Information about the posts/counts, rep power, alert emails....!

[Lena]

Hello and welcome everyone!
This is just alittle information to help you understand something of how things work in here!
Until you reach 150 posts, you won't be able to do anything except post and read other members' posts/threads!
At 150 posts, you will become a premium member! This will mean that you can read profiles, see other threads, and see some of the picture gallery!
At 500 posts,you will be a Gold member and you will be able to load your own avatar on (keeping this at PG13), use PMs, see another forum with more threads and see the whole of the picture gallery!
If your "Mood" word has disappeared and been replaced by "Notifications" then read, deal with, all your Notifications and your "Mood" will reappear for you to be able to change it!
If you would like an avatar before you reach 500 posts, you just need to send it to Penny or myself, Lena! They will be approved and attached to your profile for you! You will be able to contact both of us at
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com
If you would like a name change or something added to your username such as (m) for male or (f) for female, just let me know!

Silly nonsense posts or posts of one liners in a succession just to get to 150, 500 or 4000 posts for whatever reasons will not be counted and will be taken away and you will just have to start again from where you left off!
The whole idea of the 150 and 500 posts is for everyone to get to know you and you them! (Especially those who have posted their pictures in the Gallery) So please let us all get to know each other alittle better!
The 4000 is for those who have been with us for awhile and been a continous regular visitor!

The Fun Forum is just that, just for playing games and having fun with a smile, the posts in there won't be counted towards the post count.

To stop the alert e-mails telling you that someone has posted on the same threads you have also been posting on, go to the top of the page, click on 'User CP', then on your left 'Edit Options', scroll down to 'Default Thread Subscription Mode', change from 'Subscribe' to 'Do Not subscribe'. That will take care of any future e-mails, but to stop the present ones which you have subscribed to, again on your left in your UserCP click on 'Subscribe threads' and a list of your subscribed threads will show! On the right select which threads you want to delete, then scroll to the bottom and select to delete them!! You may need to go into each thread you have coming in and click on 'Thread Tools' on top of the page, then 'Unsubscribe to this thread'.

To turn all the avatars off, so that they won't be showing...
Go to your UserCP,
On your left under Settings and Options, click on Edit Options!
Scroll down to Thread Display Options, and uncheck the Show Avatars box!

Rep points/power are the little green squares under your name next to your posts!
They are rewarded by other members to you, if they like your posts! You can also give them to others by clicking on the red heart looking thing in a blue circle with a little green +, under the members name! A box will come up, just approve and ok it! You can write something in the box too if you like, before you ok it!
You can see any comments made to you by going to your UserCP page and scroll down, then you can see where you were given the reputations and the comments if any were made!

Admin and moderators.
Proprietor, Administrator = Penny
Site manager/Administrator = Lena
Super Moderator = Barkiss
Moderators = Cotties, Momma
Brink, PAgirl, Redcat, Shawn_N_Sandiego


Enjoy your time here with us, and we all look forward to reading your posts and getting to know you!

Please also remember that this is a flirting site mainly for married people, but singles are welcome too! A place where we can come to have alittle bit of fun and make friends, or even rant, but it is not a pick up site, so please treat everyone with respect!
Thank you.

P.S
Please do not add children into any pictures you put in the gallery/albums, when you reach 150 posts, before that you won't be able to see the gallery/albums so not much point putting any in there 'till then.
Also could you make sure they are only of yourself without anyone else in them.
Thank you.

[JCcanU]

Sounds fair enough guess you see a lot of truble here??

[tj_uk]

can we request to be upgraded to premium membership? I've seen a few posts that seem to suggest this...it would be great at least to be able to view profiles... and of course I'd keep posting, I'm enjoying it too much not to!!

