getting snipped

[Crawfish]

Well I just found out that I'm going to have a third kid. Not the end of the world but I wasn't prepared for this one. What do you guys think about getting snipped. I knida like the thought of saying goodbye to mr. raincoat.

[christinalee]

Do it... after my hubby got his done it was so much more fun not having to worry about it!!!

[Cotties]

if you don't want anymore kids than that sounds like the smartest thing to do

[paris]

Well I just found out that I'm going to have a third kid. Not the end of the world but I wasn't prepared for this one. What do you guys think about getting snipped. I knida like the thought of saying goodbye to mr. raincoat.
It was the best thing my husband ever did! And he loved the time between having it done and his 6 week checkup. He had to orgasm 25 times to clear out the pipes. I benefitted too :D !!!

[Suz]

if you don't want anymore kids than that sounds like the smartest thing to do

I agree

[Cotties]

I still use the old pull out and spray it up between her legs approach if that doesn't bother youI agree

[kjguy43]

Sounds like me and the wife, we had a scare last week, tg that passed!



I still use the old pull out and spray it up between her legs approach if that doesn't bother you

[aceofspades1114]

if you dont want kids go for it, you'll save a shitload on rubbers

[CuriousGeorge]

Had it done after my third child. I was pretty nervous about it going in, but it wasn't as bad as I feared. It didn't take very long, they did it right in the doctor's office. I went home right after. I did feel kind of uncomfortable for a couple of days after. It felt a little bit like a bruise from getting kicked there, though not as bad. You might want to take at least one day off after.


It is so nice not to have to worry about birth control every time we have sex. And it's a lot less invasive than it would be for a woman to have her tubes tied.

[longnhard32]

been there done that got that tshirt . not much to it they say it take a few day to get back to normal but i was back to work the same day. free of the though of more kids. peace of mind:wa:

[Butterfly_13]

Well I just found out that I'm going to have a third kid. Not the end of the world but I wasn't prepared for this one. What do you guys think about getting snipped. I knida like the thought of saying goodbye to mr. raincoat.

This one cuts close to my heart...
I think it's a really serious decision to make. My husband got "snipped" after his first marriage and then when we met, we decided we wanted to have a child of our own. So...he had a reversal; it's been over three years since the reversal and still no baby for us. And, yes, I've been checked out too. I'm just saying, think about it; you're young. There are other methods of protection besides condoms. Has your wife considered using contraception? Ultimately, it is your decision and you should make the one that's best for you. I do not mean to deter you or disagree with your choices in any way...Just thought I'd offer my side of the story... Best wishes with whatever decision you make.

[massage mike]

mr raincoat ain't keeping you dry go for it .by the way sexy i'm eventually moving to se florida , how is it there

[Dmy]

Crawfish....

I was snipped 8 yrs ago. We know we were done and she did not want to go through what her mom had when her got fixed....she went immediate menopause. So I had no problem with it. Just be sure you dont want kids with your wife or if you ever remarry etc... Mine was simple in and out walk in. But they did very much under estimate it when they say...."this may stink a little bit" and give you that first shot! :spbx: And I like the fact I dont ever have to worry about getting her pregnant. I'd do it over again if I had too...its worth the freedom! :55

[dave42]

I want to get it done. My wife has had a hysterectomy so I didn't have to. But it really scared the hell out of me when I was with someone else. Granted she was 45 and had never had kids which is a pretty good bet that by now she probably couldn't have any. But stranger things have happened.

I asked the wife maybe I should get one and her reply was, Why?
I am under the impression that she thinks if I get one I will screw around on her. Too late for that! ha'ha'!
Maybe it is her way of keeping me home.
She also replied how many women are you going to meet that are of child bearing age anyway?
I thought to myself you just never know!

[p.J]

How I wish my husband would get the snip, I seriously think our sex life would be far more spontaneous as a result.. as it stands now, we use the so called 'withdrawal method' scary eh? and extremely fustrating... Whats his reasoning? well he says that if I die he may meet someone else ... :nu


However, I do agree with SexyNOLA, you are young, and who knows what life has in store for you yet! :55

[Shiane]

Well I just found out that I'm going to have a third kid. Not the end of the world but I wasn't prepared for this one. What do you guys think about getting snipped. I knida like the thought of saying goodbye to mr. raincoat.

Hubby was supposed to get snipped after the 2nd one, well of course he put it off because it was rodeo season, then it was hunting season. So when Fathers Day rolled around. I walked out in the middle of the rodeo arena and said Happy Fucking Fathers Day lol. Pissed does not even describe it! So after number 3 (can't imagine not having her now) I told him either get it done or get your hand in shape.

So he did. Since I am a nurse lol the doc let me go back with him lol I even helped lol how crazy is that. The funniest thing was hubby laid out in all his glory swaying his toes and singing lol wow IV valium really kicked his ass! :lmao

Get it done, it is a tremendous freedom! :55

[Dmy]

Hubby was supposed to get snipped after the 2nd one, well of course he put it off because it was rodeo season, then it was hunting season. So when Fathers Day rolled around. I walked out in the middle of the rodeo arena and said Happy Fucking Fathers Day lol. Pissed does not even describe it! So after number 3 (can't imagine not having her now) I told him either get it done or get your hand in shape.

So he did. Since I am a nurse lol the doc let me go back with him lol I even helped lol how crazy is that. The funniest thing was hubby laid out in all his glory swaying his toes and singing lol wow IV valium really kicked his ass! :lmao

Get it done, it is a tremendous freedom! :55

Valium!...I didnt get squaut .....Hmmm that would have been a little nicer! :55

[dave42]

How I wish my husband would get the snip, I seriously think our sex life would be far more spontaneous as a result.. as it stands now, we use the so called 'withdrawal method' scary eh? and extremely fustrating... Whats his reasoning? well he says that if I die he may meet someone else ... :nu


However, I do agree with SexyNOLA, you are young, and who knows what life has in store for you yet! :55Wow Too scary for me! but it sure would make for some exhilarating sex though.

[p.J]

Wow Too scary for me! but it sure would make for some exhilarating sex though.

I want you to explain why dave ... in detail naturally! :55

[dave42]

I want you to explain why dave ... in detail naturally! :55Well I guess it just makes it hotter, I don't know why, Like getting away with somthing you are not supposed to.

