Are you a jealous person

[Norfolkdave]

How would you feel if your partner went to a night club on her/his own, went out of town on business/ stayed in a expensive hotel/Went out for a meal with the girls/or boys?

[Shhhhhh]

How would you feel if your partner went to a night club on her/his own, went out of town on business/ stayed in a expensive hotel/Went out for a meal with the girls/or boys?
Hey Dave,
Good question. Im pretty secure with myself. I trust my husband, and as long as he told me what his plans were, and I didnt have to "catch" him out and about, I dont think there would be much of a problem. We have a mutual respect for each other. Hey, after all, I know who he sleeps with at night, and who he comes home to Right???? Thanks Dave,
Jen:wa:

[Norfolkdave]

Thanks for answering, be interesting what people truthfully say here, heh heh heh my views are that we are both growing to a our 38th wedding anniversary this year, its been a struggle, lol, but were getting here.

[G...G]

Good question Dave!!!

I have never been the jealous type. My husband is not the jealous type. Is that a good thing? I'm not sure??? At one time, I thought it was very good that we could both go out and "not" fuss and fight if someone of the opposite sex talked to the other but now I'm not so sure if it's good or not. I guess what I'm trying to say is.. it would feel great to have someone jealous sometimes.

We both go out with our friends!! So I guess it just depends on the relationship???

[Sunfiresix]

Georgia--Sometimes may be ok. I will tell you from experience all the time is bad. My wife is one of those, I never gave her a reason to be but she is very jealous. I can not have a female friend, not even to talk about the ones I work with. My Boss is female, married and twenty years younger, I did a favor for her--I got a motorcycle battery from a dealership near me--sixty miles from her--it was for her husbands birthday--when my wife found out I got the third degree and she said you don't do things like that for other women, all I said was you do for friends. But that is the way it goes if someone is so jealous, she knows now I don't do nuttin wrong, but for twenty years she was bad. If she knew about this site--I would be casterated, OOWWWWW.

[Norfolkdave]

Oh my chris is jealous as well, but she knows of the site well some parts not all, but she doesnt mind me on it. If though after all these years I was to go and pick someone up while she was working and I mean collecting a friend, she wouldnt moan if I told her first, but if I didnt Id be another Hoss, the frying pan would come through the air.

[G...G]

I bet that is bad sunfire!! Sorry you have to deal with that. I have friends who are like that and they are miserable. I guess "a little" jealous is okay but to take it too extremes.. NO!!!

Hope she don't find out about this site!!! Wouldn't want you to lose "anything" precious!!! :D


Georgia--Sometimes may be ok. I will tell you from experience all the time is bad. My wife is one of those, I never gave her a reason to be but she is very jealous. I can not have a female friend, not even to talk about the ones I work with. My Boss is female, married and twenty years younger, I did a favor for her--I got a motorcycle battery from a dealership near me--sixty miles from her--it was for her husbands birthday--when my wife found out I got the third degree and she said you don't do things like that for other women, all I said was you do for friends. But that is the way it goes if someone is so jealous, she knows now I don't do nuttin wrong, but for twenty years she was bad. If she knew about this site--I would be casterated, OOWWWWW.

[kissiemybuttie]

If my hubby wants to go out with the guys it does not bother me...and I used to go out with the girls all the time never seemed to bother him...
I dont think there is any reason to be jealous...I know who he is coming home to!!!!

[Shiane]

As long as the trust has never been broken, too much jealousy is not good, it's smothering and it's difficult to deal with someone who is very possessive. They can get pissed off over the smallest most insignificant things. No jealousy I would think would be better, but like Georgia said they need to show they do care. People in a relationship do need to show common courtesy though, be honest about where they are going and what they are doing.

[Penny]

Yes I am :(

[Sandy]

mark has his nite out with the guys, and i have my nite out with the girls. no problems.

[spare_change]

I am not jealous ---- but I am selfish!! I want what I want when I want it -- and I want it all to myself !!!

[Momma]

I have to admit...I'm jealous to a point....not if my husband is talking or even flirting with someone....I mean, I do that myself so I can't be jealous for that...but if it went any further than that, yes....I would be

[Big O]

This is both our second time around and we are both very comfortable with each other. She travels a lot for business and it doesn't bother me at all. I know that she loves me and I love her and I know that neither of us would really "cheat" on each other physicaly (sorry ladies) so no, I'm not jealous. Well maybe just a little.....

[dartgirl]

I am not the jealous type. My hubby works with mostly women and they will tell him the most intimate details of their lives. I won't even talk to him about some of the things they will tell him. He says he doesn't care when I go out very rarely with the girls, but I can tell it bugs the hell out of him. He hates it when he doesn't know where I am. He wouldn't cheat on me although I wish he would, then maybe I could have my life back.

[S.E]

I never thought I was until recently ...I thought I buried that emotion deep down inside myself.I didn't want 2 get hurt so I never let anyone get close to me..Since being married though I've let my wife get close to me,that's is a big step for me to do(take 2 long 2 explain)and what I thought was envy ,really was jealousy,of some of her freinds..

[yaser]

I have to admit...I'm jealous to a point....not if my husband is talking or even flirting with someone....I mean, I do that myself so I can't be jealous for that...but if it went any further than that, yes....I would beI believe you are right..If I were I would be more jealous..

[yaser]

I am...I don't to share my lover with anyone else..because I love her much..

[yaser]

I am not the jealous type. My hubby works with mostly women and they will tell him the most intimate details of their lives. I won't even talk to him about some of the things they will tell him. He says he doesn't care when I go out very rarely with the girls, but I can tell it bugs the hell out of him. He hates it when he doesn't know where I am. He wouldn't cheat on me although I wish he would, then maybe I could have my life back.Dartgirl,you need not his cheating as excuse,decide and have your life back..The key is in your mind..not with your hubby's dick..

[rainbowhigh]

I think I would be very jealous if my husband ever cheated on me. I have cheated on him (I know - not fair) and he knows about it and has forgiven me. But I still have dreams that seem so real that he is cheating on me. Sometimes I can't let it go and I wake up mad at him. Guilty conscience, I guess. One night, without waking up, I pushed him out of the bed during one of these dreams. He told me about it the next morning. THAT was funny. We still joke about it.

[Trev]

I have never considered myself jealous but have been told that I am.

[sweet]

My husband goes out with his friends alot and I'll go out with mine on occassion. There are trust issues between us, because of what he's done in the past. I do get a little jealous and paranoid when I know he'll be around other women. He, on the other hand, is the extremely jealous type and always has been. He's always be very possessive. If any guy looks at me, he gets pissed and thinks I was flirting with him, when really all I was doing was walking by someone. I can't help it if men check me out.:D
When I do go out with my friends, he'll call me every hour to check up on me :rolleyes: I guess possibly the reason he is so overly paranoid when I go out is because he's afraid I'll do exactly what he did to me. I suppose though, to some extent, it does make me feel good that he worries about other men hitting on me and such, but I don't think he should get as upset as he does and be so possessive of me.

