View Full Version : What does flirting mean to you?
G. Lee
10-11-2006, 12:10 PM
Sometimes I think men and women have very different ideas on this. I know when men are flirting, usually, with women because we are so direct. What is a sign the woman is interested?
Penny
10-11-2006, 07:25 PM
when she dont slap your face is a good start :D
Sandy
10-11-2006, 07:30 PM
or act like your not there :D
dartgirl
10-11-2006, 07:36 PM
Smiling and laughing at your jokes, even if they aren't that funny.
SaltyLime
10-11-2006, 07:48 PM
generally, just making somebody feel good
cherokeered
10-11-2006, 09:56 PM
Casual, light sexy talk....whether it's casual or meaningful...is up to the individuals involved....
Cherokee....Flirting is fun...:whee:
tiger50
10-11-2006, 10:17 PM
dunno... dont flirt....:D
cherokeered
10-11-2006, 10:24 PM
dunno... dont flirt....:D
You don't?....since when?.....
Cherokee....seems to me someones fibbing....:D
tiger50
10-11-2006, 10:29 PM
You don't?....since when?.....
Cherokee....seems to me someones fibbing....:D
heyyyy i wudnt lie to ya about sumfin as important as that..... :D
Sandy
10-11-2006, 10:30 PM
oh yes you would, you just did it :D
cherokeered
10-11-2006, 10:32 PM
The man never learns...seems the only one who thinks he doesnt flirt...is himself...lol
Cherokee....:lmao
Flirting is simply playful banter, laughing, smiling, maybe even a touch on the arm, but usually just for fun. If you're single, of course it means so much more, but for me, I'm just having fun and getting my ego stroked. I don't take it too far, such as suggestive talk, because I don't want to mislead anyone. It's exciting though; I love male energy.
G. Lee
10-11-2006, 11:10 PM
Me, I'm a show off that can get attention. My sense of humor and other attributes get me noticed. It is hard to take flirting to the next level. Maybe it is fear. Maybe I am not able to read the signs. Walking away from so many situations and thinking later that she really was interested. :lf Then I wonder if I am stupid because of the attraction I felt. :whee: How does it move to the next level without risk? Or, Maybe the risk is too great.:(
You can't depend on your judgment when your imagination is out of focus.-Mark Twain
Lately all I have is my own imagination. Still my judgment is in question:)
G. Lee
10-11-2006, 11:19 PM
when she dont slap your face is a good start :D
Oh, and by the way, some of us may like pushing a woman's emotion to the edge. Never been smacked, so maybe I'm not trying hard enough;)
When I coached basketball, I told the guys that nevr got a foul that they weren't playing hard enough:nu
jazzlover2006
10-11-2006, 11:23 PM
Flirting is simply playful banter, laughing, smiling, maybe even a touch on the arm, but usually just for fun. If you're single, of course it means so much more, but for me, I'm just having fun and getting my ego stroked. I don't take it too far, such as suggestive talk, because I don't want to mislead anyone. It's exciting though; I love male energy.
Flirting is like a smooth jazz composition; it grabs the soul and body mixing them in a harmony of love and caring. It is reaching out through that composition touching and holding the one you want to reach. It is warm like a fire, that gives of a warm radiant feeling all over the body from head to toe. Flirting is heard as a whisper of love words entering the ears, to create an exciting feeling that could melt a heart of ice...That is the art of flirting...
cherokeered
10-11-2006, 11:28 PM
I don't mind having my buttons pushed...if it bothers me..I just stop talking...I have never slapped anyone in the face....not my style...
Flirting is a tightrope walk at best....you have to know where the boundaries are...and where flirting ends and seduction begins...sometimes the line blurs...
Sometimes when innocently flirting...someone can take it more seriously....and that can be a problem...crushes also develope...and yes, adults get crushes too...
I think everyone flirts...:) and it is like being a tease in a way...the idea is to make the person you are flirting with feel special, raise the temperature a bit...but mostly...have fun....
Wow! I like the way you look at things, Jazzlover! And may I have the honour of welcoming you to the best site on the net! :wa:
So you love Jazz, eh? I think we're going to get along famously!
By the way, can you do us a favour and add your date of birth to your profile, hun? It's required. Thanks! Then I'll know what I'm up for!!:D
Flirting is like a smooth jazz composition; it grabs the soul and body mixing them in a harmony of love and caring. It is reaching out through that composition touching and holding the one you want to reach. It is warm like a fire, that gives of a warm radiant feeling all over the body from head to toe. Flirting is heard as a whisper of love words entering the ears, to create an exciting feeling that could melt a heart of ice...That is the art of flirting...
cherokeered
10-11-2006, 11:34 PM
Flirting is like a smooth jazz composition; it grabs the soul and body mixing them in a harmony of love and caring. It is reaching out through that composition touching and holding the one you want to reach. It is warm like a fire, that gives of a warm radiant feeling all over the body from head to toe. Flirting is heard as a whisper of love words entering the ears, to create an exciting feeling that could melt a heart of ice...That is the art of flirting...
Welcome to the site hun....wow...like your description....
Enjoy the site...and happy flirting....
Cherokee....:wa:
Exactly, Cher. There's a fine line between playful flirting and being a tease. I like to keep things light, especially in person, because yes, lines get crossed and feelings can get hurt. People should feel special and beautiful and not like they're being toyed with.
I don't mind having my buttons pushed...if it bothers me..I just stop talking...I have never slapped anyone in the face....not my style...
Flirting is a tightrope walk at best....you have to know where the boundaries are...and where flirting ends and seduction begins...sometimes the line blurs...
Sometimes when innocently flirting...someone can take it more seriously....and that can be a problem...crushes also develope...and yes, adults get crushes too...
I think everyone flirts...:) and it is like being a tease in a way...the idea is to make the person you are flirting with feel special, raise the temperature a bit...but mostly...have fun....
G. Lee
10-11-2006, 11:46 PM
I don't mind having my buttons pushed...if it bothers me..I just stop talking...I have never slapped anyone in the face....not my style...
Flirting is a tightrope walk at best....you have to know where the boundaries are...and where flirting ends and seduction begins...sometimes the line blurs...
Sometimes when innocently flirting...someone can take it more seriously....and that can be a problem...crushes also develope...and yes, adults get crushes too...
I think everyone flirts...:) and it is like being a tease in a way...the idea is to make the person you are flirting with feel special, raise the temperature a bit...but mostly...have fun....
