What was the greatest lesson you ever learned...

[sparkle889beach]

Denial is a river flowing in everyone :)

[sparkle889beach]

After a day's work, to see your children :) removes all the stress in the world

[tiger50]

After a day's work, to see your children :) removes all the stress in the world

lol kids remove stress??? umm try havin 8 of em...lol

gday sparkle... :kk

[Norfolkdave]

Im just trying tiger lol

[upstr84u]

greatest lesson ------------
wow not sure on the greatest -- but i am filled with the latest lessons

a 5 year old boy screaming from your bedroom
and water running down the stairs
can only mean one thing --
he was jumping on your water bed with his cleats on

[Annie]

greatest lesson ------------
wow not sure on the greatest -- but i am filled with the latest lessons

a 5 year old boy screaming from your bedroom
and water running down the stairs
can only mean one thing --
he was jumping on your water bed with his cleats on

Waterslide!!

[DukesLady66]

After a day's work, to see your children :) removes all the stress in the world

HA! I live in a rental house and tomorrow is city inspection. So what does my 14 yr old son do as he gets home. Looks at the dogs thru the storm door which is plexiglass teasing them. I told him to quit which he wouldn't, but instead he got them more riled and my american bulldog jumped on the plexiglass just right and busted it. So I have to try and explain that one tomorrow morning...:spbx:

[Itshardon-theroad]

Sometimes the smartest people in the world have the least common sense.:sc

[SirFox]

Remain modest, be patient and when all patience runs out slam the table with your fist and stay behind your words and do not waver. They will take you more seriously than if you just hollered got angry and then let things die.... die... die....

Always remain in control.

[MIGHTY]

I've learned that everyone has a heart that beats, skips, and aches.

........to be respectful..even if you arent being respected.
........to listen with not only your ears..but with your mind also.
........to set the best example for my child..he loves to mimick my behavior.
........to let go of my regrets..
.........to not make lazy excuses.
.........to love, despise, empathize, prioritize.
.........to laugh, to play,...to live!:whee:

[Annie]

Being short isn't really a bad thing.

[MIGHTY]

Being short isn't really a bad thing.

Are you kidding?! We'll still be "cute and cuddly" when we're 90.
How many people can claim that? Short women rock!! We rock!
Power to the short people!

[steamy]

I've learned that everyone has a heart that beats, skips, and aches.

........to be respectful..even if you arent being respected.
........to listen with not only your ears..but with your mind also.
........to set the best example for my child..he loves to mimick my behavior.
........to let go of my regrets..
.........to not make lazy excuses.
.........to love, despise, empathize, prioritize.
.........to laugh, to play,...to live!:whee:Awesome, awesome, awesome...................

[Annie]

Are you kidding?! We'll still be "cute and cuddly" when we're 90.
How many people can claim that? Short women rock!! We rock!
Power to the short people!
YIPPY! HEY Lena! We got us another one! We do rock, don't we?




... Cotties better look out now!

[sex_kitten_4u]

Are you kidding?! We'll still be "cute and cuddly" when we're 90.
How many people can claim that? Short women rock!! We rock!
Power to the short people!



short person her e that just loves to rock rock and rock :D

[Cotties]

not if your cute anywayBeing short isn't really a bad thing.

[Cotties]

I have learned my diet is making me fat....but love what I eat

[Jy]

Yeah, I haven't been cute or cuddly since I was about nine months old. Statuesque? Yes, but show me one twelve year old who wants to be called that. Are you kidding?! We'll still be "cute and cuddly" when we're 90.
How many people can claim that? Short women rock!! We rock!
Power to the short people!

[yaser]

I've learned that everyone has a heart that beats, skips, and aches.

........to be respectful..even if you arent being respected.
........to listen with not only your ears..but with your mind also.
........to set the best example for my child..he loves to mimick my behavior.
........to let go of my regrets..
.........to not make lazy excuses.
.........to love, despise, empathize, prioritize.
.........to laugh, to play,...to live!:whee:
That is good to be aware of others as well as you are there ...Good..I have still problems in that area..

[yaser]

Yeah, I haven't been cute or cuddly since I was about nine months old. Statuesque? Yes, but show me one twelve year old who wants to be called that.
Jazzy is it cultural thing?Parents may be avoidant?

[Jy]

Not at all, Yaser. I've just always been tall. I've never thought of myself as cute and cuddly. Tall women never have the opportunity to sit on a man's lap without looking like she's trying to mount him or pin him. Tall women don't get babied or spoiled. Yes, I think my height has gotten me respect, admiration, attention, and I do love being tall, but when Annie and Mighty were talking about the joys of being short, I couldn't help but notice the contrast.Jazzy is it cultural thing?Parents may be avoidant?

[Cotties]

tall women scare me

[spare_change]

Tall women excite me --- oh wait, you probably knew that.

[yaser]

Not at all, Yaser. I've just always been tall. I've never thought of myself as cute and cuddly. Tall women never have the opportunity to sit on a man's lap without looking like she's trying to mount him or pin him. Tall women don't get babied or spoiled. Yes, I think my height has gotten me respect, admiration, attention, and I do love being tall, but when Annie and Mighty were talking about the joys of being short, I couldn't help but notice the contrast.
Honey, what you say may be true but to conceive oneself a not cute and cuddly is more important than being tall.You cannot change what has been given by God but you can only love it and use it.If you change your thinking into you are cute and cuddly, you will want it and you will try to get it.To get something you will want it first.Try and and see..

[Jy]

I can be a little scary, Cotties, but somehow Spare seems to be able to handle me.tall women scare me

[Jy]

Any particular one?Tall women excite me --- oh wait, you probably knew that.

[spare_change]

Any particular one?

Yeah ---- there's a particular one --- she's a fox!!

