Soul Mates

[fly]

In talking with different people
there are a wide range of views when it comes to soul mates.

Some people feel that the WORST thing we can teach our chidren
is that they even exist..............

some people spend a lifetime searching in vain
for their "missing half",

and
some people are lucky enough to have found theirs....
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

What are YOUR views about soul mates?
Do you have one?
Are you looking for one?
Did you marry one ..........only to discover that maybe they aren't really your soul mate?

Also the question then arises.........for those who are married but LOOKING for their soul mate............or married and NOT looking but inevitably FIND their soul mate.........

Do you leave a wife/husband, children, family, etc..........for a soul mate?
If the myth of soul mates IS true.........then he or she is your other half........made to complete you and only you.......

the question then comes into play...........
Once you've found them...........can you live a life without your soulmate?

[mile high]

Hi Flybabe,

I don't believe in soul mates. I think there's such a thing as compatibility, but I don't think that 'missing' halves exist. If it were true, the statistical likelihood of all the people in the world who claim to have found their soul mates would be impossible. Instead, I think like-minded people exist, and they are much more easier to find.

[aviatorspirit69]

Very and very difficult question indeed Flybabe. Its something that I have been wrestling with for years. Im here for that reason. Enough said, keep up the excellent thread!

[Pebbles]

I am not open to the belief that we have ONE soulmate. After all, if that were true, how likely would it be that we would ever meet them? We live in a massive world with a huge number of people. Wouldn't it be depressing to believe that there was just one person in the whole world that we could truly relate to?

I think we have several soulmates; people who we interact with on a very deep level during our lifetime. These people touch our souls and will always be a part of us, not as easily dismissed out of our lives as others maybe are.

[mile high]

I am not open to the belief that we have ONE soulmate. After all, if that were true, how likely would it be that we would ever meet them? We live in a massive world with a huge number of people. Wouldn't it be depressing to believe that there was just one person in the whole world that we could truly relate to?

I think we have several soulmates; people who we interact with on a very deep level during our lifetime. These people touch our souls and will always be a part of us, not as easily dismissed out of our lives as others maybe are.

Yeah, that's my opinion too, minus your eloquent phrasing.

[SexyCowgirl]

I think that people who are searching for a soul mate to fill a void will never find a person who can fill it.

I think you must fill yourself, and find love within yourself before you can possibly ever think that you can overflow with love enough to carry it to another person. My bestfriend has been searching for her soulmate, and after a number of abusive relationships, and one divorce, has decided that perhaps she better find personal acceptance before trying to find a man who accepts her as perfect.

No such thing as soulmates, however, I beleive there are some people who may have a certain feel, way about them, that may touch you a little more deeply then another, and from whom you may accept more faults, who you may give more forgiveness to.

Relationships are all about accaptance and forgiveness, be they lovers, friends, spouses, or co-workers. You must find people whos faults you can accept, mistakes you can forgive, and who are willing to do the same for you.

[Sneaky]

Relationships are all about accaptance and forgiveness, be they lovers, friends, spouses, or co-workers. You must find people whos faults you can accept, mistakes you can forgive, and who are willing to do the same for you.[/QUOTE]

Very well put. I think there are times when you just connect with people and don't know why. I don't think there is just one Soul Mate, but certain people just touch something in you.....

[sawflyman]

I believe there is a match for everyone. but we live in a world where we are taught from a young age what the world sees as compatible. So we are not sure ourselves what a soul mate is.

[whosdaflirt]

Do you have one? - Yes, I have found one - I know this without a shadow of a doubt.

Are you looking for one? - No, I wasn't looking for her in the first place. We found each other through circumstances.

Did you marry one ..........only to discover that maybe they aren't really your soul mate? - No. I'm not sure I ever felt she was a soul mate. Just the one who loved me unconditionally when we met.

Also the question then arises.........for those who are married but LOOKING for their soul mate............or married and NOT looking but inevitably FIND their soul mate.........

Do you leave a wife/husband, children, family, etc..........for a soul mate?

This is a very difficult question. I think you need to give your marriage and your family every chance to succeed. But if it has no chance...harder decisions will certainly follow.

If the myth of soul mates IS true.........then he or she is your other half........made to complete you and only you.......

the question then comes into play...........
Once you've found them...........can you live a life without your soulmate?

It will be a difficult and possibly even painful road. But I think some are forced through circumstances to live their lives without their soulmate. I hope that is not my fate...

[sawflyman]

Do you have one? - Yes, I have found one - I know this without a shadow of a doubt.

Are you looking for one? - No, I wasn't looking for her in the first place. We found each other through circumstances.

Did you marry one ..........only to discover that maybe they aren't really your soul mate? - No. I'm not sure I ever felt she was a soul mate. Just the one who loved me unconditionally when we met.

Also the question then arises.........for those who are married but LOOKING for their soul mate............or married and NOT looking but inevitably FIND their soul mate.........

Do you leave a wife/husband, children, family, etc..........for a soul mate?

This is a very difficult question. I think you need to give your marriage and your family every chance to succeed. But if it has no chance...harder decisions will certainly follow.

If the myth of soul mates IS true.........then he or she is your other half........made to complete you and only you.......

the question then comes into play...........
Once you've found them...........can you live a life without your soulmate?

It will be a difficult and possibly even painful road. But I think some are forced through circumstances to live their lives without their soulmate. I hope that is not my fate...

I agree very good response

[cherokeered]

I have found my soulmate....in Australia


The thing about a soulmate is you can love people at different stages of ur life....and for different reasons....but a soulmate is someone you could love in all stages and forms of ur life

Tiger and I felt a tug towards each other when we met....do we agree on everything, no...do we have to like all the same things, no....do we share a bond of being able to talk about anything without fear of being labled or thought of differently, yes....we accept each other, no strings attached...as is...faults and all.....and still we talk every day...every possible minute...and even in silence it's ok....we connect on a level I have never known....and we both have a feeling of missing a part of us when we aren't together....so yeh, they do exist....:kk

[AL(m)]

I feel many people pass through our lives are some soul mates.... that would be on what definition we apply.... and to the degree of touching our emotional needs.... I feel we all have the ablitity to love various people at many levels..... society seems to be the one that tries top put us all in little box's so that can tell us what is right and what is wrong...... :knuddel:

[MCat]

I think you must fill yourself, and find love within yourself before you can possibly ever think that you can overflow with love enough to carry it to another person.

I believe there are some people who may have a certain feel, way about them, that may touch you a little more deeply then another

Relationships are all about acceptance and forgiveness, be they lovers, friends, spouses, or co-workers.



Very nice Cowgirl.....:55

[fly]

I have found my soulmate....in Australia


The thing about a soulmate is you can love people at different stages of ur life....and for different reasons....but a soulmate is someone you could love in all stages and forms of ur life

Tiger and I felt a tug towards each other when we met....do we agree on everything, no...do we have to like all the same things, no....do we share a bond of being able to talk about anything without fear of being labled or thought of differently, yes....we accept each other, no strings attached...as is...faults and all.....and still we talk every day...every possible minute...and even in silence it's ok....we connect on a level I have never known....and we both have a feeling of missing a part of us when we aren't together....so yeh, they do exist....:kk


Cherokee............this is one of the most beautiful things I have ever read! You are truley blessed........

[cherokeered]

Cherokee............this is one of the most beautiful things I have ever read! You are truley blessed........





Thanks hun...yeh i am blessed...to have met my soulmate.....and it was written from the heart...which is the only way I know how to write for him....or about him...:kk

[Annie]

I believe that God has a plan for us. We have free choice, but I also think that God sets up a set of circumstances that lead us to certian people. It is those people that will teach us the lessons we need to learn throughout our lifetime. It is those people that I consider to be soulmates.

That being said, I consider my ex husband to be a soulmate, as much as I consider my current husband a soulmate. It took the lessons I learned from my ex to lead me where I am today.

I also consider my best friend to be a soulmate. She is teaching me that best girlfriends can have unconditional love for each other.

God sends us those that we can learn the most from.

[majorfun]

I do not believe in soul mates...I belive that there are some people that you are more physically and mentally attracted to...They may stimulate your mind, body and soul...but until you are in a life time committed relationship with no escape and the problems of every day life will you really know if the relationship is going to work....

[p.J]

My husband is truly my soul mate, he understands me, he tolerates me and yes he knows me better than I do... we are utterly independent, we don't have unrealistic expectations of each other, and when it comes to our children we are like the mafia... it works! (for now anyway!)

[AffableOne]

a month or so ago.....I would have said that soulmates are fictional........purely a creation of two people overly infatuated with each other......

now, I am converted...

I have more to add....but I want to give it some thought first.......

excellent q, flybabe!

[RedVixen]

I don't know if there's such a thing as a soulmate - maybe the only reason I think this way is because I haven't found him.

[tiger50]

I have found my soulmate....in Australia


The thing about a soulmate is you can love people at different stages of ur life....and for different reasons....but a soulmate is someone you could love in all stages and forms of ur life

Tiger and I felt a tug towards each other when we met....do we agree on everything, no...do we have to like all the same things, no....do we share a bond of being able to talk about anything without fear of being labled or thought of differently, yes....we accept each other, no strings attached...as is...faults and all.....and still we talk every day...every possible minute...and even in silence it's ok....we connect on a level I have never known....and we both have a feeling of missing a part of us when we aren't together....so yeh, they do exist....:kk


yesss baby.. right there with you....:knuddel: :kk

[hoss]

i truly believe in soul mates ....and u can guffaw at what i have to say ..but its still my belief ....Momma is my soul mate ..no doubt in my mind ..we were destined to be together ..i have always said i knew it the day we met ...i fell in love with her instantly ,i knew in my soul and my heart she was the one ....last year i also met another soul mate ..and even though she lived 8000 miles away ,she knew when i hurt ,when i was crying and when I needed a hug ...when i go to heaven i will have two women waiting for me ..one is there now ,Momma will be there one day too ...

I believe in fate and destiny ,the things i have witnessed over the last two years have only inforced that belief ...

[fly]

a month or so ago.....I would have said that soulmates are fictional........purely a creation of two people overly infatuated with each other......

now, I am converted...

I have more to add....but I want to give it some thought first.......

excellent q, flybabe!

Thanks!!!!

