Ladies - is male versus male confrontation a turn on?

[Catfish]

I know I don't have to ask the guys, a lot of us are turned on by all kinds of female versus female confrontation. :D

Ladies, how about you? Is there anything arousing about two men arguing? One man intimidating another? Two men fighting, either in sanctioned matches or street fights?

Curious to hear your responses. :sc

[G...G]

It wouldn't excite me at all to see two men argue or fight. In fact, the few times that I have witnessed such, it was so childish.

[scoobertina]

No, it is not a turnon... I think men fighting is a huge turn off...

[freestyle99]

I know I don't have to ask the guys, a lot of us are turned on by all kinds of female versus female confrontation. :D

Ladies, how about you? Is there anything arousing about two men arguing? One man intimidating another? Two men fighting, either in sanctioned matches or street fights?

Curious to hear your responses. :sc

I know that this is a ladies Q&A but not sure what you meant with the first statement...but for the record, female vs. female confrontation is something I never care to see...not a turn on at all...

[pointofnoreturn]

Nope..

[Catfish]

I know that this is a ladies Q&A but not sure what you meant with the first statement...but for the record, female vs. female confrontation is something I never care to see...not a turn on at all...

True, some men don't care much for it, but some do.

It just seems to me there are some men that are infuctuated with women being catty or even fighting. But I know of few women that say openly they enjoy any kind of male confrontation. I wonder why the disparity?

[Annie]

True, some men don't care much for it, but some do.

It just seems to me there are some men that are infuctuated with women being catty or even fighting. But I know of few women that say openly they enjoy any kind of male confrontation. I wonder why the disparity?testosterone perhaps?

[pointofnoreturn]

True, some men don't care much for it, but some do.

It just seems to me there are some men that are infuctuated with women being catty or even fighting. But I know of few women that say openly they enjoy any kind of male confrontation. I wonder why the disparity?When women are catfighting they are grabbing and touching eachother all over, and youguys get turned on so easy by that. When men are fighting???They just bleed..

[scoobertina]

I do have to say that I get excited though if the fight is during a hockey game....

[freestyle99]

testosterone perhaps?

No, not that. They were probably just beaten by their mothers as children.

[jake8675]

I always tell my Daughter to watch how a guy treats other people, because you will be treated the same way at some point.. So that fetish might be dangerous

[Catfish]

I do have to say that I get excited though if the fight is during a hockey game....

Ah ha! :wa:

On edit: What do you find arousing about it?

[Catfish]

When women are catfighting they are grabbing and touching eachother all over, and youguys get turned on so easy by that. When men are fighting???They just bleed..

I'll risk being flamed as a sexist here, but I do think the fact that women rarely hurt each other in a fight adds to the popular appeal. If a female fight were truly vicious and bloody, I think very few men would want to see something like that.

[Catfish]

It wouldn't excite me at all to see two men argue or fight. In fact, the few times that I have witnessed such, it was so childish.

Does it make it different if it's part of a sport - boxing, hockey, ultimate fighting, etc. ?

[jake8675]

I'm more turned on by two women rubbing up against each rather than scratching and boxing.. I'm with catfish, I don't want to see blood!

[Catfish]

I'm more turned on by two women rubbing up against each rather than scratching and boxing.. I'm with catfish, I don't want to see blood!

But they DO rub up against each other when they fight! :lmao

[Sabrina]

definitely not

[G...G]

If it's definately part of a sport, it's not childish because they are making money...lol But I it still doesn't excite me. I used to watch WWF wrestling but haven't for some time because it just got too foolish. It turned into a soap opera..lol



Does it make it different if it's part of a sport - boxing, hockey, ultimate fighting, etc. ?

