Guys would you ever let your woman sleep with another man?

[OccassionalFun]

I was curious about men's sentiments on actually sanctioning or permitting letting their woman sleep with another man. I know that most of us would have absolutely no problem letting our spouses or girlfriends sleep with another woman (since its erotic and not threatening) but what about a man? Would you if she was discreet and there were some ground rules to follow?

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[Cotties]

With me present or not?

[joe43]

if i'm there and we can enjoy it all together, then yes

[Cotties]

Joe! can you put your date of birth in your profile please.if i'm there and we can enjoy it all together, then yes

[joe43]

my dob is feb 1972

[joshcamp69]

sure, she will never get it as good so go ahead

[spare_change]

Sorry -- what's mine is mine --- and what's hers is hers -- I prefer fidelity and commitment to titillation and tomfoolery.

[twoblues]

I really shouldn't have a say in the matter considering what I ...er...do on the side. Though, selfishly, I'd still feel jealous if she came to ask me about what she wanted to do.

[Annie]

Sorry -- what's mine is mine --- and what's hers is hers -- I prefer fidelity and commitment to titillation and tomfoolery.So well put... but damn... I'm out of rep!

[dartgirl]

Sorry -- what's mine is mine --- and what's hers is hers -- I prefer fidelity and commitment to titillation and tomfoolery.


But Spare, I am sure I read something just the other day that said you have had several affairs, so isn't that being just a little bit contradictory??

[spare_change]

But Spare, I am sure I read something just the other day that said you have had several affairs, so isn't that being just a little bit contradictory??

Very good, Dartgirl - i figured somebody would pick up on it.

But, be assured there is no contradiction here. I believe in monogamous relationships - but they key word is relationship. It has to be a two way street -- both must be committed to it.

Your assumption is about my status. You can be sure it isn't a romantic relationship -- it has devolved to a business relationship. So, dalliances with other women don't qualify as cheating, because there is no emotional connection to be hurting. In fact, the 'dalliances' become the primary romantic relationship in my life. And, when they end, I hurt for it. But, it is better to have felt the pain, than to feel nothing at all.

[Big O]

Well I guess it's the same thing as her having an affair. Keep it quiet and don't let him interfere with our personal lives. maybe she is. She hardly sleeps with me......

[dartgirl]

Very good, Dartgirl - i figured somebody would pick up on it.

But, be assured there is no contradiction here. I believe in monogamous relationships - but they key word is relationship. It has to be a two way street -- both must be committed to it.

Your assumption is about my status. You can be sure it isn't a romantic relationship -- it has devolved to a business relationship. So, dalliances with other women don't qualify as cheating, because there is no emotional connection to be hurting. In fact, the 'dalliances' become the primary romantic relationship in my life. And, when they end, I hurt for it. But, it is better to have felt the pain, than to feel nothing at all.

Aww Spare, doesn't life just suck sometimes.

Ever heard that song by "Three Days Grace" called PAIN. I got it for the ringback on my phone. "It is better to feel pain, than nothing at all" are the words in the song.

I have felt nothing for so long that pain would be an improvement.

[spare_change]

Aww Spare, doesn't life just suck sometimes.

Ever heard that song by "Three Days Grace" called PAIN. I got it for the ringback on my phone. "It is better to feel pain, than nothing at all" are the words in the song.

I have felt nothing for so long that pain would be an improvement.


Exactly! I spent 30 years feeling nothing -- until one day, a wonderful lady opened my eyes, opened my world, and made me realize just exactly what I was missing. Now, I seek out relationships to fill my voids, to remind me of what it feels like. And, when they are over, my pain is real and visceral, but it serves to remind me that I am alive - both physically and emotionally. Sometimes, that's the only way to know.

[Penny]

Ive done it in a threesome

[OccassionalFun]

I voted Yes - I think it would be fun for her and an ego trip for me if a very special married friend that we both trusted pleasured her on rare occasions - but preferably with all spouses watching. It would be just so fun to see how long another man could handle her and also to watch his wife go through the spectrum of emotional responses (e.g. levels of jealousy, cheering for her side, excitement, and wondering if he enjoys my wife more than her).

But as her best friend I'd also me OK with letting her out alone on rare occasions. She would have to maintain a low and "smart" profile in public (we are well known in the community), be discreet, sensible (never meet at our home or give personal data), maintained high standards and it must be for nothing but her physical enjoyment. I told her the guy must be a stud, intelligent, classy and a social peer. I don't want no buss boys, burger flippers, lowly middle managers or sleazy attorneys bragging they scored with her. :D

But she tells me she is not really interested in much of this. So far she only let one close friend finger her for a few minutes in front of his wife but got cold-feet and backed out when he tried to mount her. Pity too since his wife was getting excited by it too and starred playing with me as she watched it all.

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[OccassionalFun]

Ive done it in a threesome
MFM, FFF or FFM ? And if he was not one of the "M"s did you have his permission?

By the way that is I think the best avatar you have had up. Beautiful!

