If you could do it over again would you marry the same person?

[Penny]

I would, after 24 years we still have fun together and still love eachother :)

[Seeker]

The good times far outwiegh the bad. Yes, I would likely do it again! 25 years, 4 boys, 2 daughters - in - law, 1 Grandchild, and another on the way. All these things I would have missed without this woman I married!

[jcb2369]

The only thing good that came out of my marriage is my two boys...

[bobnjane]

separated after 25 years wont go back now fresh fields to trawl

[illmakeurtoeswiggle]

Uh,..... I DON"T THINK SO!:mad:

I had to come back and ad this...
Not only no, but HELL NO!

I still love her, but if I knew then what I know now...no fucking way!

[nlightenedrogue]

I really would. If anything, I've come to realize that problems in a marriage are often the result of the dynamic that occurs between two people. I don't view all of the problems that we've had as my wife's fault. She had an affair about six years ago and while I was hurt and angry, once I got past the damage to my ego, I was able to look at myself and the role I played in creating the conditions that made the affair an attractive option. We've been married for 13 years and our marriage - in every department - is better than ever. If my wife and I divorced, I don't think I'd ever re-marry, though. Once is enough.

[Norfolkdave]

No I dont think I would.

[Penny]

Did you know the person she had the affair with :(

[mark2gmtrans]

I would not have married her if I had known the way it would turn out, I will never understand how someone could change the way she did, and then with her drinking and getting high all the time that just killed it for me, which is why I divorced her. I am seeing a girl now who seems to be very sweet, no booze no drugs great sex but I do not know if I will ever get married again, because of the way the first time came out.

[Lkng4thrdNwi]

I would get married again... My first husband was a dick... Cheated on me because I was too fat for him... Lazy bastard... The only thing good I got from him was my daughter and a kickass chicken recipe... I am engaged right now (althought i call him my hubby) to a wonderful man that loves my fat ass as big as it is... (it still grosses me out but hey he likes it)... Now I have 2 boys from him plus my daughter and we've been going strong for 6 years now... I love you Homie!!!

[Unregistered]

Did you know the person she had the affair with :(

I only knew him as an acquaintance, who travelled in the same circle as we did with our friends.

[nlightenedrogue]

I only knew him as an acquaintance, who travelled in the same circle as we did with our friends.

I posted the message above, I don't understand how I ended up being logged out...

[in_thelounge]

if i could do it all over again i would. i am not saying that i would do everything the same but i would have to be with my lady all over and all over my lady;)

[roughneck]

I would marry mine again been married 15 years maybe change a few things but we love each other.:la:

[ross57412]

would i merry the same person over again the answer to that lies somewere between the chances of no way and no how lol who says im not bitter im not really im with a wonderful lady now well were sort of dating if thats possable over here shes a nurse im a combat grunt lol a match made in the milatery

[Flirting Mom]

I wouldnt have my kids if I didn't but I would hate to have to deal with him again

[hank69]

Sure i would had or up and downs but that's all of us. I do some things differnt but that's hind sight. So just look ahead maybe i'll get head

[Cindy]

So far so good so I will say yes :)

[biganbad]

yes i would marry her over and over again

[Zpanther]

Yeah. Wouldn't have these 30 years of memories and most of 'em are good. Fortunately, my boys look like their mom. Who knows? If I'd have picked someone else, my kids might have turned out looking like me. Lady P's been a good wife - most of the time ;) (she reads these posts once in awhile), a good mother, and well... how many other guys in their 50's have a wife that still looks better than most 20 year olds and wants sex every day (AND doesn't mind me 'flirting' with other women). Now that I think about it, Hell YEAH I'd marry her again!

[illmakeurtoeswiggle]

Yeah. Wouldn't have these 30 years of memories and most of 'em are good. Fortunately, my boys look like their mom. Who knows? If I'd have picked someone else, my kids might have turned out looking like me. Lady P's been a good wife - most of the time ;) (she reads these posts once in awhile), a good mother, and well... how many other guys in their 50's have a wife that still looks better than most 20 year olds and wants sex every day (AND doesn't mind me 'flirting' with other women). Now that I think about it, Hell YEAH I'd marry her again!


You're a lucky, lucky man! I'm jealous ZP...enveous is probably a better word.

Now, ya got me curious as to what Mrs. P looks like? "Looks better than most 20 year olds"!
Does she still want me to make her toes wiggle? ;) If she does....I'M IN!WOW!:D

Actually ZP I'm happy for you...by what I've read on here from you...you're one helluva guy! You deserve a woman like Mrs. P!

[swabie16]

sure would but maybe sooner

[Wet Beaver]

No Question about it, it been 21 years, and i hope for a whole lot more

[JasperJackal]

It's almost a year to the day since my wife walked out on me and the children. And in the that year I have learned a lot about her deviousness and dishonesty throughout the 10 years we were married, a lot of which came from people who were supposed to be her friends. A could get on my soapbox now and lambast her for all she's done but that isn't why we are here, is it? So the answer to the question is that there are not enough words in my vocabulary meaning "No" that match the way I feel about her. Hope that made sense. Regards to all, Jasper

[kooltsinoy0]

not really sure ......

[horny(m)]

yes, definetely. Anybody that can put up with me as long as she has, and not kill me, is worth doing it over again with.

[KIRA187]

Have been married over twenty years and we have had more good times than bad, but with age and experience a person learns a few things. I would try other fishes in the sea.

[Penny]

Only 35% say they would :(

[softlips69]

Hi, No i wouldnt remarry my partner again,l have been with him for 16years and been married for 11 years.

[KIRA187]

Good Morning All,

SoftLips69...is this a new member? Happy Belated Birthday by the way and I like your userID.

