Is Sex Fun Or All Business?Any difference with making love and having sex?

[eroticjoy]

I've had alot of people tell me that the term 'makeing love' is over rated. thats its just having sex. that makeing love is out of style. Other people try to tell me 'oh its all the same thing .. just a different way of saying it'.. So whats your opinion on the differences of 'having sex.' ... and 'makeing love'?

[tiger50]

I've had alot of people tell me that the term 'makeing love' is over rated. thats its just having sex. that makeing love is out of style. Other people try to tell me 'oh its all the same thing .. just a different way of saying it'.. So whats your opinion on the differences of 'having sex.' ... and 'makeing love'?

mmmm nooo not overrated, making love is an incredible union, but sometimes we just have sex for fun, nothing wrong with that either.
"Out of style" i fail to understand.
Think these "people" telling you that are wankers...
OHHHHH you ride bikes????? come for a ride with me on the great ocean road... :kk

[eroticjoy]

One guy even told me their was 'makeing love'.. 'having sex' and then just plain down right Fuc_ing... ! now what is the difference in having sex and fuc_ing? I dont even understand that one..

[tiger50]

sorry, forgot my manners, havent seen you here before, so welcome, enjoy and have fun....

[eroticjoy]

sorry, forgot my manners, havent seen you here before, so welcome, enjoy and have fun....

Thanks for the welcome. i just joined about an hour ago. so was just reading some of the threads.

[spare_change]

One guy even told me their was 'makeing love'.. 'having sex' and then just plain down right Fuc_ing... ! now what is the difference in having sex and fuc_ing? I dont even understand that one..

Fortunately, I have a two day, hands-on, course that will help you to understand. Would you like to register?

[eroticjoy]

Fortunately, I have a two day, hands-on, course that will help you to understand. Would you like to register?

Whats the admission fee?????????

[tiger50]

Bloody ell spare, give the lady some time...lol....

[eroticjoy]

well tiger i guess hes just a fast worker... lol

[Barkiss]

Whats the admission fee?????????

He pays you...

[Barkiss]

Welcome by the way... :)

[eroticjoy]

Thanks for the welcome barkiss,,, if he pays me i may have to become a life time member... LOL

[firefly]

Welcome erotic!

[eroticjoy]

Welcome erotic!

Thanks for the welcome firefly.. :lf Hope to get to know all of you.

[eroticjoy]

Thanks for the welcome firefly.. :lf Hope to get to know all of you. am still learning my way around.

[firefly]

am still learning my way around.

I don't know how close we are....I'm in the panhandle of Texas....see now I am going to have to go look that up because I suck at geography! :D

[eroticjoy]

I don't know how close we are....I'm in the panhandle of Texas....see now I am going to have to go look that up because I suck at geography! :D

Never mind fire... it was my mistake... maybe just wishful thinking... LOL

[firefly]

Never mind fire... it was my mistake... maybe just wishful thinking... LOL

Well you know....I guess Indiana isn't that far away! ;)

[eroticjoy]

Well you know....I guess Indiana isn't that far away! ;)

yeah right... meet you for a drink or coffee in 15 minutes... LOL

[tiger50]

kk i'll come tooo mmmm will take me a few days to get there....

[eroticjoy]

kk i'll come tooo mmmm will take me a few days to get there....

sure... come on over... the more the merrier... hey lets just have a great big forum party...:D

[tiger50]

lol.... kk will bring a flagon of woubla, and my pet roo...

[eroticjoy]

and what pray tell is your pet? we are NOT getting THAT kinky... LOL

[tiger50]

pet Kangaroo, its cool..lol...

[Norfolkdave]

Your Kangeroo is always a jump ahead of you thats why you want to bring it LOL

[Norfolkdave]

Whats the admission fee?????????

Take no notice of him their isnt any fee as such LOL:D

[MCat]

I've had alot of people tell me that the term 'makeing love' is over rated. thats its just having sex. that makeing love is out of style. Other people try to tell me 'oh its all the same thing .. just a different way of saying it'.. So whats your opinion on the differences of 'having sex.' ... and 'makeing love'?

Those people have never "Made Love" if they think its overrated, wait, what am I thinking??? I shouldn't respond to this inquiry...I have never had sex with someone I didn't love. Hank was and is my only sex partner. Sometimes we have fast dirty sex, sometimes its slow, nice, tender...to me its all making love with the love of my life. :sex

[MCat]

Fortunately, I have a two day, hands-on, course that will help you to understand. Would you like to register?

In my next life I would like to take your class....can I sign up now? :kk

[spare_change]

Whats the admission fee?????????

There is no admission fee -- but, you must commit to a series of intensive one-on-one training sessions that focus on demonstrating the differences between making love, having sex, and just plain old f*cking. Be aware, however, it is not a course for the faint of heart - you must be ready, you must be willing, and most of all, you must be breathing!

[spare_change]

In my next life I would like to take your class....can I sign up now? :kk


In your next life, you can be Teacher's Pet!!! Come on down!!

[Norfolkdave]

Hey Man can I be the blackboard boy! LOL

[Penny]

Welcome to the site :kk Thats a heavy question you asked. Having sex is two people that think they are in love will do. Fucking is when you dont care and just want to fuck.