Where flirting ends and seduction begins. Wow, are you good. I'm sitting down and you are making me weak in the knees. The line is definitely blurring.
See, there I go again. I can't depend on my own judgment because my imagination is out of focus. Or is it???? Maybe or maybe not. IS it warm in here or is it just me???;)
cherokeered
10-11-2006, 11:56 PM
Wow, are you good. I'm sitting down and you are making me weak in the knees. The line is definitely blurring.
See, there I go again. I can't depend on my own judgment because my imagination is out of focus. Or is it???? Maybe or maybe not. IS it warm in here or is it just me???;)
Hun...it's always warm in this place...and it's always meant to be fun...unless two people want to take it further....which is up to them...
Ummm....I suppose I am a good flirt hun...I'm a natural at it...lol
G. Lee
10-12-2006, 12:09 AM
Hun...it's always warm in this place...and it's always meant to be fun...unless two people want to take it further....which is up to them...
Ummm....I suppose I am a good flirt hun...I'm a natural at it...lol
See, these are really prophylactic relationships (Did I spell that right?). Anyway time and distance leave it high and dry, but it seems to be fun to get playful. Me, I drive a lot, so I am always 'going further'. And, by the way, I keep the room temp at 65, but you been pusing that thermostat?!?!?!
Yeah, the fun part is working, too.
cherokeered
10-12-2006, 12:17 AM
See, these are really prophylactic relationships (Did I spell that right?). Anyway time and distance leave it high and dry, but it seems to be fun to get playful. Me, I drive a lot, so I am always 'going further'. And, by the way, I keep the room temp at 65, but you been pusing that thermostat?!?!?!
Yeah, the fun part is working, too.
Have I?....lol...okay
Well...I like to flirt...in case ya didn't notice....;)
tiger50
10-12-2006, 12:27 AM
Have I?....lol...okay
Well...I like to flirt...in case ya didn't notice....;)
hmmm ya wanna flirt with me???? or play cricket.... :whee:
cherokeered
10-12-2006, 12:29 AM
hmmm ya wanna flirt with me???? or play cricket.... :whee:
Ya being fresh I see...lol
Flirt?...do you flirt?....or do you just want me to flirt with you?
tiger50
10-12-2006, 12:34 AM
Ya being fresh I see...lol
Flirt?...do you flirt?....or do you just want me to flirt with you?
fresh?? hell no..... :whee: just wanna play cricket... :D
G. Lee
10-12-2006, 12:36 AM
Ya being fresh I see...lol
Flirt?...do you flirt?....or do you just want me to flirt with you?
Hey, Tiger...Yoda said it: No try, do!
So, Cher, I repeat what I said above: It is hard to take flirting to the next level. Maybe it is fear. Maybe I am not able to read the signs. Walking away from so many situations and thinking later that she really was interested. Then I wonder if I am stupid because of the attraction I felt.
G. Lee
10-12-2006, 12:42 AM
Ya being fresh I see...lol
Flirt?...do you flirt?....or do you just want me to flirt with you?
See, the real me comes out here. The one from above. That's the one who gets confused about the signal and walks around scratching his head. See my 10:10pm message above.
cherokeered
10-12-2006, 12:48 AM
Hey, Tiger...Yoda said it: No try, do!
So, Cher, I repeat what I said above: It is hard to take flirting to the next level. Maybe it is fear. Maybe I am not able to read the signs. Walking away from so many situations and thinking later that she really was interested. Then I wonder if I am stupid because of the attraction I felt.
You're not stupid hun..attraction is the first step in flirting...as for a next level...well that may or may not be possible...not everyone is looking for the next level....that is on a personal basis...
The next level would not be really flirting hun...it would be crossing the line...and there is no exact way to know if someone is looking for that then to read what they say in their posts or ask them discreetly....
But you would have to get to know them first...and let them get to know you...
You never know until you try...and then ya won't have so many what if's haunting you...
As for me..I flirt on the threads...try to behave...stay out of trouble...lol
G. Lee
10-12-2006, 01:02 AM
You're not stupid hun..attraction is the first step in flirting...as for a next level...well that may or may not be possible...not everyone is looking for the next level....that is on a personal basis...
The next level would not be really flirting hun...it would be crossing the line...and there is no exact way to know if someone is looking for that then to read what they say in their posts or ask them discreetly....
But you would have to get to know them first...and let them get to know you...
You never know until you try...and then ya won't have so many what if's haunting you...
As for me..I flirt on the threads...try to behave...stay out of trouble...lol
Yeah, flirting on threads is fun, and I think we had fun. The '...try to behave...' part working for you??? Gotta live in the moment/ They come and go so quickly:kk Moments, that is.
(The computer/phone line where I am are fighting tonight)
XMONKEYLOVINSX
10-12-2006, 01:12 AM
To Be Honest Being A Woman I Think It Is Very Difficult To Tell When We Are Flirting I Think We Fall Into Different Classes Of Flirters There Are The Ones Who Are Very Obvious And The Ones Who Are More Descrete! Me I Can Be Both. But Most Of The Time I Laught A Lot Or Am Smiling The Whole Time I Talk To The Person
XMONKEYLOVINSX
10-12-2006, 01:16 AM
See, the real me comes out here. The one from above. That's the one who gets confused about the signal and walks around scratching his head. See my 10:10pm message above.
YOU DONT SOUND TO CONFIDENT IN YOUR SELF G.LEE THE BEST WAY TO SEE IF WE WANT TO GO FURTHER IS PRETTY MUCH TO ASK! IF U FEEL AN ATTRACTION THEN GET OUR ATTENTION TELL US WE LOOK NICE TODAY OR SOMETHING CORNY TO LEY US KNOW U MIGHT BE INTERESTED THEN LET US TAKE IT FROM THERE IF WE DONT THEN U KNOW THE FEELING IS ONE SIDED BUT IF WE DO THEN MOVE FROM THERE. AND JUST BE U!!!:kk
yaser
10-12-2006, 01:17 AM
To Be Honest Being A Woman I Think It Is Very Difficult To Tell When We Are Flirting I Think We Fall Into Different Classes Of Flirters There Are The Ones Who Are Very Obvious And The Ones Who Are More Descrete! Me I Can Be Both. But Most Of The Time I Laught A Lot Or Am Smiling The Whole Time I Talk To The PersonI am surprised at you were laughing at my talks to you..I was thinking that you were effected by them..And felt sexier. :kk
XMONKEYLOVINSX
10-12-2006, 01:18 AM
I am surprised at you were laughing at my talks to you..I was thinking that you were effected by them..And felt sexier. :kk
U COULD ALWAYS MAKE ME FEEL SEXY HUNNY!!!!:kk
yaser
10-12-2006, 01:21 AM
U COULD ALWAYS MAKE ME FEEL SEXY HUNNY!!!!:kkI am not sure because you are not ready I believe.
