Does it matter what a "chatter" looks like?

[SpokaneGuy]

Does it really matter, if after a few months or weeks of chatting with someone on the net, what they really look like? I mean if you realkly have hit it off and maybe have started having feelings for the person. Just thought it was a good question.



:spbx:

[Willy S]

No

[SpokaneGuy]

Unless its a guy and its supposed to be a girl.....if I really get along with her...it doesnt matter to me

[twoblues]

For me, it depends. It can sometimes be hard to relate the image that may be in your head (fantasy) versus what the person looks like (reality). This would mainly be an issue if the person misrepresented themselves and there is a drastic difference in their appearance.

Though, I am not all that shallow. It is not just the appearance of the person that attracts me (though there has to be something there), but also the way that a girl thinks/talks.

[SpokaneGuy]

Ive been mislead alot....but when it comes down to it..if they mislead..then they wouldnt make a good friend or partner

[nuke69]

it's fantasy- no
it's for friendship- no
if i plan on hooking up- call me shallow,...... oh wait, I AM shallow;)

[SpokaneGuy]

Ehhh.....a hook-up.....hmmm....sex is mental; as well as physical.....

[Penny]

I think your better off not knowing.

[SpokaneGuy]

I think your better off not knowing.



For the most part....I agree....unless you really do plan to meet that person.

[MIGHTY]

It's really about the fantasy here. If someone found out what I look like, it may add to the fantasy but it would be a fantasy all the same. For me, it's all in my head...the words, the visions, the conversation. In the end, I think it all depends on the seeker....

[flamengo130]

Agree with Mighty. Sometimes it's just the caring words and warmth that matter.

[Annie]

I think your better off not knowing.
Yes! I completely agree! In most cases you are better off not not knowing. If you go into it with no intention of ever meeting and all you are ever going to be doing is chatting, why would need to know? No matter what they may look like, the vision in your head will always be better...(let's be realistic ... you damn well know you are not chatting with George Clooney or John Travolta!!) ... why wreck it?

[Jy]

Looks have never been a priority to me, so no, it doesn't make any difference what a person looks like. Yes, oftentimes you get a mental image from their style of writing, but for me, that image has rarely matched the person's real looks.
That's what I like about a site like this - it's a level playing field for everyone unless one posts a picture in the gallery. We get to know the real person, rather than judging them by their looks, and that's what really matters. Appearances can be so deceiving.


...of course, a pair of sexy blue eyes doesn't hurt one bit...

[cherokeered]

Personally no...I would prefer not to know until I get to know the person...for me, you could be the most handsome or beautiful man or woman in the world...and still be a jackass....


Cherokee....beauty is as beauty does....think about it....;)

[SaltyLime]

No, it's just a chat.

[pbj0065]

Nope - it's just chatting.

If they send you a pic - you're really never sure whether it's really of them anyway. Sometimes it's really best just to imagine them as you would like. - a lot of time descriptions go alot further for that than actual pics.

[longnhard32]

looks are not big deal. as what is most is the person :55

[MCat]

Yes! I completely agree! In most cases you are better off not not knowing. If you go into it with no intention of ever meeting and all you are ever going to be doing is chatting, why would need to know? No matter what they may look like, the vision in your head will always be better...(let's be realistic ... you damn well know you are not chatting with George Clooney or John Travolta!!) ... why wreck it?

I pretend all the men here are Liam Neeson wearing a kilt and I am Jessica Lang being thrown on her back for quickie.:dd

[cherokeered]

Well...webcams put a different spin on "is that really them"...and really, what does it matter....if I like someone, I could care less what they look like....that is for both men and women....I have never chosen a friend or dropped a friend on their looks...



Cherokee....the shallow end of the pool is for the kids......

[RedVixen]

Like what most of the others have posted - I don't think it matters what the 'chatter' looks like - it's the connection you have on the board that counts more. JMO.

[Rmb]

To me it is the person...the way they act, the way they think, the way they empathise.
To me looks just fill in the blanks. I like to see the person I chat with... that way i get the total picture, as far as it is possible online.
Having said that tho, I notice most of the avatars used here are of male models or sexy women.

[Jy]

Holy jumpin'! Wasn't that just the absolute best sex scene in a movie ever?! Nice visual, MC!




...hmm...I wonder how cowboys feel about kilts...
I pretend all the men here are Liam Neeson wearing a kilt and I am Jessica Lang being thrown on her back for quickie.:dd

[Rmb]

Holy jumpin'! Wasn't that just the absolute best sex scene in a movie ever?! Nice visual, MC!




...hmm...I wonder how cowboys feel about kilts...

Not into kilts myself :) :)
But then I am no cowboy either :) :)

[Jy]

I think people choose their avatars to entice others, or reflect their mood.

I chose mine because of a personal request, and because this is my favourite bra.;)

To me it is the person...the way they act, the way they think, the way they empathise.
To me looks just fill in the blanks. I like to see the person I chat with... that way i get the total picture, as far as it is possible online.
Having said that tho, I notice most of the avatars used here are of male models or sexy women.

[Cotties]

Does it matter...a little bit

Honest thoughts...People who are reluctant to post a picture I usually put in the butt ugly pile. Now thats not a bad place to be. The thing is I'm not that judgemental but people who are reluctant to share how they look feel like I may be. Thats their choice of how I will judge them. Not mine.

[Jy]

Maybe so, Cotties, but sometimes it's just a matter of their personal situation. Like me, some of their spouses don't know about this site, and they're trying to maintain a certain degree of anonymity. Or they may fear being recognized. Does it matter...a little bit

Honest thoughts...People who are reluctant to post a picture I usually put in the butt ugly pile. Now thats not a bad place to be. The thing is I'm not that judgemental but people who are reluctant to share how they look feel like I may be. Thats their choice of how I will judge them. Not mine.

[Rmb]

I think people choose their avatars to entice others, or reflect their mood.

I chose mine because of a personal request, and because this is my favourite bra.;)

Yes I knew it was you Jazzy :) :)
Lovely pic too :) :)

[Rmb]

Does it matter...a little bit

Honest thoughts...People who are reluctant to post a picture I usually put in the butt ugly pile. Now thats not a bad place to be. The thing is I'm not that judgemental but people who are reluctant to share how they look feel like I may be. Thats their choice of how I will judge them. Not mine.

Awww mate that pic I saw of you recently was not that butt ugly!!! :) :)
And your lady took my attention from it :) :)

[RedVixen]

I pretend all the men here are Liam Neeson wearing a kilt and I am Jessica Lang being thrown on her back for quickie.:dd

For me: I like to pretend that all the men are Keanu Reeves...now that is one man I'd love to f**K over and over and over *needs a cold shower now*

[Rmb]

For me: I like to pretend that all the men are Keanu Reeves...now that is one man I'd love to f**K over and over and over *needs a cold shower now*

He is Canadian too :) ;)

[Jy]

Thanks Rhumba. I grew them myself.



Yes I knew it was you Jazzy :) :)
Lovely pic too :) :)

[Rmb]

Thanks Rhumba. I grew them myself.

Never doubted it for a moment :) :)

[RedVixen]

He is Canadian too :) ;)

I know...he gets me EVERYTIME...if only the hubby looked like him - secret fantasy of mine :)

[Rmb]

I know...he gets me EVERYTIME...if only the hubby looked like him - secret fantasy of mine :)

Oh you naughty girl :) :)

[RedVixen]

Oh you naughty girl :) :)

u don't know the half of it LOL

[RedVixen]

P.S. Rhumba

naughty is my middle name :D

[Rmb]

P.S. Rhumba

naughty is my middle name :D

You have lots of company here then :) :)

[RedVixen]

You have lots of company here then :) :)

Oh that's for sure :)

[OICurready4me]

I think people choose their avatars to entice others, or reflect their mood.

I chose mine because of a personal request, and because this is my favourite bra.;)



I think that I speak for all of the men here when I say that it is one of our favorite bra's also. Although it would look alot better hanging on my bedpost.

[MCat]

Holy jumpin'! Wasn't that just the absolute best sex scene in a movie ever?! Nice visual, MC!




...hmm...I wonder how cowboys feel about kilts...

Think I'll go to Salvation Army tomorrow and buy ole Hank a plaid skirt ....
I really need to re-enact that scene...

