Do they have any good points?

[Jy]

We talk alot here about our spouses faults, bad habits, shortcomings. I'm just curious, do they have any good points?

[Barkiss]

My wife is an incredible mother!

[cherokeered]

My hubby is always willing to help others...not necessarily me...but others yes....he will bend over backwards for them......and he is an animal lover like me....



Cherokee....:whee:

[spare_change]

No.

[Jy]

My husband is the greatest dad in the world. He is totally devoted to our son and will happily and patiently play any game my son dreams up. He should give daddy lessons!
He is also extremely good at his job. He trains professional athletes, and he is the best in his field.

[nsamale]

My hubby is always willing to help others...not necessarily me...but others yes....he will bend over backwards for them......and he is an animal lover like me....



Cherokee....:whee:

I'll be willing to help u...:D

[nsamale]

she is a great mother and will do anything for our daughter, but not for me...:sc what does that tell u...:sc

[Cotties]

she puts up with me

[sparkle889beach]

We have good conversation over tea. He massages me every night. Puts a blanket over me, and kisses me good night.

He is always there for me...and is the best father to our boys...

There's a certain, warmth and familiarity when I arrive home, tired from work, and he is there to welcome me...

He loves me ...Despite of...

[yaser]

We have good conversation over tea. He massages me every night. Puts a blanket over me, and kisses me good night.

He is always there for me...and is the best father to our boys...

There's a certain, warmth and familiarity when I arrive home, tired from work, and he is there to welcome me...

He loves me ...Despite of...
Sparkle, ''He loves me...Despite of''Can you talk openly?Naughtiness?

[yaser]

My husband is the greatest dad in the world. He is totally devoted to our son and will happily and patiently play any game my son dreams up. He should give daddy lessons!
He is also extremely good at his job. He trains professional athletes, and he is the best in his field.
I am sure Jazzy there :knuddel: is a bige BUTTTTTTT..

[northernvam]

We talk alot here about our spouses faults, bad habits, shortcomings. I'm just curious, do they have any good points?

This is an interesting question only because I'm sure none of us who are here would say that we married people with no redeeming qualities.

In my opinion, the best way to approach marriage is to drop your expectations of your spouse, and allow them to be the person that they want to be. If you can do that for them, then the love that you express by accepting them for who they are will be returned, because what most of us are looking for in life is to be understood and accepted for who we are.

I truly believe that there is no way that we can be accepted by others for who we are unless we are willing to accept others for who they are.

[sweet]

My husband is a very good father.
He's very talented in music.
He's also very good at what he does for a living.

[sparkle889beach]

Sparkle, ''He loves me...Despite of''Can you talk openly?Naughtiness?

Despite of the roller coaster ride I give him... he says, 'being with me is being in a Theme park :D with all the rides never the same as the previous...'

[yaser]

My husband is a very good father.
He's very talented in music.
He's also very good at what he does for a living.
No complaints hun?
What does he says about you?I mean if he were here?

[showtime]

My wife is a good cook,,,oh wait I do all the cooking
ok she cleans very well,,, oops we hire somone to do that
ok she's never late for work,, ya foound one !!!

[sparkle889beach]

This is an interesting question only because I'm sure none of us who are here would say that we married people with no redeeming qualities.

In my opinion, the best way to approach marriage is to drop your expectations of your spouse, and allow them to be the person that they want to be. If you can do that for them, then the love that you express by accepting them for who they are will be returned, because what most of us are looking for in life is to be understood and accepted for who we are.

I truly believe that there is no way that we can be accepted by others for who we are unless we are willing to accept others for who they are.


Applause:wa:

[yaser]

Despite of the roller coaster ride I give him... he says, 'being with me is being in a Theme park :D with all the rides never the same as the previous...'
Hmmm you are specialized on inventing riding styles, I believe.No other talents? :whee:

[sweet]

No complaints hun?
What does he says about you?I mean if he were here?

Well of course I have complaints about him Yas, but the topic of this thread is about listing some of his good points, so that's what I mentioned.