[tiger50]

Your Kangeroo is always a jump ahead of you thats why you want to bring it LOL

Sadly that's true Dave...

[eroticjoy]

Your Kangeroo is always a jump ahead of you thats why you want to bring it LOL

are you saying the kangeroo is 'faster' than tiger??? lol

[tiger50]

are you saying the kangeroo is 'faster' than tiger??? lol

lol, afraid so, u ever seen one of those things run..... :D

[eroticjoy]

well... only in the movies.

[tiger50]

well... only in the movies.

mmm if i could fit the bloody thing with a saddle, i wouldnt need a car.... :lmao

[eroticjoy]

mmm if i could fit the bloody thing with a saddle, i wouldnt need a car.... :lmao

LOL....but Kangaroos dont have back seats.... :lmao

[tiger50]

Yeh but they have a pouch up front..lol

[Jy]

There is a huge difference between mkaing love and fucking or having sex. You can only make love with someone you truly care for, but you can screw anyone, even one you love. I've made beautiful passionate love and had hot, rough fucking with the same partner. It depends on the location, the ambience, both partner's moods, everything.

[tiger50]

There is a huge difference between mkaing love and fucking or having sex. You can only make love with someone you truly care for, but you can screw anyone, even one you love. I've made beautiful passionate love and had hot, rough fucking with the same partner. It depends on the location, the ambience, both partner's moods, everything.

Geez, cant imagine anyone game enuf to get rough with you,..lol except me... :lmao

[Jy]

Not sure if I'd call that being game or just suicidal.

[Lena]

Well there is the nice rough and there is the other rough!!

[Jy]

Sorry sis, I only have one rough!

[tiger50]

Awwww shit takin me roo an goin ome.... :(

[Jy]

But don't you want to know how rough my rough is Tiger??




I think I scared him Lena!

[tiger50]

But don't you want to know how rough my rough is Tiger??




I think I scared him Lena!

kkk give me a feel of it then... :nu

[eroticjoy]

Take no notice of him their isnt any fee as such LOL:D

thats nice to know.. then sign me up.. :dd

[eroticjoy]

There is no admission fee -- but, you must commit to a series of intensive one-on-one training sessions that focus on demonstrating the differences between making love, having sex, and just plain old f*cking. Be aware, however, it is not a course for the faint of heart - you must be ready, you must be willing, and most of all, you must be breathing!

Can i sign up for a lifetime membership?:sex

[Lena]

Sign up for as long as you want Eroticjoy!!

[Lena]

kkk give me a feel of it then... :nu

Don't know whether you really want to know how rough her rough is!!
You might regret it!!!

[tiger50]

dont care, i ava bloody superman outfit....

[Lena]

It better be a real super super one!!
And what about when it comes off???

[tiger50]

It better be a real super super one!!
And what about when it comes off???

yeh well ave a super c c co coc.. aw shit am stuttering, ang on , ow u gunna get that off???? :nu

[sex_kitten_4u]

There is a huge difference between mkaing love and fucking or having sex. You can only make love with someone you truly care for, but you can screw anyone, even one you love. I've made beautiful passionate love and had hot, rough fucking with the same partner. It depends on the location, the ambience, both partner's moods, everything.



well said sis could not have put it better myself

[tiger50]

no comment,

[Lena]

yeh well ave a super c c co coc.. aw shit am stuttering, ang on , ow u gunna get that off???? :nu

You think I am going to tell you that??

[firefly]

There is a huge difference between mkaing love and fucking or having sex. You can only make love with someone you truly care for, but you can screw anyone, even one you love. I've made beautiful passionate love and had hot, rough fucking with the same partner. It depends on the location, the ambience, both partner's moods, everything.

Exactly....very eloquent.

[sweetgapeach]

There is a huge difference between mkaing love and fucking or having sex. You can only make love with someone you truly care for, but you can screw anyone, even one you love. I've made beautiful passionate love and had hot, rough fucking with the same partner. It depends on the location, the ambience, both partner's moods, everything.


Exactly !!

[Trev]

There is a huge difference between mkaing love and fucking or having sex. You can only make love with someone you truly care for, but you can screw anyone, even one you love. I've made beautiful passionate love and had hot, rough fucking with the same partner. It depends on the location, the ambience, both partner's moods, everything.

I just want to give one of them a try. Any would do right now.:D

[Norfolkdave]

"There is a huge difference between mkaing love and fucking or having sex. You can only make love with someone you truly care for, but you can screw anyone, even one you love. I've made beautiful passionate love and had hot, rough fucking with the same partner. It depends on the location, the ambience, both partner's moods, everything".................................................. .

Words...just words....heh heh heh:lmao let me leave you with a more mundane observation. It's impossible to "make love" after two or three margaritas, even if you're head over heels with the person you're in bed with. In other words, sauce equals sex.:D

[tiger50]

yeh made love to margarita once, just dont remember it.....

[Jy]

...and thanks for those pearls of wisdom Dave...

[Sinjin Kane]

Margarita's that what for dinner tonight!!