[Jy]

Yaser, I know I'm not cute and cuddly, but I'm okay with that now. I have been called striking, imposing, arresting, but never cute and cuddly. Being tall was difficult when I was a young girl who towered over all the kids in my class and didn't get asked to dance. But I grew up and learned that being tall can be beautiful. I don't need to be cute and cuddly. I accept who I am, and I love who I am.Honey, what you say may be true but to conceive oneself a not cute and cuddly is more important than being tall.You cannot change what has been given by God but you can only love it and use it.If you change your thinking into you are cute and cuddly, you will want it and you will try to get it.To get something you will want it first.Try and and see..

[spare_change]

Yaser, I know I'm not cute and cuddly, but I'm okay with that now. I have been called striking, imposing, arresting, but never cute and cuddly. Being tall was difficult when I was a young girl who towered over all the kids in my class and didn't get asked to dance. But I grew up and learned that being tall can be beautiful. I don't need to be cute and cuddly. I accept who I am, and I love who I am.

.... which, by the way, makes two of us.

[Jy]

:kk .... which, by the way, makes two of us.

[Dmy]

I've learned that being thankful changes your outlook sometimes!

[yaser]

Yaser, I know I'm not cute and cuddly, but I'm okay with that now. I have been called striking, imposing, arresting, but never cute and cuddly. Being tall was difficult when I was a young girl who towered over all the kids in my class and didn't get asked to dance. But I grew up and learned that being tall can be beautiful. I don't need to be cute and cuddly. I accept who I am, and I love who I am.
A tall girl have less chance to find a boy friend naturally...Our culture gives higher importance to being high..But this case for a boy has much more chance.If you think carefully on feeling that you are never cute and cuddly,you will find that you only focus on the negative behaviors of the people who behaved you so far but they may have positive and accepting behaviors as well.Hun don't forget this:your belief that you are never cute and cuddly will always determine your behaviors to other man.And you incline to prove it..This is self fulfilling prophesy..Leave yourself to the hands of Spare...You will that you are not right at that belief..

[rainbowhigh]

Yeah, I haven't been cute or cuddly since I was about nine months old. Statuesque? Yes, but show me one twelve year old who wants to be called that.

I'm with you, girl. I'm not super tall - 5'7". But I'm tall enough that I'm not petite, that's for sure. I never could be called cute and cuddlie either. But oh well. Eventually the boys got taller than me, and the other girls filled out some, and everything worked out just fine. Middle school and Jr. high were hell though. :D

[golfboy]

<---- 6ft2 brown hair blue eyes 175pds and fit!!!!!!!

[Jy]

They sure were! Some of us just had to wait for the rest of the world to catch up!



I'm with you, girl. I'm not super tall - 5'7". But I'm tall enough that I'm not petite, that's for sure. I never could be called cute and cuddlie either. But oh well. Eventually the boys got taller than me, and the other girls filled out some, and everything worked out just fine. Middle school and Jr. high were hell though. :D

[rainbowhigh]

They sure were! Some of us just had to wait for the rest of the world to catch up!

It's a good thing they did, though. A really good thing....

[Jy]

Amen to that one, sister. Or I'd still be slouching!
It's a good thing they did, though. A really good thing....

[rainbowhigh]

Amen to that one, sister. Or I'd still be slouching!

I thought I was the only one who did that!!!!!
I didn't get to show off the fact that I had breasts til the 10th grade! :whee:

Oops... you may not have wanted to know that. LOL

[Jy]

I didn't want to show off my breasts until 10th grade!

Oh wait, I didn't have any breasts until 10th grade either!
It was modelling that taught me to stand tall and be proud of my height. I never enjoyed the industry, but I'm glad for what I took away from it.

I thought I was the only one who did that!!!!!
I didn't get to show off the fact that I had breasts til the 10th grade! :whee:

Oops... you may not have wanted to know that. LOL

[rainbowhigh]

Good for you. I have often times wished that they taught a class in self respect and confidence in high school. I never understood why we had to wait till we're adults to learn that we are okay just the way we are....


Or was I the only one that learned that as an adult???

I didn't want to show off my breasts until 10th grade!

Oh wait, I didn't have any breasts until 10th grade either!
It was modelling that taught me to stand tall and be proud of my height. I never enjoyed the industry, but I'm glad for what I took away from it.

[Jy]

No, it took me years to learn that too, well into my 30's actually.

Modelling taught me how to carry myself when I was at my most awkward, but it did nothing for my self-esteem. Models are the most insecure people I know, but also cut-throat.

Good for you. I have often times wished that they taught a class in self respect and confidence in high school. I never understood why we had to wait till we're adults to learn that we are okay just the way we are....


Or was I the only one that learned that as an adult???

[Dmy]

Good for you. I have often times wished that they taught a class in self respect and confidence in high school. I never understood why we had to wait till we're adults to learn that we are okay just the way we are....


Or was I the only one that learned that as an adult???

Thats a good point....I wish I had leaned some confidence in high school....was way to shy and lost most of the chances to date because of it. I always told myself I was just average...but average doesnt get you very far with the girls sometimes....I needed to learn to shoot for the moon and go for it all! ;)

[rainbowhigh]

Glad you learned that lesson, Dreamy.

Really - I am! ;)

Thats a good point....I wish I had leaned some confidence in high school....was way to shy and lost most of the chances to date because of it. I always told myself I was just average...but average doesnt get you very far with the girls sometimes....I needed to learn to shoot for the moon and go for it all! ;)

[MIGHTY]

Yeah, I haven't been cute or cuddly since I was about nine months old. Statuesque? Yes, but show me one twelve year old who wants to be called that.

:( I didn't mean to start anything here..or brag for that matter. Jazzy, if it helps, being short when I was younger was not a treat. I felt awkward and was often made fun of.."midget, pipsqueak". I've heard so many short jokes over the years that could fill a book. In fact, until a couple of years ago, I wished I was taller.

