What was the greatest lesson you ever learned...

[UltimateNaneki]

Pick your friends, wisely!

[Guymisseswife]

humility comes to mind

[wall-flower]

Crazy glue is not a good masturbatory lubricant!

:lmao you won't be shaking hands any time soon.

[RedVixen]

Take time to smell the roses now and again...slow down a bit...life goes by too quickly.

[whosdaflirt]

Take time to smell the roses now and again...slow down a bit...life goes by too quickly.

Definately hon. And when possible, take the time to hold someone close for a while...just sit together and enjoy what we have today... :kk

[wall-flower]

How to let someone in (emotionally).

[scoobertina]

Patience is a virtue... let things take their normal course of action and you will get what you so richly deserve...

[mile high]

Don't masturbate (too much)
It makes you lazy. Your penis will drag you to ridiculous places trying to get you laid, even when all you want to do is blob out on the couch. The upside is you'll see a whole lot of life, which is much better than being constantly hunched over Internet porn.

[pointofnoreturn]

Mom's are the absolute best. Never take them for granted.....

[duanehofner]

Never marry a woman you've only know for 12 days, no matter HOW much you want the tax deduction!

[simplygrace]

I have found a man to have the same interests as me. But there are also different interests to and thats ok.

[yaser]

I have found a man to have the same interests as me. But there are also different interests to and thats ok.
Do you want to look at the mirror,Grace?You will be bored,I believe.

[Torin]

The greatest lesson I have ever learned....

I am responsible for my own happiness. No one can 'make me happy' or 'ruin my life'... my life belongs to me. I make decisions for myself, and I am the one that has to live with them. Happiness is my number one goal. I believe that if I can be truly happy with myself, and who I am... then my happiness and contentment will be a positive influence in the lives of those who matter most to me.

[spare_change]

You can't jerk off with hockey gloves on.

[yaser]

The greatest lesson I have ever learned....

I am responsible for my own happiness. No one can 'make me happy' or 'ruin my life'... my life belongs to me. I make decisions for myself, and I am the one that has to live with them. Happiness is my number one goal. I believe that if I can be truly happy with myself, and who I am... then my happiness and contentment will be a positive influence in the lives of those who matter most to me.
That is because I love you so much Torin..You know the state of the art hun.

[Erikmeat]

Most women actually don't like getting cum all over there face like in porn.....who knew?

[PunkyBob]

Even though you think you know somebody...there's a lot you may never discover

[Sylar]

My greatest lesson learned was learning to trust someone...fully. I never really trusted anyone in my life...not friends, not family...no one.

I finally learned how to let go, and fully trust someone. I am so glad I did......

[Dir]

Each day brings its own hurry

[Jezabella]

There is always more to learn.

[Dir]

:55There is always more to learn.

[Erikmeat]

Most of the time....it's better to swallow your pride....hurts going down. But feels better in the long run.

[Sunfiresix]

Yup just when you think you learned it all something new comes along and your amazed all over again, thank God for the wonders of life,

[Dir]

I just learn about tolerance and respect for other's oppinions and point of views :knuddel:

[Sunfiresix]

I just learn about tolerance and respect for other's oppinions and point of views :knuddel:

Without that you will have no friends, you respect someone no matter what and they will be kind and good to you.:knuddel:

[Hotshotfireguy]

when your face shield starts melting, it's time to get out of the house :eek:

[newhere]

Don't ever Look back... It only drives you Crazy:yks

[mark_66]

retired military officer - greatest lesson I ever learned was when I returned home from a 2 year combat tour - I was 21 at the time - I discovered the secret of a happy life - I found that happiness only came with a true understanding of what truly counted in life. It was an incrdiable feeling - unfortunately a year later I lost that understanding - simly overwhelmed by what other folks considered important - I find the feeling and understanding returned after every extended combat tour. Now that I retired from the military I suspect I will never regain that understanding.

[spare_change]

retired military officer - greatest lesson I ever learned was when I returned home from a 2 year combat tour - I was 21 at the time - I discovered the secret of a happy life - I found that happiness only came with a true understanding of what truly counted in life. It was an incrdiable feeling - unfortunately a year later I lost that understanding - simly overwhelmed by what other folks considered important - I find the feeling and understanding returned after every extended combat tour. Now that I retired from the military I suspect I will never regain that understanding.

It does kinda change your perspective, doesn't it? Eventually, you figure out the bullshit really doesn't matter. Sure is easy to forget that, though.

[yaser]

I just learn about tolerance and respect for other's oppinions and point of views :knuddel:

:sng

[Alfa]

I think the greatest lesson I have learned is one that most doofs understand more than a little earlier than I did: knowing that I don't know what I don't know.

I will be the first to admit I was the most maddening type of arrogant @$$ in my youth: the one who only admitted to himself that he firmly believed he was always right. Like no one else could pick on that (yeah, right).

For too long, I believed that if I just worked a couple more hours, made a couple more achievements, got a couple more awards, I would be know all the answers to life and be happy.

Well, the life of hard knocks, and some very tolerant buds, gave me the opportunity to pull my head out and understand that "winning" is not working 100+ hrs a week, getting every award on stage and "getting ahead". And no matter how much you do these things, there is always someone else is smarter, who inherited more ("lucky sperm club", as we called it) and is further ahead... but it doesn't matter!