[yaser]

Well of course I have complaints about him Yas, but the topic of this thread is about listing some of his good points, so that's what I mentioned.
Sweet waht good points you have got for him.Please be your husband and write here...Sweet is...I want to know your good points from his mouth..But you are his mouth here.

[spare_change]

This is an interesting question only because I'm sure none of us who are here would say that we married people with no redeeming qualities.

Oh?? See post #2.

In my opinion, the best way to approach marriage is to drop your expectations of your spouse, and allow them to be the person that they want to be. If you can do that for them, then the love that you express by accepting them for who they are will be returned, because what most of us are looking for in life is to be understood and accepted for who we are.

Or you could just be taken advantage of.

I truly believe that there is no way that we can be accepted by others for who we are unless we are willing to accept others for who they are.

[yaser]

This is an interesting question only because I'm sure none of us who are here would say that we married people with no redeeming qualities.

Oh?? See post #2.

In my opinion, the best way to approach marriage is to drop your expectations of your spouse, and allow them to be the person that they want to be. If you can do that for them, then the love that you express by accepting them for who they are will be returned, because what most of us are looking for in life is to be understood and accepted for who we are.

Or you could just be taken advantage of.

I truly believe that there is no way that we can be accepted by others for who we are unless we are willing to accept others for who they are.
Spare,I have doubts about you are thinking correctly..Or am I wrong?

[spare_change]

Spare,I have doubts about you are thinking correctly..Or am I wrong?

I suspect, my friend, that, this time, you are wrong. To be sentenced to a life of lowered expectations that makes the intolerable bearable is sometimes the best you can expect.

[yaser]

I suspect, my friend, that, this time, you are wrong. To be sentenced to a life of lowered expectations that makes the intolerable bearable is sometimes the best you can expect.
Spare, in other thread Sparkle asked me to define love..I defined.Please read and comment on it..We need love..

[sparkle889beach]

I suspect, my friend, that, this time, you are wrong. To be sentenced to a life of lowered expectations that makes the intolerable bearable is sometimes the best you can expect.

Spare, if your marriage is untolerable...why do you tolerate it?:wa: Just curious, maybe your answer would help me, too.

[yaser]

Spare, if your marriage is untolerable...why do you tolerate it?:wa: Just curious, maybe your answer would help me, too.
Sparkle will you divorce, if Spare divorces?

[sparkle889beach]

Sparkle will you divorce, if Spare divorces?


Nope,my kids are my future generation...My marriage is not intolerable...I am:kk

[yaser]

Nope,my kids are my future generation...My marriage is not intolerable...I am:kk
Sparkle what do say?You are intolerable? :lf I was thinking that you were an ideal wife but not your hubby..

[spare_change]

Spare, if your marriage is untolerable...why do you tolerate it?:wa: Just curious, maybe your answer would help me, too.


A fair and noble question --- one I have asked myself a million times. But, first, a qualification --- marriages, by definition, are tolerable..... just not necessarily happy or satisfying or gratifying.

I come from a time when you admit your mistakes, but you pay for them, too. I made a vow, and man's word is his bond. I will honor that vow, even though I pay for my mistake. Like all marriages, mine didn't go bad immediately. Well, it did, but it took us years to realize it. By then, there were kids, and a mortgage, and a certain amount of inertia. What there wasn't was an expectation it would ever get better - it just was what it was.

So, we struck an agreement - she would live in her orbit, and I would live in mine. We worked out a deal -- I'll make the money, and she'll spend it. I buried myself in my work, driven not be a desire to succeed, but a need to have something besides home.

It is only in the past couple years, as I wind down from 30 years of constant work, that I see the emptiness ahead. The thought of being retired and being around all that every day scares the hell out of me. And so, I look up from my work long enough to see that there are other things in life -- and that I have missed most of them. It is people like Jazzy who show me what could have been -- the wines I haven't tasted.

That's the long answer -- the short answer? I was too lazy to get out -- too afraid to be alone -- too willing to bow to another's wishes. Thanks for asking.

[sparkle889beach]

Sparkle what do say?You are intolerable? :lf I was thinking that you were an ideal wife but not your hubby..


My hubbyand my ?, says I am "horrible", and they don't know why they are still around, loving me...:D

Well, :wa: thankyou yasar, i appreciate your insight of me...but we have never met in person...

