Are You Happy?

[Penny]

Are you happy with your life right now?

[Kissie]

Not even close!!!!!

[Dmy]

Yes I am......I have a great family,job,and overall its very good. And I've made some good friends here! only wish I more friends close by!

[flamengo130]

Wow!! Not that happy. Job priorities...lack of sex...duh!!!!

[Penny]

I've been kind of depressed lately myself. Could be just the cold air comming in replacing the beautiful summer breezes

[mrscvdr]

I've been a bit depressed too! I think the cold/dreary weather... Real estate taxes due next month... etc but overall happy with our quality of life but looking for a business that would allow us to be together more often

[cherokeered]

Sometimes I am very happy....and other times not so much....I am most happy when I have time to be with Tiger....because he always makes me smile....



Cherokee...

[Mickey1]

I'm not sure that it really matters.

[Cotties]

yeah I'm very happy at the moment...but I guess I'm on holidays

[Annie]

I'm happier than I have been in years! I went back to work after such a long time off... too many wasted years! I have a job I love... thanks to some very good advice I got from a very wise man here... I feel better about myself now. I feel like I am worth something to quite a few people, not just my family. I haven't felt this way in a long, long time!!

[Cotties]

excellent:55 I'm happier than I have been in years! I went back to work after such a long time off... too many wasted years! I have a job I love... thanks to some very good advice I got from a very wise man here... I feel better about myself now. I feel like I am worth something to quite a few people, not just my family. I haven't felt this way in a long, long time!!

[pixiegirl]

Are you happy with your life right now?


Yes but there is always room for improvement...I would hate to become complacent :D

[funluvinga]

No. I'm not completely happy with any part of my life. Damn, I hate these type threads. :(

[Itshardon-theroad]

Good question. I have a job I really enjoy, but it takes me as far away from the people I love as you can possibly get. I have a wife and son who love me, but I feel unsatisfied in my marriage. I have grown particularly fond of someone, but cannot spend nearly the time with her as I would like. I have a big beautiful house in a neighborhood that I can't stand. I don't feel like I can complain though because there are those who have much worse things in their lives than I do.

[funluvinga]

Good question. I have a job I really enjoy, but it takes me as far away from the people I love as you can possibly get. I have a wife and son who love me, but I feel unsatisfied in my marriage. I have grown particularly fond of someone, but cannot spend nearly the time with her as I would like. I have a big beautiful house in a neighborhood that I can't stand. I don't feel like I can complain though because there are those who have much worse things in their lives than I do.

It makes you wonder why we can't just be thankful. It should be enough to settle for "not miserable" right? :(

[Itshardon-theroad]

It makes you wonder why we can't just be thankful. It should be enough to settle for "not miserable" right? :(

I think on the whole I am thankful. "Not miserable" is an interesting way to put it though. I think if more people had an opportunity to see what I see in my work or what my wife sees in hers they would feel much better about their own situations. Would they be happy? Perhaps not, but not miserable is much more achievable. Set the bar low, that's my motto.

[funluvinga]

I think on the whole I am thankful. "Not miserable" is an interesting way to put it though. I think if more people had an opportunity to see what I see in my work or what my wife sees in hers they would feel much better about their own situations. Would they be happy? Perhaps not, but not miserable is much more achievable. Set the bar low, that's my motto.

Well I figure if I'm Ok more than I'm not, then I'm not miserable. If I'm not miserable, I can deal with it. (For now.)

[Itshardon-theroad]

Well I figure if I'm Ok more than I'm not, then I'm not miserable. If I'm not miserable, I can deal with it. (For now.)

So can we be "not miserable" together?

[funluvinga]

So can we be "not miserable" together?


That would certainly be "not even close to miserable"! :D

[Itshardon-theroad]

That would certainly be "not even close to miserable"! :D

I agree! ;)

[Penny]

I think that if I have to freeze another winter I will die, I cant stand being cold all the time.

[Sandy]

yes i'm happy, i just wish that their was more of me to go around. sometimes their just isn't enough time in a day for me.

[Willy S]

At the moment, yes.

[MCat]

I think that if I have to freeze another winter I will die, I cant stand being cold all the time.

By another pair of long johns and turn on that electric blanket....You will not die:knuddel:

[MCat]

I am not happy with my job right now, not happy with our finances, not happy with all the home repairs that need to be done.

But, I am very thankful that I have a husband who loves me and a healthy and fairly happy family. It could all be so much worse.

[Zifnab]

A wise man once said, " The path to real happiness must travel trough the thorns and over the jagged rocks, for only by journeying through sorrow, pain and sadness will we have the experience we need to know when we have found it at last."

[cherokeered]

I'm not sure that it really matters.

It should.....


Cherokee...;)

[Dmy]

yes i'm happy, i just wish that their was more of me to go around. sometimes their just isn't enough time in a day for me.

Hmmm, I wish I had some of that extra of you to around with !!! :knuddel: :D , Then I'd be REALLY Happy! ;)

[steamy]

Very Happy..................

[rainbowhigh]

I'm very happy, too. So many things to be thankful for. Family, home, friends....

[rustynailsvacaville]

I AM SUPER HAPPY... wife I think is having a affair, my parents are losing it, my sibliings are fighting about nonsence and draggin me in, found sex in another hot sexy piece of ass, meet two new girls that want some of me and they are extra cute and 23, 21, brought the fastest motorcycle made, out ran the cops last week advoiding 150mph jail time.. i am in my prime and loving it.....and to tell the truth life is too short to regret or worry about anything.....

[steamy]

I AM SUPER HAPPY... wife I think is having a affair, my parents are losing it, my sibliings are fighting about nonsence and draggin me in, found sex in another hot sexy piece of ass, meet two new girls that want some of me and they are extra cute and 23, 21, brought the fastest motorcycle made, out ran the cops last week advoiding 150mph jail time.. i am in my prime and loving it.....and to tell the truth life is too short to regret or worry about anything.....Dude.............work hard........Play Harder

[steamy]

Dude.............work hard........Play HarderBut lets make it at least until you get to 40:) We'll worry about 50 at that 40 mark:):) But I can totally relate to your mantra.......................

