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Like I said Lena... 27 women in the first month alone!
Suppose the temptation was too much!!!!!!
Annie
10-08-2005, 11:55 PM
Better start practicing the song, because I'll be there before the end of the month. ;) aaaAAAAaa
Smart man! Heading North are ya?
Penny
10-08-2005, 11:57 PM
We have voice chat I paid for it ;)
I try...I'm going to write Penny now and request voice chat...I think I have found the way to compete with Xenote's butt. ;)
Barkiss
10-08-2005, 11:57 PM
Smart man! Heading North are ya?
:lmao just for a "meeting"...I travel a lot...maybe for obvious reasons :)
Smart man! Heading North are ya?
Get away from it all!!!!!
Barkiss
10-08-2005, 11:58 PM
We have voice chat I paid for it ;)
Yes!! Thank you Penny! :)
We have voice chat I paid for it ;)
Do you???? Really????
Yes!! Thank you Penny! :)
Well Barkiss your dream has come true!!!! All the females will be swooning over your voice!!!:gs
Barkiss
10-09-2005, 12:00 AM
Well Barkiss your dream has come true!!!! All the females will be swooning over your voice!!!:gs
:D
:D
yes you can grin!!!! All those moaning and groaning while listening to you!!!!
Annie
10-09-2005, 12:04 AM
yes you can grin!!!! All those moaning and groaning while listening to you!!!!
I'm right behind ya Lena!
I'm right behind ya!
Yeah stay close!! We may need each other's help if one of us faints!!!!
Barkiss
10-09-2005, 12:07 AM
I'm right behind ya Lena!
I'm going to start figuring it out...:D
I'm going to start figuring it out...:D
When ?? when??
Annie
10-09-2005, 12:09 AM
When ?? when??
Oooooh Lena! Don't tell Dave!
Oooooh Lena! Don't tell Dave!
Oh Yeah!!!!! Forgot about him!!!!! Maybe he won't notice and won't put a stop to this!!!! Anyway he is still in my very bad book from before!!!! We'll just have to sneak around then!!!
Quietly!!!!!! come on Annie!!!!!
Annie
10-09-2005, 12:16 AM
<removes high heels and tip-toes out the back door>
Yes!!! Many thanks, Penny! :kk
Bark, I'm all ears! Talk to me!
We have voice chat I paid for it ;)
Barkiss
10-09-2005, 12:18 AM
Yes!!! Many thanks, Penny! :kk
Bark, I'm all ears! Talk to me!
I'm truly trying, but having no luck...:(
jennrocks
10-09-2005, 12:18 AM
where are my buddies?
<removes high heels and tip-toes out the back door>
Well done!!!! but we seem to have others interested!!!!
where are my buddies?
Don't know!!!! May have gone to sleep!!!!!!
I'm truly trying, but having no luck...:(
Well when you find out!! let us know how to get to it!!!! Really want to hear a true southern accent!!!
Annie
10-09-2005, 12:25 AM
Well done!!!! but we seem to have others interested!!!!
Line form to the left ladies! Behind me damn it, get behind me!
Barkiss
10-09-2005, 12:26 AM
Well when you find out!! let us know how to get to it!!!! Really want to hear a true southern accent!!!
All I can find is how to play sounds for different activities in chat, but I can not find a way to get voice chat started...
Line form to the left ladies! Behind me damn it, get behind me!
Yes put the rules into action!!!!!!
All I can find is how to play sounds for different activities in chat, but I can not find a way to get voice chat started...
Ok We'll wait patiently!!! But i am going to bed in afew mins!!!!!
Barkiss
10-09-2005, 12:32 AM
Ok We'll wait patiently!!! But i am going to bed in afew mins!!!!!
No luck..I'll ask Penny next time I see her...:(
No luck..I'll ask Penny next time I see her...:(
Ok........:( Well when it happens let me know!!!!!:gs
jennrocks
10-09-2005, 01:13 AM
wow, i was waiting for some friends in the chatroom and they came in for a minute and then left. hope i didn't scare you away.
shopowner
10-09-2005, 08:34 AM
Wish I'd known you were there....let me know next time you go.
wow, i was waiting for some friends in the chatroom and they came in for a minute and then left. hope i didn't scare you away.
nah!! you didn't!!! It was almost 6am here when i left, just thought i should try and get some sleep!!!:gs Hope you had a good evening!!!
Wish I'd known you were there....let me know next time you go.
ohhh were you feeling lonely?????
shopowner
10-09-2005, 03:14 PM
yes...happens often.
ohhh poor you!!!! I'm sure thats not true!!!
Norfolkdave
10-09-2005, 04:32 PM
nah!! you didn't!!! It was almost 6am here when i left, just thought i should try and get some sleep!!!:gs Hope you had a good evening!!!
You on here till 6am and chatting :lmao
Norfolkdave
10-09-2005, 04:34 PM
ohhh poor you!!!! I'm sure thats not true!!!
I didnt know you cared for so many you adorable creature you;)
Sad thing is I would probably turn into a bumbling idiot if I was actually speaking to all you beautiful women. :lf
A stutterin southern boy'd be jus fahhhn too....;)
Ohhh you are going to enter the competition of who has the best...........
Well we could do both!!!! Listen to your voice while looking at Xenote's butt!!!!!:gs
Xenote note is French...just imagine that voice too...ahhhhh
Oh my gosh! Have you seen a pic? Don't tell Marycat or WetBeaver, they might want to cut in on us!
Hey, what did I miss ????
Norfolkdave
10-09-2005, 04:58 PM
Hey, what did I miss ????
I thought Lena would have kept it quiet she promised me!:lmao
Norfolkdave
10-09-2005, 05:00 PM
Oh Yeah!!!!! Forgot about him!!!!! Maybe he won't notice and won't put a stop to this!!!! Anyway he is still in my very bad book from before!!!! We'll just have to sneak around then!!!
Quietly!!!!!! come on Annie!!!!!
Thats nice " forgot about him" Wwhy am i in your bad book, you didnt say that when you shared centre page with me did you!:lmao
Norfolkdave
10-09-2005, 05:03 PM
No, you best not!!! much safer!!!!:)
Any speed above 20mph is ok :lmao
Xenote note is French...just imagine that voice too...ahhhhh
Yes i can!!! I go over to France quite alot!!! Going over this Wednesday too!!!!
So i'll listen to all those guys voices and try to think which one Xenote's is!!!!! Might as well look at their butts too!!! Why not????:gs
Thats nice " forgot about him" Wwhy am i in your bad book, you didnt say that when you shared centre page with me did you!:lmao
Wasn't me!!!!!! Must have got me muddled up with all those others!!!:)
Yes i can!!! I go over to France quite alot!!! Going over this Wednesday too!!!!
So i'll listen to all those guys voices and try to think which one Xenote's is!!!!! Might as well look at their butts too!!! Why not????:gs
I am so jealous...:wa:
I am so jealous...:wa:
Well if you were here you could come too, and we could feast on those butts and listen to those voices!!:gs
Annie, Lena, you are both hilarious! This has been the most entertaining thread yet! Thank you both! :kk
Annie, Lena, you are both hilarious! This has been the most entertaining thread yet! Thank you both! :kk
You are very welcome Jugs!!!:gs
Annie
10-09-2005, 07:58 PM
Thanks Jugs! My sides still hurt from laughing so much yesterday!
