Office flirting help

[Catfish]

I don't have a lot of luck flirting at the office! It may be my imagination, but it seems most all the ladies are the "happily married not flirting" types.

Is it just that or might I be approaching it wrong? I try admiring glances or smiles at first. Is a casual touch okay? What kind of touch?

Ladies or guys, any advice? Thanks. :D

[Penny]

Just be polite and smile :)

[unctarheel_32]

be real friendly but not to friendly if u no what i mean

[DoratheExplorer]

1. Be visible and always look nice.
2. Always smell nice.
3. Compliments are always nice - hair, clothes, shoes, smile, comment about eyes.
4. How far to do you have to travel to get to your target? Do you have to go OUT OF YOUR WAY to see the person ... or are they on the way to the bathroom, water cooler, front door? I would make sure to walk past every day and say hi. You can work up from "hi" to "hi how are you" to "Hi how are you, great day today, eh" to "Hi how are you, great day today, what do you do here, my name is ..." (assuming you don't know person and work in big company).
5. Since this is work place flirting you have to be REALLY careful about touching. I would not advise touching as that could be perceived as unwanted physical attention or whatever the latest definition of sexual harassment is. If it makes the person feel uncomfortable, it's sexual harassment. Which to me means you might want to take your flirting elsewhere if you want to keep your job.
6. Accidental touching is okay (you both reach for something that fell on the floor, etc).
7. Standing a shade or two CLOSER than you normally would.
8. Looking directly into the eyes and sustaining contact for several seconds at a time as you speak.
9. Pay attention to their nonverbals - multitasking means they will miss your nonverbal cues.
10. Smile with your eyes.
11. How about a nice, innocuous flower? Daisy? I'm sure you could make up some corny story about why you are giving it to her.

[OICurready4me]

It depends on whether you want to be sly or obvious about it.


If you want to be obvious, then forget to zip up your fly when you exit the mens room.


If you want to be sly, forget to zip up your fly when you exit the mens room, but have a file folder in front of you.



:lmao :lmao

[Jy]

If you're getting the impression they're all "happily married not flirting", then maybe you should listen to your instincts. If you try flirting with someone who isn't open to it, you could end up with a harassment issue on your hands.

I would suggest never touching anyone at your workplace. That's crossing a big line in most organizations.
Sorry, I don't mean to be the wet blanket here, but I wouldn't force the issue. Why do you want to flirt with them? Is there someone who is especially hot? Is it the challenge?
If people want to flirt, they will send loud and clear messages. If that's not happening, don't pursue it. Maintain a friendly but professional relationship and save your flirting skills for here. We won't turn down an opportunity to flirt, trust me!
I don't have a lot of luck flirting at the office! It may be my imagination, but it seems most all the ladies are the "happily married not flirting" types.

Is it just that or might I be approaching it wrong? I try admiring glances or smiles at first. Is a casual touch okay? What kind of touch?

Ladies or guys, any advice? Thanks. :D

[surfnchat]

If you're getting the impression they're all "happily married not flirting", then maybe you should listen to your instincts. If you try flirting with someone who isn't open to it, you could end up with a harassment issue on your hands.

I would suggest never touching anyone at your workplace. That's crossing a big line in most organizations.
Sorry, I don't mean to be the wet blanket here, but I wouldn't force the issue. Why do you want to flirt with them? Is there someone who is especially hot? Is it the challenge?
If people want to flirt, they will send loud and clear messages. If that's not happening, don't pursue it. Maintain a friendly but professional relationship and save your flirting skills for here. We won't turn down an opportunity to flirt, trust me!

When I turn in my two-week's notice, the ladies in my office better watch out! Surf's Up! :D

[spare_change]

If you're getting the impression they're all "happily married not flirting", then maybe you should listen to your instincts. If you try flirting with someone who isn't open to it, you could end up with a harassment issue on your hands.