[MCat]

To me it is the person...the way they act, the way they think, the way they empathise.
To me looks just fill in the blanks. I like to see the person I chat with... that way i get the total picture, as far as it is possible online.
Having said that tho, I notice most of the avatars used here are of male models or sexy women.

My avatars reflect what I wish I looked like.....I don't think I'm bad looking, the body has a little to be desired but what the hell....I am after all approaching 50, and I'm not a size 3 or 17 years old anymore. :sg

[hoss]

why should it matter what someone looks like ?...why do we put so much of what a person is by the way they look ?...i chat to a handfull of people...there looks have never had anything to do with it..but when i have seen them,they have all have been beautiful...I'll take honesty and intergrity,passion and fun,love and kindness over looks anyday....I have made friends on here and what they look like would never change how i feel about them....

u know ...this really pisses me off....the movie" Shallow Hal "is a prime example of todays society...if your not the aneroxic model then your not pretty....if your a tad heavy ,your fat...what a joke...

i would rather be with a overweight woman who is witty and funny and has a great sense of humor than a model with the brains of a peanut ,and the personality of a cat....NO THANKS ....

[Cotties]

I would have guessed sexy:sc P.S. Rhumba

naughty is my middle name :D

[Cotties]

I wonder how you would look in a school uniform...with no underwear on.....staring at the teacher...licking your lips......opening your legs...I'm sorry what are we talking about:dd My avatars reflect what I wish I looked like.....I don't think I'm bad looking, the body has a little to be desired but what the hell....I am after all approaching 50, and I'm not a size 3 or 17 years old anymore. :sg

[Cotties]

are you menstruating today......its funny how sexy women are when they get like that...Hoss...your bum doesn't look fatwhy should it matter what someone looks like ?...why do we put so much of what a person is by the way they look ?...i chat to a handfull of people...there looks have never had anything to do with it..but when i have seen them,they have all have been beautiful...I'll take honesty and intergrity,passion and fun,love and kindness over looks anyday....I have made friends on here and what they look like would never change how i feel about them....

u know ...this really pisses me off....the movie" Shallow Hal "is a prime example of todays society...if your not the aneroxic model then your not pretty....if your a tad heavy ,your fat...what a joke...

i would rather be with a overweight woman who is witty and funny and has a great sense of humor than a model with the brains of a peanut ,and the personality of a cat....NO THANKS ....

[hoss]

are you menstruating today......its funny how sexy women are when they get like that...Hoss...your bum doesn't look fat

nah ...its not my time yet...i'm just moody....havent seen a certain bug for a while ..think i'm having withdrawals......

what worrys me though....u seem to always be checking my ass out ...

[MIGHTY]

Does it matter...a little bit

Honest thoughts...People who are reluctant to post a picture I usually put in the butt ugly pile. Now thats not a bad place to be. The thing is I'm not that judgemental but people who are reluctant to share how they look feel like I may be. Thats their choice of how I will judge them. Not mine.

I would actually like to post a picture..sometimes it's nice to finally put a face to the name you see often. I feel I am attractive and get compliments a lot...not that I agree with all of them or the motives behind them. Now.....if I could only get this f lucking digital camera to work!!!:nu :D

[Zifnab]

nah ...its not my time yet...i'm just moody....havent seen a certain bug for a while ..think i'm having withdrawals......

what worrys me though....u seem to always be checking my ass out ...feel safe then! if he is checking it out that means he is still far enough away that he isn't trying to hump it...yet!

[Zifnab]

I would actually like to post a picture..sometimes it's nice to finally put a face to the name you see often. I feel I am attractive and get compliments a lot...not that I agree with all of them or the motives behind them. Now.....if I could only get this f lucking digital camera to work!!!:nu :Dhmmm did I hear a call for technical assistance????:55

[MCat]

I wonder how you would look in a school uniform...with no underwear on.....staring at the teacher...licking your lips......opening your legs...I'm sorry what are we talking about:dd

If I dressed like a school girl with no panties, stared at the teacher, and opened my legs.....you'd be the one licking my lips, not me ;)

[Cotties]

I love puting a face to a picture...any women that has ever posted a pic that I have made a comment on has always recieved a 10 from me. regardless. The reason. They have trusted me to see who they are. Thats damn sexy. I once posted a picture of my wife and someone made a call of 6 out of ten ..I was annoyed at that person because I thought who are they to judge....


It took courage for me to post that picture....anyone that says she isn't perfect didn't marry her like I did...screw em in other words
I would actually like to post a picture..sometimes it's nice to finally put a face to the name you see often. I feel I am attractive and get compliments a lot...not that I agree with all of them or the motives behind them. Now.....if I could only get this f lucking digital camera to work!!!:nu :D

[Barkiss]

I love puting a face to a picture...any women that has ever posted a pic that I have made a comment on has always recieved a 10 from me. regardless. The reason. They have trusted me to see who they are. Thats damn sexy. I once posted a picture of my wife and someone made a call of 6 out of ten ..I was annoyed at that person because I thought who are they to judge....


It took courage for me to post that picture....anyone that says she isn't perfect didn't marry her like I did...screw em in other words


I couldn't agree more. The only picture I have ever rated under a 10, was the one of you. ;)

[Zifnab]

It took courage for me to post that picture....anyone that says she isn't perfect didn't marry her like I did...screw em in other wordsfrom where I sit the fact that she married you is the only flaw I see..... and thatsw a BIG one!:lmao

[Jy]

I rate every picture a 10 as well. It does take courage to show your face on here. You leave yourself open to criticism. It's a risk in many ways, and for someone to have the audacity to rate any other person a 6 is just plain rude. Especially your wife! She's gorgeous!!I love puting a face to a picture...any women that has ever posted a pic that I have made a comment on has always recieved a 10 from me. regardless. The reason. They have trusted me to see who they are. Thats damn sexy. I once posted a picture of my wife and someone made a call of 6 out of ten ..I was annoyed at that person because I thought who are they to judge....


It took courage for me to post that picture....anyone that says she isn't perfect didn't marry her like I did...screw em in other words

[rainbowhigh]

In my opinion, there is something in just about everyone that is worthy of a 10. I don't comment on pictures unless I have talked the person first, normally, so when I rate a picture, I am rating more than just the picture. I'm keeping in mind the things I've learned about them and remembering conversations. Some may not agree with that, but oh well. They'll get over it.

I know when I first posted my pic, one of the first ratings was a 5. Let me tell ya - for a woman who was having self esteem issues already - that didn't help much. But then, when I read the comments from everyone else, along with their ratings - I just figured someone was having a bad day....

But yeah - when i rate a pic, it's always a 10...:)

[Frenchie]

I dont think it matters, if anything it breaks that superficial barrier that would of been put up by are wonderful society taboo's.

[Rmb]

In my opinion, there is something in just about everyone that is worthy of a 10. I don't comment on pictures unless I have talked the person first, normally, so when I rate a picture, I am rating more than just the picture. I'm keeping in mind the things I've learned about them and remembering conversations. Some may not agree with that, but oh well. They'll get over it.

I know when I first posted my pic, one of the first ratings was a 5. Let me tell ya - for a woman who was having self esteem issues already - that didn't help much. But then, when I read the comments from everyone else, along with their ratings - I just figured someone was having a bad day....

But yeah - when i rate a pic, it's always a 10...:)

The rating of a 5 relates to your critic..:) :)

[OICurready4me]

In my opinion, there is something in just about everyone that is worthy of a 10. I don't comment on pictures unless I have talked the person first, normally, so when I rate a picture, I am rating more than just the picture. I'm keeping in mind the things I've learned about them and remembering conversations. Some may not agree with that, but oh well. They'll get over it.

I know when I first posted my pic, one of the first ratings was a 5. Let me tell ya - for a woman who was having self esteem issues already - that didn't help much. But then, when I read the comments from everyone else, along with their ratings - I just figured someone was having a bad day....

But yeah - when i rate a pic, it's always a 10...:)


Your a 10 in my book anyday, rain!!:wa:

[Rmb]

I think not seeing a pic of a good friend or lover is like sitting in a room full of happy people.... with someone there looking on with a bag over their head.

[Frenchie]

I dont mind it, I dont think looks matter, I'm a feeling type of person, like mentioned here before, you put yourself out there posting it on here as it is and that's pretty gutsy, that's good enought for me.