It was also hard being called cute all of the time. I hated trying to prove myself to others just because of my stature. I found it hard to be taken seriously. I referred to myself as a girl until a couple of years ago.

It took a long time for me to build up my confidence and think as myself as a woman. Now that I'm in my 30's men find me attractive and sexy. Imagine..me..sexy?! I still struggle with my self esteem every day. the only difference now is, I finally think I'm cute.

So I'm sorry if I struck a nerve here. I would take kind, sincere, and insightful over just "cute" any day.:hug:

[Sandy]

oh jazzy i know exactly what you mean, i hated being asked hows the weather up there














Yaser, I know I'm not cute and cuddly, but I'm okay with that now. I have been called striking, imposing, arresting, but never cute and cuddly. Being tall was difficult when I was a young girl who towered over all the kids in my class and didn't get asked to dance. But I grew up and learned that being tall can be beautiful. I don't need to be cute and cuddly. I accept who I am, and I love who I am.

[Zifnab]

I have had both...was very short till after graduation from high school....
I can now say I was denied as a child...was never cuddled either...oh, wait! I was never CUTE!! that may have something to do with it.....

[Annie]

:( I didn't mean to start anything here..or brag for that matter. Jazzy, if it helps, being short when I was younger was not a treat. I felt awkward and was often made fun of.."midget, pipsqueak". I've heard so many short jokes over the years that could fill a book. In fact, until a couple of years ago, I wished I was taller.

It was also hard being called cute all of the time. I hated trying to prove myself to others just because of my stature. I found it hard to be taken seriously. I referred to myself as a girl until a couple of years ago.

It took a long time for me to build up my confidence and think as myself as a woman. Now that I'm in my 30's men find me attractive and sexy. Imagine..me..sexy?! I still struggle with my self esteem every day. the only difference now is, I finally think I'm cute.

So I'm sorry if I struck a nerve here. I would take kind, sincere, and insightful over just "cute" any day.:hug:
I couldn't have said this better myself! This is exactly how I felt too! I also got sick and tired of having my IDs questioned, no one ever believed my age. I was contantly being underestimated in my business, I was the manager and buyer for a clothing store.

I never wanted to be "cute", kids are cute. I wanted to be attractive, pretty, beautiful.... anything but CUTE! I guess this might be ok for me today, but it was pretty hard when I was 25 and had people guessing me for 17.

I got my first appartment and some salesman came to the door and asked me if my mother was home. He didn't make the sale that day!

One thing I keep telling my son is that we are all perfectly wonderful the way we are. We are built exactly the way God wanted us to be built. The world needs people of all sizes and shapes. All God wants is for us to make the most of it.

[funluvinga]

Good for you. I have often times wished that they taught a class in self respect and confidence in high school. I never understood why we had to wait till we're adults to learn that we are okay just the way we are....


Or was I the only one that learned that as an adult???

You were certainly NOT the only one Rainbow. I hated my hair, my height, my boobs, everything. I can't think of anything other than my eyes that I liked about me. Once I became an adult and realized how dumb it was to try to form myself into that mold of the "popular people", I saw how beautiful I was. I tell my teenage daughter all the time that she is beautiful and it won't be long before she realizes, people want to look like her.

[Jy]

No apology necessary, Mighty. I didn't think you were bragging or trying to start anything.:kk It just brought back memories of how badly I wanted to fit in when I so obviously didn't. People seem to think the tall, pretty girls don't have self=esteem problems, but some of us don't "grow into" our looks until well after the taunts and jeers have left their scars.

I think what this discussion reveals is just how delicate our self-images can be, especially during those horrible teens years.
Yes, I too wish there was more emphasis on self-worth rather than looks, clothes, cliques, etc. and hopefully one day we will move in that direction.
But look at all of us today!! Here are posts from accomplished, well'adjusted adults who have learned to embrace their uniquness and celebrate who they are! I never thought I'd see the day I was proud of my height, let alone wish I was taller! It's wonderful to see how perspectives evolve with time and life experience.
:( I didn't mean to start anything here..or brag for that matter. Jazzy, if it helps, being short when I was younger was not a treat. I felt awkward and was often made fun of.."midget, pipsqueak". I've heard so many short jokes over the years that could fill a book. In fact, until a couple of years ago, I wished I was taller.

It was also hard being called cute all of the time. I hated trying to prove myself to others just because of my stature. I found it hard to be taken seriously. I referred to myself as a girl until a couple of years ago.

It took a long time for me to build up my confidence and think as myself as a woman. Now that I'm in my 30's men find me attractive and sexy. Imagine..me..sexy?! I still struggle with my self esteem every day. the only difference now is, I finally think I'm cute.

So I'm sorry if I struck a nerve here. I would take kind, sincere, and insightful over just "cute" any day.:hug:

[MIGHTY]

No apology necessary, Mighty. I didn't think you were bragging or trying to start anything.:kk It just brought back memories of how badly I wanted to fit in when I so obviously didn't. People seem to think the tall, pretty girls don't have self=esteem problems, but some of us don't "grow into" our looks until well after the taunts and jeers have left their scars.

I think what this discussion reveals is just how delicate our self-images can be, especially during those horrible teens years.
Yes, I too wish there was more emphasis on self-worth rather than looks, clothes, cliques, etc. and hopefully one day we will move in that direction.
But look at all of us today!! Here are posts from accomplished, well'adjusted adults who have learned to embrace their uniquness and celebrate who they are! I never thought I'd see the day I was proud of my height, let alone wish I was taller! It's wonderful to see how perspectives evolve with time and life experience.

Just for reference..when I said "kind, sincere, and insightfull" I was talking about traits that you have displayed on this site. You and Momma are the best!!:kk

[Dmy]

I couldn't have said this better myself! This is exactly how I felt too! I also got sick and tired of having my IDs questioned, no one ever believed my age. I was contantly being underestimated in my business, I was the manager and buyer for a clothing store.

