Are age differences a turn on?

[Catfish]

Have you found yourself attracted to people at least 10 years older or younger than you? At 49, of course I know many younger ladies I'd love to do. But I'm often attracted to women 10 years my senior, too.

You?


:sex

[UltimateNaneki]

Here age is not what I look for....I like someone that enjoys life. If your older or younger then me, that is just fine!

[Catfish]

Here age is not what I look for....I like someone that enjoys life. If your older or younger then me, that is just fine!

I agree! But age difference can add some spice, I think. :knuddel:

[DoratheExplorer]

Well I'm here because I caught myself flirting with a very hot 60 year old male. I'm 41. Age didn't bother me a bit. He's so divine ... :whee:

[ErkLover]

to me age is only a number its how the person acts that attracts me and entises me

[Milk]

age doesn't matter much to me. several years ago i had an affair with a man 16 years older. currently 1 of the guys i date is 16 years younger than me. i don't find it a turn on or turn off.

[pointofnoreturn]

As long as there is cake and presents at the b-day party who cares how old they are???

[Sabrina]

sure....spices things up a bit....

[yaser]

As long as there is cake and presents at the b-day party who cares how old they are???
I am :lf caring your sex power now..

[PunkyBob]

Age does not matter. It's how interesting she is. There's a woman 15 yrs older than me who just oozes sensuality. Wish she'd ooze im MY direction...

[Sabrina]

nah...it's all about who they are

[MCat]

I guess I have always preferred older men...the 2 or 3 fellas I kind of dated before I met hubby were 4 & 5 years old than me....hubby is 6 years older than me. I like the experience older men have, they seem wiser, not so rushed, and most important...interested in what I have to say.

[AffableOne]

I guess the age difference may add some intrigue.....

but mostly, it is the woman inside that allures me.

[Sunfiresix]

When I was younger I did like the older women-now I am older I look at younger but they would be considered older by someone younger--I always though a woman from 35--to around 45 was very appealing, why I don't know I guess they are just more sure of themselves and age tends to magnify beauty.. not in my case but....

[Wil]

....how does the saying go..."never trust anyone under 30..."

[Sunfiresix]

I changed my saying never trust managers, Vice pres. and CEO's

[RedHotPisces]

whheeewww...barely made that cut ;)



....how does the saying go..."never trust anyone under 30..."

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Age doesn't matter to me. However I do find myself attracted mostly to men older than myself, but there is one that I surprisingly have felt an attraction for lately that is much younger than me!

[BlueEyedBoy]

Age is a state of mind as much as the physical years that a person is.

[hank69]

Age or size does not matter to me...It's whats inside..But I lean towards the younger ones by 6 years or so

[p.J]

Age or size does not matter to me...It's whats inside..But I lean towards the younger ones by 6 years or so


Taking of whats inside... nice avatar Hank! :)

[OrigTxFunGal]

Hello :)

[Wil]

Hello :)


Hello there OrigTx.....always nice to have a texas woman here..

:3welcome:

[tiger50]

Hello :)

gday orig.... and welcome.... :wa:

[cherokeered]

Hello :)

Welcome to the site....:wa:

[Wil]

i find older women very attractive...when there is a connection everything works out really well....something about the way they walk.....yea...:dd

[Cotties]

have you been checking me out:sc Age doesn't matter to me. However I do find myself attracted mostly to men older than myself, but there is one that I surprisingly have felt an attraction for lately that is much younger than me!

[My_Secrets_Kept]

have you been checking me out:sc

should I be, turn around a little and let me take a look

[flourgirl]

a little younger...a little older...both a turn on

[Cotties]

I'm guessing its not my eyes you want to check out......is it the packed lunch I'm holding:sc should I be, turn around a little and let me take a look

[My_Secrets_Kept]

I'm guessing its not my eyes you want to check out......is it the packed lunch I'm holding:sc

Just wanting you turn turn around just a tad so that I can see lunch & desert...

[missgrace]

i recently had a 19 yo come onto me.. im 40.. it was a lil creepy.. so.. i prefer men...30-55

[sawflyman]

I like younger women but older women can be damn sexy too. so hell I like all women.

[pointofnoreturn]

Between 27-and 77 that sounds about right...

[rickingeorgia]

It's definately a turn on for me. I definately like the idea of an older woman for sure, very sexy.

[p.J]

I'm guessing its not my eyes you want to check out......is it the packed lunch I'm holding:sc

Meat and two veg is it cotties??? :rolleyes:

[rickingeorgia]

Between 27-and 77 that sounds about right...

I'm thinking you said 27 for a reason... or is that hoping?:D

[bryan3636]

Age is a state of mind...attraction is attraction

[Gray451]

I perfer not to rob the grave (where most people older than me are) or the cradle...just perfer people who are themselves

[baby face]

Age never ever made a difference to me but now that I met someone here that I talk alot to and we email back and forth a man 15+ years older than me is kind of a turn on........would love to experience it! My hubby is two years younger so I think older would be more fun to at least try anyway!

[Cotties]

everything a growing girl needs;)Meat and two veg is it cotties??? :rolleyes:

[sawflyman]

Age never ever made a difference to me but now that I met someone here that I talk alot to and we email back and forth a man 15+ years older than me is kind of a turn on........would love to experience it! My hubby is two years younger so I think older would be more fun to at least try anyway!

hey baby face 47 - 30 = 17 mmmmmmmmmm

[ck]

As long as there is cake and presents at the b-day party who cares how old they are???

right on, point!:kk

[OICurready4me]

Between 27-and 77 that sounds about right...


Point, you have to stop being so picky! :lmao

[mile high]

I'm attracted to confident and assertive older women most of the time.

I recently hired a secretary in her 50s because I wasn't allowed a younger one. I appreciate the lady's extensive knowledge of sex and relationships and she has had the time to perfect an awesome flirting technique.

[Sunfiresix]

Hey mile, I always liked older women too--I don't knw something changed and I seem to like younger now....

[mile high]

Hey Sunfiresix, younger women do it for me too, but often in different ways. Not that somebody's age is the first thing I notice about them, or is of much importance, but I will comment for the sake of the thread.

From my experience, older women are often more certain of what they want and accepting of no strings sex. Younger women are easier to impress, though higher maintainence. They are not as discreet as older women, which is a good and bad thing. Of course, all women demand respect, honesty and their dignity to remain intact (well usually).

[Sunfiresix]

You got it right my friend, no matter the age all women are great, you just have to treat them as such.

[yaser]

The younger I see and touch the harder I feel.

[living to Flirt]

I would have to say that its great that I can attract a younger woman, gives me "da man" feeling, but older ladies are usually less reserve, know what they want and are not usually one to kiss and tell.

[MCat]

Hey mile, I always liked older women too--I don't knw something changed and I seem to like younger now....

You just haven't found the right older woman....;)

[yaser]

You just haven't found the right older woman....;)
Are you the one who is right woman, Mcat?

[MCat]

Are you the one who is right woman, Mcat?

Someone like me might be right....:dd

[pointofnoreturn]

Point, you have to stop being so picky! :lmaoOk ok I will narrow it down.. between 27 yes rickingeorgia, and 76.. There is that better....:D

[shorty51000]

look at like a bottle of wine the older it is the better it is

[Cotties]

Only if she's sexy:sex4:

[SexyCowgirl]

I am generally more attracted to men older then me. I enjoy having someone I can interact with beyond just a sexual level, and not many young men my age think very hard;) No offence to those who do, I just haven't met very many twenty-something men who think beyond beer, food and women. Shoot, I haven't met all too many men who think beyond that at any age!