You can look as good as you want if your an a$$ it wont matter anyway will it.

[rainbowhigh]

You can look as good as you want if your an a$$ it wont matter anyway will it.

Very nice quote, FrenchGuy! I wish more people realized that...

[rainbowhigh]

The rating of a 5 relates to your critic..:) :)

Thank you, Rhumba and OIC... y'all are sweethearts! A kiss for each of you...:kk :kk

[Frenchie]

lol it's true you know? So many people want to look better, why?

Look at celeb's, hell they have all the money in the world and all the luxury's to go with it, you figure they would be happy and not care right? Just goes to show that in the end everybody's human and have feelings and is worried about what people think. Confidence shouldnt be attributed to the way you look, it should be for what you are as a person and what you stand for. Too bad that got lost in todays world.

I'm generalizing but you get the point.

I also know allot of goergous women who think they are ugly... go figure...

[OICurready4me]

Thank you, Rhumba and OIC... y'all are sweethearts! A kiss for each of you...:kk :kk


Your causing me to blush:o

[Annie]

In my opinion, there is something in just about everyone that is worthy of a 10. I don't comment on pictures unless I have talked the person first, normally, so when I rate a picture, I am rating more than just the picture. I'm keeping in mind the things I've learned about them and remembering conversations. Some may not agree with that, but oh well. They'll get over it.

I know when I first posted my pic, one of the first ratings was a 5. Let me tell ya - for a woman who was having self esteem issues already - that didn't help much. But then, when I read the comments from everyone else, along with their ratings - I just figured someone was having a bad day....

But yeah - when i rate a pic, it's always a 10...:)
What an idiot! I think it's sad that some people can be that mean spirited! That really makes the rest of us want to post a pic!

I admire your courage, you deserve at leat an 9 for that alone! But the fact that you're such a kind, loving and fun person to be around will get you a 10 every time!

[Annie]

I love puting a face to a picture...any women that has ever posted a pic that I have made a comment on has always recieved a 10 from me. regardless. The reason. They have trusted me to see who they are. Thats damn sexy. I once posted a picture of my wife and someone made a call of 6 out of ten ..I was annoyed at that person because I thought who are they to judge....


It took courage for me to post that picture....anyone that says she isn't perfect didn't marry her like I did...screw em in other words
Cotties, whoever it was that would call that beautiful woman a 6 needs one of two things... new eye glasses... or... his/her head examined! How she ended up with you, I do not know!

[Frenchie]

I think your all beautifull!

Now all of you round up here and let's sing coombaya!

O.K. it was a sad attemp to get close to annie but I'll use anything right now! lol

[MIGHTY]

I'm going to go with that courage thing too. It's hard to show your face...that's an intimate communication to me. Someone can look at boobs and ass all day long and they will still be just that. My face, however is personal to me, unique to me....

[Annie]

I think your all beautifull!

Now all of you round up here and let's sing coombaya!

O.K. it was a sad attemp to get close to annie but I'll use anything right now! lol

Kumbaya, my Lord, Kumbaya,
Kumbaya, my Lord, Kumbaya,
Kumbaya, my Lord, Kumbaya, oh, Lord, Kumbaya.

Someone`s singing, Lord, Kumbaya,
someone`s singing, Lord, Kumbaja.
Someone`s singing, Lord, Kumbaya, oh Lord, Kumbaya.

Someone`s praying, Lord, Kumbaya,
Someone`s praying, Lord, Kumbaya.
Someone`s praying, Lord, Kumbaya, oh Lord, Kumbaya.

Someone`s crying, Lord, Kumbaya,
someone`s crying, Lord, Kumbaya.
Someone`s crying, Lord, Kumbaya, oh, Lord, Kumbaya.

Someone`s sleeping Lord, Kumbaya,
someone`s sleeping, Lord, Kumbaya.
Someone`s sleeping, Lord, Kumbaya, oh, Lord, Kumbaya.

[Shiane]

I met this guy online a few years ago, we chatted for almost a year. He was moving to Las Vegas and we made arrangements to meet for lunch on his way through. This guy was just the sweetest thing, a truly wonderful man. I had no idea what he looked like and it didn't matter, because we were friends.

He had some car trouble about 75 miles out of town. He called me and I met this complete stranger on the side of the interstate lol. This guy was 6'4" huge big burly guy, someone you would not want to meet in a dark alley. He could have been a serial killer for all I knew, but in fact he was the big teddy bear I had grown to love. We had the best time laughing while sitting on the side of the road waiting for a tow truck. We had lunch at a little hole in the wall diner. We found him a hotel for the night. We spent the whole afternoon and evening playing darts, singing and laughing in this very rough biker bar. Not a single person messed with us that night lol. He is someone I will never forget. I often wonder how many people missed out on the priviledge of knowing this wonderful person because of his appearance. Gosh I miss him.

[Frenchie]

Yep Shiane! I'm whit you on that tought.

And Annie! I love the song! wait I'm getting my guitar!

[rainbowhigh]

What an idiot! I think it's sad that some people can be that mean spirited! That really makes the rest of us want to post a pic!

I admire your courage, you deserve at leat an 9 for that alone! But the fact that you're such a kind, loving and fun person to be around will get you a 10 every time!

Thank you, Annie! You're such a sweetheart...:wa:

[massage mike]

the mystery is always good enough for me

[Annie]

Thank you, Annie! You're such a sweetheart...:wa: Hey, I just call it as I see it. Have you ever seen the movie "Shallow Hal"? Looks like he signed on under an assumed name.... I think we need a Tony Robbins intervention here!!!!

[Zifnab]

I always rate myself as a 2....others I don't bother rating as it is not worth the trouble of explaining the value system I use to rate.....

but most everyone would be higher than a 2..... except Tiger and Dave..... well maybe cotties.....:D

[Annie]

I always rate myself as a 2....others I don't bother rating as it is not worth the trouble of explaining the value system I use to rate.....

but most everyone would be higher than a 2..... except Tiger and Dave..... well maybe cotties.....:D
I don't care about your stupid rating system! I will always give you a 9... well except when you wear that black hat... then you might get a 10.5!

[GeekMaster]

Hoss, you are right on the mark!!! I don't post a picture for confidendiality. It would not be a good thing if certain people were to know that I was here, and who I am.


Some of the most shallow, self-centered people I have ever met, were what would be described as a "10" because of their body and shape. Our society is so very "looks" oriented, it is tough for those of us who are not "perfect" to be accepted sometimes.

Anyone who shares their pic is a 10 in my book. Looks are all external, and can change with age, and many other factors. The person on the inside will stay the same. :spbx:

why should it matter what someone looks like ?...why do we put so much of what a person is by the way they look ?...i chat to a handfull of people...there looks have never had anything to do with it..but when i have seen them,they have all have been beautiful...I'll take honesty and intergrity,passion and fun,love and kindness over looks anyday....I have made friends on here and what they look like would never change how i feel about them....

u know ...this really pisses me off....the movie" Shallow Hal "is a prime example of todays society...if your not the aneroxic model then your not pretty....if your a tad heavy ,your fat...what a joke...

i would rather be with a overweight woman who is witty and funny and has a great sense of humor than a model with the brains of a peanut ,and the personality of a cat....NO THANKS ....

[Zifnab]

my rating system is personality based....

[Annie]

my rating system is personality based....
So is mine. Some people have the attitude and personality to pull off wearing a Stetson... some don't.


... of course the shit eatin grin don't hurt ya much either.

[twoblues]

u know ...this really pisses me off....the movie" Shallow Hal "is a prime example of todays society...if your not the aneroxic model then your not pretty....if your a tad heavy ,your fat...what a joke...

i would rather be with a overweight woman who is witty and funny and has a great sense of humor than a model with the brains of a peanut ,and the personality of a cat....NO THANKS ....

Of course, there are skinny people whom I have no attraction to and larger women who turn my crank just the right way. On the other hand, there are also skinny women that turn my crank and larger women who don't. It does really depend on the woman, not the weight.

The beauty of the online world is that you are forced into knowing the insides(brains) of the woman before you see her looks where as in the streets you usually see the outside first and sometimes make a bad judgement based on looks alone.

[Zifnab]

So is mine. Some people have the attitude and personality to pull off wearing a Stetson... some don't.


