150 posts you will be able to view the profiles!
Keep visiting alittle bit more and you could be bumped up, but it is quite nice to actually make it yourself! The sense of acheivement that you made it all by yourself! Doesn't really take that long! Hope you will enjoy your stay! :wa:

[Amaretto]

the A to Z or ABC games are a super quick way to get there.

I've played several of those tonight---but they often seem to be stuck on X or Z!!! I looked all through a dictionary to find a sexy word that started with Z!

And right now, I can't click on people's profiles to find out if they are male or femal (because I'm not activated or premium or something). That's actually why I asked these 2 questions.

[mrdiscreet]

In the words of Austin Powers, she's a man, baby!

[Lena]

......... and my personal favorite...LAST!!! to get the posts you need pretty quickly.
So that is why you are there!!!!! :whee: :D

[scoobertina]

I've played several of those tonight---but they often seem to be stuck on X or Z!!! I looked all through a dictionary to find a sexy word that started with Z!

And right now, I can't click on people's profiles to find out if they are male or femal (because I'm not activated or premium or something). That's actually why I asked these 2 questions.

Once you have 150 posts you can view them. keep playing games

[Milk]

when a thread gets stuck on X or Z, i scroll back to see what was used for those letters before if i can't think of one

[Cotties]

legit reasons....not sure if we have any except it probably wasn't designed that way....I'll let lena answer this one
Forum Leaders - this is an interesting point. I do think it woul dhelp if there was any way to include gender in the info shown on the left under the posters name. I'm assuming when the site was designed there were ligitimate reasons why this was not a good idea, but we're just not aware of them.

.

[Lena]

legit reasons....not sure if we have any except it probably wasn't designed that way....I'll let lena answer this one
You are most likely correct it wasn't designed that way!
Not sure if anything can be done to it! I will ask!

[FitMidwestGuy39]

Hi! I've only been here a few days, but I can tell it'll be fun to stick around. I have two questions tonight:

1. How can I tell if a person is a man or a woman? (and before I get any smart-ass answers, I mean when I am reading posts here!! Not when I meet a person in real life!! LOL!)
I see the online name, where they're from, age, etc, but nothing identifying if the poster is M or F.

2. Penny, can you activate me to premium? I read somewhere that newbies don't necessarily have to make 150 posts---we just have to ask.

Thanks!!!!!!!!
amaretto

If they don't say one way or the other, be afraid. Oh, and hi neighbor, midwest here too.

[dixie50xxx]

i have a question. on some peoples posts under their screen names it says things like forum leader --- what does that mean?:sc

[cherokeered]

i have a question. on some peoples posts under their screen names it says things like forum leader --- what does that mean?:sc

they are the moderators hun.....they will edit rude or nasty posts...delete spam threads....you can contact them if you are having a problem, either with the site or a fellow member...ask them questions....they are here to help keep the site running smoothely hun....

[Michael77]

welcome there sexy..hope u enjoy the site.. I sure do..(Maybe Penny will make me a GOD now..ya think?)

[Cotties]

you forgot to mention we also give physicals to the new women......free of cost;) they are the moderators hun.....they will edit rude or nasty posts...delete spam threads....you can contact them if you are having a problem, either with the site or a fellow member...ask them questions....they are here to help keep the site running smoothely hun....

[Lena]

you forgot to mention we also give physicals to the new women......free of cost;)
Weren't you suppose to be the one on door duty??
Collecting the forms?:whee:

[Lena]

they are the moderators hun.....they will edit rude or nasty posts...delete spam threads....you can contact them if you are having a problem, either with the site or a fellow member...ask them questions....they are here to help keep the site running smoothely hun....
Thanks Cherokee!!:wa:
Hope you are having a good weekend!!