Distance causes an illusion...of a perfect and flawless person...:kk

[sparkle889beach]

A fair and noble question --- one I have asked myself a million times. But, first, a qualification --- marriages, by definition, are tolerable..... just not necessarily happy or satisfying or gratifying.

I come from a time when you admit your mistakes, but you pay for them, too. I made a vow, and man's word is his bond. I will honor that vow, even though I pay for my mistake. Like all marriages, mine didn't go bad immediately. Well, it did, but it took us years to realize it. By then, there were kids, and a mortgage, and a certain amount of inertia. What there wasn't was an expectation it would ever get better - it just was what it was.

So, we struck an agreement - she would live in her orbit, and I would live in mine. We worked out a deal -- I'll make the money, and she'll spend it. I buried myself in my work, driven not be a desire to succeed, but a need to have something besides home.

It is only in the past couple years, as I wind down from 30 years of constant work, that I see the emptiness ahead. The thought of being retired and being around all that every day scares the hell out of me. And so, I look up from my work long enough to see that there are other things in life -- and that I have missed most of them. It is people like Jazzy who show me what could have been -- the wines I haven't tasted.

That's the long answer -- the short answer? I was too lazy to get out -- too afraid to be alone -- too willing to bow to another's wishes. Thanks for asking.


You and your wife seem to have a good understanding...You couldn't have found a better partner...Others would have just walked out the door...
And she found the perfect partner in you...

Its like we become brothers and sisters,I think...the familiarity, blah, blah, blah...but i think that's the whole point of marriage (Catholic view) to eventually remove the lust as we age, and then just be there, in companionship...

as much as I want someone else, I cannot imagine anyone else, who I could live with or bear with me...for this long (just 10 years :D )

[yaser]

A fair and noble question --- one I have asked myself a million times. But, first, a qualification --- marriages, by definition, are tolerable..... just not necessarily happy or satisfying or gratifying.

I come from a time when you admit your mistakes, but you pay for them, too. I made a vow, and man's word is his bond. I will honor that vow, even though I pay for my mistake. Like all marriages, mine didn't go bad immediately. Well, it did, but it took us years to realize it. By then, there were kids, and a mortgage, and a certain amount of inertia. What there wasn't was an expectation it would ever get better - it just was what it was.

So, we struck an agreement - she would live in her orbit, and I would live in mine. We worked out a deal -- I'll make the money, and she'll spend it. I buried myself in my work, driven not be a desire to succeed, but a need to have something besides home.
:
It is only in the past couple years, as I wind down from 30 years of constant work, that I see the emptiness ahead. The thought of being retired and being around all that every day scares the hell out of me. And so, I look up from my work long enough to see that there are other things in life -- and that I have missed most of them. It is people like Jazzy who show me what could have been -- the wines I haven't tasted.

That's the long answer -- the short answer? I was too lazy to get out -- too afraid to be alone -- too willing to bow to another's wishes. Thanks for asking.
Spare, everything lies in these statements:''That's the long answer -- the short answer? I was too lazy to get out -- too afraid to be alone -- too willing to bow to another's wishes. Thanks for asking.'Move dear friend move..

[tiger50]

A fair and noble question --- one I have asked myself a million times. But, first, a qualification --- marriages, by definition, are tolerable..... just not necessarily happy or satisfying or gratifying.

I come from a time when you admit your mistakes, but you pay for them, too. I made a vow, and man's word is his bond. I will honor that vow, even though I pay for my mistake. Like all marriages, mine didn't go bad immediately. Well, it did, but it took us years to realize it. By then, there were kids, and a mortgage, and a certain amount of inertia. What there wasn't was an expectation it would ever get better - it just was what it was.

So, we struck an agreement - she would live in her orbit, and I would live in mine. We worked out a deal -- I'll make the money, and she'll spend it. I buried myself in my work, driven not be a desire to succeed, but a need to have something besides home.

It is only in the past couple years, as I wind down from 30 years of constant work, that I see the emptiness ahead. The thought of being retired and being around all that every day scares the hell out of me. And so, I look up from my work long enough to see that there are other things in life -- and that I have missed most of them. It is people like Jazzy who show me what could have been -- the wines I haven't tasted.

