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OICurready4me
05-24-2007, 07:28 AM
Have you ever considered going to a Strip Club with your partner?
Tom4u2here
05-24-2007, 09:58 AM
Yes and did it years ago... It was fun back then. The girls paid more attention to her than me. I don't think she would go again.
SaugusSlipknot
05-24-2007, 10:32 AM
My wife and I went several years ago, funny thing when we got to the front door she new the guy checking eveyone in, it was funny. Have never been back together again. LOL
SexyCowgirl
05-24-2007, 11:31 AM
Yeah, we used to go when we were younger pretty often, mainly cause his buddies went and I ahted him trying to use me as an excuse not to go:) He would always say I can't go, the girlfriend won't let me.......
But then I started going without him, so then he went to so he could keep an eye on me! LOL
I went with my best friend once, by ourselves, but lesbians kept hitting on us, kinda freaked us out ( no offence) . They were very, ummm, aggressive? yeah.........
dartgirl
05-24-2007, 01:54 PM
I went to one years ago. I would really like to go again, but do I have to take hubby? I think I would have more fun going with friends. I have always had this fantasy of dancing in one. I think it could be a hoot.
wwwdodgeit
05-24-2007, 02:23 PM
dam guys i was there last week , the Penthouse in east st louis , i love taking ladys
there and sit back and watch , they do alot more to them for a dollar then they do to us , they took one lady up on stage and did a lap dance for her , dam i may need to go back tonight , i dont sit at the stage the girls do and i watch
Amaretto
05-24-2007, 02:31 PM
There was no voting option for "Yes, but it didn't do much for me." That's my voting option.
I found that I felt sorry for the girls who danced there. I ended up befriending one of them, talked with her a while, and gave her encouragement for finding a better future. She cried a little bit and I just hugged her.
That's not a very hot story, is it?
unctarheel_32
05-24-2007, 03:43 PM
I would like 2 take missy 38 2 a strip club 1 tyme just 2 see if she would get really turned on
Good lord yes, a uni-sex strip club! ... in fact it was with a group of friends! I have to admit after seeing a 2 or 3 bouncing todgers we, the ladies, yapped all night... the men well thats a different matter, eyes bulging, and that ain't all!!!
ArizonaDevil
05-24-2007, 04:09 PM
the wife and I went last Friday night...good times!!
Sunfiresix
05-24-2007, 04:45 PM
A long time ago--in the eighties, my wife said can we go to one of those, I had never been and said ok. The drinks were costly, the clientele wasn't the best, the dancers were good and sexy but it's loke going to a zoo to see the animals. you pay look at them then leave. I will say for some reason, and I know my wife wasn't into women but our sex that night was fantastic. Only been once though, that was nuff.
MIGHTY
05-24-2007, 05:03 PM
I went with a good friend, his wife, and my husband for the first time last year. The first one I went to was a complete culture shock to me. This was one of the sleasy ones in which they did EVERYTHING. I was kind of disgusted to be honest. Then, for my b-day, we went to a different one. I loved that club! The women were beautiful, danced with such passion and seduction, and it was the perfect atmosphere. I found myself ( almost ) being talked into a lap dance with my favorite dancer. I wanted to get onstage and have the woman savor my breasts. Was wearing a spaghetti strapped dress, so it would have come right down. I also found myself seductively dancing and hovering over my husband from behind his chair.....would lean over and kiss him...and then sway some more....even do a dip or two. I would definitely go back to that one! Maybe next year......
Speaking of strippers, I was approached by a group of them a few years back and they told me I would have been perfect and that the men would have loved me due to my innocent look and my long hair. Said something about a school girl outfit among others. I thought about it for a while.....but wisely reconsidered. But, would still like to get up there and play with the pole on amateur night......:sc
pointofnoreturn
05-24-2007, 06:48 PM
I went to one years ago. I would really like to go again, but do I have to take hubby? I think I would have more fun going with friends. I have always had this fantasy of dancing in one. I think it could be a hoot.I had the same fantasy. Hubby said no way. there was a fight that night..;)
freestyle99
05-24-2007, 07:07 PM
what ya doing next week Mighty??
MysteryLaidee
05-24-2007, 08:35 PM
It's something I've always wanted to try with my partner...think it would be very erotic and would lead to some amazing sex later that night!
