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[Crawfish]

cut...uh I don't know what else to say.

[Crawfish]

Kenney Chesney - Fast cars and freedom. Good cruising song.

[UltimateNaneki]

Anything from those Beach Boys....Remember!

[Zpanther]

Ok UnCut fellas....question here.....

How does the condom work with the uncut? Does the foreskin slip back when you put it on or does it stay in place?

I woke up in the middle of the night with this burning question in my mind...why I don't know.

Condom? Uh....... we won't need that either. Just wear your assless chaps.

[sailorboy6]

Oh, good question! For me, it depends on the beach and time of year. Nothing beats a nice reggae beat for a calm tropical sunset...or maybe the tried and true Jimmy Buffet for cocktails and friends in the sand. But if the surf is big and pumping, then it' time to get the adrenaline going with something that digs deep....maybe Rage Against the Machine....get ready for glory or a beat down...I'm getting excited just thinking about it !!!!!

[sailorboy6]

And then of course any Slack Key....just for the West Side Makaha soul.....it drips with sand and sun, that music does....

[Butterfly_13]

Here are some ideas...:
It's Five O'Clock Somewhere (Alan Jackson & Jimmy Buffett)
Mercedes Benz (2003 Remix, Janis Joplin)
Put Your Records On (Corinne Bailey Rae)
TROUBLE (Travis Tritt)
Take It Easy (Eagles)
Drinkin' My Baby Goodbye (Charlie Daniels Band)
Groove Is In the Heart (Dee-Lite)

I'm jealous! ENJOY!!!

[G...G]

OMG.. That song soooooooooooo brings back good memories!! :D



Under the Boardwalk...lol

[G...G]

Wow.. I had forgotten about Mercedes Benz too!! Love it!!



Here are some ideas...:
It's Five O'Clock Somewhere (Alan Jackson & Jimmy Buffett)
Mercedes Benz (2003 Remix, Janis Joplin)
Put Your Records On (Corinne Bailey Rae)
TROUBLE (Travis Tritt)
Take It Easy (Eagles)
Drinkin' My Baby Goodbye (Charlie Daniels Band)
Groove Is In the Heart (Dee-Lite)

I'm jealous! ENJOY!!!

[bododio]

I'm circumsized, and the women I've been with have never mentioned a preference one way or another. The ones that said anything during coitus indicated they could feel my entire length in their vaginas, and could also feel my penis enlarge right before ejaculation, as well as the ejaculation itself.

[Milk]

The more "natural cocks" (uncut) that I see, the more I like them.

[living to Flirt]

Uncut. Never had a complaint... at least to my face :P

Flirtalicious, a red head heh.... I am sure it would make all the diference to me!

[living to Flirt]

Mcat.... just pull the skin back and roll on the condom.... good to go!!! Hope you sleep better now.

[thickitalian]

CUT

[thickitalian]

Ok UnCut fellas....question here.....

How does the condom work with the uncut? Does the foreskin slip back when you put it on or does it stay in place?

I woke up in the middle of the night with this burning question in my mind...why I don't know.

seems to have it's own built-in condom if you ask me :whee: ...just joking fellas...calm your livers...:55

[Milk]

condoms work great on uncut penises.

and i want to cast my vote again for uncut peckers. i love how the skin moves. nice to fondle them.

[MCat]

Mcat.... just pull the skin back and roll on the condom.... good to go!!! Hope you sleep better now.

Well...I have a Cut Penis as my lifemate, my love, my partner....no need for the condom since we are both neutered and choose to have only each other for sex.

I will sleep better now with that burning question answered :55

[w9kw]

cut but damm it i get compliments on his looks lol

[Milk]

cut but damm it i get compliments on his looks lol

LOL if i like the man i'll like his dick.

[w9kw]

well ive had some gals perfer my dick and not me lol

[SexyCowgirl]

I had actually never seen an un-cut one, before my son was born! And I didn't get him cut, because I know that it has got to hurt, and why would I do that to him?

Even though I have no real experinse with the uncut, it seems to me, if you are born that way leave it be! I think that it is as barbaric a ritual as the genital mutilation still done to women in other countrys.

Yuck.........

[thickitalian]

I hear you Sexy, but I look at it similarily to having my daughters ears pierced at age 3. She screamed when they punched holes in her ears but forgot about it the next day and has no memory of it at all...even when I asked her at age 5 or 6. Being circumsized I believe needs to happen within the first week or two of birth...so what is worse as far as the pain factor is concerned? I realize there are pros and cons but if I recall correctly there is a huge percentage drop from urinary infection in the first year for those cut as opposed to uncut and I think the boy would want to be cut when he is old enough to understand than not...

Please don't think I am criticizing here...I am not..I only am giving my personal thoughts. I'm certain there are many men here who are still uncut and would tell you it's never been an issue for them. :55


I had actually never seen an un-cut one, before my son was born! And I didn't get him cut, because I know that it has got to hurt, and why would I do that to him?

Even though I have no real experinse with the uncut, it seems to me, if you are born that way leave it be! I think that it is as barbaric a ritual as the genital mutilation still done to women in other countrys.

Yuck.........

[SexyCowgirl]

I hear you Sexy, but I look at it similarily to having my daughters ears pierced at age 3. She screamed when they punched holes in her ears but forgot about it the next day and has no memory of it at all...even when I asked her at age 5 or 6. Being circumsized I believe needs to happen within the first week or two of birth...so what is worse as far as the pain factor is concerned? I realize there are pros and cons but if I recall correctly there is a huge percentage drop from urinary infection in the first year for those cut as opposed to uncut and I think the boy would want to be cut when he is old enough to understand than not...