Yes i couldn't help laughing too!!!!
Polo38
10-10-2005, 01:39 AM
Yes i can!!! I go over to France quite alot!!! Going over this Wednesday too!!!!
So i'll listen to all those guys voices and try to think which one Xenote's is!!!!! Might as well look at their butts too!!! Why not????:gs
Lena,
i hope you have a great time in france, but you won't find me there, but if you ever come to texas..i would be glad to take you to the Oasis, which has some unbelieveable views. We can drink Margaritas we talk up a storm. :kk
Norfolkdave
10-10-2005, 05:54 AM
Yes i can!!! I go over to France quite alot!!! Going over this Wednesday too!!!!
So i'll listen to all those guys voices and try to think which one Xenote's is!!!!! Might as well look at their butts too!!! Why not????:gs
So you are are you!!!! I bet your voice is sexy as well:lmao
I'm still laughing myself! :lmao I had a perfect visual of the two of you taking off your heels and sneaking out of the room so you didn't have to share bark with anyone. Both of you are terrific writers! You made my day!
How about you both meet me at the border when Bark comes to Canada? We'll give him a warm and generous welcome!
Thanks Jugs! My sides still hurt from laughing so much yesterday!
Barkiss
10-10-2005, 10:57 AM
How about you both meet me at the border when Bark comes to Canada? We'll give him a warm and generous welcome!
I like this plan!! :D
Annie
10-10-2005, 11:26 AM
I like this plan!! :D
Ok I'll tell you what... I'll start heading east, Bark you start heading north and we can meet up somewhere near New Jersey....
We can pick up Lena at JFK! Forget about France Lena! You'll have so much more fun here... I swear!
Barkiss
10-10-2005, 11:34 AM
Ok I'll tell you what... I'll start heading east, Bark you start heading north and we can meet up somewhere near New Jersey....
We can pick up Lena at JFK! Forget about France Lena! You'll have so much more fun here... I swear!
OK...making my flight reservations now...I'll go ahead and reserve the car and we can take the scenic route into Canada...;)
KIRA187
10-10-2005, 11:37 AM
Ok I'll tell you what... I'll start heading east, Bark you start heading north and we can meet up somewhere near New Jersey....
We can pick up Lena at JFK! Forget about France Lena! You'll have so much more fun here... I swear!
Is ther room for little ol me?:wa:
Barkiss
10-10-2005, 11:38 AM
Is ther room for little ol me?:wa:
Not if you look like your avatar, because I would be forgotten...;)
KIRA187
10-10-2005, 11:42 AM
Not if you look like your avatar, because I would be forgotten...;)
No I dont look like my avatar barkiss.... I have a hairy chest. :D
Barkiss
10-10-2005, 11:44 AM
No I dont look like my avatar barkiss.... I have a hairy chest. :D
whew...ok, I just didn't want to have to shave....:(
Lena,
i hope you have a great time in france, but you won't find me there, but if you ever come to texas..i would be glad to take you to the Oasis, which has some unbelieveable views. We can drink Margaritas we talk up a storm. :kk
Watch it Xenote!!!!! I'll hold you to that!!!!!!:gs
Got to find your look alike butt out there though!!!!!!:) Even though you won't be there!!!!:(
So you are are you!!!! I bet your voice is sexy as well:lmao
Do you?????
I'm still laughing myself! :lmao I had a perfect visual of the two of you taking off your heels and sneaking out of the room so you didn't have to share bark with anyone. Both of you are terrific writers! You made my day!
How about you both meet me at the border when Bark comes to Canada? We'll give him a warm and generous welcome!
Oh yeah we were doing alot of sneaking around!!!!! Loads of females who would want to take over!!! So we had to becareful!!!! Got dirty feet without our heels!!!! And were we short too!!!!!?????
Annie
10-10-2005, 12:02 PM
Is ther room for little ol me?:wa:
For you Cuda, we'll make room! Barkiss, rent a van, we got company!
Ok I'll tell you what... I'll start heading east, Bark you start heading north and we can meet up somewhere near New Jersey....
We can pick up Lena at JFK! Forget about France Lena! You'll have so much more fun here... I swear!
Ok Annie!!!! Just going to get my ticket!!!!!
Barkiss
10-10-2005, 12:06 PM
For you Cuda, we'll make room! Barkiss, rent a van, we got company!
I'll make it an RV...:D We'll need somewhere to "sleep"
OK...making my flight reservations now...I'll go ahead and reserve the car and we can take the scenic route into Canada...;)
Scenic route!!!!!! mmmmmm
Annie
10-10-2005, 12:09 PM
I'll make it an RV...:D We'll need somewhere to "sleep"
Great idea! Then let's take the scenic route and take our time!
Barkiss
10-10-2005, 12:11 PM
Great idea! Then let's take the scenic route and take our time!
But I will put my foot down to running in front waving a red flag....:(
Is ther room for little ol me?:wa:
Yes we'll all squash up together!!!!:gs
Could get interesting this trip!!!!!
Norfolkdave
10-10-2005, 12:15 PM
Do you?????
Roses are red fushias blue howdy englander how are you
But I will put my foot down to running in front waving a red flag....:(
Annie is right!!!! Take it slow!!!!!
Barkiss
10-10-2005, 12:19 PM
Annie is right!!!! Take it slow!!!!!
Oh we'll take it slow. We have make sure everything is seen and experienced.:lf
Roses are red fushias blue howdy englander how are you
Hello!!!!! Fushias are fushia colour!!!! ONe of my fav!!!!
Oh we'll take it slow. We have make sure everything is seen and experienced.:lf
Oh wow!!!!! EVERYTHING??? oooohhhh nice!!!!!
Norfolkdave
10-10-2005, 12:21 PM
Annie is right!!!! Take it slow!!!!!
Barkiss has no noose yet I HuH!;)
Norfolkdave
10-10-2005, 04:00 PM
Hello!!!!! Fushias are fushia colour!!!! ONe of my fav!!!!
I have something right at last mine favourite plant, intend to grow 50 varities next year, taking cuttings already and ordered new varieties fron Cornwall:wa:
Do you have the princess dollar variety???
Its so pretty!!!!!
Norfolkdave
10-13-2005, 04:56 AM
Do you have the princess dollar variety???
Its so pretty!!!!!
I will be going to our cottage garden Saturday, I know the variety I will get them now its hardy so I know it can be planted and left outside all year , it grows I think if the the grey matter fires up, to is it 4ft or more, lovely plant.;)
Yes grows quite tall and wide and just trim it to the way you want it!!!!
The plant i mean!!!!
Oh Lena, I'm so-o glad you qualified that statement! :D
Yes grows quite tall and wide and just trim it to the way you want it!!!!
The plant i mean!!!!
YOu weren't getting the wrong idea now, were you jugs???
It's like walking into the middle of a conversation! All I saw was "grows about 4ft long, and you can trim it too!" and thought I was in the hairy flirting thread! I had to scroll back to see what the heck you were discussing! I got a good chuckle out of it though! thank you!
YOu weren't getting the wrong idea now, were you jugs???
It's like walking into the middle of a conversation! All I saw was "grows about 4ft long, and you can trim it too!" and thought I was in the hairy flirting thread! I had to scroll back to see what the heck you were discussing! I got a good chuckle out of it though! thank you!
