If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

[Sneaky]

We talk a lot about what we would change about our spouses and partners, but what about ourselves?

I for one wish I was less reactive, less emotional, and more logical. I rush to judgement too fast, and tend to have a big mouth. What about you?

[Annie]

I wish I didn't rely on my husband for so much. Sometimes I take him for granted and it isn't often that I let him know how much I appreciate all that he does.

[majorfun]

I would not be so freaky HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!:lmao

[Annie]

I would not be so freaky HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!:lmaoso many women... so little time!

[Sneaky]

I would not be so freaky HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!:lmao

LOL. I guess we ladies must just suffer with your flaws. We will manage somehow.......

[BadenLink]

Me being married for one.

[Sunfiresix]

I know I must have a fault, there is nothing perdect, must be that I can't think of what it is..guess I am happy as I are.....

[snowflake]

I would not get so uptight when hubby is running late, or when I am trying to get ready for work in the mornings, and get out the door.... Morning's are hell!!!

The rest of the time I am pretty laid back...

[speed_raycer]

To in general, be less of a worrier: To stop and smell the roses more often, enjoy life's little blessings and not obsess over things I'd like to make better or can't control.

[JaxGuy]

More Self Disciplined

[p.J]

My big gob...

[majorfun]

Whats a gob...mouth?

[p.J]

Whats a gob...mouth?

yep.. :)

[majorfun]

I wish you Brits would speak English....

[p.J]

I wish you Brits would speak English....

Don't even go there majorfun... OK!

[AffableOne]

I wish I could balance sensitivity with patience......they usually are in competition with each other for me

[hoss]

I'd like to change my height ....being short can be a bother sometimes ...

[Sneaky]

I'd like to change my height ....being short can be a bother sometimes ...

I'll bet other times it can put you at just the right spot!

[Pebbles]

I would want bigger feet. I have small feet and its hard to find my shoe size here. Getting shoes with the right arch support is a nightmare. I wear a size 3 shoe in womens sizes here. I unusually end up ordering shoes from the states.

[majorfun]

Hey if you want I would be more than glad to give you an English lesson.....




Don't even go there majorfun... OK!

[UltimateNaneki]

My attitude about myself....so many people say that I'm a really nice people and funny and sexy...I only wish I would believe them. Especially the sexy part!:D

[angelis]

have more patience! I always want things now!!

[p.J]

Hey if you want I would be more than glad to give you an English lesson.....

I am curious as to why you think I need one... you have heard my voice, and you have read and continue to read my posts... I for one think my English is impeccable!

[majorfun]

I think everything about you is impeccable.... I am just looking for an excuse to get you alone in a secluded place so we can play teacher and student....




I am curious as to why you think I need one... you have heard my voice, and you have read and continue to read my posts... I for one think my English is impeccable!

[p.J]

I think everything about you is impeccable.... I am just looking for an excuse to get you alone in a secluded place so we can play teacher and student....

I am taking a gap year!

[Sunfiresix]

That I would be able to enjoy my life.

[majorfun]

Oh no you are to far behind on your studies and you need some intense remedial training.... I have scheduled some private lessons for you and I so you can catch up....




I am taking a gap year!

[AffableOne]

that i would listen better

[IMaLady]

to be more aggressive

[baby face]

It would either be my stomach after having 4 c-sections in 6 years my muscles just not quiet the same as they were before the surgeries or my breast after nursing 4 babies in 6 years......just not quiet as perky as they used to be still nice but just not as perky!

[OICurready4me]

It would either be my stomach after having 4 c-sections in 6 years my muscles just not quiet the same as they were before the surgeries or my breast after nursing 4 babies in 6 years......just not quiet as perky as they used to be still nice but just not as perky!


Let US be the judge of that.... if you post a pic we'll gladly let you know how perky they are!

[p.J]

Oh no you are to far behind on your studies and you need some intense remedial training.... I have scheduled some private lessons for you and I so you can catch up....

:sc Nope sorry, I have looked at my timetable, and it is crammed full of exciting activities that will keep me occupied for a very long time...

[living to Flirt]

have more patience! I always want things now!!

WEll that this could be a good thing... then people don't have to wait around to find out what you really want!

[UltimateNaneki]

I would like to be less caring

[Sweetdreams069]

I would like to be married or with someone more compatable

[mile high]

I'd like to be taller and more hairy. Be smarter, more decisive and assertive. Be less lazy and learn some sophistication. See other people's point of view. Feel better about myself.

In short, I'd like to act and look less like a twelve year old.

