Why?

[MIGHTY]

Why is it that, when you are asked to do something important and you need time and space to get it done, it is then that people want to ask you a million questions, talk about nothing, or blast the tv?

Ok....now that I have that off of my chest.....what is your q?

[Annie]

What is it that at work the only time our computers take a crap and the time-server for the tanning beds fizzles out is when I have 6 clients in front of me?

[Sunfiresix]

Why is it that once you get anywhere near retirement age--all hell breakes loose with you or yours health?

[Crawfish]

That is something that bothers me too! Sometimes when I am fixing something or building something around the house my wife will come up to me and say "you know what we need to do next?" AARRGGHHHH! God Damnit! Let me finish the first project before you start piling on the work. I love how she says "We".

[Sunfiresix]

Can we hunt down and shoot Murpy--I think I don't like him.....Hi Crawfish

[Milk]

How cum, your spouses sex drive tanks about the time yours goes into hyper-drive?

[pointofnoreturn]

Why do people always call you when there is five minutes left to a show you really like???

[TravelingMan]

How cum your boss spends more time bitching at you for what you ARE doing rather than focusing on what he or she should be doing themselves.

Do as I say and not as a do!

Perfect week for me to get that off of my chest!

[Annie]

Why do people always call you when there is five minutes left to a show you really like???Because they want to get the call out of the way before their favorite show comes on?

[Sunfiresix]

why is it that you still feel young (I mean lots younger) as you get older?

[MIGHTY]

How come people come to realizations only when things become dire? Why do they not heed the warnings that have been set and given for long periods coming?

[surfdude]

How come people come to realizations only when things become dire? Why do they not heed the warnings that have been set and given for long periods coming?

I quote Joe Pesci in "My Cousin Vinny":

"You were serious about that?"

some people don't believe you until it's too late

[Outta]

How come and why?


I say why cum and how?

[MCat]

Why is it that once you get anywhere near retirement age--all hell breakes loose with you or yours health?

Damn....now that is a question. :( Just when the fun is about to begin it all goes to hell in a handbasket. :knuddel: :knuddel:

[Outta]

Why do we drive on parkways and park in driveways?

[PunkyBob]

Why is it that, when you are asked to do something important and you need time and space to get it done, it is then that people want to ask you a million questions, talk about nothing, or blast the tv?

Ok....now that I have that off of my chest.....what is your q?

Personal theory #341: It's similar to pheromones; pheromones drift away from your bod, find a receptive male (ok, right, right, how hard is that?) and attraction begins. Now it's not pheromones in this case, but something that your overstressed, muscle-tense, slightly-higher-temperature body (oh, wow, wait a minute...okay) puts out when the going gets tough. Others sense this, and voila--attraction of the obnoxious kind.

Then again, maybe it's just life.

[spare_change]

How come people come to realizations only when things become dire? Why do they not heed the warnings that have been set and given for long periods coming?

It is our nature to believe in the positive- that some magic cataclysm of occurrences will save us from our folly. We inherently believe that we can not get ourselves into a situation that we can't handle or extract ourselves from.


Are snowflakes truly unique? Who checked? Don't they run out of designs eventually, and have to recycle?

[veronica]

Why don't the sexy men on here live closer to me???

[freestyle99]

define close? Why don't the sexy men on here live closer to me???

[veronica]

define close?

close enough to come over when hubby leaves.....:D

[freestyle99]

close enough to come over when hubby leaves.....:D

sounds risky...

[veronica]

sounds risky...


LOL....that's what makes it fun!!

[freestyle99]

LOL....that's what makes it fun!!

not if he's armed!!!

[freestyle99]

not if he's armed!!!

and what do you say, 'here, meet long lost uncle free?"....

[veronica]

not if he's armed!!!


the worst weapon he could find around here would be a light saber....LOL

[freestyle99]

the worst weapon he could find around here would be a light saber....LOL

lol...we've got about 6 of those in various states of repair...but if he throws on that Darth Vader mask I'm doomed - the dark side....

[veronica]

lol...we've got about 6 of those in various states of repair...but if he throws on that Darth Vader mask I'm doomed - the dark side....

well, we do have the helmet/mask/voice changer....pretty intense

[freestyle99]

well, we do have the helmet/mask/voice changer....pretty intense

sound like it could actually be fun...bring in the props!

[PunkyBob]

the worst weapon he could find around here would be a light saber....LOL

And already I'm thinking "How could that be made interesting and useful?":D

[OICurready4me]

How come people come to realizations only when things become dire? Why do they not heed the warnings that have been set and given for long periods coming?


Some people are just damn lazy!

[Milk]

why do some people have no concept of personal boundaries?
why do some people think their time is more important than anyone else's?
why do some people not listen to other people's requests for some time or space?

[Frenchie]

How many of you ask yourself that question? It's simple, yet so deep it's hard to anser, none of us really know.


I myself am a dreamer. a sole beleiver that somewhere somehow this all makes sence. That there's got to be a reason as to just simply...why?

Why are we here? why is the sky blue? "I actually know why lol", Why is there no end to the Universe? Why do we exist? Why do we love "sometimes the wrong person" Why do we want to have it all when the ones who have it all usually end up losing it anyway...

I'm feeling pretty f*cking shitty and depressed and I drove the other nite finding myself asking these questions to myself and for some reason you folks where the first to pop in my mind and that made me feel better.

I figure if there's a bunch of folks to ask this question this would be a good place to get an idea if I'm losing my mind! lol

So tell me, do you ask yourself why?

[pointofnoreturn]

How many of you ask yourself that question? It's simple, yet so deep it's hard to anser, none of us really know.


I myself am a dreamer. a sole beleiver that somewhere somehow this all makes sence. That there's got to be a reason as to just simply...why?

Why are we here? why is the sky blue? "I actually know why lol", Why is there no end to the Universe? Why do we exist? Why do we love "sometimes the wrong person" Why do we want to have it all when the ones who have it all usually end up losing it anyway...

I'm feeling pretty f*cking shitty and depressed and I drove the other nite finding myself asking these questions to myself and for some reason you folks where the first to pop in my mind and that made me feel better.

I figure if there's a bunch of folks to ask this question this would be a good place to get an idea if I'm losing my mind! lol

So tell me, do you ask yourself why?by the way Frenchie..I love your penis too!!!I ask all the time . When people start getting older(which youare not, but I am) they start to wonder about theair mortality, and if they are going to leave a mark somewhere. I marked the bush out front. Unless you are truly happy with your home life work life entire life, I think you will always wonder why> I personally believe I have found why for me. To get off all you horny guys here one at a time...:wa:

[hoss]

I wonder why alot my friend ...so your not alone ...

I have a even worse game i play ...What if ....

that one drives me loony ........

[cherokeered]

think it is common to ask why.....I ask it every day.....

[hoss]

think it is common to ask why.....I ask it every day.....

like ...WHY is that damn Hoss so irresitable .....its ok babe ...most women here ask that one ...

[Sunfiresix]

I asked my cardiologist to day --I wonder if it is normal to feel this healthy and want to be on the go all the time--he said that is because you are so enjoy. I know it don't fit but hadda tell someone no reaction here.

[peaches]

WHY???????????? that is the million dollar question...
And no you are not crazy...but then again, maybe we all are....lololol
But personally I ask that question every day....so we are birds that flock together...lol:na :na :na :na :na

[peaches]

I wonder why alot my friend ...so your not alone ...

I have a even worse game i play ...What if ....

that one drives me loony ........
don't do the what ifs...............
i have done them too..and they can cause someone to totally lose there mind

[MIGHTY]

I wonder why I am going through these trials. I wonder what the lesson is to be learned in the end. I wonder how things can change in an instant. I wonder if there will be yet another suicide in my family. I wonder why I must go through things alone. I wonder why some people can deal with life and others can't. I wonder how much more my mind can handle.

