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Penny
06-11-2007, 11:46 PM
If your spouse dont know about this site, is it worth getting caught being here?

Jy
06-11-2007, 11:49 PM
This site and its members mean so much to me, Penny, that I wouldn't take any chances. I don't want one careless mishap to cost me my place here with people I care about and who I consider dear friends.

I know accidents happen, but I take every possible precaution to prevent one, including logging out even if I'm just going downstairs to let the dog out.

Penny
06-11-2007, 11:52 PM
I dont want this site to ruin anyones relationship with their partners. I hope they understand the risk they are taking by posting here.

Wil
06-11-2007, 11:53 PM
and thanks for makin it penny...hey i might geta rise out of the ole girl...yeah its worth it...

UltimateNaneki
06-11-2007, 11:54 PM
All my friends are here, if I had to choose between my hubby and you guys, he would loose....It's sad to think you are all so important to me and he is so uncaring!

Jy
06-11-2007, 11:57 PM
If my husband were ever to find out about this site, I think I would have some explaining to do, but I'm used to that. He is a relatively modest and private person. After 12 years together, he's used to being surprised, embarrassed, and mortified by me. (does that make sense?)

No, it wouldn't ruin our relationship; we've borne much worse than this and we're still going strong.

I dont want this site to ruin anyones relationship with their partners. I hope they understand the risk they are taking by posting here.

AffableOne
06-12-2007, 01:20 AM
Like you Jazzy, I would have explaining to do. In the few short weeks here, I have made some fun relationships, met some very interesting people (online), poured out my heart, and laughed my considerable ass off.

Thanks Penny, for the site.

...and please, don't tell. ;)

PlayfulMale69
06-12-2007, 01:59 AM
Penny,

I do what I do and risk upsetting my spouse with or without your site. The unique thing about your site is it is so much more than a "hook-up" site or a chat room with people who are always putting each other down and acting like kids.

This is a though provoking place where others have the same needs and desires and I would so miss it if it wasn't here.

I thank you so much for allowing us to vent, laugh, cry, and experience friendship online in this manner on this site. You truly are providing a valuable service.

Have a great summer!!! :hug:

My_Secrets_Kept
06-12-2007, 02:44 AM
Penny,

I risk my spouse being angry, accusatory & disappointed in me by being on this site, but those are my risks to take & I am choosing to take those risks! Although my hubby is computer illiterate, I still clear my cookies/cache often just in case another family member would pop by & need to use my computer & I am never logged in here if he is awake. So I think I'm being as safe and taking all the precautions that I possibly can so that I can participate on this forum.

I not only enjoy the flirting on your site, I also enjoy watching the flirting, the comradery, the games & the every day life experiences of others. I'm not in a position to share the things that I choose to share on here with anyone in my world, so finding this site only helped to cement that fact that I am not alone.

In the very very short time I have been a member of this site I have come to appreciate it, you, the mods & the flirts on here ;) If this site were not here I would have to find another outlet, but I would prefer to stay right here as I enjoy it immensely & have already began forming online friendships. I'm sure there are some arguments on the boards at times, but I've yet to see any bickering or unpleasant behavior.

I realize I got a little off topic, but I wanted to share!

Penny this is a wonderful place & I thank you and all the mods for creating it & keeping it up/running.

angelis
06-12-2007, 03:22 AM
Penny,

I risk my spouse being angry, accusatory & disappointed in me by being on this site, but those are my risks to take & I am choosing to take those risks! Although my hubby is computer illiterate, I still clear my cookies/cache often just in case another family member would pop by & need to use my computer & I am never logged in here if he is awake. So I think I'm being as safe and taking all the precautions that I possibly can so that I can participate on this forum.

I not only enjoy the flirting on your site, I also enjoy watching the flirting, the comradery, the games & the every day life experiences of others. I'm not in a position to share the things that I choose to share on here with anyone in my world, so finding this site only helped to cement that fact that I am not alone.

In the very very short time I have been a member of this site I have come to appreciate it, you, the mods & the flirts on here ;) If this site were not here I would have to find another outlet, but I would prefer to stay right here as I enjoy it immensely & have already began forming online friendships. I'm sure there are some arguments on the boards at times, but I've yet to see any bickering or unpleasant behavior.

I realize I got a little off topic, but I wanted to share!

Penny this is a wonderful place & I thank you and all the mods for creating it & keeping it up/running.

wow,totally agree with you!! This site has been the best thing for me, the people I have met here are just amazing, I can't get enough! Totally worth the risk of hubby finding it!!!