At least it made you laugh!!!!:)
And you just made me giggle too!!!:gs
No need for the flag, barks. Just keep an eye for me at the border. I'll be the one standing at the top of the BLuewater bridge, frantically waving her bra in the air! Especially if you're bring Annie, Cuda and Lena! Oh we're going to have some fun! *rubbing her hands together in glee*
But I will put my foot down to running in front waving a red flag....:(
No need for the flag, barks. Just keep an eye for me at the border. I'll be the one standing at the top of the BLuewater bridge, frantically waving her bra in the air! Especially if you're bring Annie, Cuda and Lena! Oh we're going to have some fun! *rubbing her hands together in glee*
Oh yes be great fun!!!! Annie has already had it all planned out!! She has already gven Barkiss his instructions!!!:)
Excellent! I'll just go rifle through my lingerie to find an appropriate bra for a welcome flag!!
Oh yes be great fun!!!! Annie has already had it all planned out!! She has already gven Barkiss his instructions!!!:)
Wet Beaver
10-13-2005, 10:58 PM
Excellent! I'll just go rifle through my lingerie to find an appropriate bra for a welcome flag!!
make sure it is not a J.C. Penny bra.......he will need knife to take it off of ya....
Norfolkdave
10-14-2005, 04:44 AM
Yes grows quite tall and wide and just trim it to the way you want it!!!!
The plant i mean!!!!
I know what you meant and I agree :wa:
Norfolkdave
10-14-2005, 04:46 AM
I'll make it an RV...:D We'll need somewhere to "sleep"
Im coming too......LOL:lmao
Barkiss
10-14-2005, 08:52 AM
No need for the flag, barks. Just keep an eye for me at the border. I'll be the one standing at the top of the BLuewater bridge, frantically waving her bra in the air! Especially if you're bring Annie, Cuda and Lena! Oh we're going to have some fun! *rubbing her hands together in glee*
I might as well, because the flag pole will already be up....:D
Annie
10-14-2005, 11:03 AM
make sure it is not a J.C. Penny bra.......he will need knife to take it off of ya....
I don't think she's planning on wearing this one....
:D ....like a beacon, beckoning to me, drawing us closer...oh barks! Oh Lena! Oh cuda! Oh Annie! Oh my! Maybe we should plan this for around the American Thanksgiving, so we all have something really special to be thankful for!!
I might as well, because the flag pole will already be up....:D
KIRA187
10-14-2005, 07:52 PM
:D ....like a beacon, beckoning to me, drawing us closer...oh barks! Oh Lena! Oh cuda! Oh Annie! Oh my! Maybe we should plan this for around the American Thanksgiving, so we all have something really special to be thankful for!!
Jugs, I felt this vibe coming from the laptop as I walked by. What a way to celebrate thanksgiving... ;)
KIRA187
10-14-2005, 07:54 PM
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I am so jealous of your laptop. It gets to sit on your lap! It will have to surrender its spot for me!
Jugs, I felt this vibe coming from the laptop as I walked by. What a way to celebrate thanksgiving... ;)
Excellent! I'll just go rifle through my lingerie to find an appropriate bra for a welcome flag!!
A nice bright one so we can see it from a distance!!!:gs
Annie
10-14-2005, 08:38 PM
I am so jealous of your laptop. It gets to sit on your lap! It will have to surrender its spot for me!
Hold on a minute here, Jugs! I get his "laptop" first... I invited him! Besides, remember the rule... the line starts BEHIND ME and to the LEFT!
Lena... back me up here!
illmakeurtoeswiggle
10-14-2005, 08:53 PM
Damn Cuda! Ya got em fighten over ya!
Annie
10-14-2005, 09:05 PM
A nice bright one so we can see it from a distance!!!:gs
Hey Lena, I just got back from "Thongs~R~Us", maybe we should hang one off the antenna of the Winnebego so she watch for us.... let's see... I got purple, navy and black... I think purple would work.
Hold on a minute here, Jugs! I get his "laptop" first... I invited him! Besides, remember the rule... the line starts BEHIND ME and to the LEFT!
Lena... back me up here!
Oh yes Definitely!!!!! Annie was right behind me and the line starts from behind her to the left!!!!! So come on, all in an orderly line!!!!! We will all get our turns!!! Cuda's lap and Barkiss' voice!!! Hey what about Xenote's behind??? ohhhh this is going to be fun!!!!:)
Annie
10-14-2005, 09:11 PM
:D ....like a beacon, beckoning to me, drawing us closer...oh barks! Oh Lena! Oh cuda! Oh Annie! Oh my! Maybe we should plan this for around the American Thanksgiving, so we all have something really special to be thankful for!!
Now you're talkin Jugs! I'll be thankful alright! Besides who wants to hang around the same bunch of turkeys year after year when there is fun to be had in the great white north!
Hey Lena, I just got back from "Thongs~R~Us", maybe we should hang one off the antenna of the Winnebego so she watch for us.... let's see... I got purple, navy and black... I think purple would work.
Yes i think purple would be seen best!!!!!! JUGS!!!!! Look out for our purple thong flying off the antenna!!!:)
Now you're talkin Jugs! I'll be thankful alright! Besides who wants to hang around the same bunch of turkeys year after year when there is fun to be had in the great white north!
Yes boring turkeys!!!!!!!
They get to come in our houses all the time!!!!
Annie
10-14-2005, 09:14 PM
Oh yes Definitely!!!!! Annie was right behind me and the line starts from behind her to the left!!!!! So come on, all in an orderly line!!!!! We will all get our turns!!! Cuda's lap and Barkiss' voice!!! Hey what about Xenote's behind??? ohhhh this is going to be fun!!!!:)
I don't know... where the heck is Xenote anyway? Hey Barkiss, is there any room left in the Winnebego?
I don't know... where the heck is Xenote anyway? Hey Barkiss, is there any room left in the Winnebego?
He is around!!!! Maybe he'll pop in tomorrow!!!
If his butt is like any of those French ones i have seen so far, we will need him too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And i am still listening to all those voices!!!! And trying to figure out if any will sound like his!!!!!
Onehttmama
10-14-2005, 09:20 PM
Hey Lena, I just got back from "Thongs~R~Us", maybe we should hang one off the antenna of the Winnebego so she watch for us.... let's see... I got purple, navy and black... I think purple would work.
Ahh! Did someone say Purple? Thats my color, You musta been calling me to join in;). I see Cuda jumped in for the ride and Wiggles seems to be a bit jealous. I can handle those 2, just remeber they like silk ties and blindfolds:D .
If I didnt already have plans to head to FL for Thanksgiving I'd hitch a ride sounds like fun! I need the beach and warm weather! :whee: Lena, you and Annie have fun! dont let them get away with tooo much, keep'em inline girls!:nu :lf :hp: :knuddel:
:D ....like a beacon, beckoning to me, drawing us closer...oh barks! Oh Lena! Oh cuda! Oh Annie! Oh my! Maybe we should plan this for around the American Thanksgiving, so we all have something really special to be thankful for!!
ooohhhh that sounds great!!!!!