[Heaterman]

Welcome softlips just goes to show there are women out there in the same boat as many men :(

[softlips69]

Good Morning All,

SoftLips69...is this a new member? Happy Belated Birthday by the way and I like your userID. :thankyou: Thank you cuda184 for the Belated B'day wishes and yes it is a good userlD ;)

[bicurious75]

Becca:
If I had it to do all over again I would never of married my first two ex's. But with Allen I would not change a thing

[Onehttmama]

Yeah. Wouldn't have these 30 years of memories and most of 'em are good. Fortunately, my boys look like their mom. Who knows? If I'd have picked someone else, my kids might have turned out looking like me. Lady P's been a good wife - most of the time ;) (she reads these posts once in awhile), a good mother, and well... how many other guys in their 50's have a wife that still looks better than most 20 year olds and wants sex every day (AND doesn't mind me 'flirting' with other women). Now that I think about it, Hell YEAH I'd marry her again!


Z-- YOU are a very lucky man. NOW get her on here chatting with us. She sounds like she would be alot of fun. And I would like to see her pic too!;)

[Wet Beaver]

Z-- YOU are a very lucky man. NOW get her on here chatting with us. She sounds like she would be alot of fun. And I would like to see her pic too!;)

I have been telling him the samething..I would love to meet Lady P also

[Onehttmama]

At this point in my life I cannot actually say that I would remarry him. We have four beautiful children, all good students and well behaved. 2 boys 2girls, 11-19. My life has focused mainly on them, He does his own thing. I finally started taking 1/2 hour 3 or 4 times a week for the Curves workout. I am happier, the kids are happier and he is jealous and worried at the attention I have been getting. WE just dont do things together and I refuse to sit home, I want a life and so my kids and I go! HE"S the one who will regret it in the future. I really doubt if I would marry him again.

[juli55]

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[Norfolkdave]

No I wouldnt do it again

[Penny]

Thats to bad I hope you can work it out :(



At this point in my life I cannot actually say that I would remarry him. We have four beautiful children, all good students and well behaved. 2 boys 2girls, 11-19. My life has focused mainly on them, He does his own thing. I finally started taking 1/2 hour 3 or 4 times a week for the Curves workout. I am happier, the kids are happier and he is jealous and worried at the attention I have been getting. WE just dont do things together and I refuse to sit home, I want a life and so my kids and I go! HE"S the one who will regret it in the future. I really doubt if I would marry him again.

[bicurious75]

(Allen)

My first (and only) wife was a nut case, so definately NOT!! Come to think of it, the way she acted, I'm not sure we ever WERE really "married"!! I mean... we both said "I do!" in front of the alter, but I think she whispered "...I think..." right after that!! I year later I figured out that she didn't and I gave up! :drink:

Now that I've been with Becca for over a year and a half I'm pretty happy though. :lf I might even marry HER some day! LOL!!

[bobby6901]

It could be a LOT worse, but I think I missed the boat..... I probably should have let her go when she walked out after the first year of dating.....

[avitron69]

I think I should have stayed single.

[lay_guy]

i know the saying" the grass isnt always greener on the other side of the fence " .........but it sure the hell isnt very green on the side im on.

[spare_change]

Men marry in the hopes that their wife never changes.

Women marry in the hopes that their men will.

Both are disappointed.

[sparc]

I would have to say... I would probably spend more time dating (others). I married at 24 which looking back is probably too young. Enjoy others, enjoy the world. Now, if after I spent more time with others and still ended up dating my current wife would I have married her then? Sure possibly. We still have fun... but life has been stressful in many ways and that takes away pieces of the relationship.

[ozwaverider]

Yes I would marry same one, we had 2 great sons, travelled all over, had hard times , good times and and I think passion might go and come (pardon the pun) but no one else would feel as right overall.
I would just have be rich next time tho :)

[Barkiss]

No doubt I would marry the same lady. Not only is she my best friend and closest confidant, but she also has given my four beautiful children, and 13 years of good memories.

[Onehttmama]

Thats to bad I hope you can work it out :(


Penny, I have been trying to sit down and talk with him. I just cant seem to get thru. I must have him thinking tho because he actually has been trying, doing things around the house. I think he realizes I am not waiting forever for him to grow up, tho hunting season has begun. The kids and I all come after him and his hunting. I sat him down and discussed Thanksgiving plans (his only consist of hunting!) he wasnt happy, that I was going visiting on my own, said I was taking his kids away! I pointed out he's not ever here anyway. he got silent several times. May be he's finally listening, thinking and trying!

Only time will tell Penny. I do thank you for this site! I feel the people here are a special circle of friends!:kk And very supportive!

[Annie]

i know the saying" the grass isnt always greener on the other side of the fence " .........but it sure the hell isnt very green on the side im on.

It's only greener if it's better tended to.

[Seeker]

It breaks my heart to see a lovely woman have to play second fiddle to a hobby! Even more so that he doesn't invite you. (not that this is an intrest of yours) but at least he would show that he wants you with him.


I hope things will work out for you!:kk :hug:
Penny, I have been trying to sit down and talk with him. I just cant seem to get thru. I must have him thinking tho because he actually has been trying, doing things around the house. I think he realizes I am not waiting forever for him to grow up, tho hunting season has begun. The kids and I all come after him and his hunting. I sat him down and discussed Thanksgiving plans (his only consist of hunting!) he wasnt happy, that I was going visiting on my own, said I was taking his kids away! I pointed out he's not ever here anyway. he got silent several times. May be he's finally listening, thinking and trying!

Only time will tell Penny. I do thank you for this site! I feel the people here are a special circle of friends!:kk And very supportive!

[Sandy]

Iwould marry my husband again. Penny my husband is the same with games. I learned that you get more out of them on season. Hang in there it will get better.

