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Amaretto
06-29-2007, 05:03 PM
How much do you and your spouse/significant other laugh together? Do you consider that an important component of a healthy relationship?

pointofnoreturn
06-29-2007, 05:38 PM
How much do you and your spouse/significant other laugh together? Do you consider that an important component of a healthy relationship?Actually my hubby and I laugh a lot. I love tolaugh, and if I am upset or he is...W can always make the othr laugh. Laughing is good for you....It is important to enjoy your other, but sometimes that is not enough....

Annie
06-29-2007, 05:38 PM
Andrew and I laugh all the time together. It's very important to our relationship. Our lives are pretty stressful, we both have pretty demanding jobs and a child with special needs. What are you gonna do, laugh or cry? We choose to laugh and for the moment, all is good.

Kissie
06-29-2007, 05:54 PM
Me and SGT laugh quite a bit...you never know what is going to come out of my mouth...with him being in the military you have to make alot of memories when you have the chance...

As if you all dont know SGT is very important to me...I love to see him smile and hear him laugh!!!!

Big O
06-29-2007, 06:11 PM
yes we laugh together all the time. It's good for you!

RedVixen
06-29-2007, 07:18 PM
Laughter does wonders for ones soul. Laughter has a lot of health benefits too. I try to laugh as much as I can, but then again, I always have a sense of humour so it comes naturally for me.

p.J
06-29-2007, 07:32 PM
Ah.. Laughter! For me its an aphrodisiac, with the right man of course... A Cliche, but it really is the best medicine and if your life is void of laughter so is your spirit! Witty repartee, sarcastic banter, whatever ...I for one think its one of most essential ingredients in any relationship..

aviatorspirit69
06-29-2007, 10:31 PM
As an anatomist, I can tell you that laughter exercises the diaphragm and the lungs, pelvic muscles and all of the accessory muscles of the thorax.....funny thing, so does sexual activity with your partner, lover or significant other....what a coincidence wouldnt you say?

Your Aviator ;)

AffableOne
06-29-2007, 10:34 PM
well, this is a tough one for me to answer......

by nature, I tend to see humor in most things.....I love to laugh with friends, kids.....

a few people in my life seem annoyed by my sense of humor.....

but most seem to enjoy it, and me....

good question, by the way

Jy
06-29-2007, 10:37 PM
Yes, hubby and I laugh together constantly. He has a wonderful sense of humour, and we joke around quite a bit throughout the day, especially when we're stressed, which really helps lighten things up.
I have to smile when I think about how many times one of us has done something completely ridiculous, just to crack up the other person. We usually end up laughing ourselves to tears, collapsed on the floor. That's the way it should be.

MCat
06-29-2007, 11:16 PM
We laugh lots....our kids are comedians....there is not a straight face for long when we are all together.

tiger50
06-29-2007, 11:23 PM
well i think ite extremely important to laught together..... but it hasnt happened here in a long time.....

dan1961
06-29-2007, 11:25 PM
yes..laughter is important

dan1961
06-29-2007, 11:30 PM
lol

dan1961
06-29-2007, 11:32 PM
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hoss
06-30-2007, 12:36 AM
Momma laughs all the time ..out loud ,full guffaws ...I on the other hand very rarely laugh......i will chuckle or smile ,but not out right laugh ....that little boy in me is hidden pretty deep ...and after last year hes gone even deeper ...

cherokeered
06-30-2007, 12:38 AM
I laugh......mostly when out....seldom at home...unless i am talking to Tiger.....he can always make me laugh...

Amaretto
06-30-2007, 11:25 AM
To me, there is something so compelling about a person who makes me laugh, or better yet, when we constantly make each other laugh. I enjoy long, deep, serious conversations too, and a good relationship needs those as well. But I so appreciate my friends, both male and female, who can keep me in stitches. A good, side-splitting round of laughter so quickly melts away the concerns and stresses of the day.

SexyCowgirl
06-30-2007, 11:34 AM
I laugh all the time. If I'm not laughing, I'd go insane.

However, my husband rarely laughs unless he's been drinking. He doesn't laugh, he doesn't cry, he's never angry, and he's never upset. He comes from a long line of men who never, ever show emotion. EVER! After a time, you can get a read on what they are actaully feeling, but such a bold expression such as outright laughing is beyond rare. Sometimes, his mustaches wiggles, and then you know he is smiling, and his eyes wrinkle up..........

dan1961
06-30-2007, 12:02 PM
I laugh all the time. If I'm not laughing, I'd go insane.

