View Full Version : I Want My Brother-In-Law
Tru_Luv
01-20-2007, 06:58 AM
I got married young and just had a baby when we moved and then I met my brother in law for the first time. I thought he was hot, but didn't think anything could or would ever happen so I put it out of my mind.
Then I immediatly got pregnant again, I am now done having my second child. And now that my marriage is more sour than ever, I find myself longing for his handsome younger brother. Who is precisely my age. And I was just wondering if you guys think that I could ever get his single brother who has no kids to ever like me. Since I have two kids with his brother? Not to mention I am married to his brother. Please let me know what you think. Keep in mind that once I lose the rest of my 15 lbs of baby fat, I will be very good-looking again.
yaser
01-20-2007, 07:53 AM
I got married young and just had a baby when we moved and then I met my brother in law for the first time. I thought he was hot, but didn't think anything could or would ever happen so I put it out of my mind.
Then I immediatly got pregnant again, I am now done having my second child. And now that my marriage is more sour than ever, I find myself longing for his handsome younger brother. Who is precisely my age. And I was just wondering if you guys think that I could ever get his single brother who has no kids to ever like me. Since I have two kids with his brother? Not to mention I am married to his brother. Please let me know what you think. Keep in mind that once I lose the rest of my 15 lbs of baby fat, I will be very good-looking again.
Welcome,Tru_Luv,hope you will have the answers you want..For me that is ok.How old is your hubby?And who will look after the kids?Will brother in lwa like them?You will have two more from him too?
I got married young and just had a baby when we moved and then I met my brother in law for the first time. I thought he was hot, but didn't think anything could or would ever happen so I put it out of my mind.
Then I immediatly got pregnant again, I am now done having my second child. And now that my marriage is more sour than ever, I find myself longing for his handsome younger brother. Who is precisely my age. And I was just wondering if you guys think that I could ever get his single brother who has no kids to ever like me. Since I have two kids with his brother? Not to mention I am married to his brother. Please let me know what you think. Keep in mind that once I lose the rest of my 15 lbs of baby fat, I will be very good-looking again.
My suggestion would be....you are 21 with 2 babies. I think you better concentrate on taking care of your kids and yourself for a while before you jump into a relationship with anyone else just yet. Once your hormones get back where they are supposed to be things might look different.
And leave your husbands brother alone :55
Annie
01-20-2007, 08:54 AM
Now that just might get a little confusing for the kids.... if you marry your bother-in-law what are they going to call him? Uncle Daddy?
Yikes! What a way to mess up a family!
Outta
01-20-2007, 10:30 AM
Sorry Tru Luv, if there was ever a such thing as forbidden love, this is it. You'll f up their family for ever. That would be very selfish. Don't even think about it.
zobman
01-20-2007, 11:21 AM
Even if you did hook up with his brother, what would that do to a long relationship. I mean what would that do to his family and their relationship. It sure would be hard!!!!
Willy S
01-20-2007, 11:22 AM
not worth the hassle
zobman
01-20-2007, 11:33 AM
morning everyone
WARNING!!!!WARNING!!!WARNING!!!Step away from the brother-in law, step away from the brother-in-law. You may not be happy at home but restrain yourself. I'm afraid you'd regret it later. If you don't regret it for yourself, you may regret what it has done to the children and the rest of the extended family.
spare_change
01-20-2007, 12:33 PM
WARNING!!!!WARNING!!!WARNING!!!Step away from the brother-in law, step away from the brother-in-law. You may not be happy at home but restrain yourself. I'm afraid you'd regret it later. If you don't regret it for yourself, you may regret what it has done to the children and the rest of the extended family.
What she said!!
Outta
01-20-2007, 12:47 PM
WARNING!!!!WARNING!!!WARNING!!!Step away from the brother-in law, step away from the brother-in-law. You may not be happy at home but restrain yourself. I'm afraid you'd regret it later. If you don't regret it for yourself, you may regret what it has done to the children and the rest of the extended family.
Truth is that Lady wants the BIL.
Just joking, Tru Luv. The sentiment here is unanimous. Find one of the other 3 billion men on the planet.
[QUOTE=outtamymind1000]Truth is that Lady wants the BIL.
How did you know?:D
massage mike
01-20-2007, 12:56 PM
think or the kids tru love I can take up 2 pages and more with my story. My daughter and I have the greatest relation ship even though I worked just about every day and hardly connected as much as we like ,but she saw what Daddy went thru to keep the family together .Kidss are so precious
My sister-in-law approached me about four years ago with an offer for one night only. I turned her down, but it got back to my wife that the offer had been made. Nothing even happened between us and it messed up there whole family. That was four years ago and the fight continues to this day. You are talking to some people with a lot of life experience. This would be a train wreck.
Outta
01-20-2007, 01:20 PM
[QUOTE=outtamymind1000]Truth is that Lady wants the BIL.
How did you know?:D
Cause you've been ignoring me. There must be another man in your life. :-)
Now cum on, you know that no one can ever replace you.