That's the long answer -- the short answer? I was too lazy to get out -- too afraid to be alone -- too willing to bow to another's wishes. Thanks for asking.

can empathise with that spare...
well am gettin out now, break has been made... did cher cause it?? nooo... the wife and i did , but it cant be fixed, time to embrace a new life....

[OICurready4me]

My wife is a very giving person, she is a hard worker and loves her dogs. She has a heart of gold.

[MCat]

I'm just curious...staying together for the children is part of that old vow. The kids are grown now, why stay together paying for a mistake that you have paid for over and over? Why not part and at least be rid of each others daily shit? Why not be retired and free to be you without her?



A fair and noble question --- one I have asked myself a million times. But, first, a qualification --- marriages, by definition, are tolerable..... just not necessarily happy or satisfying or gratifying.

I come from a time when you admit your mistakes, but you pay for them, too. I made a vow, and man's word is his bond. I will honor that vow, even though I pay for my mistake. Like all marriages, mine didn't go bad immediately. Well, it did, but it took us years to realize it. By then, there were kids, and a mortgage, and a certain amount of inertia. What there wasn't was an expectation it would ever get better - it just was what it was.

So, we struck an agreement - she would live in her orbit, and I would live in mine. We worked out a deal -- I'll make the money, and she'll spend it. I buried myself in my work, driven not be a desire to succeed, but a need to have something besides home.

It is only in the past couple years, as I wind down from 30 years of constant work, that I see the emptiness ahead. The thought of being retired and being around all that every day scares the hell out of me. And so, I look up from my work long enough to see that there are other things in life -- and that I have missed most of them. It is people like Jazzy who show me what could have been -- the wines I haven't tasted.

That's the long answer -- the short answer? I was too lazy to get out -- too afraid to be alone -- too willing to bow to another's wishes. Thanks for asking.

[MCat]

My husband is kind, patient, loving. A good father and husband. He's put up with my mood swings, outbursts and foolishness for 30 years. He deserves a purple heart.

[Shiane]

The good things far outweigh the not so good.


He is a wonderful dad, he's such a sucker for our 3 girls.
He is very thoughful, caring, and patient.
He is a friend to everyone.
He is Mr fixit, whether its a leaky sink or a little girls broken heart.
He is romantic and great in the sack.
He is a great cook.
He is a lot of fun.
He never forgets special occasions.
He never complains.
He is a great story & joke teller, he loves to make people laugh.
He will stop to help a stranger, even if we're running late.
He never complains about going to the grocery store by himself.
He has huge shoulders and gives massive hugs.
He is everything his father wasn't.

[p.J]

He is indeed a 'bon oeuf'; very tolerable, especially as I have now bumped the car for the 2nd time this year!!! he never gets cross when I have one of my tantrums...but you know what, the best thing of all is that he is a great Dad...


O hum...

[Annie]

The good things far outweigh the not so good.


He is a wonderful dad, he's such a sucker for our 3 girls.
He is very thoughful, caring, and patient.
He is a friend to everyone.
He is Mr fixit, whether its a leaky sink or a little girls broken heart.
He is romantic and great in the sack.
He is a great cook.
He is a lot of fun.
He never forgets special occasions.
He never complains.
He is a great story & joke teller, he loves to make people laugh.
He will stop to help a stranger, even if we're running late.
He never complains about going to the grocery store by himself.
He has huge shoulders and gives massive hugs.
He is everything his father wasn't.
Wow Shiane! It looks to me like you are almost as lucky as he is!

[Frenchie]

Love my wife

- Shes crarrying my kid and I'll be forever greatful
- She makes me the best MeatLoaf
- She makes me laugh
- She help me better myself

Just a couple, I just like to flirt my little heart out.

[Cotties]

you picked up on his comment before I could say something smartass likeThis is an interesting question only because I'm sure none of us who are here would say that we married people with no redeeming qualities.

Oh?? See post #2.