G. Lee
10-12-2006, 01:22 AM
To Be Honest Being A Woman I Think It Is Very Difficult To Tell When We Are Flirting I Think We Fall Into Different Classes Of Flirters There Are The Ones Who Are Very Obvious And The Ones Who Are More Descrete! Me I Can Be Both. But Most Of The Time I Laught A Lot Or Am Smiling The Whole Time I Talk To The Person
Mostly, I see women that want to catch my eye by looking at me a bit longer than a casual glance. (Trying to take the ego out of it.) It really happens a lot. I feel like printing a business style card, walking up to them and giving it to them. The card would say something like, "I like to flirt, too. Visit me on Married and Flirting. I go by G. Lee" and list the website address.
XMONKEYLOVINSX
10-12-2006, 01:30 AM
Well That Isnt A Bad Idea Or Casually Bring It Up In A Convo Tell Them About It And Tel Them To Check It Out That How I Got Here
DJIllogical
10-12-2006, 01:39 AM
To flirt is a non physical type of intimacy , theres 2 levels non physical and physical , it hurts no one unless you take it to far
G. Lee
10-12-2006, 01:43 AM
Well That Isnt A Bad Idea Or Casually Bring It Up In A Convo Tell Them About It And Tel Them To Check It Out That How I Got Here
Good idea. I did put my email address in my profile (if I did it right), but I think women are less prone to taking initiative to go there(nod, nod, wink, wink);)
G. Lee
10-12-2006, 02:05 AM
Good night and sweet dreams to all! Thanks for being there. I hope I didn't make anyone nervous;) but I wouldn't mind if I made you tingle with excitement the way you did it for me:kk If you think I am talking about you, you're right, and if you think you are special, you are right there too!
Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not get bent out of shape-Gumby(not!):D
Hey, I hit 100 posts!
cherokeered
10-12-2006, 03:08 AM
Yeah, flirting on threads is fun, and I think we had fun. The '...try to behave...' part working for you??? Gotta live in the moment/ They come and go so quickly:kk Moments, that is.
(The computer/phone line where I am are fighting tonight)
Yes...we did have fun hun...and thats the way its supposed to be...as for the other...well it isn't always easy but I do try....lol
Of course the cat is always lurking....lol
Cherokee....:whee:
surfnchat
10-12-2006, 11:10 PM
Flirting in my book is stimulating the other person mentally and physically. Some do it on purpose and some do it without thinking. The thrill is knowing what you are doing to the other person. As Jazzy said, it strokes the ego.
As for me, I prefer to have other things stroked. ;)
G. Lee
10-12-2006, 11:28 PM
Yes...we did have fun hun...and thats the way its supposed to be...as for the other...well it isn't always easy but I do try....lol
Of course the cat is always lurking....lol
Cherokee....:whee:
Was meaning to ask "the cat"????? Que/quien es el gato????:sc
Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into a flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled that light.-Albert Schweitzer
G. Lee
10-12-2006, 11:46 PM
Flirting leads either to frustration or fulfillment, I think. No person can ever exactly know what the other is thinking. Flirting is a way to take the temperature of the water to see if the other person is interested or interesting. Methods of flirting seem to vary. one thing for sure, flirting leaves room for more if nobody blinks. It can be shut down in an instant or go beyond. Either way it inflates the spirit and rejuvenates the mind. I always want to push for the edge of the pocket:lf . Give me an opening and watch me go;) .
There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that receives it.-Edith Wharton
cherokeered
10-12-2006, 11:54 PM
Was meaning to ask "the cat"????? Que/quien es el gato????:sc
Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into a flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled that light.-Albert Schweitzer
The cat....is Tiger50....lol
Cherokee....:whee:
G. Lee
10-13-2006, 12:00 AM
The cat....is Tiger50....lol
Cherokee....:whee:
Cool! Special interest groups. Never liked being a monkey in the middle, never played in traffic, never crapped in my own backyard, but I have lived on the edge treading lightly:)
letterman01
03-11-2007, 07:59 PM
Cherokee- I love your avatar!
OICurready4me
03-11-2007, 08:08 PM
It means letting the other person know that you like their style, looks or something about them to keep them interested in you enough to learn more about them. It is playful in nature and may or may not lead to something else.
cherokeered
03-11-2007, 08:09 PM
Cherokee- I love your avatar!
Thanks hun.....:wa:
Penny
03-12-2007, 09:20 PM
She always has good ones :) Some of what makes this site fun is seeing who is using what for an avatar/
Cherokee- I love your avatar!
hippydog
03-12-2007, 09:54 PM
What is a sign the woman is interested?
when they show you their b:ddbies!
:D :D :wa:
cherokeered
03-12-2007, 10:35 PM
flirting means I want to have fun.................not that I'm all that good at it....lol
Cotties
03-12-2007, 10:49 PM
I kind of like that in a women:sc when she dont slap your face is a good start :D
majorfun
03-12-2007, 10:57 PM
Flirting allows me the opportunity to express all my lustful desires and thoughts that my wife neglects..
cherokeered
03-13-2007, 12:31 AM
Well...flirting means you are still alive....and when someone flirts back...it means you are definitely still alive....and might get lucky...or at least make a friend...lol
buxom
03-13-2007, 01:01 AM
when my old man axs-- wuz fer dinnur?
when my old man axs-- wuz fer dinnur?
and you answer muff burger
cherokeered
03-13-2007, 01:02 AM
when my old man axs-- wuz fer dinnur?
:lmao I like that...
buxom
03-13-2007, 01:04 AM
more like a hairless chihuahua burger
Pebbles
03-13-2007, 05:13 AM
Well...flirting means you are still alive....and when someone flirts back...it means you are definitely still alive....and might get lucky...or at least make a friend...lol
Cherokeered,you have hit the nail on the head. Agree!!