However, my husband rarely laughs unless he's been drinking. He doesn't laugh, he doesn't cry, he's never angry, and he's never upset. He comes from a long line of men who never, ever show emotion. EVER! After a time, you can get a read on what they are actaully feeling, but such a bold expression such as outright laughing is beyond rare. Sometimes, his mustaches wiggles, and then you know he is smiling, and his eyes wrinkle up..........


wow...i show emotion..i lose my temper all the time and it is evident....:D

bryan3636
07-01-2007, 02:33 AM
When the laughter stops so does the relationship...so laugh your ass off!

swanston253
07-01-2007, 02:38 AM
ok

hoss
07-01-2007, 02:50 AM
When the laughter stops so does the relationship...so laugh your ass off!

i have 17 years under my belt that proves u wrong ...:wa:

PunkyBob
07-01-2007, 03:41 AM
Don't laugh as much as I want to. We don't laugh all that much anymore. When I'm out with friends, I laugh. Yes, I know what that means.

The ones you love best are the ones who can make you laugh.

cherokeered
07-01-2007, 08:53 AM
i have 17 years under my belt that proves u wrong ...:wa:


No just proves with you around...momma has a lot to laugh at....:wa:

Sneaky
07-01-2007, 01:54 PM
I am a big laugher. If a guy can get me giggling it's all over.

AffableOne
07-01-2007, 01:59 PM
I am a big laugher. If a guy can get me giggling it's all over.

hmmmm...........

well, I gues I could try to get ya laughing....

but humor has to be a natural fit.....

some people like mine, some don't......

well just have to chat in order to see............

;)

Sneaky
07-01-2007, 02:05 PM
but humor has to be a natural fit.....

some people like mine, some don't......


;)

Very true. I find myself hysterical. Don't know why everyone isn't rolling on the floor at my jokes and stories. There have been plenty of times at work that I have just desolved about something I found funny and the rest of the group just looked at me askance.

I also once started giggiling at FUNERAL. I was sad. I have no idea why. Maybe just a nervous release. Another one of my many inappropriate reactions.

AffableOne
07-01-2007, 02:09 PM
I also once started giggiling at FUNERAL. I was sad. I have no idea why. Maybe just a nervous release. Another one of my many inappropriate reactions.

not necessarily inappropriate.....

sometimes our inner being just needs to get out......even if it seems awkward


you do sound like fun to work with........


hopefully there are others who are on a similar wavelength with your humor

Sneaky
07-01-2007, 02:13 PM
sometimes our inner being just needs to get out......even if it seems awkward



Yeah. And gets me into trouble!

hoss
07-01-2007, 02:24 PM
No just proves with you around...momma has a lot to laugh at....:wa:

wow..u really are asking to be tied up and gagged ...now wheres my paddle ??:nu

peaches
07-02-2007, 07:36 AM
laughter is a big part of not only marriage but life it's self, now me i have a strange sense of humor....lol...and i love to laugh....makes my day go by alot better.......:lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao

Wil
07-02-2007, 07:43 AM
you have to laugh...people take life way to serious...it's good for the soul...good for your heart...you'll live longer...:D

XMONKEYLOVINSX
07-02-2007, 09:09 AM
of course it is i think if you cant laugh together then you are not truely happy together. i like to have fun i like to be with someone i can joke around with if i was in a relationship and didnt find the other person amusing or there is nothing to laugh about then i have to go.. i guess it goes back to the beginning i thik good relationships start as friend ship.

yaser
07-02-2007, 09:13 AM
of course it is i think if you cant laugh together then you are not truely happy together. i like to have fun i like to be with someone i can joke around with if i was in a relationship and didnt find the other person amusing or there is nothing to laugh about then i have to go.. i guess it goes back to the beginning i thik good relationships start as friend ship.
Hey Monkey, can we cry together? :knuddel:

XMONKEYLOVINSX
07-02-2007, 09:17 AM
i would rather laugh with you yaser my love but i will hold you when you need to cryHey Monkey, can we cry together? :knuddel:

yaser
07-02-2007, 09:23 AM
i would rather laugh with you yaser my love but i will hold you when you need to cry
That is good ...I will call you when I need but want to be called when you need though I don't wish you need.Wher have you been honey?