But I have found I am more likely to have things in common with men older then me, women as well.

[freestyle99]

Hey Cowgirl, want to go to Starbucks, Barnes and Noble and then a play? Then later we can chug Budweiser, stuff ourselves silly and then you know what...JK..lol. How are you? Haven't seen you in awhile...hope things are great. I am generally more attracted to men older then me. I enjoy having someone I can interact with beyond just a sexual level, and not many young men my age think very hard;) No offence to those who do, I just haven't met very many twenty-something men who think beyond beer, food and women. Shoot, I haven't met all too many men who think beyond that at any age!

But I have found I am more likely to have things in common with men older then me, women as well.

[SexyCowgirl]

Hey Cowgirl, want to go to Starbucks, Barnes and Noble and then a play? Then later we can chug Budweiser, stuff ourselves silly and then you know what...JK..lol. How are you? Haven't seen you in awhile...hope things are great.

How bout if we just brew our own coffee, engage in a lively disussion of a recently read book, and while we argue I'm sure we can come up with at least two other good ways to abuse my couch:D

I'm doin ok, how are you?

[shorty51000]

:55 ok let's put on the coffee and get things brewing

[freestyle99]

How bout if we just brew our own coffee, engage in a lively disussion of a recently read book, and while we argue I'm sure we can come up with at least two other good ways to abuse my couch:D

I'm doin ok, how are you?

Great thanks - good to see you again. Leather couch in need of some saddle soap?

[ck]

I think anywhere from about 25 years younger to 25 years older than I am is about right....

[majorfun]

I love older women that have taken care of themselves....An older women that is physically fit is worth her weight in gold....I love attractive high maintenance women....

[Jy]

I have a thing for older men, but I'd do anyone of any age depending on the person.

[aviatorspirit69]

I am an older gentleman, (Im 50 and I look 40) I find that for the most part the very young who are interested pant nervously, the ones that are 10 years my junior respect and acknowledge my wisdom and the ones my age want younger men with out even taking me for a ride and the ones ten years my senior want to mother me and control me (Im not easily controlled)....so I try to find harmony. If anyone has a personality, with sexuality and acknowledges me with respect, I may call her a goddess.

Your Aviator

[Jy]

I'm 8 years younger than you, and though I acknowledge your wisdom, I wasn't thinking of doing anything the least ways respectful to you, A-man! ;)



I am an older gentleman, (Im 50 and I look 40) I find that for the most part the very young who are interested pant nervously, the ones that are 10 years my junior respect and acknowledge my wisdom and the ones my age want younger men with out even taking me for a ride and the ones ten years my senior want to mother me and control me (Im not easily controlled)....so I try to find harmony. If anyone has a personality, with sexuality and acknowledges me with respect, I may call her a goddess.

Your Aviator

[snowflake]

My hubby is 10 years my senior, most of the time I find that is an even balance for us..... Older men make better lovers, oh wait, I think that is older women make beautiful lovers... All the same I'll take an older man anytime...:D

[AffableOne]

the age, as long as it is reasonable, is inconse

[AffableOne]

the age, as long as it is reasonable, is inconsequential to me.....

it is the connection that matters....

but I prefer women close to my age

[aviatorspirit69]

I'm 8 years younger than you, and though I acknowledge your wisdom, I wasn't thinking of doing anything the least ways respectful to you, A-man! ;)

Should I be frightened? Or.....are you just trying to get me to Premium 150?

Your Aviator:55

[Sneaky]

My husband is 15 years older than me. I usually like older men, but it really depends on the individual

[IMaLady]

i want an older man

[yaser]

i want an older man
I want a yo :lf unger woman..

[baby face]

I seem to be attracted to men ten years older.....I'm not for sure why but I am!

[Big O]

I seem to be attracted to men ten years older.....I'm not for sure why but I am!

damn! not twenty?? I look young for my age......lol

[Willy S]

younger women have their attractions - if they're the right kind of younger woman

[Sunfiresix]

I always went for the older woman, now---the numbers have changed--now I look at the younger....

[baby face]

twenty would probably be ok........we'll just have to wait and see!

[snowflake]

I always went for the older woman, now---the numbers have changed--now I look at the younger....

How young are you looking at?

[Big O]

twenty would probably be ok........we'll just have to wait and see!

:whee:

[Sunfiresix]

How young are you looking at?

:lf does that answer yer question?

[snowflake]

:lf does that answer yer question?

:kk I must be in the correct age range... haha...

[Sunfiresix]

funny when I was in my twenties I liked the +30 women now in my fifties and I like the + 30 women, maybe it never changed...

[snowflake]

funny when I was in my twenties I liked the +30 women now in my fifties and I like the + 30 women, maybe it never changed...

30's are a great age... No complaints here, I hear 40 is better, but I will just ride the 30's out.........especially if that is some people's preference...;)

[Sunfiresix]

30's are a great age... No complaints here, I hear 40 is better, but I will just ride the 30's out.........especially if that is some people's preference...;)

To tell the truth, all ages are great, fun and exciting, it is more the person than the age.....

[snowflake]

To tell the truth, all ages are great, fun and exciting, it is more the person than the age.....

Fun and exciting, that sounds like me... lol... Now, what can you teach me as an older and wiser fun loving gentleman? :D

[ck]

Fun and exciting, that sounds like me... lol... Now, what can you teach me as an older and wiser fun loving gentleman? :D

I could show you that as men age they learn more about taking our time to please a woman. Oftentimes a younger man is in more of a rush and doesn't consider his woman's desires. :lf

[AL(m)]

: Age really is just a state of mind... if you think younge you will act younge... but older men do tend to be slower and take more time in pleasing their partner... I think if I knew as much about sex ( how to please a lady) that I do now and was in my 20 or 30's ..... well I like to think I would have left many ladies with smile on their faces..
Now is more about pleasing the woman first then my own climax......strange but true..... :wa:

[cherokeered]

: Age really is just a state of mind... if you think younge you will act younge... but older men do tend to be slower and take more time in pleasing their partner... I think if I knew as much about sex ( how to please a lady) that I do now and was in my 20 or 30's ..... well I like to think I would have left many ladies with smile on their faces..
Now is more about pleasing the woman first then my own climax......strange but true..... :wa:

Thats good hun...my hubby hasnt figured this out and never will...it is why he on the list of things to be replaced.....:wa:

[AL(m)]

Thats good hun...my hubby hasnt figured this out and never will...it is why he on the list of things to be replaced.....:wa:

Ahh yes must apologise for the male species... some of us are slow.. and thick skulled... but there are some of us out there that stillknow how to put a lady on a pedestal..... :D

[MCat]

Ahh yes must apologise for the male species... some of us are slow.. and thick skulled... but there are some of us out there that still know how to put a lady on a pedestal..... :D


And ya know Amb...I don't think most of us want to be on a pedestal...we just want our needs and desires fullfilled....same thing most men want.

We want to feel loved, desired and appreciated. :)

[AL(m)]

And ya know Amb...I don't think most of us want to be on a pedestal...we just want our needs and desires fullfilled....same thing most men want.