[MCat]

I believe that God has a plan for us. We have free choice, but I also think that God sets up a set of circumstances that lead us to certian people. It is those people that will teach us the lessons we need to learn throughout our lifetime. It is those people that I consider to be soulmates. Excellent Annie....:55

That being said, I consider my ex husband to be a soulmate, as much as I consider my current husband a soulmate. It took the lessons I learned from my ex to lead me where I am today.

I also consider my best friend to be a soulmate. She is teaching me that best girlfriends can have unconditional love for each other.

God sends us those that we can learn the most from.

Someday I hope to have a best friend like this...might be in my next life....don't think there are any where I live :(

[OICurready4me]

I'm not a believer in soul mates because in order to do so, you have to believe in the entire "every person has a soul" concept, which I do not. However, I do believe you can come across in your every day affairs that there will be an instant attraction to, be it physical, mental, emotional or financial. If the case of the last attraction, that is pretty much a disaster waiting to happen if that is your attraction.


As far as the first three, a combination of all three, I feel is the makings of the so-called "soul mate", although I would prefer to call it my "lifematch". I believe that person needs to be intellectually in your stratosphere, be pleasing to your senses of touch, taste, sight, smell and hearing. If the person is attractive to you, you close your eyes and can taste, smell and hear them, then truly, they have touched your heart. Through compatibility, sense of humor and a great many other intangibles, a hearty and healthy relationship can develop that will bond two people like cement.
When you have it, you know it and I must say, she is so terrific, I feel that somewhere along the line, I must have really been a good person to be so lucky to have her in my life. An angel from heaven has fallen into my arms.

[AffableOne]

I keep looking at this thread........so many thoughts.......not sure where to start......

I will say I believe in soulmates....and that people may have more than one......and they may be same, or different gender

I found one........

I love people easily.......I love many people....some as friends.......some romantically....some, as admiration for their personality or accomplishments....

but a soulmate is soooooooooooooo much more.......

[missgrace]

~definitely found mine ~ *sigh*

[AL(m)]

I keep looking at this thread........so many thoughts.......not sure where to start......

I will say I believe in soulmates....and that people may have more than one......and they may be same, or different gender

I found one........

I love people easily.......I love many people....some as friends.......some romantically....some, as admiration for their personality or accomplishments....

but a soulmate is soooooooooooooo much more.......

Ah yes it is a deep personnal feeling " soul mates" we all have our own meaning of the word.....there is so much we can learn and experience when we open our selfves to others..
To the ones that have foiund theirs.... congradulations....... to the rest of us.. well we will keep looking and who knows......


:knuddel: :knuddel:

[UltimateNaneki]

I believe that there are many people outthere and you can have more then 1 soul mate....especially when one dies. I'm still looking for #2 and I will find him...in do time!

[rainbowhigh]

I believe that there are many people outthere and you can have more then 1 soul mate....especially when one dies. I'm still looking for #2 and I will find him...in do time!

I agree Ulti. A person can have more than one soul mate.

[Inspector72]

My husband is truly my soul mate, he understands me, he tolerates me and yes he knows me better than I do... we are utterly independent, we don't have unrealistic expectations of each other, and when it comes to our children we are like the mafia... it works! (for now anyway!)

Hmm, that is not what you told me once before. LOL Well I guess people do change, like me for example and not being on here. Guess that is partly because I am happy and very content with the woman I am with who is from Europe. Soulmates? Hmmm, don't know if I would buy that theroy for anyone just yet. But I have to agree with MajorFun when it comes to this topic. Oh and you know what happen to the Mafia here is the U.S. .....um, they went down and went to jail! So lets hope the same doesn't happen to you!:55 :)

[Outta]

In talking with different people

there are a wide range of views when it comes to soul mates.

Some people feel that the WORST thing we can teach our chidren
is that they even exist..............

some people spend a lifetime searching in vain
for their "missing half",

and
some people are lucky enough to have found theirs....
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

What are YOUR views about soul mates?
Do you have one?
Are you looking for one?
Did you marry one ..........only to discover that maybe they aren't really your soul mate?

Also the question then arises.........for those who are married but LOOKING for their soul mate............or married and NOT looking but inevitably FIND their soul mate.........

Do you leave a wife/husband, children, family, etc..........for a soul mate?
If the myth of soul mates IS true.........then he or she is your other half........made to complete you and only you.......

the question then comes into play...........
Once you've found them...........can you live a life without your soulmate?


Very profound, flybabe.

My soul mate would write beautiful things to me and left justify them so I could read them.:kk

[Blue Skies]

Here's my problem... I think every women I meet is my soul mate. AND I believe at least part of them truely is (AND NO... I don't mean JUST the sexual parts.) It's easy for me to see and appreciate the soul of a women. Bottom line is... I ADORE WOMEN. It is my blessing and my curse.

[Blue Skies]

My husband is truly my soul mate, he understands me, he tolerates me and yes he knows me better than I do... we are utterly independent, we don't have unrealistic expectations of each other, and when it comes to our children we are like the mafia... it works! (for now anyway!)

I hope none of your children end up "swimming with the fishes"! :lmao

[XMONKEYLOVINSX]

i do not believe there is only one person out there for every body i believe soul mates is a term to refer to someone you have a very deep connection with a soul mate could be a best friend.

[fly]

Very profound, flybabe.

My soul mate would write beautiful things to me and left justify them so I could read them.:kk

Good thing I ain't your soulbabe............
but If I
WAS
I'd be sure to left justify and type REALLY big so's you'd get the point!
:D

[thickitalian]

The term soul mates, has seemed to become widespread and commonly used is many many threads and forums all over the Internet. I think what was once a rarely used term with special meaning has become a commonly used term with several meanings for everyone who uses it in their text or in general conversation.


I read everyone's opinions in this thread and they all seem feasible in one way or another. I also think that the flamboyant use of the word "soul mate" has turned some people against there being such a thing...I once felt that way.

My only thoughts are that a true soul mate cannot be found on the Internet itself...I believe online relationships are a great start to finding your soul mate because we get to know each others private thoughts so much better than most spouses know one another. There are exceptions as we have seen written here in this thread, but for the most part I feel that marriages, other than those who meet online, are lacking in that area. My own personal opinion of a true soul mate is one who you connect with in text and also connect with living together. Remember, all the words written here may very well be how we all feel...but we are all here for a reason, mostly therapeutic, but for a reason. Are our spouses the cause of why we are here? Are our spouses on similar sites saying the same thing about us? Chatting here, even on a private level, has a purpose behind it and a lot of it is physical....will both lovers feel the same and be able to give and take to make living together work? If the answer is yes, then the term soul mates comes into play.

To think of a soul mate.... because you are privately mesmerized by words, pictures, or even your first meeting.....well....I feel the end piece of that puzzle, living together, needs to fit as well.

There are no right or wrong definitions of soul mate, it is what you feel it is and if the both of you feel the same...then let it be.

Thick's thoughts.....

[Sneaky]

To think of a soul mate.... because you are privately mesmerized by words, pictures, or even your first meeting.....well....I feel the end piece of that puzzle, living together, needs to fit as well.

There are no right or wrong definitions of soul mate, it is what you feel it is and if the both of you feel the same...then let it be.

Thick's thoughts.....


I agree. It's difficult to actually coin the term "Soul Mate" without surviving some of the truly trying things in life. Death. Kids. The Flu. The Emergency Room. Working together in a small kitchen. Fixing a broken sink together. Bills. Not the sexy stuff, but when dealing with such things you can truly get a sense of a person.

[fly]

The term soul mates, has seemed to become widespread and commonly used is many many threads and forums all over the Internet. I think what was once a rarely used term with special meaning has become a commonly used term with several meanings for everyone who uses it in their text or in general conversation.


I read everyone's opinions in this thread and they all seem feasible in one way or another. I also think that the flamboyant use of the word "soul mate" has turned some people against there being such a thing...I once felt that way.

My only thoughts are that a true soul mate cannot be found on the Internet itself...I believe online relationships are a great start to finding your soul mate because we get to know each others private thoughts so much better than most spouses know one another. There are exceptions as we have seen written here in this thread, but for the most part I feel that marriages, other than those who meet online, are lacking in that area. My own personal opinion of a true soul mate is one who you connect with in text and also connect with living together. Remember, all the words written here may very well be how we all feel...but we are all here for a reason, mostly therapeutic, but for a reason. Are our spouses the cause of why we are here? Are our spouses on similar sites saying the same thing about us? Chatting here, even on a private level, has a purpose behind it and a lot of it is physical....will both lovers feel the same and be able to give and take to make living together work? If the answer is yes, then the term soul mates comes into play.

To think of a soul mate.... because you are privately mesmerized by words, pictures, or even your first meeting.....well....I feel the end piece of that puzzle, living together, needs to fit as well.

There are no right or wrong definitions of soul mate, it is what you feel it is and if the both of you feel the same...then let it be.

Thick's thoughts.....

Thick your wisdom is once again inspiring.........
thanks for putting in your 2 cents!

I totally agree that the term "soul mates" has been overused.........
but I do believe in the possiblity of soul mates.
I don't think many are fortunate enough to find theirs.....
but when they do it is beautiful and earth shattering........
and there is nothing like it.....
I have to confess that for many years I gave up any and all notions that "soul mates"
exist......
but now I think they do--Just not everyone is fortunate enough to have found theirs.......

[dartgirl]

Wanting to find your soul mate sounds like a wonderful thing. For me personally I won't rule out that they might exist but I am not going to hold out hoping to find one. I do not want to be dependent on anybody again for my happiness and I don't want anybody depending on me for theirs. If you can find somebody who shares your interests that is wonderful. But for me I want to be happy with myself and do the things I want, having someone to have sex with once in awhile would only be a bonus.

[AffableOne]

I have wrestled with how to define the term soulmate.......I really can't......but the best definition I have seen was posted by surfdude a ways back:

"it's the person who, when you meet them, you feel the vibration between the two of you, almost like a tuning fork. it's the moment of recognition that you've always known this person, and part of you cries in realizing you've been apart before now. it's an immediate, recognized sense of loss that the other half of you is over there."

I did not put much stock into the concept of soulmates. I did not come to the site looking for one. Yet, the tuning fork resounded immediately with someone here. Whatever you define it as is not important. It has nothing to do with physical characteristics or sexual desires. This is a person who simply was a significant part of me, before I ever knew it. It almost feels like a twin, from whom I was separated at birth.

We just "get" each other.

Having now experienced this type of relationship, her daily friendship has become an essential part of my life, much like breathing.

