What's your Challenge/Goal...?

[Norfolkdave]

What are your plans and goals for 2006.

[Waltert]

To get to 500 posts

[Norfolkdave]

Im hoping to build a conservatory/Leantoo, perhaps have a nice garden, and generally get a little better, but who knows.

[Annie]

To get to 500 posts

Well after checking your profile I see you just might get there before the week is out! Great Job! ;)

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[Waltert]

Well after checking your profile I see you just might get there before the week is out! Great Job! ;)

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Well personally I think that is the best way to do it, one goal at a time, forget about listing 20 just keep going one step at a time.

[Norfolkdave]

Well personally I think that is the best way to do it, one goal at a time, forget about listing 20 just keep going one step at a time.

I've been humbled by the Glory, and the power of love
When I've stumbled and I've fallen, he's been there to pick me up
In the face of all temptation, been the strength to stand my ground
Wrapped in His sweet salvation, I know I'm Glory-bound

I'm a man, I'm not an angel
Oh, I've got no wings to fly
But I'll make it up to Heaven
One step at a time
:wa:

[justask_me_2]

I plan on learning many new things, like playing guitar, flirting better, and cybering.....:)

[SDS351]

I think quit Smoking (I know its the same thing every year) but I have to give it a shot again..... Turns out I am not a quitter.

[MCat]

I plan to get in better physical condition...loose a few pounds & exercise more, stop coloring my hair, save more more money.

[Dyed]

I plan to live another year, get laid every chance I can, make it to the gym 5 days a week, eat good food and drink nice wine, and stay out of jail. Try to obey the golden rule

[woody9340]

Lose 30 pounds- to become cut and have a 4 pack.

[Wet Beaver]

I think quit Smoking (I know its the same thing every year) but I have to give it a shot again..... Turns out I am not a quitter.

hey sds...we will quit together....that way we will only grump( i could use stronger words...but this is a family message board....lol) at each other...... good luck.....:gs

[Waltert]

If you need someone else to "grump at" let me know. I am willing to help if that is what you want to do!;)



hey sds...we will quit together....that way we will only grump( i could use stronger words...but this is a family message board....lol) at each other...... good luck.....:gs

[Wet Beaver]

If you need someone else to "grump at" let me know. I am willing to help if that is what you want to do!;)


and why would i want to do that?? are ya going to try to stop smokeing??

[Waltert]

Nope I do not smoke, but know several people that have tried to quit Those that did quit grumped at more than one! They had a lot of "grump" to get out. But they all said it was worth it. So just offering to be a friend and help if I can.



and why would i want to do that?? are ya going to try to stop smokeing??

[kissiemybuttie]

make some mad passionate love.......all year long!!!!!!!

[Jy]

I have to confess, I don't make New Year's resolutions. People put alot of pressure on themselves to fulfill some long and unrealistic list, then get discouraged if they don't accomplish each thing. I tend to make smaller goals more often -baby steps- that I can achieve sooner. I'm then motivated to set the bar a little higher each time. But that's just me. Others may need different methods of motivation.

[spare_change]

make some mad passionate love.......all year long!!!!!!!

Wow!!! That matches mine!!! Wanna work out together?????

[Cotties]

Wet B Make sure you make a public announcement when you quit.. I don't want to see your grump..
Good luck with the smokes

I will try to be a better husband and give my wife a kid

the smoking can be the following year

[Norfolkdave]

and why would i want to do that?? are ya going to try to stop smokeing??

Its really easy I used to smoke 40 a day then I went to the doctors with broncitis, he said if I did't stop smoking Id be dead in a years time, that was 5 years ago and I havent smoked since, so do you want to die early? No! then stop smoking.

[Cotties]

Easy...Compared to what Dave?

Cutting off a testicle

A few tips on how you made it easy would be appreciated.. maybe then I can hold off on the kid thing for another year

[LadyNGeorgia]

Mine is to not take life so seriously. Enjoy each day one day at a time.. I think I am up for the challenge..

[Krazi0469]

Mine is once i get my taxs...... to pay off my hosp. bill......and some payments on my car... ermmmm thats all i can think of for now

[Norfolkdave]

Mine is to not take life so seriously. Enjoy each day one day at a time.. I think I am up for the challenge..

I agree with you entirely;)

[Jy]

The only thing that really stops me from picking up another cigarette is the memory of quitting. I never want to go through that again.
I'm kind of an all or nothing person; never like to do things half-heartedly, so it was either smoke like a chimney, or nothing at all. I quit cold turkey 11 years ago after smoking a pack and a half a day. No sense cutting off the dog's tail a bit at a time. Just get it over with.
So when I'm having a really good coffee, or a nice cold beer and think "Wouldn't a cigeratte go well with this?", I think about quitting again and change my mind.
Do it for your loved ones, for your health, for your bank account, whatever motivates you. But do it when you're ready.



Easy...Compared to what Dave?

Cutting off a testicle

A few tips on how you made it easy would be appreciated.. maybe then I can hold off on the kid thing for another year

[Sandy]

i'm like jugs, i take baby steps to. and i haven't given any thought to what those will yet. :D

[Norfolkdave]

The only thing that really stops me from picking up another cigarette is the memory of quitting. I never want to go through that again.
I'm kind of an all or nothing person; never like to do things half-heartedly, so it was either smoke like a chimney, or nothing at all. I quit cold turkey 11 years ago after smoking a pack and a half a day. No sense cutting off the dog's tail a bit at a time. Just get it over with.
So when I'm having a really good coffee, or a nice cold beer and think "Wouldn't a cigeratte go well with this?", I think about quitting again and change my mind.
Do it for your loved ones, for your health, for your bank account, whatever motivates you. But do it when you're ready.

I quit and havent had withdrawal symptoms, people still smoke around me, and I roll a cigerette for my wife and I have never been tempted to smoke again the doctor frightened me of dying and I used to smoke approx 60 a day with roll ups.