I never wanted to be "cute", kids are cute. I wanted to be attractive, pretty, beautiful.... anything but CUTE! I guess this might be ok for me today, but it was pretty hard when I was 25 and had people guessing me for 17.

I got my first appartment and some salesman came to the door and asked me if my mother was home. He didn't make the sale that day!

One thing I keep telling my son is that we are all perfectly wonderful the way we are. We are built exactly the way God wanted us to be built. The world needs people of all sizes and shapes. All God wants is for us to make the most of it.

Good point Annie.....

I wasnt really tall or real short....but I looked younger then my age...I have ppl still say I dont look almost 40. It use to be a hinderence....now its a blessing to look younger....It could be the opposite!

[Momma]

Me?...if you did mean me...thank you very much hun, if not, disregard this....lol....:kk



Just for reference..when I said "kind, sincere, and insightfull" I was talking about traits that you have displayed on this site. You and Momma are the best!!:kk

[MIGHTY]

Me?...if you did mean me...thank you very much hun, if not, disregard this....lol....:kk

Of course I was talking about you! You and Jazzy have been so kind and encouraging with your responses. You two are a couple of big reasons I've made this my new home...:thankyou: :hug:

[hoss]

Being short isn't really a bad thing.

i am short..i'm 5'7 on a good day...my son who is 11 is almost as tall as me...
i have never thought of my height as a determent...just the opposite..i can sit in small cars,i can wear large clothes and be snuggly...i dont smack my head on anything...well unless its one of mommas frying pans...like they say the bigger they are ,the harder they fall...yes i was a easy target as a kid ,but have learned not to back down and i let no one walk over me...

the world is made up of all kinds of people,short people have alot of advantages tall people dont...:wa:

soooo..i guess i learned to like myself.....

[Jy]

We have new members join every day. It used to occur so infrequently that the veterens would stop and take note that a new person had joined our group. We'd speculate as to whether they would stay, if they would post, how they'd get along with the rest - it was an occasion.
Registration has increased exponentially and it's difficult to keep up with who's new. Sometimes you won't cross paths with a newbie or take notice of them until they're seasoned members of the 200 club. Many come, post a few times, and go without having made any impression. But every so often someone special joins up, and very quickly becomes an integral part of our hodge-podge online family. You are one of those people Mighty. Welcome to the family.:kk Of course I was talking about you! You and Jazzy have been so kind and encouraging with your responses. You two are a couple of big reasons I've made this my new home...:thankyou: :hug:

[Cotties]

move it short assi am short..i'm 5'7 on a good day...my son who is 11 is almost as tall as me...
i have never thought of my height as a determent...just the opposite..i can sit in small cars,i can wear large clothes and be snuggly...i dont smack my head on anything...well unless its one of mommas frying pans...like they say the bigger they are ,the harder they fall...yes i was a easy target as a kid ,but have learned not to back down and i let no one walk over me...

the world is made up of all kinds of people,short people have alot of advantages tall people dont...:wa:

soooo..i guess i learned to like myself.....

[hoss]

move it short ass

piss off....u want me to move ...u move me....

but be warned.....touch me................and i may like it ....:D

[MIGHTY]

We have new members join every day. It used to occur so infrequently that the veterens would stop and take note that a new person had joined our group. We'd speculate as to whether they would stay, if they would post, how they'd get along with the rest - it was an occasion.
Registration has increased exponentially and it's difficult to keep up with who's new. Sometimes you won't cross paths with a newbie or take notice of them until they're seasoned members of the 200 club. Many come, post a few times, and go without having made any impression. But every so often someone special joins up, and very quickly becomes an integral part of our hodge-podge online family. You are one of those people Mighty. Welcome to the family.:kk

There's not some secret initiation I haven't been told about is there? Depending on what it is..I may have to change my mind.:sc :lh

Thank you for the kind words and open arms...:)

[Cotties]

I have learned that throwing short people in the boot of a car is easier and also amusingpiss off....u want me to move ...u move me....

but be warned.....touch me................and i may like it ....:D

[MIGHTY]

i am short..i'm 5'7 on a good day...my son who is 11 is almost as tall as me...
i have never thought of my height as a determent...just the opposite..i can sit in small cars,i can wear large clothes and be snuggly...i dont smack my head on anything...well unless its one of mommas frying pans...like they say the bigger they are ,the harder they fall...yes i was a easy target as a kid ,but have learned not to back down and i let no one walk over me...

the world is made up of all kinds of people,short people have alot of advantages tall people dont...:wa:

soooo..i guess i learned to like myself.....

I always say that I'm 5'2" on a good hair day..:wa:

[spare_change]

piss off....u want me to move ...u move me....

but be warned.....touch me................and i may like it ....:D



You slut !

[Cotties]

hoss might say the same..:D ..


cute call
I always say that I'm 5'2" on a good hair day..:wa:

[tiger50]

You slut !

hoss iz a slut?? welll fuk me......

[Norfolkdave]

hoss iz a slut?? welll fuk me......

Stastictically no thankyou, but Hoss will:lmao :lmao :lmao

[Momma]

Well thank you very much hun...I'm glad we help you out.:lf ...anytime


Of course I was talking about you! You and Jazzy have been so kind and encouraging with your responses. You two are a couple of big reasons I've made this my new home...:thankyou: :hug:

[Shiane]

Hostile Corporate take overs SUCK! :(

[MIGHTY]

I've learned that , sometimes, when you think you're doing someone a favor, it can come back and bite you on the azz!:sc

[Dmy]

I've learned to TRY not hamper the Mrs. about sex all the time....Unless I've been meeting her needs as well!

[MIGHTY]

I've learned that, just when you think you have all of the answers, one comes up that you never anticipated.
I've learned that nothing in life or love is what it appears to be.
I've learned that, mo matter how hard you try, you will still fail sometimes.
I've learned that love doesn't always conquer all.
I've learned that, it is better to have never loved sometimes, than to have loved and lost.