[Willy S]

Today -- yes

[funluvinga]

Today - Definetly No.

[cherokeered]

When I am with Tiger...yes




Cherokee....:kk

[Sunfiresix]

I actually am very happy-despite all the things that seem bad --everything works out for the very best--Friends, family and just plain good days--I have a blessed life-and I am thankful for it. An I got the neatest friends here--what more could I ever ask for.

[Itshardon-theroad]

Hell no.

[jman]

I have to say no.

[G. Lee]

I am happy because I have people who love me.

Happiness grows at our own firesides, and is not to be picked in strangers' gardens.-Douglas Jerrold

[Jy]

What a loaded question! Define happy. What does it mean? Is it a permanent state of the heart? A state of mind? A goal finally realized? A new car?

At the risk of sounding too "new age" (which I am not) or just annoying, I think happiness is a choice. Yes, we all have those times in our lives when challenges seem to pile up and we get overwhelmed. We all suffer setbacks, heartache, loss, grief, and some major pitfalls. For one to expect to be happy all the time is unrealistic. One can't truly appreciate the good in life without some bad thrown in once in a while.
So, what does happy mean? Is it the big house in the country? The promotion at work? A stock that goes through the roof?
I truly believe that happiness is found in the everyday, the little things (hence the thread I started). If you can see life's little blessings every day, the beauty of a sunset, the joy in a child's eyes, the miracle parking space at the mall on a Saturday afternoon, then you are happy. If you stop for a moment and really count your blessings every day, I guarantee you're going to lose count before you name them all.
Happiness doesn't guarantee a smooth trip. It doesn't mean you've achieved all your life's goals (geez! that would be called boredom!!) It means that shit happens, but life is good anyway. Every day is a gift. Cherish it.

[MCat]

What a loaded question! Define happy. What does it mean? Is it a permanent state of the heart? A state of mind? A goal finally realized? A new car?

At the risk of sounding too "new age" (which I am not) or just annoying, I think happiness is a choice. Yes, we all have those times in our lives when challenges seem to pile up and we get overwhelmed. We all suffer setbacks, heartache, loss, grief, and some major pitfalls. For one to expect to be happy all the time is unrealistic. One can't truly appreciate the good in life without some bad thrown in once in a while.
So, what does happy mean? Is it the big house in the country? The promotion at work? A stock that goes through the roof?
I truly believe that happiness is found in the everyday, the little things (hence the thread I started). If you can see life's little blessings every day, the beauty of a sunset, the joy in a child's eyes, the miracle parking space at the mall on a Saturday afternoon, then you are happy. If you stop for a moment and really count your blessings every day, I guarantee you're going to lose count before you name them all.
Happiness doesn't guarantee a smooth trip. It doesn't mean you've achieved all your life's goals (geez! that would be called boredom!!) It means that shit happens, but life is good anyway. Every day is a gift. Cherish it.


Well she must a got a little something, somehow, sometime now didn't she ;)

[rainbowhigh]

MCat - I think you and I are shopping at the same place for our avatars. :D


Well she must a got a little something, somehow, sometime now didn't she ;)

[surfnchat]

I'll say yes. It sure beats the alternative. :D

[jman]

What a loaded question! Define happy. What does it mean? Is it a permanent state of the heart? A state of mind? A goal finally realized? A new car?

At the risk of sounding too "new age" (which I am not) or just annoying, I think happiness is a choice. Yes, we all have those times in our lives when challenges seem to pile up and we get overwhelmed. We all suffer setbacks, heartache, loss, grief, and some major pitfalls. For one to expect to be happy all the time is unrealistic. One can't truly appreciate the good in life without some bad thrown in once in a while.
So, what does happy mean? Is it the big house in the country? The promotion at work? A stock that goes through the roof?
I truly believe that happiness is found in the everyday, the little things (hence the thread I started). If you can see life's little blessings every day, the beauty of a sunset, the joy in a child's eyes, the miracle parking space at the mall on a Saturday afternoon, then you are happy. If you stop for a moment and really count your blessings every day, I guarantee you're going to lose count before you name them all.
Happiness doesn't guarantee a smooth trip. It doesn't mean you've achieved all your life's goals (geez! that would be called boredom!!) It means that shit happens, but life is good anyway. Every day is a gift. Cherish it.
Gee all I wanted to be happy was sex now I have more to worry about.

[OKMamaEeyore]

Not really - but things have been a bit depressing around the house lately. Although the weekend is looking encouraging for an emotional pick me up.:)

[XMONKEYLOVINSX]

nope i am not happy with my life right now!!!!!!!!!!1:spbx: i guess i have just transitioned from child to adult being only 21 and i dont want to let go of the youth but i guess i have to to move forward at all i am not happy with my job and i just didnt think stepping into reality would suck so much. i have also had a plan for my life and nothing is going in that plan right now the whole time line thing have a good job by now be married and in my own house by 23 then married by 25 and kids shortly after but now i am thinking the time line will have to be bumped back like 10 yrs!!!! but i guess i am happy with the little things my family and my boyfriend and i know eventually things will fall into place but not right away

[yaser]

nope i am not happy with my life right now!!!!!!!!!!1:spbx: i guess i have just transitioned from child to adult being only 21 and i dont want to let go of the youth but i guess i have to to move forward at all i am not happy with my job and i just didnt think stepping into reality would suck so much. i have also had a plan for my life and nothing is going in that plan right now the whole time line thing have a good job by now be married and in my own house by 23 then married by 25 and kids shortly after but now i am thinking the time line will have to be bumped back like 10 yrs!!!! but i guess i am happy with the little things my family and my boyfriend and i know eventually things will fall into place but not right away
Honey all of us felt depressed while passing the those narrow bridges..We are in the moving ladders, we move whether we wish or not.When you grow, you will get more satisfaction from your life..Put the back to back...Let us look at the fornt and future.Give me your hand.I will help you to pass the narrow bridge.