[hoss]

My husband goes out with his friends alot and I'll go out with mine on occassion. There are trust issues between us, because of what he's done in the past. I do get a little jealous and paranoid when I know he'll be around other women. He, on the other hand, is the extremely jealous type and always has been. He's always be very possessive. If any guy looks at me, he gets pissed and thinks I was flirting with him, when really all I was doing was walking by someone. I can't help it if men check me out.:D
When I do go out with my friends, he'll call me every hour to check up on me :rolleyes: I guess possibly the reason he is so overly paranoid when I go out is because he's afraid I'll do exactly what he did to me. I suppose though, to some extent, it does make me feel good that he worries about other men hitting on me and such, but I don't think he should get as upset as he does and be so possessive of me.

then next time leave that cell phone at home.....i mean it rang for hours....how can i concentrate with that going off....and you know I've been checking you out since day one gorgeous:kk

[hoss]

I have to admit...I'm jealous to a point....not if my husband is talking or even flirting with someone....I mean, I do that myself so I can't be jealous for that...but if it went any further than that, yes....I would be


YOU WHAT !!!! you hussy !!!

If i ever find that guy I'm going to knock his ass into next week.

Cough {DAVE} Cough....:lmao

[sweet]

then next time leave that cell phone at home.....i mean it rang for hours....how can i concentrate with that going off....and you know I've been checking you out since day one gorgeous:kk

I'll be sure to do that next time sweetie.;)
I knew that was you who pinched my butt! :D :kk

[hoss]

I'll be sure to do that next time sweetie.;)
I knew that was you who pinched my butt! :D :kk

and to think i wasnt using my hands :wa:

[sweet]

and to think i wasnt using my hands :wa:

Damn you're good! :D

[Momma]

YOU WHAT !!!! you hussy !!!

If i ever find that guy I'm going to knock his ass into next week.

Cough {DAVE} Cough....:lmao

LOL....YOUR the hussy...sorry...TART....:kk

[hoss]

Damn you're good! :D


yes i know....and thats a cuss word...think someone needs a spanking...

i missed you !!!!

[hoss]

LOL....YOUR the hussy...sorry...TART....:kk


gee sweetone did you hear something ????...

[sweet]

yes i know....and thats a cuss word...think someone needs a spanking...

i missed you !!!!

LOL Oooppsss! Did I say a potty word? I'll bend over now, just be gentle please. :D

[sweet]

gee sweetone did you hear something ????...

Have no clue what you're talking about ;)

[hoss]

LOL Oooppsss! Did I say a potty word? I'll bend over now, just be gentle please. :D

you are such a shameless tease:sp:

[sweet]

you are such a shameless tease:sp:
LOL you know you love me! :na :kk

[hoss]

LOL you know you love me! :na :kk


yeh u got me wrapped around your little finger dont ya

[yaser]

I think I would be very jealous if my husband ever cheated on me. I have cheated on him (I know - not fair) and he knows about it and has forgiven me. But I still have dreams that seem so real that he is cheating on me. Sometimes I can't let it go and I wake up mad at him. Guilty conscience, I guess. One night, without waking up, I pushed him out of the bed during one of these dreams. He told me about it the next morning. THAT was funny. We still joke about it.Rainbow,you cheated once on him and found out that it was very nice and you want to go on but your hubby is an obstacle..By throwing him from the bed,you wanted to tell him not to hinder yourself..

[sweet]

yeh u got me wrapped around your little finger dont ya

Mission accomplished. ;)

[yaser]

yeh u got me wrapped around your little finger dont yaYou have courage now because Momma is somewhere else ....When you see that Momma is absent,you make seranade to sweet girls..

[yaser]

yeh u got me wrapped around your little finger dont yaCoping with you is that easy my son...

[hoss]

You have courage now because Momma is somewhere else ....When you see that Momma is absent,you make seranade to sweet girls..

hey ya yasar....actually mommas right here...but your right about the sweet girls....

[hoss]

Mission accomplished. ;)

i wouldnt have it any other way :kk

[hoss]

Coping with you is that easy my son...

yeh..a pretty girl flutters her eyes and me and I'm hers

[Cotties]

So am I...Yes I am :(I'll let my wife go out and do what she wants. But if I catch someone thinking they can take her away from me and look at me with contempt if I see them flirting with my wife..

example..no you don't want to hear it..just don't mess with whats mine:55

[Norfolkdave]

I think I would be very jealous if my husband ever cheated on me. I have cheated on him (I know - not fair) and he knows about it and has forgiven me. But I still have dreams that seem so real that he is cheating on me. Sometimes I can't let it go and I wake up mad at him. Guilty conscience, I guess. One night, without waking up, I pushed him out of the bed during one of these dreams. He told me about it the next morning. THAT was funny. We still joke about it.


Hello Rainbowhigh and welcome to the site and thankyou for answering this :wa:

[Norfolkdave]

LOL Oooppsss! Did I say a potty word? I'll bend over now, just be gentle please. :D

You want a potty! hell man they dont make them that big:lmao :lmao :lmao

[Norfolkdave]

gee sweetone did you hear something ????...

Tart she meant Fart:D :D :D

[Momma]

Tart she meant Fart:D :D :D

Thank you for pointing that mistake out to me Mighty ODIN....I didn't catch it....LOL....he is a Fart, isn't he? ;) :kk

[hoss]

Thank you for pointing that mistake out to me Mighty ODIN....I didn't catch it....LOL....he is a Fart, isn't he? ;) :kk


like my granpappy used to say....."what are you going to do for a face when the monkey wants his ass back".....yes ...i think that about says it all....

[cherokeered]

um...two words....green eyes....



Cherokee....tries her darndest...but.....:D

[Momma]

like my granpappy used to say....."what are you going to do for a face when the monkey wants his ass back".....yes ...i think that about says it all....

Not quite.....how about Piss off smartass...the cast iron fry pan is coming out, LOL......:kk

[Norfolkdave]

like my granpappy used to say....."what are you going to do for a face when the monkey wants his ass back".....yes ...i think that about says it all....

OH Dear looks like he had a blowback, and its got into his lungs and made him fighting fit:D :D

[pixiegirl]

Jealousy is an ugly, destructive emotion, but I'm a woman...

[Norfolkdave]

Jealousy is an ugly, destructive emotion, but I'm a woman...

and all woman dont I know it, mmmm goodmorning sexy:knuddel:

[pixiegirl]

Morning Dave :knuddel:



and all woman dont I know it, mmmm goodmorning sexy:knuddel:

[Norfolkdave]

Morning Dave :knuddel:

morning doll how are we!:wa: :knuddel:

[pixiegirl]

To be honest not too good darling :(



morning doll how are we!:wa: :knuddel:

[Norfolkdave]

To be honest not too good darling :(

Hey babes not like you, whats the problem, wanna cuddle (((((((((((PIXIE)))))):wa:

[Cotties]

a simple extremly would have been just as good :D um...two words....green eyes....