I have done it and it is really scary, more than once. mostly when was in high school. Waiting till the end of the month. Too much stress for me. a year ago I was seeing a woman who was 45. she had never had children and was on the pill so I thought we were pretty safe. Nothing like a little risk management Eh? But I still thought about if she did get pregnant it would have been really bad for both of us and others as well. Like Outta my mind says, "Better to git er done!"

I should have been smarter in high school and went the technical virgin route You know tits, belly, ass, blow job, That would have been fun. What a great way to get experience and have it all.

[Penny]

We've been using the old pull out and take it on the boobs or face or whatever was in the way method for years. :(

[p.J]

We've been using the old pull out and take it on the boobs or face or whatever was in the way method for years. :(

Yep can relate to that Penny! :( tad predictable ain't it...

[Penny]

I do have nice skin from it though :gs

[Barkiss]

I have had it done...and it was the best decision I ever made!!! Just make sure you have enough frozen green pea bags....they are perfect for the swelling. Oh...and a fifth of whiskey helps too!

[p.J]

I do have nice skin from it though :gs

:D Its not so good for the hair mind, damn hard to get out!

[Penny]

Got to make sure u grab it in time so u can aim it :D



:D Its not so good for the hair mind, damn hard to get out!

[pointofnoreturn]

I want to get it done. My wife has had a hysterectomy so I didn't have to. But it really scared the hell out of me when I was with someone else. Granted she was 45 and had never had kids which is a pretty good bet that by now she probably couldn't have any. But stranger things have happened.

I asked the wife maybe I should get one and her reply was, Why?
I am under the impression that she thinks if I get one I will screw around on her. Too late for that! ha'ha'!
Maybe it is her way of keeping me home.
She also replied how many women are you going to meet that are of child bearing age anyway?
I thought to myself you just never know!my hubby could not do it, so I did. What the heck, I can do what I want now also....

[Crawfish]

Great advice. I can see sexynola's point but I'm going to play the odds and think that I;m going to be with her for the rest of my life. I was thinking that I would love not having to worry about it in bed. I can see what dave means also about playing with another woman. I had an experience like that and I never ever want to go through that again. That was one month that I will never forget!

[snowflake]

Hubby was supposed to get snipped after the 2nd one, well of course he put it off because it was rodeo season, then it was hunting season. So when Fathers Day rolled around. I walked out in the middle of the rodeo arena and said Happy Fucking Fathers Day lol. Pissed does not even describe it! So after number 3 (can't imagine not having her now) I told him either get it done or get your hand in shape.

So he did. Since I am a nurse lol the doc let me go back with him lol I even helped lol how crazy is that. The funniest thing was hubby laid out in all his glory swaying his toes and singing lol wow IV valium really kicked his ass! :lmao

Get it done, it is a tremendous freedom! :55

Shiane, I think we share husbands and we just didn't know it. They use the same excuses!!!!:D

[Inspector72]

Getting snipped is something I'll never do!

[Inspector72]

How I wish my husband would get the snip, I seriously think our sex life would be far more spontaneous as a result.. as it stands now, we use the so called 'withdrawal method' scary eh? and extremely fustrating... Whats his reasoning? well he says that if I die he may meet someone else ... :nu


However, I do agree with SexyNOLA, you are young, and who knows what life has in store for you yet! :55

How about using the pill or rubbers?

[dave42]

Yep can relate to that Penny! :( tad predictable ain't it...ppredictable but fun! But personally for me I would get it done.:D

[Inspector72]

Yep can relate to that Penny! :( tad predictable ain't it...

Yeah but it sound like you and Penny may need safety glasses:lmao you'll shoot you eye out... and it either of you are on the pill, then what is the fear of blasting in you?

And how come you or Penny just don't go get your tube tied?:sc

[MCat]

Yeah but it sound like you and Penny may need safety glasses:lmao you'll shoot you eye out... and it either of you are on the pill, then what is the fear of blasting in you?

And how come you or Penny just don't go get your tube tied?:sc

It's not "just" get your tubes tied. It's an invasive procedure for a woman. A man getting snipped is much safer, quicker and less expensive.

Years ago we used the pull out method....I always felt like I was missing something. Of course I was young and didn't realize the skin beautification benefits I would have enjoyed :55

[Suz]

Having a tubal is an invasion procedure. We do them all the time where I work and if you could see how a woman is manipulated during the surgery, you wouldn't wish that for anyone. Much easier and safer for a man to get snipped. There are studies out now that show an increase risk for a woman to end up having a hysterectomy that had her tubes tied at some point in her life. Not to mention the adhesions that develop. Just not worth it when there are other options in my opinion.

[Rmb]

:D Its not so good for the hair mind, damn hard to get out!

Curious....Does it taste the same?...and...Does only clear precum liquid come out?...Hey I wouldnt know never looked into it. :)

[tiger50]

Curious....Does it taste the same?...and...Does only clear precum liquid come out?...Hey I wouldnt know never looked into it. :)

:lmao :lmao :lmao wanker....

[Rmb]

Having a tubal is an invasion procedure. We do them all the time where I work and if you could see how a woman is manipulated during the surgery, you wouldn't wish that for anyone. Much easier and safer for a man to get snipped. There are studies out now that show an increase risk for a woman to end up having a hysterectomy that had her tubes tied at some point in her life. Not to mention the adhesions that develop. Just not worth it when there are other options in my opinion.

My wife was one of first women in Canada to get her tubes cauterised. It was done thru her navel in a day surgery procedure without any suffering... by a specialist who happened to be a pioneer in that procedure. She never had any side effects and never regretted it. She was in at 8am and out by 11am.
A friend of mine brought me papers to sign from his doctor saying he was of sound mind because he wanted a vasectomy. It was a laugh at the time.
Two days later he was back doubled over in pain with balls like coconuts begging for a drink....telling me never to do it :)
I guess different experiences for different people.

[Rmb]

:lmao :lmao :lmao wanker....

