Married And Flirting Chat, Personal Information Is Your Responsibility

[Penny]

This website is not a dating service, infact I dont recomend using it as such. I don't recomend giving anyone your email address none the less personal info such as phone numbers or God forbid your home or work address. Don't tell anyone where you work or what your real name is. It's a dangerous world out there. No matter how much you like someone or how smart you think you are there is always someone smarter.

We have a zero tollerance policy on stalking or making others uncomfortable asking for more information than they are willing to give. If anyone makes you feel uncomfortable please report them ASAP to a mod. I own this site and I wont give out my real last name or the town I live in and no one even knows my personal email address other than the one I use for the site.

I dont want to know your personal info and there is no reason for a moderater to know your info. Keep it to yourself and be safe.

This may be a good place for others to post any ideas they have on how to protect yourself online.

One tip I can offer is dont use the same nick name here that you use on anyother site that may contain personal info about you. All someone has to do is Google your name and that info is availible to them. If anyone wants to change their nick name send me a Private message or email.

Does anyone else have any tips for people on how to protect them selves online?

[aceofspades1114]

you need to know those soc. numbers,lol j/k

just keep majority of it to yourself, specially vital information

[cherokeered]

I'm glad you posted this Penny....there are a lot of crazies out there....as well as a lot of nice people....


I don't have my email address listed here or anywhere....and I don't give out my messenger name to anyone who asks....I also don't ask or answer a lot of personal questions....unless I feel comfortable...and I don't give my real name out unless I am comfortable either...and never my last name...

I also think people should be concerned if someone comes on too strong or acts too dumb....they could be doing a con....and never post a pic of ur house or car where the address or license number could be read....
Nor use ur birthdate....ss#....or any personal info as part of a site name or a password....
It's always best to be safe then sorry...

[Penny]

Wierdos are great at making you feel comfortable though so how do you know that you can be safe? I think its just to risky now a days especially for women. The difference between this place and a dating bar or club is you cant see the person your talking to.

[cherokeered]

Wierdos are great at making you feel comfortable though so how do you know that you can be safe? I think its just to risky now a days especially for women. The difference between this place and a dating bar or club is you cant see the person your talking to.

Well hun..the only person who has any info on me...is Tiger....other than that...the most anyone knows about me is my messenger name or first name....other than that....nada, other than I live in NJ...or do I?

Ya see, what people actually tell you is not necessarily true....unless you know me...you wouldnt know where I actually live....

[longnhard32]

not nice to call us all weirdos just most of us :lmao but i agree that you should keep your info private. as you dont alway know who you are talking to:spbx:

[CuriousGeorge]

A clever stalker is patient, and will gradually collect personal info, piece by piece, until they know who you are. Sometimes it takes very little information. If you have a unique first name, or even a unique spelling of your name, that may be all it takes, along with perhaps the state in which you live.

I can only emphasize what Penny has said. Be very careful what personal info you share!

[Annie]

One tip I can offer is dont use the same nick name here that you use on anyother site that may contain personal info about you. All someone has to do is Google your name and that info is availible to them. If anyone wants to change their nick name send me a Private message or email.

Does anyone else have any tips for people on how to protect them selves online?
Excellent advice!

[dan1961]

the scary part is I know people that have flown to other cities to meet people from websites without really knowing them very well at all...

[pointofnoreturn]

A clever stalker is patient, and will gradually collect personal info, piece by piece, until they know who you are. Sometimes it takes very little information. If you have a unique first name, or even a unique spelling of your name, that may be all it takes, along with perhaps the state in which you live.

I can only emphasize what Penny has said. Be very careful what personal info you share!The best way to stay safe, is ask the person you are talking to if they are a stalker or murderer???I find they usually tell you the truth...Or are they???

[twoblues]

the scary part is I know people that have flown to other cities to meet people from websites without really knowing them very well at all...

Well, then, I'm safe. I'm far too cheap.

Seriously, though, I use a special email for this side of my life.

[dan1961]

The best way to stay safe, is ask the person you are talking to if they are a stalker or murderer???I find they usually tell you the truth...Or are they???

I am safe..I promise..

[pointofnoreturn]

I am safe..I promise..Where are you????:wa:

[anon_user]

Weirdo here


You do have to be careful. But just like twoblues, I've got a seperate email for this.