baby face
07-02-2007, 09:40 AM
This laugh thing always brings me back to a day in September...........The problem was serious but it was something u could sit and laugh about later........Okay my day startd like this, I had just got out of bed when my dad called me crying saying get over here and help me I can't wake your mom up...........Scared to death I first took off out the back door in my underware and bra but ran back in to grab a t-shirt and sweats. I then took off running over to my moms house (we live a couple houses down from each other through our back yards) instead of going through the gate I thought this 30 year old woman could climb the gate faster......no really I flipped over the gate and fell straight on my back it hurt so bad but my thoughts were all on my mom! We got her in the ambulance and went to the hospital! After things had calmed down and most were done crying I cheered everyone up with my experience of falling over the fence...........for some reason they could all picture it and laugh alot about it. I still hear about it and its been 10 months ago!

dartgirl
07-03-2007, 04:36 PM
Hubby and I rarely laugh over anything anymore. I get most of my laughs when I read the posts on here or emailing/pming with my friends I've met here. I miss having someone to joke around with and laugh over stupid stuff, that's why I'm so glad I found this place. My life would be so dark without it.

yaser
07-03-2007, 05:00 PM
Hubby and I rarely laugh over anything anymore. I get most of my laughs when I read the posts on here or emailing/pming with my friends I've met here. I miss having someone to joke around with and laugh over stupid stuff, that's why I'm so glad I found this place. My life would be so dark without it.
Dartgirl,I have missed your giggling..

hoss
07-03-2007, 09:04 PM
Hubby and I rarely laugh over anything anymore. I get most of my laughs when I read the posts on here or emailing/pming with my friends I've met here. I miss having someone to joke around with and laugh over stupid stuff, that's why I'm so glad I found this place. My life would be so dark without it.

and were all gald your here ....:kk

peaches
07-07-2007, 12:57 PM
I love to laugh....I have someone very special who can put a smile on my face all the time......thanks love....:knuddel:

Amaretto
07-09-2007, 11:23 AM
This place and pm's from certain people absolutely crack me up sometimes. Who'da thought a site called Married and Flirting would be so therapeutic?!


:lmao

sawflyman
07-09-2007, 11:35 AM
I'm afraid we don't laugh together allot. We used to laugh all the time. Lately I've been taking life way to seriously and that has caused me to have a thin skin. It is something I must work on.

roughrider1
07-10-2007, 10:53 AM
Not so much anymore.



How much do you and your spouse/significant other laugh together? Do you consider that an important component of a healthy relationship?

flamengo130
07-10-2007, 10:59 AM
Laughter is the absolute best medicine...although there are times when people close to me don't know if I am serious or joking! Probably joking, since I'm not a very serious person.

AffableOne
07-10-2007, 11:04 AM
there is rarely a day that goes by where she and I don't share some thoughts that humor us....

somedays, we share a good, hearty laugh over the silliest things

other days, stories from our inidividual pasts inspire moments filled with hilarity



our laughter is natural, and also essential

since both love, and life can be difficult at times



loving someone who is a bit of a nut is good for my soul,

since I too, am often a few bricks shy

Shiane
07-10-2007, 11:51 AM
I am a big laugher, at home, at work, everywhere I go. I love to make people laugh. My hubby and I laugh about the silliest things lol like I have this tendency to burn roasts of late lol. Man oh man screw up just twice and nobody will let you live it down. The people I work with know when I am completely stressing out because I'm not joking or smiling.

I have this tendency to turn what people say into something that they did not intend. Some patient's family had brought us a tin of cookies. One nurse opened it and said awww who ate all of the long brown ones, I love those. I said mmmmmmmmm really, ( in a naughty phone sex kind of voice) you like the long brown ones. She turned beet red, thats not what I meant and everyone started laughing.

AffableOne
07-10-2007, 11:53 AM
I am a big laugher, at home, at work, everywhere I go. I love to make people laugh. My hubby and I laugh about the silliest things lol like I have this tendency to burn roasts of late lol. Man oh man screw up just twice and nobody will let you live it down. The people I work with know when I am completely stressing out because I'm not joking or smiling.

I have this tendency to turn what people say into something that they did not intend. Some patient's family had brought us a tin of cookies. One nurse opened it and said awww who ate all of the long brown ones, I love those. I said mmmmmmmmm really, ( in a naughty phone sex kind of voice) you like the long brown ones. She turned beet red, thats not what I meant and everyone started laughing.

gotta luv someone with a sense of humor.......so fun to be around them!!! :)

Amaretto
07-10-2007, 04:57 PM
gotta luv someone with a sense of humor.......so fun to be around them!!! :)

I completely agree! Thankfully my guy has a wonderful sense of humor, along with with his numerous other attributes.