[majorfun]

I never ask Why.... I just take life as it comes the good and the bad... and move on to the next thing...Success is not about questioning your failures...but learning from your mistakes and apply what you learned to life...When you sit around and ask why...You are focusing on the past..something that you can not change.... I ask What can I do better the next....

[Jy]

Honestly? I don't ask why.
The way I see it is life is full of joys and hardships alike. We can't fully appreciate the good times without going through the tough times. That's just the way it is. There is a lesson to be learned from every experience. Sometimes we learn that lesson at the moment, sometimes in hindsight, sometimes twenty years down the road, and sometimes we never figure it out.
So what's the point, you may ask?
To experience it all. To embrace every moment, every hardship, sorrow, triumph, and joy and grow from them.

[peaches]

and no matter what the age..growing can be such a bitch sometimes...lol

[OICurready4me]

I wonder why I am going through these trials. I wonder what the lesson is to be learned in the end. I wonder how things can change in an instant. I wonder if there will be yet another suicide in my family. I wonder why I must go through things alone. I wonder why some people can deal with life and others can't. I wonder how much more my mind can handle.


I wonder why some people have to go through so much hurt and despair while others coast through life without the slightest bad thing happening to them. I wonder how strong you have become, baby, due to the difficulties you have faced over the past several years.

[Wil]

there is a reason why for everything...we dont decide...we're just here for the ride...

[AffableOne]

a question that has puzzled, or plagued the greatest minds for generations....

maybe the question isn't why.....but how?

perhaps how we live life, is wehat gives it meaning

I have no idea......but I do read on the topic at times

other times I turn on a ball game, read the paper, or people watch in the mall......and ask 'why'?

why is he still pitching?

why did they abandon a newborn?

why did he win the lottery, not me?

why did she have that look on her face?

why does she like tuna?

why didn't I cry when he died?



thanks for asking the question......

it is good to wonder the why....

and determine, the how.


How many of you ask yourself that question? It's simple, yet so deep it's hard to anser, none of us really know.


I myself am a dreamer. a sole beleiver that somewhere somehow this all makes sence. That there's got to be a reason as to just simply...why?

Why are we here? why is the sky blue? "I actually know why lol", Why is there no end to the Universe? Why do we exist? Why do we love "sometimes the wrong person" Why do we want to have it all when the ones who have it all usually end up losing it anyway...

I'm feeling pretty f*cking shitty and depressed and I drove the other nite finding myself asking these questions to myself and for some reason you folks where the first to pop in my mind and that made me feel better.

I figure if there's a bunch of folks to ask this question this would be a good place to get an idea if I'm losing my mind! lol

So tell me, do you ask yourself why?

[Frenchie]

Good stuff!

Thanks guys and girls! lol

I dont know if I'll play Hoss's what if game that's bound to throw me off my rocker! lol

I knew I could count on all of you to help me out

Thank agains that really cool

P.S: I'm a sexy bitch and you know it

[MIGHTY]

Good stuff!

Thanks guys and girls! lol

I dont know if I'll play Hoss's what if game that's bound to throw me off my rocker! lol

I knew I could count on all of you to help me out

Thank agains that really cool

P.S: I'm a sexy bitch and you know it

You are a sexy bitch! Holy crap! Good to hear you getting back you your old self hun.....:kk

[Parkergrey]

so why did you leave

why wouldn't you

well job security

they falsify documents to jail you any day they please

well the pay

below the poverty line

well the camaraderie

is that your knife in my back

well the pride

kill for oil

well advancement

based on nothing

well growth

stagnant after 3 years

well opportunity

the more you invest, the more you waste (I'd rather buy enron)

well you still got your health

not mental

[Parkergrey]

Why do I smile at the sound of your voice?
Why do I let you take over me as if I had no choice?
Why do I let you touch me in places never touched?
Why do I like to have you around so much?

Why do I melt at the tenderness of your kiss?
Why do I feel like I could live forever like this?
Why do I put my heart in your hands?
Why do I answer to your every demand?

Why do I tell you leaving me is not your wrong?
Why do I let you know with out you I'm not quite as strong?
Why do I take you back even though I know it's not right?
Why do I feel like I should please you by not putting up a fight?

Why do I care about you even though you hurt me?
Why do I turn my head from what's plain reality?
Why do I try to hide from what is true?
Why do I still have these feelings for you?

[p.J]

Isn't curiosity wonderful! It jump starts the creative process. It makes us ask questions. It encourages us to go beyond current right answers. It makes us become explorers... Isn't the question "why" really an invitation to wonder? Without the why there would be no because or no maybe, without "why" there would be no answers...

In my house the most frequent question asked by my children is "why"... Why? because they are naturally curious about the world they live in!

[Frenchie]

Isn't curiosity wonderful! It jump starts the creative process. It makes us ask questions. It encourages us to go beyond current right answers. It makes us become explorers... Isn't the question "why" really an invitation to wonder? Without the why there would be no because or no maybe, without "why" there would be no answers...

In my house the most frequent question asked by my children is "why"... Why? because they are naturally curious about the world they live in!

Very nicely put.

That's the direction I was talking about.

Get's the noodle going

[spare_change]

Isn't curiosity wonderful! It jump starts the creative process. It makes us ask questions. It encourages us to go beyond current right answers. It makes us become explorers... Isn't the question "why" really an invitation to wonder? Without the why there would be no because or no maybe, without "why" there would be no answers...

In my house the most frequent question asked by my children is "why"... Why? because they are naturally curious about the world they live in!

Well put --- but......

"Why" is too often used to abdicate responsibility for management of our own environment, our own lives, our own circumstances. When we ask "why", we are acknowledging that there are things over which we have no control, things that happen just because ----- well, because they do. Do we excuse our inadequacies, inaction, or intransigence by ascribing it to a higher authority or circumstance over which we have no control?

Is there a grand plan? Is that why things happen the way they do? Is it pure happenstance? Is it the fortunate, or unfortunate, collision of random instances that create a chaos that we must try to define?

[pointofnoreturn]

Well put --- but......

"Why" is too often used to abdicate responsibility for management of our own environment, our own lives, our own circumstances. When we ask "why", we are acknowledging that there are things over which we have no control, things that happen just because ----- well, because they do. Do we excuse our inadequacies, inaction, or intransigence by ascribing it to a higher authority or circumstance over which we have no control?

Is there a grand plan? Is that why things happen the way they do? Is it pure happenstance? Is it the fortunate, or unfortunate, collision of random instances that create a chaos that we must try to define?huh???JUst Why is all..:wa: You are hurting my head...

[p.J]

Well put --- but......

"Why" is too often used to abdicate responsibility for management of our own environment, our own lives, our own circumstances. When we ask "why", we are acknowledging that there are things over which we have no control, things that happen just because ----- well, because they do. Do we excuse our inadequacies, inaction, or intransigence by ascribing it to a higher authority or circumstance over which we have no control?

Is there a grand plan? Is that why things happen the way they do? Is it pure happenstance? Is it the fortunate, or unfortunate, collision of random instances that create a chaos that we must try to define?

:sc


Ok, so should we look at things from the scale of a billion light years, where the universe appears rather boring and homogeneous? From the point of view of an atom? Not thinking in visual terms, because vision is a property of eyes, and eyes do not exist. Not to think in terms of hot or cold, hard or soft, loud or quiet, bright or dim, violent or gentle, because these are all properties of nervous systems that do not exist. The "big bang," this is nothing more than whistling past the old groove yard. Whatever it was, it was neither "big" nor "bang." or a medium sized groan, or soft sigh, or dropped tool box on my foot. Ouch! you see it doesn't matter, so long as I don’t ask "why?"