Please don't think I am criticizing here...I am not..I only am giving my personal thoughts. I'm certain there are many men here who are still uncut and would tell you it's never been an issue for them. :55

No offense taken! But, in the research I did, I found a startling high risk of incision infections, as well as an increased risk of cysts, failure for the incisions to close, and scar tissue build-up. I also saw the information regarding uti, but when I weighed the risks, the uti's seemed less. Especially because I have a tendency to scar badly, as does my husband. I figured that if, in the long run, my son wants to be circumsized, that is a decision he can make. But I surely wouldn't want to be responsible for altering his body in a way that may be more trouble then good, you know? Also, this way, if he chooses to be circumsized for whatever reason down the road, he will have a reason, and he will be able to go in to a doctor and get something for the pain.
As a side note, we are almost through with his first year, and a healthier baby you will never see:)
My husband was circumsized, and he really didn't know why, not that it matters much to him. And when I asked his mother why, she said because it was cleaner.

I guess it all comes down to me not having a good enough reason (in my mind) to validate that kind of an alteration! Also, getting your ears peirced, and removing a portion of your penis? Not a fair comparision!:D

[thickitalian]

As long as you did that much research then you made the decision that was best as parents...that's cool. The comparison was only because of the pain factor you spoke about...nothing else...yes, that does seem like a wild comparison, pierced ears vs a cut foreskin. The only thought I also had on the cysts is that I know the Jewish pple use someone I believe they name a "Moyle"....something like that and I know they are not true doctors...I believe most Rabbi's have this ability...so it would be interesting to see where the cysts lie in that small community against the overall picture.

Thanks for understanding it as it was meant...

Nice to see you here Sexy...;)


No offense taken! But, in the research I did, I found a startling high risk of incision infections, as well as an increased risk of cysts, failure for the incisions to close, and scar tissue build-up. I also saw the information regarding uti, but when I weighed the risks, the uti's seemed less. Especially because I have a tendency to scar badly, as does my husband. I figured that if, in the long run, my son wants to be circumsized, that is a decision he can make. But I surely wouldn't want to be responsible for altering his body in a way that may be more trouble then good, you know? Also, this way, if he chooses to be circumsized for whatever reason down the road, he will have a reason, and he will be able to go in to a doctor and get something for the pain.
As a side note, we are almost through with his first year, and a healthier baby you will never see:)
My husband was circumsized, and he really didn't know why, not that it matters much to him. And when I asked his mother why, she said because it was cleaner.

I guess it all comes down to me not having a good enough reason (in my mind) to validate that kind of an alteration! Also, getting your ears peirced, and removing a portion of your penis? Not a fair comparision!:D

[SexyCowgirl]

Thats interesting, regarding the jewish thing, I had never thought about that. I don't remember seing anything regarding who was prone to the cysts.........

Hmmmmmm

[thickitalian]

Thats interesting, regarding the jewish thing, I had never thought about that. I don't remember seing anything regarding who was prone to the cysts.........

Hmmmmmm

I live in a predominately Jewish neighborhood and had a co-worker who told ne that a few years back....that was a passing thought ...I never read anywhere that this was true. :sc

Enjoy your flirting hun...:kk

[SexyCowgirl]

Enjoy your flirting hun...:kk


I always do:dd

[oldtimer0229]

For the women...what makes a penis feel different to you? Un cut here.

[Michael77]

just really board and in need of some one to talk to :)

A big Nebraska howdy to ya there Mark..just keep postin and you will meet lots of people..

[UltimateNaneki]

A big Nebraska howdy to ya there Mark..just keep postin and you will meet lots of people..


Yes Michael77 knows all about posting these days...

[Michael77]

Ok, shane came home from school yesterday, and told us he had been threatened at school. pretty normal stuff for teen-age boys. but heres the catch. the other boy was bringing a gun to school. to go after shane, we reported it. I also kept shane home today. hes pissed says mom is to over-protecive. what do you guys think ?

A gun is very serious Sandy!!..I would call the police immediately to see what they could do..there has been way to many school shootings already..stop it before it starts..

[SexyCowgirl]

My goodness! I think you did just the right thing. In your shoes, I would have done the same thing! A child willing to go so far, possibly does not know what they are implying, and can be truly dangerous, not because they are bad, but because of their ignorance.

I think kids these days are just plain crazy. I may have only gotten out of high school three years ago, but I guess going to a rural school made all the difference. I can remeber bringing my rifle on the school bus because I was going hunting during lunch, but never got in trouble for it. And I can remember kids having conflicts, serious ones, but they had a ritual of losing all knives and weapons before a fight began. And they used to let kids fight it out, get things resolved on their own, and no harm ever came.

But I think farm/country kids have a different perspective on hurting, and death. I think when you have over the years, watched the life drain out of animals, the thought of threatening or even actually shooting someone is just not a possibility.

I have some foster kids now who have no concept of how final death is, and how much injury a gun actually inflicts. Or what it feels like to be a person who inflicts that kind of thing on another being. And each one of them has had in the past, a history of threatening bodily harm on others, to resolve conflict. And while they now have come to understand what that meant, I do not think anyone had ever spoken to them about things like death, before coming here. And when you learn things like that from movies, you get a very warped perspective of what life/death are.