[Lena]

can we request to be upgraded to premium membership? I've seen a few posts that seem to suggest this...it would be great at least to be able to view profiles... and of course I'd keep posting, I'm enjoying it too much not to!!
Errrrr..... nope!! You will have to work hard on writing some nice posts!!!:)
As it says the whole idea is everyone getting to know each other through each other's postings! Just enjoy yourself with all the posts you can read and write!!
Good luck!!:wa:

[hoss]

can we request to be upgraded to premium membership? I've seen a few posts that seem to suggest this...it would be great at least to be able to view profiles... and of course I'd keep posting, I'm enjoying it too much not to!!


ok ..that makes 303 ....i was number 285 and it didnt work then ...:lmao

welcome to the site

[Alonelyboy4u]

oh sure lets just Laugh at the newbies

[Mountainman27]

Hello all Im new here on the site.Thought I would take a minute to tell a little about me.I am a 27 yo Man married my wife is 35. Have 2 stepsons been married a little over a year. Every day is a new day. Have a Wonderful day yall.

[RedVixen]

Welcome to the site Mountainman :wa:

[Pink4You]

Welcome Mountain man. I'm new here as well. See ya around.

[TheTurtle]

Me too! Me too! I be new! And enjoying it through and through. :wa:

[Lena]

Me too! Me too! I be new! And enjoying it through and through. :wa:
That is great Turtle and welcome!!
Keep enjoying being here, you will soon be at 150 posts!!! :wa:

[musicman1181]

so whats up with the rep power...I feel so inadequate...because my bar is....um....short...

[WandaRing]

so whats up with the rep power...I feel so inadequate...because my bar is....um....short...

get your 150 it will get bigger (then most guys do at some point) and come into chatroom and meet people...

[musicman1181]

sweetness!!! thank you very much Annie...I hope all is well in Vancouver, BC....I hope to visit there someday, but first I gotta hit Japan and Australia...

[WandaRing]

sweetness!!! thank you very much Annie...I hope all is well in Vancouver, BC....I hope to visit there someday, but first I gotta hit Japan and Australia...


any time...but we are cheaper...lol and maybe closer

[musicman1181]

any time...but we are cheaper...lol and maybe closer

I really just want to spend several thousands of dollars to throw boomerangs and I want the opportunity to really be the foreigner who doesnt speak the language. :55

[cherokeered]

I really just want to spend several thousands of dollars to throw boomerangs and I want the opportunity to really be the foreigner who doesnt speak the language. :55

I am hoping to make it to australia...but it will hopefully be one way....:55
and ya will be that in australia...they speak the queens english...& she has a terrible accent....:D

[musicman1181]

I am hoping to make it to australia...but it will hopefully be one way....:55
and ya will be that in australia...they speak the queens english...& she has a terrible accent....:D

In Japan it would be much worse...I just hope they dont raise their voices to get me to understand their language...

[WandaRing]

I really just want to spend several thousands of dollars to throw boomerangs and I want the opportunity to really be the foreigner who doesnt speak the language. :55


Good for you! I hope you really enjoy yourself...it does sound amazing...all the best;)

[hank69]

so whats up with the rep power...I feel so inadequate...because my bar is....um....short...


How many posts do you have? 30 or so.....It will come my son....:D

[tiger50]

I am hoping to make it to australia...but it will hopefully be one way....:55
and ya will be that in australia...they speak the queens english...& she has a terrible accent....:D

hey, nuffin wrong wif oue ingrish woman.......but heyyyy cum on down......:kk

[scoobertina]

You know, I originally thought you searched for something else and couldn'f find it... that is one reason Scoob stayed away... if you can't find it, I don't want it....:D

[musicman1181]

How many posts do you have? 30 or so.....It will come my son....:D


Yes Master, my wisdom is increasing by the second...

[musicman1181]

You know, I originally thought you searched for something else and couldn'f find it... that is one reason Scoob stayed away... if you can't find it, I don't want it....:D


Believe me...I cant hide it!!! So there is no looking necessary, in fact i tripped over it this morning... :D

[WandaRing]

:sc replies and post get lost or they dont get counted...i've had a few...sometimes they will appear like magic a few days later...:D

[musicman1181]

:sc replies and post get lost or they dont get counted...i've had a few...sometimes they will appear like magic a few days later...:D
I actually was using forum lingo for a car forum...but i am quickly learning that ropes around here so i thought i would search for the answers to some of my questions. instead of hounding in typical newbie fashion.