[RedHotPisces]

to see myself as others do

[sawflyman]

I'd like to be taller, younger, and stronger

[AffableOne]

let's go back to 1983............

[Sweetdreams069]

let's go back to 1983............

wouldn't that be nice!

[Kissie]

I wouldnt be so dependent on my husband to be happy...I would learn to not put life on hold when he is not around...

[spare_change]

I would learn to be more tolerant of incompetence and stupidity.



Ok, no I wouldn't.

[thickitalian]

You been into my mind Spare???



I would learn to be more tolerant of incompetence and stupidity.



Ok, no I wouldn't.

[thickitalian]

I would have to say more forebearing of those I don't know. I have all the patience in the world with those I do know, but sometimes I tend to judge strangers harshly based on what they say...when they are just trying to brag or obtain brownie points because of their own insecurities....and for the most part they are probably good people inside. :sc

[MIGHTY]

I would rectify my fear of speaking, singing, performing in public or in front of crowds. It's sad because I could get a huge promotion at work in which I am ready for and have been encouraged and asked to go for, if not for this annoying hang up......

[Willy S]

I'd worry less about being "nice". Not everyone needs to like me.

[thickitalian]

If you can integrate some of what you do here...it is sorta like performing in front of others Mighty...if you can somehow get that same mindset as it pertains it to your job...just the encouragement you have received should tell you that others realize you can handle the promotion and do it well. It's not easy, but it is easy...if you can understand that.

Mighty....there is nothing you can't do or any fear you can't overcome if you put your mind to it....just think of a nerd that you know who has made it...that's what does the trick for me...

Thick's thoughts


I would rectify my fear of speaking, singing, performing in public or in front of crowds. It's sad because I could get a huge promotion at work in which I am ready for and have been encouraged and asked to go for, if not for this annoying hang up......

[baby face]

My ability to stand up to people and tell them what I think.....I'm a push over but a woman that everyone likes.....wonder why?

[PunkyBob]

to see myself as others do

You said it, Pisces. Getting a good look at who I am and how I appear to others would be invaluable...

[yaser]

My ability to stand up to people and tell them what I think.....I'm a push over but a woman that everyone likes.....wonder why?
My baby you choose to be nice to them..except me..Have you courage not to be loved?I cannot copmpare you to anyone here..

[Sweetdreams069]

I would rectify my fear of speaking, singing, performing in public or in front of crowds. It's sad because I could get a huge promotion at work in which I am ready for and have been encouraged and asked to go for, if not for this annoying hang up......

No, it's because you are short. Short people don't deserve to get promoted.




(just kidding) :kk

[sawflyman]

from what I read on here you deserve to be promoted

Go for it hon

[MIGHTY]

No, it's because you are short. Short people don't deserve to get promoted.




(just kidding) :kk

Actually, short works to my advantage. All I have to do is hold my keys in my hand and I creep up on them w/o them even hearing me......do it all of the time and it's freakin hillarious........:D

Next thing ya know......Busted!

[sawflyman]

lmao

[MIGHTY]

from what I read on here you deserve to be promoted

Go for it hon

I appreciate that and I have earned the promotion. If not for this hang up I would have already been promoted. It is by my choice that I have been held back......the confidence to succeed is hindered.

[MIGHTY]

If you can integrate some of what you do here...it is sorta like performing in front of others Mighty...if you can somehow get that same mindset as it pertains it to your job...just the encouragement you have received should tell you that others realize you can handle the promotion and do it well. It's not easy, but it is easy...if you can understand that.

Mighty....there is nothing you can't do or any fear you can't overcome if you put your mind to it....just think of a nerd that you know who has made it...that's what does the trick for me...

Thick's thoughts

No offense Thick, but it is easier said than done. When you get up there and try and hold a meeting and you cannot contain the tremors and your breathing becomes labored........well, let's just say I'd rather get a rectal exam......:(

[sawflyman]

sounds like you are doing the work already. and you are Irish...................add that up and that equals Promotion!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sawflyman]

I had to give a seminar in front of my peers at a conference last winter. I was nervious.

[MIGHTY]

sounds like you are doing the work already. and you are Irish...................add that up and that equals Promotion!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I do the work every night. The only thing that separates me and them is the paperwork...which I also know how to do. Otherwise I run the show for the most part.

[MIGHTY]

I had to give a seminar in front of my peers at a conference last winter. I was nervious.

Nervous doesn't say it all. I'm talking full blown panic attack.......

