Help a guy out?

[letsplay69s]

Married for 15 years dont want to leave just spice it up a little on the side. She is very very catholic if you know what I mean. And I do not mean anything bad by that but the same way everytime has lost its luster. This is my first time puting myself out there so lets see where it goes. Please PM, message me or email me if you want. thanks for your time and participation.......:wa:

[badrendi]

Admittedly I'm a newbie at this. But after reading what's available for the past 2 days. this site is rather boring. Your not gonna find any "spice" worth your time. Nobody uses the chat rooms, they spend all their time posting quick quips back and forth in these forums, and posting polls of questions that hardly anybody answers.

So where do you find a little excitement? I can't tell you any good spots yet, cause I'm looking too. You can buy memberships to the dating sites, and get some attention, mostly from the hired site mistresses, but that's pretty lame cause you will never actually meet any of them. So theres no point to it.

I'm hoping some of the regulars here will read this and head to the chat rooms, so the banter can be more spontaneous, and less "refresh" intensive just to keep up.

[dartgirl]

Sorry you are not happy here. It is a fun group when you get to know us. But it all depends on what you are looking for.

[Lena]

Admittedly I'm a newbie at this. But after reading what's available for the past 2 days. this site is rather boring. Your not gonna find any "spice" worth your time. Nobody uses the chat rooms, they spend all their time posting quick quips back and forth in these forums, and posting polls of questions that hardly anybody answers.
.............

If you are not happy here please feel free to leave!
Everyone does not have the same amount of free time as you do!
All the members are here because they want to, not because anyone is making them stay!
Please do not feel like you have to stay! Nice of you to have visited us!
Thank you!

[letsplay69s]

I didnt mean to stir anything up in here. I am not looking for instant gratification just talk and so on. I do want to say I have been on here for a few days I think it is a pretty good site of those I have seen. So I guess what Iam saying can we all just play along!

[ethans_so_bad]

I don't know that didn't sound like what you were saying to me. Maybe you just need a corn dog, a root beer and a nice warm hug.

[Lena]

I didnt mean to stir anything up in here. I am not looking for instant gratification just talk and so on. I do want to say I have been on here for a few days I think it is a pretty good site of those I have seen. So I guess what Iam saying can we all just play along!
Hello and welcome!
Don't worry, you didn't stir anything up!
Just that obviously we all have different opinions to which type of site we would like to be with, but obviously for our friend here this is not the right place to be!
But I am glad that you may find it is for you!
Hope you will enjoy being here and getting to know every one of our members!
Have fun reading and posting on our threads here!:wa:

[dartgirl]

I didnt mean to stir anything up in here. I am not looking for instant gratification just talk and so on. I do want to say I have been on here for a few days I think it is a pretty good site of those I have seen. So I guess what Iam saying can we all just play along!

It is nice to meet you and it wasn't you that was complaining. So many of us here have a limited amount of time that it is nice to have a place to come and just spend a few minutes letting off steam about one topic or another. Hope you enjoy yourself.

[badrendi]

Guess I stirred up the locals. Sorry, no disrespect intended.

I'm entitled to my opinion, though. Nobody else bothered to reply to this guy. I calls'em like I sees'em.

[Lena]

Guess I stirred up the locals. Sorry, no disrespect intended.

I'm entitled to my opinion, though. Nobody else bothered to reply to this guy. I calls'em like I sees'em.
Maybe no one was free from their real lives to reply!
I have only just got online when I saw this!
So yes I have been busy all day, and not able to be here before!
That is what is good about being here, things can be replied to at anytime!
Right now it has gone dinner time at my side of the world, so I am also cooking at the same time as replying to you!
Please do not jump to conclusion without finding out first, the reason why!

[letsplay69s]

WOW, this is nice women that speak up. I like this site even better!

[dartgirl]

WOW, this is nice women that speak up. I like this site even better!

If you like women who speak their minds you have come to the right place. There is no shortage of opinions here.

[Rmb]

WOW, this is nice women that speak up. I like this site even better!


All the ladies here speak their minds when they feel like it.
Patience is a virtue if you seek meaningful friendships. :) :)

[pointofnoreturn]

I said that I had never done a chat room before, so I did not know where to go. It was fun going from forum to forum? But I can chat in a room if someone is there with me. By myself is no fun.

[matt1426]

I said that I had never done a chat room before, so I did not know where to go. It was fun going from forum to forum? But I can chat in a room if someone is there with me. By myself is no fun.

I've had fun by myself before :D

today even

[yaser]

I said that I had never done a chat room before, so I did not know where to go. It was fun going from forum to forum? But I can chat in a room if someone is there with me. By myself is no fun.
Are you afraid of being alone with yourself in a room?