I've been to a strip club before because I had friends that worked there, but it wasn't for a night out; if I told you the real story you'd never believe me,lol. It was one of the really nice clubs so I'd like to try that with him; not sure he'd go for it.
I could see myself really getting into it....up on the dance floor...hmmm not sure....
snowflake
05-24-2007, 08:42 PM
I have been a few times with different people, a couple of those times in Mexico to Boys Town, now that was sleazy.... Have been with hubby, and it was a turn on.. Very good night of sex followed those visits......... :D
scoobertina
05-24-2007, 09:21 PM
I want to go... My hubby promised to take me a long time ago.... and here I am still waiting... Hmmm... might get some friends together and go anyhow.. and I voted also that I would get up on stage too. Wouldn't that be fun?
confusedman
05-24-2007, 09:38 PM
I want to go... My hubby promised to take me a long time ago.... and here I am still waiting... Hmmm... might get some friends together and go anyhow.. and I voted also that I would get up on stage too. Wouldn't that be fun?
oooh ohhh I can be a friend...pick me...pick me! :wa:
I would go to watch....have a few drinks...well 1 drink anyway.
OICurready4me
05-24-2007, 10:39 PM
I went with a good friend, his wife, and my husband for the first time last year. The first one I went to was a complete culture shock to me. This was one of the sleasy ones in which they did EVERYTHING. I was kind of disgusted to be honest. Then, for my b-day, we went to a different one. I loved that club! The women were beautiful, danced with such passion and seduction, and it was the perfect atmosphere. I found myself ( almost ) being talked into a lap dance with my favorite dancer. I wanted to get onstage and have the woman savor my breasts. Was wearing a spaghetti strapped dress, so it would have come right down. I also found myself seductively dancing and hovering over my husband from behind his chair.....would lean over and kiss him...and then sway some more....even do a dip or two. I would definitely go back to that one! Maybe next year......
Speaking of strippers, I was approached by a group of them a few years back and they told me I would have been perfect and that the men would have loved me due to my innocent look and my long hair. Said something about a school girl outfit among others. I thought about it for a while.....but wisely reconsidered. But, would still like to get up there and play with the pole on amateur night......:sc
Well baby....I will let you play with the pole anytime you want with me...amateur night or any night...damn that would be hot to go to a club with you and I would be rooting you on the whole time, you sexy thing...:kk
MIGHTY
05-24-2007, 10:42 PM
Well baby....I will let you play with the pole anytime you want with me...amateur night or any night...damn that would be hot to go to a club with you and I would be rooting you on the whole time, you sexy thing...:kk
You would see me in a whole new light.....:)
OICurready4me
05-24-2007, 10:47 PM
You would see me in a whole new light.....:)
Would I ever....I think they use strobes, right?
lookin4more
05-24-2007, 11:01 PM
I've gone a few times with my wife. Always made for a good time. The most fun we had was the nigh we went with three other couples. One of the other wives got sooo sh!tfaced she started fondling a dancers boob, which I might ad is not permitted. The crowd at the club however went bezerk. Thinking the next move was going to be bouncers grabbing us and ejecting us from the club I was amused that all they did was move a bit closser to the stage to get a better look. Within a few minutes this wife was topless herself on stage licking, sucking, kissing and a whole bunch of fun with the dancer on the big stage. The place went crazy!
dave42
05-25-2007, 01:40 AM
Have you ever considered going to a Strip Club with your partner?Why yes I have, Been there done it. Me and the mrs. used to go to a strip club in Denver that featured topless disco night where the even the customers could go topless. It was so much fun!
surfnchat
05-25-2007, 05:57 PM
I'd love to go, but the wifey would never set foot inside. I think the closest I could get is building a pole in the bedroom. There are companies that do that... :sc
sawflyman
05-25-2007, 06:50 PM
I would love to take my partner to a strip club. if she would go
Well guess i dont get much out of strippers, now seeing a gal in car does alot for me. Guess seeing and not being able to have them is why.
snowflake
05-26-2007, 06:17 AM
Is the gal in the car stripping while yall' are going down the interstate? lol....:D
dlbbld63
05-27-2007, 02:15 AM
I want to go... My hubby promised to take me a long time ago.... and here I am still waiting... Hmmm... might get some friends together and go anyhow.. and I voted also that I would get up on stage too. Wouldn't that be fun?
Here's a standing invite for you, Tina. I'll take you anytime.... ;)
learman3
05-27-2007, 07:58 AM
I have been a few times, only. My wife would be horrifide if I even brought up the subject of her going and probable just a smaller amount upset if I told her I was going to one.