Sweetdreams069
07-10-2007, 05:07 PM
I probably laugh most of the day away at work. Try working in a hospital sometime. I don't know where they get all these crazy people from but they all seem to end up here!
Don't laugh near as much as I used to with my wife since we haven't been getting along real well the last few years. One of the things I really miss.

Amaretto
07-10-2007, 05:15 PM
I probably laugh most of the day away at work. Try working in a hospital sometime.

I did work in a hospital for many years, but we didn't do much laughing. Far too intense and fast-paced for jovialness. That's one of many reasons I got out and started my own business.

Sweetdreams069
07-10-2007, 05:27 PM
I did work in a hospital for many years, but we didn't do much laughing. Far too intense and fast-paced for jovialness. That's one of many reasons I got out and started my own business.

Yeah , you're right, it depends on what you do there and what department you are in. Alot of folks there are under alot of pressure.

AffableOne
07-10-2007, 05:56 PM
sometimes what is funny to one person, is just senseless babble to the next.....

some people really enjoy my sense of humor.....

others, well let's just say they find it a waste of precious oxygen...

what a blessing in life to find someone who shares your same weird sense of what is funny.........the things I laugh about with her......many others wouold think are so silly........but she and I just 'click'

loonmates

AffableOne
07-13-2007, 02:54 AM
sometimes.......you just need silence.....

or an embrace.......

sometimes, laughter just doesn't fit

1hotmommy
11-14-2007, 04:59 PM
I think it's very important in a relationship, but unfortunately it's something that has been dwindling in mine :(

Operator Bob
02-15-2008, 11:58 PM
I had to pull this out of the attic for another go around. To me, laughter is very important to a relationship. Laughing off the dumb things I do or say as well as making a situation less tense with a little humor. Not to make light of it, but to defuse a time bomb.

Laughter and having fun keeps a realtionship new and alive. We make things soooo difficult for each other sometimes.

Thumpintwin
02-16-2008, 01:00 AM
glad you did Bob....laughter is damn sexy




ps-1 to go

Operator Bob
02-16-2008, 11:10 AM
glad you did Bob....laughter is damn sexy




ps-1 to go

Way to go Thumpintwin!!!! You can do it!!!

tanya
02-16-2008, 06:48 PM
My hubby and I used to laugh alot together, it was really nice when we did but now we don't so much! Life was alot easier then it seems, I miss laughing with him, things seems alot less stressful when we did!

Wil
02-16-2008, 06:59 PM
laughter is good for the mind and body...I feel sorry for folks who can't see humor in everyday life...things generally suck between us but I can still get her to laugh on occasion...makes me think there's still a chance...

sexytiger
02-16-2008, 07:03 PM
My humor is totolly out there most of the time....she just gives me that look when I say something really out there

COWGIRL69
02-18-2008, 06:52 PM
we laugh together every day with out the humor in our life we would strangle each other:D

OutofTownMan
02-18-2008, 07:11 PM
I joke around all the time. It gets me in trouble but we laugh a lot too.

ksue7274
02-18-2008, 07:22 PM
Laughing is very important to a relationship.....unfortunately we don't do it enough.

Dir
02-18-2008, 07:48 PM
for me laughing together is as important as make love...

Sunfiresix
02-18-2008, 07:54 PM
I found out how important laughter is--I work in a tech lab and eng. staff come in for stuff and I always have something smart to say to them whether they come to me or not--when I was out of work for three months and returned, I couldn't believe the folks that just walked in stood there and waited for me to say something--they said they missed being picked on me--I always thought I was annoying--goes to show ya.

private beaches
02-18-2008, 08:21 PM
I found out how important laughter is--I work in a tech lab and eng. staff come in for stuff and I always have something smart to say to them whether they come to me or not--when I was out of work for three months and returned, I couldn't believe the folks that just walked in stood there and waited for me to say something--they said they missed being picked on me--I always thought I was annoying--goes to show ya.

I like being "picked on" by you Sunfire!

niceones
02-18-2008, 09:00 PM
very important

Jelly
02-18-2008, 09:09 PM
I love to laugh with him....
and at him.......

Code
02-18-2008, 09:37 PM
Laughing is very important to a relationship.....unfortunately we don't do it enough.