Making love is good but giving her a good hard pound til she cant take it any more is what I like to do!

[goodgirl12]

Love making is when you care for that one and onle person
sex is just fu..... when your finished you hop in th shower and wash it all away

[tiger50]

Love making is when you care for that one and onle person
sex is just fu..... when your finished you hop in th shower and wash it all away

hey thats not a bad call at all.... :) :55

[goodgirl12]

Tiger cam is off so now you can't see me. ha ha ha ha

[Marika]

Did you get my IM?

Let's go play with the boys! or, let them play with us!

[goodgirl12]

everyone is sleping.... CRAP

[goodgirl12]

everyone is sleping.... CRAP so it's the fingers AGAIN lol

[SirFox]

everyone is sleping.... CRAP so it's the fingers AGAIN lol

WRONG GOOD GIRL : Not EVERYONE is sleeping.......

[yaser]

WRONG GOOD GIRL : Not EVERYONE is sleeping.......ffox we have a saying water sleeps but snakes never... You are snake a kind man.

[yaser]

everyone is sleping.... CRAP Goodgirl,Our eyes are closed but we are just watching you secretly.Don't touch us...

[hank69]

Love making is when you care for that one and onle person
sex is just fu..... when your finished you hop in th shower and wash it all away


....OK....;)

[yaser]

Love making is when you care for that one and onle person
sex is just fu..... when your finished you hop in th shower and wash it all awayWhich one do you want now,goodgirl?:sex

[yaser]

You can make love with the one you love but make sex with the others..So you cannot make love with everybody...

[Marika]

Apples and oranges.

You grew up in the 60's.
Read your sentence back and see if it makes sense.
I love the one I'm with. Love the one your with.

If your paraphrasing CSN &Y,
then, It''s love the one your with.
Point?

[goodgirl12]

Thank you Marika

[flamengo130]

now i'm totally confused. it's love with the one you're with...and sex with the one you're not? so do i love myself or is it only sex?

[goodgirl12]

f K if I know

[tiger50]

So you cannot make love with everybody...

mmm yeh but u can give it a fair try....:lmao

[yaser]

Apples and oranges.

You grew up in the 60's.
Read your sentence back and see if it makes sense.
I love the one I'm with. Love the one your with.

If your paraphrasing CSN &Y,
then, It''s love the one your with.
Point?,Thank you for warning,MArika.But you mxied my mind.Do you mean if I am with you then I will love you or if I love you I will be with you....But here we are discusssing the difference between the mechanical sex and emotional love making.In one of your messages you sent you wrote 'Whenever--wherever--who whoever! 'I cannot be with anyone emotionally...but mecahnically yes my dear.

[yaser]

mmm yeh but u can give it a fair try....:lmaoTiger it is not that bad idea...if I fiid one I will try her :sex fairly...

[cherokeered]

Is there a difference....everytime I have sex... am making love to the man I am with...I have not been with many...physically 2...I do not have sex with just anyone...

I suppose its in the emotional connection you feel...and how you choose to say it...everyone can have sex...but is it always like making love...no it isnt...so yes there is a difference....it may be subtle...but it's there...

Cherokee....

[funluvinga]

Yes....major difference. Sex is the act. Making love is the emotion involved with it.

[jman]

Well put and both can be enjoyable

[sparkle889beach]

Your Kangeroo is always a jump ahead of you thats why you want to bring it LOL


:lmao almost forgot what this thread was about...

Down right fu--ng is all i want to know.:wa:

[yaser]

:lmao almost forgot what this thread was about...

Down right fu--ng is all i want to know.:wa:Sparkle this thread is about having sex and making love.Not only fucking.:kk

[sparkle889beach]

Sparkle this thread is about having sex and making love.Not only fucking.:kk


So what are your views on sex and making out...ooops, i meant making love?:dd

[yaser]

So what are your views on sex and making out...ooops, i meant making love?:ddIn sex there are two different people and in making love there is only one as a inspepa:kkrable whole..

[dartgirl]

Personally I have never understood why people call sex making love. It is probably just my own life experieces that make me feel this way but loving someone has absolutely nothing to do with sex. Sex is a bodily function that doesn't require anything but mutual attraction. Love is something different, it can't happen with just anyone and expressing it can be done in a million different ways.

[dave42]

Big difference, Sex is just sex, It satisfies the body, Making love on the other hand satisfies both the body, mind and soul. It's like the ultimate high to me. I get a lot more out of being in bed with someone that I connect with emotionally and mentally. A little romance and passion. This is why my marriage is pretty much on the brink of failure. It has been reduced to pretty much just sex. Satisfies the body but not the mind. Where does lust fit in to all this? I guess there is a disconnect in my relationship and its difficult to pinpoint.

[Zpanther]

Complicated subject. Several different kinds of love.. for a family member, agape love, etc. Sex is one, if not the best, method of expressing love, but recreational sex can be fun and exciting too (and no love need be involved).