... of course the shit eatin grin don't hurt ya much either.well, was not aware that was the grin! I thought it was the I don't give a crap smirk.....

[Annie]

well, was not aware that was the grin! I thought it was the I don't give a crap smirk.....
well there ya go... because as much as you say that "I don't give a crap" crap... I'm still not convinced.... so I have to read it as "shit eatin".

[Zifnab]

yeah I give a crap...I try to at least once a day....or I gain a LOT of weight!

[bbop]

Folks, I ain't the most handsome guy in the world and I reckon I ain't the ugliest either. I guess I'm just average, like most everyone else on this site. But when it comes to things coming from the heart, things that you people here say to each other everyday, things that are said that make us all feel better when we're down, well, I rate everyone of you a 10. I couldn't care less what any of you look like on the outside. You're all beautiful on the inside to me. Straight from my heart, yall.

[Penny]

I have some pretty sad ratings on pics myself, They are just idiots

[Jy]

You hit the nail on the head there, Rhumba! Anyone who thinks they have the right to judge another person's looks deserves less than a 1. It's just mean-spirited as far as I'm concerned.
The rating of a 5 relates to your critic..:) :)

[Jy]

Very well said, Geek. As I mentioned before, some people can't risk posting their picture on the net, and I respect that.

Yes, some people's appearances are a definite 10, but it has nothing to do with what's inside.

Hoss, you are right on the mark!!! I don't post a picture for confidendiality. It would not be a good thing if certain people were to know that I was here, and who I am.


Some of the most shallow, self-centered people I have ever met, were what would be described as a "10" because of their body and shape. Our society is so very "looks" oriented, it is tough for those of us who are not "perfect" to be accepted sometimes.

Anyone who shares their pic is a 10 in my book. Looks are all external, and can change with age, and many other factors. The person on the inside will stay the same. :spbx:

[Jy]

Thanks Beebop!:kk You're pretty darn awesome yourself! You're definitely a 10 in my books!Folks, I ain't the most handsome guy in the world and I reckon I ain't the ugliest either. I guess I'm just average, like most everyone else on this site. But when it comes to things coming from the heart, things that you people here say to each other everyday, things that are said that make us all feel better when we're down, well, I rate everyone of you a 10. I couldn't care less what any of you look like on the outside. You're all beautiful on the inside to me. Straight from my heart, yall.

[Jy]

Anyone who gives you less than a 15 really is an idiot! I admire you for posting such erotic pictures. Clearly you are a sensuous, attractive woman with a healthy body image. That is something to be celebrated, not rated!I have some pretty sad ratings on pics myself, They are just idiots

[Rmb]

To me, looks just give you an added dimension of a person's uniqueness...wonderful to fix in your mind, along with all your other memories of your personal relationship with that person. :)

[hoss]

I have some pretty sad ratings on pics myself, They are just idiots

why then do we have a rating system....lets just trash it.,....seems like most people dont like it....

[hoss]

Hoss, you are right on the mark!!! I don't post a picture for confidendiality. It would not be a good thing if certain people were to know that I was here, and who I am.


Some of the most shallow, self-centered people I have ever met, were what would be described as a "10" because of their body and shape. Our society is so very "looks" oriented, it is tough for those of us who are not "perfect" to be accepted sometimes.

Anyone who shares their pic is a 10 in my book. Looks are all external, and can change with age, and many other factors. The person on the inside will stay the same. :spbx:


thank u my friend....its really sad how some judge a person by their apperance...most of it is driven by the entertainment industry....and its mostly young girls who pay the price...

[Zpanther]

I rate every picture a 10 as well. It does take courage to show your face on here. You leave yourself open to criticism. It's a risk in many ways, and for someone to have the audacity to rate any other person a 6 is just plain rude. Especially your wife! She's gorgeous!!

Yeah, I agree with the earlier comment. Why have a rating system? I am also impressed by the courage of those who can and do post pics..... but I think some are just hoping to to be reassured that they are desireable.... and if that's what they need..... that's okay too.

[Jy]

That's also a good point, ZP. Some people just want a little attention, and there's nothing wrong with that.

...but I know a hottie like you doesn't need any reassurance...

Yeah, I agree with the earlier comment. Why have a rating system? I am also impressed by the courage of those who can and do post pics..... but I think some are just hoping to to be reassured that they are desireable.... and if that's what they need..... that's okay too.

[Suz]

Anyone who gives you less than a 15 really is an idiot! I admire you for posting such erotic pictures. Clearly you are a sensuous, attractive woman with a healthy body image. That is something to be celebrated, not rated!

I totally agree

[UltimateNaneki]

Looks to me make no difference, I look for the inner person and not the outer one.

[Rmb]

Looks to me make no difference, I look for the inner person and not the outer one.

Yeah that's how you said you got your husband :)
To me though I must agree...although looks play a part...beauty comes from within. Ultimately I would rather love a person with inner beauty than one who looks good and has a bad attitude.
Fortunate is the person who finds someone they totally love and who loves them the same way. :)

[UltimateNaneki]

I did find that someone special once: good looks, great heart, tall, caring and loved me the same. It was the best 5 months of my existance. Then he died of cancer and part me went too!

[Rmb]

I did find that someone special once: good looks, great heart, tall, caring and loved me the same. It was the best 5 months of my existance. Then he died of cancer and part me went too!
That is so sad .

[spare_change]

Hoss, you are right on the mark!!! I don't post a picture for confidendiality. It would not be a good thing if certain people were to know that I was here, and who I am.


Some of the most shallow, self-centered people I have ever met, were what would be described as a "10" because of their body and shape. Our society is so very "looks" oriented, it is tough for those of us who are not "perfect" to be accepted sometimes.

Anyone who shares their pic is a 10 in my book. Looks are all external, and can change with age, and many other factors. The person on the inside will stay the same. :spbx:

Geek ---

Just wanted to clarify. This site has the capability for you to put your pictures into a password-protected album. Then, only you control who sees your pictures. These private albums are easy to use, and are a good place to put more risque photos that you want to share with the special someone(s) in your life.

[Jy]

I'm so sorry to hear that, Naneki. My heart goes out to you.I did find that someone special once: good looks, great heart, tall, caring and loved me the same. It was the best 5 months of my existance. Then he died of cancer and part me went too!

[hoss]

I did find that someone special once: good looks, great heart, tall, caring and loved me the same. It was the best 5 months of my existance. Then he died of cancer and part me went too!

i know exactly how u feel ...believe me i do....i also lost a special someone ,she had just sold her house and was all ready to move to canada,she died from complcations in a car accident...the worst part was never getting to hold her ,touch her ,smell her ......

im sorry for your loss

[Cotties]

I first put up a picture to show I wasn't as half as strange as I thought you all thought I was.....it backfired

[Cotties]

well I was good in bed years ago when I first met her and had credit cards...........now she has the credits cards and owns a vibrator.....I think she keeps me as a pet of some kind:sc Cotties, whoever it was that would call that beautiful woman a 6 needs one of two things... new eye glasses... or... his/her head examined! How she ended up with you, I do not know!

[PlayfulMale69]

I did find that someone special once: good looks, great heart, tall, caring and loved me the same. It was the best 5 months of my existance. Then he died of cancer and part me went too!

Wow, I can't imagine what that would be to go through. I have a good online friend who lost her fiance and she has been severely crushed by this.

[UltimateNaneki]

Thank you all for your kind words, it means a lot. I only wish my family was like all of you. 1 kind word can go so far in the healing proccess. Thanks again!

[Suz]

I did find that someone special once: good looks, great heart, tall, caring and loved me the same. It was the best 5 months of my existance. Then he died of cancer and part me went too!

That is so sad..I can only imagine how much pain that caused..I'm so sorry to hear that...

[Suz]

Folks, I ain't the most handsome guy in the world and I reckon I ain't the ugliest either. I guess I'm just average, like most everyone else on this site. But when it comes to things coming from the heart, things that you people here say to each other everyday, things that are said that make us all feel better when we're down, well, I rate everyone of you a 10. I couldn't care less what any of you look like on the outside. You're all beautiful on the inside to me. Straight from my heart, yall.