[Catfish]

If it's definately part of a sport, it's not childish because they are making money...lol But I it still doesn't excite me. I used to watch WWF wrestling but haven't for some time because it just got too foolish. It turned into a soap opera..lol

I've had a few women tell me some of the WWE wrestlers are hot, though they may not necessarily care to watch it. :55

[Cotties]

I think it might have been a soap opera for quite some time...it was just marketed at guys in their 30's and 40's......the only really funny thing I find about it is that when you get muscle bound men and rub oil all over their bodies lots of guys want to watch it...I find it a bit creepyIf it's definately part of a sport, it's not childish because they are making money...lol But I it still doesn't excite me. I used to watch WWF wrestling but haven't for some time because it just got too foolish. It turned into a soap opera..lol

[Laurie Ann]

I will have to go on board with the other women who replied to this thread ...

I find "fighting" to be a childish and immature behavior, showing only that the fighter lacks sound judgement, self-control and the ability to identify and solve problems. Not someone I'd fall head over heels for!

This, of course, is not including WWC (F, G, H, I, J or whatever it is called) events as that is show-business; choreographed for an audience. I am just talking of real men handling their problems physically.

As far as men finding that fighting women turn them on ... is this like "mud-wrestling" fighting? Or actual brawling?? I have never been told that men were turned on by the latter ... am eager to hear others reply.

[scoobertina]

Ah ha! :wa:

On edit: What do you find arousing about it?

I think it is the intensity of the game itself and not the fights. Watching them so focused on that little black puck.. getting upset over something as the fans get upset over it... The fans are a part of what is happening.

I honestly don't know why I like it... but I don't think it arouses me.. just gets me excited more about the game

[G...G]

:sc I never thought about it that way but you do have a point!! :D



I think it might have been a soap opera for quite some time...it was just marketed at guys in their 30's and 40's......the only really funny thing I find about it is that when you get muscle bound men and rub oil all over their bodies lots of guys want to watch it...I find it a bit creepy

[spare_change]

But what if the guys are fighting over you?

[freestyle99]

I think it is the intensity of the game itself and not the fights. Watching them so focused on that little black puck.. getting upset over something as the fans get upset over it... The fans are a part of what is happening.

I honestly don't know why I like it... but I don't think it arouses me.. just gets me excited more about the game

It is a big part of the game and necessary part. Got to protect your goal scorers!

[Catfish]

I will have to go on board with the other women who replied to this thread ...

I find "fighting" to be a childish and immature behavior, showing only that the fighter lacks sound judgement, self-control and the ability to identify and solve problems. Not someone I'd fall head over heels for!

This, of course, is not including WWC (F, G, H, I, J or whatever it is called) events as that is show-business; choreographed for an audience. I am just talking of real men handling their problems physically.

As far as men finding that fighting women turn them on ... is this like "mud-wrestling" fighting? Or actual brawling?? I have never been told that men were turned on by the latter ... am eager to hear others reply.

My take is the mud wrestling would probably appeal to a broader base of men than a street brawl.

But now that you've mentioned the mud wrestling - that type of thing does attract big crowds. And I don't think the guys watch it for the gals' wrestling skills! :dd

[cherokeered]

Funny....I am a hockey fan...and don't mind a scrum in a professional sport.......but I really dislike boxing....but I do find martial arts entertaining....but not in a sexual way....

[MCat]

But what if the guys are fighting over you?

Nah.....I wouldn't be turned on by that.

On second thought, if its You and Cotties in those Sumo diapers...that might be another story;)

I don't like wrestling, boxing, etc.... for men or women.

[snowflake]

Nothing worse than two male ego's battling over who's Testosterone is higher!!!!!!!

[DoratheExplorer]

Nothing worse than two male ego's battling over who's Testosterone is higher!!!!!!!

You took the words right out of my mouth.

[Cotties]

in a way I'd understand it but I still wouldn't find it a turn on...if anything...even creepierBut what if the guys are fighting over you?....that question was asked at me right:sc

[thickitalian]

Female vs Female.....


FORGGETTABBOUDDITT !!!!!

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Nope, not at all... not interested in seeing two men pound the crap out of each other trying to prove who is the bigger dick!