[Polo38]

My wife still turns me on with every turn of her body, with every look she gives me, and with every laughter that comes from her luscious lips. She is more beautiful today then the day she married me. I still love my wife with all my heart...i love my four girls with all my heart....but i have really toyed with this question for a long time. Perhaps if i had better communicated to her early in our relationship perhaps it would have helps me from straying...

[HillBilly]

I would have to say yes

[zapher60]

yes i would in a heart beat. I think my wife would have second thoughts. I spoiled her life life of freedom when i came along and i think she is looking for it again.

[yaser]

Definietly No

[firefly]

I honestly don't know....some days I think I would.....most days it is no. Maybe if we didn't marry so young and grew up some more before we tried to play house it might be better.

[ksfirefighter]

Well the first wife oh hell no. If it wasnt for my daughter I would love to never see her again.

As for my wife now without a doubt. We have our moments and more lately than ever before, but at the end of the day she is my best friend. She has helped me in so many ways to make myself more the man I want to be than I could have ever imagined. Lots of things could be so different but that is one I would not want to change!

[yaser]

I honestly don't know....some days I think I would.....most days it is no. Maybe if we didn't marry so young and grew up some more before we tried to play house it might be better.DEar Firefyl,I think that you feel trapped by a circle.Choose one,if possible..:kk Shall I pull you to my side

[yaser]

Well the first wife oh hell no. If it wasnt for my daughter I would love to never see her again.

As for my wife now without a doubt. We have our moments and more lately than ever before, but at the end of the day she is my best friend. She has helped me in so many ways to make myself more the man I want to be than I could have ever imagined. Lots of things could be so different but that is one I would not want to change!I agree,Ks,while a partner may be poisonous,the other may be a drug to cure..It's up to you to choose...I am happy to hear that your second wife makes you :kk not unhappy

[yaser]

I honestly don't know....some days I think I would.....most days it is no. Maybe if we didn't marry so young and grew up some more before we tried to play house it might be better.Firefly,leave the double thinking aside which stems from the jobs...:kk ...A writer says there are three jobs:1.God's job,2.your job, 3.others' job...and everyone must make his or her job.Please make you job only...do not interfere with any of the other two...

[Norfolkdave]

Firefly,leave the double thinking aside which stems from the jobs...:kk ...A writer says there are three jobs:1.God's job,2.your job, 3.others' job...and everyone must make his or her job.Please make you job only...do not interfere with any of the other two...

Would you marry again, a simple answer please yasar not a dictionary:lmao

[yaser]

Would you marry again, a simple answer please yasar not a dictionary:lmaoIt seems diffcult..

[Norfolkdave]

It seems diffcult..

yes/no thats all:wa:

[yaser]

yes/no thats all:wa:This question cannot be answered with only with yes or no because it shows ambivalence in my mind.:kk

[Big O]

Not my ex!!!!

[markjami]

For sure

[KIRA187]

I answered this thread it seems like ions ago..... and nothing has changed.

[jack63834]

After 21 years my wife left so she could be with her momma. Now What does that tell you?

[Norfolkdave]

After 21 years my wife left so she could be with her momma. Now What does that tell you?

NO:lmao

[learman3]

This is a very good question.

Knowing what I know to today I would have probably waited and dated a few more woman. She only my second girl friend.

However at the time knowing what I knew I would have to say yes.

[wet36ddd]

This is a very good question.

Knowing what I know to today I would have probably waited and dated a few more woman. She only my second girl friend.

However at the time knowing what I knew I would have to say yes.

my situation is similar.
most days it's a toss up. he's a good person, not necessarily the best husband. but he loves me and i have to remember he is trying.

[learman3]

my situation is similar.
most days it's a toss up. he's a good person, not necessarily the best husband. but he loves me and i have to remember he is trying.

And I love my wife and I know she loves me. We are both not even close to perfect, all we can do is try our hardest. Some times that is extremely difficult and some times it's not so hard.

[wet36ddd]

And I love my wife and I know she loves me. We are both not even close to perfect, all we can do is try our hardest. Some times that is extremely difficult and some times it's not so hard.

i hear you. probably a lot of us feel that way.

[Annie]

As for my wife now without a doubt. We have our moments and more lately than ever before, but at the end of the day she is my best friend. She has helped me in so many ways to make myself more the man I want to be than I could have ever imagined. Lots of things could be so different but that is one I would not want to change!

Lucky lady!

[Sandy]

yes i would we've had good and bad times but i wouldn't trade him for the world. i got lucky i got a good one.

[yaser]

my situation is similar.
most days it's a toss up. he's a good person, not necessarily the best husband. but he loves me and i have to remember he is trying.What are the qualities of a good husband,Dear Wet36?And the best? Aren't you thinking a little bit per:kk fectionist?

[gradof68]

surely wouldn't want to marry the same one that decided to walk out on me.

[yaser]

surely wouldn't want to marry the same one that decided to walk out on me.fully agree,grado

[flirtyblonde]

NOPE would i hell!!! lol

[yaser]

NOPE would i hell!!! lol share your feelings...and empathy to you,Flirty

[Norfolkdave]

No nor would I

[justask_me_2]

Honestly, Hard to say. I love my kids, and other than no sex, I think we have had a good life together. Just in the past two years has the communication become hard to come by, but I'm sure that is because of the two kids. We probably just need to work harder at finding the time. But thinking back, there was someone whom I've always wondered what could have happened. She was short and thin but curvy where it counts, long wavy blonde hair, blue eyes, and always looked beautiful. We went out once or twice, but she wasn't as interested in me as I was in her. :cry:

[quax999]

Yes, I would. But, thing that I would have done differently, i would have followed my heart from the beginning, and gotten with, long before I actually did.