[fly]

I have wrestled with how to define the term soulmate.......I really can't......but the best definition I have seen was posted by surfdude a ways back:

"it's the person who, when you meet them, you feel the vibration between the two of you, almost like a tuning fork. it's the moment of recognition that you've always known this person, and part of you cries in realizing you've been apart before now. it's an immediate, recognized sense of loss that the other half of you is over there."

I did not put much stock into the concept of soulmates. I did not come to the site looking for one. Yet, the tuning fork resounded immediately with someone here. Whatever you define it as is not important. It has nothing to do with physical characteristics or sexual desires. This is a person who simply was a significant part of me, before I ever knew it. It almost feels like a twin, from whom I was separated at birth.

We just "get" each other.

Having now experienced this type of relationship, her daily friendship has become an essential part of my life, much like breathing.

I LOVE this Affy..........

now here's another deep and hopefully thought provoking question for you all.

Twins can sometimes "feel" each other and know what each other is thinking/feeling etc. at any given moment even from miles away. Has anyone experienced something like THAT with their soulmate?

[scoobertina]

I have wrestled with how to define the term soulmate.......I really can't......but the best definition I have seen was posted by surfdude a ways back:

"it's the person who, when you meet them, you feel the vibration between the two of you, almost like a tuning fork. it's the moment of recognition that you've always known this person, and part of you cries in realizing you've been apart before now. it's an immediate, recognized sense of loss that the other half of you is over there."

I did not put much stock into the concept of soulmates. I did not come to the site looking for one. Yet, the tuning fork resounded immediately with someone here. Whatever you define it as is not important. It has nothing to do with physical characteristics or sexual desires. This is a person who simply was a significant part of me, before I ever knew it. It almost feels like a twin, from whom I was separated at birth.

We just "get" each other.

Having now experienced this type of relationship, her daily friendship has become an essential part of my life, much like breathing.

sigh.......

[fly]

Ok reading all these posts made another question come to mind.


From personal experience I would have said a year ago that soulmates (as defined as your "missing half") just do not exist. And yet now I KNOW that they do........I was certainly not looking for one since I didn't believe they existed. So does having experienced a soul mate or not change your feelings and attitudes about them? If you've never had one should you LOOK actively for one or just hope it happens? Should you concentrate on living YOUR life and being happy with who you are (my personal opinion),
Or are we soul mate believer's just deluding ourselves..........
What is YOUR opinion?

[Bluzeman]

I LOVE this Affy..........


now here's another deep and hopefully thought provoking question for you all.

Twins can sometimes "feel" each other and know what each other is thinking/feeling etc. at any given moment even from miles away. Has anyone experienced something like THAT with their soulmate?



I don't believe in one, unique, "soulmate", but I do believe in this kind of connection, flybabe. There are times when I start thinking, "you know, I need to call so-and-so." Every time I follow through on that, I discover that something important is going on in that person's life; every time I don't follow through, I discover later how much I should have called when I first had the thought!

[scoobertina]

Ok reading all these posts made another question come to mind.



From personal experience I would have said a year ago that soulmates (as defined as your "missing half") just do not exist. And yet now I KNOW that they do........I was certainly not looking for one since I didn't believe they existed. So does having experienced a soul mate or not change your feelings and attitudes about them? If you've never had one should you LOOK actively for one or just hope it happens? Should you concentrate on living YOUR life and being happy with who you are (my personal opinion),
Or are we soul mate believer's just deluding ourselves..........
What is YOUR opinion?




I don't know if I have met mine yet, maybe time will tell.. and maybe I have and I am too stubborn to realize it... wanting my freedom first I might be missing out on him..

I am not looking for one.. if it happens I will welcome it with open arms.. as long as I have realized that I found him..

I plan to continue down the path I have started, live my life and try to make myself happy, with the help of a few friends..

[Bluzeman]

Ok reading all these posts made another question come to mind.



From personal experience I would have said a year ago that soulmates (as defined as your "missing half") just do not exist. And yet now I KNOW that they do........I was certainly not looking for one since I didn't believe they existed. So does having experienced a soul mate or not change your feelings and attitudes about them? If you've never had one should you LOOK actively for one or just hope it happens? Should you concentrate on living YOUR life and being happy with who you are (my personal opinion),
Or are we soul mate believer's just deluding ourselves..........
What is YOUR opinion?



I don't think it's a delusion any more than I think there's only one person out there who's truly your soul mate. I think it's a matter of openness to finding it rather than aggressively looking, and then when you find that connection, it still has to be cultivated and cared for. I don't think any relationships, even soul mates, survive without intentional cultivation. What do you think?

[Micwar]

Your soulmate is whom you choose it to be....Anybody can become your soulmate if you both decide that's want you want....I tend to simplify....

[cheerymissy_34]

yes i think there is such a thing as a soul mate.
i think ive met mine (and lost him)...its hell being away from him not knowing how he is or whats he doing...but it was my choice not to go to him when i had the chance and now i guess ill just have to live with that decision.

[fly]

I don't think it's a delusion any more than I think there's only one person out there who's truly your soul mate. I think it's a matter of openness to finding it rather than aggressively looking, and then when you find that connection, it still has to be cultivated and cared for. I don't think any relationships, even soul mates, survive without intentional cultivation. What do you think?

You want to know what I think??????
I started this thread and yet have been strangely quiet on the subject hugh?
I think If I got to talking about it I could write a novel on the subject and probably put more than a few of you to sleep in the process.....:whee:

I agree that every relationship MUST be cultivated and cared for carefully......
I HAVE experienced things I would NEVER have believed possible before I met "him".
It is truely different than any other relationship in my life.
It's like it's on a completely different level that I didn't know existed before so I didn't miss it or even know it was there to BE missed.
It's like thinking the place you live is wonderful........
then being suddenly transported to paradise..........
and realizing what you've been missing all along.

I dunno.........I liked Affable's answer........that you are so "in tune" with one another.....even from miles away........even when you can't speak.....you just know...

[fly]

Your soulmate is whom you choose it to be....Anybody can become your soulmate if you both decide that's want you want....I tend to simplify....

I'm sorry but I have to TOTALLY disagree with you here.
I tried for YEARS......10+ to make my husband be my "soul mate"........
to love him that way.....
to think of him that way.....
this is why I quit believing in soulmates....
I was trying to MAKE one.......
when you can't make one.....
they just ARE.....

[Bluzeman]

You want to know what I think??????

I started this thread and yet have been strangely quiet on the subject hugh?
I think If I got to talking about it I could write a novel on the subject and probably put more than a few of you to sleep in the process.....:whee:

I agree that every relationship MUST be cultivated and cared for carefully......
I HAVE experienced things I would NEVER have believed possible before I met "him".
It is truely different than any other relationship in my life.
It's like it's on a completely different level that I didn't know existed before so I didn't miss it or even know it was there to BE missed.
It's like thinking the place you live is wonderful........
then being suddenly transported to paradise..........
and realizing what you've been missing all along.

I dunno.........I liked Affable's answer........that you are so "in tune" with one another.....even from miles away........even when you can't speak.....you just know...





Sounds like you've got your answer, flybabe! :)


"In tune" is a good metaphor. In fact, music is really my favorite image for relationships. It's hard not to make it sound cheesy, but when you're playing music with other people there are those that you have to work hard to stay with, and then there you just click with and naturally play off of one another.
That's what soul mates are like. You don't have to be exactly the same; in fact, sometimes the music is richer when you're not and you can play off of each other. But you do have to stay in tune, in key, and in sync; and when you've got a good partner, it just takes a few minor adjustments to do that.

[fly]

Sounds like you've got your answer, flybabe! :)


"In tune" is a good metaphor. In fact, music is really my favorite image for relationships. It's hard not to make it sound cheesy, but when you're playing music with other people there are those that you have to work hard to stay with, and then there you just click with and naturally play off of one another.
That's what soul mates are like. You don't have to be exactly the same; in fact, sometimes the music is richer when you're not and you can play off of each other. But you do have to stay in tune, in key, and in sync; and when you've got a good partner, it just takes a few minor adjustments to do that.

VERY nice answer Bluze!
You just Harmonize........

[Amaretto]

Sounds like you've got your answer, flybabe! :)


"In tune" is a good metaphor. In fact, music is really my favorite image for relationships. It's hard not to make it sound cheesy, but when you're playing music with other people there are those that you have to work hard to stay with, and then there you just click with and naturally play off of one another.
That's what soul mates are like. You don't have to be exactly the same; in fact, sometimes the music is richer when you're not and you can play off of each other. But you do have to stay in tune, in key, and in sync; and when you've got a good partner, it just takes a few minor adjustments to do that.

As a music teacher and musician myself (as well as a hopeless romantic), I LOVE your analogy here. That is so true about certain musicians playing off each other so naturally! Thanks for your creative insight!

[Bluzeman]

Thanks, ladies; great to meet some people to jam with!

[madmod]

I used to believe in one perfect soul-mate that each person could find, but now I've come to believe that we can choose our own soul-mate from a vast array of different people .... That's not to say that everyone is suited and anyone would work, but I think each person has multiple options available to them rather than just one which they may or may not find.

Each will have their own failures and foibles, but it's a case of working out which ones you can accept and which ones you can live with more easily .... The hard part is that they're not always apparent at first, so you could end up with someone that it's very hard to live with. On the flipside, outsiders become increasingly attractive because you're not yet privy to see the potential flaws they may have. This can be quite dangerous because the grass isn't always greener, as they say ....

[fly]

I used to believe in one perfect soul-mate that each person could find, but now I've come to believe that we can choose our own soul-mate from a vast array of different people .... That's not to say that everyone is suited and anyone would work, but I think each person has multiple options available to them rather than just one which they may or may not find.

Each will have their own failures and foibles, but it's a case of working out which ones you can accept and which ones you can live with more easily .... The hard part is that they're not always apparent at first, so you could end up with someone that it's very hard to live with. On the flipside, outsiders become increasingly attractive because you're not yet privy to see the potential flaws they may have. This can be quite dangerous because the grass isn't always greener, as they say ....

Very insightful Mad.........but we have to remember......the key words in that phrase are isn't always...........which implies that SOMETIMES it IS greener.....
When you love someone.....truely and completely......
You love them flaws and all.....you don't expect them to be perfect...
You love them for what they are..
You love the FOR their flaws....
or in spite of their flaws..
You just love them.