[XMONKEYLOVINSX]

yes there is a difference u do not make love on a one night stand u just have sex and release tention i think the term making love should only be used when u have sex with someone u do love and it is so passoinate that you want to pause the moment and never want to leave sex is releasing tention with an everyday random joe that you havent to find sexually attractive or well after a couple drinks they are attractive any ways:lmao

[MIGHTY]

Having sex ,to me, involves those qiuckies before work, when the child is occupied, or when you only have a few minutes to spare. It can be good and intense but just sex never the less. Making love ,on the other hand, does involve an emotional connection, in my opinion. There are those times when I just can't get enough of him. I want to pull him in closer, engulf him. I reach this erotic peak where enough is never enough and ,I want to feel him from the inside. This is where the love making comes in. I land on an entirely different plain.:)

[sparkle889beach]

Having sex ,to me, involves those qiuckies before work, when the child is occupied, or when you only have a few minutes to spare. It can be good and intense but just sex never the less. Making love ,on the other hand, does involve an emotional connection, in my opinion. There are those times when I just can't get enough of him. I want to pull him in closer, engulf him. I reach this erotic peak where enough is never enough and ,I want to feel him from the inside. This is where the love making comes in. I land on an entirely different plain.:)

Yup, that's the best description of Making love...didn't know it could be put in words :wa:

[sparkle889beach]

Big difference, Sex is just sex, It satisfies the body, Making love on the other hand satisfies both the body, mind and soul. It's like the ultimate high to me. I get a lot more out of being in bed with someone that I connect with emotionally and mentally. A little romance and passion. This is why my marriage is pretty much on the brink of failure. It has been reduced to pretty much just sex. Satisfies the body but not the mind. Where does lust fit in to all this? I guess there is a disconnect in my relationship and its difficult to pinpoint.


So when are we going for the 'ultimate high' stud:knuddel: ?

Have you tried discussing this with your wife?:wa: Maybe she can help you figure it out...Its just a thought:)

[yaser]

yes there is a difference u do not make love on a one night stand u just have sex and release tention i think the term making love should only be used when u have sex with someone u do love and it is so passoinate that you want to pause the moment and never want to leave sex is releasing tention with an everyday random joe that you havent to find sexually attractive or well after a couple drinks they are attractive any ways:lmao
My feeling to you is not related to drinking.You are always attractive to my eyes and heart. :kk

[yaser]

Personally I have never understood why people call sex making love. It is probably just my own life experieces that make me feel this way but loving someone has absolutely nothing to do with sex. Sex is a bodily function that doesn't require anything but mutual attraction. Love is something different, it can't happen with just anyone and expressing it can be done in a million different ways.
I would like to know how you will express your feelings of love to me.. ;)

[clueless32m]

Like most everyone stated already, yes there is a difference between making love and sex. With that being said, I'll take sex any time I can get it!

[altoids69]

Like most everyone stated already, yes there is a difference between making love and sex. With that being said, I'll take sex any time I can get it!

I like the way you think!!!

[nicenkinkyguy]

First off ,Hello and welcome eroticjoy! I hope you find this site as intriguing and fun as me. To answer your question with my opionion I think that there are different levels of sex. Love making, grunge f#!king, angry sex, passionate sex, make up sex..... I think it all depends on the two people that are about to have sex and why they are about too.

[Leyna]

I've had alot of people tell me that the term 'makeing love' is over rated. thats its just having sex. that makeing love is out of style. Other people try to tell me 'oh its all the same thing .. just a different way of saying it'.. So whats your opinion on the differences of 'having sex.' ... and 'makeing love'?

I'll be honest...I have never in my life used the term "making love". But to me, I always thought that "making love" meant when you did it slowly, and "having sex" meant BANGING YOUR BRAINS OUT! haha

[OICurready4me]

I'll be honest...I have never in my life used the term "making love". But to me, I always thought that "making love" meant when you did it slowly, and "having sex" meant BANGING YOUR BRAINS OUT! haha


Nicely put!!!

[OICurready4me]

Like most everyone stated already, yes there is a difference between making love and sex. With that being said, I'll take sex any time I can get it!



You're not the only one. If it weren't for lack of sex, I wouldn't be so horny.

[OICurready4me]

yes there is a difference u do not make love on a one night stand u just have sex and release tention i think the term making love should only be used when u have sex with someone u do love and it is so passoinate that you want to pause the moment and never want to leave sex is releasing tention with an everyday random joe that you havent to find sexually attractive or well after a couple drinks they are attractive any ways:lmao




I agree, making love is what's done between two people who are in a relationship that truly matters. It is a long drawn out affair, over the course of several hours, lots of foreplay, intimacy. Sex is all out, get it on, ride it hard, yell, scream, screwing that two people in love can do as well as a one night stand who is just trying to blow off steam.

[longnhard32]

my feeling is if you make love you care about that person :knuddel: . if you have sex it is like a one nite stand . just sex:sex

[SirFox]

Funny...over here I have often heard that you make love anytime whether it is a one night stand or a much longer relationship

[Suz]

my feeling is if you make love you care about that person :knuddel: . if you have sex it is like a one nite stand . just sex:sex

that's how I feel about it. I've done the one night stands years ago in college. I don't know if I would like them now. If I ever cheat I want my first time to be with someone I care about.