[sawflyman]

ahh I see. I understand now. I agree it is easier said then done

[thickitalian]

http://www.public-speaking.org/public-speaking-stagefright-article.htm


Mighty...I overcame many years ago and I realize it is not easy by any means...try this site but seriously pick out the things you prefer to try...it is so worth the effort from what you say. Containing tremors and labored breathing can be overcome....c'mon Mighty...I know your determination even if I don't know you....it's there. :wa:

No offense Thick, but it is easier said than done. When you get up there and try and hold a meeting and you cannot contain the tremors and your breathing becomes labored........well, let's just say I'd rather get a rectal exam......:(

[MIGHTY]

http://www.public-speaking.org/public-speaking-stagefright-article.htm


Mighty...I overcame many years ago and I realize it is not easy by any means...try this site but seriously pick out the things you prefer to try...it is so worth the effort from what you say. Containing tremors and labored breathing can be overcome....c'mon Mighty...I know your determination even if I don't know you....it's there. :wa:

Thank you Thick. I will certainly look into this, and you're right of course. The determination is there.....I believe it is merely hindered by the fear of the panic.:kk

[PunkyBob]

When you get up there and try and hold a meeting and you cannot contain the tremors and your breathing becomes labored........well, let's just say I'd rather get a rectal exam......:(

Know what you mean, Mighty. One of the reasons I went through teacher training. Scary as HELL. Loss of memory. Tongue seems to enlarge. Uncontrollable muscle jerks. Start making indecipherable sounds. And talk about instant, all over the body hot sweats.

Oh, wait. That's sex...

When do want to schedule the exam? I'll be very gentle!

[cherokeered]

The continent I am on

[MIGHTY]

Know what you mean, Mighty. One of the reasons I went through teacher training. Scary as HELL. Loss of memory. Tongue seems to enlarge. Uncontrollable muscle jerks. Start making indecipherable sounds. And talk about instant, all over the body hot sweats.

Oh, wait. That's sex...

When do want to schedule the exam? I'll be very gentle!

I'm sure you would be gentle. As far as the symptoms? Seems as if we share those in common as well. Go figure huh?:sc

[PunkyBob]

I'm sure you would be gentle. As far as the symptoms? Seems as if we share those in common as well. Go figure huh?:sc

It's been said that, in order to overcome this fear, one must picture making love to the group one is addressing...

"...I'm NOT panicking...I'm just HOOORNY!!"

[MIGHTY]

It's been said that, in order to overcome this fear, one must picture making love to the group one is addressing...

"...I'm NOT panicking...I'm just HOOORNY!!"

If I pictured that, I would not pass out from the panic, but from mere exhaustion!:whee:

[bryan3636]

I would rectify my fear of speaking, singing, performing in public or in front of crowds. It's sad because I could get a huge promotion at work in which I am ready for and have been encouraged and asked to go for, if not for this annoying hang up......

Mighty, I make my living as a performer and also teach those with a fear of
getting up in front of people a method to get over the stage fright. I've worked
with doctors, lawyers, ceos, politicians and executives of all kinds and they all come in with the same problem...fear of failure. The reality is that they have an important message to share but the fear gets in the way. Of course this is 90% mental and some simple imagery can help to begin to overcome this fear. I can't go into great detail here or I'd be writing a book, but here are a few things to think about.

1. People you speak to are there because they are interested in what you have to say.

2. Don't think of yourself giving a speech. Talk in conversational terms. If you can create a presentation with audience participation (ie a question & answer part of the presentation or including the audience with your questions of them or even bringing someone from the audience up on stage with you) that will help quite a bit.

3. Don't talk to the crowd. Imagine yourself speaking to one person (not directly). This personalizes your presentation and each will feel you're speaking to them. If it helps look above their heads and continue to scan the room with your eyes and they'll probably think you're looking at them.

4. Have confidence in the material you're sharing. Know it inside and out. You're the authority here and it's your expertise they are interested in.

5. Include humor in your presentation. Make light of yourself or the topic to loosen the crowd up. After reading your posts I know you would do that anyway.

6. Before you go on warm up. Deep breathing exercises help a lot and give yourself a pep talk. Get yourself psyched.

7. Maintain your energy. It has to be bigger than the room. Even though you're trying to speak in a conversation, non-technical way it still has to be loud enough that people don't strain to hear you. A microphone would be helpful too.

8. Keep moving (a moving target is hard to hit..lol). Don't just stand behind a podium. Step away and walk across the stage or platform. Move forward to the edge, show that you're accessible.

9. Have some room temperature water on stage with you and have some just before you go on and during the presentation as you need it. A common problem is dry mouth and this will solve the problem.