Cherokee....tries her darndest...but.....:D

[cherokeered]

no it wouldnt...nothing simple about me...:D




Cherokee...the eyes are the windows to the soul....:whee:
a simple extremly would have been just as good :D

[Norfolkdave]

no it wouldnt...nothing simple about me...:D




Cherokee...the eyes are the windows to the soul....:whee:


Heh heh heh you said it babes we didnt.....LOl Lol Lol:lmao :lmao :lmao

[hoss]

OH Dear looks like he had a blowback, and its got into his lungs and made him fighting fit:D :D


I think i need to stop reading your posts...they give me a headache...we speak English here...not sure what dialect you speak...:lmao ..monkey ??

[Norfolkdave]

I think i need to stop reading your posts...they give me a headache...we speak English here...not sure what dialect you speak...:lmao ..monkey ??

No Bor Norfolk Squit, a proper country dialect and we are very proud of that, here your brainy decifier! keep you quiet for ages, hell momma peace at last, Hoss,s dummy has been found:- First the history behind,


"Norfolk is not simply a word that describes a county."Norfolk" describes also a language,a humour and a way of life. Spoken Norfolk has a stout and uniquely resistant quality and only people born in the county are able properly to penetrate it and repeat it with their own tongues. Just as their language, so also the people of Norfolk are tough, resistant and impenetrable. They guard to themselves the secrets of their language and of their humour. Yet humour there is in the Norfolk people,riotous and abundant. When you read Norfolk tales, remember that they are tales about a highly observant, subtle and recondite people.Therefore, always think twice before you laugh at a Norfolk tale - the laugh might be on you!"

Little owd gal Muffet
Sat roight down on an owd tuffet
Eatin' har cards an' whey,
When there come a master grut owd spoider
And sat roight down aside o'har
And wholly scart the li'l ol' mawther away.:lmao :lmao :lmao

[hoss]

sorry got to "NO" then i got bored...but thanks for whatever you said...I'm sure someone will read it....then again ....:lmao




No Bor Norfolk Squit, a proper country dialect and we are very proud of that, here your brainy decifier! keep you quiet for ages, hell momma peace at last, Hoss,s dummy has been found:- First the history behind,


"Norfolk is not simply a word that describes a county."Norfolk" describes also a language,a humour and a way of life. Spoken Norfolk has a stout and uniquely resistant quality and only people born in the county are able properly to penetrate it and repeat it with their own tongues. Just as their language, so also the people of Norfolk are tough, resistant and impenetrable. They guard to themselves the secrets of their language and of their humour. Yet humour there is in the Norfolk people,riotous and abundant. When you read Norfolk tales, remember that they are tales about a highly observant, subtle and recondite people.Therefore, always think twice before you laugh at a Norfolk tale - the laugh might be on you!"

Little owd gal Muffet
Sat roight down on an owd tuffet
Eatin' har cards an' whey,
When there come a master grut owd spoider
And sat roight down aside o'har
And wholly scart the li'l ol' mawther away.:lmao :lmao :lmao

[Norfolkdave]

sorry got to "NO" then i got bored...but thanks for whatever you said...I'm sure someone will read it....then again ....:lmao

You lose track easy dont you, no sense no feeling:D

[hoss]

You lose track easy dont you, no sense no feeling:D



Feelings, nothing more than feelings
Trying to forget my feelings of love
Teardrops rolling down on my face
Trying to forget my feelings of love

[Norfolkdave]

Feelings, nothing more than feelings
Trying to forget my feelings of love
Teardrops rolling down on my face
Trying to forget my feelings of love


Size 9
and on time
in it went
from the uk lovely sent:lmao

[kjguy43]

I am not jealous and neither is she. We go out together and alone at times. When we go out together, she'll see a hot guy walking down the street that makes her do a double take, or vice versa. Then we'll comment on what we could and would do with that person. Keep things spicy. Ah the mind, a wonderful thing

We are 100% secure in our relationship.

[Momma]

That's great hun....my hubby and I have a similar relationship....he's a member on this site too....I don't mind when he flirts...I actually get a kick out of it....;)

I am not jealous and neither is she. We go out together and alone at times. When we go out together, she'll see a hot guy walking down the street that makes her do a double take, or vice versa. Then we'll comment on what we could and would do with that person. Keep things spicy. Ah the mind, a wonderful thing

We are 100% secure in our relationship.

[MCat]

I don't think we are too jealous....being here keeps things spicy at home. I would probably be very jealous if Hank was the type to go out frequently with the boys...but he doesn't. He's home with me where he belongs.

[kjguy43]

That's great hun....my hubby and I have a similar relationship....he's a member on this site too....I don't mind when he flirts...I actually get a kick out of it....;)

Its such a turn on to see how your partner acts around someone they wanna o. Hey we are all human, we alive not dead. Its only natural to want someone other than your spouse, if you both agree, then what's the problem. However some people don't understand that, but I digress.

[SaltyLime]

How would you feel if your partner went to a night club on her/his own, went out of town on business/ stayed in a expensive hotel/Went out for a meal with the girls/or boys?

None of these things bother me now, but during our first year together, I was difficult. My excuse: I was in a new country...it was a huge contrast to my life in my country. We also have an age gap so his friends weren't necessarily my friends until some time later.

Looking back, I wasn't jealous because of the thought of him cheating, but envious because I felt left out on a larger scale.

[Jy]

I'm not really the jealous type as long as I know where I stand. If a man expresses to me in words or by his actions that he adores me, then I don't mind him looking at a pretty girl. Heck! I'll probably be checking her out too!! We all look, because we're all human. It's natural to want to look at something pleasing to the eye, whether it be a scenic view, a work of art, or an attractive person. If I feel secure in a relationship, then there's no need for jealousy.

[KingPin]

i dont have a steady partner but i feel what is there to be jealous of i mean really a hot woman on my arm let the others drool over her just makes the sex with her hotter when i take her home

[Momma]

Well said hun...:kk



i dont have a steady partner but i feel what is there to be jealous of i mean really a hot woman on my arm let the others drool over her just makes the sex with her hotter when i take her home

[Sandy]

yes i am, you can look, talk and flirt, but no touchy touchy

[Momma]

I agree Sandy...I don't have a problem with the flirting and looking...but the touching is where my jealousy draws the line...



yes i am, you can look, talk and flirt, but no touchy touchy

[Annie]

Sandy and Momma, would you be bothered by your friend giving your husband a hug and a kiss on the cheek? Let's say it's a friend that occasionally gives you hugs too. Or is it just the sexual type of touching that bothers you?

[Sandy]

that doesn'y bother me at all annie, i mean a stranger coming up and touching him, thats where i draw the line














Sandy and Momma, would you be bothered by your friend giving your husband a hug and a kiss on the cheek? Let's say it's a friend that occasionally gives you hugs too. Or is it just the sexual type of touching that bothers you?

[MCat]

that doesn'y bother me at all annie, i mean a stranger coming up and touching him, thats where i draw the line

Dang....and here I was looking forward to feeling up Bonz :D

[Sandy]

you'll get a boner you do that :D














Dang....and here I was looking forward to feeling up Bonz :D

[Traxster]

yes i am, you can look, talk and flirt, but no touchy touchy

Oh ok............ when??? lol.....:lmao just playin!!!