[XMONKEYLOVINSX]

Honey all of us felt depressed while passing the those narrow bridges..We are in the moving ladders, we move whether we wish or not.When you grow, you will get more satisfaction from your life..Put the back to back...Let us look at the fornt and future.Give me your hand.I will help you to pass the narrow bridge.
DO U STILL LOVE ME YASER?!?!?:kk

[yaser]

Not really - but things have been a bit depressing around the house lately. Although the weekend is looking encouraging for an emotional pick me up.:)
That means I have a chance to catch you up,OKMamaEeyore.

[yaser]

DO U STILL LOVE ME YASER?!?!?:kk
I cannot stop it, My Love...My heart does not listen to me, it listens to your love whispers.

[XMONKEYLOVINSX]

I cannot stop it, My Love...My heart does not listen to me, it listens to your love whispers.
AWWW HUNNY NEVER STOP LOVIN ME I LOVE U BACK!:kk

[yaser]

AWWW HUNNY NEVER STOP LOVIN ME I LOVE U BACK!:kk
Thank you Monkey..The best food for me is someone's telling she loves me..and the moment she shows it or proves it.

[OKMamaEeyore]

That means I have a chance to catch you up,OKMamaEeyore.

:dd Please do!!!!!!!!!!!

[Seeker]

Jazzy, once again you have hit the nail on the head! I've found most thnigs in lifeyou can choose how your going to realte to them. I choose to maintain a good attitude in spite of things that are going down the tubes! I'm glad i have friends to lean on! and that they can lean on me!


What makes me Happy? Happiness for me is getting a text, IM or email from a special someone! happiness is watching the idiot that just made a five lane right hand turn at 90 MPH pass the cop that is about to ruin his day!

[PlayfulMale69]

yes i'm happy, i just wish that their was more of me to go around. sometimes their just isn't enough time in a day for me.

How much of you can I have? :kk (Sorry I couldn't help myself ;))

[PlayfulMale69]

What a loaded question! Define happy. What does it mean? Is it a permanent state of the heart? A state of mind? A goal finally realized? A new car?

At the risk of sounding too "new age" (which I am not) or just annoying, I think happiness is a choice. Yes, we all have those times in our lives when challenges seem to pile up and we get overwhelmed. We all suffer setbacks, heartache, loss, grief, and some major pitfalls. For one to expect to be happy all the time is unrealistic. One can't truly appreciate the good in life without some bad thrown in once in a while.
So, what does happy mean? Is it the big house in the country? The promotion at work? A stock that goes through the roof?
I truly believe that happiness is found in the everyday, the little things (hence the thread I started). If you can see life's little blessings every day, the beauty of a sunset, the joy in a child's eyes, the miracle parking space at the mall on a Saturday afternoon, then you are happy. If you stop for a moment and really count your blessings every day, I guarantee you're going to lose count before you name them all.
Happiness doesn't guarantee a smooth trip. It doesn't mean you've achieved all your life's goals (geez! that would be called boredom!!) It means that shit happens, but life is good anyway. Every day is a gift. Cherish it.

Awesome thoughts. I agree with you in the choice. I always enjoy reading your posts.

I am happy sometimes and down other times. A lot of times emotions can get in the way of the facts of being blessed and it is not all about me.

Have a great weekend

[jman]

still not happy

[Jy]

Thanks, Seeker. You strike me as a positive person. It comes through your posts.

Jazzy, once again you have hit the nail on the head! I've found most thnigs in lifeyou can choose how your going to realte to them. I choose to maintain a good attitude in spite of things that are going down the tubes! I'm glad i have friends to lean on! and that they can lean on me!


What makes me Happy? Happiness for me is getting a text, IM or email from a special someone! happiness is watching the idiot that just made a five lane right hand turn at 90 MPH pass the cop that is about to ruin his day!

[Zifnab]

What makes me Happy? Happiness for me is getting a text, IM or email from a special someone! happiness is watching the idiot that just made a five lane right hand turn at 90 MPH pass the cop that is about to ruin his day!YES! I watched an idiot make an illeagle right turn last week and cut a cop off...then tried to out run him....didn't work! he didn't get where he was in such a hurry to go!

[Norfolkdave]

Despite not feeling well and getting older, yep got no complaints at all really.

[tiger50]

Despite not feeling well and getting older, yep got no complaints at all really.

good mate... :55

am i?? well yes and no.... am not at home.. but here i am... and the changes happeng will make me excstatic in 2007... :D

[Norfolkdave]

good mate... :55

am i?? well yes and no.... am not at home.. but here i am... and the changes happeng will make me excstatic in 2007... :D

Well Im glad 2007 will be more happier for you, and Im concerned that this part of 2006 has fallen low for you ( 2006) a crap year hell:wa:

[tiger50]

Well Im glad 2007 will be more happier for you, and Im concerned that this part of 2006 has fallen low for you ( 2006) a crap year hell:wa:

yeh its has a bit mate.. but it needed to happen.. am ok.... i have rock... :D

[Norfolkdave]

yeh its has a bit mate.. but it needed to happen.. am ok.... i have rock... :D

I know you do, but you got to not be stressful otherwise you,ll end up like I am, and I wouldnt want to see that happen to you as your a bloody good bloke and like you say we are like brothers now.

[tiger50]

I know you do, but you got to not be stressful otherwise you,ll end up like I am, and I wouldnt want to see that happen to you as your a bloody good bloke and like you say we are like brothers now.

dont worry am ok mate.... the resolve is firm.... have a lot of support rocks.... but one special one..... :wa:

[funluvinga]

NO. And I told hubby so this morning. Now things are really getting interesting. Wish me luck. Maybe he will leave, then I can change my answer to YES!