[RedVixen]

It's amazing what one can find when they're not looking....

soul mates...yeah, I believe there is such a thing:)

[Pink4You]

I couldn't resist this one. yes i believe in soul mates. But I also believe that you can have more than just one throughout your life, maybe 2 or 3. To have someone to truely know you inside and out. To know what you are thinking just by the look on your face. I have found my soul mate, but he was already taken. :cry: But we know what we are to each other and that is better than nothing. I would be lost without him.

[Pebbles]

Hi Flybabe,

I don't believe in soul mates. I think there's such a thing as compatibility, but I don't think that 'missing' halves exist. If it were true, the statistical likelihood of all the people in the world who claim to have found their soul mates would be impossible. Instead, I think like-minded people exist, and they are much more easier to find.

I agree. I don't believe in just one "Soul Mate" for each person.
Reflect on your past. Certain people made an enormous impact and made you feel complete. Perhaps it was a teacher who saw potential and encouraged you. Maybe it was a friend or grandparent with whom you shared secrets about the meaning of life. Maybe it was an old girlfriend/boyfriend, with whom you grew apart as your goals changed. Soul mates make a dramatic impact on your life, your outlook and your inner spirit, even if your time together is brief. Think we have many some called "SOUL MATES"..not just one!

[TheTurtle]

I think, too that it depends on your definition and expectations of a "soul mate". My best friend in the world is the same gender as me, and we are both straight. We never had any sexual attraction. Yet, I consider him my soul mate. We were/are so in tune with each other that we were able to complete each other's sentences; we could look at each other, and would burst out laughing because we both thought of the same joke at the same time. We had a verbal short hand. People would just shake their heads, and called us "mind twins". I might not see him for a couple of years (just email, etc.), and we are together for 3-4 hours, and everything "clicks" back in sync. Makes it easy to buy birthday presents... :D We supremely enjoy spending time together. We can talk about anything.


The thing is, we didn't meet until our sophomore year in college; and our backgrounds are VASTLY different. Would this meet your definition of a soul mate? Or does the "mate" part have to mean sex is involved?

[Amaretto]

Would this meet your definition of a soul mate? Or does the "mate" part have to mean sex is involved?

It certainly meets my definition of a soulmate. Sex doesn't have to be a a part of it.....it is the intense, emotional intertwining of hearts, spirits, thoughts, and care for each other, that creates a kinship so close that only "soulmates" describes it. I'm in the camp that believes a person can have more than one, and I think this friend you described is a wonderful example of a soulmate. You are so blessed and fortunate to have a dear friend like him. Thanks for sharing.

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Not quite clear how I feel on this subject, have mixed emotions about the terminology...

At this point in my life my rather jaded viewpoint is that generally speaking, the term soul mate is overused just as the term love is. I won't go as far as to say that soul mates don't exist, because I do feel as though we can have strong connections clicking on more than one level with possibly several others throughout our lifetime. Sometimes even when it's a person of the same sex whether there be an attraction that go's beyond friendship or not.

This thread go's to show you that each of us as individuals defines things differently, in part because of who we are and what we've gone through.

[oldsoul3426]

In talking with different people
there are a wide range of views when it comes to soul mates.

Some people feel that the WORST thing we can teach our chidren
is that they even exist..............

some people spend a lifetime searching in vain
for their "missing half",

and
some people are lucky enough to have found theirs....
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

What are YOUR views about soul mates?
Do you have one?
Are you looking for one?
Did you marry one ..........only to discover that maybe they aren't really your soul mate?

Also the question then arises.........for those who are married but LOOKING for their soul mate............or married and NOT looking but inevitably FIND their soul mate.........

Do you leave a wife/husband, children, family, etc..........for a soul mate?
If the myth of soul mates IS true.........then he or she is your other half........made to complete you and only you.......

the question then comes into play...........
Once you've found them...........can you live a life without your soulmate?
I use to believe in soul mates. I don't know anymore.

[Pink4You]

I use to believe in soul mates. I don't know anymore.

Patience, you will one day meet a person whom you feel that you can't live without. They know you better than you know yourself. I found my soulmate at 17 but I didn't know he was my soulmate til a few years ago. We will be together (close) til the day we die. Whether he divorces or I leave my man, doesn't matter, he is there for me and I am there for him. I can't even imagine life without him. The small, little, short, nothing conversations that we share mean the world to me as does him. We are each others EXCEPTIONs. We don't see what we have as cheating, we see it as special. I probably know him better than his wife but I love his wife and I think that they are good for each other. I know that I am his second just as he is mine. :whee:

[fly]

Patience, you will one day meet a person whom you feel that you can't live without. They know you better than you know yourself. I found my soulmate at 17 but I didn't know he was my soulmate til a few years ago. We will be together (close) til the day we die. Whether he divorces or I leave my man, doesn't matter, he is there for me and I am there for him. I can't even imagine life without him. The small, little, short, nothing conversations that we share mean the world to me as does him. We are each others EXCEPTIONs. We don't see what we have as cheating, we see it as special. I probably know him better than his wife but I love his wife and I think that they are good for each other. I know that I am his second just as he is mine. :whee:

That's Beautiful Pink..........good for you!

[TheTurtle]

It certainly meets my definition of a soulmate. Sex doesn't have to be a a part of it.....it is the intense, emotional intertwining of hearts, spirits, thoughts, and care for each other, that creates a kinship so close that only "soulmates" describes it. I'm in the camp that believes a person can have more than one, and I think this friend you described is a wonderful example of a soulmate. You are so blessed and fortunate to have a dear friend like him. Thanks for sharing.

Thank you, amaretto. It reminds me -- I need to wish him Happy Birthday (our birthdays are 4 days apart.)

[fly]

In talking with different people

there are a wide range of views when it comes to soul mates.

Some people feel that the WORST thing we can teach our chidren
is that they even exist..............

some people spend a lifetime searching in vain
for their "missing half",

and
some people are lucky enough to have found theirs....
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I was one of those people.......
people who scoffed at the notion of a "soul mate".....
I laughed in the face of love....
and she struck me down.
Her arrows pierced my heart....
my soul..
and it will never be the same.
I have a soulmate....

He left.....and yet still loved....
He came back.....and still loved....
No matter what else life brings.....
there will always be love......
there will always be him.....
he is part of me as no other ever has been or
ever will be.......
I love him with all my heart....
He is my missing half.......
Eu Amo Voce Ethan.......:kk

[ethans_so_bad]

Except to say, "Thank you....."; I have, for once, finally been rendered speechless............


! Eu te amo assim muito............. muito, "Fly"...............






In talking with different people


there are a wide range of views when it comes to soul mates.

Some people feel that the WORST thing we can teach our chidren
is that they even exist..............

some people spend a lifetime searching in vain
for their "missing half",

and
some people are lucky enough to have found theirs....
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I was one of those people.......
people who scoffed at the notion of a "soul mate".....
I laughed in the face of love....
and she struck me down.
Her arrows pierced my heart....
my soul..
and it will never be the same.
I have a soulmate....

He left.....and yet still loved....
He came back.....and still loved....
No matter what else life brings.....
there will always be love......
there will always be him.....
he is part of me as no other ever has been or
ever will be.......
I love him with all my heart....
He is my missing half.......
Eu Amo Voce Ethan.......:kk

[fly]

Except to say, "Thank you....."; I have, for once, finally been rendered speechless............


! Eu te amo assim muito............. muito, "Fly"...............

:kk

[ethans_so_bad]

I don't know how to make one of those, so...............xox

[fly]

I don't know how to make one of those, so...............xox

LOL..........I have SOOOO much to teach you..........:lf

[ethans_so_bad]

That should be easy, my mind is obviously a blank slate............


LOL..........I have SOOOO much to teach you..........:lf

[scoobertina]

I have wanted to believe in soulmates.. I truly did believe in it for a short while when one couple from this site was here... I believed in them so much..... then something happened... and they couldn't be true to them... and while I see some people connect here at the site... believing that they are soulmates.. I have also seen people lose said soul mate...... so I do not believe... even though I want to...

[Huzyerdaddi]

I have wanted to believe in soulmates.. I truly did believe in it for a short while when one couple from this site was here... I believed in them so much..... then something happened... and they couldn't be true to them... and while I see some people connect here at the site... believing that they are soulmates.. I have also seen people lose said soul mate...... so I do not believe... even though I want to...

It's all relative. It's what you make of it. It's a shared perspective. But it is not invincible or indestructible.

[scoobertina]

It's all relative. It's what you make of it. It's a shared perspective. But it is not invincible or indestructible.

I don't agree... Soulmates should be able to withstand anything together... apart they are no good...

I think a true soulmate will not only be there when things are good... they will be there when things are bad too...

a true soulmate will feel like a piece of them is missing and won't rest until that piece has been returned to them...

come on... make me believe because i don't right now... and I really do want to believe..

[Huzyerdaddi]

I don't agree... Soulmates should be able to withstand anything together... apart they are no good...

I think a true soulmate will not only be there when things are good... they will be there when things are bad too...

a true soulmate will feel like a piece of them is missing and won't rest until that piece has been returned to them...

come on... make me believe because i don't right now... and I really do want to believe..

Affirmative....but again I reiterate the concept of "relativity" here. You make my case for me....you don't believe because you don't want to. In time, your circumstances will change, there will be that special someone whom you may choose to label as "soul mate'. The power of that label and all that is meant to go with it is only as strong as the committment between the two whom the bond exists. Hence, it is relative to thier mutual perception of the relationship.

Alternatively, you would have to accept that a higher power has excerised divine intervention in the lives of each of us and assigned "a single individual" to whom we are destined, should we follow the path which leads us to them. There are roughly 6.7 billion "souls" on this planet....what are the odds?

To claim a "soul mate" is a term of endearment, but its not an invincibility.

[fly]

I don't agree... Soulmates should be able to withstand anything together... apart they are no good...

I think a true soulmate will not only be there when things are good... they will be there when things are bad too...

a true soulmate will feel like a piece of them is missing and won't rest until that piece has been returned to them...

come on... make me believe because i don't right now... and I really do want to believe..


The key word there is SHOULD.
but it IS what it is.
that's the beauty of it.
that's the tragedy of it.
It IS rare and beautiful.........
but NOT indestructable.

[scoobertina]

Affirmative....but again I reiterate the concept of "relativity" here. You make my case for me....you don't believe because you don't want to. In time, your circumstances will change, there will be that special someone whom you may choose to label as "soul mate'. The power of that label and all that is meant to go with it is only as strong as the committment between the two whom the bond exists. Hence, it is relative to thier mutual perception of the relationship.