These days I am someone that I would have laughed at in the beginning of my work career: someone who is more committed to their kids than their promotions, someone who cries through the last 1/2 of "August Rush", someone who not only accepts but embraces, others excelling further than he has/does.

...and I am happier!

[tiger50]

not ta play with superglue whilst avvin a wank..

[Atrebla Rose]

not ta play with superglue whilst avvin a wank..

I have to ask,,,why would you? OMG holding on tight I take it!

[tiger50]

I have to ask,,,why would you? OMG holding on tight I take it!

tryin ta glue up tha hole in me condom..:sc

[Atrebla Rose]

tryin ta glue up tha hole in me condom..:sc

:yks I knew I shouldnt have:yks asked:yksLOL

[yaser]

:yks I knew I shouldnt have:yks asked:yksLOL

Asking the questions determines the answering.But you must know who you are asking...

[DK44]

Lovers may come and go, but good friends will always be there.. Don't ever ditch a friendship for a love interest..

[Krystal]

Those who you love the most.....have the power to hurt you the most.

[flake68]

Not to let fear and/or doubt stop you from your dreams (or simply doing what you want to do).

[DK44]

Those who you love the most.....have the power to hurt you the most.

Amen.. very very true..

[softrosepetal]

For 18 years my husband had controlled me by making me feel stupid. I have recently learned to have a mind of my own (whether he likes it or not), try to be as happy as I can be in the situation at hand.

[Shawn]

The first lesson i learned was, if he was bigger... you are always quicker

The second was if you have diarrhea and have to fart....don't

[Dsparate No More]

I learned to marry someone with whom you feel passion...AND to marry someone with whom you are sexually compatible.

[yaser]

Those who you love the most.....have the power to hurt you the most.

Krystal ,who gives the power to him or her?

[lauraslife]

Krystal ,who gives the power to him or her?


such good advice but so hard to see when you are in the middle of it.

[yaser]

such good advice but so hard to see when you are in the middle of it.
Then please accept the dilemma and try to tolerate it..Because to love is to risk not to be loved..
However you don't seem to lose..

[lauraslife]

Then please accept the dilemma and try to tolerate it..Because to love is to risk not to be loved..
However you don't seem to lose..

You hit the nail on the head Yaser, you have either to jump in or sit on the sidelines and play it safe. In the end I want to be able to say that I jumped in even if it meant finding myself in over my head. I choose to take the risk!

[yaser]

You hit the nail on the head Yaser, you have either to jump in or sit on the sidelines and play it safe. In the end I want to be able to say that I jumped in even if it meant finding myself in over my head. I choose to take the risk!I want to congratulate you for your decision...Now
Please be ready for the price or harvest the reward...Life is open to two ways...
You may fall but st:sngand up and run again.

[Zarret]

How to pick your battles.

[tiger50]

How to pick your battles.

yeh but first i hafta learn howta pik the rite farkin pick....:sc

[learman3]

Greatest lesson I have learned here is .... hmmm ... Thought this was easy when I first started this post, but now I'm having trouble putting it into words.

I never took the steps to reach out and get to know any of you in the past 3 years due to my own lack of self confidense. Well this past Saturday I chatted with a few of you and had a wonderful time. So being more confident in who I am is probably the best lesson I have learned.

Ok, so it was easier than I thought.

[lauraslife]

Greatest lesson I have learned here is .... hmmm ... Thought this was easy when I first started this post, but now I'm having trouble putting it into words.

I never took the steps to reach out and get to know any of you in the past 3 years due to my own lack of self confidense. Well this past Saturday I chatted with a few of you and had a wonderful time. So being more confident in who I am is probably the best lesson I have learned.

Ok, so it was easier than I thought.

Well said, hope you continue to build those new friendships and have fun!

[lauraslife]

How to pick your battles.


that is an important lesson, thanks for the reminder.

[Vampireskiss]

l have found that you should never help a woman totally...it will come back to haunt you...what l mean is...it's nice to build up a woman's ego and self esteem, tell her she's great and she shouldn't let people shit on her and all...but the bad thing about it sometime's is, they turn it around on you and all of a sudden l'm the one she's telling off when it was l who helped her...Lovely to build one's self esteem...not so to get your ass chewed off for being there.:thrMen have taught me a whole lot of things about relationships. They have also taught me a great deal about myself. What is the greatest lesson a significant other has taught you?

[scoobertina]

you have to believe in yourself before others can believe in you...

and people will do anything to hurt you... unfortunately they hurt others as well, so if you have anypersonal feelings to share... don't do it... keep it to yourself..

[92115guy]

you have to believe in yourself before others can believe in you...

Really, the thread can stop with this one. This absolutely is the most important lesson anyone can ever learn!

james

[scoobertina]

ok, wipe the slate... I changed my mind... and I am a woman, I can do that...

ummmm forget it.. was going to say communication but I still believe you have to believe in yourself first.. although communication is essential..

[jmsmith12345]

The greatest lesson I ever learned was that the universe does not revolve around me.