Some of the kids who came to us, ahve been positive that you can recover a-ok when you are shot. Can you imagine? Because they have seen people in movies recover, and had never known otherwise. When they come out to our place, an eventual lesson in the finality of death always happens, and I have been there while more then one child cries to me to fix an animal, and then the crossover that sometimes an animal cannot be saved, and sometimes people can't either is a hard one. But no child here threatens death, or extreme bodily harm anymore. Sometimes they threaten to "whoop ass", but what sibling doesn't do that!
You can always tell our new kids here, because they say things like "I'm gonna kill you!" And the other children get so quiet, so somber, that the child who issues the threat feels plain ashamed for having said that. You just don't say that sorta thing, because if you really mean it, it is just unthinkable. And to joke about death is wrong......

[peaches]

You did the right thing...you never know these days what kids will do. He will thank you one day for this. Keep reminding him of all the other school shootings, and ni one did anything about them, and some could of be prevented. He is a typical teenager and nothing will happen to them, bit just remind him, we are all at risk everytime we walk out the door. Sometimes realkity bites when we are faced fwith situations like this. Good Luck!!

[NYCMasterplumber]

Being on the NYC police many,many years ago UNTIL I decided to make an honest living all I can say take all threats seriously.

ALSO people who think gun laws will protect them are OUT OF THEIR MINDS.

As long as a cop or a soldier or a court officer has a firearm a criminal can get it.

Many law enforcement personal are tiny women and it would not take much to get behind her slice her throat and then take her gun shoot two other police officers and now there are three more guns on the streets ILLEGALLY.

Placing a sign saying GUN FREE Zone is telling criminals come on in as there is no one to stop you from causing a rampage.

You do not need a GUN to kill look how many thousands of people were killed because of box cutters on an airplane

Even the Senator Kennedy family managed to take the lives of 4 women all without the use of a firearm

Education in fire arm training how to use and carry is the only means of self defense, either that or dial 911 and pray .

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hwjJRkB1nrA < BEST advice ever

[thickitalian]

Keep your boy home until the school and you or your husband can speak with the kids parents. I would personally go to the boys house with the cops and if they don't come along I would go myself and speak with the parents...if none of that is welcomed...then use the local newspaper...they'd love that story. Don't do a thing with your child till those parents are warned...the school cannot hold your child back for not attending under these circumstances...go directly to the school board.

Could it be just some kids wise mouth...of course...but you never want to look back and wonder why you didn't do anything.

[mrh50]

I agree totally:55



Being on the NYC police many,many years ago UNTIL I decided to make an honest living all I can say take all threats seriously.

ALSO people who think gun laws will protect them are OUT OF THEIR MINDS.

As long as a cop or a soldier or a court officer has a firearm a criminal can get it.

Many law enforcement personal are tiny women and it would not take much to get behind her slice her throat and then take her gun shoot two other police officers and now there are three more guns on the streets ILLEGALLY.

Placing a sign saying GUN FREE Zone is telling criminals come on in as there is no one to stop you from causing a rampage.

You do not need a GUN to kill look how many thousands of people were killed because of box cutters on an airplane

Even the Senator Kennedy family managed to take the lives of 4 women all without the use of a firearm

Education in fire arm training how to use and carry is the only means of self defense, either that or dial 911 and pray .

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hwjJRkB1nrA < BEST advice ever

[thickitalian]

Excellent thoughts SCG...

My goodness! I think you did just the right thing. In your shoes, I would have done the same thing! A child willing to go so far, possibly does not know what they are implying, and can be truly dangerous, not because they are bad, but because of their ignorance.

I think kids these days are just plain crazy. I may have only gotten out of high school three years ago, but I guess going to a rural school made all the difference. I can remeber bringing my rifle on the school bus because I was going hunting during lunch, but never got in trouble for it. And I can remember kids having conflicts, serious ones, but they had a ritual of losing all knives and weapons before a fight began. And they used to let kids fight it out, get things resolved on their own, and no harm ever came.

But I think farm/country kids have a different perspective on hurting, and death. I think when you have over the years, watched the life drain out of animals, the thought of threatening or even actually shooting someone is just not a possibility.

I have some foster kids now who have no concept of how final death is, and how much injury a gun actually inflicts. Or what it feels like to be a person who inflicts that kind of thing on another being. And each one of them has had in the past, a history of threatening bodily harm on others, to resolve conflict. And while they now have come to understand what that meant, I do not think anyone had ever spoken to them about things like death, before coming here. And when you learn things like that from movies, you get a very warped perspective of what life/death are.

Some of the kids who came to us, ahve been positive that you can recover a-ok when you are shot. Can you imagine? Because they have seen people in movies recover, and had never known otherwise. When they come out to our place, an eventual lesson in the finality of death always happens, and I have been there while more then one child cries to me to fix an animal, and then the crossover that sometimes an animal cannot be saved, and sometimes people can't either is a hard one. But no child here threatens death, or extreme bodily harm anymore. Sometimes they threaten to "whoop ass", but what sibling doesn't do that!
You can always tell our new kids here, because they say things like "I'm gonna kill you!" And the other children get so quiet, so somber, that the child who issues the threat feels plain ashamed for having said that. You just don't say that sorta thing, because if you really mean it, it is just unthinkable. And to joke about death is wrong......

[TravelingMan]

This morning, my wife and I had an interesting conversation about what is considered cheating and what is not. She was having a hard time understanding men who think that receiving a BJ was not cheating because it was not intercourse (for the record, to me, receiving a BJ or a hand job is cheating).

I asked if she considered a woman watching a man jerking off to be cheating and she said No, that's it's no different than a man gong to a peep show or such.