[milf2000]

yes i am, you can look, talk and flirt, but no touchy touchy

like kjguy said, we are 100% secure in our relationship so when we go out together and there is some touching at times, we don't get jealous...we just don't take it any farther at that moment. remember we are swingers, so it doesn't bother us with the touching , flirting, and looking; it just brings the spice level up.

[Momma]

For me it's the sexual that I have troubles with....but, I will admit, that I'm learning to get past that...I know my hubby loves me more than anything, and if another person or people were to get involved with us...I would eventually get past those feelings of jealousy....but casual kissing or touching has never bothered me or him....:wa:



Sandy and Momma, would you be bothered by your friend giving your husband a hug and a kiss on the cheek? Let's say it's a friend that occasionally gives you hugs too. Or is it just the sexual type of touching that bothers you?

[Itshardon-theroad]

For me it's the sexual that I have troubles with....but, I will admit, that I'm learning to get past that...I know my hubby loves me more than anything, and if another person or people were to get involved with us...I would eventually get past those feelings of jealousy....but casual kissing or touching has never bothered me or him....:wa:

Could you talk to my wife about that? She seems to think that the casual touching and suggestive things like "sports massages" are ok for her to do, but gets supremely jealous when I touch another woman. I only get jealous when I find out she has been touching other men without telling me. That's my rule.

[Momma]

That's a good rule hun...hiding things is bad news...as for your wife...I wish I could talk to her...sometimes putting your fears out there, and talk about them helps you deal with them...seems she might be insecure about something, I mean, if it's ok for her but not you?...hmmm, makes you think...:kk



Could you talk to my wife about that? She seems to think that the casual touching and suggestive things like "sports massages" are ok for her to do, but gets supremely jealous when I touch another woman. I only get jealous when I find out she has been touching other men without telling me. That's my rule.

[Diamonds]

Am I a jealous person? Hell no!! Never have been, never will be. If you have to worry about that, it's nothing but trouble. My wife hasn't touched me in over 5 years. I hope she's getting it somewhere. Doesn't bother me. I just miss the cuddles, hugs, kisses and touchy feely part of the relationship , which we haven't had for probably 10 years now. But , then what the fuck, I get most of what all I need in this Forum, from all of you, my dear, dear friends. Thank you all. You keep me alive and well.

I love you all.
:kk :knuddel: :55 :)

[Jy]

Glad we're helping fill the void, hun. There's alot of us here in the same boat if that's any comfort.

We love you too, sweetie!:kk

Am I a jealous person? Hell no!! Never have been, never will be. If you have to worry about that, it's nothing but trouble. My wife hasn't touched me in over 5 years. I hope she's getting it somewhere. Doesn't bother me. I just miss the cuddles, hugs, kisses and touchy feely part of the relationship , which we haven't had for probably 10 years now. But , then what the fuck, I get most of what all I need in this Forum, from all of you, my dear, dear friends. Thank you all. You keep me alive and well.

I love you all.
:kk :knuddel: :55 :)

[Diamonds]

It's a damn good thing that you don't live on the next street from me, 'cause I would definitely have an extremely hard time staying away from you.:kk

[Jy]

And I'd have a hard time not jogging past your house every day, sashaying my ass for you to ogle!It's a damn good thing that you don't live on the next street from me, 'cause I would definitely have an extremely hard time staying away from you.:kk

[Zpanther]

See....... that's what I'm talking about. You just can't stay in the damn cave!

[Diamonds]

ZP,


Are those crazy mountains you live in any where near West Virginia???:lmao

[Zpanther]

ZP,


Are those crazy mountains you live in any where near West Virginia???:lmao

Do they have mountains in West Virginia!



Nah...... we're out here in the REAL mountains..... the Rocky Mountains. ;)

[Jy]

...not when there's a hottie peeking through his curtains, waiting for me to jog pass!See....... that's what I'm talking about. You just can't stay in the damn cave!

[Diamonds]

Well, I'm sorry , I meant big hills. I was raised in Alberta, Canada, home of theROCKIE MOUNTAINS. Sometimes I just say Mountains to others to make them feel good, even tho they live in an area of small hills.


Anyway, I've taken down the shutters, so I'll have light in the house in the AM and have been drinking my Martoonies for the last couple of hours , thankful that Ernesto died and didn't turn into a Charlie to destroy my house again. At 1:37 AM in SW Florida, all is once again well.:55 :wa:

[Zpanther]

Okay..... then you DO know what mountains are.....but you sure as hell can't see any in SW Florida! Great place to visit..... but I think I'll stay here to live.

[Misty]

Naaaah
jealous? me? nevah!!!
I'll just kill anyone who messes with ME or MINE :D

[Jy]

Another Canadian!? Woohoo!! I'm in Vancouver right now - used to live here, but am now in Southwestern Ontario.

I knew there was something extra special about you...;)

Well, I'm sorry , I meant big hills. I was raised in Alberta, Canada, home of theROCKIE MOUNTAINS. Sometimes I just say Mountains to others to make them feel good, even tho they live in an area of small hills.


Anyway, I've taken down the shutters, so I'll have light in the house in the AM and have been drinking my Martoonies for the last couple of hours , thankful that Ernesto died and didn't turn into a Charlie to destroy my house again. At 1:37 AM in SW Florida, all is once again well.:55 :wa:

[PlayfulMale69]

Naaaah
jealous? me? nevah!!!
I'll just kill anyone who messes with ME or MINE :D

Oh, and I was hoping to mess around with you. :sex

[tiger50]

Another Canadian!? Woohoo!! I'm in Vancouver right now - used to live here, but am now in Southwestern Ontario.

I knew there was something extra special about you...;)

damned canadians... takin over the site.... :sc

[Norfolkdave]

damned canadians... takin over the site.... :sc

LOL just cos you cant see jazzies ass LOL:lmao

[Momma]

Yeah...we act all sweet and polite and when you least expect it...
we jump up and bite you in the ass...ok, now turn around and bend over...
take your bitting like a good boy...LMAO...;) :kk


damned canadians... takin over the site.... :sc

[tiger50]

Yeah...we act all sweet and polite and when you least expect it...
we jump up and bite you in the ass...ok, now turn around and bend over...
take your bitting like a good boy...LMAO...;) :kk

heyyy leave my arse alone gal.... there's uver cool stuff ta bite on... :whee:

[Willy S]

No

[Momma]

So true...but you got such a cute ass...:lf :kk



heyyy leave my arse alone gal.... there's uver cool stuff ta bite on... :whee:

[Norfolkdave]

heyyy leave my arse alone gal.... there's uver cool stuff ta bite on... :whee:

Heh heh heh where, I,ll give momma me camera:lmao

[KingPin]

my god do you ever stick to the topic or is it always a free for all

[Momma]

we try to stick to the topic...but it never seems to work out that way...threads are hyjacked, but always get back on track eventually...:kk



my god do you ever stick to the topic or is it always a free for all

[Norfolkdave]

my god do you ever stick to the topic or is it always a free for all

Look if you got a complaint talk with the moderators Ok but your see alot of this going on over the site. you,ll learn

[Norfolkdave]

we try to stick to the topic...but it never seems to work out that way...threads are hyjacked, but always get back on track eventually...:kk




Oh he dont like me using ODIN either, try to banter with him and he calls names I wont tolerate that, still who am I.:lmao

[cherokeered]

Yeah I am...but not all the time..and sometimes not at all...depends on my mood really...