Haven't done an American thanksgiving before!!!!!!:gs
Ahh! Did someone say Purple? Thats my color, You musta been calling me to join in;). I see Cuda jumped in for the ride and Wiggles seems to be a bit jealous. I can handle those 2, just remeber they like silk ties and blindfolds:D .
If I didnt already have plans to head to FL for Thanksgiving I'd hitch a ride sounds like fun! I need the beach and warm weather! :whee: Lena, you and Annie have fun! dont let them get away with tooo much, keep'em inline girls!:nu :lf :hp: :knuddel:
Oh yes we intend to keep them in line!!!!:) Don't worry!!! They will love being kept in line!!! They will only get away with as much as will let them!!! Isn't that right Annie???:gs
So does that mean Annie and i have to pack silk ties and blindfolds too????
Well Hope you have some great weather on the beach httmama!!!!!!
illmakeurtoeswiggle
10-14-2005, 09:52 PM
Ahh! Did someone say Purple? Thats my color, You musta been calling me to join in;). I see Cuda jumped in for the ride and Wiggles seems to be a bit jealous. I can handle those 2, just remeber they like silk ties and blindfolds:D .
If I didnt already have plans to head to FL for Thanksgiving I'd hitch a ride sounds like fun! I need the beach and warm weather! :whee: Lena, you and Annie have fun! dont let them get away with tooo much, keep'em inline girls!:nu :lf :hp: :knuddel:
Where the heck have you been Mama?...and I'm not jealous, Cuda can handle more women than me. I'm mostly a one woman man!
Unless I'm flirting that is...;)
It's good to see ya back:kk
KIRA187
10-14-2005, 10:08 PM
I am so jealous of your laptop. It gets to sit on your lap! It will have to surrender its spot for me!
Jugs Jugs Jugs.... You sure know how to drive a point across!;)
KIRA187
10-14-2005, 10:12 PM
Ahh! Did someone say Purple? Thats my color, You musta been calling me to join in;). I see Cuda jumped in for the ride and Wiggles seems to be a bit jealous. I can handle those 2, just remeber they like silk ties and blindfolds:D .
If I didnt already have plans to head to FL for Thanksgiving I'd hitch a ride sounds like fun! I need the beach and warm weather! :whee: Lena, you and Annie have fun! dont let them get away with tooo much, keep'em inline girls!:nu :lf :hp: :knuddel:
mama darlin... why would you ever pass up an opportunity to hang with us? I am sure you would have a much better time than anyplace you could be goin.:D
Barkiss
10-14-2005, 11:04 PM
I don't know... where the heck is Xenote anyway? Hey Barkiss, is there any room left in the Winnebego?
Sure...Xenote can come...but damn it, I'm not driving while everyone else is having fun!!
Sure...Xenote can come...but damn it, I'm not driving while everyone else is having fun!!
You could take it in turns to drive!!!
But are you sure you won't be jealous of his butt????
Barkiss
10-14-2005, 11:16 PM
You could take it in turns to drive!!!
But are you sure you won't be jealous of his butt????
In my opinion, I'm using his butt to attract women. As long as I'm getting to have fun, his butt is welcome.
No WB...I don't mean having fun with his butt...
In my opinion, I'm using his butt to attract women. As long as I'm getting to have fun, his butt is welcome.
No WB...I don't mean having fun with his butt...
Glad to hear you don't mean having fun with his butt!!!!:rofl1:
Well remember you have the voice we are gathering around for!!!:) mmmmm
Barkiss
10-14-2005, 11:23 PM
Glad to hear you don't mean having fun with his butt!!!!:rofl1:
Well remember you have the voice we are gathering around for!!!:) mmmmm
Good to know I will be donating something to the trip...;) and just wait until you see my butt...:)
Good to know I will be donating something to the trip...;) and just wait until you see my butt...:)
oooohhhhh can't wait!!!!! Can't i see it now?????:gs
Barkiss
10-14-2005, 11:36 PM
oooohhhhh can't wait!!!!! Can't i see it now?????:gs
You share...and I'll think about it...;)
Yes but you will make me do it first then you will escape!!!
Barkiss
10-14-2005, 11:44 PM
Yes but you will make me do it first then you will escape!!!
You can trust me...;)
You can trust me...;)
Since when can we trust a man?????
Barkiss
10-15-2005, 12:23 AM
Since when can we trust a man?????
Not trusting me would be stereo-typing me...I'm not ordinary, so you can trust me....;)
hhhhmmm ok i trust you but i am still not going first!!!
Barkiss
10-15-2005, 12:29 AM
hhhhmmm ok i trust you but i am still not going first!!!
Damn...that line always worked when I was younger...;)
Onehttmama
10-15-2005, 12:29 AM
mama darlin... why would you ever pass up an opportunity to hang with us? I am sure you would have a much better time than anyplace you could be goin.:D
Cuda, I definitely have alot of fun with you guys and everybody on this site for that matter. BUT I have to take my daughter to visit colleges. So we are gonna visit a friend and have some R & R too, maybe go to Disney a day or 2! But I shall return to play again!;) You all be good while I'm gone.:D
Damn...that line always worked when I was younger...;)
awwwww!!! But we have all got older and wiser!!!!:)
Barkiss
10-15-2005, 12:34 AM
awwwww!!! But we have all got older and wiser!!!!:)
Such a shame...
I'm sure you will think of something else!!!!
You have such an active mind!!!!
Barkiss
10-15-2005, 12:37 AM
I'm sure you will think of something else!!!!
You have such an active mind!!!!
My mama always said to say "please"....so....Please? :)
My mama always said to say "please"....so....Please? :)
Your mama was right!!!!! But its still not fair!!!!:gs
Barkiss
10-15-2005, 12:45 AM
What do you suggest?
Onehttmama
10-15-2005, 12:47 AM
Where the heck have you been Mama?...and I'm not jealous, Cuda can handle more women than me. I'm mostly a one woman man!
Unless I'm flirting that is...;)
It's good to see ya back:kk
LONGSTORY Wiggles, but I am ok. Will be here less till the holidays.
I know you are a one woman man! ;) So happy for you! Glad also you havent forgot about your family here at M&F!:kk
What do you suggest?
I'm going to have to leave you to come up with the suggestions!!! As i am going to go to sleep!!
If i say sending it to each other at the same time you would be the one who is the last one to!!! :)
Barkiss
10-15-2005, 12:54 AM
See outsmarted...ok..I'll think about it and we will continue the discussion again....Good night...sleep well.
ok! We will!!! night night you sleep well to!!!!
Annie
10-15-2005, 02:57 AM
Oh yes we intend to keep them in line!!!!:) Don't worry!!! They will love being kept in line!!! They will only get away with as much as will let them!!! Isn't that right Annie???:gs
So does that mean Annie and i have to pack silk ties and blindfolds too????
Well Hope you have some great weather on the beach httmama!!!!!!
Keeping them in line will be no problem... it's the line behind me that I worry about!
Keeping them in line will be no problem... it's the line behind me that I worry about!
So do you have any ideas what we do about that then????
Norfolkdave
10-15-2005, 12:42 PM
So do you have any ideas what we do about that then????
I,ll bring up the rear no problem......heh heh heh:lmao
markjami
10-21-2005, 04:37 PM
I only hope that I have to deal with my wife and another woman. I would want to watch and then offer to ive each of them something to remember me by
x1137
10-23-2005, 11:45 PM
Hey count me in !!!! That would be great because it would open all the doors to pleasure and fun. Got to love those open minded ladies....
aceofspades1114
10-25-2005, 06:40 PM
I have to agree with bigorgan here.