MCat
06-12-2007, 05:59 AM
I don't what I would do without it...I'm glad Hubby knows so I don't have to hide it. When I first told him about it I wasn't quite sure what his reaction would be. He realizes that I need it...I need the chance to say whats on my mind about sex without feeling embarrassed about it, I need the friends, I need the flirting...
:knuddel:

yaser
06-12-2007, 06:28 AM
I don't what I would do without it...I'm glad Hubby knows so I don't have to hide it. When I first told him about it I wasn't quite sure what his reaction would be. He realizes that I need it...I need the chance to say whats on my mind about sex without feeling embarrassed about it, I need the friends, I need the flirting...
:knuddel:
Don't hide the things which God knows rom the human beings..You are a good friend Mcat rather than a flirt.You only answer the quetions...

baby face
06-12-2007, 08:52 AM
I love cuming here and I did almost get caught he new I was doing something I shouldn't have been doing but all is cool now. He knows I love him and he is the bed I'm getting into every night......Actually since I started cuming to this site it has made our sex life about 90% better......maybe because now I want it every nite....lol

AffableOne
06-12-2007, 09:00 AM
Very well stated!



Penny,

I do what I do and risk upsetting my spouse with or without your site. The unique thing about your site is it is so much more than a "hook-up" site or a chat room with people who are always putting each other down and acting like kids.

This is a though provoking place where others have the same needs and desires and I would so miss it if it wasn't here.

I thank you so much for allowing us to vent, laugh, cry, and experience friendship online in this manner on this site. You truly are providing a valuable service.

Have a great summer!!! :hug:

Frenchie
06-12-2007, 09:33 AM
I like to come to the site,

I'm sure if she found out about the site she'd be pissed at first but I'm a flirt in real life just as much as here. The only reason she doesnt know about it is cause I like to have a place I can come out and vent, maybe get stuff off my chest that's not something I want to talk about.

I never hid in these forums and bad talk her so that's why I'm not scared if she finds out, everyone know's frenchie's wife is the only girl he loves, I just like the extra lovin and more then good advise this site gives.

There's more to this site then hooking up with people and I think it's good to remember that. After all it's married and flirting and not married and F*cking.

that's my 2 cents

PunkyBob
06-12-2007, 09:39 AM
So many folks above me have said it so eloquently about what this site provides for us. Penny, Lena and everyone else who keeps this going, I hope you know we all appreciate it and love you for it. As far as getting caught...it wouldn't be pretty, but as with all chance encounters in this mechanized global zoo, I take precautions. Rock on, kids!

IMaLady
06-12-2007, 09:47 AM
Yes this site is worth the risk and yes I know completly how my hubby would feel about it. I know I do everything possible to keep him from finding out. Thanks Penny for the great site.

speed_raycer
06-12-2007, 09:55 AM
I LOVE this site. I voted yes, but I absolutely cannot risk getting caught. I'd be kicked out of the house immediately. So, I have to be very secret and discreet when I come here. That's why I haven't been around as much as I used to be. But when I'm here.... wow. What fun! Thanks Penny!:55

living to Flirt
06-12-2007, 12:55 PM
Sorry but am I missing something... This site is all about being Married and Flirting! I am not sure why anyone would/should get upset with this site. Its not, as Penny states on her home page, a dating service. Its not like any of us originally came on this site to hook up. ( well most of us, I am guessing, lol) If it happens then, at least I believe, it would have happened in real life situation sooner or later. The site is just our outlet of fooling around with words with people who take you for who you are and not what you look like initially. So no I don't have to hide the site, my post maybe, but not the site.

Did I miss something? Am I wrong?

p.J
06-12-2007, 01:20 PM
Sorry but am I missing something... This site is all about being Married and Flirting! I am not sure why anyone would/should get upset with this site. Its not, as Penny states on her home page, a dating service. Its not like any of us originally came on this site to hook up. ( well most of us, I am guessing, lol) If it happens then, at least I believe, it would have happened in real life situation sooner or later. The site is just our outlet of fooling around with words with people who take you for who you are and not what you look like initially. So no I don't have to hide the site, my post maybe, but not the site.

Did I miss something? Am I wrong?

Excellent observation living to flirt, however, I am not sure my hubby would approve of my ass on show for the world, or indeed some of my erm less subtle posts... he would question why I don't flirt or apply some of my techniques on him, after all I post with such conviction and vivid graphic detail!... you know he would have a point, why don't I?? :sc

living to Flirt
06-12-2007, 01:22 PM
Because with him, you would turn him on, then he would want to have sex... sometimes its all about the tease... not just to have sex. Not to mention, with a fine ass, it should be shared!

p.J
06-12-2007, 01:26 PM
Because with him, you would turn him on, then he would want to have sex... sometimes its all about the tease... not just to have sex. Not to mention, with a fine ass, it should be shared!