[WandaRing]

I actually was using forum lingo for a car forum...but i am quickly learning that ropes around here so i thought i would search for the answers to some of my questions. instead of hounding in typical newbie fashion.

what works...works...:55

[scoobertina]

Believe me...I cant hide it!!! So there is no looking necessary, in fact i tripped over it this morning... :D


Seeing is believing....

[musicman1181]

Seeing is believing....

True, but still some things remain too much for the average person to handle...are you average? Can you handle it?

[troos2]

I kinda like it here too, but mostly reading what others have written rather than writing myself. I must be some kind of print voyeur.

[roadie4us]

Thanks Lena, very helpful. It does take some time to learn the system and you have answered some questions I had.

[roadie4us]

Thanks Mountainman and welcome. Your absolutely right, "everyday is a new day". Couldnt agree with you more. Enjoy.

[Lena]

Thanks Lena, very helpful. It does take some time to learn the system and you have answered some questions I had.
You are most welcome!
If there is anything else, just use the e-mail address above!
Hope you are enjoying getting to know everyone! :wa:

[BigMike303]

I'm pretty new but still learning the ropes and reading. This a really helpful thread and I'm glad I finally found it! I have talked to a few of you but look forward to meeting as many people as I can!

Talk to you all soon!

[Cotties]

how ya going Mike?I'm pretty new but still learning the ropes and reading. This a really helpful thread and I'm glad I finally found it! I have talked to a few of you but look forward to meeting as many people as I can!

Talk to you all soon!

[BigMike303]

how ya going Mike?


I'm trying to workup my postcount so I hangout at the "BIG TABLE" and see some new stuff but have hit a dryspell with reply's to my posts and finding new topics to jump into.
Other than that,I am having a good time overall and did some time in chat a few nights ago! Thanks for asking!

[Cotties]

hey for being so nice I'll send you some rep points...give you a green bar the girls can't refuse...


no chat room for me but keep them posts coming:55
I'm trying to workup my postcount so I hangout at the "BIG TABLE" and see some new stuff but have hit a dryspell with reply's to my posts and finding new topics to jump into.
Other than that,I am having a good time overall and did some time in chat a few nights ago! Thanks for asking!

[BigMike303]

hey for being so nice I'll send you some rep points...give you a green bar the girls can't refuse...


no chat room for me but keep them posts coming:55

Thanks,Your Great! I just made PREMIUM!

[1hotmommy]

How long does it take to have your picture uploaded? I added one today, and it says it's still pending approval or whatever.

[hoss]

How long does it take to have your picture uploaded? I added one today, and it says it's still pending approval or whatever.

Lena approves most pics and she hasnt been feeling well ....she will do it asap ...

[1hotmommy]

Ok, thanks

[BigMike303]

Ok, thanks

I personally look forward to seeing your pic 1hotmommy! ;)

[1hotmommy]

lol I'll let you know when I get one...interesting one you chose by the way

[BigMike303]

I know it is a little strange but I tend to keep my innuendos a little hidden and subtle by using NON real characters sometimes...lol

[mbnd08]

alonelyboy4u: hey,it looks like a little support for the green guys, thanks! lol

[mbnd08]

Lena: thanks for the info, was helpful, do i have it right?, can only read posts, and reply to posts? can i contact anyone if i find something interesting? again thanks for the reply. hope you had a great holiday.mbnd08

[mbnd08]

Hey, everone, new to the site as of yesterday, stumbling my way around, a bit bout me. 61 yo guy, ok you beautiful young people, ya can stop laughing now! the fire is still burning. anyway, 61, married,but very unhappy,anyone in that boat? ha! been retired 3 years. likes all kinds of things,esp. sex, cars,motorcycles,music ect. Hopeing to chat with some exciting women in the future. everybody take care, looks like a cool place to be. Don't let all my questions bother you.till next time. mbnd08

[Crashitman]

Ok Sound Like Fun Seey Ou Sometime Soon

[Crashitman]

HI everyone new here ! waz up

[PunkyBob]

Hey Crashit! Welcome! You on the late shift???