[Sandy]

yes i would, i agree its hard with kids and family, just general everyday life, thats why you need to stick together and lean on each other. and above all else make time for yourselves you deserve it. :kk

[woody9340]

I agree 100% mywifemark

[bonzzz4292]

i agree with mywife but i am not sure if i could go asecond time depending on how the first time ended.

if it was bad and nasty then no not even a second thought.
if things were ok with mild problems i might think about it.
if every thing was good and no problems i would have to say yes i would do it again.

my answer would have to be i am not sure til it is all over.

[qwertymert]

Life has been good to me. I wouldn't change a thing about it.

[Penny]

Thats nice :)

[spare_change]

i agree with mywife but i am not sure if i could go asecond time depending on how the first time ended.

if it was bad and nasty then no not even a second thought.
if things were ok with mild problems i might think about it.
if every thing was good and no problems i would have to say yes i would do it again.

my answer would have to be i am not sure til it is all over.

Diogenes would be proud -- an honest man, at last!

[Trev]

It's only greener if it's better tended to
when do you say enough is enough?

[youngbuck]

who knows

[qwertymert]

?

[kissiemybuttie]

honestly...I have been married to my hubby since i was 17...love him dearly...we have seperated once for a couple years...but with his drinking..not sure I would do this again...been along 24 years....my god I hope he is smart enough not to pick up the bottle again when he comes home...or he will be a lonely man once again.....still finding bottles around the house and he has been gone a year!!!!!

[dirtymccall]

HECK NO. I should have taken the advise of my best friend and waited a bit longer (like six years longer).

[Penny]

Why wouldnt you?

[dirtymccall]

Knowing what I know now. She consistantly thinks of herself. The sex life has gone down the tubes. She acts like making love and/or having sex is a chore. She does not listen. She gets into her moods and pushes me off to the side. She really does not communicate with me at all. Not to mention the mixed signals she sends. I have done alot for her. I have placed her needs ahead of my own. I'm just tired of it. I have tried just about everything. If it was not for the kids, I would have split up with her years ago.

[Penny]

dosent sound good :(

[izzy]

Absolutely! Provided I can have my fun... ;)

[LadyNGeorgia]

Absolutely.. I made the right decision.. just needs adjusting.. lol

[pastryman]

i think i made the right move....everyday cant be a bed of roses but she is a good mother and takes good care of me sometimes depending on her mood but overall shes ok

[Polo38]

Absolutely.. I made the right decision.. just needs adjusting.. lol

Does he stare to much to the left....sounds like he's out of alignment...they have tools for that

[sweetgapeach]

I have answered this before ,but then when I think of it I really don't know.It's not the best marriage but what is perfect? And my biggest question to myself is :
Is love enough? I dont know!

[Polo38]

I have answered this before ,but then when I think of it I really don't know.It's not the best marriage but what is perfect? And my biggest question to myself is :
Is love enough? I dont know!

before that question...ask your self are you happy being you? do you seek happiness in others or thourgh others?

[sweetgapeach]

before that question...ask your self are you happy being you? do you seek happiness in others or thourgh others?



Good questions!!

[skybird]

Well this is a fairly difficult question. You see I will definately marry again my partner for reasons other than sex. I mean, she gets high scores for being a friend, a mother, a person and medium score for sex.

So I would definately marry her for those reasons. On the other hand our sexual relationship is not so balanced.

[Waltert]

That depends on what you define love as


If it is just sex, then no it is not enough

If it is a tingle feeling, it is not enough

If it is just we do not fight too much, it is not enough.

If it is we agree on most things, it is not enough.

If it is completing one another. Feeling like something is missing when apart. The loning for the other person, even when your upset with them, then yes I think it is enough.

But that is just my opinion.

I have answered this before ,but then when I think of it I really don't know.It's not the best marriage but what is perfect? And my biggest question to myself is :
Is love enough? I dont know!

[KIRA187]

Is it safe to say that Love is the glue that is supposed to keep a marriage together when life is thrown into the mix?

[sex_kitten_4u]

god no would never marry the same person i would need to be totally insane

[kissiemybuttie]

god no would never marry the same person i would need to be totally insane



you are arent you??? omg...Tropic cant believe you left yourself open for that!!! he he he he he

[spare_change]

That depends on what you define love as


If it is just sex, then no it is not enough

If it is a tingle feeling, it is not enough

If it is just we do not fight too much, it is not enough.

If it is we agree on most things, it is not enough.

If it is completing one another. Feeling like something is missing when apart. The loning for the other person, even when your upset with them, then yes I think it is enough.

But that is just my opinion.

Dang, Walter -- got a bit of the romantic in ya, don't you??? Well done!

[sex_kitten_4u]

lol kissie yes i did i may be insane but not that insane !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:wa:

[gitfiddlejones]

What can I say... I love my wifey, regardless of any difficulties, real and hard though they may be.


GFJ

[eroticjoy]

a simple to the point answer.... NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[sweet]

This is a tough question. I have gotten 2 beautiful kids out of this marriage, and he is a great father to them, but really I think I'd have to say no I wouldn't marry him again. We got married young and I don't think I was ready to settle down as soon as I did, I barely knew him for a year before we wed. I thought that love would get stronger between us as the years went by, but it really hasn't. But, I'm going to stick it out as long as I can. I owe it to my kids.

[Jy]

Good answer sweetone. I got married late in life, so my son is only four. I will stay with my husband because he is a good father, and for the security and stability he provides for our boy. Would I marry him again? If it meant the difference between having my boy or not? Yes, I would. My son is the most precious person to me. I would do anything for him.

If we're talking just about our spouses, all children aside, no I wouldn't. He came with a lot of emotional baggage he seems unable to part with, and it takes up too much room in our marriage.