A very perceptive "living to flirt" :kk

scoobertina
06-12-2007, 01:27 PM
Penny, it is so worth it... I have made many friends here, male and female. If it weren't for this site I would have complicated a friendship. This site has allowed me to be me...

Thanks so much for everything...

PunkyBob
06-12-2007, 02:53 PM
We're here because we need it. It fits what what we need. ANd hopefully keeps us from doing severe damage at home.

Thank was cheerful...thanks Bob

Kissie
06-12-2007, 05:37 PM
My spouse knows about the site and is a member also...he is not on as much as I am...but I am not here to meet up with anyone and get laid!!! I am just here for the friendships and the company!!!

speed_raycer
06-12-2007, 08:04 PM
Jen, hun,

He might have a point, yes. But this form of communication brings out something quite different in me, and I believe many others here. We express our selves in ways we probably wouldn't in "real life." And that is what makes it so fun, and addictive, to be here, isn't it? :D Oh, and if you didn't post those lovely pics, we'd all have missed something pretty special! Woo hoo!

Excellent observation living to flirt, however, I am not sure my hubby would approve of my ass on show for the world, or indeed some of my erm less subtle posts... he would question why I don't flirt or apply some of my techniques on him, after all I post with such conviction and vivid graphic detail!... you know he would have a point, why don't I?? :sc

Sunfiresix
06-12-2007, 08:27 PM
To tell the truth, There is no group of people I would rather get caught associating with--I am proud to be with all of you and the site itself.

Annie
06-12-2007, 08:31 PM
Jen, hun,

He might have a point, yes. But this form of communication brings out something quite different in me, and I believe many others here. We express our selves in ways we probably wouldn't in "real life." And that is what makes it so fun, and addictive, to be here, isn't it? :D Oh, and if you didn't post those lovely pics, we'd all have missed something pretty special! Woo hoo!Very well said! It's brought out my alter ego... and I have found that that alter ego/other personality is very much a real part of who I am. I am more "me" on this site than anywhere in real life.

DoratheExplorer
06-12-2007, 08:39 PM
Yes, it is worth the risk. It's fun entertainment as well as a safe outlet to share stories, ideas, commentary and cyberfriendship with like-minded individuals. I am sure people will use it as they need it and see fit. Thanks for hosting it!!

Cotties
06-12-2007, 08:39 PM
maybe some people get a thrill from knowing they just might get caught;) If your spouse dont know about this site, is it worth getting caught being here?

MCat
06-12-2007, 09:18 PM
Very well said! It's brought out my alter ego... and I have found that that alter ego/other personality is very much a real part of who I am. I am more "me" on this site than anywhere in real life.

Gosh Annie....if you were chubby I'd swear we were twins separated at birth :D

MIGHTY
06-12-2007, 10:43 PM
I hid the site when I first started coming here. I told him one day and tried to explain what it was about. I showed him some posts.....funny ones, or harmless ones......he was ok with it. He was ok with it because he had his "thing" on the side. He was ok with it because he was otherwise occupied and just waiting for me to tell him it was over, something he had been thinking for quite some time apparently.

In coming here I have found out soo much about myself and have learned a thing or two about relationships in general. I am smarter now, stronger now, more cautious now. You all see the real me here. The flirty one. The somber one. The sad one. The lioness dying to get out. You all have helped me soo much and the relationships I have made here are invaluable. I honestly do not know how I would deal with my day to day stresses w/o being able to come here to vent or play. I like the fact that we all support eachother as well. I like being able to give someone a virtual hug and know that they are smiling on the other side of the screen. There is an understanding here like no other and I am thankful and grateful everyday that I have found this place.

So, am I worried about him finding out certain aspects of what I do here? Absolutely not. Hell, for all I know, he would do some reading and get to know the real me.......someone he has overlooked for months now. Would he care to know? Probably not.........

Sandy
06-12-2007, 10:48 PM
i'm lucky i guess, my hubby found this site, and we're both members, hes not on here much, but hes ok with me being here as much as i can

Penny
06-12-2007, 11:43 PM
Im glad you all like it but if you get caught its on your own heads :D

GeekMaster
06-12-2007, 11:47 PM
Im glad you all like it but if you get caught its on your own heads :D

Penny, if I get caught, can you be on my head??? :blowjob: :D :kk

This site is the greatest!!!

speed_raycer
06-13-2007, 12:19 AM
Nice post, hun! Very real, and as always, very you!

I hid the site when I first started coming here. I told him one day and tried to explain what it was about. I showed him some posts.....funny ones, or harmless ones......he was ok with it. He was ok with it because he had his "thing" on the side. He was ok with it because he was otherwise occupied and just waiting for me to tell him it was over, something he had been thinking for quite some time apparently.