Shut yer gob...you wanted to know too :) :) :lmao:lmao

[tiger50]

Shut yer gob...you wanted to know too :) :) :lmao:lmao

gobble gobble gobble, dusnt anyone fuk anymore???? :lmao

[Rmb]

gobble gobble gobble, dusnt anyone fuk anymore???? :lmao

:lmao:lmao

[speed_raycer]

Wow... this has been riveting reading. I have a snip snip appointment in about two weeks!:D


Been meaning to get in for about a year after wifey stopped taking the pill... worried about side effects from it that run in her family. We've been using condoms, but I've yet to find a brand that still allows any pleasure (rarely, if ever climax in that damn Glad bag.), and there's no ceremony in wrapping it on... "Uh, hold on... where is it? Malfunctioning. Hold on, damn it. Turn on the light." And she doesn't want to assist in any romantic way.

As for post-surgery, I heard about the frozen pea trick. Any other words of wisdom ladies or gents? Is sex any different afterwards?

Oh and about the "freedom," I just can't help but fantasize in a whole new way about some of you sexy M and F babes! ;)

[MCat]

Wow... this has been riveting reading. I have a snip snip appointment in about two weeks!:D


Been meaning to get in for about a year after wifey stopped taking the pill... worried about side effects from it that run in her family. We've been using condoms, but I've yet to find a brand that still allows any pleasure (rarely, if ever climax in that damn Glad bag.), and there's no ceremony in wrapping it on... "Uh, hold on... where is it? Malfunctioning. Hold on, damn it. Turn on the light." And she doesn't want to assist in any romantic way.

As for post-surgery, I heard about the frozen pea trick. Any other words of wisdom ladies or gents? Is sex any different afterwards?

Oh and about the "freedom," I just can't help but fantasize in a whole new way about some of you sexy M and F babes! ;)


Hanks says be brave, grit your teeth, and go back for the followup vas check.

The frozen peas work great.....he had a cousin who didn't take a sample of pud back for the vas check and they ended up with a bouncing baby boy a couple years later.

Good Luck :55

[lady]

Interesting thread. I never wanted any children. Married a guy with some and became an instant stepmom which has been good for me. I was on the pill for a while but it caused so many problems. Went off for a while but after a year using nothing I became so terrified of getting pregnant that I decided we had to do something. We talked about condoms but he refused. We discussed one of us being fixed and I even shared what I learned about it being safer for him to be snipped than for me to go through with the tubal ligation. He said he would think about it but never brought it up again. I scheduled my surgery. Two weeks before it, he discussed the possibility of him being snipped. At this point, I thought he was being unfair so I just went through with it. If a couple has agreed that no more children are desired, it is safer for the man to go through the procedure than a woman. I do however feel for SEXYNOLA and all others who desire children but are in relationships with someone who like me made a life-altering decision when they were younger.

[Crawfish]

I can't believe some of you guys use the "pull out" method. That scares the hell out of me. I did it one time with a girl and I was a nevous wreck all month!

[CuriousGeorge]

Curious....Does it taste the same?...and...Does only clear precum liquid come out?...Hey I wouldnt know never looked into it. :)

Having a vasectomy doesn't really change the experience of sex ... it's still just as wonderful after as it was before (once you get past a day or two of soreness). It does give you a great peace of mind if you're worried about having kids. One less thing to worry about. (Obviously, it doesn't protect you from STD's.)

You still cum. And it still feels and looks the same as before. As for taste, you'd have to ask my wife. My doctor explained that most of our cum is just mucus anyway. After the vasectomy, it is still the same, except there are no sperm cells in it.

And yes, be sure you take in your "sample" and have it checked afterwards. My doctor said that he only knew of one case where a couple got pregnant after the surgery, and it was because they had unprotected sex before they confirmed that his cum was sperm-free. Just tell the wife that you have to have a lot of sex for a couple of weeks to "flush out the pipes."

[Sandy]

my brother-in-law got snipped, they messed it up, and had to redo it. i felt so bad for him :(

[Rmb]

Having a vasectomy doesn't really change the experience of sex ...
Just tell the wife that you have to have a lot of sex for a couple of weeks to "flush out the pipes."

Missed yer chance Dude...should have said forever :) :) :D

[dave42]

Having a vasectomy doesn't really change the experience of sex ... it's still just as wonderful after as it was before (once you get past a day or two of soreness). It does give you a great peace of mind if you're worried about having kids. One less thing to worry about. (Obviously, it doesn't protect you from STD's.)

You still cum. And it still feels and looks the same as before. As for taste, you'd have to ask my wife. My doctor explained that most of our cum is just mucus anyway. After the vasectomy, it is still the same, except there are no sperm cells in it.

And yes, be sure you take in your "sample" and have it checked afterwards. My doctor said that he only knew of one case where a couple got pregnant after the surgery, and it was because they had unprotected sex before they confirmed that his cum was sperm-free. Just tell the wife that you have to have a lot of sex for a couple of weeks to "flush out the pipes."Nothing like having a good reason to get laid more often. Works for me!

[massage mike]

sorry can't do it .I squirm thinking about it

[Polo38]

I knew it was the right decision for me to go through with it then her, but it took me a while to get it in my head that it wouldn't alter me in any way. When i did finally get it done, it was truly painless for the most part, i was catered to over the long weekend but and back at work on Tuesday, but then complications came up and i was horrified that my balls were enlarging...had to go back under the knife, to fix it....this time it was certainly more painful…but I unfortunately fell into that category of anomalies. In retrospect, I should have done it sooner.

[speed_raycer]

V-Day is tomorrow for me. The doctor's office required me to shave it all down there tonight. Yikes! I have never done that before... and it was not easy. I have a totally new appreciation for you ladies who shave it all. :D

But I have to admit, I was pretty turned on in the shower! The razor skimming so close to little Speed Raycer was risky, and the smooth feeling afterward... wow! After the shave, the doctors office required 10 minutes of soapy washing with antibacterial soap. I could barely contain myself. What were they thinking? Well, doctors orders!

Now here's the total bummer: I thought surely wifey would want to see, and even get a little feel and taste as a way to relax me before the procedure.(She has never given me oral sex) But when I finally asked, "Do you want to see?" She said, "Not really."

That totally deflated me. Makes me wonder why I'm going through with this at all. But I'll still do it, and hope for the best.

Any advice ladies? Would seeing your shaved hubby turn you on? Would you want to fool around with him? ;)

[peaches]

i don't know about seeing would turn me on but I would surely llok, feel and have sex. But my hats are to all the men that had it done instead of waiting for the female to take care of it all. It does the heart good to see the men care about it as much as the ladies....or is it we can get away with fooling around with out the worries....hummmm...just a thought.