[bonzzz4292]

glad to hear that Dave. i will prob never stop til i am told to by dr. then it depends on my attitude. i like my smokes so it is very hard for me to grasp quitting. lol

[Norfolkdave]

glad to hear that Dave. i will prob never stop til i am told to by dr. then it depends on my attitude. i like my smokes so it is very hard for me to grasp quitting. lol

Its entirely up to you bonzz, its just he put the fear of christ in me, and I dont really wish to be like your activator yet...LOL I would like a few more years say 41...heh heh heh:lmao

[sex_kitten_4u]

What Is Your New Years Resoltuiions ?:d

To Stop Drinking And Smoking Is Mine :)

[Krazi0469]

To go to Texas to see my family.... if it even means driving by my self.... but i'm sure my dad will be able to go with me..... i hope.... been almost 2 years since i've seen them..... i'll be getting a weeks vaction around Feb.... so thats what i'm gonna try and do.:wa:

[surfnchat]

I'm going to finish my degree if it kills me... probably will. :D

[Wet Beaver]

What Is Your New Years Resoltuiions ?:d

To Stop Drinking And Smoking Is Mine :)
i did that once...it was a hardest 20 mintues in my life.....

[sex_kitten_4u]

i did that once...it was a hardest 20 mintues in my life.....

i lasted 2 weeks the last time with the somking and 6 months with the drink :wa:

[Sunfiresix]

I am hoping to stop smoking--tough when wife is a heavy smoker. But I gotta try.

[Waltert]

well I already hit 500 so I guess I will have to think of something else.

and it has been fun

[Sunfiresix]

I hope to hit a hundred by the New year--I just gotta quit readin so much.

[Wet Beaver]

i lasted 2 weeks the last time with the somking and 6 months with the drink :wa:

good luck..i know smokeing is hard..... i am going to try once again....:kk


maybe i'll start the wet beaver stop smokeing support thread after the 1st of the year.....:) ...be afraid , be very afraid.....:lmao

[Penny]

Great idea



good luck..i know smokeing is hard..... i am going to try once again....:kk


maybe i'll start the wet beaver stop smokeing support thread after the 1st of the year.....:) ...be afraid , be very afraid.....:lmao

[italian_princess0420]

i think mine is goin to have to be..."open up a lil more to my bf"...like say the things that my mouth wont say...but my brain is thinking of saying it...blah thats kinda dumb...anyways...my bf needs my help to quit smokin....maybe i can help...o0o0o heres a good one..."to do A LOT better in college"....yeah im kinda failing right now...shhhhhhh....but im trying really i am...but hopefully this time ill be on the ball.....









yeah right.."rolls eyes"

[skybird]

What Is Your New Years Resoltuiions ?:d
To Stop Drinking And Smoking Is Mine :)

1. To lose 5 more kilos altogether 15 kilos.
2. To personally phone every woman on this forum and tell then "I love you".

;) .

[Sandy]

lol i don't make them anymore i can't seem to keep them, but for those of you who are trying to quit smoking, good luck :wa:

[Willy S]

got to be quit smoking

[Norfolkdave]

To be even sexier, save money, have a holiday in the Lake District, and look after the wife inbetween

[yaser]

stop my procrastination if I can or I stop it later

[Barkiss]

stop my procrastination if I can or I stop it later

:lmao very good! Always next year...

[sweetgapeach]

:lmao very good! Always next year...


Good at it?

[Barkiss]

Good at it?

Excellent ;)

[sweetgapeach]

Excellent ;)


Thata Boy!!:hitit:

[Norfolkdave]

Get my leg over more if I can

[Barkiss]

Thata Boy!!:hitit:

ooOOoo that gets my blood pumping ;)

[spare_change]

i did that once...it was a hardest 20 mintues in my life.....

Amen!

[spare_change]

good luck..i know smokeing is hard..... i am going to try once again....:kk


maybe i'll start the wet beaver stop smokeing support thread after the 1st of the year.....:) ...be afraid , be very afraid.....:lmao

WB -- I think that is an EXCELLENT idea. A thread where each of us is responsible for reporting out progress -- where we have to admit our failure -- just let it run the whole year. Go, Girl !

[Wet Beaver]

WB -- I think that is an EXCELLENT idea. A thread where each of us is responsible for reporting out progress -- where we have to admit our failure -- just let it run the whole year. Go, Girl !

someone might have to get it started for me on the 1st...as i will be on my way home from italy, that day

[bonzzz4292]

well i think if i were to have something to go for it would have to be a better hubby ( helping arond the house ) .

wb have a safe and good trip.

:wa:

[sweetgapeach]

well i think if i were to have something to go for it would have to be a better hubby ( helping arond the house ) .

wb have a safe and good trip.

:wa:


Sandy's a lucky Girl !!!

[sweetgapeach]

ooOOoo that gets my blood pumping ;)


Wonder what else I get a pumping?

[skybird]

What Is Your New Years Resoltuiions ?:d

To Stop Drinking And Smoking Is Mine :)

Resolution:

800 X 1028 :drink:

[Norfolkdave]

NO NO NO that make it worse, the spots before your eyes

[sex_kitten_4u]

:lmao

[sweetgapeach]

I am going to try to eat better and be more patient with hubby , I said try!! lol

[illmakeurtoeswiggle]

New job, new wife...new life!

I WISH!!!!!!

[sex_kitten_4u]

we can all dream :lmao

[illmakeurtoeswiggle]

we can all dream :lmao

That's the story of my life...dreamin!;)

[Zpanther]

New job, new wife...new life!

I WISH!!!!!!

better add....... new hog and new house to that list now.

[KIRA187]

1. savor her

2. catch her eye
3. steal her heart
4. seduce her
5. find new ways to pleasure her
6. play hooky from work more often

I gues that is a good start.;)

[Penny]

Nothing wrong with dreaming. :)



That's the story of my life...dreamin!;)

[surfnchat]

If you are going to dream, dream in Technicolor... ;)

[Norfolkdave]

That's the story of my life...dreamin!;)

No thats not true you know that:lmao

[DMan]

New Years Resolution!


Need to lose more weight! Have lost 40 lbs but want to take off more!

[surfnchat]

New Years Resolution!


Need to lose more weight! Have lost 40 lbs but want to take off more!

Congrats! You got some good momentum for 2006!