[tendr]

i agree you have to be careful but the same goes about meeting anyone and letting them come to my home that i don't meet online but anywhere else. i would not bug anyone to give me info but what if you know someone you want to talk to online, lives nearby or even if you dont' live close by...but you want to share your email (i should have the choice if i want to give my nick to someone..i don't even put any real info even in here as far as bd or exact place i live so i want to do it in private) and you can't find me in google. i am not inviting anyone to my house . i am only wanting to have a conversation that is not anything interesting to married and flirting and it's a cool thing to find someone here who lives close. i met my husband online.
so there are good ppl out here.

[spare_change]

i agree you have to be careful but the same goes about meeting anyone and letting them come to my home that i don't meet online but anywhere else. i would not bug anyone to give me info but what if you know someone you want to talk to online, lives nearby or even if you dont' live close by...but you want to share your email (i should have the choice if i want to give my nick to someone..i don't even put any real info even in here as far as bd or exact place i live so i want to do it in private) and you can't find me in google. i am not inviting anyone to my house . i am only wanting to have a conversation that is not anything interesting to married and flirting and it's a cool thing to find someone here who lives close. i met my husband online.
so there are good ppl out here.

If you wish to pass your email address to another person, I recommend that you simply go into the chat room and give it to him or her. If there are people in the main chat room that you are unsure if they should see your email or IM address, simply create a private room where the two of you can converse. That is a temporary board, and the data is quickly lost. You will have significantly less exposure doing it that way.

[OICurready4me]

You do have to be careful. But just like twoblues, I've got a seperate email for this.


Best way to do it is to have a separate email for this site through yahoo, google or msn, for several reasons, one of which, it keeps your spouse from reading these emails on your computer since they are all kept on the companies server.

[tendr]

Best way to do it is to have a separate email for this site through yahoo, google or msn, for several reasons, one of which, it keeps your spouse from reading these emails on your computer since they are all kept on the companies server.

'this' spouse doesn't read my mail though i don't hide it either. i tell him to go read something when it's really something i'm sure he'd be interested in. i don't even mess with his pc cuz it's so weird..but if mine breaks down then i get on his.( we have separate pcs) but i understand how it could be difficult becuz i used to be married to someone who didn't even want me to talk to anyone...even in a poetry community. yet now that i'm gone, his best friends were met online. i certainly would have mentioned going into chat to pass info if i had , at that time known i could. i did ask another friend to go into chat with me and then asked him to go into my profile and tell me if he could see my addy's and he said yes so that answered my wholeeeeeee problem. ty to him.
and lena's email to me. if anyone knows how to talk to ppl, it's lena.

[tendr]

oh, i met my hubby online. my sister is married to a guy who was in my poetry comm. i've met groups of ppl from tulsa where we'd all go to a club or a party or even on picnics in groups..it was fun. i miss it. i have friends now from canada who've come to okla and stayed with us. met husband and wife. had dinner. but then i've been offline for a couple of yrs except to talk to only a couple of ppl..so i'm trying to get back into it. i'll make a huge effort not to stir the pot again. i just felt i was hopping on one foot. :)

[thickitalian]

Excellent advice Penny....

If someone feels they are truly connecting with another member, you can generally get a good idea as to what is real and what is not or who is real and who isn't. I have posted to many and there is always a red flag somewhere...you need to be aware of these red flags because if something sounds "off" it sure as hell probably is. Always trust your gut because there are too many used car dealers out there waiting to make a sale at our expense...and these people can sell you sand from the beach at a high cost. Should someone post a line that is strange or just odd from their previous posts...that can very well be a "red light" Remember the bottom line....we don't truly know anyone...all we know is what they want us to know about themselves and the phonies surface eventually...so keep those eyes open and trust your gut.

All of that being said, there are some truly beautiful people out there and I hope you find them. :knuddel:

BTW...this is my first post here as a new member :wa:

[OICurready4me]

'this' spouse doesn't read my mail though i don't hide it either. i tell him to go read something when it's really something i'm sure he'd be interested in. i don't even mess with his pc cuz it's so weird..but if mine breaks down then i get on his.( we have separate pcs) but i understand how it could be difficult becuz i used to be married to someone who didn't even want me to talk to anyone...even in a poetry community. yet now that i'm gone, his best friends were met online. i certainly would have mentioned going into chat to pass info if i had , at that time known i could. i did ask another friend to go into chat with me and then asked him to go into my profile and tell me if he could see my addy's and he said yes so that answered my wholeeeeeee problem. ty to him.
and lena's email to me. if anyone knows how to talk to ppl, it's lena.