[BigMike303]

Welcome!

[Lena]

Lena: thanks for the info, was helpful, do i have it right?, can only read posts, and reply to posts? can i contact anyone if i find something interesting? again thanks for the reply. hope you had a great holiday.mbnd08
Yes you are right!
You can post to the person with your reply to theirs for now and they will read it and know what you think.
Hope you are still enjoying being here.

[Lena]

HI everyone new here ! waz up
Hello to you and welcome!:wa:

[mbnd08]

LENA: yES ,I THINK THIS IS REALLY COOL!,AND CAN'T WAIT TO GET MY 150 POSTS!!! ,AND REALLY DIG IN. tHANKS FOR YOUR HELP,AND I'LL KEEP PRACTICEING....

[FRMale]

Hello and welcome everyone!
This is just alittle information to help you understand something of how things work in here!
Until you reach 150 posts, you won't be able to do anything except post and read other members' posts/threads!
At 150 posts, you will become a premium member! This will mean that you can read profiles, see other threads, and see some of the picture gallery!
At 500 posts,you will be a Gold member and you will be able to load your own avatar on (keeping this at PG13), use PMs, see another forum with more threads and see the whole of the picture gallery!
If you would like an avatar before you reach 500 posts, you just need to send it to Penny or myself, Lena! They will be approved and attached to your profile for you! You will be able to contact both of us at
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com

Silly nonsense posts just to get to 150 or 500 posts for whatever reasons will not be counted and will be taken away and you will just have to start again from where you left off!
The whole idea of the 150 and 500 posts is for everyone to get to know you and you them! (Especially those who have posted their pictures in the Gallery) So please let us all get to know each other alittle better!

To stop the alert e-mails telling you that someone has posted on the same threads you have also been posting on, go to the top of the page, click on 'User CP', then on your left 'Edit Options', scroll down to 'Default Thread Subscription Mode', change from 'Subscribe' to 'Do Not subscribe'. That will take care of any future e-mails, but to stop the present ones which you have subscribed to, again on your left in your UserCP click on 'Subscribe threads' and a list of your subscribed threads will show! On the right select which threads you want to delete, then scroll to the bottom and select to delete them!! You may need to go into each thread you have coming in and click on 'Thread Tools' on top of the page, then 'Unsubscribe to this thread'.

Rep points/power are the little green squares under your name next to your posts!
They are rewarded by other members to you, if they like your posts! You can also give them to others by clicking on the white scales looking thing under the members name! A box will come up, just approve and ok it! You can write something in the box too if you like, before you ok it!
Enjoy your time here with us, and we all look forward to reading your posts!

Please also remember that this is a flirting site mainly for married people, but singles are welcome too! A place where we can come to have alittle bit of fun and make friends, or even rant, but it is not a pick up site, so please treat everyone with respect!
Thank you.

i'm working towards these goals and this s a fun place... thank you;) :D :lf

[Barbara]

I love the Martha Washington quote. Sorry, I'm brand new so can't tell who posted it but wish I could live by it at all times!

[Big O]

I love the Martha Washington quote. Sorry, I'm brand new so can't tell who posted it but wish I could live by it at all times!

It takes awhile to figure things out. Hell, I've been here for ever and I'm still learning things about this place.
Read the posts. Reply, and most important, enjoy yourself!

[WandaRing]

avatar's = PG? Where? Who's? :sc Is mine PG?

[Big O]

avatar's = PG? Where? Who's? :sc Is mine PG?

unfortunatly it is.......

[Barbara]

Looks like no one is on this chat so, will check back later..