[Rmb]

I said that I had never done a chat room before, so I did not know where to go. It was fun going from forum to forum? But I can chat in a room if someone is there with me. By myself is no fun.

I keep telling myself not to talk to myself ! :D

[Lena]

WOW, this is nice women that speak up. I like this site even better!
You will find out how we all are!
Glad you approve of us! Thanks!:wa:
And nice to meet you!

[Lena]

I've had fun by myself before :D

today even
Hi there Matt!
Been a long time!!!!!

[yaser]

Welcome letsplay...Hope you like us..

[matt1426]

Hi there Matt!
Been a long time!!!!!

It has been how you been sweety?

[Lena]

I keep telling myself not to talk to myself ! :D
So why did I find you in that corner talking to yourself??:D

[pointofnoreturn]

Like it alone, can take care of myself, but.......looking for fun

[matt1426]

Like it alone, can take care of myself, but.......looking for fun

lucky for you we are always looking for fun

[Rmb]

So why did I find you in that corner talking to yourself??:D

Because you were late darling :) :) :D

[pointofnoreturn]

When you were by yourself were you at work?

[yaser]

When you were by yourself were you at work?
depends on work type..

[Lena]

It has been how you been sweety?
Too much shopping!!!:D

[matt1426]

Too much shopping!!!:D

Amen

[OICurready4me]

Like it alone, can take care of myself, but.......looking for fun


anytime your looking for fun in a chat room, take me with you. I could use some fun but not alone. (my hand gets tired)

[fatah]

I want to say that I think I have been looking for a site like this for a long time. Women who are forthright and intelligent but without that hard edge that you see on the other forums. Men who are clever but not over the top gross. I think this is a site for real adults who are confident and enjoy one another. This is so cool.

[OICurready4me]

I want to say that I think I have been looking for a site like this for a long time. Women who are forthright and intelligent but without that hard edge that you see on the other forums. Men who are clever but not over the top gross. I think this is a site for real adults who are confident and enjoy one another. This is so cool.

I agree and applaud Penny for putting this together. She and her husband are the people behind the scenes that make this happen and we should all thank them for the wonderful job they do. :55

[Barkiss]

If you are not happy here please feel free to leave!
Everyone does not have the same amount of free time as you do!
All the members are here because they want to, not because anyone is making them stay!
Please do not feel like you have to stay! Nice of you to have visited us!
Thank you!

I have no idea what you are talking about....I can't stand this place!!! ;) And I've never met anyone here that I like to spend alone time with!!! Jeez!!!

[yaser]

I want to say that I think I have been looking for a site like this for a long time. Women who are forthright and intelligent but without that hard edge that you see on the other forums. Men who are clever but not over the top gross. I think this is a site for real adults who are confident and enjoy one another. This is so cool.
Fatah this is family holding...We are all relatives...No one touches hardly to each..We caress when we quarrel..and kiss each other..

[fatah]

well it is an extraordinary site and I am looking forward to becoming friends with everyone here.

[OICurready4me]

Point, have you found anyone to chat with yet? Join me in the Hot Tub, if interested. We can play with our rubber ducky!

[pointofnoreturn]

going to the hot tub

[letsplay69s]

This is cool, I think I will sit back and read for awhile. Can I say let the games begin or is that to forward........ Game on!

[yaser]

well it is an extraordinary site and I am looking forward to becoming friends with everyone here.
You ave already become my friend...No worry...Follow the girls..They love mature bananas...but cover must be hard..

[Lena]

I have no idea what you are talking about....I can't stand this place!!! ;) And I've never met anyone here that I like to spend alone time with!!! Jeez!!!
Yeah yeah!!!!
And why is your nose growing so long all of a sudden??:whee:

[Lena]

I want to say that I think I have been looking for a site like this for a long time. Women who are forthright and intelligent but without that hard edge that you see on the other forums. Men who are clever but not over the top gross. I think this is a site for real adults who are confident and enjoy one another. This is so cool.
Glad that you are enjoying yourself here!
Members do help make the site what it is!
Keep posting!:wa:

[Lena]

This is cool, I think I will sit back and read for awhile. Can I say let the games begin or is that to forward........ Game on!
Enjoy your reading!!!:D

[Barkiss]

Yeah yeah!!!!
And why is your nose growing so long all of a sudden??:whee:

You think I'm lying??? ;)

[Lena]

You think I'm lying??? ;)
Getting to look like that wooden boy!!!
Now what was his name again???:whee:

[letsplay69s]

This is a warm welcome. I am kinda like that guy that does not like to be in a room by himself, I dont like to read by myself. If anyone wants to read with me thats ok to.

[Lena]

This is a warm welcome. I am kinda like that guy that does not like to be in a room by himself, I dont like to read by myself. If anyone wants to read with me thats ok to.
We are all here with you!