Since our conversation this morning, I've been giving this alot of thought. As my user ID states, I travel alot so, while my wife and my sex life is considered to still be good, my not being home alot prevents the amount of "experimenting" that we can do with each other. But the thought of her watching a guy masterbate for her appeals to me as a way for her to have some good fun without the "cheating" part.

Her and I are traveling away for a weekend vacation (without the kids) to Vegas in a few weeks. After our conversation this morning, I'm considering hiring a younger male stripper or such to come to our hotel room and masterbate for her. I would step out of the room while she got a show. The one rule would be that she could only purposely touch him. If he brushes up against her during his "seduction", that is fine with me.

Ladies: Do you think this would be a masive turn on for her? Is this something you would love for to happen in your marriage? Or am I opening a massive can of worms (no pun intended).

Traveling Man

[Annie]

Personally, I think while you are traveling you should have with you a laptop and a web cam. Then I think you aught to do it for her. There would be nothing hotter for me than to have my husband turn into my cyber-lover.

[MysteryLaidee]

I agree with Annie...she would probably enjoy watching you masturbate more than anyone else...and then she also gets to touch!!!

You could also be her "stripper" while you're together in the hotel and not let her touch..until later of course.

The webcam idea while you're traveling is a great idea, if she's open to trying it...or video it so she can watch it on her own and tell you about it later....

[TravelingMan]

Personally, I think while you are traveling you should have with you a laptop and a web cam. Then I think you aught to do it for her. There would be nothing hotter for me than to have my husband turn into my cyber-lover.

I think it's a great idea as well, one I think she would eagerly participate in.

But what happens on those nights when the cam is on and she's not available? any takers? :dl

thanks for the idea!

[Sunfiresix]

I agree with Annie--you never know what will happen when you add another person to the mix.

[snowflake]

Two's company, three's a crowd for most women!!! I wouldn't care for that, but if my husband did that for me I would find it excitingly erotic!!! :55

[Milk]

You can try the jack off idea in vegas, but i think i'd find a way to ask her first.

I strongly encourage you to cam with each other when you are on the road. It is a huge turn on for my husband when i perform on web cam for him which i have done (a private show).
Also he has a fantasy of watching another man make love to me, but don't actually want to do that. One time I came on cam for a friend and my husband watched from his own computer in another room. He couldn't see the other man, but he could see me getting off and it was a thrill for him.

[Frenchie]

Why dont you somehow fall back in that conversation and ask her if she would like to see "another" guy masterbating.

My ex GF liked to watch me, she came in the shower to see me do it... well to ask me to do it! lol

In my not so long time here I figured out that most women are in the closet sex maniacs. You'll be amazed at the stuff she'll do once there enough confidence there.

I for sure wouldnt call an excort or a stripper off the bat. Check to see where her limit's would be, talk it over. heck maybe someone here would volunteer to help you out!

But I'm with Annie.

[snowflake]

In my not so long time here I figured out that most women are in the closet sex maniacs. You'll be amazed at the stuff she'll do once there enough confidence there.



What a bummer, you know about my closet? :sc

[unctarheel_32]

that sounds like that would be fun to watch:D You can try the jack off idea in vegas, but i think i'd find a way to ask her first.

I strongly encourage you to cam with each other when you are on the road. It is a huge turn on for my husband when i perform on web cam for him which i have done (a private show).
Also he has a fantasy of watching another man make love to me, but don't actually want to do that. One time I came on cam for a friend and my husband watched from his own computer in another room. He couldn't see the other man, but he could see me getting off and it was a thrill for him.

[p.J]

Personally, I think while you are traveling you should have with you a laptop and a web cam. Then I think you aught to do it for her. There would be nothing hotter for me than to have my husband turn into my cyber-lover.

Annie, you have hit the nail on the head here my friend... (no pun honest!!!)

[pointofnoreturn]

I agree with Annie also. You can make a video of you for her, and when you are not home she can watch. Having a stranger in my room jerking off does not sound tempting. Now having someone I know in my bedroom...????????????That I could handle.

[Sunfiresix]

Has to be someone your familiar with to be enjoyable--and it most likely wil lead to more erotic fun anyway..

[spare_change]

How do you break it to your lover that it just wasn't that good?

How do you tell him/her that, in fact, it was pretty terrible.

Or, are you a chicken, and pretend you came, pretend he/she is a good lover in the hopes that somehow, someway, between now and the next time that your lover will get a freakin' clue?

[UltimateNaneki]

How do you break it to your lover that it just wasn't that good?

How do you tell him/her that, in fact, it was pretty terrible.

Or, are you a chicken, and pretend you came, pretend he/she is a good lover in the hopes that somehow, someway, between now and the next time that your lover will get a freakin' clue?

Well I did the chicken think for a long time with my husband. I would moan and yell and tell him all that crap, just so that he came and he would get off of me. Until that day! and we have been with out for 6 months now. I believe that if I told him straight away...we would never have married!

[peaches]

I think kindly let them know how you like things and ask them the same. It may hurt but honestly is the best policy in this case if you both want to be satisfied. The first time is always strange and getting to know what the other wants...so practice it's the best way to get it right...

[spare_change]

I think kindly let them know how you like things and ask them the same. It may hurt but honestly is the best policy in this case if you both want to be satisfied. The first time is always strange and getting to know what the other wants...so practice it's the best way to get it right...


Is this what you have done? Did it work?