[Lena]

..
.(Maybe Penny will make me a GOD now..ya think?)
In your dreams Michael!!!!!:D

[cherokeered]

Thanks Cherokee!!:wa:
Hope you are having a good weekend!!


hey Lena....:wa:


No problem....my weekend is ok hun...spent the afternoon cleaning cat litter boxes....lol

I have 8 cats and 4 very big litter boxes.....

[Lena]

hey Lena....:wa:


No problem....my weekend is ok hun...spent the afternoon cleaning cat litter boxes....lol

I have 8 cats and 4 very big litter boxes.....
ohh joy!!! :( Interesting afternoon then!!! :D
Bad enough with one big dog!!!
And one garden!!!!:whee:

[cherokeered]

ohh joy!!! :( Interesting afternoon then!!! :D
Bad enough with one big dog!!!
And one garden!!!!:whee:


yeh, got the dog too...lol


My lilacs are blooming though....they smell so wonderful....;)

[Lena]

yeh, got the dog too...lol


My lilacs are blooming though....they smell so wonderful....;)
My Fuchsias and Roses are blooming, but the dog thinks he is the gardener! :(
Glad I don't have the cats to deal with too!!!:whee:

[cherokeered]

My Fuchsias and Roses are blooming, but the dog thinks he is the gardener! :(
Glad I don't have the cats to deal with too!!!:whee:


You should take a pic of ur garden and post it...would like to with my lilacs...but no camera....sigh...

[Lena]

You should take a pic of ur garden and post it...would like to with my lilacs...but no camera....sigh...
Awwww are they very mauve?
What else do you have?
Do we have a gardening thread?

[cherokeered]

Awwww are they very mauve?
What else do you have?
Do we have a gardening thread?


I have roses also.....crocus'....daffodils.....



they are a light purple.....big blooms....and very fragrant...I just wish they lasted longer...their time is very short...I am thinking of planting some wildflowers or something....

[Lena]

I have roses also.....crocus'....daffodils.....



they are a light purple.....big blooms....and very fragrant...I just wish they lasted longer...their time is very short...I am thinking of planting some wildflowers or something....
Crocus' and daffodils are very Spring flowers, well always reminds me of Spring!
yes shame about the Lilacs!:(
Wild flowers will be nice too!
Suppose it really depends on how and which colours you want your garden to be! Fiery colours??

[cherokeered]

Crocus' and daffodils are very Spring flowers, well always reminds me of Spring!
yes shame about the Lilacs!:(
Wild flowers will be nice too!
Suppose it really depends on how and which colours you want your garden to be! Fiery colours??


i like brite colors...pastels....yellows, blues, purples...pinks....lots of colors...I also need some fragrant colors....have been toying with a yellow rose hedge....wanted a butterfly plant but the dog ate it...maybe I should try again...lol

[Lena]

i like brite colors...pastels....yellows, blues, purples...pinks....lots of colors...I also need some fragrant colors....have been toying with a yellow rose hedge....wanted a butterfly plant but the dog ate it...maybe I should try again...lol
Dogs they are something!!! My unplants what I planted the day before, probably thinks it shouldn't be there!! Yellow will be a happy colour!
I like the garden to be bright and cheerful with fragrants too!

[cherokeered]

Dogs they are something!!! My unplants what I planted the day before, probably thinks it shouldn't be there!! Yellow will be a happy colour!
I like the garden to be bright and cheerful with fragrants too!


lol...yes dogs are a problem sometimes....lol

[dixie50xxx]

they are the moderators hun.....they will edit rude or nasty posts...delete spam threads....you can contact them if you are having a problem, either with the site or a fellow member...ask them questions....they are here to help keep the site running smoothely hun....


thanx for the info---helps alot

[unctarheel_32]

well sexy u are hott in ure pic:D Hi yall! Wow - everyone on this site looks like a magazine model! :lf There's so much eye-candy here! How do you post your own pic like that? My profile doesn't give me that option.