OICurready4me
03-13-2007, 06:03 AM
Flirting is all about keeping your juices flowing. If you can keep up the playful banter with the opposite sex, it boosts confidence, raises self esteem and if done in environment like this, is one helluva lot of fun. Once you have lost the desire to flirt, you may as well call the mortician and have him start taking measurements for that pine box.
thickitalian
03-13-2007, 11:58 AM
Well...flirting means you are still alive....and when someone flirts back...it means you are definitely still alive....and might get lucky...or at least make a friend...lol
You mean like having a SPECIAL FRIEND? :knuddel:
thickitalian
03-13-2007, 04:21 PM
Flirting is all about keeping your juices flowing. If you can keep up the playful banter with the opposite sex, it boosts confidence, raises self esteem and if done in environment like this, is one helluva lot of fun. Once you have lost the desire to flirt, you may as well call the mortician and have him start taking measurements for that pine box.
Geez...pine's kind of expensive too. Nah...think I'll keep on flirting! Thanks OIC......
PureRenassaince
03-16-2007, 02:59 PM
:whee: Flirting allows me the opportunity to express all my lustful desires and thoughts that my wife neglects..
My sentiments exactly
:whee: :whee:
thickitalian
03-16-2007, 11:52 PM
Sometimes I think men and women have very different ideas on this. I know when men are flirting, usually, with women because we are so direct. What is a sign the woman is interested?
a response to your quote even when you don't address her...
Charley
03-23-2007, 11:00 AM
Flirting is hard for me,just cause I was always shy and couldn't handle rejection.It's been so long,I wouldn't know the signs if it bit me in the a**.
Charley
03-23-2007, 11:09 AM
Flirting for me is just sweet talk with a woman to make them and me feel attractive.I don't get it at home anymore.
cherokeered
03-23-2007, 11:11 AM
Flirting for me is just sweet talk with a woman to make them and me feel attractive.I don't get it at home anymore.
awwwww......:kk
I love flirting, however, its important to make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals as this has and does cause problems... and charley you ain't on your own, most men prefer a woman to make the first move and M & F women are not slow in coming forward... :55
thickitalian
03-23-2007, 02:24 PM
Flirting is exciting when you know both flirters will eventually meet and make it work somehow...even flirting with someone you know will not entertain the thought is a day of happiness.
joe43
04-03-2007, 11:35 AM
interesting posts, especially about raising the temp
spare_change
04-03-2007, 01:06 PM
Men, by nature, are hunters. It is our way to scout the jungle, to seek out eligible prey, and to select the greatest trophy. Flirting is our scouting - we are measuring the prey, seeking weaknesses to be exploited, and defining our approach to the kill.
Women, by nature, are gatherers. They collect as much as they can, and then sort thru it to determine which best suits their needs. Flirting is their gathering -- their calling to the flame. Once we enter into their orbit, only then do they decide if we best suit their needs.
fire11614
04-03-2007, 01:07 PM
stimlating conversation with a woman
bobbydean
04-05-2007, 02:47 PM
in my mind ,its allfun
Pebbles
04-05-2007, 03:28 PM
Flirting is exciting when you know both flirters will eventually meet and make it work somehow...even flirting with someone you know will not entertain the thought is a day of happiness.
Good post. I agree! Couldn't have stated it any better myself. :D
thickitalian
04-05-2007, 05:05 PM
I love flirting, however, its important to make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals as this has and does cause problems... and charley you ain't on your own, most men prefer a woman to make the first move and M & F women are not slow in coming forward... :55
Very true PJ...guys pick that trait up from their teenage days when they would ask a gal to dance and they would get turned down and their friends would harrass them about it. Guys forget that gals are also shy and a turn down doesn't necessarily mean "no"...it could mean, "I'm shy" or "I don't want you to think I'm that easy." There is still that knee jerking thought in a guys head...funny how that disappears though with age. :-):wa:
midwestcouple
04-08-2007, 12:06 AM
To me, flirting is just a way to have some fun. A way to break the ice between people
fire11614
04-08-2007, 12:48 AM
some good spirited chat that makes your pulse quicken
thickitalian
04-08-2007, 04:46 AM
Exciting
Pulsating
Playful
Friendly
Ice Breaking
Truly seeing a person's deep thoughts....
something like that I supppose....
lovessexx
04-08-2007, 07:56 PM
dont know....but i definitely forget how to lol
jellyjar
04-09-2007, 10:18 AM
Flirting to me is filling in the gaps. Most of us are probably here because there's something missing in our respective relationships, the flirting keeps the brain busy, keeps the juices flowing and flips switches that don't get a regular work out for whatever reason.
wylum
04-09-2007, 10:20 AM
I would say that going on a first date and having someone bring along travel brochures and ask you to fly off with them in a month. That really caught my attention. Yes, I did go.
loli_se53
04-09-2007, 07:22 PM
I agree. Flirting here at M&F has increased the inner freak in me. Now if only the hubby would take advantage of that!:knuddel: Flirting to me is filling in the gaps. Most of us are probably here because there's something missing in our respective relationships, the flirting keeps the brain busy, keeps the juices flowing and flips switches that don't get a regular work out for whatever reason.
joshcamp69
04-09-2007, 07:23 PM
Nice another inner freak, come join the party.
wvromanticmale
04-25-2007, 12:36 AM
I think flirting is a good way of making another feel special because they are. Of course I beleive it should be uplifting and kind. A lady should be made to feel as lovely and valuable as she is without feeling like the guy is just trying to score points.
veronica
04-25-2007, 12:38 AM
some good spirited chat that makes your pulse quicken
Love that quickening pulse......................
massage mike
04-25-2007, 12:41 AM
bring on the passion
veronica
04-25-2007, 12:42 AM
bring on the passion
Passion is good..................
wvromanticmale
04-25-2007, 12:45 AM
Passion is good..................
Especially if used when it elevates the heart rate. And of couse brings a smile.
It's the wet spots in the pants that bring an embarrasement.
scoobertina
04-25-2007, 03:37 AM
Especially if used when it elevates the heart rate. And of couse brings a smile.
It's the wet spots in the pants that bring an embarrasement.
Mmmmm... don't be embarrassed...... we like wet spots... :kk
living to Flirt
04-25-2007, 12:52 PM
Flirting is making someone feel attractive and beautiful. No matter what age, they all like it, and I am sure makes their day!
mrh50
04-25-2007, 01:03 PM
Mmmmm... don't be embarrassed...... we like wet spots... :kk
would like to meet some good female in the cat room it seem like fun,
mrh50
04-25-2007, 01:06 PM
Love that quickening pulse......................
I agree a lot to that.
thickitalian
04-25-2007, 01:15 PM
Flirting is making someone feel attractive and beautiful. No matter what age, they all like it, and I am sure makes their day!