We want to feel loved, desired and appreciated. :)

Pedestal probably the wrong word as it tends to mean out of reach... my meaning is more for the male to be aware of the womans needs and desires....and not just his own...... :wa:

[MCat]

Pedestal probably the wrong word as it tends to mean out of reach... my meaning is more for the male to be aware of the womans needs and desires....and not just his own...... :wa:

There ya go.....:55 That's what I thought you meant. ;)

[AL(m)]

There ya go.....:55 That's what I thought you meant. ;)


Ah yes sometimes the words spill out before the mind clarifies the meaning.....eheheheheheh
and a wonderful good day to you too Mcat..... :wa:

[XMONKEYLOVINSX]

i dont think age matters i am with someone who is 17 years older than me and we have been together for 5 years, sometimes it gets weird i think it makes my parents uncomfortable cause he is closer in age to them than me but its all good

[shorty51000]

[I] you're right age does not matter as long as you both are honest with one another which is hard to find no matter what the age

[shorty51000]

[I] most women do want to be put on a pedalstal if she is treated as though she was a queen

[One Song Hero]

I think being considered attractive to those significantly younger or older is, if not a turn-on, gratifying. We would all like to think there are valuable aspects to ourselves that are timeless. I would love to imagine a woman of sixty or twenty thinking to herself, 'I wish I could be with a man with a sense of humor like that', about me.

That being said, I also believe that, with plenty of exceptions, generally the stronger relationships are based primarily on common ground (including age). There is also the issue of fairness. I wouldn't strap myself to a twenty-year-old because I believe everyone is entitled to their youth, health permitting. I do, however, believe that exceptions, even cosmically incredible ones, exist. Soul mates are possible in an intergenerational setting, but I would personally avoid looking there first.

This is all IMHO, of course.

[thickitalian]

Good mind OS...

Just curious, as most names here we can figure out the meaning attached...what does your name signify? I can't figure that one out...were you one of those "one hit wonder" singers in your past? Is there a particular song that does it for you?

I think being considered attractive to those significantly younger or older is, if not a turn-on, gratifying. We would all like to think there are valuable aspects to ourselves that are timeless. I would love to imagine a woman of sixty or twenty thinking to herself, 'I wish I could be with a man with a sense of humor like that', about me.

That being said, I also believe that, with plenty of exceptions, generally the stronger relationships are based primarily on common ground (including age). There is also the issue of fairness. I wouldn't strap myself to a twenty-year-old because I believe everyone is entitled to their youth, health permitting. I do, however, believe that exceptions, even cosmically incredible ones, exist. Soul mates are possible in an intergenerational setting, but I would personally avoid looking there first.

This is all IMHO, of course.

[scoobertina]

I think being considered attractive to those significantly younger or older is, if not a turn-on, gratifying. We would all like to think there are valuable aspects to ourselves that are timeless. I would love to imagine a woman of sixty or twenty thinking to herself, 'I wish I could be with a man with a sense of humor like that', about me.

That being said, I also believe that, with plenty of exceptions, generally the stronger relationships are based primarily on common ground (including age). There is also the issue of fairness. I wouldn't strap myself to a twenty-year-old because I believe everyone is entitled to their youth, health permitting. I do, however, believe that exceptions, even cosmically incredible ones, exist. Soul mates are possible in an intergenerational setting, but I would personally avoid looking there first.

This is all IMHO, of course.

I am not too terribly young anymore... would you consider my interest in you to be gratifying hon?

[XMONKEYLOVINSX]

i made a post about the age difference before and i think i would like to re word it a bit... in terms of turn ons i dont think age has anything to do with it but as far as serious relationships go you should consider it. my man is almost forty and i think about how it will be in 20 years and what about us having children long term relationships with big age differences are much different that just as a turn on

[One Song Hero]

Good mind OS...

Just curious, as most names here we can figure out the meaning attached...what does your name signify? I can't figure that one out...were you one of those "one hit wonder" singers in your past? Is there a particular song that does it for you?

Thank you, ti.

And no, I'm not a celebrity, even in a former or limited sense.
There are many songs I'm attached to. Do you have a particular
song that really does it for you?

[yaser]

i made a post about the age difference before and i think i would like to re word it a bit... in terms of turn ons i dont think age has anything to do with it but as far as serious relationships go you should consider it. my man is almost forty and i think about how it will be in 20 years and what about us having children long term relationships with big age differences are much different that just as a turn on
I was asking myself why I have been attracted by Monkeyl...Now I have got the answer..

[One Song Hero]

I am not too terribly young anymore... would you consider my interest in you to be gratifying hon?

Yes, I confess I would. :)

It's you, not our age difference, that is the turn-on here, Scoobertina.

[One Song Hero]

i made a post about the age difference before and i think i would like to re word it a bit... in terms of turn ons i dont think age has anything to do with it but as far as serious relationships go you should consider it. my man is almost forty and i think about how it will be in 20 years and what about us having children long term relationships with big age differences are much different that just as a turn on

As long as you both care deeply about parenting and realize your family is blessed by the inclusion of both somewhat younger and older perspectives, I see no negatives attributable to age in your child-rearing future, xmlx. You might wish to start sooner, though, if potency factors for him are an issue.

[Outta]

Well age is def a factor to me. When hanging around our friends in their late 40's, early 50's I hear a lot of crap about health problems and the hum-drum of life. I'd rather be around younger, more vibrant people.


In fact, the perfect girl might be about 34, blonde, with a perfect set of tits and ass. Anyone know someone like that?

[thickitalian]

Gotta get some new friends Outta...I don't hear the same as you...and my friends are older...just here and there....btw..I like the way you mentioned late forties and not mid forties.....lol...cool!

Well age is def a factor to me. When hanging around our friends in their late 40's, early 50's I hear a lot of crap about health problems and the hum-drum of life. I'd rather be around younger, more vibrant people.


In fact, the perfect girl might be about 34, blonde, with a perfect set of tits and ass. Anyone know someone like that?

[Sweetdreams069]

Age shouldn't be a factor if the chemistry is there. I was seeing a girl who was ten years younger than I was and it didn't feel that way at all. And then I saw a girl who was 5 years older than me and I didn't mind the age difference.
The 34 yr old was ideal though.... beatiful blonde, thin with nice tits and the perfect ass. And she loved sex in any way shape or form. Ok, I'm gonna go cry in a corner now ........:cry:

[UltimateNaneki]

I don't think so,it all depends what your looking for!! I want sex!

[thickitalian]

You seem to describe a real hot gal there bud....soItake it the reason for the description was to make a point that age means nothing if a gal has a great shape and is beautiful in a guy's eyes...I tend to disagree and feel that the older a woman the more meaningful it is in many many situations regardless of whether or not she is perfect in looks and shape....hot to me is definitely not hot to you...lol...I love a woman who is spontaneous and just knows without telling you she does...btw...you should definitely post you pic at 150...hot gals usually go with hot guys...the gals here would love you, I'm sure. In my opinion, an older gal knows how to make love and not just have sex. Your post depicts you as younger than 44 ....you will find out what I'm talking about...give it more time, some mature faster than others.

I like your thoughts though Mr. Sweet....keep it natural and you will be very cool indeed! :55

Age shouldn't be a factor if the chemistry is there. I was seeing a girl who was ten years younger than I was and it didn't feel that way at all. And then I saw a girl who was 5 years older than me and I didn't mind the age difference.
The 34 yr old was ideal though.... beatiful blonde, thin with nice tits and the perfect ass. And she loved sex in any way shape or form. Ok, I'm gonna go cry in a corner now ........:cry:

[Sweetdreams069]

You seem to describe a real hot gal there bud....soItake it the reason for the description was to make a point that age means nothing if a gal has a great shape and is beautiful in a guy's eyes...I tend to disagree and feel that the older a woman the more meaningful it is in many many situations regardless of whether or not she is perfect in looks and shape....hot to me is definitely not hot to you...lol...I love a woman who is spontaneous and just knows without telling you she does...btw...you should definitely post you pic at 150...hot gals usually go with hot guys...the gals here would love you, I'm sure. In my opinion, an older gal knows how to make love and not just have sex. Your post depicts you as younger than 44 ....you will find out what I'm talking about...give it more time, some mature faster than others.