10. If you need more detailed explanations on any of the above or needing advice on your specific line of work don't hesitate to PM or email me and I'll be glad to help out in any way I can.

[unctarheel_32]

i would like to have a longer tongue

[thickitalian]

If you look at what Bryan wrote below you will see that most of his suggestions, as those out there online, are just simple common sense in many ways....and that's how simple it can be after you are able to overcome most of what you feel now. No one can teach you in words, we can just try and encourage you to be determined. You need to practice some of this, perhaps with a close friend...or better yet, find your way to a town hall meeting some night and during the open public discussion, stand up, grab that mike and ask a question...it's a start.


Thank you Thick. I will certainly look into this, and you're right of course. The determination is there.....I believe it is merely hindered by the fear of the panic.:kk


1. People you speak to are there because they are interested in what you have to say.

2. Don't think of yourself giving a speech. Talk in conversational terms. If you can create a presentation with audience participation (ie a question & answer part of the presentation or including the audience with your questions of them or even bringing someone from the audience up on stage with you) that will help quite a bit.

3. Don't talk to the crowd. Imagine yourself speaking to one person (not directly). This personalizes your presentation and each will feel you're speaking to them. If it helps look above their heads and continue to scan the room with your eyes and they'll probably think you're looking at them.

4. Have confidence in the material you're sharing. Know it inside and out. You're the authority here and it's your expertise they are interested in.

5. Include humor in your presentation. Make light of yourself or the topic to loosen the crowd up. After reading your posts I know you would do that anyway.

6. Before you go on warm up. Deep breathing exercises help a lot and give yourself a pep talk. Get yourself psyched.

7. Maintain your energy. It has to be bigger than the room. Even though you're trying to speak in a conversation, non-technical way it still has to be loud enough that people don't strain to hear you. A microphone would be helpful too.

8. Keep moving (a moving target is hard to hit..lol). Don't just stand behind a podium. Step away and walk across the stage or platform. Move forward to the edge, show that you're accessible.

9. Have some room temperature water on stage with you and have some just before you go on and during the presentation as you need it. A common problem is dry mouth and this will solve the problem.

10. If you need more detailed explanations on any of the above or needing advice on your specific line of work don't hesitate to PM or email me and I'll be glad to help out in any way I can.

[One Song Hero]

I'd like a better memory, or more self-confidence [can't decide]

[waterboy]

I wish I had the bdy i had when i was 18

[spare_change]

I wish I had the bdy i had when i was 18


I wish I had several of the bodies I had when I was 18 !!!

[IMaLady]

I wish I had several of the bodies I had when I was 18 !!!



I wish I could run my hands over the stomache of Spares avatar.



Oops this isnt the wish thread.

[Phlirt]

I would change my indecisiveness. I hate wanting one thing one minute and something completely different the next.

[IMaLady]

I would change my indecisiveness. I hate wanting one thing one minute and something completely different the next.




Thats the fun of being a women.

[yaser]

less self doubted

[scoobertina]

my locale... don't want to be in GA anymore...

[Sweetdreams069]

Being married. Don't want it at this point in my life.

[Cotties]

My diet....I love to eat

[longing for passion]

The ability to say, "no." I'm slowly learning though.

[Phlirt]

Thats the fun of being a women.

Yeah but sometimes its just not fun causing all this drama and heartache to my hubby.

[unctarheel_32]

I would change my height,I wish I was a little taller than what I am.

[MCat]

Today I wish my hair was longer

[Operator Bob]

Today, I wish I had hair!!

You know, it is easier for me to get ready in the morning though.

[MCat]

Today, I wish I had hair!!

You know, it is easier for me to get ready in the morning though.

Ooohhhh no hair....I love bald....you'll match Cotties...

[Operator Bob]

Ooohhhh no hair....I love bald....you'll match Cotties...

MCat...I looked at Cotties Avatar...what specifically were you saying my bald head would match??:sc

[MCat]

MCat...I looked at Cotties Avatar...what specifically were you saying my bald head would match??:sc

Not his avatar...his photo...he was bald in a couple of them...

[yaser]

I wish I loved fewer ladies..I am addicted to sex.

[Operator Bob]

Not his avatar...his photo...he was bald in a couple of them...

Gotcha....I was studying the kangaroo!

[MCat]

Gotcha....I was studying the kangaroo!

The kangaroo might be bald in a couple spots but I wouldn't want to find them...

[Sneaky]

I need to develop more tolorance and patience for other people.