That was the sweetest thing Bee...it's so true...I always give a 10 as well..:)

[massage mike]

I know everyone here is beautiful on the inside,I enjoy the mystery of the outside

[Suz]

I know everyone here is beautiful on the inside,I enjoy the mystery of the outside

I totally agree....:)

[pointofnoreturn]

The pictures in my head are just as hot as the talk. Beauty is on the inside I agree. Now does anyone have a problem with my 3 hands?

[steve_edwards]

No, it doesn't matter at all

[lady]

No, it doesn't matter

[Zifnab]

It matters to me!! I don't want to bechatting to "tiffany" if she has a full beard and a bigger johnson then I have!!

[cherokeered]

It matters to me!! I don't want to bechatting to "tiffany" if she has a full beard and a bigger johnson then I have!!


But Tiffany said you sounded so cute....lol


Cherokee...:wa:

[Zifnab]

But Tiffany said you sounded so cute....lol


Cherokee...:wa: how was I supposed to know?? And I thought Tiffany was lezbian too! now I can't be Sonja anymore! really messes up my whole chat experience!:nu

[PlayfulMale69]

how was I supposed to know?? And I thought Tiffany was lezbian too! now I can't be Sonja anymore! really messes up my whole chat experience!:nu

ah yes, the old switcheroo. I wonder how many I have chatted with and was hot for really were not the babes I had pictured. hmmmmm

[Zifnab]

ah yes, the old switcheroo. I wonder how many I have chatted with and was hot for really were not the babes I had pictured. hmmmmmstay away from that tiffany!! but as far as I know Sonja is a safe bet now. I'm not going there again!:lmao

[Cotties]

only if he has a web cam and takes bad pics of himself

[Zifnab]

only if he has a web cam and takes bad pics of himselfyou mean you then?:lmao

[Cotties]

well it was either me, tiger or hoss:sc you mean you then?:lmao

[Zifnab]

well it was either me, tiger or hoss:scwell they are at least putting their best sides forward..... :lmao

[Rmb]

I guess if looks mattered the phone sex companies would go broke.
Here some use webcams ...then looks either are a consideration or not.
I prefer a person with wit , integrity, and rapport.

[Cotties]

said from the man who posts good looking pics of himself:D I guess if looks mattered the phone sex companies would go broke.
Here some use webcams ...then looks either are a consideration or not.
I prefer a person with wit , integrity, and rapport.luv ya Rhumbaaa

[p.J]

If the person was a potential lover, then its the whole picture for Moi! I am turned on by intelligence and humour, however, for me to fuck him I'd have to be physically attracted to him too.

[joshcamp69]

Physically attracted has to be there. However the attraction does not always come from looks as it can come from personality and confidence.

[OICurready4me]

I guess if looks mattered the phone sex companies would go broke.


Isn't that the truth

[steamy]

If the person was a potential lover, then its the whole picture for Moi! I am turned on by intelligence and humour, however, for me to fuck him I'd have to be physically attracted to him too.This is so true. You start out with the verbal banter but when it comes down to the nitty gritty..........pictures are a definite must...........a phone call to hear voice and intonation is a great idea too..................

[p.J]

Physically attracted has to be there. However the attraction does not always come from looks as it can come from personality and confidence.

I agree Josh, but explain why then I am not physically attracted to some men, yet their personality and confidence appeal to me as a friend, not as a potential lover...

[Outta]

jen, please talk to me in the lounge

[joshcamp69]

we have tastes there also. We like a certain height, waist size, etc. Personality is what makes us vere off from our normal physical preferences

[p.J]

jen, please talk to me in the lounge

Lounge? erm ok!

[joshcamp69]

LOL I was trying to get you to go to the chat too. That is funny.

[OICurready4me]

It's always nice to try and imagine what the person looks like on the other end that you are talking to from the words that are written (or said). You get this mental image of them, cute, blonde, short, petite, and then when you see a picture, many times your image is totally the opposite, since I think in most cases, your mental image is based more on what your are fantasizing them to be rather than truly thinking what they really look like, that is why I think some people get disappointed. Because of that, I try not to make that mental image so that when I do see a picture I can be surprised at how beautiful they are without dealing with any preconceived notions. It has worked so far for me and have been able to appreciate so many beautiful woman that I don't even worry about pictures any more. You ladies are all perfect 10's!!!

[OICurready4me]

I think you have generated quite a fan base already, Pragmatic. There must be something special that I have yet to discover, oh lovely one!;)

[altoids69]

If the person was a potential lover, then its the whole picture for Moi! I am turned on by intelligence and humour, however, for me to fuck him I'd have to be physically attracted to him too.

Maybe I'm shallow, but I would have to agree. The physical attraction is key when it comes down to it.

[UltimateNaneki]

It shouldn't matter, and I don't care!

[jandcintexas]

It shouldn't matter, and I don't care!
Good answer ultima:wa:

[gvikfan]

Does it really matter, if after a few months or weeks of chatting with someone on the net, what they really look like? I mean if you realkly have hit it off and maybe have started having feelings for the person. Just thought it was a good question.



:spbx:
no it doesnt matter

[unctarheel_32]

no not really

[Traxster]

Nope!!!!!!!! Its whats inside that matters more to me!!

[UltimateNaneki]

I believe it's what's inside that counts...

[Wil]

go back and read all the posts...i just did...i was interested in how everyone one would reply..I think two in particular were very well said...

...attraction does not always come from looks as it can come from personality and confidence...

...The beauty of the online world is that you are forced into knowing the insides(brains) of the woman before you see her looks where as in the streets you usually see the outside first and sometimes make a bad judgement based on looks alone...

I have talked to business associates for over 20 years and became great freinds with some...some closer friends than others...never to have met them in person...and it dosent matter

use your mind...it's beautiful and ageless

[MCat]

go back and read all the posts...i just did...i was interested in how everyone one would reply..I think two in particular were very well said...

...attraction does not always come from looks as it can come from personality and confidence...

...The beauty of the online world is that you are forced into knowing the insides(brains) of the woman before you see her looks where as in the streets you usually see the outside first and sometimes make a bad judgement based on looks alone...

I have talked to business associates for over 20 years and became great freinds with some...some closer friends than others...never to have met them in person...and it dosent matter

use your mind...it's beautiful and ageless

Yes...these are excellent :55

[majorfun]

Ok I will be Shallow Hal.....Yes it does matter

[BadenLink]

For me looks matter to a certain extent. There are not many people I know who want to intamatly be with a grossly out of shape person. I am not saying the person needs to be perfect--they just need to take some pride in their physical appearance.

Now with that being said the women who are the most memorable to me are the ones who have the striking persona , wit, charm, and confidence in themselves--but still leave thems open for others.

[MCat]

Ok I will be Shallow Hal.....Yes it does matter

Well Hal....I suppose it does matter a bit...say if you and I were to set up a meeting at a motel....I would be much more likely to jump your bones if you looked like Denzel Washington. Now if you resembled Little Richard at all I would run the other way. ;)

[Catfish]

It might matter, but not because the other person is unattractive. More because their "real life" personna can be so different.


This has happened to me. I had a very flirty/hot relationship with a woman online and we decided to talk on the phone. Well, we must have come off totally different, because we ended up laughing and laughing like a couple of old friends. It was a great conversation, but the sexual spark didn't seem to be there in that mode of communication. A real life meeting would often yield the same change in feelings, I would think.

[majorfun]

I am like Forrest Whittaker hot.....





Well Hal....I suppose it does matter a bit...say if you and I were to set up a meeting at a motel....I would be much more likely to jump your bones if you looked like Denzel Washington. Now if you resembled Little Richard at all I would run the other way. ;)

[scoobertina]

It doesn't matter, if you connect at that certain level and decide to meet someone, then there is more to what you see in them than what they look like.

[scoobertina]

I think this says what I was trying to say...



go back and read all the posts...i just did...i was interested in how everyone one would reply..I think two in particular were very well said...

...attraction does not always come from looks as it can come from personality and confidence...

...The beauty of the online world is that you are forced into knowing the insides(brains) of the woman before you see her looks where as in the streets you usually see the outside first and sometimes make a bad judgement based on looks alone...