I like your thoughts though Mr. Sweet....keep it natural and you will be very cool indeed! :55

Don't get me wrong, it's definitely not all about looks for me. I do love women who take care of themselves and stay in shape as I do myself. Someone who is a generally upbeat, a positive thinker and happy person will get along well with me. I think I threw the description in there because I read in a previous post someone describing thier ideal woman and I think I was kind of responding to that. And I actuallly do think I act, look, and feel alot younger than 44. So I don't mind you saying that at all.
Thanks for the tips.

[One Song Hero]

Yes, experience and maturity are both positives, in a prospective partner. Jadedness, however, is not. I realize it's hard not to acquire at least some amount of baggage (or scarring), if you've been around the block a few times. Maybe that is one of the big draws for those looking for younger partners, not having to pay for (or counteract, or heal) as many wounds or scars left by former lovers.

[p.J]

Yes, experience and maturity are both positives, in a prospective partner. Jadedness, however, is not. I realize it's hard not to acquire at least some amount of baggage (or scarring), if you've been around the block a few times. Maybe that is one of the big draws for those looking for younger partners, not having to pay for (or counteract, or heal) as many wounds or scars left by former lovers.


:sc On the contrary, I think its those er wounds and scars that makes us the interesting characters that we become due to vast experiences and of course maturity. We are perhaps wiser in our world view, based on those experiences, whether good or bad, we acquire a confidence, the art of conversation, our own individual perspective on life and, most importantly, wisdom - a very sexy trait.

[My_Secrets_Kept]

:sc On the contrary, I think its those er wounds and scars that makes us the interesting characters that we become due to vast experiences and of course maturity. We are perhaps wiser in our world view, based on those experiences, whether good or bad, we acquire a confidence, the art of conversation, our own individual perspective on life and, most importantly, wisdom - a very sexy trait.

I agree with Jenny..

To one degree or another everyone has their own baggage. Experiences throughout life are what helps to form us into the individuals that we are. Whether or not those experiences are good, bad or indifferent; it's all in how one chooses to view things and to cope that makes the difference.

[Wil]

...I don't think most of us want to be on a pedestal...we just want our needs and desires fullfilled....same thing most men want.

We want to feel loved, desired and appreciated. :)

that's all...

[longing for passion]

There is just something about an older women that gets me going...wisdom, experience, patience, etc...what more could you ask for. Older women just know what they want and how they want and decisiveness is a total turn on!

[One Song Hero]

:sc On the contrary, I think its those er wounds and scars that makes us the interesting characters that we become due to vast experiences and of course maturity. We are perhaps wiser in our world view, based on those experiences, whether good or bad, we acquire a confidence, the art of conversation, our own individual perspective on life and, most importantly, wisdom - a very sexy trait.
I agree with Jenny..

To one degree or another everyone has their own baggage. Experiences throughout life are what helps to form us into the individuals that we are. Whether or not those experiences are good, bad or indifferent; it's all in how one chooses to view things and to cope that makes the difference.
Yes, Jenny, and My_Secrets, I see what you mean. For the most part, I also agree. Perhaps the deeper scars, the ones that cripple or shackle us, are the ones that I hate to encounter in others. I have a friend whose former lover was cheated on in a previous relationship (a marriage), and they broke up almost solely because she (the former lover) could not trust my friend not to cheat on her anytime he was out of her sight. That's the kind of baggage that stinks. [I really felt bad for both of them when I heard they broke up, they were otherwise a really nice couple.]

But, yes, life experiences do add character, I agree, and they also foster the procurement of wisdom (as do posts by pragmaticJenny and My Secrets Kept!). ;)

[thickitalian]

If you have been involved with the Internet and meeting various people in text or perhaps with a phone call, you will realize that many many women are online because of baggage they have had to bear and most of it is not their fault entirely. I can only speak from a man's point of view and feel that you should hear both sides One Song...although I have to say, listening to some of the guys here and some of the women's experiences with those guys...I would think men are no different when it comes to luggage. A woman and a man'spoint of view enables me to have the best options to try and make the most of it in my own mind. My personal opinion is the fact that most people should be aware of this before they decide to "play" online. My biggest adrenelin rush does not come from sex talking and fantasizing, although that is a rush of a different type, but my biggest excitement comes from being there for someone whose mind has concealed so much over the years and is no longer perceptive or wary as it should be. When you see the change take place with that person, it is a wonderful feeling of excitement.

The example you mentioned of the gal who was not trusting of anyone, I have personally experienced...and believe me....you could stand on your head until the sun don't shine anymore...and nothing you do or say will ever right that wrong which has overtaken her mind. It takes a hell of a person to stay in a relatioinship like that without himself becoming mentally damaged as well. It's very sad to know that all of these gals will suffer the rest of their lives
with this burden in their minds because of some low down and uncaring ...so called...man.

Bottom line is to understand why ppl are here...and it's not just for the sex as it appears to be from every single boy or man here......so I guess this is a great site as we have sex mixed with some solid therapy.:55





Yes, Jenny, and My_Secrets, I see what you mean. For the most part, I also agree. Perhaps the deeper scars, the ones that cripple or shackle us, are the ones that I hate to encounter in others. I have a friend whose former lover was cheated on in a previous relationship (a marriage), and they broke up almost solely because she (the former lover) could not trust my friend not to cheat on her anytime he was out of her sight. That's the kind of baggage that stinks. [I really felt bad for both of them when I heard they broke up, they were otherwise a really nice couple.]

But, yes, life experiences do add character, I agree, and they also foster the procurement of wisdom (as do posts by pragmaticJenny and My Secrets Kept!). ;)

[thickitalian]

I love to travel down memory lane with my music and there is no better rush than riding throught the desert or the mountains in Nevada in an open Jeep with that music, nature, serenity...I sometimes pull over and sit there, eyes closed, and smile...and I suppose whoever passes me must think I'm odd...lol! That is called a relaxing vacation for me....and let's just say for that one particular song...there are quite a few from the Righteous Bros that create so many memories for me.



Thank you, ti.

And no, I'm not a celebrity, even in a former or limited sense.
There are many songs I'm attached to. Do you have a particular
song that really does it for you?

[Willy S]

they can be

[yaser]

Fresher the better...

[Annie]

I agree with Jenny..

To one degree or another everyone has their own baggage. Experiences throughout life are what helps to form us into the individuals that we are. Whether or not those experiences are good, bad or indifferent; it's all in how one chooses to view things and to cope that makes the difference. Exactly! Is it his fault that I'm wounded? Or is it MY fault because I didn't deal with it?

I often grow weary hearing others play the blame game to justify their "victim" mentality. Maybe it's because I have had to fight so hard to get where I am today...


... then again... maybe I'm just a heartless bitch...

[Willy S]

they can be

for instance, an older man is always flattered by a younger woman's attention, and that is a turn on; and younger women often find an older man more patient and attentive ...

[thickitalian]

Here's what I feel and what I was told by other women...for what it's worth.

The attractiveness I feel with a younger gal is the fact that I would not be with her unless she was more mature than her age dictates...that is the attraction for me...yeah yeah...younger body...whatever...but an older woman's body just turn's me on knowing that she knows how to use it passionately.