All the moderators here do a good job so you can't go wrong with any of them but it's never a bad thing to be cautious as long as you don't become paranoid about it. When you become skeptical of everyone, even your closest friends, you can wreck a relationship.

[Penny]

Welcome to the site I hope u enjoy it :)



Excellent advice Penny....

If someone feels they are truly connecting with another member, you can generally get a good idea as to what is real and what is not or who is real and who isn't. I have posted to many and there is always a red flag somewhere...you need to be aware of these red flags because if something sounds "off" it sure as hell probably is. Always trust your gut because there are too many used car dealers out there waiting to make a sale at our expense...and these people can sell you sand from the beach at a high cost. Should someone post a line that is strange or just odd from their previous posts...that can very well be a "red light" Remember the bottom line....we don't truly know anyone...all we know is what they want us to know about themselves and the phonies surface eventually...so keep those eyes open and trust your gut.

All of that being said, there are some truly beautiful people out there and I hope you find them. :knuddel:

BTW...this is my first post here as a new member :wa:

[cherokeered]

Excellent advice Penny....

BTW...this is my first post here as a new member :wa:

Welcome to the site....happy flirting....:wa:

[Cotties]

good first post Thick:55


either your head is screwed on or its a show
Excellent advice Penny....

If someone feels they are truly connecting with another member, you can generally get a good idea as to what is real and what is not or who is real and who isn't. I have posted to many and there is always a red flag somewhere...you need to be aware of these red flags because if something sounds "off" it sure as hell probably is. Always trust your gut because there are too many used car dealers out there waiting to make a sale at our expense...and these people can sell you sand from the beach at a high cost. Should someone post a line that is strange or just odd from their previous posts...that can very well be a "red light" Remember the bottom line....we don't truly know anyone...all we know is what they want us to know about themselves and the phonies surface eventually...so keep those eyes open and trust your gut.

All of that being said, there are some truly beautiful people out there and I hope you find them. :knuddel:

BTW...this is my first post here as a new member :wa:

[thickitalian]

good first post Thick:55


either your head is screwed on or its a show

Nice to meetcha Cot...catch you around :wa:

[Barkiss]

Welcome to the site thinkitalian!!! Could you do me a favor and add your birth year to your profile? We require all members to post an age to ensure everyone is over 18. Thanks!!! And welcome again!!

[thickitalian]

Welcome to the site I hope u enjoy it :)

Thanks Penny ;)

[thickitalian]

Welcome to the site thinkitalian!!! Could you do me a favor and add your birth year to your profile? We require all members to post an age to ensure everyone is over 18. Thanks!!! And welcome again!!

If you wish Bark...just being a little discreet...not a problem :cool:

[Barkiss]

If you wish Bark...just being a little discreet...not a problem :cool:

Thank you!!! :)

[thickitalian]

Thank you!!! :)

I'm a rookie here but feel free to ask if you see a green mistake...anytime.;)

[buxom]

what a scary thread this is! maybe i don't wanna post here afterall?

[cherokeered]

what a scary thread this is! maybe i don't wanna post here afterall?

Welcome to the site hun....say hi on the hello thread.....:wa:

[Cotties]

Come here...I'll protect you:kk ...I'm 5 bucks an hour and will do anythingwhat a scary thread this is! maybe i don't wanna post here afterall?

[buxom]

still tryin to find my way 'round this place!

[tendr]

still tryin to find my way 'round this place!

me too buxom.......welcome

[dan1961]

me too buxom.......welcome

same here..

[Cotties]

my 5 dollar offer doesn't apply to you...20 bucks for men..no refundssame here..

[Jezabella]

my 5 dollar offer doesn't apply to you...20 bucks for men..no refunds

you're worth so much more than that...:kk

[thickitalian]

what a scary thread this is! maybe i don't wanna post here afterall?

Buxom...flirting is very cool and not at all scary....as a matter of fact, it a vital life sign. What comes after the flirting is more serious...that's all. ;)

[rm]

This website is not a dating service, infact I dont recomend using it as such. I don't recomend giving anyone your email address none the less personal info such as phone numbers or God forbid your home or work address. Don't tell anyone where you work or what your real name is. It's a dangerous world out there. No matter how much you like someone or how smart you think you are there is always someone smarter.