[Big O]

Looks like no one is on this chat so, will check back later..
Barbara, this is an active forum. we are active all the time. If you are looking for chat, then go to chat on the blue bar

[stucknmarriage74(f)]

well my hubby just left 4 work dont think hed approve of me chatting even though he says he doesnt care what i do its his attitude...anyway now i feel free to express mysel. Well as u c from my user name i feel stuck in my marriage u know kids and all. It started out so great then a few years ago we just stopped communicating..im basically in this for my daughter. Sex also sucks especially when we can do it btween commercial breaks but let's just say i've been DISCOVERING my self lately. I personally like the bathtub faucet it has bcome on of my best friends...want 2 know how? Im feeling frisky

[SEXAHOLIC]

well my hubby just left 4 work dont think hed approve of me chatting even though he says he doesnt care what i do its his attitude...anyway now i feel free to express mysel. Well as u c from my user name i feel stuck in my marriage u know kids and all. It started out so great then a few years ago we just stopped communicating..im basically in this for my daughter. Sex also sucks especially when we can do it btween commercial breaks but let's just say i've been DISCOVERING my self lately. I personally like the bathtub faucet it has bcome on of my best friends...want 2 know how? Im feeling frisky


I have suddenly become very interested...:lmao

[BigMike303]

well my hubby just left 4 work dont think hed approve of me chatting even though he says he doesnt care what i do its his attitude...anyway now i feel free to express mysel. Well as u c from my user name i feel stuck in my marriage u know kids and all. It started out so great then a few years ago we just stopped communicating..im basically in this for my daughter. Sex also sucks especially when we can do it btween commercial breaks but let's just say i've been DISCOVERING my self lately. I personally like the bathtub faucet it has bcome on of my best friends...want 2 know how? Im feeling frisky

I know precisely how u feel except the faucet part....lol

[stucknmarriage74(f)]

hey big mike nice 2 c someone wants 2 talk..im really new here my 1st day im getting replies via email cant seem to chat in real time

[BigMike303]

At the top of the screen there are links to other areas of the site and one of them is a "chatroom" where you can CHAT LIVE if you like and that might save you some troubles hun!

[rizz]

well-now that i know whats going on i better start posting-lol

[ksue7274]

We learn something every day. Thank you Lena!

[Atrebla Rose]

Good Morning everyone, I am new here!
I am a 43 year old married southern belle from western Canada. I want to wish everyone a wonderful day, and I look forward to making some really cool friends and having a fun time with you all!

It only takes a minute to say Hi back

[rizz]

hi, welcome to the site

[hoss]

Good Morning everyone, I am new here!
I am a 43 year old married southern belle from western Canada. I want to wish everyone a wonderful day, and I look forward to making some really cool friends and having a fun time with you all!

It only takes a minute to say Hi back

actually for us Canucks it takes a minute and a half cause we have to type eh at the end ...eh ...

so ...welcome eh ..to the site eh ..hope u have fun eh ..lots of great people eh ...

ok my times up

[inquisitive]

PG-13?????????? wow, my ideas of that must be wwwwaaay off to most peoples. Seeing some of the avatars. *shrug*

[Annie]

PG-13?????????? wow, my ideas of that must be wwwwaaay off to most peoples. Seeing some of the avatars. *shrug*
Here's what Penny has said about your choice of avatars....
Please don't use anything that could be called sexually explicit. Boobs and Butts are ok but no one should be touching them :(
I know it sounds silly but that is the kind of world we live in now :(

[BigMike303]

Hiiiiiii!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[GaelicCharm]

i am at 501 posts but it wont allow me to put my own avatar up it still limits me to the pre selected ones.

[Fargo...really]

i am at 501 posts

Congrats, Collie!
:smdance:

[GaelicCharm]

thanks but still wont allow me to change avatar to one of my own

[Lena]

thanks but still wont allow me to change avatar to one of my own
You have now!! :)
Congratulations for getting to gold!! :wa:

[private beaches]

:) Damnit, collie, You beat me!!! Nice avatar though! Congratulations

[Lena]

:) Damnit, collie, You beat me!!! Nice avatar though! Congratulations
Almost there!!
Just 3 more!!!

[oldandnaked]

I recently passed the 500 mark.

Do I get a plaque or anything?

[private beaches]

:wa: Lena! Hope you have a beautiful rest of the day.