[peaches]

Is this what you have done? Did it work?
Yes and practice does make perfect.....lol

[shortnsexy]

You could suggest different ways of doing things, tactifully of course.
You could also mention to your partner that you had things on your mind bothering and that you really need to be distracted...dirty talk etc. to stay in the moment. They should understand this if there is any stress in their life.
The only answer I have is to try different things.
If this is an affair, chances are things probably won't get better sexually. Some people don't connect sexually or chemically. You may want to find someone who feels more compatible sexually.

[cherokeered]

My hubby never seemed interested in whether or not i enjoyed it....even when I tried the moving of the hand and the telling him, yes like that or there.....so now, we dont and won't ever again

[tiger50]

My hubby never seemed interested in whether or not i enjoyed it....even when I tried the moving of the hand and the telling him, yes like that or there.....so now, we dont and won't ever again

well baby, we'll do better than that....hey.. i'll even untie one of ur hands so u can guide mine..... :whee:

[Cotties]

by cumming within five minutes and forgetting to give her a thankyou kiss

[baby face]

My husband usually does a really good job.....the times I get really pissed off is when he doesn't start with any of the floor play and then finishes his part in less than five minutes....it erks me and he knows it. Sex is a two way street....both need to be pleased and most people know it takes longer than 5 minutes to please a woman.....

[Cotties]

floor play...tell me moreMy husband usually does a really good job.....the times I get really pissed off is when he doesn't start with any of the floor play and then finishes his part in less than five minutes....it erks me and he knows it. Sex is a two way street....both need to be pleased and most people know it takes longer than 5 minutes to please a woman..........and like my wife...she has taught herself to get off twice in five minutes and then asks if I can hurry up and finish........

[shortnsexy]

I agree sex is a two way street. I wouldn't want you to hurry up and finish!!!

The feeling is the sensual part of things, not just the fact that she can cum fast...you need to be able to experience cumming too and at your own pace!:D

floor play...tell me more.....and like my wife...she has taught herself to get off twice in five minutes and then asks if I can hurry up and finish........

[p.J]

How do you break it to your lover that it just wasn't that good?

How do you tell him/her that, in fact, it was pretty terrible.

Or, are you a chicken, and pretend you came, pretend he/she is a good lover in the hopes that somehow, someway, between now and the next time that your lover will get a freakin' clue?

:D mmmmm! I think I give it away by spending the rest of day in a bad mood... sniping at him at every given opportunity! He normally ends up saying (12 hrs later)... you didn't cum did you! O HUM! plonker!

[pointofnoreturn]

I usually would have said(in the past) that's ok we can try again later....

[spare_change]

:D mmmmm! I think I give it away by spending the rest of day in a bad mood... sniping at him at every given opportunity! He normally ends up saying (12 hrs later)... you didn't cum did you! O HUM! plonker!


LOL -- Dang! We just may have solved all the world's problems right here! NOW we know where all that anger comes from!

[p.J]

LOL -- Dang! We just may have solved all the world's problems right here! NOW we know where all that anger comes from!


:D No comment... for a change! :kk

[spare_change]

:D No comment... for a change! :kk


Think about it, though! We could create the Piece Corps -- a group ready to mobilize to a hot spot anywhere in the world on a moment's notice. Ready to spread piece and tranquility among the combatants!

"Let's invade Israel! What? A blowjob? Yesssssssss!! Forget about Israel, baby, come and get it! This mujahdeen got somethin' for you!"

"Oi vey! You want to invade? Sure - come on - take it all! Just don't make too much noise while me and this pretty lady kvetch around!"

[Milk]

I agree with tactful honesty and a bit of provocative coaching. But, if it is something the person cannot change, i think you keep quiet about it. My husband is pastey pale white with a tiny dick. Will it do any good for me to tell him i wish he was a dark black man with a large dick since that's what really turns me on? I don't think so, since it's not something he can change.

[Dsparate No More]

I will be out of town for the next few days (in Milwaukee) attending a seminar. The problem is I will be commuting 1 1/2 hours each way, everyday!! :(
So...If I don't get back to my new friends right away...that is why. Wish me luck as I battle traffic jams and gas prices...If you see me on CSPAN..you know why...Hope to talk to y'all real soon!

[DoratheExplorer]

Good luck, have fun, be careful, enjoy. Heard about the accident near Milwaukee - what a shame. Don't drive too fast!

[Penny]

have fun

[surfnchat]

Have fun if that's possible in Milwaukee! :D

I was there several years ago and was disappointed there wasn't a Laverne and Shirley museum... :lmao

[Jy]

I've never faked an orgasm, because that's misleading. If you let your partner think you're enjoying whatever they're doing, then they'll do it again since it seemed to have such positive results!

Honesty is the best policy, but subtlety is crucial. Moving his hand to the right spot, some dirty talk when he hits the right spot, nothing harsh or critical. That way no one's feelings are hurt and everyone is...well, happy!

[AffableOne]

My hubby never seemed interested in whether or not i enjoyed it....even when I tried the moving of the hand and the telling him, yes like that or there.....so now, we dont and won't ever again

his loss.

[AffableOne]

I've never faked an orgasm, because that's misleading. If you let your partner think you're enjoying whatever they're doing, then they'll do it again since it seemed to have such positive results!

Honesty is the best policy, but subtlety is crucial. Moving his hand to the right spot, some dirty talk when he hits the right spot, nothing harsh or critical. That way no one's feelings are hurt and everyone is...well, happy!

perfectly stated.