[tiger50]

me socks, the 3 months iz up....:sc

[cherokeered]

me socks, the 3 months iz up....:sc


yeh, they seem to be standing in the corner on their own lately....:D

[yaser]

I need to develop more tolorance and patience for other people.
Hun I feel what you feel when I wear your shoes.

[Sneaky]

Hun I feel what you feel when I wear your shoes.

Hey, those my my favorite 3 inch heel Mary Janes. Give em back. They are getting all stretched out and you can't even balance in them!

[tiger50]

yeh, they seem to be standing in the corner on their own lately....:D

yeh, the skin off the bottom of me feet are still in em....:D

[cherokeered]

yeh, the skin off the bottom of me feet are still in em....:D


Ewwww....ur washing them...I'm not....:whee:

[yaser]

Hey, those my my favorite 3 inch heel Mary Janes. Give em back. They are getting all stretched out and you can't even balance in them!
Anything to wear for me?

[tiger50]

Ewwww....ur washing them...I'm not....:whee:

wash???? WTF???, they just need a little airin out....:sc

[Sneaky]

Anything to wear for me?

Yes. Here is a cute little collar. Aw. It looks nice. :lf

[cherokeered]

wash???? WTF???, they just need a little airin out....:sc


yeh, at the city dump....:D

[yaser]

Yes. Here is a cute little collar. Aw. It looks nice. :lf
Sneaky, I want more than that...

[tiger50]

yeh, at the city dump....:D

WTF??? nooooo, not me best socks.....:nu

[cherokeered]

WTF??? nooooo, not me best socks.....:nu


yup...they either get washed or its cutting time....:nu

[Sneaky]

Sneaky, I want more than that...

Sigh. Ok, you can have a belt also. Here you go.....

[yaser]

Sigh. Ok, you can have a belt also. Here you go.....
I am sorry..Openly I want rather different things....It must warm me..not to keep me warm..

[pointofnoreturn]

my height..

[scottd]

height here too

[pointofnoreturn]

i am 3 feet tall. How tall are you scottd??

[scottd]

5'4"
i am 3 feet tall. How tall are you scottd??

[scoobertina]

I would like to be a stronger person, not let little things get to me...

[pointofnoreturn]

5'4"Perfect..Can I hop on....

[Guymisseswife]

WOW. right now i would change ALOT about me. but if i could change one thing the most at this current moment i think i would probably change my looks so i was much more attractive

[whosdaflirt]

I would like to have more confidence in myself, and in what I have to give others...

[scottd]

be my guest :sex Perfect..Can I hop on....

[pointofnoreturn]

be my guest :sexYeeha...Ride em cowboy....:D

[One Song Hero]

I would be more perceptive and have more perspective, I can't decide which I need to improve on the most.

[OICurready4me]

Have perfect teeth

[Madison-Mike]

I would like to be more understanding.

[pointofnoreturn]

My boobs from shaking...they are getting a tad sore...Wheeeeeeeeeeeeee

[Madison-Mike]

My boobs from shaking...they are getting a tad sore...Wheeeeeeeeeeeeee

Maybe I could massage them for you.:)

[pointofnoreturn]

Maybe I could massage them for you.:)ok..:wa:

[wall-flower]

WOW. right now i would change ALOT about me. but if i could change one thing the most at this current moment i think i would probably change my looks so i was much more attractive

Hey I saw your picture. You are being far tooo critical on yourself.

[Madison-Mike]

ok..:wa:

:whee: I'm up for it anytime, Point!! :55 Just let me know when and where...

(Massages in other areas of your choice available at no additional charge.;) )

[kawagrn]

I would like to gain a little weight and be a little more muscular, I'm kind of skinny :(

[whosdaflirt]

I would find a way to keep things a little more bottled up and not be such an open book...

[My_Secrets_Kept]

I would find a way to keep things a little more bottled up and not be such an open book...

Whos can we trade, I'm the complete opposite... I keep things bottled up, let things eat at me... wish I could be more open about different aspects of myself, but everytime I try to bring that wall down the feelings of vulnerability well up & so the wall go's right back up again. It's not that I intentially do it, it's a knee jerk reaction. I used to see it as a strength, but have learned that it's more of a weekness :(

[whosdaflirt]

Whos can we trade, I'm the complete opposite... I keep things bottled up, let things eat at me... wish I could be more open about different aspects of myself, but everytime I try to bring that wall down the feelings of vulnerability well up & so the wall go's right back up again. It's not that I intentially do it, it's a knee jerk reaction. I used to see it as a strength, but have learned that it's more of a weekness :(