[Crawfish]

V-Day is tomorrow for me. The doctor's office required me to shave it all down there tonight. Yikes! I have never done that before... and it was not easy. I have a totally new appreciation for you ladies who shave it all. :D

But I have to admit, I was pretty turned on in the shower! The razor skimming so close to little Speed Raycer was risky, and the smooth feeling afterward... wow! After the shave, the doctors office required 10 minutes of soapy washing with antibacterial soap. I could barely contain myself. What were they thinking? Well, doctors orders!

Now here's the total bummer: I thought surely wifey would want to see, and even get a little feel and taste as a way to relax me before the procedure.(She has never given me oral sex) But when I finally asked, "Do you want to see?" She said, "Not really."

That totally deflated me. Makes me wonder why I'm going through with this at all. But I'll still do it, and hope for the best.

Any advice ladies? Would seeing your shaved hubby turn you on? Would you want to fool around with him? ;)

Sounds like my wife. I think when god made her he was running out of hormones. So he just said, "oh well, this won't be as horny as the rest of them"

[showtime]

NO POSIBLE WAY craw my wife has less interest in sex than any other female on the planet..

[showtime]

I forgot to say a part of me wishes I had the operation done but she had other problems so she had it done so I never had to,,, now that I'm out looking for somebody to keep me sexually happy, now I wish I had it done years ago.

[dartgirl]

Guys are such wimps. I had my tied after my last son was born, of course it was a c-section so it was all open anyway. Hubby couldn't have gotten snipped, no way in hell, he is a huge baby. It is so much nicer not having to worry about getting pregnant.

[Crawfish]

<------Aint skeered!

Guys are such wimps. I had my tied after my last son was born, of course it was a c-section so it was all open anyway. Hubby couldn't have gotten snipped, no way in hell, he is a huge baby. It is so much nicer not having to worry about getting pregnant.

[lovtobelicked]

my husband did not want it done so i got fixed but guy friend of mind got snipped and said sex fells so much better

[PlayfulMale69]

I am thinking about getting clipped myself. My wife has been on the pill for the last 14 years or so.

Has anyone ever seen more interest in sex from the lady after getting off the pill with long time usage? I have also heard that being on the pill for a long time can cause depression or other mental issues in the lady.

Anyone know about long lasting effects of the pill?

[nsamale]

Have 1 child and got snipped a long time ago...dont have sex...so guess it really doesnt matter...she is the one that wanted it done...so i got it done...maybe a good thing for me, now i can have a fcuk buddy and not worry about it?

[PlayfulMale69]

Have 1 child and got snipped a long time ago...dont have sex...so guess it really doesnt matter...she is the one that wanted it done...so i got it done...maybe a good thing for me, now i can have a fcuk buddy and not worry about it?

Oh, does getting clipped prevent the social diseases? :D

[pointofnoreturn]

Hubby was supposed to get snipped 2005, and did not go all the way thru with it. Doc said he could not get to what he needed to and it would have to be done in Hospital. Yeah that is what he said....I did it instead.

[Butterfly_13]

YOU snipped your hubby??? Good girl!!! He probably deserved it!!!:D :lmao :D



Hubby was supposed to get snipped 2005, and did not go all the way thru with it. Doc said he could not get to what he needed to and it would have to be done in Hospital. Yeah that is what he said....I did it instead.

[dartgirl]

I am thinking about getting clipped myself. My wife has been on the pill for the last 14 years or so.

Has anyone ever seen more interest in sex from the lady after getting off the pill with long time usage? I have also heard that being on the pill for a long time can cause depression or other mental issues in the lady.

Anyone know about long lasting effects of the pill?


I took the pill for years. When I stopped taking I didn't have any mental issues (well at least not any more than I had before) but body didn't like not having the hormones, so I started taking low dose estrogen instead. But everybody reacts differently to everything.

[speed_raycer]

An update: everything turned out okay with my VD Thursday (vasectomy day), and it appears that everything still works just fine! More tests later of course to be sure the little wagglers are gone.

It was a little odd having a male nurse drape my privates and then the urologist was a little ham handed as he got everything just so... but he was quick and clean with the scalpel! :D

[dartgirl]

Congradulations!!

[speed_raycer]

TY! It weren't nothing compared to you ladies and childbirth! :D



Congradulations!!

[dartgirl]

Have you ever heard the saying, "After it's over you never remember the pain." Not true, but you don't really think about it, at least until they are teenagers. But that's another story.

[speed_raycer]

LOL. My theory is that if men gave birth, civilization would have died out after the first generation. It must be that God caused women to forget the pain so procreation would actually work!



Have you ever heard the saying, "After it's over you never remember the pain." Not true, but you don't really think about it, at least until they are teenagers. But that's another story.

[Butterfly_13]

Congratulations! Glad to hear you are OK. :)
An update: everything turned out okay with my VD Thursday (vasectomy day), and it appears that everything still works just fine! More tests later of course to be sure the little wagglers are gone.

It was a little odd having a male nurse drape my privates and then the urologist was a little ham handed as he got everything just so... but he was quick and clean with the scalpel! :D

[speed_raycer]

Thanks, sweetie. How are you?



Congratulations! Glad to hear you are OK. :)

[Butterfly_13]

I've been better...but, then again, I've been worse.
It's been a rough past 24 hours...
I hope you are feeling better by the moment.
:kk


Thanks, sweetie. How are you?

[dave42]

I want to get it done. But my wife does not. I think it is her way of guaranteeing that I will stay home and not stray. She has had a partial hysterectomy So she doesen't think I need fixed.

[MCat]

Glad everything went well....take care of your boys and you'll be back to your old self in no time...:55



An update: everything turned out okay with my VD Thursday (vasectomy day), and it appears that everything still works just fine! More tests later of course to be sure the little wagglers are gone.

It was a little odd having a male nurse drape my privates and then the urologist was a little ham handed as he got everything just so... but he was quick and clean with the scalpel! :D

[Dmy]

An update: everything turned out okay with my VD Thursday (vasectomy day), and it appears that everything still works just fine! More tests later of course to be sure the little wagglers are gone.