[Dsparate No More]

Have fun if that's possible in Milwaukee! :D

I was there several years ago and was disappointed there wasn't a Laverne and Shirley museum... :lmao

LOL!!
:na

[BadenLink]

DH,

Safe travels! Let me know when we can get Dora and you in the chat room to talk about planning some adventure. Half the fun is in the planning. ;-)

[hoss]

rolling over afterwards and mumbling ..." 9 inches my ass Spare " ....

[spare_change]

rolling over afterwards and mumbling ..." 9 inches my ass Spare " ....


LOL -- who cares? I got what I wanted!!

[hoss]

LOL -- who cares? I got what I wanted!!

yeh ..men like u are all alike ...all take and no give ....:cry:

[peaches]

rolling over afterwards and mumbling ..." 9 inches my ass Spare " ....
can you prove the 9 inches?

[MIGHTY]

I never pretend to have an orgasm. Sometimes there are circumstances beyond your control that don't make it what it should be. Then there are other times when it should be about the couple and ends up being more about the individual and their needs alone. I have no tollerance for selfish people. My way of telling someone that they were not "good" ? We do not sleep together again.....

[Milk]

enjoy the seminar, we'll still be here when you return

[PunkyBob]

Safe trip. See you later, kiddo

[MCat]

I agree with tactful honesty and a bit of provocative coaching. But, if it is something the person cannot change, i think you keep quiet about it. My husband is pastey pale white with a tiny dick. Will it do any good for me to tell him i wish he was a dark black man with a large dick since that's what really turns me on? I don't think so, since it's not something he can change.

Why did you marry the pastey pale man with a tiny dick? What a description...

[MCat]

I have never faked it.....if I don't I don't...maybe next time. Its still lovely...

[Wil]

I agree with tactful honesty and a bit of provocative coaching. But, if it is something the person cannot change, i think you keep quiet about it. My husband is pastey pale white with a tiny dick. Will it do any good for me to tell him i wish he was a dark black man with a large dick since that's what really turns me on? I don't think so, since it's not something he can change.


everyone tells me i have a very nice tan....:thankyou:

[hoss]

can you prove the 9 inches?

u asking me if i got 9 inches ....i aint saying what i got ...but if u ask around im sure u can find out ..

[peaches]

u asking me if i got 9 inches ....i aint saying what i got ...but if u ask around im sure u can find out ..
i just might do that...lol

[scoobertina]

I had one lover that wasn't very good, only I didn't know it until after I had moved on.. so he never knew he was bad, at least I didn't tell him

[hotguy89]

well...i am faking...how about that? a guy faking it...well...my mind is just not excited anymore with her...i think as she is too keen on flirting with other guys...makes me feel unwanted...does she notice? nope/...as long as i make her cum she is happy...:D

[MCat]

well...i am faking...how about that? a guy faking it...well...my mind is just not excited anymore with her...i think as she is too keen on flirting with other guys...makes me feel unwanted...does she notice? nope/...as long as i make her cum she is happy...:D

Can you enjoy her flirting with others just a little?
You are here flirting with others...:55

Use it to your advantage...

[paris]

I've never faked an orgasm, because that's misleading. If you let your partner think you're enjoying whatever they're doing, then they'll do it again since it seemed to have such positive results!

Honesty is the best policy, but subtlety is crucial. Moving his hand to the right spot, some dirty talk when he hits the right spot, nothing harsh or critical. That way no one's feelings are hurt and everyone is...well, happy!

Very well said, Jazzy!

[hotguy89]

Can you enjoy her flirting with others just a little?
You are here flirting with others...:55

Use it to your advantage...

fair point...just cant ....shame really...full of possibilities...her flirting is talking to ex about our sexlive hmmm...still going on...lol...am i a mug?:D

[MCat]

fair point...just cant ....shame really...full of possibilities...her flirting is talking to ex about our sexlive hmmm...still going on...lol...am i a mug?:D

Guess I wouldn't call what she is doing flirting....she is comparing. I don't think that's very nice of her.

Thanks for putting your age in your profile. :55

[hotguy89]

Guess I wouldn't call what she is doing flirting....she is comparing. I don't think that's very nice of her.

Thanks for putting your age in your profile. :55

np ...i got no hang-ups about my age...well....she says is just a friendship...i cant hack it,...just waiting for kids to grow up...lol..counting days..:D

[hoss]

i just might do that...lol

just start a the "A's" and work your way through ........

[Annie]

On one of the morning shows today they had a segment about the new trend in "Man's Rooms". A room designed for men to be able to spend time without the hassle of someone trying to tell him what to do or how to do things. A place when men can go to work on a hobby or try and gain some peace of mind.

What would you do in your Man's Room? What would you have in it, how would you arrange it? Where would it be? Who would be allowed in it?

[Gray451]

Everyone should have their own space. Mine would not have much clutter in it..minimalist guess u could say. No one would be there but me and it would be the one place where nothing got "rearranged" while I was not there. Thats why I never bring anything I really want into the house..it always gets moved, or stepped on or picked up..carried around and dropped somewhere no one will ever find it.

[Frenchie]

Mine's the basement

Got my music stuff there and my big screen/surround. My wife doesnt really like hanging down there since it's cold and stuff so thats why it's mostly my room and I called shotgun on it when we moved in.

[MCat]

My poor hubby has a corner by the backdoor for "his space". I have suggested we turn one of the extra bedrooms into "his room"...ya know for loading shells etc.

Hope he responds to this thread...I'm curious what he would have in it, how he would choose to decorate it.