MSK...we should spend some more time together. Maybe if we find the halfway point of our challenges, we'll find the perfect compromise... :kk

[My_Secrets_Kept]

MSK...we should spend some more time together. Maybe if we find the halfway point of our challenges, we'll find the perfect compromise... :kk


If we were to spend time together I think I'd want to find more than the halfway point, can we compromise on that :D

[cherokeered]

being married.....lol

[whosdaflirt]

If we were to spend time together I think I'd want to find more than the halfway point, can we compromise on that :D

I'm getting better at compromising by the minute! Let's see where this takes us shall we? :knuddel:

[My_Secrets_Kept]

to not joke certain thing off when really I want to share what's on my mind instead...

[My_Secrets_Kept]

I'm getting better at compromising by the minute! Let's see where this takes us shall we? :knuddel:


your are good at this compromise thing, think I still need to work on it a little more though :kk :knuddel:

[MIGHTY]

...the little bulges around my waist.

[whosdaflirt]

your are good at this compromise thing, think I still need to work on it a little more though :kk :knuddel:

Well, compromise practice is being held after school today. Care to meet me in room 6 at 3 PM? :kk

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Well, compromise practice is being held after school today. Care to meet me in room 6 at 3 PM? :kk


do I need to bring any special supplies for this lesson :lf

[whosdaflirt]

do I need to bring any special supplies for this lesson :lf

Just your sweet self hon.. :kk

[cheerymissy_34]

I wish i could be more me and not what everyone else wants me to be..if that makes sense to anyone.

[Phlirt]

I wish i could be more me and not what everyone else wants me to be..if that makes sense to anyone.

Complete sense. You can, it just takes work and you have to stop and think about things before you just act.

[PunkyBob]

Procrastination.

[Madison-Mike]

I'm not really sure...maybe decisiviness.

[wall-flower]

My stubborness well maybe not.

[scoobertina]

If I could change one thing about me....... I would change my sleeping habits, I need to get more sleep...

[pointofnoreturn]

My caring about others. I care way to damn much, and it hurts alot sometimes.....Oh and maybe my nose????

[yaser]

My caring about others. I care way to damn much, and it hurts alot sometimes.....Oh and maybe my nose????
Do you want to be cared?

[yaser]

procrastinating..

[p.J]

I have this little mole...

[66angelholly]

AMEN to that cherokee -- I keep asking myself why I did it for the second time around. I was happier being free!!



being married.....lol

[OICurready4me]

...the little bulges around my waist.
That's funny because when I think of YOU, I get this big bulge near my waist!

[Phlirt]

My stomach... never quite got the shape back from being pregnant, and I got stretch marks :(

[Guymisseswife]

My stomach... never quite got the shape back from being pregnant, and I got stretch marks :(

but i like it, its cute and a great target :wk

[MCat]

I would wish my hair was 6 inches longer right now....I'm letting it grow a bit and am at that odd stage....

[Micwar]

To have stayed in the military until retirement....

[cherokeered]

I would wish my hair was 6 inches longer right now....I'm letting it grow a bit and am at that odd stage....

seems to me you would be used to that "odd" stage.....:D :kk gotcha

[cherokeered]

My stomach... never quite got the shape back from being pregnant, and I got stretch marks :(


2/3 rds of the world has stretch marks....dont worry about it...men dont anymore...hard to find anyone without them

[MCat]

seems to me you would be used to that "odd" stage.....:D :kk gotcha

Hey Cher....I love you too :kk

I love Tiger more though....:dd

[Phlirt]

2/3 rds of the world has stretch marks....dont worry about it...men dont anymore...hard to find anyone without them

yeah I don't worry about it, but it would what I could change ;)

[oldandnaked]

My striking resemblence to Brad Pitt. All those autograph seekers are becoming bothersome.

[UltimateNaneki]

My age....I want to be 24 again and again and again!

[p.J]

My feet... simple! bloody horrid they are!

[pointofnoreturn]

the last three days.....Not all of it, but a lot of it......

[PunkyBob]

Bad habits...

[pointofnoreturn]

what doctor phil says"I want to get excited about my life"

[Sneaky]

I need to process thoughts a bit more thoughly prior to them exiting my big fat mouth.

[fly]

Where I live.........

[Amaretto]

Where I live.........




Awww, that tugs at my heartstring's sympathy. :hug:

[cherokeered]

me...the whole thing

[Cotties]

oh Cher.....thats not the women I've come to know...can I offer you a hug:knuddel:....me...the whole thing....and a quick grope

[Cotties]

you still in that igloo???Where I live.........