Flirting is exciting because these are our suppressed deep thoughts in the back of our minds...but...the excitement comes when we wonder just how far it may go...but then we come back to reality in a hurry (sometimes). Flirting makes everyone's day and if you read the posts you will see us guys jumping the second a gal flirts with us...one post gets 4 answers or more at times. Gals are quick as well but not as...I think us guys have a hornier label on our foreheads. :D
suzie147
04-26-2007, 02:24 AM
Flirting is exciting because these are our suppressed deep thoughts in the back of our minds...but...the excitement comes when we wonder just how far it may go...but then we come back to reality in a hurry (sometimes). Flirting makes everyone's day and if you read the posts you will see us guys jumping the second a gal flirts with us...one post gets 4 answers or more at times. Gals are quick as well but not as...I think us guys have a hornier label on our foreheads. :D
Thick, I wouldn't bet on that last part - women are just as bad... probably worse... we just may not say it as much or as graphic as you guys... well some of us, anyway... :satan: :D
mrdiscreet
04-26-2007, 02:51 AM
Flirting is privately signaling in public settings that you want more than you can have
Flirting is exciting because these are our suppressed deep thoughts in the back of our minds...but...the excitement comes when we wonder just how far it may go...but then we come back to reality in a hurry (sometimes). Flirting makes everyone's day and if you read the posts you will see us guys jumping the second a gal flirts with us...one post gets 4 answers or more at times. Gals are quick as well but not as...I think us guys have a hornier label on our foreheads. :D
I think men are born with that spot on their foreheads...
tiger50
04-26-2007, 07:17 AM
I think men are born with that spot on their foreheads...
fuk, an i thought that was a laser spot target..... :sc
Thick, I wouldn't bet on that last part - women are just as bad... probably worse... we just may not say it as much or as graphic as you guys... well some of us, anyway... :satan: :D
We are just taught to hide that side of us.....I have a real hard time talking nasty....but I sure can listen to it.
Mama lied when she said its not nice for girls to talk like sailors....
thickitalian
04-26-2007, 07:27 AM
We are just taught to hide that side of us.....I have a real hard time talking nasty....but I sure can listen to it.
Mama lied when she said its not nice for girls to talk like sailors....
Most things our parents told us years ago no longer belong in this new world...but...our parents did instill values and honesty in all of us baby boomers and hopefully, the baby boomers passed it down to their kids. My Mom and Dad are my heros...knowing the hardships they endured for their children.
I suppose you are right...I didn't tell my daughter not to have sex before marriage....
I told her she shouldn't, but just in case....here are your birth control pills and use a condom.
I guess I passed the caution along without making it all seem dirty.
Sophia
06-16-2007, 04:31 AM
Is there anyone besides me who thinks some men can almost be worse as a "tease" than any woman? My brothers always complained about women who would "tease" and then turn cold. But one man I know really flirts--and doesn't stop with words. He's very huggy and touchy---but at a certain point always starts talking about his wife and how happy he is. This is as bad as anything I've every heard of a woman doing before being called a "tease" by a man." I can only conclude that women may have the official "rep" but men are not innocent either.
spare_change
06-16-2007, 05:38 AM
Most things our parents told us years ago no longer belong in this new world...but...our parents did instill values and honesty in all of us baby boomers and hopefully, the baby boomers passed it down to their kids. My Mom and Dad are my heros...knowing the hardships they endured for their children.
The real question .... are we better off because those things no longer belong in this new world?
The real question .... are we better off because those things no longer belong in this new world?
No...I don't think we are. :(
thickitalian
06-16-2007, 09:06 AM
Materially...yes...and from a medical standpoint, especially....but sensibly or pragmatically...I hesitate to say yes more times than not and lean towards no...sounds like a stand off...in my mind.
The real question .... are we better off because those things no longer belong in this new world?
spare_change
06-16-2007, 03:31 PM
Is there anyone besides me who thinks some men can almost be worse as a "tease" than any woman? My brothers always complained about women who would "tease" and then turn cold. But one man I know really flirts--and doesn't stop with words. He's very huggy and touchy---but at a certain point always starts talking about his wife and how happy he is. This is as bad as anything I've every heard of a woman doing before being called a "tease" by a man." I can only conclude that women may have the official "rep" but men are not innocent either.
Men tease? Never.
Unless, of course, running around with our tongue hanging out is considered teasing.
Unless, of course, doing incredibly stupid things to attract your attention is considered teasing.
Unless, of course, trying to maneuver and manipulate so we can get in front of you is considered teasing.
Unless, of course, making complete asses out of ourselves falling all over you is considered teasing.
Unless, of course, cutting the throat of our best friend just to get you to notice us, and not him, is considered teasing.
Unless, of course, risking life or limb to get a mere glance from you is considered teasing.
Unless, of course, dancing on clouds because deigned to cast a mere smile in our direction is considered teasing.
Men tease? Never. We are dead serious --- but willing to pass it off as teasing if you don't give us the proper signals.
Flirting is exciting because these are our suppressed deep thoughts in the back of our minds...but...the excitement comes when we wonder just how far it may go...but then we come back to reality in a hurry (sometimes). Flirting makes everyone's day and if you read the posts you will see us guys jumping the second a gal flirts with us...one post gets 4 answers or more at times. Gals are quick as well but not as...I think us guys have a hornier label on our foreheads. :D
No, its just that we women are more selective... I am not being provocative. But the way a person flirts, ie. crassly, with subtlety, with finesse, whatever, but I am only attracted to certain types of flirts! Nope... I ain't telling either! :)
Sunfiresix
06-16-2007, 03:48 PM
flirt--I dunno, never dun that....
yaser
06-16-2007, 04:23 PM
to tell someone that I want her in an indirect way...I don't like risk taking she may say no..If yes .. that is good but if she rejects I say to myself I was not so serious..
PunkyBob
06-16-2007, 05:03 PM
The real question .... are we better off because those things no longer belong in this new world?