[joshcamp69]

Good for you fun.

[funluvinga]

Good for you fun.

Thanks Josh. It was actually easier than I thought. I just got tired of pretending. Now he has to deal with the truth.

[joshcamp69]

Think of the positive and how much funner life is going to get.

[funluvinga]

Think of the positive and how much funner life is going to get.

I'm not worried about it Josh. Anything is better than how it's been.

[joshcamp69]

Good to hear. Will have to get you excitement to spark up your day.

[funluvinga]

Good to hear. Will have to get you excitement to spark up your day.

My day....try MY WEEK. Between Marriage issues, sick kids, and yucky weather........I need a break. :(

[sex_kitten_4u]

will be happier when i know what is what this weekend

[massage mike]

way to go fun.Life is all about being happpyj I married miss right ,I didn't aknow it would be always

[Suz]

I thought I wanted to be a stay at home mom, then I didn't, so off to preschool she went. Now I'm bored, but don't want to pick up extra shifts at the hospital. So, I play around all day and try to find trouble,......I'm so bored. I need to have a second child or something.

[Rmb]

I thought I wanted to be a stay at home mom, then I didn't, so off to preschool she went. Now I'm bored, but don't want to pick up extra shifts at the hospital. So, I play around all day and try to find trouble,......I'm so bored. I need to have a second child or something.

Hey steady on!! :) :)

[Dmy]

I am Happy...if im not....its just not me!

[steamy]

I am happy..............happy and steamy..................like ham and eggs:D

[Norfolkdave]

Now I am, now everything in my life is being sorted

[joshcamp69]

Sounds like Sue needs some excitement. I am available.

[Suz]

You Texas boys sure are hot.......I'm ready to roll

[joshcamp69]

Big and tall and ready to ride.

[Willy S]

I am today.

[Leyna]

Not really-the money situation is pretty bad, as usual. I know they say that money does not buy happiness-but it does buy security, which we all need!

[Rmb]

Not really-the money situation is pretty bad, as usual. I know they say that money does not buy happiness-but it does buy security, which we all need!

Stats also show that arguments over finances are the biggest stress factors in marriages.

[mboxer]

Work is great. I have a beautiful new home.

But home life could be better.

[Rmb]

I think that if I have to freeze another winter I will die, I cant stand being cold all the time.

I thought you were in the heating business...no matter how you view it !! :) :)

[nicenkinkyguy]

No!NO! NOOOOO!!! I try to make the best of it, but I am almost wore down to the ground ...will keep holding on a little longer!!:rules: ya know!!

[jman]

No and today seems to just get worse.

[flamengo130]

very, very, very happy! Have time for each other, and can still expand. We enjoy life as much as we can

[cherokeered]

Sometimes...




Cherokee.....

[Cotties]

what I find strange is people often call me grumpy. But when I look around I'm a much more positive person than most people I meet when it comes down to the nitty gritty

[Leyna]

Stats also show that arguments over finances are the biggest stress factors in marriages.

Very true. My husband and I went to a marriage counselor last year, and he said that financial problems are the number 1 cause of divorce! Even more than adultry! That was surprising to me, but I can sure understand it!

[Cotties]

clever RhumbaI thought you were in the heating business...no matter how you view it !! :) :)

[Cotties]

you have to love a materialistic society..............:55 Stats also show that arguments over finances are the biggest stress factors in marriages.

[OICurready4me]

It all depends on what I'm doing at the time. Happiness can be fleeting and can be never ending. It's all a state of mind. One person's happiness is another person's unhappiness. It is a subjective issue. In a marriage, as is often the case, one person is happy and the other isn't, yet they are both a part of the same situation, which may in reality, suck. But it is the degrees of suckiness that may discern the difference between being happy and being a miserable bastard.

[Penny]

I believe it money does cause stress especially when there isnt enough



Very true. My husband and I went to a marriage counselor last year, and he said that financial problems are the number 1 cause of divorce! Even more than adultry! That was surprising to me, but I can sure understand it!

[Leyna]

I believe it money does cause stress especially when there isnt enough

Yep. And I can remember when we first met and started dating...it was like "Oh honey-I don't care about money at all-as long as we have each other! I'm not materialistic at all!" Things change though, when you live paycheck to paycheck, and you can't even afford to go to a cheap movie or buy a new bra or gas for your car! You tend to become bitter.....at least I do. lol

[steamy]

I have to admit............right now...............I am quite happy and content:)

[altoids69]

I have to admit............right now...............I am quite happy and content:)

So am I.....

[Tom Tom]

Me too

[massage mike]

Our fights are always about money we live week to week,no one else would put up with my shit and no one else would put up with hers

[Leyna]

Our fights are always about money we live week to week,no one else would put up with my shit and no one else would put up with hers

Wow Mike-you sound exactly like me and my husband! :D

[OICurready4me]

Actually, my wife says she is very happy and that we have the perfect relationship. I make the money and she spends it. What a deal? She said that since I always claim to be undersexed that as she's emptying my wallet, I can feel screwed!!! What a lady!

[funluvinga]

Nope. Not happy, but certainly putting on my happy face. It is the Holidays after all.

[Norfolkdave]

Yes Im happy in my own way, but I wish my poor chris hadnt developed that Breast Cancer although cleared it still hangs over her so to speak, but we are happy.

[Penny]

Im kind of bitchy today :(

[steamy]

Gotta party tonite, a fine bottle of wine for starters, let the good times roll..............:D

[twoblues]

Frickin' happy happy (did I say happy?), just got news of the bonus I'll be getting from work....Merry Christmas to all, I'm going to Mexico!