[spare_change]

What to choose, what to choose .... the list is endless

[fly]

you still in that igloo???

Nah..........I had this freak accident and the dang thing MELTED.........:D

[fly]

Awww, that tugs at my heartstring's sympathy. :hug:

Thanks girl.....;)

[yaser]

I need to process thoughts a bit more thoughly prior to them exiting my big fat mouth.
Nope, your attractivesness comes from your directness.I love you the way you behave not the way you will..

[nitehawk99]

more patience especially with the kids

[Sneaky]

Nope, your attractivesness comes from your directness.I love you the way you behave not the way you will..
:kk

[yaser]

To stop procrastinating so much..Do I avoid pain?

[yaser]

:kk
:knuddel:

[Sneaky]

To stop procrastinating so much..Do I avoid pain?

It's impossible to avoid pain, and yet, we all try to.

[pointofnoreturn]

my shyness....Is this the lie thread????

[hoss]

well ...looking down i guess i had to say my boxers ....2 weeks is long enough i guess

[cherokeered]

Hey Cher....I love you too :kk

I love Tiger more though....:dd


but he loves me...get over it...lol

:D :kk

[scoobertina]

I would change my current marital status....

[mrdiscreet]

That I am too nice, just once I'd like to be a selfish lover :lmao

[Wil]

The way I pole dance...:lmao

[yaser]

It's impossible to avoid pain, and yet, we all try to.
I wonder if I am fully aware of why I am avoding,Sneaky..Do you feel the similar things?

[MIGHTY]

Sometimes I wish I weren't soo emotionally driven. When I am happy, I'm elated. When I'm hurt, I'm devistated. I believe I would make my outer shell a bit thicker.......

[yaser]

Sometimes I wish I weren't soo emotionally driven. When I am happy, I'm elated. When I'm hurt, I'm devistated. I believe I would make my outer shell a bit thicker.......
That is normal hun..You are ok..Nobody is perfect..Please can you think on the thinking of ALL OR NONE? :kk

[OICurready4me]

well ...looking down i guess i had to say my boxers ....2 weeks is long enough i guess
:lmao

[OICurready4me]

Where I live.........





In due time, right? (just stay away from Texas, I hear they have some really nutty folks there!.....;) )

[duanehofner]

Marital status

[OICurready4me]

Sometimes I wish I weren't soo emotionally driven. When I am happy, I'm elated. When I'm hurt, I'm devistated. I believe I would make my outer shell a bit thicker.......

It is what it is, baby, although, but I have seen that outer shell over the past 6 months, start to thicken, ever so slightly, as each week went on. You have grown stronger, sweetheart, that will continue to grow, day after day, once the nurturing of the inner you has taken shape.

[duanehofner]

I wouldn't turn down another couple of inches!

[hank69]

I was less lazy, more clever, better writer, typer and talker, less of a loner, Less trying to get things just right..(like the car clean or a piece of wood cut straight) I care about stupid things that don't matter (only to me at the time)

[scoobertina]

The way I pole dance...:lmao

Hey, I enjoyed the show last night.. you were great... or was I just drunk?

[yaser]

My perfectionist attitude in finding flirts.

[My_Secrets_Kept]

to not over think/over analize things... to be less of a perfectionist about things that in the long run don't really matter... to just be able to let things come to me and not sweat the things I have no control over...

[yaser]

to not over think/over analize things... to be less of a perfectionist about things that in the long run don't really matter... to just be able to let things come to me and not sweat the things I have no control over...
Let us have a meeting hun.There are alot to talk between you and me.

[angelis]

I'd like to have more self belief, not worry so much about others instead of myself.

[yaser]

I'd like to have more self belief, not worry so much about others instead of myself.
I love a woman who is on the right track..Be internal in locus of control..If you need help contact me please.

[Sneaky]

Procrastinate less!

[yaser]

Procrastinate less!
If you can tell me how please. :kk Sneaky.

[Sneaky]

If you can tell me how please. :kk Sneaky.

I've been meaning to, but I keep putting it off.....:sc

[yaser]

I've been meaning to, but I keep putting it off.....:sc
I know you are more attractive than working on a subject..How can leave you?

[Sneaky]

I know you are more attractive than working on a subject..How can leave you?

I will spank you if you don't!:sp:

Go work on your subjects!

Does that help?

[MCat]

I wish I was a better housekeeper, better cook, smarter, finish what I start....

[El Pasion]

I will spank you if you don't!:sp:

Go work on your subjects!