We have a zero tollerance policy on stalking or making others uncomfortable asking for more information than they are willing to give. If anyone makes you feel uncomfortable please report them ASAP to a mod. I own this site and I wont give out my real last name or the town I live in and no one even knows my personal email address other than the one I use for the site.

I dont want to know your personal info and there is no reason for a moderater to know your info. Keep it to yourself and be safe.

This may be a good place for others to post any ideas they have on how to protect yourself online.

One tip I can offer is dont use the same nick name here that you use on anyother site that may contain personal info about you. All someone has to do is Google your name and that info is availible to them. If anyone wants to change their nick name send me a Private message or email.

Does anyone else have any tips for people on how to protect them selves online?


I agree

[rm]

me too buxom.......welcome

same here,,,dunno what to do yet HELP!!

[dan1961]

hi

[dave42]

I can't deny the fact that there are a lot of really strange people out there. I do feel pretty safe on this site though. It has been a very positive experience for me. Everyone that I have met here has been really nice.

[tendr]

I can't deny the fact that there are a lot of really strange people out there. I do feel pretty safe on this site though. It has been a very positive experience for me. Everyone that I have met here has been really nice.

Hi DAN....WELCOME :):)

[dan1961]

Hi DAN....WELCOME :):)

Well hello there tendr..how r u sweetie.?:wa:

[tendr]

Well hello there tendr..how r u sweetie.?:wa:

I"M GREAT since you're here...

[dan1961]

I"M GREAT since you're here...

wow..mmm..i think i want u...:kk

[tendr]

wow..mmm..i think i want u...:kk

awwwww...you're so sweet...that'll get me everytime.:knuddel:

[dan1961]

awwwww...you're so sweet...that'll get me everytime.:knuddel:

really..whoa...too bad u live in oklahoma..or i would be thinking up ways to get u in other ways..mmmmmm:blowjob:

[dan1961]

awwwww...you're so sweet...that'll get me everytime.:knuddel:

so is that ur pic..or an avatar?

[tendr]

so is that ur pic..or an avatar?

pic...and getting ME isn't you getting a bj..it'd be me getting..well you know what i mean. but if you wear a suit and....ok that's going into my fantasy thing.
and avi can't deal with it..so i won't talk about it for now. :D
so where's your pic mister?

[tendr]

cam pic..like this

[tendr]

you have to click on them

[dan1961]

cam pic..like this

Well..i would send u a pic by private email but not here...how should I contact you?:sex

[dan1961]

where are you tendr???

[Pirate@40]

Be very, very careful. After all, you don't want to show up on one of those TV commercials as having your identity stolen!

[Dancemor(m)]

what a scary thread this is! maybe i don't wanna post here afterall? Please don't be offended. This site has alot to offer. I just started here myself and it's alot of fun. Flirting is a natural thing to do and it's great for your self esteem. Let's keep on going buxom...... :)

[Dancemor(m)]

cam pic..like this Awsome quote. Love the background picture. It that you? :)

[wylum]

looks like an interesting site worth keeping an eye on. i really do not worry about personal information since i am not a real person :D

[dan1961]

what happened to tendr?????

[likarok]

Sounds like most people here posting have a good idea how to protect themselves. Like many have said most wierdos or "bots" have one way or another of tipping off that they are no good. I myself am here to chat with others in the same situation as I. Just can't stand those that are wasting time and playing a game. C'mon all let's be real. We're all here together in this virtual world so lets treat each other kindly. BTW this is only my second post. Sorry if it rambles. NOT!:whee:

[joe43]

I'm impressed by the wisdom here

[surfdude]

Using a unique name for this site is an excellent recommendation. As part of my work I've had to investigate people and have found them spread across a variety of sites, all with the same screen name or whatever, and it's amazing that some people don't consider this simple tip.

Excellent advice.

[shortnsexy]

Penny,
I appreciate your post and will follow what you said. Sometimes a person can be naive and I guess we all need to remember that not all of the people in this world use the internet to meet good friends like we do.
Thanks again

[shortnsexy]

Thank you for the advice Penny. I agree with you totally.
I have met men from the net and some of the meetings have been complete disasters.
I do have online friends whom I have been in contact with for years, but they are online, not in person and not trying to find me. And, they don't have my personal info.
Again, thank you for caring.