[Tom4u2here]

I have a section in the basement I want to make into my man room. I plan on a TV, my computer to chat with all of you. A couch, and a good exhaust fan so i can smoke a cigar in the house. And of course all of my guns and reloading equipment.

[MCat]

I have a section in the basement I want to make into my man room. I plan on a TV, my computer to chat with all of you. A couch, and a good exhaust fan so i can smoke a cigar in the house. And of course all of my guns and reloading equipment.

No smoking in the house......but the guns are ok :D

[rickingeorgia]

Definatey working on one of these in my house. I'll be picking up a few flatscreen's, some leather chairs and a few other things. A place for my computer and other things would be great.

[rickingeorgia]

There are ways of telling someone things, or better yet showing them with out hurting their feelings. It's actually pretty easy to do.

[spare_change]

There are ways of telling someone things, or better yet showing them with out hurting their feelings. It's actually pretty easy to do.



For example?

[aviatorspirit69]

How do you break it to your lover that it just wasn't that good?

How do you tell him/her that, in fact, it was pretty terrible.

Or, are you a chicken, and pretend you came, pretend he/she is a good lover in the hopes that somehow, someway, between now and the next time that your lover will get a freakin' clue?

Simply show them what gets you off......the three E's experimentation and exploration leads to a strong ejaculation! (or multiple O's for my ladies) :55

[rickingeorgia]

Simply show them what gets you off......the three E's experimentation and exploration leads to a strong ejaculation! (or multiple O's for my ladies) :55

Exactly, be vocal during sex, tell them what you want to be done, or just put them in whatever position you're looking for if the size difference permits. Things like.... 'just like that' and 'faster' work great when they're doing something, and like I said, physically picking them up and putting them where they need to be work every time.

[spare_change]

.... unless, of course, you were to actually consider what they might enjoy, too. Ordering them, or physically moving them, would seem to meet your needs, but theirs?

[dartgirl]

I use to pretend that I was into it, of course back then I didn't really care if I did or not. Now I don't even do that. I turned him down a few months ago, cuz I really wasn't in the mood, thought he was gonna divorce me right on the spot. Damn missed my opportunity there!!!!

[rickingeorgia]

.... unless, of course, you were to actually consider what they might enjoy, too. Ordering them, or physically moving them, would seem to meet your needs, but theirs?

How do you break it to your lover that it just wasn't that good?

How do you tell him/her that, in fact, it was pretty terrible.

Or, are you a chicken, and pretend you came, pretend he/she is a good lover in the hopes that somehow, someway, between now and the next time that your lover will get a freakin' clue?

For a second there I thought I had misread your original post. You asked how you can break it to them and I gave viable options that would not hurt anyones feelings but rather add a little fun into the equation. J

ust because you're showing someone a few things you enjoy doesn't mean you stop pleasing them, unless what you like isn't what they like, and then who's to say either is a bad lover rather than just plain ol' incompatible?

There are ways to get each other off in bed with out being an asshole, all it requires is a little experimentation and communication.

But that's just my $.02

[hoss]

wall to wall pussy ....

[spare_change]

For a second there I thought I had misread your original post. You asked how you can break it to them and I gave viable options that would not hurt anyones feelings but rather add a little fun into the equation. J

ust because you're showing someone a few things you enjoy doesn't mean you stop pleasing them, unless what you like isn't what they like, and then who's to say either is a bad lover rather than just plain ol' incompatible?

There are ways to get each other off in bed with out being an asshole, all it requires is a little experimentation and communication.

But that's just my $.02



No, you didn't misread my post. I was merely commenting that your post, and the one prior to it, indicated an "all about me" approach - "here's what I like", "move over there", "do it like this."

I'm sure that isn't what you intended, but I would have thought there would be some meaningful communication, rather than one-sided direction, between the couple involved. Physically moving her into position wouldn't seem to be considering her desires.

[spare_change]

wall to wall pussy ....



I tried that --- do you have any idea how much Friskies a room full of cats can eat? Almost drove me to the poorhouse!


(My momma always said pussy would be the death of me!)

[Cotties]

If I had my own room the first thing I would have in it was a lock...I'd go from there

[peaches]

wall to wall pussy ....
now how did i know that......lol

[peaches]

I tried that --- do you have any idea how much Friskies a room full of cats can eat? Almost drove me to the poorhouse!


(My momma always said pussy would be the death of me!)
i knew you would of already of tried it.......and listen to your momma, she is always right............:lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao

[peaches]

If I had my own room the first thing I would have in it was a lock...I'd go from there
very good idea.....;i would also start with a lock and padded walls......lol

[Cotties]

I was thinking a sexy hot blooded latino maid in high heels and a skimpy outfit.........but maybe the padded walls would block out all the pounding soundsvery good idea.....;i would also start with a lock and padded walls......lol

[peaches]

I was thinking a sexy hot blooded latino maid in high heels and a skimpy outfit.........but maybe the padded walls would block out all the pounding sounds
the second best idea you have had...shame it came from a woman...maybe we need our own room

[Zifnab]

one of the main selling points on our new house was the preinstalled bar in the basement. ... . it isn't anything fancy, but I have been graciously given free reign. It has a futon, because we have to have a guest room SOMEWHERE.....I still want to extend the bar area, add a few more bar stools and a larger cooler for the beer supply, eventually include more sports memorabilia on the walls......

I like it in the more subdued earth tones with no bright lighting..... flourescents are VERBOTTEN!!!!
I have the computer set up to provide the music through the stereo, and videos on dual monitors, but still need more casual seating for parties. It is MY room, but everyone is invited to it during the parties, rest of the time it is just me and the dogs hiding in there!