If I knew about it or it was a secret for me to see then not really, but if I walked in I would be pissed.
quax999
10-26-2005, 09:46 AM
I think to if i just happen to walk in on my wife having sex, with another woman, at first i'd be shocked, and just watch, then, I'd be running around trying to find, the camcorder, all the while, trying to get undressed, and jack off, while watching them. Then i'd have to join in, of course.
markjami
10-26-2005, 12:43 PM
I guess the question would be. "What if she falls for this other man or woman.?" Man that would suck
KIRA187
10-26-2005, 12:48 PM
I guess the question would be. "What if she falls for this other man or woman.?" Man that would suck
that is true so it could be a case of you play you may have to pay.
markjami
10-26-2005, 01:06 PM
The price of playing could be so high. I quess you just have to determine if the play time is worth the timeout
Norfolkdave
10-26-2005, 03:06 PM
I guess the question would be. "What if she falls for this other man or woman.?" Man that would suck
And it could happen, and if it did, would it have been worth it?
markjami
10-26-2005, 06:18 PM
If it was great sex and two woman were getting it on and steaming up the room then I guess at least we would go out in style.
dallyfoster
10-28-2005, 01:47 AM
I still think it would be kinky and awesome as hell that if I had a wife and came home to find her with another woman
Penny
10-28-2005, 03:14 PM
Not easy for a woman to find another woman believe me I know :( I been looking
mometal77
10-29-2005, 03:21 AM
One lady i sometimes see penny says it is easy to find another woman but she says most women are mental.
Not easy for a woman to find another woman believe me I know :( I been looking
dallyfoster
10-29-2005, 03:45 AM
Penny... if your ever with another woman... please please take pictures
Penny
10-29-2005, 02:51 PM
I have pictures from the last time but I cant post them here:gs
Penny... if your ever with another woman... please please take pictures
GeekMaster
10-29-2005, 02:54 PM
I have pictures from the last time but I cant post them here:gs
Newsletter?;)
Norfolkdave
10-29-2005, 03:13 PM
I have pictures from the last time but I cant post them here:gs
Im sure by sending them to our emails we can still vote and reply without any harm being done
Penny
10-29-2005, 03:15 PM
I dont think she would appreciate it :D They are incredible though :lmao
Newsletter?;)
JoeyLites
11-02-2005, 05:34 AM
I can only PRAY that my wife would do this! I would, watch and be unabashed about showing them how much I enjoyed it if you get my drift!
justask_me_2
11-03-2005, 01:39 PM
I'm not sure. I believe it isn't in the physical sense, ,but I do think it can be considered cheating if you are leaving your wife out of your sexual experience. In my case, sex isn't something she ever wants to experience, so my only outlet is through porn. I must say when it comes to cybersex though, I am a virgin.
Do you consider cyber sex cheating on your spouse???
ktown
11-09-2005, 10:01 AM
my hubby would just turn around and walk out.. He knows i am Bi, and that i still see other women , with his permission, but he want notting to do with a 3 some.. I find it very strange at times, but i can not complane to much..
:sg :sg your husband is a fucking idiot at th least i would sit in the corner and wack it. would you join in if you caught your husband with another man? i love sex women especially but have often thought about having sex with a guy
Norfolkdave
11-09-2005, 10:11 AM
your husband is a fucking idiot at th least i would sit in the corner and wack it. would you join in if you caught your husband with another man? i love sex women especially but have often thought about having sex with a guy
Little Jack Horner Sat in the Corner Eh!:lmao
Penny
11-09-2005, 03:19 PM
welcome ktown :kk
jack63834
11-12-2005, 07:37 AM
oh my what a thin line and grey area! I've cybered and didn't feel I was cheating. She cybered and I felt cheated on. We cybered together and enjoyed ourselves. Emotional cheating? YES. Use it as a suppliment of your regular sex life great. There are no boundaries.
oh my what a thin line and grey area! I've cybered and didn't feel I was cheating. She cybered and I felt cheated on. We cybered together and enjoyed ourselves. Emotional cheating? YES. Use it as a suppliment of your regular sex life great. There are no boundaries.
We use it as a suppliment...its great at times:hp: ...and sometimes the green monster rears its ugly headhttp://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/4/4_6_217v.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZS)....I hate jealousy....:nu
We know where we have been:knuddel: and where we are going:knuddel: ...why bother with feeling cheated on...Its such a waste of time.
Penny
11-12-2005, 01:50 PM
You can do anything together and have fun and not feel guilty ;)
Norfolkdave
11-12-2005, 01:55 PM
I love a bit of cyber fun, after all it takes two to tango, one to watch and enjoy if he/she hasnt a webcam, and or both if webcams are available.
bonzzz4292
11-16-2005, 11:21 PM
sorry if i came home and found my wife with some else it would be the end of our relationship..the same would be for me if it were reversed.
Sandy
11-17-2005, 08:23 AM
i agree with that we don't share. :kk
KIRA187
11-17-2005, 11:40 AM
sorry if i came home and found my wife with some else it would be the end of our relationship..the same would be for me if it were reversed.
I hear ya bonzzz.... I dont like to share either!
SirFox
11-17-2005, 01:23 PM
I hear ya bonzzz.... I dont like to share either!
The idea of arriving home and seeing my future partner (or my past wives) having sex with another man freezes me at this time.
However, I think that it depends upon the couple, their communication, their understandings of things intimate. How far will one go with another partner of the same sex is something that must be discussed within the couple. It seems a lot more acceptable for a lady to be bi-sexual than a man.
I wonder what would happen if I came home and saw my wife making love with another women whom I did not know. I wonder if I would react the same way as if I saw her with a man.
If it makes my partner happy to be with another women, providing that all are clean, why not, as long as I get to watch, join or be with my partner and that there are NO jealousies ....between the three.
The clincher, methinks, deals with feelings. If my partner begins to feel emotionally more strongly for a woman / another man than me, I draw the line there. Ciao.
The trouble is that when you love deeply, you still love that person regardless whether he cheated with your feelings.
:kk
BTW, should this thread not be be re-entitled " If You Came Home And Found Your Partner Having Sex?" Isn't it a bit SEXIST in reverse to use the term "wife" in the name of the thread here????????
Sandy
11-17-2005, 02:07 PM
its doesn't matter cheating is cheating. your vows say FORSAKEN ALL OTHERS. need i say more?
justask_me_2
11-17-2005, 02:19 PM
At first I would be extremely turned on by seeing this. It is also one of my fantasies. But as I think about it, I think I would become angry. As I have said before, I am sexually starved, and haven't had any in almost 2 years. Then, the more I think about it, I would begin to understand my wife a little better. But to tell you the truth, I can't see it happening, as I have suggested this very thing and she was repulsed by the idea.
SirFox
11-17-2005, 02:57 PM
its doesn't matter cheating is cheating. your vows say FORSAKEN ALL OTHERS. need i say more?
in front of a priest in front of a religion, what have you. If you are into that, then that's fine for you. For the next guy or gal on the block who may be in tune to another religion, to other spiritual values, that may mean something else, the vow taken in front of the head of a religious order.