[husavik]

I wouldn't hesitate to marry my wife again, we have been together for 14 years and i don't have any regrets.

[Sunfiresix]

Yes I would---She wouldn't let me marry anyone else. :)

[cuddles]

no i wouldnt its been 3years nun in the morn nun in the afternoon and nun in the evening and nun at bedtime:( :nu

[harley doc]

Most certainly would. We just had our 38 anniversary and could not be happier. Our SEX life is still great, at least twice a week, She still looks so young. People say she looks like she is in her 30's. Her bod still looks good too. Nice firm tits and ass looks great too..............I feel very lucky.

[Penny]

Thats great :)

[Traxster]

Every marrage has good times and bad...........When its good its real good!!!! But than there are the bad times and thats when your left wondering....But over all I think I would.......:D

[meandyouido]

i fell i want to be single again, but i would find life hard with out her

[Aubree]

I compromised and am now living with my decision. If I had not had a marital diversion or three over the past 20 years, we simply would not have made it this long.
He is a wonderful man that compliments my life at times but I believe another woman would value him more then I have. To the point - I regret that I feel no lust, intimacy or desire for him.

Dear new friends - I must tell you that other then my shrink that I have paid thousands of dollars too - you are the only ones that know this about me. Thanks for listening.

[Sandy]

aubree thats why we're here to have fun and listen and help if we can. thanks for sharing with us. :wa:

[Wet Beaver]

not any more......

[Sunfiresix]

Thats what I like about here. We can talk, ask and discuss our personal feelings without reprisal.

[Penny]

Thats what we are here for :kk



I compromised and am now living with my decision. If I had not had a marital diversion or three over the past 20 years, we simply would not have made it this long.
He is a wonderful man that compliments my life at times but I believe another woman would value him more then I have. To the point - I regret that I feel no lust, intimacy or desire for him.

Dear new friends - I must tell you that other then my shrink that I have paid thousands of dollars too - you are the only ones that know this about me. Thanks for listening.

[bichik]

NO............he turned into a real jerk

[Annie]

Knowing what I know now? Hell no!

[dartgirl]

He is a great guy and provides for us well but I can't remember the last time I felt anything for him.

[Jackrabbit]

I met my wife (same one) on a blind date on my 19th birthday. I consider myself lucky because back then I sure wasn't smart.

[Zifnab]

Well ofcourse I would! She puts up with me,which isn't easy, and she was the only one to say yes!

[flamengo130]

would i marry the same person? yes....did it. we we're married for 14 years, took a 10 year divorce, but we re-married and have absolutely NO regrets. ok. i asked her, and she feels the same. we are very happy together this tiime. we laugh about the "other" years all the time.

[gnikeht]

I will remarry my ex-wife in a heartbeat but certainly not my current wife...that has been one (or two) of my biggest mistakes in my life... :-(

[Zpanther]

Yeah. Wouldn't have these 30 years of memories and most of 'em are good. Fortunately, my boys look like their mom. Who knows? If I'd have picked someone else, my kids might have turned out looking like me. Lady P's been a good wife - most of the time ;) (she reads these posts once in awhile), a good mother, and well... how many other guys in their 50's have a wife that still looks better than most 20 year olds and wants sex every day (AND doesn't mind me 'flirting' with other women). Now that I think about it, Hell YEAH I'd marry her again!

Well nothing's changed much since I posted this back in July of 2005. I guess I'll keep her.

Just checked with Lady P and she said I won't won't be able to get rid of her at least before our 32nd Anniversary on June 1st.

[Jy]

That's wonderful, ZP. You two sound like such a perfect match.Well nothing's changed much since I posted this back in July of 2005. I guess I'll keep her.

Just checked with Lady P and she said I won't won't be able to get rid of her at least before our 32nd Anniversary on June 1st.

[yaser]

That's wonderful, ZP. You two sound like such a perfect match.My character can be defined as a man who never resisits to CHANGE.I prefer a different woman in a different second...

[Zpanther]

That's wonderful, ZP. You two sound like such a perfect match.

Oh we certainly have our days Jazzy but yeah, we always seem to figure out a way to work it out without too much damage.

[Looking in chicago]

There are times that I would and times that I wouldn't. Over all she is a great woman and I can't say anything bad about her but if I had to choose I would probably say no.

[upstr84u]

It was a dare - and who can turn down a double dog dare to get married /// no one would marry me in a sane mind - it would be like knowning you will be marring - bart simpson - bozo the clown & buggs bunny - all in one (but looks like robert redford) /// what girl could do that --- so she lost the bet and had to marry me --- so i can't answer if i would marry again -- someone has to be dared just to be with me.

[Aubree]

There are times that I would and times that I wouldn't. Over all she is a great woman and I can't say anything bad about her but if I had to choose I would probably say no.
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[Norfolkdave]

Me I dont think so, although there is still love there in its own way....No I wouldnt sad to say.

[cherokeered]

Not sure but then I'm different than I was back then. If I had the chance now... probably not. We are like roommates now.

[Penny]

How old are you cherokeered? Just curious btw I bumped you up to Goddess level so you can use Pm s now

[Norfolkdave]

How old are you cherokeered? Just curious btw I bumped you up to Goddess level so you can use Pm s now

Penny please answer, whats btw mean ?

[cherokeered]

I'm in my early 40's with the libido of a 16 year old... Go figure


:dd

[Willy S]

I'm in my early 40's with the libido of a 16 year old... Go figure


:dd

nothing wrong with that

And to answer the thread's question: no.

[spare_change]

Penny please answer, whats btw mean ?

BTW = By the way






or, for guys your age --

BTW = bowels twitching wildly

[cherokeered]

eeewwww...


Not a pretty picture....

This is better....:dd

Make the world a hotter place.....