[joshcamp69]

Is cyber cheating then, or can that just be extra fun to spice up life?

[Suz]

cheating to me is actually having sex, although I do think cyber sex is a form of it. To each their own set of rules to follow.

[SirFox]

There are many ways to look at cybering just as there are ways to look at porno. I think the two are about equal where there exists a LOVING MARRIAGE and MUTUAL RESPECT AND CONFIDENCE in the other.

Seems to me that marriage has to be a partnership.

A couple has to make their rules as they go along. As on the Forum and as in life, too many women or men seem to make the decision for the couple...when the decision is not really a partnership.

In marriage a couple can have sex as they can make love. Not everytime that a couple has sex they make love and vice versa. Times they are a changin'

We have to remember that most of us come to Society with the rules of the game already inscribed within us, and that those emanate from our parent's who got theirs from their parents. That is one of the reason why we are so behind in our attitudes towards sex and life in general

[Suz]

There are many ways to look at cybering just as there are ways to look at porno. I think the two are about equal where there exists a LOVING MARRIAGE and MUTUAL RESPECT AND CONFIDENCE in the other.

Seems to me that marriage has to be a partnership.

A couple has to make their rules as they go along. As on the Forum and as in life, too many women or men seem to make the decision for the couple...when the decision is not really a partnership.

In marriage a couple can have sex as they can make love. Not everytime that a couple has sex they make love and vice versa. Times they are a changin'

We have to remember that most of us come to Society with the rules of the game already inscribed within us, and that those emanate from our parent's who got theirs from their parents. That is one of the reason why we are so behind in our attitudes towards sex and life in general


I love the way your mind thinks

[SirFox]

I love the way your mind thinks

What was that AVIS motto, "We try harder?" :whee:

[gvikfan]

i believe making love is when two people have sex.they are both into it mentally,lovingly,passionately,there love brings them to a level that is amazing.
having sex is pretty good too.it involves lust more than love.

[Cotties]

7 years of marriage I've never felt like I've made love..but in the early days the lust was so intense I loved iti believe making love is when two people have sex.they are both into it mentally,lovingly,passionately,there love brings them to a level that is amazing.
having sex is pretty good too.it involves lust more than love.

[Rmb]

Sex you can get anywhere...Love is special ...with sex...total happiness.

[Cotties]

I thought you didn't get any at home ...wait...how do you knowSex you can get anywhere...Love is special ...with sex...total happiness.

[Rmb]

I thought you didn't get any at home ...wait...how do you know
Come on my friend...guess :) :)

[Sandy]

sex and making love are diff.



sex is because your horny


making love is sharing everything

[pinstriper23]

Definitely different, but can do both in one session! Sometimes you have to fuck like rabbits, other times you explore the warren a bit more.

[p.J]

I don't think its about feelings per se; sex is about fun and feral passion, about games, yea its about getting your rocks off...

Making love is about cherishing another person, a connection with each other, tenderness.

[BlueEyedBoy]

Yes Making love and Sex are different.

[G...G]

I agree!!



sex and making love are diff.



sex is because your horny


making love is sharing everything

[peaches]

There is a difference in making love and having sex...making love comes from the heart and soul...it should mean you car or love that person deeply. Anyone can have sex it's human nature, you have the urge and act upon it. Means nothing but your own satisfaction. Making love is an art and should be treasured and cherished.

[OICurready4me]

There is a difference in making love and having sex...making love comes from the heart and soul...it should mean you car or love that person deeply. Anyone can have sex it's human nature, you have the urge and act upon it. Means nothing but your own satisfaction. Making love is an art and should be treasured and cherished.


good answer!

[Inspector72]

I don't think its about feelings per se; sex is about fun and feral passion, about games, yea its about getting your rocks off...

Making love is about cherishing another person, a connection with each other, tenderness.

Very well said Professor Jen! But can you have a mix of the two? And what if one wants to make love while the other wants to have sex?:sc

[massage mike]

i agree with peaches alll the way

[Inspector72]

I totally agree! Not long ago I got some cds from a friend on a minister in Texas whose message was Big Sex-A Sexual Revolution. Based on the Bible God designed sex and love for us...and he wants us to have Big Sex and OFTEN! However some do-gooder had to throw a wrench in the gear and now Society has perverted what was really intended for us. It is self evident as we look at other countries...like the UK where sex more open than here in the states. And is it any wonder why the US leads in the highest divorce rates, drug use, overwieght people, etc. Have we bought destruction upon ourselves starting in a loving and sexual relationship or marriage? I would say yes, as Fox you stated every well about we have "Rules" that came to us from other sources other than our own being. Hence, I dare to be different...and I have already challenged some people's thinking here. So yes, Love and Sex are different, but are they in line with who you are? Or what society and our sphere of influences placed within you? Just something to think about there!:55



There are many ways to look at cybering just as there are ways to look at porno. I think the two are about equal where there exists a LOVING MARRIAGE and MUTUAL RESPECT AND CONFIDENCE in the other.

Seems to me that marriage has to be a partnership.

A couple has to make their rules as they go along. As on the Forum and as in life, too many women or men seem to make the decision for the couple...when the decision is not really a partnership.