Outta
01-20-2007, 01:40 PM
Now cum on, you know that no one can ever replace you.
GIT R DONE BABY GIT R DONE
massage mike
01-20-2007, 01:53 PM
go fpr it lady
Thanks for the encouragement, I think I will.
Tru_Luv
01-20-2007, 02:05 PM
Well the one thing that really gets me from what you guys have said is the part about the family, even extended family, i.e. my inlaws would be all messed up and fighting etc. I DONT want that to happen, that would suck considering how I live close to all of them in the town I live. So that's a good point. But rest assured, it's not like anything remotely has happened between his brother in law and me anyways.
Outta
01-20-2007, 02:40 PM
Good girl. You asked for opioins, you got em. Take care of those kiddies now and flirt on line. Can't get pregnant that way! Good luck.
janusman40
01-28-2007, 01:52 PM
hey , just take life easy and plz do not screw up u r family life , this will pass off , but u r kids are permanent dear
northernvam
01-28-2007, 03:12 PM
Well,
I guess my opinion on this would be ... approximately 1/2 the word's popluation is of the opposite sex. If you need to have sex with one particular person, although it will turn out as a disaster for all involved, then I would say that there is some other "need" driving you here than just the ordinary ones.
Either it is a self destructive need, or a need to cause some type of strife in order to get attention. In either case, it isn't going to wind up a win situaiton for anyone.
Barkiss
01-28-2007, 03:31 PM
Yeah....I just don't see anything good coming out of this scenario.
aceofspades1114
01-28-2007, 05:45 PM
Well it doesn't matter if you look good or not, this can screw the kids up when it gets out. I would say just let it be, you'll get over it sooner or later. Keeping it in the family isn't a good idea, like the others said. No good will come out of the scenario
Cotties
01-28-2007, 06:17 PM
Tru Love....I say go for it...two kids at 21 in a loveless marriage...hell I say get him drunk and do him without a condom in the local parkI got married young and just had a baby when we moved and then I met my brother in law for the first time. I thought he was hot, but didn't think anything could or would ever happen so I put it out of my mind.
Then I immediatly got pregnant again, I am now done having my second child. And now that my marriage is more sour than ever, I find myself longing for his handsome younger brother. Who is precisely my age. And I was just wondering if you guys think that I could ever get his single brother who has no kids to ever like me. Since I have two kids with his brother? Not to mention I am married to his brother. Please let me know what you think. Keep in mind that once I lose the rest of my 15 lbs of baby fat, I will be very good-looking again.
Zpanther
01-28-2007, 06:19 PM
Tru Love....I say go for it...two kids at 21 in a loveless marriage...hell I say get him drunk and do him without a condom in the local park
Uh oh! I think I see the Outlaw coming out in you again.... :D
aceofspades1114
01-28-2007, 06:23 PM
I have to agree with you there ZP
Cotties
01-28-2007, 06:28 PM
don't be so silly...everybody knows I'm a good boy these days still setting the highest of standards....
and by the sounds of this baby maker she may have already done her brother in law and his friends and is just asking for approval
Zpanther
01-28-2007, 06:49 PM
now..... now Cotties..... let's not jump to conclusions here..... Most people aren't as twisted as you.......
sirman1
02-01-2007, 09:44 PM
you can scream his name while beening with me i dont mind
Cotties
02-01-2007, 09:48 PM
I was just trying to get her attention in the hope she would one day post again...these young pregnant women of today just use us men as meatnow..... now Cotties..... let's not jump to conclusions here..... Most people aren't as twisted as you.......
Nikal
01-27-2008, 12:17 AM
Get out your cutest little slirt and put on a top that shows off what ever you have, and smile at him whenever he looks at you. Let your skirt slide up and put your haqnd on his thigh. If he's a man, he will get the idea, and you can get the sex you deserve, hon"
onceamarine
01-28-2008, 06:20 PM
I am a self admited selfish bastard, and usually only do what makes me happy. My sister-in-law is smokin hot, and we have shared a few flirts from time to time. However, I have always considered her forbiden fruit, and never allowed myself to do anything more than fantasize about her. I just can't see how it could lead to anything but misery. Now part of being a selfish bastard is looking at the big picture and knowing what will ultimately suck in the end.
WandaRing
01-28-2008, 06:43 PM
Well the one thing that really gets me from what you guys have said is the part about the family, even extended family, i.e. my inlaws would be all messed up and fighting etc. I DONT want that to happen, that would suck considering how I live close to all of them in the town I live. So that's a good point. But rest assured, it's not like anything remotely has happened between his brother in law and me anyways.
Do you know why you are unhappy? Have you talked with anyone about your feelings? I agree with the others in here being with your bil will only cuase heart ache for everyone and of course blood is thicker then water, so you'll lose. I hope you find some answers and we are here to chat with you....all the best
XR40TY
01-28-2008, 10:22 PM
Something like this has trouble wrote all over it!!!!!!!!!!! plz don't do it. It's a no win for all.