Funny how the years change people, my wifes veiws on sex and sexuality have really really change and not for the good.
OICurready4me
05-27-2007, 09:41 AM
When I get a visit in Sept I think my baby and I will have to take a visit to one. I want to see her reaction and bring out the Mighty in her. I have a feeling I know what that will lead to later on and I am going to be Ready for it. Ok, babe, bring out your best dance moves 'cause this house is gonna be rockin'!
NYCMasterplumber
05-27-2007, 07:41 PM
Been there done that and was fun
shortnsexy
06-04-2007, 03:36 AM
My husband and I have been to strip clubs numerous times and used to go them as a form of recreation. While we were there, we would have conversations about sex that we never would have had sitting at home. It was erotic and yes, I watched the girls too. We both had girls chests in our face at one time or another and had fun with it.I had never been to a strip club before and it was an experience..not a bad one either.
snelson
06-04-2007, 03:16 PM
Wife and I go to clubs several times a year. She quickly found a comfort level and playful touching from the girls. All the women love her breasts and she recently fulfilled a fantasy of having two women, one on each nipple! These visits lead to a lot of hot sex and has opened doors for her to explore an area she had only fantasized about. It is beautiful to share that with her and the excitement she enjoys watching women arouse me.
It pays to check around and find the good clubs, as good times can be had :55
I have been a few times, only. My wife would be horrifide if I even brought up the subject of her going and probable just a smaller amount upset if I told her I was going to one.
Funny how the years change people, my wifes veiws on sex and sexuality have really really change and not for the good.
i think i married ur wifes sister......
nessie
06-04-2007, 03:39 PM
Around here there are few things to do you either play in a corn field or go to the strip clubs...That being said my husband and I have both gone but never together. We have said we were going to, but everytime we agree for that to be the end of the night place to go everyone with us decides on something else and when they decide on there we usually have to get home for something. But we will I am sure and for anyone who has a wife or husband who disagrees with them make sure they realize who you are coming home to.
G...G
06-05-2007, 05:46 PM
I went to one in Atlanta on two different occasions. Both were for bachorlette parties and I had the time of my life. BUT.. when I first got there.. I was so embarrassed because the guys were walking around butt ass naked. They would come sit at the table and talk to you like it was nothing..lol I just wasn't expecting that at all. But after a few drinks, it turned out to be fun.
The way the place was set up was neat. On one side of the stage.. male dancers were doing there thang and on the other side of the stage the female dancers were doing their thang. They have the stage set up so you can see either/or or even both at the same time.
I have tried to talk my ole man into going with me. He hasn't said no but he hasn't said yes...lol There were alot of couples there.
joe43
06-06-2007, 11:25 AM
i agree with the last post. my wife would never go, and I never have yet.
Gray451
06-07-2007, 10:43 PM
I used to bartend in a strip club. It wasn't upscale..and wasn't very nice. The dances did lines of coke between sets...and sometimes each other...at the end of the night they would find some dumb shit to pay for taking them out to an after hours place somewhere else. It is not glamerous...a turn on or anything like that. Just a way to part fools from their money. Of course on ladies night it was the same thing just turned around. Amature night was a hoot too...but amature jack and Jill night was best of all. U would die if u knew how many guys backed out while the women wanted to go on. In fact some goys got tips to put their clothes back on:lmao
My_Secrets_Kept
06-10-2007, 12:34 AM
I have never been to one, but would love to go, hubby has been a couple of times. A couple that we know go a couple of times a year with a group of friends & so I've tried to talk hubby into going with them the next time that they go, but so far he won't give me an answer... I'm willing to try anything once & if I don't like it oh well I just won't go again... Time for me to ask the couple when they are going again & then approach him about it again.
I went to one in Atlanta on two different occasions. Both were for bachorlette parties and I had the time of my life. BUT.. when I first got there.. I was so embarrassed because the guys were walking around butt ass naked. They would come sit at the table and talk to you like it was nothing..lol I just wasn't expecting that at all. But after a few drinks, it turned out to be fun.
The way the place was set up was neat. On one side of the stage.. male dancers were doing there thang and on the other side of the stage the female dancers were doing their thang. They have the stage set up so you can see either/or or even both at the same time.