Alternatively, you would have to accept that a higher power has excerised divine intervention in the lives of each of us and assigned "a single individual" to whom we are destined, should we follow the path which leads us to them. There are roughly 6.7 billion "souls" on this planet....what are the odds?

To claim a "soul mate" is a term of endearment, but its not an invincibility.


Again I "reiterate" that I do want to believe... however the things I have seen here and in "real life" just make me cringe on the subject..

I am not looking for said "soul mate" for myself.. I would be happy with someone who had the same interests that i had... someone who cared deeply for me, someone I cared deeply for.. but if there was one soul out there for me... I sure hope that soul finds me...

thanks... Huz... hope you find yours... if you haven't already

[Huzyerdaddi]

thanks... Huz... hope you find yours... if you haven't already

I try not to seek that which doesn't exist. But, it is a nice thing to say about somebody, to call them soul mate. It justifies many things as well. There is nothing wrong with the term.

Likewise, I wish you the richest of blessings on you quest to find your predestined one.

[scoobertina]

I try not to seek that which doesn't exist. But, it is a nice thing to say about somebody, to call them soul mate. It justifies many things as well. There is nothing wrong with the term.

Likewise, I wish you the richest of blessings on you quest to find your predestined one.


LOL... you nut..

[Boredmarriedlover]

Well doesn't the name say it all? SOUL mate. That which serves our soul not always is what we understand serves ourselves knowingly. So sadly enough, if you wish, a soul mate may sometimes be someone you spend your entire life with, not completely satisfied about it, but that insatisfaction was necessary for you to achieve other things in life.
Better search for what is right, than for someone to make it feel right.

[Pebbles]

I can't quite swallow the concept of one and only one true love for each of us per lifetime. I do believe that each of us has one or more persons who can help us to growth and become all that we can be, who will support, honor, shelter, guide, serve, succor, challenge, adore, and love unreservedly. I also think that most of us manage in some way to miss out on these relationships. Therefore, we are always searching for the ideal relationship, the ideal partner, the soulmate!!
Have a friend who believes there are several types of "Soulmates",
karmic soulmates, primary soulmates, false twins, and a twin soul.

[Huzyerdaddi]

I can't quite swallow the concept of one and only one true love for each of us per lifetime. I do believe that each of us has one or more persons who can help us to growth and become all that we can be, who will support, honor, shelter, guide, serve, succor, challenge, adore, and love unreservedly. I also think that most of us manage in some way to miss out on these relationships. Therefore, we are always searching for the ideal relationship, the ideal partner, the soulmate!!
Have a friend who believes there are several types of "Soulmates",
karmic soulmates, primary soulmates, false twins, and a twin soul.

Sounds like the kind of wisdom coming from someone who had 20+ years on me. :55

[Pebbles]

Sounds like the kind of wisdom coming from someone who had 20+ years on me. :55

Definitely!! :)

[ethans_so_bad]

You believe...............you ain't foolin' me none...................



Again I "reiterate" that I do want to believe... however the things I have seen here and in "real life" just make me cringe on the subject..

I am not looking for said "soul mate" for myself.. I would be happy with someone who had the same interests that i had... someone who cared deeply for me, someone I cared deeply for.. but if there was one soul out there for me... I sure hope that soul finds me...

thanks... Huz... hope you find yours... if you haven't already

[Torin]

I do believe... and I know I have mine.

A lot of my belief comes from my FIRM belief in reincarnation.... I think certain groups of souls find each other again and again in each life.

*BUT* I think the Hollywood interpretation of soulmates is what people are looking for.... and not finding.

IMO, there is NO ONE alive that you will not have bad days with, fight with, say hurtful things occasionally, etc... no relationship is perfect... it takes work, even with the 'one'. The first year of marriage, for example... no matter how much love there is, living with someone is going to annoy the *&^% out of you at times. That is life.

Having a soulmate hurts. It is a person that you cannot lie to (the guilt eats you alive and they can just look at you and see it) , and who can see the very darkest parts of you... thoughts, dreams, etc. It is a type of intimacy that is painfully beautiful-- you are willing to do anything for each other, even when you are being the worst version of yourself, and they are too. For the rest of the world... I can be a happy sweet person, but one who does not share anything personal... for Yasha... I can't "fake" anything, no matter how badly I try.

The first time I looked into his eyes... the first time we kissed... it felt exactly the same as when my newborn sons were placed on my chest-- a rush of love and fear so strong that it almost chokes you, and you cry out from the strength of it all and the knowledge that you KNOW them... immediately.

Just my opinon, of course...

[ethans_so_bad]

Wow! That's exactly how I felt, but I had stomach flu that day too.............



I do believe... and I know I have mine.

A lot of my belief comes from my FIRM belief in reincarnation.... I think certain groups of souls find each other again and again in each life.

*BUT* I think the Hollywood interpretation of soulmates is what people are looking for.... and not finding.

IMO, there is NO ONE alive that you will not have bad days with, fight with, say hurtful things occasionally, etc... no relationship is perfect... it takes work, even with the 'one'. The first year of marriage, for example... no matter how much love there is, living with someone is going to annoy the *&^% out of you at times. That is life.

Having a soulmate hurts. It is a person that you cannot lie to (the guilt eats you alive and they can just look at you and see it) , and who can see the very darkest parts of you... thoughts, dreams, etc. It is a type of intimacy that is painfully beautiful-- you are willing to do anything for each other, even when you are being the worst version of yourself, and they are too. For the rest of the world... I can be a happy sweet person, but one who does not share anything personal... for Yasha... I can't "fake" anything, no matter how badly I try.

The first time I looked into his eyes... the first time we kissed... it felt exactly the same as when my newborn sons were placed on my chest-- a rush of love and fear so strong that it almost chokes you, and you cry out from the strength of it all and the knowledge that you KNOW them... immediately.

Just my opinon, of course...

[WaGuy]

I think soul mates are just people that you haven't realized how different you are yet. I think it's a great experience. It sucks when you find them married to other people though.

[Sneaky]

I don't know about one "Soul Mate" for each person.......


What I do know is that is is possible to meet someone that is familiar to you, like you know them already, and they know you, and you each understand each other. This has only happend only a very few times in my life. One time is my very best friend of over 20 years......

When it does happen it feels like it was soposed to.

It's amazing when it happens. And lucky. And freaky. And cool.

Is that a "Soul Mate"? I'm not sure.

[Torin]

Wow! That's exactly how I felt, but I had stomach flu that day too.............


Classy, Ethan... thanks for mocking me.

[ethans_so_bad]

Man, now I feel bad, really. I'm sorry. How am I doing in that top ten?



Classy, Ethan... thanks for mocking me.

[Torin]

Man, now I feel bad, really. I'm sorry. How am I doing in that top ten?

It's all good... ;)

Seriously, though... I really like your sense of humor... but there is a line. Mocking the way I felt the first time I met Yasha... you crossed it. But thank you for being man enough to apologize. All is forgiven. :kk

[ethans_so_bad]

Well I should say too that I really wasn't mocking you so much as I was playing off what you said. I really had no intentionof mocking you but, having it pointed out, I can definitely see how you took it that way.


HOW AM I DOING ON THAT TOP TEN LIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????


It's all good... ;)

Seriously, though... I really like your sense of humor... but there is a line. Mocking the way I felt the first time I met Yasha... you crossed it. But thank you for being man enough to apologize. All is forgiven. :kk

[Huzyerdaddi]

It's all good... ;)

Seriously, though... I really like your sense of humor... but there is a line. Mocking the way I felt the first time I met Yasha... you crossed it. But thank you for being man enough to apologize. All is forgiven. :kk

Wow Ethan! Two "man enough" compliments in as many minutes (ref: Analysis of Crying).

Are ya getting soft on us, dude?

[ethans_so_bad]

Up yours! How's that?



Wow Ethan! Two "man enough" compliments in as many minutes (ref: Analysis of Crying).

Are ya getting soft on us, dude?

[Torin]

Well I should say too that I really wasn't mocking you so much as I was playing off what you said. I really had no intentionof mocking you but, having it pointed out, I can definitely see how you took it that way.


HOW AM I DOING ON THAT TOP TEN LIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????


I might let you back in.... Keeping a close eye on a few other threads.... lol.

[Huzyerdaddi]

Up yours! How's that?

Just what I expect....a$$hole :lmao

[ethans_so_bad]

LOL! Well keep watching...........it keeps my ratings high.............



I might let you back in.... Keeping a close eye on a few other threads.... lol.

[ethans_so_bad]

I promise never to be sensitive again. Thank you for showing me the error of my ways..........



Just what I expect....a$$hole :lmao

[PunkyBob]

I don't agree... Soulmates should be able to withstand anything together... apart they are no good...

I think a true soulmate will not only be there when things are good... they will be there when things are bad too...

a true soulmate will feel like a piece of them is missing and won't rest until that piece has been returned to them...

come on... make me believe because i don't right now... and I really do want to believe..

You have to believe on your own...because then and only then will the concept of soulmates really be true...I believe there are soul mates...we may, over the course of our lives, have more than one...who knows...but I do believe that each of us fits together with someone else in a near-perfect fit...and yes, one will not be compete without the other. Loneliness changes perspective...so does a broken marriage...and the ticking clock is a devil of a background noise...but aside from all that stuff...you have to believe. Be who you are, be the best of you...and never give up. Archibald the Soumate is out there, probably looking for you.

I am a hopeless romantic...you should be, too. :kk

[Huzyerdaddi]

I promise never to be sensitive again. Thank you for showing me the error of my ways..........

Anytime...I'll keep playing the role of oracle, you keep writing the letters.

[Lacey]

I don't believe in "soul mates". I think certain people you connect with on a deeper level then others,but to have that one person that is suppose to fill every need in you, I don't see that.

[ethans_so_bad]

LOL! Hey Fly, I think I found someone to replace OUTTA here......



Anytime...I'll keep playing the role of oracle, you keep writing the letters.

[Huzyerdaddi]

I don't believe in "soul mates". I think certain people you connect with on a deeper level then others,but to have that one person that is suppose to fill every need in you, I don't see that.


Hmmm....am I reading this wrong....it sure seems to be off topic

[ethans_so_bad]

I don't know what the hell some people are thinking............Hijackers!




Hmmm....am I reading this wrong....it sure seems to be off topic

[REDBUD74]

i don't believe in soul mates at all....Finding that 1 certain someone u connect with is a very good thing but who's to say that somewhere down the line u grow up (or grow wise) and then ur interests and hopes and dreams may change...is that connection still gonna b there??