[massage mike]

love hurts

[jman]

we make things much more difficult than they have to be.

[Annie]

we make things much more difficult than they have to be.
Yes we do and then we become our own worst enemy!

[jman]

I have don'e that way to many times.

[Cotties]

yep

:kk ...I've learned that life ain't fair

I've learned that, just when you think you have all of the answers, one comes up that you never anticipated.
I've learned that nothing in life or love is what it appears to be.
I've learned that, mo matter how hard you try, you will still fail sometimes.
I've learned that love doesn't always conquer all.
I've learned that, it is better to have never loved sometimes, than to have loved and lost.

[MIGHTY]

I've learned that, what doesn't kill you, will make you stronger...I hope...

[hoss]

I've learned that ,sometimes all u have to do is sit back and listen..u may even change a persons life .....

[Cotties]

I have learned that some people don't make sense

[cherokeered]

I've learned that sometimes you're standing somewhere else then where you thought...........





Cherokee..........:whee:

[hoss]

I have learned that some people don't make sense


u been looking in the mirror again ???

[OICurready4me]

Nice avatar, Shiane. Can I help you out of that?

[Cotties]

you see Hoss.... I guess it makes sense to someone...but not me..I've learned that sometimes you're standing somewhere else then where you thought...........





Cherokee..........:whee:

[cherokeered]

you see Hoss.... I guess it makes sense to someone...but not me..


Hun...don't hurt yourself with the complexity of it...go play with Hoss....lol


Cherokee...:D

[hoss]

Hun...don't hurt yourself with the complexity of it...go play with Hoss....lol


Cherokee...:D

awwww...i wanna play with u ....cotties wont let me pour the tea and he keeps looking up malibu barbies dress .....

[hoss]

you see Hoss.... I guess it makes sense to someone...but not me..

cher is a engima.....her head is here but her heart is somewhere else..her body resides at home but her soul resides down under...her mind is on her family but her thoughts are of her man...her waking hours are filled with fantasys of her man while her dreams are filled with realitys yet unfullfilled...

[Cotties]

thats pretty funny for ya Cher:D ....ya been practisingHun...don't hurt yourself with the complexity of it...go play with Hoss....lol


Cherokee...:D

[Cotties]

and I just thought she was a bit of a tripper:sc cher is a engima.....her head is here but her heart is somewhere else..her body resides at home but her soul resides down under...her mind is on her family but her thoughts are of her man...her waking hours are filled with fantasys of her man while her dreams are filled with realitys yet unfullfilled...

[cherokeered]

and I just thought she was a bit of a tripper:sc

A tripper?....lol...not even close....



Cherokee..:)

[pixiegirl]

I've learned that sometimes you just need to let the one's you love make their own mistakes...but always be there with a hug and to listen when they need it.

[mrscvdr]

Great learning Pixie! I have found the same thing... it is really tough sometimes

[Norfolkdave]

Great Thought Pixie very nice indeed

[pixiegirl]

Great learning Pixie! I have found the same thing... it is really tough sometimes


Tell me about it...almost bit my tongue in two not giving advice sometimes :whee:

[Norfolkdave]

Tell me about it...almost bit my tongue in two not giving advice sometimes :whee:

" Dont shout" otherwise you,ll have a forked tounge:lmao :lmao

[funluvinga]

Sometimes you have to settle for less than you expected in life.

[MIGHTY]

I've learned that you have to pick your battles wisely...sometimes the fight is not worth the hassle and headache.

[SpokaneGuy]

Ive learned to realize that its not all about me, and if people cant accept me too bad, and life is tooooo short not to be happy!!!!

[sweetgapeach]

I learned that you dont always make the right decisions

[G...G]

I've learned that starlight nights are always what they seem

[steamy]

I have learned that there is someone out there for you. Can you find them? Can they find you? Magic is everywhere. I have learned to trust your heart.

[MIGHTY]

I have learned that there is someone out there for you. Can you find them? Can they find you? Magic is everywhere. I have learned to trust your heart.

I've learned that trusting my heart doesn't always pan out....but, trusting my gut does.

[jman]

I have learned in life things don't always turn out as planned.

[RedHeadGuy1967]

Receving a phone call in the middle of the night is usually not good news.

[G...G]

Hope everything is okay!! :knuddel:

Receving a phone call in the middle of the night is usually not good news.

[OICurready4me]

... that family is the most important thing you can have.

[sweetgapeach]

that if I had a bag of twenties it would help me right now

[Momma]

:55...well said hun....couldn't agree more...:kk



... that family is the most important thing you can have.

[massage mike]

life has its ups and downs

[spare_change]

life has its ups and downs

But once you understand the ins and outs of life, the ups and downs become a lot more fun!

[dartgirl]

I've learned that good things happen when you least expect them.

[Willy S]

I've learned look hopefully to the future - nothing is impossible.

[altoids69]

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

[MCat]

That I can't do it all :(

[sweetgapeach]

That I can't do it all :(


Amen

[Cotties]

Mcat...maybe if I put mu hand down your pants your problems might seem less importantThat I can't do it all :(

[Cotties]

I have learned that getting too big for your boots usually means you get a kick in the ass...thats well deserved

[spare_change]

That I can't do it all :(


.... or you could put YOUR hand down MY pants and all your problems would go away !!

[MIGHTY]

I've learned that I may not always get what I want....
but, somehow, I always get what I need.

[Cotties]

if my hands are in Mcats pants, mcats hands are in your pants, where are you hands and whats Lena doing:sc .... or you could put YOUR hand down MY pants and all your problems would go away !!

[Lena]

if my hands are in Mcats pants, mcats hands are in your pants, where are you hands and whats Lena doing:sc
errrr...... can't tell you!!!