In coming here I have found out soo much about myself and have learned a thing or two about relationships in general. I am smarter now, stronger now, more cautious now. You all see the real me here. The flirty one. The somber one. The sad one. The lioness dying to get out. You all have helped me soo much and the relationships I have made here are invaluable. I honestly do not know how I would deal with my day to day stresses w/o being able to come here to vent or play. I like the fact that we all support eachother as well. I like being able to give someone a virtual hug and know that they are smiling on the other side of the screen. There is an understanding here like no other and I am thankful and grateful everyday that I have found this place.

So, am I worried about him finding out certain aspects of what I do here? Absolutely not. Hell, for all I know, he would do some reading and get to know the real me.......someone he has overlooked for months now. Would he care to know? Probably not.........

cherokeered
06-13-2007, 12:20 AM
Well, let me say that if he saw the posts here...and if he left me because of it....yeh, it would be worth it......:)

Dmy
06-13-2007, 12:27 AM
I have been caught and it hurt my wife. I left and came back 3-4 months later....I have many very good friends here and that is what I missed. I hope I dont have to leave this place...but I have met someone very special to me....Hopefully someday we can meet. I didnt plan on it but have fallen for her in many ways.....

Suz
06-13-2007, 12:33 AM
I have been caught and it hurt my wife. I left and came back 3-4 months later....I have many very good friends here and that is what I missed. I hope I dont have to leave this place...but I have met someone very special to me....Hopefully someday we can meet. I didnt plan on it but have fallen for her in many ways.....

:kk So soooo sweet baby, thank you.

Wil
06-13-2007, 12:48 AM
she will when i walk by her in the am and say "made 500"...haha

UltimateNaneki
06-13-2007, 12:50 AM
she will when i walk by her in the am and say "made 500"...haha


:lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao

Newenglandman
06-13-2007, 02:06 AM
GREAT site... well worth it I think. Great people, good conversation.... Yup, is is worth it. :55

PlayfulMale69
06-13-2007, 03:06 AM
I have been caught and it hurt my wife. I left and came back 3-4 months later....I have many very good friends here and that is what I missed. I hope I dont have to leave this place...but I have met someone very special to me....Hopefully someday we can meet. I didnt plan on it but have fallen for her in many ways.....

I remember when you left. Does your wife know you are back on here again?

Dmy
06-13-2007, 07:53 AM
I remember when you left. Does your wife know you are back on here again?

no, I explained it to her once how many are friends, but that doesnt matter to her. So I Im very careful to delete and watch what I do here. Yes, Im sneaking around, but some friends are worth that to me!

MIGHTY
06-13-2007, 01:06 PM
Nice post, hun! Very real, and as always, very you!

Thank you.....I've missed you by the way stranger......:kk

G...G
06-13-2007, 01:49 PM
He knows

Pebbles
06-13-2007, 03:17 PM
This is my one place I can come..just for me. I don't want my husband to find out. Would it be worth it..if he did find out? Think I would leave. I don't want to be in the same forum as him.

Cotties
06-13-2007, 03:22 PM
laughing out loud:D ...and its not at your avatarThis is my one place I can come..just for me. I don't want my husband to find out. Would it be worth it..if he did find out? Think I would leave. I don't want to be in the same forum as him.

RedVixen
06-13-2007, 10:42 PM
My husband doesn't know about this site & I don't ever plan on telling him. I like having this site all to 'myself' :)

Suz
06-14-2007, 08:54 AM
My hubby knows I go to A site...but not the name of it. He takes the pics so he knows I post them...but then he'll ask how people liked his photography, lol....or how many guys I talk to. ;)

Cotties
06-14-2007, 09:10 AM
huh...what did you say...I just can't stop looking at that ass in your avatar....My husband doesn't know about this site & I don't ever plan on telling him. I like having this site all to 'myself' :)...where's my pen....I'm leaving your ass everything in my will

Cotties
06-14-2007, 09:11 AM
tell him Cotties said thanks and he needs to keep up the good work:55 My hubby knows I go to A site...but not the name of it. He takes the pics so he knows I post them...but then he'll ask how people liked his photography, lol....or how many guys I talk to. ;)

Suz
06-14-2007, 09:52 AM
tell him Cotties said thanks and he need to keep up the good work:55


Well I will...he's quite proud of the ass shot he took...says that and the wet t shirt are his best work...lol. Now, what to do next:sc

Cotties
06-14-2007, 10:41 AM
do you have your old cheer leader outfit?:sc Well I will...he's quite proud of the ass shot he took...says that and the wet t shirt are his best work...lol. Now, what to do next:sc

Suz
06-14-2007, 02:22 PM
do you have your old cheer leader outfit?:sc

Actually yes, I still do....hmm...maybe that will be my next project...you think bows in the hair?:sc

Cotties
06-14-2007, 02:25 PM
how about we leave that up to the photographer;) Actually yes, I still do....hmm...maybe that will be my next project...you think bows in the hair?:sc

Dre
06-14-2007, 06:42 PM
How about some lingerie? I bet you have some right?




