Would You Have Sex on the First date or encounter?

[BlueEyedBoy]

I have a friend that is signal and he has told me he would not have sex on a first date. I was just wondering how many people feel this way.

[pointofnoreturn]

It would really have to besomeone that turned me on. But yeah...I would

[yaser]

It would really have to besomeone that turned me on. But yeah...I would
Is it so difficult to turn you on or under,Point?

[UltimateNaneki]

nope , but if I liked that guy, the second date would be very soon

[Outta]

Would I have sex on the first date?? Do fish have gills?

[Jy]

I'm not sure it's a good idea, but I have to admit, I've done it more times than I care to confess.

Actually, I'd admit it if I could remember how many there were...:sc

[majorfun]

Want to add another


I'm not sure it's a good idea, but I have to admit, I've done it more times than I care to confess.

Actually, I'd admit it if I could remember how many there were...:sc

[Dsparate Hswife]

I have never had a one night stand and hope I never will...even if my marriage doesn't work (and there is a good chance of that)...I still want to have a romantic connection and bond before I seal the deal. Isn't half of the excitement in the imagination and wondering?:sc

[Sneaky]

Only once. And that turned into a relationship.

[majorfun]

There would not be a second if she did not put out on the first

[yaser]

I have never had a one night stand and hope I never will...even if my marriage doesn't work (and there is a good chance of that)...I still want to have a romantic connection and bond before I seal the deal. Isn't half of the excitement in the imagination and wondering?:sc
It seems, DH you are also a good marriage partner..Will you sleep on my arms?

[Jy]

I'm not sure I'd have enough control to even introduce myself to you! I'd be too busy ripping your clothes off like wrapping paper!Want to add another

[majorfun]

Promises, Promises




I'm not sure I'd have enough control to even introduce myself to you! I'd be too busy ripping your clothes off like wrapping paper!

[Dsparate Hswife]

There would not be a second if she did not put out on the first


:eek:

[sexntexx]

I have had sex on the first date a few times. The intensity of meeting someone and the electricity that fires between your loins. The I can't wait to get in the door to bang against the wall and fuck like mad wolves can be so intense.

[Dsparate Hswife]

It seems, DH you are also a good marriage partner..Will you sleep on my arms?


Anytime!!:)

[yaser]

Only once. And that turned into a relationship.
Does Sneaky mean a good hunter?

[GeekMaster]

There would not be a second if she did not put out on the first

I really hope you are kidding...

[yaser]

Anytime!!:)
Is your smell mix of adult and baby?

[Dsparate Hswife]

I have had sex on the first date a few times. The intensity of meeting someone and the electricity that fires between your loins. The I can't wait to get in the door to bang against the wall and fuck like mad wolves can be so intense.


Did you say loins?:na

[sexntexx]

was that the wrong word? lol

[Dsparate Hswife]

was that the wrong word? lol


I just thought I was the only one who used that word...When my children were born, I referred to them as the fruit of my loins...my friend was not sure I was in my right mind...:)

[GeekMaster]

I just thought I was the only one who used that word...When my children were born, I referred to them as the fruit of my loins...my friend was not sure I was in my right mind...:)

May I nibble from the tree??:knuddel:

[sexntexx]

I just thought I was the only one who used that word...When my children were born, I referred to them as the fruit of my loins...my friend was not sure I was in my right mind...:)

WhewI thought that it didn't apply but I would love to taste of your fruit. Sweet nectar, ah yes such sweet nectar.

[pointofnoreturn]

I have never had a one night stand and hope I never will...even if my marriage doesn't work (and there is a good chance of that)...I still want to have a romantic connection and bond before I seal the deal. Isn't half of the excitement in the imagination and wondering?:scWell I was not standing on that one night...:D

[pointofnoreturn]

I have had sex on the first date a few times. The intensity of meeting someone and the electricity that fires between your loins. The I can't wait to get in the door to bang against the wall and fuck like mad wolves can be so intense.Ok that is what I am talkin about. Never had that but def. want it!!!!:55

[Wil]

I slept with my wife on our first date...maybe that's the deal....fuckin oops

[MCat]

I just thought I was the only one who used that word...When my children were born, I referred to them as the fruit of my loins...my friend was not sure I was in my right mind...:)

I say that to my kids frequently...they hate it...:D

They say oh my god Mom...stop....

[getyousome]

It would depend how long we were getting to know each other before we actually met in person. Yes I would.

[bryan3636]

Rule #1: No sex on the first date....too respectful and wanting to get to know her much better.

Rule #2: If she tells me she has got to have me NOW....disregard Rule #1

[UltimateNaneki]

Rule #1: No sex on the first date....too respectful and wanting to get to know her much better.

Rule #2: If she tells me she has got to have me NOW....disregard Rule #1


I like your rules....Can I use them?:wa:

[MCat]

In my younger years....god I hate saying that....

I did not have sex on the first date....no one asked me too :cry:

When I was dating hubby....he waited 3 months before he wanted to.


If I were dating now.....hell yes, first date....bring it on baby.... :D

[MIGHTY]

Before I would have said no......made the hubby wait for over two months. But now, I would have to say yes, with the right person.......and we would have to know each other before the date.

[yaser]

In my younger years....god I hate saying that....