I would like to lose about 20 lbs. I guess I have a goal now. :wa:

[sex_kitten_4u]

New Years Resolution!


Need to lose more weight! Have lost 40 lbs but want to take off more!

i bet you look fine the way you are :kk

[sex_kitten_4u]

Congrats! You got some good momentum for 2006!

I would like to lose about 20 lbs. I guess I have a goal now. :wa:

surf you look good the way you are :D

[surfnchat]

surf you look good the way you are :D

Thanks Tropic. :kk

You're looking good too. Enjoyed the pics in the gallery very much. :lf

[tiger50]

to stop thinkin about buyin another motorbike

[Gentleman]

To try and help you remember what you cant. I would love to "jog" your memory, dear.

[sex_kitten_4u]

To try and help you remember what you cant. I would love to "jog" your memory, dear.

whos memory you joggin ?

[DMan]

OK...........now is the time to start new years resolutions.........got through Christmas and gained 7 pounds...........:ch

[MCat]

on the 1st...as i will be on my way home from italy, that day

Beaver, hope your trip is lovely.....how lucky you are :knuddel:

[sex_kitten_4u]

That's the story of my life...dreamin!;)


sometimes dreams come true wiggle:kk

[Annie]

I got a prescription from my doctor last week for Zyban, so my New Years resolution is to quit smoking. It's been something I have wanted to do for a long time. I deserve better health so it's a gift I'll give to myself.

[DMan]

Congrrats Annie:) We quit smoking for 22 years.....started a year ago! dumb dumb dumb dumb

[Norfolkdave]

OK...........now is the time to start new years resolutions.........got through Christmas and gained 7 pounds...........:ch

As from the 1st January I intend to lose 2 stone in weight;)

[DMan]

Dave;

Without making me look it up somewhere....in pounds how much is a stone?

[sex_kitten_4u]

Dave;

Without making me look it up somewhere....in pounds how much is a stone?


there is 14 pounds to a stone

[DMan]

Thanks Tropic........never was good in conversions!;)

[kissiemybuttie]

i dont have a new years resolution this year....never keep them anyway so why lie to myself again this year?????

[sex_kitten_4u]

Thanks Tropic........never was good in conversions!;)


yvw:lf

[Norfolkdave]

Dave;

Without making me look it up somewhere....in pounds how much is a stone?

You got me here, honestly I havent a clue, but its a lot, I need to Im getting a rolly poly:lmao

[sex_kitten_4u]

You got me here, honestly I havent a clue, but its a lot, I need to Im getting a rolly poly:lmao


14 pounds in a stone dave lol thought you would have known that lol
i am quite the rolly polly but i going to start swimming in jan when schools go back try to lose some more weight

[Norfolkdave]

14 pounds in a stone dave lol thought you would have known that lol
i am quite the rolly polly but i going to start swimming in jan when schools go back try to lose some more weight

and bums squashed in the frames that are dangerous. Ok so I got to lose 14 pounds, dam is that money of flab!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can do it, just have to get more sexcercise from somewhere. Your not that rollypolly, just lovely and cuddly:wa:

[sex_kitten_4u]

and bums squashed in the frames that are dangerous. Ok so I got to lose 14 pounds, dam is that money of flab!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can do it, just have to get more sexcercise from somewhere. Your not that rollypolly, just lovely and cuddly:wa:


aww ty dave ,, now if i could get some great long sexercise i would lose heaps :lf

[Norfolkdave]

aww ty dave ,, now if i could get some great long sexercise i would lose heaps :lf

The only sexcercise in Norfolk will be my hand again, still no news on mount edna exploding....it looks like the tunnel of love is still closed and I thought santa had sprung it open,

[MCat]

it looks like the tunnel of love is still closed and I thought santa had sprung it open,

Hey Dave.....your wife's recent health problems give you an opportunity to discuss with her the lack of intimacy you are experiencing.

It took a health scare for Hank and I to jump back in the sack....more frequently now and with more experimentation and fun than we ever had in the past.

Health problems seem to knock some sense into most of us if we just listen....reminding us that we don't have time to waste...get on with whats important....show those we love just how much we love,desire and appreciate them. Sex is a great healer for what ails you..emotional and physical satisfaction are great for stress relief, depression, etc....

Tell her she has to jump back in the saddle before its too late for either of you.

I speak from personal experience :knuddel:

[surfnchat]

Hey Dave.....your wife's recent health problems give you an opportunity to discuss with her the lack of intimacy you are experiencing.

It took a health scare for Hank and I to jump back in the sack....more frequently now and with more experimentation and fun than we ever had in the past.

Health problems seem to knock some sense into most of us if we just listen....reminding us that we don't have time to waste...get on with whats important....show those we love just how much we love,desire and appreciate them. Sex is a great healer for what ails you..emotional and physical satisfaction are great for stress relief, depression, etc....

Tell her she has to jump back in the saddle before its too late for either of you.

I speak from personal experience :knuddel:

Good advice. It's the same for me and my wife and the sex has been great since our "scare." My average is up too. ;)

[joe48]

Hey Annie good luck you can do it, used a hypnotherapist myself worked a treat 10 years ago

[joe48]

My New years resolution is to enjoy myself, and go for it, you only live once, anybody feel the same?

[Krazi0469]

i feel the same.... i wanna enjoy life... and etc.... i just wish i wasn't so darn shy..... b/c i'm sure i'll be able to enjoy my life more

My New years resolution is to enjoy myself, and go for it, you only live once, anybody feel the same?

[Annie]

Thanks for the well wishes Joe! Congratulations on 10 years! I tried a hypnotherapist once too and it worked for about 10 minutes. I also used accupuncture, that worked for about 6 months and stupid me never went back for another treatment. I used Zyban once before and that worked very well but I stopped taking it too soon. I used the patch too and ended up smoking while wearing it... quite a high! (but don't try that at home!) This time if the Zyban doesn't work as well as did before I'm thinking of combining it with accupuncture and stay on it as long as I can.



Hey Annie good luck you can do it, used a hypnotherapist myself worked a treat 10 years ago

[joe48]

Hey Krazi, loosen up for the new year, have a great time enjoy yourself, don't be shy remember you only see most people once and those you see twice should be friends you want to see, forget the rest, enjoy!!!