I would suggest never touching anyone at your workplace. That's crossing a big line in most organizations.
Sorry, I don't mean to be the wet blanket here, but I wouldn't force the issue. Why do you want to flirt with them? Is there someone who is especially hot? Is it the challenge?
If people want to flirt, they will send loud and clear messages. If that's not happening, don't pursue it. Maintain a friendly but professional relationship and save your flirting skills for here. We won't turn down an opportunity to flirt, trust me!


Bingo!

[scoobertina]

It depends on whether you want to be sly or obvious about it.


If you want to be obvious, then forget to zip up your fly when you exit the mens room.


If you want to be sly, forget to zip up your fly when you exit the mens room, but have a file folder in front of you.



:lmao :lmao

You are a hoot!:lmao :lmao

[PlayfulMale69]

Flirting at the office is just that, flirting, smiling, but no objectives to go anywhere. At least for me. Why would I want to have an affair with someone at the office. What if it blows up in my face and I still have to work there? Just things to think about.

Flirting safely and enjoy your co-workers. If you are trying to hard, it will not work. Just be a friend and stay away from sexual humor, get to know them as a friend first and then you might have some opportunities.

[Cotties]

this can't be too far off the mark.....:55 1. Be visible and always look nice.
2. Always smell nice.
3. Compliments are always nice - hair, clothes, shoes, smile, comment about eyes.
4. How far to do you have to travel to get to your target? Do you have to go OUT OF YOUR WAY to see the person ... or are they on the way to the bathroom, water cooler, front door? I would make sure to walk past every day and say hi. You can work up from "hi" to "hi how are you" to "Hi how are you, great day today, eh" to "Hi how are you, great day today, what do you do here, my name is ..." (assuming you don't know person and work in big company).
5. Since this is work place flirting you have to be REALLY careful about touching. I would not advise touching as that could be perceived as unwanted physical attention or whatever the latest definition of sexual harassment is. If it makes the person feel uncomfortable, it's sexual harassment. Which to me means you might want to take your flirting elsewhere if you want to keep your job.
6. Accidental touching is okay (you both reach for something that fell on the floor, etc).
7. Standing a shade or two CLOSER than you normally would.
8. Looking directly into the eyes and sustaining contact for several seconds at a time as you speak.
9. Pay attention to their nonverbals - multitasking means they will miss your nonverbal cues.
10. Smile with your eyes.
11. How about a nice, innocuous flower? Daisy? I'm sure you could make up some corny story about why you are giving it to her.

[Cotties]

said from a man without a workplace;) It depends on whether you want to be sly or obvious about it.


If you want to be obvious, then forget to zip up your fly when you exit the mens room.


If you want to be sly, forget to zip up your fly when you exit the mens room, but have a file folder in front of you.



:lmao :lmao

[Catfish]

1. Be visible and always look nice.
2. Always smell nice.
3. Compliments are always nice - hair, clothes, shoes, smile, comment about eyes.
4. How far to do you have to travel to get to your target? Do you have to go OUT OF YOUR WAY to see the person ... or are they on the way to the bathroom, water cooler, front door? I would make sure to walk past every day and say hi. You can work up from "hi" to "hi how are you" to "Hi how are you, great day today, eh" to "Hi how are you, great day today, what do you do here, my name is ..." (assuming you don't know person and work in big company).
5. Since this is work place flirting you have to be REALLY careful about touching. I would not advise touching as that could be perceived as unwanted physical attention or whatever the latest definition of sexual harassment is. If it makes the person feel uncomfortable, it's sexual harassment. Which to me means you might want to take your flirting elsewhere if you want to keep your job.
6. Accidental touching is okay (you both reach for something that fell on the floor, etc).
7. Standing a shade or two CLOSER than you normally would.
8. Looking directly into the eyes and sustaining contact for several seconds at a time as you speak.
9. Pay attention to their nonverbals - multitasking means they will miss your nonverbal cues.
10. Smile with your eyes.
11. How about a nice, innocuous flower? Daisy? I'm sure you could make up some corny story about why you are giving it to her.

Interesting advice. These sound safe and I'll try some of them.