Going to send you a picture. People have always said I am good for a laugh.

Oh wait would that mean we were in a relationship or that I was just providing the laughter in yours?

I confuse so easy. :whee:

Huzyerdaddi
02-18-2008, 09:41 PM
She and I have little share in the way of beauty....but, hell yeah! We can laugh together....we're laughing right now.

Lacey
02-18-2008, 09:45 PM
She and I have little share in the way of beauty....but, hell yeah! We can laugh together....we're laughing right now.




I love how the spit flies out of your mouth when you get laughing at the bubbles I make in the tub!!:D


You're the best!!

Huzyerdaddi
02-18-2008, 09:46 PM
And I love the raspy, throaty coughing laugh you do when you're really cracked up. :kk

You give me THE BEST bubble baths....and they smell so delicious.


I love how the spit flies out of your mouth when you get laughing at the bubbles I make in the tub!!:D


You're the best!!

Lacey
02-18-2008, 09:50 PM
And I love the raspy, throaty coughing laugh you do when you're really cracked up. :kk

You give me THE BEST bubble baths....and they smell so delicious.




Awww,and thanks for always wiping my chin afterwards,it show's you care!!



I told you not to spend money on that expensive stuff!! I'm Mrs.Bubbles!!;)

Huzyerdaddi
02-18-2008, 09:52 PM
Guess that makes me Mr. Bubbles.

Remember the time we took a bath after a fine dinner at Taco Bell? You made a jaccuzi! :lmao


Awww,and thanks for always wiping my chin afterwards,it show's you care!!



I told you not to spend money on that expensive stuff!! I'm Mrs.Bubbles!!;)

Lacey
02-18-2008, 09:55 PM
Guess that makes me Mr. Bubbles.

Remember the time we took a bath after a fine dinner at Taco Bell? You made a jaccuzi! :lmao





You just loved that didn't you?


LOL

Huzyerdaddi
02-18-2008, 09:55 PM
I liked the way you made the tub vibrate....you are precious!



You just loved that didn't you?


LOL

Huzyerdaddi
02-18-2008, 09:56 PM
I liked the way you made the tub vibrate....you are precious!



You just loved that didn't you?


LOL

Lacey
02-18-2008, 09:57 PM
I liked the way you made the tub vibrate....you are precious!




After those hot wings tonight..............we're about to have repeat performance...........come here:)

Huzyerdaddi
02-18-2008, 09:58 PM
I'll get the bath ready! You go get that carton of cigs and a toothbrush :D



After those hot wings tonight..............we're about to have repeat performance...........come here:)

Lacey
02-18-2008, 09:58 PM
I'll get the bath ready! You go get that carton of cigs and a toothbrush :D






Ohh goody!!:D

househub
02-18-2008, 09:59 PM
laffing together brings people , or us, closer than anything else, almost

Huzyerdaddi
02-18-2008, 10:01 PM
Very true! So do Lacey's tub bubbles, commonly known as "tubbles"



laffing together brings people , or us, closer than anything else, almost

cherokeered
02-18-2008, 10:11 PM
it's very important...it alleviates stress......we used to laugh a lot more....we still do at times...but its not the intimate kind.....not a sharing of something funny between spouses...more like roomies

niceones
02-18-2008, 10:38 PM
i love a good laugh...and smiling

Thumpintwin
02-19-2008, 12:43 AM
it's very important...it alleviates stress......we used to laugh a lot more....we still do at times...but its not the intimate kind.....not a sharing of something funny between spouses...more like roomies

I know the answer is probably private, but my gess is that roomie is different than best friend.

But I know what you mean red.

inquisitive
02-19-2008, 09:15 PM
I think it is very important to be able to laugh with your other half... unfortunately, I don't get to do it that often.

fourisit
02-19-2008, 09:42 PM
He makes me laugh but all the other stuff gets in the way and its difficult to laugh together when you want so much more from him.

Sylar
02-19-2008, 10:06 PM
Laughter is the funnest part of any relationship (well, second funnest...)...we tend to find humor in just about anything and everything. :D

fly
02-19-2008, 10:08 PM
He always makes me laugh........even when I'm not talking to him.....
I'm always smiling.....

Augustus
02-19-2008, 10:31 PM
Interesting enough, no we do not laugh together often... maybe every blue moon.....


Augustus

noodlegurl
02-19-2008, 11:27 PM
Laughing together and having fun makes for a great relationship.............