I did not have sex on the first date....no one asked me too :cry:

When I was dating hubby....he waited 3 months before he wanted to.


If I were dating now.....hell yes, first date....bring it on baby.... :D
Mcat I did not know you loved sex that much..

[Cotties]

I sure would try;)

[Trev]

I'm a guy, of course I would.

[Cotties]

If Redhot didn't mind me groping at her ass......I sure would make the move for her knickers

[RedHotPisces]

what if she isnt wearing knickers...



If Redhot didn't mind me groping at her ass......I sure would make the move for her knickers

[OICurready4me]

Before I would have said no......made the hubby wait for over two months. But now, I would have to say yes, with the right person.......and we would have to know each other before the date.

Yes...and on the second, third, fourth date... and so on and so on.....

[Dsparate Hswife]

I'm a guy, of course I would.


:whee:

[bored1111]

Before I ws married most of my sex life was via one night stands. I basically stayed away from long term relationships. there is absolutely nothing quite as exciting as the first time, wehther you know the person or not. For me though, I like that whole extra dimension of not knowng anything about the person. You have no idea of how far it will go, how good it will be, what the person likes or doesn't like, so you get to find out. There are less inhibitions, no one is worried about how this will change the existing relationship or what the person will tell mutual friends.

So yes, absolutely, although, these days you do have to be more careful then I did in the 80's (ugh, makes me sound old!)

[Suz]

I have back in college, but I dont remember any of them being good or I'm thinking I would remember them...then again it happened more than I care to even remember. As for now, just meeting a guy somewhere and deciding to do it, I dont see that happening. I worry too much about my safety, like if he locked the doors and wouldn't let me go....not so much the diseases that are out there...but the crazy people:whee:

[Outta]

I have back in college, but I dont remember any of them being good or I'm thinking I would remember them...then again it happened more than I care to even remember. As for now, just meeting a guy somewhere and deciding to do it, I dont see that happening. I worry too much about my safety, like if he locked the doors and wouldn't let me go....not so much the diseases that are out there...but the crazy people:whee:

Bah humbug. I'll be your crazy man.:whee: :whee: :whee:

[Sweetdreams069]

Probably not on the first, but I have had sex on the second date.

[scoobertina]

I am normally very reserved but I will have sex on the first meeting if I feel it is right.. and I have given myself enough time for it...

[Dre]

Yeah I bet especially as hot as you are!LOL it would be hard letting you go!;)


I have back in college, but I dont remember any of them being good or I'm thinking I would remember them...then again it happened more than I care to even remember. As for now, just meeting a guy somewhere and deciding to do it, I dont see that happening. I worry too much about my safety, like if he locked the doors and wouldn't let me go....not so much the diseases that are out there...but the crazy people:whee:

[Annie]

I'm not sure.... I married my husband on our first date... so I guess what we did that night... well yeah... I guess I have!

[AffableOne]

wow Annie!!!!

I would love to hear THAT story some time!!!!!

congrats!!!

[dartgirl]

When I was younger I probably wouldn't have, but now......if I felt some attraction to the person he wouldn't have to ask me twice.

[Big O]

When I was younger I probably wouldn't have, but now......if I felt some attraction to the person he wouldn't have to ask me twice.

hmmm...now just where is this middle of nowhere that you live?? :sc

[Shadows]

Yes given the chance as we are a very sexy couple and we like to arouse others to see how far they are prepared to allow us to go.

[PunkyBob]

Did frequently. Would again...I just hope it would be with someone right.

Actually the thought of dating makes me go hide in the arctic.

But I am a guy, so the possibility of me saying "Well...no" to her saying "Ya wanna?" is kinda astronomical.

[RedVixen]

Depends on the mood I'm in

[Shadows]

Depends on the mood I'm in

Tell us the mood your in right this very minute for we are feeling really sexy and raunchy we want fun, mmmm:di

[MiamiMan68]

If the situation is right, sex on that first encounter could be incredible...

[mile high]

There was a time when I'd have sex with anybody, no matter how briefly I knew them. I'm much more picky these days though, though I do still have first date encounters now and again (always based on mutual respect and understanding, of course). If I met a lovely woman, whom I wanted to develop a lasting relationship with, I'd abstain from sex until the moment felt right. Wouldn't want her to get the impression I was only interested in one thing.

[Penny]

I would have to be awful drunk or awful horney :(

[springs]

I would have to be awful drunk or awful horney :(

Penny, want to go over to Amaretto's place for some drinks? :D

[Willy S]

It would very much depend on the person and the circumstance - noncommittal enough?

[sawflyman]

not on the first encounter I'd have to know alittle about them

[springs]

not on the first encounter I'd have to know alittle about them

Like "are you over 18?":D

[Sunfiresix]

Knowing how long it has been since I have had sex, if everything fell into place and we agreed or were ready, I think so. Years ago when sex was plentiful it was always better to wait get to know the person. But that is the way I feel at this moment.

[missgrace]

never had it on the first date...

[JCcanU]

it boils down to Atration the more your atrated to each other your bodys will put off signs and animal instint kicks in. I said yes but that dont happen on every date on a scale of 1-10 its about a 4 that I had sex on the first date.

[suzie147]

I don't think that I would - I think that you need to get to know someone and talk and laugh and just be together a little bit - before jumping in to seal the deal... now after the first few times... all bets are off - head-banging sex- the way to go!!