My dog, and he is a very clever dog, he doesn't ask "why?" Rather, life just happens!

[MIGHTY]

Why do I smile at the sound of your voice?
Why do I let you take over me as if I had no choice?
Why do I let you touch me in places never touched?
Why do I like to have you around so much?

Why do I melt at the tenderness of your kiss?
Why do I feel like I could live forever like this?
Why do I put my heart in your hands?
Why do I answer to your every demand?

Why do I tell you leaving me is not your wrong?
Why do I let you know with out you I'm not quite as strong?
Why do I take you back even though I know it's not right?
Why do I feel like I should please you by not putting up a fight?

Why do I care about you even though you hurt me?
Why do I turn my head from what's plain reality?
Why do I try to hide from what is true?
Why do I still have these feelings for you?

With the exception of the kiss.....these are my sentiments exactly.......although I have come to terms with my reality, I cannot help but to ask these questions. The farther I grow away from him/his hold, the stronger I become. Yet, I still tend to question my choices/motives......why do I question myself? Why do I think I can make the difference? Why do I think I can make him the person he once was? Why do I think he cares, or want him to, when he soo very clearly does not? Why?

[PunkyBob]

Why do I think she changed more than I did?
Why do I not pay as much attention?
Why do I doubt?
Why do I ask why and not just do?

[OICurready4me]

why do I listen to her bullshit?

why do I get so frustrated day after day with the stupid shit she does everyday?
why can't she make a simple decision?
why am I finding it so hard to tell her that I would prefer to be on my own?




why was I so lucky to have Mighty in my life?
why is Mighty such a terrific woman and so fond of me?
why are we so damn compatible and in so much love?
why am I so happy when we talk, chat, are just in the company of the other?
why has she had such a tremendous impact on me? (because she is fantastic)

[MIGHTY]

Why do I still let him get to me?

[PunkyBob]

its really hard to just STOP LOVING SOMEONE

[spare_change]

:sc


Ok, so should we look at things from the scale of a billion light years, where the universe appears rather boring and homogeneous? From the point of view of an atom? Not thinking in visual terms, because vision is a property of eyes, and eyes do not exist. Not to think in terms of hot or cold, hard or soft, loud or quiet, bright or dim, violent or gentle, because these are all properties of nervous systems that do not exist. The "big bang," this is nothing more than whistling past the old groove yard. Whatever it was, it was neither "big" nor "bang." or a medium sized groan, or soft sigh, or dropped tool box on my foot. Ouch! you see it doesn't matter, so long as I don’t ask "why?"



My dog, and he is a very clever dog, he doesn't ask "why?" Rather, life just happens!


Well, kinda --- you are confusing the question of "why" with "what". To ponder the creation, or to wonder of an item, that is the "what". "What" created this universe? "What" is our role in this stage play?

But "why" ... the very question presumes a larger control - "why' did this happen to me? "Why" do I always have things go bad? "why" did she die? All of those presume that there is a larger entity at play, one that dictates our circumstances, one that pulls the little puppet strings, and one that has some master plan, some script, by which seemingly random coincidences are melded together to create a situation for which we cannot fathom why.

If, by your definition, "life just happens" .... then, there is no why. It is merely the coincidental crossing of life threads, or time threads, that puts us into circumstances. Nothing is planned - there are no consequences -- it's just the luck of the draw, being in the wrong place at the right time.

[OICurready4me]

How many of you ask yourself that question? It's simple, yet so deep it's hard to anser, none of us really know.


I myself am a dreamer. a sole beleiver that somewhere somehow this all makes sence. That there's got to be a reason as to just simply...why?

Why are we here? why is the sky blue? "I actually know why lol", Why is there no end to the Universe? Why do we exist? Why do we love "sometimes the wrong person" Why do we want to have it all when the ones who have it all usually end up losing it anyway...

I'm feeling pretty f*cking shitty and depressed and I drove the other nite finding myself asking these questions to myself and for some reason you folks where the first to pop in my mind and that made me feel better.

I figure if there's a bunch of folks to ask this question this would be a good place to get an idea if I'm losing my mind! lol

So tell me, do you ask yourself why?\

Why would you think you are losing your mind? (are you drooling on your shoes and seeing pink elephants dance in front of you?)

[Frenchie]

are you drooling on your shoes and seeing pink elephants dance in front of you?)

lol

They told me there where side effects! lol

[p.J]

Well, kinda --- you are confusing the question of "why" with "what". To ponder the creation, or to wonder of an item, that is the "what". "What" created this universe? "What" is our role in this stage play?

But "why" ... the very question presumes a larger control - "why' did this happen to me? "Why" do I always have things go bad? "why" did she die? All of those presume that there is a larger entity at play, one that dictates our circumstances, one that pulls the little puppet strings, and one that has some master plan, some script, by which seemingly random coincidences are melded together to create a situation for which we cannot fathom why.

If, by your definition, "life just happens" .... then, there is no why. It is merely the coincidental crossing of life threads, or time threads, that puts us into circumstances. Nothing is planned - there are no consequences -- it's just the luck of the draw, being in the wrong place at the right time.

No Spare I am not confusing the question.

"Why" by definition is used in questions, indirect questions and statements: for what reason. or because of, which, or indeed from old English "What"


Our culture puts a lot of emphasis on understanding everyone's feelings and the rationales behind every action. There's really no point in most of it, is there? What matters is what we say, what we do. Our feelings are our own, and can be wholly inappropriate at times, but they are not something we can control. What we can control is how we deal with them... So many people cling to that illusion of control, it's pointless. I work on this every day with my own stubborn self. Certain things bother me for no reason, just because they are not the way I want them to be. Not important things. I must be doing better because I'm trying to think of an example of one and I can't. But there are so many times when I ask the question 'Why did I do that' 'Why did he do that' etc. Does it make sense to even ask why? Yes, it does, if I could find something in the answer that I could change, that I could control, to make sure these things don't happen again or continue...

[spare_change]

No Spare I am not confusing the question.

"Why" by definition is used in questions, indirect questions and statements: for what reason. or because of, which, or indeed from old English "What"


Our culture puts a lot of emphasis on understanding everyone's feelings and the rationales behind every action. There's really no point in most of it, is there? What matters is what we say, what we do. Our feelings are our own, and can be wholly inappropriate at times, but they are not something we can control. What we can control is how we deal with them... So many people cling to that illusion of control, it's pointless. I work on this every day with my own stubborn self. Certain things bother me for no reason, just because they are not the way I want them to be. Not important things. I must be doing better because I'm trying to think of an example of one and I can't. But there are so many times when I ask the question 'Why did I do that' 'Why did he do that' etc. Does it make sense to even ask why? Yes, it does, if I could find something in the answer that I could change, that I could control, to make sure these things don't happen again or continue...


I love it when you talk dirty.

[Sabrina]

Why do I smile at the sound of your voice?
Why do I let you take over me as if I had no choice?
Why do I let you touch me in places never touched?
Why do I like to have you around so much?

Why do I melt at the tenderness of your kiss?
Why do I feel like I could live forever like this?
Why do I put my heart in your hands?
Why do I answer to your every demand?

Why do I tell you leaving me is not your wrong?
Why do I let you know with out you I'm not quite as strong?
Why do I take you back even though I know it's not right?
Why do I feel like I should please you by not putting up a fight?

Why do I care about you even though you hurt me?
Why do I turn my head from what's plain reality?
Why do I try to hide from what is true?
Why do I still have these feelings for you?