It was a little odd having a male nurse drape my privates and then the urologist was a little ham handed as he got everything just so... but he was quick and clean with the scalpel! :D


Way to go man! :55 ....of course I couldnt get myself to sample in the bathroom....wife offered to help, just something about them knowing what I was doing I guess. That was over 8 yrs ago......must have worked.

[zobman]

Strickly for fun now!!!!!!!!!

[letterman01]

Hubby had it done. Best thing ever for our sex life! :knuddel:

[pointofnoreturn]

An update: everything turned out okay with my VD Thursday (vasectomy day), and it appears that everything still works just fine! More tests later of course to be sure the little wagglers are gone.

It was a little odd having a male nurse drape my privates and then the urologist was a little ham handed as he got everything just so... but he was quick and clean with the scalpel! :Dooch...Now you know you have to have sex like a million times to get all of the little guys out.....:wa:

[Crawfish]

Hubby had it done. Best thing ever for our sex life! :knuddel:

That's what I want to here! I'm doing it! :)

[AffableOne]

Well I just found out that I'm going to have a third kid. Not the end of the world but I wasn't prepared for this one. What do you guys think about getting snipped. I knida like the thought of saying goodbye to mr. raincoat.

after medical issues dictated additional pregnancies was a dangerous consideration for us, I was ready to get it snipped immediately. My wife couldn't bear the thought.....not until she was 'ready'......

eventually....after about 5 more years.....she felt ready.....I called...made the appointment......got it done.

felt like a terrible kick to the gonads for a few days.....but that was it....easy

much easier than anything she would have to do

[AffableOne]

now, when ya get snipped, they tell ya no 'playing' for a few days.....

some guys think they're invinvcible, and got to have sex......

one buddy.....against the dr.'s advice......had to have sex.......

next day....I saw him in a wheelchair.......with a bag of ice on his lap....saying it felt like he had a pair of cantaloupes down there.....

after that, I listened when my dr. told me to wait!!!

egads!!!

[Sweetdreams069]

I had it done years ago. Hurt like hell! Don't let em fool ya. Of course it was worth it though and easier than having my wife go through with it.
Getting kicked is exactly what it feels like.

[SexyCowgirl]

Well, Thanks a bunch all, I am gonna share my newfound understanding of the pain with my husband! He's getting snipped in a few years, after my next and last baby.

He's getting snipped because in my family we have a great history of having children after our tubes are tied. I was born, and my sister were born after my mom had her tubes tied, my aunt had two girls the same way, and my cousin had one after she had a horrible birth, and she is pregnant right now. So I have little or no faith in that........

The pullout method worked for us for years, til that one drunk week.......Now we are supporting the condom industry because hormonal birth control makes me very, very nasty. Horrible. And I keep meaning to get the iud that has no hormones, but gosh, I hate having some stranger poking me in that manner.......Totally sucks, I swear they designed those little stirrup tables to make you feel degraded...........

[w9kw]

dammit you gals got it rough

[missgrace]

snip snip snip... lol

[Pebbles]

My husband made me get my tubes tied. Said he wasn't going to get snipped!! lol

[Beth]

Good for you!! I have 4 kids and the smallest one was 9 lbs. I thought that the least my husband could do for me was get snipped, but he was far too selfish. So, I had to go into surgery and was in alot of pain for a week. I still hate him for that.

[ksue7274]

I was lucky, my hubby said it was the least he could do after seeing me give birth. Having the best sex ever now.

[Huzyerdaddi]

I did it. It's not such a big deal (the procedure) and now I have no worries when it comes to that aspect of intamacy.

[hoss]

i am going to get it done too ...this is our last child ...

[toowildtotame]

Don't do it--- never trust a man with knife looking at your privates -- just something not right about that *lol*

[hoss]

Don't do it--- never trust a man with knife looking at your privates -- just something not right about that *lol*

well its better than Lorana Bobbitt ...a man i can trust ,a woman ..dont think so ...

[Wil]

I went to the surgi-center to go over the final details with my doc and there were a pair of nurse hotties that gave me the tour and answeres some questions...I was like..damn, gonna pop wood if one of these girls are prepping me...on the day of the surgery, a pleasantly average red headed irish nurse had the duty...lmfao the whole time I was there...never felt a pinch...

[1hotmommy]

I have days when I don't think it would be a bad idea, but then I have days when I would love to have more kids. it depends on my mood.

[p.a]

OK, question. After you have it done, can you still do the do? You know, get hard, cum and all that? Still have feelings like before?

[ksue7274]

Well I am not a man, but my husband says all is the same. Actually better because no worries of becoming pregnant.

[SEXAHOLIC]

OK, question. After you have it done, can you still do the do? You know, get hard, cum and all that? Still have feelings like before?

yes...nothing changes, you can still have great sex, though you may have to wait for a week or two, just until the stitches come out.
You will however need to send samples off to the lab for a few weeks, so that they can check to make sure that you are becoming seedless.
It can take as much as a year to become 100% seedless.

[simplygrace]

it's great not having to worry about it.the best thing hubby has ever done!

[RedVixen]

OK, question. After you have it done, can you still do the do? You know, get hard, cum and all that? Still have feelings like before?

The only difference I've noticed with my husband is he has 'less' cum than before the surgery.

[SEXAHOLIC]

The only difference I've noticed with my husband is he has 'less' cum than before the surgery.

cant say i have noticed any difference...in me I mean.

[RedVixen]

cant say i have noticed any difference...in me I mean.

Well aren't you lucky :kk Have you asked the wife? She may notice the difference...

I'm certainly not complaining with the 'less' part...don't have to worry about wasting any ;)

[SEXAHOLIC]

Well aren't you lucky :kk Have you asked the wife? She may notice the difference...

I'm certainly not complaining with the 'less' part...don't have to worry about wasting any ;)


good you dont want to waste any...:lmao

[RedVixen]

good you dont want to waste any...:lmao

Nope, like to swallow it all :lf

[Wil]

and that's what I get for stepping in on a thread...thanks for the mental picture Red...

[tiger50]

no point in me gettin a snip, me bloody hand cant get pregnant...:sc

[Fargo...really]

I am going in for "the V" after my upcoming round of business trips are done (so in March).

Have a friend who is going to get scheduled to go in the same day, same doc, same snip so that we can moan and groan to each other during the recovery days thereafter. Our wives think it's hilarious that we would go in "together", but are both really pushing for it to be done.