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[MIGHTY]

I think mine would definitely say no, which is to be expected. If he did feel otherwise then I would question the extent of his relationship with his "others". Sometimes though I wish we could just both be honest with eachother. There is a reason that he refuses to satisfy me anymore and if he would just admit to why then we could stop this charade and close this chapter in our lives with maturity and dignity. Until then I guess I'll settle for wishful thinking and pretend that things between he and I have not changed after all......

[w9kw]

ahhh i still say one cant help it and two cant hurt it. Hell if i want to mess around i guess its ok for the wife to. only fair

[flamengo130]

well put w9kw. it's not a single standard world anymore. sex is just that..sex. hopefully the relationship is strong enough to realize that

[SaugusSlipknot]

I think it is fine as long as you can be man enough

[ethans_so_bad]

I doubt I could get mine to, she wont even do that with me. Hey! Wait a minute............................

[fire11614]

sure as long as i can watch

[northernvam]

sure as long as i can watch

Yeah, but what perspective would you like ...

Would it be 12" away, 3 ft away, or 12 feet away?

Perhaps by remote camera, like on Candid Camera?

[fire11614]

Yeah, but what perspective would you like ...

Would it be 12" away, 3 ft away, or 12 feet away?

Perhaps by remote camera, like on Candid Camera?

in the room with a camera

[northernvam]

Ive done it in a threesome

And? Was it worth doing again?

[OccassionalFun]

I doubt I could get mine to, she wont even do that with me. Hey! Wait a minute............................

haha - too funny.

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[w9kw]

ahhh its just sex and my relationship is strong we know who we are going home with

[MCat]

So well put... but damn... I'm out of rep!

We'll just have to reward him with a bit of titillation and tomfoolery :dd

[MCat]

Well I guess it's the same thing as her having an affair. Keep it quiet and don't let him interfere with our personal lives. maybe she is. She hardly sleeps with me......

You're so cute and you have that big boat and all.....what's up with that? Is she nuts :sc

[tiger50]

We'll just have to reward him with a bit of titillation and tomfoolery :dd

WTF?? theres rewards goin around??????:sc

[MCat]

WTF?? theres rewards goin around??????:sc

:kk :dd There's a couple for you ...

[hoss]

Hey Traxster ....read my lips ......................

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !!!!!!!!!!!!!

[midwestcouple]

I was curious about men's sentiments on actually sanctioning or permitting letting their woman sleep with another man. I know that most of us would have absolutely no problem letting our spouses or girlfriends sleep with another woman (since its erotic and not threatening) but what about a man? Would you if she was discreet and there were some ground rules to follow?

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If she would let me then I would have no problems letting her have the same. As long as we are both in an agreement with it.

[lovessexx]

i think deep down a part of my would.....i have a fantasy about watching her with another man..but of course she doesnt know that.

[Outta]

maybe with Rob't Redford for a million buck

[lookin4more]

Hmmm. I may have clicked on a vote too soon. Voted for the fourth answer, but it's more like a combo of the second and fourth.

[jellyjar]

I think mine would definitely say no, which is to be expected. If he did feel otherwise then I would question the extent of his relationship with his "others". Sometimes though I wish we could just both be honest with eachother. There is a reason that he refuses to satisfy me anymore and if he would just admit to why then we could stop this charade and close this chapter in our lives with maturity and dignity. Until then I guess I'll settle for wishful thinking and pretend that things between he and I have not changed after all......

damn...i wanna fly up there and give you a hug

[jellyjar]

i have no interest in my wife banging another dude....

[w9kw]

yelp she lets me so i let her

[wwwdodgeit]

yes she has , but i have too , it goes 2 ways , what ever she does i can do if i want and the same for her

[freestyle99]

I am very open to it. The older I get, the more it seems like the act itself should be looked at as a source of pleasure, not a cause of jealousy. We only live once and why not take the time to occasionally have a little outside fun. That being said, I truly don't know if my wife would ever go for it. She always says she just wants to do it with me, no one else. We are both very clean and completely disease free so I guess that would be one significant concern for us.

[veronica]

Please don't ask hubby that, cause I have plans..............

[w9kw]

well yes my wife can sleep with other men and i sleep with other gals and if they are married thats even bettter

[SexyCowgirl]

My husband would be a definate no.

I would, if he would let me, just to see what other men are like. I figure it is like anything else, probably basically the same, but the subtle differences would be fun to find.............

But, I know my husband feels that if I were given a chance to do that with someone else, that I would leave him. He does not understand that if sex were the only thing we had together, I woulda hit the road a long time ago. I am with him for many reasons, and will/would stay with him for those, regardless of how enjoyable a short excursion into another mans bed might be.
As a side note, he also refuses to bring me home any girls, for the same reason! lol! But, over the years, he is getting better and feels less vunerable. Perhaps one day........

[living to Flirt]

My husband would be a definate no.

I would, if he would let me, just to see what other men are like. I figure it is like anything else, probably basically the same, but the subtle differences would be fun to find.............