[Catfish]

I hear what some of you are saying - no need to push it if people aren't open to it, and it could turn out negative. My motivations were basically lust for a couple of people and just friendly flirting, not an affair. Yes, the challenge of a target can be alluring.

[jake8675]

If you value your job, I would find another place to flirt. I have found the grocery store during the middle of the day to be a great place, lots of flirty women.. Also this was by chance I found; but once in awile I will spend a Thursday or Friday morning going to garage sales, I could not believe how many women would take the time to flirt or talk with me. I always wear my regular neat dress business attire since I'm headed back to work anyway, you don't see many neat dressed or clean cut guys at garage sales in the middle of the day... The key is be polite, make conversation, good communication makes women melt, Lots of desperate housewives out there.

That is just some ideas that poeple don't think of, I hate to see you screw up your life at work, people are so sensitive these days, you never know when your relationships at work may change, and out comes the finger pointing.

[Catfish]

If you value your job, I would find another place to flirt. I have found the grocery store during the middle of the day to be a great place, lots of flirty women.. Also this was by chance I found; but once in awile I will spend a Thursday or Friday morning going to garage sales, I could not believe how many women would take the time to flirt or talk with me. I always wear my regular neat dress business attire since I'm headed back to work anyway, you don't see many neat dressed or clean cut guys at garage sales in the middle of the day... The key is be polite, make conversation, good communication makes women melt, Lots of desperate housewives out there.

That is just some ideas that poeple don't think of, I hate to see you screw up your life at work, people are so sensitive these days, you never know when your relationships at work may change, and out comes the finger pointing.

Thanks, Jake. I guess it's the rush of being excited by someone and knowing they're attracted to you that makes flirting so alluring. It doesn't have to be at work, that's just where I am a lot of the time!

[BobbyDigital]

Hire impressionable interns?

JK!

[chiboy_67]

first-time poster... w/ an office flirting question.

[Penny]

Just dont talk about it again, the more you say the deeper you will get

[chiboy_67]

Just dont talk about it again, the more you say the deeper you will get

Thanks I have shut up about it. Do you think it was out of line? As an asside, she's got nothing to be asshamed of.

[Cotties]

does drive mean strutting her stuff...............and having a tail light burnt out means an ass cheeks drooping????? first-time poster... w/ an office flirting question.

I was going into work and saw a co-worker drive by on her way to parking -- one of her taillights was out.

Later in the office, I said: "I was looking at your rear end, and one of your brakelights is burned out."

Was not taken in the spirit it was meant. :( What do you think?

[chiboy_67]

does drive mean strutting her stuff...............and having a tail light burnt out means an ass cheeks drooping?????

No, but she does strut her stuff and there's no drooping to be seen.

[Cotties]

maybe you should have said if you were a cop you would give her a ticket or she could pop over on the weekned and let you do some work on the rear end of hers before it gets her into more troubleNo, but she does strut her stuff and there's no drooping to be seen.

[chiboy_67]

maybe you should have said if you were a cop you would give her a ticket or she could pop over on the weekned and let you do some work on the rear end of hers before it gets her into more trouble

If

[mimski]

I was happily married not flirting and then meet someone who tried a lot of what DoratheExplorer suggested and bingo....we started an affair...I think u just need to find someone u connect to...good luck....flirting is so much fuuuuunnnn

[Shiane]

Gosh after reading all this stuff, I never want to work in an office. Maybe nurses aren't so business oriented. The people in my work place could file a bunch of sexual harassment charges daily. We don't care if someone is happily married, we still flirt like crazy. For a predominatly female profession, the past few years I have had the pleasure of working with a lot of men. It's nothing to walk up to someone and put your nose right on their neck and say holy hell you smell good. See them in the parking lot and give them a big hug. Walk down the halls with your arms around each other. Drop your scrubs to show your latest tattoo, or have 3 of your coworkers present when you get your nipples pierced. show someone the sunburn on your ass from staying in the tanning bed too long. God forbid if we couldn't tell dirty jokes on a daily basis. Talk about the weekend and whether you go some or not down to the smallest detail. Playfully slap someone on the ass and 5 other people join in for a congo line spanking session. Have someone walk up behind you and start giving you a massage. If we go on breaks together, we tell everyone we'll be back in 30 minutes, we're going for a walk to have sex in the parking lot. For the past 12 years, every place I have worked is like this. Maybe this stuff only happens in hospitals..... maybe thats why ER and Gray's Anatomy were hits. Hell maybe all the people I know are just perverts lol!