[Nick182]

I'm ready myself. My wife wants me to wait a few years "in case" we want another child. I can honestly say I don't.

Unless I win the lotto and have no financial worries. In this case I'd probably adopt... I always wanted to adopt.

[loverboy6969]

I agree with your wife i think you should wait
I'm ready myself. My wife wants me to wait a few years "in case" we want another child. I can honestly say I don't.

Unless I win the lotto and have no financial worries. In this case I'd probably adopt... I always wanted to adopt.

[Badbill]

Had it done while in the military, it was a funny situation after I thought about it, a room with about 30 guys and their wives, sitting waiting to be called, all nervous as hell, wifes lauging about it. It was a first come first serve thing, so the poor guys who were last had to sit and wait, and watch us come waddling down the hall on our way out. LOL

[Nick182]

I agree with your wife i think you should wait

most people do agree that I should wait... and I will. I wouldn't do it until she's also ready.

[MCat]

I just asked my hubby....he said he would have waited if I wanted him to. I thought he was gonna do it anyway. And to think, i could have had more babies...damn.

[medic]

Never been snipped. Wife did instead.

[sexytiger]

Both my ex and my current wife was fixed when they decided the child they are having is the last....lucky me.....lol

[Sylar]

I'm getting the ole' snip snip this spring...yikes...lol

[Huzyerdaddi]

Been there...done that.

It's horrible! The pain is excruciating! It lasts for months. Your balls swell up to the size of grapefruits. You want be able to see straight for weeks.

Avoid it at all costs.


I'm getting the ole' snip snip this spring...yikes...lol

[Sylar]

Been there...done that.

It's horrible! The pain is excruciating! It lasts for months. Your balls swell up to the size of grapefruits. You want be able to see straight for weeks.

Avoid it at all costs.

Maybe so...but like a drill sergeant of mine during my army days said:

"Pain is nothing but weakness leaving the body"...lol

Guess I'm gonna pretty f*cking strong, huh...lol

[sexytiger]

Been there...done that.

It's horrible! The pain is excruciating! It lasts for months. Your balls swell up to the size of grapefruits. You want be able to see straight for weeks.

Avoid it at all costs.

Thats why I have avoided it like the plague.....What men do for their wives...

Does that make me an uncareing guy?? I just don't like that much pain...

[Sylar]

Thats why I have avoided it like the plague.....What men do for their wives...

Does that make me an uncareing guy?? I just don't like that much pain...

Maybe, but truth be told, it's far easier on us than it is on them...if given the choice, I'd far prefer to go through that than have her do it...For us, it's a simple outpatient thing...for her, it's major surgery.

[Carlfy]

Had mine four years ago, no problem at all and doesn't affect your "drive" at all. In my case it's gone up.

[sexytiger]

Maybe, but truth be told, it's far easier on us than it is on them...if given the choice, I'd far prefer to go through that than have her do it...For us, it's a simple outpatient thing...for her, it's major surgery.


In my ex and my current wife's case it was done right after the child birth process so there was no extra pain involved that I know of.

I know if it is done later it is surgury and it is painful...

[JCDxn]

even if it is done during the child birt process it can cause for longer healing time for the woman.. but for each person it is different... I think if it all depends on who is emotionally as well as physically strong enough to handle the pain.. And in some cases it is the man and some it is the woman..

[TNtiger]

I had it done.....just get about 5 bags of frozen peas.....it will be over b4 you know it

[sexytiger]

even if it is done during the child birt process it can cause for longer healing time for the woman.. but for each person it is different... I think if it all depends on who is emotionally as well as physically strong enough to handle the pain.. And in some cases it is the man and some it is the woman..

so true, so true

[Sylar]

even if it is done during the child birt process it can cause for longer healing time for the woman.. but for each person it is different... I think if it all depends on who is emotionally as well as physically strong enough to handle the pain.. And in some cases it is the man and some it is the woman..

I can take it...Hell, I'll do it with a pair of pliers and some aspirin...lol...yeah, right...when it happens to me, I'll probably scream like a 10 year old girl...:D

[JCDxn]

aww... like a girl....:lmao sry don't mean to laugh....

[Sylar]

aww... like a girl....:lmao sry don't mean to laugh....

lol...no worries...you'd be surprised how high pitched a guy's voice can get when the twig and berries are threatened...lmao

[rizz]

had it done and an ice pack was my best friend for the weekend. Best decision i ever made. Love my son but really dont want a pack of kids. A wierd experince to go through but worth it. Good thing the nurse wasnt super cute checking out my shaving job-that would have been weird-lol.

[Jabbuk]

Well it wasn't bad getting it done, and the relief of not having to deal with any other forms of birth control was great. Now I just need to find someone I'm willing to..... neverming.

[Shawn_N_Sandiego]

I guess I would...if she asked really...and i mean really nicely...as for right now we practice the Captain Pullouyt method...its worked every time

[skinnyone]

My wife got tied off after #2 so now there is no reason to get snipped. She may still bring it up, but I doubt it.

[1hotrod]

I had it done 20 years ago at first wife request. Not bad other than the nurse shaving me in front of the wife....that was a little strange. Good idea to get checked after a few years though...had two friends that started shooting live loads again after a few years.

[fixin4fun]

I had it done about 2 years ago....I had little pain but it took a long time to get the live ones out of there. Its kinda wierd taking a freshly squeezed sample of baby batter to the clinic to get it checked:o

[dave42]

We've been using the old pull out and take it on the boobs or face or whatever was in the way method for years. :(Sounds exciting, Most guys would agree. But somehow I get the impression you are not amused by the idea.

[dave42]

Great advice. I can see sexynola's point but I'm going to play the odds and think that I;m going to be with her for the rest of my life. I was thinking that I would love not having to worry about it in bed. I can see what dave means also about playing with another woman. I had an experience like that and I never ever want to go through that again. That was one month that I will never forget!I think this goes well with the favorite brand of condom thread. Find a brand that works for you and use them every time.I don't get too much of an opportunity to do this because since she is fixed and it raises questions.
A good thing about condoms is that the woman doesen't have to worry about it running down her leg after you "filller up"!!:D

[living to Flirt]

Getting done was the best thing I did... Now I can get some loving anywhere and have no worries... Soreness only lasted one day for me.