WOW, Parker....that is beautiful....brought tears to my eyes....:cry:

[PunkyBob]

Why?

Why the hell not????

[p3tay]

why do i think things will ever change?
why am i still frustrated when they don't?

[Frenchie]

See it's not as easy as it looks like! lol

It's funny that way. I sometimes grab a couple pops and go down to the beach and spend a little quality time at the beach here reflecting on stuff and it's nice

Except for that cop who told me to put my pants up...I mean seriously it's a beach for god sake!

[p.J]

I love it when you talk dirty.

:sc So in other words you think my definition was a load of bollocks!

[spare_change]

:sc So in other words you think my definition was a load of bollocks!


Nahh -- I got distracted by your ass (like that's NEVER happened before!)

To even ask the question "why" should help you to know that, in fact, you are not in control. If you were, then you would already know why - you would already understand the implications of your actions.

So, if we presume that there are some things out of your control, then we must assume, logically, that those same things are being controlled by some other entity. If such is the case, your "why" is really an examination of "how" you can influence the other controlling entities in order to establish a greater influence on those things you can't control. So, I presume, that means that we are all control freaks who want, and need, absolute control of our daily lives. Hardly spontaneous, wouldn't you say?


(Now, if that ain't bollocks, I never seen any!)

[p.J]

Nahh -- I got distracted by your ass (like that's NEVER happened before!)

To even ask the question "why" should help you to know that, in fact, you are not in control. If you were, then you would already know why - you would already understand the implications of your actions.

So, if we presume that there are some things out of your control, then we must assume, logically, that those same things are being controlled by some other entity. If such is the case, your "why" is really an examination of "how" you can influence the other controlling entities in order to establish a greater influence on those things you can't control. So, I presume, that means that we are all control freaks who want, and need, absolute control of our daily lives. Hardly spontaneous, wouldn't you say?


(Now, if that ain't bollocks, I never seen any!)


I think one can be spontaneous and controlling at the same time...

now show me you what you've got...

Thats controlling and spontaneous!

[spare_change]

I think one can be spontaneous and controlling at the same time...

now show me you what you've got...

Thats controlling and spontaneous!

Hmmm -- spontaneously controlling --- sounds oxymoronic. If you assume, however, that there are periods in which you relinquish control (doesn't the very act of relinquishing control mean that you are still in control?), then it would seem feasible to be spontaneously controlling -- but only if not being in control is your quiescent state.

"I'll show you mine if you show me yours."

Now, who is in control? Me - for setting the conditions, or you, for being the trigger to the event?

[p.J]

Hmmm -- spontaneously controlling --- sounds oxymoronic. If you assume, however, that there are periods in which you relinquish control (doesn't the very act of relinquishing control mean that you are still in control?), then it would seem feasible to be spontaneously controlling -- but only if not being in control is your quiescent state.

"I'll show you mine if you show me yours."

Now, who is in control? Me - for setting the conditions, or you, for being the trigger to the event?


Moi, because I am the cause of a sexual reaction... physical or otherwise! :D

However, back to why... Why do we feel good about ourselves one moment and bad another? Why does a person change their attitude towards us from one day to the next? Yea, yea, each human is a complex creature whose behaviour is driven by emotion, beliefs, point of view, and how much sex they had that morning, but I want to know the answer to my "why's"


This "why" has a lot to answer for... (pun intended)

[spare_change]

Moi, because I am the cause of a sexual reaction... physical or otherwise! :D

However, back to why... Why do we feel good about ourselves one moment and bad another? Why does a person change their attitude towards us from one day to the next? Yea, yea, each human is a complex creature whose behaviour is driven by emotion, beliefs, point of view, and how much sex they had that morning, but I want to know the answer to my "why's"


This "why" has a lot to answer for... (pun intended)

I find thoughts of your "why" (pun intended) to be most distracting!

All valid questions -- and all questions without an answer, or at least, an answer we can visualize. Sounds like we aren't as in control as we like to think we are, huh? Makes you wonder just who IS in control. Who has the master plan?

[p.J]

I find thoughts of your "why" (pun intended) to be most distracting!

All valid questions -- and all questions without an answer, or at least, an answer we can visualize. Sounds like we aren't as in control as we like to think we are, huh? Makes you wonder just who IS in control. Who has the master plan?

My ever so special ( Y ) ? :D

A new why... We are all under the manipulation of mass consciousness through major media, schools, churches, government etc. we have been conditioned since birth and it continues throughout our lives, the manipulated pawns of our society, yet we never question our thought or behaviour patterns. We are herded into accepting the norm that is placed before us, and we don’t give it another thought. And if we don’t conform we are harassed into acceptance! We are unknowingly surrounded and engulfed by consumerism and this is part of normal life. It is so much a part of us that most of the time we aren’t even conscious of it. "why" don't we stand up for our innate freedom to think, say, and do what is in our hearts...

"Who Is In Control Of Our Mind?"

[pointofnoreturn]

Why does the combination of popcorn and chocolate sounds so tempting???

[Jy]

Because it's wonderfully, mouth-wateringly spectacular!Why does the combination of popcorn and chocolate sounds so tempting???

[Jy]

Most of the questions brought up express puzzlement over our hardships, questioning the adversities we face everyday. It reminded me of a favourite quote of mine...


"Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experiences of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired and success achieved.”
-Helen Keller

I wonder what life would be like if nothing ever went wrong; if we were never challenged or experienced setbacks. How would we ever recognize it as such?

[spare_change]

Have you ever wondered why? Does it all make sense to you?

Or, perhaps, does your life feel out of control, running at full speed while you are just trying to hold on?

So, ask us why -- who knows, maybe one of us knows.

[spare_change]

Why do some people have to win, at all costs?

[spare_change]

Why does it seem that some people are destined to search for happiness, while others have it fall into their laps?

Is it kismet? Karma? Destiny? Perhaps, a self fulfilling prophecy? Do we get exactly what we deserve, or have some of us just pissed off the gods?

[spare_change]

Why does it ALWAYS rain on the day I wash my car?

[spare_change]

Why is the place you are seeking just right around the corner from where you finally decide to stop and ask directions?

[spare_change]

Why does it hurt?

[Cotties]

Why are some people so misfortunate?

[Pebbles]

Why do they put Braille dots on the keypad of the drive-up ATM?

[Jy]

As I always say when someone asks why, why not?

[Zifnab]

As I always say when someone asks why, why not?ahhh yes, the only complete answer to the question of why....
figures you would use that... you are so smart!....

Pebbles: Braile dots are for the visually impaired as a requirement by federal law... now there is a place to start asking why... but do not expect any answers that make sense....

Cotties: it is because you are you....

Spare: Too many for one post, so I will offer a suggestion for the big one... Why does it seem that some people are destined to search for happiness, while others have it fall into their laps?
I have noticed that happiness is often incorrectly interpreted. It is never possible to "find" happiness, as the more you search the more elusive it becomes. True happiness is the only one that counts, and that you can not seek, you have to earn it. The effort required is usually fairly small, but the reward is also not infinite. To be truly happy oneshould look outside their own lives and forget the selfish desires that our society have led us to believe will result in happiness... a new car, a boat, that cute new secretary....all these things are superficial and can only dull the senses into a temporary state of "happy". All too soon the effects wear off and like any addicting substance we go out and seek more, newer, bigger and more powerfull stimulations, all the while ignoringthe sourcev of true happiness. Ask a mother what happiness is and she will often answer with something involving her child/children... ask a teacher and it is a student... the point is that to find happiness you have to stop looking for in for yourself, and begin to try and provide it for others. The more you unselfishly give away, the more you find within yourself.

just my thoughts!