[Lena]

:wa: Lena! Hope you have a beautiful rest of the day.
Thanks P.Beaches!!
And congratulations too!!!
Now have a really good day!! :wa:

[Lena]

I recently passed the 500 mark.

Do I get a plaque or anything?
you get to walk around with your naked butt!! :D

[Fargo...really]

:) Damnit, collie, You beat me!!! Nice avatar though! Congratulations

Way to go, Beaches, you made it!
:smdance:

[GaelicCharm]

well done Beaches and thanks Lena

[MNguyE]

Thanks Lena! Cleared up many of my questions! The people on the chat board were great too!

[Tessa_04]

Hi... Don't u just hate being new... : ) Well, i'm 34, married for 10 year to my 34 year old husband. I live in Wisconsin and have a couple of younger children. : ) I love to chat and have fun! There, how's that?

[Barkiss]

Hi... Don't u just hate being new... : ) Well, i'm 34, married for 10 year to my 34 year old husband. I live in Wisconsin and have a couple of younger children. : ) I love to chat and have fun! There, how's that?

Welcome to the site Tessa!! :)

[Shiane]

Hi... Don't u just hate being new... : ) Well, i'm 34, married for 10 year to my 34 year old husband. I live in Wisconsin and have a couple of younger children. : ) I love to chat and have fun! There, how's that?

Yep, being new in most places isn't much fun. We do try to make our new members feel welcome. enjoy the site, we're glad to have you here! Stick around and you won't be new for long! :wa:

[fly]

Hi... Don't u just hate being new... : ) Well, i'm 34, married for 10 year to my 34 year old husband. I live in Wisconsin and have a couple of younger children. : ) I love to chat and have fun! There, how's that?

Welcome Tessa......
I'm sure the guys here will stumble over themselves in an effort to scoop you up!

[Shawn_N_Sandiego]

Welcome Tessa......
I'm sure the guys here will stumble over themselves in an effort to scoop you up!


Did I hear someone needs to be scooped up??...welcome to the site Tessa, allow me to scoop thee:wa::D:lmao

[MrCoy]

Hi... Don't u just hate being new... : ) Well, i'm 34, married for 10 year to my 34 year old husband. I live in Wisconsin and have a couple of younger children. : ) I love to chat and have fun! There, how's that?

Hey Tessa - How you doin'? You'll find that being new to this site is not so bad. Chat me up if you need someone to listen.

[sweet]

Hi... Don't u just hate being new... : ) Well, i'm 34, married for 10 year to my 34 year old husband. I live in Wisconsin and have a couple of younger children. : ) I love to chat and have fun! There, how's that?

Welcome to the site Tessa! :)

[pagirl]

Hi... Don't u just hate being new... : ) Well, i'm 34, married for 10 year to my 34 year old husband. I live in Wisconsin and have a couple of younger children. : ) I love to chat and have fun! There, how's that?

Welcome to the site :wa: come in look around, post and just have fun! :na

[GaelicCharm]

Tess we where all new at one point and where all welcomed to the site so Welcome Tess and please join in and enjoy the site.

[Nomad(m)]

I am new too. Thanks to all for the information posted here. I too want my power rep to get up... I feel a little ... well.. little.

[fly]

I am new too. Thanks to all for the information posted here. I too want my power rep to get up... I feel a little ... well.. little.

There............feel better now?

[hoss]

There............feel better now?


better watch it girlie ...E-butt will get jealous if your spreading points around :D

[themarathonman]

How do I get from my '1' in Rep Power? I understand it's all about being nice and civil, but how do I get 5 million times as nice?

[hoss]

How do I get from my '1' in Rep Power? I understand it's all about being nice and civil, but how do I get 5 million times as nice?

its up to the other members....if they find your posts funny,interesting or they just like it ,they will give u rep ...of course begging does help with some of the women ...

[Nomad(m)]

There............feel better now?