Does that help?Helps me, Sneaky ... and I don't even know or care what yer talking about! :D

[WandaRing]

Blushing, I hate blushing, I'm 41 years old and I still blush...when does it go away? I'm on a>>>> :spbx:

[mrdiscreet]

The ability to make others blush, that would be cool

[mrdiscreet]

MCat, your avatars always just drive me crazy!

[mrdiscreet]

Truthfully, procrastination. I make life much harder than it needs to be.

[PlayfulMale69]

I would change how affected I am by others. I should just do what I think and not care, but that is not how it is. How she thinks of me matters to me.

[Sabrina]

MCat, your avatars always just drive me crazy!

Yours is pretty nice, too!!:lf ;)

[Outta]

I'd be less sensitive

[Suz]

I'd be less sensitive

I wouldn't change a thing, I like that you're sensitive..I need to be more sensitive about you being sensitive.

[Outta]

I wouldn't change a thing, I like that you're sensitive..I need to be more sensitive about you being sensitive.
Geez, you trying to make me cry??? :cry:

[Suz]

Geez, you trying to make me cry??? :cry:

Ok, enuf of that...bring back my bad ass Jersey boy.

[Outta]

Ok, enuf of that...bring back my bad ass Jersey boy.
OK. Then shut up and fuck me, bitch.

[Suz]

OK. Then shut up and fuck me, bitch.

Damn boy, straight to the point and I'm not even giving you my F**k you eyes ;) .....oh and my answer is no. You have to earn a token to that ride like everyone else;)

[WandaRing]

I’d like to be more….umm….okay never mind more, just confident sexually:D

[kawagrn]

I’d like to be more….umm….okay never mind more, just confident sexually:D

I'd love to help you with that. :lf I kind of have the same problem.

[whosdaflirt]

...everything...

[pointofnoreturn]

...everything...Stop it.....You are wonderful the way you are. :hug:

[WandaRing]

I'd love to help you with that. :lf I kind of have the same problem.

oh, cool...its nice not to feel so alone....:55

[kawagrn]

oh, cool...its nice not to fell so alone....:55

Oh you're not alone. If you have any questions or wanna talk or more just let me know. :kk

[pointofnoreturn]

Oh you're not alone. If you have any questions or wanna talk or more just let me know. :kkOr more?????/hhhmmmmmmmm:wa:

[PunkyBob]

oh, cool...its nice not to feel so alone....:55

You are definitely NOT alone here, Annie. We each have some baggage. Hang in there...you'll discover some hidden strengths!

[pointofnoreturn]

You are definitely NOT alone here, Annie. We each have some baggage. Hang in there...you'll discover some hidden strengths!what ya got packed in them bags Punky????/;)

[PunkyBob]

what ya got packed in them bags Punky????/;)

Are you talking about the Magic Suitcase?

[pointofnoreturn]

Are you talking about the Magic Suitcase?Yes I am....:dd

[cheerymissy_34]

my temper

[kawagrn]

Or more?????/hhhmmmmmmmm:wa:

what more do you want Point?

[pointofnoreturn]

what more do you want Point?I always want more.. I very hungry.....:dd

[bryan3636]

Just be happy with you I've got and not to overthink things

[pointofnoreturn]

my hair...
WAnt more thick lucious hair. Where yousay???hmmm?????

[unctarheel_32]

i would like to be bigger...... lol

[AffableOne]

where I was on that fateful day.........

[yaser]

my hair...
WAnt more thick lucious hair. Where yousay???hmmm?????
I am interested in your pubic hair,Point.to pull ..

[Sneaky]

I wish I could be more casual about things. Not so intense.

[cheerymissy_34]

i fly off the handle to fast...dont wait and find out why
need more patience..

[El Pasion]

I wish I could be more casual about things. Not so intense.Oh do I ever hear ya, Sneaky. I've struggled for years with that. I'm much better than I used to be but still have a ways to go.

[MCat]

I wish I would finish projects I start

[unctarheel_32]

I do wish I could quit smoking

[p.a]

I guess the one thing I would change about me is nothing. No I'm not perfect but I think I am balanced. I'm not to much of one way or another.
I am what forces in and outside have made me. If I were to change I would not be me.
I kinda like me.:D

[cherokeered]

my location

[MCat]

I still want my tits lifted....

[p.a]

I still want my tits lifted....

Ok. put one in my left hand and one in my right and I will lift them for you:D

[One Song Hero]

my location
a lot of guys here would love you to change that, Cher!

[1hotmommy]

I would definitely change my bad temper