Well I will...he's quite proud of the ass shot he took...says that and the wet t shirt are his best work...lol. Now, what to do next:sc

Suz
06-14-2007, 09:21 PM
How about some lingerie? I bet you have some right?

You and lingerie....boy you sure have it bad for that stuff....yes, I have plenty...all covered in dust by now I'm sure....what a shame and I keep buying more..for what I honestly don't know.

suzie147
06-14-2007, 10:24 PM
I have said it before - this site has been an invaluable part of my life - meeting some really nice people, giving me strength to do what I should have done many years ago. I have realized through these wonderful people that I am worth more than what I was gettting from life... so in many ways, this site has assisted me to change my life - and I am sure from the posts above, and just from the posts all around that it has been a significant influence on most of the people who stay and get to know what this is all about.

Thank you Penny. I will be ever indebted to you.

chiboy_67
06-14-2007, 10:26 PM
def worth it for the whole 30 mins I've been here... But will it be worth all the lost sleep? That is the question!

MCat
06-14-2007, 10:28 PM
def worth it for the whole 30 mins I've been here... But will it be worth all the lost sleep? That is the question!

It will be worth it if you take the time to read and enjoy the many different threads....learn a bit about what makes us tick....have a good time. :55

chiboy_67
06-14-2007, 10:34 PM
It will be worth it if you take the time to read and enjoy the many different threads....learn a bit about what makes us tick....have a good time. :55

Seems very friendly so far! How do you keep the riff-raff out?

Jy
06-14-2007, 10:43 PM
We make them drop their pants and see if they're worth keeping around just to look at.



Seems very friendly so far! How do you keep the riff-raff out?

chiboy_67
06-14-2007, 10:45 PM
We make them drop their pants and see if they're worth keeping around just to look at.

Ahha, that's why I came in with my pants already around my ankles. :whee:

MCat
06-14-2007, 10:47 PM
Ahha, that's why I came in with my pants already around my ankles. :whee:

Now we know you can read too...
That's exactly what it says in the rules, page 69, paragraph 21. :55

chiboy_67
06-14-2007, 10:51 PM
Now we know you can read too...
That's exactly what it says in the rules, page 69, paragraph 21. :55

Well, yes, of course I wanted to get right down to 69.:na

Dre
06-15-2007, 07:35 AM
I think I know why you keep buying it, maybe someday you will get to show some of it off to someone?Wonder who?




You and lingerie....boy you sure have it bad for that stuff....yes, I have plenty...all covered in dust by now I'm sure....what a shame and I keep buying more..for what I honestly don't know.

fly
06-15-2007, 05:22 PM
Yeah............I recently got caught on the site and he was not happy!!!:(

I changed my user name and am still here.
He was jealous at first but it blew over quickly........
So YES.........for me it was worth it..........
(OBVIOUSLY......since I'm still here!!!):D

Big O
06-15-2007, 05:23 PM
Yeah............I recently got caught on the site and he was not happy!!!:(

I changed my user name and am still here.
He was jealous at first but it blew over quickly........
So YES.........for me it was worth it..........
(OBVIOUSLY......since I'm still here!!!):D

and we are all very happy that you are still here!! :kk

Sunfiresix
06-15-2007, 05:27 PM
This site is worth it for me. I love it and everyone here.

Big O
06-15-2007, 05:39 PM
This site is worth it for me. I love it and everyone here.

awww..... thanks Sun!!!:kk

sawflyman
06-15-2007, 06:05 PM
wow penny you look purty......................

majorfun
06-16-2007, 01:41 PM
So you can wear it for me.......:55 :lf :D




You and lingerie....boy you sure have it bad for that stuff....yes, I have plenty...all covered in dust by now I'm sure....what a shame and I keep buying more..for what I honestly don't know.

Gray451
06-16-2007, 02:24 PM
Yes it is...but I am cagey so hopefully I won't get caught

p.J
06-16-2007, 04:13 PM
Yes it is...but I am cagey so hopefully I won't get caught

cagey is fine... but don't look suspiciously guilty! Women are pretty perceptive! :55

yaser
06-16-2007, 04:33 PM
I was scared of my wife now I am scared of my sweet heart.Being scared is my destiny..

Sabrina
06-16-2007, 04:37 PM
couldn't imagine this being taken away.....