Thanks fly, I do feel better. Hope you come back soon;)

[Lena]

I am new too. Thanks to all for the information posted here. I too want my power rep to get up... I feel a little ... well.. little.
Looks like you are not so little anymore!!
Hiya! :wa:
Hope you are enjoying it here!!

[Nomad(m)]

Looks like you are not so little anymore!!
Hiya! :wa:
Hope you are enjoying it here!!

Feels a little better to have some green over there. I guess I have to work on it more now. Thanks to all, and I hope E doesnt get jealous.

[CuriousOne]

i have a question about the rep power. Why are some of the squares bright green and others dark green???

[Lena]

No reason at all Curious!


Glad you are feeling better now, Nomad!!

[MrCoy]

i have a question about the rep power. Why are some of the squares bright green and others dark green???

Well aren't you the curious one!? :D Damn I'm good.

[fredgoodgreen]

As a newbie how can I know who is a dude and who is not a dude? I want to be flirting with non-dudes...as a straight dude, you know?

Too many "dudes"?

[Tiglet]

As a newbie how can I know who is a dude and who is not a dude? I don't want to be flirting with non-dudes...as a straight dude, you know?

Too many "dudes"?
Makes it interesting eh. From a 48, F redhead.

[Lena]

As a newbie how can I know who is a dude and who is not a dude? I want to be flirting with non-dudes...as a straight dude, you know?

Too many "dudes"?
Hi there and welcome!
If you are not sure then ask, some have a (m) or (f) by their name.
Hope you will enjoy being here with us.

[afoxtx6767]

Sounds Fair I Will Be Working On It Thanks

[sassy~pants]

Thanks for the information

[Lena]

Thanks for the information
Most welcome Sassy!
:wa:

[PleasurePirate]

Feel like I'm pledging. Arrrrrgh! Yeah, I know, "Bitch, bitch, bitch."

Is there a private messaging feature that will be available at some number of posts. Maybe I read the answer somewhere; but for the life of me, I don't remember.

[Lena]

Feel like I'm pledging. Arrrrrgh! Yeah, I know, "Bitch, bitch, bitch."

Is there a private messaging feature that will be available at some number of posts. Maybe I read the answer somewhere; but for the life of me, I don't remember.
Yes you would have read it in the first post on this thread!
500 posts for Private messaging.

At 150 posts, you will become a premium member! This will mean that you can read profiles, see other threads, and see some of the picture gallery!
At 500 posts,you will be a Gold member and you will be able to load your own avatar on (keeping this at PG13), use PMs, see another forum with more threads and see the whole of the picture gallery!
If you would like an avatar before you reach 500 posts, you just need to send it to Penny or myself, Lena

[Bubblygirlie]

Hello and welcome everyone!
This is just alittle information to help you understand something of how things work in here!
Until you reach 150 posts, you won't be able to do anything except post and read other members' posts/threads!
At 150 posts, you will become a premium member! This will mean that you can read profiles, see other threads, and see some of the picture gallery!
At 500 posts,you will be a Gold member and you will be able to load your own avatar on (keeping this at PG13), use PMs, see another forum with more threads and see the whole of the picture gallery!
If you would like an avatar before you reach 500 posts, you just need to send it to Penny or myself, Lena! They will be approved and attached to your profile for you! You will be able to contact both of us at
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com

Silly nonsense posts just to get to 150 or 500 posts for whatever reasons will not be counted and will be taken away and you will just have to start again from where you left off!
The whole idea of the 150 and 500 posts is for everyone to get to know you and you them! (Especially those who have posted their pictures in the Gallery) So please let us all get to know each other alittle better!

The Fun Forum is just that, just for playing games and having fun with a smile, the posts in there won't be counted towards the post count.

To stop the alert e-mails telling you that someone has posted on the same threads you have also been posting on, go to the top of the page, click on 'User CP', then on your left 'Edit Options', scroll down to 'Default Thread Subscription Mode', change from 'Subscribe' to 'Do Not subscribe'. That will take care of any future e-mails, but to stop the present ones which you have subscribed to, again on your left in your UserCP click on 'Subscribe threads' and a list of your subscribed threads will show! On the right select which threads you want to delete, then scroll to the bottom and select to delete them!! You may need to go into each thread you have coming in and click on 'Thread Tools' on top of the page, then 'Unsubscribe to this thread'.