[joe48]

Annie, stop smoking that's a command, stop it make a resolution tonight, tou're going to stop for me, promise

[joe48]

Annie not trying to come on heavy just want you to stop, please do it , I know you can

[joe48]

Hey must get over to Illinois and Alabama, watch out girls

[Norfolkdave]

Hey Dave.....your wife's recent health problems give you an opportunity to discuss with her the lack of intimacy you are experiencing.

It took a health scare for Hank and I to jump back in the sack....more frequently now and with more experimentation and fun than we ever had in the past.

Health problems seem to knock some sense into most of us if we just listen....reminding us that we don't have time to waste...get on with whats important....show those we love just how much we love,desire and appreciate them. Sex is a great healer for what ails you..emotional and physical satisfaction are great for stress relief, depression, etc....

Tell her she has to jump back in the saddle before its too late for either of you.

I speak from personal experience :knuddel:

She did say christmas, that when shes sorted, she will!, I have told her how I feel, and she said sorry but never actually said why, no point in pushing, so now I got to wait until shes better. Im teetering though, because how long is how long again and Im human with feelings. I know I banter on here but sometimes I feel really sexy its hard to continue to banter.......incidently loved your photo of you and Hank:wa:

[KIRA187]

I got a prescription from my doctor last week for Zyban, so my New Years resolution is to quit smoking. It's been something I have wanted to do for a long time. I deserve better health so it's a gift I'll give to myself.

Good for you Ms. Annie Mull! :) I cannot say that I understand first hand how hard it must be but to try and quit but have had family and friends who have tried and succeeded. SO it can be done. You GO Girl! ;)


Hey Ms. Annie Mull, keep saying to yourself..... "If it is to be, it is up to me"

[KIRA187]

i feel the same.... i wanna enjoy life... and etc.... i just wish i wasn't so darn shy..... b/c i'm sure i'll be able to enjoy my life more


Hey krazi, you have made a good start of breaking out of your shyness by being on here. Keep going.. baby steps. ;)

[Norfolkdave]

The same as the old

[Onehttmama]

Everyone here should read "The Five Languages of Love" By Gary Chapman (I think is ithe author.

Yes, I AM still alive!! Still sorting out my future, trying to get my life back on track with my marriage and family.

I wish everyone a Happy and Prosporus New Year!

[Sunfiresix]

Good luck with all. I am going to stop my pack a day smoking habit(I hope forever).

[surfnchat]

Good luck with all. I am going to stop my pack a day smoking habit(I hope forever).

That a great resolution! We are all here to support you!

[surfnchat]

Everyone here should read "The Five Languages of Love" By Gary Chapman (I think is ithe author.

Yes, I AM still alive!! Still sorting out my future, trying to get my life back on track with my marriage and family.

I wish everyone a Happy and Prosporus New Year!

Glad to have you with yus in 2006. :wa:

I'm confident you can do all you want this upcoming year!

[Penny]

Glad to see you :)




Everyone here should read "The Five Languages of Love" By Gary Chapman (I think is ithe author.

Yes, I AM still alive!! Still sorting out my future, trying to get my life back on track with my marriage and family.

I wish everyone a Happy and Prosporus New Year!

[Zpanther]

Everyone here should read "The Five Languages of Love" By Gary Chapman (I think is ithe author.

Yes, I AM still alive!! Still sorting out my future, trying to get my life back on track with my marriage and family.

I wish everyone a Happy and Prosporus New Year!

Good to hear from ya again Mama. Hope you get things worked out...... :kk

[Norfolkdave]

Everyone here should read "The Five Languages of Love" By Gary Chapman (I think is ithe author.

Yes, I AM still alive!! Still sorting out my future, trying to get my life back on track with my marriage and family.

I wish everyone a Happy and Prosporus New Year!

Where you been, Happy New year:wa:

[MCat]

Yes, I AM still alive!! Still sorting out my future, trying to get my life back on track with my marriage and family.

I wish everyone a Happy and Prosporus New Year!

We wish the same for you Mama...:knuddel: So glad to see you are still breathing.
Hope you get everything straightened out with your family.

[Norfolkdave]

Happy New Year Jazzy

[Shiane]

I stopped making New Years Resolutions because they were things I should change, not things I wanted to change. Theres a big difference lol!

[yaser]

HAppy new year to all...

[yaser]

I stopped making New Years Resolutions because they were things I should change, not things I wanted to change. Theres a big difference lol!Shiane What are they?Too many?

[Shiane]

Just stuff like bad habits, self improvement. Instead I decided to do something I enjoy instead of making myself miserable by trying to change something about myself.

[quax999]

Every year I mak'em and brak'em. Maybe I haven't found the right one to commite too, I don't know. This year, I'm not gonna break my resolution, cause I didn't make one.:D

[Zifnab]

I walked into my office today to find a voice mail message... and when I got through playing phone tag with the individual, I found out I have been selected to play major roles in three short films over the next couple of months. And realized one of my biggest dreams. Which made me wonder if any of you would like to share life's dreams and goals achieved as well....

[Sandy]

oh congrats my friend, i'm happy and proud for you. :kk

[G...G]

Congrats!! I can honestly say I have not achieved my dreams. I think when my youngest child graduates college......

[sweet]

I walked into my office today to find a voice mail message... and when I got through playing phone tag with the individual, I found out I have been selected to play major roles in three short films over the next couple of months. And realized one of my biggest dreams. Which made me wonder if any of you would like to share life's dreams and goals achieved as well....

Wow! Congratulations! That's great! Good luck to you! :)

[sweet]

Well, honestly I'm still trying to achieve many of my dreams/goals. I've already accomplished one very important one and that's to be a great mom. I have faith in myself and know that I can accomplish all that I want to in my life. :)

[Rainmaker]

Congrats Zif!!!! i want to know the titles and info so i can watch u.



one of my dreams was to have a house full of kids ....since i never had my parents growing up.---i have accomplished that.

i wanted to travel and try new things---i have and still am doing that

i have so many small dreams..but they r big to me..... none r like be a movie star or such--told ya i was plain country girl

[G...G]

Congrats Zif!!!! i want to know the titles and info so i can watch u.



one of my dreams was to have a house full of kids ....since i never had my parents growing up.---i have accomplished that.

i wanted to travel and try new things---i have and still am doing that

i have so many small dreams..but they r big to me..... none r like be a movie star or such--told ya i was plain country girl

Same thing here!! We would get along!!! :wa:

[Zifnab]

I will be raising a toast to celebrate at 6:00 pm eastern if you want to join. The toast:
To Dreams, and the realities they create!