[letsplay69s]

I knew I was not alone

[Lena]

I knew I was not alone
Not always easy to be alone!!!

[letsplay69s]

tell me something, how can I look at prifiles or pics or even send a pm to someone? everytime I try to click on someones name it comes up I do not have permission? Am I to new or????

[letsplay69s]

anybody have an answer?

[matt1426]

anybody have an answer?

gotta make it to premium, at 150 post it should open up all that

[letsplay69s]

thank you I thought I missed something.

[UltimateNaneki]

Welcome to the site, 'letsplay' ! hope u find a lot of fun here,... I have!

[arod]

hello.
I'm new here too.
I've been married 10 years and I know what you mean.
I'm kinda going thru the same thing. My marriage has lost it's luster and I as well am looking for some fun.

[cherokeered]

Married for 15 years dont want to leave just spice it up a little on the side. She is very very catholic if you know what I mean. And I do not mean anything bad by that but the same way everytime has lost its luster. This is my first time puting myself out there so lets see where it goes. Please PM, message me or email me if you want. thanks for your time and participation.......:wa:

It's hard hun...If ur wife is very, very Catholic then it will be hard to get her past the churches teachings....that being said, all is not lost....simply ask her if there is anything she has ever wanted to try but was too shy to, perhaps make it like a game...like nothing serious...or bring up a topic and say that this sounds interesting...see what she thinks about it...
I was raised Catholic..but not really strict...too independant to be that way....lol

A little at a time..take it slow...no pressure...maybe candles...a massage, soft music...and see where it leads...chocolate body painting, whipped cream...strawberries...or perhaps feathers...scarves..ice...different sensations...make her feel that if it feels good..it isnt wrong...

Good luck hun...hope it helps...

Cherokee...:wa:

[Spooky13]

I ahve a friend who is catholic and teaches at a catholic school and she is WILD.....

[cherokeered]

I ahve a friend who is catholic and teaches at a catholic school and she is WILD.....

Well...there is that...all that pent up frustration leads to a lot of that...you would think the church would figure that out already...ya cant deny human nature and the desire for sexual release...


Cherokee...one reason I am not an active member...seems the priests can and the parishoners cant.....

[letsplay69s]

That is alot of good advice. I have tried a few of those and she is very adimate about not doing some things. The 2 and only 2 times she did drink I can say that was a wild night but she spent most of the next day in church when I was ready for more. I have not given up yet. And cherokee you really have some good ideas I will play with some day with someone! Thanks

[letsplay69s]

Hey, does anyone have some good movies? I hate to go into those stores and just dont trust the internet yet with my account. Maybe I can get her to drink new years and watch one ? Who knows still trying for now.

[Sandy]

you can always try to make your own movie :D

[letsplay69s]

She wont even pose for a pic.

[Sandy]

it was a ideal, sorry hon

[letsplay69s]

thats ok i will just study yours

[Spooky13]

Yes but the priest can with young boys,,,doooohhhhh. Anyone see the Halloween South Park with the priest,,,it was so wrong, and so South Park.

[Sandman]

Admittedly I'm a newbie at this. But after reading what's available for the past 2 days. this site is rather boring. Your not gonna find any "spice" worth your time. Nobody uses the chat rooms, they spend all their time posting quick quips back and forth in these forums, and posting polls of questions that hardly anybody answers.

So where do you find a little excitement? I can't tell you any good spots yet, cause I'm looking too. You can buy memberships to the dating sites, and get some attention, mostly from the hired site mistresses, but that's pretty lame cause you will never actually meet any of them. So theres no point to it.

I'm hoping some of the regulars here will read this and head to the chat rooms, so the banter can be more spontaneous, and less "refresh" intensive just to keep up.
Wow! The voice of experience has spoken! Everyone grab your lunch bag...we are moving to get some excitement. A 2 post expert is showing us the light!:lmao

Give it a chance! Of course attitude helps. How To Win Friends and Influence People is a good book. I guess you could try getting to know some people here, too! Great place if you are not in a hurry to get laid. Try the bars... a few drinks and who knows?????:D

[pointofnoreturn]

I have been married 15 years also, and hubby must be going through his second seven year itch. I like to talk in chat room. Anyone like to join me?

[Sandman]

Sorry...this post was a mistake:D fingers moved too fast again!

[letsplay69s]

ok does anyone have any sexy pics to send, looks like she is going home for the new years and I am going out.

[MIGHTY]

ok does anyone have any sexy pics to send, looks like she is going home for the new years and I am going out.

Hi 69's and welcome!:wa:

[letsplay69s]

Thank you and same to you. so in mo. to?

[MIGHTY]

Thank you and same to you. so in mo. to?

Yes, in MO. Where >about< are you?

[letsplay69s]

springfield and u?

[MIGHTY]

springfield and u?