Cherokee...at least I dont stalk...lol

[cherokeered]

my god do you ever stick to the topic or is it always a free for all


Its either...or neither..lol

Depends....


Cherokee...its always interesting reading though....;)

[MCat]

I try not to be....since I love the attention why shouldn't Hank have the same fun...

[Itshardon-theroad]

we try to stick to the topic...but it never seems to work out that way...threads are hyjacked, but always get back on track eventually...:kk




what was the topic again?

[Momma]

LOL...are you jealous....but you've already told me your rule...about touching and not telling...I still wish we ALL could talk to your wife...just so we could asure her that it's simply harmless flirting...

I haven't been here to long, and I don't know if anybody has hooked up after talking on here, but I come here because I love to flirt, and these people on here are the best...best of friends....:kk


what was the topic again?

[Itshardon-theroad]

LOL...are you jealous....but you've already told me your rule...about touching and not telling...I still wish we ALL could talk to your wife...just so we could asure her that it's simply harmless flirting...

I haven't been here to long, and I don't know if anybody has hooked up after talking on here, but I come here because I love to flirt, and these people on here are the best...best of friends....:kk

I admit I am. I was jealous last night when our gay friend was comforting her after she hurt herself. I know you all would make her feel welcome.

[Momma]

We certainly would...now, at the risk of sounding nosey....was this gay friend a guy or a woman...if you don't want to tell me that's fine, really...
it's just that some women look at gay guys, kinda as a girlfriend...not a man to have sex with, at least...that's how I feel...:kk


I admit I am. I was jealous last night when our gay friend was comforting her after she hurt herself. I know you all would make her feel welcome.

[Itshardon-theroad]

We certainly would...now, at the risk of sounding nosey....was this gay friend a guy or a woman...if you don't want to tell me that's fine, really...
it's just that some women look at gay guys, kinda as a girlfriend...not a man to have sex with, at least...that's how I feel...:kk

guy. He's one of my wife's best friends.

[Momma]

aahh, I see...now, I'm going to get real nosey...LOL...just tell me if I'm over stepping here...are you jealous of the friendship, or are you afraid that there is more to the relationship?...:sc



guy. He's one of my wife's best friends.

[Itshardon-theroad]

aahh, I see...now, I'm going to get real nosey...LOL...just tell me if I'm over stepping here...are you jealous of the friendship, or are you afraid that there is more to the relationship?...:sc

I think I was more jealous of the situation than the friendship. He actually is bisexual and he's said my wife is the only one he would go straight for right now. She won't though because he's slept with other men.

[Momma]

Ok, now I see...there is nothing wrong with a little jealousy in a relationship, I freely admit that there are times when I have been jealous, it's just when jealousy get's out of control...that's when it causes problems...:kk



I think I was more jealous of the situation than the friendship. He actually is bisexual and he's said my wife is the only one he would go straight for right now. She won't though because he's slept with other men.

[Itshardon-theroad]

Ok, now I see...there is nothing wrong with a little jealousy in a relationship, I freely admit that there are times when I have been jealous, it's just when jealousy get's out of control...that's when it causes problems...:kk

I try not to let it be, but sometimes I am. I give her a great deal of freedom, but sometimes I think she is embarassed to tell me what is going on. I know I am as well.

[Momma]

Communication...it's a tough thing sometimes, hard to be the first to open up about stuff that might be embarssing...that's why I thought it would be a great idea if she was here...she could get alot of advice , just like you are, from some great people...sometimes you need to have someone, besides eachother, to talk to about stuff like this...I can honestly say...it worked wonders for my hubby and I...:kk



I try not to let it be, but sometimes I am. I give her a great deal of freedom, but sometimes I think she is embarassed to tell me what is going on. I know I am as well.

[Itshardon-theroad]

Communication...it's a tough thing sometimes, hard to be the first to open up about stuff that might be embarssing...that's why I thought it would be a great idea if she was here...she could get alot of advice , just like you are, from some great people...sometimes you need to have someone, besides eachother, to talk to about stuff like this...I can honestly say...it worked wonders for my hubby and I...:kk




Thanks Momma. I think it would be good for her to hear things from folks here as well. I really am afraid the type of flirting she does now and the condition she is usually in when she does it will lead to disaster.

[Momma]

aahh, ok...I guess I could see how in some cases it would lead to disaster...I wish there was more that we could do to help you hun...:kk



Thanks Momma. I think it would be good for her to hear things from folks here as well. I really am afraid the type of flirting she does now and the condition she is usually in when she does it will lead to disaster.

[Itshardon-theroad]

aahh, ok...I guess I could see how in some cases it would lead to disaster...I wish there was more that we could do to help you hun...:kk

If I get her on here, I think that is possible. This place is a safe outlet for her flirtatiousness.

[cherokeered]

If I get her on here, I think that is possible. This place is a safe outlet for her flirtatiousness.


It definitely is the best site for that hun....very couple friendly I think...and friendly in general...

This site has a warm, cozy feeling to it...and I know myself...I came here with no knowledge of anything...and felt at home immediately...

[Itshardon-theroad]

It definitely is the best site for that hun....very couple friendly I think...and friendly in general...

This site has a warm, cozy feeling to it...and I know myself...I came here with no knowledge of anything...and felt at home immediately...

Thank you very much, Cher. I know you have made me feel comfortable here. I'm sure she will feel the same.

[Momma]

Well said hun...couldn't agree with you more...I felt the same....:kk



It definitely is the best site for that hun....very couple friendly I think...and friendly in general...

This site has a warm, cozy feeling to it...and I know myself...I came here with no knowledge of anything...and felt at home immediately...

[Momma]

It really is a safe outlet...and with the both of you on here, even after you leave...you can still talk about it and give your oppinions on things....that opens up the communication between you too...it would be great...:kk



If I get her on here, I think that is possible. This place is a safe outlet for her flirtatiousness.

[cherokeered]

Thank you very much, Cher. I know you have made me feel comfortable here. I'm sure she will feel the same.

YW...anytime...:kk

[cherokeered]

Well said hun...couldn't agree with you more...I felt the same....:kk


TY....:kk

[MCat]

It definitely is the best site for that hun....very couple friendly I think...and friendly in general...

This site has a warm, cozy feeling to it...and I know myself...I came here with no knowledge of anything...and felt at home immediately...

I spent my first 2 weeks here gasping for air....it was my first time flirting and being on a forum/chat site. Was made to feel very comfortable by everyone.

Hubby and I are here together....we can vouch for the couple friendly.

[Itshardon-theroad]

I spent my first 2 weeks here gasping for air....it was my first time flirting and being on a forum/chat site. Was made to feel very comfortable by everyone.

Hubby and I are here together....we can vouch for the couple friendly.

I'm sort of in the same boat now. Head is spinning a bit not having ever really been the flirt. I'm a pretty straight forward person.