[G...G]

I'll toast with you!!!!

[Sandy]

we'll raise one with you, my dream is to see the states. i've been all over europe. i want to travel and see all the states now. sounds silly huh ?

[Rainmaker]

Same thing here!! We would get along!!! :wa:

i think we would also!:wa:

[Rainmaker]

I will be raising a toast to celebrate at 6:00 pm eastern if you want to join. The toast:
To Dreams, and the realities they create!


sounds like a plan.........

[Rainmaker]

we'll raise one with you, my dream is to see the states. i've been all over europe. i want to travel and see all the states now. sounds silly huh ?


isnt that strange that we have traveled to foreign countries and havent traveled the states-doesnt sound silly at all.

[sweet]

I will be raising a toast to celebrate at 6:00 pm eastern if you want to join. The toast:
To Dreams, and the realities they create!

I'll join in that toast too!
Dreams can come true if you really want them to.

[Jy]

I will be teaching a step class at 6pm, but I will definitely mention you to my class members and we'll all hoot and holler for you!!


As far as my dreams, I've accomplished a few of them. The biggest ones being, I wanted to be a model and a singer, and I have done both.

I wanted to have at least four children. Coming from a big family, I always wanted the same thing. But sometimes you just have to play the hand your dealt, or find another way. I was only able to have one child, but he's the cream of the crop!! LOL! I have lots of family and friends who consider our home their second home, which I enjoy so much. So, I have the happy and full house that I always wanted.
I thought by now I would have seen the Louvre, but haven't been to France yet. That has been a dream since I was just a little girl and saw my first Renoir painting. I have always painted and sketched, and my degree is in Fine Art, so to visit the Louvre would be the ultimate for me. I'd like to spend at least a week wandering through it, taking the time to just sit and stare at some the paintings I have admired all my life.

[Rainmaker]

I will be teaching a step class at 6pm, but I will definitely mention you to my class members and we'll all hoot and holler for you!!


As far as my dreams, I've accomplished a few of them. The biggest ones being, I wanted to be a model and a singer, and I have done both.

I wanted to have at least four children. Coming from a big family, I always wanted the same thing. But sometimes you just have to play the hand your dealt, or find another way. I was only able to have one child, but he's the cream of the crop!! LOL! I have lots of family and friends who consider our home their second home, which I enjoy so much. So, I have the happy and full house that I always wanted.
I thought by now I would have seen the Louvre, but haven't been to France yet. That has been a dream since I was just a little girl and saw my first Renoir painting. I have always painted and sketched, and my degree is in Fine Art, so to visit the Louvre would be the ultimate for me. I'd like to spend at least a week wandering through it, taking the time to just sit and stare at some the paintings I have admired all my life.

huni!!! that is an awesome dream! u should plan that .......also i never knew u had been a model or a singer....u r one amazing woman!! dont ever doubt that:kk

[Zpanther]

I walked into my office today to find a voice mail message... and when I got through playing phone tag with the individual, I found out I have been selected to play major roles in three short films over the next couple of months. And realized one of my biggest dreams. Which made me wonder if any of you would like to share life's dreams and goals achieved as well....

Hey maybe Shiane will get these on her new adult channel when they come out.


... Seriously, congratulation Zif. That's great news!

[Sunfiresix]

Congrats Zif, way to go.

Thru my job I have accomplished my dream I guess, I am one of the best at what I do, That makes me very happy, Just to have people want me to teach/train them. It is very satisfying. I guess that is why I haven't retired yet, I love whay I do who I work with and for.

[straittalk]

I walked into my office today to find a voice mail message... and when I got through playing phone tag with the individual, I found out I have been selected to play major roles in three short films over the next couple of months. And realized one of my biggest dreams. Which made me wonder if any of you would like to share life's dreams and goals achieved as well.... Congratulations!!! That is just super!!! i find that the goals i had 25 years ago are not the same today. i have been very financially and professionally succesful, but given a chance to relive these years ,i wouldnt choose the same priorities. Im pushing 50 and ive spent my time fixing people and neglecting myself. next time time its going to be 9:00 -5:00 and live for myself.

[G...G]

I definately find my goals WAAAYYY different now than when I was younger!!

[tiger50]

lol cant even remember what they were now....

[straittalk]

I will be teaching a step class at 6pm, but I will definitely mention you to my class members and we'll all hoot and holler for you!!


As far as my dreams, I've accomplished a few of them. The biggest ones being, I wanted to be a model and a singer, and I have done both.

I wanted to have at least four children. Coming from a big family, I always wanted the same thing. But sometimes you just have to play the hand your dealt, or find another way. I was only able to have one child, but he's the cream of the crop!! LOL! I have lots of family and friends who consider our home their second home, which I enjoy so much. So, I have the happy and full house that I always wanted.
I thought by now I would have seen the Louvre, but haven't been to France yet. That has been a dream since I was just a little girl and saw my first Renoir painting. I have always painted and sketched, and my degree is in Fine Art, so to visit the Louvre would be the ultimate for me. I'd like to spend at least a week wandering through it, taking the time to just sit and stare at some the paintings I have admired all my life.Jazzy Ive been to the Louvre and a week is not enough

[G...G]

To tell you the truth, me either!!! I know they were all the WRONG things!! LOL If I knew then, what I know now..... No telling what my life would have turned out like!!! ummmmmmm got me thinking now.

[straittalk]

And To All A Very Good Night!!!

[G...G]

Good night and by the way.......WELCOME!!

[tiger50]

oh , i remember now, wanted to be a marine engineer...