I also think that it would be much more intense if you know the person for a little while and then get down to it... Just doing it without liking the actual person would make me feel a bit empty afterwards... :sg

[sexntexx]

I don't think that I would - I think that you need to get to know someone and talk and laugh and just be together a little bit - before jumping in to seal the deal... now after the first few times... all bets are off - head-banging sex- the way to go!!

I also think that it would be much more intense if you know the person for a little while and then get down to it... Just doing it without liking the actual person would make me feel a bit empty afterwards... :sg


Have you never met someone that there is an instant attraction to? Then after a few drinks and conversation you get so turned on by that other person that you just must have them? The sex can be amazing, now if that one time is all there is then yes it can leave an empty feeling.

[Sweetdreams069]

I don't think that I would - I think that you need to get to know someone and talk and laugh and just be together a little bit - before jumping in to seal the deal... now after the first few times... all bets are off - head-banging sex- the way to go!!

I also think that it would be much more intense if you know the person for a little while and then get down to it... Just doing it without liking the actual person would make me feel a bit empty afterwards... :sg

I pretty much agree with you . I have had sex on a first meeting, but we talked online and through email for a few weeks prior to our meeting. Everything seemed to click and we both were looking for the same things and we agreed on everything we talked about. And when we met it was an instant attraction. It was pretty awesome. Could be once in a lifetime for me , I don't know. I'm hoping it wasn't. Best sex I ever had in my life.

[paris]

I would definitely have sex on the first encounter! I have a first encounter happening this Friday...I'm PLANNING on sex:lf !

[Sweetdreams069]

I would definitely have sex on the first encounter! I have a first encounter happening this Friday...I'm PLANNING on sex:lf !

That's easy to say and hope for, but what if it's not what you were expecting? What if the the physical attraction isn't there? Hopefully it is for you , but that's happened to me already too. Hit if off big-time through email but when we got together just didn't feel it.

[sexntexx]

god luck Paris

[paris]

That's easy to say and hope for, but what if it's not what you were expecting? What if the the physical attraction isn't there? Hopefully it is for you , but that's happened to me already too. Hit if off big-time through email but when we got together just didn't feel it.
Not really worried...we've been chatting, talking, and camming for 6 months. No concerns.

[Sweetdreams069]

Well then you better get some rest, you might need it! :55

[yaser]

I would definitely have sex on the first encounter! I have a first encounter happening this Friday...I'm PLANNING on sex:lf !
He is the luckiest person on this earth..I call this going to heaven. .

[paris]

He is the luckiest person on this earth..I call this going to heaven. .
you are a darling!:knuddel:

[yaser]

you are a darling!:knuddel:
Can I hate my chance why I was not there with you Hun?

[suzie147]

I would definitely have sex on the first encounter! I have a first encounter happening this Friday...I'm PLANNING on sex:lf !
Hey Paris, Good luck - I hope u hae a great time, and that it is all that you want it to be!! Just be careful... (that is the mother in me)!!!!!!

[w9kw]

up to the gal but im always rdy for sex

[paris]

Hey Paris, Good luck - I hope u hae a great time, and that it is all that you want it to be!! Just be careful... (that is the mother in me)!!!!!!

ty Suzie!

[scoobertina]

It all depends... how horny am I at the time and how well did the date go... I have not had sex on a first date... I really prefer to get to know someone a little better before I do them.... but that was before I got here... I don't know what would happen if I were to meet someone I have gotten to know very well here...

Ummmm sorry, I think I did have sex once or twice on a first date... so, scratch the last....

[sexntexx]

It all depends... how horny am I at the time and how well did the date go... I have not had sex on a first date... I really prefer to get to know someone a little better before I do them.... but that was before I got here... I don't know what would happen if I were to meet someone I have gotten to know very well here...

Ummmm sorry, I think I did have sex once or twice on a first date... so, scratch the last....

LOL! He or they was memorable!

[flirtyCoach]

There are several reasons to wait beyond the first date. One is the complications sex can bring in some relationships. Another, more for me, is the fact that I believe it can be powerful to let that sexual tension build...some good kissing and petting, serious flirting, can all make that first time more intense.

[Wil]

uh..yes...but that's just me..:sex4:

[angelis]

I guess it depends on how you feel at the time,but right now I'm thinking YES oh YES!!!;)

[eternus]

Tough call, yes it'd depend on the mood and mutual feelings. I would probably say yes though.

[MCat]

Not really worried...we've been chatting, talking, and camming for 6 months. No concerns.

Another mother here.....be careful :knuddel:

[living to Flirt]

I guess it depends on how you feel at the time,but right now I'm thinking YES oh YES!!!;)

Well now... if he reads this... and if it were me... I would make you you wait most of the evening. Keep you in public... allowing you to think about it more.:lf

[living to Flirt]

I have never had a one night stand and hope I never will...even if my marriage doesn't work (and there is a good chance of that)...I still want to have a romantic connection and bond before I seal the deal. Isn't half of the excitement in the imagination and wondering?:sc

I know you wrote this awhile ago, but if you were chatting online with this person and maybe even a phone call or two... would you still think you needed the romantic connection?:sc

[Operator Bob]

I would need a connection first through talking by email, im, or phone. The first date (and maybe sex) would be a natural progression of the relationship.