I will have to get her on here to talk to both of you.

[Momma]

Keep us updated ok hun?....if you do get her to come on here, let us know...:kk



I'm sort of in the same boat now. Head is spinning a bit not having ever really been the flirt. I'm a pretty straight forward person.

I will have to get her on here to talk to both of you.

[NativeBride]

I don't think I'm the jealous type. I've fantasize a few time about sharing my husband and it's a turn on for me. As long as he loves me completely I'm okay.

[Harley Rider]

would he like to share u,,,,god that would be a turn on to me

[sex_kitten_4u]

no not a jelouse person i dont see the point in it , i feel that if you are jelouse then you dont have the trust in your partner that you should have and are very insecure

[Norfolkdave]

Actually No Im not, I may speak my mind and be me but one thing Im not is jealous LOL " Oh God why give me such a big one its always dragging on the floor" LOl

[yaser]

To tell the truth I am.....Hope I had not told the opposite before..

[Cotties]

if your not jealous you have nothing to protect..

I'm jealous and proud....I have a good women and men know it

[Norfolkdave]

You dont have to be jealous to protect, you ( love) to Protect there is a difference

[yaser]

if your not jealous you have nothing to protect..

I'm jealous and proud....I have a good women and men know itHeyy Cotties how men know that your wife good?Need witness?

[Cotties]

some words of wisdom Dave:55 You dont have to be jealous to protect

[yaser]

You dont have to be jealous to protect, you ( love) to Protect there is a difference
Dave I may think that I love her..true,but she may not take as I think I give.So she starts to search for another one.

[Cotties]

she puts up with me;) Heyy Cotties how men know that your wife good?Need witness?

[yaser]

she puts up with me;)You must have been warned not to marry an oversexy woman..

[Norfolkdave]

Dave I may think that I love her..true,but she may not take as I think I give.So she starts to search for another one.

Cant answer that, but an old saying is " plenty more fish in the sea" she wants to wander let her go.:wa:

[yaser]

Cant answer that, but an old saying is " plenty more fish in the sea" she wants to wander let her go.:wa:
May be Dave.. but I have the choice to go and find another.That is good side I hope.Everybody must have a choice any time she or he wishes..

[spare_change]

she puts up with me;)

That doesn't make her a good wife -- that makes her a freakin' angel !

[Kissie]

Is there really any sense in being jealous???? I feel it is a waste of energy!!!! I know a better way of using that energy!!!!!

[Norfolkdave]

May be Dave.. but I have the choice to go and find another.That is good side I hope.Everybody must have a choice any time she or he wishes..

Yes Yasar I agree entirely.:wa:

[cherokeered]

Very....although I try to keep it in check...but sometimes it needs to be let loose...just so people understand the rules



Cherokee......:)

[MIGHTY]

I am a jealous person, but I think it has to do with my own insecurities than anything else. I don't worry about the physical attraction that my spouse may feel for another, but more the emotional connection......

[yaser]

I am a jealous person, but I think it has to do with my own insecurities than anything else. I don't worry about the physical attraction that my spouse may feel for another, but more the emotional connection......
I wonder what if you connect to someone emotionally...

[MightymeatyMatey]

"No" infact sometimes I think Im too easy going. I can't understand why others are, we are all in this world for a reason, so why be jealous.

[sweetgapeach]

I am never jealous lol

[Barkiss]

I am never jealous lol

I'm moving this to the lie thread...

[sweetgapeach]

I'm moving this to the lie thread...



LOL

[altoids69]

I typically, and I'm not saying never, am not a jealous person. I'd have to say it depends on the situation. I was jealous quite a bit when I was younger, but I've changed a lot since then.

[MIGHTY]

I wonder what if you connect to someone emotionally...

I have emotional relationships with a few people. My fear is that he will become clouded by his emotions for another. I honestly believe that this is why he is so confused at the moment....

[yaser]

I have emotional relationships with a few people. My fear is that he will become clouded by his emotions for another. I honestly believe that this is why he is so confused at the moment....
Darling, I wonder if you have a double standards...you have emotional relationships with others and you mind is not clouded but you hubby's may be clouded if he has got relationship with another...You may be right while you have more than one butif he has got only one.....That is significant..

[MIGHTY]

Darling, I wonder if you have a double standards...you have emotional relationships with others and you mind is not clouded but you hubby's may be clouded if he has got relationship with another...You may be right while you have more than one butif he has got only one.....That is significant..

Not a double standard...emotionally charged friendships are one thing. His has obvoiusly gone beyond...and he has only one at the moment. I have the ability to separate myself from becoming the latter of the two.

[yaser]

I typically, and I'm not saying never, am not a jealous person. I'd have to say it depends on the situation. I was jealous quite a bit when I was younger, but I've changed a lot since then.
No need to be jealous for a self confident lady...But you hubby must be jealous...If I were you husband, I would be jealous all days and all nights..HArika kadın...

[yaser]

Not a double standard...emotionally charged friendships are one thing. His has obvoiusly gone beyond...and he has only one at the moment. I have the ability to separate myself from becoming the latter of the two.
I wonder if he seems fuzzy to attract your attention because you are workaholic and you are not faithful to him with your work...Do you find time and effort to make love with him?

[MIGHTY]

I wonder if he seems fuzzy to attract your attention because you are workaholic and you are not faithful to him with your work...Do you find time and effort to make love with him?

Not going to justify that with an honest answer. Obviously you have forgotten some of the details....

[yaser]

Not going to justify that with an honest answer. Obviously you have forgotten some of the details....
Darling satan hides in detail... :lf

[massage mike]

no

[yaser]

no
Why not mark? I am jealous about another's wife beacuse I love her..

[altoids69]

No need to be jealous for a self confident lady...But you hubby must be jealous...If I were you husband, I would be jealous all days and all nights..HArika kadın...

LOL!! He is a jealous man!!

[Rmb]

LOL!! He is a jealous man!!

Hmmmmmmmm I wonder why? :) :)

[yaser]

LOL!! He is a jealous man!!
I wonder if you tickle his jealousy vein from time to time to attract his attention and be focused...

[altoids69]

I wonder if you tickle his jealousy vein from time to time to attract his attention and be focused...

I really don't. It's not pretty when he's jealous. Figure it's better off not adding any fuel to the fire.

[yaser]

I really don't. It's not pretty when he's jealous. Figure it's better off not adding any fuel to the fire.
What about your flirting here?Does he know it?And read what you tell...?

[cherokeered]

No need to be jealous for a self confident lady...But you hubby must be jealous...If I were you husband, I would be jealous all days and all nights..HArika kadın...


Ummm...not quite right Yasar....even confident people are jealous...


Cherokee...:)

[Rmb]

Ummm...not quite right Yasar....even confident people are jealous...


Cherokee...:)
I am confident I can be jealous if I want :) :)

[cherokeered]

I am confident I can be jealous if I want :) :)


Thats what I said...I'm confident...and I am very green-eyed...lol


Cherokee....:)

[yaser]

Ummm...not quite right Yasar....even confident people are jealous...


