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rickingeorgia
06-21-2007, 02:56 AM
First off, I really have enjoyed my time on this site so far, everyone is great. I saw this sections details and said post your details so here they are.

I've been married for over 3 years to a gorgeous girl. We've known each other for about 8.5 years now. She absolutely adores me and goes out of her way to please me but sometimes that gets to be a bit much sometimes and it feels like I'm getting smothered. We have a great sex life, everyone is pleased in that department.

But back to the reason I'm here. I absolutely love women. That's something that will never, ever change regardless of if I'm married or not. I have never physically cheated on anyone and don't know if I'd really have the heart to go through with it or not.

There's something about talking, flirting and looking at other women that turns me on. My wife isn't interested in a 3-some, and I have a feeling that if pushed hard enough she would give in and do it for me, and I don't want that either.

I guess the reason I'm here is not because anything is missing in my marriage, but more so I'd like to flirt around and have some fun with someone else. I don't know if that makes me a bad person or if it means anything in general.

I've gone on and rambled enough but if anyone would like to chat sometime or has any questions just let me know. I'm a bit of a talker so be warned, but that's not to say I can't listen when I need to!

Edited: Removed details that no-doubt could identify me if she went snooping and found the site, or if I just forgot to close the window one night!

pointofnoreturn
06-21-2007, 06:10 PM
Hiya Rick....Everyone here is having issues of some sort, or just needs some company. Nothing wrong with any of it. Flirt with the rest of us. We don't bite...WEll I do!

p.J
06-21-2007, 06:34 PM
I guess the reason I'm here is not because anything is missing in my marriage, but more so I'd like to flirt around and have some fun with someone else.


Thats it in a nutshell Rick, whether the flirting turns into something else is your choice and entirely your business... however, as you say there is nothing missing in your marriage so you probably won't allow a bit of flirting become anything else... so with that said enjoy and have fun, after all you are with like minded people! :)

rickingeorgia
06-21-2007, 06:53 PM
...Flirt with the rest of us. We don't bite...WEll I do!

There's definately nothing wrong with some nibbling! Speaking of flirting though... :55Outstanding avatars you two have there!

cherokeered
06-21-2007, 07:57 PM
Welcome to the site....:wa:

Sunfiresix
06-21-2007, 07:59 PM
We are a;; here for one reason or another--and we can meet friends or get advice --this is a good place with darn good people.

Gray451
06-21-2007, 11:51 PM
Everyone has issues of one sort or another. The point is to reach out for what makes u happier...if u don't then why bother. I am a terrible womanizer...easily lead...but I enjoy it so why not?

Penny
06-22-2007, 12:23 AM
Invite her here, its helped a few cpls to be here together

rickingeorgia
06-22-2007, 03:37 AM
Invite her here, its helped a few cpls to be here together

It's an interesting thought but it would no doubt cause more problems than anything.

Pebbles
06-22-2007, 09:01 AM
Hiya Rick....Everyone here is having issues of some sort, or just needs some company. Nothing wrong with any of it. Flirt with the rest of us. We don't bite...WEll I do!

Very well said pointofnoreturn! Welcome Rick and know you will have fun. Flirt away!! :)

Shiane
06-22-2007, 10:30 AM
I guess the reason I'm here is not because anything is missing in my marriage, but more so I'd like to flirt around and have some fun with someone else. I don't know if that makes me a bad person or if it means anything in general.

It doesn't really matter why you're here, everyone gets something from this place, no explanation is required is what I am trying to say. The name Married & Flirting is just a name, it doesn't mean you have to be married and it doesn't mean you have to flirt. This place is what you want it to be whether it is a place to share a friendship or something more. Have fun and get to know some of the most wonderful people on the net. :wa:

Bear
10-28-2007, 05:50 PM
Hop right in then, the water is fine.