The world has changed, and I don't believe we are better off now than before...years ago. My parents instilled a great deal of manners and social etiquette in me and that's the best thing they could have given me. Today's world has gotten faster, less respectful, less concerned with others. Try to picture my parents talking dirty to each other in the kitchen, getting all hot and heavy...it ain't gonna work. I love talking dirty sometimes; and it's okay here because we have a tacit agreement between us...and it also helps to ask if it's okay with the other person. My wife will turn off and get insulted if I try to talk dirty...to her sex is not a play game...it's a recurring statement of love only. Holy, almost. But here it's a turn on and I doubt that any of us do it without an established respect.
thickitalian
06-16-2007, 11:16 PM
You keep that secret Hun because if a man can't figure you out...then he is not worth your time...you need someone who understands what you enjoy but someone who doesn't need to be told...that's what I think anyway...:knuddel:
No, its just that we women are more selective... I am not being provocative. But the way a person flirts, ie. crassly, with subtlety, with finesse, whatever, but I am only attracted to certain types of flirts! Nope... I ain't telling either! :)
sasha
06-20-2007, 04:57 PM
I like when hot guys flirt with me...it really boosts up my self esteem, unless of course they are being pigs about it...some act like they are God's gift to women and they are not....I like when a guy gives me compliments and hints that he finds me attractive
scoobertina
06-20-2007, 05:00 PM
Flirting is a way off having a bit of fun with someone.. It feels good to have someone flirt with you, not matter who they are or what they do.. I love to flirt with all people I meet.. If I feel special when someone flirts with me, then hopefully I can make someone else feel just as special..
It only gets difficult if the flirting gets a little out of hand..
sawflyman
06-20-2007, 05:02 PM
sasha
I like to flirt with respect.............but hey that's me
My_Secrets_Kept
06-20-2007, 05:09 PM
Flirting or being flirted with can bring a rainbow to a cloudy day...
missgrace
06-20-2007, 07:07 PM
im beginning to love being flirted with.. i used to shy away from it...
AffableOne
06-20-2007, 07:44 PM
flirting is fun.......but nothing beats a great conversation
thickitalian
06-20-2007, 08:42 PM
im beginning to love being flirted with.. i used to shy away from it...
Never shy away from excitement, anticipation, and happiness...Gorgeous MissGrace....;) :kk
deercrow
09-09-2007, 02:48 PM
Never shy away from excitement, anticipation, and happiness...Gorgeous MissGrace....;) :kk
true thickitalian...excitment, fun, adverture..who isn't up to that...
Phlirt
09-09-2007, 02:56 PM
Flirting is a way to give someone else an ego boost, and get one in return. It makes you feel good to have that sexual tension with someone. Even if you never act on it.
mile high
09-09-2007, 04:29 PM
Flirting is a way to give someone else an ego boost, and get one in return. It makes you feel good to have that sexual tension with someone. Even if you never act on it.
Cool name change - suits you.
I've thought about slowly changing my name in increments: "2 miles high", "3 miles high", "4 miles high", "shit, this is freakin' high enough", "holly feck, somebody get me down from here".
Flirting gets me high, basically.
One Song Hero
09-09-2007, 04:31 PM
Flirting is a way to give someone else an ego boost, and get one in return. It makes you feel good to have that sexual tension with someone. Even if you never act on it.
Awesome answer, Phlirt. Let's flirt! ;)
One Song Hero
09-09-2007, 04:33 PM
Cool name change - suits you.
I've thought about slowly changing my name in increments: "2 miles high", "3 miles high", "4 miles high", "shit, this is freakin' high enough", "holly feck, somebody get me down from here".
Flirting gets me high, basically.
Mile, are you gonna stop at eight miles high, like song by the Byrds? :D
Phlirt
09-09-2007, 04:34 PM
Cool name change - suits you.
I've thought about slowly changing my name in increments: "2 miles high", "3 miles high", "4 miles high", "shit, this is freakin' high enough", "holly feck, somebody get me down from here".
Flirting gets me high, basically.
Sounds like a good idea to me... might give Lena a bit of a headache though ;)
Awesome answer, Phlirt. Let's flirt! ;)
Yeah, I flirt all the time, just not usually while I'm home lol.
mile high
09-09-2007, 04:46 PM
Sounds like a good idea to me... might give Lena a bit of a headache though ;)Good. I'd ran out of excuses to PM Lena and give her a headache!
Mile, are you gonna stop at eight miles high, like song by the Byrds? :D
I'm more a ten miles high by the Nine Inch Nails kinda fella ;)
I fancy a trip to the stratosphere, but I don't own a spacesuit.
mrdiscreet
09-09-2007, 06:29 PM
I love flirting; it makes all my senses come alive. The mutual process of picking up the livewire and feeling the sparks, the more subtle the better; crossing the boundary of letting imaginations go, while all the while the ordinary world passes by, unnoticed and unnoticing.
The best flirt I ever had was also the most innocent, sitting on a street corner in the French Quarter sharing a muffaletta sandwich with a friends wife (also a friend), our spouses right there as well; the was just this VIBE, nothing more than eyes meeting, very innocent conversation, a couple of light touches of hand to arm or knee. But I've never been more alive than I was for those moments.
redtruck98
10-12-2007, 12:19 PM
When you flirt and its accepted by the other person its an euphoric high that can not be duplicated by anything else...maybe c*ming
Everbody wants to be loved!
Pebbles
10-12-2007, 12:22 PM
Makes me feel alive!
Iwantutowantme
10-12-2007, 07:49 PM
It means I still 'got it' and I still have a chance to make a difference
I love it....it boosts my self esteem....makes me feel like I'm not only getting older...I'm getting better. I feel like my husband loves me more since I've started flirting.
AL(m)
10-12-2007, 09:07 PM
makes me feel good to put a smile on peoples face.. and make their day a little better.... :wa:
scoobertina
10-12-2007, 09:09 PM
It feels so good to be wanted or to feel you are wanted by someone... for who you are and not for what you look like... it boosts my self esteem.. my confidence.... and it makes me feel good, even if they don't really mean what they say to me... it is all good clean fun..
Flirting is fun, healthy, and exciting. Here, with people you'll likely never meet, it's an innocent escape from reality. Flirt on, flirters!!! And for those of you who've gone farther and met...more power to ya!
redtruck98
10-14-2007, 02:41 PM
Good clean fun stroking (so to speak) each others egos, emotions and giving attention where its needed. But thats it...it stay in cyberspace. The spouse reaps the benefits of the flirting.
I think flirting is exciting. Especially in places like this. No one knows who you really are, and providing you keep it that way you're safe. Plus its a chance to meet people and sometimes talking to them is all that they are looking for. Marriage is fine, but oftentimes one is taken for granted and the buzz just goes. Marriage is an art especially good long lasting marriage, still i find that flirting at places like these kind of makes me notice more about my husband that I'd missed not to mention want him more! I get real turned on coming here, and so he benefits from that. And if some other guys wife benefits from her husband flirting with me, then what harm is there in that? Flirting is fun, it adds spice and its exciting. Anyone wanna flirt with me?