[tiger50]

ahhh yes, the only complete answer to the question of why....
figures you would use that... you are so smart!....

Pebbles: Braile dots are for the visually impaired as a requirement by federal law... now there is a place to start asking why... but do not expect any answers that make sense....

Cotties: it is because you are you....

Spare: Too many for one post, so I will offer a suggestion for the big one... Why does it seem that some people are destined to search for happiness, while others have it fall into their laps?
I have noticed that happiness is often incorrectly interpreted. It is never possible to "find" happiness, as the more you search the more elusive it becomes. True happiness is the only one that counts, and that you can not seek, you have to earn it. The effort required is usually fairly small, but the reward is also not infinite. To be truly happy oneshould look outside their own lives and forget the selfish desires that our society have led us to believe will result in happiness... a new car, a boat, that cute new secretary....all these things are superficial and can only dull the senses into a temporary state of "happy". All too soon the effects wear off and like any addicting substance we go out and seek more, newer, bigger and more powerfull stimulations, all the while ignoringthe sourcev of true happiness. Ask a mother what happiness is and she will often answer with something involving her child/children... ask a teacher and it is a student... the point is that to find happiness you have to stop looking for in for yourself, and begin to try and provide it for others. The more you unselfishly give away, the more you find within yourself.

just my thoughts!

wel said mate...... :55

[Zifnab]

wel said mate...... :55thank you good(????) sir!

congrats on your new den...

[tiger50]

thank you good(????) sir!

congrats on your new den...

lol thanks mate....... :)

[Zifnab]

when is the house warming party?????

[UltimateNaneki]

Why do men have to be in front of my window, while I'm nude?

[Zifnab]

Why do men have to be in front of my window, while I'm nude?if you have to ask you won't understand the answer....

[UltimateNaneki]

if you have to ask you won't understand the answer....

why not, try me??

[Zifnab]

why not, try me??look in a mirror and try to figure it out.... if you still cant, then send me the pictures and I will diagram them for you!:55

[UltimateNaneki]

look in a mirror and try to figure it out.... if you still cant, then send me the pictures and I will diagram them for you!:55


I know why....I just thought you would tell it better!

Why are you shy?

[Zifnab]

I know why....I just thought you would tell it better!

Why are you shy?ask for references.... shy is not a part of my resume that I am aware of....

[UltimateNaneki]

Why do men never answer a question directly?

[Zifnab]

Why do men never answer a question directly?how directly do you want your answers? usuall I do not answer directly because ai am not understood anyway so why not have some fun with it!

[IMaLady]

Why does it hurt?



So you know you are still alive.

[shorty51000]

[I] there are alot of people that are this way besides men

[yaser]

Why do men have to be in front of my window, while I'm nude?
Because you call them by your body..

[yaser]

So you know you are still alive.
I call this a philosophical answer.

[MIGHTY]

Why do people get angry when they hear the cold, hard truth?

Why are some people willing to walk on coals for others, while others run at the first sign of turbulance?

Why do some people continue to nurture relationships that are soo very wrong?

Why do some people tell you to stop meddling, yet continue to inform you of every single new event that transpires, and ask your advice about it?

[Zifnab]

Why do people get angry when they hear the cold, hard truth?

Why are some people willing to walk on coals for others, while others run at the first sign of turbulance?

Why do some people continue to nurture relationships that are soo very wrong?

Why do some people tell you to stop meddling, yet continue to inform you of every single new event that transpires, and ask your advice about it?
short answer... human nature... not an explanation but an answer...

[yaser]

Why do people get angry when they hear the cold, hard truth?

Why are some people willing to walk on coals for others, while others run at the first sign of turbulance?

Why do some people continue to nurture relationships that are soo very wrong?

Why do some people tell you to stop meddling, yet continue to inform you of every single new event that transpires, and ask your advice about it?

As Jazzy put why not?And why are you angry at what they are angry.?They have the right to do so according to the international human rights..

[SexyCowgirl]

Why do men have to be in front of my window, while I'm nude?

Why doesn't that happen to me?

[PunkyBob]

Mine is not to reason why...mine is but to fuck and sigh.

[MIGHTY]

As Jazzy put why not?And why are you angry at what they are angry.?They have the right to do so according to the international human rights..

...and I have the right to feel as I feel as well, even if that feeling is anger.

[yaser]

Why doesn't that happen to me?
Did I know it?If so I would call my friends and watch you..

[yaser]

...and I have the right to feel as I feel as well, even if that feeling is anger.
No :knuddel: objection to you ...

[PunkyBob]

Of course you have the right. All feelings come from a series of events...and human nature equips us with a set of automatic responses to deal with them.. Angry? Okay. Happy? Excellent! WHATEVER. You react a certain way BECAUSE...and it's totally legitimate because it's involuntary; the mind processes everything and spews out what it believes is the proper emotion. *Something* made you sad or happy or horny or whatever. Therapists make fortunes trying to decipher the mind processes that produce emotion.

Thatll be $125 and I'll see you next week. Here are your panties...

[dartgirl]

Why is it that now I know what I want I can't find anybody close to home to give it to me?

[whosdaflirt]

Why do people say hello in happiness, and goodbye in anger.

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Why do some people seem to get joy from others sorrows?

[Zifnab]

Why is it that now I know what I want I can't find anybody close to home to give it to me?because you are looking in the wrong house?

[Zifnab]

Why do some people seem to get joy from others sorrows?it helps them feel netter about themselves for a short time... and it is easier to get a "fix" then to fix their own problems....

just my thoughts...

[Zifnab]

Why do people say hello in happiness, and goodbye in anger.probably because of everything that is said or not said inbetween...

[SexyCowgirl]

Why do people say hello in happiness, and goodbye in anger.

Would you prefer people to be angry to see and glad to have you leave?

[Zifnab]

Would you prefer people to be angry to see and glad to have you leave?story of my life there! :D

[Sabrina]

Why do some people try so hard to push you away......

[Zifnab]

Why do some people try so hard to push you away......self defense mechanism? maybe they feel threatened by the potential of what might be...

just my thoughts...

[Zifnab]

why does it take so long to create the image.... and no where near as long to push it out to the clients???

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Why do some people try so hard to push you away......

fear of others seeing their weeknesses, getting close, being hurt, the unknown

[yaser]

Why do some people seem to get joy from others sorrows?
Because you met unfortunate men..

[yaser]

Why do some people try so hard to push you away......
Because you them permission to do so..Be assertive hun..

[UltimateNaneki]

Why do fools fall in love?

[Zifnab]

Why do fouls fall in love?fouls? or fools?

[UltimateNaneki]

fouls? or fools?

I did say FOOLS!

[Zifnab]

I did say FOOLS!I copied before you edited it... sorry!


because it is easier to be a fool in love than a sensible person and live alone...

[UltimateNaneki]

well I guess I'm a sensible alone person....where is the sign up sheet to be a fool??

[Zifnab]

well I guess I'm a sensible alone person....where is the sign up sheet to be a fool??no sign up needed.... just let yourself be who you are... thef ool will come to you soon enough....

[UltimateNaneki]

no sign up needed.... just let yourself be who you are... thef ool will come to you soon enough....


:lmao Zifnab....you are so sweet, that is a fool right, not an idiot...married one of those already!

[Zifnab]

:lmao Zifnab....you are so sweet, that is a fool right, not an idiot...married one of those already!sweet??? darn... need to realign my writing patterns again....:nu

[PunkyBob]

Why do fools fall in love?

On a particularly cynical day I'd say you answered your own question! Nothing hurts as bad as a broken heart.