[G...G]

I think I wanted to be a teacher!!!! Imagine that!!! LOL I think all little girls go through the wanting to be a teacher phase.

[tiger50]

I think I wanted to be a teacher!!!! Imagine that!!! LOL I think all little girls go through the wanting to be a teacher phase.

hey i wud still like to teach, taught non destructive testing and maths to navy guys, for a bit, loved it...

[italian_princess0420]

I walked into my office today to find a voice mail message... and when I got through playing phone tag with the individual, I found out I have been selected to play major roles in three short films over the next couple of months. And realized one of my biggest dreams. Which made me wonder if any of you would like to share life's dreams and goals achieved as well....

errr thats not fair, i always wanted to do a lil acting, right now i cant even find a modeling job:( . Nothin is goin the way i like it, everythin i wanna do, i cant. All of the things i wanna do is not very "out there" like most peoples. I wanna act, model, ice skate "but just for fun", ride horses. What, do ya have to be a famous person to act or model? if thats the case, i aint never gettin in:cry: .

[Zifnab]

errr thats not fair, i always wanted to do a lil acting, right now i cant even find a modeling job:( . Nothin is goin the way i like it, everythin i wanna do, i cant. All of the things i wanna do is not very "out there" like most peoples. I wanna act, model, ice skate "but just for fun", ride horses. What, do ya have to be a famous person to act or model? if thats the case, i aint never gettin in:cry: .Community theater honey! it is the best place to play!

[ravinghussy]

oh , i remember now, wanted to be a marine engineer...

wanking is not a dream its a habbit lololol

[tiger50]

wanking is not a dream its a habbit lololol

shittt always thought that was a nuns thing.... :sc

[Cotties]

I've completed many goals in my short life.. But the one thing I found was being married stopped my dreams. Well lots of them anyway. Better yet I've been encouraged to stop dreaming.

Most of my dreams are selfish but I think thats what makes them mine.

[Zifnab]

I've completed many goals in my short life.. But the one thing I found was being married stopped my dreams. Well lots of them anyway. Better yet I've been encouraged to stop dreaming.

Most of my dreams are selfish but I think thats what makes them mine.It is your life, so they should be your dreams!

[MCat]

I realized 2 of my dreams....to marry a loving man and have kids. I always wanted to be a mom. My work is fulfilling, I know that I am good at what I do - but the ultimate for me is being a good mom.

[Jy]

My dad was in the air force in WWII, and I always wanted to fly planes like him, so I joined the air cadets as soon as I was old enough, and worked my ass off until I did just that! It was the best feeling in the world! Not just to be flying, but to follow in my dad's footsteps!

[Cotties]

You're a champion JazzyMy dad was in the air force in WWII, and I always wanted to fly planes like him, so I joined the air cadets as soon as I was old enough, and worked my ass off until I did just that! It was the best feeling in the world! Not just to be flying, but to follow in my dad's footsteps!

[tiger50]

You're a champion Jazzy

lol yeh cop this :kk

[Norfolkdave]

shittt always thought that was a nuns thing.... :sc

Naughty Habits LOL:lmao

[Zifnab]

My dad was in the air force in WWII, and I always wanted to fly planes like him, so I joined the air cadets as soon as I was old enough, and worked my ass off until I did just that! It was the best feeling in the world! Not just to be flying, but to follow in my dad's footsteps!You just keep getting better and better! I think I need to go and sit down for a bit... my knees have gone all weak sudd:kkenly!

[kjguy43]

As we approach another New Year, what are you all going to do to celebrate Ney Years Eve? What resolution(S) do you plan on making?

We are going to NYC Times Square for NYE..have a hotel on 48th and Broadway.

My resolution is to eat less fast food, get in better shape..flirt more with the fine ladies here!

I know one of them I can keep.:55

[Kissie]

I am going to spend New Years eve with hubby and my Mom so no drinking this year so which means no hang over...yeaaaaaaa...
I am not making a resolution....cuz I never keep them...so what is the since of lying to myself again this year?????

[dartgirl]

We are going to a party. No drinking for me cuz I always get to be the DD.

As for resolutions, well I want to put alot more miles on my bike and loose another 15 lbs. I have several private wishes that we'll just have to see how the year plays out.

[Penny]

I would luv to quit smoking but I say that every year :(

[cherokeered]

As we approach another New Year, what are you all going to do to celebrate Ney Years Eve? What resolution(S) do you plan on making?

We are going to NYC Times Square for NYE..have a hotel on 48th and Broadway.

My resolution is to eat less fast food, get in better shape..flirt more with the fine ladies here!

I know one of them I can keep.:55


You won't be far from me...have fun


As for me...I don't go anywhere for it...I make no resolutions...but sometimes I do wish upon a star....


Cherokee...face the heavens...and you may see a smile

[OICurready4me]

Every year, we just hang out at home, maybe order chinese take out or make a pizza, hoping to watch the ball drop. 9 times out of 10, we end up falling asleep before midnight and the only ball that drops is my own, after I realize I didn't bring in the new year with a bang.

[OKMamaEeyore]

We generlly bring in the New Year with a poker game. I enjoy it, maybe due to the fact that I generally win every year. :D However, the winnings don't go to me - the family usually manages to draw from it through August. :( One of these years I'll get tospend what I win on myself:D (in my dreams).

[Cotties]

Living in Thailand I am going to go away for four days down to a small western beach city."Pattaya". usually the foreign bar owners will have pigs on spits and roast lamb and every western food they can muster up being given away for free just to make us all less home sick.....did I mention there is about 200 strip bars but it really is a party town on the beach

[OICurready4me]

Well, it's that time of year again and I'm sure we have all said, "next year I'm going to do this". Well here is your place to let us know what your New Year's Resolutions will be for 2007.



Me personally I haven't thought of any yet but will post them in a couple of days, once I do.

[Sandy]

i'm not making any, i never keep them when i do :D

[OICurready4me]

i'm not making any, i never keep them when i do :D


that's funny since I think most people are in the same boat.

[massage mike]

I definatel have to hit the gym to compete with the younger people in my trade

[Norfolkdave]

Im not making any except to join a garden club and potter around their as I love gardening.