In my opinion, the best way to approach marriage is to drop your expectations of your spouse, and allow them to be the person that they want to be. If you can do that for them, then the love that you express by accepting them for who they are will be returned, because what most of us are looking for in life is to be understood and accepted for who we are.

Or you could just be taken advantage of.

I truly believe that there is no way that we can be accepted by others for who we are unless we are willing to accept others for who they are.and as for your wife...bullshit...she has some good qualities..lol

[Shiane]

Wow Shiane! It looks to me like you are almost as lucky as he is!

Annie thanks thats sweet. God knows I have made mistakes, and I have certainly learned my lesson. The good ones are hard to find, sometimes you don't always appreciate what you have.

[upstr84u]

if anyone can deal with me
and not leave -- what else could you ask for
but then again i am one sexy looking guy
so why would anyone even think of going
and to where - when you have the complete package
lets go with --- holy crap why hasn't she already left

[Shiane]

if anyone can deal with me
and not leave -- holy crap why hasn't she already left

I guess the buck scent does something for her or maybe it's the camo. ;) :D

[upstr84u]

laugh -- but i get raped every time i put on my fishing hip boots
i love to fish :)

[Shiane]

laugh -- but i get raped every time i put on my fishing hip boots i love to fish :)

LOL I don't know about all women, but I love the outdoorsy type. Apparently you're wife does too! :55 :D

[Outta]

My wife is an incredible mother!
Ditto. She is the best. And I will always love her for that.

[Butterfly_13]

We talk alot here about our spouses faults, bad habits, shortcomings. I'm just curious, do they have any good points?

Jazzy,
Thanks for starting this one...sometimes I think we need to step back and be grateful for what we have that's good.

My husband has many good qualities; his best quality is that he loves me unconditionally...he rides with me through my rollercoaster life; he shares my ups and downs - and most of the times there are lots of downs and craziness. I am thankful for his unrelenting support. :knuddel:

Now, if we could just get the passion right...:satan:

[Cotties]

I sure hope you aren't talking about the same women:sc ...Ditto. She is the best. And I will always love her for that.

[massage mike]

i am curious do you people know what points are om a woman i wonder who here has the most lol

[dartgirl]

He is a very caring, helpful, compassionte person. Everyone, but me, feels comfortable confinding ALL their personal problems to him. He loves his kids and loves his dogs. He is a good provider and good at his job.

[Willy S]

She is a good mother, competent at her work, almost everyone likes her, she can cook, and she has great medical insurance.

[Jy]

And thanks for answering, Nola. I know I'm just as guilty as everyone else when it comes to bitching about my husband, especially when things are looking pretty bleak, but I also think we can get caught up in the negativity and that's not healthy for any relationship.

We married these people for some reason, and we stay with them for some reason too. Yes, many of us stay for the sake of the children, but if our spouses were complelety intolerable, wouldn't we and the kids be better off without them?
Sometimes I think we need to take a moment and remind ourselves of their good qualities. And remember that we're not perfect either.
Jazzy,
Thanks for starting this one...sometimes I think we need to step back and be grateful for what we have that's good.

My husband has many good qualities; his best quality is that he loves me unconditionally...he rides with me through my rollercoaster life; he shares my ups and downs - and most of the times there are lots of downs and craziness. I am thankful for his unrelenting support. :knuddel:

Now, if we could just get the passion right...:satan:

[pointofnoreturn]

She is a good mother, competent at her work, almost everyone likes her, she can cook, and she has great medical insurance.Medical huh????My hubby touches me all the time.he likes to be near me. Just not in me?????:D

[NYCMasterplumber]

To many to menthion LOL

[Jy]

That was sweet, Master! She's a lucky lady!To many to menthion LOL

[Jy]

Since there's been some active discussions about spouses on other threads, I thought I'd pull this one off the shelf and dust it off.
No, my husband isn't perfect. After 12 years together, he doesn't remember our anniversary. He leaves the toilet seat up constantly. He leaves a trail everywhere he goes - dirty dishes, t-shirts, reading glasses, books.
But he thanks me for every meal I cook, even if it's just grilled cheese sandwiches for lunch. He is the best dad I have ever met. He spends hours playing with our son, takes him to playgrounds, all his activities, and truly enjoys it. He does anything I ask of him in the yard - digging up trees, moving patio stones, mostly because I don't ask him to do things like that every day or the moment he walks in from work.
No, he's not perfect, but he's a good man.