[Good to Find (M)]

errrr...... can't tell you!!!
It could end up as a sticky situation

-G2

[OICurready4me]

I've learned that your true first love will forever be in your heart until the day you die. That's the one that will always bring you back to the woulda, coulda, shoulda part of your life, when things get rough.

[hoss]

I've learned that even though u don't hear from someone, it doesn't mean they arent thinking about u

[G...G]

I've learned that money don't grow on trees



but my kids sure think so

[Jy]

So true, Hoss, so true.I've learned that even though u don't hear from someone, it doesn't mean they arent thinking about u

[spare_change]

I've learned that leopards don't change their spots --- they just play "connect the dots
" and hope nobody notices.

[sweetgapeach]

I have learned that sometimes it's better not to say anything at all .

[spare_change]

I've learned that my old grandmother was right -- "The proof is in the pudding!"

[tiger50]

I've learned that my old grandmother was right -- "The proof is in the pudding!"

WTF, mate i searched that puddin, found nuffin but fukkin sixpences i broke me teeth on.... :sc

[spare_change]

WTF, mate i searched that puddin, found nuffin but fukkin sixpences i broke me teeth on.... :sc

Damn Ozzie edjumacation -- she's talking about the rum in the pudding!!

[G...G]

I've learned that sometimes you just gotta say whatcha feel girl



I have learned that sometimes it's better not to say anything at all .

[spare_change]

I've learned that sometimes you just gotta say whatcha feel girl

Right on!!! Better to get it out than sit on it and let it bother ya!

[tiger50]

Damn Ozzie edjumacation -- she's talking about the rum in the pudding!!

hey it wasnt too bad, lotsa shery, hic lol aww fark..... :D

[G...G]

Glad I don't have anything bothering me:55

I feel fantastic

Right on!!! Better to get it out than sit on it and let it bother ya!

[Trev]

Glad I don't have anything bothering me:55

I feel fantastic

that's what tequilla will do to a person. :D

[G...G]

It wasn't the tequila honey!! You have that effect on me

that's what tequilla will do to a person. :D

[Trev]

It wasn't the tequila honey!! You have that effect on me

oh, so I bought the tequilla for you for nothing. :D

[spare_change]

I've learned that, in this cold world, there are people who are NOT always what they seem to be, that there are those who pretend to be one thing, but in reality, are something completely different.

I've learned that you have to watch out for these people, because they will smile as they cut your throat, hold your hand as they steal your watch, and then dance merrily away as if nothing has ever happened, expecting you to forgive and forget, to pretend that you didn't know, and that you would never tell.

[G...G]

I have learned that it is time for me to go to bed!!!!!!!!!!



I've also learned exactly what spare stated above

[Trev]

I've learned that, in this cold world, there are people who are NOT always what they seem to be, that there are those who pretend to be one thing, but in reality, are something completely different.

I've learned that you have to watch out for these people, because they will smile as they cut your throat, hold your hand as they steal your watch, and then dance merrily away as if nothing has ever happened, expecting you to forgive and forget, to pretend that you didn't know, and that you would never tell.

I agree with that so much.

[G...G]

Me too and I have learned that a little bit of authority can run a herd of cattle away!!

I agree with that so much.

[Jy]

Amen to that, baby. I've been stabbed in the back one too many times not to be cautious. I can forgive, but there's a limit to how many times I do. But I don't forget. Ever.I've learned that, in this cold world, there are people who are NOT always what they seem to be, that there are those who pretend to be one thing, but in reality, are something completely different.

I've learned that you have to watch out for these people, because they will smile as they cut your throat, hold your hand as they steal your watch, and then dance merrily away as if nothing has ever happened, expecting you to forgive and forget, to pretend that you didn't know, and that you would never tell.

[spare_change]

Me too and I have learned that a little bit of authority can run a herd of cattle away!!

Actually, it's the other way around. As an experienced cattle "herder" -- we call em cowboys --- problems usually start when you let some cow get outside the boundaries, and don't bring em back into line. Pretty soon, you got cows going every which direction, and everybody has to tromp thru bullshit to get em rounded back up!

[Jy]

...but who wants a bunch of cows around anyway?Me too and I have learned that a little bit of authority can run a herd of cattle away!!

[G...G]

I've learned to LMAO at dumb asses

[G...G]

I'm not a "COWBOY" fan myself!!:D

...but who wants a bunch of cows around anyway?

[Jy]

I'm not big on cows, but I sure love my cowboy.I'm not a "COWBOY" fan myself!!:D

[Trev]

I'm not a "COWBOY" fan myself!!:D

I've learned what kind of fan you are though.

[spare_change]

I've learned to LMAO at dumb asses


Mules?? Coulda sworn we were talking about cattle.

[Jy]

I thought we were talking about sheep?



Mules?? Coulda sworn we were talking about cattle.

[G...G]

Mule, cattle.. whatever..... My ole man is a dumbass... thats what I call him anyway

Mules?? Coulda sworn we were ta
lking about cattle.

[fly]

.... or you could put YOUR hand down MY pants and all your problems would go away !!

Hey there........don't be sharing MY mistletoe! I claimed that!!!!!!!!:nu

(just kidding........share and share alike!)

[fly]

I've learned that, in this cold world, there are people who are NOT always what they seem to be, that there are those who pretend to be one thing, but in reality, are something completely different.

I've learned that you have to watch out for these people, because they will smile as they cut your throat, hold your hand as they steal your watch, and then dance merrily away as if nothing has ever happened, expecting you to forgive and forget, to pretend that you didn't know, and that you would never tell.

I couldn't of said it better spare..............

[MIGHTY]

I've learned to always look for an alterior motive....

[cherokeered]

You won't be disappointed most of the time either...it's always there....