OICurready4me
01-28-2008, 11:10 PM
I got married young and just had a baby when we moved and then I met my brother in law for the first time. I thought he was hot, but didn't think anything could or would ever happen so I put it out of my mind.
Then I immediatly got pregnant again, I am now done having my second child. And now that my marriage is more sour than ever, I find myself longing for his handsome younger brother. Who is precisely my age. And I was just wondering if you guys think that I could ever get his single brother who has no kids to ever like me. Since I have two kids with his brother? Not to mention I am married to his brother. Please let me know what you think. Keep in mind that once I lose the rest of my 15 lbs of baby fat, I will be very good-looking again.
Sounds like you're trying to get your own Jerry Springer show....
phantasm
01-29-2008, 01:27 AM
Yikes, that sounds like a tall order and a request for complications galore on the side!
fourisit
01-29-2008, 11:08 AM
You are a mom and that should come first in this situation. It would ruin your kids before they even had a chance in this world and as parents we are supose to protect our kids so they can grow up healthy and strong people. This would not be healthy for them. That is all that should matter.
inquisitive
01-29-2008, 02:50 PM
been there.
there are somethings brothers just dont do....me and my brother may have competed for a few...but after 1 had been with was kinda off limits
stucknmarriage74(f)
01-29-2008, 03:12 PM
In my book messing with hubby's brother is a big no-no....kinda like messing with your best friends man
razorsedge
01-29-2008, 03:33 PM
I'm not into guys so no brother in law for me.
Big O
01-29-2008, 03:52 PM
what a way to ruin a family.... are you for real??
ksue7274
01-29-2008, 04:21 PM
Worry about yourself and your kids. Take care of your marraige....that should keep you busy enough to let the brother in law alone.
loverboy6969
01-29-2008, 04:25 PM
i think i would find someone else. if you are as good looking as you say & im sure you are you wont have any problems finding that special man. leave the brother alone if you are smart. sorry.
skinnyone
02-06-2008, 08:30 PM
Would it really be worth the trouble to go after the brother in law?
Probably not!
wisconsin(m)
02-06-2008, 08:37 PM
Worry about yourself and your kids. Take care of your marraige....that should keep you busy enough to let the brother in law alone.
good advice ksue, but I as well would desire my sister in law. I told my wife if she ever wanted to give me a special present that she should invite her sister over, wow.......she is hot, smoking hot.... I know I know ksue, just leave her alone.
nolefaninal
02-06-2008, 08:49 PM
You are a mom and that should come first in this situation. It would ruin your kids before they even had a chance in this world and as parents we are supose to protect our kids so they can grow up healthy and strong people. This would not be healthy for them. That is all that should matter.
I agree wholeheartedly, this is a situaion that could not only ruin a marriage, but an entire family as well. If/when this affair is discovered, people in your husbands family will take sides(all will probably be against you), and if you have the kids after the divorce they ill be alienated as well. You may be thinking "his family is trash, the kids are better off not seeing them" but they will be missing out on more than you may realize. Family is the most important thing we have, and it would be a shame to throw one into such turmoil. Please think carefully before acting on your impulses. Consider divorce, wait a while, THEN hook up with the brother if you still want to- but please be careful. Just my two cents.
toosarcastic
02-06-2008, 11:10 PM
If you are truely (and I have no reason to doubt you on that point) than yes you should get out of the marriage, but not with your brother in law. I am sure you can find many other guys that would be better for you. I suspect that part of the attraction is his availiblity to you. If he was not now related to you, but met him somewhere and in some other way, would you still be this attracted to him?
niceones
02-07-2008, 12:11 AM
I say no way. If you want out, get out, but find someone else. My 2 cents.
humm guess your in trouble :D
bluebarron2
02-07-2008, 10:36 AM
Not recommended. Lots of guys out there that wouldn't ruin your family life.
christinalee
02-07-2008, 11:52 AM
I'd have to agree it would cause a lot of problems.
jimmy-love-fl
02-07-2008, 12:15 PM
I don't care if you are the hottest girl on the planet. If you are married to my brother you better believe I wouldn't hug you inappropriately. If he is a man worth his salt at all he would not even consider it. I understand the thoughts, but I think this one is just better left a fantasy!
nolarry
02-13-2008, 02:14 AM
my sister in law is hot and i'm sure she would do it with me but definately not worth the risk
notonly4her
12-08-2008, 10:08 PM
My suggestion would be....you are 21 with 2 babies. I think you better concentrate on taking care of your kids and yourself for a while before you jump into a relationship with anyone else just yet. Once your hormones get back where they are supposed to be things might look different.
And leave your husbands brother alone :55
Very Good Advice - Will Have Plenty Of Time To Hump Later :sex
Agent
12-08-2008, 10:17 PM
Well, maybe my sister in law, she was hot but the trouble it would cause would not be worth it.
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