[massage mike]

oh yes the ones i've had were very passionate and unforgettable.its nice to have such spontaneous and sensual feelings at first site and hit it off right away

[DarkRyder13]

I have sex on the first day and just so happened I married the woman I scored with on the first night. So first time hookups may be a good thing. :sex

[speed_raycer]

Yes! :D And I have a feeling it will happen very soon!

[paris]

:dd

[AL(m)]

Most certainly... it does also depend on chemistry bewteen the people... and how hot they make each other too.....but one should always be open to new experiences... :wa:

[suzie147]

:dd
So - does this mean that you had a great time?? lol!

[unctarheel_32]

yes it depends on the lady i am always up 4 sex ladies

[c50t]

I haven't had a date in 14 years, so I'm not sure I remember. :sc

[UltimateNaneki]

I'm going on my first day in 8yrs, on Aug 31st and there will be lots of sex involved...

[suzie147]

I'm going on my first day in 8yrs, on Aug 31st and there will be lots of sex involved...
YOU GO GIRL!!!!! :55

[Outta]

I only have one thing to say to this thread.



DUH!!!!!

[pointofnoreturn]

I only have one thing to say to this thread.



DUH!!!!!You seem a bit moody lately. You ok??:wa:

[Outta]

Aww, Point. That's sweet. Thanks for asking.

Basically, I'm your poster child for bi-polar. Lots going on in my life without any break. I do get down from time to time. But I'm lucky to be friends with a cute little blonde that keeps me in check and makes me realize that every day above ground is a good one.

[Zifnab]

I would never have sex on the first counter..... I don't care how many dates its been... now the second counter maybe.....

[flamengo130]

I have in the past...but I've also "been around the block".

[Alonelyboy4u]

If you have been in contact via chat / email for a while and you gotton to know the person I would for sure. And if some knockout came allong and offered I would have a hard time turning it down also.

[My_Secrets_Kept]

It would all depend on how well I have gotten to know the person before the first in person meeting

[yaser]

It would all depend on how well I have gotten to know the person before the first in person meeting
Secrets,do you know what questions to ask him to learn more about him?Please ask me a question so that I give you an answer and make sex with me at the our first meeting..

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Secrets,do you know what questions to ask him to learn more about him?Please ask me a question so that I give you an answer and make sex with me at the our first meeting..

your name, rank & serial number please :D

[yaser]

your name, rank & serial number please :D
I love intelligence and ready made questions in a woman,Secrets..The interval between the serial numbers is to large... :lf

[Suz]

Aww, Point. That's sweet. Thanks for asking.

Basically, I'm your poster child for bi-polar. Lots going on in my life without any break. I do get down from time to time. But I'm lucky to be friends with a cute little blonde that keeps me in check and makes me realize that every day above ground is a good one.


Well not till a year after I sign you up for life insurance...that is what you said wasn't it? ;) oh and also to go along with your above ground statement....any pool will do fine with me, I wont be picky, above ground or inground. I prefer inground with a waterfall cascade..but no biggy.

[NYCMasterplumber]

Yes many times on a first meeting Always a thrill and always unexpected sex is amazing

[paris]

Another mother here.....be careful :knuddel:
Suzy and MCat, Thank you for your concern. And it is very important advice. I really knew ahead of time that my safety wasn't an issue. I made sure of it. And also, I did have a buddy of mine from here know where I was. And he checked in on me lots throughout the weekend - I'm lucky to have him as my guardian angel!!! As for my weekend...more than I ever could have hoped for! We had the most incredible time!

[sincere2883]

i would. and i have had sex on the first date, on the most part i think all guys would, most women won't. i have been lucky many times.

[DeTazMan]

Wife and I basically did. We were dating others but knew there was something there. Being your typical male though, I had to say yes. Would I love to do the ladies here that have replied, most definitely

[baby face]

Probably not, I guess I'm not that type a girl.......I want to make them come back for more so I save it for the second date.......I like to keep a man wondering and hoping for more

[peaches]

I have in the past...but I've also "been around the block".
You've been around the block??..I haven't seen you.......lol......you could come around my block anytime......

[Wil]

used to be more prevelent in the early 80s...now a days you would have to get to know someone first....least one contract something we don't have a shot for...

[suzie147]

Suzy and MCat, Thank you for your concern. And it is very important advice. I really knew ahead of time that my safety wasn't an issue. I made sure of it. And also, I did have a buddy of mine from here know where I was. And he checked in on me lots throughout the weekend - I'm lucky to have him as my guardian angel!!! As for my weekend...more than I ever could have hoped for! We had the most incredible time!
I am SO GLAD to hear that Paris!!!

You GO GIRL!! :55

[nitenurse]

Some women would!!!

[PlayfulMale69]

Some women would!!!

Are you saying you would?

[OICurready4me]

I would never have sex on the first date or encounter.... :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao :lmao


(I thought this was the lie thread, sorry)

[Code Red]

10 years ago I did...and I married him. Today? Probably not.

[Cotties]

Only if she was easy

[Niceandsmove]

Well, if I was sexually attracted to her, her smile was radiant, and she spoke intelligently... Who am I kidding? Hell yeah! I would sleep with a woman on the first date. I am a male that's horny 24-7 (tired, sad, or sick).