\

[Huzyerdaddi]

i don't believe in soul mates at all....Finding that 1 certain someone u connect with is a very good thing but who's to say that somewhere down the line u grow up (or grow wise) and then ur interests and hopes and dreams may change...is that connection still gonna b there??

\


Does that really happen? I mean, the part about growing up and growing wise, of course. ;)

[Sylar]

I do believe... and I know I have mine.

A lot of my belief comes from my FIRM belief in reincarnation.... I think certain groups of souls find each other again and again in each life.

*BUT* I think the Hollywood interpretation of soulmates is what people are looking for.... and not finding.

IMO, there is NO ONE alive that you will not have bad days with, fight with, say hurtful things occasionally, etc... no relationship is perfect... it takes work, even with the 'one'. The first year of marriage, for example... no matter how much love there is, living with someone is going to annoy the *&^% out of you at times. That is life.

Having a soulmate hurts. It is a person that you cannot lie to (the guilt eats you alive and they can just look at you and see it) , and who can see the very darkest parts of you... thoughts, dreams, etc. It is a type of intimacy that is painfully beautiful-- you are willing to do anything for each other, even when you are being the worst version of yourself, and they are too. For the rest of the world... I can be a happy sweet person, but one who does not share anything personal... for Yasha... I can't "fake" anything, no matter how badly I try.

The first time I looked into his eyes... the first time we kissed... it felt exactly the same as when my newborn sons were placed on my chest-- a rush of love and fear so strong that it almost chokes you, and you cry out from the strength of it all and the knowledge that you KNOW them... immediately.

Just my opinon, of course...

Anything I might add could not possibly do justice to this, Torin. Perfection.

I love you. :kk

[Stacee]

yes there are soul mates. I have met mine problem is he doesn't recognize it. But I know without a shadow of a doubt he is it. But we have many I have had good friends that are also soul mates.

[Huzyerdaddi]

yes there are soul mates. I have met mine problem is he doesn't recognize it. But I know without a shadow of a doubt he is it. But we have many I have had good friends that are also soul mates.

Hi Stacee. Welcome to the site. We're glad to have you here.

[ethans_so_bad]

Stacee, I am Mr. Rork, your host. Welcome to Fantasy Island......



yes there are soul mates. I have met mine problem is he doesn't recognize it. But I know without a shadow of a doubt he is it. But we have many I have had good friends that are also soul mates.

[Huzyerdaddi]

Stacee, I am Mr. Rork, your host. Welcome to Fantasy Island......

Stacee...don't be fooled by the Gladiator suit...he's a midget

[ethans_so_bad]

NO Stacee.........I'm not a midget. Huz is the midget. Didn't you hear him yelling "Dee Plane!" when you googled us? Besides, I can prove he's the midget - he's the one who brought it up.


It's NOT a F*cking Gladiator.

Stace, does this LOOK like a gladiator?


Stacee...don't be fooled by the Gladiator suit...he's a midget

[Huzyerdaddi]

NO Stacee.........I'm not a midget. Huz is the midget. Didn't you hear him yelling "Dee Plane!" when you googled us? Besides, I can prove he's the midget - he's the one who brought it up.


It's NOT a F*cking Gladiator.

Stace, does this LOOK like a gladiator?

OH....and I forgot to mention....whatever you do, don't call him a Gladiator. He's yet to come to terms with his true inner self.

[ethans_so_bad]

You of all people should recognize this armor, I got it from your home planet. Dr. Zaius gave it to me as a dowry for you hand in marriage - now come here you blue monkey woman in a pink bikini with really luxurious breasts.



OH....and I forgot to mention....whatever you do, don't call him a Gladiator. He's yet to come to terms with his true inner self.

[Huzyerdaddi]

You of all people should recognize this armor, I got it from your home planet. Dr. Zaius gave it to me as a dowry for you hand in marriage - now come here you blue monkey woman in a pink bikini with really luxurious breasts.

You want to touch my monkey? Go ahead. Touch it. TOUCH IT!

[ethans_so_bad]

I'm going to bed. You gonna be on tomorrow?



You want to touch my monkey? Go ahead. Touch it. TOUCH IT!

[Huzyerdaddi]

I'm going to bed. You gonna be on tomorrow?

Affirmative Ghostrider. See ya on the fly by.

[paris]

I'm going to bed. You gonna be on tomorrow?
Hey Baby!!:kk You going to bed already??? I just got here!

[ethans_so_bad]

he he he he............you said........"Fly"..................



Affirmative Ghostrider. See ya on the fly by.

[ethans_so_bad]

LOL! Yeah. My ass hurts from sitting and I've had too much Amaretto. If you're gonna wear my tie that way try not to get anything on it..........



Hey Baby!!:kk You going to bed already??? I just got here!

[Huzyerdaddi]

he he he he............you said........"Fly"..................

i know.

[fly]

LOL! Hey Fly, I think I found someone to replace OUTTA here......

I can't leave ya alone for a second can I??????:nu
(where HAS Outta been by the way?)

[scoobertina]

You have to believe on your own...because then and only then will the concept of soulmates really be true...I believe there are soul mates...we may, over the course of our lives, have more than one...who knows...but I do believe that each of us fits together with someone else in a near-perfect fit...and yes, one will not be compete without the other. Loneliness changes perspective...so does a broken marriage...and the ticking clock is a devil of a background noise...but aside from all that stuff...you have to believe. Be who you are, be the best of you...and never give up. Archibald the Soumate is out there, probably looking for you.

I am a hopeless romantic...you should be, too. :kk

I am working on this Punky.. thank you.... I think seeing two people on this site hit it off so well, seeing how their love grew, watching it, being a part of it, and then seeing what happened to those same "soulmates", and knowing what they are doing now... just made me rethink it...

I am sure that there is a perfect fit out there for me. I can be patient until then. I have waited for a long time already.. it can't be much longer for happiness to hit me..

and I am a romantic, just not hopeles... lol... thanks again Punky! :kk

[ethans_so_bad]

Hey, whatcha doin with that big stick?





I can't leave ya alone for a second can I??????:nu

(where HAS Outta been by the way?)

[ethans_so_bad]

Wait a minute! I didn't DO anything...................





I can't leave ya alone for a second can I??????:nu

(where HAS Outta been by the way?)

[Stacee]

Thank you all I am glad to be here. Hope soon to convince mine that we truly are. I guess sometimes men don't face these things like we do.

[Huzyerdaddi]

Thank you all I am glad to be here. Hope soon to convince mine that we truly are. I guess sometimes men don't face these things like we do.

You can say that again:

We don't face the negative affects of estrogen
We don't face the pain of underwires
We don't face the challenges of tampons
We don't face childbirth.

Need I go on?

[fly]

Wait a minute! I didn't DO anything...................

uhh-huhh.........

[ethans_so_bad]

You better settle down or I'm not going to come breach you walls with my Trojan Horse.






uhh-huhh.........

[Huzyerdaddi]

You better settle down or I'm not going to come breach you walls with my Trojan Horse.

Oh Hercules! you are SUCH a man!

[p.J]

Ok! I hate the term 'Soul Mate' there you go… We were destined to meet and fall in love and blah, blah, blah". Sorry but the cosmos did not open up and place sperm-aligned soul mates across the flipping planet! Yea! You may find a partner that sends you weak at the knees (even with your clothes on) but don't tell me it was destiny! Puhlease! It was more likely a push-up bra, a few pints and some sultry looks!
Now don’t get me wrong, I have loved and lusted many men in different countries, but the only souls I can think of right now have an R in front (think about it).
So for what’s its worth here is my take on the Soul Mate issue...I believe there are MANY different people that we are compatible with and the one we fall in love with is the one we fall in love with...BUT and yes there is a big BUT...if we grew up some place else or worked in a different building or played a different sport then chances are we would fall in love with someone completely different, yes?
No, I ain’t bitter and twisted and I don’t want to crap on everyone else that has found love" this is just an observation and a dislike of the expression ‘Soul Mate’ that’s all.

[Huzyerdaddi]

Wow...all that and not one "bollocks".

Ok, so I'm working hard on the "R" riddle. Any clues?

As for the sperm-aligned soul-mate approach, try telling that to the hillbillies in WV or the coon asses in MS. ;)


Ok! I hate the term 'Soul Mate' there you go… We were destined to meet and fall in love and blah, blah, blah". Sorry but the cosmos did not open up and place sperm-aligned soul mates across the flipping planet! Yea! You may find a partner that sends you weak at the knees (even with your clothes on) but don't tell me it was destiny! Puhlease! It was more likely a push-up bra, a few pints and some sultry looks!
Now don’t get me wrong, I have loved and lusted many men in different countries, but the only souls I can think of right now have an R in front (think about it).
So for what’s its worth here is my take on the Soul Mate issue...I believe there are MANY different people that we are compatible with and the one we fall in love with is the one we fall in love with...BUT and yes there is a big BUT...if we grew up some place else or worked in a different building or played a different sport then chances are we would fall in love with someone completely different, yes?
No, I ain’t bitter and twisted and I don’t want to crap on everyone else that has found love" this is just an observation and a dislike of the expression ‘Soul Mate’ that’s all.

[p.J]

Wow...all that and not one "bollocks".

Ok, so I'm working hard on the "R" riddle. Any clues?

As for the sperm-aligned soul-mate approach, try telling that to the hillbillies in WV or the coon asses in MS. ;)

'R' Soul!!!! Arsehole...we say arse you say ass!!

[ethans_so_bad]

Since so many of you are offended by the term "soul mate," I have decided to begin calling my significant other my "soul patch" instead. That be okay with you, soul patch?

[WandaRing]

Soul mate? My relationship is more like stale mate… :(

[p.J]

Since so many of you are offended by the term "soul mate," I have decided to begin calling my significant other my "soul patch" instead. That be okay with you, soul patch?

Likened to a 'Nicotine patch?' yea.. NICE!

[Huzyerdaddi]

'R' Soul!!!! Arsehole...we say arse you say ass!!

clever. how's that working for you?

[p.J]

clever. how's that working for you?

My arse?... well, I have been so bloody busy its seems I have a permanent broom up it!

[ethans_so_bad]

Witch!



My arse?... well, I have been so bloody busy its seems I have a permanent broom up it!

[Huzyerdaddi]

My arse?... well, I have been so bloody busy its seems I have a permanent broom up it!