[yaser]

Medical huh????My hubby touches me all the time.he likes to be near me. Just not in me?????:D
He may have depth phobia..

[Milk]

he's a great father, great friend to me, my soul mate, very caring when i'm ill, protector of my daughter and her friends, loves to read aloud to everyone and has a talent for the voices, kind, selfless

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Skilled at his job
Provides for his family
Deals with my 'occasional' moodiness
Liked by others
Knows when to keep his mouth shut, unlike me of course!!

ok, now where's the bad point thread lol...

[Barkiss]

Skilled at his job
Provides for his family
Deals with my 'occasional' moodiness
Liked by others
Knows when to keep his mouth shut, unlike me of course!!

ok, now where's the bad point thread lol...

Men don't have bad points ;)

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Men don't have bad points ;)

Keep telling yourself that...

I can admit that I have an entire slew of bad points

[Barkiss]

Keep telling yourself that...

I can admit that I have an entire slew of bad points

Tell me it isn't so! ;) By the way..welcome to the site...:)

[G...G]

He is a good dad

He is a hard worker and has climbed almost to the top in less than nine years for a very respectable company

Everyone that meets him likes him.. he is a friendly person

He is not jealous

And most of all he puts up with my shit

[pointofnoreturn]

He makes me laugh. Does Laundry, Cooks, Vaccums some...He is a great room mate if you do not wnt to make love..

[scoobertina]

yes, he does have a few good points.. Hmm... He supports us financially, he fixes things around the house, he is good looking, he will do anything for his friends and family, and he even occasionally laughs with us..

[Dsparate Hswife]

We talk alot here about our spouses faults, bad habits, shortcomings. I'm just curious, do they have any good points?

My husband is a good provider

[fly]

Originally Posted by Jazzy
We talk alot here about our spouses faults, bad habits, shortcomings. I'm just curious, do they have any good points?


Of course he does.......doesn't EVERYONE? You just have to weigh the good points against the bad ones........and see which ones come out on top.

[Jy]

Which was my point for starting this thread, Fly. Everyone does have good points, but so often on the site we get caught up on what our partners do wrong, all their annoying habits, every shortcoming. I wanted to see if anyone could remember something good about them, what drew you to them in the first place. There was a time when we thought enough of them that we decided to make a lifelong commitment to them. It just seemed like some people had forgotten.



Of course he does.......doesn't EVERYONE? You just have to weigh the good points against the bad ones........and see which ones come out on top.

[fly]

Which was my point for starting this thread, Fly. Everyone does have good points, but so often on the site we get caught up on what our partners do wrong, all their annoying habits, every shortcoming. I wanted to see if anyone could remember something good about them, what drew you to them in the first place. There was a time when we thought enough of them that we decided to make a lifelong commitment to them. It just seemed like some people had forgotten.

True enough..........it is altogether too easy to focus on the negative in life/relationships/people. However people get married for a VARIETY of reasons........sometimes it IS love, sometimes convienence......sometimes kids.......etc. Some people marry the "bad boy" hoping to change em..... So not every relationship has that "fairytale beginning" to even remember! I don't complain about my guy on here just cuz I think it's disrespectful and I know I'M not perfect. But I just think there are a LOT of different relationships.....some start good and sour......some age like fine wine.......some never were good......etc.

[thickitalian]

I could not imagine my children being brought up any better with any other Mom.

[MCat]

I could not imagine my children being brought up any better with any other Mom.

That's a lovely thing to say about your wife Thick....

[thickitalian]

She was a wonderful Mom as she raised her children and I always have told her so. Thanks MCat...


That's a lovely thing to say about your wife Thick....

[Jy]

And once again, I agree with you about the reasons people have for marriage. Sadly, it's not always about love. However, if one has made the commitment, isn't it more productive to make the best of it rather than focussing on what could have been or what he/she could do to change. Seems like an exercise in futility to me.