IsThisIt@50?
02-20-2008, 12:39 AM
When u realize u no longer laugh together anymore, good sign that things are in trouble

Augustus
02-20-2008, 12:43 AM
When u realize u no longer laugh together anymore, good sign that things are in trouble


So true...

So true....


Augustus

scoobertina
02-20-2008, 12:53 AM
I love to laugh.. any man who can make me laugh is in...

nolarry
02-20-2008, 01:14 AM
somedays quite a bit, others not so much but i do think it is important

Code
02-20-2008, 01:21 AM
The key to laughter is to laugh at yourself and with others not at them.

She makes me laugh and I love her for it.

EmotionalAffair
02-23-2008, 08:19 AM
When we sit down on the same page the laughter comes easily. He gets my silly. It's just that life gets in the way of the funny more often than I'd like.

OICurready4me
02-23-2008, 09:56 AM
I love how we can joke and poke fun at one another. She has such a great sense of humor (and a damn cute laugh)....on top of that...she is a Three Stooges fan! As a guy...what's better than that!

darlingcherry
02-23-2008, 10:11 AM
Laughter is an important component to me. A guy who can make me laugh, can have my heart. My husband and I laugh a lot together. That is probably one of the reasons why I stick around :D

Torin
02-23-2008, 11:28 AM
Other than sex, laughing together is the best thing that we do together as a couple. I love to make him laugh, and see his smile.

scoobertina
02-23-2008, 11:33 AM
Other than sex, laughing together is the best thing that we do together as a couple. I love to make him laugh, and see his smile.

yes, laughter is key.. a smile.. a smirk.. catching him unawares... a snort occasionally because he wasn't ready for it.. and the same with me...

Sunfiresix
02-23-2008, 11:38 AM
I thrive on laughter--wife has lost some of her sense of humor, I guess that comes with dealing with health problems, I get over them with laughter.

Karebear3003
02-25-2008, 12:01 PM
We used to laugh a lot together, not so much anymore.:(

fourisit
02-25-2008, 12:10 PM
We are best friends and can laugh together we just have lost the romance spark. Laughing is not the problem its loving that is lost right now

megan363
02-25-2008, 12:27 PM
I think it is very important to laugh together. Laughter will bond you as friends and in the end it is the friendship that will matter.

fly
02-25-2008, 12:37 PM
I LOVE to make him laugh...............and ohhhh the SOUND of that laughter.....it's ADDICTIVE!!!:whee:

ethans_so_bad
02-25-2008, 01:12 PM
You should call me and get a "fix"....................





I LOVE to make him laugh...............and ohhhh the SOUND of that laughter.....it's ADDICTIVE!!!:whee:

fly
02-25-2008, 01:14 PM
You should call me and get a "fix"....................

Yeah...........I NEED it......you free?

ethans_so_bad
02-25-2008, 01:16 PM
That sounded promising! I can damn sure GET that way.





Yeah...........I NEED it......you free?

fly
02-25-2008, 01:17 PM
That sounded promising! I can damn sure GET that way.

ohhh yeah.............;)

ethans_so_bad
02-25-2008, 01:19 PM
Call me in say 5? 11:25? Hows that?





ohhh yeah.............;)

fly
02-25-2008, 01:21 PM
Call me in say 5? 11:25? Hows that?

I'll try baby...............:kk

1hotrod
02-25-2008, 01:21 PM
We are best friends and can laugh together we just have lost the romance spark. Laughing is not the problem its loving that is lost right now

I agree being able to laugh together at least make life at home tolerable.

Nick182
02-25-2008, 05:37 PM
We laugh a lot... sometimes with each other... other times at each other.

I think it's important & helps create a healthy relationship.

Huzyerdaddi
02-25-2008, 05:37 PM
I haven't laughed so hard and so frequently in YEARS.

Laughter is very bonding.

WandaRing
02-25-2008, 05:39 PM
with hubby, very little---I dont think I have laughed so much as I have in here...and it feels good:D

1hotrod
02-25-2008, 05:47 PM
I dont think I have laughed so much as I have in here...and it feels good:D

I know what you mean. I have to wear an ear piece at work and tell them that I'm listening to a comedy cd.

Sylar
02-25-2008, 05:48 PM
I love when it gets to the point that you laugh with each other without even speaking...you just KNOW...:D

Torin
02-25-2008, 06:00 PM
I love when it gets to the point that you laugh with each other without even speaking...you just KNOW...:D

I love being in the giggle loop with you. :kk

Sylar
02-25-2008, 06:02 PM
I love being in the giggle loop with you. :kk

stack....stack....stack....stack....