[longing for passion]

I have had only one one-nighter, which lead to multiple times with the same girl. . However, hindsight being 20/20...I would have to say, "no, not on the first date."

Yet, at the same time, if it was a woman that captivated my attention both physically and intellectually, I suppose I may find myself in deep trouble....and I love that kind of trouble!!!

[GaMan]

No...I want to get to know someone first. I'm not saying that I need there to be feelings there first. But I do want to know the person fairly well before becoming that intimate.

[oldandnaked]

Back in the Ice Age when I was young, dumb and full of cum, if there wasn't sex on the first date there usually wouldn't be a second one. Now days I like to consider myself more mature, probably a three date limit.

[gowith_flow]

depends on connection

[MCat]

I made hubby wait 3 months before we had sex.

I'm much older and wiser now...now that I realize how much I love sex....

if I liked him and he's worth a second date...watch out buddy...
here cums the cat....:dd

Sorry honey for making you wait...:kk

[waterboy]

is the sky blue

[waterboy]

is water wet

[waterboy]

well if the first two didn't work yep you bet ya

[scoobertina]

I have to say YES to this one...

[alex187]

no i only cyber fuck hot chix

[cherokeered]

No...:55

[onceamarine]

Absolutely

[Sabrina]

After meeting him here and then emailing him and talking on the phone until we are both dying to be together.....hell yes!:D

[whosdaflirt]

If I knew nothing about her, then no...I need it to mean alot more.

But if we had spent tons of time online, on the phone, interacting...knowing each other far more deeply...then yes...without hesitation...

[AL(m)]

If the chemistry was right and the over powering desire to be with them... cant see anything stopping me... well unless she said "NO" that would do it....lol

[Sabrina]

If the chemistry was right and the over powering desire to be with them... cant see anything stopping me... well unless she said "NO" that would do it....lol


oh, amb....how could she say no to you??:D

[AL(m)]

oh, amb....how could she say no to you??:D

Ah my dear because I believe the Lady should always have the choice of saying no.... and the male should respect her for it......... :wa:

[scottd]

of course i would but not if i had to push the issue

[pointofnoreturn]

Only if he asked...

[AL(m)]

Only if he asked...

I would ask and ask....... okay okay maybe beg......eheheheh :D

[Phlirt]

I have before, ask my husband. If everything clicked, then why not.

[Guymisseswife]

I have before, ask my husband. If everything clicked, then why not.

wanna go out tonight? buy you a shot?

[stacie]

I have a friend that is signal and he has told me he would not have sex on a first date. I was just wondering how many people feel this way.

I guess it's been a long time for me...is it bad to ask for a health history??? :) I guess it depends on how close i feel that first night...and weather I want more from the relationship or just really need sex!

[pointofnoreturn]

I would ask and ask....... okay okay maybe beg......eheheheh :DYou talkin to me????:sex

[Phlirt]

wanna go out tonight? buy you a shot?

Sure make the 6 hour drive to Phoenix then :D

[Guymisseswife]

Ya know something, If i could stay the night with you i would drive across the fucking country this second for ya. so 6 hours??? hell fuck ya i am there.....if you were serious lol

[bryan3636]

Ya know something, If i could stay the night with you i would drive across the fucking country this second for ya. so 6 hours??? hell fuck ya i am there.....if you were serious lol

ummmm, this belongs in the "how far would you travel to get laid thread"....lol

[Guymisseswife]

Yeah i think she was poking fun at me because i once traveled 6 hours..

[Phlirt]

Yeah i think she was poking fun at me because i once traveled 6 hours..

Yes, was joking lol. I'd have to explain to my hubby where the fuck I was going at 1 in the morning...

[Guymisseswife]

Yes, was joking lol. I'd have to explain to my hubby where the fuck I was going at 1 in the morning...

would you really?

[Andytyme]

Sure make the 6 hour drive to Phoenix then :D

I have just bought a ticket to Phoenix. Can I get a ride from the airport?

[Guymisseswife]

I already got there :P haha

[pointofnoreturn]

Only if it was someone that had a really big???????????????/Fill in the blank..

[PunkyBob]

Only if it was someone that had a really big???????????????/Fill in the blank..

Car? Wallet??

What???

[pointofnoreturn]

Car? Wallet??

What???yes all of the above....:lf and more

[Penny]

I have but she was a woman :gs

[PunkyBob]

I have but she was a woman :gs

Hey! Me, too!!

[Big O]

will it cost me any money??? :sc

[dave42]

[QUOTE=Dsparate Hswife]I have never had a one night stand and hope I never will...even if my marriage doesn't work (and there is a good chance of that)...I still want to have a romantic connection and bond before I seal the deal. Isn't half of the excitement in the imagination and wondering?:sc[/QUOTE I like the way you think. That is why I like to wait for a second date as hard as it might be sometimes. I have had sex on a first date. Never had a one night stand. The first date sex Led to a second and third date and even hotter sex. It just felt right, things got heated and we both couldn't resist. Also the fact that she was from a different culture made it really steamy also.:knuddel:

[Sunfiresix]

only because I don't think I could be unfaithful--I would say, yes to sex at first meeting, only because there wouldn't be a second and I could use the one time trip to pleasure that I really do miss.