[longhaul292]

New here just saying Hi:wa:

[Penny]

Welcome :)

[RedHotPisces]

:wa: hello longhaul...welcome :wa:



New here just saying Hi:wa:

[Cotties]

ya think:sc Sounds like most people here posting have a good idea how to protect themselves. Like many have said most wierdos or "bots" have one way or another of tipping off that they are no good. I myself am here to chat with others in the same situation as I. Just can't stand those that are wasting time and playing a game. C'mon all let's be real. We're all here together in this virtual world so lets treat each other kindly. BTW this is only my second post. Sorry if it rambles. NOT!:whee:

[workingboss]

hello any here

[aviatorspirit69]

This website is not a dating service, infact I dont recomend using it as such. I don't recomend giving anyone your email address none the less personal info such as phone numbers or God forbid your home or work address. Don't tell anyone where you work or what your real name is. It's a dangerous world out there. No matter how much you like someone or how smart you think you are there is always someone smarter.

We have a zero tollerance policy on stalking or making others uncomfortable asking for more information than they are willing to give. If anyone makes you feel uncomfortable please report them ASAP to a mod. I own this site and I wont give out my real last name or the town I live in and no one even knows my personal email address other than the one I use for the site.

I dont want to know your personal info and there is no reason for a moderater to know your info. Keep it to yourself and be safe.

This may be a good place for others to post any ideas they have on how to protect yourself online.

One tip I can offer is dont use the same nick name here that you use on anyother site that may contain personal info about you. All someone has to do is Google your name and that info is availible to them. If anyone wants to change their nick name send me a Private message or email.

Does anyone else have any tips for people on how to protect them selves online?

I just wanted to introduce myself to you not sure if you saw the post. Thanks for making this sute possible and HEALTHY degree of banter for all to benefit from.
http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4396
As always

Your Aviator

[OnlyOneMan]

Penny, how the heck did you create this site? Do you have a technical background?

[Penny]

Self taught :)



Penny, how the heck did you create this site? Do you have a technical background?

[PunkyBob]

Self taught :)

You continue to impress and amaze me, Penny. Congratulations on taking on and running so efficiently an operation so tricky and difficult. I, as I'm sure all of the others here, really enjoy it and feel at home. It's become a staple part of my day...like a good healthy breakfast with orange juice!

But sexier.

[Penny]

Im glad you like it :)

[hoss]

Self taught :)

then self teach yourself to get that webcam and firewall fixed ...i aiint going to wear this leotard forever u know

[Dancemor(m)]

Welcome to the site I hope u enjoy it :)

Thankyou for hosting this awesome site. I have only been here a short while. I havent met anyone on this site, yet. I have been to other sites like IWU and ICQ. They are open to people from around the world. I have learned tons of things from 'friends' I have met from those two websites. There are all kinds of people out there,,,some want to take money from you.... and some want something from you,,,,,whether it be friendship, money,,,sex... or some good information on a certain subject.

We can use these websites for good or evil purposes,, it is our choice.... I prefer the use them for informational purposes as well as meeting new friends. In the real world as it is today, there are few people willing to open up to be friends. One reason for this is that most people are to busy with their hectic lives and dont care to make friends. Another reason is they are afraid to get close to others. There are barriers that make people so unwilling to add new friends to their lives. The list goes on and on,,,,such as race,,,wealth, status, religion, age, sex,....etc.... We all start out as babies and end up in the grave. more to come....

[cmt21lem]

good advice, especially for newbys

[toowildtotame]

Oh and here I tHought This was the place to do all that stuff and get laid more-- well Chit!!

Ok I best get my yahell addy off that profile -- and Penny you added that link*lol* also my messenger name-- again a link on Penny's site*lol* women can never make up there mind-- ask for the info and now says NOOOOOOOOOOO don't do that, -- Great site Penny-- I am starting to enjoy that which you worked so HARD on.. ( a LITTLE play on words) *s*

[toowildtotame]

Wierdos are great at making you feel comfortable though so how do you know that you can be safe? I think its just to risky now a days especially for women. The difference between this place and a dating bar or club is you cant see the person your talking to.
WEll I could always kick up the cam so you can view-- *s*

[Lacey]

Great tips....



And I agree with Penny..........you can never be to careful!

[fm]

I would consider mostly every online dating or chat forum to hold a merit of danger, but there are ways of being annonymous. Last year after chatting at length to someone I made arrangements to meet him. He was a lovely man and we got along really well, enjoyed one another for a time then went our seperate ways. We both laid down ground rules abided by them and enjoyed ourselves. While meeting was wonderful, we both agreed that to have continued to chat might have held us together for longer, not only that but the fantasy is oftentimes better than the reality especially if as we did, wrote little erotic stories between us.
For example, I would write a few paragraphs and he would pick it up, write a few more and pass it back. We did this till the story was done. I also did this with other people, it was great, and maybe I could do likewise here. You don't have to be a writer, just have a great imagination or writer from experience. Its fun.