To turn all the avatars off, so that they won't be showing...
Go to your UserCP,
On your left under Settings and Options, click on Edit Options!
Scroll down to Thread Display Options, and uncheck the Show Avatars box!

Rep points/power are the little green squares under your name next to your posts!
They are rewarded by other members to you, if they like your posts! You can also give them to others by clicking on the red heart looking thing in a blue circle with a little green +, under the members name! A box will come up, just approve and ok it! You can write something in the box too if you like, before you ok it!
You can see any comments made to you by going to your UserCP page and scroll down, then you can see where you were given the reputations and the comments if any were made!

Admin and moderators.
Proprietor, Administrator = Penny
Site manager/Administrator = Lena
Super Moderator = Barkiss
Moderators = Cotties, Momma
Brink, PAgirl, Redcat, Shawn_N_Sandiego

Enjoy your time here with us, and we all look forward to reading your posts and getting to know you!

Please also remember that this is a flirting site mainly for married people, but singles are welcome too! A place where we can come to have alittle bit of fun and make friends, or even rant, but it is not a pick up site, so please treat everyone with respect!
Thank you.

P.S
Please do not add children into any pictures you put in the gallery, when you reach 150 posts, before that you won't be able to see the gallery so not much point putting any in there 'till then.
Also could you make sure they are only of yourself without anyone else in them.
Thank you.
This is very helpful information, thank you very very much

[Lena]

This is very helpful information, thank you very very much
Glad you found it helpful! :))):
Hope you are enjoying yourself here!

[iowamirage]

Sounds like a well thought out site... appreciate that... looking forward to meeting new folks...

[Iowa Guy 77]

hello to another Iowan.

[TBoyBob]

Hey there....curious if you have to do anything once you hit the 150 to be able to see profiles, pictures, what not... seems nothing has changed for me!! Thanks a bunch! (maybe there is just a lag time...)

[redcat]

Hey there....curious if you have to do anything once you hit the 150 to be able to see profiles, pictures, what not... seems nothing has changed for me!! Thanks a bunch! (maybe there is just a lag time...)


Bob...if you haven't already gotten access just be patient, it takes the system a little bit to catch up with you. Should be very soon though! Congratulations on your 150+!!!!

[Lena]

Hey there....curious if you have to do anything once you hit the 150 to be able to see profiles, pictures, what not... seems nothing has changed for me!! Thanks a bunch! (maybe there is just a lag time...)
Well done on reaching your 150!
If you look, you will see that you can already see profiles and another forum for Premium members and some of the pictures!
You have already been made a Premium member!
Next big step is 500! Keep going!!

[Xanadu7]

There must be something wrong with my colors, cuz my rep points aren't green at all. And why does everyone seem so angry??

[Lena]

There must be something wrong with my colors, cuz my rep points aren't green at all. And why does everyone seem so angry??
You must be wearing the wrong glasses!!

[azmaleup4it]

thanks for the heads up

[azmaleup4it]

how does it take to obtain the needed amount

[MunkyBrain]

how does it take to obtain the needed amount

You start a thread called "I wanna be a god" Where you ask folks to rep you for everything you say cause you're to impatient to wait around and too lazy to write stuff that is rep worthy.

WARNING: This stunt may get you red points.

Seriously, there's no "needed amount" rep points are like "thanks" they just mean someone liked what you said enough to take the time to tell you so. Or...in the case of red points..it means they said "fuck you" and wanna make sure you heard it.

Either way it warms the cockles of my heart. I'm an attention junkie, dammit. Stroke me with lovin' lube or sandpaper n' battery acid but for god's sake..gimme some!!!!

:D

[azmaleup4it]

made a mistake while posting and pc locked b4 i could correct
:sry

[MunkyBrain]

No apologies necessary. I was serious about the god-thread, BTW. It worked for me..