OICurready4me
11-14-2007, 09:24 AM
It's harmless fun.... I enjoy it a great deal
scoobertina
11-14-2007, 10:23 AM
flirting is just having a little fun, making people feel good about themselves.. feeling good about myself when they flirt back... but so much more... but online you have to imagine the things you can feel or see in person...
flirting in person is a light touch, eye contact, a smile...
duanehofner
11-15-2007, 07:06 AM
flirting is just having a little fun, making people feel good about themselves.. feeling good about myself when they flirt back... but so much more... but online you have to imagine the things you can feel or see in person...
flirting in person is a light touch, eye contact, a smile...
And the imagination that can be stired by some avatars can launch our dreams of hope and love and fill our thoughts of better things from the past and brighter days ahead to live for
yankyredneck33
11-15-2007, 07:50 AM
eye contact or hand gestures or even verbal words
unctarheel_32
11-26-2007, 09:30 AM
just having some fun
VeryBlueEyes
01-27-2008, 08:31 AM
The man never learns...seems the only one who thinks he doesnt flirt...is himself...lol
Cherokee....:lmao
I, like most men, use flirting to get what they want, Sex is what men want. The trick is to catch the woman when she wants sex too. When both of you want sex, you can do no wrong.
noodlegurl
01-27-2008, 08:36 AM
I have a tendency I am told to flirt alot and do not even know I do.... I think it is all about making a person feel good about themself.......
Just hard not to flirt when you see something you want and you want to have it.....;)
private beaches
01-27-2008, 09:09 AM
Making someone's day brighter and heart a little lighter. :wa:
purring
01-27-2008, 03:46 PM
Flirting means making someone feel better about themselves.
I flirt to feel better about myself.
But it is just complimenting each other and opening up to others.
sexytiger
01-27-2008, 03:58 PM
Flirting means making someone feel better about themselves.
I flirt to feel better about myself.
But it is just complimenting each other and opening up to others.
Good post Purring,
Have a :kiss: to feel more beutiful..
yaser
01-27-2008, 04:21 PM
Flirting makes me feel better because I discover as many people as possible..
I don't know about flirting in person.....if I do it I don't know it....:rolleyes:
(does anyone believe me here? LOL)
Online however....flirting to me means:
Picking avatars that I think will cause a stir in some gentlemans loins...
Chatting with men...about pretty much anything...
Reading everyones opinion and posting my own
Making someone think they are worth the bother....making them feel worthwhile....making them feel desired
I love the feeling of being desired....I love that someone out there thinks I'm worth talking to....that I'm worth the bother
I do get attention at home....lots of attention....I am loved and desired.
The extra zip I get from the people here, adds another lovely twist to my already glorious love life.
Sunfiresix
01-27-2008, 05:14 PM
I think I enjoy the feeling of being flirted with, I know I love making someone feel desirable--even though they are anyway.
yaser
01-27-2008, 05:15 PM
I don't know about flirting in person.....if I do it I don't know it....:rolleyes:
(does anyone believe me here? LOL)
Online however....flirting to me means:
Picking avatars that I think will cause a stir in some gentlemans loins...
Chatting with men...about pretty much anything...
Reading everyones opinion and posting my own
Making someone think they are worth the bother....making them feel worthwhile....making them feel desired
I love the feeling of being desired....I love that someone out there thinks I'm worth talking to....that I'm worth the bother
I do get attention at home....lots of attention....I am loved and desired.
The extra zip I get from the people here, adds another lovely twist to my already glorious love life.
Mcat,can you tell me why you must be outside of MAF?
Mcat,can you tell me why you must be outside of MAF?
Yaser dear man.....do you think I should never leave M & F?
I could just be here all the time....it would be so much fun...
I'm afraid my family would object...who would cook dinner and wash my husbands socks?
northernvam
01-27-2008, 07:29 PM
I don't know about flirting in person.....if I do it I don't know it....:rolleyes:
(does anyone believe me here? LOL)
Online however....flirting to me means:
Picking avatars that I think will cause a stir in some gentlemans loins...
Chatting with men...about pretty much anything...
Reading everyones opinion and posting my own
Making someone think they are worth the bother....making them feel worthwhile....making them feel desired
I love the feeling of being desired....I love that someone out there thinks I'm worth talking to....that I'm worth the bother
I do get attention at home....lots of attention....I am loved and desired.
The extra zip I get from the people here, adds another lovely twist to my already glorious love life.
Ah, flirting in my opinion is just another word for foreplay. It's what comes before the physical foreplay, and is probably more important in the grand scheme of things. Tis that verbal foreplay or "flirting" that causes all those feelings above, and that is what leads to more ....
Sunfiresix
01-27-2008, 07:36 PM
Flirting--can be a lot of things --just a good natured personality, a way to perk someone up and also a come on to sex--usually it is all harmless fun for all.
Ah, flirting in my opinion is just another word for foreplay. It's what comes before the physical foreplay, and is probably more important in the grand scheme of things. Tis that verbal foreplay or "flirting" that causes all those feelings above, and that is what leads to more ....
Verbal foreplay is a good thing......;)
Sylar
01-27-2008, 08:10 PM
Verbal foreplay is a good thing......;)
Verbal afterplay ain't so bad, either...;)
pagirl
01-27-2008, 08:46 PM
a realease and a way to feel desired
Huzyerdaddi
01-27-2008, 08:49 PM
Hmmm to me flirting is....I make one comment and if a girl so much as replies with a single character (whole sentences are better) then I automatically assume she wants to have sex with me, leave her family, and spend the rest of her life with me.
Ok, not really, but you gotta admit....there are SOME folks here who actually think that way. :(
pagirl
01-27-2008, 08:53 PM
there are definately those that just latch on when the littlest attention is given...
:sc I hope I am not one of those...
XCYTME88
01-28-2008, 02:35 PM
I enjoy the little buzz you get when that small moment is shared
Atrebla Rose
01-28-2008, 10:44 PM
feeling good about yourself, making someone else feel great, a win win
can be anything on many different levels , you have to approach each individually and treat them that way , dont expect anything , but also do be pushy , just have fun and let things be as they will without , judging , its all fun if all agree
JCDxn
01-29-2008, 02:42 AM
when there is no interest left at home... it is nice to feel like some one is interested in you... Flirting is fun.. and you never know what can come of it...sometimes even a wonderful connection and a new best friend...