Younger gals have told me that they are tired of young and dumb and need more passion and love with an older man. I guess hard sex is great but when it is over...are you truly satisfied? These were their thoughts...for the most part and this is from those I chat with and have been with.

The patience and attentiveness you refer to come into play with all of the above...and as for a man being flattered by a younger woman's attention......lol! I always think the complete opposite and feel I am flattering a young gal to be with me. Don't get me wrong...I'm not talking about an ego trip as I do not consider myself in that category to have a right to go there...but an older man has a lot of built in knowledge and tons of experience that a younger woman can learn from...and it helps to know how to make love at a young age too. :D

Interesting topic and I'm sure most men have their own style...as do women.


for instance, an older man is always flattered by a younger woman's attention, and that is a turn on; and younger women often find an older man more patient and attentive ...

[pointofnoreturn]

I could care less how old you are. If you turn me on then I say go for it!!

[Zpanther]

Exactly! Is it his fault that I'm wounded? Or is it MY fault because I didn't deal with it?

I often grow weary hearing others play the blame game to justify their "victim" mentality. Maybe it's because I have had to fight so hard to get where I am today...


... then again... maybe I'm just a heartless bitch...

heh heh...... well, I wouldn't use THAT description....... or...... well, maybe I would......... how about deliciously sexy heartless bitch?

[One Song Hero]

Thank you for your responses, ThickItalian. Your points of view are very compelling.

XMonkeyLovinsX, I need to say one thing. Please don't ever doubt your relationship's value or strength because of any posts you read here. You've made it through several obstacles already. If you love and believe, that is all that matters.

I wish you continued success.

[MIGHTY]

I don't think the age matters, especially when you have love in your heart. I have thought from time to time what it would be like to take a young buck and wow him. I have also dreampt of certain older men as well. Being married for soo long, I have to say, I have noticed that as we get older our needs tend to change and the sexual gratification tends to intensify. I believe that the older you get, the more you appreciate your body and the desire to please him, as well as yourself. You discover what your true needs are and the ability to express them becomes much easier.

[One Song Hero]

I don't think the age matters, especially when you have love in your heart. I have thought from time to time what it would be like to take a young buck and wow him. I have also dreampt of certain older men as well. Being married for soo long, I have to say, I have noticed that as we get older our needs tend to change and the sexual gratification tends to intensify. I believe that the older you get, the more you appreciate your body and the desire to please him, as well as yourself. You discover what your true needs are and the ability to express them becomes much easier.
I wish. For me, it's all too much like a phonograph needle skipping over the same part of a record. I don't feel like I've learned much about anything in the last ten years, not about matters related to hijinks in the bedroom, anyway. Sorry to say.

[Suz]

I'm totally turned on by the age difference..I love an older guy, love that he has the mileage of life under his belt..and I love being his hot young thang that rocks his world.

[MIGHTY]

I wish. For me, it's all too much like a phonograph needle skipping over the same part of a record. I don't feel like I've learned much about anything in the last ten years, not about matters related to hijinks in the bedroom, anyway. Sorry to say.

But, there are certainly things that you have learned about yourself and future lovers in the last 20 years or so isn't there? You don't have the same taste as you did when you were 20.....or do you?

[massage mike]

its a turn on knowing the ladies here get turned on

[MIGHTY]

Ok.....I have to admit that age differences can sometimes be a turn on. I was chatting with someone a while back. I was asking him to explain why he wanted certain things that he wanted. He said " Well, I have always wanted to be with an older woman." It took me a minute to realize that he was talking about me. I thought to myself " Oh, shit! I am the older woman!" It was a moment of truth for me in my ripe 32 years of age. I had never been referred to as the older woman before. But, once I thought about it, I was extremely flattered. I have now become the woman that my son's friends will begin to lust for as they get older and hormones kick in. I am ok with that.:)

[Willy S]

for instance, an older man is always flattered by a younger woman's attention, and that is a turn on; and younger women often find an older man more patient and attentive ...

and I doubt that there are many older women who wouldn't be excited by younger man's "attention"

[Amaretto]

and I doubt that there are many older women who wouldn't be excited by younger man's "attention"

Significantly (15-20 years) younger guys don't do anything for me. There's such a lack of life experience, an immaturity that will be erased only through time, and such a difference in the current life issues we're going through, that I just can't imagine having a romantic/sexual relationship with someone that much younger. Simply not enough common ground to build intimacy on.

Now, can I appreciate their good looks, vitality, and buff bods?----oh yeh. But I think of them more as young guys who should be hangin' out with my own sons.

[Willy S]

Significantly (15-20 years) younger guys don't do anything for me. There's such a lack of life experience, an immaturity that will be erased only through time, and such a difference in the current life issues we're going through, that I just can't imagine having a romantic/sexual relationship with someone that much younger. Simply not enough common ground to build intimacy on.

Now, can I appreciate their good looks, vitality, and buff bods?----oh yeh. But I think of them more as young guys who should be hangin' out with my own sons.

I guess it was the latter - the physical part - that I was referring to

[One Song Hero]

But, there are certainly things that you have learned about yourself and future lovers in the last 20 years or so isn't there? You don't have the same taste as you did when you were 20.....or do you?
Yes, MIGHTY, I do hope I understand women, myself, and people in general more now than in the past. Things are just so boringly stagnant at home, and I openly admit I am as much to blame for this problem as she is. It's a problem with motivation, or more accurately, a lack of passion.

I realize I'm not alone here, I know there are plenty of people like me in the world wearing the same tired look I am sporting. I also realize I am not alone here; I'm grateful to have members here at MandF like you to learn from. Thank you for sharing. :))): (http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/forums/misc.php?do=getsmilies&wysiwyg=1&forumid=8#)

[MIGHTY]

Yes, MIGHTY, I do hope I understand women, myself, and people in general more now than in the past. Things are just so boringly stagnant at home, and I openly admit I am as much to blame for this problem as she is. It's a problem with motivation, or more accurately, a lack of passion.

I realize I'm not alone here, I know there are plenty of people like me in the world wearing the same tired look I am sporting. I also realize I am not alone here; I'm grateful to have members here at MandF like you to learn from. Thank you for sharing. :))): (http://www.marriedandflirtingchat.com/forums/misc.php?do=getsmilies&wysiwyg=1&forumid=8#)

I don't know how much I can really teach you, given my current situation, but you are correct in the fact that others can relate well with what you are dealing with and that it takes to to make or break. No one here is alone......:kk

[One Song Hero]

Significantly (15-20 years) younger guys don't do anything for me. There's such a lack of life experience, an immaturity that will be erased only through time, and such a difference in the current life issues we're going through, that I just can't imagine having a romantic/sexual relationship with someone that much younger. Simply not enough common ground to build intimacy on.

Now, can I appreciate their good looks, vitality, and buff bods?----oh yeh. But I think of them more as young guys who should be hangin' out with my own sons.
One thing I have come to believe is that fantasies and daydreams shouldn't be mistaken for true hopes and aspirations. One of the absolute best benefits to being human is having the ability to think outside of one's self and thus being able to imagine, for example, a twenty-five year old buff version of me with a young, sexy nineteen year old woman. That is a fantasy I could embrace (as I embrace a certain part of myself? ha ha) and enjoy today, but it's not something I feel compelled to make happen, because it's not actually me, or me as I am today, in the illusion. Fantasies that involve me as I actually am are more likely to be true desires, something I might actually want to come true.