I have talked to business associates for over 20 years and became great freinds with some...some closer friends than others...never to have met them in person...and it dosent matter

use your mind...it's beautiful and ageless

[majorfun]

Maybe and I have been told this before in my life time, that I am extremely superficial and shallow but physical attraction is the primary key for me in a relationship....My wife, girlfriend/ lover could be the biggest bitch in the whole but if she was easy on the eyes I could remember why I was there.... I think that I am a fairly attractive guy and I go to the gym, I work out....so why shouldn't my mate whether in real life so cyber.....Now I know that this is not the politically correct thing to say but personal appearance has a lot to do with attraction

[scoobertina]

You are only being honest hon, and that is why we like you.. If that works for you great... but I am curious, what happens if the looks start to fade? Do you trade her in on a better looking model?

Maybe and I have been told this before in my life time, that I am extremely superficial and shallow but physical attraction is the primary key for me in a relationship....My wife, girlfriend/ lover could be the biggest bitch in the whole but if she was easy on the eyes I could remember why I was there.... I think that I am a fairly attractive guy and I go to the gym, I work out....so why shouldn't my mate whether in real life so cyber.....Now I know that this is not the politically correct thing to say but personal appearance has a lot to do with attraction

[IMaLady]

For me its a little of both. I wouldnt be attracted to someone if we had nothing in common or nothing to talk about. When picking someone to be with there has to be something you do together that makes you closes enough to want them in bed. Of course looks can be important but I would rather find the whole package then one or the other.

[majorfun]

HELL YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish......




You are only being honest hon, and that is why we like you.. If that works for you great... but I am curious, what happens if the looks start to fade? Do you trade her in on a better looking model?

[Amaretto]

Maybe and I have been told this before in my life time, that I am extremely superficial and shallow but physical attraction is the primary key for me in a relationship....My wife, girlfriend/ lover could be the biggest bitch in the whole but if she was easy on the eyes I could remember why I was there.... I think that I am a fairly attractive guy and I go to the gym, I work out....so why shouldn't my mate whether in real life so cyber.....Now I know that this is not the politically correct thing to say but personal appearance has a lot to do with attraction

I guess that's fine for a fling, based on lust and physical fulfillment. I find that a deep emotional connection is sooooooooooooooo much more important than what a person looks like. (for a long term relationship, that is. The best sex is based on deep emotional connection, in my opinion)

Sure, guys that look like dreamy's avatar, for example, really get me worked up....but anybody that gorgeous likely has some ego issues anyway. And that is a major turn off to me.

Now, if you want to send me some photos of that well-kept body, who would I be to refuse?

[Shiane]

When you chat with someone and get to know them, sometimes you develope an attraction for the other person. But, the question was does it matter what a chatter looks like.

Well I guess that depends on what you want out of the relationship. If you want friendship, then no it does not matter. If you are looking for a bit of online fantasy fun, it really doesn't matter because it's online and nothing more. But, if you are looking to eventually meet this person then it does matter. I'm not being shallow, I'm being honest. There has to be some kind of physicial attraction between two people. Online it can be all hot and perfect but once you meet that person if that physicial spark isn't there neither is the interest.

Physicial attraction is just one of the many parts, and for a relationship to last long term it needs to be there. It doesn't mean you have to be drop dead gorgeous, it just means that the other person needs to find you physically attractive and vice versa.

[majorfun]

Hey and you only known me for a short length of time......


I guess that's fine for a fling, based on lust and physical fulfillment. I find that a deep emotional connection is sooooooooooooooo much more important than what a person looks like. (for a long term relationship, that is. The best sex is based on deep emotional connection, in my opinion)

Sure, guys that look like dreamy's avatar, for example, really get me worked up....but anybody that gorgeous likely has some ego issues anyway. And that is a major turn off to me.

Now, if you want to send me some photos of that well-kept body, who would I be to refuse?

[yaser]

For me its a little of both. I wouldnt be attracted to someone if we had nothing in common or nothing to talk about. When picking someone to be with there has to be something you do together that makes you closes enough to want them in bed. Of course looks can be important but I would rather find the whole package then one or the other.
I liked that idea...I want you as a whole package later I will analyze you..First take off your clothes..Then undies...And start to kiss and rub some parts step by step.. ;)

[yaser]

When you chat with someone and get to know them, sometimes you develope an attraction for the other person. But, the question was does it matter what a chatter looks like.

Well I guess that depends on what you want out of the relationship. If you want friendship, then no it does not matter. If you are looking for a bit of online fantasy fun, it really doesn't matter because it's online and nothing more. But, if you are looking to eventually meet this person then it does matter. I'm not being shallow, I'm being honest. There has to be some kind of physicial attraction between two people. Online it can be all hot and perfect but once you meet that person if that physicial spark isn't there neither is the interest.

Physicial attraction is just one of the many parts, and for a relationship to last long term it needs to be there. It doesn't mean you have to be drop dead gorgeous, it just means that the other person needs to find you physically attractive and vice versa.Shiane we are friends..I don't want anything from you.Please make love with me..That is all..

[sweet]

For the most part, what a person looks like doesn't really matter to me. A terrific personality, good heart, sense of humor, and how comfortable and happy we make each other feel win over in the end.

[Shiane]

Shiane we are friends..I don't want anything from you.Please make love with me..That is all..

LOL Yas! Who could resist your honesty and charm! :knuddel:

[yaser]

LOL Yas! Who could resist your honesty and charm! :knuddel:
I was thinking that I would be rejected...But I have always been attracted by your mind and spirit.

[Shiane]

For the most part, what a person looks like doesn't really matter to me. A terrific personality, good heart, sense of humor, and how comfortable and happy we make each other feel win over in the end.


We've always heard Love is blind. No one except you can determine who or what you are attracted to.

[Shiane]

I was thinking that I would be rejected...But I have always been attracted by your mind and spirit.

Awwwwwww see what I meant about your charm! :kk

[yaser]

Awwwwwww see what I meant about your charm! :kk
Believe it or not you have got something I love..

[nessie]

I think if the basics are true and someone was secretive about something that personally bothered them about them selves its forgivable. but on here the fantasy of the perfect person makes it all the more fun. And if I was going to met someone I would expect a true warning that they may not be what I expect. And I wouldn't change the plans if they were honest.

[Milk]

One of the wonderful things about the internet is that we don't immediately judge people on appearances. You can get to know the person inside and become able to talk and laugh easilly with them, even turn each other on with words. In real life, appearance is a bigger factor for most people. But on the net, i think the "average" looking person has more of a chance. They can be themselves without being terribly self conscious about how they look. Once you see what they truly look like, unless they are terribly ugly, you'll find them attractive because you like them as a person. in real life i will always take the kind but average looking guy over the gorgeous guy who is an arse hole. and people have different ideas about what is attractive, so there are no hard fast rules anyways.

[MCat]

I am like Forrest Whittaker hot.....

He'll do....I like him too.;)

[MCat]

I think you could fall in love with someone without knowing what they look like.

You get to know the person first....you meet....you/they are still that person that they fell in love with.

What about learning to love someone....like the mail order brides in the past. Men married for convenience and necessity....I think alot of them ended up falling in love with each other.

I would have made a great mail order bride...not the best looking but damn I can cook and clean with the best of them and I made great babies. That would make a man love you for sure....

Shit there I go again....getting off the subject....

[BadenLink]

It doesn't matter, if you connect at that certain level and decide to meet someone, then there is more to what you see in them than what they look like.

I agree with you 99.99999999%. At least on this site we are attracted to people based off what they write and how we may talk to someone--nothing is based off looks. With that being said if after we met the person and they turned out to be one hideous looking person I think that could change things somewhat. Now what do define as Hideous--that is up to each person's beliefs. If we are truly connected with that person I think we might be able to know enhough about a person to look past certain appearance issues. I hope that makes sense.

[AffableOne]

by the way......

I am just average looking.......

tall, slender, goatee, glasses......

hopefully, others don't base me solely on my appearance........

[Sunfiresix]

Although I don't chat much(not too good at it) I don't believe it should matter what anyone you chat with looks like--like in real life--you talk to people--does it matter what they look like(not for me anyway)

[cherokeered]

It never matters to me.....I also don't choose my friends in the off-line by their looks, why would I do that here????

[MCat]

by the way......

I am just average looking.......

tall, slender, goatee, glasses......

hopefully, others don't base me solely on my appearance........

The goatee and glasses would do it for me ;)

[AffableOne]

The goatee and glasses would do it for me ;)


mmmmm.............

do you like hazel eyes?