MagicalBeing
01-29-2008, 02:52 AM
when there is no interest left at home... it is nice to feel like some one is interested in you... Flirting is fun.. and you never know what can come of it...sometimes even a wonderful connection and a new best friend...
I know what you mean JCDxn... I feel so great when i come here and i can just relax and have fun
Sylar
01-29-2008, 02:56 AM
when there is no interest left at home... it is nice to feel like some one is interested in you... Flirting is fun.. and you never know what can come of it...sometimes even a wonderful connection and a new best friend...
I know exactly what you mean...:kk
laineycali
01-29-2008, 04:16 AM
thats how i feel too..........totally agree
Crawfish
01-29-2008, 04:45 AM
Hmmm to me flirting is....I make one comment and if a girl so much as replies with a single character (whole sentences are better) then I automatically assume she wants to have sex with me, leave her family, and spend the rest of her life with me.
Ok, not really, but you gotta admit....there are SOME folks here who actually think that way. :(
Are you making fun of me? :D
Crawfish
01-29-2008, 04:46 AM
thats how i feel too..........totally agree
Yes I totally agree with Laney. She is not nuts at all. ;)
duanehofner
01-29-2008, 06:40 AM
"What does flirting mean to you?"
Risking divorce
househub
01-29-2008, 06:54 AM
touching someone and feeling them touch you back
yaser
01-29-2008, 06:57 AM
there are definately those that just latch on when the littlest attention is given...
:sc I hope I am not one of those...
Don't be laggard... :knuddel:
MIGHTY
01-30-2008, 11:19 AM
...a smile, a wink, a giggle........flirting is a way to make someone's day and possibly put that spring back in yours........:)
megan363
01-30-2008, 11:44 AM
makes me feel wanted...
XCYTME88
01-30-2008, 01:14 PM
it's that nervous excitability that comes with that shared moment in time...the anticipation of what happens next
dcowboy09
01-30-2008, 01:19 PM
a fun way to meet people and have fun with them
makes me feel wanted...
I hear you baby! ;) :kk
Teejay
03-09-2008, 04:39 AM
Hey I am absolutley new.........but I am scrolling thru the newbie section and I loved your quote!
Rock on baby :)
Tessa_04
03-12-2008, 08:32 PM
Hmmm... G. Lee, thats a good one... body language plays a big part in the whole scheme of things, but here thats not an option... If she's interested, she stays close, and she smiles or laughs when u say something sexy...
kaycee727(m)
03-13-2008, 03:48 PM
I agree with tessa. I am not an eloquent flirter. But my eyes will tell you everything.My one liners never seem to hit the right person when I want it too. I guess the more direct approach will be needed.I a always open to a good flirt towards me.
IsThisIt@50?
03-15-2008, 06:42 PM
Have always been a flirt, married or not, but have always been careful to establish the 'line in the sand' with people about where my boundaries are. Have always had men friends that would flirt back. Many were married and were known 'players'. Could have a great time flirting but they knew where I stood. Of course, made it clear to me as well that there was a 'standing invitation' should I change my boundaries. LOL
notonly4her
11-21-2008, 11:32 AM
smiling is always a good start
Tiglet
11-21-2008, 11:43 AM
Fun, fun, fun!
jmsmith12345
11-21-2008, 11:51 AM
Flirting is just casual sex with your clothes on.
i'm going with what he ^ said!! lol
tampasince76
03-11-2009, 09:22 PM
I am here, therefore I flirt
cherokeered
03-11-2009, 09:40 PM
it means I am feeling friendly...but still not having sex with you...:D
Agent
03-11-2009, 10:48 PM
it means I am feeling friendly...but still not having sex with you...:D
My thoughts exactly.
will30143
03-12-2009, 08:16 PM
flirting means enjoying the company of the opposite sex..especially with one person more then the rest
Dipstick51
03-23-2009, 02:46 AM
Flirting is getting very friendly in a sexy way with the ladies.
laineycali
03-23-2009, 05:00 AM
innuendos and sexy comments or jestures...no matter who is around to see it and sometimes just because u can infront of others.. absolutly my favorite way to flirt!!!
bighands
04-12-2009, 09:17 AM
for me flirting is another way of doing something that will get me nowhere and still have fun doing it...
alychka
04-18-2009, 09:38 AM
Flirting is anything that gives you a smile esp when you know you have got away with it ...not that I am speaking from experience.......
leggy4
04-18-2009, 09:55 AM
well my new philosophy is...... just joking around...nothing more
Curiousoneonly
04-18-2009, 08:41 PM
Nothing serious, just having fun. ;)
VTScott
04-18-2009, 09:32 PM
Playfulness and fun …
leggy4
04-18-2009, 09:47 PM
strictly meeting new people and joking around
fever
04-19-2009, 12:17 AM
Flirting is all about having fun!
Huzyerdaddi
04-19-2009, 12:22 AM
Flirting (to me) is the pre-cursor to intercourse and broken marriages.
Game on!
fourisit
04-19-2009, 12:30 AM
Flirting is making someone feel good about themselves.
bighands
04-19-2009, 12:57 AM
flirting for me is pretty much trying to understand the threads, only, i don't, really, so i like, pretend i do, and then i get thanked, which is like, weird. so flirting, is weird. then again, my wife claims i'm weird, go figure.
Psynge
04-19-2009, 04:44 AM
Flirting to me is a way of letting someone else know that I think they ar desirable, and hopefully I get that back in return. Even if there's no chance or desire for things to go any further. It's a really good feeling to let someone know that they are desirable, and sometimes I need that too.
leggy4
04-19-2009, 10:46 AM
flirting is having fun and meeting new people.. watch out the i miss him bug doesn't bite you!!!! ouch!!!!
Iowa Guy 77
05-26-2009, 05:24 PM
To me flirting is letting someone else know you like them, it helps the feel special and appreciated.
Sinster
06-15-2009, 08:53 AM
Flirting to me is giving yourself or someone else that little boost to help them through the day, flirting and receiving makes you feel sexy and wanted.
By flirting you can make someone happy and confident in there own skin, in a world of picture perfect expectations there is enough to rip us down on a daily basis, flirting is being nice to someone and when its returned, just for that moment..... you could take on the world, you could fly because you are desired, you are sexy, because somebody took the time to make you feel good about yourself.
For those trapped in a desperate marital meltdowns, just knowing your not alone and your still attractive gives you the strength to put on that smile you can't be bothered with, puts a spring in your step and holds your head up high......Flirting is like air, without it we would all just give up and fall down.
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