Cherokee....:whee:

[sweetgapeach]

I've learned that sometimes you just gotta say whatcha feel girl




I still stick with what I have Learned ..........Sometimes it is best to keep your mouth shut , to be the better person

[sweetgapeach]

I have also learned Friends are important

[Dmy]

I learned that sex gets better with age! :D ;)

[sweetgapeach]

I have learned it's hard for me to keep my mouth shut

[altoids69]

I learned that sex gets better with age! :D ;)

I would have to agree. I think we become less inhibited. Makes for some fun times!!!:D

[MIGHTY]

I've learned to always trust my instincts....they usually pan out to be right on.

[sweetgapeach]

I've learned to always trust my instincts....they usually pan out to be right on.



very true !!

[Barkiss]

I've learned that as a dog person, I still can't resist kittens. I have two in my lap right now...

[G...G]

I sooooooo agree with that!!!

I've learned to always trust my instincts....they usually pan out to be right on.

[G...G]

Awwwww
No wonder Peach likes you!! Gotta like a man that is a softy for cats!! :D


I've learned that as a dog person, I still can't resist kittens. I have two in my lap right now...

[sweetgapeach]

Awwwww
No wonder Peach likes you!! Gotta like a man that is a softy for cats!! :D


LMAO

[Rmb]

I no longer sweat the small stuff...and realize now that the most significant things that change our lives....happen by chance. :) :)

[Barkiss]

LMAO

You laughing at me...or the fact I love pussies?

[sweetgapeach]

You laughing at me...or the fact I love pussies?




the p word

[Heaterman]

I've learned that true friends can have major battles and after a period of time remain friends and later laugh about the battles and how silly they were.

[Annie]

I've learned that true friends can have major battles and after a period of time remain friends and later laugh about the battles and how silly they were.
Yeah... I call those people family by choice. You may not be blood, but you know that you're pretty much stuck with 'em!

[sweet]

I'm glad you know this hun. :kk I've learned that even though u don't hear from someone, it doesn't mean they arent thinking about u

[MCat]

You fellas are so willing to help a damsel in distress.....
both ideas sound absolutely wonderful.


Mcat...maybe if I put mu hand down your pants your problems might seem less important[QUOTE]:kk


[QUOTE=spare_change].... or you could put YOUR hand down MY pants and all your problems would go away !!:kk

[MIGHTY]

I've learned that if you can't beat them, join them.

[jman]

I have learned that things are not always what they appear to be.

[Barkiss]

I've learned that true friends can have major battles and after a period of time remain friends and later laugh about the battles and how silly they were.

I've learned you are a wise man...

[hoss]

I've learned that shopping on a saturday one week before christmas is a stupid stupid STUPID thing to do ......

[Cotties]

it beats the night before;) I've learned that shopping on a saturday one week before christmas is a stupid stupid STUPID thing to do ......

[Dmy]

I learned to appreciate what I have, after seeing what happens to some ppl, I've got it Great! :55 ;)

[Traxster]

I've learned that shopping on a saturday one week before christmas is a stupid stupid STUPID thing to do ......

thats why ya a Hoser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:na

[MIGHTY]

I've learned that sometimes you just have to suck it up and be a grown up....

[Trev]

..............

[sweetgapeach]

brain fart

[ryu_kenshi]

i have learned.. don't eat potato salad at a summer picnic

[kjguy43]

no matter how hard you try, your best is sometimes not good enough for some people!

[steamy]

no matter how hard you try, your best is sometimes not good enough for some people!True. But to give up trying is to never find out when you are wrong.

[kjguy43]

I never give up being the best I can be for anyone, but some people just think they are better than you. Especailly bosses!



True. But to give up trying is to never find out when you are wrong.

[yaser]

I have learnt that to love a woman needs to be patient and compassioned.

[fatah]

I have learned that counting to ten before you reply really does work.

[SirFox]

There is a saying in my native country of adoption that one should twirl his tongue seven times in his mouth before saying anything.

[magic]

I have learnt that twirling tongues are a delight .... :)

[fatah]

twirling tongues tantalize the texture of our timidity

[SirFox]

twirling tongues tantalize the texture of our timidity

Oh no...another POET.... :lmao

[fatah]

I will restrain myself. Gemini's can't help it, words are fun.

[hoss]

ive learned .....i am loved ,and never forgotten

[Momma]

I'm glad you finally got that through your head....thought I would have to hammer it in....:knuddel:


ive learned .....i am loved ,and never forgotten

[OICurready4me]

twirling tongues tantalize the texture of our timidity


Now that's a tongue twister. Can anyone say, if it weren't for the pussy I ate, the cat would still be meowing?

[fatah]

three times fast?

[steamy]

What I have learned is make damned sure you know peoples agendas.

[fatah]

What I have learned is make damned sure you know peoples agendas.

Do you find you are usually right?

[Suz]

What I have learned is make damned sure you know peoples agendas.

Don't do this

[cherokeered]

What I have learned is make damned sure you know peoples agendas.

Good thing to be sure of hun...:kk

[cherokeered]

I have learned that sometimes I hate my husband......today is one of those days




Cherokee

[Spooky13]

I have learned that Cheese is the devil's playground.

[fatah]

I have learned that sometimes I hate my husband......today is one of those days




Cherokee

Another opportunity for lots of duct tape and a dark closet

[RedVixen]

I have learned that sometimes I hate my husband......today is one of those days




Cherokee

You sound like me right now Cherokee :(

[Cotties]

I have learned that Redvixens avatar gets my little fella in the moodYou sound like me right now Cherokee :(

[waterboy30m]

I have learned that you can not drive the car forward looking in the rear veiw mirror...

[Cotties]

of course you can...the trick is to watch the line in the middle of the road in the mirror and just pray there are no slow cars on the road:55 I have learned that you can not drive the car forward looking in the rear veiw mirror...

[steamy]

Lightening can strike twice in the same spot.

[Cotties]

not likely there Steamy:sc Lightening can strike twice in the same spot.