I have tried to talk my ole man into going with me. He hasn't said no but he hasn't said yes...lol There were alot of couples there.
The men were naked...omg..I would love to go to that one...only been where it's girls...but naked men...:dl that would def be a fun girls night out....Atlanta huh? hmmmm....might need to take a road trip.
pointofnoreturn
06-10-2007, 09:18 PM
We have a strip club for women in MD. The guys were wht ever they are called. I call them floppers. But yah they get pretty rowdy. Hve not been there since sis gotmarried. Oh "The Hanger Club" Pazer the amazer. Beeen there forever....Older now, but very agile....:D
scoobertina
06-10-2007, 09:21 PM
Here's a standing invite for you, Tina. I'll take you anytime.... ;)
Hon you are on.... do I need to come to you or are you coming here?
scoobertina
06-10-2007, 09:22 PM
The men were naked...omg..I would love to go to that one...only been where it's girls...but naked men...:dl that would def be a fun girls night out....Atlanta huh? hmmmm....might need to take a road trip.
Suz, let me know when you are in town... I want to see this place too
Outta
06-10-2007, 10:03 PM
I asked my wife to go many times, as I am quite the connoiseur. But she would never go. The best time I ever had tho was with a female buisness associate who took in the whole thing with a great deal of humor, including getting a lapdance.
midwestcouple
06-10-2007, 10:55 PM
I went to a strip club with a couple of friends then I aked if my wife would like to go as well. She has never been to one before and thought it would be fun and was she right.
AL(m)
06-29-2007, 11:17 AM
Love the strip clubs... wife would never go... did go with a lady from work once.. she got into the girls.. was quite the turn on.. playing into the olde male fantasy of two women... was a wonderful evening.....:D one should always respect the ladies that are willing to take their clothes off to all us perverts...:)
Cotties
06-29-2007, 11:53 AM
when you were younger??...younger that who...lolYeah, we used to go when we were younger pretty often, mainly cause his buddies went and I ahted him trying to use me as an excuse not to go:) He would always say I can't go, the girlfriend won't let me.......
But then I started going without him, so then he went to so he could keep an eye on me! LOL
I went with my best friend once, by ourselves, but lesbians kept hitting on us, kinda freaked us out ( no offence) . They were very, ummm, aggressive? yeah.........
Cotties
06-29-2007, 11:55 AM
I've always tried my best to support single women in the work place.....it gets hard you know
entertaining nite out...but I have shoes older than most of those girls...
RedHotPisces
07-06-2007, 11:04 PM
we are goin next weekend to celebrate a friend/coworkers birthday if anyone wants to join the party :whee:
MIGHTY
07-09-2007, 01:40 PM
we are goin next weekend to celebrate a friend/coworkers birthday if anyone wants to join the party :whee:
Would love to go, but last time I almost ended up on stage......:sc
sawflyman
07-09-2007, 01:49 PM
I love going to strip clubs. I find it enjoyable to look at beautiful women. and I would love for my wife to come and watch with me.
AL(m)
07-09-2007, 03:54 PM
Just love the strip Clubs and nothing is sexier then a lady that will go with you and watch her reaction or the dancer's reaction to her...hmmm yes very sexy......
alex187
08-11-2007, 05:25 PM
i only go alone
oldandnaked
08-12-2007, 09:37 AM
The wife and I went to a couple of the classier ones years ago. I think she went more out of curiousity than anything. We had a friend that danced, an airline hostess that worked in the club part time. She made enough to put an addition on her house in about six months. Personally, if I'm going to be throwing cash at someone, I like to get a little something in return.
onceamarine
08-13-2007, 02:21 PM
I could never talk her into it, but I would be in heaven. Especially if she actually got a lap dance.
Phlirt
08-13-2007, 02:25 PM
I've been with my husband a couple times. He actually bought me a lap dance, it was a ton of fun ;)
My_Secrets_Kept
08-13-2007, 02:26 PM
I could never talk her into it, but I would be in heaven. Especially if she actually got a lap dance.
The opposite here, I think I would enjoy going, but after talking about it a bit with hubby he quickly chose to burry the idea!
onceamarine
08-13-2007, 02:53 PM
The opposite here, I think I would enjoy going, but after talking about it a bit with hubby he quickly chose to burry the idea!
Just let me know if you ever want to go. I would gladly escort you.
My_Secrets_Kept
08-13-2007, 03:00 PM
Just let me know if you ever want to go. I would gladly escort you.