Oh the imagery. In that case, put on some '50's music and do the Shuffle. It'll be just like sweeping the floor!

[p.J]

Oh the imagery. In that case, put on some '50's music and do the Shuffle. It'll be just like sweeping the floor!

The Shuffle? OMG... I haven't got worms!

[Huzyerdaddi]

The Shuffle? OMG... I haven't got worms!

damn jenny. The things you say!

[fly]

Since so many of you are offended by the term "soul mate," I have decided to begin calling my significant other my "soul patch" instead. That be okay with you, soul patch?


yeah...........that's only one letter away from sour patch.........:nu

[fly]

You better settle down or I'm not going to come breach you walls with my Trojan Horse.

hee..hee..........Trojan Horse......I LIKE the new nickname.......:D

[ethans_so_bad]

Well I wouldnt exactly call that NICKNAME for it but it's a damn site better than the one you came up with for it, soul patch.



hee..hee..........Trojan Horse......I LIKE the new nickname.......:D

[fly]

Well I wouldnt exactly call that NICKNAME for it but it's a damn site better than the one you came up with for it, soul patch.

My memory has conveniently left me.........care to share with us????:D

[ethans_so_bad]

Lets see. Wasn't it "Chopin" cause you liked the way I banged your keys?





My memory has conveniently left me.........care to share with us????:D

[fly]

Lets see. Wasn't it "Chopin" cause you liked the way I banged your keys?

UHHH............NO.........

[ethans_so_bad]

Well WHILE we are on the subject of NICKNAMES.......................






UHHH............NO.........

[fly]

Well WHILE we are on the subject of NICKNAMES.......................

Don't you Dare Mister...........

[ethans_so_bad]

uh huh, I thought you might be changing your tune........sm, sm ,sm sme.......



Don't you Dare Mister...........

[fly]

uh huh, I thought you might be changing your tune........sm, sm ,sm sme.......

STOP..............UNCLE...........monkey's butt..........
aww HELL I cave.........
just don't SAY IT!!!!!

[ethans_so_bad]

It's good to be the King................







STOP..............UNCLE...........monkey's butt..........

aww HELL I cave.........
just don't SAY IT!!!!!

[fly]

It's good to be the King................

WHATEVER...........:whee:

[ethans_so_bad]

That's whatever, King.

WHATEVER...........:whee:

[fly]

That's whatever, King.

Whatever...................ELVIS..............:lma o

[ethans_so_bad]

witch





Whatever...................ELVIS..............:lma o

[fly]

witch

;)

[cherokeered]

Found mine.....but he's waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay over there>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

[tiger50]

Found mine.....but he's waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay over there>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

mm that needs to be fixed, u need to be waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay over here too....:kk

[p.J]

;)



:sc mmmmm! interesting!

[fly]

:sc mmmmm! interesting!

Yes..........I cast my spell.........
"Abra-cadabra alla Ethan"..........:D
(did it work Doodle?)

[Cy]

Yes..........I cast my spell.........
"Abra-cadabra alla Ethan"..........:D
(did it work Doodle?)


He's all shook up :D

[ethans_so_bad]

Bay, it been working since you first cadabra'd me way back when.............


xox


Yes..........I cast my spell.........

"Abra-cadabra alla Ethan"..........:D
(did it work Doodle?)

[ethans_so_bad]

DOODLE? You KNOW, somebody with YOUR nickname probably should...........

Yes..........I cast my spell.........

"Abra-cadabra alla Ethan"..........:D
(did it work Doodle?)

[Sneaky]

DOODLE? You KNOW, somebody with YOUR nickname probably should...........

Doodle?
:lmao

[ethans_so_bad]

It's a short story. The name doesn't bother me and she's the only person alive that has ever called me that. It's rather endearing , I think. But I MUST use this opportunity to POINT OUT TO HER that she is flying awfully close the flame on this topic............Doodle?
:lmao

[Sneaky]

It's a short story. The name doesn't bother me and she's the only person alive that has ever called me that. It's rather endearing , I think. But I MUST use this opportunity to POINT OUT TO HER that she is flying awfully close the flame on this topic............

Aw. It's kind of cute really. ;)

[ethans_so_bad]

Please don't encourage her. That's the LAST thing she needs........



Aw. It's kind of cute really. ;)

[Sneaky]

Please don't encourage her. That's the LAST thing she needs........

:D Aw. You guys are just a couple of mushies. You don't fool me.;)

[ethans_so_bad]

Pffffffftt! Such an insult doesn't even dignify a response.



:D Aw. You guys are just a couple of mushies. You don't fool me.;)

[Sneaky]

Pffffffftt! Such an insult doesn't even dignify a response.

OK then. I will quietly not say a word about your outfit, or your "Doodle" nick name and know that I might be a little bit right. :sc

[ethans_so_bad]

Hang on a minute, WHAT outfit?:55




OK then. I will quietly not say a word about your outfit, or your "Doodle" nick name and know that I might be a little bit right. :sc

[pointofnoreturn]

I may have met my soul mate. Maybe not.. How will I know for sure??????

[fly]

Doodle?
:lmao

Ain't it cute???????:D

[fly]

DOODLE? You KNOW, somebody with YOUR nickname probably should...........

Yes????????

[ethans_so_bad]

*sniff sniff* man, something sure is smelly in here...............





Yes????????

[Sneaky]

Ain't it cute???????:D




;) Yeah. It is.

[ethans_so_bad]

Any more of this and I'm going to call on your scoundrel to get some control of you..........




;) Yeah. It is.

[scoobertina]

I may have met my soul mate. Maybe not.. How will I know for sure??????

hey if you have found him let me know... cuz if you find one I know I can too...
lol :D

[cheerymissy_34]

i used to believe in soul mates but anymore i think there is no such thing...i hate lossing that too believing in there is someone for everyone....:cry:

[scoobertina]

i used to believe in soul mates but anymore i think there is no such thing...i hate lossing that too believing in there is someone for everyone....:cry:

Missy... if there is such a thing as a soulmate... you haven't found him yet... I think he would do anything to be with you if that were the case...

[cheerymissy_34]

Missy... if there is such a thing as a soulmate... you haven't found him yet... I think he would do anything to be with you if that were the case...

i thought i had but let him go and now i guess i will regret that forever..the not knowing

[scoobertina]

i thought i had but let him go and now i guess i will regret that forever..the not knowing

That is the hard part... not knowing if you had something special but killed it because, well for whatever reasons...

okay, if he was your soulmate, he will return hon...


damn.... can't believe I am starting to behave as if I believe in this..

[ethans_so_bad]

Patience Missy, and no more talk like that. Love and time are bitter rivals, dear. Time seems to take it's toll on love and if it could, would choke the very life out of it. But when love comes, time dissapears. Your story is not yet told. Don't forget that agony is part of the beauty of love.



i thought i had but let him go and now i guess i will regret that forever..the not knowing

[ethans_so_bad]

LOL! It happens to even the worst of us........



That is the hard part... not knowing if you had something special but killed it because, well for whatever reasons...

okay, if he was your soulmate, he will return hon...


damn.... can't believe I am starting to behave as if I believe in this..

[cheerymissy_34]

Patience Missy, and no more talk like that. Love and time are bitter rivals, dear. Time seems to take it's toll on love and if it could, would choke the very life out of it. But when love comes, time dissapears. Your story is not yet told. Don't forget that agony is part of the beauty of love.

:kk thanks ethan and scoob...i know it will eventually work out and if it doenst well it wasnt meant to be anyway

[scoobertina]

LOL! It happens to even the worst of us........

Hey, are you saying I am one of the worst? it is true.... but damn... don't tell everyone...:nu

[fly]

*sniff sniff* man, something sure is smelly in here...............

:na

[Han Solo]

Any more of this and I'm going to call on your scoundrel to get some control of you..........
Oh Sorry....I sooo did not see the Bat Signal go up on that one!!

I got it covered though....I can assure you that there was a battle for control very recently........but I ain't sayin' who won!! :D

[ethans_so_bad]

yeah thats what you look like. put that tonge back in your mouth or I will put it somewhere FOR you...

[ethans_so_bad]

Your silence says all that is necessary, Superman.



Oh Sorry....I sooo did not see the Bat Signal go up on that one!!

I got it covered though....I can assure you that there was a battle for control very recently........but I ain't sayin' who won!! :D

[Han Solo]

Your silence says all that is necessary, Superman.
Well every once in awhile I'm reminded about that "winning isn't everything" saying........it applies to very FEW things....but once in awhile it's accurate!

[ethans_so_bad]

Once in a while it's preferable. She's fixing my av for me now btw.Well every once in awhile I'm reminded about that "winning isn't everything" saying........it applies to very FEW things....but once in awhile it's accurate!

[fly]

Once in a while it's preferable. She's fixing my av for me now btw.

You can thank me LATER.............:lf

[Han Solo]

You can thank me LATER.............:lf
Somehow I think you will BOTH need to thank me later for starting that line of discussion :D Always happy to be of service to the masses! :55

[ethans_so_bad]

Oh please. Hey check the av, bro. Son of a bitch thats funny.

Somehow I think you will BOTH need to thank me later for starting that line of discussion :D Always happy to be of service to the masses! :55

[Han Solo]

Oh please. Hey check the av, bro. Son of a bitch thats funny.
Funny? Yes!....Fitting? Hell Yes!

[fly]

Somehow I think you will BOTH need to thank me later for starting that line of discussion :D Always happy to be of service to the masses! :55

Somehow I think you won't even cross my mind LATER..........:na

[ethans_so_bad]

Thanks for the AV shmoopy, you know, I'm computer illiterate and all. Maybe on the next one write, "you snooze, you lose?"

:lmao




Somehow I think you won't even cross my mind LATER..........:na

[Han Solo]

Somehow I think you won't even cross my mind LATER..........:na
Yeah, laugh it up CryBabe :cry: Now that you've "Solo-ized" his av....you'll be seeing me everywhere anyway...LOL

[fly]

Thanks for the AV shmoopy, you know, I'm computer illiterate and all. Maybe on the next one write, "you snooze, you lose?"

:lmao


:nu Maybe it'll say "Kiss my pretty little ASS!!!!"