A vow is a vow to one another. It seems to me when you take that vow, you take it at a certain time for a certain person.
Life is such that one can come to break that vow. Life is such that you may be doing something that you never thought possible like cheating on your partner.
Life is such that when two people come together and decide to marry, they should realise that the word "eternity" as nice as it seems, may mean something on that wonderful day of marriage. Five to ten years down the road, it may mean something quite different.
When you cheat, whom do you cheat? You cheat not on purely skin matters but on your partner's emotions, feelings and your respect for him. By your very actions, the cheater makes the cheated downgrades the face of the cheated person.
bonzzz4292
11-17-2005, 06:35 PM
for the married men..........divorced ........seperated........ingaged ..........or involved.......,,, the fact that you have taken a vow to the other,( unless mentioned before hand), you should do your best to follow that vow as if your life rests on it. if you do not then your word as a part of the male gender is useless. if you cannot stay honest to your partner how will you be honest with the rest of the world?
if you are in a relationship and your partner is the dishonest party then get out.
SirFox
11-18-2005, 04:14 AM
for the married men..........divorced ........seperated........ingaged ..........or involved.......,,, the fact that you have taken a vow to the other,( unless mentioned before hand), you should do your best to follow that vow as if your life rests on it. if you do not then your word as a part of the male gender is useless. if you cannot stay honest to your partner how will you be honest with the rest of the world?
if you are in a relationship and your partner is the dishonest party then get out.
BONZZ: That is fine for you if that is the way you have decided to live your life and then your vow is good for the duration. No problems of that except perhaps for certain people that vow thing is a big thing which they do not want in today's societies.
I was just thinking outloud and typing in my post before...about where cheating starts....
Apart from that hope all is well with you and MyWifeMark
FFox
for the married men..........divorced ........seperated........ingaged ..........or involved.......,,, the fact that you have taken a vow to the other,( unless mentioned before hand), you should do your best to follow that vow as if your life rests on it. if you do not then your word as a part of the male gender is useless. if you cannot stay honest to your partner how will you be honest with the rest of the world?
if you are in a relationship and your partner is the dishonest party then get out.
Better keep him MyWifeMark...
quax999
11-18-2005, 09:35 AM
I don't feel that cybering is cheating on my spouse. But my wife doesn't feel the same way.
woody9340
11-30-2005, 08:49 PM
I like cybering and knowing that I'm turning another woman on is exciting.
Norfolkdave
12-01-2005, 05:29 AM
I like cybering and knowing that I'm turning another woman on is exciting.
How do you know if she isnt sitting there just knitting:lmao
That is a good question Dave!!!
Barkiss
12-01-2005, 02:55 PM
How do you know if she isnt sitting there just knitting:lmao
Hell..how do you know she isn't a he...;)
smokingun
12-01-2005, 03:05 PM
lol!! Well what you don't know I guess won't hurt!
Sandy
12-01-2005, 07:50 PM
lol i wouldn't count on that:lmao
Trackcoach
12-01-2005, 11:31 PM
Well I'm a bit late on this thread but since there's a recent post andf I'm new i guess I'll throw in my take so people can get to know me better :)
Personally, I am not sure I would call it cheating, perhaps too much a symantic debate. But its in my opinion for a marriage to be worth it's salt, hell any relationship really, there should never be any kind of secret or lie. If ya have to hide then something's broken and should be taken care of together or ultimately apart. Whats the point of being in a theoretical committment of love when its not quite the reality. I've always been outspoken with friends about being completely honest and open but when it comes down to it, to each their own. My wife knows of everything I do and we really have no jealousies since we know that we love each other and no one could come between it. Perhaps I'm especially lucky....scratch that, I know I am. I guess I just wish everyone could have that sense of ....... trust ...... fulfillment within their relationships, married or even amongst friends.
Whoa, that seemed a bit preachy and soap boxish, someone pull me down before I hang myself!! hehe
Norfolkdave
12-02-2005, 04:37 AM
That is a good question Dave!!!
Knit one, pearl one:lmao
Norfolkdave
12-02-2005, 04:37 AM
Hell..how do you know she isn't a he...;)
Very true:lmao
depends on how good the cyber is
Sandy
12-02-2005, 08:57 AM
trackcoach i'm right there with you. my husband and i both love this site. is your wife a member?
:wa:
Trackcoach
12-02-2005, 01:19 PM
No my wife isn't a member. She really has no interest in computers at all.
Gentleman
12-10-2005, 08:44 AM
I dont consider it cheating, but have wanted it to lead to cheating with the right lady.
Sandy
12-10-2005, 09:14 AM
well gentleman i can honestly say, thats never happened to me. :wa:
Waltert
12-10-2005, 04:16 PM
So what is your sexy secret?
well gentleman i can honestly say, thats never happened to me. :wa:
skybird
12-12-2005, 06:03 AM
What happens when you are madly in love with your wife or husband but your testosterones/wass the other name for the women thing, races you and make you feel so horny and then you go and make love with others?
My next question is.... if this is embedded in our system, why is it wrong to fight it off?
And another religious/moral question:
Okey so God created us like that on the one hand he has made us look sideways on the other he is telling it's a sin. I mean...WTF,man?
Care to discuss these silly questions? Thanks. :)
skybird
12-12-2005, 06:06 AM
In other words we are all in one big emotional mess. ;)
sex_kitten_4u
12-12-2005, 06:19 AM
have never cheated on anyone i am such a good girl
Norfolkdave
12-12-2005, 06:26 AM
have never cheated on anyone i am such a good girl
never.
sex_kitten_4u
12-12-2005, 06:27 AM
never :)
Norfolkdave
12-12-2005, 06:34 AM
never :)
Honesty
sex_kitten_4u
12-12-2005, 06:36 AM
honestly , that is the 1 way i am an old fashioned gal , my b/f wants to have a 3 some and i have said no coz i just could not do it :-)
skybird
12-12-2005, 06:39 AM
Awwww. :lf
Translation: Heck. :(
Sandy
12-14-2005, 04:00 PM
i've never cheated, i've never wanted to either, i'm happy here:wa:
surfnchat
12-14-2005, 08:19 PM
i've never cheated, i've never wanted to either, i'm happy here:wa:
Same here.
My definition is if you can't tell the other about it or if they found out it will hurt them, it's cheating.
Waltert
12-14-2005, 08:30 PM
honestly , that is the 1 way i am an old fashioned gal , my b/f wants to have a 3 some and i have said no coz i just could not do it :-)
Good for you, I now one woman that "let it happen" and now she is mad at herself for going along with it.
sweetgapeach
12-14-2005, 09:28 PM
If you have SEx or Make love as you call it with someone other than Spouse it's cheating! If you have that feeling for someone else you have cheated in a way,just my opioin!
And i dont think God should be brought into it ,We make are own decisions and our own rules!!
clitlicker111
12-15-2005, 12:02 AM
I say it's when you screw someone other than your spouse. My wife would say just being on this web sight would be:(
Wet Beaver
12-15-2005, 12:22 AM
if it is something you have to hide...then it is cheating...if you keep it out in the open... then it is not....
goodgirl12
12-15-2005, 06:35 PM
come on who is touching who?
goodgirl12
12-15-2005, 06:44 PM
goodgirl12 out here. looking for some fun?
goodgirl12
12-15-2005, 06:54 PM
woody you like getting into tuening women on? want to give me a try? my husband has a hard time grtting me going!