Dmy
06-17-2007, 07:51 AM
I think the question for me is...........Is she worth getting caught for? ...YES

pointofnoreturn
06-18-2007, 12:43 PM
I think the question for me is...........Is she worth getting caught for? ...YES I will make it worth your while cutie....:wa: Pick me!!!!

dan1961
07-01-2007, 11:52 PM
agree..it is worth it..

XMONKEYLOVINSX
07-01-2007, 11:53 PM
yes it is

Wil
07-01-2007, 11:57 PM
she dosen't have a clue...she thinks Im downloading porn...I think....:sc

dan1961
07-02-2007, 12:33 AM
she dosen't have a clue...she thinks Im downloading porn...I think....:sc



LOL..and downloading porn is more noble than visiting this site....

oldandnaked
07-02-2007, 09:50 AM
[QUOTE=Penny]If your spouse dont know about this site, is it worth getting caught being here?[/QUOTE


The risk of being caught is half the pleasure or excitement of being here.

tiger50
07-02-2007, 09:53 AM
fuk mate,, ur too old ta be here..... :lmao .. wait.. so am i.....
just kiddin... welcome ..... :wa:



[QUOTE=Penny]If your spouse dont know about this site, is it worth getting caught being here?[/QUOTE


The risk of being caught is half the pleasure or excitement of being here.

bored1111
07-05-2007, 09:56 PM
I'm new to the site, so obvioulsy my answer (Yes) is based on an optimistic attitude, plus the two or three people I've met so far have been pretty cool!

MCat
07-05-2007, 10:12 PM
Welcome OldandNaked :wa: I used to be old...now I'm just naked :dd

Welcome Bored1111 :wa:

suzie147
07-05-2007, 11:02 PM
Welcome Oldandnaked!! Welcome Bored111 - Hope you both have a great time here and meet alot of fantastic people!! Enjoy!!

:wa:

bored1111
07-05-2007, 11:16 PM
thanks MCat! so, did you find the fountain of youth? I love that you're naked!

bored1111
07-05-2007, 11:17 PM
thanks MCat, so, did oyu find the fountain of youth? I love that you're naked!

Dsparate Hswife
07-05-2007, 11:21 PM
This site gives me hope...

suzie147
07-05-2007, 11:57 PM
This site gives me hope...
As it should Dsparate - You should never lose your hope - or your will, and especially - never lose yourself - to anyone!!

getyousome
07-05-2007, 11:57 PM
This site gives me hope...



Same here, I have been looking for something like this site for a long time and I am glad I found it.

Dsparate Hswife
07-06-2007, 12:20 AM
As it should Dsparate - You should never lose your hope - or your will, and especially - never lose yourself - to anyone!!


You always cheer me up, Sweetie...I did almost lose myself and I finally fought back...the hell of it is...I am a woman who knows better...Thank you suzie
:wa:

suzie147
07-06-2007, 12:24 AM
You always cheer me up, Sweetie...I did almost lose myself and I finally fought back...the hell of it is...I am a woman who knows better...Thank you suzie
:wa:
Anytime - my friend... if you ever need to talk... I would always be there for u...

Dsparate Hswife
07-06-2007, 12:28 PM
Same here, I have been looking for something like this site for a long time and I am glad I found it.


We could all be so lucky...I am happy for you...:)

bryan3636
07-06-2007, 03:00 PM
This site is priceless
The people are priceless
Getting caught? well worth it

Dsparate Hswife
07-06-2007, 03:38 PM
This site is priceless
The people are priceless
Getting caught? well worth it

You made me think...
Porn movie= $10
Trip to a strip club= $100
This site= priceless
:na

Wil
07-15-2007, 08:44 AM
I'm guessing she would be pissed...I guess I find out when I find out...in the interim...good morning to all you beautiful, luscious ladies...:knuddel: :kk :lf ;) :dd

1hotmommy
11-10-2007, 08:47 PM
I actually told my husband I had been coming here, and he was understanding. It's nice when that happens

scoobertina
11-10-2007, 09:00 PM
Yes it is.... I got caught... he read alot of things... and you know what? it was over anyhow... and now I can flirt like I want to

cherokeered
11-10-2007, 09:27 PM
whether you get caught here or somewhere else...or with someone else...what's the difference....chances are, sooner or later everyone gets caught...just depends on if ur spouse chooses to say anything...mine has chosen to avoid the subject....

unctarheel_32
11-11-2007, 12:10 AM
no,i guess it depends on ure spouse and if they are opened minded.

duanehofner
11-12-2007, 06:51 AM
Worth getting caught? Don't know yet!

p.a
11-12-2007, 07:00 AM
I dont want this site to ruin anyones relationship with their partners. I hope they understand the risk they are taking by posting here.