Also, what are the little green "rep" dots? Did I get mine by making a certain # of posts? :sc

Is it ok to put pics in the gallery that are kinda racey? (mine aren't XXX, just kinda R) ;)

[sawflyman]

I've got a ways to go before I can see them. but I bet it will be worth it.......


LOL! :sp:

Glad you had a chance to peek at them :kk I'll be seeing you later :D

[PunkyBob]

Okay...looks like there IS gold at the end of this rainbow...I'm posting, I'm posting...!

[Sunfiresix]

Keep goin PunkyBob, you'll make.

[PunkyBob]

Although I feel kinda sad that my rep power is zero...snnff! Is there like a rep power viagra...?

[PunkyBob]

Gotta admit, though, it does seem really friendly and warm in here...you folks seem nice

[Lena]

Gotta admit, though, it does seem really friendly and warm in here...you folks seem nice
Hi there Bob!!
Hope you will find it nice and friendly in here!
Keep making some good posts and you will see the gold at the end of it!

[Sunfiresix]

Yea lucky you--ya all get to see my pictures.....

[unctarheel_32]

penny does anything happen when u get to 300 post

[missgrace]

pennny.. ohhh penny.. may i request premium? i AM on my knees.. *wink*

[Lena]

pennny.. ohhh penny.. may i request premium? i AM on my knees.. *wink*
Ohh come on Grace!!!
You have 5 more posts to go!!
And you will feel good that you did it all by yourself!!!
Come on! 5!!!!!:)

[living to Flirt]

Ya Grace... just reply to these last two and your so close you can taste it!!

[Cotties]

I'm guessing you found the answer to that one out.................... alonepenny does anything happen when u get to 300 post

[oldandnaked]

I'm assuming one needs at least 150 posts to receive and send messages as well as e mail here as well?

[snowflake]

I'm assuming one needs at least 150 posts to receive and send messages as well as e mail here as well?

:55 You got it, hang in there!!!

[Sandy]

yes your right, keep posting you'll be there before you know it, we also have chat rooms.

[flirtyCoach]

You can get into the chat rooms with less than 150 though..right? I have been to them or are there other ones?

[Sandy]

no the ones you've been to, doesn't require posts, and its a hit and miss with them sometimes, but when you can find other members in there its fun

[aviatorspirit69]

I'm assuming one needs at least 150 posts to receive and send messages as well as e mail here as well?

Now theres a cool nickname.....Old and naked welcome to the forum cant wait to see the avatar....well maybe not...LOL:lmao Just kidding...post away

[UltimateNaneki]

I'm assuming one needs at least 150 posts to receive and send messages as well as e mail here as well?

Yes you do....but darling What times we will have once you reach there!! Just think....:dd I'm waiting!!:wa:

[massage mike]

still after the nebies i see

[sawflyman]

welcome old
have fun.

[Alonelyboy4u]

Love the woody Allen quote

[slick69]

I have to post 150 times to be a member? Ok! ya'll asked for it. Some of them may be lame. Depends on my mood, lol. Who wants to talk about loosing their virginity in the hay? Has anyone lost theirs in the hay. or how about.... Wait,, thats a good enough question for another post, LOL

[Cotties]

You are a member!

What the 150 posts determines is whether or not you can become a full productive member of the site

[slick69]

Well dont I feel like a horses ass? lol............. Here's another dumb ?. whats a full productive member?

[66angelholly]

You are a member!

What the 150 posts determines is whether or not you can become a full productive member of the site

:la

I'm with SLICK69 - I have the same question being a newby. spread your knowledge Cotties

[66angelholly]

I have a couple more silly questions what does rep power represent and how do I attach a image to my profile. I wll play around to see if I can figure it out. I like to explore. I will be waiting for your advice.

[Zifnab]

:la
spread your knowledge Cottiesthat should have been in the famous last words thread....:lmao

[JCcanU]

Angel you cant do anything til you reach 150 post then you can fill out your profile and vew others made a avatar so on then after 500 post you can do everything on the fourms hope that helps.