[Chuck037]

Yes, I'm in that same boat. I should have gone and have it done after my second child. I
love my third son but I wanted to stop at two. Don't wait!

[Chuck037]

OK maybe I won't after seeing you JCDxn, love the picture:)

[Huzyerdaddi]

I had it done a couple of years ago. At first it was ok...but then my balls fell off, my penis receded, leaving nothing but a hairy vagina in it's wake, and I grew tits.

[Shawn_N_Sandiego]

Hillary, is that you?

I had it done a couple of years ago. At first it was ok...but then my balls fell off, my penis receded, leaving nothing but a hairy vagina in it's wake, and I grew tits.

[Huzyerdaddi]

I'm batman



Hillary, is that you?

[Fargo...really]

It's now set: April 18th is V-Day!!! :(
Your donation of scrotal ice will be gratefully accepted and stored for use in 2 1/2 weeks.

[Barkiss]

It's now set: April 18th is V-Day!!! :(
Your donation of scrotal ice will be gratefully accepted and stored for use in 2 1/2 weeks.

Listen to me...bags of frozen green peas. Get a boatload of them and be prepared to rotate the hell out of them for 2 days.

Oh yeah...and whiskey....

[Atrebla Rose]

It's now set: April 18th is V-Day!!! :(
Your donation of scrotal ice will be gratefully accepted and stored for use in 2 1/2 weeks.


AWWWW fargo we can groan together,,,I am getting a molar removed that morning too!!!! I wont make you laugh to hard with my swollen face and my dooling lips,,,but we can at least have a smile together!!! :kk

[TilersCut]

Well I just found out that I'm going to have a third kid. Not the end of the world but I wasn't prepared for this one. What do you guys think about getting snipped. I knida like the thought of saying goodbye to mr. raincoat.

Snipped last year, my friend. One week of some discomfort, and then...ah, complete bliss. Highly recommended. The good news is that only about 5% of men develop horrible side effects - like gonads that swell to the size of human beach balls. Figuring that I stood greater than a 5% chance of ending up with a newborn in my arms. So...the benefits far outweighed the risks. Good move.

[MCat]

It's now set: April 18th is V-Day!!! :(
Your donation of scrotal ice will be gratefully accepted and stored for use in 2 1/2 weeks.


and no heavy lifting... so get a sling for your thing...lol

[stucknmarriage74(f)]

Well it wasn't bad getting it done, and the relief of not having to deal with any other forms of birth control was great. Now I just need to find someone I'm willing to..... neverming.hmm Jabbuk what was it u were going to say?

[TilersCut]

The only embarrassing part about the Big Snip was going back to see the Doc. He was an old timer, born sometime before the Union won the Civil War. Well, the Doc wanted to see me in two weeks, "after you ejaculate about two dozen times." When I came back in 5 days, he looked first at my sperm count report (ZERO), and then at my right hand. "You need a little salve for those callouses, son?"

[Fargo...really]

The only embarrassing part about the Big Snip was going back to see the Doc. He was an old timer, born sometime before the Union won the Civil War. Well, the Doc wanted to see me in two weeks, "after you ejaculate about two dozen times." When I came back in 5 days, he looked first at my sperm count report (ZERO), and then at my right hand. "You need a little salve for those callouses, son?"

:D

Most of the literature I have read has said it takes 15-20 ejaculations to empty out the "live guys". Although the same literature says this should take a month, or two at most, I told my wife yesterday that this is at least 2 year's worth of sex for us and, instead of getting mad at me, she had to laugh and agree (sigh). :(

[PowWhackIt]

Had it done, no regrets except be prepared for the initial "sting" of the needle. Having the "twins" hoisted out of the way to make room for the procedure by a cute nurse almost embarrassed me but the razor in her hand calmed me down:D. Other than that, no problems, go home, sit on ice chips for about a day and then back to work. An additional side benefit (for me) was that years later my wife got caught in an affair :sex (one of many) by turning up pregnant:cry:, seems she had gotten used to not needing any prevention:whee:. Best damn thing that happened........'cause I'm happier now than I was then.:D :D

[CuriousOne]

The pills affected my libido. Hubby had it done and our sex life is much better now.
So no more Costco box of rubbers.

[thebouncer]

Well I just found out that I'm going to have a third kid. Not the end of the world but I wasn't prepared for this one. What do you guys think about getting snipped. I knida like the thought of saying goodbye to mr. raincoat.
I understand your hesitation I did it turned out to be not such a big deal

[fever]

I can't risk a pregnancy for health reasons, so I finally had to cut him off to help him make his decision. But he actually got some sympathy from me for a while and it is the best thing that ever happened to our sex life!

[Fargo...really]

Next Friday is Frozen Peas Day. Yikes!

[Krystal]

I say go for it.

[Corvid]

Next Friday is Frozen Peas Day. Yikes!

My vasectomy wasn't too bad. Friday afternoon, about and hour, hour and a half at the urologist's office. The whole family came to pick me up. I spent the evening being treated especially nicely by my family. Next day was a lot better and on Sunday I installed a new wireless router in the house.

No fears, and the improved, spontaneous sex will be worth it.

[fever]

Good luck, Fargo...I bet it's not so bad!! Think of all the comfort you'll be getting...

[dixiechiknga]

I hope you had plenty of ice ouch!

[marriedwomanchaser]

Well I just found out that I'm going to have a third kid. Not the end of the world but I wasn't prepared for this one. What do you guys think about getting snipped. I knida like the thought of saying goodbye to mr. raincoat.

:spmWell that question has been around for a while. I considered it years ago but I for one am glad I did not do it.:spm

[Iwantutowantme]

no way will I let a knife get that close....... nope....

[Denny422]

If you don't want to keep taking pills or using devices, there are only two choices: fix him or fix her.

Hers is serious abdominal surgery: anesthetic risks, infection risks, recovery time.

His is very minor surgery, over in minutes, very little risk, recovery varies but usually quick. It's been a while so I don't remember specifically, but I think I had it done one day and performed in a concert (as a singer) the next day. At most it was done on friday and sang sunday.

Do it. Absolutely. The peace of mind is wonderful, but secondary to the fact you're protecting her in a big way.