"Would you like a drink, Margaret? Of course not. You're dead." :lmao

Torin
02-25-2008, 06:06 PM
stack....stack....stack....stack....

"Would you like a drink, Margaret? Of course not. You're dead." :lmao

OMG... :lmao

TIGUY
02-25-2008, 06:18 PM
Laughter is an important component to me. A guy who can make me laugh, can have my heart. My husband and I laugh a lot together. That is probably one of the reasons why I stick around :D

That's a healthy reason to stay with each other...laughter can overcome many obstacles at times....

Just think about those you know that do not laugh. Their personality is lifeless and they have little or no friends...and as friends or acquaintances we try to help those who have lost their laughter due to circumstances beyond their control. Then there are those who non-laughter is their own doing....

I am a firm believer that we should never ever let the little kid inside of us disappear...because that is when our lives will shorten for certain.

Torin
02-25-2008, 06:20 PM
This reminds me of a line in a song by Jewel..

"Poverty may have stolen your golden shoes, but it didn't steal your laughter"

TIGUY
02-25-2008, 06:29 PM
Great line in a song indeed....those who laugh in the face of poverty, I will never hesitate to call "my friend"



This reminds me of a line in a song by Jewel..

"Poverty may have stolen your golden shoes, but it didn't steal your laughter"

Huzyerdaddi
02-25-2008, 06:30 PM
I like to laugh at the ass of poverty...can I be your friend too?



Great line in a song indeed....those who laugh in the face of poverty, I will never hesitate to call "my friend"

Torin
02-25-2008, 06:33 PM
Great line in a song indeed....those who laugh in the face of poverty, I will never hesitate to call "my friend"

Well, luckily for me... you are already my dear friend. :kk

But money is important for the necessities of life... beyond that.. I honesty don't care. I want a roof over my kids' heads, and food in their tummies. I feel so sorry for those who are so consumed by material things... I really don't think that Prada bag is gonna miss you when you die, ya know?

Sylar
02-25-2008, 06:35 PM
Well, luckily for me... you are already my dear friend. :kk

But money is important for the necessities of life... beyond that.. I honestly don't care. I want a roof over my kids' heads, and food in their tummies. I feel so sorry for those who are so consumed by material things... I really don't think that Prada bag is gonna miss you when you die, ya know?

I'm with ya...I'd rather be not rich and happy than rich and lonely...:kk

TIGUY
02-26-2008, 10:55 AM
Well, luckily for me... you are already my dear friend. :kk

But money is important for the necessities of life... beyond that.. I honesty don't care. I want a roof over my kids' heads, and food in their tummies. I feel so sorry for those who are so consumed by material things... I really don't think that Prada bag is gonna miss you when you die, ya know?

That Prada bag will live happily ever after with that $85 ss pkt tee I saw in the hotel lobby back in Reno....

My feelings always go out to those who have no money in this day and age...materialistic spending I have no feelings for at all...but then we have those who weren't able to afford a decent education as they were growing up. When I was younger, we called a remote controlled tv a luxury...a phone without a "party line" a luxury...most past luxeries are now called necessities. Younger aged children also need to keep up with what is going on in school and it takes money to purchase the books and materials needed such as a computer, advanced calculator, etc...

It's a crime to see those who become addictive to whatever...and their entire family has to suffer because of it. Our addicted smokers spend valuable family money, they sometimes do not have, to purchase their cigarettes every day....

Tough times we live in...can be very rewarding but also can be very depressing.

oops...sorry to run on....

Shafe
02-26-2008, 10:58 AM
Unfortunately, the laughs are entirely too few and far between. I think it's important, but somehow it just never seems to happen :-(

trucker200719
02-26-2008, 11:10 AM
i would rather laugh with her but seems like all we do is fight anymore and i keep a headache the whole weekend when i m home

Huzyerdaddi
02-26-2008, 11:13 AM
I can't begin to describe how bonding and even sexy laughing together is for me. She had me laughing my ass off this morning....

Lacey
02-26-2008, 11:25 AM
I can't begin to describe how bonding and even sexy laughing together is for me. She had me laughing my ass off this morning....



Awww,lol,if they only knew what we were laughing about,they'd know how sick we truly are!!