Penny I don't think you would be at fault for ruining relationships. We're all adults here. No ones twisting our arms to be here. The site is free for Gods sake. I would think that any spouse that found out would at least be happy in the knowledge that there counter part isn't blowing the house note on pay sites.

Besides if my spouse came here I doubt if she would care and if she did it may even help us out.
But whatever happens you can be secure in the knowledge that I would not put you at fault for my actions.

:wa: :wa: :wa:

AL(m)
11-12-2007, 11:18 AM
I would say so.... its fun and you can just be your self here and people accept you ....... its a good forum for people in similar situation to find support and advice.....and yes relationships that make them feel good about theirself.........Keep up the good work Penny and to all the moderators too.....
Cant thank you enjoy for all the work you do on maintaining this site....... :knuddel: :knuddel: :55

subtlehands
11-12-2007, 12:18 PM
People,

I'm on my second day on this site and already showing signs of addiction. One thing I can say - and from my delving in and out of various threads on here - is that it's amazing to be confronted with a place where one can find kindred spirits; a place that allows a person to explore and express a part of their personality that perhaps cannot be revealed in the real world - and all in an atmosphere of cameraderie. One benefit of this site is that it acts as a safety valve - releasing tensions which, if left bottled up, would probably cause real difficulties in the real world

ksue7274
11-12-2007, 03:29 PM
Guess I am lucky. Hubby knows.

up4fun
11-12-2007, 03:31 PM
I think the wife would cut of my balls.....But it might make her stop and think for a minute also...

Papa Chubby
11-14-2007, 02:53 PM
I have showed my wife this site the day i signed up.

I have no secrets from her now, and I hope i can share things with her from the great people here. (suck up alert. suck up alert)

Vampireskiss
09-15-2008, 06:24 PM
Ok...l can understand the getting caught if you were doing something, but...what about the folk's who actually come here to just talk...?? l mean it is possable. Why should they feel guilty for the feeling's of someone who's insecure and doesn't understand sometime's people just want to share there feeling,like's or dislike's or anything else without having to have to resort to sex of some kind...?? lf you have to explain yourself to someone...they need to take a hard look at themselves first and stop the crying foul when no harm was done...

cyclops
09-15-2008, 06:29 PM
Yes it is.

In fact I would welcome the opportunity to be able to come clean about my infatuation with the sexiest intergalactic space smuggler in the universe.

anesdoc74
09-15-2008, 08:45 PM
Yes it is.... I got caught... he read alot of things... and you know what? it was over anyhow... and now I can flirt like I want to

Hmmm I would like to hear sometime what exactly happened there.

gatorgal
09-15-2008, 10:02 PM
It would be soooo worth it!!

Atrebla Rose
09-15-2008, 10:06 PM
Without a doubt!!!

scoobertina
09-15-2008, 11:22 PM
Hmmm I would like to hear sometime what exactly happened there.


what do you want to know?

MSU
09-15-2008, 11:23 PM
If it happens, I'll deal with it then. I'm happy I found this place. I've met some awesome people.

Sharpie
09-15-2008, 11:26 PM
bit of a tough question - I am thinking the convo would be heated...

softrosepetal
09-16-2008, 12:10 AM
This site gives me a chance to laugh, cry and speak my mind. Plus some very good friends that I would not trade......

Shawn_N_Sandiego
09-16-2008, 12:37 AM
She knows... however... everyone pretend to be mostly male and we are all here for the support groups m'kay??

MiSt09
09-16-2008, 12:37 AM
Umm, my plan is to not get caught...hopefully things go according to planned...

Ally
09-16-2008, 12:40 AM
She knows... however... everyone pretend to be mostly male and we are all here for the support groups m'kay??

LOL...exactly....the support groups...that was my story too.

Krystal
09-16-2008, 12:41 AM
She knows... however... everyone pretend to be mostly male and we are all here for the support groups m'kay??

Ok, I'll pretend to be male then,....but....where am I s'posed to hide *these*??? :dd

Krystal
09-16-2008, 12:44 AM
I've divulged more information on this site than I want to think about. I wouldn't want him....or anyone else I knew....to read any of it. Don't know if "worth it" would be the correct way of putting it....I think "deep shit" would be more appropriate.

OnceAKing
09-16-2008, 01:32 AM
I can fully appreciate all the feelings of why it wouldn't or might not be worth getting caught...but from a single man's perspective it would be definitely worth it...

Missy38
09-16-2008, 01:37 AM
There's no way I could get caught here, we both chat and post here...

SOUTHGAHEAT
09-16-2008, 01:37 PM
Sometimes it is worth it I think. Now getting caught with Penny my god that'd be worth a limb or something.

fourisit
09-16-2008, 02:00 PM
My spouse knows but not specifics so I still could get "caught" with my hand in the cookie jar wink wink. The people and relationships I have built here makes it very worth it.