[yaser]

Significantly (15-20 years) younger guys don't do anything for me. There's such a lack of life experience, an immaturity that will be erased only through time, and such a difference in the current life issues we're going through, that I just can't imagine having a romantic/sexual relationship with someone that much younger. Simply not enough common ground to build intimacy on.

Now, can I appreciate their good looks, vitality, and buff bods?----oh yeh. But I think of them more as young guys who should be hangin' out with my own sons.
wHAT ABOUT THE OLDER ONES?ME?ANY MEANING TO YOU AMARETTO?

[PunkyBob]

A friend's quote: "Young guys don't really know what they're doing...but they can do it all night long!"

[yaser]

A friend's quote: "Young guys don't really know what they're doing...but they can do it all night long!"
Quality and quantity don't go together..When you do one one you lose the other.

[Big O]

not really. I get turned on by women of all ages.

[PunkyBob]

not really. I get turned on by women of all ages.

Good for you! I hope I get turned by women *at* all ages...:D

[DarkRyder13]

For sure, to date I have never dated a woman my age or younger. I only go for older women. My wife is 9 years my senior, but I've been with women 14 years older. So 10 is a pretty good number I think. I'm all in favor for dating an older woman.

[Alonelyboy4u]

I like both younger and older. Age does not matter to me it is what is inside that is important. Age doesn't define Beauty

[phlex79]

I actually find women that are older than me more attractive than women that are younger than me.

[whosdaflirt]

Age makes absolutely no difference for me. I am attracted to people's personality first, and then the rest. I like women who have a matured outlook, but have found many 20 and 30 somethings that have shown more maturity than many people my age and older...

Bottom line, I don't care how old you are. Let me show you the respect, love and care you deserve, and simply offer the same in return...

[Operator Bob]

Good for you! I hope I get turned by women *at* all ages...:D

I get turned on by women *from* all ages - that Mona Lisa is a hotty. What is she thinking about anyways??:D

[johandevotie]

I am not really concerned about age but an older woman is definitely a turn on and could help fulfill some long held and as yet unrealized fantasies......so could a younger woman for that matter.....

[IMaLady]

I get turned on by women *from* all ages - that Mona Lisa is a hotty. What is she thinking about anyways??:D



I thought the Mona Lisa was a self portrait of the male artist.:lmao

[unctarheel_32]

well i love an older woman,cause what i dont know they can teach me

[PunkyBob]

Younger women are always a turn-on for me...but I've always been more attracted to women my age and older...something about them that oozes sensuality...knowing what they want...talking...playing...

[MIGHTY]

well i love an older woman,cause what i dont know they can teach me

It's not about what you know or don't know. It's about the desires as an individual and in general. Speaking from a "younger" woman's experience, I have been known to teach a man a thing or two. Not necessarily something he wasn't aware of before, but perhaps a different twist on an old habit/style. Just my thoughts......

[Sweetdreams069]

I don't think it really matters what ages are, it's just a number. I do think that some people seem to attract or get along with people that are not necessarily there same age. For instance I seem to click better with women who are younger than me. Not that I prefer them, but just in my experience it seems women who are older than me aren't as responsive for some reason. Not sure why that is though, but it seems to hold some truth or maybe it's just a coincidence, who knows?

[MIGHTY]

I don't think it really matters what ages are, it's just a number. I do think that some people seem to attract or get along with people that are not necessarily there same age. For instance I seem to click better with women who are younger than me. Not that I prefer them, but just in my experience it seems women who are older than me aren't as responsive for some reason. Not sure why that is though, but it seems to hold some truth or maybe it's just a coincidence, who knows?

Finally, someone is sticking up for, what appears to be, the minority here........;) :55

[Sneaky]

I'm usually drawn to older men, but I don't think it's the age difference that turned me on, I think it's the person.

[yaser]

I'm usually drawn to older men, but I don't think it's the age difference that turned me on, I think it's the person.
What type of person attracts you Sneaky?

[NYCMasterplumber]

I love older UNTIL this week when I hit 60 so now I guess I will settle for kids of 45 +

[Big O]

I'm usually drawn to older men, but I don't think it's the age difference that turned me on, I think it's the person.

mmmm.... well. I'm older, I good, I'm clean. I have a lot of good friends.....

[Sneaky]

What type of person attracts you Sneaky?

Depth, intellegence, multiple layers, good sense of humor, the ability to balance strength and vulnerability depending on what the situation calls for, curiosity, confidence without being cocky and he has to know how to please a woman, how to kiss, when to kiss, how to hold me. I like him to have his own interests and his own life but still need me just a little bit. He should be a good listener, but also be able to contribute to the converstation. I like a guy who knows how to dress and really appreciates women- I love when they give you the appreciative once over with thier eyes. I like him to be willing to try new things and not stuck in his ways. I like him to have his own point of veiw but be able defend it if I challange him.

But I'm not picky or anything.

Oh yeah, and a nice butt helps. ;)

[yaser]

I love older UNTIL this week when I hit 60 so now I guess I will settle for kids of 45 +
Good point Plumber..I decided to be interested in the ones who are between 35_45..

[yaser]

Depth, intellegence, multiple layers, good sense of humor, the ability to balance strength and vulnerability depending on what the situation calls for, curiosity, confidence without being cocky and he has to know how to please a woman, how to kiss, when to kiss, how to hold me. I like him to have his own interests and his own life but still need me just a little bit. He should be a good listener, but also be able to contribute to the converstation. I like a guy who knows how to dress and really appreciates women- I love when they give you the appreciative once over with thier eyes. I like him to be willing to try new things and not stuck in his ways. I like him to have his own point of veiw but be able defend it if I challange him.

But I'm not picky or anything.

Oh yeah, and a nice butt helps. ;)
Honey,please don't say you are not picky...Who can reach your standards?But let me remind you that I want those qualities in a woman I am interested in..Are you that one?

[c50t]

The only time I've ever been with someone 10 yrs. + or - my age it was with a younger girl - and not a good idea.
I'm attracted to women in their late 30's early 40's and I always have been. Something in that late 20's range just never appealed to me. Don't think I can define why other than to say that I like a woman who is settled enough sexually to be able to play and not perform.

[Sneaky]

Honey,please don't say you are not picky...Who can reach your standards?But let me remind you that I want those qualities in a woman I am interested in..Are you that one?

Oh, so you are picky too then? See, maybe no one will ever be able to measure up to your standards.....hm?

[yaser]

Oh, so you are picky too then? See, maybe no one will ever be able to measure up to your standards.....hm?
You do..I am sure..Are you the one who has all of those qualities or you don't have those qualities and you want them to complete you?

[Sneaky]

You do..I am sure..Are you the one who has all of those qualities or you don't have those qualities and you want them to complete you?

Nope. I'm a complete Sneaky in my own right. The question was, what attracts me. It's all those things. ;)

[yaser]

Nope. I'm a complete Sneaky in my own right. The question was, what attracts me. It's all those things. ;)
My problem is why y :lf ou arey attracting me...You know there are two aspects in a choice:conscous and unconscious..

[Sneaky]

My problem is why y :lf ou arey attracting me...You know there are two aspects in a choice:conscous and unconscious..

I can't answer that for you. Although I'm not sure that choice is part of the unconscious. If we could choose how our unconscious works we would all have so many less issues. LOL!:sc

[Misty]

dun know about age diff being a turn on...but what turns me on is different at different ages


okie i just talked myself into a circle there :D sowee

[OICurready4me]

It's not about what you know or don't know. It's about the desires as an individual and in general. Speaking from a "younger" woman's experience, I have been known to teach a man a thing or two. Not necessarily something he wasn't aware of before, but perhaps a different twist on an old habit/style. Just my thoughts......