[dave42]

I'm not sure I'd have enough control to even introduce myself to you! I'd be too busy ripping your clothes off like wrapping paper!You go girl!! But not introducing yourself? That's just bad manners. Now with that out of the way. Let's get back to the ripping part!! hehehe!!:D

[dave42]

Before I would have said no......made the hubby wait for over two months. But now, I would have to say yes, with the right person.......and we would have to know each other before the date. 2mos? 3 mos.? I dont even know any women who are willing to wait that long. I waited a month to sleep with my current wife. I should have known better and went downstairs to the curb to wait for someone else. I think that 2-3 weeks is pushing your luck. Or could it be that you really are not that interested?

[dave42]

Before I ws married most of my sex life was via one night stands. I basically stayed away from long term relationships. there is absolutely nothing quite as exciting as the first time, wehther you know the person or not. For me though, I like that whole extra dimension of not knowng anything about the person. You have no idea of how far it will go, how good it will be, what the person likes or doesn't like, so you get to find out. There are less inhibitions, no one is worried about how this will change the existing relationship or what the person will tell mutual friends.

So yes, absolutely, although, these days you do have to be more careful then I did in the 80's (ugh, makes me sound old!) I have to disagree. Ithink that the 2nd or third time is the best. But I agree that It can be tricky to figure out where the two of you want to go from there though.

[dave42]

I pretty much agree with you . I have had sex on a first meeting, but we talked online and through email for a few weeks prior to our meeting. Everything seemed to click and we both were looking for the same things and we agreed on everything we talked about. And when we met it was an instant attraction. It was pretty awesome. Could be once in a lifetime for me , I don't know. I'm hoping it wasn't. Best sex I ever had in my life.This is similar to what happened to me. Does it count as a first date? Who knows? But from a guys point of view this was certainly the hot deal for me and her.

[dave42]

Probably not, I guess I'm not that type a girl.......I want to make them come back for more so I save it for the second date.......I like to keep a man wondering and hoping for more I like that too. But be careful, it goes both ways!!

[dave42]

I made hubby wait 3 months before we had sex.

I'm much older and wiser now...now that I realize how much I love sex....

if I liked him and he's worth a second date...watch out buddy...
here cums the cat....:dd

Sorry honey for making you wait...:kkHere,.. kitty, kitty!!!:D

[dave42]

:lf )

[MIGHTY]

2mos? 3 mos.? I dont even know any women who are willing to wait that long. I waited a month to sleep with my current wife. I should have known better and went downstairs to the curb to wait for someone else. I think that 2-3 weeks is pushing your luck. Or could it be that you really are not that interested?

First, it had a lot to do with my schedule. I worked two jobs and almost 80 hours a week when we met. He worked when I was off and vice versa.

Secondly, I was at the point in which I had almost given up on relationships all together. He had to do a lot of work on me.

Thirdly, when I did realize that this was something special and not just another "duty" I had to perform, I was more nervous about the experience. I knew that it was going to be different, feel different.

[dave42]

First, it had a lot to do with my schedule. I worked two jobs and almost 80 hours a week when we met. He worked when I was off and vice versa.

Secondly, I was at the point in which I had almost given up on relationships all together. He had to do a lot of work on me.

Thirdly, when I did realize that this was something special and not just another "duty" I had to perform, I was more nervous about the experience. I knew that it was going to be different, feel different.
I hate it when that happens. That work stuff always gets in the way.I think in my case I was wondering if I was really interested. Like maybe I was settling at the time.

[MIGHTY]

I hate it when that happens. That work stuff always gets in the way.I think in my case I was wondering if I was really interested. Like maybe I was settling at the time.

I didn't feel like I was settling, but did have reservations. On our first date he had a teddy bear and a rose waiting in the front seat. Turns out that I had pointed out the bear in the mall about two weeks prior when we were hanging out. He remembered......but, my first thought when I saw the gesture was......" If he thinks he's gonna get sex just because he bought me things, he's got another thing coming." I was pretty messed up regarding relationships and sex. I'm just thankful he was patient.

[sawflyman]

I believe sex is something you work up to. for me there as to be a connection it could be a physical or emotional one but I believe in a connection.

[madmod]

I've said no, but these days I'm so repressed that it's kinda hard to tell .... I guess I'm better off saying that I wouldn't intend to ....

[dave42]

I didn't feel like I was settling, but did have reservations. On our first date he had a teddy bear and a rose waiting in the front seat. Turns out that I had pointed out the bear in the mall about two weeks prior when we were hanging out. He remembered......but, my first thought when I saw the gesture was......" If he thinks he's gonna get sex just because he bought me things, he's got another thing coming." I was pretty messed up regarding relationships and sex. I'm just thankful he was patient.I would say that he was patient. I think he was just trying to win you over at the time. I find it is always better to be friends first and see where it goes.

[Pink4You]

I said yes because if I've known this person for awhile and we just happen to go out on the first date. All that build up,

[scoobertina]

Is it considered your first date or encounter is you have been talking online or on the phone for several weeks or months first?

[OICurready4me]

Is it considered your first date or encounter is you have been talking online or on the phone for several weeks or months first?