For example try this:
(Fiction)
The other day while out shopping for groceries I decided to take my sweater off because I was pretty hot walking around pushing a trolley. However, my tight fitting sweater when raised caused my tee shirt beneath to ride up. Now I never wear a bra. And though I fully exposed my breasts, I thought nothing of it until I pulled my tee shirt down and found a man who had been pushing a trolley toward me, standing with his mouth agape. I found this highly amusing, and the next day I went shopping I did this deliberately and enjoyed the lustful stares I received from male shoppers. Tomorrow when i go shopping again, whomsoever looks as though he would love to fondle my breasts I will walk past and stroke his groin...I wonder what he might do...

Your turn

[hank69]

He might smile and say you got great nipples, may i see them and fondel them? you say sure but not here meet me at the pub next door. When I arrive I order a beer and wait, but you never show up.....Just my luck....I drink my beer and watch the telly. the news is on. Somebody called in a report of a woman showing her breasts at the local market...When the ploice arrived she was gone....come to find out she seen them comming past the pub, so she turned around and walked the other way, away from the pub..Damn I'll be at the market next week same time.....

Your turn

[motown9300]

thanks for the info

[motown9300]

thanks

[motown9300]

howdy

[SEXAHOLIC]

howdy

hi motown how ya doin

[Kevin7284]

[B]Being new I feel a little bit in awe. Is this site a yahoo site? Is their an ignore feature is someone gets out of line? thanks for your help, Kevin

[hoss]

[B]Being new I feel a little bit in awe. Is this site a yahoo site? Is their an ignore feature is someone gets out of line? thanks for your help, Kevin

nope no yahoo site ..all the women here are real and spectacular ...as for the ignore ,if u click your user cp button (top right of the page )on the right hand side u will see under "Miscallaneous " a buddy /ignore list ...u can add a offending person to that list ...

if anyone does get out of line ,feel free to contact any of the mods here and it will be dealt with promptly ....

welcome to the site

[Kevin7284]

thank you for the info. it is a big help.

[Kevin7284]

i wanna know where she does her grocery shopping.

[melynn7]

good advice, thanks

[JCDxn]

Being new this is some great information. Thanks

[oggieball]

Thank you for giving this warning to all of us who know what this website is for.

[Affect]

Be careful with emails too. Often times when you send an email from your personal account it attaches your real name with it. A simple google - and who knows where that can lead. Just be aware - perhaps send your self a "test" email to see what info comes over in the name bar.

[Hotshotfireguy]

Be careful with emails too. Often times when you send an email from your personal account it attaches your real name with it. A simple google - and who knows where that can lead. Just be aware - perhaps send your self a "test" email to see what info comes over in the name bar.

Yeah, because it'll give all the info needed to show up on the doorstep (even a map)

[Victoria VA]

i wanna know where she does her grocery shopping.


Wal-Mart Supercenter....that should help you to narrow it down, Kev......LOL

[OC_guy]

Well, then, I'm safe. I'm far too cheap.

Seriously, though, I use a special email for this side of my life.
I do the same. An email addy without your name in it

[dan1961]

I used to be president and dated someone named Monica....

[Dir]

I used to be president and dated someone named Monica....:sc:sc:sc What is your name hummm Damet I forgot :D

[dan1961]

my how quickly we forget, i could never forget your name..:sng

[Dir]

my how quickly we forget, i could never forget your name..:sng Wow ... You better don't :thankyou::sng

[dan1961]

Wow ... You better don't :thankyou::sng

No chance of forgeting...:dt

[Dir]

No chance of forgeting...:dt hummm time, day and ....Italian , French or Spanish restaurant ? ;):D

[dixiechiknga]

Yes please! Quit asking what I am wearing and can I call you the answer is: not telling and NO you can't call me!!! Thanks Penny!