[peaches]

Why would someone say something to you and had no intention of going through with it? I find that hurtful and messing with someones mind.

[flamengo130]

Why would someone say something to you and had no intention of going through with it? I find that hurtful and messing with someones mind.

Now that really hurt

[peaches]

Now that really hurt
How did that hurt you? Was just wondering why people do that...

[scoobertina]

Why have I been so fortunate to find a best friend who understands me and my needs?

[Sabrina]

self defense mechanism? maybe they feel threatened by the potential of what might be...

just my thoughts...

good thoughts....you sound like a smart guy:kk

[baby face]

Why do so many of us need to come here for stress relief rather than dicussing things with our spouses.......

[yaser]

Why do so many of us need to come here for stress relief rather than dicussing things with our spouses.......
That is the reason we are so much addicted to some ones her..Sex and love are ecuses..The real reason is to get rid of stress by talking to each hun..

[p.J]

Why can't I scratch this infuriating itch!!!

[Zifnab]

good thoughts....you sound like a smart guy:kksome days... depends on how much coffee and who is asking the questions/listening to the answers..... but thank you very much for the compliment. :kk

[Zifnab]

Why can't I scratch this infuriating itch!!!because it is between my shoulder blades......

[fly]

Why does it seem that some people are destined to search for happiness, while others have it fall into their laps?

Is it kismet? Karma? Destiny? Perhaps, a self fulfilling prophecy? Do we get exactly what we deserve, or have some of us just pissed off the gods?

Yep.........I definately pissed off the gods somewhere along the way!

[pointofnoreturn]

Why does it seem like everyone is getting angrywith each other...????Damn it. Kissand make up all of you..:hug: :hug:

[yaser]

Why have I been so fortunate to find a best friend who understands me and my needs?
You can choose to understand othres instead to be understood..That may be better..

[UltimateNaneki]

Why do so many of us feel so alone all the time?

[Outta]

Why am i alone tonight?

[MIGHTY]

Why must we suffer for soo long before reaping any benefits? Why must we all learn some great lesson in order to find happiness?

[Zifnab]

Why must we suffer for soo long before reaping any benefits? Why must we all learn some great lesson in order to find happiness?because if happiness were easily found and gained it would diminish in value....

[MIGHTY]

because if happiness were easily found and gained it would diminish in value....

Reminds me of the free ride theory. Some are givin free rides through life while others work through their blood, sweat, and tears to get what they want/need and have.

Without working hard for those things, it would diminish the value of the reward.

[p.J]

because it is between my shoulder blades......


sooooooooo... I'll scratch yours if you scratch mine! :)

[Zifnab]

sooooooooo... I'll scratch yours if you scratch mine! :)that is a deal!!! will give you an hour to stop!!

[p.J]

that is a deal!!! will give you an hour to stop!!

Just an hour? what if its so damn itchy that scratching just isn't enough! :rolleyes:

[Outta]

so true mighty.

[Zifnab]

Just an hour? what if its so damn itchy that scratching just isn't enough! :rolleyes:well after an hour its your turn....too much at once can spoil me and I would never get around to scratching your itch!

[Zifnab]

Reminds me of the free ride theory. Some are givin free rides through life while others work through their blood, sweat, and tears to get what they want/need and have.

Without working hard for those things, it would diminish the value of the reward.
I have seen and interacted with many types of people through the years, and those that have been happiest were always those that had been through the ups and downs ..... you made an excellent observation

[MIGHTY]

Why, when you are thinking about one negativity, do all of the others begin to flood?

[whosdaflirt]

Why, when you are thinking about one negativity, do all of the others begin to flood?

Because we seem to find a way to focus on what doesn't happen, what we don't have, what we don't like. It's more the idea of what we are paying attention to. At the same time these negative things are happening, there are many positives in our lives that we are somehow choosing to ignore. The smile of a child. The offer of a hug. The quick 5 minute phone call simply to say hi and I was thinking of you.

When we stop looking at the world as a pie that is carved up and if someone else gets their slice it's one less for us, we open up the opportunity to be thankful and happy for those things we do have. Because there is more than enough happiness for us all to share, we just need to know where to look.

:hug:

[MIGHTY]

I am happy and grateful for what blessings I do have and do not begrudge those who have more than I. There are reasons for everything. There are reasons for my being, and my situation, and my thoughts and feelings. I am not a selfish one. I can be as happy for others as I can be for myself. I chose not to take from the pie of life, but to make my own instead.

[whosdaflirt]

I am happy and grateful for what blessings I do have and do not begrudge those who have more than I. There are reasons for everything. There are reasons for my being, and my situation, and my thoughts and feelings. I am not a selfish one. I can be as happy for others as I can be for myself. I chose not to take from the pie of life, but to make my own instead.

Hmmmm...warm apple or lemon merangue?

[MIGHTY]

Hmmmm...warm apple or lemon merangue?


......pecan, if not to represent the bumps in the road.......and the sweet rewards of good things to come.

[whosdaflirt]

......pecan, if not to represent the bumps in the road.......and the sweet rewards of good things to come.


I love your thinking Mighty. :lf

[pointofnoreturn]

why doesn't he get it??

[OnlyOneMan]

why doesn't he get it??

Sometimes we make bad choices.

Sometimes we can't see the future.

Sometimes we're too naive to look for the future.

[Zifnab]

why doesn't he get it??often we refuse to understand things we can not accept, things that we do not want to admit could be real.... it may be an ego defense mechanism or perhaps the explanaition is not clear enough... or, as in my case, maybe he is an idiot.....

[pointofnoreturn]

Why don't people get help if they need it instead of trying to do it all themselves. The others suffer when you think you can do it all and then leave nothing for them..

[PunkyBob]

Why don't people get help if they need it instead of trying to do it all themselves. The others suffer when you think you can do it all and then leave nothing for them..

Probably...maybe...because getting help signifies a weakness to some, an acknowledgement of one's capabilities, which in the emotional arena, hurt worse than not being able to compete physically. I think it's all ego, something some of us here can understand. Trying to do it oneself, to get oneself out of a depressive rut would signify a great redeeming emotional victory. Getting help is what the "weaker" ones do. Hope this was somewhere near the target...

[MIGHTY]

Probably...maybe...because getting help signifies a weakness to some, an acknowledgement of one's capabilities, which in the emotional arena, hurt worse than not being able to compete physically. I think it's all ego, something some of us here can understand. Trying to do it oneself, to get oneself out of a depressive rut would signify a great redeeming emotional victory. Getting help is what the "weaker" ones do. Hope this was somewhere near the target...

I think that is only aspect of why people don't ask for help. Another could be that they're ashamed of the situation they're in. Then there's the not wanting to burden others with your issues, which is something I often feel. Sometimes you feel as if you are a drain to others because there seems to be an issue at every turn. Sometimes it's easier to pretend to be ok than to ask another to hold your hand yet one more time.

[PunkyBob]

I think that is only aspect of why people don't ask for help. Another could be that they're ashamed of the situation they're in. Then there's the not wanting to burden others with your issues, which is something I often feel. Sometimes you feel as if you are a drain to others because there seems to be an issue at every turn. Sometimes it's easier to pretend to be ok than to ask another to hold your hand yet one more time.

Yes, Mighty. I do know what you mean. For me, that's where the bravado comes in. I'm terrible at asking for help. I usually get asked *for* help; something about never letting the guard down...or some such horses--t...

[MIGHTY]

Yes, Mighty. I do know what you mean. For me, that's where the bravado comes in. I'm terrible at asking for help. I usually get asked *for* help; something about never letting the guard down...or some such horses--t...