In marriage a couple can have sex as they can make love. Not everytime that a couple has sex they make love and vice versa. Times they are a changin'

We have to remember that most of us come to Society with the rules of the game already inscribed within us, and that those emanate from our parent's who got theirs from their parents. That is one of the reason why we are so behind in our attitudes towards sex and life in general

[pointofnoreturn]

I think they are two different things, and have not experienced making love since/????

[Willy S]

there's a difference, but which to prefer is hard to say

[NYCMasterplumber]

Making love is when you pack a lunch as your going to be there a while and not a wham bam get the hell out of there mam

Quickies are ok but making love with lots of before and after play is great

[pixiegirl]

Sex is about fulfilling a physical need yours, theirs or both.

Making love is fulfilling an emotional and spiritual need for both of you, it can never be one-sided.

[letterman01]

I think there is a difference. I also think that's just a personal opinion.

[PlayfulMale69]

oh yeah there is a huge difference. Making love is doing things for your parntners pleasure, seeking to give more and more pleasure to your lover.

Sex is just masturbation with another. ;)

[lotsotime]

:sc i guess i missed out on alot over the years, it's almost always been intimate passion, a melding of wants, needs,you know...desire...i've probably only been out with 9 different wemon in the last 36 yrs....but noone ever complained about that part of our relationship, Scropio, ya know...lol...Lots.:55

[tiger50]

Sex is about fulfilling a physical need yours, theirs or both.

Making love is fulfilling an emotional and spiritual need for both of you, it can never be one-sided.

thats a good call pix..:kk

[Zpanther]

hmmm..........The act of fucking is just a phyisical exercise that brings satisfaction. To do it with someone you love is maybe the ultimate way of sharing you're feelings and emotins............

[Cotties]

Yep I like that commentI think there is a difference. I also think that's just a personal opinion.

[Penny]

Do you ever laugh when your having sex? Do you get silly or are you all business?:sex

[rainbowhigh]

Sex is fun for us. Sometimes I smile and laugh - not at George, you understand, but at getting to spend the time with him in that way. He makes it fun for me. I'm very ticklish - so he may be kissing my legs or stomach and touch a spot just right and I will bust out laughing. It's fun - it gives making love a different kind of edge.


(Sometimes it is all business though. There are days when I just need to erm.... you know. And that's fine, too. Nothing wrong with getting down to business.)

[scoobertina]

Fun.....

[RedVixen]

I like to keep it fun :)

[yaser]

I like to keep it fun :)
Vixen I understand that you take it as business mostly... :knuddel:

[yaser]

Living...

[Cotties]

I'm all business:55Do you ever laugh when your having sex? Do you get silly or are you all business?:sex

[p.J]

Do you ever laugh when your having sex? Do you get silly or are you all business?:sex

All of the above; depends on the situation, the man and of course the sex...

[doninorion]

I am in the buisiness of beeing funny, and if sex isnt fun what is it then
???
Could you call it a real drag??? If you asnwer yes to that it might key ya in on why some of ya are here looking for extra fun or companionship

hmmmm

[Dsparate No More]

All fun and then some...:gs

[flirtyCoach]

Fun, FUn, FUN! But there is also some time to get down to business!!!:sex

[pointofnoreturn]

I love to laugh. I love to love. I want both together...NOw don't be laughing at me when I take my clothes off please. That awould not be nice...

[baby face]

Sex is all fun.........how can taking each others clothes off, touching each other, playing with each other.....(we know we all do it) Teasing is always fun, rolling around, riding an amazing ride, and then feeling each other up with all u have. How could that not be fun? Its a blast thats why I want to do it every nite!

[longnhard32]

to keep it lively it has to be fun

[cherokeered]

Both.....whatever is happening will set the tone....I do like to get playful sometimes....lol

[flirtyCoach]

Saddle me up!

[Sneaky]

All business.

I get out my agenda, my stopwatch, my whistle, my clipboard, my pointer, and my post its. We have a schedule, we will stay on time, we will not get side tracked.

Yeah right. :lmao

[Wil]

Sex is all about the fun...the sounds, the faces, the funny hats, the bubble machine...

[Sunfiresix]

It has always been fun, relaxing and super enjoyable whether it is a quickie or a marathon.

[CuriousGeorge]

Sex is FUN BUSINESS!!

[paris]

:lmao :lmao :lmao Sex is all about the fun...the sounds, the faces, the funny hats, the bubble machine...

[MCat]

We have fun....

[bryan3636]

I figure if you pay attention to the business at hand you'll have fun

[IMaLady]

I like to play and have fun with but hubby seems to be all business about it.

[oldandnaked]

Do you ever laugh when your having sex? Do you get silly or are you all business?:sex I don't laugh often, but my partners usually do.

[sexntexx]

I see it both ways sometimes you are ticklish and sometimes is all about the steamy passion. I love to go down on my woman and after she has enough that orgasms that she can't stand anymore then you keep teasing until she laughs or cries. Ten other times the passion is very serious and you can't think of anything but the task at hand.

[hoss]

both fun and buisness ...

[Sunfiresix]

when I am havin fun I get down .... to business...