[dan1961]

hummm time, day and ....Italian , French or Spanish restaurant ? ;):D

ummmm, Italian Restaurant, Spanish Wine and a French Kiss....:sng

[Dir]

ummmm, Italian Restaurant, Spanish Wine and a French Kiss....:sng Love the creative answers like this one ...love Italian food, the wine and for sure would like the French Kiss:sng

[dan1961]

Love the creative answers like this one ...love Italian food, the wine and for sure would like the French Kiss:sng

i try..thats all i can do...hope u r doing good, have not seen u in a while..:pc

[dan1961]

oh, i did not realize the computer guy gets punched, whats that all bout...

[Dir]

oh, i did not realize the computer guy gets punched, whats that all bout... Yup:sry

[dan1961]

Yup:sry

nothing to be sorry about..:sc

[lauraslife]

:nopityHelp I accidentally put my birthday as 1936 when I registered instead of 1963 and I am unable to change it. What can I do??
I emailed site admin with no response in several hours. Should I re-register?
thanks for any suggestions,
Laura

[Penny]

i fixxed it for u

[lauraslife]

Thanks so much, in the chatroom I kept having to explain that I was really not 71, not that 71 is a bad thing but lets not rush things.
Laura

[Dir]

nothing to be sorry about..:scTY your so kind :sng

[mark_66]

Dixiechiknga, may I ask what the tensil strength is of the top your wearing? I mean are we like in danger if it suddenly gives under pressure and explodes???? lolf

[dan1961]

TY your so kind :sng


mmmm...wish i was the emoticon u were kissing..:whee:

[spare_change]

Yes please! Quit asking what I am wearing and can I call you the answer is: not telling and NO you can't call me!!! Thanks Penny!

Well, damn, you don't have to get nasty ,..... when you said no to those 278 PMs, I thought you were just playing hard to get !

[dan1961]

:confused:where did she go...

[Dir]

:confused:where did she go... Whom are you talking about ?:sc

[dan1961]

Whom are you talking about ?:sc


Ummm....that would be Dirgni.....:ok

[Dir]

Ummm....that would be Dirgni.....:ok well then ..here I am :kk

[dan1961]

well then ..here I am :kk

think u are invisible:yks

[Dir]

think u are invisible:yks Maybe is time of make myself visible:sc

[mark_66]

well you and Dan seem to have monopolized this chat so have fun I will seek something a bit more stimulating

[somemarriedguyinks]

If you want to talk on the phone with someone, use voice chat on the Internet instead.

[Penny]

We have that here somewhere ;)

[hotshottruckdriver]

leave me alone Penny I don't need your advice!

[Lena]

leave me alone Penny I don't need your advice!
Well being impolite is not something we put up with around here!
And since you won't stay retired like you were made to by the owner because of your other rudeness, suppose we will have to just put you into another group to keep a watch on you!
Such a shame you just won't be nice!!

[merdock67]

leave me alone Penny I don't need your advice!


Wow could you say anything dumber :yks

[Grizz]

leave me alone Penny I don't need your advice!

At first I wasn't going to even acknowledge your presence here, however I can't just ignore it either. Pretty hypocritical of you to say you're a nice guy in one thread and then say this in a matter of 15 minutes! :yks

[mark_66]

so we will not hear from the ole truck driver again? not that i ever saw any kind of message except his last one

[Barkiss]

Great...another prime example of why certain people should not procreate.

[Hotshotfireguy]

WOW.........just please remember, not all hotshots are bad. Don't even want to be associated with that.

[funtimes999999]

leave me alone Penny I don't need your advice!

Your giving us young and new guys a bad rep here! What gives?

[mark_66]

well he is gone hopefully permanently

[Cotties]

oh he was banned before I could call him a dickheadleave me alone Penny I don't need your advice!

[private beaches]

WOW.........just please remember, not all hotshots are bad. Don't even want to be associated with that.

And you of course are THE nicest Hotshot!!!

[mark_66]

Considering the history of Hotshots in here keep Privates veiw in perspective lol

[hoss]

Well being impolite is not something we put up with around here!
And since you won't stay retired like you were made to by the owner because of your other rudeness, suppose we will have to just put you into another group to keep a watch on you!
Such a shame you just won't be nice!!

do u think him and Dave will get along ??...i wonder who will be the man ??:lf

[hoss]

oh he was banned before I could call him a dickhead


im still here ....take your best shot ...muffin muncher

[Lena]

do u think him and Dave will get along ??...i wonder who will be the man ??:lf
Now that you mention it............

Nice to see you!!

[hoss]

Now that you mention it............

Nice to see you!!


thank u ..as always its a pleasure to be in your company

[redcat]

WOW.........just please remember, not all hotshots are bad. Don't even want to be associated with that.