I also think that there's a sense of vulnerability that comes into play as well. Trusting someone enough to allow them to help you. I do understand not wanting to let your guard down......

I think for most of us it is easier to help than to ask for it. Men are fixers...they need a solution for the problem so they can attack it head on and fix it. Women are nurturers......we need to make it better, to heal, to right the wrong.

[PunkyBob]

I also think that there's a sense of vulnerability that comes into play as well. Trusting someone enough to allow them to help you. I do understand not wanting to let your guard down......

I think for most of us it is easier to help than to ask for it. Men are fixers...they need a solution for the problem so they can attack it head on and fix it. Women are nurturers......we need to make it better, to heal, to right the wrong.


As much as I hate conventional marketing wisdom, I do believe *some* of the Mars/Venus dynamic. Men are fixers; at least I am. But I'm also learning to listen and keep my damn mouth shut. It's not easy; when someone I care about has a problem, I want to help them with it. I want to fix it so they will feel better. Plus it's easier than fixing the things in your own life! There are people I trust, and vulnerability is definitely an issue, and I do unburden myself once in a while. It always feels better afterwards...it's just taking that damn plunge...

[MIGHTY]

As much as I hate conventional marketing wisdom, I do believe *some* of the Mars/Venus dynamic. Men are fixers; at least I am. But I'm also learning to listen and keep my damn mouth shut. It's not easy; when someone I care about has a problem, I want to help them with it. I want to fix it so they will feel better. Plus it's easier than fixing the things in your own life! There are people I trust, and vulnerability is definitely an issue, and I do unburden myself once in a while. It always feels better afterwards...it's just taking that damn plunge...

This takes me back to having my son. When they wheeled me, unconscious, back to the room I was moaning loudly. Apparently they had placed me in the wrong direction on the bed and had to turn me around. I was not aware of any of this, but my husband was. He cursed and paced and yelled at the hospital staff for causing me more pain, even though I was still "out". He was reacting in anger becuase he could fix me or make my pain go away.......

[shorty51000]

[why] why was this word ever thought of it makes life suck sometimes

[UltimateNaneki]

[why] why was this word ever thought of it makes life suck sometimes

Why is the reason, people think of the future, present and past. We will all go through a why situation, though some may be stuck there others fleurish and mature with the answer!

[Zifnab]

[why] why was this word ever thought of it makes life suck sometimeswhy is the motivation behind all inventions and discoveries... it is not why that is the problem, it is the answers that can make life uncomfortable....

[pointofnoreturn]

why is my cat soooooooooooooooo big????

[David01]

which cat

[David01]

anybody home

[David01]

hello all

[IMaLady]

hello all

:wa:

[RedVixen]

Why are all the good men always taken by woman who don't appreciate and value what they've got?

[whosdaflirt]

Why are all the good men always taken by woman who don't appreciate and value what they've got?

Why when good men are available do women look the other way at guys who won't give them the love, time and attention they deserve?

[UltimateNaneki]

Why when good men are available do women look the other way at guys who won't give them the love, time and attention they deserve?

Oh I wish you were closer...:lf

[whosdaflirt]

Oh I wish you were closer...:lf

Why wish Ulti? There are plenty of good men around. They just seem to be either overlooked or taken for granted sometimes. But they are out there...

[UltimateNaneki]

Why wish Ulti? There are plenty of good men around. They just seem to be either overlooked or taken for granted sometimes. But they are out there...

They don't spend the time it is needed to know that I'm a real beautiful person...they are looking for the "10" that exists only in the movies!:(

[MIGHTY]

Why is it that, now that we're both working, he still expects me to do everything? Side note here....I have always worked..........

[MIGHTY]

Why do (some) grown men throw fits because they can't have what their children have? Why does he think that my son should suffer for his stupidity? :nu

[whosdaflirt]

Why is it that, now that we're both working, he still expects me to do everything? Side note here....I have always worked..........

Why can't it be clearer to some guys that doing their part makes a relationship that much more valuable!

[OICurready4me]

Why do (some) grown men throw fits because they can't have what their children have? Why does he think that my son should suffer for his stupidity? :nu

Maybe it is because your son is more mature than your husband...

[unctarheel_32]

why can't i be a rich person and have everything that i want

[IMaLady]

why can't i be a rich person and have everything that i want



Why are the rich more deserving then the poor?

[MIGHTY]

why can't i be a rich person and have everything that i want

If everything were handed to us on a silver platter, would that not diminish the appreciation of what we do have?

[MIGHTY]

Why are the rich more deserving then the poor?

They aren't. I believe that no one person is more deserving that another. Goes back to that "reasons" theory and the fact that there is one for everything in life. For whatever reason, some have to work harder than others to accomplish their goals and dreams in life. But, how much sweeter is the reward in the end when you know that you earned it and it was not merely handed to you?

[IMaLady]

They aren't. I believe that no one person is more deserving that another. Goes back to that "reasons" theory and the fact that there is one for everything in life. For whatever reason, some have to work harder than others to accomplish their goals and dreams in life. But, how much sweeter is the reward in the end when you know that you earned it and it was not merely handed to you?


I agree and wouldnt want everything handed to me. I just think the rich shouldnt be the only ones to have the luxuries in life that some, no matter how hard they work, will never have.

[MIGHTY]

I agree and wouldnt want everything handed to me. I just think the rich shouldnt be the only ones to have the luxuries in life that some, no matter how hard they work, will never have.

There are luxuries that I will never have. Funny though, at this point in my life, my luxuries are a home I own, cars that last for more than a couple of years, a decent wardrobe, and to provide for my son. If you knew my history, you would understand why these are now luxuries. Would it be nice to have no worries and such? Of course! But, for whatever reason, I am meant to struggle as are some of the rest of us. So, I will make the best of my struggling and hope, by God's grace, that my child will not have to do the same.

[IMaLady]

There are luxuries that I will never have. Funny though, at this point in my life, my luxuries are a home I own, cars that last for more than a couple of years, a decent wardrobe, and to provide for my son. If you knew my history, you would understand why these are now luxuries. Would it be nice to have no worries and such? Of course! But, for whatever reason, I am meant to struggle as are some of the rest of us. So, I will make the best of my struggling and hope, by God's grace, that my child will not have to do the same.



I have read several of your post here and can understand some of what you are going through. It sounds to me that you are handling it well and because of that you will be fine. Your son is lucky to have a great mother like you.

[MIGHTY]

I have read several of your post here and can understand some of what you are going through. It sounds to me that you are handling it well and because of that you will be fine. Your son is lucky to have a great mother like you.

Awe....thank you hun.:hug:I really wasn't trying to debate or gain sympathy here......just stating my thoughts. But, if I ever win the lotto, I'll be more than happy to send you the luxury of your choice........we all should have at least one great luxury at some point in our lives......:)

[IMaLady]

Awe....thank you hun.:hug:I really wasn't trying to debate or gain sympathy here......just stating my thoughts. But, if I ever win the lotto, I'll be more than happy to send you the luxury of your choice........we all should have at least one great luxury at some point in our lives......:)



Im glad you stated your thoughts. After that offer my fingers will be crossed for you to win lol.

[MIGHTY]

Im glad you stated your thoughts. After that offer my fingers will be crossed for you to win lol.

Lol...I am a woman of my word......but don't hold your breath on that winning thing....

[MIGHTY]

Why do some people feel the need to knock you down and take shots at your self esteem if not but to guarantee that you may never feel deserving of anyone else?

[Sneaky]

Why do some people feel the need to knock you down and take shots at your self esteem if not but to guarantee that you may never feel deserving of anyone else?