When's the next flight from Kansas? There's a few places near the airport, so I'll pick you up ;)
onceamarine
08-13-2007, 04:49 PM
I am sure there are plenty of flights from Kansas, but where am I flying to?
scottd
08-13-2007, 04:59 PM
id love to go but i could never talk her into it
wall-flower
08-15-2007, 03:33 PM
This is sad...I've never been to any type of bar.
onceamarine
08-15-2007, 03:46 PM
This is sad...I've never been to any type of bar.
Wow, then I suggest your first one be a strip bar. I would even go with.
wall-flower
08-15-2007, 04:12 PM
I married before legal drinking age. My homestate was very uptight about bars. So heard bars were not that fun. I wouldn't mind going to a strip bar. Hey I would willingly take a lap dance.
Big O
08-15-2007, 04:19 PM
I don't go very often. I wind up spending way too much money
onceamarine
08-15-2007, 04:19 PM
I married before legal drinking age. My homestate was very uptight about bars. So heard bars were not that fun. I wouldn't mind going to a strip bar. Hey I would willingly take a lap dance.
You should go and give it a shot. I think you will enjoy it.
oc_guy_32
11-04-2007, 04:42 AM
I haven't been to one since i was 21... total waste of money
Sensual Woman
11-04-2007, 08:30 PM
I married before legal drinking age. My homestate was very uptight about bars. So heard bars were not that fun. I wouldn't mind going to a strip bar. Hey I would willingly take a lap dance.
You don't need a strip club for that, I'll give you one...:dd :D
Sneaky
11-04-2007, 09:39 PM
I've been to one. Had a blast. I would love to go again sometime. Depends on the place though. I don't want to go to a sleazy one.
Vicious305
11-05-2007, 12:23 AM
I've been to one. Had a blast. I would love to go again sometime. Depends on the place though. I don't want to go to a sleazy one.
Lets go then! I went to my first strip club when i was 14 years old lol
Sneaky
11-05-2007, 12:28 AM
Lets go then! I went to my first strip club when i was 14 years old lol
Yeah. Does MOM know? Hm?:nu
Vicious305
11-05-2007, 12:38 AM
Yeah. Does MOM know? Hm?:nu
actually she does now, she found out a year later when i was 15. she said "ROBERT! you are only 15!" took me a while to figure out what she was talking about, then my brother told me she knew. lol
FRMale
11-05-2007, 02:00 AM
Never been to a strip club... I live a few minutes from many. I don't understand giving money to women that can't be touched. the thrill I guess is going home with a high arousal and going crazy with your partner. If there isn't one; then I suppose one would have to climax solo? hehe
Vicious305
11-05-2007, 10:14 AM
Never been to a strip club... I live a few minutes from many. I don't understand giving money to women that can't be touched. the thrill I guess is going home with a high arousal and going crazy with your partner. If there isn't one; then I suppose one would have to climax solo? hehe
Go to miami, they let you touch anythang!
Postman
11-05-2007, 11:42 AM
Oh no just have to go to a little town in the center of Wis.
If you don't touch them they make a fuck.ing scene.
Oh yea great cultural place too nice art work and the decorating it was supurb.
PlayfulMale69
11-05-2007, 12:19 PM
I have always enjoyed going to the classy strip clubs. I enjoyed the lapdances when there is touching.
Huzyerdaddi
11-05-2007, 12:21 PM
I'm not a big fan of "pretended interest".
Why pay someone to act intrested in you?
I'm not a big fan of "pretended interest".
Why pay someone to act intrested in you?
I've been doing that now for 13 years. Unfortunately, she's not a great actress.
Huzyerdaddi
11-05-2007, 12:27 PM
I've been doing that now for 13 years. Unfortunately, she's not a great actress.
LOL....good point!
Strip clubs might be cheaper.
FRMale
11-06-2007, 12:03 AM
My money is well spent at home.... hehehehe
dizzy999
11-07-2007, 11:49 AM
i have yet to go into one. am i the only one that hasn't?
FRMale
11-11-2007, 12:47 PM
i have yet to go into one. am i the only one that hasn't?
no... I thought I was the only one that hasn't been to one...
Cotties
11-11-2007, 12:57 PM
I think you two need to kick in and help support single momsno... I thought I was the only one that hasn't been to one...
Papa Chubby
11-14-2007, 03:00 PM
I would love to go to a strip club with the misses. I think she would also.