But, I know my husband feels that if I were given a chance to do that with someone else, that I would leave him. He does not understand that if sex were the only thing we had together, I woulda hit the road a long time ago. I am with him for many reasons, and will/would stay with him for those, regardless of how enjoyable a short excursion into another mans bed might be.
As a side note, he also refuses to bring me home any girls, for the same reason! lol! But, over the years, he is getting better and feels less vunerable. Perhaps one day........


At 21 you have lots of time left to train him... Not sure why he would be worried thou.

[howie69]

would not bother me. her idea of sex is two OTHER people doing it. I have on many occassions, some signle, some married and the husbnads did not care. in fact a fe said they liked the idea because she would not be bothering them for sex. they do have the wrong idea.

If she wants too, I do not care.

[living to Flirt]

I think mine would definitely say no, which is to be expected. If he did feel otherwise then I would question the extent of his relationship with his "others". Sometimes though I wish we could just both be honest with eachother. There is a reason that he refuses to satisfy me anymore and if he would just admit to why then we could stop this charade and close this chapter in our lives with maturity and dignity. Until then I guess I'll settle for wishful thinking and pretend that things between he and I have not changed after all......


Has either of you even approached the subject? EVen skirting it? Maybe you should start it as a hypothetial question?

[MysteryLaidee]

maybe with Rob't Redford for a million buck

I would need time to raise the money!!!:D

[living to Flirt]

lol

[cherokeered]

If i had a woman......no

[living to Flirt]

If i had a woman......no

Why not?!

[speed_raycer]

interesting question. There is not an answer that applies to me. It would be: No, because there's no way she'd ever think of doing that and if I brought it up, she'd kill me, cut me into pieces, and kill me again.

[Frenchie]

No good poll answers for me either but I'm a yes but...


I'm a yes to a fantasy or something she would like to try, treesome or what ever MMF or MFF witch I doubt would happend since I know she's not into girls, my only rule is the other guy needs to have as much respect for her as I do.

Nothing wrong with having fun, if she wants to get freaky then I'm cool with it, you only live once and if you get a chance to do something you always wanted or someone! You should do it. My position as her partner is to help her acheive the most she can out of her life not stick a fork in her dreams cause I deam her "My" property. I didnt by her at wallmart and understand that she might have some fantasy's as she grows as a women and want to be there for her.

She knows how I feel about it.

[flamengo130]

No good poll answers for me either but I'm a yes but...


I'm a yes to a fantasy or something she would like to try, treesome or what ever MMF or MFF witch I doubt would happend since I know she's not into girls, my only rule is the other guy needs to have as much respect for her as I do.

Nothing wrong with having fun, if she wants to get freaky then I'm cool with it, you only live once and if you get a chance to do something you always wanted or someone! You should do it. My position as her partner is to help her acheive the most she can out of her life not stick a fork in her dreams cause I deam her "My" property. I didnt by her at wallmart and understand that she might have some fantasy's as she grows as a women and want to be there for her.

She knows how I feel about it.

Sounded like the correct answer to me!

[mrh50]

interesting question. There is not an answer that applies to me. It would be: No, because there's no way she'd ever think of doing that and if I brought it up, she'd kill me, cut me into pieces, and kill me again.

good answer i am really the same way.

[looking4agoodtime]

Sure..If she wants more than what I give her..as long as she tells me all the details!!!!!

[peaches]

well put w9kw. it's not a single standard world anymore. sex is just that..sex. hopefully the relationship is strong enough to realize that
Awwww, but is your relationship with your wife strong enough to with hold that?

[peaches]

Sounded like the correct answer to me!
I would love to hear your fantasy some time....

[flamengo130]

I would love to hear your fantasy some time....

Peaches, I would probably just bore you...but since you asked...how about in june?

[w9kw]

Awwww, but is your relationship with your wife strong enough to with hold that?yelp neither one of us going anywhere deeply in love just like to swing once in while and i have here permission as long as im safe. :knuddel:

[DeTazMan]

I would say yes. My relationship is strong enough and I think variety may make what we have even stronger

[Outta]

Yeh, it's like credit and debit memos. She gets a night with a man, I get one with a woman.

[AffableOne]

Other than my spouse, no woman has taken a vow for me...


With the one I love...

I believe in freedom ....

I have no ability, desire, or right, to try to control her...

How we use our freedom defines us...

if she chose to use her freedom that way....

that would be her choice, and her right...

I know she would be open about it....

It is not something I should worry about...

I would rather concentrate on enjoying what we have...

Celebrate and savor the beautiful relationship we share...

[sawflyman]

You know I thank I would. It would be beautiful to see her having pleasure. It would have to be someone she & I would be comfortable with. and I would have to be present

[Sweetdreams069]

I think it totally depends on the relationship. My wife and I have never had any real open type of relationship so something like that would be out of the question. But personally, in my next relationship I'd like to find someone who was open, commited and in love with me enough to not really be interested in something like that. But as we grew and became lifelong partners, was open and trusting enough in me to be able to express her desires should they arise. I probably would love to have a somewhat swinging lifestyle but it would take some time first for a new relationship to build to that point and be stable enough with it. As far as the sex part goes, I was in a threesome already and would love to do it again. And it's also not fair for a guy to have several partners and not a girl. It's a big male ego thing.