[steamy]

Also, you cannot piss up a rope:D

[hoss]

I'm glad you finally got that through your head....thought I would have to hammer it in....:knuddel:

can i nail u afrerwards ??

[Traxster]

can i nail u afrerwards ??

Awwwwwwwwwwwww geez....get a room.......oh your in one sorry!!:lmao

[hoss]

Awwwwwwwwwwwww geez....get a room.......oh your in one sorry!!:lmao


yep....and guess whos looking in through the window...dont track mud into the house big daddy

[OICurready4me]

... that when I have a hard on, It's very difficult to think.

[cherokeered]

That sometimes crying is a good thing...



Cherokee....:)

[Traxster]

yep....and guess whos looking in through the window...dont track mud into the house big daddy


lol....never leave a calling card!!!

[hoss]

lol....never leave a calling card!!!


yeh,,I'm tired of laying in the wet spot ...EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

[yaser]

That sometimes crying is a good thing...



Cherokee....:)
both for pleasu :cry: re and pain?

[yaser]

yeh,,I'm tired of laying in the wet spot ...EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
Then get out of it sometimes...Afraid of someone will get in? :lf

[fatah]

That sometimes crying is a good thing...



Cherokee....:)

So is anger. I hope you feel better soon.

[Cotties]

I have learned that eating huge quantities of chocolate for breakfast with my coffee makes me feel sick.....but its so good I can't stop it

[rainbowhigh]

I have learned that eating huge quantities of chocolate for breakfast with my coffee makes me feel sick.....but its so good I can't stop it

Chocolate for breakfast, huh? That's great. I'm glad I'm not the only person that does that. LOL (But nix the coffee - that's stuff is nasty. :D Give me a Dr. Pepper any time....)

[Cotties]

I'll have a pepsi and a smoke soon so I can wash my teeth and freshen my mouth......


I also learned years ago that chocolate is the number one breakfast food in France......since then I've had no guilt about it
Chocolate for breakfast, huh? That's great. I'm glad I'm not the only person that does that. LOL (But nix the coffee - that's stuff is nasty. :D Give me a Dr. Pepper any time....)

[cherokeered]

That I am very grateful to have met a man like Tiger.....and am thankful every day for him




Cherokee....:kk :knuddel:

[Barkiss]

receiving a Christmas Card can mean more than all the gifts in the world.

[sweetgapeach]

receiving a Christmas Card can mean more than all the gifts in the world.

:kk

[Traxster]

The feeling that someone loves you makes life alot brighter

[hoss]

I've learned that Traxster snores.....

[Cotties]

I have learned its nice nice to laugh at a women when she fanny farts[ fanny in Oz is the front bum of a women]

[OICurready4me]

the phone usually rings when you are in the bathroom, taking care of business

[fatah]

I have learned that life can often be unfair so lemonade is the best option.

[tiger50]

That I am very grateful to have met a man like Tiger.....and am thankful every day for him




Cherokee....:kk :knuddel:

well baby, its a two way street for us, you are one special lady... :knuddel: :kk

[Momma]

LOL....anytime baby....:D :knuddel:


can i nail u afrerwards ??

[Momma]

I have learned that it makes no sense in rushing things...they'll eventually get done, and if you stress about it....it'll just give you an un-nesessary headache...not cool...:55

[fatah]

I have learned that it makes no sense in rushing things...they'll eventually get done, and if you stress about it....it'll just give you an un-nesessary headache...not cool...:55

I have learned that you are right. Being patient is the greatest virtue.

[sweet]

I've learned that you shouldn't procrastinate. Get the Christmas shopping done early! :whee:

[spare_change]

I've learned that you shouldn't procrastinate. Get the Christmas shopping done early! :whee:

I subscribe to the Holy Christmas method of shopping --- I believe that if you go shopping at 1 pm on Dec 24th, you will experience a miracle.

If you walk into the store, and trip on something in the aisle, and it's on sale, that is a sign from God -- it is the perfect gift and you were meant to buy it.

It can be a truly religious experience!!

[Rmb]

Life is too short to sweat the small stuff :)

[Sandy]

amen rhumba, give thanks for what you have.

[cherokeered]

I've learned that I miss Tiger very much...but I did smile at the PM he left for me....




Cherokee...sigh

[Rmb]

I've learned that I miss Tiger very much...but I did smile at the PM he left for me....




Cherokee...sigh

What you mean you have learned? You do that all the time :) :)

[SaltyLime]

I've learned how to work the weather button in my car.

[hoss]

I've learned how to work the weather button in my car.

so u can make it snow in your car ...thats pretty cool...I knew u could get the new Lexus which will park it for u ,but its own weather ..wow...

the car companys are making cars so easy for women to drive now...:D

[fatah]

so u can make it snow in your car ...thats pretty cool...I knew u could get the new Lexus which will park it for u ,but its own weather ..wow...

the car companys are making cars so easy for women to drive now...:D


Man, you believe in living dangerously don't you!

[Cotties]

He hides under his Momma's skirtMan, you believe in living dangerously don't you!

[hoss]

He hides under his Momma's skirt

I do not...Momma dont wear skirts...she wears the pants in the family ...

[cherokeered]

I do not...Momma dont wear skirts...she wears the pants in the family ...

Now that I believe....lol

[hoss]

Now that I believe....lol




hey you...back under that tree...thats it..clothes off...mind the needles !!

you keep that bow on till tommorow...

[cherokeered]

hey you...back under that tree...thats it..clothes off...mind the needles !!

you keep that bow on till tommorow...


Ouch!...mmmmm...needles in my butt...oh great, now am horny...lol


Rub the heiny Hoss....now...:wa:

[hoss]

Ouch!...mmmmm...needles in my butt...oh great, now am horny...lol


Rub the heiny Hoss....now...:wa:

now ??...sorry babe ...its not thursday....ahh hell...

YES MAAM !!....sorry mistress Cherokeeed...YOU are always right...