Sunfiresix
12-15-2005, 06:58 PM
Hi goodgirl, you will find some fun here, hope we can chat sometime.
sex_kitten_4u
12-15-2005, 07:48 PM
Knit one, pearl one:lmao
omg what you knitting :kk
KIRA187
12-15-2005, 08:12 PM
come on who is touching who?
say hey goodgirl.. welcome. dont look at me my hands are behind my back. see!
:)
Sandy
12-15-2005, 09:58 PM
we both love to flirt and joke and cut up, we don't lie about it or hide anything from each other, so thats our secret. :wa:
Gentleman
12-15-2005, 11:10 PM
I just want to be intimate with a lady that needs me and finds me sensous, as i do her. What are your thoughts?
clitlicker111
12-16-2005, 01:45 AM
I would love that myself :hp:
Norfolkdave
12-16-2005, 04:18 AM
goodgirl12 out here. looking for some fun?
Welcome to a great site, may your postings find what you are looking for, we are all sane, and situated all around the globe. Your bound to attract someones eye, stay, post and be happy.
Norfolkdave
12-16-2005, 04:41 AM
I think we all would
tiger50
12-16-2005, 05:15 AM
I just want to be intimate with a lady that needs me and finds me sensous, as i do her. What are your thoughts?
mmm mate not sure what to say here... be careful...
I have i guess a stale marriage, has been for about 12 years, i dont hate my wife, but shit it was hard.
I met a lady via icq, we met, and have been meeting weekly for the last 4 years, obviously its much more than just sex to last that long, to live a double life is hard, always lookin over the shoulder.
As i said i dont hate my wife, but there is just nothing there, am not prepared to leave either as we have a 13 yo son...
Is there such a thing as a monogamous affair..mmm dunno
not sure if i can help u any more mate , but if u wanna talk further , u can pm me or email... :wa:
Norfolkdave
12-16-2005, 05:17 AM
You old rascal tiger...............LOL
tiger50
12-16-2005, 05:28 AM
lol yeh... dunno what to say dave it was never really intended, just happened...
tiger50
12-16-2005, 05:32 AM
hey dave, go to my profile, bring up the joke threads started, c what u think... think oz and pom sense of humour is diffent to the others... perhaps u may appreciate em....
Norfolkdave
12-16-2005, 05:57 AM
hey dave, go to my profile, bring up the joke threads started, c what u think... think oz and pom sense of humour is diffent to the others... perhaps u may appreciate em....
Now I wondered what that Thud was 5 minutes ago???????:lmao Dont tell me your zip was loose?
Seeker
12-16-2005, 07:55 AM
I'd give it a go!! :hitit: :sex ;) :) woody you like getting into tuening women on? want to give me a try? my husband has a hard time grtting me going!
Sandy
12-16-2005, 07:59 AM
i'm not preaching ok guys, i'm just old-fashioned i guess, but we don't cheat, i told mark if he ever wants somebody else all he has to do is say so i'm gone, but i'm a firm believer in our vows, forsaken all others, but then again i'm here, i love to flirt and joke guys you know that. but thats it.
Norfolkdave
12-16-2005, 12:16 PM
i'm not preaching ok guys, i'm just old-fashioned i guess, but we don't cheat, i told mark if he ever wants somebody else all he has to do is say so i'm gone, but i'm a firm believer in our vows, forsaken all others, but then again i'm here, i love to flirt and joke guys you know that. but thats it.
Im only flirting Sandy, I wouldnt dream of hurting you or suggest anything you know that;)
Norfolkdave
12-16-2005, 12:34 PM
omg what you knitting :kk
A scarf? what did you think..LOl:lmao
Sandy
12-16-2005, 01:19 PM
awe dav i know that, i'm only flirting back at you, but there is a big diff between what we do and cheating is all i'm saying
Sunfiresix
12-16-2005, 03:15 PM
Go with it and enjoy--may be really good for both.
Norfolkdave
12-16-2005, 03:56 PM
awe dav i know that, i'm only flirting back at you, but there is a big diff between what we do and cheating is all i'm saying
I love you flirting but like you said cheating is something different and i dont think I could do it despite how sexy at times I feel.:lf
surfnchat
12-16-2005, 10:12 PM
i'm not preaching ok guys, i'm just old-fashioned i guess, but we don't cheat, i told mark if he ever wants somebody else all he has to do is say so i'm gone, but i'm a firm believer in our vows, forsaken all others, but then again i'm here, i love to flirt and joke guys you know that. but thats it.
Well said. I hope I never reach the point where I would want to walk away from what I have. It's fun to flirt, but you have to know when not to cross that line. If you feel you need to, then it's better to make a break to be fair to your partner and yourself.
Sandy
12-17-2005, 12:24 AM
that is so true surf
sex_kitten_4u
12-17-2005, 06:57 AM
once they cheat they will always cheat
Waltert
12-17-2005, 07:10 AM
I know the feeling
Wonds to heal.
We all make mistakes and some mistakes cost more than others. and about forgivness. I believe some can but it is a rare individual that can truley forgive and forget.
Ok I cheated, and im still paying for it 20 yrs. later
tiger50
12-17-2005, 07:22 AM
Yes I have been naughty and cheated that was in the early stages of marriage, I was then forgiven, now she is celibate and has been for 6 years Im struggling to put love back into our marriage as Im happy flirting, perhaps wrong I dont know but hell 6 years!
yeh mate, have been there. tried and tried , no sense in bein a bloody fool....
i fell after 12 years of it, and i did really try, you have seen my other comments on threads, there is a point you get to i guess, well i did.
there are some on that thread that made judgement, i reject that, no-one has that right unless the details are known. and not even then...
Some of the things i do keep me sane and happy, i'll not die wondering.....:)
tiger50
12-17-2005, 07:45 AM
once they cheat they will always cheat
dont buy that one at all...
tiger50
12-17-2005, 07:49 AM
dont think any of you have the right to be judgmental on circumstances you know nothing about....
Sandy
12-17-2005, 09:36 AM
hey i'm not juding, i'm ging on experince here, my sister married a man who had already been married 3 times, had 3 kids from all 3 woman, he told her he was a whore. but she went thru it anyway, well she cheated once, and told him, she got preganet, he cheated the whole time. no 2 wrongs don't make a right, but when your mate is preg, and having trouble you should be where? there divorced now. he has cheated on every woman he has been with. so once they cheat, they'll do it again yes
Waltert
12-17-2005, 09:58 AM
not always, many do but not all
It is like just because you stole once does not mean you will always do it.
illmakeurtoeswiggle
12-17-2005, 02:36 PM
Maybe there is a reason people cheat on their spouses...duh!
Marriage is sometimes not what it should be and people seek out for what they need that they don't have in their marriage. You can call it cheating if you want to, but it's real life and it happens. If a person is satisfied in their marriage it "usually" doesn't happen....