Cherokee...:)
well hun, jealousy means I owe you and I don't want to lose you..In fact man and woman are personalities who we cannot have as slaves. They are free and go away whenever they wish.They may have different tastes.I cannot own a man or a woman.. only I can make a conract.

[Rmb]

Thats what I said...I'm confident...and I am very green-eyed...lol


Cherokee....:)

Yeah I was supporting you ....and dont talk to me long you crack me up hehehehehe :) :lmao:lmao

[cherokeered]

Yeah I was supporting you ....and dont talk to me long you crack me up hehehehehe :) :lmao:lmao


Do I?...Now how could I do that?....I'm the normal one here ya know...Just look in my eyes.....:whee:

[yaser]

I am confident I can be jealous if I want :) :)
Rhumba what does if I want mean?Does jealousy depend upon your will or not?I believe it comes from unconscious mind.

[Rmb]

Rhumba what does if I want mean?Does jealousy depend upon your will or not?I believe it comes from unconscious mind.

For me to be jealous I have to be in love Cherokee :) :)

Other than that I am jealous of no one and nothing :) :)

[cherokeered]

For me to be jealous I have to be in love Cherokee :) :)

Other than that I am jealous of no one and nothing :) :)


Is that right?....ooooh, ya making me smile....;) and twitch

[Rmb]

Is that right?....ooooh, ya making me smile....;) and twitch

Hehehehehehe twitch huh? :nu

Remember I know my way around er floggers :) :) :nu

[cherokeered]

Hehehehehehe twitch huh? :nu

Remember I know my way around er floggers :) :) :nu


Not fair...ya know I'm a kinky girl....and that I like the flogger....:)

[yaser]

For me to be jealous I have to be in love Cherokee :) :)

Other than that I am jealous of no one and nothing :) :)
If Tiger mate hears what you say, he becomes jealous and he is right.

[Rmb]

Not fair...ya know I'm a kinky girl....and that I like the flogger....:)

Now why else would I bring it up? :) :)

[altoids69]

What about your flirting here?Does he know it?And read what you tell...?

That would be a big 'no'. He would not like it one bit.

[yaser]

That would be a big 'no'. He would not like it one bit.
Altoids you are a woman of dignity...You never go beyond flirting.Why shall he be so jealous?He does not know you..

[altoids69]

Altoids you are a woman of dignity...You never go beyond flirting.Why shall he be so jealous?He does not know you..

He's not that secure. And he knows I have a very playful side. Just a bit more playful than he realizes though.;)

[cherokeered]

Now why else would I bring it up? :) :)

Cause ya teasing me...lol


Cherokee....:whee:

[yaser]

He's not that secure. And he knows I have a very playful side. Just a bit more playful than he realizes though.;)
Altoids I want to know seriously if you find an opportunity, do you cheat him?Cheat and never feel guilty?I will learn and go to bed...

[steamy]

can be..............

[altoids69]

Altoids I want to know seriously if you find an opportunity, do you cheat him?Cheat and never feel guilty?I will learn and go to bed...

I am currently seeing someone else. It's not something I looked for. It's something that happened and we neither have resisted the temptation or the attraction. Do I feel guilty? I did more in the beginning than I do now. Couldn't look at myself in the mirror afterwards. I still have moments where I feel guilty, but there are also moments I realize that he's driven me to another. Not that it's his fault. He can be quite overbearing. And he doesn't always appreciate what he has. If he were to find out, it would get ugly. He knows and likes the man whom I carry on with. But his jealousy goes way back. He's jealous of men I slept with before him (my hubby).....so I think that shows that the jealousy thing is something that won't go away. If the affair were to end today, I really don't think I could have another. I do care for the other man. Sometimes, it's probably too much. But I'm a nurturer and a pleaser. I come here for the flirting. I'm having fun and making friends. Pretty sure I couldn't handle any more than that.

[RedVixen]

Am I a jealous person....oh hell ya

[massage mike]

Am I a jealous person....oh hell yaif that ass was mine I'd be a very jealous person:lf

[OKMamaEeyore]

if that ass was mine I'd be a very jealous person:lf
Just keep working out.;)
Try a bike, its good for the butt.:55

[massage mike]

Just keep working out.;)
Try a bike, its good for the butt.:55I meant to have that but to worship all for myself.mine is fine ,wish I could show you ladies:)

[OICurready4me]

For the most part no. I find myself on occasion getting a little antsy at times about certain things. I look at it as a situation whereby you can do two things, if you are jealous. If it is jealousy from afar, either let the person know, who you are jealous of, that you are fond of them so you know where you stand or just let it die, so it doesn't eat you up. If it is someone you are very close to, it can be a good thing since it can fuel the fire.

[yaser]

I am currently seeing someone else. It's not something I looked for. It's something that happened and we neither have resisted the temptation or the attraction. Do I feel guilty? I did more in the beginning than I do now. Couldn't look at myself in the mirror afterwards. I still have moments where I feel guilty, but there are also moments I realize that he's driven me to another. Not that it's his fault. He can be quite overbearing. And he doesn't always appreciate what he has. If he were to find out, it would get ugly. He knows and likes the man whom I carry on with. But his jealousy goes way back. He's jealous of men I slept with before him (my hubby).....so I think that shows that the jealousy thing is something that won't go away. If the affair were to end today, I really don't think I could have another. I do care for the other man. Sometimes, it's probably too much. But I'm a nurturer and a pleaser. I come here for the flirting. I'm having fun and making friends. Pretty sure I couldn't handle any more than that.
Thank you for honest answer.Haven't you thought of divorcing and marrying the man you carrying with?Or you have two sides to satisfy and go on satisfying.Is he also married?
Don't say you could not hadle any more than that..I see you are full now.Later you may feel hungry and have enough power.

[Kissie]

I think I have touched on this thread before...but you know there is no reason to be jealous of SGT...he is just at a stage in his life where he is to into his career and could careless about anything else....there is so much going on for him there that he feels there is no time for anything else in his life!!! So if I was going to be jealous of anything it would have to be the Army....and the old saying goes "if the Army wanted you to have a family they would have issued you one" really fits into my family life right now!!!!!!

[Cotties]

he is such a lucky man to have a good women to stand by him...


and don't you worry. when he tells his army friends about his wife..they are all jealous
I think I have touched on this thread before...but you know there is no reason to be jealous of SGT...he is just at a stage in his life where he is to into his career and could careless about anything else....there is so much going on for him there that he feels there is no time for anything else in his life!!! So if I was going to be jealous of anything it would have to be the Army....and the old saying goes "if the Army wanted you to have a family they would have issued you one" really fits into my family life right now!!!!!!

[Kissie]

he is such a lucky man to have a good women to stand by him...


and don't you worry. when he tells his army friends about his wife..they are all jealous




Thanks Cotties that was very sweet of you to say!!!!!!!!

[altoids69]

Thank you for honest answer.Haven't you thought of divorcing and marrying the man you carrying with?Or you have two sides to satisfy and go on satisfying.Is he also married?
Don't say you could not hadle any more than that..I see you are full now.Later you may feel hungry and have enough power.

He is also married, and we both have young children. It works for now. In time, we'll see.