Maybe I should try. I could get a blow job in the parking lot if the wife lets her do it to me. (Just Kidding)
inquisitive
01-26-2008, 05:42 PM
Never have been, but I love a womens body, wouldn't mind checking it out one day.
Never have been, but I love a womens body, wouldn't mind checking it out one day.
would love to take u :)
stucknmarriage74(f)
01-27-2008, 11:51 PM
used to work in one they can b quite fun but drink prices r way 2 high!!!!
AL(m)
01-27-2008, 11:52 PM
strip joints can be fun.. and always happy to see the ladies there too....... the ones that come in to watch that is....lol
Jelly
01-28-2008, 12:00 AM
i have yet to go into one. am i the only one that hasn't?
Not the only one! Me neither. Wanna go together???
Jelly
01-28-2008, 12:02 AM
Never have been, but I love a womens body, wouldn't mind checking it out one day.
Vegas Baby Vegas!!!
Let's go, and B can come along too!!!
Iwantutowantme
01-28-2008, 12:05 AM
Been to Vegas........love going to Jubilee's............ or boobalee's.... lol
strip clubs are fun.
duanehofner
01-28-2008, 07:08 AM
Have you ever considered going to a Strip Club with your partner?
Sure! suicide is my favorite passtime!
pagirl
01-28-2008, 08:17 AM
I have been there with my husband...He got turned on when I let one of the girls give me a lap dance...This was many years ago...
househub
01-28-2008, 09:01 AM
yes my frind wants to go and she wants to dance on stage too, i have been maybe 6 times and its not that exciting really, im not into lap dances in a big room full of people
Not the only one! Me neither. Wanna go together???
the 3 of us in vegas...hmmm...better bring bail money....could be bad...
flamengo130
01-28-2008, 10:01 AM
Vegas Baby Vegas!!!
Let's go, and B can come along too!!!
Sounds like fun! Can I come too?
nolefaninal
01-28-2008, 05:44 PM
love going with the wife, but haven't been in a few years.
never went myself , would love to go , wife has gone before
wife wont let me go let alone come along for the ride
Atrebla Rose
02-05-2008, 01:10 PM
Does nothing for me............no problem if hubby goes, I know he will come back to me!
pagirl
02-05-2008, 01:41 PM
wife wont let me go let alone come along for the ride
I was that way at one point but my husband kept lightly suggesting and nudging so I finally decided to give it a try and I enjoyed all of the beautiful women and my husband's reaction when we got back to the hotel. This was many years ago but I would definately go again.
ebony prince
02-05-2008, 02:29 PM
I have gone with my wife and the Ice Princess got pretty turned on by seeing another woman working me over. When we got home she actually put it on me.
almost40soccermom
02-13-2008, 05:25 PM
My husband has taken me to a few
VeryBlueEyes
02-14-2008, 09:04 AM
my wife came one time to get the pay check, she was a little astonished because i told her it as a country westren place. I responded and showed her one of the girls was wearing cowboy boots and a cowboy hat, nothing esle. we have had many good laughs about that since. it was a long time ago.
nugnugwinkwink
09-18-2008, 11:43 AM
they are good sometimes,,,,,,,,, I like the 2 for 1 drinks between 6 and 9 on friday night
92115guy
09-18-2008, 12:11 PM
Strip clubs are really weird places. It would be cool if there was more of a "couples only" one but the regular ones have an air of desperation and depression about them. From a couples perspective it makes a lot of sense to be able to live out on some level the "girl on girl" and "threesome" fantasy on some level without going the whole nine yards. But I don't really get them from a single guy perspective and, frankly, giving a buck to a woman to dance for me seems really cheap to me. I mean I would think that your body would be worth more than a dollar...you can't even get a cup of coffee for a buck anymore.
james
Ottoman
09-18-2008, 12:19 PM
Well, I had a really good experience in Las Vegas. The girl was young and gorgeous and very funny. I told her she didn't have to "perform" for me so we sat and talked for about an hour. It's fun enough to talk to an attractive girl with a sense of humor but when she's topless in a thong and sitting on your lap, well, it's just that much better.
midnightcallerman
09-18-2008, 03:54 PM
Never have been to a strip joint with a female partner.
FizProf
09-18-2008, 07:36 PM
It's much more fun when she does go with me...the dancers flirt with her much more aggresively than they would with a man. And she loved the attention...