[RedVixen]

Interesting subject. I don't think my husband would go for it. He's shall we say a control freak. I think he'd keel over if he actually seen me doing it with another guy....hmmm that might not be such a bad idea ;)

[Big O]

If I had a condition where I couldn't have sex anymore, then maybe yes.

[roadie4us]

I would and have in the past. Past experience is limited but all and all it went very well..........for both of us.

[Alonelyboy4u]

she would never go for it. Ive asked. Won't let me bring a girl home either.

[MIGHTY]

Well, he told me that I can "bring someone in" once in a while to sate me if needed.....does that count?

[Cotties]

if being sated is anything like getting a pickled sandwich...then yesWell, he told me that I can "bring someone in" once in a while to sate me if needed.....does that count?...damn is that really the past tense for sate

[MIGHTY]

if being sated is anything like getting a pickled sandwich...then yes...damn is that really the past tense for sate

If a pickled sanwhich is anything like a threesome.....then that is not what he was implying.

[cherokeered]

Why not?!


Because i don't share.............:)

[JCcanU]

I would have said yes why not . Im a verry open lover if I know what shes doing its a lot better then her hideing it from me

[Wil]

at least I'd know one of us was getiing some...:nu

[sexntexx]

I would if it were part of a swinging thing with another couple that we were both attracted to.

[unctarheel_32]

no i dont think so

[yaser]

I am conservative..

[Han Solo]

Don't think so

[fire11614]

if u can talk her into it

[hi_im_new]

i would have to say no, however i was slapped with a huge rule when i met my partner 4 years ago that if i ever slept with anyone else i would lose a certain area :cry:(we havnt even slept together yet..)

so really we treat each other the same way

[IMaLady]

Hubby gave me the oppertunity a few months ago to be with a male friend of ours. We were all really drunk and I declind thinking that if I had he would see as cheating even though he had told me too. He is jealous if another man even looks at me so I can only imagine what he would have felt or said after if I had slept with the other man.

[scottd]

i would if with another couple, have to be someone close though

[Phlirt]

Been there, done that, all with consent :D

[scottd]

interesting ;)

Been there, done that, all with consent :D

[yaser]

Hubby gave me the oppertunity a few months ago to be with a male friend of ours. We were all really drunk and I declind thinking that if I had he would see as cheating even though he had told me too. He is jealous if another man even looks at me so I can only imagine what he would have felt or said after if I had slept with the other man.
Lady, have you slept with the man?

[IMaLady]

Lady, have you slept with the man?


No I have not.

[yaser]

No I have not.
Did you want? :lf

[IMaLady]

Did you want? :lf


Not really sure. I had never really thought about being with him before that night and now I really dont know if I would want to or not.

[Phlirt]

Not really sure. I had never really thought about being with him before that night and now I really dont know if I would want to or not.

Being drunk inhibits you, makes you think you want people you normally wouldn't. Hence the appeal of drinking. Been with a few guys myself that I questioned the next day lol.

[yaser]

Not really sure. I had never really thought about being with him before that night and now I really dont know if I would want to or not.
Do you cheat if you found an opportunity which is irresistable?I would...if you were in the opportunity..

[IMaLady]

Being drunk inhibits you, makes you think you want people you normally wouldn't. Hence the appeal of drinking. Been with a few guys myself that I questioned the next day lol.



Which is why only get drunk when hubby is around.

[Phlirt]

Heh, good plan. My hubby is always there, so same here I guess.

[IMaLady]

Do you cheat if you found an opportunity which is irresistable?I would...if you were in the opportunity..



I have not cheated on hubby yet and dont think I would.

[GeekMaster]

We could send him on some errands... about 2 hours worth??:lf Heh, good plan. My hubby is always there, so same here I guess.

[yaser]

Heh, good plan. My hubby is always there, so same here I guess.
Because he knows his wife well.

[Phlirt]

Yeah good luck with that... he has a hard time letting me go to my annual doctor visit, he thinks I'm an extension of him or something. It wouldn't be a bad thing if I felt the same way, but dam that man smothers me lol.

Yeah, someone has to be the sacrificial lamb and take him out to play golf or something while Ima and I dance.

[IMaLady]

and dont forget yaser is watching.

[Phlirt]

yes, can't forget that.

[yaser]

Yeah good luck with that... he has a hard time letting me go to my annual doctor visit, he thinks I'm an extension of him or something. It wouldn't be a bad thing if I felt the same way, but dam that man smothers me lol.

Yeah, someone has to be the sacrificial lamb and take him out to play golf or something while Ima and I dance.
Honey alchohol is an excuse for you I believe..You want to cheat but look for a good excuse..

[Phlirt]

noooo I don't seriously want to cheat, I can't deal with guilt lol. I'd end up telling him.