[tiger50]

I have a couple more silly questions what does rep power represent and how do I attach a image to my profile. I wll play around to see if I can figure it out. I like to explore. I will be waiting for your advice.

gday and welcome angel..
wel the rep power thing sorta represnts how long, members have been here for and how much others apppreciate their posts....u can award rep points to others, just keep posting....:D

[Frenchie]

Dont worry your not missing out on anythig

As long as you can read my posts that's all you need! lol

rep points are given to you by other members when they like one of your posts, view or stuff like that.

the minimum post count is just well...not much really, I guess just a fail safe to weed out the people that would only post once and ditch the site, bot's and stuff like that.

It' by no means make you folks lesser members or anything like that.

I think you can edit your avatar and stuff like that after

So all and all dont worry you have access to the best part of the site IMO so I wouldnt worry about it, just post, have some fun and away you go!

Oh and slick I got laid in the hay once, pretty itchy but I didnt care it was fun, farm girls a craaaaaaaaaaaaaaazy!

[Micwar]

I thought this was going to be an equal oppurtunity site...but once again sexism raises it's ugly head. If I sign on as a lady with a sexy pic. then i get all the benefits given to me quicker, than I would get being a white male...once again at the bottom of the pile.....

[MCat]

I thought this was going to be an equal oppurtunity site...but once again sexism raises it's ugly head. If I sign on as a lady with a sexy pic. then i get all the benefits given to me quicker, than I would get being a white male...once again at the bottom of the pile.....

Welcome Mic...

This is Penny's site....if she says ladies get upgraded after a few posts that's the way it is. We appreciate that you did not sign on as a woman...

I don't think the men here think they are being short changed and are at the bottom of the pile....

Well on second thought....the bottom of the pile could be a very nice place to be....depends what the pile is made of....;)

[Micwar]

Nice to meet ya Mcat,

Just busted some chops, no offense intended. I do agree when it's your deal it's your rules.

I broke my glasses so I'll have to feel my way around and hope everyone undestands if I touch a sensitive part.....

[MCat]

Nice to meet ya Mcat,

Just busted some chops, no offense intended. I do agree when it's your deal it's your rules.

I broke my glasses so I'll have to feel my way around and hope everyone undestands if I touch a sensitive part.....

No offense taken...

Ya broke your glasses huh...here take my hand....I'll show you around ;)

[Penny]

Its alot harder to get ladies to post than it is men. :(

[Micwar]

No offense taken...

Ya broke your glasses huh...here take my hand....I'll show you around ;)

Extending my hand , giddy with glee, getting a personal tour...:D

[MCat]

Its alot harder to get ladies to post than it is men. :(

Yes indeed Penny...I remember when I first joined...I read, and read, and read..
Its weird how we hang around and don't post at first.
Of course, I'm so over it now...can ya tell....:D

[MCat]

Extending my hand , giddy with glee, getting a personal tour...:D

I said take my hand, its up here...:sc

[Micwar]

Its alot harder to get ladies to post than it is men. :(

I would have never thought that. Most women I know have no problem telling me and anyone what the deal is.....:lmao

[Micwar]

I said take my hand, its up here...:sc

Looking up from the bottom of the pile...

[MCat]

Looking up from the bottom of the pile...

See....its not so bad after all....:dd

[Micwar]

Matter of fact the view is wonderful...:la:

[Wet Beaver]

Yes indeed Penny...I remember when I first joined...I read, and read, and read..
Its weird how we hang around and don't post at first.
Of course, I'm so over it now...can ya tell....:D

i don't remember you being that shy.......

[MCat]

i don't remember you being that shy.......

Pretty sure I was....I think I was here for a couple weeks before I posted...I was scared shitless....:D

Then I realized nobody could reach through the screen and grab me...although a few did try...:na

[GeekMaster]

Pretty sure I was....I think I was here for a couple weeks before I posted...I was scared shitless....:D

Then I realized nobody could reach through the screen and grab me...although a few did try...:na

Nearly broke my fingers...:D

[slick69]

How do I remove a post?