Close to St. Louis...used to live in Joplin.

[letsplay69s]

I used to live in Ballwin outside St. Louis

[MIGHTY]

I used to live in Ballwin outside St. Louis

Nice, quiet area. I moved from the city a couple of years ago. Best thing I ever did!

[letsplay69s]

springfield is nothing like the real city so backwards here...

[MIGHTY]

springfield is nothing like the real city so backwards here...

I know...been through there several times. Love Joplin though. Good memories there for me. I live in a nice area now though. Close enough to the city to go anywhere, but far enough to have some peace....

[letsplay69s]

really thinking of moving back so bored here.

[MIGHTY]

really thinking of moving back so bored here.

Sorry, I know the feeling....:hug:

[letsplay69s]

I really need to get out more! So many people to see and talk to.

[MIGHTY]

I really need to get out more! So many people to see and talk to.

Honey, I work night shifts...you're preaching to the choir!:D

[letsplay69s]

I work from 5am till 3pm so cant stay out to late, but its fun when I do!

[MIGHTY]

I work from 5am till 3pm so cant stay out to late, but its fun when I do!

It's always fun! Rare, but fun! My hours vary..but often 9pm -9am...

[letsplay69s]

Ouch! kinda takes up the good hours, in the dark. I think I have read so much on here today I will go out tonight and someone will be very lucky they did to.

[MIGHTY]

Ouch! kinda takes up the good hours, in the dark. I think I have read so much on here today I will go out tonight and someone will be very lucky they did to.

'Tis enough to get one a bit riled up sometimes....I agree.:D

[letsplay69s]

yes i would second that. It would be even worse if I could see profiles.

[MIGHTY]

yes i would second that. It would be even worse if I could see profiles.

It could be much worse....you're still fairly new...I'm trying to be easy on you...lol.

[letsplay69s]

Please dont let that stop you, I promise i wont run and hide. Then again I do like it when she goes easy on me.....lol

[MIGHTY]

Please dont let that stop you, I promise i wont run and hide. Then again I do like it when she goes easy on me.....lol

We do live in the "Show Me State".....:D

[letsplay69s]

You can show me, have email will return.

[letsplay69s]

PM me I will send you my highly classified email.

[letsplay69s]

oops sorry you cant do that I have not made my 150 post, sorry.

[MIGHTY]

oops sorry you cant do that I have not made my 150 post, sorry.

You on YM?

[letsplay69s]

Sorry I had to leave, Not on YM at work. But you can still email and I will check on getting it put on. Just dont bite to hard.....

[Spooky13]

it s a YM morning I guess, what are they showing in the state?

[Spooky13]

I didn see the airport there once.

[letsplay69s]

?????? you didn see the airport?

[Spooky13]

ok, added a letter ,,I did see the airport.

[letsplay69s]

not very big compared to St. Louis, another reason I want to move.

[Spooky13]

no the airport was in St. Louis.

[letsplay69s]

Oh ok, I just flew out of there a couple of moths ago. One thing about that you have to walk for ever.

[Spooky13]

I fly out of atlanta, it is a lot of walking...

[MIGHTY]

Sorry I had to leave, Not on YM at work. But you can still email and I will check on getting it put on. Just dont bite to hard.....

Never apologize....I did respond to you, though. And, I only bite hard depending on the mood....:D

[letsplay69s]

ok, but I think you should just nibble to start and then progress

[Spooky13]

it is tough when you can't ym at work,

[letsplay69s]

yes it takes twice as long

[MIGHTY]

ok, but I think you should just nibble to start and then progress

Ok, for the sake of debate, it depends on how it starts. Does it start with a come hither look? With a certain touch? Or are there those times in which you must have it and end up almost ripping her clothes just to get them off? .....It all depends on how it starts.....trust me!:wa:

[Spooky13]

I am a look guy, of course a good hummer helps ,,lol

[letsplay69s]

it all depends on the day and the mood. today rip the clothes off, on a sunday morning the nice slow ease into it and then go for it all.

[MIGHTY]

it all depends on the day and the mood. today rip the clothes off, on a sunday morning the nice slow ease into it and then go for it all.

I think we can agree that it's all good!:D

[Spooky13]

well unless the other person is no good, then it isn't..

[letsplay69s]

you got me it is all good!

[letsplay69s]

thats when you get to play the teacher.

[Spooky13]

ahhh like school...is MRS going to wear he school girl outfit....?

[MIGHTY]

ahhh like school...is MRS going to wear he school girl outfit....?

Plaid skirt, white shirt, black bra, no undies....is this what you had in mind?:D

[Spooky13]

Damn I need a shower,,,,,damn being a t work.....

[letsplay69s]

I think you got it and second damn work and people everywhere today

[sirman1]

Welcome to the site!