So I guess it depends on the people you work with. If they are as laid back as the people I work with, nothing is out of bounds. If not, you best be on your best behavior.

[chiboy_67]

Never thought I'd say it, but here goes ... Wish I could check into the hospital.




Gosh after reading all this stuff, I never want to work in an office. Maybe nurses aren't so business oriented. The people in my work place could file a bunch of sexual harassment charges daily. We don't care if someone is happily married, we still flirt like crazy. For a predominatly female profession, the past few years I have had the pleasure of working with a lot of men. It's nothing to walk up to someone and put your nose right on their neck and say holy hell you smell good. See them in the parking lot and give them a big hug. Walk down the halls with your arms around each other. Drop your scrubs to show your latest tattoo, or have 3 of your coworkers present when you get your nipples pierced. show someone the sunburn on your ass from staying in the tanning bed too long. God forbid if we couldn't tell dirty jokes on a daily basis. Talk about the weekend and whether you go some or not down to the smallest detail. Playfully slap someone on the ass and 5 other people join in for a congo line spanking session. Have someone walk up behind you and start giving you a massage. If we go on breaks together, we tell everyone we'll be back in 30 minutes, we're going for a walk to have sex in the parking lot. For the past 12 years, every place I have worked is like this. Maybe this stuff only happens in hospitals..... maybe thats why ER and Gray's Anatomy were hits. Hell maybe all the people I know are just perverts lol!

So I guess it depends on the people you work with. If they are as laid back as the people I work with, nothing is out of bounds. If not, you best be on your best behavior.

[PunkyBob]

Gosh after reading all this stuff, I never want to work in an office. Maybe nurses aren't so business oriented. The people in my work place could file a bunch of sexual harassment charges daily. We don't care if someone is happily married, we still flirt like crazy. For a predominatly female profession, the past few years I have had the pleasure of working with a lot of men. It's nothing to walk up to someone and put your nose right on their neck and say holy hell you smell good. See them in the parking lot and give them a big hug. Walk down the halls with your arms around each other. Drop your scrubs to show your latest tattoo, or have 3 of your coworkers present when you get your nipples pierced. show someone the sunburn on your ass from staying in the tanning bed too long. God forbid if we couldn't tell dirty jokes on a daily basis. Talk about the weekend and whether you go some or not down to the smallest detail. Playfully slap someone on the ass and 5 other people join in for a congo line spanking session. Have someone walk up behind you and start giving you a massage. If we go on breaks together, we tell everyone we'll be back in 30 minutes, we're going for a walk to have sex in the parking lot. For the past 12 years, every place I have worked is like this. Maybe this stuff only happens in hospitals..... maybe thats why ER and Gray's Anatomy were hits. Hell maybe all the people I know are just perverts lol!


WHERE DO I APPLY???

[Shiane]

WHERE DO I APPLY???

In the business office lol! :whee:

[mimski]

Hey Shiane, I forgot to mention, I am a nurse too (he is a doctor) and flirting is here in Australia hospital too (my work place): my post before:
I was happily married not flirting and then meet someone who tried a lot of what DoratheExplorer suggested and bingo....we started an affair...I think u just need to find someone u connect to...good luck....flirting is so much fuuuuunnnn

[Shiane]

Hey Shiane, I forgot to mention, I am a nurse too and flirting is here in Australia hospital too (my work place): my post before:
I was happily married not flirting and then meet someone who tried a lot of what DoratheExplorer suggested and bingo....we started an affair...I think u just need to find someone u connect to...good luck....flirting is so much fuuuuunnnn

Nice to meet you mimski! It must go on in hospitals around the world ey. Not all of us are married, but a lot of us are, and a lot are happily married. It's just harmless fun, we don't take anything said or done too seriously.