We know the difference...don't worry:hug:

[Hotshotfireguy]

And you of course are THE nicest Hotshot!!!

We know the difference...don't worry:hug:


awwwwww, ya'll are too sweet :hug:

[RedVixen]

WOW.........just please remember, not all hotshots are bad. Don't even want to be associated with that.

Not even the most remote chance of that happening - you're one of the good guys :kk

[Hotshotfireguy]

Not even the most remote chance of that happening - you're one of the good guys :kk


awwwwww shucks...:o

[scoobertina]

WOW.........just please remember, not all hotshots are bad. Don't even want to be associated with that.


we know you are nothing like that babe.... it is ok.. calm down...

[duanehofner]

Good morning all! Happy Saturday

[Cotties]

muffin muncher...be nice before I take off ya knickers and tie you up with them and leave in a dark alley with a piece of paper stuck on your back saying mardi gras entry...please leave deposit in rearthank u ..as always its a pleasure to be in your company

[Penny]

Im sure you dont, :(

leave me alone Penny I don't need your advice!

[hoss]

Im sure you dont, :(

Hey !!..stop peekin in that banned room ....u may see something that u will never be able to forget ....

[SunnyD]

leave me alone Penny I don't need your advice!

Well remember your first night in chat and I told you not to be an ASS and it wouldn't be hard to get along here.... guess that didn't work for long!

[mark_66]

Oh god Hoss you did not dress up more chimpmucks did you?

[pankaj]

:nopity

[mark_66]

and this thread was about ?

[FeIsTy FaV]

Us, silly!

[whtwmnlvr]

MyFavMistake how do you like to be approached?

[Bubblygirlie]

hello everyone:crs

[Bubblygirlie]

la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la

[Micwar]

la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la

catchy tune

[Bubblygirlie]

sorry, but i was a bit bored

[Bubblygirlie]

i am not entirely sure how this works or how i can get ppl to talk to me

[Sunfiresix]

i am not entirely sure how this works or how i can get ppl to talk to me


Hi Bubbly--just post and soon you will have friends all over the site--all good people --enjoy and welcome.

[Sunfiresix]

Stick around

[Bubblygirlie]

thanks

[Bubblygirlie]

hubby in bed and im not sleepy

[Sunfiresix]

thanks

It is a really good site--give it a chance--read and reply to posts and eventually you will meet lotsa people.

[AL(m)]

Hi Bubblygirlie..welcome to the site..... hope you enjoy yourself and find soem fun for those sleepless nights....:sng

hubby in bed and im not sleepy

[Bubblygirlie]

how many ppl in this forum at the moment?? how can u know this information?

[AL(m)]

Just go to the Married and Flirting Chat and you will see all of us. and those that have been in earlier....

how many ppl in this forum at the moment?? how can u know this information?

[Sunfiresix]

there is a drop down --people on line

[Bubblygirlie]

do i need to post a message to see replies? or will they just appear without me touching a button? im asking cos i only get messages when ive pressed the post reply buton

[Sunfiresix]

answer any thread and you will get a reply as soon as someone replies to it

[LovingTouch38]

thanks for the advice

[ef1234]

smart

[superman37]

Gotta keep the personal information safe =]

[curiousnate98]

This website is not a dating service, infact I dont recomend using it as such. I don't recomend giving anyone your email address none the less personal info such as phone numbers or God forbid your home or work address. Don't tell anyone where you work or what your real name is. It's a dangerous world out there. No matter how much you like someone or how smart you think you are there is always someone smarter.

We have a zero tollerance policy on stalking or making others uncomfortable asking for more information than they are willing to give. If anyone makes you feel uncomfortable please report them ASAP to a mod. I own this site and I wont give out my real last name or the town I live in and no one even knows my personal email address other than the one I use for the site.

I dont want to know your personal info and there is no reason for a moderater to know your info. Keep it to yourself and be safe.

This may be a good place for others to post any ideas they have on how to protect yourself online.

One tip I can offer is dont use the same nick name here that you use on anyother site that may contain personal info about you. All someone has to do is Google your name and that info is availible to them. If anyone wants to change their nick name send me a Private message or email.

Does anyone else have any tips for people on how to protect them selves online?

Thank you for protecting the members Penny!

[showmeguy1947]

Privacy is one of my biggest issues, so I have to keep my info private.

[marriedandflirting]

Holy cow Penny. Awesome Pic!!