[Lena]

Which post is it and where is it??

[slick69]

Which post is it and where is it??
"everyone has secrets, a must respond" Married and couples. Can you please remove it for me?

[Lena]

All your posts on there?

[slick69]

All your posts on there?
No, just that one. If you must remove all, thats fine too.

[Lena]

No, just that one. If you must remove all, thats fine too.
It is ok I see what you meant!
It is a double of the other thread!
It is gone!

[slick69]

It is ok I see what you meant!
It is a double of the other thread!
It is gone!
Thankyou, and have a great day

[slick69]

Thankyou, and have a great day
If its ok, will you remove this one also please. And thankyou ahead of time

[Lena]

If its ok, will you remove this one also please. And thankyou ahead of time
It is ok I just edited the posts!
If there isn't anything else I can do for you I will merge this in with the newbies questions one!

[slick69]

It is ok I just edited the posts!
If there isn't anything else I can do for you I will merge this in with the newbies questions one!
newbies, whatever you want,I just want that post and references to that post gone. Thanks very much

[zobman]

So your saying???? Men are hornier then women?

[slick59r]

2 good hands

[P.R.]

Wow, you impressed someonr!!

[Pink4You]

I want 500 post. I want to see pictures

[Andytyme]

I want 500 post. I want to see pictures

You get to see pics at 150. Your on the right track!

[wall-flower]

Ok I'm a bit confused. I know at 500 posts you get to message people. Now does that mean you get to email them? Or does it mean you get to have "real time" conversations with them, like in messenger?

[Phlirt]

500 means you can get PMs. If you get someone's yahoo name or email address you can talk to them directly sooner.

Some have it posted on profiles.

[wall-flower]

In profile it says email this user (with no addy listed) or private message this user. Are both restricted until 500?

[Phlirt]

not sure.

[wall-flower]

Was just curious. Thank you

[spare_change]

In profile it says email this user (with no addy listed) or private message this user. Are both restricted until 500?

Yeppers !! Very good !

[jeffpilot]

So, I have to get to 500 posts before I can see you...let's see...i'm on "3"...

[MCat]

this to speed up the process? :)

No Jeff you may not......

It much more fun for you if you read the threads and reply to those that interest you. You'll get to know us and we'll get to know you. It goes quickly...

Nice to meet you :wa: and welcome to M & F.

[jeffpilot]

You took some away?! Man, that's power!! :)

[Lena]

So, I have to get to 500 posts before I can see you...let's see...i'm on "3"...
Welcome Jeff,
Hope you will enjoy yourself here, but all silly posts to get to the post counts will be deleted.
http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4556
Enjoy getting to know everyone and let everyone get to know you too!
Nice to have you join us! :wa:

[Lena]

You took some away?! Man, that's power!! :)
Yes, sorry, but they will be deleted sooner or later!!
Enjoy and have fun while getting to your goal!

[jeffpilot]

We'll do "thanks" Lena/Mcat!

[MCat]

We'll do "thanks" Lena/Mcat!

You're quite welcome Jeff.....you'll have a good time. :55

[66angelholly]

Good Afternoon everyone. I'm a slow poster because I get caught up in reading more of the posts then actually doing my own posts.

Welcome aboard Jeffpilot -- you will probably pass me up sooner or later. Have fun!! I do.

[MichiganMan]

It'll take me a lot of posts to catch up to you 66angelholly - I'm at a whopping 4 posts!

[Frenchie]

It'll take me a lot of posts to catch up to you 66angelholly - I'm at a whopping 4 posts!

You'll be amazed how fast it goes up

Keep in there!

[Han Solo]

You'll be amazed how fast it goes up

Keep in there!
That could have a dual meaning depending on who you find to talk to in here!;) :lmao

[Lena]

It'll take me a lot of posts to catch up to you 66angelholly - I'm at a whopping 4 posts!
Hello and welcome Michiganman!!
You are doing just fine! Keep going and we will all get to know you soon!
Enjoy!! :wa:

[Big O]

It'll take me a lot of posts to catch up to you 66angelholly - I'm at a whopping 4 posts!

we all had four posts at one time......

welcome,
Big O

[66angelholly]

It'll take me a lot of posts to catch up to you 66angelholly - I'm at a whopping 4 posts!

Your up to 16 now -- keep posting -- you'll catch me!! Welcome to the site it can be alot of fun and you'll meet alot of fun people!!:wa:

[MichiganMan]

Your up to 16 now -- keep posting -- you'll catch me!! Welcome to the site it can be alot of fun and you'll meet alot of fun people!!:wa:



Slowly but surely I'm chugging along. Thanks for the encouragement. What part of Florida are you in? (Florida is basically the southern part of Michigan, or at least it seems like it is)

[MichiganMan]

Hello and welcome Michiganman!!
You are doing just fine! Keep going and we will all get to know you soon!
Enjoy!! :wa:


Thx Lena... looks like I have a whole lot more work to do to ever get close to your post numbers. Though all it takes is 1 post at a time, huh? :)

[longing for passion]

Just out of curiosity, is there something I'm missing, as some members have custom avatars before posting 500 or is it based on their rep points instead?

Not a big deal one way or the other, 500 will come soon enough, but just was wondering. Thanks in advance for any insight offered.

[Lena]

Just out of curiosity, is there something I'm missing, as some members have custom avatars before posting 500 or is it based on their rep points instead?

Not a big deal one way or the other, 500 will come soon enough, but just was wondering. Thanks in advance for any insight offered.
Anyone can have their own avatar posted before 500, if you have one you just need to send it into me to be approved and put up for you!
http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4556
Just PM me if you need any help.

[MCat]

Anyone can have their own avatar posted before 500, if you have one you just need to send it into me to be approved and put up for you!
http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4556
Just PM me if you need any help.

He can't PM...he doesn't have 500 posts....he'll have to email won't he?

[Lena]

He can't PM...he doesn't have 500 posts....he'll have to email won't he?
True, But the e-mail address is in there too!
I really meant e-mail me, just a slip of the tongue or fingers! :(

[longing for passion]

Thank you both so much for all of your help and dedication to making this site great. I deeply appreciate it.

[MCat]

True, But the e-mail address is in there too!
I really meant e-mail me, just a slip of the tongue or fingers! :(

Just didn't want anyone getting all excited thinkin they could when they couldn't...

My fingers slip often...especially when wet...;)

[Lena]

Just didn't want anyone getting all excited thinkin they could when they couldn't...

My fingers slip often...especially when wet...;)
hmmmmm better leave your fingers on the keyboard! ;)
Like me!!!! :D

[MichiganMan]

Don't want to short out your keyboard - I think I'm on Keyboard #256. (Mental note to self - look into buying plastic spill proof cover for next keyboard)

[Lena]

#250?? hmmmm sounds like you have been quite busy Mman!!

[MichiganMan]

#250?? hmmmm sounds like you have been quite busy Mman!!

actually 256.... I'm very clumsy with my coffee. ;)

[Lena]

actually 256.... I'm very clumsy with my coffee. ;)
Well try to be less clumsy, unless of course you have a stock of new keyboards piled up in the corner there!!

[wall-flower]

Ok you would think at 300+ posts I wouldn't have any more questions...but I do.

How do you put 2 quotes into your post?

[Lena]

Ok you would think at 300+ posts I wouldn't have any more questions...but I do.

How do you put 2 quotes into your post?
You will need to copy and paste the first one onto the second one.

[PlayfulMale69]

Ok you would think at 300+ posts I wouldn't have any more questions...but I do.

How do you put 2 quotes into your post?

Very carefully :D

Notice the Quote and /Quote tags when you reply? you just copy and paste those comments into your reply. One way you might try that is to reply to one and copy that quote into notepad and then cancel and then reply to the second message. Then copy the notepad back into your post.

Hope you are not as confused as I was writing this. :D Let me know if you have any questions, I would love to help you out. :kk

[jeffpilot]

What does the "CP" in "User CP" stand for?

[jeffpilot]

Nevermind...I think I just figured it out..."Control Panel".

[cheerymissy_34]

how do i kep from ALL of these post from going into my email???


someone please HELP...its filling it up really fast

[Lena]

how do i kep from ALL of these post from going into my email???


someone please HELP...its filling it up really fast
Click User CP on the top of the page,
then on your left Edit options, then scroll down alittle to the Recieve E-mails and change from Subscribe to Do not subscribe, that will take care of any future threads you post on! But you may have to go into each thread you have already subscribed to and go into Thread tools then unsubscribe.

[cheerymissy_34]

Click User CP on the top of the page,
then on your left Edit options, then scroll down alittle to the Recieve E-mails and change from Subscribe to Do not subscribe, that will take care of any future threads you post on! But you may have to go into each thread you have already subscribed to and go into Thread tools then unsubscribe.

Thank u sooo much

[P.R.]

If only us poor guys with less post could see

[Lena]

If only us poor guys with less post could see
You are nearly at 150 posts!
Won't be long now!

[P.R.]

Thanks Lena I am trying!

[LL]

I wanted to if my avatar shows. I want to add my own but I guess I have to get more posts? Is that right??

[MCat]

I wanted to if my avatar shows. I want to add my own but I guess I have to get more posts? Is that right??

The chicken chopper shows :D You can email an avatar to Lena and she can put it on for you.

Check your user control panel...you can choose the option to view avatars or not.

[LL]

Thanks the user control won't let me change anything. I'll email lena, thanks

[inmy4x]

This may be a stupid question but how do you have a real picture in your aviator window? I got the generic one but can’t figure out how to put up any others

[PlayfulMale69]

This may be a stupid question but how do you have a real picture in your aviator window? I got the generic one but can’t figure out how to put up any others

I don't have a real picture there. I keep it generic in case someone who knows me wanders through. :D

[inmy4x]

LOL that is a good thought,,,,

[Lena]

This may be a stupid question but how do you have a real picture in your aviator window? I got the generic one but can’t figure out how to put up any others
You may use an avatar of your own but you will have to send it in to be put up for you!
http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4556

[inmy4x]

Thank you Lena

[mustachrides]

i am posting like fire to get my 500 in

[mustachrides]

just so i can get a peek of you

[Lena]

i am posting like fire to get my 500 in
Hello and welcome!
Please try not to be in such a hurry!
Just sit back, read, post and enjoy getting to know everyone through their posts and us you, through yours!
150 will come soon enough, and you will be able to see some of the gallery, also everyone's profiles!
Enjoy the journey to your goal! :wa:

[cherokeered]

just so i can get a peek of you


A peek at who????


Some of us don't put pics in the gallery......

[Postman]

Can I have a pic of you? Please Oh Please?A peek at who????


Some of us don't put pics in the gallery......

[cherokeered]

Can I have a pic of you? Please Oh Please?

Ya gotta keep an eye out....I sometimes use parts of me as an avatar....for short periods of time...but there are some very nice pics in the gallery.....of others....:)

[cmt21lem]

:sex i like the eye candy comment

[OICurready4me]

This may be a stupid question but how do you have a real picture in your aviator window? I got the generic one but can’t figure out how to put up any others


Once you get to 500 posts, you can upload your own avatar or you can contact one of the moderators, like Lena, and you could send her an avatar you would like to use and she can post it for you until you get the 500 posts.

[UltimateNaneki]

:sex i like the eye candy comment

Someone here is a little horny about picture....:na