Huzyerdaddi
02-26-2008, 11:26 AM
Yeah, no doubt. Of course, there is a hint in the "What are you listening to" thread. :D



Awww,lol,if they only knew what we were laughing about,they'd know how sick we truly are!!

Lacey
02-26-2008, 11:28 AM
Yeah, no doubt. Of course, there is a hint in the "What are you listening to" thread. :D




shhhhhh;)

Huzyerdaddi
02-26-2008, 11:36 AM
Oh...sorry. You think they heard me?



shhhhhh;)

kaycee727(m)
02-26-2008, 11:51 AM
I love to laugh with everyone. Life is just too short to take serious.

kaycee727(m)
02-26-2008, 11:51 AM
problem is my significant other has forgotten how to enjoy it more!

Shawn_N_Sandiego
02-26-2008, 12:42 PM
We laugh alot....have to , I am hilarious

ethans_so_bad
02-26-2008, 12:44 PM
Hey, post some pics of hot looking chick DJ's. I'd like to see that.



We laugh alot....have to , I am hilarious

Jelly
02-26-2008, 12:46 PM
Hey, post some pics of hot looking chick DJ's. I'd like to see that.


I thought u 2 only liked groupies

ethans_so_bad
02-26-2008, 12:47 PM
Pfffffffffffft! Whatever. Groupies are usually just easier to deal with is all.



I thought u 2 only liked groupies

Jelly
02-26-2008, 12:50 PM
Pfffffffffffft! Whatever. Groupies are usually just easier to deal with is all.


That's why i'm not a groupie!!! easy pfffffffffft

ethans_so_bad
02-26-2008, 12:52 PM
HEY! There's nothing wrong with a girl being easy! Groupies have a lot of fun, and it only costs them every shred of their self respect. That's not a bad trade off:D



That's why i'm not a groupie!!! easy pfffffffffft

Jelly
02-26-2008, 12:54 PM
HEY! There's nothing wrong with a girl being easy! Groupies have a lot of fun, and it only costs them every shred of their self respect. That's not a bad trade off:D

I don't even have a comeback!!!

:lmao :lmao :lmao

ethans_so_bad
02-26-2008, 01:00 PM
I have that effect on women..................:D



I don't even have a comeback!!!

:lmao :lmao :lmao

Shawn_N_Sandiego
02-26-2008, 01:03 PM
The difference between groupies and other girls are you dont even have to worry about holding them after



Pfffffffffffft! Whatever. Groupies are usually just easier to deal with is all.

ethans_so_bad
02-26-2008, 01:04 PM
Or speaking to them, or remembering their names, or remembering the sex, or being nice to them, or...................



The difference between groupies and other girls are you dont even have to worry about holding them after

Shawn_N_Sandiego
02-26-2008, 01:08 PM
Their names are easy to remember... just hard to settle on the one i wanna use .. i like to just go through the first 5 that come to mind


Or speaking to them, or remembering their names, or remembering the sex, or being nice to them, or...................

ethans_so_bad
02-26-2008, 01:10 PM
I guess my memory isn't that sharp. That's why I just use the term "hey chick" a whole lot............

Their names are easy to remember... just hard to settle on the one i wanna use .. i like to just go through the first 5 that come to mind

Shawn_N_Sandiego
02-26-2008, 01:13 PM
Yeah...Its rough...thats why its a whole lot easier when they scream out their own name during sex


I guess my memory isn't that sharp. That's why I just use the term "hey chick" a whole lot............

Jelly
02-26-2008, 01:13 PM
you two are wrong..............so wrong!!!

Shawn_N_Sandiego
02-26-2008, 01:14 PM
If loving me is wrong...i dont wanna be right...I love me some me

you two are wrong..............so wrong!!!

ethans_so_bad
02-26-2008, 01:17 PM
There's nothing wrong with giving a girl what she wants. And what groupies want is to be promised the moon in exchange for sex. Hey, it's my small way of "giving back"



you two are wrong..............so wrong!!!

Jelly
02-26-2008, 01:23 PM
There's nothing wrong with giving a girl what she wants. And what groupies want is to be promised the moon in exchange for sex. Hey, it's my small way of "giving back"

such a giving guy.....talk about charity!!!

ethans_so_bad
02-26-2008, 01:24 PM
Yeah well, my heart is as big as...................well as my other things...:D



such a giving guy.....talk about charity!!!

Jabbuk
03-01-2008, 11:43 AM
We used to laugh a lot. Good rocking laughter. We still laugh and smile, but not nearly as much.