[yaser]

and dont forget yaser is watching.
Lady, I was thinking that you wre not jealous..

[GaMan]

No way. If she does, I don't ever want to know or find out!

[IMaLady]

Lady, I was thinking that you wre not jealous..



I am not jealous at all.

[yaser]

I am not jealous at all.
Then let take off all of clothes..I want to see her body if it is a fit one?

[Phlirt]

Getting fitter everyday :P

[yaser]

Getting fitter everyday :P
Your body is good one I hope..Boobs are medium, small or large?Waist is thin enough?Ass is big ?

[Phlirt]

boobs are handfuls, I do have a waist, and I have a butt that Sir Mix A Lot would love.

[hi_im_new]

boobs are handfuls, I do have a waist, and I have a butt that Sir Mix A Lot would love.

sounds interesting :whee::D

[yaser]

boobs are handfuls, I do have a waist, and I have a butt that Sir Mix A Lot would love.
But again I must have a photograph of full body..But you must reach to 150..I cannot imagince without seeing and touching..and smelling.. :lf

[Phlirt]

Lol, I'll post a pic as soon as I can, at 150 posts, or 500 whatever it is.

[yaser]

Lol, I'll post a pic as soon as I can, at 150 posts, or 500 whatever it is.
I am trying to help you becaue of that fact..I want to se your pic..

[Phlirt]

in time, have patience :P

[yaser]

in time, have patience :P
Patience is good if the reward is worth to it..

[sawflyman]

she would never go for it.

[thickitalian]

OF...get your nose out of those fantasy X-Rated stories.....silly question and do you truly believe those who say yes?



I was curious about men's sentiments on actually sanctioning or permitting letting their woman sleep with another man. I know that most of us would have absolutely no problem letting our spouses or girlfriends sleep with another woman (since its erotic and not threatening) but what about a man? Would you if she was discreet and there were some ground rules to follow?

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[Phlirt]

OF...get your nose out of those fantasy X-Rated stories.....silly question and do you truly believe those who say yes?

My husband has let me and even incouraged me. So they are out there.

[sawflyman]

My husband has let me and even incouraged me. So they are out there.

Did you ask him if he cared or did he bring it up. and are they people you know or strangers

[Phlirt]

He brought it up, was a fantasy of his, and some we knew others we didn't.

[sawflyman]

did he watch or let you tell him about it later

[Phlirt]

Sorry took so long, actually got busy... yes he watched.

[Sneaky]

I was curious about men's sentiments on actually sanctioning or permitting letting their woman sleep with another man. I know that most of us would have absolutely no problem letting our spouses or girlfriends sleep with another woman (since its erotic and not threatening) but what about a man? Would you if she was discreet and there were some ground rules to follow?
Yeah, I'm sure there are men out there like this, but I have not met one that would be ok with his wife having sex with someone else.

[hoss]

I think i said this before ...NO !!!

ok now theres 30 guys pouting here ,,,sorry men ...Mommas girlie things are for the Hoss only ...

Well except till she gives me my medication and i go to sleep ...god knows what she gets up to after that ...or should that be who she gets up .....

[Sweetdreams069]

I think I'm really up in the air about this. It would definately depend on how she felt about it and what her needs and desires were. I very much want an open relationship. One where we would both be happy with what the other one wanted and both were comfortable with whatever the other one wanted. But at the same time were willing to be honest and aware of the other person's feelings about the subject and not hurt each other no matter what. So I guess it would depend on her and what she wanted. I don't think there should be any difference in whether the man does it with another woman or the woman does it with another man. Same rules should apply for both whatever they may be.

[Cotties]

In my fantasies thats a big yes...In reality..I would but they wouldn't be allowed to give my wife back if they slept with her

[MCat]

In my fantasies thats a big yes...In reality..I would but they wouldn't be allowed to give my wife back if they slept with her

I think you and Hank have compared notes.....:55

[Han Solo]

Hey, if I'm not getting any....why should anyone else...so that would be a no!:lmao

[Cotties]

I would prefer to exchange pics with himI think you and Hank have compared notes.....:55

[MCat]

I would prefer to exchange pics with him

You mean exchange pictures of your wives....:D

[Cotties]

maybe just compare pics instead of exchanging so we don't blow that trust thing the wifes seems to think is so sacredYou mean exchange pictures of your wives....:D

[Guymisseswife]

If anyone needs any pictures of their wife let me know i will send them to you. LOL just kidding

[MCat]

If anyone needs any pictures of their wife let me know i will send them to you. LOL just kidding

You said you weren't gonna tell....;)

[Guymisseswife]

Oopd, yes, i have none ;)

[mrdiscreet]

I have fantasies of a strqanger with her, but in real life it would ruin us i think

[northernvam]

Only if I could watch and participate ... and it was a fantasy of hers. My fantasy has always been to hold my lover in my arms, play with her breasts, while another man either went down on her or had intercourse with her.