Bandit
09-16-2008, 02:14 PM
She knows... however... everyone pretend to be mostly male and we are all here for the support groups m'kay??

I fully support you SNS! In fact, you can even call me as a character witness in the divorce procedings :)

WandaRing
09-16-2008, 02:21 PM
She knows... however... everyone pretend to be mostly male and we are all here for the support groups m'kay??
Shawn, how many guys do you know named Annie? Krystal is right it's a little difficult to hide your breast...even though I don't have much they just cant disappear....and then there are the avatars...how do we hide those?

Han Solo
09-16-2008, 02:26 PM
Yes it is.

In fact I would welcome the opportunity to be able to come clean about my infatuation with the sexiest intergalactic space smuggler in the universe.


:yks....LOL.......Now that's what I get for opening a new thread and reading back further than the latest 2 or 3!!..Ya never know WHAT the hell you might find!!! And I THOUGHT you told her about me?? Are you ashamed of me? is that it??:cry:

bryan3636
09-16-2008, 02:30 PM
been there, done that and I'm still here!!!

Nomad(m)
09-16-2008, 02:33 PM
Not sure how you could get caught here, as long as you are careful, and don't run at the mouth. LOL, and YES, it would be worth it. Might help matters.

Han Solo
09-16-2008, 02:52 PM
She knows... however... everyone pretend to be mostly male and we are all here for the support groups m'kay??
And here I thought you would have gone with the "Ummm, sorry...I've been looking for ways to spice things up and this was an accidental typo on my way to the Married and Fisting site?

:sry...............but SOMEONE had to bring it up this week and I thought I saw my name on the schedule:sg

Shawn_N_Sandiego
09-16-2008, 02:57 PM
And here I thought you would have gone with the "Ummm, sorry...I've been looking for ways to spice things up and this was an accidental typo on my way to the Married and Fisting site?

:sry...............but SOMEONE had to bring it up this week and I thought I saw my name on the schedule:sg

LMAO.... yeah... I lost that schedule.. I think we went 4 weeks with out a good ol fist pump comment...coulda done with out the chicken presentation myself

Han Solo
09-16-2008, 02:59 PM
LMAO.... yeah... I lost that schedule.. I think we went 4 weeks with out a good ol fist pump comment...coulda done with out the chicken presentation myself
Yeah, I STILL can't drive by a KFC without gettin the full body shivers!!!

Shawn_N_Sandiego
09-16-2008, 03:02 PM
Yeah, I STILL can't drive by a KFC without gettin the full body shivers!!!

WELL.. it is finger lickin good... but yeah.. that's taking it to far

Han Solo
09-16-2008, 03:19 PM
WELL.. it is finger lickin good... but yeah.. that's taking it to far
I would Thank you for that post but I don't want to do anything that would imply we shook hands or something like that.....so I'll just go with the Thumbs Up....:55 instead...................EWwwwwwwww, wait! On second thought that 's not such a good connotation either........Ummm...how bout I just post Santy Clause instead to put a happier tone on things.......:xmass....ummm.....upon further review now we're innuendo deep in shoving stuff in the chimney..............so what's just say I back out of this here room real slow like and I'll go somewhere and drink that image away....:drink:

Shawn_N_Sandiego
09-16-2008, 04:01 PM
I would Thank you for that post but I don't want to do anything that would imply we shook hands or something like that.....so I'll just go with the Thumbs Up....:55 instead...................EWwwwwwwww, wait! On second thought that 's not such a good connotation either........Ummm...how bout I just post Santy Clause instead to put a happier tone on things.......:xmass....ummm.....upon further review now we're innuendo deep in shoving stuff in the chimney..............so what's just say I back out of this here room real slow like and I'll go somewhere and drink that image away....:drink:

Mental Images are my specialty... here is a fork to poke that out that mental eyeball.... its evil sometimes

fly
09-16-2008, 04:02 PM
And here I thought you would have gone with the "Ummm, sorry...I've been looking for ways to spice things up and this was an accidental typo on my way to the Married and Fisting site?

:sry...............but SOMEONE had to bring it up this week and I thought I saw my name on the schedule:sg


$#* @#$%)$%*&&@Q:thr

jmsmith12345
09-16-2008, 04:50 PM
I got it caught in my zipper once, and as much as I love this site, it was nowhere to be found. No band aid, no kiss to make it all better, not even some ice for the swelling...so no it is not worth getting caught.

YourAssMyHand
09-16-2008, 09:31 PM
Maybe she would realize that sex is important enough to me that I am looking elsewhere to fulfill my needs.

nugnugwinkwink
09-18-2008, 08:30 AM
no and yes,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, but I live on the edge a bit anyway