[whosdaflirt]

There is no question in my mind that there is a difference. For me, sex could be with anyone. I could only make love with someone I love deeply. Someone who has captured my heart, and who I trust to share her heart with me... :kk

[pointofnoreturn]

There is no question in my mind that there is a difference. For me, sex could be with anyone. I could only make love with someone I love deeply. Someone who has captured my heart, and who I trust to share her heart with me... :kkto me making love is when two people are really enjoying each other, and listening and being with each other. having sex is great witht eh bellboy who does not speak english. Does tht make sense. I could make love with a totalstranger. It is the way in which I am with them to me..Hot sex????Making Love????yes please:na

[PunkyBob]

to me making love is when two people are really enjoying each other, and listening and being with each other. having sex is great witht eh bellboy who does not speak english.

Allo? Senorita? C'est moi, *room* service...?

[shorty51000]

there's is a differance just hope everyone can figure this out on their own

[SirFox]

there's is a differance just hope everyone can figure this out on their own

SHORTY: I would be interested in hearing the difference from you.

[MIGHTY]

Sex is a quickie when there is not time. Sex are the actions of taking him and using him and he with me for our immediate pleasure.

Making love, to me, is needing to feel his touch. It is a craving not only for the actions and the pleasure, but for him. Making love is having him there, with me, inside of me, yet he still is not close enough. It is an emotional endeavor.

[IMaLady]

I think the difference is whether or not you heart and emotions are involved.

[milf_hunter916]

I think the term making love is like somethign my parents would say I think sex is sex im not making anything but a great time :)

[baby face]

In the beginning I always wanted to think that making love was the way to say it but after nine years of being married its just a good old fuck......or the best sex ever.....none of this making love crap......fuck me hard baby!

[RedVixen]

I think there is a difference between the two. I'd like to think that making love to someone is slow and deliberate and you feel like one. Sex is all about getting your needs met without a care in the world. Both are great though.

[pointofnoreturn]

yes I would like either or right now thanks..

[Alonelyboy4u]

you can love without having sex. But you can't have sex without loving it.

[milf_hunter916]

yes I would like either or right now thanks..

me too

[UltimateNaneki]

yes there is a difference

Love making: is done gently to you mate and want to please them and they want the same for you.
Having sex: just relieving the wants and desires you have not caring about how the other one feels.

[JCcanU]

I make love to my wife and have sex with others .

[DeTazMan]

I make love to my wife and have sex with others .

I would have to agree with that statement

[Alonelyboy4u]

yes there is a difference

Love making: is done gently to you mate and want to please them and they want the same for you.
Having sex: just relieving the wants and desires you have not caring about how the other one feels.
you can have both and not have either one.I care about how the other feels in both instances. I want to get my partner off and I want to make my partner fell loved.

[OICurready4me]

Without a doubt...


Making love is that time between two people where there are no time constraints so the exploration and adoration of one another knows no boundaries. The needs of the other is even more important than the needs of your own are. The deep caring for the other supercedes all else and the passion that envelopes both of you blocks out all annoyances, disturbances and the good, bad and indifferences of your day becomes oblivious to one another as you both drift off into a world of sensual and sexual bliss.

Sex is the release of pent up sexual energy by two people who are just trying to satisfy their own needs.

[AffableOne]

well stated.....

sex......you can have without too much effort, but the rewards match the investment...

making love entails an enormous investment of emotions, time, and love outside of the physical expression.......but the resultant bliss corresponds with all that was sown into the relationship...

compare a ferry ride to a luxury cruise.......




Without a doubt...


Making love is that time between two people where there are no time constraints so the exploration and adoration of one another knows no boundaries. The needs of the other is even more important than the needs of your own are. The deep caring for the other supercedes all else and the passion that envelopes both of you blocks out all annoyances, disturbances and the good, bad and indifferences of your day becomes oblivious to one another as you both drift off into a world of sensual and sexual bliss.

Sex is the release of pent up sexual energy by two people who are just trying to satisfy their own needs.

[SirFox]

AFFABLE ONE and OIC: BRAVO: excellent posts that proove that there are some thinking people somewhere, not just people who will accept everything and anything! :55 :55 :55

[paris]

Without a doubt...


Making love is that time between two people where there are no time constraints so the exploration and adoration of one another knows no boundaries. The needs of the other is even more important than the needs of your own are. The deep caring for the other supercedes all else and the passion that envelopes both of you blocks out all annoyances, disturbances and the good, bad and indifferences of your day becomes oblivious to one another as you both drift off into a world of sensual and sexual bliss.

Sex is the release of pent up sexual energy by two people who are just trying to satisfy their own needs.

WOW! Incredible post!

[paris]

well stated.....

sex......you can have without too much effort, but the rewards match the investment...

making love entails an enormous investment of emotions, time, and love outside of the physical expression.......but the resultant bliss corresponds with all that was sown into the relationship...

compare a ferry ride to a luxury cruise.......
Also an incredible post!

[OICurready4me]

AFFABLE ONE and OIC: BRAVO: excellent posts that proove that there are some thinking people somewhere, not just people who will accept everything and anything! :55 :55 :55



Thanks, SirFox.