[Penny]

My husband spent three years of his spare time finnishing the basement. Now that it is done. He cant have it :( It was sawlled into the general fund. Our daughter is moving back and will take it over

[Sandy]

mark has the spare bedroom, full of junk, i've threatened to go clean it out for him :D

[musicmer]

The only place i really have is my car. Thena gain that is the only place there is without kids and the mess that comes with them.

It is one of the only things that always relaxes me... now if i could just get the stereo loud enough to drown out the voices in my head.

[missgrace]

ohhh I WANT a Man's room.. hehehehe.. ok ok.. i get it.. lol.. a room for just the man.. waaaa i was hoping for a room full of men...

[hank69]

My poor hubby has a corner by the backdoor for "his space". I have suggested we turn one of the extra bedrooms into "his room"...ya know for loading shells etc.

Hope he responds to this thread...I'm curious what he would have in it, how he would choose to decorate it.

My room is fine..I can reload, watch TV, let the dogs out and in. Listen to your music, you can talk to me, If your watching tv or on the comp.

Besides it's only a few steps to cum over and slap your ass....:D

[sawflyman]

lots of power tools of course. gggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[hoss]

No, you didn't misread my post. I was merely commenting that your post, and the one prior to it, indicated an "all about me" approach - "here's what I like", "move over there", "do it like this."

I'm sure that isn't what you intended, but I would have thought there would be some meaningful communication, rather than one-sided direction, between the couple involved. Physically moving her into position wouldn't seem to be considering her desires.

HEY ~!~~...I physically moved my ex-wife into postion for 7 years ...and i always considered her desires ....it wasnt hard to do ,she didnt have any ...

[MCat]

My room is fine..I can reload, watch TV, let the dogs out and in. Listen to your music, you can talk to me, If your watching tv or on the comp.

Besides it's only a few steps to cum over and slap your ass....:D

That's right honey....I'm just a few steps away.....and if I want to dance I know where to find you :kk

[surfnchat]

All I need is a computer and cable modem and then I can really have some fun! :whee:

Oh, and a good lock on the door... ;)

[suzie147]

I tried that --- do you have any idea how much Friskies a room full of cats can eat? Almost drove me to the poorhouse!


(My momma always said pussy would be the death of me!)
:lmao :lmao


That was a GREAT response!!

[hoss]

I tried that --- do you have any idea how much Friskies a room full of cats can eat? Almost drove me to the poorhouse!


(My momma always said pussy would be the death of me!)

HEY !!!...i aint no freaking straight man ....geez....

but it did make me smile ....:D

[hoss]

The only place i really have is my car. Thena gain that is the only place there is without kids and the mess that comes with them.

It is one of the only things that always relaxes me... now if i could just get the stereo loud enough to drown out the voices in my head.

voices huh....well that would explain alot ....when u start writing redrum ,redrum on the wall...ummm...let us know ok ....

[suzie147]

This thread is starting to get wierd....

[hoss]

This thread is starting to get wierd....

Hoss and weird go together like peanut butter and baked salmon....a canadian delight .....:wa:

[RedVixen]

Hoss and weird go together like peanut butter and baked salmon....a canadian delight .....:wa:

:lmao Hoss, peanut butter & baked salmon - that was supposed to be a canadian secret :nu

[Wil]

my mans room consists of the house when everyone is out doing their thing....peace and quiet...time to think...

[hoss]

:lmao Hoss, peanut butter & baked salmon - that was supposed to be a canadian secret :nu

oops....guess i shouldnt mention what we did in the igloo last thursday while the penguins watched ....:kk

[cherokeered]

This thread is starting to get wierd....


Starting?????:D

[PunkyBob]

Right..."Man's Room"...should it be covered with porn? Maybe not, but with some blow-ups of some of the more intriguing ladies' avatars I see here...with spots for all the bloody guitars to hang, of course. And room for the amps. Black light? Am I still thirteen? Do men ever growup? Okay, black light. BEER FRIDGE. Yeah, bigass flat screen and home theatre sound. Picture window onto the back 40. Double love seat recliner. BEER FRIDGE! Oops, said that... Hmmm...bolts in the walls for the rougher play...toy chest...

[living to Flirt]

Well I had a man's room... Movie screen, surround.... it was great. But have a niece who needs a home, so, pack up the man's room :( BUt hey, Family has to come first, right?

[MCat]

Right..."Man's Room"...should it be covered with porn? Maybe not, but with some blow-ups of some of the more intriguing ladies' avatars I see here...with spots for all the bloody guitars to hang, of course. And room for the amps. Black light? Am I still thirteen? Do men ever growup? Okay, black light. BEER FRIDGE. Yeah, bigass flat screen and home theatre sound. Picture window onto the back 40. Double love seat recliner. BEER FRIDGE! Oops, said that... Hmmm...bolts in the walls for the rougher play...toy chest...

Thats a definate YES...:D

[My_Secrets_Kept]

and here I thought a mans room was the bathroom lol...

[My_Secrets_Kept]

hubby has his own space in the garage with a tv, tools & all his big boy toys... oh & can't forget about the fridge out there dedicated to his beer!

[peaches]

and here I thought a mans room was the bathroom lol...
that was to funny...........:lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao

[living to Flirt]

ohhh I WANT a Man's room.. hehehehe.. ok ok.. i get it.. lol.. a room for just the man.. waaaa i was hoping for a room full of men...

Well I will sign up to be in that room for ya!!!