Can I sign up for your class so you can teach me? :whee: I love woman my age and younger. Love them, love them, love them....

[longing for passion]

I find my self typically attracted to, my age or older. There is just something unbelievably sexy about an older, physically fit, more experienced and mature woman. Take advantage of me anytime.

[PunkyBob]

Finally, someone is sticking up for, what appears to be, the minority here........;) :55

I'm usually sticking up...

[GaMan]

I always seem to wind up with younger women. Not really sure why because it doesn't have anything to do with my preference. As a matter of fact, an older and more experienced woman sounds appealing!

[pointofnoreturn]

I always seem to wind up with younger women. Not really sure why because it doesn't have anything to do with my preference. As a matter of fact, an older and more experienced woman sounds appealing!Come see me youngin..:dd

[mysticalwinter]

Age is just a number but I think 10-15 years older is as far as I would go. Hubby is almost a year younger then me....which is funny because I have never dated a man younger then me before him. I like the experience that a man my senior brings to the relationship.

[pointofnoreturn]

The only time I've ever been with someone 10 yrs. + or - my age it was with a younger girl - and not a good idea.
I'm attracted to women in their late 30's early 40's and I always have been. Something in that late 20's range just never appealed to me. Don't think I can define why other than to say that I like a woman who is settled enough sexually to be able to play and not perform.Hey I want to play..:wa: mid forties ok???

[PunkyBob]

When I was 17 I was seduced by a woman 48...it was quite an experience...we saw each other for months...

[yaser]

Age is just a number but I think 10-15 years older is as far as I would go. Hubby is almost a year younger then me....which is funny because I have never dated a man younger then me before him. I like the experience that a man my senior brings to the relationship.
Can I hope to teach new things Mystical?

[mysticalwinter]

I think everyone should learn something new everyday

[yaser]

I think everyone should learn something new everyday
Do you mean yes? :lf

[mysticalwinter]

what are you going to teach me today

[yaser]

what are you going to teach me today
I don't know ...You tell me ..I am a student centerd teacher..That means you decide and tell me.. :lf But we need a bed..

[Han Solo]

The mature ladies always have a more special appeal....just seem so much more confident and not afraid of being judged about what they do or don't do. In most cases right now I would prefer a hot 50 something over a 20 something......of course maybe because I can't keep up with the 20 somethings anymore :D

[alex187]

i like milfs

[onceamarine]

I often find myself attracted to women in their 40's and shocked to find myself attracted to a few in their 50's. I think I actually prefer older women.

[AL(m)]

Dont really think of age..... its more if we hit it off and can relate to each other...... was married for quite some years before I found out my wife's age.....( she was younger by 5 years..)

[pointofnoreturn]

Age does not matter if you connect....

[Andytyme]

Wow, age doesnt matter, and that is kind of correct, but people need to read the advice this fourm is giving Lynn on her thread "falling for a manager".

[MCat]

The mature ladies always have a more special appeal....just seem so much more confident and not afraid of being judged about what they do or don't do. In most cases right now I would prefer a hot 50 something over a 20 something......of course maybe because I can't keep up with the 20 somethings anymore :D

Come on baby....:dd

Oh shit....forgot...I'm not hot...just warm...:D lol

[bryan3636]

Come on baby....:dd

Oh shit....forgot...I'm not hot...just warm...:D lol

Don't kid yourself MCat...you are H-O-T!!!

[Andytyme]

Don't kid yourself MCat...you are H-O-T!!!

Ditto, and double DITTO!

[MCat]

My mind works lots of overtime fellas.....got all this stuff walking around in there just bursting to get out.

But thanks....thats nice of you both.....:knuddel:

[GeekMaster]

Don't kid yourself MCat...you are H-O-T!!!

I have said it before, and I will say it again!!!!


MCat is H O T

[MCat]

I have said it before, and I will say it again!!!!


MCat is H O T

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhh ... its late....you'll wake the baby.

[wall-flower]

Ok I'll be the jerk. Age does matter to me. I can't go any younger then 11 years. If I did it would land me in jail.
Ok seriously....still could not bring myself to date someone younger then 21 (8 yrs younger). On the other side of the scale. I found myself flirting and enjoying a man who was 49. In either situation, it did not enhance the sexual chemistry.

[yaser]

Age does not matter if you connect....
Connect?Physical or emoto :lf nal?

[yaser]

Ok I'll be the jerk. Age does matter to me. I can't go any younger then 11 years. If I did it would land me in jail.
Ok seriously....still could not bring myself to date someone younger then 21 (8 yrs younger). On the other side of the scale. I found myself flirting and enjoying a man who was 49. In either situation, it did not enhance the sexual chemistry.
Sexual chemistry will not enhance unless you find a conevnient soil,Flower.. :lf

[wall-flower]

Sexual chemistry will not enhance unless you find a conevnient soil,Flower.. :lf

ahh that must be my problem. I thought I needed a good bee to get the nectar flowing.

[yaser]

ahh that must be my problem. I thought I needed a good bee to get the nectar flowing.
You must attract bees with your smell but you use your color often..

[Phlirt]

I do have a problem with age, as far as sex goes. I couldn't ever do someone that was older than one of my parents or younger than my girls. That would just seem wrong.

[onceamarine]

I do have a problem with age, as far as sex goes. I couldn't ever do someone that was older than one of my parents or younger than my girls. That would just seem wrong.

I would agree with you that I couldn't be with someone older than my mom, but she is in her 60's. The VP of my company is 55, and I would do her in every position I know, if she ever gave me the chance.

[waterboy]

yeppersHave you found yourself attracted to people at least 10 years older or younger than you? At 49, of course I know many younger ladies I'd love to do. But I'm often attracted to women 10 years my senior, too.

You?


:sex

[unctarheel_32]

older women are my thing i love an older woman.

[PunkyBob]

I do have a problem with age, as far as sex goes. I couldn't ever do someone that was older than one of my parents or younger than my girls. That would just seem wrong.


Ummm...so...how old are your parents? No reason...just asking...

[MissMagic]

thank you OnceAMarine!! this just made me burst out laughing!

[ZoeZachary]

I always found myself attracted to men ten years or so my senior. Recently I've been noticing younger men. Darn, it's all Demi Moore's fault...I think.

[Phlirt]

Lol, i think personal preference is around 30 to 40, but i'm not looking, and far from it... lol

[yaser]

Lol, i think personal preference is around 30 to 40, but i'm not looking, and far from it... lol
Losing always makes me sick.

[cherokeered]

Not really....but they arent a turn off either...doesnt matter to me

[scoobertina]

Age doesn't matter any.. well... I wouldn't go any younger than 30

[yaser]

Age doesn't matter any.. well... I wouldn't go any younger than 30 Older?Me?No? :cry:

[likesbuttons]

hey when us guys hit 40.....its on with anyone that batts the eyes....hehe....Ok, but seriously, age really is in the heart.......how old do you feel?

[P.R.]

I agree age is only as old as you feel. I feel 22.

[oldsoul3426]

Have you found yourself attracted to people at least 10 years older or younger than you? At 49, of course I know many younger ladies I'd love to do. But I'm often attracted to women 10 years my senior, too.

You?