[wall-flower]

No way would my hubby let that happen. He even told me he would not share me with another female.

[ldon]

I would say yes but with ground rules. Good way to loose a spouse.

[Frenchie]

No way would my hubby let that happen. He even told me he would not share me with another female.

Dang....

My wife tell's me she wants to hook up with a female friend I want to atleast watch!!! please dear lord!! let me watch!!!

I'de go nuts, he'll I'm already nuts but that would be like over the edge Wow someone tie me down nuts!!!

If they pinch my nipples I'll streak my street up and down 3 times

Sorry got carried away...

[wall-flower]

Dang....

My wife tell's me she wants to hook up with a female friend I want to atleast watch!!! please dear lord!! let me watch!!!

I'de go nuts, he'll I'm already nuts but that would be like over the edge Wow someone tie me down nuts!!!

If they pinch my nipples I'll streak my street up and down 3 times

Sorry got carried away...

Yes hubby would be there. I told him that. He still said no.

[Frenchie]

Yes hubby would be there. I told him that. He still said no.

*Bows head in shame*

Cant beleive a member of my gender would say no...

Well I guess we cant all be freaky! lol

[Willy S]

I'd shake their hand and wish them luck.

[Sabrina]

I'd shake their hand and wish them luck.

I knew you would say something like that! :lmao

[Willy S]

They'd need the encouragement - and the luck.

[Sabrina]

They'd need the encouragement - and the luck.

and then you would be free to play!!:D

[Willy S]

and then you would be free to play!!:D

hmmm .. hadn't thought of that (really) - but yeah .. Freedom!

[Sabrina]

hmmm .. hadn't thought of that (really) - but yeah .. Freedom!

:smdance:

[wall-flower]

*Bows head in shame*

Cant beleive a member of my gender would say no...

Well I guess we cant all be freaky! lol

OMG LOL I know. My jaw hit the floor when he told me. I was dumbfounded.

[Frenchie]

OMG LOL I know. My jaw hit the floor when he told me. I was dumbfounded.

You know it's typical, if you can get it you dont want it lol

Crazyness!

[unctarheel_32]

no i wouldn't do all that,but if she wanted to do another woman while i watch would be kool.

[p.J]

no i wouldn't do all that,but if she wanted to do another woman while i watch would be kool.

:D so predictable!!

[unctarheel_32]

yea I am,but being serious I love my gf and I am the only one that she wants,thats what she tells me.

[p.J]

yea I am,but being serious I love my gf and I am the only one that she wants,thats what she tells me.

Tells you! mmmmmmm! :sc Ok Ok I am playing devils advocate!! :kk

[gspotlover]

She (we) have... we done MFM's and FMF's. It's been awhile, but I'd do it again.

[sweetnspicy]

hubby wants me too.

So to you babe, if i get to the other side of the world, it will happen, if you want it too!!

:sng:sng

[gspotlover]

hubby wants me too.

So to you babe, if i get to the other side of the world, it will happen, if you want it too!!

:sng:sng

If you're ever in Texas..... :dl

[mrbill1977]

Maybe if it were another straight couple and I did the other woman.

[Actually]

Yes. Maybe it would help her see how good she has it. : ) I don't mean to brag.

Seriously, I kind of wish she knew how good I treat her. And it might cause her to let loose a little more.

[Shawn_N_Sandiego]

Yes. Maybe it would help her see how good she has it. : ) I don't mean to brag.

Seriously, I kind of wish she knew how good I treat her. And it might cause her to let loose a little more.

Something tells me you may get a few volunteers from here:ok


As for me HELL NO.... Shawn does not share, Shawn does not play well with others.... and Shawn surely is not getting any why should i help someone else?:nopity

[partydude]

its a fantasy

[MSU]

Well, I would never suggest. If she said she wanted to, if it truly made her happy, I would allow her to. I wouldn't like it, but I'd do it.

[92115guy]

I don't think that it is a matter of "letting" someone do something is it? I mean if your wife (or husband) wants to sleep with someone else then they will.

james

[gatorgal]

i wouldnt want to, just hope he doesnt

[Hotshotfireguy]

i wouldnt want to, just hope he doesnt


Nope, I'm perfectly happy

[gatorgal]

Nope, I'm perfectly happy

good... cuz id hate to kick your butt!!:nu :sng

[SunnyD]

Well I'm thinking if I wanted to I am probably not going to apply for consent first, lol.

[fly]

Well I'm thinking if I wanted to I am probably not going to apply for consent first, lol.


LOL...........yeah.:ok

[sexytiger]

I just look at it this way... If she wants me she will come back and I don't control her life anyway.

[Wil]

Sure, why not...I'd like to know she is getting it from someone...

[MarkmyWords]

We have discussed it, and she knows she can do anything she wants to sexually. All I ask is that it's not behind my back. Hopefully she will take me up on the offer one day.

[Nomad(m)]

Sure, why not...I'd like to know she is getting it from someone...

I agree 100% Might help matters too. You know the saying, "Whats good for the goose....."