[Fargo...really]

Initial thoughts 28 hrs after the snip:

Ow. Not as bad (so far) as I feared, but anyone who says it doesn't hurt had a different experience than me
Doc when I cringed in pain while he was rooting around my scrotum trying to locate my vas deferens: "Are your testicles usually this sensitive?" Me: "I don't know, I never had anyone try to pull them out of their sockets before"
Conundrum: Should I have tried to get even more stuff done immediately afterwards (i.e., while the numbers and pain killers were still at their peak) or did the stuff I did do result in some of the Day 1 ache that is there?
If I had a 're-do', I would schedule it so that the day(s) immediately afterwards were cold and crappy instead of some of the first beautifully sunny days of spring, so I wouldn't be tempted to go outside and mess around getting yard work done (did I mention 'Ow'?) instead of getting up close and personal w/ frozen veggies as the doc told me to do
I am surprised how hard both my mom and my mom-in-law took me getting the V. Both got very quiet and very sad. Not sure if it is a generational thing (that's what Wifey thinks) or what.
Doc says there will still be "Dead Sperm Swimming" for ~ another 2 months before they get to the end of the Green Mile, so the raincoats won't be able to be put away until the end of June.
So far, I still believe it was the right decision to do, I just hope I am over the post-snip pain before my flight at the end of the month

[BGrace]

Ouch!

[Denny422]

WOW! I'm surprised. I've heard of guys having some problems, but not like that!

The difference for me may have been I was "totally out", not just localized. When I discussed it with the doc, he said something like "oh, you'll be awake...". My response was something like "not no, but HELL NO I won't". I've got a high tolerance for pain, but don't do well with needles (or knives I guess) when they're being stuck in warm bodies. It's odd, because the sight of blood or serious injuries don't bother me. Needles make me queasy.

The doc said "no problem, we'll put you just barely out and you won't know anything.

I walked out of the hospital and was a little uncomfortable for a while, but fine in a few hours. I didn't do any jogging for a few days, but no real problems.

Sorry you had so many.

[marriedwomanchaser]

That is a personal choice, and surely not one of mine. I think I will keep what I have

[Fargo...really]

Vasectomy Song - Family Guy
http://video.yahoo.com/watch/948944

Quartet:
A vasectomy's a medical procedure
One that makes you half a man
Remember when you twisted up your garden hose
Well, essentially, that is the plan
That is the plan

Peter:
Well, I'm startin' to get the picture, but how's it done

Quartet:
You make a small incision in the scrotal skin
Isolate the vas deferens, isolate the vas deferens
Roll it in position with a towel clamp
Then you snip the fibrous tissue

Bass Solo:
Then you snip the fibrous tissue

Quartet:
Hey but you'll never have to wear a condom
When you do it with your wife

...or anyone else you do it with. We promise not to tell, like that new hot chick at work. You know, the one who always has high beams under her ribbed-white cotton T-shirt, but then stares daggers at you for checking her out, and it's like, why do you wear that if you don't want attention? But you know you shouldn't think that way because of the sexual harassment meeting you all had to go to. Seriously, how lame was that? And you couldn't help but notice that the female lawyer running the seminar had a huge rack, like, ridiculously huge for someone who has to talk about that kind of stuff. Well, I guess that's the definition of the word...

I-ron-y
Goodbye
Say goodbye to manhood
Goodbye
Say goodbye to babies
Goodbye Say goodbye to kids like Meg

Bass Solo:
Vacuum out your sack

[Jules1]

Husband is patiently waiting for me to give him the green light....told him that He couldn't do it until I was over 35....that will be in 22 days.

[LuckyJest]

Husband is patiently waiting for me to give him the green light....told him that He couldn't do it until I was over 35....that will be in 22 days.

Not something I could patiently wait for (shiver me timbers)...

[Jules1]

Not something I could patiently wait for (shiver me timbers)...

I'm not saying he isn't scared as hell...but he sees the BIG picture...a future of frolicking fun awaits him!

[Nick182]

Husband is patiently waiting for me to give him the green light....told him that He couldn't do it until I was over 35....that will be in 22 days.
If I didn't know any better, I'd think you were my wife. I'm also patiently waiting and my wife has the same 35 age requirement. I have 3 years to go until she's 35.

[GeauxGirl]

I don't want to scare any guys considering this procedure, once it worked, made an incredible difference in our intimate life, but my husband had to have it done twice.
It didn't take the first time because the tubes grew back together. The doctor said it's rare but it does happen...:spm

[crlscone]

i had got cut after my son was born. i dont regret is at all

[drem]

best thing i ever did , plus you get to join the club where we get tp scare the hell out ot the others about how bad it is , when it really isnt :)

[funtimes999999]

I had mine done over a year ago, and for the first day and a half, it wasn't too bad. But I was doing a little too much moving around, and an infection set in on the incisions, and the next couple of days were not fun at all. I'm definitely glad I did it though, but do other guys that have had it done have any side effects if you get too many orgasms now?

[dave42]

One of my buddies had it done, They had to cut him real good. The doc had a hard time finding one of the tubes.. Said it hurt like hell. Now he says he has a hard time getting to orgasm. He has to work at it then not as much comes out as it used to. I think he was kind of disappointed about the whole deal. I thought about getting it done, But now I am not so sure. Maybe I will just stick to older chicks who need a good time with a hot guy.

[likesbuttons]

shootin blanks here.....had 2 kids...and yep that was plenty.....yes they are great kids.....but no surprises here...

[Jules1]

So this subject came up in the bedroom on Sunday night...husband asked me if I was ready for him to do the snip...I said "yeah, I think so...you?" his answer surprised me...."I'm on the fence...thinking another baby might be nice".....uh.....what?

Needless to say, we are now in "discussion" about it...

[Nick182]

So this subject came up in the bedroom on Sunday night...husband asked me if I was ready for him to do the snip...I said "yeah, I think so...you?" his answer surprised me...."I'm on the fence...thinking another baby might be nice".....uh.....what?

Needless to say, we are now in "discussion" about it...
LOL... surprise surprise! :yks

My wife and I are in "discussion" too. I ask... she says no... discussion is over! The cycle repeats every week...

[tnl82]

Go for it
had alot worse trips to dentist

[gspotlover]

I did it myself several years ago. Tin snips, a soldering iron, a stapler, and a couple gallons of 151 and I was fine. The recovery time was only three or four weeks. I was walking upright just fine after only four months.

Nothing to it.