[surfnchat]

We sometimes focus on what we would like to do in the coming year. What are the resolutions you made for 2006 you are proud to have kept?

Mine was finishing my Ph.D. dissertation and graduating. It was something I was pretty determined to finish this year. Now, I want to make some extra money with it in 2007. Any ladies need a house call from a doctor? ;) :D

[Barkiss]

We sometimes focus on what we would like to do in the coming year. What are the resolutions you made for 2006 you are proud to have kept?

Mine was finishing my Ph.D. dissertation and graduating. It was something I was pretty determined to finish this year. Now, I want to make some extra money with it in 2007. Any ladies need a house call from a doctor? ;) :D

Damn...Congratulations!!

[Zifnab]

kind of like the Detroit Lions...... 2 and 14...... but trying for first pick in the draft.....

[surfnchat]

Damn...Congratulations!!

Thanks Barks! It took 6 years going part time, but it was well worth it!

[massage mike]

way to go surf.I went back to school after 31 years got my associates in massage therapy in dec.05 snd got my license in 06 here I a changing careers at 51.now if only Ican get my love life in order

[surfnchat]

way to go surf.I went back to school after 31 years got my associates in massage therapy in dec.05 snd got my license in 06 here I a changing careers at 51.now if only Ican get my love life in order

Awesome Mike! I think that's great! :55 If you find a career you love, no matter when you find it, it makes the change worth while!

As for the love life department... I think your new career choice will help. From my experience, the ladies like strong, oiled hands that know what they are doing. Good luck!

[cherokeered]

I never make them...that way I don't disappoint myself when I don't do them....lol



Cherokee...I hate thinking I have to do something...:whee:

[surfnchat]

I never make them...that way I don't disappoint myself when I don't do them....lol



Cherokee...I hate thinking I have to do something...:whee:

:lmao That's one way to look at them! I resolve not to make any 2007 resolutions! :lmao

[Zifnab]

my resolution this past year was to stay a non smoker....and I made it this far...just days left, but it is still one day at a time

[spare_change]

my resolution this past year was to stay a non smoker....and I made it this far...just days left, but it is still one day at a time

Congrats -- I've been off them for 9 years, and it doesn't get any easier.

[Zifnab]

Congrats -- I've been off them for 9 years, and it doesn't get any easier.ummm ya may want to work on that encouragement speach....:D
my father-out-law said after 25 years he STILL craves the after dinner smoke... I told him thanks too....:nu

[Cotties]

well done mate:55 ...no resolutions for me ...just revolutionsWe sometimes focus on what we would like to do in the coming year. What are the resolutions you made for 2006 you are proud to have kept?

Mine was finishing my Ph.D. dissertation and graduating. It was something I was pretty determined to finish this year. Now, I want to make some extra money with it in 2007. Any ladies need a house call from a doctor? ;) :D

[Jy]

I have something you can look at, doctor...


Congratulations, Surf! That's fantastic!! :smdance: That's quite an accomplishment!
We sometimes focus on what we would like to do in the coming year. What are the resolutions you made for 2006 you are proud to have kept?

Mine was finishing my Ph.D. dissertation and graduating. It was something I was pretty determined to finish this year. Now, I want to make some extra money with it in 2007. Any ladies need a house call from a doctor? ;) :D

[MightymeatyMatey]

2006 was the hotel was a really good year, it always is for our little world in Cornwall, and for me too. Im a bit of a private man but outwardley approachable too. My motto is live and let live and hopefully peace will prevail. May I take this oppotunity to wish everyone I meet on here a happy new year.

[tiger50]

2006 was the hotel was a really good year, it always is for our little world in Cornwall, and for me too. Im a bit of a private man but outwardley approachable too. My motto is live and let live and hopefully peace will prevail. May I take this oppotunity to wish everyone I meet on here a happy new year.

happy new year mate... and to you cotties....
dont think i have ever kept one of those revolution thingy's yet, so i dont bother.....

oh i do have one for 2007... for cher to be in oz.... :D

[MightymeatyMatey]

happy new year mate... and to you cotties....
dont think i have ever kept one of those revolution thingy's yet, so i dont bother.....

oh i do have one for 2007... for cher to be in oz.... :D

Hello Tiger how did your christmas go!:wa:

[tiger50]

Hello Tiger how did your christmas go!:wa:

well not real brilliant mate... impending divorce....lol.... but what the hell needed to happen.... :D

[MightymeatyMatey]

well not real brilliant mate... impending divorce....lol.... but what the hell needed to happen.... :D

Oh Im so sorry to hear that.

[tiger50]

Oh Im so sorry to hear that.

dont be mate, been a long time coming... :D

[surfnchat]

ummm ya may want to work on that encouragement speach....:D
my father-out-law said after 25 years he STILL craves the after dinner smoke... I told him thanks too....:nu

Congrats Zifnab and Spare! Each year smoke free is quite an accomplishment! :55

[surfnchat]

I have something you can look at, doctor...


Congratulations, Surf! That's fantastic!! :smdance: That's quite an accomplishment!

Thanks Jazzy! I'll waive the customary co-pay for you... :kk

[steve_edwards]

I'm not making any either. I always break them within a week or two. No will power...

[surfnchat]

I resolve to do more writing for pleasure in 2007... ;)

[OICurready4me]

I plan on having more sex, whether alone or with someone, but damn it, I plan on it. Really now, I am going to have a serious talk with my wife on this and tell re-iterate to her what my expectations are for her and for myself. If she doesn't want to agree to them, then I plan to ask her if she would accept me trying to get some another way so I don't bother her so much about it and we can still have what I feel is a great relationship, sex withstanding.

[northernvam]

I was just wondering if anyone here has any good New Year's resolutions. I know that we are into the new year alreday, but I'm kind of intellecually bankrupt right now, so I'd like to rip off someone else's resolutions.

Any one want to offer up any suggestions?

[kiwimongo]

give up smoke,need new man,

[Cotties]

new years resolutions....no...not for me..wait..I have promised myself to stop swearing at the wife....but self control is hard when she likes to see me irate

[yaser]

give up smoke,need new man,
Yesterday I asked you said no.What has changed since then?Seen a man here?