That is a damn good question but I would probably have to say even if you've been talking for a long time, that first time you really meet them on a "date" is no different. If you've been talking to them online or on the phone for several months or seeing that person at work every day, there really is no difference, other than distance. If two people hit it off, it will probably happen. It they are like oil and water once they meet, all bets are off.

Me, personally, I would because I feel I give my heart and soul to women I date and they usually realize what kind of guy I am before we go out. And I read somewhere that most women make up there mind about whether they will sleep with a guy within the first 30 seconds of meeting him.

[scoobertina]

Me, personally, I would because I feel I give my heart and soul to women I date and they usually realize what kind of guy I am before we go out. And I read somewhere that most women make up there mind about whether they will sleep with a guy within the first 30 seconds of meeting him.

First off... you are a great guy. A good friend and I can see how a woman would want to be with you..

As far as knowing whether I will sleep with a man within 30 seconds.. no, not always..

[Sandyboots]

I tend to be hesitant to go that far on a first date...I do actually want to know a person first...but then again if there's something there from "hello" then I might.

[pointofnoreturn]

I tend to be hesitant to go that far on a first date...I do actually want to know a person first...but then again if there's something there from "hello" then I might.Hello.....:55

[p.J]

... hell yea!

[whosdaflirt]

... hell yea!

So Jenny...got a preferencde on where our first date should be? ;)

[p.J]

So Jenny...got a preferencde on where our first date should be? ;)

You are there and I am here... got a boat? or better still a plane... now the latter would be fun indeed!

[whosdaflirt]

You are there and I am here... got a boat? or better still a plane... now the latter would be fun indeed!

Well I do have the boat but a plane provides great options too. Can't we try both? :kk

[p.J]

Well I do have the boat but a plane provides great options too. Can't we try both? :kk

Damn! I love a man who is versitile... its a date! :kk

[Lonely_girl]

Guess u had really better talk alot over dinner for me to have sex on the first date.......what happened to the 3rd date rule???

[fishon]

It would be interesting to see how the vote would be had it been categorized into male and female responses....as a guy, my vote is aaahhh, [B]YES

[WandaRing]

I think sex is such an emotional part of who we are; to give it away to a person you just met is selling yourself out. I like to get to know the person first on a live chat or on the phone, ask questions, hear a voice; kind of feel the person out to see if there are some similar interests there.

Then if there is a bit of a spark, meet in a public place and spend some time together, see if there is a connection…I’m not saying love, but more of a feeling of …okay this person feels safe, or just has something that intrigues you, something that makes you want to come back.

We are after all humans, we love, we hate, we all have feelings and needs, we sometimes want sex…it just needs to be respectful, caring, safe, and agreeable to both parties.

[Micwar]

I personally would take a BJ on the first date but that's it.....if there was more then why have a 2nd date...:lmao

[MCat]

I personally would take a BJ on the first date but that's it.....if there was more then why have a 2nd date...:lmao

I think a BJ would be too personal for a first date....my poor husband waited 30 years for a proper one....god if there were a second man in my life think how long the poor bugger would have to wait....:D

[Micwar]

I think a BJ would be too personal for a first date....my poor husband waited 30 years for a proper one....god if there were a second man in my life think how long the poor bugger would have to wait....:D

Didn't I meet you in kindergarten?? Way over the 30 years mark....:55

[MCat]

Didn't I meet you in kindergarten?? Way over the 30 years mark....:55

Not unless your name is Tony and I kissed you behind the piano...;)

[Micwar]

Not unless your name is Tony and I kissed you behind the piano...;)

I remember a piano.......but then at that age I had a lot of girls behind the piano....

[scoobertina]

Yes, I am easy..

[Han Solo]

Yes, I am easy..
Wait, I thought you liked it hard???:lmao

[scoobertina]

Wait, I thought you liked it hard???:lmao
Shhh Han, quit telling everyone what I like.. they don't know, I want to break them in gently...

[Han Solo]

Shhh Han, quit telling everyone what I like.. they don't know, I want to break them in gently...
OK, OK....I won't tell anyone as long as you take me out on date and have sex with me! LOL

[scoobertina]

OK, OK....I won't tell anyone as long as you take me out on date and have sex with me! LOL

Han you are on... name the place, the time, and date...

[Wil]

...would have to be someone very special...ask me 25 yrs ago and there was no question...

[cherokeered]

Not likely...unless it was someone I have known and been planning somethig with for a while....

[hank69]

yep..... I sure wood....if I could get wood....how much wood could a wood chuck....Ohhh never mind....

[thickitalian]

A nice kiss for a first date would be just fine with me...

I think a BJ would be too personal for a first date....my poor husband waited 30 years for a proper one....god if there were a second man in my life think how long the poor bugger would have to wait....:D

[noodlegurl]

I have to admit in my younger days I have, but now that has changed....

[thickitalian]

Aw Mic...you're a hell of a sport letting the gals know you would take a blow job on a first date....and that's it...almost like you're letting them off easy...I'd prefer a nice kiss on the lips and enjoy the anticipation of my second date



I personally would take a BJ on the first date but that's it.....if there was more then why have a 2nd date...:lmao

[cheerymissy_34]

been there done that..ONCE...dont think it will ever happen again..because when i see this guy now its sooooo strange to be around him and knowing what we did..omg

[masterx1412]

Well, I am a guy....so yes. :) Ok, seriously, if we clicked and there was chemistry, why not.