[sweet]

Not sure but then I'm different than I was back then. If I had the chance now... probably not. We are like roommates now.

That's the way it is between my husband and I. We are only still together for the kids, no other reason. It's tough to live like this, and wish I didn't have to. I feel for ya girl. :kk

[cherokeered]

Sweet

Thanks and right back at you.

Why do you think there are so many mismatched couples? What were we thinking?

Cherokee...still smiling

[sweet]

Sweet

Thanks and right back at you.

Why do you think there are so many mismatched couples? What were we thinking?

Cherokee...still smiling

Girl I have no idea! I plead insanity :D :whee:

[cherokeered]

Sweet


That works for me...lol

Cherokee...;)


People think I'm crazy anyway...lol

[sweet]

Sweet


That works for me...lol

Cherokee...;)


People think I'm crazy anyway...lol

Then I think you fit in well around here. :D

[cherokeered]

Sweet


Thanks..I think..lol

Cherokee...:whee:

[Cotties]

you don't know what we all think. Unless you have little voices talking to you telling you to take off your clothes and cyber with cotties while he's at work.Sweet


That works for me...lol

Cherokee...;)


People think I'm crazy anyway...lol

[cherokeered]

Cotties


Fully loaded I see...lol

Cherokee is :kk you...lol

[Suzy_Q]

I might do it over again if it was to where if I knew then what I know now..things would be very different and we would not live so close to his parents.

[yaser]

I might do it over again if it was to where if I knew then what I know now..things would be very different and we would not live so close to his parents.I would not marry the same one but the one I love now.But you are right,Suzy parent's interference and conflict is a disturbing factor in my culture also.We have to manage the three kinds of family:our family,my parents and her parents..

[Suzy_Q]

I would not marry the same one but the one I love now.But you are right,Suzy parent's interference and conflict is a disturbing factor in my culture also.We have to manage the three kinds of family:our family,my parents and her parents..

The only thing I hate about living so close is that his parents are always trying to tell us how to raise our kids.

[yaser]

The only thing I hate about living so close is that his parents are always trying to tell us how to raise our kids.That is the most hated behavior I have ever met.

[Suzy_Q]

That is the most hated behavior I have ever met.

Yep..tell me about it...

[yaser]

Yep..tell me about it...Suzy,my wife died 2 months ago and my wife's sisters are trying to control my sons...You see..She claims that my wife asked her to do so.and she find the right to do so..

[KissThis]

No.. if i could do it over and know what i know now..i would want the same kids i got now but not by the same man ! lol

[KissThis]

Suzy,my wife died 2 months ago and my wife's sisters are trying to control my sons...You see..She claims that my wife asked her to do so.and she find the right to do so..

sorry to learn of this yasar. Im just now meeting you , but you seem like a very nice person. And even if your wife did ask her to control your son, that still does not give her the right , because no one has the right to control another person. your sons should be able to make their own choices and dicisions.

[yaser]

No.. if i could do it over and know what i know now..i would want the same kids i got now but not by the same man ! lolBut you would have other children..Of course I understand you love your children..I am happy to hear that now you know what you want..KissThis,I have that chance now...I wonder if I could use it..I will find my love...

[KissThis]

But you would have other children..Of course I understand you love your children..I am happy to hear that now you know what you want..KissThis,I have that chance now...I wonder if I could use it..I will find my love...

of course you will find your love.. just keep believing she is out their somewhere , and never give up hopeing and dreaming, because dreams are what life is made of.

[yaser]

of course you will find your love.. just keep believing she is out their somewhere , and never give up hopeing and dreaming, because dreams are what life is made of.Don't talk this way otherwise I would think that you are my dream..

[KissThis]

Don't talk this way otherwise I would think that you are my dream..

just being friendly yasar. i think your a very nice person . but i wont lead anyone falsley either.. im not your dream (sorry) just wanna be a friend. nothing more , nothing less, and i hope thats okay with you. goodnight yasar.

[yaser]

just being friendly yasar. i think your a very nice person . but i wont lead anyone falsley either.. im not your dream (sorry) just wanna be a friend. nothing more , nothing less, and i hope thats okay with you. goodnight yasar.Here almost noon...Thank you..You are a very nice oerson ..I am happy to know you..Flirting is not as serous as making sex...Just jokes..Have a good sleep...

[Cotties]

Yasar

how old are your sons?

[honeypot7787]

yes b/c he is wonderful to me. he will do anything to make me happy and i know that he truly adores me. he makes me his highest priority and he will do whatever it takes to show that to me. i miss him so much......:cry:

[G...G]

Awwww now thats great!!!!!!!!



yes b/c he is wonderful to me. he will do anything to make me happy and i know that he truly adores me. he makes me his highest priority and he will do whatever it takes to show that to me. i miss him so much......:cry:

[jmc3367]

she's lucky..... huh



Awwww now thats great!!!!!!!!

[G...G]

VERY lucky!!



she's lucky..... huh

[DukesLady66]

Heck no..I'd run as far across the U.S as I could...would never marry him again:nu

[Willy S]

Nope.

[jmc3367]

I wouldn't marry her and she wouldn't marry me either...

[DukesLady66]

he says he would..but I'd still run!

[Misty]

in a heartbeat :)

[Sandy]

i agree misty, i would in a heartbeat also, i'm a very lucky woman.

[Misty]

i agree misty, i would in a heartbeat also, i'm a very lucky woman.

:kk and congratulations :)

[Sandy]

thanks misty. i give thanks everyday for my great friends and family.

[Misty]

Yup
There's them that makes things possible :)

[SaltyLime]

probably.

[guyohio30]

with as much as i do love my wife i don't think if i had to do it over i would we got married way to fast and still don't know each other like we should an we have been married for 5 years.