[countrygent07]

After all, she won't sleep with me.

[bigwazoo]

My husband has let me and even incouraged me. So they are out there.
Lucky guy, still working on her to make the leap.

[Constance]

Wow, I am really shocked at the men that would let their wife sleep with someone else. I mean and no that she is. You guys are pretty generous. I guess women are more selfish. We don't share on purpose anyway.

[MrHyde]

Homey don't play that. I am a greedy muthafucka like that.

[bigdealn1]

I would if she kept the bar at a high standard. I would also require the freedome to do the same.

[mer]

Homey don't play that. I am a greedy muthafucka like that.

so does that go for vaginas too!! :(

[MrHyde]

so does that go for vaginas too!! :(

Hmmmmmm...that depends...

[mer]

Hmmmmmm...that depends...


depends on what?:sc just seein what my odds are thats all!

[jmsmith12345]

Long answer: That vagina is a reserved parking spot for one penis only, and since I have the parking permit, I will flatten the tires on any SOB that tries it.

Short answer: NO!!!

[MrHyde]

depends on what?:sc just seein what my odds are thats all!

LOL....sorry, even for you( am I really saying this)....it's off limits...I'm greedy I tell you....Now maybe some playfuly kissing...that could work.

[mer]

LOL....sorry, even for you( am I really saying this)....it's off limits...I'm greedy I tell you....Now maybe some playfuly kissing...that could work.

ok,ok...i'll take what i can get.....lmvo!! :sng

[Hotliz]

i don't think my husband would care but i think he would want to be in on it in some way, shape or form....

[MarkmyWords]

i don't think my husband would care but i think he would want to be in on it in some way, shape or form....

That's fair Liz, I don't mind if he's there with us ; )

[Hotliz]

That's fair Liz, I don't mind if he's there with us ; )
hey babe, sounds good to me too....

[bigwazoo]

Can I watch to?

[Hotliz]

of course....

[bigwazoo]

thanks

[Hotliz]

my pleasure

[YourAssMyHand]

Hell no, if I had anything to do with it.

[nugnugwinkwink]

why not ,,,,,,at least I'd know she actually wanted some

[OnceAKing]

I've thought about it a lot...the what if she ever asked thing...wow, I just don't know what I'd say after it got to where I could speak again. I realize that there's absolutely nothing I could do about it if she wanted to and that makes me want to say "No" but "ok" if you must, just know that when you do that something in me will be dying. I can't and I'm not going to spend my days and nights trying to prevent it even if it was possible to. On the other hand, while I've not always lived it myself, I believe it is a very intimate thing that should only be shared between us. Yes, others can share in her humor, beauty, sexiness, company, etc. ...all the other things but that. Sex, in my opinion, should be the one thing we and we alone share with each other. I'd want to be open to talk about it but I know in my mind that even the mention would bring about questions deep in my mind that would probably never go away and I just know, no matter how hard I tried, that it would affect our long term relationship. The trust issue would be out the window. Maybe it's the kid in me but there's some things I'd rather just not have to face or think about...This is way high on that list! Even just the thoughts required in posting this bring about feelings and thoughts I would rather not stirr up...She should know that if I ever said yes, our days together would most likely be numbered. Well shit...who's got some Xanax?

[one4thezipper]

I definitely would like to watch my wife have sex with another guy. I believe she would go for it if the guy was well endowed.......

[coug511]

Nothing like sharing the wealth. Am not the jealous type so heck yes

[gr8doods]

knee jerk answer is NO, but then again, never was in the situation to even discuss it

[sfcalguy]

There are many men who want a "hot wife," i.e., a wife who sleeps with others. The husband may participate, or may simply enjoy hearing the details later.

I am most definitely a man with this fantasy.

[PABrewpubGuy]

I'd kinda just prefer to nail a few of her friends, not all of them, but a few who seem to be strongly sexual, from my perceptive observations. Or was that the beer fogging my perceptions once again?

[bigdealn1]

Yep, as long as I could do the same,

[Jelly]

If he would "let" me .. then I wouldn't be his woman anymore

[Xanadu7]

If she wants another man, then I'm gone. End of story. What the fuck are you lookin at?

[UnknownOnPurpose]

I think I would consider it and probably let her. But i'd rather have another couple than just another dude.

[FeIsTy FaV]

Yankee?

[Yankee]

Ummmmm . . . you know how I feel baby.

Your ass is mine. :)

[FeIsTy FaV]

Ummmmm . . . you know how I feel baby.

Your ass is mine. :)
I kinda thought that's what you would say :)

[Yankee]

I kinda thought that's what you would say :)

You're NOT sharing me either.

He's yours.

[scobbydoo]

Maybe,but I also would rather it be with another couple,,:sc

[curiousnate98]

I wouldn't want her to do it with another man, but I would gladly see her with another woman!

[learman3]

Any man that wants her can have her....sure would make it a lot easier for me.

[acermale]

No way!

[Roblookingforfun]

I can't be a hypocrite. I would love to have sex with another woman. She could do another guy but yes, i would want high standards. Good looking guy with a big cock.