[cherokeered]

Frickin' happy happy (did I say happy?), just got news of the bonus I'll be getting from work....Merry Christmas to all, I'm going to Mexico!


Good for you hun...nice to have hard work recognized....enjoy


Cherokee....

[cherokeered]

I'm happy when I'm with Tiger....other than that...various degrees of it I guess...



Cherokee...:)

[OICurready4me]

Im kind of bitchy today :(


We can't have that now. I think you need a little massage. If you're nice, maybe we can make it a happy ending.

[Suz]

Actually, my wife says she is very happy and that we have the perfect relationship. I make the money and she spends it. What a deal? She said that since I always claim to be undersexed that as she's emptying my wallet, I can feel screwed!!! What a lady!

sounds like she's got it pretty good. My hubby lets me shop and buy whatever, not work any shifts if I don't want to, take trips with other friends and family. He knows he is not sexually satisfying me and so he tries to compensate in other ways. I appreciate it and know he's doing the best he can. Other than the sex, we are very compatable and enjoy just hanging out together.

[Cotties]

I even find that a turn onIm kind of bitchy today :(

[MCat]

Happy yes....Christmas is coming....time to make others happy.

[steamy]

Gotta admit............pretty darned happy:)

[jman]

not tonight

[OICurready4me]

sounds like she's got it pretty good. My hubby lets me shop and buy whatever, not work any shifts if I don't want to, take trips with other friends and family. He knows he is not sexually satisfying me and so he tries to compensate in other ways. I appreciate it and know he's doing the best he can. Other than the sex, we are very compatable and enjoy just hanging out together.


That sounds similar to my situation except my wife's life evolves around me and it drives me nuts. I enjoy our time together but I am all she has so everything she does and wants to do I have to be a part of. I need my alone time like anybody but she doesn't understand and it gets her upset when I choose to spend time without her at times since she wants to spend every waking moment with me. I wish she were more self-reliant, besides being having a better sex drive. Other than I do love her.

[OICurready4me]

Happy yes....Christmas is coming....time to make others happy.



If you showed up at my door, MCat, with that outfit on, you'd make me more than happy! :whee:

[Suz]

That sounds similar to my situation except my wife's life evolves around me and it drives me nuts. I enjoy our time together but I am all she has so everything she does and wants to do I have to be a part of. I need my alone time like anybody but she doesn't understand and it gets her upset when I choose to spend time without her at times since she wants to spend every waking moment with me. I wish she were more self-reliant, besides being having a better sex drive. Other than I do love her.

Ahhh, you sound like a sweet hubby. I can understand why she would feel that way. When I'm home all day, I do wish he was here to keep me company, but I also know that he needs to work so that i can continue living this lifestyle. To pass time I started going to the gym, and watching tv shows like Regis and Kelly, I LOVE that girl, the view, days of our lives. I will do the house work with the tv on and it seems to pass the time good. My problem is my sex drive is extrememely high, so this leads to looking at porn on the internet...oh and talking to you guys, lol. I take about 5 vacations a year, so then there's always vacation searches, I guess that would be my hobby besides regular shopping.

I think your wife feels when you choose to spend your time away from her that your choosing sides and then she probably internalizes it and feels there must be something wrong with her that you would choose "X" over her. I've felt like that a time or two, but I know it's dumb so then I snap out of it. I just get so damn horny I tell him to just fuck me and then he can go do whatever, I'm not clingy.

[Dmy]

I read these and see some simularities, OI, I see that I am too,everything that revolves around my wife beside my kids. I dont mind spending time with her. But when we're home together she doesnt want me to do anything that would take away from our family. Thats where it starts to bug me some, So I agree with OI about that, just give me a little space, even when where together.
We certainly have not had any problems with the sexual area's, seems to be getting better with our age. I do wish for life to slow down some to allow more of that qualilty longer time session...you know the ones Im talking about. Those wild, hot, everything you do sex sessions! :D .
I do consider myself lucky though, Im am happy for the most part, I have a wife that loves me and takes care of me, great kids, good job and life in general. ;)

[altoids69]

That sounds similar to my situation except my wife's life evolves around me and it drives me nuts. I enjoy our time together but I am all she has so everything she does and wants to do I have to be a part of. I need my alone time like anybody but she doesn't understand and it gets her upset when I choose to spend time without her at times since she wants to spend every waking moment with me. I wish she were more self-reliant, besides being having a better sex drive. Other than I do love her.

My hubby's the same way. I've told him that it's not healthy to have his entire world revolve around me. Not that I don't like attention, but he's got to let go a bit. The one day he had called me 5 times before Noon, I told him he was calling too much. It upset him. He didn't call me at all the next day to punish me. If I go out of town (even an hour away), he worries the entire time I'm gone and will call me to make sure I'm ok. Drives me nuts!!! I like 'my' time and that's why I enjoy the days home with no one else around. I do love him, but I don't think it's healthy to depend on one person so much.

[steamy]

Today is a GREAT day................I must say I am happy:)

[longnhard32]

i think most are in that boat . it is time to ride or sink . i like the ride

[hightidenc]

Wow Altoids. Sounds like you're hubby is a bit codependant. He needs to be his own man. I believe that the key to a happy marriage is having your own free time. Without that you can get on each others nerves.

[altoids69]

Wow Altoids. Sounds like you're hubby is a bit codependant. He needs to be his own man. I believe that the key to a happy marriage is having your own free time. Without that you can get on each others nerves.

And, believe it or not, he's a police officer!! He has no free time of his own. He doesn't understand why I enjoy mine so much. He doesn't know how to relax whereas I probably relax just a bit too much!!

[MCat]

quite happy

[kjguy43]

I am happy, but could always be happier. I am always making goals for myself, so don't think I will ever be the happiest that I can be. I always enjoy the challenge!

[Annie]

No... not right now I'm not! I really screwed up! I just bought Andrew a GPS for Christmas on e-bay. My stupidity... I bought it while signed in under his name. They send confirmation to your e-mail as soon as you win the item. I forgot about that... until he called from work and told me he had received confirmation for the camera I purchased for our son.... DUH!

[Kissie]

No... not right now I'm not! I really screwed up! I just bought Andrew a GPS for Christmas on e-bay. My stupidity... I bought it while signed in under his name. They send confirmation to your e-mail as soon as you win the item. I forgot about that... until he called from work and told me he had received confirmation for the camera I purchased for our son.... DUH!



Oh Annie.....

[Annie]

Oh Annie.....
Oh God! I can fix this!! I'll buy him a nice shirt. On Christmas Eve we'll exchange our presents for each other and I will give him the shirt. Then on Christmas Eve night I'll put his GPS under the tree with our son's gifts and he'll get it Christmas morning.

[Kissie]

Oh God! I can fix this!! I'll buy him a nice shirt. On Christmas Eve we'll exchange our presents for each other and I will give him the shirt. Then on Christmas Eve night I'll put his GPS under the tree with our son's gifts and he'll get it Christmas morning.




You could do that or scare him and tell him he is getting me for xmas!!!!!! :lmao

[kjguy43]

No... not right now I'm not! I really screwed up! I just bought Andrew a GPS for Christmas on e-bay. My stupidity... I bought it while signed in under his name. They send confirmation to your e-mail as soon as you win the item. I forgot about that... until he called from work and told me he had received confirmation for the camera I purchased for our son.... DUH!

What GPS system, I bought a Garmin, and I now live and die by it. Its awesome!

[Annie]

You could do that or scare him and tell him he is getting me for xmas!!!!!! :lmao
Only if I get SGT! Wow! We'd have one hell of a Christmas party.... hmmm we might run right into New Years with that one!

[Annie]

What GPS system, I bought a Garmin, and I now live and die by it. Its awesome!
Garmin StreetPilot C320 V7 map talking. It got great reviews, 5 out of 5 stars. He better like it or else it's mine!

[yaser]

And, believe it or not, he's a police officer!! He has no free time of his own. He doesn't understand why I enjoy mine so much. He doesn't know how to relax whereas I probably relax just a bit too much!!
Altoids,you have the right to relax as much as you want...Please relax..No tenseness....

[Kissie]

Only if I get SGT! Wow! We'd have one hell of a Christmas party.... hmmm we might run right into New Years with that one!



Are you sure you want SGT???? He has lost his mind!!!! He went to get ice out of the freezer this morning and left a pizza sitting on the kitchen counter...I got out of bed 3 hours later and there it is smiling at me all defrosted...so guess what I had for breakfast and lunch today?????

[kjguy43]

I have the c350 v7 and the only difference between the 320 and 350 I belive is that the 350 actually says the name. I had a few days of hectic driving in NYC and North Jersey a few weeks back and that little GPS never got me lost once. I love it. Thought about selling since I am back at my old job..haven't decided yet.

[Annie]

Are you sure you want SGT???? He has lost his mind!!!! He went to get ice out of the freezer this morning and left a pizza sitting on the kitchen counter...I got out of bed 3 hours later and there it is smiling at me all defrosted...so guess what I had for breakfast and lunch today?????
Oh my God! That is soooo much like ME! (I did that with a half bag of peas the other day.) See the problem would be he'd go to LaLa Land, I'd be off in LaDeDa Land and we wouldn't even notice we were in the same room.

[Kissie]

Oh my God! That is soooo much like ME! (I did that with a half bag of peas the other day.) See the problem would be he'd go to LaLa Land, I'd be off in LaDeDa Land and we wouldn't even notice we were in the same room.




Yeah well guess what SGT is going to have for dinner tonight when he gets home from the range???? I knew there was a reason why I loved you!!!!!!

[Annie]

I have the c350 v7 and the only difference between the 320 and 350 I belive is that the 350 actually says the name. I had a few days of hectic driving in NYC and North Jersey a few weeks back and that little GPS never got me lost once. I love it. Thought about selling since I am back at my old job..haven't decided yet.
My husband is a private chauffeur and personal assistant for a Chicago businessman, on Saturdays he works for a limousine company doing charter work and airport runs. I hope he gets a whole lot of use out of it.

[jman]

Right now I am - I am eating ice cream.

[Norfolkdave]

Yes now everything has been soughted out with our pensions

[steamy]

Today, with the cards I have been delt....................I am very happy:)

[Suz]

Today, with the cards I have been delt....................I am very happy:)

Deal me some of them happy cards...please:kk

[altoids69]

Today, with the cards I have been delt....................I am very happy:)

Does that mean we're playing strip poker? I think Suz will join in too if we ask her!!!

[Suz]

I'm in

[altoids69]

I'm in

I had a feeling you'd be in!! I can't wait until we ladies win and have the boys standing there in all of their glory in front of us. It's gonna be sweet!!

[steamy]

Shit:D To hell with it "I Wanna Lose!!!!"

[altoids69]

Shit:D To hell with it "I Wanna Lose!!!!"

I had a feeling you'd say that!!!

[steamy]

I had a feeling you'd say that!!!DAMN!!!! Never tryed to deal from the bottom of the deck to lose:D First time for everything I guess:D Concentrate Steamy:D

[altoids69]

DAMN!!!! Never tryed to deal from the bottom of the deck to lose:D First time for everything I guess:D Concentrate Steamy:D

I'm sure Suz and I could find something for you to concentrate on....and where the heck's Dreamy? What about the other guys playing? Did they all bow out?? Are you alone with Suz and me??? That could be dangerous.....

[Suz]

I'm sure Suz and I could find something for you to concentrate on....and where the heck's Dreamy? What about the other guys playing? Did they all bow out?? Are you alone with Suz and me??? That could be dangerous.....

I think the others got scared off. What a lucky man you are!

[steamy]

I'm sure Suz and I could find something for you to concentrate on....and where the heck's Dreamy? What about the other guys playing? Did they all bow out?? Are you alone with Suz and me??? That could be dangerous.....OK shit!!! Ladies we do not need cards for this:D We can just think of cards:D DAMN, I dream of a 2, 4, 6,7, and 9..........and different suites................"I lose!":D

[Suz]

hell, I don't even know how to play cards for real

[steamy]

hell, I don't even know how to play cards for realOK............I will give you a set of 5 cards...........Damn!!! You got a "full house"................I lose big time:D (thank god:D)............Altoids?

[altoids69]

hell, I don't even know how to play cards for real

Trust me, Suz!! We won't have to do a thing........just watch......

[altoids69]

OK............I will give you a set of 5 cards...........Damn!!! You got a "full house"................I lose big time:D (thank god:D)............Altoids?

Yep. I had a royal flush.........looks like Steamy's stripping.......

[Suz]

Trust me, Suz!! We won't have to do a thing........just watch......

I like that!

[steamy]

Maestro...........Music Please!!!!

[altoids69]

Maestro...........Music Please!!!!

*best strip tease music being cued up now*

[Dmy]

I like that!

I bet you would!
;)

[steamy]

*best strip tease music being cued up now*Shit I wish I knew how to work a strip pole:D Chipindales doen't have anything on me:D

[altoids69]

Shit I wish I knew how to work a strip pole:D Chipindales doen't have anything on me:D

Care to join me in the Strip Poker thread???

[steamy]

Care to join me in the Strip Poker thread???Got dollar bills for my thong?:D

[altoids69]

Got dollar bills for my thong?:D

Are you sure they're not knit boxers??? *roar*

[steamy]

Are you sure they're not knit boxers??? *roar*You are killin me:D

[altoids69]

You are killin me:D

Get over to the strip poker thread. ANd like you weren't killing me with the hot showered babe in a robe comment???

[joshcamp69]

Did someone say strip poker? yah

[Penny]

When we used to play strip poker when we were younger I would just sit there naked because I would always lose anyway :(

[Norfolkdave]

Yes not too bad really, a bit tired today having had an uncomfortable night but other than that yes life in general is good

[steamy]

When we used to play strip poker when we were younger I would just sit there naked because I would always lose anyway :(Where have you been:D

[hightidenc]

Hmmm. There are a illion places to gamble online. If only we could figure out how to start an online strip poker site we could be rich pretty quickly.....

[Suz]

Hmmm. There are a illion places to gamble online. If only we could figure out how to start an online strip poker site we could be rich pretty quickly.....

Hmm.. figure it out and I'm in

[yaser]

You are killin me:D
Steamy, the ladies kill us this way..

[steamy]

Steamy, the ladies kill us this way..I'm tellin ya:D

[icecool]

hi, m new here, whats up everyone ?

[cherokeered]

hi, m new here, whats up everyone ?


Hey...welcome to the site...hope u have fun posting and getting to know us



Cherokee

[Jy]

Hello icecool! Welcome to the best site on the net!:wa: hi, m new here, whats up everyone ?

[jman]

Not with up to a foot of snow coming in later tonight.

[Norfolkdave]

Yep

[Sandy]

tes i am, my mom is way better, and i have a new grandbaby, i couldn't ask for a better christmas present.

[Seeker]

So glad to hear things are going so much better, Sandy!!!:kk Nice to see you on too!!tes i am, my mom is way better, and i have a new grandbaby, i couldn't ask for a better christmas present.

[Traxster]

Yes sir reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...I if was any better i'd be chocolate candy!!!!!!!!!

[Sandy]

thank you seeker, good to see you to :kk

and trax what do you plan on doing with that chocolate ? :D

[Traxster]

thank you seeker, good to see you to :kk

and trax what do you plan on doing with that chocolate ? :D

Hmmmmmmmm got any ideas Sandy??????????:sc

[Sandy]

oh yeah i've got a couple. :D

[Traxster]

oh yeah i've got a couple. :D

Hmmmmmmmmmm this could be interesting??:whee:

[Sandy]

oh yeah baby, i've got the ice cubes, and you've got chocolate, it could get very messy to :lmao

[Traxster]

oh yeah baby, i've got the ice cubes, and you've got chocolate, it could get very messy to :lmao

:whee: Wow!!!!!!! Cold chocolate sundea...Hmmmmmmmm wonder how that would work??:lmao

[Sandy]

only way to find out is to try :D :55

[Traxster]

only way to find out is to try :D :55

Good point...I'd be a choc-cycle :55

[Sandy]

ummmmmmm finger licking good :D

[Traxster]

ummmmmmm finger licking good :D

Col. Sanders would be proud!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:55 ;)

[Sandy]

your such a nut :lmao

[Traxster]

your such a nut :lmao

Why thank you ma'am.....you inspire me!!!!:kk

[steamy]

Always room for improvement...............But steamy is "mucho" happy:)

[MIGHTY]

Always room for improvement...............But steamy is "mucho" happy:)

Got your improvement over here, Steamy!;)

[steamy]

Got your improvement over here, Steamy!;)Ahhhhhhhhhhh:D I see a colaboration developing:D

[MIGHTY]

Ahhhhhhhhhhh:D I see a colaboration developing:D

Just take me by the hand and show me the way.....:kk

[yaser]

Just take me by the hand and show me the way.....:kk
Close your eyes..and rely upon me..

[hightidenc]

hi, m new here, whats up everyone ?

Welcome Ice. Post an introduction if you have not already. That's a greatplace to meet folks.

[mike254]

:whee: That is quite beautiful!!!!!

[MIGHTY]

:whee: That is quite beautiful!!!!!

Why thank you Mike...and welcome! Hope you have fun here!

[speed_raycer]

Life has certainly gotten better after finding married and flirting chat! Hot hot hot. Thanks, Penny

[mike254]

Hey Mighty,
A pic like yours brings out the mighty in me. Perfecttttttttttttt.

[MIGHTY]

Hey Mighty,
A pic like yours brings out the mighty in me. Perfecttttttttttttt.

Glad I can do that for you! And, it's only perfect because you cannot see the dimples when I bend over....Lol.:D

[OICurready4me]

I am happy most of the time but it normally comes to a crashing halt when I hear "I'm tired, I have a headache, I don't feel good, blah blah blah" and she shuts me down again.

[MIGHTY]

I am happy most of the time but it normally comes to a crashing halt when I hear "I'm tired, I have a headache, I don't feel good, blah blah blah" and she shuts me down again.

Oh, honey, I am tired right now...but I am willing to do you a "favor" before I go to sleep....:D

[OICurready4me]

Oh, honey, I am tired right now...but I am willing to do you a "favor" before I go to sleep....:D


Now that's what I'm talking about! A true lady who can fulfill needs! :kk

[MIGHTY]

Now that's what I'm talking about! A true lady who can fulfill needs! :kk

It's been a while, I know, and I'm sorry. Come here....it's the least I can do....

[OICurready4me]

It's been a while, I know, and I'm sorry. Come here....it's the least I can do....


I'll be right over, after all, you do live in the "show me" state!

[mike254]

Oh my, dimples....things that make ya go "BOING". LOL

[MIGHTY]

I'll be right over, after all, you do live in the "show me" state!

I'll show you a mighty good woman/lover...

[OICurready4me]

I'll show you a mighty good woman/lover...


No doubt!

[mike254]

where do I sign up? :)

[spare_change]

Happy? I don't even know what the word means.

[p.J]

Happy? I don't even know what the word means.

I was about to say something along the lines of 'define' happy, but I felt it a little crass, however... lets!

[mike254]

Hi Jen,

Happy should be an everyday thing??? Is it??? :wa:

[p.J]

Hi Jen,

Happy should be an everyday thing??? Is it??? :wa:

Hi Mike :wa: and yes, but...

But what does the word happy encompass?

[spare_change]

Hi Mike :wa: and yes, but...

But what does the word happy encompass?

A topic worthy of intense and concentrated discussion. I will start a new thread!!

[mike254]

Hmmmmm...good reply.

It encompasses waking up in the morning and looking forward to the day ahead. I can't say i can do that everyday but i try...what about you? Where you from jen?

[p.J]

Hmmmmm...good reply.

It encompasses waking up in the morning and looking forward to the day ahead. I can't say i can do that everyday but i try...what about you? Where you from jen?

I am a happy person generally, its outside influences that make me unhappy! What started off as a good day can to easily be effected by a wally or two! :)

I am from the UK (Herts) Mike you?

[mike254]

Those darn outside elements.....;)


I'm from New York. Are you married? Happy? Unhappy? So many questions. I'm new to this chat thing. :wa:

[p.J]

Those darn outside elements.....;)


I'm from New York. Are you married? Happy? Unhappy? So many questions. I'm new to this chat thing. :wa:

Been to New York a few times, love it too! Married yes... the rest well you know... no harm in looking! :)

[mike254]

you want to chat on messenger???? :55

[p.J]

you want to chat on messenger???? :55

LOL! gosh! are you chatting me up Mike? Tell you what, as an incentive, how about you get to 150 posts and then send me a PM with your messenger addy ... :55 :kk

[mike254]

1st day here.....150.....how about 21...LOL

I never been here before, I really don't know the protocol and I thought you were kind of a cool person. I'll do my best to get to 150.....you best be worth it. I'm sure you are. :)

[p.J]

1st day here.....150.....how about 21...LOL

I never been here before, I really don't know the protocol and I thought you were kind of a cool person. I'll do my best to get to 150.....you best be worth it. I'm sure you are. :)

I may make an exception for you... who knows! ;) and I am so worth it!

[Shiane]

Yeppers, I am Happy.

[speed_raycer]

Yeppers, I am Happy.
Hi Shiane. :wa: Me too. Cold up there in OKIE land?

[mike254]

That would be sweet. I'll put the posts up....how many - 27 and then we are a go.....LOL.

You are worth it!!!!

[pointofnoreturn]

Not really happy right now in this present life.....

[hotguy89]

ditto here..happy is a word that is for other people...i would settle for not hurt...:D

[yaser]

Not really happy right now in this present life.....
Do you have any intention or plan to change it? Or go on and complain,hun?

[pointofnoreturn]

been trying to change it. You have helped me alot.

[yaser]

been trying to change it. You have helped me alot.
Have ı?Really?How darling?

[mike254]

sorry about that.......bad situation? Hear ya.... :(

[nsamale]

Ditto, Point. :(

[Sandy]

yes i am happy, and blessed with my family and friends

[majorfun]

I have a great family, great job and great friends that I have met on this site... Happy as a hooker with a bag full of dicks

[northernvam]

Eh .. I think happiness is sort of internal once you get beyond food, shelter, and relative safety. I mean, once your basic living needs are taken care of, then happiness is really about what is going on inside your own head.

As for me, I'm relatively happy ... happier than I was when I was younger. I think as you get older, and you live longer, your expectations of life become more aligned to the reality of life ....

Does that make any sense?

[Dancer4ever]

Not happy but not unhappy? make sense? probably not!

[Barkiss]

Not happy but not unhappy? make sense? probably not!

LOL - Makes perfect sense!!! I'd be willing to bet 90% of us on this site are in exactly that position...

[Gemmy]

For me, each day is the same. It never stops. Same old, same old.

[Gemmy]

sure

[MightymeatyMatey]

http://www.cartoonstrip.tv/cartoons/files/1-9.jpg:D :D :D

[yaser]

non-happy

[MIGHTY]

non-happy

Mmmmmwwwwaaaaaaa!! All better?