[yaser]

Stop procrastinating..find a new woman..walk around the wild nature more..take photogarph.. Discover more in life..I think I cannot accomplish all.And kiss my woman more..

[Cotties]

go get her Yasar...she looks confused but I'm sure you can show her what she wants;) Yesterday I asked you said no.What has changed since then?Seen a man here?

[kiwimongo]

Yesterday I asked you said no.What has changed since then?Seen a man here?
We fight lastnight he used my computure he has learn my pasword..l dont like cause my company gave me that computure nobady use just me

[yaser]

We fight lastnight he used my computure he has learn my pasword..l dont like cause my company gave me that computure nobady use just me
He must have been respectful to your privacy I believe.Beside thre was a age gap between.You'd better find a new and younger one.

[yaser]

go get her Yasar...she looks confused but I'm sure you can show her what she wants;)
Cotties, she knows who she is ... and I know who she is..

[pixiegirl]

Ok I don't make New Years resolutions because I don't like to set myself up for failure...but a friend sent me this and I thought the sentiment was lovely...


Remember for 2007...life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you smile :D

[kiwimongo]

He must have been respectful to your privacy I believe.Beside thre was a age gap between.You'd better find a new and younger one.
l dont know l am ready or not l love him too much but he always jealous me...l dont care him..

[kiwimongo]

go get her Yasar...she looks confused but I'm sure you can show her what she wants;)
l want presence...now l am upset what do you think?what l want?

[UltimateNaneki]

is to stay on this site, and have fun!!!

[kiwimongo]

is to stay on this site, and have fun!!!
l read some post very funny thank you

[yaser]

l dont know l am ready or not l love him too much but he always jealous me...l dont care him..
Jealousy is an indicator of low slef esteem which will be a trouble for you all through your life hun.I believe it is good for you..But you will suffer because you are aatched to him..It will fade away..

[yaser]

Ok I don't make New Years resolutions because I don't like to set myself up for failure...but a friend sent me this and I thought the sentiment was lovely...


Remember for 2007...life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you smile :D
I will put my sign under hun..

[kiwimongo]

Jealousy is an indicator of low slef esteem which will be a trouble for you all through your life hun.I believe it is good for you..But you will suffer because you are aatched to him..It will fade away..
l dont want talk abot him finished it finish...he lose ...life very short

[yaser]

l dont want talk abot him finished it finish...he lose ...life very short
I will remind you one of the Italian wirter's quote:Never run after men and trains..one another is to come..

[kiwimongo]

I will remind you one of the Italian wirter's quote:Never run after men and trains..one another is to come..
l agree with writer

[yaser]

l agree with writer
Please do as the writer says hun..

[kiwimongo]

he/she say for me

[yaser]

he/she say for me
She

[kiwimongo]

she is smart lady

[yaser]

she is smart lady
Definitely..

[pointofnoreturn]

To stop trying to make sure everyone else is happy all the time and take some time for myself. Always worrying about others. My turn.

[luvplayluvlick]

to get more loving!! I think Point summed it up best. I am going to take beter care of ME this year!!

[Karl0417]

Some of this stuff should be in fortune cookies or halmark cards, maybe our better halfs would take the hint.

[pointofnoreturn]

I would love to right the inside of some cards. Something a little provacative maybe???

[luvplayluvlick]

How about

"Happy Anniversary"- Roses are Red Viloets are blue...when was the last time you let me put it in you!!!

I think it would be a great seller!

[Karl0417]

I smell copyright

[pointofnoreturn]

I smell something else. Is it hot in here too???

[luvplayluvlick]

I smell something and it smells sweet....

[pointofnoreturn]

Is it a cake?

[luvplayluvlick]

..I think it's pie? yum yum

[pointofnoreturn]

Hair pie??? or Apple?

[yaser]

To stop trying to make sure everyone else is happy all the time and take some time for myself. Always worrying about others. My turn.
I am happy you are not that late..You have time to find good opportunities..Why don't you come with me?

[pointofnoreturn]

I will cum with you. What are you offering????

[luvplayluvlick]

Hair pie??? or Apple?

hopefully not too much hair...:D

[pointofnoreturn]

Not this pie. Always trimmed for pleasure.

[luvplayluvlick]

your killing me. Here's the deal. You keep trimmed for pleasure and I provide the tongue..you say when to stop!

[pointofnoreturn]

don't stop yet....Just getting hotter in here.

[yaser]

I will cum with you. What are you offering????
surprise..cuuuuuuum..

[Willy S]

I've decided to take a trip west.

[p.J]

Ok! Ok! My New Year's resolution is to stop biting my toenails! There you go...

[Karl0417]

Ok! Ok! My New Year's resolution is to stop biting my toenails! There you go...

Must be a female, sounds flexible to me

[p.J]

Must be a female, sounds flexible to me

Clever ...

[luvplayluvlick]

where do you want me to put this thing I am looking for a nice warm slice of pie!

[Kissie]

I didnt make a New Years Resolution this year...I never keep them anyway so why lie to myself again this year!!!!!!

[pointofnoreturn]

where do you want me to put this thing I am looking for a nice warm slice of pie!My pie is warm and juicy. How about here???

[luvplayluvlick]

yum yum it is warm and juicy. How about over here???

[twoblues]

Well, I am not sure if it's interesting, but it may be the opposite of what most people want.

I hope to gain 20 pounds of muscle this year. I'd love to top out at 220 by the end of the year. I was on my way last year, starting at 185 and getting up to 200, but then I got knocked out by strep throat and a nasty flu around the end of the year, knocking me back down to 195 with a loss of muscle mass.

2 pounds a month isn't much to ask, is it? Sorry, I should say 2 "good" pounds a month.

[p.J]

I love challenges of any variety, and will meet anything that is thrown at me head on - contantly moving the goal posts.

Every year I set myself challenges, as I do believe that happiness is tied to a goal (yes a Quote!) so... apart from the normal family orientated ones, what challenges/goals have you set yourself? (this year or long-term)

2007:

1) Having my own business; I now intend to expand it by widening my clientele base and have approached various interested companies.

2) I have entered the London Triathlon