Penny
12-17-2005, 05:38 PM
You only live once and you have to decide if your happy with the way its going. I dont really condone it but everyone is different
tiger50
12-17-2005, 06:13 PM
hey i'm not juding, i'm ging on experince here, my sister married a man who had already been married 3 times, had 3 kids from all 3 woman, he told her he was a whore. but she went thru it anyway, well she cheated once, and told him, she got preganet, he cheated the whole time. no 2 wrongs don't make a right, but when your mate is preg, and having trouble you should be where? there divorced now. he has cheated on every woman he has been with. so once they cheat, they'll do it again yes
so your views revolve totally around what 1 person has done???
Sandy
12-17-2005, 06:20 PM
no thats just i case, i know alot more though, i know people who have an open marriage to each his own i say, but the 1 thing that has been proven to me at least, that if you cheat once you'll do it again, now remember i said me. not everybody else ok
italian_princess0420
12-17-2005, 06:46 PM
hey i'm not juding, i'm ging on experince here, my sister married a man who had already been married 3 times, had 3 kids from all 3 woman, he told her he was a whore. but she went thru it anyway, well she cheated once, and told him, she got preganet, he cheated the whole time. no 2 wrongs don't make a right, but when your mate is preg, and having trouble you should be where? there divorced now. he has cheated on every woman he has been with. so once they cheat, they'll do it again yes
i sooo agree w/u sandy....once a cheater..always a cheater
tiger50
12-17-2005, 06:55 PM
sorry but i reserve the right to disagree
spare_change
12-18-2005, 05:47 AM
I, too, must disagree. And, frankly, as a previous cheater, I think I can give you a truer perspective than those who view from the outside. There is absolutely no way that a person outside the relationship can or should judge - you don't know the interaction within the relationship, and all you are doing is passing an emotional or moral judgement on the "scoundrel".
There are those people who bring nothing to a relationship, and don't invest in it, and therefore, can never be completed. They become habitual cheaters. They are typically emotionally immature and self centered.
For the rest of us, however, inside each of us, is a set of needs.We will do whatever we MUST do to have those needs met -- there is no religious, moral, or legal constraint strong enough to stop the pursuit of getting those needs met. When we enter into a relationship, it is with the expectation that those needs will be satisfied - when they aren't, eventually, we will look elsewhere.
The decision to cheat is an emotional one - not a physical one. If a person is in a relationship that they feel completes them, then they won't cheat. All their emotional, physical, and spiritual needs are being met, and that is the true definition of happiness. Just because a person cheats once, doesn't mean that he/she will cheat again. However, the odds are that the problem in the relationship that caused it the first time doesn't get fixed - the wounded party is too busy being wounded to take an honest look at why it happened. After all, it must be his flaw-- he is the one who strayed. It couldn't be me - I was faithful. So, the need goes unmet - and sure enough, he strays again. But, if he/she enters into a new more fulfulling, more complete relationship, there is no reason to expect that he/she will stray again.
So, if your spouse cheats, you need to ask yourself only two questions. Was he/she invested in this relationship? If so, what need was not met?
If you are on the outside, frankly, it's none of your business -- even if it is your friend or brother or sister that gets hurt. You don't know the dynamics of the relationship - you don't know what goes on behind closed doors - you only know that it makes you feel righteous to judge.
Norfolkdave
12-18-2005, 05:48 AM
Maybe there is a reason people cheat on their spouses...duh!
Marriage is sometimes not what it should be and people seek out for what they need that they don't have in their marriage. You can call it cheating if you want to, but it's real life and it happens. If a person is satisfied in their marriage it "usually" doesn't happen....
Hello man, where have you been!, and I agree with your post:wa:
spare_change
12-18-2005, 05:54 AM
Dang, Spare -- did they touch a sore point?
Norfolkdave
12-18-2005, 05:56 AM
I, too, must disagree. And, frankly, as a previous cheater, I think I can give you a truer perspective than those who view from the outside. There is absolutely no way that a person outside the relationship can or should judge - you don't know the interaction within the relationship, and all you are doing is passing an emotional or moral judgement on the "scoundrel".
There are those people who bring nothing to a relationship, and don't invest in it, and therefore, can never be completed. They become habitual cheaters. They are typically emotionally immature and self centered.
For the rest of us, however, inside each of us, is a set of needs.We will do whatever we MUST do to have those needs met -- there is no religious, moral, or legal constraint strong enough to stop the pursuit of getting those needs met. When we enter into a relationship, it is with the expectation that those needs will be satisfied - when they aren't, eventually, we will look elsewhere.
The decision to cheat is an emotional one - not a physical one. If a person is in a relationship that they feel completes them, then they won't cheat. All their emotional, physical, and spiritual needs are being met, and that is the true definition of happiness. Just because a person cheats once, doesn't mean that he/she will cheat again. However, the odds are that the problem in the relationship that caused it the first time doesn't get fixed - the wounded party is too busy being wounded to take an honest look at why it happened. After all, it must be his flaw-- he is the one who strayed. It couldn't be me - I was faithful. So, the need goes unmet - and sure enough, he strays again. But, if he/she enters into a new more fulfulling, more complete relationship, there is no reason to expect that he/she will stray again.
So, if your spouse cheats, you need to ask yourself only two questions. Was he/she invested in this relationship? If so, what need was not met?
If you are on the outside, frankly, it's none of your business -- even if it is your friend or brother or sister that gets hurt. You don't know the dynamics of the relationship - you don't know what goes on behind closed doors - you only know that it makes you feel righteous to judge.
Now I agree with you too, you have a way with words I,ll give you that, and a sound honest approach.
KIRA187
12-18-2005, 06:15 AM
Very well stated spare. Having experienced both sides of this issue, your words are so true.
I, too, must disagree. And, frankly, as a previous cheater, I think I can give you a truer perspective than those who view from the outside. There is absolutely no way that a person outside the relationship can or should judge - you don't know the interaction within the relationship, and all you are doing is passing an emotional or moral judgement on the "scoundrel".
There are those people who bring nothing to a relationship, and don't invest in it, and therefore, can never be completed. They become habitual cheaters. They are typically emotionally immature and self centered.
For the rest of us, however, inside each of us, is a set of needs.We will do whatever we MUST do to have those needs met -- there is no religious, moral, or legal constraint strong enough to stop the pursuit of getting those needs met. When we enter into a relationship, it is with the expectation that those needs will be satisfied - when they aren't, eventually, we will look elsewhere.
The decision to cheat is an emotional one - not a physical one. If a person is in a relationship that they feel completes them, then they won't cheat. All their emotional, physical, and spiritual needs are being met, and that is the true definition of happiness. Just because a person cheats once, doesn't mean that he/she will cheat again. However, the odds are that the problem in the relationship that caused it the first time doesn't get fixed - the wounded party is too busy being wounded to take an honest look at why it happened. After all, it must be his flaw-- he is the one who strayed. It couldn't be me - I was faithful. So, the need goes unmet - and sure enough, he strays again. But, if he/she enters into a new more fulfulling, more complete relationship, there is no reason to expect that he/she will stray again.
So, if your spouse cheats, you need to ask yourself only two questions. Was he/she invested in this relationship? If so, what need was not met?
If you are on the outside, frankly, it's none of your business -- even if it is your friend or brother or sister that gets hurt. You don't know the dynamics of the relationship - you don't know what goes on behind closed doors - you only know that it makes you feel righteous to judge.
tiger50
12-18-2005, 06:49 AM
cool so i am not alone here??? thanks for the support guys... bluddie ell i hate generalisations...
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