;)

[MCat]

mmmmm.............

do you like hazel eyes?


;)

I just love eyes....no matter the color :55

[hoss]

The goatee and glasses would do it for me ;)

DAMN !!!!..i would pick today to shave and get contact lenses ...

[MCat]

DAMN !!!!..i would pick today to shave and get contact lenses ...

Hey...I like bald and blind too :D

[hoss]

Hey...I like bald and blind too :D

WOAH WOAH WOAH !!!!....NO BODY TOUCHES THE HOSS'S DOO ...I MEAN NOBODY .....WELL ..except Momma when she washes it for me ...

[MCat]

WOAH WOAH WOAH !!!!....NO BODY TOUCHES THE HOSS'S DOO ...I MEAN NOBODY .....WELL ..except Momma when she washes it for me ...

LOL.....don't worry Hossie.....I would never cut your Samson mane :knuddel:

[AffableOne]

I have been told by many I look like the famous Dr. from ER.......

noooooo, not that doctor!!!!

Dr. Green.....(Mark Edwards)

except I have all my hair

and he has all the $$$

[MCat]

I have been told by many I look like the famous Dr. from ER.......

noooooo, not that doctor!!!!

Dr. Green.....(Mark Edwards)

except I have all my hair

and he has all the $$$


Well Dr. Green, I have this itch....:D

[hoss]

Well Dr. Green, I have this itch....:D


well shit !!!!......now i know where i got that from .....

[Gray451]

It really doesn't matter

[hoss]

It really doesn't matter

yes it does !!! ...this itch has been driving me up the wall ..I mean if shes going to go around infecting us all ...THEN LET US KNOW WHERE WE CAN GET THE MEDICINE !!!!!

[AffableOne]

Well Dr. Green, I have this itch....:D

.......pulls he curtain

and slowly begins the exam

[AffableOne]

Does it matter what a chatter looks like?

Not to chat, it doesn't. Not to be friends. It only matters if I were to wanting to be more than friends......there would have to be some attraction.

Fortunately.......she is even MORE beautiful than her scrumtptuous photos led me to believe.........

she is breathtaking.

I fell, before I met her.

Now, I'm just lost in her.

Beautiful soul, beautiful body, beautiful person.

[Zifnab]

It must matter... cuz I aint cute, and I aint chattin... see how this werkz???

[sawflyman]

I have wondered that question myself. sometimes it can be nice to have just the fantasy. But then again I think you can find beauty in everyone you just have to look for it.

[mile high]

The right attitude is the sexiest thing - people who can talk openly about their sex lives are lush. I do like putting faces and bodies to names, but it's irrelevant to the attraction when the turn on is in the words. Anyone with the confidence to post their picture on this site is automatically hot and they should only feel good about themselves. Though, I respect that some have good reasons why they can't. I'm sure my imagination can fill in the blanks.

[w9kw]

ahhh beauty is just skin deep there something bout every one that is good. I know some gals that arent pretty but then they are after you set and visit with them. I myself like personailities rule my judgement as well as beauty on gals

[Amaretto]

It must matter... cuz I aint cute, and I aint chattin... see how this werkz???

Well zif, take off that armor so we gals can decide for ourselves if you're cute. And to the best of my recollection, you've never even tried to chat with me. Gotta take some initiative, man. Do you think we're all just going to throw ourselves at you? ;)

[roadie4us]

I think physical attributes have no place in such an imaginary realm as a chat room. After all, it is in that imaginary/fantasy world that so much fun can be found.....and I have a pretty good imagination. But to me its important to find that personality which fits with mine. To find that person you can communicate/relate with first, then go from there. That is where the connection is made. If somone is looking for a physical relationship then a persons appearance will be important, but otherwise it is not that important....the brain is.

[ldon]

It's funny but the best looking women are not always the one's that turn me on. I would rather like to get to know you and see what you are about. Good example is MCat and I. I try like hell to flirt with her and she sort of flirted back but I mostly feel like it's me flirting. I have no idea what she looks like but something keeps me coming back. It's gota be the avitars. Someday when I hit 150 or what ever it takes, I would like to show myself. Guess it would be a cross between cheech moran, john travolta and peter lawford.

[thickitalian]

Ldon you sound like a mixed breed with those three guys.....

ease up on Mcat man....

Dying to see what you look like now after that description...hurry up with the 150...play some cool one word games...:55


It's funny but the best looking women are not always the one's that turn me on. I would rather like to get to know you and see what you are about. Good example is MCat and I. I try like hell to flirt with her and she sort of flirted back but I mostly feel like it's me flirting. I have no idea what she looks like but something keeps me coming back. It's gota be the avitars. Someday when I hit 150 or what ever it takes, I would like to show myself. Guess it would be a cross between cheech moran, john travolta and peter lawford.

[Sweetdreams069]

I have been told by many I look like the famous Dr. from ER.......

noooooo, not that doctor!!!!

Dr. Green.....(Mark Edwards)

except I have all my hair

and he has all the $$$

OMG!!! I get that all the time. This is pretty funny. We could be like doubles or something. I've been told that on more than one occasion that I look like Dr. Green.

[ldon]

I have tried to flirt with MCat on several occasions-but your right-I don't mean to be nasty and mean=I actually love her avitars. Seriously, Thick, I am a Heinz 57. DNA says European Causian. Mirror says otherwise.

[ldon]

Damn it I mispelled caucasian

[ldon]

Hey MCat, sorry if I misread you. I really don't know you-wild guess with marie catherine-it was an archieve that I read about e-bay. Still love your avitars. Oh , and I'm actually a decent chap.

[ldon]

Hey Thick, who do you look like?

[ldon]

This is my 100th post and I need help. My daughter is getting married next month and I'm supposed to pick a song to dance with her. Any father/daughter songs come to mind? Anyone?

[sawflyman]

doesn't to me

[Sweetdreams069]

No doesn't matter what the person looks like. But if you feel the need to get closer to someone then there must be some physical attraction there so that would be different.

[MCat]

Hey MCat, sorry if I misread you. I really don't know you-wild guess with marie catherine-it was an archieve that I read about e-bay. Still love your avitars. Oh , and I'm actually a decent chap.

I'm here to have fun just like you are....nice to know you're a decent chap.
Figured you'd been digging in the archives...

Relax....

[paris]

Well, I came here just to chat. So I didn't really give it any thought as to what anyone looked like. Personalities attract me more than anything. But....I must say...I've gotten lucky enough to see what a few here look like and they happen to be the ones I was attracted to prior to knowing...and I've been blown away!!! And my fav and I are meeting in person next week!!! Cannot wait!

[Sweetdreams069]

Well, I came here just to chat. So I didn't really give it any thought as to what anyone looked like. Personalities attract me more than anything. But....I must say...I've gotten lucky enough to see what a few here look like and they happen to be the ones I was attracted to prior to knowing...and I've been blown away!!! And my fav and I are meeting in person next week!!! Cannot wait!

Wow! Good for you . I hope it works out well for you.

[MCat]

This is my 100th post and I need help. My daughter is getting married next month and I'm supposed to pick a song to dance with her. Any father/daughter songs come to mind? Anyone?


Here are a couple sites with good suggestions and music clips....the song choice would depend on the relationship you have with your daughter....:55

http://www.weddingmusiccentral.com/gift_for_dad.php?osCsid=8a7b25c49d8ff01857b38ae47c 236c70

http://www.wedalert.com/songs/fatherdaughter/index.asp (this one is great)

Gosh what fun choosing a song.....enjoy it. :)

[paris]

Wow! Good for you . I hope it works out well for you.
Thank you, Sweet! I'll let ya know!

[pointofnoreturn]

Well, I came here just to chat. So I didn't really give it any thought as to what anyone looked like. Personalities attract me more than anything. But....I must say...I've gotten lucky enough to see what a few here look like and they happen to be the ones I was attracted to prior to knowing...and I've been blown away!!! And my fav and I are meeting in person next week!!! Cannot wait!hhhmmmmm???Anyone we know??:55

[thickitalian]

Hey..it works for Keanu Reeves and gals think he has exotic looks...I think he was born in Lebanon but is Eurasian as his Mom was English...