I have to say, I admire your integrity and discretion about not complaining about your husband on here. True enough..........it is altogether too easy to focus on the negative in life/relationships/people. However people get married for a VARIETY of reasons........sometimes it IS love, sometimes convienence......sometimes kids.......etc. Some people marry the "bad boy" hoping to change em..... So not every relationship has that "fairytale beginning" to even remember! I don't complain about my guy on here just cuz I think it's disrespectful and I know I'M not perfect. But I just think there are a LOT of different relationships.....some start good and sour......some age like fine wine.......some never were good......etc.

[PlayfulMale69]

And once again, I agree with you about the reasons people have for marriage. Sadly, it's not always about love. However, if one has made the commitment, isn't it more productive to make the best of it rather than focussing on what could have been or what he/she could do to change. Seems like an exercise in futility to me.

I have to say, I admire your integrity and discretion about not complaining about your husband on here.

I think a big key about marriage to me is that it is not all about me. We are committed to each other for each other. We are not on the same page sexually, but that doesn't mean I leave because it is not what I want. There are reasons why we are in the state we are in and it is complex, but in the end result the marriage works or not if we are not claiming our rights but seeking to serve each other in all sorts of ways and fashions.

[rickingeorgia]

My wife is a good cook, great in bed, and a very caring person.

[spare_change]

No.

[fly]

No.

BE NICE.............
I'm sure you can think of at least ONE......
THINK..........THINK........THINK...........

[Cotties]

I can't think of anything today......I even had an outburst today in the shopping centre where I told her to piss off and get a taxi home please.....its important I always use my manners when I'm angry...its shows I'm being thoughtful in the words I choose

[UltimateNaneki]

none here!

[rickingeorgia]

.....I told her to piss off and get a taxi home please.....its important I always use my manners when I'm angry...its shows I'm being thoughtful in the words I choose

I actually lol'd at that line, that's classic.

[bryan3636]

Would that be before or after she went insane?

[Cotties]

She sleeps 10 to 12 hours a day...its peaceful

[Cotties]

I didn't and neither did she ...I copped shit all afternonn for that comment and had to make my own dinner:(I actually lol'd at that line, that's classic.

[rickingeorgia]

I didn't and neither did she ...I copped shit all afternonn for that comment and had to make my own dinner:(

Ouch, didn't mean to imply I was taking pleasure in your misfortune. I just like the 'small print' you had after your comment.

[Cotties]

please do...I really don't mind.......my wife pisses me off all the time.....it helps me here to let off some steam....and its never focused at people here.....:55Ouch, didn't mean to imply I was taking pleasure in your misfortune. I just like the 'small print' you had after your comment.

[MIGHTY]

I think all of our spouses have some good points. We would not have fallen in love to begin with if they did not. Mine can be sympathetic. He knows when I'm having a bad night at work at makes it a point to drag it out of me, even when I don't feel like talking at the moment. I think he realizes that when I get it out in the open, regardless of what it may be, that I feel better and a bit less stressed. He cares about the physical and mental well being of others in general.

[Cotties]

thas right...my wife has a cute younger sisterI think all of our spouses have some good points.

[Shiane]

No.

Laffs! See I have to disagree with you because she puts up with you!:na
That has to count for something!:whee: ;) :D


awww spare I just luv your awnery ass!:kk

[baby face]

My husband for the most part is a wonderful man, he is the hardest worker I no and is very good at his job.......I wish he would act as if he liked me have as much as he enjoys his job.......He is also a good father and helps coach our boys little league baseball team.......When he gets motivated he is a really good house cleaner actually probably better than me but cleaning house for him only happens about twice a year......

[sawflyman]

open minded, smart. beautiful

[RedVixen]

I think all of our spouses have some good points. We would not have fallen in love to begin with if they did not.

My husband isn't the same man I married, so I have to disagree with you on this one.

He's really good at being self-centered, selfish and an all-around prick.

[unctarheel_32]

it sound like u are very disappointed in ure hubby red,sorry to hear that

[RedVixen]

it sound like u are very disappointed in ure hubby red,sorry to hear that

Thanks hun :kk yeah reality sucks sometimes :(