[Shiane]

Oh by the way mimski, I'm just curious as to what area you work in?

[mimski]

I am a paediatric nurse, he is a resident doing his rotation on my ward before he becomes a GP...Being a few months, still seeing him on the side...haha

The worst part, I am happily married and he got steady gf....

[mimski]

how about u Shiane?

[scoobertina]

Flirting in the military is very difficult.. We aren't allowed calendars of men or women bare or barely clothed. It might offend someone. We can't casually flirt without someone possibly overhearing and thinking that someone is having an affair, that the chain of command is influenced by that...

But in our little social gatherings it happens alot.. Heavy flirting... and sometimes it gets carried away..

Now my civilian job is a different story. I worked the Front Desk at the base hotel and I was able to flirt (very light flirting) with the guests.. Tons of fun there...

[Shiane]

how about u Shiane?

Intensive Care.... Predominantly Cardiac ICU for the past 3yrs.

[majorfun]

I make it a point to flirt wherever I go

[eternus]

I'm not sure what to offer, my last office flirtation came after one I didn't expect to start talking with. The hottest girl in the office who liked to show off her legs IM'd me one day and things turned a bit erotic fast... man I miss her. We had some great conversations.

[Sweetdreams069]

Gosh after reading all this stuff, I never want to work in an office. Maybe nurses aren't so business oriented. The people in my work place could file a bunch of sexual harassment charges daily. We don't care if someone is happily married, we still flirt like crazy. For a predominatly female profession, the past few years I have had the pleasure of working with a lot of men. It's nothing to walk up to someone and put your nose right on their neck and say holy hell you smell good. See them in the parking lot and give them a big hug. Walk down the halls with your arms around each other. Drop your scrubs to show your latest tattoo, or have 3 of your coworkers present when you get your nipples pierced. show someone the sunburn on your ass from staying in the tanning bed too long. God forbid if we couldn't tell dirty jokes on a daily basis. Talk about the weekend and whether you go some or not down to the smallest detail. Playfully slap someone on the ass and 5 other people join in for a congo line spanking session. Have someone walk up behind you and start giving you a massage. If we go on breaks together, we tell everyone we'll be back in 30 minutes, we're going for a walk to have sex in the parking lot. For the past 12 years, every place I have worked is like this. Maybe this stuff only happens in hospitals..... maybe thats why ER and Gray's Anatomy were hits. Hell maybe all the people I know are just perverts lol!

So I guess it depends on the people you work with. If they are as laid back as the people I work with, nothing is out of bounds. If not, you best be on your best behavior.

I work in a hospital also. It's one of the larger ones. We have over 5000 employees, so there's plenty of women everywhere you go. I don't work in one particular department so I get to visit with and deal with different people on a daily basis. But that's pretty much what I run into all the time. Just the other day I was in the OR nurses lounge working looking at a piece of equipment and as I was leaning over I had my butt pinched by a nurse. Wouldn't give this job up for the world. It's so much fun working there. :55

[eternus]

I've heard too many tales about nurses and hospitals to not see the pattern. You're all wicked, creative, filthy women. (I love it.)

[P.R.]

Be polite and kiss them

[Micwar]

Or it can back fire. I flirted heavy with this hottie for months, getting closer, and all that stuff. Just to find out I'm referred to as her work husband.....no I have two sexy women,that bitch and nag and never let me have any...:cry:

[Pink4You]

Flirting at the office is just that, flirting, smiling, but no objectives to go anywhere. At least for me. Why would I want to have an affair with someone at the office. What if it blows up in my face and I still have to work there? Just things to think about.

Flirting safely and enjoy your co-workers. If you are trying to hard, it will not work. Just be a friend and stay away from sexual humor, get to know them as a friend first and then you might have some opportunities.

I think this is a great quote. Just be sure if you get lucky that it all turn bad, you can still be friends

[troos2]

You could try rolling up a sock and stuffing it down your pants. This probably won't work but at least you can weed out the ones with no sense of humor.:D
Seriously though, I think the best way to get to know someone is to ask them questions.

[toowildtotame]

I think its ok to flirt but stop at having an affair with a co-worker-- nothing but trouble ahead -- and perhaps the loss of a job or a good friend.

[toowildtotame]

Ok who wants to play doctor??*ewg*

[Bama River Man]

Office flirting can be risky in today's litigous society. I usually do not do it. . .however, if I get some kind of 'tingle' then I might try spending a little extra time helping her do something that makes her job easier. Then I just take it one slow step at a time.

[oc_guy_32]

office affairs seem way to risky... you are just asking for trouble, in my opinion.

[roadie4us]

I always thought flirting at work was a real no-no....but there was one woman I worked with for years that just enjoyed flirting... but she never allowed it to go further with anyone. But my, how she could spark up my day with some of the sexy outfits she would wear, or how when she would lean over to show me something with her blouse unbuttoned at the top. All I can say is thank you, thank you, thank you.

[Kavla2008]

How do I use 'my own' avitar.
Ive looked everywhere & it only gives you a choice of 8.
Yet I see other people here have used their own.

Help please!

[Fargo...really]

Flirting without a sexual harassment claim can occur in the workplace, if done correctly.

Just follow the three simple rules outlined in the following educational video: http://video.yahoo.com/watch/536214

[forgettable_hero]

Flirting without a sexual harassment claim can occur in the workplace, if done correctly.

Just follow the three simple rules outlined in the following educational video: http://video.yahoo.com/watch/536214

lol, i love it.

[forgettable_hero]

Gosh after reading all this stuff, I never want to work in an office. Maybe nurses aren't so business oriented. The people in my work place could file a bunch of sexual harassment charges daily. We don't care if someone is happily married, we still flirt like crazy. For a predominatly female profession, the past few years I have had the pleasure of working with a lot of men. It's nothing to walk up to someone and put your nose right on their neck and say holy hell you smell good. See them in the parking lot and give them a big hug. Walk down the halls with your arms around each other. Drop your scrubs to show your latest tattoo, or have 3 of your coworkers present when you get your nipples pierced. show someone the sunburn on your ass from staying in the tanning bed too long. God forbid if we couldn't tell dirty jokes on a daily basis. Talk about the weekend and whether you go some or not down to the smallest detail. Playfully slap someone on the ass and 5 other people join in for a congo line spanking session. Have someone walk up behind you and start giving you a massage. If we go on breaks together, we tell everyone we'll be back in 30 minutes, we're going for a walk to have sex in the parking lot. For the past 12 years, every place I have worked is like this. Maybe this stuff only happens in hospitals..... maybe thats why ER and Gray's Anatomy were hits. Hell maybe all the people I know are just perverts lol!

So I guess it depends on the people you work with. If they are as laid back as the people I work with, nothing is out of bounds. If not, you best be on your best behavior.

damn it my neighbor is a nurse and she won't flirt with me :mad:; maybe she saves it for work.

[woodsman8]

I just do not mix work and pleasure, it can get very difficult in time.

[scoobertina]

i still say... don't do it...

[qazed]

Don't lay your meat where you make your bread!

[Penny]

:55

Don't lay your meat where you make your bread!

[Chillerkane]

There are a couple of ladies I flirt with at our work, but nothing serious has ever developed out of it. Cause we are a small company, I think it might cause some difficulties if it ever happened.
Just be yourself, and things happen. Always have a great sense of humer and share a laugh.

[OnceAKing]

I don't have a lot of luck flirting at the office! It may be my imagination, but it seems most all the ladies are the "happily married not flirting" types.

Is it just that or might I be approaching it wrong? I try admiring glances or smiles at first. Is a casual touch okay? What kind of touch?

Ladies or guys, any advice? Thanks. :D

From a cowboy's perspective and in a few short words....NEVER ride the work horses!!

OAK

[fever]

In principle, I'm against it...but it probably wouldn't stop me. Luckily there is NO ONE to flirt with at work!

[Atrebla Rose]

95% of my time I work in my office alone, so I have a ball flirting with my self, playing with myself,,,I am beginning to really love myself!!! LOL

[fever]

95% of my time I work in my office alone, so I have a ball flirting with my self, playing with myself,,,I am beginning to really love myself!!! LOL

Well thank goodness for M&F, huh?

[Atrebla Rose]

Well thank goodness for M&F, huh?

ABSOLUTLY!!!!!!:smdance:

[fever]

Lately I'm finding the need to tele-commute more and more. I wonder what that's all about. :sc

[sassynsweet]

I guess it depends on your office. If you're in with a bunch of suits.. then it's likely a professional atmosphere and flirting needs to be very subdued.. respect personal space!!

I disagree with the smelling nice.. skip the cologne guys! A good clean smell of soap does wonders!!

[marriedwomanchaser]

If you have it in your head that you have to flirt with her, at least make sure she is not attached to your boss somehow

[YourAssMyHand]

Unfortunately, I work from home so the only one I could have a fling with would be my wife. Fat Chance that will happen.

[notonly4her]

Eye Contact - It will work out

[jmsmith12345]

When going commando, make sure to walk around the office with your zipper down. Many will giggle, some will stare, but only flirt with the one who is brave enough to come up and whisper in your ear "You might want to pull up your zipper, but thanks for letting me know it hangs to the left."

[manda1]

I wish I had someone to flirt with at the office....

[yaser]

I wish I had someone to flirt with at the office....

HAve you attempted?

[HandsomeDude]

attrabela, wheres ur office?

[manda1]

there are only 2 men in my office...one is gay and the other is way to sweet to flirt...

[Humpty Dumpty]

After reading this thread, I'm thinking of a career change. Do you think I can get through nursing school when blood and needles make me cringe? :sc

[Dipstick51]

there are only 2 men in my office...one is gay and the other is way to sweet to flirt...

I have a rule and don't flirt at work. With that said manda1 doesn't work with me :ok

[bencanada46]

Flirting at work is hard if you work with all men. It is better and easier to flirt with someone in a related business or someone you see all the time.

[leggy4]

I never heard of a nice smile hurting anything or anyone!!! look up your office sexual harassment policy!!!!!!!

[ohiochris]

Smile, don't be too forward. Also (this is key) take the time to talk about her; what she did over the weekend, where she went to lunch, whats on her iPod. Once she's comfortable to talk about these things with you, maybe try some subtle flirting (notice her hair, her shoes, etc).
Not sure what your final goal is, but it'll at least make time at the office much more personable and fun.

[bighands]

Grab her ass, but be descrete, like: "ups, sorry, thought it was my lunch box".
Also, say nice things to her like: "Let's go to the restroom and F"
Be polite like: "I'll do you right after I do her, ok?"
Show you are not afraid, like, punch your boss across the face whenever she walks by...
Also, get a good lawyer, never hurts.

[laineycali]

im a big flirt.. work in a business where being some what flirty is almost the norm.. yet i dont really go anywhere with it with co workers.. to me .. u dont mix work and all the stuff involved with any sort of sexual relationship.. big no no to me.. so ..i kno they guys at work dont think im interested in that stuff........ might be whats goes on at your work too...?

[Singeon]

Depends on the type of flirt you undertake, Cat...Casual, "nothing serious" kind of flirt or "I'm interested in you at a serious level" kind of flirt...

I stick to the former myself...work isn't the place for serious flirting..unless there's someone there that is open to it..and with the ladies, I have found that they will let you know in their own way if thats the case...

[laineycali]

well put sig

[gr8doods]

I think office flirting can only lead to other issues. Keeping work separate seems to be the safest bet