[UltimateNaneki]

How would you feel if your partner went to a night club on her/his own, went out of town on business/ stayed in a expensive hotel/Went out for a meal with the girls/or boys?

I'm for all that, would give me some time to myself! where do I sign him up ?:wa:

[cherokeered]

I'm for all that, would give me some time to myself! where do I sign him up ?:wa:

Can mine go with yours?...PLEASE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>



Cherokee...:wa:

[UltimateNaneki]

we can send them with one way tickets, lol

[cherokeered]

we can send them with one way tickets, lol


Now ya talking......lol

[yaser]

He is also married, and we both have young children. It works for now. In time, we'll see.
Good choice when one does not work,try another..in a soft way..Though it is secret...One day it may not work either,you find another or he comes himself..

[cherokeered]

Me?....Jealous?....oh ya better bluddie believe it....lol



Cherokee....:D

[tiger50]

Me?....Jealous?....oh ya better bluddie believe it....lol



Cherokee....:D

oh shitttt really.. so am i...see red over anything... :D

[cherokeered]

oh shitttt really.. so am i...see red over anything... :D

Uh-huh.....sure ya are...lol

[yaser]

He is also married, and we both have young children. It works for now. In time, we'll see.
Altoids,I wonder if your hubby does the same thing with your neigbor's wife?

[steve_edwards]

I was when I was younger but no so much these days.

[cherokeered]

Yes....and if I'm not...it means I can't be bothered...and that is not a good thing...

[mile high]

I understand the evolutionary compulsion behind most human emotions, be they anger, love, sadness, disgust or curiosity, but I can't think of a single good reason why jealousy exists, except to stuff up relationships.

Granted jealousy may have served some purpose in Pre-Dawn man, to ward off the potential throbbers of mating rivals, but nowadays it seldom succeeds in achieving anything save driving a partner crazy, then away.

I never considered myself the jealous type until I dated a very attractive woman a few years back - one who my mates went out of their way to congratulate me on snagging, like she was some sort of lush antelope I'd bagged on safari.

The compliments came thick and fast when we'd go out and the attention from other men wasn't diminished even f I happened to be standing right next to her. If I'd intervene, they'd ignore me, and continue chatting her up. Perhaps they didn't see me, but it was a good enough reason to tootle off to the gym.

As things progressed, I couldn't help but wonder what it was like for her when she went out with the girls, how many lurking, randy blokes were palming their phone numbers off or pleading for hers? That cheesey Dr Hook song 'When You're In Love With a Beautiful Woman' took on a whole new meaning. Anyway, at the first sign of possessive, insecure behaviour on my part (I can't remember what it was now) she dumped me, and quite rightly so. She put up with so much shit from the male population, that I bet she's hooked up with a woman by now.

[homealone]

I'm not. I don't spend a whole lot of time worrying about things I can't control. If my wife decided to do something with someone else she's the one who would have to live with it.

[baby face]

I tend to be a little jealous. It seems that when I call my husbands office his secertary is always near him. He tells me the part room ordering is next to her office but it just bugs me to death. I sit back and think about being in her shoes and I would probably be the same way......A building full of men and her being the only female worker I guess I would be doing some flirting......My husband says it makes him feel good and shows that I still love him and care about him.....he says its CUTE.....whatever that means.......I just wish the bitch would leave him alone. I trust him though I don't think he would do anything.......I like to play around with him and tell him fuck around on me and I will get everything I can out of you....Four children and me being a stay at home mom for 8 years yeah I could live off his child support and alamony.

[oldandnaked]

I'm for anything that gets her out of the house.

[peaches]

I don't think I am in nature but I'm only human and from time to time the green eyed devil shows his ugly face and then I do a reality check and that sucks...

[scottd]

i dont get jealous, maybe its because of guilt?

[peaches]

i dont get jealous, maybe its because of guilt?
guilt....lmao....I have nothing to feel guilty about...lol...I have learned early on that I am not perfect and I make mistakes..I also own up to them and live with the ones I have made no matter how painfull they are.....honesty with oneself is a tuff thing to do..and it takes alot of soul searching to get there....

[Phlirt]

I don't get jealous either.

[wall-flower]

I'm not a jealous person. I've watched a few ladies flirt with my hubby. I was laughing across the room. Hubby didn't even know it was happening. 2 different times in the past hubby had to relocate for work. Both times he was gone for 6 weeks. It never bothered me.

[Guymisseswife]

would it bother him that i am gonna flirt with you?

[wall-flower]

How is it going to bother him when he is going to know nothing about it?

[Guymisseswife]

Well then let it begin :P

[wall-flower]

hmm I was under the impression it already had.

[Guymisseswife]

You are wise hehe

[wall-flower]

don't have to be wise to know a big flirt when you see one.

[Guymisseswife]

Not if you can look in the mirror!

[wall-flower]

I don't require a mirror.
Takes 1 to know 1 I suppose.

[Guymisseswife]

Then we are both guilty. :D

[ldon]

Deep down I know I'm a jeolous person but I like to think I can ignore it. I get jeolous when Red flirts with other guys but then I have to realize tha she's just polishing up her skills so she can flirt with me. Actually I don't have a clue.

[wall-flower]

Then we are both guilty. :D


I plead the 5th.

[Guymisseswife]

I tried but your pms dont work :P

[wall-flower]

I tried but your pms dont work :P

If referring to me..........haven't reached enough posts yet.

[Guymisseswife]

Too bad :P

[wall-flower]

I know. Never has 150 seemed like such a big number.

[Guymisseswife]

Hurry the hell up and i think its 500...lol

[wall-flower]

500 oh yeah that wasn't very encouraging.

[Guymisseswife]

get yahoo lmao

[wall-flower]

Yahoo and my computer don't get along. It crashed my computer. I lost everything I had saved onto it.

[Guymisseswife]

ouch. then post your ass off hun.

[wall-flower]

I'm trying. Geesh they are going to ban me for my korny sense of humor long before I hit 500.

[Micwar]

Not at all, she likes plays and theatre and It's not my thing, so she does that when her girl friends. My job is boring to most people so I go out with the boys to play poker. I also travel some and no problem there. I was also informed by her years ago, " You cheat and I'll know it, no matter what you say, believe me I'll know, and your ass will be out of here so fast, no questions asked" She means it to this day.

I don't drink much, so she doesn't have to worry about the bar scene with me, also I'm cheap and can't see paying 4 dollars for a beer, when I get a case for 20.

[AL(m)]

Jealousy is another emotion that is hard to control..... I do try not to be jealous.. but we all want to feell loved and wanted and when we dont feel that way jealousy can raise its head........

[pointofnoreturn]

Only when I feel jealous. The rest of the time no...

[cherokeered]

sometimes and to varying degrees....depends on my frame of mind at the moment

[Sneaky]

Yes. I'm a Scorpio. I get jealous. I try to keep it in check, and am getting much better. Every now and again though, it pops out.

[My_Secrets_Kept]

I can be, but noticed I've gotten more mellow as times moves forward... of course it also depends on who, what, when, where... but yes that green eyed monster does rear it's ugly head at times, but I do try to hide it when it occurs!