(which would actually be kinda funny
being as it would be YOUR avatar......)
:D

[ethans_so_bad]

LMAO! :lmao AS long as I'M not "seeing you everywhere"




Yeah, laugh it up CryBabe :cry: Now that you've "Solo-ized" his av....you'll be seeing me everywhere anyway...LOL

[Han Solo]

LMAO! :lmao AS long as I'M not "seeing you everywhere"
Well like I said.....long as you keep that funny hat on I won't be tempted there ya Big Lug! ;)

[ethans_so_bad]

LOL. Shhhhhhhhhh. Keep our current activities in PM. UNless your into that whole DEPARTMENT STORE DRESSING ROOM kinda thing.





:nu Maybe it'll say "Kiss my pretty little ASS!!!!"


(which would actually be kinda funny
being as it would be YOUR avatar......)
:D

[fly]

Yeah, laugh it up CryBabe :cry: Now that you've "Solo-ized" his av....you'll be seeing me everywhere anyway...LOL

Ya'll have hijacked my serious thread..........ya better take it elewhere's unless you want to start spouting mushy gushies at each other!!!!!:nu

[ethans_so_bad]

ew. I'm not spouting mushy gushy at anybody.



Ya'll have hijacked my serious thread..........ya better take it elewhere's unless you want to start spouting mushy gushies at each other!!!!!:nu

[fly]

LOL. Shhhhhhhhhh. Keep our current activities in PM. UNless your into that whole DEPARTMENT STORE DRESSING ROOM kinda thing.

ME???????
Puuleeze........:whee:

[Han Solo]

Ya'll have hijacked my serious thread..........ya better take it elewhere's unless you want to start spouting mushy gushies at each other!!!!!:nu


:sc Ummm, yeah....I don't mean to be too nit picky here....but I think I gotta go back like 4 pages to find anything remotely serious you've said in YOUR serious thread.......Just an observation'...But it's a very, very SERIOUS observation....just so ya know. :D

[ethans_so_bad]

I love it when you beg like that.............






ME???????

Puuleeze........:whee:

[fly]

:sc Ummm, yeah....I don't mean to be too nit picky here....but I think I gotta go back like 4 pages to find anything remotely serious you've said in YOUR serious thread.......Just an observation'...But it's a very, very SERIOUS observation....just so ya know. :D

Yeah I KNOW.........I sorta hijacked MY OWN thread didn't I?????
He has that affect on me.........:whee:

[fly]

ew. I'm not spouting mushy gushy at anybody.


:lmao Yea.......just keep telling yourself THAT one........

[ethans_so_bad]

I'm so fine, I'm kinda like a dizzy-ness.

I won't let that poor girl even go about her bizzy-ness.






Yeah I KNOW.........I sorta hijacked MY OWN thread didn't I?????
He has that affect on me.........:whee:

[Han Solo]

Yeah I KNOW.........I sorta hijacked MY OWN thread didn't I?????
He has that affect on me.........:whee:
Nice to know that your "Admission" came exactly 47 seconds "after" ya tried to blame it on us to begin with.. :sc ......


Yeah, very well done BTW....it's that kind of attempt that makes me proud :55

[fly]

Nice to know that your "Admission" came exactly 47 seconds "after" ya tried to blame it on us to begin with.. :sc ......


Yeah, very well done BTW....it's that kind of attempt that makes me proud :55

:D Yeah........umm.......THANKS!!!!

[ethans_so_bad]

She's a scoundrel, same as me.



Nice to know that your "Admission" came exactly 47 seconds "after" ya tried to blame it on us to begin with.. :sc ......


Yeah, very well done BTW....it's that kind of attempt that makes me proud :55

[Sneaky]

Well every once in awhile I'm reminded about that "winning isn't everything" saying........it applies to very FEW things....but once in awhile it's accurate!

That's right. :D Much progress you are making. Rewards are great, no?

[fly]

She's a scoundrel, same as me.

I thought I was a witch???????
Make up YOUR mind...:whee:

[Han Solo]

That's right. :D Much progress you are making. Rewards are great, no?
The Dark Side You Bring Out In Me, Yes. Strong Are You In Ways of Battling The Force ;)

[ethans_so_bad]

you're right, witch.





I thought I was a witch???????

Make up YOUR mind...:whee:

[fly]

you're right, witch.

LOL..........................King!!!!
(or should I say Elll.........vv........i........sss?):na

[ethans_so_bad]

Why Thank ya little lady, thank ya very much.........

LOL..........................King!!!!

(or should I say Elll.........vv........i........sss?):na

[fly]

Why Thank ya little lady, thank ya very much.........

Make SURE ya wear your sequins tonight.........:D
and shake those hips just so......

[Sneaky]

The Dark Side You Bring Out In Me, Yes. Strong Are You In Ways of Battling The Force ;)

Strong the force runs through your Scoundral self, yes. Much stirring I have sensed.:lf

[ethans_so_bad]

Please, I'm already going to have enough problems beating the hunnies off.





Make SURE ya wear your sequins tonight.........:D

and shake those hips just so......

[fly]

Please, I'm already going to have enough problems beating the hunnies off.

Not wearing THAT ya ain't!!!!:lmao

[Han Solo]

Strong the force runs through your Scoundral self, yes. Much stirring I have sensed.:lf
Well it wasn't exactly a "stirring" but it was definitely a shaking motion of some kind :D

[ethans_so_bad]

Pffffffft! That would only ADD to the mystique that is.......Ethan.


BTW- Will your VET be there? I hear she's hot.




Not wearing THAT ya ain't!!!!:lmao

[Sneaky]

Please, I'm already going to have enough problems beating the hunnies off.

It will only get worse with your "Scoundral Status". Chick dig that. ;) Helps to offset the sequins anway. LOL.:D

[fly]

Pffffffft! That would only ADD to the mystique that is.......Ethan.


BTW- Will your VET be there? I hear she's hot.

I'll invite her............JUST for you!:kk

[ethans_so_bad]

Damn! A threesome after an hour set? Must be Friday night.

I'll invite her............JUST for you!:kk

[fly]

It will only get worse with your "Scoundral Status". Chick dig that. ;) Helps to offset the sequins anway. LOL.:D


And those darn sideburns.............:lmao

[ethans_so_bad]

Im dazzling, in OR out of sequins.



It will only get worse with your "Scoundral Status". Chick dig that. ;) Helps to offset the sequins anway. LOL.:D

[fly]

Damn! A threesome after an hour set? Must be Friday night.

hmmm.........think I'll be having a little "threesome" tonight myself....
something I like to call......
ME.......MYSELF.........and I
:D

[ethans_so_bad]

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:lmao "Don't say it, Ethan....resist, resist......"





hmmm.........think I'll be having a little "threesome" tonight myself....

something I like to call......
ME.......MYSELF.........and I
:D

[ethans_so_bad]

Later you guys, I gotta go. It's Friday evening. And those were MADE for scandalous behavior.

[Sneaky]

Im dazzling, in OR out of sequins.

I know. You're FABULOUS. LOL.:55

[Masculinity]

... I used to be referred to as such...and now am despised by my "soul mate"... I think you create the relationship you have... or at least you do your part towards its richness or poverty. If both are fully engaged, you will meet someone you feel is your closest friend ... lover of body and soul. It's not fated, in the stars, if you miss the one, your doomed sort of thing.

In my humble opinion...

-Masculinity.:sc

[simplygrace]

Im one of the lucky ones i found mine. But i did'nt find him till i was in my 40's.
Whats ironic the whole time we wanted to find someone we where right next door or following each other. Let me explain: We lived next door to each other complexes and did'nt know. We worked at the same employment one month apart and did'nt know. When we did meet his daughter lived one block from me.
And both our parents have the same b-day which is April 15th tax day. So i guess sooner or later we would have found each other.:kk

[Stacee]

I just wish my soul mate seen it. I feel he still has fears from other relationships gone wrong. He agrees we have chemistry and magic together but he is scared.

[jonnym422]

I think I found my soul mate once. We were like two peas in a pod. We loved to hang out and just shoot the breeze. Everyone thought we were dating for the longest time. We never did and we stayed just the best of friends. Unfortunately I ended up dating her best friend and when that ended we kind of drifted. I miss her though.

[ethans_so_bad]

I have loved her from the very first hour, when stolen glances and innocent words would continue playing in my mind long into the silent , dark night.

I have loved her from the very first hour and have never ceased to love her unto this very hour.

My love for her is so deep and fierce that sometimes I think it is taking place outside of me.

If she were to drop her own heart into mine we would never hear it hit bottom.

She is a single beam of light piercing the darkness of my hours.
She is the single star first appearing after the long storm has passed.
She is the scent of the roses in my garden.
She makes me alive.

...eu sinto sua falta...


XOX

[cloudrunner]

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[fly]

I have loved her from the very first hour, when stolen glances and innocent words would continue playing in my mind long into the silent , dark night.

I have loved her from the very first hour and have never ceased to love her unto this very hour.

My love for her is so deep and fierce that sometimes I think it is taking place outside of me.

If she were to drop her own heart into mine we would never hear it hit bottom.

She is a single beam of light piercing the darkness of my hours.
She is the single star first appearing after the long storm has passed.
She is the scent of the roses in my garden.
She makes me alive.

...eu sinto sua falta...


XOX

awww.........someone had SUGAR in their coffee this morning!!!
xoxo:kk

[MIGHTY]

I don't know how I feel about soul mates, persay. What I do know is we fit......perfectly, in every aspect of our lives. I know how I feel.....there is only one other time in my life that I have had this kind of awakening of my heart......and the last time was puppy love. I am not a young pup anymore. I know this is real, and true, and seemingly unwavering. I have seen it, felt it, in every way. I don't know how I feel about soul mates, persay, but I believe that everything happens for a reason and certain things are meant to be. I believe he is my reason....and my meaning...............

[OICurready4me]

I don't know how I feel about soul mates, persay. What I do know is we fit......perfectly, in every aspect of our lives. I know how I feel.....there is only one other time in my life that I have had this kind of awakening of my heart......and the last time was puppy love. I am not a young pup anymore. I know this is real, and true, and seemingly unwavering. I have seen it, felt it, in every way. I don't know how I feel about soul mates, persay, but I believe that everything happens for a reason and certain things are meant to be. I believe he is my reason....and my meaning...............:knuddel: Couldn't have said it any better myself....you are beautiful, baby! :kk

[ethans_so_bad]

yesssssssssss............. I was feeling "inspired"





awww.........someone had SUGAR in their coffee this morning!!!

xoxo:kk

[naughtygirl3825]

ethans, did you write that passage about soulmates?
if you did - that was beautiful!!