[Fishercat]

Hmmm, probably

[acguy]

Yeah but with the condition that sex be more than semi-annually

[PlayfulMale69]

Yeah but with the condition that sex be more than semi-annually

I couldn't agree more!!!

[funluvinga]

I voted not sure only because other than my husband, I'm happy with my life. I love my kids and where I live.....I just want a different husband. And he really isn't horrible, he just won't let me fix what is messed up. I think I'd stay single if given the choice again.

[CJSinIL]

Nope, I think I would hold out for Selma Hayek, or Gisele Bundachesen or whatever her name is from Victoria Secret.

[cherokeered]

No...but I know who I would marry.....in a heartbeat.......


Cherokee...some things dont need an explanation.....

[Itshardon-theroad]

Not sure. I love my wife and I know I have a wonderful son because of her. In retrospect, I probably would have waited. We probably should have lived together first. That might have brought out some of the same things causing us problems now.

[Zifnab]

I suppose you would have to define the terms of "it". If you change the socks you wore to school on the first day of second grade you may never meet the person you married. You may not even get married at all.... so many small things could have completely altered any possible futures.... the infinite possibilities theory....

[spare_change]

I suppose you would have to define the terms of "it". If you change the socks you wore to school on the first day of second grade you may never meet the person you married. You may not even get married at all.... so many small things could have completely altered any possible futures.... the infinite possibilities theory....


Ahhhh --- the butterfly theory !!


Don't think about it -- it'll drive you mad considering the alternatives.

[Zifnab]

Ahhhh --- the butterfly theory !!


Don't think about it -- it'll drive you mad considering the alternatives.too late....been there done that got the straight jacket:D

[lola1999]

Why marry...not for the kids...just helps out with taxes. Don't forget the three basics: live, pay taxes, and die.

[Cotties]

helps out with the taxes....:D I wish I married you;) Why marry...not for the kids...just helps out with taxes. Don't forget the three basics: live, pay taxes, and die.

[dr2977]

I picked yes, lets face it, it takes alot of work to whip a man into shape. I've put alot of years into making him see things my way, and now I have him right where I want him...wrapped around my little finger!! :D

[ixlinu]

I have been married for twenty years to the same woman. I would not marry her if i had to do it again.. i would have married her college roomate. I still see her exroomate about once a year and the sex is great. She will do the things my wife will not. She has maintained a great physical appearance (that seeems shallow of me to say), And she has kept a young mind and heart.

[spare_change]

I picked yes, lets face it, it takes alot of work to whip a man into shape. I've put alot of years into making him see things my way, and now I have him right where I want him...wrapped around my little finger!! :D


ATTENTION ALL MEN!!

Read this very carefully!!! This woman has exposed the feminine agenda!! All women have signed a form that requires them to implement this approach.

BEWARE, WILL ROBINSON!! DANGER!! DANGER!!

[yaser]

I picked yes, lets face it, it takes alot of work to whip a man into shape. I've put alot of years into making him see things my way, and now I have him right where I want him...wrapped around my little finger!! :DYou must be joking,I believe Dr.If not,you will understand that you have mad a big mistake.I hope you will not do the same thing to your children..

[Penny]

What wont your wife do?
Maybe if you married the other woman your wife would have kept a yound mind and heart. :nu If your doing her friend every year I wouldnt be suprised if she knows


I have been married for twenty years to the same woman. I would not marry her if i had to do it again.. i would have married her college roomate. I still see her exroomate about once a year and the sex is great. She will do the things my wife will not. She has maintained a great physical appearance (that seeems shallow of me to say), And she has kept a young mind and heart.

[dr2977]

ATTENTION ALL MEN!!

Read this very carefully!!! This woman has exposed the feminine agenda!! All women have signed a form that requires them to implement this approach.

BEWARE, WILL ROBINSON!! DANGER!! DANGER!!

OH NO, did I let the cat out of the bag? :D

[dr2977]

You must be joking,I believe Dr.If not,you will understand that you have mad a big mistake.I hope you will not do the same thing to your children..

OK you have completely and totally lost me with this post. This is a place to come and have fun..am I wrong? Yes this post was in a joking manner. But as for making any mistakes with my children? I'm about to get a little defensive here, but you don't know me and I don't know you, but I don't judge you and you should not judge me. I do have a son..and I hope he turns out to be just like me..minus some of the attitude..or his father. LOL My son sees nothing but mutual respect between his parents and is given all the love he could ever want. Anyway, maybe you took the post out of context..I'm not sure but to bring someone's child(ren) into it is totally out of line in my book.

[Horndog]

:lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao

I'm sorry. What was the question again?

[funluvinga]

:lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao

I'm sorry. What was the question again?
Something about getting married. I vote No. Bad idea.....just buy more batteries. LOL

[Sunfiresix]

Being married twice--I have two answers, I actually am fortunate to still be friends with my ex and her hubby, but if I could--Nope never marrt her again, it was a compatability thing, we are great friends but no way meant to share the same lives--The second wife, yep no problem do er again. But I am old now and too tired to look.

[Horndog]

Being married twice--.

You are a repeat offender.;)

The key is to learn from your mistakes so they DON’T happen again.:lmao

[Wishing]

I would have to say no. He's changed so much since we've gotten married and, he's to easily persuaded by people. I have 2 wonderful children that are my life and, my happiness.

Wishing

[tiger50]

I would have to say no. He's changed so much since we've gotten married and, he's to easily persuaded by people. I have 2 wonderful children that are my life and, my happiness.

Wishing

gday wishing.... and welcome.... hope u stay and ave fun here.... :kk

[Rmb]

I would marry her again...my lover was fabulous but was not into the more mundane things that my wife loves, such as all the domestic things that are essential in a marriage....so each has good points and bad points... like we all do. Sex is important... but so is mutual support. I decided on the latter.