[tonyporter20]

I wouldn't mind a threesome with another guy if that's what the wife wanted; think I'd quite enjoy that too. The only thing that would bug me would be that this 'other' guy would be getting her for free whereas I've had a lifetime of work, bills and chores to keep my wife !

[sandycrotch]

No, sorry, I'm selfish that way

[bigdealn1]

I would let her

[One Song Hero]

I believe in monogamy, but I also have an open mind. I guess most firmly I believe in fairplay, if either one of us is allowed, we both should be. [Not both with men, of course.]

[redcat]

My hub and I have talked about this quite a bit. He says that if it made me happy, that's what he wants for me, as long as I come home to him and we maintain our life. Which is what I want anyway...so it could be possible.

[disturbiagirl]

There is no way my hubby would agree to me sleeping with another man!!! He has told me on numerous ocassions

[Hunting4fun09]

No way, That would make me way to uncomfortable...she can have a girlfriend of course but no boyfriend....

[redcat]

No way, That would make me way to uncomfortable...she can have a girlfriend of course but no boyfriend....


Why is that, Hunt? Do guys feel a sense of threat at that thought, yet not if their wife/gf has a girlfriend? I understand the "comparison" thing, but if your wife was inclined to be with a woman...couldn't there be a comparison made there, also?

[BlueEyedMale40]

My hub and I have talked about this quite a bit. He says that if it made me happy, that's what he wants for me, as long as I come home to him and we maintain our life. Which is what I want anyway...so it could be possible.
Hmmm..... nice to meet you Red. Maybe we could make purple passion yet. :ok

[hotandbothered(m)]

I ve thought about it alot and im still not sure. I know she has lost interest in me. It would make me feel better if she was sleeping with another man. I know thats crazy but we were both virgins when we met. Maybe she feels like she missed something somewhere along the way. I just want her to be happy. I might be o.k. with it if it was with a good guy who knew how to please her. Evidently its not me. i dont want to watch either. i'd rather them keep it to themselves.

[NurseDude66]

Would I "LET" her? No. But at this point, I think we can adopt the "dont ask/dont tell" policy. If she is smart and safe, I'd rather not know.

[RB3350]

No I would not let her do another guy.

[Vampireskiss]

I was curious about men's sentiments on actually sanctioning or permitting letting their woman sleep with another man. I know that most of us would have absolutely no problem letting our spouses or girlfriends sleep with another woman (since its erotic and not threatening) but what about a man? Would you if she was discreet and there were some ground rules to follow?

OF
After 15 yrs of marriage...If he wants her...he can have her, but...I get to tell him all about her and what he has in store for him once she's his...I see that motherfucker running through thing's to get away and never looking back...:wy

[disturbiagirl]

Well apparently I was wrong...funny the difference a month will make. Hhhhmmmm

[wisconsin(m)]

can't believe I am posting this.....

Yes I did.... I allowed her to spend a night with another man, that is what she desired, we were virgins when we married and she just wanted to feel the passion of another man. All her love is mine, I gave her this experience because I loved her. And yes, high standards were a must. Clean, professional man. No std's, and lived far enough away to not be available often. Now she says it is my turn.... WHAT IS A GUY TO DO???

[disturbiagirl]

can't believe I am posting this.....

Yes I did.... I allowed her to spend a night with another man, that is what she desired, we were virgins when we married and she just wanted to feel the passion of another man. All her love is mine, I gave her this experience because I loved her. And yes, high standards were a must. Clean, professional man. No std's, and lived far enough away to not be available often. Now she says it is my turn.... WHAT IS A GUY TO DO???

Would it be inappropriate for me to jump up and down screaming "pick me...pick me"? just asking...............

[cyclops]

can't believe I am posting this.....

Yes I did.... I allowed her to spend a night with another man, that is what she desired, we were virgins when we married and she just wanted to feel the passion of another man. All her love is mine, I gave her this experience because I loved her. And yes, high standards were a must. Clean, professional man. No std's, and lived far enough away to not be available often. Now she says it is my turn.... WHAT IS A GUY TO DO???

Well I'm a clean professional man with no std's and I live far away.

Call me :ok

[theGardener]

I would not be offended if my wife had sex with another guy. It would be one of the few times since we got married that I she will actually have been horny. It might spill into our relationship, which would be a welcome thing. If it doesn't, I have not lost much, because we are married for other reasons. Otherwise we would have divorced long ago. I would want it to be with someone we could trust. She knows I would accept her doing it, but she is not interested. We once talked about it when she was reacting to my interest in other women. It is frustrating how sex is a chore and a service call in our marriage for her, but she doesn't want me to seek sex outside of our marriage. Yet she puts me under constant pressure to indeed seek sex outside of the marriage. One day I may say "enough" and leave. Maybe this could be considered a form of abuse, but I am digressing...

[sebastien]

my soon to be ex , she can have sex with whoever she likes. but sorry any new lover i have is all mine.