[Cotties]

what about a bit of male and female wrestling....your not too old for that are ya:sc Nope, not at all... not interested in seeing two men pound the crap out of each other trying to prove who is the bigger dick!

[Gray451]

Some women seem to enjoy the idea but..the concept is stupid..almost as stupid as men wanting to watch two women pound the crap out of each other

[OICurready4me]

I think it is the intensity of the game itself and not the fights. Watching them so focused on that little black puck.. getting upset over something as the fans get upset over it... The fans are a part of what is happening.

I honestly don't know why I like it... but I don't think it arouses me.. just gets me excited more about the game


The fighting in hockey has been a part of it since hockey first started. When you have guys skating at full speed, checking one another, have sticks in their hand and are fighting over a little piece of rubber, it can get frustrating. I played hockey for 25 years and have had my fair share of fights, as anybody who has played hockey for some time. Fans love it, plain and simple. Any many times I watch the women in the stands, as two guys are duking it out on the ice and they are hootin and hollerin as loud as everyone else, loving it just as much.

So, whaddya say, ST, how about you and me spend some time in the penalty box after we have a little "roughing" and some "high sticking"?

[My_Secrets_Kept]

what about a bit of male and female wrestling....your not too old for that are ya:sc

Don't think I could ever be too old for some hot sweaty male and female wrestling... as long as I don't get poked in the eye I am game for anything...

[Cotties]

flirting back with me and over looking my bad spelling is bound to give you rep around here.....


..now no poking you in the eye....damn take my secret weapons away why don't ya
Don't think I could ever be too old for some hot sweaty male and female wrestling... as long as I don't get poked in the eye I am game for anything...

[My_Secrets_Kept]

flirting back with me and over looking my bad spelling is bound to give you rep around here.....


..now no poking you in the eye....damn take my secret weapons away why don't ya

Since unless I missed it I don't see a spell check around her I am willing to overlook those little snafus for you... well that's as long as you can overlook mine... disarmed your secret weapon did I?

[MIGHTY]

Some women seem to enjoy the idea but..the concept is stupid..almost as stupid as men wanting to watch two women pound the crap out of each other

I must agree. I grew up a hockey fan and watched it for a few years. We have a mall here in which the junior leagues play and practice. Fighting has always been part of the game I understand. But, in this junior league and on one particular day the teens began to fight. They threw off their gloves and began to pound each other. The refs and the players and the captians just stood there and allowed them to fight for about five minutes before breaking them up. How is this ok? What is right about letting kids punch eachother in the faces in the glory of the sport? I never did like violence, even in sports. Now I do not watch hockey. Seeing that fight that day made me sick to my stomach and the fact that they allowed the kids to participate in such voilence caused me to lose all respect for the sport.

[MIGHTY]

The fighting in hockey has been a part of it since hockey first started. When you have guys skating at full speed, checking one another, have sticks in their hand and are fighting over a little piece of rubber, it can get frustrating. I played hockey for 25 years and have had my fair share of fights, as anybody who has played hockey for some time. Fans love it, plain and simple. Any many times I watch the women in the stands, as two guys are duking it out on the ice and they are hootin and hollerin as loud as everyone else, loving it just as much.

So, whaddya say, ST, how about you and me spend some time in the penalty box after we have a little "roughing" and some "high sticking"?

Just out of curiousity, where am I while you two are in the penalty box? Is that why you sent me for more refreshments?:sc

[OICurready4me]

I must agree. I grew up a hockey fan and watched it for a few years. We have a mall here in which the junior leagues play and practice. Fighting has always been part of the game I understand. But, in this junior league and on one particular day the teens began to fight. They threw off their gloves and began to pound each other. The refs and the players and the captians just stood there and allowed them to fight for about five minutes before breaking them up. How is this ok? What is right about letting kids punch eachother in the faces in the glory of the sport? I never did like violence, even in sports. Now I do not watch hockey. Seeing that fight that day made me sick to my stomach and the fact that they allowed the kids to participate in such voilence caused me to lose all respect for the sport.