:sex
Yes I love older women

[Guymisseswife]

Age does not matter alot, although i prefer women my age or up to 10 years younger. sorry but not for the typical reasons a guy wants a younger woman. I like them because women tend in general to be more mature then men so if i get them younger we are on the same maturity level. although this is a generalization i realize exceptions occur

[oldsoul3426]

Age does not matter alot, although i prefer women my age or up to 10 years younger. sorry but not for the typical reasons a guy wants a younger woman. I like them because women tend in general to be more mature then men so if i get them younger we are on the same maturity level. although this is a generalization i realize exceptions occur
Thats true. I understand what you are saying. Any luck so far

[Guymisseswife]

my wife lol

[Andytyme]

Age doesn't matter any.. well... I wouldn't go any younger than 30

WHEW!.. Im 35!.. Im IN!

[Jezabella]

a fun game i play with my friends (admittedly juvenile, but fun, nonetheless) is for every person to say the youngest and oldest they would go if it was about sex...

25 and 62 for me. what about the rest of you?:dd

[Andytyme]

a fun game i play with my friends (admittedly juvenile, but fun, nonetheless) is for every person to say the youngest and oldest they would go if it was about sex...

25 and 62 for me. what about the rest of you?:dd

21/22 to about 50/55... Your right up my alley though:sex

[Sneaky]

I still maintain that it is just a number and the connection between two people is far more important and can't always be quantified with and age. That being said, I'm not sure I could go younger than 30. They just seem like kids to me.

[pointofnoreturn]

Age does not matter alot, although i prefer women my age or up to 10 years younger. sorry but not for the typical reasons a guy wants a younger woman. I like them because women tend in general to be more mature then men so if i get them younger we are on the same maturity level. although this is a generalization i realize exceptions occurDamn..I am the other way.. I am out.

Now I like 30's for fckuing, and older for love making....

[kawagrn]

I'm 27 and have always been attracted to women in their 30's and 40's up to 50. Even since I was like 16.

[UltimateNaneki]

I'm 27 and have always been attracted to women in their 30's and 40's up to 50. Even since I was like 16.

Well I hear that men your age can keep up with the sex drive of a 40something woman :D

[kawagrn]

I sure would like to give it a try. Too bad a 27 yr. old woman can't keep up with a 27 yr. old guy.

[kawagrn]

Age doesn't matter any.. well... I wouldn't go any younger than 30

so I gotta wait 3 more years? :(

[wall-flower]

I sure would like to give it a try. Too bad a 27 yr. old woman can't keep up with a 27 yr. old guy.

Don't go speaking for all of the female gender. My drive kicked in at an early age.

[kawagrn]

Don't go speaking for all of the female gender. My drive kicked in at an early age.

Sorry I didn't mean to generalize. I was mainly speaking of one woman in particular.

[learman3]

To me they are. When I was 15 to 18 the 22 to 27 year olds turned me on.


Now at 46 the 22 to 27 year olds turn me on.

Only thing thats changed is me.

[wall-flower]

Yeah I've dated both sides of spectrum. To chose if younger or older was more of a turn on. I would have to say older is more of a turn on.

[troos2]

When I was younger I did like the older women-now I am older I look at younger but they would be considered older by someone younger--I always though a woman from 35--to around 45 was very appealing, why I don't know I guess they are just more sure of themselves and age tends to magnify beauty.. not in my case but....

I agree, but would bump the ranges out to 30 to 50.

[almost40soccermom]

Given the choice, more turned on by older men. They are less hurried and more passionate.

[deercrow]

They can be, if the two are in the same frame of mind or share some of the samethings...but personally I like older men, they seem more layed back and passionate...not in such a hurry with everything they do

[Sneaky]

I agree. I hate to generalize, but my experience has been that older men provide more "quality" to the experience. And they take everything in about the women they are with. Less hurry up and finish, more, enjoy each moment and experience. It's very hot.


I'm sure there are also many talanted generous younger lads out there as well. :lf

[AL(m)]

Being one of the "Older type" I would say I love women older and younger.....they all have their appeals...as long as you respect them... and to make love to a lover thats on the same wavelenght is incredible.... and why would one want to rush something like that.......mmmmmm.... so much better to take your time and learn what arouses your lover and to please them......adds to everyones enjoyment...... :wa:

[madmod]

I've always had a thing for the "older woman" - the hot 30 or 40-something vixen that wants to take me and teach me .... Now that I'm 33 I still have that same fantasy, but the gap isn't quite as wide (if at all). Of course, like most men, I also enjoy the younger ladies - particularly if they have an appreciation for the "older man" .... ;)

[p.J]

I couldn't care a dog's gonads! if we click and they are completely comfortable with whatever life throws at us... then what the hell! However. he needs to be able to run at least 5 times a week and enjoy a particularly hard session in the gym 4 times a week...not much to ask is it? :)

[Pink4You]

Age doesn't matter. As long as attraction is there and great sex.

[OnlyOneMan]

Age doesn't matter. As long as attraction is there and great sex.

What do you find attractive in a man, Pink?

[mrdiscreet]

I tend to be attracted to women around my own age, thyinking we will have things in common ....

[thickitalian]

Just checking out some of the younger posts here proves that out Sneaky...they're zeroed in on one thing only and when they try romance and passion they trip over their own feet it seems....especially during PM sessions I am told...it comes out so unnatural...hey...I was like that at one time ...I'm sure.

Sorry guys...but...could be jealousy.....I just can't keep up with you'all...

I still maintain that it is just a number and the connection between two people is far more important and can't always be quantified with and age. That being said, I'm not sure I could go younger than 30. They just seem like kids to me.

[deercrow]

Just checking out some of the younger posts here proves that out Sneaky...they're zeroed in on one thing only and when they try romance and passion they trip over their own feet it seems....especially during PM sessions I am told...it comes out so unnatural...hey...I was like that at one time ...I'm sure.

Sorry guys...but...could be jealousy.....I just can't keep up with you'all...
I find that hard to believe you can't keep up, I bet you could with the right person....


But to answer the post, when somone yunger than us hits on us, yes it's nice and excting. Makes you feel alive and sensual, but you also need to use caution in thiw area, to me there minds are not totlly developed to handly an older adult relationship with the maturity that needs to be there.

[Sneaky]

Sorry guys...but...could be jealousy.....I just can't keep up with you'all...

This isn't the lie thread Thick......

[PunkyBob]

The woman locally who is so incredibly in tune with me is only 27. A remarkably MATURE 27. I know, I know...I was 20 when she was born. WERE IT EVER TO HAPPEN...naaah, it wouldn't. Never. She's too smart...but she is attracted to me...and, when we first met, hinted several times...and we are still friends. But the attraction is there...just wish I wasn't more attracted to her, though...

Masturbation thread, here I come...

[hoss]

i love younger women ...around age 25 to 37 ..they are mature enough but still really playful ...thats a huge turn on for me

[Sandyboots]

I don't think age should be a hang up...if she catches my attention I will take the timieto appreciate her...from where I'm sitting of course. ;)

[pointofnoreturn]

i love younger women ...around age 25 to 37 ..they are mature enough but still really playful ...thats a huge turn on for meso what is 45???Old lady?????thank you very much. I am very playful if you put some catnip on my nose......or tail....:D

[p.J]

so what is 45???Old lady?????thank you very much. I am very playful if you put some catnip on my nose......or tail....:D

I have to say looking at Point's Avatar, she is one hell of a sexy playful lady! Wow!

[AL(m)]

so what is 45???Old lady?????thank you very much. I am very playful if you put some catnip on my nose......or tail....:D

I would say you are a very sexy younger lady...... nothing wrong with your age at all...... you are getting better and better..... :wa: