mid life

[sexypainter]

Are men and women any different sexually when they both reach mid life?

[flamengo130]

My experience is "yes". Seems like that around 40's/50's sex is more intense, gratifying, and experimental. Maybe cuzz we've reduced the stress of raising kids (you never really raise kids..lol) and can spend quality time with each other.

[ernie6t9]

raising kids is very stressful for sure !!:D but quailty time together is a must i think,I just wished my wife would listen lol

[MCat]

Yes...I am way different than I was in my 20's & 30's. Having more fun now, willing to try or even just think about different things is a new one for me. We are truely enjoying who we are at this time in our lives.

[Rmb]

Yes...I am way different than I was in my 20's & 30's. Having more fun now, willing to try or even just think about different things is a new one for me. We are truely enjoying who we are at this time in our lives.

It is our differences that make the world go around ...don't you think?
Welcome to another day of living :)

[Norfolkdave]

Hello sexypainter welcome

[MIGHTY]

Are men and women any different sexually when they both reach mid life?

I am not at mid life yet but I notice a considerable difference in my 30's. More willing to try new things, finally accepting my body and it's flaws, turned on (physically) much easier. I know I still have a lot to learn..but I'm loving the journey.;)

[steamy]

I am not at mid life yet but I notice a considerable difference in my 30's. More willing to try new things, finally accepting my body and it's flaws, turned on (physically) much easier. I know I still have a lot to learn..but I'm loving the journey.;)Hello and Welcome:wa: Hope you enjoy the site and participate:)

[Rmb]

I am not at mid life yet but I notice a considerable difference in my 30's. More willing to try new things, finally accepting my body and it's flaws, turned on (physically) much easier. I know I still have a lot to learn..but I'm loving the journey.;)

You naughty girl!! :)

[Frenchie]

I think it's different for everybody, depends what you did or didn't do before.

who know's maybe I'm out to lunch!

Hi to the new folks!

[MIGHTY]

You naughty girl!! :)

It's funny. I'm married and naughty. Because of my stature, I guess, men assume I have this innocense about me..almost angelic. If they only knew I think it would blow their minds..especially for the ones that know me.

[steamy]

It's funny. I'm married and naughty. Because of my stature, I guess, men assume I have this innocense about me..almost angelic. If they only knew I think it would blow their minds..especially for the ones that know me.Now you are very intriguing..................

[Norfolkdave]

It's funny. I'm married and naughty. Because of my stature, I guess, men assume I have this innocense about me..almost angelic. If they only knew I think it would blow their minds..especially for the ones that know me.

Us guys on here could do with some mind blowing:lmao

[MIGHTY]

So I've gathered! It's been VERY interesting so far.

[MIGHTY]

Thanks Steamy..and thanks for the welcome.

[steamy]

So I've gathered! It's been VERY interesting so far.OK..................time for initiation.....................lets hold hands and sing a song:D...............Oh to hell with the song:D...............lets just hold hands:D

[MIGHTY]

OK..................time for initiation.....................lets hold hands and sing a song:D...............Oh to hell with the song:D...............lets just hold hands:D

:hug: :hug: :kk :kk or is that to forward?

[steamy]

:hug: :hug: :kk :kk or is that to forward?I see this could be the start of a lasting friendship:D To hell with holding hands!!!!!!:D You got a better idea:)

[MIGHTY]

I see this could be the start of a lasting friendship:D To hell with holding hands!!!!!!:D You got a better idea:)

What can I say..I'm one of those touchy/feely people. Not to mention from MO..the "Show Me State".:wa:

[steamy]

What can I say..I'm one of those touchy/feely people. Not to mention from MO..the "Show Me State".:wa:And they call me "steamy":D Where have you been...................................:D

[MIGHTY]

And they call me "steamy":D Where have you been...................................:D

>Mighty is currently wiping forehead...is it getting hot in here?<

[steamy]

>Mighty is currently wiping forehead...is it getting hot in here?<Well....................my name is "steamy"...............need help wiping?????:D

[massage mike]

Hi Mighty I see you fit right in nice to meet you .Keep up the good work You are great waking up to

[MIGHTY]

Hi Mighty I see you fit right in nice to meet you .Keep up the good work You are great waking up to

I do what I can. Just a small woman with a big imagination. Thanks for the kind words.:D

[steamy]

I do what I can. Just a small woman with a big imagination. Thanks for the kind words.:DCan we explore this imagination issue?:D

[Sandy]

i have noticed that the older we get the better our sex life is and yes it does have alot to do with our kids being almost grown

[steamy]

i have noticed that the older we get the better our sex life is and yes it does have alot to do with our kids being almost grownI agree............don't have to worry about things..............when they are out you don't have to worry about cries, groans, advanced techniques:D

[MIGHTY]

Luckily, I've never had to tell my son that "we were just wrestling".
WHEW!!

[steamy]

Luckily, I've never had to tell my son that "we were just wrestling".
WHEW!!Yea.............It is one of those "OH SHIT" moments:D

[Frenchie]

Luckily, I've never had to tell my son that "we were just wrestling".
WHEW!!

lol that made me chuckle! :sex where only wresling honey now go back to the cartoons!

[mboxer]

Are men and women any different sexually when they both reach mid life?

Well, I can't speak for the women. But when I was 18-30, I just wanted to get laid and then go watch TV or whatever else. Now in my 40's, I enjoy taking my time and exploring new things. Sex seems more mental at this point than ever before.

[altoids69]

Luckily, I've never had to tell my son that "we were just wrestling".
WHEW!!

Thank God my girls have never seen anything either!!

[Leyna]

Are men and women any different sexually when they both reach mid life?

I think that it's more of a midlife crisis sort of thing....more of a "proving you still got it!" kind of thing, if that makes sense.

[Cotties]

mid life...I'm not sure where I'm at. The last few years its like I'm so over sex. In my twenties I was over sexed. Did this, did that and then did it again straight away. I sure hope it changes again. I just feel at this age I'm so over it. Nothing seems exciting anymore. Did I do too much before? Is it me? Is it my partner? I just don't really care anymore. I know it will change, I just hope it doesn't take a 20 year old women to do it for me...........

[Norfolkdave]

Heh heh heh mid life what! nothings changed here lol lol lol

[42CTMarriedguy]

Wish I weren't in midlife (translation - I'm not getting enough and there's no answer with my other half.) I've tried to talk etc.... but I'm accepting of it, and out and about (if you know what I mean). Now where's the best/safest place to find women in the same boat?

[longnhard32]

somebody told me life gets better after 50 only short time i will know. but it cant get worse can it

[Frenchie]

mid life...I'm not sure where I'm at. The last few years its like I'm so over sex. In my twenties I was over sexed. Did this, did that and then did it again straight away. I sure hope it changes again. I just feel at this age I'm so over it. Nothing seems exciting anymore. Did I do too much before? Is it me? Is it my partner? I just don't really care anymore. I know it will change, I just hope it doesn't take a 20 year old women to do it for me...........

I'm affraid I'm in the same boat... Love my wife beyond anything but now I almost feel like telling her to get a side guy to cover for me for a while! lol

weirddddddddddd

But here's the kicker, I would still sleep with all the ones I dont know that cross my path.... I know it's just my curiosity going on that one but I almost feel like calling a shrink to see if I'm off my rocker

I'll go get some med's tonight!

[twoblues]

Nah, it's called "quarter-life crisis". They say it actually exists and I think I agree with them. 25-30ish year olds go through it. Though, I don't want a corvette (give me an Audi) and I don't want a younger lady (older is my thing). So perhaps, quarter-life crisis is the opposite of mid-life ?

[Into_it@Denver]

i'm 31 and my sex drive has went to zero, what could i do, Help!!

[twoblues]

i'm 31 and my sex drive has went to zero, what could i do, Help!!

Wow, the opposite of me ;)

Excercise helps a lot. Gets the testosterone going.

Flirting playfully with pretty girls helps.

Create romantic situations that really build up the mood.

...erm...Viagra?

[Into_it@Denver]

i had a testicle injury and ever since then, the only way my wife can get me in bed is when she brings a girl home from her out having drinks

[twoblues]

i had a testicle injury and ever since then, the only way my wife can get me in bed is when she brings a girl home from her out having drinks

On the one hand....owwww. On the other hand, with the 2 girl thing, I refuse to continue to help on the grounds of jealousy on my behalf :p

[kjguy43]

I'll let you know when I get older. Hehehehe!

[BuckiDave]

Thank God my girls have never seen anything either!!

Can't say I have been that lucky I had worse daughter told her grandma that she caught momy and dady wrestling naked that was tough to explain. Well the explanation was simple having to do it was not.

[WandaRing]

At what age do you call midlife? I know at 40 I had an "awaking" of sorts.

[mrdiscreet]

At 45, I do have some feelings that I better get it while I still can ...

[sawflyman]

my sex drive is still in overdrive. my wife is slowing down so I am becoming alittle depressed.

[Sneaky]

About age 34 I noticed a rather measurable increase in my appitite.....


Not sure if it is biological, or maturing and developing confidence, or a combination, but it was sizable. That's for sure. :sc

[One Song Hero]

That's funny, Sneaky, since I've been around you I've notice a measurable increase in something, too... ;)

[Sneaky]

That's funny, Sneaky, since I've been around you I've notice a measurable increase in something, too... ;)

Really? Well, it might just be a coincidence? :gs

[One Song Hero]

Really? Well, it might just be a coincidence? :gs
Yes, it might; maybe we should compare our findings, lay it all on the table and see how everything fits, yes? ;) :D

[duanehofner]

I didn't bend as well in mid-life and less now.

[Sneaky]

Yes, it might; maybe we should compare our findings, lay it all on the table and see how everything fits, yes? ;) :D

Yes, we should compare all available date to quantify an accuarate proof. :sc

[One Song Hero]

Yes, we should compare all available date to quantify an accuarate proof. :sc
excellent... we will start with your % increase... is this a measurement of intensity, duration, or frequency, my dear?

[Sneaky]

excellent... we will start with your % increase... is this a measurement of intensity, duration, or frequency, my dear?

I would have to say at lease a 40% increase in all three of the mentioned categories. I am marking it on our graph. Now as for yourself?

[One Song Hero]

Hmmm... at least 40%, that's good, that's good...

oh, here, I think I'm talking about 500% or more, easily...
although I would definitely say your numbers are much more impressive!

[Sneaky]

Hmmm... at least 40%, that's good, that's good...

oh, here, I think I'm talking about 500% or more, easily...
although I would definitely say your numbers are much more impressive!

500%?? Is that possible?

[One Song Hero]

500%?? Is that possible?
umm... I think my ruler is accurate, shall I call the Bureau of Standards?

[Sneaky]

umm... I think my ruler is accurate, shall I call the Bureau of Standards?

Yes. In the interest of our findings we need to ensure that we collect the most accurate data.

[One Song Hero]

Yes. In the interest of our findings we need to ensure that we collect the most accurate data.
You are a consumate scientist, Ms. Sneaky. I will consult with the proper authorities and get back to you promptly. In the mean time, you are welcome to continue to work on your numbers, we can always re-sample your data later.
:D

[simplygrace]

yes women sometimes reach sexual peak later on or loose it.

[ksue7274]

I'll let you know when I get there.

[cherokeered]

Not sure it's a gender thing...everyone ages differently and everyone ages sexually differently


Some people get hornier and more experimental.....some just lose their interest in sex or their drives

I guess it depends on the individual

[Sparklineyez]

I'm not sure if I am quite mid life yet, but I am definately more interested in sex these days.

[yaser]

I'm not sure if I am quite mid life yet, but I am definately more interested in sex these days.
Sparklin,your sex age is young and use it ...You may not want when you come to my age..

[rizz]

I do what I can. Just a small woman with a big imagination. Thanks for the kind words.:D
big imagination is such an understatement-lol

[Atrebla Rose]

Mid life opened my bud, I am a total new flower,,,,and loving it,,,,never what to go back

[Rays]

Mid life opened my bud, I am a total new flower,,,,and loving it,,,,never what to go back

and what a beautiful flower you are!

[Atrebla Rose]

and what a beautiful flower you are!

:kk thank you :kk

[fourisit]

Since I turned 30 it seems that someone turned my on button to overdrive and it got stuck there. Hubby cant keep up with me. I have become more open and honest about sex and my desires. Thankfully people cant read my mind or they would be very shocked by my thoughts. I was always the good girl. I had never been with anyone else before i was married and only recently been with one other ( with husbands approval) so if you say it gets better in your 40s well I cant wait.

[AL(m)]

dont think it has alot to do with mid life.. think we all change at differnet rates.. and different things catch our interest.......As for Sex cant remeber not feeling horny... most of my life.....of course it does get worst the longer you go without.....lol but then we all have different sex drives too....... oh well.....life goes on....and on....lol :whee:

[dcowboy09]

Since I turned 30 it seems that someone turned my on button to overdrive and it got stuck there. Hubby cant keep up with me. I have become more open and honest about sex and my desires. Thankfully people cant read my mind or they would be very shocked by my thoughts. I was always the good girl. I had never been with anyone else before i was married and only recently been with one other ( with husbands approval) so if you say it gets better in your 40s well I cant wait.


only if your with the right person

[noodlegurl]

Is there a right guy? Hmmmm



only if your with the right person

[pointofnoreturn]

Yeah I am pretty sure I am mid-life ing it now. Need sex want sex must have sex.....and chocolate. Oh that was there before sorry...