At that young age, it should not be a part of the sport. When I was young, we fought alot and actually, some of the teams we were to play didn't want to play us because we would beat the shit out of the other team. It really was ridiculous, to be doing that at 8, 9 or 10 years old. But either way, hockey can be a tremendous sport, with it fast pace, fluid passing, clean physical play which is a great game to watch in person. The occasional fight adds a little spark but it is the nasty stick penalties, interference and infractions that just slow the game down that I hate about it.

[scoobertina]

The fighting in hockey has been a part of it since hockey first started. When you have guys skating at full speed, checking one another, have sticks in their hand and are fighting over a little piece of rubber, it can get frustrating. I played hockey for 25 years and have had my fair share of fights, as anybody who has played hockey for some time. Fans love it, plain and simple. Any many times I watch the women in the stands, as two guys are duking it out on the ice and they are hootin and hollerin as loud as everyone else, loving it just as much.

So, whaddya say, ST, how about you and me spend some time in the penalty box after we have a little "roughing" and some "high sticking"?

I would definitely go into the penalty box with you OIC... wouldn't think twice about it... but keep an eye out for Mighty.. I will just have to get out of the way when she returns..

[freestyle99]

At that young age, it should not be a part of the sport. When I was young, we fought alot and actually, some of the teams we were to play didn't want to play us because we would beat the shit out of the other team. It really was ridiculous, to be doing that at 8, 9 or 10 years old. But either way, hockey can be a tremendous sport, with it fast pace, fluid passing, clean physical play which is a great game to watch in person. The occasional fight adds a little spark but it is the nasty stick penalties, interference and infractions that just slow the game down that I hate about it.

Hockey rules, new rules are great too

[justgettingstarted]

No, men fighting is a big turn off.

[stellabelle]

No way! I hate confrontation and tend to run away from it.

[scoobertina]

I agree... big turn off... a turn on is seeing a man be the mature one and walking away from a confrontation

[WandaRing]

Guys in tight Football uniforms slapping each others butt...now that's a turn on...
Punching, broken noses and blood do nothing for me....I hate to see anyone in pain.

But I confess the last few months I have been getting into the repeats of Oz...wow! what a show, I've seen things that I've never seen before! :yks

[Loves2Flirt]

I know I don't have to ask the guys, a lot of us are turned on by all kinds of female versus female confrontation. :D

Ladies, how about you? Is there anything arousing about two men arguing? One man intimidating another? Two men fighting, either in sanctioned matches or street fights?

Curious to hear your responses. :sc

HUGE turn OFF! I think it's stupid and makes me not wanting them at all. It's a sign of jealousy and someone that cannot trust my own decisions and I don't go for jealous men or ones that can't trust me.

[dixiechiknga]

Nope, I hate fighting!

[private beaches]

To me, there is nothing arousing about watching men fight-verbally or physically.

[redcat]

No, not at all. I know it is not 'the way' of a lot of men...testosterone, and all...but I feel things should be able to be settled with communication (other than hitting each other).

[Kissie]

not a turn on for me...I am not much for violence!!!!

[Lacey]

To me, there is nothing arousing about watching men fight-verbally or physically.


I agree...seems a bit childish..

[FeIsTy FaV]

I love a man who stands up for what he believes in and if pushed, I don't want to see him back down..... but to just be in some kinda confrontation is not appealing.

[lonely1now]

Not at all. Huge turnoff!

[Lacey]

I think it's very unbecoming for some men to always try to have a pissing contest...it's childish really...always pushing the buck when it never had to be pushed...what's the point? To me it's not impressive...

[Fargo...really]

Hey, it gives hetero men a chance to play grab-ass with each other too!
And then we, I mean they, get to slap each other on the ass afterwards and go have a beer together.