[scoobertina]

OIC and AFF.... wow.. you two are amazing..


oooopps.. sorry, your posts are amazing..

[OICurready4me]

OIC and AFF.... wow.. you two are amazing..


oooopps.. sorry, your posts are amazing..

Thanks, Scoob!

[mysticalwinter]

I believe there is a difference. Making love is something that is beautiful and intimate between two people who love one another very much. When you take your time and enjoy one another's company and even if there is no physical activity but just laying there to me that is making love. Having sex....is well between two people who love each other or not and maybe there is more than two. It can be just as intimate but sometimes it may not be as meaningful.

[w9kw]

well feelings with a partner add alot to my love making where as sex is just fun and wild but not as rewarding as making love

[whosdaflirt]

Sex involves the completion of meeting a physical need. Both people put all of the energy they have into it's enjoyment. They invest every muscle, every ounce of flesh they have in both delivering and experiencing pleasure. When finished and performed well, both parties end up physically exhausted and quite content.

Making love can involve the same physical investment, yet it also involves the deeper contribution of pouring in all of one's heart and soul into the mix. They invest every feeling, every emotion, every ounce of love and care into it. I'll echo OIC's point, it becomes so much more critical to each person that they bring extreme pleasure to their partner...far more focus than on their own physical desires. When finished and performed well, both parties end up physically exhausted, yet also frequently mentally and emotionally drained as well. Sometimes the experience is so strong it can bring about very powerful reactions, such as crying or laughter. It is fully pleasurable as sex is, but adds so much more because making love meets the total needs of both people...physical, mental and emotional.

Plain and simple - I enjoy having sex, but I am addicted to making love...

[Willy S]

Oh yes. Certainly.

[P.R.]

Having sex to me is just hard F*cking, Making love is slow soft kisses, lots of touching, lots of hugging........................

[alex187]

i hammer pussy like its my job

[onceamarine]

When I think about making love I think back to early marriage days. My wife and I would spend hours in bed. We would try new things and then cuddle and try new things again. We would lose count how many times we would climax. When I think about sex I think about having sex with my wife today. We have to sneek it in when our son isn't around. Its fast and always the same.

[AL(m)]

One only needs the body.... the other requires the mind and soul........

[Sabrina]

with hubby....all business! :(


with lover.....all fun!!;) :lf :kk :D :sex :55

[PunkyBob]

with hubby....all business! :(


with lover.....all fun!!;) :lf :kk :D :sex :55

We all need one of those!!

[Sabrina]

We all need one of those!!

they make life oh so spicy.....:55

[scottd]

wife all business,

girlfriend all fun

[Phlirt]

I think sex is sex. In the beginning of a relationship, its that newness, the "Oh My God" feelings. After being married for 7 years, its more of something that just needs to be done.

[scottd]

i agree completelyI think sex is sex. In the beginning of a relationship, its that newness, the "Oh My God" feelings. After being married for 7 years, its more of something that just needs to be done.

[pointofnoreturn]

i agree completelyNeeds to be done does not get done around here. I don't want to need to be done. I want someone to want to do me...;) ?????Did that come out right???:whee:

[AL(m)]

Needs to be done does not get done around here. I don't want to need to be done. I want someone to want to do me...;) ?????Did that come out right???:whee:

Well you know there is someone here that would feel honoured to want to do you....hmmm yessss.
But I agree one cant get any pleasure out of just doing someone for the sake of getting it over with.... its not something you put on the calendar to have done by a certain time.....

[pointofnoreturn]

Well you know there is someone here that would feel honoured to want to do you....hmmm yessss.
But I agree one cant get any pleasure out of just doing someone for the sake of getting it over with.... its not something you put on the calendar to have done by a certain time.....Take aways the honored, and make it hornyier than hell. There is no honor in wanting to be with someone. Lust.;)

[AL(m)]

Take aways the honored, and make it hornyier than hell. There is no honor in wanting to be with someone. Lust.;)

Well Lust is one of those things that adds to the pleasure when it grips you from just walking up to the person and looking at her.....and it sure makes me horny...... :D

[simplygrace]

yes making love your very intimate with the person heart and soul. Sexy your just want to get off.:sex

[OICurready4me]

One thing I know is when I have sex, it makes me feel good for a few hours before I am back to my normal routine.

When I make love, the thoughts and memories of the passion shared, the closeness we had and the intense love that was passed between us, lasts for a long, long time

[pagirl]

One thing I know is when I have sex, it makes me feel good for a few hours before I am back to my normal routine.

When I make love, the thoughts and memories of the passion shared, the closeness we had and the intense love that was passed between us, lasts for a long, long time

I agree with this! Couldn't have said it better myself

[fun2bewith1972]

Having sex is sometimes wam bam thank you mam. Alot of married couples are like this today. Even alot of singles are the same way. I feel when I have sex at home its just sex. Very little kissing and not much communication thereafter.
Love is being able to communicate before during and after sex. If you have a feeling of fulfillment then its love. I'm married and I would sure like to make love to a wonderful woman who is more than just sex.
Oh well guess I'll just have to imagine!