Hotliz
09-19-2008, 02:32 PM
i would love to go to a strip club with my husband. we have been talking about it for a long but just haven't made it yet....
Hotliz
09-19-2008, 02:34 PM
i would love to go with my husband to a strip club. we have been talking about it for a long time but just haven't made it yet...
MarkmyWords
09-19-2008, 05:26 PM
I went to one with my wife and two other couples a few years ago. It was a unique situation that will probably never be duplicated again. She felt comfortable going because we were in a group, we were all drinking, and just happened to walk by. That night may have been the best sex of our marriage.
Liz, I would be happy to take you guys to one, who knows...may lead to that other fantasy you've been thinking about...
Krystal
09-19-2008, 05:35 PM
I went once with my husband, a long time ago when he was into sex, LOL. I swear, beside the cover charge, we spent only about $20 in singles. The girls seemed to like me more than they liked him, lol.
He wanted to go back, alone, a few days later....having been there with him, I let him, figuring it was safe enough. He came home pissed at himself for being swindled into paying over $200 for lap dances. The girl complimented him and said he was cute....and he fell for it.
I asked if he got any cuter after he handed over his credit card. He glared at me. Then I asked him "How cute do you feel right now?" :nopity
Just proves that stupidity needs supervision.
Hotliz
09-19-2008, 05:37 PM
[quote=MarkmyWords;1159823]I went to one with my wife and two other couples a few years ago. It was a unique situation that will probably never be duplicated again. She felt comfortable going because we were in a group, we were all drinking, and just happened to walk by. That night may have been the best sex of our marriage.
Liz, I would be happy to take you guys to one, who knows...may lead to that other fantasy you've been thinking about...[/quot
sounds great...maybe we could meet somewhere in the middle....
MarkmyWords
09-19-2008, 07:26 PM
hmmmm..the middle....sounds like a perfect place for you...
MiSt09
09-20-2008, 03:24 PM
Me and my hubby went with one of his friends. I'm glad it's something I tried, but I think I would have had more fun if another woman had been along that night.
92115guy
09-20-2008, 03:31 PM
I went once with my husband, a long time ago when he was into sex, LOL. I swear, beside the cover charge, we spent only about $20 in singles. The girls seemed to like me more than they liked him, lol.
He wanted to go back, alone, a few days later....having been there with him, I let him, figuring it was safe enough. He came home pissed at himself for being swindled into paying over $200 for lap dances. The girl complimented him and said he was cute....and he fell for it.
I asked if he got any cuter after he handed over his credit card. He glared at me. Then I asked him "How cute do you feel right now?" :nopity
Just proves that stupidity needs supervision.
That is a funny (if expensive) story. Yeah, like these women are going to sincerely think the guys are cute...lol. See, I never understood putting down that kind of money just to get teased by someone who doesn't really like oy. My ego is not strong enough for that.
james
Krystal
09-20-2008, 11:03 PM
That is a funny (if expensive) story. Yeah, like these women are going to sincerely think the guys are cute...lol. See, I never understood putting down that kind of money just to get teased by someone who doesn't really like oy. My ego is not strong enough for that.
james
When he told me how much he'd spent....I said "Did she at least blow you for that amount of money??" He said "No, you're not even allowed to touch." I said "Damn, just think what could have happened if you'd stayed home and given me $200. Unfortunately for you, it won't be happening for a while." Then I rolled over and went back to bed, LOL.
92115guy
09-20-2008, 11:31 PM
When he told me how much he'd spent....I said "Did she at least blow you for that amount of money??" He said "No, you're not even allowed to touch." I said "Damn, just think what could have happened if you'd stayed home and given me $200. Unfortunately for you, it won't be happening for a while." Then I rolled over and went back to bed, LOL.
That's awesome!
james
Sneaky
09-20-2008, 11:58 PM
I've been to one. A long time ago.
Some dancers were amazing to watch. The ones that LOVE it. But you can't FAKE that look in your eye. Most of the dancers had a "removed" look (at least the club where I was) I think women are going to recognize that look before men. And the one I was at the guys kinda sit there real quiet. It was almost a little bit creepy.
I remember just noticing the contrast of when men see a stripper & when women do. When women go see a stripper we are all over the place screaming and having fun....and we have a blast even if we know the guy stripper is probobly gay.