[cherokeered]

No Way!

[sparkle889beach]

I wouldn't get married again...People ask, "Don't you want to grow old with someone?", I believe in truth "You die alone"...

I'll probably just get a hot male nurse, and fire him when I tire of him. :sp:

[bbop]

Been married 33 years. We've had our ups and downs, but I don't think I would marry her again. The best thing coming from our marriage is our two wonderful children.

[Norfolkdave]

Despite the arguements, the throwing things, the no sex.........yes!

[sparkle889beach]

Despite the arguements, the throwing things, the no sex.........yes!


Good for you Odin!!!:55 She makes you happy in her own way...

[sparkle889beach]

Been married 33 years. We've had our ups and downs, but I don't think I would marry her again. The best thing coming from our marriage is our two wonderful children.


Same here, my 4 and 6 years old boys are my life...Just seeing them, and getting hugs and kisses after a long day refreshes me...:)

[yaser]

Same here, my 4 and 6 years old boys are my life...Just seeing them, and getting hugs and kisses after a long day refreshes me...:)Sparkle, good to hear that the two kids are your life.Because the kids feel the uncertainty much and they need to be in confidence....I believe you are a mother of not easily found.

[Mickey1]

I don't know what I would do.

[cherokeered]

I'd run away screaming...lol

[Mickey1]

Maybe I would pick someone more adventuresome

[cherokeered]

I know i definitely would have....perhaps someone with a pulse even...lol

[Mickey1]

I know i definitely would have....perhaps someone with a pulse even...lol

That sounds like a great idea. Find one with a pulse for adventure. :D

[cherokeered]

Yeah.....lol



Cherokee....:whee:

[Mickey1]

I'm getting out my spy glasses

[rainbowhigh]

I would definately marry the same person. He's been patient through the hard times and loving all the time. We may not always agree, but a marriage is work for both parties. And as of now, we are both still working on it. Neither of us have checked out yet....

[LonelyRider]

Yes I would. I love my wife. We just don't have the same interests.
It don't help that I love women too. I try to be good but, damn it's hard.

[clueless32m]

Yes, without any hesitation!

[funluvinga]

It's hard to say. I say yes, because it wasn't all bad and I love my kids, I say no because I'm so unhappy right now.

[altoids69]

It's hard to say. I say yes, because it wasn't all bad and I love my kids, I say no because I'm so unhappy right now.

I would have to agree. You said it all!!!

[spare_change]

Depends on the size of the gun.

[Dmy]

Yes, I most likey would, she's the best, and I find her attractive,sexy and still very much desirable! She takes good care of me and my kids...and is very unselfish in helping us out!

[nicenkinkyguy]

There are some things that I would clarify before taking the plunge into commitment.

[cherokeered]

NO!

[Cotties]

NO!:(

[funluvinga]

Yes, I most likey would, she's the best, and I find her attractive,sexy and still very much desirable! She takes good care of me and my kids...and is very unselfish in helping us out!

Once again I find myself jealous. :na

[Annie]

I once said I wasn't sure, but I have changed my mind. We've had our share our share of ups and downs and at one point last year we even discussed a divorce. Today though, I'm happier than I have been in quite a while and I am ever so grateful that we were able to work through so many of our issues. It still is no bed of roses, but yes, I would marry him all over again.


:D ... unless Kissie left the Sgt. Then maybe not....

[Kissie]

I once said I wasn't sure, but I have changed my mind. We've had our share our share of ups and downs and at one point last year we even discussed a divorce. Today though, I'm happier than I have been in quite a while and I am ever so grateful that we were able to work through so many of our issues. It still is no bed of roses, but yes, I would marry him all over again.


:D ... unless Kissie left the Sgt. Then maybe not....




Annie...I am not to sure you would want SGT...he has MANY bad habits...and the Army would come before you.....

[Annie]

Annie...I am not to sure you would want SGT...he has MANY bad habits...and the Army would come before you.....
Yeah you're right about that... but he is still fun be around and to watch!

[Kissie]

Yeah you're right about that... but he is still fun be around and to watch!




Only thing you are going to see him do these last few days is eat and sleep.....

[Rhino]

Yes, without question.

[twoblues]

No. I'd probably choose to never marry. I am coming to realize that I am not the settling down type. Unfortunately for me, it's too late because I could never break her heart by asking for a divorce.

[jman]

Nope.

[sparkle889beach]

I once said I wasn't sure, but I have changed my mind. We've had our share our share of ups and downs and at one point last year we even discussed a divorce. Today though, I'm happier than I have been in quite a while and I am ever so grateful that we were able to work through so many of our issues. It still is no bed of roses, but yes, I would marry him all over again.


:D ... unless Kissie left the Sgt. Then maybe not....


I take back what I said, too...I don't know anyone else who would tolerate me as my hubby...:wa: he makes me want to try harder to be a better person:wa: so does yaser;)

[tiger50]

NO!




well shittt thats emphatic..... :kk

[OICurready4me]

No. Doesn't mean I don't love her now but I would do things different if I had a chance to do it all over again. I would definitely look for someone who I know for sure has the same sex drive.

[Tom Tom]

Marry the same women sure. I wonder what her answer would be to the same question

[funluvinga]

I would like to think I would be smarter than to make that mistake again. But I love my boys so hard choice.

[nicenkinkyguy]

I am with you OIC...Our drives are on different planets...We are in the middle of deciding if we should seperate or divorce...she believes in god and has never even cracked open a bible...I am athiest and have read the bible several times...she dosnt like sex unless it is old fashioned straight sex...I want to do everything under the sun and moon...big decision in the next few days for us...Have a happy Thanksgiving!!!