[thickitalian]

It happens Cheery....and it should be looked at for what it was...excitement and lust out of control as you both allowed it to happen....there should be no odd feelings unless there was something about this guy you did not like? If the guy thinks you love him because of it...just put him in his place fast and thank him for the needed relaxation....and if he becomes a pest, just tell him that he was a sympathy date....:D Seriously though, I'm obviously joking with you but don't feel like you did something wrong...it happens all the time to ppl we don't see...so what's the difference in reality?

My thoughts...


been there done that..ONCE...dont think it will ever happen again..because when i see this guy now its sooooo strange to be around him and knowing what we did..omg

[UltimateNaneki]

I did last week-end and man was it exciting...I was so ready to be with him....and he was so wanting to be with me. There was nothing that would have been able to stop us, except for the room not being ready yet:lmao :lmao :lmao

[PlayfulMale69]

I did last week-end and man was it exciting...I was so ready to be with him....and he was so wanting to be with me. There was nothing that would have been able to stop us, except for the room not being ready yet:lmao :lmao :lmao

I am so glad for you. I know you have been waiting for this for a long time. :kk

[masterx1412]

Who needs a room! :)

[longtall4u]

If the cirCUMstances were right, I wouldn't be able to say NO!:knuddel:

[p.a]

If she were willing I would. Tommorrow is never promised.

[Lacey]

No I wouldn't.I think I have something special to give and I am picky who I touch,kiss or have sex with,always been that way.

[Postman]

Totally depends on the lady and the situation. But its a little scary out there and the things you can get can kill you.

[longtall4u]

Yes

[purring]

Would you consider it a first date if it was your first meeting but you met online?

I would say yes to that one..
but no to a first date, without ever really knowing about them

[YLS]

I really doubt it. But one can never say never!

[Cotties]

Without a doubt yes

[duanehofner]

I would never presume to make the decision on my own though. I would have to have some very clear indicators it was a mutual desire.

[megan363]

Most probably not. I would prefer to know more about the person first before proceeding with something so intimate.

[secretsam]

no

[mrclark76]

Depends on the woman and the situation

[p.a]

I'm a dog in heat and desperate so yes I probably will.

[flamengo130]

This is a tough question. my outer personna shows "yes" without any thought. My inner personna says "no". First encounter sex can be scary in this day and age...just a "boink..and be gone". Guess alot of it would depend on the circumstances and the other person

[pointofnoreturn]

Only and only if........they asked....:D

[Vicious305]

Only and only if........they asked....:D

can we?:wa:

[Vicious305]

oops forgot, gotta wait my turn... shucks

[weavingdesire]

If I already felt that I knew them well enough, I don't see why not.

[cherokeered]

No...never have and never would......

[AL(m)]

Would have to say that it would depend on the chemistry between us......... but would not rule it out........

[weavingdesire]

No...never have and never would......

Nice icon, darlin'. :)

[cherokeered]

Nice icon, darlin'. :)

it's my actual eye....lol

I'm watching y'all......:)

[weavingdesire]

it's my actual eye....lol

I'm watching y'all......:)

I guessed ... and I don't mind being watched. ;)

[cherokeered]

I guessed ... and I don't mind being watched. ;)


good...cause I like to watch....:o

[peaches]

This is a tough question. my outer personna shows "yes" without any thought. My inner personna says "no". First encounter sex can be scary in this day and age...just a "boink..and be gone". Guess alot of it would depend on the circumstances and the other person
I agree would have to depend on the two people involved. But sex on a first date should be spontanious and not over thought about.

[weavingdesire]

good...cause I like to watch....:o

But not to participate? :cry:

[scoobertina]

If I felt that connection I would.. but I am one that would need to feel something... sex is not something I give up lightly..

[pointofnoreturn]

gimme gimme some luvin

[weavingdesire]

If I felt that connection I would.. but I am one that would need to feel something... sex is not something I give up lightly..

Absolutely ... there would have to be a VERY strong connection. But I can see where that might happen ... particularly if it were the first rl encounter with someone I'd been speaking to for quite a while online. In fact, that's how it worked with my wife. ;)

[oc_guy_32]

If there is a strong connection, I would and have...

[laidback]

This is a tough question. my outer personna shows "yes" without any thought. My inner personna says "no". First encounter sex can be scary in this day and age...just a "boink..and be gone". Guess alot of it would depend on the circumstances and the other person


I agree with flamengo130! In today's world there are just too many people wh o get pleasure and satisfaction by hurting others...

[Postman]

Depending on the partner and the situation...............Yes

[MCat]

With my newly aquired mindset.....hell yeahh....lol

[GeekMaster]

With my newly aquired mindset.....hell yeahh....lol

Would you go on a date with me this Saturday???:D

[MCat]

Would you go on a date with me this Saturday???:D

Pick me up at 7....:dd

[GeekMaster]

Pick me up at 7....:dd

Bringing my Conversion Van!! :lf :sex

[MCat]

Bringing my Conversion Van!! :lf :sex

Forget that.....at 50 years of age I need a great bed with great sheets ;)

[chiboy_67]

Forget that.....at 50 years of age I need a great bed with great sheets ;)

Bringing my moving truck!