It was different than I thought it would be for sure.
crow_worc
09-21-2008, 12:04 AM
did once...it was okay..they had a guy telling jokes
Hotliz
09-22-2008, 09:32 AM
hmmmm..the middle....sounds like a perfect place for you...
I think thats the perfect place for me...
MarkmyWords
09-27-2008, 04:35 PM
Let's see if we can't get you there Liz...
Heart
09-27-2008, 04:39 PM
i'd go....as long as he left with me....and we had hot sex on the way home...and at home....and well....lets just say i'd want to go at it like a freaky crazy woman afterwards! hope he'll be ready for an all nighter!
airborne soldier
09-28-2008, 06:41 AM
I would defiently go with my partner... Maybe even bring one home!
endeavour617
10-06-2008, 06:50 PM
My wife & I used to go almost monthly. She gets in free. Our rule is one drink & then we're out of there. Many of the dancers love women, so I hear you Lookin4more. In fact, I get a bit envious because she gets all the attention. Now I would prefer to go alone. Seriously, though, we've cut out that budget buster!
stellabelle
10-06-2008, 06:57 PM
I want a lap dance. Ladies aren't my thing, but if my guy was watching...phew!!! It just looks sooooo hot. Is that bad?
gatorgal
10-06-2008, 08:01 PM
If that was somewhere he wanted to go... and he wanted me to go with him.. that would be fine with me
And if he wanted to go with the buddies... thats fine with me too!!
gina99
10-06-2008, 08:12 PM
Would like to go but never have.
flagovertx
10-11-2008, 11:53 AM
I went once, it was'nt all that. Never went while married.
Kinkawon
10-20-2008, 04:50 PM
There was no voting option for "Yes, but it didn't do much for me." That's my voting option.
I found that I felt sorry for the girls who danced there. I ended up befriending one of them, talked with her a while, and gave her encouragement for finding a better future. She cried a little bit and I just hugged her.
That's not a very hot story, is it?
I've worked in a chain of strip clubs. That story is not uncommon.
Though I have no problem with the idea of industry the problem is so many only view it as a last desperate place to work that most girls are ashamed of what they do for a living.
A good looking woman (or even a plain looking one) who won't hate herself for working there and stays away from the drugs can really make a lot of money (tax free) in a short time. (Hundreds of thousands of dollars in a few years)
OICurready4me
10-20-2008, 09:32 PM
I haven't been in years but there were a couple places that I liked to go. The women were hot and the atmosphere was good. I would love to go with my sweetheart some night. I know she likes the way they dance and the sexiness of their clothes so I think she would enjoy it. It would be an incredible turn on for me to see her there because I know she would get into it and since she is hot herself, I think the dancers would pay alot of attention to her. That would be incredible. I can't wait until she is comfortable enough with the idea of going with me.
Mr.B5546
10-31-2008, 03:17 AM
I was in a club and in walks my daughters and their friends. I left ......... it was just too weird!!
cherri
10-31-2008, 08:01 AM
My spouse has never asked. Neither has any of my boyfriends. But my co-workers (all men) and my best friend (girl) has suggested I put in an application there. LOL. I've even had customers at work offer to take me with them. I've never been but would love to go with the right person, he just hasn't asked me yet. And yes, I would probably enjoy going, and the temptation to get up there and dance myself would be overwhelming. Shit, I've been caught dancing with the pole, at the monkey bars at the local park, while my daughter played on the monkey bars. I was listening to an mp3 and just horsing around, thinking no one saw me or was paying any attention. There was over 200 people on that football field. But later all the Pee-Wee Football coaches asked me if I was going to dance for them on the float at the local fair. I was shocked, said no and then stated that those are only for private shows.
lilolekimba67(f)
10-31-2008, 08:15 AM
no never
endeavour617
10-31-2008, 08:56 AM
I was in a club and in walks my daughters and their friends. I left ......... it was just too weird!!
Ouch, that would be uncomfortable. I have some friends who will not go to the local club now because their son turned 21 and they don't wish to meet up with him.
endeavour617
10-31-2008, 08:59 AM
I've never been but would love to go with the right person, he just hasn't asked me yet.
I'll take you, Cherri! (if you promise to save a dance for me ;)
coug511
10-31-2008, 06:46 PM
Every woman I have asked was way too jealous to go.
manda1
11-01-2008, 10:40 PM
I HAVE gone to a strip club with my spouse. A womans body is a work of art, very beautiful.....
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