Because they are cruel. Don't let them do it. They are wrong.:hug:

[MIGHTY]

Because they are cruel. Don't let them do it. They are wrong.:hug:

Well, kind of hard when you live with the person, but this is what he wants after all, for me to be damaged when he leaves. But, I am a stronger woman than he gives me credit for and he will be the only one with regrets in the end.

Thanks Sneaky.:hug:

[Sneaky]

Well, kind of hard when you live with the person, but this is what he wants after all, for me to be damaged when he leaves. But, I am a stronger woman than he gives me credit for and he will be the only one with regrets in the end.

Thanks Sneaky.:hug:


Yes you ARE a stronger woman than he gives you credit for. And it is a weak person who would do such an thing anyway. Hang in there-:kk

[yaser]

Why do some people feel the need to knock you down and take shots at your self esteem if not but to guarantee that you may never feel deserving of anyone else?
Hun you are wounded if you think that he is right I am wrong..Is he right?

[yaser]

Yes you ARE a stronger woman than he gives you credit for. And it is a weak person who would do such an thing anyway. Hang in there-:kk
Agree,Sneaky..One must decide who is sick in mind who is not.

[milf_hunter916]

Why do men never answer a question directly?


Ohh we do it just depends on teh question :)

[OICurready4me]

If everything were handed to us on a silver platter, would that not diminish the appreciation of what we do have?


You are absolutely 100% correct, my dear. How many people give their kids everything they want and rather than be thankful for what their parents did for them, they feel they are owed more and more and become ungrateful little bastards when mommy and daddy finally say NO?

[OICurready4me]

Why do some people feel the need to knock you down and take shots at your self esteem if not but to guarantee that you may never feel deserving of anyone else?


All you need to know, baby, is that HE is the loser in this relationship. You are smart, beautiful, a tireless worker and a truly wonderful person. HE doesn't deserve someone like you and will kick himself in the ass when you walk out the door on him.

[scoobertina]

Why do I feel so much for my friends? Why can't I start believing that I will be okay one day? Why is it so hard to tell hubby that I don't love him and I need to move on?

[OICurready4me]

Why do I have such intense feelings right now to just say screw it and get on a plane to see Mighty! She is driving me nuts!!!!

[Misty]

Why do I have such intense feelings right now to just say screw it and get on a plane to see Mighty! She is driving me nuts!!!!
why even ask WHY? oh just go get her :)

BTW MRS...I think you are mighty fine :)

[sexntexx]

Why do I feel sorry for any Dumbass that can't realize how good that he has it if he is with Might?

[MIGHTY]

Why do I have such intense feelings right now to just say screw it and get on a plane to see Mighty! She is driving me nuts!!!!

:kk

[MIGHTY]

why even ask WHY? oh just go get her :)

BTW MRS...I think you are mighty fine :)

Awe....thank you Misty.......:kk

[MIGHTY]

Why do I feel sorry for any Dumbass that can't realize how good that he has it if he is with Might?

Just remember, you don't have to live with me....Lol.;)

[sexntexx]

Good point.

[OICurready4me]

why even ask WHY? oh just go get her :)

BTW MRS...I think you are mighty fine :)


I agree, she is....and soon, Misty, soon....

[Sneaky]

Why can't Yahoo function properly?

[scoobertina]

Why don't I feel anything for him anymore? Not even a little bit.... :sc

[pixiegirl]

The question is more...how?

[Zifnab]

The question is more...how?any way you want... it is after all, all about you!

[yaser]

why don't the therapists know what the getting well means but to treat only..

[Zifnab]

why don't the therapists know what the getting well means but to treat only..if everyone was cured who would they have left to treat? is like building something to last forever... great for your reputation, but terrible for job security.

[yaser]

if everyone was cured who would they have left to treat? is like building something to last forever... great for your reputation, but terrible for job security.
True, they try to treat to make someone crippled..handicapped..To go back..

[Zifnab]

True, they try to treat to make someone crippled..handicapped..To go back..I was kidding.... the work of the therapist is to discover the root source and then to help the client over come this issue... never would I intentionally state nor imply that they were deliberately or intentionally harming anyone through their sessions, although I am sure it has happened.

[yaser]

I was kidding.... the work of the therapist is to discover the root source and then to help the client over come this issue... never would I intentionally state nor imply that they were deliberately or intentionally harming anyone through their sessions, although I am sure it has happened.
It has been happing to me for years..Treatment keeps going and it seems it will continue..It is said that is chronique..Howvere there are good therapist who say I am incurable..I want to thank to them..

[66angelholly]

Why don't I feel anything for him anymore? Not even a little bit.... :sc

I'm with you girl on that one. I guess that is why we are here. I want more and need more!!:wa:

[peaches]

Why don't people just take the plung?

[Zifnab]

because they can't swim.... (take that on several levels...)

[peaches]

because they can't swim.... (take that on several levels...)
Yes, you can.......just to see the different ideas people have on the plung.......lol....thanks

[tiger50]

Yes, you can.......just to see the different ideas people have on the plung.......lol....thanks

gday peaches.. hey dont take any notice of zif, he a freakin wanker.....:D

[Zifnab]

gday peaches.. hey dont take any notice of zif, he a freakin wanker.....:Dno, you are the one wankin like a freak.... I am just a mindless idiot wandering the roads of random incoherence...

[peaches]

gday peaches.. hey dont take any notice of zif, he a freakin wanker.....:D
hello tiger50...lol....but always love to read what ever anyone puts out...lol

[tiger50]

hello tiger50...lol....but always love to read what ever anyone puts out...lol

lol ok... well a secret, one nite, in the middle of tha day....zif confessed. he did have a few at tha time.....he.he. he said he touches himself...:sc

[Zifnab]

lol ok... well a secret, one nite, in the middle of tha day....zif confessed. he did have a few at tha time.....he.he. he said he touches himself...:scI said I keep my nose clean... and you said "ya pik it then? how manee fingas do you uze?" I never said I touched myself!!! :nu but I only use the one....

[peaches]

I said I keep my nose clean... and you said "ya pik it then? how manee fingas do you uze?" I never said I touched myself!!! :nu but I only use the one....
now..now...boys..lmao....fight nice....lol......

[tiger50]

I said I keep my nose clean... and you said "ya pik it then? how manee fingas do you uze?" I never said I touched myself!!! :nu but I only use the one....

watch it yacockspittinhairyassedlittlejerkoff..:nu :nu :nu

[Zifnab]

now..now...boys..lmao....fight nice....lol......this is nice... and is not a fight... is normal interaction... part of the whole communication process.... a big stick to his head helps him pay attention when others are talking to him....

[Zifnab]

watch it yacockspittinhairyassedlittlejerkoff..:nu :nu :nuyou fuzzyclittedslackjaweddeepthroatingcheapdownonthec ornerateightamhookerwhithhalitosisandfallenarches. .... you don't know what you are talking about, as usual!

[peaches]

this is nice... and is not a fight... is normal interaction... part of the whole communication process.... a big stick to his head helps him pay attention when others are talking to him....
lmao...then stick away my good man.....lmao

[tiger50]

this is nice... and is not a fight... is normal interaction... part of the whole communication process.... a big stick to his head helps him pay attention when others are talking to him....

you normal.. aww fark, god help us all.....:sc

[Zifnab]

you normal.. aww fark, god help us all.....:scyou do need a lot of help....

[tiger50]

you do need a lot of help....

uhh send beer.....:lmao :lmao :lmao

[Zifnab]

uhh send beer.....:lmao :lmao :lmaogot good news on that front.... am working out details.... what do you want in the first batch??

[tiger50]

got good news on that front.... am working out details.... what do you want in the first batch??
uh downover beer good enuf ta start a brewery....:D