I have tried to flirt with MCat on several occasions-but your right-I don't mean to be nasty and mean=I actually love her avitars. Seriously, Thick, I am a Heinz 57. DNA says European Causian. Mirror says otherwise.

[thickitalian]

Bout 10 years ago I was told Omar Sharif...my hair is still black so I don't look like him anymore...his is all gray. I just dye the mustache...:D



Hey Thick, who do you look like?

[p.J]

Bout 10 years ago I was told Omar Sharif...my hair is still black so I don't look like him anymore...his is all gray. I just dye the mustache...:D


Positively delicious...

[thickitalian]

:knuddel:



Positively delicious...

[MCat]

Positively delicious...

Jen you choose the nicest words...delicious...one of the best :55

[thickitalian]

:knuddel:



Jen you choose the nicest words...delicious...one of the best :55

[tj_uk]

Does it really matter, if after a few months or weeks of chatting with someone on the net, what they really look like? I mean if you realkly have hit it off and maybe have started having feelings for the person. Just thought it was a good question.



:spbx:

Nope! Most definitely not. If you really do have hit it off with them and if you enjoy chatting to them and having cybersex I dont think looks would matter at all.

[ldon]

Thanks, MCat, I found the perfect song.

[ldon]

Hey Thick, now I can put a picture to your posts. Omar, not bad, must have your pic of the ladies.

[ldon]

Do people rally post their real pictures in this site. I'm guessing that Penny's are real.

[ldon]

Ten more and I'm there. Cybersex is interesting. Real sex is satisfying. Neither of which I am privey. But I did have a great dream last night. Doesn't happen to often. Does anybodyelsse have those kinds of dreams?

[ldon]

It's the avitars that set the visualization for me. And it doesn't really matter what the person looks like. It's funny, but we are all basically the same inside. Either good, bad or ugly. (saintly, sexy or mean). I can'timagine a man in a kilt being sexy but if MCat thinks so, I'm wearing one right now.

[MCat]

It's the avitars that set the visualization for me. And it doesn't really matter what the person looks like. It's funny, but we are all basically the same inside. Either good, bad or ugly. (saintly, sexy or mean). I can'timagine a man in a kilt being sexy but if MCat thinks so, I'm wearing one right now.

If you were a middle aged woman the man in a kilt would do it for ya :D

[MCat]

Thanks, MCat, I found the perfect song.

Which song did you choose?

[ldon]

A Father's song to His daughter.

[ldon]

The kilt is itchy but atleast I can scratch myself with no problem. Are you supposed to wear underwear with a kilt? It's kinda drafty.

[MCat]

The kilt is itchy but atleast I can scratch myself with no problem. Are you supposed to wear underwear with a kilt? It's kinda drafty.

The rule is no undies....

[ldon]

Good, but there are mosquitos out tonight so I better stay in, Does the rule apply to girls?

[MCat]

A Father's song to His daughter.

Doe's it start like..... Just once upon a yesterday?

[MCat]

Good, but there are mosquitos out tonight so I better stay in, Does the rule apply to girls?

Well certainly it does....

[ldon]

Here are the words.

Just once upon a yesterday
I held you in my arms
You grew into a little girl
with lovely childhood charms
Now it seems I only turned around
And I see you by his side
Oh, I can't believe my eyes today
My Daughter is a Bride

I guess somehow I always knew
This day would soon be here
Still I wonder as I look at you
What became of all the years
And no words could ever quite express
The way I feel inside
Oh, I can't believe my eyes today
My Daughter is a Bride

All the laughter and the teardrops
The sunshine and the rain
I would relive every moment, Dear
If I could bring them all back again

But now, My Love, the time has come
To send you on your way
So I wish you every happiness
And the blessings of this day
And I hope the love I've given you
Will forever be your guide
Oh, I can't believe my eyes today
My daughter - Oh, I can't believe my eyes
My Daughter - Oh, my angel and my pride
My Daughter is a Bride

[MCat]

Here are the words.

Just once upon a yesterday
I held you in my arms
You grew into a little girl
with lovely childhood charms
Now it seems I only turned around
And I see you by his side
Oh, I can't believe my eyes today
My Daughter is a Bride

I guess somehow I always knew
This day would soon be here
Still I wonder as I look at you
What became of all the years
And no words could ever quite express
The way I feel inside
Oh, I can't believe my eyes today
My Daughter is a Bride

All the laughter and the teardrops
The sunshine and the rain
I would relive every moment, Dear
If I could bring them all back again

But now, My Love, the time has come
To send you on your way
So I wish you every happiness
And the blessings of this day
And I hope the love I've given you
Will forever be your guide
Oh, I can't believe my eyes today
My daughter - Oh, I can't believe my eyes
My Daughter - Oh, my angel and my pride
My Daughter is a Bride

I listened to it just now....It's lovely....good choice dad.

[ldon]

Getting two messages mixed up might be confusing. This one is reagrding girls wearing kilts without undies. Would you like to get dressed up (kilts) and go to a drive-in?

[ldon]

I just noticed that this is my 150th post. And I need to celebrate. So what happens now?

[MCat]

Getting two messages mixed up might be confusing. This one is reagrding girls wearing kilts without undies. Would you like to get dressed up (kilts) and go to a drive-in?

Sure...what time you gonna pick me up ;)

[marcus5]

no it doesn't, the enjoyment of the chat is more important, but I do try to imagine what the person looks like based on what they say

[ldon]

Movie starts at 9 p.m. but we can be late since we probably won't watch it. Damn this kilt is itchy. Sorry but I just took it off and the damn dog is laughing at me. Ever see a dog laugh before?

[MCat]

Movie starts at 9 p.m. but we can be late since we probably won't watch it. Damn this kilt is itchy. Sorry but I just took it off and the damn dog is laughing at me. Ever see a dog laugh before?

As a matter of fact I have....our dogs laugh at us all the time...:D

[ldon]

Not because you took your kilt off. My dog is mean spirited. I may have to get him neutered after all. Then see who has ther last laugh.

[JCcanU]

I have to say yes it maters when your chating and cant see someone your expecting someone that dont look nothing like they look like , Not just my self but others that see your face stop talking to the ones we talked with befor hand. Even when your chating with some one that is realy good looking after you see them it may not be the same as it was.

[MCat]

I have to say yes it maters when your chating and cant see someone your expecting someone that dont look nothing like they look like , Not just my self but others that see your face stop talking to the ones we talked with befor hand. Even when your chating with some one that is realy good looking after you see them it may not be the same as it was.

Ya know...I haven't had anyone stop chatting with me after they saw my pictures...saggy tits, broad ass and all. Everyone I have run into has been a gentlemen. What difference does it make what we look like....if we hit it off and enjoying chatting together its all good.

[ldon]

Saggy tits fit in mouth nicely and a broad ass in my palms. What's the problem?

[MCat]

Saggy tits fit in mouth nicely and a broad ass in my palms. What's the problem?

I should have known you'd be here just in time to pick that post up....:D

[PlayfulMale69]

Ya know...I haven't had anyone stop chatting with me after they saw my pictures...saggy tits, broad ass and all. Everyone I have run into has been a gentlemen. What difference does it make what we look like....if we hit it off and enjoying chatting together its all good.

I do like to know what the other one looks like, but I don't have to see her. After all with chatting together you get to use your imagination and that works for me too.

But the fact that someone is perky or saggy means less ot me than their attitude and their imagination.

I might be weird on this, but that is okay. Anyone can follow the crowd. :D

[MCat]

I do like to know what the other one looks like, but I don't have to see her. After all with chatting together you get to use your imagination and that works for me too.

But the fact that someone is perky or saggy means less ot me than their attitude and their imagination.

I might be weird on this, but that is okay. Anyone can follow the crowd. :D

Nope you're not weird....imagination is good...:55

[ldon]

As fate would have it. Timing is everthing. How is my my flirting coming?

[MCat]

As fate would have it. Timing is everthing. How is my my flirting coming?

You're getting better.....:55

[ldon]

Must be the practice, just got back from Vegas today. Is it to soon to say I'm in love with you?

[MCat]

Must be the practice, just got back from Vegas today. Is it to soon to say I'm in love with you?

Its a tad too soon I think....:sc

[scoobertina]

I am not big on looks... I am looking for someone who will treat me right.. and that is really all that matters... now if he happens to be hotter than sin.... well, who am I to argue..